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DLHS Hour 2 | Should woman have to pay child support · The D.L. Hughley Show

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  Speaker 1: It is the deal.
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  Speaker 2: He will show your twenty twenty six edition if you
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  Speaker 2: were going to be in Cincinnati or Liberty.
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  Speaker 1: Of course I'll be there this Friday and Saturday. Come
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  Speaker 1: to check me out.
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  Speaker 2: So the question we're asking a woman, she turns over
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  Speaker 2: a custody to her to the father, she moves out
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  Speaker 2: of the country, and now he wants her to pay
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  Speaker 2: Chelse for Take a listen.
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  Speaker 3: He told me that now that he is caring for
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  Speaker 3: the boys full time while I prepare to move, he
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  Speaker 3: obviously stops the child maintenance payments to me, which is
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  Speaker 3: what we had agreed. I didn't want to be in
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  Speaker 3: receipt of anything because I don't have the children, and
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  Speaker 3: that money was court ordered at the time of our
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  Speaker 3: divorce for our boys activities, So their extra curricle activities,
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  Speaker 3: their breakfast, club, after school club, tutoring, athletics, football, you
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  Speaker 3: name it, they do it.
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  Speaker 4: And that's what that money was fored.
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  Speaker 3: So it's not a substantial amount, but it was in
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  Speaker 3: line with his salary at the time, and it was
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  Speaker 3: enough to cover those outgoings. So obviously, as they are
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  Speaker 3: no longer in my full time care, that money was
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  Speaker 3: to stop. Absolutely, no questions asked. He took the car
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  Speaker 3: that he had previously got for me away. Again, That's
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  Speaker 3: totally fine. I'm leave in the country. I don't you
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  Speaker 3: don't owe me anything like that. That car was to
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  Speaker 3: make taking the kids from A to B easier. Totally fine.
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  Speaker 3: Here's a bit that through me. He is saying that
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  Speaker 3: I need to pay him child support, he said, and
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  Speaker 3: I was like, sorry, what exactly do you mean? He
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  Speaker 3: literally repeated himself and said that now that he has
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  Speaker 3: the boys, I have to pay him child support. And
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  Speaker 3: you know what it's like when you're starting a business.
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  Speaker 3: It's not like I have the financial securities or the
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  Speaker 3: financial pulling.
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  Speaker 4: Power as I did while I was an EA.
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  Speaker 3: So I'm like, where exactly do you think I'm going
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  Speaker 3: to get money from to pay you?
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  Speaker 4: Lo and behold.
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  Speaker 3: I received an email this week from a mediation service
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  Speaker 3: saying that he has instructed them to start mediation with me.
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  Speaker 3: I would have to cover all of my casks, and
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  Speaker 3: they were inviting me to a meeting with them. I
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  Speaker 3: declined it because I'm not mediating over me paying you
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  Speaker 3: child Patint, can you explain to me, Like the men
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  Speaker 3: of this generation, I have not heard anything like this
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  Speaker 3: before men come get money off women.
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  Speaker 2: Now, the point she was she thought that not giving
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  Speaker 2: having to him, not having him pay her money was
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  Speaker 2: a net gain for him. But he wants is an
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  Speaker 2: actual net game.
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  Speaker 5: We want.
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  Speaker 1: His money.
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  Speaker 6: It's funny. I mean, I'm not asking him to pay
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  Speaker 6: me anymore, so he should be all right, what are
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  Speaker 6: you talking about?
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  Speaker 2: No, he got the kids, which is a which is
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  Speaker 2: I can see a lot of females having that logic.
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  Speaker 2: I can see a lot of women having that logic.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not asking you for anything, don't ask me for nothing.
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  Speaker 7: But I can see that she stepped on her foot
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  Speaker 7: when she listed, well, he used to pay child support
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  Speaker 7: because she paid for these.
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  Speaker 6: Activities for the kids, and this activity for the ki
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  Speaker 6: and this for the kids.
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  Speaker 8: Now he has to pay for that.
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  Speaker 1: So hell, what's she moving to Europe?
