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90 Day- The Single Life Season 5, Episode 2- "The Act of Tinseling" · Vanity Farah with Chris Farah

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  Speaker 1: Hi there, My name is Chris Fair.
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  Speaker 2: Welcome to Vanity Fair and my YouTube where I will
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  Speaker 2: be talking about ninety day, this single Life. This is
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  Speaker 2: season five, it's episode two, The Act of Tinseling. What
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  Speaker 2: does that mean? Who knows? Who knows the act of
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  Speaker 2: tinseling happens at Christmas? Because you have a tree and
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  Speaker 2: you want to do it Victorian style. That's what that
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  Speaker 2: means to me. Now, I realize that's from a Christian
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  Speaker 2: centric point of view, but that is what that means
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  Speaker 2: to me.
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  Speaker 1: Now I can.
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  Speaker 2: Only assume tinseling meaning making even more beautiful.
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  Speaker 1: Something that is.
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  Speaker 2: Great for this episode perhaps the red bikini on Sophie.
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  Speaker 2: The act of tinseling. We'll get into it, however, Thank
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  Speaker 1: All of it. Okay, so let's get in.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, we will start with Gino now annoyingly enough, because
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  Speaker 2: we're supposed to really believe everything. We're supposed to believe
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  Speaker 2: that Natalie, the very good looking like New Jersey esque
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  Speaker 2: Italian lady that Gino met in Vegas, well met online
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  Speaker 2: and then went to Vegas and then brought her to
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  Speaker 2: Michigan where Jasmine attacked her. That woman we're supposed to believe,
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  Speaker 2: not an actress a b is coming back for more, Gino.
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  Speaker 2: That woman with the trench coat. I mean, listen, Natalie
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  Speaker 2: walks in Honey, and she knows she wants to be
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  Speaker 2: on camera, so she's gonna like walk in with this
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  Speaker 2: gorgeous like camel trench coat, maybe like a Gucci bag,
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  Speaker 2: you know. Like we're told she's working in Washington remotely
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  Speaker 2: for a job, which was confusing to us because we're like, wait,
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  Speaker 2: if she's working remotely, then wouldn't she be in Vegas
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  Speaker 2: for a job that is actually in Washington?
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  Speaker 1: You know, I was just confusing in Washington, c.
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  Speaker 2: So someone has to explain to me how life works
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  Speaker 2: or working works, because I truly am confused. And then
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  Speaker 2: of course he's going to visit her and they meet
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  Speaker 2: up at like a coffee shop.
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  Speaker 1: Now Gino comes in. We have been knowing Gino.
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  Speaker 2: Gina is so proud of the following things a Italian
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  Speaker 2: even though he does not appreciate quality food, which is
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  Speaker 2: so wild because it is the trope of enjoying Italian
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  Speaker 2: cooking or really enjoying any Liken cuisine is like the
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  Speaker 2: dignity you would give fresh ingredients and quality recipes and
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  Speaker 2: the man will get two for one prey go okay,
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  Speaker 2: So that is what is happening here. He's so proud
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  Speaker 2: of his frugalness. And here's the thing I really am
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  Speaker 2: leaning into this year, my financial literacy. So it's not
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  Speaker 2: that I want to go full Gino, but I have
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  Speaker 2: talked a lot of shit about how cheap he is
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  Speaker 2: on my podcast, and I also have to say that,
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  Speaker 2: like you know, I haven't been the great it's of money.
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  Speaker 2: So in the middle lies the perfect person. However, Natalie
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  Speaker 2: isn't it because Natalie's trench coat and like Natalie's purse,
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  Speaker 2: if she was to tell Gino how much those things are,
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  Speaker 2: or if Gino thought he was going to buy her
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  Speaker 2: a piece of clothing that she would enjoy, and then
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  Speaker 2: she was to tell him like the average price of
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  Speaker 2: the piece of clothing she enjoys, it would blow his mind.
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  Speaker 2: It would boggle his mind, you know, like he, he
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  Speaker 2: would lose his shit, like he. It's hard sometimes if
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  Speaker 2: you operate in a different financial world of how you
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  Speaker 2: spend money than someone else, then it will be resentful.
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  Speaker 2: When you look at that person and they're like, okay,
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  Speaker 2: spending five hundred dollars getting their hair done, You're gonna
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  Speaker 2: be like what, I usually go to Super Clutch and
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  Speaker 2: I get twenty five dollars. If you are the kind
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  Speaker 2: of person that doesn't understand how other people can spend money,
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  Speaker 2: you know it will be awkward. And the problem with
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  Speaker 2: me is that when Natalie talks, I can see a
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  Speaker 2: person with intelligence. So and she doesn't seem like she
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  Speaker 2: needs anything I guess other than fame.
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  Speaker 1: She doesn't need a green card. God blessed. She has
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  Speaker 1: a job.
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  Speaker 2: She gets to work remote on site, which is God,
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  Speaker 2: I don't know what that job is.
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  Speaker 1: Why is Natalie here?
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  Speaker 2: If you got physically attacked by someone's ex and that
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  Speaker 2: someone was Gino, who was offering you nothing, nothing, what
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  Speaker 2: rational person would come back for more?
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  Speaker 1: I just you know, it's hard. It's hard.
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  Speaker 2: It's hard as a like, it's hard across the board
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  Speaker 2: to understand. I think that it triggers me as a woman,
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  Speaker 2: you know, because I'm like, no, like it makes me
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  Speaker 2: like upset.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, do you just have no friends?
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  Speaker 2: I can't imagine Natalie has a sound wise woman friend
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  Speaker 2: that she said any of this too. Like, let's just
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  Speaker 2: say this person's not on the show. Natalie's like, hey Cynthia,
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  Speaker 2: oh my god, girl, you won't believe it. So remember
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  Speaker 2: when I went to Michigan and met up with that
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  Speaker 2: guy Gino. Yeah, like the bald guy who like is
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  Speaker 2: so cheap? Well for you know, that's my thing, so
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  Speaker 2: I'm into it. And anyways, so I go to Michigan and
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  Speaker 2: then you know, he told me he like had an ex,
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  Speaker 2: but it's his family's party.
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  Speaker 1: So I'm like whatever, I go.
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  Speaker 2: The ex is there, she's crazy and she tries she
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  Speaker 2: hits me, and then Cynthia'd be like, girl, what the
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  Speaker 2: what the fuck. What are you talking like? You are
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  Speaker 2: you going to sue her? Are you going to press charges?
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  Speaker 2: And you know, Natalie's like, no, no, no, no girl, no no,
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  Speaker 2: but I we'll tell you this.
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  Speaker 1: No no at all.
