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Specks, Logs, and Clear Sight: Repentance First, Restoration Next (Matthew 7:1–5) · Reformed Thinking

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  All right, let's unpack this core instruction from the King.
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  Welcome back to the Deep Dive. Our mission today is really
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  laser focused. We're trying to understand one
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  of the most misused, misunderstood, and well, frankly
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  dangerous commands Jesus ever gave.
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  You're talking about the command, not to judge.
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  Exactly right in the middle of the Sermon on the Mount.
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  Matthew Chapter 7, verses 1 to 5.
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  That command Do not judge. You hear it everywhere today,
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  don't you? It's often used not as a call to
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  humility, but as a kind of mandate for moral silence.
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  Right. The modern take is that it's a
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  permit for this, this radical tolerance where you just refuse
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  to name sin anywhere and anyone. And it's 1 ditch, but there's
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  another one. The opposite danger you see in
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  the church historically it's that harsh scrutiny of the
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  Pharisee, who, you know seems to take the secret delight in
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  naming everyone's sin but his own.
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  They become specialists in the faults of others.
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  So you're stuck between these two, these two extremes, moral
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  indifference on one side and self-righteous arrogance on the
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  other. And Christ speaks right into
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  that fog with, well, with holy precision.
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  He's not getting rid of evaluation.
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  He's trying to purify the heart that does the evaluating.
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  So our deep dive mission to clarify what Jesus forbids,
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  which is that censorious, self-righteous condemnation, and
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  then what he commands. Which is repentance first, then
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  clear sighted restorative help for a fellow believer.
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  And the context right away gives it this, this gravity, the
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  stakes are just incredibly high. The passage immediately warns
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  that the standard we use against others, that moral measure, it's
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  going to be the measure that exposes us before God.
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  It forces you to deal with the very foundation of God's moral
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  government and how that interacts with the steed of your
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  own heart. Yeah.
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  Are we coming to help a brother or are we secretly trying to
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  play God? That's really the question,
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  isn't it? It is.
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  Let's start with the prohibition itself, Verse 1, Judge not that
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  you'd be not judged. Now if we just stop there, we
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  fall right into that sentimental permissiveness that the world
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  seems to crave. But.
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  You can't stop there. No, Jesus has spent the whole
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  Sermon on the Mount showing his moral authority.
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  He just sharpened the law, saying anger is like murder in
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  the heart. Lust is adultery in the heart.
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  He's certainly not baptizing moral confusion or giving up on
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  the difference between right and wrong.
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  He's not forbidding evaluation itself.
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  If he were, the rest of the New Testament would be a complete
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  contradiction. It would be unlivable.
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  I mean, how could you fulfill the command to love your
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  neighbor if you couldn't evaluate whether your neighbor
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  was walking toward good or, you know, toward harm?
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  That's a serious inconsistency. Where else does Scripture
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  clearly tell us we have to evaluate and discern?
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  Right here in Matthew, just a few verses later, verse 15,
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  Jesus tells the disciples to discern false prophets by their
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  fruits. And you can't discern fruit
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  without some kind of judgment, some evaluation of the evidence.
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  Exactly. And then you have John 7.24,
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  which is so critical here. Do not judge by appearances, but
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  judge with right judgement. And of course, the whole life of
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  the church depends on some form of judgement, discerning who is
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  fit for membership, guiding decisions, church discipline as
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  you see in Matthew 18, or Paul's very stern instructions in First
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  Corinthians 5 about the need to judge those inside the church.
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  OK, so we have to set some boundaries here.
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  If the command isn't forbidding all evaluation, what's the
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  specific target of this prohibition?
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  What's the sin Jesus is shutting down?
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  He's targeting a specific posture of the heart, one that's
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  censorious and self-righteous. So it's not the act of noticing
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  the speck. No, it's the spirit in which you
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  notice it. It's judging as though you were
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  righteous, or even worse, as though you were God himself.
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  It's the sin of putting yourself on the judge's bench and putting
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  your neighbor in the dock. Assuming the role of the final
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  superior arbiter of their stand coming before God.
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  That's why the language is so strong.
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  It's not a critique, it's a condemnation.
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  Precisely the Greek verb for judge creno.
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  It carries a lot of weight. It can mean to discern, but in
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  this context, when it's combined with that warning of reciprocal
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  judgement, it's about passing a final sentence.
