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Marques Houston Explains Why He Didn’t Like Dating Women His Own Age · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: Morning.
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  Speaker 2: Everybody is DJ Envy, Charlamagne de God. We are the
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  Speaker 2: Breakfast Club. Now if you're just joining us, we're talking
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  Speaker 2: about Marcus Houston.
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  Speaker 1: Now.
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  Speaker 2: You know, Marcus Houston was in the news recently because
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  Speaker 2: it came out that he married a nineteen year old
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  Speaker 2: woman and he was talking about why he wanted to
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  Speaker 2: marry a younger woman opposed to women his age, and
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  Speaker 2: this is what he said.
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  Speaker 3: You know, a lot of women my age are very independent.
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  Speaker 3: They are very like, you know, I don't need a
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  Speaker 3: man to do this with me because I could do
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  Speaker 3: this with myself. And I also, I come from a
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  Speaker 3: generation that I'm very very you know, love to provide
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  Speaker 3: for my wife. I love to provide for my woman.
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  Speaker 3: And I'm very in that generation like the old days.
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  Speaker 4: You know, I would never.
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  Speaker 3: Want to be with a woman that felt like, oh,
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  Speaker 3: I don't need you out of you know what I'm
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  Speaker 3: saying like that, So, you know, and there's a lot
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  Speaker 3: of women my age. I've dated women my age, and
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  Speaker 3: you know, they may have baggage, they may have kids,
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  Speaker 3: they may have not you know, it's just there's so
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  Speaker 3: many different women that I've dated throughout my life, and
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  Speaker 3: this just so happened to be the won that heart.
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  Speaker 5: That could be wrong, but I didn't hear Marcus Houston
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  Speaker 5: say I don't date older women, you know, because they
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  Speaker 5: come with baggage. That's why I'm dating a younger woman,
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  Speaker 5: because they don't have any baggage.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't. I didn't get that from what he said.
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  Speaker 5: Just now, the internet might feel like he said that,
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  Speaker 5: but I didn't hear him say that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, he said, women that are my age, like a
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  Speaker 2: lot of women my age, very independent. He says, they
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  Speaker 2: are like, I don't need a man to do this
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  Speaker 2: with me because I can do it for myself. He said,
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  Speaker 2: sometimes dating older women, they come with baggage, they have kids,
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  Speaker 2: And yeah.
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  Speaker 1: He did say that, Well they didn't, but he didn't say.
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  Speaker 5: That's why he didn't say I'm dating an older I'm
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  Speaker 5: dating a younger woman because they don't have no baggage.
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  Speaker 5: Like I don't know, he didn't say that. I didn't
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  Speaker 5: get that from that what he said. But everybody has
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  Speaker 5: baggage at a certain age. I think, like you know
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  Speaker 5: what I mean, Like, if you, you know, forty plus
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  Speaker 5: years old, you're going to have, you know, a traumas
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  Speaker 5: that you might come into a situation with That's why
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  Speaker 5: we always tell people like to go do the work.
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  Speaker 5: Like that's why we encourage people to go to therapy,
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  Speaker 5: you know what I mean, so they can deal with
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  Speaker 5: their traumas before their traumas deal with them. And if
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  Speaker 5: they don't deal with their traumas, they'll bring those traumas
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  Speaker 5: into their relationship, and then those traumas will be projected
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  Speaker 5: onto the person that they're in a relationship with, you
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  Speaker 5: know what I mean. And how many older men we know
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  Speaker 5: over forty that got kids as well? So what does
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  Speaker 5: he mean when he says baggage If you're if you're
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  Speaker 5: of a certain age, you're gonna have some baggage.
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  Speaker 1: Baggage. I'm putting baggage in parenthesies, by the way.
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  Speaker 2: But I do feel like a lot of older men
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  Speaker 2: date younger women for one reason, because they feel like
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  Speaker 2: a younger woman possibly can be controlled easier or more
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  Speaker 2: because they haven't lived their life. They don't really know
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  Speaker 2: as much as an older woman. They haven't lived, as.
