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Scholars Corner: Your Relationship Is The Biggest Financial Decision You Will Ever Make · Earn Your Leisure

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  Speaker 1: An illegal alien from Guatemala charged with raping a child
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  Speaker 1: in Massachusetts. An MS thirteen gang member from Al Salvador
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  Speaker 1: accused of murdering a Texas man of Venezuelan charged with
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  Speaker 1: filming and selling child pornography in Michigan. These are just
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  Speaker 1: some of the heinous migrant criminals caught because of President
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  Speaker 1: Donald J.
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  Speaker 2: Trump's leadership.
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  Speaker 1: I'm Christy nom the United States Secretary of Homeland Security.
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  Speaker 1: Under President Trump, attempted illegal border crossings are at the
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  Speaker 1: lowest levels ever recorded, and over one hundred thousand illegal
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  Speaker 1: aliens have been arrested. If you are here illegally, your
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  Speaker 1: next you will be fined nearly one thousand dollars a day, imprisoned,
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  Speaker 1: and deported.
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  Speaker 2: You will never return.
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  Speaker 1: But if you register using our CBP home app and
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  Speaker 1: leave now, you could be allowed to return legally.
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  Speaker 2: Do what's right. Leave now.
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  Speaker 1: Under President Trump, America's laws, border and families will be protected.
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  Speaker 3: Sponsored by the United States Department of Homeland Security.
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  Speaker 4: The whole Regional Bank sector.
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  Speaker 5: Bus drivers shout that K Williams, these are just jokes
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  Speaker 5: written by eighty five South Carlos being Carlos, then DC
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  Speaker 5: young fly listen.
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  Speaker 4: The sector of regional banks are broke. I'm not.
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  Speaker 5: I'm not if Ebony K. Williams was an investor, she's
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  Speaker 5: not talking to you. Uh, won't fix this at all?
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  Speaker 4: Like would you would you doate the regional bank manager?
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  Speaker 5: Bank manager maybe, but the regional banking sector don't touch Yes?
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  Speaker 4: Do you find anything wrong with what Abney said? Come
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  Speaker 4: on the show, can talk about it.
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  Speaker 5: Let's let's talk any man that's upset. It's like, bro,
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  Speaker 5: you can have any job if you delivered a couple
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  Speaker 5: of areas and get what you need. You know what
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  Speaker 5: I'm saying. This is not investing advice. Stop worrying about
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  Speaker 5: the titles. Just the exceptional and who you are man.
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  Speaker 6: But let's talk about that if we can quickly. So
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  Speaker 6: this is an interesting conversation. There was a song, Remember
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  Speaker 6: that song? It was like eight figure that's what that's
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  Speaker 6: what I like? Yeah, sweetie, yeah yeah, So I had
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  Speaker 6: said something the nineteen Keys about that and shout out
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  Speaker 6: to her, sweetie. But here's here's the problem, right, it's
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  Speaker 6: social media has created a vocal minority and has disenfranchised
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  Speaker 6: the vast majority of people, especially black people, and it's
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  Speaker 6: creating mental illnesses.
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  Speaker 4: Actually, so What's what's happening?
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  Speaker 6: Is this right, Whether you're saying, let's take this, I
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  Speaker 6: want somebody that makes eight figures, the average black person
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  Speaker 6: makes thirty five thousand dollars a year, So one percent
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  Speaker 6: of a tenth of one percent of America, a tenth
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  Speaker 6: a tenth of one percent of America is in the
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  Speaker 6: eight figure range. One percent of that are black. So
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  Speaker 6: like statistically right, like when you do like science problems
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  Speaker 6: and different things of that nature, if it's so low
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  Speaker 6: that this doesn't count, then they just really discard it
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  Speaker 6: like it's impossible even happening. So you talking about something
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  Speaker 6: that on a statistical scientific chart is not even going
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  Speaker 6: to show up because the odds of it happening are
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  Speaker 6: so it's just not even worth even saying how low
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  Speaker 6: of a chance that is? Right, that's on a larger scale. Now,
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  Speaker 6: on this bus driver situation as opposed to a bus owner,
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  Speaker 6: we know that the vast majority of people are not entrepreneurs,
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  Speaker 6: especially black people. Somebody that drives a bus actually is
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  Speaker 6: probably making more than thirty five thousand dollars. So what's
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  Speaker 6: end up happening is that people like this are making
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  Speaker 6: statements that are biased to how they live because they're
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  Speaker 6: privileged and we're privileged even like as far as geographically
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  Speaker 6: where we live, right, you live in New York, you
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  Speaker 6: live in Atlanta, you live in Miami, you live in
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  Speaker 6: la You develop certain normancies that are not normal to
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  Speaker 6: the vast majority of people in Middle America, in the South,
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  Speaker 6: in the Northwest. So you start to think that everybody
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  Speaker 6: is living the same way as you. You start to
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  Speaker 6: think that everybody has the same income as your circle.