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  Speaker 9: What we're gonna say, Well, I was going to say
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  Speaker 9: it was court ordered. So apparently they went to court
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  Speaker 9: and the judge is the one who said he needed
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  Speaker 9: to pay for all this because he was making more
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  Speaker 9: money than her. She's self employed, and so when she
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  Speaker 9: turned the kids over. I guess her point was she's
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  Speaker 9: doesn't make as much money as he does, so I
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  Speaker 9: do agree. Well, first of all, I don't know why
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  Speaker 9: you would not want to do your best to help
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  Speaker 9: take care of children that you are responsible for r
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  Speaker 9: into this world. Now, whether it's at the level of
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  Speaker 9: what he's saying or not, I don't know money than
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  Speaker 9: she does, so I definitely think there should be some
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  Speaker 9: kind of sliding scale. She should not be absolved of
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  Speaker 9: all of her responsibilities because she's still a parent, but
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  Speaker 9: whatever she can, she should correct.
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  Speaker 2: There's something that I have in all of these years
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  Speaker 2: of working with you, I never thought I would hear
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  Speaker 2: myself say that is so reasonable.
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  Speaker 1: It's unbelievable. Believe I'm always reasonable.
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  Speaker 8: You may not like it.
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  Speaker 2: That was so reasonable, there was unassailable. So here's a
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  Speaker 2: little bit of the idea.
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  Speaker 3: He told me that now that he is caring for
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  Speaker 3: the boys full time while I prepare to move, he
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  Speaker 3: obviously stops the child naserence tanment to me, which is
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  Speaker 3: what we had agreed. I didn't want to be in
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  Speaker 3: the sey of anything because I don't have the children,
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  Speaker 3: and that money was court ordered at the time of
• 4:04
  Speaker 3: our divorce for our boys' activities, so their extrac recollectivities,
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  Speaker 3: their breakfast club, after school club, tutoring, athletics, football, you
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  Speaker 3: name it, they do it.
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  Speaker 4: And that's what that money was for.
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  Speaker 3: So it's not a substantial amount, but it was in
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  Speaker 3: line with his salary at the time and it was
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  Speaker 3: enough to cover those outgoings.
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  Speaker 4: Here's a bit that through me.
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  Speaker 3: He is saying that I need to pay him child support,
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  Speaker 3: he said, and I was like, sorry, what exactly do
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  Speaker 3: you mean? He literally repeated himself and said that now
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  Speaker 3: that he has the boys, I have to pay him
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  Speaker 3: child support. And you know what it's like when you're
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  Speaker 3: starting a business. It's not like I have the financial
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  Speaker 3: securities or the financial pulling power as I did while
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  Speaker 3: I was an EA. So I'm like, where exactly do
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  Speaker 3: you think I'm going to get money from to pay you?
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  Speaker 4: Lo and behold.
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  Speaker 3: I received an email this week from a mediation service
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  Speaker 3: saying that he has instructed them to start mediation with me.
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  Speaker 3: I would have to cover all of my casks and
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  Speaker 3: they were inviting me to a meeting with them. I
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  Speaker 3: declined it because I'm not mediating over me paying you
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  Speaker 3: child patient? Can you explain to me, like the men
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  Speaker 3: of this generation, I have not heard anything like this before.
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  Speaker 4: Men put money.
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  Speaker 2: Off women do you think she'd have to pay child?
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  Speaker 2: So I am going to return the favor in lieu
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  Speaker 2: of how reasonable. Jasmine was unprecedented event. And I am
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  Speaker 2: going to say this, anybody who uses children for a
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  Speaker 2: financial chip in any capacity.
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  Speaker 6: I have a problem.
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  Speaker 2: M bottom line is, there was obviously gonna factor that
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  Speaker 2: ind but but she calculated. She calculated, well obviously since
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  Speaker 2: you know the calculus is, I'm not charging him anything.
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna get to going with my life and I
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  Speaker 2: don't have the responsibility that my kids and I don't
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  Speaker 2: have to pay anything. That to me seems a little calculated,
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  Speaker 2: you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 1: So you're gonna move, You're.
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  Speaker 2: Gonna not have to I ain't gonna take no money
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  Speaker 2: from me, but you're gonna take some money to me
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  Speaker 2: and here the kids and I'm out.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, a little things.
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  Speaker 9: It's not just calculated. I think it's just wow, like heartless,
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  Speaker 9: like why would you not want to take of your children?
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  Speaker 6: And that goes on both sides.
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  Speaker 9: I've never understood that you were having fun when you
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  Speaker 9: were making the babies, right, and then when the babies
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  Speaker 9: are the results of what you both consented to do,
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  Speaker 9: what you both whether it was fun or not, you
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  Speaker 9: consented to it.
