Latest / The David Rubenstein Show / Diane von Furstenberg
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- 0:03Speaker 1: Diane von Furstenberg may be best known to women around
- 0:06Speaker 1: the world as the creator of the iconic rap dress,
- 0:09Speaker 1: but in addition to running her fashion company, she's been
- 0:12Speaker 1: deeply involved in philanthropy. With her husband Barry Diller, she
- 0:15Speaker 1: helped to create the high Line and also Little Island
- 0:17Speaker 1: on the West Side of New York. She's also now
- 0:20Speaker 1: leading the effort to raise money for the Ellis Island Foundation.
- 0:23Speaker 1: Had a chance to sit down with her recently to
- 0:25Speaker 1: talk about her extraordinary life and her dedication to philanthropy
- 0:29Speaker 1: and to her family. So let me ask you about
- 0:31Speaker 1: something I can say I'm not an expert on which
- 0:33Speaker 1: is fashion. Nobody's ever considered me a fashion plate. You
- 0:38Speaker 1: invented something called the rap dress about forty plus years ago,
- 0:43Speaker 1: almost fifty years, and it's one of the most famous
- 0:47Speaker 1: designs in the last fifty years, and women are still
- 0:50Speaker 1: wearing it. So tell me where you surprised that after
- 0:54Speaker 1: almost fifty years, women are still wearing the same design.
- 0:58Speaker 1: Obviously different dress, but same design as something that was
- 1:01Speaker 1: popular almost fifty years ago. Yeah, I mean it's you know,
- 1:05Speaker 1: people say I created the rap dress, which is true,
- 1:09Speaker 1: but really the rap dress created me because because of
- 1:14Speaker 1: that dress, I became the woman I wanted to be.
- 1:18Speaker 1: I became independent. I by being an independent it paid
- 1:23Speaker 1: for my children education, It paid for my house in
- 1:26Speaker 1: the country, paid for my apartment. So it made me free,
- 1:31Speaker 1: and it made me liberated. And it was the time
- 1:35Speaker 1: of the women's liberation. So and because it was a dress,
- 1:40Speaker 1: the more confident I became, and the more the more
- 1:44Speaker 1: confidence I was, I was passing on this confidence to
- 1:49Speaker 1: other women through this little dress that I would go
- 1:53Speaker 1: around and wrap around women's bodies. And so in a
- 1:57Speaker 1: sense now that I look back that I'm an older
- 2:01Speaker 1: woman and so on I looked back, it's almost like
- 2:04Speaker 1: I was a conduit, you know, I was a conduit
- 2:08Speaker 1: for confidence for many generations of women. So how long
- 2:13Speaker 1: did it take to develop the rap dress? Was it
- 2:16Speaker 1: something that came to you like that or was it
- 2:18Speaker 1: many years? How did it develop? When I was twenty,
- 2:21Speaker 1: I went out of college and I didn't know what
- 2:23Speaker 1: I wanted to do, but I knew the kind of
- 2:25Speaker 1: woman I wanted to be. I wanted to be a
- 2:27Speaker 1: woman in charge. So how which though, is going to
- 2:31Speaker 1: be my door? So I thought maybe fashion? So at
- 2:35Speaker 1: first I worked in Paris for a fashion um photographer's agent,
- 2:41Speaker 1: and that got me wow. I discovered the world of fashion.
- 2:46Speaker 1: And then I met the father of a friend of
- 2:50Speaker 1: the broad of my boyfriend whatever in Italy, and he said,
- 2:53Speaker 1: you know, you should come and discover the other side
- 2:57Speaker 1: of fashion, where we make fashion. So and I discovered
- 3:01Speaker 1: how you know all about printing. You know how you
- 3:04Speaker 1: buy artwork and how you put it in repeat, and
- 3:08Speaker 1: how you printed, and you worked with the colorist and
- 3:12Speaker 1: and learned how to do a color palette. So it
- 3:15Speaker 1: was really a craft. And so I didn't think that
- 3:19Speaker 1: any of this was going to be useful to me
- 3:21Speaker 1: at all, but it was very interesting. I then went
- 3:25Speaker 1: to America for the first time to visit my boyfriend.
