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Happy Hour #81: Take Me Out to the Ballgame (SATC S2. Ep1) · Stuff Mom Never Told You

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Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha. I don't alco to
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Speaker 1: Stephane never told your prediction of iHeart radio and welcome
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Speaker 1: and we are returning to our very beloved and was
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Speaker 1: saying it because at least we have four people like it,
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Speaker 1: uh series with our happy Hour sub sub series of
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Speaker 1: course of our watch party or viewing of Sex in
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Speaker 1: the City. And it's season two, y'all. We're back to
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Speaker 1: season two and you know, and I feel like the
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Speaker 1: last episode that we did, the finale with Bridget was
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Speaker 1: such a big hit, we needed to keep with some
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Speaker 1: guests and doing so, we have our ever beloved, amazing
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Speaker 1: producer Christina joining us. Yeah, hey, everybody, I'm here. Yes, Uh,
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Speaker 1: we are so glad that you are here. Christina is
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Speaker 1: the one that makes these episodes look easy because she
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Speaker 1: listens to are watched through and find the appropriate clips.
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Speaker 1: So you are amazing and we're so happy to have you.
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Speaker 1: And also, I think this is gonna be really fun
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Speaker 1: because unless I'm wrong, you haven't seen Sex in the City,
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Speaker 1: have you know? I was gonna say, editing all of
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Speaker 1: season one was a very interesting way to watch season
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Speaker 1: one for the first time, So yeah, I haven't really
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Speaker 1: watched any anything else besides the episodes of sort of
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Speaker 1: edited and even so I haven't kind of missed some
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Speaker 1: visuals in in in that process. But yeah, I'm I'm
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Speaker 1: pretty new. I think I saw them a movie in
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Speaker 1: the movie theater at one point, but I have absolutely
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Speaker 1: no recollection of it whatsoever. But I had fun that night.
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Speaker 1: That is amazing. And this is the type of things
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Speaker 1: we want to do. Yeah, I'm new. I'm a newbie.
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Speaker 1: Your newbie did this well before we start, because I
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Speaker 1: have so many questions to ask and then and he's
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Speaker 1: going to give an amazing uh round up of season
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Speaker 1: one in a minute. I know she is, but before
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Speaker 1: we start that, because it isn't happy hour. If you
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Speaker 1: are drinking, please drink responsibly. Whatever you're doing, be responsible.
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Speaker 1: We've said this before. B we are not sponsored by
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Speaker 1: any of the drinks that we're talking about. Again, put
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Speaker 1: this out there. If he might wants to sponsor one
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Speaker 1: of those things, go ahead and let us know, go ahead,
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Speaker 1: like with Sina, No, it would be a beautiful thing.
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Speaker 1: But so Christina as the guest, So what are you
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Speaker 1: sipping on today? Oh? Well, um, I am showing the camera.
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Speaker 1: I'm sipping on glass of wine. It's Cabernet boxed wine.
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Speaker 1: Nonetheless from all this great deal and there's so much
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Speaker 1: of it, like it seems like never ending. It's delicious
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Speaker 1: and it looks very fancy in your olden rimmed doublet here.
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Speaker 1: I got the got these wine glasses as they reminded
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Speaker 1: me of the Sopranos, something Carmelo would fancy. It's also
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Speaker 1: like how much wine I have in It's way too much.
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Speaker 1: You're ready wants the Sopranos and not I wonder what
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Speaker 1: those about? Right, there's nothing, there's no judgment. I just
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Speaker 1: find it very fascinating to paint a picture. Christina has
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Speaker 1: a fancy light bulb, so they're just like a red
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Speaker 1: white dichotomy going on. Yeah, it's pretty good. She's hardcore
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Speaker 1: right now. This is what we say, Annie, what are
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Speaker 1: you sipping on? I'm also sipping on boxed wine. Wine
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Speaker 1: is a mal back and it is also delicious. I
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Speaker 1: was going to make a cocktail, and then I had
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Speaker 1: a panic moment because we're using a different technology than
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Speaker 1: we normally use, so I had to deal with that.
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Speaker 1: You wine is a delicious like drink, so there's no
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Speaker 1: need to make excuses whenever accessible go for it. I
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Speaker 1: did decide to be fancy today because I was like,
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Speaker 1: I don't have any wine. This is what I'm gonna do.
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Speaker 1: And I ended up making a cocktail with fresh cherries
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Speaker 1: and basil, fresh lemon, muddled all that together, added some vodka,
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Speaker 1: which we have a nice vodka from fourth or fourth
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Speaker 1: War distillery here from Atlanta, and then I mixed it
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Speaker 1: all up and added some bubbly water. Uh, and I
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Speaker 1: made myself a cherry lemonade with basil today. It's very
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Speaker 1: red though, so we're all like on a theme with
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Speaker 1: red so too. I'm very proud of us. Thank you.
