Why You're Still Waiting For Him To Choose You (And Why It Was Never Really About Him)

No More Breadcrumbs in Love: Christian Dating, Healing, and Identity for Women Ready to Let God Lead Their Love Life · Jul 23, 2026 · 9m

You keep waiting for him to choose you — but if we're honest, the ache isn't really about him. It's about who you've let decide whether you're enough.

In this episode, we're getting honest about why you keep staying available to emotionally unavailable men, why that pattern goes back further than this relationship, and why God — not his mood, his timeline, or whether he texts back — was always meant to be the one who defines your worth.

We'll talk about:

Why "waiting for him to choose you" actually means closing yourself off to everyone and everything else

Why emotionally unavailable men can…