- 3:28Speaker 1: My mother gave me a ticket to go to New
- 3:32Speaker 1: York and visit him, and I discovered New York and
- 3:35Speaker 1: I couldn't believe it. It was ninety yeah, I mean
- 3:39Speaker 1: I couldn't believe how. I said, I have to come
- 3:42Speaker 1: back here. And also while I was in New York
- 3:46Speaker 1: because my my boyfriend then he was a young, very
- 3:49Speaker 1: attractive prince, so he was very much, you know, in
- 3:53Speaker 1: demand in New York. He was very good looking and
- 3:57Speaker 1: because he was in the man and I came as
- 3:59Speaker 1: his girl friend. All the designer wanted to lend me
- 4:02Speaker 1: close and blah blah blah, and and so while I
- 4:06Speaker 1: was here here, I mean I stayed about a month.
- 4:10Speaker 1: I think I discovered so much. I discovered New York.
- 4:14Speaker 1: I discovered all these young designers. And when I went back,
- 4:19Speaker 1: all I could think about is how do I get
- 4:21Speaker 1: back to New York? How do I get back to
- 4:24Speaker 1: New And when I went back to work in the factory,
- 4:28Speaker 1: all of a sudden, I looked at everything there and
- 4:32Speaker 1: I said, oh, there is my door. There's an opportunity.
- 4:37Speaker 1: Let me try to make some easy, easy, little dresses
- 4:43Speaker 1: that I can then go and sell in America. And
- 4:46Speaker 1: that's how I started. So I would stay late at
- 4:49Speaker 1: night with a pattern maker and make some samples and
- 4:53Speaker 1: so on. But for those who are watching, who may
- 4:55Speaker 1: not be fashion experts, what exactly is a rap drop?
- 5:00Speaker 1: You know what was so unique about you wrap your body?
- 5:03Speaker 1: So it started from these little sweaters that ballerinas where
- 5:09Speaker 1: you know when they when they get cold, and it's
- 5:11Speaker 1: it's it's wrapped. It's like a kimono, right again, Japanese
- 5:15Speaker 1: kimono but it's very tight. And because it was jersey,
- 5:20Speaker 1: you wrap it very tight. That was the difference. And
- 5:24Speaker 1: it was just a rap dress and it was printed
- 5:27Speaker 1: because I was in this print factory, so it was
- 5:30Speaker 1: a wrapped first. It was a wraptop with a rap
- 5:33Speaker 1: with a skirt, and it did really well, and then
- 5:37Speaker 1: I said, I've got to turn it into a dress,
- 5:40Speaker 1: and then it became addressed. And before I knew, at
- 5:44Speaker 1: the age of twenty six, I was making twenty five
- 5:50Speaker 1: thousand rab dresses a week. And you became very famous,
- 5:54Speaker 1: and I became n There's a story that Newsweek was
- 5:58Speaker 1: going to put Gerald Ford President Night's States on the
- 6:00Speaker 1: cover and they for winning his primary. Yes, but then
- 6:05Speaker 1: I discovered that it was the month of March, and
- 6:09Speaker 1: the months of March is usually when they want subscription renewals,
- 6:14Speaker 1: and so they would think that maybe I would be
- 6:18Speaker 1: but atractive woman might be better. Okay, so let's go
- 6:23Speaker 1: back a moment um. You grew up in what country, Belgium?
- 6:27Speaker 1: And your mother was a survivor of of Auschwitz? Is
- 6:31Speaker 1: that right? Yes? And how did she survive Auschwitz? He
- 6:34Speaker 1: weighed only fifty nine pounds when she came. How do
- 6:39Speaker 1: you survive. I don't know, I don't know. I mean
- 6:44Speaker 1: very very, very few people survived. She survived. She was
- 6:48Speaker 1: twenty two. I mean she got arrested, she was one.