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Speaker 1: I added a cherry. It's amazing. Yeah, I'm so fancy.
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Speaker 1: But yes, I am so glad to come back to
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Speaker 1: this segment because yes, I love this series. I didn't
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Speaker 1: actually watch the Sopranos, and I feel bad. I feel
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Speaker 1: like I need to go back to watch those. But whatever.
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Speaker 1: Right now, here's what I need to know from you, Christina,
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Speaker 1: because you kind of have a just I'm gonna be
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Speaker 1: a quick pop quiz. Are you ready? Yeah? All right?
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Speaker 1: Who are the four main women we are following? Okay, okay,
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Speaker 1: Number one you can do this is I'm drying a blank.
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Speaker 1: This is the easiest question, obviously, is it's trying to
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Speaker 1: buy time. It's Carrie, Samantha, Carrie Samantha. I should know this. Um.
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Speaker 1: Would you like to buy a letter? Buy a letter?
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Speaker 1: Buy one letter? I see? How are doing? M. The
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Speaker 1: beginning of one character's name is M. Miranda. Yes, and
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Speaker 1: the last one is is the city in North Carolina? Raley?
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Speaker 1: Just kidding, that's amaze, Charlotte. Okay, look this one for Raleigh.
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Speaker 1: Do we have a name? I don't know anybody named Roley,
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Speaker 1: but now I want that to happen. There you go,
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Speaker 1: you passed. I'm not gonna put you on the spot anymore.
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Speaker 1: But yes, those are four main characters and we are back.
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Speaker 1: But before we start talking about season two, Annie, can
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Speaker 1: you give us a recap on what happened in season one?
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Speaker 1: How do you? My best? Um? I speith in you?
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Speaker 1: Thank you. I appreciate it and I needed I. So
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Speaker 1: we had a lot of great conversations around all kinds
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Speaker 1: of things like single hood versus marriage, um, becoming a mother,
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Speaker 1: like going to the baby showers, the female body, and
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Speaker 1: art anal sex um consent, which is more something that
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Speaker 1: we talked about watching it farting in front of your
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Speaker 1: boyfriend being perfect perhaps uh, and then a religion in
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Speaker 1: marriage and also the kind of Samantha. I always thank
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Speaker 1: you for teaching me this term defining the relationship of
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Speaker 1: like having that conversation with your partner in this case
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Speaker 1: carry and Big of what do we want out of
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Speaker 1: this relationship? Oh, we want different things. We have to
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Speaker 1: break up, which is pretty much where we ended. Yes,
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Speaker 1: there you go. All the ladies are single starting this season,
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Speaker 1: all but one. I believe Samantha is still with James
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Speaker 1: at this point in time. Okay, who is a blip?
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Speaker 1: So we're about to see what happens. But okay, nice
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Speaker 1: little wrap up. Most of them. I yes, are single.
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Speaker 1: We have a tragic breakup. And I put that in
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Speaker 1: quotes between Big and Carrie because he was not willing
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Speaker 1: to go into the I love you. We're in a relationship.
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Speaker 1: They were not quite in a situation ship. They're a
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Speaker 1: little more than that, but he still didn't want to
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Speaker 1: define it. And that's how it ends. And this is
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Speaker 1: where we are with some really yes, awkward scenes and
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Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, oh my dad, I
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Speaker 1: hate the scene. Yeah, the church in bridget you immediately, Yes,
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Speaker 1: you were on it. We're back to season two with
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Speaker 1: the episode titled all right, so this is our favorite game? Christina,
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you a chance to so both of
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Speaker 1: y'all can tell me what you think this is going
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Speaker 1: to be about without reading anything any other than the
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Speaker 1: title take Me Out to the Ball Game, which was,
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Speaker 1: by the way, done released in nine. How old were
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Speaker 1: you Christina? Um, I don't want to need your age.