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  Speaker 2: I am gonna go back and hang out with Gino
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  Speaker 2: though I invited him come hang out with me. Yeah, girl, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: So I just came back from the meeting. We came
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  Speaker 2: from a coffee shop. I look super cute. I was
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  Speaker 2: wearing that camel trench coat, you know, the one from
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  Speaker 2: coss ha ha. And then he came in, honey with
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  Speaker 2: a backpack. It was so hot.
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  Speaker 1: I love him.
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  Speaker 2: You're just like, what, Natalie, what are you talking about?
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  Speaker 2: They leave from this coffee shop where they talk about
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  Speaker 2: who knows, and they're flirting and that makes no sense.
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  Speaker 2: He's smiling at her like he thinks he can get
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  Speaker 2: a piece, and she's smiling at him like she would
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  Speaker 2: entertain this. And I'm like, I don't understand. He's wearing
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  Speaker 2: a backpack. It's not even jan sport. But it's like,
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  Speaker 2: where's he going? What math class is he on the
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  Speaker 2: way to? What the he's old?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, help? How First of all, I'm just gonna be
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  Speaker 1: very honest.
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  Speaker 2: A lot of people on the streets of nine and
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  Speaker 2: a fiance is like, no more Gina, We're good, no
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  Speaker 2: more Jazzmine, We're fine. We have to like just file
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  Speaker 2: them away, honey, put their book back on a shelf.
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  Speaker 2: Just put it away, like where the Angela and the
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  Speaker 2: Michael is like, we've seen all of it. We're done.
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  Speaker 1: It's too much.
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  Speaker 2: They're gonna keep giving, but we no longer are buying.
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  Speaker 2: Can you just like move on and find other people?
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  Speaker 2: And they do find other people, they always do. There's
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  Speaker 2: so many, you know, jaggernauts. There's so many, I'm sorry,
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  Speaker 2: there's so it is a jaggernaut. There's so many offshoots.
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  Speaker 2: So anyways, they're going to you know, hang out again.
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  Speaker 2: I fine, If I have to have this storyline, then
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  Speaker 2: I want him to take her to the fanciest fucking
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  Speaker 2: place in Washington. And it's like Washington, DC has a
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  Speaker 2: lot of fancy restaurants, like you know, Federal looking place
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  Speaker 2: is a real classical looking place as steakhouses, I'm not
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  Speaker 2: quite sure. And then I want the bill to come.
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  Speaker 2: I want the bill to be like seven hundred dollars, which,
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  Speaker 2: by the way, like a two person thing and they
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  Speaker 2: had you know, like cocktails and a bottle of wine
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  Speaker 2: and an app meal and dessert, like I can see
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  Speaker 2: it happening, and no, and so could you. It's expensive,
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  Speaker 2: obviously expensive place. I want the bill to come and
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  Speaker 2: I want to see him pay for it. I either
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  Speaker 2: want to see him ask her to go fifty to
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  Speaker 2: fifty or I want to see him ask her to
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  Speaker 2: pay for it, or I want to see him try
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  Speaker 2: and ask her out and then like have her go
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  Speaker 2: to you know, a red lobster or an olive garden
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  Speaker 2: and then still like he's gonna be like I SA
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  Speaker 2: senior discount before five, you know, like you know that's
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  Speaker 2: gonna happen. It's not just the money, it's just the lifestyles,
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  Speaker 2: the clothes. Like the minute she sees him, she's like,
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  Speaker 2: he's not for me.
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  Speaker 1: You know.
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  Speaker 2: It's the fact obviously she got accosted from him. None
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  Speaker 2: of it's believable. It's just it doesn't make sense. How
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  Speaker 2: desperate is Natalie, Like she has to assume that we
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  Speaker 2: would look at her and be like this bitch has
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  Speaker 2: no other fucking options. And she's a cute girl with
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  Speaker 2: the job, long ass hair, good body, pretty face seasoned.
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  Speaker 1: Cool on TV.
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  Speaker 2: I know she's like, I'm not saying listen, it's hard
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  Speaker 2: to date, but if it's gino or bust, then it's busted, right.
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  Speaker 2: I don't understand even from that point of view, is
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  Speaker 2: because that's the part I think that like triggers me
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  Speaker 2: as a woman, because I'm like, okay, so, Natalie, you're
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  Speaker 2: just like either wink wink, I want to be on
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  Speaker 2: TV and want to be famous being paid for this,
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  Speaker 2: or be I am the most desperate, sad, lonely I'm
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  Speaker 2: gonna die a lone woman that I will put up
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  Speaker 2: with a gino who has not protected me physically from
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  Speaker 2: someone he lied to me, that wouldn't be around his
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  Speaker 2: ex wife. Like it's just too much, Okay, help ah,
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  Speaker 2: move on. I feel like mad, you know what I'm
• 9:21
  Speaker 2: I wish I wouldn't. I wish I would just calm
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  Speaker 2: my nervous system and just like keep all my reactions
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  Speaker 2: for me. I wish I could just like be chill
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  Speaker 2: about I wish I could just like wink wink and
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  Speaker 2: allow or whatever. But I obviously can't, and it's annoying
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  Speaker 2: and it's like, please just don't be don't make don't
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  Speaker 2: make life stupid for me to have to watch. Please
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  Speaker 2: just allow me to watch this stupid ass show without
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  Speaker 2: being like, no, and if it's if you can't have
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  Speaker 2: a storyline for Gino, that's a reason why you should
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  Speaker 2: fucking shelf him. Then then you don't have something for him.
• 9:50
  Speaker 2: Then his family hates him and they won't, you know,
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  Speaker 2: record with him.
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  Speaker 1: Then no woman will actually be with him.
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  Speaker 2: Then his whole life is masturbating, eating shitty bar and
• 10:00
  Speaker 2: barah on top of dry spaghetti and trying to find
• 10:03
  Speaker 2: new woman online sugar Baby's online. Then that's what his
• 10:06
  Speaker 2: life is. It's not watchable. Okay, oh my god, I'm
• 10:09
  Speaker 2: moving on. Let's move on to someone fun. I'm super
• 10:11
  Speaker 2: excited to talk about COLTYA and Courtney. You're like, girl bipolar,
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  Speaker 2: It's like, but no, I actually am Colty and Coltney
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  Speaker 2: Are Colty and Courtney.
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  Speaker 1: I'm excited about it.