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  A verdict. A verdict rendered with a
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  spiritual superiority that assumes you know all the motives
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  and all the outcomes. This forbidden posture, it's
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  quick to pronounce the most severe verdict, it's very slow
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  to listen, it's eager to suspect the worst motives, and it's just
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  completely allergic to mercy. And what's so interesting is how
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  this posture shows up in, you know, everyday life in a
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  community. This spirit doesn't walk around
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  with a sign that says I am judgmental.
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  No, it always dresses up in respectable clothing, calls
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  itself something else. And for you listening, it's so
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  important to recognize these spiritual disguises.
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  Because the most dangerous sins are the ones we can baptize with
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  religious language. Absolutely.
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  We might call it discernment when it's actually a secret
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  delight in finding faults, a kind of spiritual gossip dressed
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  up as sharing a concern. That joy of detecting sin and
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  others is a big red flag that the log is there.
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  Or what about the person who insists they're just intending
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  for the truth? It sounds noble, but often it's
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  just this deep craving to be proven right.
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  You know, at all costs. Where intellectual victory
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  becomes more important than your neighbor's restoration, the goal
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  shifts. It's not about holiness anymore,
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  it's about being seen as correct.
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  Or consider protecting the church.
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  So often this just means protecting a certain fribe or a
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  faction, or even just a personal reputation.
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  It's masking a deep insecurity. You see this all the time online
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  today, don't you? The digital world is like a huge
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  open air courtroom. It is.
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  People get involved in call out culture and they say they're
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  speaking truth to power or defending pure doctrine.
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  But when the correction is public, when it's aimed at
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  humiliation and it's delivered without any relationship or
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  humility. Then you see what it really is.
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  You see, it's self-righteous judgment, not loving
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  restoration. That's a powerful modern
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  example. Social media just encourages the
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  sin because it rewards that quick public condemnation and
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  lets you judge people from a safe distance.
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  The consequence is severe. It turns neighbor love into
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  neighbors surveillance, where we're just constantly scanning
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  for faults. And that surveillance corrupts
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  everything, even spiritual disciplines.
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  Prayer becomes commentary on other people's failures instead
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  of intercession for them. Affection grows cold, you get
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  impatient with weakness in others because you're convinced
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  that God must be pleased with you, because after all, you
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  aren't struggling with that particular sin which.
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  Brings us to the theological root of the problem.
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  For you listening this is so vital to get.
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  Where does self-righteous condemnation really come from?
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  It grows where the doctrine of justification by faith has just
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  become head knowledge. It hasn't penetrated and settled
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  the anxious heart. So if your identity or security
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  isn't resting securely in Christ's righteousness.
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  The heart scrambles to build its own righteousness by comparison.
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  It's a kind of spiritual accounting.
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  A constant internal Ledger. I must be doing OK because I can
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  see all the ways you're failing. That comparison gives you this
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  little temporary boost of security.
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  And that ladder of comparison just falls apart the moment you
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  stand before God's true standard.
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  The law was given, as the Westminster Confession teaches,
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  to show us our own inability and sin.
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  To drive us to Christ. To drive us to despair of
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  ourselves and cling to the Savior.
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  It was never given to make us a judge over a brother whom Christ
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  also died for. So the person who truly gets
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  that they stand before God by sheer unearned mercy, they'll be
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  quick to weep over their own sin and slow to condemn someone
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  else's. They still speak the truth
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  because love has to speak truth, but they speak as a fellow
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  Sinner who found mercy, not as a superior who never needed it.
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  So this command from Christ, it pushes back on both errors we
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  see today. It pushes back on the world's
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  don't call anything sin idea. Because Jesus won't surrender
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  moral reality. But it also fiercely pushes back
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  on the legalists. Prove your holiness by exposing
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  theirs idea. Because Jesus refuses to
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  surrender mercy and humility. The real question isn't whether
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  we evaluate. We have to.
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  The question is whether we do it with real, real humility under
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  scripture, or from the arrogant throne of our own pride.
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  And if you find yourself instinctively bristling at this
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  command to judge not, that's just something pretty sobering.
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  That you might be more devoted to your right to condemn than
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  you are to Christ's call to love.
