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No Men Allowed! The One Place Women Have Their Best Conversations · I Do, Part 2

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  Speaker 1: Hey, that folks, sit is Sunday, May third, and woo,
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  Speaker 1: what a girl's weekend it was. You know, the ladies
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  Speaker 1: got together to go see Devil War's Prada too. There
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  Speaker 1: are a bunch of girl groups this weekend, and surely
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  Speaker 1: they were having all kinds of conversations, maybe about the fellas,
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  Speaker 1: maybe not. But I am told we're all about to
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  Speaker 1: be surprised to find out where women actually have their
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  Speaker 1: best conversations with that welcome to this episode of Aamy
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  Speaker 1: and TJ and Robes. As I say, we would all
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  Speaker 1: be surprised to find out. Women won't be surprised to
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  Speaker 1: hear this, you say, I was.
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  Speaker 2: Just gonna say, if you're a woman, this will not
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  Speaker 2: be shocking, but I'm curious if it will be for you,
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  Speaker 2: my love.
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  Speaker 1: So where do you and men in general? Right?
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  Speaker 3: Yes, I didn't mean to single you out.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, men, where do you believe if you had to guess,
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  Speaker 2: list your top three places where you think women might
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  Speaker 2: have their best conversations?
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  Speaker 1: And by best I mean gens. That's just general term, right,
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  Speaker 1: just best conversations fun.
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  Speaker 2: Some of the thing can be deep, some of them
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  Speaker 2: can just be uplifting. Where do you think these conversations
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  Speaker 2: are happening.
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  Speaker 1: The bathroom at the nightclub. In the mirror, I would
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  Speaker 1: guess there.
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  Speaker 3: You're right?
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  Speaker 1: Is that right?
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  Speaker 3: It's the bathroom. It doesn't have to nightclub, it's just
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  Speaker 3: the bathroom.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, And with that, thank you for listening, Bolks. The
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  Speaker 1: episode is over. I did not know this stuff ahead
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  Speaker 1: of time.
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  Speaker 3: That is so funny. I didn't think you were gonna
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  Speaker 3: guess it.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. So they just did a recent survey. In fact,
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  Speaker 2: I should give credit where credit is due. This is
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  Speaker 2: this article came to us from our producer Sam, and
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  Speaker 2: she's been kind of forting us some fun articles to
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  Speaker 2: have conversations about what gen z ers, what younger women
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  Speaker 2: might be talking about or interested in. But this one
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  Speaker 2: jumped out of me because it made me laugh. I
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  Speaker 2: don't I probably would have guessed it, but as soon.
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  Speaker 3: As I saw the answer, I immediately thought.
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  Speaker 1: Duh, how many on the list? First of all, do
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  Speaker 1: they have here?
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  Speaker 2: No?
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  Speaker 1: This is how many places?
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  Speaker 2: No?
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  Speaker 3: Just bathrooms? Just the one place is bathrooms?
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  Speaker 1: Oh my?
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  Speaker 3: That But what the data is showing.
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  Speaker 2: This research shows what women are actually doing in there,
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  Speaker 2: what they're talking about. They surveyed thousands of women and
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  Speaker 2: where well, what do you have any idea what women
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  Speaker 2: are talking about? What are we doing in there? You're
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  Speaker 2: sitting there, you're waiting with your guys, Like, where are they?
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  Speaker 3: What are those two doing in there?
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  Speaker 2: Now?
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  Speaker 1: Wait a minute, are we saying that it's we're talking
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  Speaker 1: about public bathrooms generally are just the bathroom? Wow? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I went right to the club because I think about
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  Speaker 1: women going there puting their makeup on the little tipsy.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe they're exchanging quick stories before they go back out
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  Speaker 1: and say your guy, this is your guy. That guys. Well, no,
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  Speaker 1: I am saying my mind went there, Oh yeah first,
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  Speaker 1: because I don't know, just that image comes to mind
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  Speaker 1: of women in that bathroom just chatting it up and
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  Speaker 1: chopping it up.
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  Speaker 2: Yep.