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  Speaker 1: People would say.
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  Speaker 2: I also feel like a lot of men would date
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  Speaker 2: young women because they feel like younger women.
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  Speaker 1: Uh, their body hasn't met gravity yet. Right, This boy
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  Speaker 1: a lot of.
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  Speaker 5: Them shows violence. Wow, I thought Marcaus Houston chose violence.
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  Speaker 5: Sean Kasey, DJ Andvy just chose violence. Tell me and
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  Speaker 5: be explained more. What do you mean What do you
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  Speaker 5: mean their bodies haven't met gravity yet?
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  Speaker 1: What are you saying? I mean we all, our bodies
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  Speaker 1: all meet gravity. Your balls, your balls sit the same way?
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  Speaker 1: Yes they do? Actually? Okay, no, no, no no. I want
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  Speaker 1: you to know.
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  Speaker 5: You have to explain this. You shouldn't just get out
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  Speaker 5: of this one. What did you mean by that statement?
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  Speaker 2: When people are older, the ass starts to drop, sometimes
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  Speaker 2: their breast start to drop.
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  Speaker 1: It is gravity in two days something.
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  Speaker 5: These forty year old women, these fifty some of your
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  Speaker 5: old women, are killing these young girls. Nowadays, every woman
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  Speaker 5: that I think is beautiful is way over the age
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  Speaker 5: of forty. I don't care if they're in entertainment, are
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  Speaker 5: just walking around in everyday life. These forty old women
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  Speaker 5: are These forty old women know how to take care
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  Speaker 5: of theirself way better than a lot of these younger girls.
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  Speaker 2: And why a lot of older men too young. I'm married, bro,
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  Speaker 2: don't even look at me. I'm married, My wife.
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  Speaker 1: Is You're not making no sense.
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  Speaker 5: I'm saying that the older women are killing these young
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  Speaker 5: girls in the look department, and you saying that's why
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  Speaker 5: older men.
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  Speaker 2: You are saying a lot of times, the reason why
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  Speaker 2: older men the moonwalk.
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  Speaker 5: You just keep fighting. You are just trying to prove
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  Speaker 5: this stupid ass point. You just told all these women
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  Speaker 5: that when they get old, everything drops. That's what you
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  Speaker 5: just said, Mike. You say these older women is out
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  Speaker 5: here saggy, flabby and sick.
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  Speaker 1: That's what you just said. You just chose big violence.
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  Speaker 2: Why hello, Mike, Mike get fifty years old and you
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  Speaker 2: dated younger women.
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  Speaker 1: Why, Mike, Why?
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  Speaker 4: I mean, like, like my man said, the older women
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  Speaker 4: that come with a lot of package in a lot
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  Speaker 4: of ways.
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  Speaker 5: Mike, you ain't got no baggage, Mike, Mike, you ain't
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  Speaker 5: got no baggage. You let Mike finish because this is
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  Speaker 5: just a silly conversation. Mike, you're fifty years old, you're
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  Speaker 5: a black man in America. You ain't got no baggage.
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  Speaker 5: You ain't got no trauma.
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  Speaker 1: Nah, not really, you're a liar. You've been in therapy.
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  Speaker 5: Nah.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, nothing's ever happened to you in your life.
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  Speaker 4: You got I'm just saying.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just saying you got kids.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, a man likes to feel special, you know.
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  Speaker 1: Mike, do you have kids? Mike, do you have kids?
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  Speaker 4: Yes?
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  Speaker 5: Okay, so you got mad baggage according to Marcus Houston,
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  Speaker 5: because if you were a fifty year old woman with
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  Speaker 5: four kids, you'd be having mad baggage.
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  Speaker 1: Mike, come on, let's stop be in there.
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  Speaker 4: My kids are over thirty.
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  Speaker 1: All my kids are grown, should be you fifty, so.
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  Speaker 4: They're not really bagging.
