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Do all straight guys do this thing we saw on Love Island USA?! · Scotty and Abby UNFILTERED

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  Speaker 1: Tampa Bay's Best music is.
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  Speaker 2: Nine and welcome to another episode of Scotti and Abby Unfiltered.
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  Speaker 2: We're coming back after the whole Father's Day weekend, and
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  Speaker 2: I was sitting here thinking, wait a second, I think
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  Speaker 2: I did screw up Father's Day. And I was talking
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  Speaker 2: earlier in the show about how some people were mad
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  Speaker 2: that I didn't post my dad on Father's Day. That's
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  Speaker 2: not where I think I screwed up. I think I
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  Speaker 2: screwed up because I actually didn't even like send my
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  Speaker 2: dad anything. Like I didn't get him a gift. I
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  Speaker 2: didn't send him a card. I simply gave him a
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  Speaker 2: phone call. And I'm wondering, is that enough? Do you
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  Speaker 2: think that is a good enough you know, as the
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  Speaker 2: best son. I'm just joke, I think my brother is
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  Speaker 2: is that a good enough gift?
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  Speaker 3: I think it depends, like my dad can buy himself
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  Speaker 3: anything that if I feel, if you're gonna give them
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  Speaker 3: a gift, you have to give them something that they
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  Speaker 3: can't buy themselves.
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  Speaker 2: And I don't know what I could do in my
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  Speaker 2: state of coming up in a career versus my dad
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  Speaker 2: has done well in his career.
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  Speaker 1: He's got his own business.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, Like what am I gonna do send my dad
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  Speaker 3: to Saint Trepe?
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  Speaker 2: No? I can't do any of those things. And so
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  Speaker 2: I did give my dad a call. We had a
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  Speaker 2: nice conversation. It just makes me wonder, I'm like trying
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  Speaker 2: to put myself in those shoes way down the line.
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  Speaker 2: Let me just go ahead and picture thirty years from now.
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  Speaker 2: I now have a son and all he does on
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  Speaker 2: Father's Day is give me a phone call.
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  Speaker 3: What was he appreciative? Did he want you to do
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  Speaker 3: something more? No? I don't think so, Like Steve's probably fine,
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  Speaker 3: it's super chill.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I'm sure so many people, especially in the
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  Speaker 2: podcast family, your friends or family members, once you hit
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  Speaker 2: a certain age, they just get what they want when
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  Speaker 2: they need it.
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  Speaker 3: I even feel that way now, Like at twenty nine,
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  Speaker 3: Like when my birthday came around, I literally didn't even
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  Speaker 3: make a list. I was like, I don't really know
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  Speaker 3: what I want. My mom was like, we'll get you
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  Speaker 3: smack tobear. So like two months later I was like, okay,
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  Speaker 3: I'll buy this. Hey.
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  Speaker 1: I was going to say, like what did people get you?
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  Speaker 2: Cause if you're going to throw like a party, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: Like what do you expect people to get? You and
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  Speaker 2: I say that, and this kind of leads in, like
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  Speaker 2: like girlfriend's birthday is a month away.
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  Speaker 3: While you're trying to figure out what to get your lady.
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  Speaker 2: I have a couple ideas, Like I go off the
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  Speaker 2: I'm not going to get you an item kind of thing,
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  Speaker 2: like I'm going to set up the whole thing. She
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  Speaker 2: knows that now, like I let her know, like I'm
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  Speaker 2: going to plant I got you, don't even worry about it.
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  Speaker 2: And I want to throw in a gift as well,
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  Speaker 2: but it will not be an item technically, it'll be
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  Speaker 2: an experience.
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  Speaker 3: Do I want to know? Do I want to ask? You?
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  Speaker 2: Know?
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  Speaker 1: You can know after I won't say it on the
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  Speaker 1: podcast because she listens. Yeah, you can know this sad.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I think it's different with significant others
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  Speaker 3: because you spend so much time with your boyfriend or
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  Speaker 3: your girlfriend or whoever you're dating that it does feel impersonal.
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  Speaker 3: If you don't get them something or get them some
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  Speaker 3: kind of experience, it's like you didn't you know, listen
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  Speaker 3: to me at all.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you should know me enough to be even even
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  Speaker 2: if it's like something small. Yeah, if it's something I
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  Speaker 2: use every day and you're like Oh, I know they
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  Speaker 2: love this.
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  Speaker 1: They're going to need this.
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  Speaker 3: Uh huh.
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  Speaker 1: It just shows that you're paying attention.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but some people just don't feel loved through gifts anyway.