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  Speaker 2: So hard to say their names, but it's exciting because
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  Speaker 2: they are bringing levity. Also, there are a couple on
• 10:25
  Speaker 2: the show that a we know started off obviously both
• 10:30
  Speaker 2: American couples with both foreign people from different seasons. Then
• 10:33
  Speaker 2: obviously they get together on the show we watch nine
• 10:35
  Speaker 2: a day Hunt for Love that all happens. It's weird
• 10:38
  Speaker 2: that they get together the way that had happens, which
• 10:40
  Speaker 2: is that a Coltia breaks its leg and then Corney
• 10:42
  Speaker 2: kind of just like takes herself out of the entire
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  Speaker 2: experiment because she doesn't want to deal, you know, with
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  Speaker 2: soldier boy, and so she's kind of definitely not Tiffany,
• 10:50
  Speaker 2: and so she's like, I'm just gonna hang out of
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  Speaker 2: the hospital. And then she forges a relationship with Colty
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  Speaker 2: and then you know, because he has nothing and his
• 10:58
  Speaker 2: mom left the country. Yeahbi so Helchi, it's more like
• 11:04
  Speaker 2: that I forget there's two debies CUTI. It's that he
• 11:08
  Speaker 2: ends up moving in with Courtney and Courtney's parents in Florida,
• 11:12
  Speaker 2: and we get to see Courtney's parents. They're so super cute.
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  Speaker 2: They're like golf golf buddies. You know, when you see
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  Speaker 2: two people just like two married people that like have
• 11:20
  Speaker 2: been married for a long time. I built a whole
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  Speaker 2: family that they're just like little symbiotic twins. They're like,
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  Speaker 2: oh my god, just day and day out. They look alike,
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  Speaker 2: they sound alike. You know, they're just golfing and having
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  Speaker 2: fun and making jokes and just like, you know, slightly
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  Speaker 2: laughing at them and then just living in Florida beating
• 11:37
  Speaker 2: the heat with crushed ice.
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  Speaker 1: If I lived in Florida, A, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: My bill, my my air conditioning bill would be up,
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  Speaker 2: would be up. My god, Courtney's dad wants it to
• 11:49
  Speaker 2: be at seventy six.
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  Speaker 1: That's too hot.
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  Speaker 2: That's too hot. Seventy six, seventy six degrees. No, I
• 12:00
  Speaker 2: think that universally, I thought that we sort okay, universally,
• 12:04
  Speaker 2: people assume I think the thermostats at seventy two. That's too
• 12:08
  Speaker 2: hot for me. I wanted to be at seventy right
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  Speaker 2: in Florida. Seventy six feels like you are basically just
• 12:14
  Speaker 2: like putting hot putting hot air on you, just putting
• 12:18
  Speaker 2: so you're yeah, and I get that the bill is high,
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  Speaker 2: you know, I don't know what fans do they have
• 12:23
  Speaker 2: those swamp coolers? Are they just I don't know. I'll
• 12:26
  Speaker 2: tell you another thing. I would absolutely get a pellet
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  Speaker 2: like sonic style ice maker. I would be crunching all
• 12:34
  Speaker 2: day on them soft ices. Honey.
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  Speaker 1: I would not be able to stop.
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  Speaker 2: It'd be soft ice and like electrolyte drinks all day long,
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  Speaker 2: and once I got past a certain age and everything
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  Speaker 2: was fine. Alcohol probably, I mean, I don't know, it
• 12:48
  Speaker 2: was something like that. Probably, I don't know. I don't
• 12:50
  Speaker 2: drink now, but maybe I don't know. I would just gummies.
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  Speaker 2: Who knows what happens when you're hot in Florida and older.
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  Speaker 2: Courtney lives there obviously, and she brought which is wild.
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  Speaker 2: And she also was just like, I like living with
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  Speaker 2: my parents. It's better than any roommates. I'll tell you
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  Speaker 2: right now. I like that retirement lifestyle. I'm like, yeah, Courtney,
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  Speaker 2: I get that too. Courney has always been to me
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  Speaker 2: like refreshingly honest. She seems to have like no airs
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  Speaker 2: about her. She kind of just says things like she
• 13:19
  Speaker 2: just said, like that's the beauty of like why I
• 13:21
  Speaker 2: think she works on a reality show. Courtney dryly says
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  Speaker 2: the absolute truth, and she's kind of like, so I
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  Speaker 2: like it, okay. So basically her parents are like, girl,
• 13:32
  Speaker 2: when we were your age, we had like a whole
• 13:34
  Speaker 2: ass home and kids. And Courtney's like, hmm, must have
• 13:37
  Speaker 2: been nice for you. Yeah, here's the thing. Anyone Courtney's generation,
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  Speaker 2: my generation, all of our parents had better lives than
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  Speaker 2: us at this moment in time, at the time in
• 13:48
  Speaker 2: which we are alive. Now, our parents were killing it,
• 13:51
  Speaker 2: most of them. That's almost generational trauma. I don't want
• 13:56
  Speaker 2: to say it was just like, uh, well something happened, good, free,
• 14:00
  Speaker 2: Oh wait, you fell in love. Oh you already had kids,
• 14:03
  Speaker 2: you already had a house. It was all working out
• 14:05
  Speaker 2: for you. Just like making money, making money on money,
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  Speaker 2: investment accounts. Cool, all of that, just like found your soulmate.
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  Speaker 2: Now you guys are just growing all together. Looked just like,
• 14:12
  Speaker 2: sound alike. Do whatever you want to do. You're just
• 14:14
  Speaker 2: like peas in a pod.
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  Speaker 1: Cool.
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  Speaker 2: Great for you, guys, must be nice. I'll tell you
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  Speaker 2: what I'm doing.
• 14:22
  Speaker 1: Bumble or whatever. That's whatever. Or she's you know, god
• 14:26
  Speaker 1: bless nursing Colte.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, she's nursing him in a way that almost
• 14:31
  Speaker 2: feels a little too much like he broke that ass
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  Speaker 2: leg But she's like shaving him.
• 14:34
  Speaker 1: I don't quite understand why she's shaving him.
• 14:37
  Speaker 2: The top half of him, his hands work, he there
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  Speaker 2: isn't appeal to Coulty, and I am trying to isolate
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  Speaker 2: what it is. I'm going to say that it has
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  Speaker 2: to happen. I'm assuming it has to happen with the
• 14:49
  Speaker 2: following things. Sense of humor, a certain like attention to detail,
• 14:54
  Speaker 2: or like a certain kind of cerebralness that when he
• 14:57
  Speaker 2: points out things about a woman they feel seen. Maybe
• 15:02
  Speaker 2: they like his eyes or his tone of voice. Maybe
• 15:06
  Speaker 2: he comes on sexually strong and feels also at the
• 15:10
  Speaker 2: same time non threatening.
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  Speaker 1: Those are what I'm as.
