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Dirty Little Secrets: I'm In Love With My Pastor · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: Get it off your chest.
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  Speaker 2: It's Dirty Little Secret with Billy the Kid in the
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  Speaker 2: If you've got a secret, okay, call us anytime you
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  Speaker 2: want and confess.
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  Speaker 4: It's Billy the Kid, Candace Lopez, and Producer Pooh, and
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  Speaker 4: you have one.
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  Speaker 3: So I do have a confession, and I feel terrible
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  Speaker 3: about saying it out loud, but here I am on
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  Speaker 3: the radio, I guess. I think I'm falling in love
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  Speaker 3: with my pastor.
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  Speaker 2: Whoa.
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  Speaker 1: Hold up.
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  Speaker 4: Your pastor? Church pastor? Yeah. Yikes. What is going on
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  Speaker 4: with him?
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  Speaker 2: Well, I.
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  Speaker 3: I started going to his church about a year ago.
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  Speaker 3: So I'm still pretty new, but I felt like kind
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  Speaker 3: of a strong connection even in the beginning. And I
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  Speaker 3: thought it was spiritual, but maybe I was, I don't know,
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  Speaker 3: I was just reconnecting with God and finding my roots.
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  Speaker 3: But it's been a year now and I think it's
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  Speaker 3: more than that.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, so at first you thought, wow, this church is working.
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  Speaker 2: Something is making me feel, you know, extra connected.
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  Speaker 3: And I do love the church regardless. Like, I love
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  Speaker 3: this church. It's become a second home.
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  Speaker 4: But, no, I see him.
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  Speaker 3: And, like, nothing inappropriate has ever happened between us. So
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  Speaker 3: I want to make that abundantly clear.
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  Speaker 2: But I.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know. Sometimes I'll go to like different events
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  Speaker 3: with the church and I've gotten pretty involved.
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  Speaker 1: And I, I swear that.
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  Speaker 3: He spends a little more time talking to me than
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  Speaker 3: everyone else. And again, maybe that's just me saying what
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  Speaker 3: I want to see.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe he does. And what, I mean, if he's a
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  Speaker 2: single guy, I don't know if he's single or not.
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  Speaker 2: It's a priest can't get married, but a pastor can
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  Speaker 2: have relationships. I don't know if they have relationships with
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  Speaker 2: people in the church.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: I wouldn't be surprised if pastors meet other, you know,
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  Speaker 5: women that are, you know, involved with the church like that.
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  Speaker 4: And it just works out.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, maybe, maybe you shoot your shot.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, what?
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  Speaker 1: No, that's just wrong.
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  Speaker 3: The problem, the problem is that he is newly single
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  Speaker 3: and I am not, um.
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  Speaker 5: Wait, you're married or? No, I'm not married.
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  Speaker 3: I have a boyfriend.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, I didn't know that. I wouldn't be telling you
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  Speaker 2: to shoot your shot.
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  Speaker 1: Well, no. Telling you to sing, girl. Look at Billy.
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  Speaker 2: No, I'm not trying to be. the devil on your
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  Speaker 2: other shoulder. I just thought, why not? So you have,
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  Speaker 2: but you have a boyfriend.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I do.
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  Speaker 2: I do.
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  Speaker 3: And I would never cheat. That is so far outside
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  Speaker 3: of my character. I would never cross that line, but
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  Speaker 3: I have this connection with my pastor that I can't explain.
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  Speaker 3: And my boyfriend is somebody who like refuses to go
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  Speaker 3: to church with me.
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  Speaker 1: He's one of those.
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  Speaker 3: That's like spiritual and believes in God.
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  Speaker 1: But like, I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: He, he tells me like, he doesn't need to sit
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  Speaker 3: in a church to believe in God. And I guess
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  Speaker 3: he's right, but it's starting to create a huge wedge
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  Speaker 3: between us because I feel like we're not as spiritually
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  Speaker 3: aligned as I would want to be with somebody who
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  Speaker 3: could potentially be my husband and father of my kids. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: That's important.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, right. That's pretty important. Yeah, very.
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  Speaker 2: Your faith and the way you, you know, I mean,
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  Speaker 2: whether you're religious or not, you got to be on
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  Speaker 2: the same page, whatever you believe. I feel like you
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  Speaker 2: got to be on the same wavelength.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, that's going to be a point of contention for sure.
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  Speaker 4: Right. So what, I mean, what happens from here?
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  Speaker 1: Maybe it's God just putting you in the right place
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  Speaker 1: at the right time.