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  Speaker 6: But then you realize that you, yourself are in the
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  Speaker 6: top one percent. So you're speaking from a vantage point
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  Speaker 6: where it's not necessarily wrong what you're saying, but it's
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  Speaker 6: irresponse to say it to a vast majority of people
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  Speaker 6: that are not in your same economic situation. What happens
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  Speaker 6: is that now you're starting to pollute the minds of
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  Speaker 6: the mass the masses without giving them solutions to increase
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  Speaker 6: their revenue, without giving them solutions to become a business owner.
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  Speaker 6: So we give you solutions to become a business owner
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  Speaker 6: to increase your revenue. Different things of that nature.
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  Speaker 4: Right.
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  Speaker 6: That's different from saying, well, your value is different. If
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  Speaker 6: you don't make one hundred thousand dollars, Well, how do
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  Speaker 6: I make one hundred thousand dollars, that's the next question, right.
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  Speaker 6: So I just feel like it's a dangerous rhetoric that
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  Speaker 6: has been put out there for women, but especially black women,
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  Speaker 6: because it's creating unrealistic expectations that you're not going to
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  Speaker 6: be able to find.
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  Speaker 4: Right.
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  Speaker 6: I'm just gonna be honest with you, You're not going to
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  Speaker 6: be able to find these debates once to.
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  Speaker 4: It only happen in our can.
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  Speaker 5: Like the whole five hundred dollar a day, this kind
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  Speaker 5: of man, I need this kind of woman. I don't
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  Speaker 5: see that in other cultures. At scale, I don't see
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  Speaker 5: nine thousand red pill pages and they're like, you.
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  Speaker 4: Know, communities. I don't see it.
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  Speaker 5: Like I was behind a whole bunch of people Yesterda
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  Speaker 5: at the race, I didn't hear anybody arguing.
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  Speaker 4: Over that kind of no stuff.
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  Speaker 6: And so even like when I said the five hundred
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  Speaker 6: dollars day thing, I never said that if you don't
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  Speaker 6: spend five hundred dollars on a date, you're not worthy
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  Speaker 6: on going on a date.
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  Speaker 4: I just said that's what I'm currently doing.
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  Speaker 1: An illegal alien from Guatemala charged with raping a child
• 8:29
  Speaker 1: in Massachusetts. An MS thirteen gang member from El Salvador
• 8:33
  Speaker 1: accused of murdering a Texas. Man of Venezuelan charged with
• 8:37
  Speaker 1: filming and selling child pornography in Michigan. These are just
• 8:41
  Speaker 1: some of the heinous migrant criminals caught because of President
• 8:45
  Speaker 1: Donald J.
• 8:45
  Speaker 2: Trump's leadership.
• 8:47
  Speaker 1: I'm Christy nom the United States Secretary of Homeland Security.
• 8:51
  Speaker 1: Under President Trump, attempted illegal border crossings are at the
• 8:54
  Speaker 1: lowest levels ever recorded, and over one hundred thousand illegal
• 8:58
  Speaker 1: aliens have been arrested. If you were here illegally, your
• 9:02
  Speaker 1: next you will be fine nearly one thousand dollars a day.
• 9:06
  Speaker 2: Imprisoned and deported, you will never return.