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  Which leads us right to the terrifying force of the next
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  verse. Jesus doesn't just leave the
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  prohibition hanging there. He immediately gives the divine
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  reason. The four that connects the
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  command to the consequence. For with the judgment you
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  pronounce, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it
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  will be measured to you. This isn't just an observation,
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  it's a theological anchor. Now this can sound a lot like,
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  you know, poke wisdom, you get what you give, that sort of
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  thing. But this is much more serious
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  than karma. Oh, it's completely disconnected
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  from some blind, impersonal karma.
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  This is a statement about the living God's moral government.
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  God is not indifferent to how we treat our neighbor.
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  When you appoint yourself judge and you start swinging that
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  gavel. You're handling a scale and the
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  presence of the one who owns the courtroom, and he demands
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  perfect righteousness and the scale you pick up the harshness,
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  the eagerness to suspect motives, the delight in
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  exposure. It becomes evidence about the
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  state of your own soul. That imagery of the measure?
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  It's from the marketplace, right from commerce.
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  Yes, the weights and measures used in trade.
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  A dishonest merchant would use a short measure.
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  Jesus is saying the spiritual measure we use reveals what kind
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  of merchant we are in God's Kingdom.
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  Strict, unforgiving and demanding toward others.
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  But incredibly lenient and full of excuses for ourselves.
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  The person who demands spotless perfection from others but
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  always finds a sophisticated excuse for his own vices, well,
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  that person shows a heart that has very little fear of God and
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  very little appreciation for grace.
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  And Christ warns that this exact standard comes back on them.
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  How does it come back? It happens in two ways.
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  There are the providential dealings of God in this life,
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  and then there's the ultimate divine judgement.
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  Let's start with the providential.
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  OK, so the harsh man often breeds harshness in his
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  relationships. The suspicious man who always
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  assumes the worst. He tends to end up isolated or
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  surrounded by suspicion. If you approach every situation
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  like a judge, relationships start to feel like a courtroom.
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  Like constant litigation, God often uses these natural
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  consequences as a way to chasten us.
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  He lets us case the bitter fruit of the Spirit we sow in others.
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  But the deeper concern is divine judgement, and here we have to
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  deal with that tricky theological question for those
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  of us who hold to justification by faith alone.
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  How can Christ say you will be judged if a believer is secure
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  in Christ's work? This is where we have to hold
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  our theology tightly, right? We need balance.
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  We hold 2 truths first. Justification is a once for all
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  legal declaration grounded entirely in Christ's
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  righteousness, received by faith alone.
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  Our eternal standing is safe. So the Christian doesn't stand
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  before the throne hoping they were good enough.
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  No, you stand in Christ perfection.
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  However, the Bible is also clear that believers will face a
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  judgment according to their works.
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  How does that work? For the unbeliever, that
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  judgment is terminal, it ends in condemnation.
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  But for the believer, judgment according to works has a
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  different purpose. Our works are the public
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  evidence of the heart's real condition.
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  So a person who is genuinely justified will show evidence of
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  a transformed life. Which includes genuine
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  nonsensorious love. So when Jesus gives this
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  warning, it's not a threat that Christ's righteousness might be
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  taken away. It's a severe fatherly warning.
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  It's meant to keep God's people humble.
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  Yes, to remind them that a merciless condemning spirit is
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  totally incompatible with the mercy they received.
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  It's corrective discipline. A Holy Father won't leave a
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  merciless spirit uncorrected because it defames the Gospel.
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  This just strikes right at the spiritual pride of the
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  censorious person. They think they're harsh
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  judgement proves their moral clarity.
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  I see the sin, I condemn the sin, therefore I'm strong and
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  holy. But Jesus says the standard you
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  use proves the opposite about your soul.
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  If you can sin boldly in private with pride, bitterness, but
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  condemn sharply in public, you're not showing maturity.
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  You're flirting with terminal hypocrisy.
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  The way you measure others becomes your own testimony
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  before God. And he will not ignore your
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  testimony. The cross then becomes the
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  ultimate measure. It purifies the necessary work
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  of correction. We still have to warn and
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  correct and guard truth. Of course, but Matthew 7.2
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  forbids a specific spirit in that work, the spirit that
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  forgets the cross. The cross teaches 2 things at
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  once. First, sin is so serious it
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  required the blood of the Son of God.