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  Speaker 3: But some people do, Like if you don't get them
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  Speaker 3: a gift, then it's like, do you not even don't
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  Speaker 3: even care about me.
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  Speaker 2: I was thinking about this this weekend because I was
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  Speaker 2: thinking about my birthday coming up and everyone's asking what
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  Speaker 2: are you going to do for your thirtieth, And I said,
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  Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't have anything necessarily planned. I've
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  Speaker 2: never been someone that's gone big on my birthday. It
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  Speaker 2: just doesn't really I'd rather just see some good people
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  Speaker 2: I love. And if that's the case, I'm cool with it.
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  Speaker 3: I think I'm gonna do a trip for my thirtieth.
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  Speaker 1: That would be the right thing to do.
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  Speaker 2: I think if you could get people on the trip
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  Speaker 2: with you, then it's everything's well, It's.
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  Speaker 3: Like, well, I mean if people want to come, I
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  Speaker 3: have friends, Scott.
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  Speaker 2: Actually, Okay, Well, in that same sentence, what I was
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  Speaker 2: watching a video and my buddy sent me one of
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  Speaker 2: my friends. He's like, and it was all about friendships
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  Speaker 2: and how as time goes on, it just gets harder
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  Speaker 2: and harder to see your friends, and you got to
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  Speaker 2: be so intentional about it. And one of the things
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  Speaker 2: I want to set up with my friend group, the
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  Speaker 2: ones that live all over the country, is like a
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  Speaker 2: yearly trip.
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  Speaker 1: The problem though, and then say this with your birthday
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  Speaker 1: in a year.
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  Speaker 2: If you don't put enough time in front of it
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  Speaker 2: for them, and if people don't properly plan because you might,
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  Speaker 2: they're gonna have to miss it. Which that sucks because
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  Speaker 2: it's like you might have these friends, but they might
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  Speaker 2: not be able to put aside the money to go
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  Speaker 2: on the trip or be able to have that conversation
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  Speaker 2: with their boss to put on the trip.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe.
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  Speaker 3: But I'll be you know, I'm very reasonable, Like I'll
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  Speaker 3: probably get that house. I'll be like, just come here,
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  Speaker 3: come to the house. I will pay for the house.
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  Speaker 3: I'm very big on not making people spend a ton
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  Speaker 3: of money on my birthday. Like I'm not a fan
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  Speaker 3: of that. Like I'm not big on birthday gifts except
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  Speaker 3: for my parents because like they're fine.
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  Speaker 1: It sucks, that's gonna be.
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  Speaker 3: They're also they brought me into this world. That's the
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  Speaker 3: least they can do celebrate me. But like for example,
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  Speaker 3: even when I think about potentially getting married one day,
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  Speaker 3: if if I choose to do a bad shorette party,
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  Speaker 3: which I'm not even sure that I'll do, I want
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  Speaker 3: to pay for literally as much as possible.
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  Speaker 2: That's really nice because I know a lot of different
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  Speaker 2: couples do not have that same mindset.
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  Speaker 3: And I know, and to be fair, like I have
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  Speaker 3: the privilege of even getting to think in that aspect.
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  Speaker 3: But I'm not like, I'm not gonna get a house
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  Speaker 3: in Cabo. It might be like, you know, a hotel
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  Speaker 3: room in for louder deals. I don't know in twenty
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  Speaker 3: forty five. Who knows, I might be super rich in
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  Speaker 3: fifty years when I finally get married.
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  Speaker 2: Well, what I've learned is like those little things, it
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  Speaker 2: really just matters who you're with. Like you could go
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  Speaker 2: anywhere in the world, but if you're not with the
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  Speaker 2: right people, it doesn't matter. Like you could go to
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  Speaker 2: Fort Lauderdale, and if you do, like your core group,
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  Speaker 2: that's literally the fun of it.
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  Speaker 3: That's what I mean. Is like by the time I
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  Speaker 3: do something big, like my thirtieth birthday, it'll be like
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  Speaker 3: me three of my really close friends and I just
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  Speaker 3: want to go to like a couple fun dinners and
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  Speaker 3: take some cute photos. Like that's what when I say
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  Speaker 3: a trip, I mean like maybe come down to Saint Pete.
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  Speaker 3: I'll get a hotel at the away, and like I
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  Speaker 3: just want to take cute picks for a couple of days.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: That kind of puts it in perspective of what I
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  Speaker 2: would want to do for my thirtieth because I'm like
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  Speaker 2: I was thinking this weekend, it would be cool to
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  Speaker 2: get like a house in the Keys. Yeah, you put
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  Speaker 2: a good perspective if I just pay for the whole thing,
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  Speaker 2: get a boat one day, Yeah, do.