• 9:09
  Speaker 1: But if you register using our CBP home app and
• 9:12
  Speaker 1: leave now, you could be allowed to return legally.
• 9:16
  Speaker 2: Do what's right. Leave now.
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  Speaker 1: Under President Trump America's laws, border and families will.
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  Speaker 3: Be protected sponsored by the United States Department of Homeland Security.
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  Speaker 6: For correct, I didn't say like, that's an expectation for
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  Speaker 6: you to do, so I think wording is extremely important
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  Speaker 6: for her to say. She could have been like, you
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  Speaker 6: know me personally.
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  Speaker 4: Now.
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  Speaker 6: I think she did say that, yeah, but it was
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  Speaker 6: also implied on a wider scale, and I think that
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  Speaker 6: that's something that is a little dangerous. And even if
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  Speaker 6: you say me personally, I think it's still important for
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  Speaker 6: you to emphasize I wouldn't do this, but that's okay
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  Speaker 6: if you do it. You know what I'm saying, because
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  Speaker 6: sometimes you can say like, well, I'm not doing this,
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  Speaker 6: and even if you don't say that, it's implied that, well,
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  Speaker 6: they have no value, right, So I think that you know,
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  Speaker 6: there's a point to be made as far as entrepreneurship
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  Speaker 6: is something that we need more entrepreneurs we need more ownership,
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  Speaker 6: We do need to make more money. So I'm not
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  Speaker 6: she's not wrong in saying that, But it's also important
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  Speaker 6: for us to understand what our current state is and
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  Speaker 6: what our current expectations are based off of the pool
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  Speaker 6: that's available.
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  Speaker 5: And if you want to go to the best place
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  Speaker 5: to find a great pool of like minded men and
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  Speaker 5: women that you may want to build relationship with, get
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  Speaker 5: your tickets to invest fests. Robert Smith will be there
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  Speaker 5: and do pree and then lap nineteen keys or your leisures.
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  Speaker 4: That's a non students. Hey, some non figures, you know.
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  Speaker 5: So, Billy, if you want to find someone to build with,
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  Speaker 5: you have to find them in like minded places.
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  Speaker 8: And I think a part of the conversation kind of
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  Speaker 8: both said it. When the question was posed back to Ayana,
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  Speaker 8: she gave her the reasons why she would do it,
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  Speaker 8: and then she kind of looked at it from that
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  Speaker 8: perspective and said, oh, okay.
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  Speaker 4: I see that. But it's important.
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  Speaker 8: The conversation is important, right because and I think we
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  Speaker 8: had this conversation. Is anything wrong, that's opinion. She's entitled
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  Speaker 8: to that. It was the delivery. The delivery of it was,
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  Speaker 8: but to see another perspective of it, it helps you grow.
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  Speaker 8: Now it's like, all right, well I didn't see it
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  Speaker 8: like that, but now I get it right. There's people listening,
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  Speaker 8: I know how, and we got into it when she
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  Speaker 8: went up there. But it was like, this is a
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  Speaker 8: perspective she's talking. This is what she's living. This is
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  Speaker 8: currently how she's living. This is currently how she's see
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  Speaker 8: in the world. With more experience, with more voices, were
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  Speaker 8: more perspectives that can change that. That's happened to me.
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  Speaker 8: Playing of time.
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  Speaker 4: I'll say the rest of my commentary, but shout out,
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  Speaker 4: shout out.
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  Speaker 6: You have more leeway. I'll tell you this much. You
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  Speaker 6: have more leeway when you have a bang. I'll leave
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  Speaker 6: it at that. People are willing, and.
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  Speaker 4: I'll say to listen. If you do what you're supposed to.
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  Speaker 8: Do, even if you don't have no job, Yeah yeah,
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  Speaker 8: put yes and chat.
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  Speaker 5: If you know what I'm talking about, boy boy, protect
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  Speaker 5: your pound, protect and provide. That's all you need is
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  Speaker 5: pound zero mark your money is live in London. If
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  Speaker 5: you know how to your pound and you can protect
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  Speaker 5: and provide, you'll be fine.
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  Speaker 4: Paint me in pounds.