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  Speaker 4: It might be.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, maybe that's what I'm wondering.
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  Speaker 3: It kind of seems like this, everything's sort of coming
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  Speaker 3: together at this time and now it's He's single and,
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  Speaker 3: you know, things have kind of been falling apart with,
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  Speaker 3: you know, my boyfriend. But I don't know. My pastor
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  Speaker 3: is this like incredible man of God. And he just,
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  Speaker 3: he seems to just share like so many of the
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  Speaker 3: things that are incredibly important to me. And I can't
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  Speaker 3: help but think about it.
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  Speaker 1: Like what if?
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  Speaker 3: But then I'm thinking, okay, but what if I break
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  Speaker 3: it off with my boyfriend and I try to pursue
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  Speaker 3: something with my pastor, but then he's like, ew, get
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  Speaker 3: away from me.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: Right. But I'm telling you right now, it doesn't take
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  Speaker 2: the pastor out of it. The fact that you're even
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  Speaker 2: looking at the pastor like this.
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  Speaker 5: That's a red flag.
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  Speaker 4: Means the boyfriend ain't nothing. He's nothing.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, I'm not saying he's nothing.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: Imagine if you were going somewhere every Sunday staring at
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  Speaker 5: someone that you have feelings for and your partner has
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  Speaker 5: no idea.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, that's a problem.
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  Speaker 1: They're like, ooh, look at him carry that Bible. Okay, relax. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: I do.
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  Speaker 3: See?
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  Speaker 1: It's so good.
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  Speaker 3: Well, it sounds like you guys have.
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  Speaker 2: A deeper connection than just drooling over him at service.
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  Speaker 1: The way he says 1 Corinthians 3 to 12.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, you're getting weird.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, man.
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  Speaker 4: Jesus laughing you need you need to go to church
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  Speaker 4: um let me know a good one let me ask
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  Speaker 4: you this.
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  Speaker 2: Let's say if you found out the pastor was interested
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  Speaker 2: would you break up with your boyfriend immediately yes i
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  Speaker 2: mean yeah you need to dump him in now yeah
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  Speaker 2: that's the holy ghost yeah caught it yeah.
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  Speaker 3: But then Is this just a crush? What if I've
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  Speaker 3: imagined this connection? I don't know. And I don't want
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  Speaker 3: it to become awkward at church. I've built friendships there
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  Speaker 3: and a family, and I feel like I have this
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  Speaker 3: incredible community, and I don't want to lose it all
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  Speaker 3: because of a potential.
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  Speaker 4: But girl, we're in Texas. There's a church every block.
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  Speaker 1: You find a new church.
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  Speaker 4: Find a new pastor. You're not wrong. Out with the old,
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  Speaker 4: in with the new.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and all these big churches have, you can do
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  Speaker 1: church remotely.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, yeah. If you're embarrassed.
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  Speaker 2: You'll be like, you know what, I'll just church from home. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I don't want to say what church it is, but,
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  Speaker 2: you know, there's so many churches. No, in all seriousness,
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  Speaker 2: if that's your answer, then the answer is also to
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  Speaker 2: not be with your boyfriend no matter what happens with
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  Speaker 2: the pastor.
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  Speaker 1: Agreed.
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  Speaker 4: That's what I would say. Okay.
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  Speaker 3: That's where I was leaning. That's it's where I was
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  Speaker 3: leaning regardless, but I, okay. I just don't, I don't
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  Speaker 3: want to, you know, mess up everything.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, it's going to look real weird if like
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  Speaker 2: this keeps happening. And honestly, there's a window, too. You know,
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  Speaker 2: what if pastor moves on with someone else in the congregation?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, then you have jealousy, which no bueno, right?
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  Speaker 3: Yes, that would be, I wouldn't like to see that.
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  Speaker 4: What if he gets with Linda?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Linda over there counting them tithes.
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  Speaker 4: Because you know how she dresses at church. She already
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  Speaker 4: dresses a little.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, man.
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  Speaker 4: Like a hussy.
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  Speaker 1: Like she's coming from the club.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Linda dresses like a hussy anyway.
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  Speaker 5: She might be leading the connect group.
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  Speaker 1: You never know.
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  Speaker 2: Single under 40. The singles under 40 group. Well, let
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  Speaker 2: us know what happens.
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  Speaker 4: Okay.
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  Speaker 5: Oh, girl.
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  Speaker 4: I will.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you so much. I'm going to apologize if there's
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  Speaker 2: really a Linda out there going, are they talking about me?
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  Speaker 4: There is.