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  Speaker 3: But do you ever wonder what we're doing, like what we're.
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  Speaker 1: Talking about in the bathroom? Do I ever one I
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  Speaker 1: know not to ask I what women are doing in
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  Speaker 1: the bathroom. I don't know what y'all are chatting and
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  Speaker 1: up about in the bathroom.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, it's funny because this article pointed out this data
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  Speaker 2: showed that in this era of cell phones, you know,
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  Speaker 2: we don't have a lot of personal connection or one
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  Speaker 2: on one or meeting strangers where you just actually have
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  Speaker 2: sometimes meaningful conversations with someone you've just met. That doesn't
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  Speaker 2: happen that often anymore, except in the women's public restrooms
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  Speaker 2: because your phones are down, you are fixing your makeup.
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  Speaker 3: But it is interesting.
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  Speaker 2: I loved seeing because we have so many stories about
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  Speaker 2: women who don't get along, cat fights, all of this
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  Speaker 2: stuff constantly making headlines. This survey made me happy because
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  Speaker 2: it's true because I've had and I think any woman listening,
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  Speaker 2: when I start listening what we do in the bathroom,
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  Speaker 2: it will resonate with you because I know you've experienced it.
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  Speaker 2: And actually it is uplifting because I never recognized this.
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  Speaker 2: But where else do we have these fun, intimate interactions
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  Speaker 2: with strangers. It's just rare these days, especially with our phones.
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of another place where it's possible,
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  Speaker 1: and all the places i'm thinking of where you don't interact,
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  Speaker 1: I'm thinking like a subway. I'm thinking even at an airport,
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  Speaker 1: where there are big crowds of people you don't see
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  Speaker 1: necessarily strangers interacting. We see that bars I think maybe
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  Speaker 1: maybe airport bars maybe yes, And those in some of
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  Speaker 1: those places where people are almost looking for connection, looking
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  Speaker 1: for somebody to talk to, because they're not traveling with somebody.
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  Speaker 1: But and also, men don't have these conversations.
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  Speaker 2: I was just gonna ask you what men do in
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  Speaker 2: the public restaurant. You don't interact, You don't even make
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  Speaker 2: eye contact.
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  Speaker 1: Your eyes straight ahead front, you don't look around, You
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  Speaker 1: don't want to do anything but get in and get
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  Speaker 1: out of there.
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  Speaker 2: Have you ever had a man trying to strike up
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  Speaker 2: a casual conversation with you in the men's restroom.
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  Speaker 1: I'm sure randomly here, but a full conversation new and
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  Speaker 1: we're not in the mirror for a long time. Most
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  Speaker 1: guys don't wash their hands well thoroughly anyway, so they're
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  Speaker 1: there for five seconds doing a little and they're gone.
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  Speaker 3: So you have the.
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  Speaker 2: Complete opposite experience in the public rescue, complete stand out,
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  Speaker 2: and you're waiting for us, and you're thinking, what in
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  Speaker 2: the hell are those women doing in there?
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  Speaker 1: Oh, we accept it, we get it, and that's fine.
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  Speaker 1: We don't get We don't even get frustrated. I don't
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  Speaker 1: think by it anymore. We understand she's going to the bathroom.
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  Speaker 2: It's just a known entity. This is going to happen
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  Speaker 2: all right, So here is I have the top ten
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  Speaker 2: things that women are doing in the bathroom.
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  Speaker 1: What talking about in a conversation? Are just doing a
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  Speaker 1: little bit of both.
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  Speaker 2: Most of it is conversation, yes, but this is what
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  Speaker 2: we're doing interacting with one another. Okay, the first, the first,
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  Speaker 2: the number one thing. Fifty eight percent of women say
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  Speaker 2: it's casual small talk. And that is true. Just you'll
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  Speaker 2: talk about the club, you'll talk about the music, you'll
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  Speaker 2: talk about the food, you'll talk about whatever.
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  Speaker 3: So that's just your basic stuff.
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  Speaker 1: And again, these are women, not two women that get
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  Speaker 1: up from the table and go to the bathroom together.
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  Speaker 1: These are strangers, the.