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Speaker 1: I was gonna say, were you, like, are you in
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Speaker 1: high school? Were you in middle school? Yeah? I was
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Speaker 1: like pre elementary school. Okay, I'm sorry, No, No, this
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Speaker 1: is where I know. I said high school knowing that
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Speaker 1: I was about to graduate high school at this point
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Speaker 1: in time. And any you were in middle school in yeah? Yes,
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Speaker 1: all right, so I probably would have been your daycare
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Speaker 1: teacher or I wish you were hilarious hilarious. So back
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Speaker 1: to so release in nine, season two, episode one, take
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Speaker 1: Me Out to the Ball Game. What do you think
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Speaker 1: this episode is going to be about? Oh, this is
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Speaker 1: a tricky, my knee jerk answer is it would be
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Speaker 1: Carrie trying to get back into the dating game. So
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Speaker 1: take me out to the ball game? Being like, maybe
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Speaker 1: she goes on a date with a guy to a
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Speaker 1: baseball game, or maybe it's just a larger metaphor for her,
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Speaker 1: like getting back in the dating game as they call it. Okay,
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Speaker 1: what do you think of Sina? All right? So the
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Speaker 1: first thing that comes to my mind is some baseball
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Speaker 1: tropes you see in TV. So I could see this
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Speaker 1: happening where maybe one of the women get hit with
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Speaker 1: a baseball or catcher baseball, a foul ball, or a
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Speaker 1: home run. I could also see some conversation about um,
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Speaker 1: the big billboard proposals that happened in baseball. UM. I
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Speaker 1: don't think any of them would be proposed to, but
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Speaker 1: I could see that UM. I don't know, it's it's
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Speaker 1: a trope that is done a lot. And also just
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Speaker 1: you know, the four of them going to a baseball
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Speaker 1: game and maybe being out of their element, or maybe
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Speaker 1: a few of them are. And uh, I wasn't even
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Speaker 1: at first, I wasn't considering a play on words, uh
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Speaker 1: like you Annie, But unfortunately, I think there could be
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Speaker 1: some um talk about um balls um in a you know,
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Speaker 1: just knowing the show, knowing what I've seen so far,
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Speaker 1: there could be some Yeah, I'm gonna leave it at that,
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Speaker 1: something about balls. I'm not going to give it away.
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Speaker 1: But that's pretty good. Christina, that's good. Ria, you nailed it.
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Speaker 1: I don't know very niche like this is what it
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Speaker 1: all right? With that, let's begin. The odds of bumping
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Speaker 1: into the one who broke your heart are incredibly high.
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Speaker 1: Have y'all experienced this like seeing your ex at the
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Speaker 1: worst possible time? Yeah, I think I have. And also
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Speaker 1: I think I've seen an ex, but just with somebody
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Speaker 1: somewhat similar, like what just happened. Yes, that's happened to
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Speaker 1: me too. I was at a a low moment and
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Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, it's my ex and
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Speaker 1: it was definitely not my But he looks like him.
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Speaker 1: But you start gotten him everywhere. Yeah, it feels like
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Speaker 1: they're like a ghost that's hanging over you. Remember all
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Speaker 1: these times we hung out here, here here. It takes
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Speaker 1: half the total time you went out with someone to
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Speaker 1: get over them. I always like a good mass solution
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Speaker 1: that he loved. Problem. It's the breakup rule. You are
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Speaker 1: big only went out for a year, so that means
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Speaker 1: it she's got five more of us to get over. No,
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Speaker 1: you gotta cut your losses and get back in the
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Speaker 1: game when so, did you ever hear that rule before that?
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Speaker 1: Whoever you break up with, you have half that time
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Speaker 1: you were together to get over it. Has that ever
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Speaker 1: been a thing you knew about? I didn't either. I
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Speaker 1: haven't heard that now you know? Yeah, you have to
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Speaker 1: awful because if you've been with someone for ten years,
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Speaker 1: you have to take five years. I've had the experience of,
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Speaker 1: like I live in Atlanta and my ex boyfriend. I
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Speaker 1: get certain things, and you get certain things and you
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Speaker 1: go over this way this way. Yeah, and dragon Con
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Speaker 1: is a big contention point between us because I feel
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Speaker 1: like that's mine, you can't come. But he disagree. Maybe
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Speaker 1: he should have to wear like a mask so you
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Speaker 1: can't know it's him. Oh god, but that would be
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Speaker 1: like the Disney Plus movie where you meet and then
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Speaker 1: you follow love, or like Stupy does. If I were
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Speaker 1: a ballplayer, I'd be batting whatever really bad is? Oh
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Speaker 1: my god? And there. Look you're getting a lot of
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Speaker 1: points here, Christina, you are. It's a trope. I mean,
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Speaker 1: of course it had to happen. Had to in a
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Speaker 1: world where leaving each other seems to be getting more
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Speaker 1: and more frequent. What are the breakup rules? Whatever you do, man,
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Speaker 1: don't cry, because I need to know. What are the
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Speaker 1: breakup rules? Do you too have breakup rules? M it
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Speaker 1: feels like a divorce in a lot of ways. It's
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Speaker 1: like you're my friends, are your friends, and we will
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Speaker 1: not interact in these spaces anymore. I will never text
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Speaker 1: first ever again. Yeah. I don't contact them unless they
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Speaker 1: contact me first. I guess that's my biggest role. I
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Speaker 1: try to do that too, Like they don't deserve my
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Speaker 1: attention anymore. I just do it because I think they
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Speaker 1: might misinterpret my I delete them because I don't think
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Speaker 1: they should exist anymore. Oh that's even better. Wow, we
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Speaker 1: have like a real spectrum and continuum here. Okay, here's
14:38
Speaker 1: another question about the breakup rules. If you get invited
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Speaker 1: to an ex's wedding, what would you do? Would you go?