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  And 2nd, God loves sinners so profoundly that he gave his Son
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  for them. Our measure has to reflect both
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  of those realities. So truth spoken without
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  flattering the sin, and mercy extended without indulging
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  condemnation. If your first instinct is always
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  to crush the person who fails, you haven't learned the measure
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  of Christ. You have to speak with a
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  trembling humility, knowing you stand before God and need His
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  mercy every single second. Only when you realize God is
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  measuring the measurer do you become sane enough to ask, what
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  on earth is that enormous thing sticking out of my own face?
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  Exactly. And this is where Jesus moves
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  from that sobering principle to this memorable, almost comedic
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  satire. Why do you see the speck that is
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  in your brother's eye, but do not notice the log that is in
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  your own eye? Or how can you say to your
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  brother, let me take the speck out of your eye when there is
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  the log in your own eye? The image is just intentionally
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  absurd. It's meant to humiliate pride.
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  Imagine a person walking around with a giant wooden beam
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  sticking out of his eye socket. He can't see straight.
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  He's tripping over things. And yet his entire focus is on a
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  tiny piece of sawdust in his neighbor's eye.
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  The sin of the brother is real. The speck is real, but the
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  critic is just spectacularly disqualified by his own much
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  bigger corruption. And the power of it is that
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  Jesus doesn't deny the speck exists.
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  The brother does have a problem that needs to be dealt with, but
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  the diagnosis is all about the critics condition.
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  Total hypocritical blindness. This is the definition of
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  hypocrisy. You're performing righteousness
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  while fiercely refusing to submit to honest personal
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  repentance. And you have to look at the
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  verbs he uses. You see the speck, but you do
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  not notice the log. This isn't accidental ignorance.
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  It's willful selective attention.
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  It's fueled by spiritual pride. We are absolute experts at self
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  interpretation and so naive when it comes to self examination.
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  It's so pervasive we can instantly spot a tiny deviation
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  in someone's theology, a lapse in their parenting, a negative
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  tone in their voice. We become these sharp eyed
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  forensic analysts of other people.
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  But when God's Word shines on our own vanity, our own
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  impatience, our pattern of gossip, our bitterness, suddenly
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  things get very foggy and defensive.
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  We have the ability to see clearly, but pride makes us
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  choose not to look at ourselves. Sin makes the heart a dishonest
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  witness in its own case. It trains the soul to be a
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  prosecutor for everyone else, demanding justice but a highly
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  paid defense attorney for itself, always providing excuses
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  and mitigating circumstances. And this is.
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  Especially dangerous in religious circles.
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  Yes, the Pharisee often uses sophisticated biblical
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  vocabulary to dodge the requirement of biblical
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  repentance. He can talk about the speck with
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  clinical precision, but never addresses his own log with any
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  real honesty or sorrow. And then there's that subtle
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  cruelty of the polite offer, the mask.
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  Let me take the speck out of your eye.
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  It sounds so helpful, so compassionate.
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  But Jesus. Cuts right through it.
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  He unmasks how easily that helpful language can cloak A
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  harmful, arrogant heart that's secretly enjoying that little
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  moment of spiritual superiority. Hypocrisy so often uses the
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  language of care. It offers to speak truth and
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  love while it's real motive is craving the role of the healer
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  without ever submitting to the humility of being the one who
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  was healed. It wants to be the competent
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  surgeon with the sterile tweezers, but refuses to be the
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  patient on the table. So the correction is just
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  ineffective and damaging. He can't correct well because
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  the log in his eye messes up his perception.
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  He can't restore gently because he's never been humbled by his
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  own need for restoration. He comes to the brother not as a
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  fellow patient, but as a boss, seeking to win a point, not win
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  the neighbor. So what is the log sin?
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  It's not just a bigger sin, is it?
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  No, it's often the sin that actively distorts your
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  perception. So the spiritual cancer that
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  warps every other interaction. Deep seated pride, harshness,
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  envy, and unmerciful spirit. These are beam sins because they
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  block the light. You see this log thriving today
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  under all sorts of respectable banners.
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  That online discernment culture that mistakes suspicion for
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  piety. Quick to denounce minor
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  theological points, Slow to pre for the one in error.
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  Or a pragmatic church leadership that treats struggling people
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  like problems to be managed, not souls to be shepherded.
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  The heart will always find a way to protect its log if it can
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  stay busy inspecting someone elses spec.