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  Speaker 2: Rangers, these are This is stranger interaction, which is very
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  Speaker 2: rare these days. That was the point Number two, And
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  Speaker 2: I love this, this is so true. Giving a compliment,
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  Speaker 2: forty of women will say, oh my god, I love
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  Speaker 2: your outfit, I love your shoes, your hair looks so nice.
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  Speaker 3: What's that lipstick color? That kind of a thing.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I've never complimented a man's shoes in the bathroom,
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  Speaker 1: not once. Forty fine trousers, you got on there.
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  Speaker 2: The idea of men doing that is hilarious. Why though,
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  Speaker 2: why couldn't men do that.
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  Speaker 1: In the bathroom. No, it's just a different there's a
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  Speaker 1: there's an intimacy that you don't have with strange men.
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  Speaker 1: There's not a connection you try to make with a
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  Speaker 1: man you don't know, and certainly not in the bathroom
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  Speaker 1: where guys are standing right next to each other at
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  Speaker 1: urinals with their junk out. This is not I don't
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  Speaker 1: want to converse. I don't want to I wouldn't like
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  Speaker 1: to meet you if your dick in your hand. And
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  Speaker 1: that's not a good setup.
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  Speaker 2: All right, So y'all aren't complimenting each other. So forty
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  Speaker 2: percent said it was giving a compliment. Thirty eight percent
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  Speaker 2: said it was receiving a compliment.
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  Speaker 3: And it's true. I can think of so many interactions.
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  Speaker 3: It's funny.
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  Speaker 2: I go back to a restaurant we used to hang
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  Speaker 2: out at all the time, Suprama in the West Village,
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  Speaker 2: and I remember in that bathroom having so many fun
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  Speaker 2: conversations with random women, and then also Maurice Crisis having
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  Speaker 2: like amazing conversations in that bathroom.
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  Speaker 1: You should stop.
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  Speaker 2: You're already having fun. Then you start getting all excited.
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  Speaker 3: People say I love your Where did you get that dress?
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  Speaker 1: How big is that bathroom. Okayry, have you ever gone
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  Speaker 1: to that bathroom? Sober?
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  Speaker 3: Probably? Well buzzed maybe would be the best.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just laughing about Maurice crisis. Anybody knows it obviously,
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  Speaker 1: you know.
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  Speaker 2: And it's the waiting for the bathroom line because those
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  Speaker 2: are really small, tiny spaces, so it's like as you're
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  Speaker 2: waiting for a stall to open up, that's where the
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  Speaker 2: conversations happened a lot of time.
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  Speaker 1: Made me think of a very funny story. I'll tell
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  Speaker 1: you about it later. I have had bathroom conversation. It
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  Speaker 1: was in a line and it was with a woman.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, like stranger thing. Yes, okay, can we get back
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  Speaker 2: to that.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, all right.
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  Speaker 2: So the next thing is handing someone a product. So
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  Speaker 2: true either either if you need from period products to
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  Speaker 2: toilet paper to like do you have a cute different whatever,
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  Speaker 2: something that a woman could give another woman that you need,
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  Speaker 2: even hand sanitizer, you name it.
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  Speaker 3: That was twelve percent. So I people have said, oh
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  Speaker 3: could I borrow this? Or do you have that? So
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  Speaker 3: we share our products with each other.
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  Speaker 1: Just the idea of a man say, hey man, you
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  Speaker 1: got any chapstick? A chapstick? Just need to get a
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  Speaker 1: little hit hire before I go back out to my
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  Speaker 1: lady at the table.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, that's awful, all right. And this is where
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  Speaker 2: I think you're going to start laughing. So number five
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  Speaker 2: on hours laughing. Okay, we've been laughing.
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  Speaker 3: That is true.
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  Speaker 2: Offering emotional support because a lot of times you'll find
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  Speaker 2: a girl crying in the bathroom, and I.
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  Speaker 3: Have absolutely seen that.
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  Speaker 2: I've been the girl, and I've seen the girl and
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  Speaker 2: other women go to help.