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  Speaker 2: Those are. I mean, no one's told me, but you
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  Speaker 2: know I'm are Those are things Courtney surely feels bonded
• 15:20
  Speaker 2: by with him, and in a way that she is like,
• 15:23
  Speaker 2: you know, nursing him, allowing to him to live at
• 15:26
  Speaker 2: the parents' house, paying for everything, like and this is
• 15:29
  Speaker 2: a Courtney that we have unabashedly seen. And I mean
• 15:32
  Speaker 2: it goes back to Hunt for Love, which is not
• 15:34
  Speaker 2: that long ago. Who's like, I want to be taken
• 15:36
  Speaker 2: care of. I want a man to pay the bills.
• 15:40
  Speaker 2: I want to be taken care of. I don't want
• 15:41
  Speaker 2: to have a job. I want to be you know,
• 15:43
  Speaker 2: in that traditional gender old life. She wants the soft life.
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  Speaker 2: Or this is what she has told us in the
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  Speaker 2: way I told you, she just unabashedly, dryly says the truth.
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: She has said.
• 15:53
  Speaker 2: That's what she wanted, and then we have watched her
• 15:55
  Speaker 2: turn around and do the absolute opposite, which is, like,
• 16:00
  Speaker 2: you know, bex, the question why, which is why I
• 16:02
  Speaker 2: tried to give us reasons, which why fall in love
• 16:06
  Speaker 2: with Colti? Why?
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: Now? To me, if you were watching Hunt.
• 16:10
  Speaker 2: For Love, surely there is no I mean Colty as
• 16:15
  Speaker 2: if it was just Colty and usman Courtney and I
• 16:18
  Speaker 2: don't know, God bless you and you made the choice
• 16:19
  Speaker 2: you made, but it's not right, like there's other people
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: in this world. There's anything other people in the nine
• 16:24
  Speaker 2: to day franchise, you know, I'm just like please.
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: But here we are.
• 16:29
  Speaker 2: So basically at this point, they're gonna go golf with
• 16:33
  Speaker 2: her parents. Now we assume that when she's like, do
• 16:36
  Speaker 2: you want to go golf my parents, He's like, yeah, that
• 16:38
  Speaker 2: sounds fine, gets some like fresh air time, and she
• 16:40
  Speaker 2: like baits him, shaves him all the stuff.
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: They're like, oh my god.
• 16:42
  Speaker 2: No. They start talking about the like they you know,
• 16:45
  Speaker 2: they golf. They're watching them golf. They're like in the
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: golf cart. They talk about the fact that her parents
• 16:50
  Speaker 2: bone more than they do. They don't have sex. He
• 16:53
  Speaker 2: they've not had penetrative sex. Now we assume that he
• 16:56
  Speaker 2: goes down on her. They get real into the nitty gritty,
• 16:59
  Speaker 2: like he can't keep it up, he can't get it hard,
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: hard enough to penetrate. He's like, it's because the drugs,
• 17:04
  Speaker 2: and it's because I'm in pain. The whole situation, the Courtney,
• 17:08
  Speaker 2: you know, and Confessional is like, I watched him on
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: the show that we're both on.
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be like Sophie being like, oh.
• 17:14
  Speaker 2: My god, I met this guy wild that he happens
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: to be a ninety day fiance, you know it, you know,
• 17:21
  Speaker 2: just like come on. Corney's like, no, I watched this
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: whole season, every season, every girl, and so one thing
• 17:25
  Speaker 2: I know about him is that he stays horny. He's like,
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: you know, a bunny. He likes to put it in.
• 17:32
  Speaker 2: And that's true.
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: We have seen that.
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: It's another interesting thing that we've seen, like very much
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: about him is that Colty seems to have a type.
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: Colty has a type.
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: It's Larissa, it's Vanessa, it's the other girl from Brazil.
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: You know. He has a type, and it's Latina. You
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: know he likes him. Yeah, he likes Latina Brazilian women,
• 17:55
  Speaker 2: you know. But Vanessa'm not quite sure if she was Brazilian,
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: but he likes a fiery personality, you know, perhaps like
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: darker features, perhaps like you don't know if it translates
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: to bodies silhouette, but you know, like he seems to
• 18:09
  Speaker 2: equate that kind of like passionate Latin culture with like
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: how he wants the energy and vibe of his women's
• 18:16
  Speaker 2: slash sexual partners, and he's going to elaborate, don't you worry.
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: So basically then he talks to his friend. So this
• 18:23
  Speaker 2: is what happens after that conversation. Honey in the golf cart,
• 18:27
  Speaker 2: watching the cutest couple golf, and the courney's dad's real
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: good making them home in ones. You know, I'm just
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: like so happy for them. I just like the idea
• 18:35
  Speaker 2: of like, yeah, growing old with someone and doing fun
• 18:37
  Speaker 2: activities and then being turned on that they're good at
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: it and then going home and just like absolutely like
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: having so much sex, also having a home to do it,
• 18:44
  Speaker 2: also having so much like financial freedom and retirement funds
• 18:48
  Speaker 2: that are like, yeah, the kids we made forty years
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: ago can come back and hang out with us.
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: We have enough to spare. How good for them anyway.
• 18:56
  Speaker 2: So then Courtney decides to go have like some chill
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: fun girl time with her friends Sandy, Lexie, and Marie
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: at a pool, and she also like goes full on
• 19:08
  Speaker 2: into the pool like with her pool cover up on
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: Courtney Yeah, Courtney Yeah, I was like, girl'll take that off?
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: Why are taking that out?
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: You want?
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: Come on? Corney's hot. Corney, I feel like.
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: Doesn't think she's hot, as she has some insecurity issues
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: and I get it, but I mean I think that
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: I would love her to like lean into someone thinking
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: that someone. I would love her to lean into someone
• 19:29
  Speaker 2: making her feel hot. And Colty isn't for lots of reasons, hey,
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: because he won't fuck her. She's feeling awkward by that
• 19:35
  Speaker 2: she doesn't feel like hot and turned on by that
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: she feels like he's not attracted to her. And Courtney
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: is so beautiful. And Courtney though, however, is like blonde,
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: you know, like blonde, the biggest blue eyes you ever
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: saw obviously, you know, like put them blue eyes right
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: from her mom, wildly big round. She's still pretty, you know.
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: I wonder though, if she has just like different looking
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: features than the one that you know colds us to anyway,
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: So then Colty talks to Mark, his friend, who's like
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: some dude on FaceTime. Colti has literally no one to
• 20:05
  Speaker 2: go to him, like how we can't live with Mark? Then,
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: and like recoup with Mark? How come Mark isn't shaving you?