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  Speaker 6: Nobody told you.
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  Speaker 1: Here's what I know to be scientifically true.
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  Speaker 2: Every time somebody has a bad sexual experience and they
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  Speaker 2: get preented, the babies always ugly.
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  Speaker 1: Every time.
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  Speaker 2: That's not true, it is, and it's always worn with
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  Speaker 2: a club foot or something.
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  Speaker 1: I'm telling you every time. If you see somebody.
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  Speaker 2: Wasn't Mary with one leg shorter than the other, I'm
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  Speaker 2: telling you they didn't. They didn't like that sexual experience.
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  Speaker 2: That's just all I'm telling you. I know that to
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  Speaker 2: be scientifically true. I've talked to top scientists who told
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  Speaker 2: me stuff like that Saturday, probably if they cross eyed,
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  Speaker 2: you know, like you know what I'm saying. It's always
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  Speaker 2: got all the tell tales of how bad this was.
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  Speaker 9: I mean, we might say we don't remember the encounter,
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  Speaker 9: and it might not count.
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  Speaker 1: A couple of dudes they did it with. It didn't
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  Speaker 1: count at all. Of course, I think that you can't.
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  Speaker 1: It's to me it's.
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  Speaker 2: An elevated child abandon He didn't she didn't go to
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  Speaker 2: at least my daddy went to the liquor store.
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  Speaker 1: She went to Europe.
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  Speaker 8: She had a.
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  Speaker 4: Wait and come back.
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  Speaker 1: So does it matter? Yeah, yeah, well he did later
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  Speaker 1: on when I was young. I think she should have
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  Speaker 1: to pay. I do think that.
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  Speaker 2: I think that one of the things that people get
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  Speaker 2: to do is when they say they work for themselves,
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  Speaker 2: they get there, Like Donald Trump is a being and
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  Speaker 2: paid seven hundred taxes and he worked for himself.
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  Speaker 1: So you know what I'm saying. So here's the scenario.
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  Speaker 3: What do you think he told me that now that
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  Speaker 3: he is caring for the boys full time while I
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  Speaker 3: prepare to move, he obviously stops the child maintenance payments
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  Speaker 3: to me, which is what we had agreed. I didn't
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  Speaker 3: want to be in receipt of anything because I don't
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  Speaker 3: have the children.
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  Speaker 4: And that money was court.
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  Speaker 3: Ordered at the time of our divorce for our boys activities.
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  Speaker 3: So their extracurrical activities, their breakfast, club, after school club, tutoring, athletics, football,
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  Speaker 3: you name it, they do it.
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  Speaker 4: And that's what that money was called.
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  Speaker 3: So it's not a substantial amount, but it was in
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  Speaker 3: line with his salary at the time, and it was
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  Speaker 3: enough to cover those outgoings.
• 8:22
  Speaker 4: Here's a bit that through me.
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  Speaker 3: He is saying that I need to pay him child support,
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  Speaker 3: he said, and I was like, sorry, what exactly?
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  Speaker 4: Do you mean?
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  Speaker 3: He literally repeated himself and said that now that he
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  Speaker 3: has the boys, I have to pay him child support.
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  Speaker 3: And you know what it's like when you're starting a business.
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  Speaker 3: It's not like I have the financial securities or the
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  Speaker 3: financial pulling power as I did while I was in EA.
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  Speaker 3: So I'm like, where exactly do you think I'm going
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  Speaker 3: to get money from to pay you? Lo and behold.
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  Speaker 3: I received an email this week from a mediation service
• 8:50
  Speaker 3: saying that he has instructed them to start mediation with me.
• 8:54
  Speaker 3: I would have to cover all of my costs, and
• 8:55
  Speaker 3: they were inviting me to a meeting with them. I
• 8:58
  Speaker 3: declined it because I'm not meeting over me paying your
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  Speaker 3: child contest? Can you explain to me, like the men
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  Speaker 3: of this generation, I have not heard anything like this before.
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  Speaker 4: Men con put money off women.
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  Speaker 1: You think you'd have to pay We're going right to
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  Speaker 1: the folks.