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Speaker 1: Would you bring someone else? Well? I will start off
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Speaker 1: by saying I am never invited to weddings, so it'd
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Speaker 1: be hard to turn that down. I like, I feel
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Speaker 1: like everyone's like, oh, I'm going to another wedding, and
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Speaker 1: I can't believe it. Do I just not have friends
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Speaker 1: getting married? I love wedding. I guess I would go
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Speaker 1: if I was invited, maybe unless I was still sad
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Speaker 1: over them. Um, I would have to bring it my
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Speaker 1: own date, of course, right, I would have to have
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Speaker 1: a date. And it was according to why they were
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Speaker 1: inviting me. Are we still friends? Are you being an ass?
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Speaker 1: Why would you like put a lot of thought into
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Speaker 1: your appearance for this wedding? Yes? Yeah, I can't. I'll
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Speaker 1: buy an you dress, Damon. I think I wouldn't go
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Speaker 1: unless I had a good friend or somebody I could
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Speaker 1: like lie that we were dating. Right, I'll find somebody. Yes,
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Speaker 1: And here Christina is about to get a new point. There.
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Speaker 1: We were two single gals out on the town with
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Speaker 1: our ball players. She's a ball player. Literally, Oh my god, Christina,
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Speaker 1: you are fantastic. Do single gals out on the town
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Speaker 1: with our ball players, That's what she said for those listening.
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Speaker 1: The guy grabbed his testicles because he's tugging those boxers. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: it must be hot in there or something. I can
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Speaker 1: see how. I'm sure it's kind of like you know,
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Speaker 1: when the underwear is too tight and you feel like
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Speaker 1: you've been like pulled together by two strings around your
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Speaker 1: stomach and you're just trying to wait for someone to
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Speaker 1: release it. Yes, Oh my god, hot Yankee, Joe start
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Speaker 1: on Town with New York columnists and sex Perked Carry
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Speaker 1: Bride sex Pert. This proud day for me. So this
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Speaker 1: whole level of like, how soon do you take your
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Speaker 1: relationship public? Mm hmm. This is not the same thing
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Speaker 1: because they're talking about the fact that she gets, you know,
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Speaker 1: out of with her New York Yankee, but just wondering
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Speaker 1: how soon do you take public? As I've said before,
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Speaker 1: I never did it with my ex and we dated
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Speaker 1: for three years with with like social media, but I
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Speaker 1: was I was open with other people, and we did
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Speaker 1: have a big fight once because I accidentally called him
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Speaker 1: my friend when I was introducing That was not good.
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Speaker 1: I think it's up to the people in the relationship.
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Speaker 1: I'm somebody personally who's I'm not focused on that aspect
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Speaker 1: of it, but I know it's important to other people,
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Speaker 1: right Yeah, Yeah, it is important for some people to
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Speaker 1: feel recognized publicly. But I am also very private about
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Speaker 1: my dating life. It's I'm more like, if they send
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Speaker 1: me a Facebook relationship request, I would say sure, but
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Speaker 1: I'm not going to send one myself. Right. I'm still
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Speaker 1: unofficial on my Facebook and I've been to this person
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Speaker 1: for like five years. Okay, that's it. I'm out of here.
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Speaker 1: All we talk about anymore is big or balls or
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Speaker 1: small dicks. How does it happen that four such smart
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Speaker 1: women have nothing to talk about my boyfriends? It's like
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Speaker 1: seventh grade with bank accounts? What about us? What we think?
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Speaker 1: We feel? We know? Christ? Does it always have to
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Speaker 1: be about then? Just you know, give me a call
18:24
Speaker 1: when you're ready to talk about something besides men for
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Speaker 1: a chance. Oh, this is a big part. I think
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Speaker 1: I talked about this before. It's Miranda losing her mind
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Speaker 1: because they can't talk about anything but men. She has
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Speaker 1: a great point, so I always love that. And like
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Speaker 1: at first you get really like, oh, she's been so abrasive,
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Speaker 1: But I'm like, no, has an adult You're like, yeah,
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Speaker 1: eventually it really gets tiring. The coach had no choice
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Speaker 1: but to bring in a pinch hitter. What's that? It's
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Speaker 1: my vibrator. I thought it would be fun. I can
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Speaker 1: just tellus might be more fun. I think that's not
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Speaker 1: a problem, isn't it. Oh and now we get to
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Speaker 1: go on to move on to James, poor James and Sam?