- 6:53Speaker 1: She stayed, she stayed fourteen months, um and she she
- 6:59Speaker 1: got she really got arrested very late. It was May
- 7:03Speaker 1: forty four. And but she worked while she was there.
- 7:08Speaker 1: She worked at the group factory. So while you know,
- 7:12Speaker 1: when you were working, they wouldn't kill you. So that
- 7:15Speaker 1: that's the first thing. And then after that there was
- 7:19Speaker 1: the famous death March, and they went and they walked
- 7:23Speaker 1: and to another camp, Ravens Brook. A lot of people
- 7:27Speaker 1: died on the march. She thought she was going to
- 7:29Speaker 1: die on the march, but she didn't. And then after that,
- 7:32Speaker 1: as they were losing the war, they pushed back more
- 7:36Speaker 1: and and then she ended up in another camp. And
- 7:40Speaker 1: then one day the Germans had gone, then the Russian
- 7:44Speaker 1: came and raped every girl and uh, and then after
- 7:49Speaker 1: that the Americans arrived. Now, your mother had a tattoo
- 7:53Speaker 1: that Alschwitz two. So do you ever asked her when
- 7:58Speaker 1: you were a little what? Yeah? She everybody asked. And
- 8:01Speaker 1: then she had removed she had one number and then
- 8:04Speaker 1: crossed and then the number. I mean, for me, it
- 8:07Speaker 1: was you know, it wasn't odd because I had always
- 8:11Speaker 1: seen it like that. I knew she had been to
- 8:13Speaker 1: the camp. I mean, you know, there was a little
- 8:15Speaker 1: talk about it, but she shielded me from it all
- 8:18Speaker 1: without making it a big mystery. So you come to
- 8:22Speaker 1: New York. You're the queen of New York because you're
- 8:25Speaker 1: the princess of New York is you're very young, you're
- 8:27Speaker 1: in your twenties, You're made a lot of money by
- 8:30Speaker 1: any normal standards, and you're the queen of the fashion world. Right,
- 8:34Speaker 1: let's say, right, so how do you top that? There
- 8:37Speaker 1: had no such thing as going to the top, top
- 8:39Speaker 1: top and continuing to go to the top. Also, I
- 8:42Speaker 1: think it's really important. I always make a point to
- 8:45Speaker 1: tell people that sometimes when you are at the very top,
- 8:49Speaker 1: that that that time I was on the cover of
- 8:52Speaker 1: Newsweek and on the front page of the World Street Journal,
- 8:55Speaker 1: and everybody was buying my dresses, and I was acclaimed
- 8:59Speaker 1: as the big success. I myself already knew that things
- 9:05Speaker 1: were so easy because in the way I had saturated
- 9:08Speaker 1: the market. You know, everybody had a rap dress and
- 9:12Speaker 1: nobody needed to buy another rap dress. Everybody had many
- 9:15Speaker 1: rap dresses. Okay, so did your business go down every Yes?
- 9:18Speaker 1: Then I licensed that, you know, and uh, and then
- 9:23Speaker 1: I like, you know, I mean, life is like it's
- 9:25Speaker 1: you know, you go as you go. So I licensed
- 9:28Speaker 1: my dress business to a company that I thought had
- 9:31Speaker 1: more experience than I did, and they continued to develop it,
- 9:34Speaker 1: and I decided, now I'm going to be a studo
- 9:38Speaker 1: and I started acus Many company. But while you were
- 9:40Speaker 1: doing that, you led the very interesting life of a
- 9:43Speaker 1: socialite in the seventies in New York. You're meeting with
- 9:46Speaker 1: Andy Warhol and other people. What was that life? Like?
- 9:49Speaker 1: Everybody famous who was young was a friend of yours.
