10. “Money is overwhelming so we find instant gratification elsewhere”

Money For Couples with Ramit Sethi · Sep 21, 2021 · 45m

Jacques and Jennifer are stuck in a money rut. They are trapped by their $40,000 debt. Jennifer feels overwhelmed with money talk, and Jaques doesn't want to say no to his wife. When he comes home from work, they’re both tired, so they order takeout, overspend...and repeat the cycle.

This isn't a math problem. It runs way deeper into their money identity and sense of self.

Jacques grew up in a poor household and was always told no, so he'll do anything not to feel that way again. As a stay-at-home mom, Jennifer feels the money is "his," so she finds control and comfort in food. Suddenly, all…