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  Speaker 10: I think that the ultimate punishment is going to be,
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  Speaker 10: not what should it be, is going to be watching
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  Speaker 10: your child be a failure, watching your child have all
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  Speaker 10: kinds of psychiatric and behavioral disabilities. You're going to freak
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  Speaker 10: what you saw when you take away something that you
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  Speaker 10: decided to put in place, because remember when you laid
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  Speaker 10: down and had that child with that person, that was
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  Speaker 10: your decision, is what I did. So now you take
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  Speaker 10: that out on them and think that you're not going
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  Speaker 10: to read what you saw. Yeah, you're gonna see what.
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  Speaker 10: You're gonna see all of it. Believe me, play out
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  Speaker 10: right in front of your faith when you're bailing them
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  Speaker 10: out of jail, when you when they have teen pregnancies,
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  Speaker 10: when they're the same way you are, when they become
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  Speaker 10: a parents, that's just like you. You'll get to see
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  Speaker 10: each and having one of those things that you are
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  Speaker 10: stilled in that child against that off a parent.
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  Speaker 11: You know.
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  Speaker 12: I think that women should pay child support. And the
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  Speaker 12: reason being is the law is not just a specific
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  Speaker 12: If you look at any child sports statute in states,
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  Speaker 12: custodio versus non custodial parent, she's clearly the non custodial parent. Now,
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  Speaker 12: so the father who is now the custodial parent deserves
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  Speaker 12: to receive child sport.
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  Speaker 13: Yes, I think that absolutely she should pay child support.
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  Speaker 13: I'm a family law attorney in North Carolina dealing with
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  Speaker 13: child support cases like all the time, and it's not
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  Speaker 13: about like mother or father, it's you know, custodial parent
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  Speaker 13: versus non custodio parent, Like what parent has that child
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  Speaker 13: full time? And if that parent is not the one
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  Speaker 13: that has a kid full time, they should absolutely be
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  Speaker 13: paying child sports.
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  Speaker 11: Baby girl, that's not how this thing work. Those kids
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  Speaker 11: belong to you too, because she was on the on
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  Speaker 11: the other foot, you be paying child support. But just
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  Speaker 11: because you're going to give the kids to your husband
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  Speaker 11: and walk away and wash your hand, and you think
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  Speaker 11: you resolve a responsibility of two kids that you gave
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  Speaker 11: birth to, Noah, baby girl, it's not how they work here,
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  Speaker 11: not in this country. I know you say you're moving
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  Speaker 11: back to the UK, but that your kids. That is
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  Speaker 11: rich to me for a woman to give up her
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  Speaker 11: kids and not want to take her kids with and
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  Speaker 11: that's something that's say a lot about her, how trison
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  Speaker 11: she is. But now you should pay child support. Those
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  Speaker 11: kids don't need things. They need they to go to school,
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  Speaker 11: they need clothes, they need food, they gonna need gaycare.
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  Speaker 11: You just can't wash your hands and walk away from
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  Speaker 11: those kids. So yes, but again you try and resolve
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  Speaker 11: yourself with responsibility. He should make you pay child support.
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  Speaker 5: Absolutely, she should pay child support, just like if it
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  Speaker 5: was the woman with the kids, and the man went
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  Speaker 5: on about his business and he needs to pay chiss support.
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  Speaker 5: It takes a lot to raise kids. Ask me. I
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  Speaker 5: know I took my kids' father. You didn't want to
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  Speaker 5: be a father, but I told him he could pay now,
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  Speaker 5: or he can pay letter. I got child supporter all
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  Speaker 5: the way up and my daughter was forty five years old,
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  Speaker 5: so it is worth it. Yeah, she needs to pay.
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  Speaker 5: You can't have kids and just give them away and thanks.
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  Speaker 5: Everybody else is supposed to take care of Are you
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  Speaker 5: any just as well? Heids need a lot.
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  Speaker 1: The question we're asking lady man, who is the scenario.
• 12:12
  Speaker 3: He told me that now that he is caring for
• 12:15
  Speaker 3: the boys full time while I prepare to move, he
• 12:18
  Speaker 3: obviously stopped the child nintenance payments to me, which is
• 12:21
  Speaker 3: what we had agreed. I didn't want to be in
• 12:22
  Speaker 3: receipt of anything because I don't have the children, and
• 12:24
  Speaker 3: that money was court ordered at the time of our
• 12:27
  Speaker 3: divorce for our boys activities. So their extra reproll activities,
• 12:31
  Speaker 3: their breakfast, club, after school club, tutoring, athletics, football, you
• 12:34
  Speaker 3: name it, they do it, and that's what that money
• 12:36
  Speaker 3: was called.