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  Speaker 1: A little snorkeling, goat out and do a little drinking.
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  Speaker 3: But like they come down so like you, they have
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  Speaker 3: to buy their flight whatever, But like I will get
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  Speaker 3: the house, you pay for your dinners and stuff. But
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  Speaker 3: let's just hang out, let's have a good time.
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna put that together because that actually sounds like
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  Speaker 2: a lot of fun, because I do want to celebrate something.
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  Speaker 3: You could do a cruise. Cruises are so easy for
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  Speaker 3: people I love, especially out of Tampa. It's like, what
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  Speaker 3: four hundred bucks for a weekend.
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  Speaker 1: It's nothing.
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  Speaker 2: You can literally just pop on and I was just
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  Speaker 2: talking to friends this weekend. Like the cruise is the
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  Speaker 2: that's the fun part. It doesn't even matter where you go.
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  Speaker 2: I'm going to the Bahamas, like I don't know, six times,
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  Speaker 2: and you get to a certain point you're like, I'm
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  Speaker 2: not even gonna get off anymore.
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  Speaker 1: Stay on the cruise.
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  Speaker 3: A cruise with like a big girl guide group. Oh
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  Speaker 3: my god, so fun.
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  Speaker 1: I'm musa start putting together the plants.
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  Speaker 2: I've never really been a planner for these things, so
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  Speaker 2: like that's why it's kind of like, Okay, I'm now
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  Speaker 2: the planner of family activities, now the planner of friend activities,
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  Speaker 2: and well now the one I like is actually like
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  Speaker 2: relationship activities. That's the one I get the most joy
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  Speaker 2: out of. But to be able to put something together
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  Speaker 2: where you try to take away as many excuses as
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  Speaker 2: possible for people. So yeah, and sorry I didn't get
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  Speaker 2: my dad anything. Maybe i'd a venture down the line
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  Speaker 2: would have been nice. I think the call was plenty.
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  Speaker 3: So you love your girlfriend more than your dad, That's
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  Speaker 3: what I'm hearing.
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  Speaker 1: I think.
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  Speaker 3: That's interesting a lot about you.
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  Speaker 1: Oh that is a different man, and.
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  Speaker 3: That literally gave life to you, raised you.
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  Speaker 2: I think he's satisfied with a good call, I'll bring
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  Speaker 2: him a nice pair of socks. When I see him next.
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  Speaker 2: You'll get a nice cushioned pair of socks. Anyway, how
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  Speaker 2: was your weekend?
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  Speaker 3: It was good. I wanted to ask you about this
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  Speaker 3: thing that everybody on Love Island is freaking out about
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  Speaker 3: because I needed a straight man's perspective.
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  Speaker 1: Oh good, I'll go ahead and fit that.
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  Speaker 3: I know you're not watching Love Yeah, I know. I'm like,
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  Speaker 3: Scot's a little gay, but it's fine. So Love Island
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  Speaker 3: USA is the show that everybody is watching on Peacock
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  Speaker 3: if you haven't started watching it. Literally, the sooner you
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  Speaker 3: can get into it, the better. We're probably about halfway
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  Speaker 3: through the season and we're all kind of mad at
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  Speaker 3: the islanders. But the one storyline that people are enjoying
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  Speaker 3: falling along I feel like, is these two guys. They're
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  Speaker 3: both allegedly straight. They're both allegedly in these other couples
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  Speaker 3: with these other women. Their names are Zach and Bryce,
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  Speaker 3: and people are just kind of picking up on the
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  Speaker 3: fact that at least one of them might be by
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  Speaker 3: okay or fully gay and pretending to be straight.
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  Speaker 1: Oh wow, So one of.
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  Speaker 3: The things that happened in the not the last episode,
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  Speaker 3: but the previous episode before that, is they woke up
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  Speaker 3: and they're all hanging out and it's just Zack and
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  Speaker 3: Bryce in the bedroom by themselves, and Zach goes girth
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  Speaker 3: check and they both look at each other's wieners, which
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  Speaker 3: might be kind of funny if it was like a
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  Speaker 3: one off thing, but because we'd already suspected that they
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  Speaker 3: were maybe like into each other, and then they continued
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  Speaker 3: to talk about the size of each other's wieners for
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  Speaker 3: the rest of the day. A lot of people are like,
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  Speaker 3: is that normal straight man behavior? Because I can tell
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  Speaker 3: you women are not doing that. We're not like whossy check,
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  Speaker 3: you know what I mean. We're not like spread up Kathy,
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  Speaker 3: maybe like boobs, but like that's not like that's not
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  Speaker 3: something you're just doing.