- 9:53Speaker 1: New York City in the seventies was many things. For
- 9:57Speaker 1: one thing, it was very dirty, it was very dangerous,
- 10:02Speaker 1: and it was very cheap, and therefore a lot of
- 10:07Speaker 1: artists were here. It was very exciting time. It was
- 10:12Speaker 1: a time that people wanted freedom. We we thought our
- 10:16Speaker 1: generations ought we invented freedom, which of course we didn't. Uh.
- 10:21Speaker 1: And it was it was fun and there were a
- 10:24Speaker 1: lot of creative people, and Andy Waholl was everywhere, and
- 10:29Speaker 1: there was a lot of other people and and it
- 10:32Speaker 1: was fun. But I mean, it's always fun when you're young.
- 10:35Speaker 1: So Andy Warhol said, hey, I'll paint the picture of you.
- 10:37Speaker 1: Was that happening a lot? Uh? Andy Warholl did my
- 10:41Speaker 1: first portrait one night, very late in the anybody was
- 10:44Speaker 1: looking for a white wall because he would take a
- 10:47Speaker 1: polaroid and then he would use the polaroid and and
- 10:50Speaker 1: and and paint from there and then and he was
- 10:54Speaker 1: he needed a white wall. And in my office, in
- 10:57Speaker 1: my home, they had no white wall. So we went
- 11:00Speaker 1: the kitchen and because the white wall in my kitchen
- 11:03Speaker 1: was so tiny, I lifted my arm and that was
- 11:07Speaker 1: the first time he painted me. And then he painted
- 11:10Speaker 1: me later for a show that he was planning to
- 11:13Speaker 1: do in the eighties called Beauties. And did he did
- 11:16Speaker 1: he give you the paintings or he he gave me? Okay,
- 11:19Speaker 1: the first one he gave me one, I bought two.
- 11:25Speaker 1: The second time he gave me one, I bought none.
- 11:29Speaker 1: And when he died, I bought them all. So let
- 11:33Speaker 1: me ask you. Your business is moving forward. You're in
- 11:36Speaker 1: the cosmetics business, You're getting another businesses fragrance and other things.
- 11:40Speaker 1: Life sounds like it's great. Everything is going well. Did
- 11:43Speaker 1: at some point all the businesses go down, and I
- 11:46Speaker 1: for a whilington wasn't so good? Were they always ups
- 11:50Speaker 1: and down and ups and down? I had the first
- 11:53Speaker 1: phase of my life is very much American dream. Okay,
- 11:58Speaker 1: I lived a true American dream. Really. I was young,
- 12:02Speaker 1: I was inexperience, and I became very successful after that.
- 12:08Speaker 1: You know, I had difficulties. I had enough, and then
- 12:11Speaker 1: finally I ended up selling the cosmetic and uh. And
- 12:17Speaker 1: then of course by then my children are teenagers, so
- 12:21Speaker 1: they went to board in school. At that time I decided,
- 12:24Speaker 1: I went back to Europe. I lived in Paris for
- 12:27Speaker 1: a few years, and then I came back here and
- 12:30Speaker 1: then I decided. And then by then my brand was
- 12:33Speaker 1: really wow. It was like bad. It was in discount
- 12:37Speaker 1: stores and everybody had done everything. And that was difficult.
- 12:42Speaker 1: That was a difficult time for me to see because
- 12:47Speaker 1: everything until then was great and wonderful. Even when it
- 12:50Speaker 1: wasn't great and wonderful, it was still exciting. But then
- 12:54Speaker 1: coming back, I mean and seeing the brand and the
- 12:58Speaker 1: people who were in charge of the brand, and they
- 13:00Speaker 1: didn't care. I mean, there was no spirit, there was
- 13:04Speaker 1: no there was no messenging, there was no nothing. It
- 13:08Speaker 1: was that was really difficult, and as I don't know
- 13:12Speaker 1: if it's as a result of that, but at the
- 13:15Speaker 1: same time, I also had a cancer. I had a
- 13:21Speaker 1: cancer at the at the at the bottom, at the
- 13:25Speaker 1: base of my tongue, and uh, and I think it
- 13:28Speaker 1: has something to do with the fact that I couldn't
- 13:31Speaker 1: express myself anyway. So I dealt with that, and I
- 13:36Speaker 1: also then dealt with taking back my name and starting again.