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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, so yeah. Personal question what is your take
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Speaker 1: on sex toys, our toys in relationships real personal? It's
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Speaker 1: too judged. I think, you know, just like they showed
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Speaker 1: right now, like he was a little insulted that she
19:33
Speaker 1: brought it out. But you know, I think you know,
19:36
Speaker 1: if you discussed it beforehand, I think it can be
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Speaker 1: a great boon for your sex life pleasure. I don't
19:46
Speaker 1: even see why men get upset over. It's not like
19:48
Speaker 1: men vibrate, so it's not like they're being replaced. Did
19:51
Speaker 1: you say men don't vibrate. Yeah, they don't really vibrate,
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Speaker 1: So why are they jealous of vibrator? I think they're
19:58
Speaker 1: threatened because they're like, oh god, that just means it's
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Speaker 1: a supplement. And as long as you're being a communicative,
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Speaker 1: open partner, then that's great. That's a supplement. It's fantastic. No,
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Speaker 1: I need to be thrilled. Also, it's yeah, it can
20:14
Speaker 1: be fun and change up a little different than you
20:17
Speaker 1: add things, spice it up and make it a little
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Speaker 1: you know, new, being creative. Sorry, oh, she cries in
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Speaker 1: the middle of the kia. I'm really sorry. It's not you,
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Speaker 1: this is this is really embarrassing. I have puked in
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Speaker 1: the middle of a kiss, so top that one. I
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Speaker 1: don't think. I'm okay. I need to unpack that. I
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Speaker 1: was sick. I threw up on his laugh. Yeah, it happens.
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Speaker 1: I think it happens. It did. Yes, the everyone has
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Speaker 1: a kind of embarrassing puke story and an embarrassing kiss story,
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Speaker 1: and you just did both at one. I did, But
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Speaker 1: to be fair, you were, he wasn't. Maybe he should
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Speaker 1: have been more embarrassed than you. I told him I
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Speaker 1: was not feeling exactly okay, So I'm sorry, Annie. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: Christina beat you on this prediction of this episode. Whether
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Speaker 1: it's because she just knew how these plots go, but
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Speaker 1: you know, she won, Like she even gets the ball playing.
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Speaker 1: I was like, oh, wow, she knows. And then the
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Speaker 1: fact that someone's gonna catch a fly ball what so
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Speaker 1: I would say, but I know you're too honorable for that, Christina.
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Speaker 1: She's never watched this. Yeah. I was surprised there was
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Speaker 1: no billboard proposal there. Yeah, that's the one they don't
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Speaker 1: have when no one's getting proposed to. So that's why
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Speaker 1: we are not anywhere near that. Other than seeing Sam
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Speaker 1: in an unrealistic, unhappy relationship, there's no other real relationships
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Speaker 1: to be seen here. But good job, Ristata. I'm knowing
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Speaker 1: all of the tropes here. Thank you. I'm super surprised
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Speaker 1: they I was really actually surprised, although yeah they did
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Speaker 1: some um balls stuff, but it wasn't a lot. They
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Speaker 1: just showed like somebody itch it once and they talked
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Speaker 1: about it. They broke up. Yeah, they broke up over it.
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Speaker 1: I will say that that was something in that we
22:43
Speaker 1: kind of were talking through that part. But she tried
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Speaker 1: to buy him underwear because she's trying to correct his
22:51
Speaker 1: ball problem. Yeah, oh my god. And it was like,
22:55
Speaker 1: this is too personal. You're trying to change me, which
22:59
Speaker 1: he's not completely long. She was trying to correct his
23:02
Speaker 1: bay if you're low in a way. I guess. So, Groustina,
23:06
Speaker 1: I need to know, um, what did you think of
23:09
Speaker 1: your first introduction? I guess second if you watched the movie,
23:13
Speaker 1: but introduction to the series of Sex in the City,
23:16
Speaker 1: it's just what I thought it would be. I feel
23:20
Speaker 1: like I had an idea of I think that's why
23:23
Speaker 1: I did pretty well with the predicting what would happen,
23:27
Speaker 1: because I have sort of watched all of season one
23:31
Speaker 1: with both of you, so it's It's been very uh
23:35
Speaker 1: an interesting way to consume this show. Sometimes I miss pieces,
23:39
Speaker 1: so I'm definitely not all the way there, um because
23:42
Speaker 1: I'm around. But yeah, I think, uh, this episode was
23:47
Speaker 1: what I thought it would be, obviously because I did
23:50
Speaker 1: so well not to brag or anything. I think Annie
23:53
Speaker 1: did very good too with getting back to the dating game.