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  Speaker 2: That's so fascinating because I have so many different thoughts here.
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  Speaker 2: First off, I will say, right off the bat, yes,
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  Speaker 2: do guys do this?
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  Speaker 1: Really? Yes?
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  Speaker 3: So you have done that with your straight friends. You've
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  Speaker 3: been like.
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  Speaker 1: Length check, Well, we okay, we growing up.
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  Speaker 2: It's a weird thing in the male brain of like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: let me, I just gotta see, like other guys are
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  Speaker 2: packing too.
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  Speaker 1: But when you're growing up, I mean, I've peede.
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  Speaker 2: With my best friends, like we've all seen each other's wieners.
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  Speaker 3: Growing up is.
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  Speaker 1: Different, That's what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 3: So as an adult man, let's say after college twenty
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  Speaker 3: two and.
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  Speaker 1: Up, that's where I go.
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  Speaker 3: Have you ever seen a grown man's wiener?
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  Speaker 1: Not one of my friends? No? Well, okay, say that
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  Speaker 1: because like a lover.
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  Speaker 3: No, Like, if I go to the gym, Monica packing,
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  Speaker 3: I don't know this.
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  Speaker 2: If you go to the gym and you'll see like
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  Speaker 2: guys just getting undressed, you'll see a couple of grown
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  Speaker 2: man Okay, but you.
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  Speaker 3: Haven't asked to see a grown man.
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  Speaker 2: I don't do that Anymore's wait, let me take that
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  Speaker 2: back in Yeah, shoot, no, I would say after like
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  Speaker 2: you get out of college, like you're not like growing
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  Speaker 2: out anymore to see each other's wiener.
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  Speaker 3: That's what I mean.
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  Speaker 2: That is the part of me that's like, y'all, like
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  Speaker 2: that is now a choice that you're making. It's not
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  Speaker 2: even being like, haha funny. But if they still are
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  Speaker 2: in their young twenties, then potentially it's still kind of browie.
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  Speaker 2: But I turned twenty five, and I decided I'm not
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  Speaker 2: going to look at my friends wiener.
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  Speaker 3: You get your frontal load development. You're like, that's not.
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  Speaker 1: I shouldn't be looking at my buddy's wiener.
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  Speaker 3: So I see, I feel like it might be confirmation
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  Speaker 3: and that Zach is for sure into Bryce. I feel
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  Speaker 3: like Bryce is just like a dude. He's like, oh yeah,
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  Speaker 3: Penis Chuck. But I'm watching this go down. I'm like,
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  Speaker 3: Zach is for sure into Brice.
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  Speaker 2: Unless he's so comfortable with his sexuality mane, and he's like, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I don't care, and I'm comfortable with my wiener.
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  Speaker 1: I take a look, and I'll take a look at yours.
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  Speaker 3: I think if he was more into his female partner,
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  Speaker 3: i'd be more like, oh yeah, he's just like brown out.
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  Speaker 3: But I think because he doesn't really seem like he's
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  Speaker 3: that into her ah and he seems like literally in
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  Speaker 3: the last episode and I haven't seen it, but I've
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  Speaker 3: just seen clips he's taught.
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  Speaker 1: I saw this.
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  Speaker 3: He's talking to Bryce and his lady Kada comes over
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  Speaker 3: and tries to talk to him, tries to kiss him,
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  Speaker 3: and he literally goes, dude, I'm talking to Bryce right now.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like there's a hot she's the hottest girl in
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  Speaker 3: the villa. I'm like, there's a hot woman all over you,
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  Speaker 3: and you want to go talk to Bryce right now.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, this is where the guy brain just goes down
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  Speaker 1: the drain.
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  Speaker 3: That's where I'm like, I don't know, there's something, there's
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  Speaker 3: something fruity afoot.
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  Speaker 2: What are the other signs? If I may ask that
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  Speaker 2: you've been like, huh, dude.
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  Speaker 3: It's just kind of like the it's a romance that
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  Speaker 3: just is teetering on the edge of this is a
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  Speaker 3: little bit closer than what you see from the average broman, Like.
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  Speaker 1: You're seeking it out way too much.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, Like they're they'll lay in bed together and just gab,
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  Speaker 3: which is fine, Like women do that, but.