- 13:42Speaker 1: You started all over the company now I guess known
- 13:45Speaker 1: as DVF your initials, right, And so that company then
- 13:49Speaker 1: began to recreate some of the things you've done before,
- 13:51Speaker 1: including the rap dress, and it turned out the rap
- 13:54Speaker 1: dress was more popular than even had been before practically,
- 13:57Speaker 1: So was that a surprise to you that the rap
- 13:59Speaker 1: dress was still so popular? You know, when it's your life,
- 14:05Speaker 1: I mean, you know, it's just one day after another
- 14:07Speaker 1: day after another day. It's only when you look back
- 14:10Speaker 1: that you are surprised. When you like back that you
- 14:13Speaker 1: have time to say, oh, that was great. When you're
- 14:16Speaker 1: living it, you just you know, survive. I mean, you know,
- 14:20Speaker 1: a young woman, two children. I separated so quickly from
- 14:24Speaker 1: my husband, and then you know, there's a lot to
- 14:27Speaker 1: do running a company. Um, you know, so I didn't
- 14:31Speaker 1: have the time to think, I'm I surprised and I
- 14:34Speaker 1: what what does DVF now do? Well? Actually, DVF as
- 14:39Speaker 1: has been many, many, many products over the years after
- 14:43Speaker 1: COVID and after all of the change. You know, COVID
- 14:48Speaker 1: was also a moment of resecting, right, So I I
- 14:56Speaker 1: don't want to take it. I can't say take advantage
- 14:59Speaker 1: of something as negative as COVID, but we were forced
- 15:03Speaker 1: to look at the business model and reset the business
- 15:07Speaker 1: model because under COVID, people weren't going out in fashions, right,
- 15:11Speaker 1: they weren't wearing fancy But also stores were closed, we
- 15:15Speaker 1: had to close. So, I mean it's a lot of
- 15:17Speaker 1: different things at the same time. And of course the
- 15:20Speaker 1: business online and so it was it was a moment
- 15:24Speaker 1: to reset. So how was the business today, Well, it's
- 15:28Speaker 1: being resetted and it's actually very interesting. You know. I'm
- 15:32Speaker 1: a very positive person. My mother, my mother was a survivor, right,
- 15:37Speaker 1: so as a survivor, life is what matters, right As
- 15:42Speaker 1: as a daughter of a survivor. The minute I was born,
- 15:46Speaker 1: I mean she wasn't supposed to survive. I wasn't supposed
- 15:50Speaker 1: to be born, and yet I was born, So I
- 15:53Speaker 1: realized that the moment of my birth was already a victory.
- 15:58Speaker 1: So anything that happened after that was a plus. So
- 16:02Speaker 1: the company you run today is a privately own company.
- 16:06Speaker 1: Have you ever thought of taking your company public? No?
- 16:08Speaker 1: But you know right now it was important for me.
- 16:12Speaker 1: Now is the legacy moment of my life. Right now
- 16:15Speaker 1: is the time that you look back at your life
- 16:19Speaker 1: and you I'm happy to see that somehow it's coherent.
- 16:25Speaker 1: I was born on New Year's Eve, so every year
- 16:28Speaker 1: I make resolution, so I divine my life in three columns.
- 16:32Speaker 1: One is my family, one is my business, and my
- 16:37Speaker 1: my my my brand, and one is me. So looking
- 16:41Speaker 1: back now in my life, I look at my family.
- 16:45Speaker 1: You know, my two children, my five grandchildren, and I'm
- 16:49Speaker 1: very proud of them. I'm very proud of who they are.