23:57
Speaker 1: And she did, she did, she understood that part there
24:01
Speaker 1: was like the breaking of the rules, but the everything
24:03
Speaker 1: else And and then you did say some puns, so
24:06
Speaker 1: you're right about that as well. Annie, But yeah, sorry, Christina,
24:08
Speaker 1: I want bragging rights on this one. Um. Yeah. And
24:12
Speaker 1: I think it's very interesting in it because there is
24:14
Speaker 1: a lot of conversation when it comes to the breakup
24:18
Speaker 1: and how big of a deal it was for Carrie.
24:21
Speaker 1: I think this is a second like big relationship for her,
24:25
Speaker 1: so this was even more significant and and like trying
24:28
Speaker 1: to get over someone and then like, yeah, Miranda's attitude
24:31
Speaker 1: and like why can't we talk about anything else but
24:34
Speaker 1: men and boys. I think she's just tired of like
24:37
Speaker 1: centering men like they do all the time. So she
24:41
Speaker 1: was like, you know what, I'm so over and maybe
24:43
Speaker 1: it's like if you're not dating at this point, she's
24:46
Speaker 1: not dating, she has nothing to add to the conversation,
24:48
Speaker 1: so she's just like, I'm just here, which I've been there,
24:52
Speaker 1: like when people talk about getting married and then they're
24:55
Speaker 1: talking about what like so before I bought a house,
24:58
Speaker 1: I swear to God, try not to be this person,
24:59
Speaker 1: but like them talking about houses and you have nothing
25:02
Speaker 1: to add, and you're just like, this is a very
25:04
Speaker 1: adult conversation that I have nothing to add. I don't
25:06
Speaker 1: Can we talk about something else? You know, stuff like that.
25:09
Speaker 1: I think it could be a part of that, which
25:12
Speaker 1: I agree to a certain degree. But also, yeah, feeling
25:16
Speaker 1: sorry for yourself for a certain amount of time. How
25:18
Speaker 1: long do you let that go, especially for a friend,
25:21
Speaker 1: Like how long do you let them wallow in misery? Yeah?
25:28
Speaker 1: And I've I've certainly had the recently. I've had conversations
25:33
Speaker 1: with friends where I'm just like, I want you to
25:37
Speaker 1: be able to come to me with your your boy problems.
25:41
Speaker 1: And that sounds so dismissive and I'm not, But to me,
25:45
Speaker 1: I'm kind of like, um, I don't I don't get it,
25:50
Speaker 1: Like it's not a thing. And so I'm trying to
25:53
Speaker 1: be very supportive and helpful, but it is like this
25:58
Speaker 1: guy sounds like you should just leave um. So that's
26:05
Speaker 1: that's a part of it too. I feel like it's
26:08
Speaker 1: super beneficial to just say stuff out loud, even if
26:12
Speaker 1: they don't want a response, you know what I mean,
26:15
Speaker 1: Like if you're going through something and you just want
26:17
Speaker 1: to voice it to somebody like a friend. Sometimes people
26:20
Speaker 1: don't even want advice, although I always want to give advice.
26:24
Speaker 1: But I think that's excellent advice you gave to not
26:27
Speaker 1: give advice. Yes, absolutely, So I do have to ask
26:33
Speaker 1: what was your worst breakup? Oh yeah, I'm getting nosy.
26:39
Speaker 1: I think I have two in mind. One was in
26:41
Speaker 1: high school, was with like my first love, first boyfriend,
26:44
Speaker 1: and it reminded me of this episode because I would
26:47
Speaker 1: go to I lived in a small town, so like
26:49
Speaker 1: you go to Walmart, you're going to see everyone you know.
26:52
Speaker 1: And I always would, you know, have my eyes open
26:55
Speaker 1: just to see, you know, just to see if he
26:57
Speaker 1: would be there. I would always it was always nervous.