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  Speaker 2: I will say, like, we don't. I mean a lot
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  Speaker 2: of my like we don't just lay in the bed
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  Speaker 2: and gab. Like I will joke with my buddies and
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  Speaker 2: I'll you know, like we'll smack each other's asses like
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  Speaker 2: every now and then, like jokingly or sometimes lightly tap
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  Speaker 2: each other's weener.
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  Speaker 1: That's a weird one, I know, but it is something
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  Speaker 1: we do.
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  Speaker 3: You're saying, I'm not a straight dude, so I don't
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  Speaker 3: know what's considered normal, whereas girls like I'll slap like
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  Speaker 3: you you do it to be funny, Like yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Like it's all in good fun.
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  Speaker 2: But I was just talking to a friend and one
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  Speaker 2: of my friends who is gay, and he was telling
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  Speaker 2: me how him and a buddy were just like laying
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  Speaker 2: in bed gabin and the one friend is like, he's
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  Speaker 2: more bye, I would say, And we were talking. I
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  Speaker 2: was like, yeah, well I want to lay in bed
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  Speaker 2: and gab with you. Because he was asking, He's like,
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  Speaker 2: do you think he's into me? And I was like, well, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I think he has more crush on you if he's
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  Speaker 2: gonna lay in bed and gab with you. Because I'll
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  Speaker 2: be honest, buddy, like I'm not gonna lay in bed
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  Speaker 2: and gab with you.
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  Speaker 1: We're not gonna cuddle up in bed and scroll on
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  Speaker 1: the phone.
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  Speaker 3: So that's not a guy thing. So they did do
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  Speaker 3: that in the bedroom.
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  Speaker 1: Is not something that I would do with my buddies.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, like we may lay there, Like I've definitely slept
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  Speaker 2: in the bed with buddies and the same bed, especially
• 12:19
  Speaker 2: like if it's an airbnb and you don't have any room. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: but there's the kind of the joke of like out
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  Speaker 2: up a pillow wool or don't come cuddle me in
• 12:27
  Speaker 2: the middle of the night.
• 12:28
  Speaker 1: So it depends on how close.
• 12:29
  Speaker 2: But even like my best best friends, Yeah, like, I'm
• 12:32
  Speaker 2: not gonna be cuddled up next to them scrolling on
• 12:34
  Speaker 2: TikTok interesting up in the bed and I'm done looking
• 12:38
  Speaker 2: at their wieners too.
• 12:39
  Speaker 3: So he's like, no more, no more.
• 12:41
  Speaker 1: We put an end to that. I recall it.
• 12:42
  Speaker 3: He's like, I put them to bed in twenty twenty five.
• 12:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not gonna ask anymore.
• 12:46
  Speaker 3: Twenty twenty six is a year of no wieners, I
• 12:49
  Speaker 3: will say, though it might happen one more time on
• 12:51
  Speaker 3: like a bachelor trip or it's like a couple buddies
• 12:54
  Speaker 3: you go pee out in the woods again.
• 12:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and he's kind of jokingly look over at each
• 12:57
  Speaker 1: other's wiener.
• 12:58
  Speaker 3: But I mean I think so I watched it, I
• 13:01
  Speaker 3: was like, is it me projecting that onto men? Because women,
• 13:05
  Speaker 3: I feel like, are much more comfortable being unclothed around
• 13:08
  Speaker 3: their friends. True, Like, and it's not like a normal
• 13:12
  Speaker 3: gay adjacent thing.
• 13:14
  Speaker 2: You know, I'm.
• 13:14
  Speaker 1: Interesting because I do that.
• 13:15
  Speaker 3: Okay, I swear it one hot tub party, I'm saying
• 13:19
  Speaker 3: that because my friend Rebecca shout out, Rebecca love you.
• 13:22
  Speaker 3: She's a big listener of the Unfiltered podcast. She commented
• 13:25
  Speaker 3: on one of our videos on personality hires, and we
• 13:27
  Speaker 3: were doing this game for Pride where we were like,
• 13:30
  Speaker 3: is it gay or not gay? It's a whole thing.
• 13:31
  Speaker 3: Oh my, and she goes hear me out Abby, I'm like, Rebecca,
• 13:35
  Speaker 3: I got naked in a hot tub once because I
• 13:38
  Speaker 3: know swimsuit and I was hammered. I'm okay, I swear,
• 13:43
  Speaker 3: I swear.
• 13:44
  Speaker 1: Gosh. I mean it is fascinating. The bro world is weird.
