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Rabbi Moshe Haber Path of the Just- Types of Arrogance and Their Downfall 5.28.25 · Rabbi Moshe Haber - Daily Mussar/Weekly Perasha

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  That one's got the item. Every different person's got a
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  different thing. And he's once a president has
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  that trigger of believing he's special.
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  He has a level of arrogance. And how does it, how does it
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  show itself? Every person's different.
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  One person leaves because I'm special.
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  I need to carry myself that way, which is fine.
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  Look what happens. Bend the door the way he walks,
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  bend the shift door, the way he sits down.
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  I'll sit down slowly. Bendukumo, when he gets up the D
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  border, he only talks in a very, you know, as if I'm specialist
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  kind of way. I'll behold myself loyal.
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  He'll never run. He'll walk slowly because of his
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  dignity, his heel by his front tower.
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  He walks in a very much a walking like he's marching that
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  way. Royalty, lawyership.
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  He won't sit. What's the word for that?
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  He won't sit, only sit while leaning back.
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  And it's just like this, Kaka. All right.
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  Every day's pissed off. Exactly.
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  Well, yeah. Yeah.
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  He gets up slowly like a snake, get up slowly because he's not
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  not a regular guy. Doesn't jump up.
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  And he realizes this is hilarious.
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  He won't talk to all people. And then he doesn't talk to
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  everybody. He goes to the wedding.
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  You see him. He's not talking to everything.
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  He's not even saying hello to call people.
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  He's only talking to the people that are, you know, the
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  important people. All right.
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  And even when he does talk, like, by the way, this sounds
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  like a, you know, a caricature, you know, a comic.
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  But the reality is people carry themselves some degree of this
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  way, the gunman. And even when he does talk to
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  the important people, he talks short words and he talks kind of
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  like a riddles and he says short lines.
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  The Kemama had to Rafim like the same.
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  Was it to Rafim? Where's the Anton of him?
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  Different people who believed to have divine.
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  In other words, people say shorelines the whole shot
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  amounts of every action that he does that you know, Atah of the
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  moves that he makes, the poor atah of the things that he gets
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  involved in. Ben Mahalo, what he eats and
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  where he eats. Mr. Mr. what he drinks, Ben
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  Mahboo shop the way he dresses. You know, one of the biggest
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  signs of arrogance is the his attic and maybe he's married and
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  he's be, you know, humbled in a second.
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  One of the believer sons of arrogance is how a person
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  dresses or behold, that I have now doesn't mean you can't dress
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  nice, but if you believe that it's beneath you to be wearing
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  certain stuff, that is the degree of cava.
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  And this person, he displays himself like he thinks he's
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  real, really carries himself as if he's, you know, many royalty.
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  And this is all the manifestation of his internal
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  belief. And he has something special
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  because he can't just wear what everyone else wears.
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  He can't go. Everyone goes.
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  You know, we think this is good for a Jew to have cavort, to be
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  a good being a respected person decans us right away.
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  But this is all coming from being a gay and thinking of
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  something special. He won't just talk to anyone.
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  Why does he talk to the robbers? Why does he talk to the robbers?
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  By the way, some people like that they talk to the robbers
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  with great respect. That's not enough.
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  They have to also talk to the regular folk with great respect.
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  They have to talk to everyone the same and behold, everything
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  he does is heavy, as there are in English over here.
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  He will conduct himself with much gravitas.
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  He thinks he's Mr. Saunser, right?
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  Kilukal Besaro fed it as if all of his body's massage name is
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  curing this one. All of his flesh is made of
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  lead, a whole lot, some of. And all his bones were made of
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  Evan or whole stone or same. He's just heavy.
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  He's heavy, he's slow, He talks short, he talks in a slow tone.
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  He doesn't walk very fast. What's that?
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  You mean that you is like one level up?
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  Exactly. Is this your name?
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  Yes. This guy is very teal.
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  You know what if he has one thing going for him, let's just
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  say he's wealthy, all right? All of a sudden, all these
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  things seem warranted and they almost seem to make sense.
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  He says, you know, get off your high horse.
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  Who you fooling? You know, you're a regular guy.
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  I went to school with you. Where'd you get the accent from?
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  You know the guy I know, you know from the playground.
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  Why'd you become this whole guy? And the answer is the bank
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  account or the answer is where people treat you.
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  And that right there is about Gov.
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  Forget about the guy who carries himself this way.
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  And everyone knows a joke, that guy disaster.
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  But this is a guy who actually does have a reason, or so it
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  seems to be arrogant. And that's the biggest problem.