• 12:36
  Speaker 4: So it's not a substantial amount, but it was in
• 12:38
  Speaker 4: line with.
• 12:38
  Speaker 3: His salary at the time, and it was enough to
• 12:40
  Speaker 3: cover those outgoings.
• 12:41
  Speaker 4: Here's a bit that through in.
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  Speaker 3: He is saying that I need to pay him child support,
• 12:45
  Speaker 3: he said, and I was like, sorry, what exactly do
• 12:48
  Speaker 3: you mean? He literally repeated himself and said that now
• 12:51
  Speaker 3: that he has the boys, I have to pay him
• 12:53
  Speaker 3: child support. And you know what it's like when you're
• 12:55
  Speaker 3: starting a business. It's not like I have the financial
• 12:58
  Speaker 3: securities or the financial pulling power as I did while
• 13:02
  Speaker 3: I was in EA. So I'm like, where exactly do
• 13:04
  Speaker 3: you think I'm going to get money from to pay you?
• 13:06
  Speaker 3: Lo and behold. I received an email this week from
• 13:08
  Speaker 3: a mediation service saying that he has instructed them to
• 13:12
  Speaker 3: start mediation with me. I would have to cover all
• 13:14
  Speaker 3: of my costs, and they were inviting me to a
• 13:16
  Speaker 3: meeting with them. I declined it because I am not
• 13:19
  Speaker 3: mediating over me paying me child pasness. Can you explain
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  Speaker 3: to me, like the men of this generation, I have
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  Speaker 3: not heard anything like this before.
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  Speaker 4: Men can't get money off women.
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  Speaker 1: Do you think she'd have to pay? It?
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  Speaker 14: Sounds like her husband was paying before when when she
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  Speaker 14: had full custodies, So why was did she have to pay?
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  Speaker 14: It shouldn't matter about her circumstances because she's a woman
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  Speaker 14: or whatever. It shouldn't matter. At the end of the day,
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  Speaker 14: the children are going to be the ones to suffer,
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  Speaker 14: and if they're going to go through the court to whoever
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  Speaker 14: has custody as.
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  Speaker 15: Is the one who gets the money.
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  Speaker 14: So that it's only fair that she should have to pay,
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  Speaker 14: just like her husband did when he when she had
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  Speaker 14: four clusty as a kids.
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  Speaker 12: Yes, she should have to pay child support.
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  Speaker 15: I mean, that's what the whole fight for equal rights
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  Speaker 15: was all about. Y'all want equal rights, y'all want equal
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  Speaker 15: job opportunities, y'all want equal pay, So why not share
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  Speaker 15: the responsibility of the equal bills.
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  Speaker 10: It's all in.
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  Speaker 15: It's all for what's best for the children, if I'm
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  Speaker 15: not mistaken.
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  Speaker 11: And when a man.
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  Speaker 15: Doesn't have enough to cover the child support that is
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  Speaker 15: set by the course, they make him go get another job.
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  Speaker 15: So before you quit your security job and started your
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  Speaker 15: own business, you should have thought about that. She's just
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  Speaker 15: trying to negate her all her responsibility.
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  Speaker 5: She's not gonna have a kid.
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  Speaker 14: She's moving out the country now, you.
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  Speaker 15: Don't want to help take care of them. Yes, she
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  Speaker 15: should be mandated to pay child support.
• 14:53
  Speaker 1: Julius, I didn't get to you. What do you think.
• 14:55
  Speaker 6: Of course she should have to pay. I mean, she
• 14:57
  Speaker 6: is a parent, a cole parent, bring that child in
• 15:01
  Speaker 6: the world, so of course she has responsibilities. The only
• 15:04
  Speaker 6: reason she was getting the money in the first place
• 15:06
  Speaker 6: was because she was the arbiter of said funds. It
• 15:09
  Speaker 6: wasn't because you know, he was just given it to
• 15:12
  Speaker 6: her to out of the business of its hard. She
• 15:14
  Speaker 6: had to disseminate this money for the betterment of those children,
• 15:18
  Speaker 6: so of course it should reciprocate, reciprocate. When the situation
• 15:24
  Speaker 6: turned and.
• 15:25
  Speaker 2: The law, the law was looking out for the children
• 15:28
  Speaker 2: that were like, you know, these kids cast the custodial
• 15:31
  Speaker 2: parents something.