• 13:47
  Speaker 2: I am more comfortable now, like just walking around and
• 13:49
  Speaker 2: I've warned things let's say that are revealing, and it's
• 13:53
  Speaker 2: been more comfortable and easy to do now. You know what,
• 13:57
  Speaker 2: Maybe they're closer on the spectrum it's wanting to be lovers.
• 13:59
  Speaker 2: Maybe at the end of the season.
• 14:01
  Speaker 1: It's kind of like what do we find out with
• 14:02
  Speaker 1: Like Colton.
• 14:02
  Speaker 2: Underwood and The Bachelor, He's dating all these women and
• 14:05
  Speaker 2: then he's like okay.
• 14:07
  Speaker 3: So that really bothered me because I stood up for
• 14:08
  Speaker 3: him because I came from a really Christian background and
• 14:11
  Speaker 3: so when he was like, oh, I just you know,
• 14:13
  Speaker 3: I haven't had sex because it's a religious thing. I'm like, okay,
• 14:15
  Speaker 3: that seems like valid. Everyone stopped calling him gay because
• 14:18
  Speaker 3: he he has morals or something, and then he came
• 14:21
  Speaker 3: out and he was super gay. What my thing is,
• 14:25
  Speaker 3: how did the girls not pick up on it?
• 14:27
  Speaker 2: Well, that's w I think with the girls, like the
• 14:29
  Speaker 2: part of me that's just like, bro, even if you're
• 14:31
  Speaker 2: browing out, like that's the dumbest thing to do, because
• 14:33
  Speaker 2: guys will do that, like out in Tampa here, yeah,
• 14:35
  Speaker 2: where it's like they'll just be brown out and then
• 14:38
  Speaker 2: a girl will come up and talk and they're like, no,
• 14:40
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna keep talking to the bros. You're an idiot
• 14:43
  Speaker 2: at that point. Yeah, that's why you're not getting laid
• 14:45
  Speaker 2: or getting any attention. Like your bro should be the
• 14:48
  Speaker 2: ones that understand, like, bro, go talk to that beautiful,
• 14:51
  Speaker 2: beautiful woman. And if they don't let you do that,
• 14:54
  Speaker 2: well then you got some weird friends. They should be
• 14:56
  Speaker 2: supporting you as you go out there in the scene like.
• 14:58
  Speaker 3: No, I want to talk to my boy, my boy
• 15:00
  Speaker 3: them bruh boys, you guys do you.
• 15:03
  Speaker 1: Guys have so much time for that? Yeah, talk to
• 15:05
  Speaker 1: the pretty lady.
• 15:06
  Speaker 3: But maybe it's an American thing too. So for example,
• 15:09
  Speaker 3: Zach is British and Bryce is American, and I remember
• 15:14
  Speaker 3: feeling super I'd like take a step back because you know,
• 15:17
  Speaker 3: I love my gaze. I was like, am I homophobic?
• 15:19
  Speaker 3: So when we were in London and in Scotland in December,
• 15:24
  Speaker 3: same to exactly what you were saying, where we would
• 15:28
  Speaker 3: approach these guys and I'm with like some objectively like
• 15:31
  Speaker 3: I'm not saying we're tense, but we're like attractive, fun girls.
• 15:34
  Speaker 3: And we would approach these guys and they just had
• 15:35
  Speaker 3: no interest in talking to us, or they would talk
• 15:38
  Speaker 3: to us, but they would just be like way more
• 15:39
  Speaker 3: into their bros. And a couple of times I did
• 15:42
  Speaker 3: this thing where I'm like, so, you guys like into
• 15:44
  Speaker 3: each other, you guys like lovers, And these guys multiple
• 15:48
  Speaker 3: times would jokingly grab their friends and I'm assuming jokingly
• 15:51
  Speaker 3: would grab their friends and start making out with them
• 15:53
  Speaker 3: in front of me. Oh my god, and I would
• 15:55
  Speaker 3: look at them. I'd be like, so, is that your boyfriend?
• 15:57
  Speaker 1: And they're like, no, this is my bro.
• 15:59
  Speaker 3: And so I I wonder if over there they're just
• 16:01
  Speaker 3: more comfortable and the way that women are comfortable with
• 16:05
  Speaker 3: their bodies. And it's not like a statement about their.
• 16:07
  Speaker 2: Sexuality that could definitely be it. That sounds like it's
• 16:11
  Speaker 2: more of like, oh, yeah, I'm just comfortable in my sexuality.
• 16:14
  Speaker 1: I don't care. I'll kiss my bro.