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: And that's when he's like, Mark, it's hard, I'll tell
• 20:13
  Speaker 2: you right now. Like sex, you know, it's like it's whatever.
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: It's it's hard to like forget Mark, you know what,
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: It's hard to forget the memories, the memories of being
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: with a fiery Brazilian who will just lob on my
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: knob like it's the last dick she'll ever see, like
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: it's the only thing that will dispense mother's milk.
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: Like you're just like what you know? It's like he
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: is graphic. You're like, Chris, so are you?
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: And I'm like, I know, Mark, here's this and he's
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: like yeah, man, I know, and Colty's like yeah.
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: With Courtney's just just.
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: Like it's funny because for as much as Colty and
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: Courtney say about their sex life, he doesn't fuck her.
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: He won't put it in. He eats her out, she
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: does whatever she like, touches it or whatever. I don't
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: know if Courtney puts it in her mouth off that much.
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: And I also am assuming by this conversation that if
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: she does, she's not excited by the act of filatio.
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: She's not excited by the act of filatio with Colty. Now,
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: lots of things can come up. First of all, she's
• 21:16
  Speaker 2: nursing him, she's washing him. She's like was she's caretaking him.
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: It's not hot to give someone a sponge bath and
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: then try and like worship the deep.
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like, that's not hot. Not hot.
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: And it's like so early on in the relationships and
• 21:33
  Speaker 2: it's like, you know, it's only been a month and
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: she's like I feel like I know you. It's like
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: I know you so well, but it's like we don't
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: really know each other. And it's like, yeah, girl, you
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: just watched these episodes of television.
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: And the other part.
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: Of it is like maybe Courtney's just like, h that's enough,
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: I'm good.
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: Put it in.
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: You know, like a lot of girls are now spoiler alert,
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: they're not together, so you know, the seeds are sown.
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: This was a bad choice on all their parts, unless
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: the producers were like, look, he broke his leg, Courtney.
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: I don't if you like usman, but that's what's coming
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: for you. So if you want to be on the
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: next season of Single Life, just do something right now,
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: just make it, make a choice, and then we'll bring
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: you on. And that could have happened and it was.
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: It would have been smart. Now, Chris Farah the podcast
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: ninety Day Insider will tell you that when I went
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: to the Hunt for Love ninety day party, Colty Courtney
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: were there. The other cast up Hunt for Love, which
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: now seems like yesteryear. But Elise, who we now know
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: is going to be on Single Life. I'm sorry, Elise,
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: who's going to be.
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: On before.
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: Before the ninety days and that episode is going to
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: happen next week.
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: I'm so excited.
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: Okay, she was on there. All those people are at
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: the party. Colty and Courtney did not interact at the party,
• 22:51
  Speaker 2: so that was already after they shot. That's when we're
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: gonna air Hunt for Love. We're assuming that that's maybe
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: even after Single Life. They did not hung hang out
• 23:01
  Speaker 2: at the party. They didn't really talk that much. Now
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: you could be like maybe producers were like, don't you
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: guys let on that you're in a relationship. Who knows,
• 23:08
  Speaker 2: But it felt like they were already had been over
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: that and then like had moved on. Okay, so then
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: fucking Colty is like another thing.
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: I've always been cheating. You know that I've been cheating.
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: I like them women, and I'm I went to Hunt
• 23:22
  Speaker 2: for Love, but I had met another woman online Brazil.
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: He's like a Gino. They like to go online and
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: meet people like could you like disgusting? But I can
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: see a world in which Nani fiance makes like niney
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: fiancee Pez Poort Bros. And it's fucking Gino, It's Colty.
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: You know, it could be Rick, it could be Luke,
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: and it's just like these gross ass guys that go
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: overseas looking for women.
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: Because that's basically what's happening now.
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: They were not going to make that show because it'd be,
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: you know, really problematic, but think about it, because they
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: would because that's what's happening.
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: So basically, like, yeah, before I went for a Hunt
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: for Love, I met this other girl, Diana, Diana online.
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: I haven't met her yet, I'm still talking to her.
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: So this asshole is talking to Diana while he's living
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: in Courtney's parents' home and they're paying for everything, including
• 24:12
  Speaker 2: the ac that he thinks should be you know, put down,
• 24:15
  Speaker 2: and she's spongebanthing and shaving him and giving him lackluster
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: blowjobs that he thinks should be better. And that's the
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: world we live in. That's the world we live in.
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: How did we get here? How the hell? How do
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: we write the ship? How do we do we have
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: a meeting? How do we okay it's not just women?
• 24:36
  Speaker 2: How do we as a society make relationships and dating
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: better so that across the board people are satisfied, Like
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: people feel loved and happy and fulfilled because the genos
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: aren't right, like they're gonna end up alone. And Colti
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: for sure will like no one from these situations except
• 24:55
  Speaker 2: for the women that find that move on and learn
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: how to like spot good men, our good relationships, good partners,
• 25:02
  Speaker 2: change the things about themselves that want to like cater
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: to and help shitty weak men, Like how how do
• 25:10
  Speaker 2: we write the ships in our souls, in our hearts
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: and as a society for the betterment of all? Because
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: I and Courtney want to be Courtney's parents, you know,
• 25:21
  Speaker 2: but the Colties stand in our way. Anyway, Please tell me,
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: I really want to know Okay.
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: See, let's move on.
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: Let's move on to kim Bali. So obviously this is
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: hot in the heels on the fact that Kimberly has
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: laid bare her soul and a lot of her past,
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: which includes the fact that she was in the army
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: and in a dysfunctional relationship with Jamal and also highly
• 25:47
  Speaker 2: insecure and therefore not able to either set the boundaries
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: or get herself out of relationships, and or kept having
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: unprotected sex and just kept getting knocked up. That's what
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: kept happening. So and she kept giving up for adoption.
• 26:05
  Speaker 2: So she did it twice, right, So that's what we
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: know now. Larry was the first. Then Jamal happened, and
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: then she told and then look, she gave Larry up
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: for adoption.
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: She kept Jamal. She has a very close relationship with Jamal.
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: We know this.
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: She tells Jamal about Larry only after Larry had reached
• 26:22
  Speaker 2: out and found her online. But she had told Jamal
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: about his sister, and she had told him all about
• 26:31
  Speaker 2: his sister at thirteen, and she Kimberly is like, yeah,
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: I just told him about one and that felt like
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: and so much of a shame for me that I
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: had done that that the thought of saying I had
• 26:46
  Speaker 2: done her twice was almost like too it was too much.