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  Christ questions why and how can you say they're meant to stop us
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  in our tracks? To make us pause and do
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  spiritual triage on ourselves first.
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  Exactly. They press us toward a different
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  kind of spiritual maturity, one that trembles at God's Word and
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  repents quickly, rather than one that wins debates about the
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  flaws of others. So the first and hardest work is
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  never diagnosing others. It's judging ourselves truly and
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  honestly in the light of God's holiness, in Christ's mercy.
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  Before we ever speak about a brother's failure, we have to
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  ask what sin am I currently excusing in myself?
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  What lack of love have I justified as conviction?
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  The first step toward clear sighted help is always personal
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  repentance. And Matthew 7.5 is the great
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  turning point of the passage. It moves from that sharp
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  diagnosis to a clear, constructive path forward.
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  You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye and then
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  you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother's eye.
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  The brilliance is the order, he doesn't say.
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  Stop correcting, just be nice, he says.
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  Stop pretending, start repenting, and then only then
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  start helping. Integrity before ministry.
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  Purity before pastoral care. That little word first is not
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  just about sequence. It's an act of mercy.
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  It's telling us the only safe and loving way out of
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  censoriousness is to deal with ourselves first.
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  And he deals with the central sin, which is pretense
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  hypocrisy. It's not some optional
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  inconvenience, it's a spiritual cancer.
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  He demands self judgement before other judgement.
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  We have to stop pretending depending.
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  We're qualified to do surgery when we're standing in the dark.
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  So what does it mean practically to take the log out?
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  It can't mean achieving sinless perfection, because that would
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  disqualify everyone. No, it's absolutely not a call
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  to instant perfection. It is a call to real act of
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  repentance and mortification. So it means facing your own sin,
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  that pride, that bitterness, that harshness, without excuses.
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  Without Varnish, confessing it, submitting to what scripture
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  says about it, instead of clinging to your own self
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  justifying story, The log is often about perspective, pride,
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  harshness, envy and unmerciful spirit that hasn't been humbled
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  by the gospel. So removing the log means
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  tracing the sin to its root in the heart, naming it, and then
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  actively working to kill it. Right.
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  If your log is gossip that you call concern, removing it means
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  confessing the lack of love, stopping the conversation, and
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  then going to the person privately instead of talking
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  about them. If your log is a temper that you
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  justify as righteous indignation.
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  Removing it and confessing the pride that fuels the anger and
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  seeking genuine patience until those beamed sins are being
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  dealt with. Our attempts at correction are
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  not just unhelpful, they're spiritually dangerous.
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  They're like clumsy, unwashed hands reaching into an inflamed
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  eye. Guaranteeing infection and more
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  harm. The humility you get from
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  confessing a massive personal fault is the prerequisite for
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  effective spiritual help. But the command is so
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  constructive. And then you will see clearly.
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  Repentance isn't just moral cleansing, it's spiritual
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  clarification. Sin clouds your judgement.
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  It warps your sense of proportion.
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  Humility clears it. The person who has been
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  genuinely humbled by his own failures is changed.
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  He's less eager to stand over his brother.
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  He's slower to assume the worst motive.
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  He knows he only stands by grace.
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  He's tasted God's mercy, and that lets him speak truth with
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  tenderness. Clear sight isn't the swagger of
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  the self assured expert, it's the steady, careful vision of
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  someone who has been completely forgiven.
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  It restores accuracy, proportion and above all, love.
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  And only then does Jesus return to the speck to take the speck
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  out of your brother's eye, which confirms the speck is a real
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  problem. Yes, and the aim is restoration,
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  not humiliation. Love requires action for the
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  brother's good, even if that action is painful.
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  This is why the New Testament pairs correction with so much
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  caution and gentleness. Matthew 7.5 is echoed right in
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  Galatians 6.1. Brothers, if anyone is caught in
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  any transgression, you who are spiritual should restore him in
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  a spirit of gentleness. Keep watch on yourself.
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  Left you to be tempted. That's the pattern.
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  Self watchfulness, humility, and then restoration.
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  This order is a hedge of protection around the church.
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  It guards it from 2 opposite errors.
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  On one side you have permissive silence, refusing to remove
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  specks, calling it kindness when it's really just indifference or
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  cowardice. And on the other you have
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  Pharisaic severity, legalism that says it's zealous for
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  holiness but is actually cruel and proud.