- 16:53Speaker 1: I'm proud of the people they are. I'm proud that
- 16:55Speaker 1: they are not banal, they are fun, they're interesting, they're generous,
- 17:02Speaker 1: and they care. Then there's my brand. So there also
- 17:07Speaker 1: I had to reset the brand and make sure it
- 17:11Speaker 1: was closed because sometimes when you grow, you lose your
- 17:16Speaker 1: initial spirit, your initial reason to be, and then the
- 17:21Speaker 1: third part me is about the impact is about today
- 17:27Speaker 1: using all the things I have, my voice, my experiences,
- 17:33Speaker 1: my knowledge, my memories, my experiences, my resources, and using
- 17:43Speaker 1: that in order to make other women be the woman
- 17:47Speaker 1: they want to be. Do you think people who are
- 17:50Speaker 1: CEO should speak out on public issues if they think
- 17:53Speaker 1: that something bad is happening or something good is happening.
- 17:55Speaker 1: Do you like to speak out on public issues? I
- 17:59Speaker 1: I like to speak in general. I speak to myself
- 18:03Speaker 1: and I like to speak and I like to use Yeah.
- 18:07Speaker 1: I do believe. I think words are very powerful and
- 18:10Speaker 1: I think that if you have a voice, you should speak. Yes.
- 18:13Speaker 1: So from reading your books, and you've written eight books,
- 18:17Speaker 1: I think it is it's a lot of books. Um.
- 18:19Speaker 1: You um said in one of the books that what
- 18:21Speaker 1: you wanted to do was to live a man's life
- 18:25Speaker 1: and a woman's body. What you meant by that was
- 18:28Speaker 1: what oh? Men? By that mean that I wanted to
- 18:33Speaker 1: be able to do everything a man does and yet
- 18:37Speaker 1: being enjoying being a woman. Yeah, because men could start
- 18:40Speaker 1: businesses and could do other things that traditionally didn't do. Yes,
- 18:44Speaker 1: so men can call a woman and I mean doing
- 18:48Speaker 1: all kinds of things. So why can't a woman do that?
- 18:52Speaker 1: That was the most important thing for me, to be
- 18:55Speaker 1: a liberated woman. But I was part of that generation
- 18:58Speaker 1: as a feminist. You will admire a Gloria Steinem. Gloria
- 19:02Speaker 1: Steinem for me as a feminist, she was my idol.
- 19:06Speaker 1: She was my idol. Now she's a friend and and
- 19:11Speaker 1: but and I remember she created that magazine called ms
- 19:16Speaker 1: MS and which means you, we're not either miss or missus.
- 19:21Speaker 1: And I remember when I separated and then eventually divorced
- 19:25Speaker 1: from my husband, the Prince. I joked and I said,
- 19:30Speaker 1: I gave up. So when her husband separated, that's a
- 19:34Speaker 1: long time ago, a long time ago. And you married
- 19:37Speaker 1: Barry Diller. After I separated from my the father my children,
- 19:42Speaker 1: I met Barry and we fell in love and we
- 19:44Speaker 1: were together for five years. But I guess that again,
- 19:49Speaker 1: it was the seventies and it was important for me
- 19:54Speaker 1: to experience. And so we separated, and I, you know,
- 19:59Speaker 1: I lived my life, but Barry and I we kept
- 20:04Speaker 1: very close. I also kept very close to my first husband,
- 20:08Speaker 1: and somehow Barry and I think we both knew somehow
- 20:11Speaker 1: at some point we would end up together. And then
- 20:14Speaker 1: about twenty years ago, yeah, twenty years ago. Um, we
- 20:18Speaker 1: got married, okay, and both of you together have been
- 20:21Speaker 1: extracted freely successful in the business world and also in
- 20:24Speaker 1: the philanthropy world. Let me ask you about your philanthropy
- 20:27Speaker 1: for a moment. You and your husband helped to create
- 20:31Speaker 1: the Highline. Well, when I started the company again in
- 20:37Speaker 1: when I was I came here, n uh, I say,