• 15:32
  Speaker 1: You're not free for them to live there.
• 15:34
  Speaker 2: So obviously that's the reason why people fight for partial
• 15:37
  Speaker 2: custy custy.
• 15:37
  Speaker 1: They're very deliberate in the way they.
• 15:39
  Speaker 2: Speak about give that man, give that man his money, right,
• 15:45
  Speaker 2: that boy trays, he'd let us know what life is
• 15:47
  Speaker 2: like at an HBC with my life on the yard,
• 16:05
  Speaker 2: my seat.
• 16:07
  Speaker 8: I myze, I love, what's good y'all?
• 16:19
  Speaker 7: This is that bitch ray back getting with another episode
• 16:22
  Speaker 7: of My Life on the Arth inside look at HBC life.
• 16:25
  Speaker 8: Oh my gosh, I've had it an amazing few days.
• 16:28
  Speaker 8: We have been vibing out in California. I flew out
• 16:32
  Speaker 8: like two days ago now, and I've been in a
• 16:36
  Speaker 8: flow stage since I touchdown.
• 16:38
  Speaker 7: Bro, it's been nugging but vibes well.
• 16:43
  Speaker 8: And it's just getting started. It's just getting started. I
• 16:45
  Speaker 8: got a whole week of.
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: Stuff to look forward to, just relaxing from.
• 16:50
  Speaker 7: The hard ass first half of the semester I had.
• 16:54
  Speaker 7: Oh my god, I have a full schedule that you've
• 16:57
  Speaker 7: seen here because I got to catch up all stuff
• 16:59
  Speaker 7: in order to graduate. So you know what, the boy
• 17:01
  Speaker 7: was like, You know what, I'm a really hustle this
• 17:04
  Speaker 7: semester with all these classes so I could get up
• 17:07
  Speaker 7: out of here and move on with the rest of
• 17:09
  Speaker 7: my life, you feel me. But in the pursuit of that,
• 17:12
  Speaker 7: I was exhausted, worn out, burnt out. I needed relaxation.
• 17:17
  Speaker 7: So I went to like my favorite city. I went
• 17:20
  Speaker 7: to Los Angeles, and I'm having an amazing time.
• 17:23
  Speaker 8: The sunny, feel good weather, the green. You know, there's
• 17:29
  Speaker 8: a lot of vegetation, out here. If you catch my drift,
• 17:32
  Speaker 8: you feel me, and I'm just enjoying the mess out
• 17:35
  Speaker 8: of that.
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: I've already like gotten like whole fit and a half.
• 17:39
  Speaker 8: You feel me, like you know your boy gonna come
• 17:41
  Speaker 8: back to Atlanta.
• 17:42
  Speaker 7: Driven can't wait to stunt on these you know what,
• 17:46
  Speaker 7: I ain't even gonna get into that.
• 17:48
  Speaker 8: I'm trying to make this stuff happen.
• 17:50
  Speaker 7: I'm really trying to move out here after bread because
• 17:53
  Speaker 7: that's where the mindset with a lot of people, and
• 17:56
  Speaker 7: my predicament are.
• 17:57
  Speaker 8: You know, after these mid terms of their senior year,
• 18:00
  Speaker 8: they're thinking what's next, what's the next step? A lot
• 18:03
  Speaker 8: of people are figuring out right now.
• 18:05
  Speaker 7: I already know a whole bunch of my friends have
• 18:08
  Speaker 7: things like certified for real, like where they're going next
• 18:11
  Speaker 7: year and what city they're gonna be in. And then
• 18:14
  Speaker 7: there's some that have no idea, and then there's some
• 18:17
  Speaker 7: people who have kind of an idea. And I think
• 18:20
  Speaker 7: I fall in that middle ground of people who kind
• 18:22
  Speaker 7: of have an idea of.
• 18:22
  Speaker 8: Where they're going to be. I just got to get
• 18:24
  Speaker 8: this solidified.
• 18:25
  Speaker 7: First things first, we got to finish off this semester.
• 18:27
  Speaker 7: But before that, I'm gonna enjoy this break anyways. That's
• 18:31
  Speaker 7: all I got for all today till next time. It's
• 18:34
  Speaker 7: been that boy Tray. This has been my life on
• 18:36
  Speaker 7: the Ark, and it's our look at HBCU right