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: Was almost was absolutely too much. That's why Kimberly is
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: like going through what to have to admit it. She
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: is like, I can't. She's like every time she says that,
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: she's like, this was hard for me. I'm having do
• 27:00
  Speaker 2: you think it wasn't hard for me? It was hard
• 27:01
  Speaker 2: for me to do this whole time. And I think
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: that she knows that she's going to get a lot
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: of flack for her parenting style. But the truth of
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: the matter is I don't know what to say. There's
• 27:12
  Speaker 2: no right answers. What you know, she could have been like, yeah,
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: I had a relationship with Jamal's dad and I had
• 27:21
  Speaker 2: two unwanted pregnancies and I terminated them. And you know,
• 27:24
  Speaker 2: people in this country be like, no, fuck you or
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: you're a horrible person. You're going to go to this
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: and how dare you kill those babies?
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: And whatever?
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: They're bless right people. And then she put babies up
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: for adoption. She didn't abort them, she put them up
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: for adoption, and there are people that are going.
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: To be like, how dare you do that? How dare
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: you keep doing it? How dare you? Why would you
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: do that to them?
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: Like? Why, what's wrong with you? Why? Why did you
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: make those mistakes? Why did you have unprotected unprotected sex?
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: As if people don't have, you know, as if people
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: don't It's very easy to judge people about the way
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: they live, and it's very easy to judge people on
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: reality shows. It's very easy to judge people about things
• 28:08
  Speaker 2: that they vulnerably share about themselves. It's very easy to
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: judge people about their sexuality, in the way that they move.
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: It's very easy to judge women. It's very easy to
• 28:19
  Speaker 2: judge parent you know, parents and parenting styles, and it's
• 28:23
  Speaker 2: very easy to judge mothers. And I'm not saying that
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: some don't deserve it, and I'm not saying I haven't,
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: just that it's.
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: Easy only two.
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: I all don't know what it's like to be in
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: the army, to be in a military.
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: I don't know what it's like to be in a sharpshooter.
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: I don't know what it's like to like have to
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: be trained like that or to be in a military situation.
• 28:41
  Speaker 2: I don't know what it's like to have that on
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: my nervous system, but also have like somehow someone that
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: I'm sexually into in a romantic relationship with also a
• 28:49
  Speaker 2: dream this doing this experiment with me, I mean, doing
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: this experience with me, but that person is going through
• 28:55
  Speaker 2: and has their own demons. I mean, this is like
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: a life I cannot imagine. She seems to have a
• 29:01
  Speaker 2: lot of guard up about this part of her life,
• 29:04
  Speaker 2: but when she talks about it, it's like, I wish
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: I knew more about what it was like back then.
• 29:08
  Speaker 2: When she shows pictures of herself, it's fascinating. You know, Yeah,
• 29:12
  Speaker 2: there's arguably there shouldn't be, probably, but there's not reality
• 29:17
  Speaker 2: shows about young people in the military like what that is,
• 29:21
  Speaker 2: and you know, it's like, you know, yeah, it's American
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: Defense Forces. So I'm not technically saying that a reality
• 29:29
  Speaker 2: show is like important for that, and yet I'm just
• 29:34
  Speaker 2: saying because I enjoy the insular view on something that
• 29:40
  Speaker 2: I wouldn't have normally because I'm on the outside. And
• 29:43
  Speaker 2: then again, I've talked about probably That's why I like
• 29:47
  Speaker 2: the TLC shows that had to do with family structures,
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: like Mormonism or you know, the Travelers, all that stuff.
• 29:54
  Speaker 2: Anything that like amish when you can just be like,
• 29:56
  Speaker 2: what's that life? Like, I wouldn't know. Same thing with
• 30:00
  Speaker 2: Terry people. The training involves it. I watched you know,
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: Special Forces because again I just brought up Sister Wives
• 30:08
  Speaker 2: kind of because of course Cody on and it is
• 30:11
  Speaker 2: very interesting. You know, that's just so different from like
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: my theater kid improv, comedy, theater artists, commercial actor life,
• 30:21
  Speaker 2: you know, like I'm so undisciplined times, and I wish
• 30:26
  Speaker 2: I was just like, it's just seems like a different world,
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: a different galaxy. Okay, So basically, yeah, she feels badly
• 30:34
  Speaker 2: Jamal doesn't trust her. Jamal doesn't so basically, Larry's coming
• 30:38
  Speaker 2: and she has to tell Larry babe, like it's not
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: just you and Jamal, there's also the other one. And
• 30:44
  Speaker 2: Jamal's like, I don't even trust the way you're gonna
• 30:45
  Speaker 2: tell Larry. And Jamal feels now protective of Larry, his
• 30:49
  Speaker 2: older brother, you know, So we'll see about that, Okay,
• 30:53
  Speaker 2: my loves. Let's move on to Sophie, and this is
• 30:56
  Speaker 2: Sophie Pedro, Liz and Julia, though there's no really Liz situation,
• 31:00
  Speaker 2: although she's talked about, oh one thing I want to
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: say about before I move on is that Kimberly has
• 31:06
  Speaker 2: obviously a fascination for Shanil Chanille's He say that her
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: whole couch, all of our pillows, all of our blankets,
• 31:12
  Speaker 2: is that like soft fabric that people like love in
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: pillows and blankets and in sweaters.
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: She really like went in on it. She loves. I mean,
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: you know, then you're like, how much the cat hair
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: is on that couch? Okay?
• 31:27
  Speaker 2: As I said Sophie, So basically Petro, as we know,
• 31:31
  Speaker 2: doesn't know what she wants. You know that she hooked
• 31:33
  Speaker 2: up with Pedro sorry hates that she hooked up with
• 31:37
  Speaker 2: Rob recently, you know, even though they're like not really
• 31:42
  Speaker 2: like they're not divorced yet, and Petro thought that Sophie
• 31:46
  Speaker 2: had moved on completely, but no, uh, Pedro obviously hasn't
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: watched the show either with Sophie because like every time
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: that Sophie's on, she's been like back and forth with Rob.
• 31:54
  Speaker 2: They obviously, you know, like they are of the generation
• 31:57
  Speaker 2: of like snapchat and texting. All it takes is one
• 32:00
  Speaker 2: what you do in wyd to get shit back on.
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 32:03
  Speaker 2: So basically Pedro then goes up to villain and Liz
• 32:07
  Speaker 2: and is like, is Sophie talking about me in such
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: a way that's like, oh, that's so insecure, and he
• 32:12
  Speaker 2: is insecure about it. He's not being like, hey, guys,
• 32:14
  Speaker 2: what's up. How are you guys doing? Are you enjoying
• 32:16
  Speaker 2: life here? They're like, hey, guys, did Sophie talk about me?