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  The moment you hang your hat on your reason of arrogance, and
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  then you start to reflect the arrogance problem right there,
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  that person is a manifestation of a real balagava and Hashem
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  has no time for him. That's what he says.
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  All right, they might say get ahead.
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  There's another type of gay. It's safe to say this is
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  regular, regular way we see people.
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  The second kind is someone who is because of the Balagava,
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  because of the arrogant, he's scary, he's intimidating.
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  People love to be intimidating and people are impressed by
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  intimidating. Individuals have to know
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  intimidating people are Balagava.
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  They are full of arrogance and puts them on a higher level and
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  they think that because of their level, they deserve and are
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  allowed to be mean. They're allowed to be
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  intimidating. What they don't know is is that
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  a shame is no time for such people.
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  We might say get ahead Shaq shove who believes Shafi she
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  would owe it to a lot because he's such an important person
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  deserving the praise. But I'm allot full of great
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  levels said here she had Marguis hearts.
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  He needs to scare the world make the world shake give the world
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  an earthquake. But shall I call you to assure
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  me, but now everyone's going to be terrified in front of him key
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  lawyer Oh that's not enough. It's not OK.
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  She is super not dumb as up anymore.
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  It's not good for people just to call and and then be in touch
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  with him and easy to get a hold of.
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  No, he's got to be scary, he's got to be difficult.
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  He has to be intimidating. You have to shake before you
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  call him. He said think 10 times before
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  you talk to him. They meow peel a lot, a lot.
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  And if the people have enough guts to approach him, evalu
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  Bukolo how scare them with his voice.
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  Oberoi Ruach Sapatov and confuse them with his strong lips.
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  But I know them as it is going to talk to them tough.
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  Upanavazar fought with angry face.
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  Behold Ed the Behold Jean every situation.
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  OK, these are today's 2 about Gavaz.
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  They are, sadly to say, all over the place.
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  And they are #1 a person who carries himself very heavy and
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  #2A person who treats other people with a certain sense of
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  intimidating factor. There's nothing worse than being
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  an intimidating person and every one of the things that they're
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  impressive because they're intimidating.
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  FYI, these people are nobody OK. You could see two of them get
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  together cool with this guy gone this guy they do they get into
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  fights all the time that these two guys get into fights all the
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  time. You have to know that that you
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  know and people I just had a little secret.
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  People are very impressed by these people.
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  People are very awe of such individuals.
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  That's part of a sketch and part of their persona, and it's part
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  of the fakeness. And the balaguaghava again
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  demands to be seen in a certain way.
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  And initially it works for years in my work.
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  But there will be a time when it falls apart.
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  By the way, it might fall apart with the people closest to him.
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  The people closest to him might give him a very difficult time,
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  and they don't treat him this way.
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  And then I'm impressed by his intimidating factor.
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  Anyone else? Someday, huh?
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  Wouldn't think I'll work on shallow.
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  He does. Everyone else is scared of him.
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  They don't want to talk to him. They're afraid to talk to him.
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  And they're impressed by him. That wow.
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  They make sure they show up every time he has a meeting on
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  time. They'll never go late to him and
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  let him miss a phone call with him.
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  I'll never, ever say the wrong thing to him.
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  No, he's too scary. He's too intimidating, he's too
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  heavy beyond his back. They have no interest in him.
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  And if he were to lose any of his source of of of of gava, if
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  the source of the reason why he's considered special.
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  If he's a basketball player who loses his jump shot, that's be
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  nice. Let's use that example.
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  He's a bald player who loses his jump shot.
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  He's got no friends. Why does he have no friends?
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  Because his whole level of power and prestige was scary, was
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  uncomfortable. No one wanted to do with him,
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  but they had to. They therefore saw him as a
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  charming person and during that time, but the moment he loses
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  his jump shot is the moment he loses anyone calling him.
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  Take that example and put it back into individuals in our
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  community who it's not that jump shot, it's something else that
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  creates that galva. Do we really have people on that
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  level? Not that many, but there's such
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  a thing out there. Trust me, such a thing.
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  And when you all that way, get ready, it's coming.
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  One day it'll, you know, change. It'll turn on that person.
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  And they believe that they are creating this persona for
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  themselves of unbelievable power.
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  They have to know they're charming right now, they're
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  powerful, they're respected. They looked up to people will
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  never, like I said, never miss a meeting that'll be late for a
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  phone call. Never insult them all that is
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  correct. They will one day turn on them
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  the moment one thing goes wrong and you can look inside their
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  families and check and see how much respect their family gives
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  them. I'll tell you the truth, not
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  that much. Because when you create this
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  fake persona, it's all fake, it's all Shaker, it's all
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  nothing, and either version, it's a waste of time.