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  Speaker 6: But if you know resources will allow you to have
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  Speaker 6: more leeway in this world. Yes, and we'll be talking
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  Speaker 6: and Diddy, so we'll have a fact that the fact
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  Speaker 6: I'm excited to actually have. I don't think people actually
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  Speaker 6: knew that we're going to be interviewing him. So that said,
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  Speaker 6: earn your leisure presentation. Yes, it's working with the questions already.
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  Speaker 6: I do have some questions in mind.
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  Speaker 8: I'm sure there are gonna be questions that people want
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  Speaker 8: to hear.
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  Speaker 6: That will be Oh, we're asking the tough question to oh, really, well,
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  Speaker 6: he wants that we talked.
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  Speaker 4: He wants that. I got to want to submit it's
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  Speaker 4: good though it's no, it's no layup, it's no layup.
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  Speaker 6: Okay, this is this is this is gonna be one
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  Speaker 6: of the ones that's fire. But yeah, uh, we definitely
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  Speaker 6: got to have her on if she's interested in coming
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  Speaker 6: in and having these relationship talks, because we don't just
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  Speaker 6: have these relationship talks for no reason. It's very impart
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  Speaker 6: of the economic and structure of you personally. It's probably,
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  Speaker 6: honestly the biggest factor of your economic success is going
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  Speaker 6: to be relationship. You select who you choose children, how
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  Speaker 6: young you have children, if you wait to have children,
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  Speaker 6: if you get it, divorced, if you have a child
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  Speaker 6: out of wed lot, all of these things factor will
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  Speaker 6: factor into the play of your finance.
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  Speaker 8: When essays Steve Harvey for those not and no essays,
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  Speaker 8: was on share Club Sha Shape, That's exactly what he said.
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  Speaker 8: The biggest financial decision you're gonna make is who you
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  Speaker 8: choose to be.
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  Speaker 4: Mitigate risk of all calls.
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  Speaker 6: And you can't survive it if you If you can,
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  Speaker 6: you can have a kid at at sixteen and become
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  Speaker 6: a millionaire. You could go through three divorces. It just
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  Speaker 6: makes it increasingly hard harder.
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  Speaker 8: That's what it led to that it led to the
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  Speaker 8: conversation of his divorce. Obviously we covered the tax situation
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  Speaker 8: and how that played out. He lost it all. He
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  Speaker 8: found his current wife, Marjorie, and this it's led to
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  Speaker 8: his great success that he's ever had. He attributes to
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  Speaker 8: that to her being in his life. It's no coincidence.
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  Speaker 8: So it's a big decision.
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  Speaker 6: My graduates from my school being forced bad drop bag
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  Speaker 6: drop my drop, bad drop drop.
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  Speaker 1: An illegal alien from Guatemala charged with raping a child
• 15:03
  Speaker 1: in Massachusetts. An MS thirteen gang member from Al Salvador
• 15:07
  Speaker 1: accused of murdering a Texas man of Venezuelan charged with
• 15:11
  Speaker 1: filming and selling child pornography in Michigan.
• 15:14
  Speaker 2: These are just.
• 15:15
  Speaker 1: Some of the heinous migrant criminals caught because of President
• 15:19
  Speaker 1: Donald J.
• 15:19
  Speaker 2: Trump's leadership. I'm Christy nom the.
• 15:22
  Speaker 1: United States Secretary of Homeland Security. Under President Trump, attempted
• 15:26
  Speaker 1: illegal border crossings are at the lowest levels ever recorded,
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: and over one hundred thousand illegal aliens have been arrested.
• 15:34
  Speaker 1: If you are here illegally, your next you will be
• 15:37
  Speaker 1: fine nearly one thousand dollars a day, imprisoned and.
• 15:41
  Speaker 2: Deported, you will never return.
• 15:43
  Speaker 1: But if you register using our CBP home app and
• 15:46
  Speaker 1: leave now, you could be allowed to return legally.
• 15:49
  Speaker 2: Do what's right. Leave now.
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: Under President Trump, America's laws, border and families will be protected.
• 15:57
  Speaker 3: Sponsored by the United States Department of Homeland Security.