• 16:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like I I have accidentally kissed the bro once
• 16:19
  Speaker 2: or twice.
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: It's happened.
• 16:21
  Speaker 3: When and how I define accidentally? Like how many times
• 16:26
  Speaker 3: to define accidental?
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: Well, it just depends on how cool I will say,
• 16:29
  Speaker 2: Like I am so comfortable with my sexuality, Like I'll
• 16:31
  Speaker 2: get picked on throughout this entire building. Yeah, Like even
• 16:35
  Speaker 2: I've had friends recently, I've gone out to like get
• 16:37
  Speaker 2: drinks and they're like, oh my.
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: God, I thought you were gay.
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: My friends adjacent like so a friend's acquaintances and like
• 16:45
  Speaker 2: literally the first thing like this happened two weeks ago.
• 16:48
  Speaker 2: I was out to drinks with a buddy and his friend.
• 16:50
  Speaker 2: The first thing they said to me, oh, you're not gay.
• 16:55
  Speaker 2: I said, what, Because I'm friends with somebody that's gay.
• 16:59
  Speaker 2: That makes me gay? No, but I'm comfortable with my sexuality.
• 17:02
  Speaker 2: Like I'll be touchy, lovey dovey all my friends, especially
• 17:05
  Speaker 2: if they're my super close friends. So I guess that
• 17:08
  Speaker 2: does go in line with you so close to.
• 17:09
  Speaker 3: Your accident you're slipping and falling into their lips.
• 17:12
  Speaker 2: Well, okay, there's one time with a buddy where we
• 17:14
  Speaker 2: jokingly went to kiss and we accidentally kissed each other. Okay,
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: the truth is out there. He knows what I'm talking about.
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: We've acknowledged it. It's fine.
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: But that's Okayay, not gay, that's my brother.
• 17:24
  Speaker 2: Okay, it's fine, but comfortable in that sense where I'm like, Okay,
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: you guys can think I'm gay, that's cool.
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I know I'm not.
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: I like to say I like whenever I figured out
• 17:34
  Speaker 2: the whole spectrum thing, and I was like, whoa, that's
• 17:37
  Speaker 2: fascinating where it's like, you know, where somebody could be
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: a little closer to maybe buy or maybe by and
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: maybe the gay and it's like the whole spectrum and
• 17:45
  Speaker 2: you meet all these different people that are like, yeah,
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: like I will not me this is not a quote
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: unquote Scott, but like I will make out with my bro. Okay,
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: maybe you're closer on the spectrum to you know, maybe
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: being in the middle. Yeah, maybe not full gay, but
• 17:58
  Speaker 2: maybe you're just so comfortable in your sexuality that side
• 18:00
  Speaker 2: of he doesn't freak you out, and.
• 18:01
  Speaker 3: Some people were just freaky there just there's into anything.
• 18:04
  Speaker 3: They think there's horny.
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: Oh well in that case, and to be fair, it is.
• 18:07
  Speaker 3: Love Island, USA. He's just probably a horny dude.
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: Honestly, he just wants to get it wherever he can.
• 18:12
  Speaker 3: He's like, yeah, I'm bored with this girl, let me
• 18:13
  Speaker 3: switch it up.
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: It is weird though, with the whole idea of like ignoring,
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: because there's a thing in guy culture that I've noticed
• 18:20
  Speaker 2: where if you listen to the wrong dudes online, they
• 18:23
  Speaker 2: will take you down the wrong path and it's like
• 18:26
  Speaker 2: the whole alpha male thing, or there's a whole thing
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: of like don't show interest to make them more interested
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: in you.
• 18:32
  Speaker 3: No, like the whole Zach bricing that I just explained
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: that it's not the case whatsoever. Like he was genuinely like, no,
• 18:38
  Speaker 3: I'm talking to my friend Bryce.
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: Oh he's not even trying to like play the game.
• 18:41
  Speaker 3: He's like, yeah, because they've already banged. They're the one
• 18:44
  Speaker 3: couple that's banged.
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, and literally.
• 18:47
  Speaker 3: The second after they were done having sex, and they
• 18:50
  Speaker 3: like showed the aftermath, not after aftermath, like the aftermath
• 18:53
  Speaker 3: of them banging. He goes, so, are you gonna be
• 18:55
  Speaker 3: mad at me if I flirt with a bombshell, which
• 18:57
  Speaker 3: basically means like a new person coming into the villa,
• 18:59
  Speaker 3: And she's like, what, oh my, that's what he.
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: Said right after it. Yes, okay, well this guy sucks.