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  Speaker 3: What's wrong? How can I help what's happening?
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  Speaker 2: And we start all of a sudden just offering each
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  Speaker 2: other emotional support in the public restroom.
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  Speaker 1: How many men do you think I've sent crying of
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  Speaker 1: public bathroom?
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  Speaker 3: Zero O Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Even boys that come in with their dads aren't crying.
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  Speaker 3: That is hilarious, all right.
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  Speaker 2: The next one, the next one on the list is
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  Speaker 2: having a surprisingly deep conversation. So I do think that
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  Speaker 2: has happened so many times I can I actually have
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  Speaker 2: vivid memories.
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  Speaker 3: It's funny.
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  Speaker 2: Sometimes the night might be blurry, but you remember your
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  Speaker 2: deep bathroom conversations. It can be with the friend you
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  Speaker 2: brought in there with you, because of course, we rarely
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  Speaker 2: go into these bathrooms alone. And then sometimes you'll have
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  Speaker 2: like a girlfriend, like like you have your two of
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  Speaker 2: you see another group of two and then you all
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  Speaker 2: start talking and supporting each other. It happens all the time,
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  Speaker 2: So then it's it's one of it was giving. Some
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  Speaker 2: of it was receiving emotional support, all right, giving someone
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  Speaker 2: gum erments one hundred percent?
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  Speaker 3: Have you even done that?
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  Speaker 1: Well, there's a an attendant often in the bathroom. Do
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  Speaker 1: y'all have that?
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  Speaker 3: Well, in the nicer places that I rarely go to.
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  Speaker 1: But they do put an attendant in there.
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  Speaker 2: They do sometimes offer that those types of services.
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  Speaker 1: Only time a man has offered me a mint and
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  Speaker 1: a bathroom because he was paid to do so, and
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  Speaker 1: expecting a tip for dolf, here's a peppermint, you expect
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  Speaker 1: a five after that. Okay, that those guys are great.
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  Speaker 1: I respect the hell out of those guys that have
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  Speaker 1: to stand in that bathroom for hours seeing drunk people
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  Speaker 1: come in and make all kinds of noises and smells,
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  Speaker 1: and I give them their props. So yeah, but no,
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  Speaker 1: that's the only time I've ever been offered anything, even
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  Speaker 1: offered a conversation in a bathroom probably was with an attendant.
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  Speaker 2: An attendant, okay, all right, And then the last one
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  Speaker 2: they have here is giving someone a bandage. So again
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  Speaker 2: it's like us women, we've got basically pharmacies in our
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  Speaker 2: purses half the time. And so from hair makeup, accessory
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  Speaker 2: comments to band aids and emotional support, it really actually
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  Speaker 2: runs the gamut. But I feel like it is so common,
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  Speaker 2: and I do think you're right. The more it tends
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  Speaker 2: to be in a bar where people have been drinking,
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  Speaker 2: where people.
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  Speaker 3: Let down their guards. Isn't that interesting though?
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  Speaker 2: Like we will ignore people and will feel too I
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  Speaker 2: don't know, you don't want to overshare. Maybe you've just
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  Speaker 2: got your guard up, or you just don't feel comfortable
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  Speaker 2: conversing with someone you don't know, But suddenly you have
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  Speaker 2: a couple drinks and everyone's your best friend.
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  Speaker 3: I wonder what that is.
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  Speaker 1: But isn't it different for women as well? You will
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  Speaker 1: have a I don't know, a different connectivity when it
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  Speaker 1: comes to an intimate environment like that. I mean, women
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  Speaker 1: can sid across the room from each other and judge
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  Speaker 1: each other and talk is to each other. But those
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  Speaker 1: two same women, you put them in the bathroom, and
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  Speaker 1: some kind of way you OL's guards go down. When
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  Speaker 1: you end up in I don't know, it's something you
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  Speaker 1: all get into an intimate women only space and it's
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  Speaker 1: almost like you all are very supportive and protective of
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  Speaker 1: each other. In public, it can feel like something else.
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  Speaker 1: But yes, I get it, that makes sense.