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  He tries to remove specks with the log still in, causing severe
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  spiritual harm. Jesus rejects both.
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  He forbids condemnation, but he commands restorative care.
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  So we've laid out the command, the consequence, and the remedy.
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  We need to synthesize this. The solution to a judging spirit
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  is in just better manners. Right.
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  It's the proper application of the law and the gospel to the
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  conscience that's central to Reformed thinking.
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  The human heart on its own always seeks justification
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  through indulgence or performance.
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  Judging others is a performance strategy.
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  And Christ's words about specs and logs force us into a place
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  where we have to see ourselves truly before.
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  God, a position the law has to create.
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  Let's talk about the function of the law here.
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  How does it break the judging heart?
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  The law has to strip away all our illusions of competency and
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  superiority. It's designed to say with total
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  clarity, You are not God. It exposes the arrogance of
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  thinking we can see all motives and pronounce a final verdict on
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  another soul. It turns the spotlight around.
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  It forces the critic to feel the intense blade he's been swinging
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  so carelessly at his neighbor. The judging heart survives on
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  comparative righteousness. I'm OK because I'm better than
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  that person. But the law forbids that.
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  The law demands perfection, and by demanding perfection, it
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  demolishes the whole foundation of comparison.
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  The minute I realize I have to love God with all my heart,
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  soul, mind and strength, my supposed superiority just
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  banishes. The law demands personal
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  repentance before any public commentary is legitimate.
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  It exposes the real sins, fueling judgmentalism.
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  The pride, the bitterness, the insecurity.
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  And this confronts those modern religious evasions.
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  We see the pragmatism that treats people as problems to be
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  managed, the online discernment that mistakes harshness for
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  holiness. The law is merciless to our
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  pretense. So that we can finally be honest
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  with ourselves and humbled before God.
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  But the law by itself can lead to Pharisee ISM or despair.
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  The law wounds, only the gospel heals.
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  So how does the gospel heal the judged soul?
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  How does it provide the safety needed for real self judgement?
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  The gospel heals by announcing the staggering truth.
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  God justifies sinners solely because of Christ's
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  righteousness, not because they managed to clean their own eye
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  first. When justification by faith
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  alone grips your heart. Any need for superiority just
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  collapses. The Christian can't look down
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  from the judge's bench because he knows he deserved the dock.
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  He was speared A crushing verdict, so he can't savor
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  crushing others. This gets rid of that poison of
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  merit thinking in community life.
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  It does. Any kind of performance based
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  spirituality poisons community. If you think acceptance is
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  achieved by your moral performance, you'll either
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  become a smug judge or a secret hypocrite.
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  But the Gospels Verdict There is therefore now no condemnation
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  for those who are in Christ Jesus.
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  It dismantles that deep psychological need to condemn
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  others to prop ourselves. Up and the gospel also gives the
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  believer a new identity, not just an acquitted criminal, but
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  an adopted child. That changes everything.
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  If God is my Father, I'm free to address a brother's sin without
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  needing to crush him, because my security is in Christ, and I'm
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  free to tell the truth about my own sin without fear of being
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  cast out. This adoption creates the tone
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  Jesus commands. It flows right from the cross.
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  Which teaches us two things at once.
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  Sin is deadly serious, and mercy is staggeringly real.
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  This combination produces a spirit that is firm about truth
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  but gentle with people, quick to repent of its own failures, slow
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  to fly into a rage. And this isn't just a matter of
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  trying harder. No, the Gospel empowers us
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  through the Holy Spirit. Union with Christ means the
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  Spirit is actively at work, mortifying those logs, sins, the
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  pride, the harshness, and producing the fruit needed for
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  careful correction. Patience, kindness,
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  self-control. When the law crushes self
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  righteousness and the gospel heals the brokenness.
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  The judging heart is broken and the judged soul is healed in
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  Christ. Christ isn't lowering God's
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  moral standard. He's lifting up God's Son as the
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  only source of our righteousness and the only example for our
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  charity. This passage is so practical, we
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  need to bring this home for you listening.
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  This requires application for our beliefs, our feelings and
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  our actions. Let's start with the head.
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  What do we have to believe to obey this?
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  First, you have to settle that Jesus condemns censorious
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  condemnation, but he commands moral discernment.