26:59
Speaker 1: I didn't want to like go anywhere I think he
27:01
Speaker 1: could be, or I would think I saw his car,
27:04
Speaker 1: or I would see a car that was his model,
27:06
Speaker 1: and it would like it hurt me so deeply, maybe
27:09
Speaker 1: because I was just a teenager and I was, you know,
27:12
Speaker 1: super into him, but you know, in hindsight, it wouldn't
27:15
Speaker 1: have never worked. I don't think that was a relationship
27:17
Speaker 1: that was meant to last. Um. And my other one
27:20
Speaker 1: was my college boyfriend, which you know, not too too
27:23
Speaker 1: long ago. It was bad because he broke up with
27:26
Speaker 1: me over a phone call because I moved to Atlanta
27:31
Speaker 1: at that point and he stayed in Pennsylvania and he
27:35
Speaker 1: knew I wasn't going to come back, but I didn't
27:37
Speaker 1: know that. I was like, I could still come back
27:39
Speaker 1: and he wasn't. There's no chance he was going to
27:41
Speaker 1: move here. And he ended it in like, yeah, it
27:43
Speaker 1: was a few year relationship over a phone call. Not
27:45
Speaker 1: my favorite. I just felt like that was pretty dismissive, Um,
27:49
Speaker 1: pretty lazy. But yeah, those were my two sad moments,
27:54
Speaker 1: but overall I wasn't even that sad over the college
27:56
Speaker 1: boyfriend one. I was just insulted, how how long was
28:01
Speaker 1: your Like, you know, the recovery process it goes on continually,
28:05
Speaker 1: but how long would you say you were like? I
28:08
Speaker 1: think for high school one. I was definitely like for
28:11
Speaker 1: much longer because I was in my small town and
28:14
Speaker 1: just in high school, so I didn't have much going on.
28:17
Speaker 1: But college one, I was living in a whole another state,
28:20
Speaker 1: so it was much easier to get over it. I
28:23
Speaker 1: think if I had stayed in Pennsylvania I would be
28:26
Speaker 1: worse because he was like all I The only hobby
28:29
Speaker 1: I had was visiting him and hanging out with him
28:31
Speaker 1: and staying at his house and stuff. So, um, I
28:35
Speaker 1: think that helps a lot, but that's not always. The
28:37
Speaker 1: solution is moving away or having moved away already. That's
28:40
Speaker 1: a got pretty lucky there. Yes, yeah, yeah, I think
28:45
Speaker 1: I've had a lot of I've had a lot of
28:47
Speaker 1: breakups that have stuck with me. Probably the last one
28:52
Speaker 1: I had. I dated this guy for three years, um,
28:55
Speaker 1: and I really thought it was gonna work, and I
28:57
Speaker 1: wanted it to work, But it was more because I
28:59
Speaker 1: wanted it to work because that's what society told me
29:02
Speaker 1: that should work. And so that breakup I have kind
29:07
Speaker 1: of come to terms with, but it does haunt me
29:10
Speaker 1: in the in the sense that I'm like, this was
29:13
Speaker 1: my chance. This was it to be a quote normal
29:19
Speaker 1: person and get a house and have kids and all
29:22
Speaker 1: that stuff. That was it, Like, I'm not going to
29:25
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna do that again. I'm not going to
29:27
Speaker 1: find that again. I don't necessarily want to find that again.
29:30
Speaker 1: But that was my like, big, I'm going to give
29:34
Speaker 1: it a swinging shot and we're gonna do this. And definitely,
29:42
Speaker 1: as I said, the breaking up with them was a
29:48
Speaker 1: study in it's just the what ifs and the memories
29:54
Speaker 1: that are everywhere that you're like, oh, yeah, we could
29:57
Speaker 1: have been this. I remember going here and we could
30:00
Speaker 1: we talked about this, and uh. That was probably my
30:05
Speaker 1: most painful breakup, but it was more of a It
30:08
Speaker 1: was painful in the sense that it was like recognizing
30:11
Speaker 1: this is never going to be your wife. I think, yeah, yeah,
30:15
Speaker 1: I feel that. I feel that too, because if I
30:18
Speaker 1: had stayed with mine, my college boyfriend, I would have
30:21
Speaker 1: had to have stayed in and lived a whole different life.
30:23
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be, you know, in Atlanta, I wouldn't be
30:26
Speaker 1: working in Sneaky, it wouldn't be on this podcast. Can
30:28
Speaker 1: you believe it? Terrible? Yeah? It is because there's like
30:33
Speaker 1: such a potential. But you know, sometimes that doesn't the
30:38
Speaker 1: potential doesn't have to be all there is. Yeah, I mean,
30:43
Speaker 1: of course, at that moment in time, you're like, oh no,
30:45
Speaker 1: everything's ending and this is the worst place that could be.
30:48
Speaker 1: But then it's better and you're like, Okay, I'm fine.