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  Speaker 2: I had never really considered that space as a special
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  Speaker 2: space where you actually dissolve social barriers because you're standing.
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  Speaker 2: I guess maybe it's a private thing to do. And look,
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  Speaker 2: this could be one of the reasons why. Look, there's
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  Speaker 2: a lot of reasons why people don't like the all
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  Speaker 2: gender bathroom, and there's a lot of reasons why people
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  Speaker 2: love the idea of it. First of all, all that
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  Speaker 2: talking happens because we have to wait so damn long
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  Speaker 2: for a stall, because you know, the women's line is
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  Speaker 2: usually three times longer than the men's line, So we
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  Speaker 2: have a lot of opportunity to have a conversation in
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  Speaker 2: a private setting that would be very different if men
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  Speaker 2: were there.
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  Speaker 1: Sweetheart, Well, the best example we've happened recently when we
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  Speaker 1: go to Broadway shows. That is when sometimes the line
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  Speaker 1: can get long, long line of men, long line of women.
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  Speaker 1: We're not over there talking to each other. We're not
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  Speaker 1: I'm thinking about that. Yes, I've been in line, long
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  Speaker 1: lines men waiting on the bathroom. I am not chatting
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  Speaker 1: it up with anybody that is humm, I'm thinking about
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  Speaker 1: the bathroom line. Right before you run a marathon, right
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  Speaker 1: before you do longline dudes, ain't talking.
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  Speaker 3: That's funny. All right, Well, when we come back, they
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  Speaker 3: actually have.
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  Speaker 2: In this survey the number of or the percentage of
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  Speaker 2: people who walked away meeting a stranger in a public
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  Speaker 2: restroom with a lifetime lasting friendship.
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  Speaker 3: We'll give you that data when we come back.
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  Speaker 1: All right, we continue here on Amy and TJ. Robes
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  Speaker 1: taking us through the latest data on women where they
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  Speaker 1: have their best conversations. Yes, it is in the bathroom,
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  Speaker 1: public bathrooms, oftentimes with strangers, been going through and explaining
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  Speaker 1: one thing. Robes, I want to go back to you, jumped.
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  Speaker 1: I wanted to interrupts when you talk about oftentimes women
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  Speaker 1: crying in the bathroom. Oh, yes, you have seen that girl,
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  Speaker 1: You have been that girl. Why are you crying in
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  Speaker 1: the bathroom?
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  Speaker 2: Usually it has to do with a relationship or a friendship.
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  Speaker 2: Someone said something that upset you. Your boyfriend didn't do
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  Speaker 2: something he was supposed to, Your friend just upset you
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  Speaker 2: by offending you whatever, and you've been drinking and now
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  Speaker 2: you're just at your wits end. You go into the
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  Speaker 2: bathroom to try and collect yourself, but tears start flowing
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  Speaker 2: as soon as you get some privacy, and another woman
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  Speaker 2: walks in and says, oh.
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  Speaker 3: My god, what's wrong?
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  Speaker 1: Did someone offer you help?
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  Speaker 3: Yes, they want to know what's going on. They want
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  Speaker 3: to help.
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  Speaker 1: Was I the one you want to date with at
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  Speaker 1: the timing? You? So you have not cried in the
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  Speaker 1: public bathroom during our relationship.
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  Speaker 3: I have not cried in a public bathroom during our relationship.
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  Speaker 1: Now, Okay, that's really all we need. Please let's continue
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  Speaker 1: with the episode.
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  Speaker 2: Wait, but didn't you have a story about having your
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  Speaker 2: conversation with the woman?
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  Speaker 1: This is crazy. I think I've told you this before.
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  Speaker 1: Is one of my favorite bathrooms. Wait, I don't have
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  Speaker 1: any bathroom stories. Your only bathroom story Vegas MGM Grand
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  Speaker 1: This private party but in the open area of the
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  Speaker 1: casino before the Paquiao Mayweather fight of all time. I'm
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  Speaker 1: in there with my friend. We had to go to
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  Speaker 1: a bathroom. This is an actual restaurant, but they just
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  Speaker 1: have this private event packed with all these celebrities left
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  Speaker 1: and right. It was amazing robes, but the bathroom situation
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  Speaker 1: was jacked because you all had to line up in
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  Speaker 1: one hallway to go to the men's or the women,
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  Speaker 1: so men and women were in the same line.