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  Speaker 2: Mike is saying what Marcus Houston is saying, and not
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  Speaker 2: that I agree, but I'm saying that a young a
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  Speaker 2: lot of older men choose younger women because one they
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  Speaker 2: feel like they can mold them and make them do
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  Speaker 2: what they want. And two, a lot of people feel
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  Speaker 2: that younger women their bodies are not reaching gravity.
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  Speaker 5: Man, you don't stop saying that.
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  Speaker 1: That is definitely what people say. Who is people?
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  Speaker 5: You gotta stop this, bro. This is crazy. This is
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  Speaker 5: crazy talking talking this morning. This guy is crazy. This
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  Speaker 5: guy is out there telling all the older women y'all
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  Speaker 5: flabby and sick. Did I say that older women looking
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  Speaker 5: like Larry Holmes flabby and sick?
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  Speaker 1: That's what you're saying.
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  Speaker 4: You're not saying. But listen, this is a good point
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  Speaker 4: to Marcus made. They don't need a man. That's how
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  Speaker 4: they talk. Men need to feel needed and wanted, not
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  Speaker 4: they don't need to be with a woman that. I
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  Speaker 4: don't need no man to do this. I don't need
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  Speaker 4: no fan fit I mean, then, I mean what I mean?
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  Speaker 4: What do they need you for?
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  Speaker 5: Y'all act like older women don't do that? By the way,
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  Speaker 5: I'm envy knows. I'm a I'm a You know I
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  Speaker 5: love older women. You like them over fifty?
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  Speaker 1: I do? I love I love sixty. So that's what
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  Speaker 1: I like them seasoned. Okay, that's what I like, all right.
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  Speaker 5: But me and my wife have a great relationship and
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  Speaker 5: we protect and provide for each other like we need
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  Speaker 5: each other. Like, what is this thing that y'all have
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  Speaker 5: where y'all need a woman to like want?
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  Speaker 1: Y'all y'all say I need to mold a woman like that?
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  Speaker 1: Don't know. I'm just telling you what this is. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know. I don't agree.
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  Speaker 5: I need to feel wanted. I don't need I need
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  Speaker 5: a woman to want me and need me? And what
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  Speaker 5: is that?
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  Speaker 1: What is that?
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  Speaker 5: Kevin More the insecurities y'all haven't dealt with Kevin.
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  Speaker 2: We're talking about consusedon what's your thoughts?
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  Speaker 4: I think you but I think her parents are crazy.
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  Speaker 1: Talk to me, brother, right right.
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  Speaker 4: I want a woman to want me too, but I
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  Speaker 4: want an interpaent woman at the same time. I want
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  Speaker 4: a woman.
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  Speaker 5: At you said what you said, you're saying you want
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  Speaker 5: a woman that uh that that that that's still that
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  Speaker 5: need you, but can also do her own thing.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, like he said, And I don't I
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  Speaker 2: don't know how long they've been talking, how long they've
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  Speaker 2: been speaking. But for myself, the fact that they married
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  Speaker 2: at nineteen or whatever it was, it means they had
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  Speaker 2: to know each other, right, And I don't think I
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  Speaker 2: would allow, and I'm gonna say it allowed, but allow
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  Speaker 2: my eighteen year old daughter to be around somebody that old.
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  Speaker 1: That's just name. First of all, we got I got
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  Speaker 1: four daughters. You got four daughters.
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  Speaker 5: Imagine a man, a grown ass man like that, saying
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  Speaker 5: I can mold her. What does that even mean? Like
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  Speaker 5: you didn't do your you didn't do your job as
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  Speaker 5: a father. I didn't do my job as a father.
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  Speaker 5: If it's an old man out here talking about I'm
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  Speaker 5: going to mold her, all.
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  Speaker 2: Right, Well, eight hundred and five eighty five, one oh
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  Speaker 2: five to one. Let's have this discussion some more with
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  Speaker 2: taking your calls to.
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  Speaker 5: Choose more violence. I don't know who called more violence
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  Speaker 5: this morning. You and Marcus Houston, what are you talking?
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  Speaker 5: V said everything drops after this guy is crazy.
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  Speaker 1: Let's talk about it at the Breakfast Club. Good morning,