30:51
Speaker 1: I'm so glad that didn't happen because you were a
30:53
Speaker 1: mess and that's always a backtracking. But yeah, I attached
30:56
Speaker 1: to people if I let them in, attached to people
30:59
Speaker 1: pretty have really, so losing them feels like death, which
31:03
Speaker 1: is why I'm like, you can't exist anymore because I've
31:05
Speaker 1: warned you at this point and you're done. Um. And
31:08
Speaker 1: I've only done that with like, hmm, one or two
31:11
Speaker 1: people in my life when it comes to relationships, and
31:13
Speaker 1: it's like I would linger for about like six seven months,
31:17
Speaker 1: eight months a year and then finally move on, but
31:20
Speaker 1: it would be a whole thing, for sure, for sure,
31:23
Speaker 1: And I still feel that way. I think I've gotten
31:24
Speaker 1: less like because I'm pretty closed off and with things
31:28
Speaker 1: like that, that makes me want to be more closed off.
31:31
Speaker 1: But you know that's me. So we're taking any quiz
31:34
Speaker 1: because I feel like that it needs to be a
31:35
Speaker 1: new segment for guests. They have to take quizzes with us.
31:38
Speaker 1: Who based on this BuzzFeed quiz which makes no sense
31:42
Speaker 1: to me, Who are you in sex in the city?
31:44
Speaker 1: Which girl? Are you? All right? I did? I took
31:46
Speaker 1: the quiz before I reveal my answer. I would love
31:49
Speaker 1: to hear what both of you think I would be. Oh,
31:54
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go with I've been it's gonna say something
31:56
Speaker 1: like Carrie. Mm hmmm. I think it might be Samantha. Okay,
32:04
Speaker 1: it's Terry. I got Katy. I'm a little surprised by it,
32:08
Speaker 1: but it's not a bad character to be a description. Yeah,
32:11
Speaker 1: you're go getter and always up for a challenge. You
32:14
Speaker 1: like the idea of love, but you value friendship more.
32:18
Speaker 1: You feel like men are like accessories, but your friends
32:22
Speaker 1: are like shoes, much more fun. I do like my
32:29
Speaker 1: friends like your friends are like shoes. I might be offended.
32:33
Speaker 1: You guys are like shoes to me. She loves shoes,
32:36
Speaker 1: she spends. She spend like a down payments worth of
32:39
Speaker 1: money for shoes. We'll talk about that later. But Annie,
32:43
Speaker 1: who did you get? I got Samantha. I'm gonna say,
32:46
Speaker 1: I bet it's Samantha, didn't it. It says you're one
32:49
Speaker 1: wild person. You love to date and have fun, but
32:52
Speaker 1: getting serious is really not your style. You'd much refer
32:56
Speaker 1: one steady group of friends over one man forever, great
33:00
Speaker 1: at giving advice because you're so care free. Yeah, you're
33:06
Speaker 1: so care free. You are care free. It's true. Friends
33:10
Speaker 1: are above men for sure. That's sure. Yeah, you have
33:15
Speaker 1: a guests from mine. I thought you would be a Miranda,
33:18
Speaker 1: but you were surprised, so that makes me think you're
33:21
Speaker 1: like a Charlottete Miranda. You're correct, I was a Charlotte apparently.
33:25
Speaker 1: It says you're incredibly pretty and intelligent. You like to
33:29
Speaker 1: stick to the rules because well they're there for a reason.
33:32
Speaker 1: That's true. Your biggest dream is having a family, not true.
33:37
Speaker 1: You also have an amazing eye for design, not true. Overall,
33:41
Speaker 1: your loyal and loving to everyone who deserves it. That's true.
33:46
Speaker 1: It's half and half on that one. No, none of
33:49
Speaker 1: us have a random which is shocking. I kind of
33:52
Speaker 1: was wanting to, don't we all generation like that's the
33:58
Speaker 1: icon now, like we'd see her for who she was,
34:00
Speaker 1: even though she was seeing it's kind of villain. Not really,
34:03
Speaker 1: but you know, like for a while at the least
34:06
Speaker 1: desirable character, and I'm like, no, she was a v character.
34:09
Speaker 1: Her and Samantha were the characters that we really really
34:13
Speaker 1: should be looking at but yeah, thank you so much
34:16
Speaker 1: for coming on, Christina. Yeah, thank you for having me.
34:19
Speaker 1: It's such a special episode to be on, first of
34:22
Speaker 1: a season, so I appreciate the invit and I had
34:25
Speaker 1: fun and I'll have to do it again. Yes, please,
34:28
Speaker 1: and thank you for all your amazing work. We get
34:30
Speaker 1: to say it, but not to your face so often,
34:32
Speaker 1: so thank you for all the amazing work you do,
34:35
Speaker 1: and they're for making a sound coherent. Thank you, thank you. Yes,
34:41
Speaker 1: I'm excited. I this was fun and I think keeping
34:46
Speaker 1: we should in a future episode because yeah, that was
34:50
Speaker 1: a good time. Yeah. In the meantime, listeners, thank you
34:55
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