• 32:18
  Speaker 2: Which you know feels a little hungry, and Liz is like, well,
• 32:24
  Speaker 2: just like no, that she is enjoying her time here
• 32:27
  Speaker 2: and this is so fun, just like you know, yeah,
• 32:29
  Speaker 2: she's just you know, still healing from her past. That's
• 32:33
  Speaker 2: what she says to Pedro. But Pedro takes it to
• 32:36
  Speaker 2: another level. He feels like he's coming on strong and
• 32:41
  Speaker 2: is she ready for a relationship. We cut to Sophie.
• 32:44
  Speaker 2: Sophie's in her room with Julia and she's like, girl, hey, girl,
• 32:47
  Speaker 2: let's pick a soup's cute outfit. It's like my day
• 32:49
  Speaker 2: going to the beach slash day with Pedro? Should I
• 32:52
  Speaker 2: wear this yellow, tight body con super hot dress? And
• 32:56
  Speaker 2: I'm in like, I was like put it on girls
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: and looks so good and Julia is like, yeah, it's beachy.
• 33:00
  Speaker 2: And then she's like, oh shaw, where this red number
• 33:02
  Speaker 2: Julie looks at the red number. She's like, well, he's
• 33:03
  Speaker 2: me staying at your boobs the whole time. And Julia's like, great, okay,
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: red number, Julia, I'm sorry, is right.
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: Sophie puts on the red number and.
• 33:11
  Speaker 2: It's like just like a bikini, like a well, I
• 33:13
  Speaker 2: ever got what it's called triangle square bikini.
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: It's kind of like fruit fruit.
• 33:19
  Speaker 2: I call it like fruit netting bikini.
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: I don't know. Anyway, she'lls hot. Sophie is so you know.
• 33:27
  Speaker 2: Ideal, ideal for consumption, you know, like that it is
• 33:33
  Speaker 2: exciting to specifically be in the vantage point of like
• 33:39
  Speaker 2: the camera behind her and watch men react to the
• 33:43
  Speaker 2: vision of her, which is what we get, Like we
• 33:46
  Speaker 2: get exactly what I said. She walks in with her
• 33:49
  Speaker 2: like just you know, really hot body, and we get
• 33:53
  Speaker 2: Pedro's reaction, which is like you are stunning, you are
• 33:57
  Speaker 2: be beautiful, and she's thanks, and she's like do you
• 34:01
  Speaker 2: like my hair curly? You straight?
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: You know, and he's like.
• 34:04
  Speaker 2: Weahlah both, you know, He's like you're so hot, and
• 34:08
  Speaker 2: she really has him wrapped around her finger and she
• 34:10
  Speaker 2: knows it. And here's where it gets like interesting.
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: She sits down.
• 34:16
  Speaker 2: They go to like this beautiful like fruity kind of
• 34:18
  Speaker 2: like fruit filled fruit Ford breakfast.
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: Lunch thing lunch. There's so much like fruit. Oh my god,
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: I die for it. Give me a watermelon, me like pineapple.
• 34:25
  Speaker 2: Give me like ripe ass pineapple, like almost brown, not
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: really just golden, just the just golden pineapple. Petro for
• 34:32
  Speaker 2: some reason, thought they were exclusive, which Sophie was like, nope,
• 34:36
  Speaker 2: not ever. Now, even in Pedro's talk to us previously,
• 34:43
  Speaker 2: we assumed that they weren't exclusive. We assumed and Mauiyamimi
• 34:49
  Speaker 2: that they had hung out a couple of times at
• 34:52
  Speaker 2: some clubs or whatever that he was like, Hey, you know,
• 34:54
  Speaker 2: the cameras are going to follow me.
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: We're both on the show.
• 34:57
  Speaker 2: My sister loves being on the show, so and it's
• 35:00
  Speaker 2: cheap to like film here. So we'll throw a party
• 35:03
  Speaker 2: for our sister. Why don't you like come hang out
• 35:04
  Speaker 2: and we'll date or like we'll see what's happening. That's
• 35:07
  Speaker 2: what it seems like. And Sophie was like, cool, I'll
• 35:09
  Speaker 2: look hot, you know me, and bring some friends. Now,
• 35:12
  Speaker 2: Pedro's like, we're exclusive, and that just doesn't feel like
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: it's true. It just doesn't feel like they're actually exclusive,
• 35:19
  Speaker 2: Like he's not calling her my girlfriend, like he did
• 35:21
  Speaker 2: introduce her as my girlfriend. If he thought she was exclusive,
• 35:24
  Speaker 2: he would have been saying my girlfriend the whole time.
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: They would have been booed up. They're not boot up.
• 35:28
  Speaker 2: He definitely feels like he thinks he's in the courtship
• 35:33
  Speaker 2: state of this and he's doing a good job. He's
• 35:37
  Speaker 2: actually doing all the things that you know would be
• 35:39
  Speaker 2: lovely someone, like treating you like a queen, putting so
• 35:42
  Speaker 2: much effort, like making you feel like you're irresistible, like craveable,
• 35:46
  Speaker 2: how hot you are, you know, And Sophie's like Sophie,
• 35:49
  Speaker 2: for all intents and purposes, does have probably other suitors,
• 35:53
  Speaker 2: and she makes it known that she is allowing her
• 35:57
  Speaker 2: time to be spent considering all her options.
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: And it's funny. It's like from a game.
• 36:03
  Speaker 2: Playing point of view, like from like the nineties, like
• 36:05
  Speaker 2: the rules, you know, like that kind of like this
• 36:08
  Speaker 2: is what you do to like hook men, Like that's
• 36:10
  Speaker 2: what you're supposed to be doing. You're like, you know,
• 36:12
  Speaker 2: and that kind of like yeah, never always be dating
• 36:15
  Speaker 2: multiple people. Never let a man, you know, like until
• 36:19
  Speaker 2: he's whatever you're chosen one like vet him and like
• 36:23
  Speaker 2: make him think of other people and blah blah blah.
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: It's so interesting. It's like, yeah, I guess that's supposed
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: to be the thing.