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  If you're discerning false teaching, the Spirit should be
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  sorrowful, not satisfied. You have to hold on to the
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  belief that God alone is the final judge and you're
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  struggling. Brother is not an enemy to be
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  defeated. He's a neighbor and maybe a
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  fellow heir of grace to be restored.
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  We also need to define specs and logs by scripture, not our
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  personal preferences. There are real sins that damage
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  souls, but there are also just differences in personality or
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  disputable matters. And in those, charity and grace
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  have to rule. And crucially, if your
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  discernment consistently produces suspicion, contempt,
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  and bitterness toward other Christians, you have to conclude
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  that your spiritual posture is carnal, no matter how good your
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  theology is. We have to reject the modern
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  habit of outsourcing our wisdom to hot takes.
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  Whether it's the culture's silence or social media's call
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  out instinct, the legalist thinks holiness is harshness.
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  Jesus teaches it begins with self judgment.
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  OK, now to the heart. What we must feel.
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  A judging spirit comes from specific heart sins.
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  You have to trace the root pride, insecurity, a lack of
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  gratitude, bitterness, fear. These are the log sins, and they
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  need immediate, concrete confession.
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  You have to cultivate a holy grief over your own sin before
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  you get eager to correct someone else.
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  When you feel that itch to fix someone, pause, pray, Probe your
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  motive. Ask yourself, do I want this
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  person's restoration, or do I just want to be seen as the
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  discerning 1? Do I feel real compassion or do
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  I feel a sense of smug satisfaction?
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  We have to let the mercy we've received from God determine the
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  tone we use with others. Learn to weep over your own sin
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  more quickly than you sneer at your brothers.
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  And if you've been the one who has bruised others with harsh
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  criticism, especially online. The first act of love is often
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  to seek forgiveness plainly without excuses.
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  Finally, the hands. What we must do?
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  We have to obey the order first then.
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  This means concrete, measurable action.
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  So the first step is real self examination.
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  Name your log specifically. Is it worry, Gossip.
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  Doctrinal arrogance. A critical spirit toward your
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  spouse. Confess it to God, confess it to
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  someone who can hold you accountable and take real steps
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  to kill it. That log is often relational, A
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  harsh tone, assuming the worst, talking about people instead of
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  to them. And then when a real speck has
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  to be addressed, you follow the biblical process.
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  First, pray before you speak. Second, go privately, just you
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  and the other person, like Matthew 18 says. 3rd Speak with
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  scripture aiming for healing, not for winning an argument.
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  And fourth, be willing to walk with them afterward.
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  Offer support, encouragement, accountability.
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  True help is never a hit and run.
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  And we have to guard against that performance instinct.
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  Public corrections, sub tweeting, shaming.
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  These often hide the log of pride.
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  If an issue really needs a public warning, it has to be
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  done with trembling sobriety, not a relish for controversy.
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  Your help has to be measurable. Offer prayer and patient follow
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  up, not just a severe rebuke from a safe distance.
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  In these 5 verses, Jesus pulls off a stunning rescue.
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  He frees his people from 2 deadly ditches.
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  He rejects the world's easy tolerance of sin, and he rejects
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  the Pharisees cruel judgment that's just designed to prove
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  his own purity. Christ forbids the posture of
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  self-righteous condemnation. He warns us that God measures
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  the measure. He exposes the absurdity of
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  hypocrisy, and then he gives that merciful order.
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  First repent, then restore. He's in silencing truth.
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  He's purifying the voice that speaks it.
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  He isn't getting rid of correction.
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  He's getting rid of hypocrisy. And the good news has to settle
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  here. The judging heart is broken when
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  it admits I deserve the ultimate judgement.
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  The judged soul is healed when it hears God's final verdict in
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  Christ. No condemnation.
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  The church is meant to be a family where repentance is
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  normal, forgiveness is practiced and restoration is pursued, not
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  a cold courtroom issuing harsh verdicts.
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  So let Christ's questions stay with you today.
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  What specs have you been magnifying in others?
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  And what enormous logs have you been refusing to notice and
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  confess in yourself? Lay down the gavel, take up the
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  work of personal repentance, and then, and only then, with clear
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  sight, purified by humility, and with gentle hands, go and help
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  your brother so that the world sees he's not our superiority,
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  but the steady, healing presence of the Savior who redeemed us
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  all.