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: This is why this show would just frustrate me, because
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: I hope nobody's taking notes of like yeah, that's that,
• 19:08
  Speaker 2: because I'm like, what the hell, I don't care if
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: you are going to look for love and you're like, okay,
• 19:13
  Speaker 2: that was fine, but like you don't say it right after.
• 19:15
  Speaker 3: I know, like timing my guy time.
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: Or respect, like you just you got to.
• 19:20
  Speaker 3: You were literally just inside her, you know what I mean?
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: This show, I get why people watch it, but like
• 19:27
  Speaker 2: this's somebody who's asking me yesterday, They're like, you watch that?
• 19:29
  Speaker 2: I was like, no, I can't watch that because it
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: just seems like I'd rather light things on fire, including myself.
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: If I was watching that show.
• 19:35
  Speaker 3: That's what the producers are doing, just constantly lighting fire.
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: They found the people that were going to cause the
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: most drama.
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: But it does weirdly make me want to watch it
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: and just see like how people truly think less way
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: because you think it's just TV, but literally people are
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: walking around the streets in the city with that same
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: exact mindset.
• 19:50
  Speaker 3: They're doing that and it's very entertaining. I like that
• 19:52
  Speaker 3: it adds structure to my summer nights, you know, because
• 19:54
  Speaker 3: it gets so it stays late, or it stays a
• 19:57
  Speaker 3: light so late that I feel like it gives me
• 19:58
  Speaker 3: like a wine down routine. Turn on your SIMS, you
• 20:01
  Speaker 3: check in on your SIMS. You see who's screwing over who,
• 20:04
  Speaker 3: and everyone's talking about it that I feel like I'm
• 20:06
  Speaker 3: in the mix. I'm talking about what the people are
• 20:08
  Speaker 3: talking about.
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: I gotta get on that algorithm from Instagram because I
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: want to see what people are talking about and acknowledging
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: from that show.
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: But if you said it's what it's an hour each episode, it's.
• 20:16
  Speaker 3: An hour each episode. I don't know, like the when
• 20:18
  Speaker 3: does Love Island air?
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: Because then I'd have to go one buy peacock and
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: then dive in an hour a day and just to
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: be able to catch up on these you.
• 20:26
  Speaker 3: Can write it off on your taxes.
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: Oh could I? Because I'm reasoning it on the show's.
• 20:29
  Speaker 3: Sitting it on the show. Okay, if you're asking about
• 20:31
  Speaker 3: Love Island USA. New episodes air at nine pm Eastern
• 20:34
  Speaker 3: on Peacock. The current season streams six days a week,
• 20:37
  Speaker 3: with Wednesdays off so and then Saturdays are for after Sun,
• 20:41
  Speaker 3: which is like the the like the.
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: Chatter afterwards, like do you watch it every night at nine?
• 20:47
  Speaker 3: I didn't watch last night because I was busy recording
• 20:50
  Speaker 3: triumpa Bay Monday, but usually I do.
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: I'm impressed. I'm tired for you.
• 20:57
  Speaker 3: I know that's it, but I gotta know. I want
• 20:59
  Speaker 3: to know what people are doing.
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: I get it.
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: I mean, i'd rather you know what's going on in
• 21:02
  Speaker 2: the Love Island world because I'm not going to be
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: the one that watches it. But if it's it just
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: sounds so horrible. Maybe I'll watch the repeats the day after.
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: I'll just be one day behind.
• 21:10
  Speaker 3: Just catch up on TikTok.
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: I just okay, there you go.
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: Because I did see the clip where the guy like
• 21:14
  Speaker 2: opened his shorts and he looked down his buddy's.
• 21:16
  Speaker 3: Pets, and I was like, that's Zach and Bryce.
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: Okay, well there you go. Maybe they just like to
• 21:20
  Speaker 2: see where they're comparing to each other.
• 21:22
  Speaker 3: Yeah, girth check. Should we do a girth check?
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: No, No, we should not. We should go in into
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: the sales meeting.
• 21:28
  Speaker 3: Yeah. And speaking of Trampa Bay, you can still sign
• 21:30
  Speaker 3: up for Trampa Bay get Away. Sign ups closed first,
• 21:33
  Speaker 3: that's next.
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: Week days away link in bio.
• 21:36
  Speaker 3: Link in the episode description.
• 21:37
  Speaker 2: Mofos all right, I know this is a shorter episode.
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: Some people have gotten mad that they're shorter, but some
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: days we just have to go to other meetings, so apologize.
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: More things coming tomorrow