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: Now. I don't know if either one of these people
• 36:33
  Speaker 2: think the other one is like for them forever. Pedro
• 36:36
  Speaker 2: seems to be like I want to have kids with her,
• 36:38
  Speaker 2: which I love that for him because he's going to
• 36:40
  Speaker 2: be taught a lesson, which is I don't know why
• 36:42
  Speaker 2: you think that what part of her has like kept
• 36:45
  Speaker 2: you thinking that she's me great mam material boy? Do
• 36:47
  Speaker 2: you have like you know, a certain type. It's just that, Yeah,
• 36:53
  Speaker 2: I love I love this for everyone, and I feel
• 36:57
  Speaker 2: like I need to be taught a lesson too. I
• 36:59
  Speaker 2: like to think that I don't fuck around with anyone
• 37:03
  Speaker 2: until I like them, until I know I like them,
• 37:06
  Speaker 2: and then I'm like, oh, good, good, I really like anyone,
• 37:10
  Speaker 2: but I do like you, So let's just fucking fuck
• 37:14
  Speaker 2: playing games and just like enjoy this. But I think
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: that other people live in this like other world where
• 37:22
  Speaker 2: you have to like be like I don't know, okay
• 37:25
  Speaker 2: or whatever. You have to just be like really blase
• 37:28
  Speaker 2: about it or guarded or in a place of not
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: wanting to be in a relationship but still trying.
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: It's like I'm either wanting to be in a relationship
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: or not in the minute I decide that I want to,
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: then I kind of just go through my life and
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: I really meet people I like.
• 37:45
  Speaker 2: But then if I actually want to be in a
• 37:46
  Speaker 2: relationship and actually meet someone I like, then I'm like
• 37:48
  Speaker 2: that's interesting. And if that person likes me again, then
• 37:51
  Speaker 2: I'm like, Okay, cool, can we just do this? Then
• 37:54
  Speaker 2: I think it's annoying to have to like move on
• 37:57
  Speaker 2: from that. But I guess there's all the other parts
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: of it. People don't want to be in a relationship,
• 38:03
  Speaker 2: yet they're meeting people, people think they want to be
• 38:05
  Speaker 2: in a relationship yet they don't, or people are just
• 38:09
  Speaker 2: biding their time and wanting suitors, which I guess, you know,
• 38:13
  Speaker 2: is that it does seem like Sophie wants attention over
• 38:18
  Speaker 2: a relationship. And why I bring that up is this
• 38:21
  Speaker 2: next point. So then Pedro says something Banana Ramo's crazy,
• 38:26
  Speaker 2: which is like he says that Liz said that Sophie
• 38:30
  Speaker 2: thinks that he's like maybe coming on too strong with
• 38:32
  Speaker 2: the stuff in the van that's.
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: Not what Liz said.
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: And then Sophie is like immediately mad at Liz. She's like, well,
• 38:38
  Speaker 2: don't me really know Liz? And now Liza saying, like
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: talking about me, It's like, no, Liz didn't a All
• 38:44
  Speaker 2: Liz says said is that you are still healing from
• 38:48
  Speaker 2: your relationship with Rob, which is what you said that
• 38:51
  Speaker 2: you already told Pedro. In fact, now you're gonna like
• 38:54
  Speaker 2: put ten toes down that you've been saying to Pedro
• 38:56
  Speaker 2: this whole time. You're not exclusive, You're still healing from
• 39:00
  Speaker 2: your relationship with Rob, and that's why you're here, which
• 39:03
  Speaker 2: is verbatim what Liz said. So why are you upset
• 39:08
  Speaker 2: at Liz? Why did Pedro say like weird things? It's
• 39:12
  Speaker 2: like he's tried to say that's what Liz made him
• 39:14
  Speaker 2: feel like, but that's not what Liz said. It does
• 39:17
  Speaker 2: seem like Sophie wants male attention, Pedro attention. But why
• 39:22
  Speaker 2: I say male attention is that I don't necessarily know
• 39:25
  Speaker 2: if it needs to be Pedro's. I wonder if there's
• 39:28
  Speaker 2: something into wanting male attention over a relationship. And if
• 39:34
  Speaker 2: you want male attention over a relationship, then surely you
• 39:37
  Speaker 2: don't get like emotionally attached just to one fucking man,
• 39:40
  Speaker 2: because you're like, fuck you. If you're not giving me attention,
• 39:43
  Speaker 2: then I'll just find the person that is. And maybe
• 39:46
  Speaker 2: that's what turned men like pedro on because they feel
• 39:50
  Speaker 2: like then they're like, then their ability to have access
• 39:55
  Speaker 2: to this person is fickle because she doesn't want a
• 39:58
  Speaker 2: relationship with you. She just wants attention from any man,
• 40:00
  Speaker 2: and if you're not giving it, then she'll move on.
• 40:02
  Speaker 2: It's so like the thought process is so interesting and specifically,
• 40:06
  Speaker 2: I guess I'm talking about this because I don't feel
• 40:09
  Speaker 2: like a Sophie. I'm not like super hot. I'm not
• 40:13
  Speaker 2: super hot. I think that I'm beautiful, truly. I think
• 40:16
  Speaker 2: everyone has beauty in their own way. But Sophie's version
• 40:18
  Speaker 2: of like beauty and hotness is truly, like, you know,
• 40:22
  Speaker 2: a crystal clear version of like ideal hotness for men.
• 40:27
  Speaker 2: Men male view hotness for sure totally, and I get that.
• 40:31
  Speaker 2: And so I guess when we're talking about like what
• 40:35
  Speaker 2: men want, I have to assume that I don't know
• 40:38
  Speaker 2: and that Sophie does in some ways, so what certain
• 40:41
  Speaker 2: men want. And it's like very interesting to consider the
• 40:45
  Speaker 2: psychology behind it, how you think of things, how you maneuver,
• 40:51
  Speaker 2: how you present, and how you want connection and love
• 40:56
  Speaker 2: to come into your heart and life. Because yeah, because
• 41:01
  Speaker 2: I do think that there's like something maybe that is
• 41:03
  Speaker 2: like too pure about my version of it, or maybe
• 41:06
  Speaker 2: pure is a bad word. Anyway, I'm going to lean
• 41:09
  Speaker 2: into it. So we'll see what happens. But Petro's taking
• 41:11
  Speaker 2: a back seat, honey, Like now he's not even be
• 41:13
  Speaker 2: texting her, which maybe is like good. Maybe he will
• 41:16
  Speaker 2: play a little game, like maybe that's what it is.
• 41:17
  Speaker 2: Maybe now Pedro has to act uninterested, not text her,
• 41:21
  Speaker 2: and then she'll be like, oh my god, where is he?
• 41:23
  Speaker 2: I neeed him to see this new hot pink outfit,
• 41:26
  Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, and then maybe they'll get together.
• 41:28
  Speaker 2: I have no idea, babes, who knows? Yeah, I I.
• 41:33
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• 41:34
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• 41:38
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• 41:42
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• 41:46
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• 41:49
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• 41:54
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• 41:57
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• 41:59
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• 42:03
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• 44:16
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• 44:18
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• 44:48
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• 44:50
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