- 20:42Speaker 1: why am I runting those expensive offices uptown? Let me
- 20:46Speaker 1: buy a little building downtown. And I came in this neighborhood,
- 20:51Speaker 1: meetback and full of butchers. They were only butchers. And
- 20:56Speaker 1: I bought a little carriage house and I decided to
- 20:59Speaker 1: make that my showroom and my office. And everybody said,
- 21:04Speaker 1: what are you doing there? Who wants to go and
- 21:06Speaker 1: work there? Smelled so bad, blah blah blah. But I
- 21:09Speaker 1: did it anyway. And then when you moved to a
- 21:12Speaker 1: new neighborhood, you meet your neighbors. And I met these
- 21:17Speaker 1: two young guys who had a dream. And the dream
- 21:22Speaker 1: was to transform this elevated railroad railway that went from
- 21:28Speaker 1: Gunsberg all the way to Dravid Center. It was abandoned,
- 21:32Speaker 1: and to turn it into a park. And it was
- 21:35Speaker 1: going to be knocked down Anyway, those two guys had
- 21:39Speaker 1: this dream and they saw my studio and they said,
- 21:43Speaker 1: you mind, you think you could do it? We could
- 21:45Speaker 1: have We could do a fundraising in your studio. And
- 21:49Speaker 1: that's how my relationship with the neighborhood and where the
- 21:54Speaker 1: highlights started. For one thing, we made it, we turn
- 21:58Speaker 1: this neighborhood into m historical preservation. Then somehow we turned convinced.
- 22:06Speaker 1: We turned around the high Line, and it was very
- 22:11Speaker 1: difficult because all the developers wanted the real estate. Those
- 22:14Speaker 1: same developers, by by the way, now are so proud
- 22:18Speaker 1: to be on the high Line. The high Line became
- 22:21Speaker 1: the number one destination for two tourists. You are now
- 22:25Speaker 1: involved in helping to repair the others island buildings. Is
- 22:29Speaker 1: that right? Well? Yes, first I was. I'm on the
- 22:33Speaker 1: board of and of the foundation of the Statue of
- 22:35Speaker 1: Liberty Ellis Island, and the first thing I did was
- 22:38Speaker 1: raised money for to create the museum form the Statue
- 22:43Speaker 1: of Liberty. So I got very close to her, Lady Liberty.
- 22:47Speaker 1: I didn't want to do it. I really didn't want
- 22:49Speaker 1: to say if I go on another board, my husband
- 22:51Speaker 1: would be so upset. And then he read my book
- 22:55Speaker 1: The Man who wanted to get me. And in my
- 22:57Speaker 1: book he read that my mother had written me a
- 23:01Speaker 1: note saying, God saved me so that I can give
- 23:05Speaker 1: your life. By giving you life, you gave me my
- 23:09Speaker 1: life back. You are therefore my torture of freedom. So
- 23:14Speaker 1: he underlined that and he said, you see, you've got
- 23:17Speaker 1: to come and help the statue of liberty. So the
- 23:20Speaker 1: hardest thing in life, I've often said is to be happy.
- 23:23Speaker 1: But you seemed like a very happy person. It's like nature,
- 23:26Speaker 1: nothing ever stopped, so you could be super happy one
- 23:30Speaker 1: minute and then something happens. So it's just it's just
- 23:35Speaker 1: living is the joy of life. For any young woman
- 23:38Speaker 1: that's watching this wants to be the next Diana von Fursterburg,
- 23:41Speaker 1: what would you recommend? I think the most important thing
- 23:44Speaker 1: in life is the relationship you have with yourself. Once
- 23:50Speaker 1: you have a good relationship with yourself, any other relationship
- 23:54Speaker 1: is a plus and not the most And the second
- 23:57Speaker 1: advice is to be as true to yourself as you
- 24:01Speaker 1: possibly can. And it's not easy, and you have to
- 24:05Speaker 1: accept and own things you may not like. But the
- 24:09Speaker 1: more you could be you, the happier you would be.
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