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  Speaker 2: Had to finally understand what it's like to be in
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  Speaker 2: line with women waiting for the restaurant.
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  Speaker 1: I did, but I had no problem that this was
• 15:28
  Speaker 1: the lady that I ended up talking to. As I'm
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: drinking a vodka with a splash of cranberry, the woman
• 15:34
  Speaker 1: in line right behind me reach so grabs my drink,
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: start sipping it, and we just started chatting it up.
• 15:41
  Speaker 1: She said, Man, this line is crazy. See the left
• 15:43
  Speaker 1: and the right. Why they got us in the same line.
• 15:45
  Speaker 1: Have a full on conversation with Alison Jenny.
• 15:49
  Speaker 3: Oh, I love Alison Jenny. But she just took your drink.
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: Alison Jenny took my drink in the bathroom line. Didn't
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: introduce herself, didn't I don't know what she knew who
• 15:58
  Speaker 1: the hell I was. I was with see no ABC
• 16:01
  Speaker 1: at the time, and started drinking and I sat. I
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: had a long conversation with her the entire time. I'm
• 16:07
  Speaker 1: waiting to go to the bathroom. That is my only
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: bathroom story.
• 16:10
  Speaker 2: See it involved a woman and I a strong woman.
• 16:13
  Speaker 2: Now did she think maybe that was her drink? Or
• 16:15
  Speaker 2: did she know she was taking your drink?
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: I have questions? It was in my hand.
• 16:18
  Speaker 3: Oh that is hilarious.
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: It's not a table situation, sweetheart. We are in our
• 16:22
  Speaker 1: bathroom line. And yes, as I'm in the bathroom line,
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: doesn't it make sense I'd still have my drink. I'm
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: still drinking. Notice, sweetheart, I was leaning up against the
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: wall chilling and Alison Janny and I talked in the
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: bathroom line. That is my only bathroom story, only bathroom conversation.
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: And it was with.
• 16:38
  Speaker 2: Alison Jens, a woman. I wanted to ask one more
• 16:40
  Speaker 2: follow up? Yeah, maybe two. But the other one is
• 16:43
  Speaker 2: did she give you the drink back?
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah, we shared it?
• 16:45
  Speaker 3: Okay? And do you remember what you were talking about?
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: Nothing?
• 16:49
  Speaker 3: We were I think small talk. That's fifty eight percent,
• 16:51
  Speaker 3: is it really? Yeah? Fifteen?
• 16:53
  Speaker 2: The most thing is small talk is just fun. Like
• 16:56
  Speaker 2: they say, you talk more, women talk more. At least
• 16:58
  Speaker 2: whoever is there ending in the women's bathroom line talks
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: more in the bathroom or heading into the bathroom. Then
• 17:04
  Speaker 2: people do it happy hour, like when you when you
• 17:06
  Speaker 2: have a work event and you've got this forced happy hour.
• 17:08
  Speaker 2: They say that sometimes that's difficult that people report having
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: better conversations in bathroom lines in public restrooms than they.
• 17:14
  Speaker 3: Do at a forced happy hour type.
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: Of there's no pressure, there's no pressure choosing to and
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: you also know this is going to end. You know what.
• 17:25
  Speaker 2: That is such a good point. I hadn't even thought
• 17:27
  Speaker 2: about that. You have an exit, yeah, immediate, and you
• 17:30
  Speaker 2: can get away.
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: If this doesn't go well, Oh well, as soon as
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: I flush and wash my hands, this relationship is over.
• 17:36
  Speaker 3: That is funny.
• 17:37
  Speaker 2: So all of these, all of the numbers and the
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: percentages that came out of this study all made sense
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: to me except for one. This one I actually was
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: really surprised by. So they say just seven percent of
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: women report having these you know, deep soul bearing conversations.
• 17:55
  Speaker 3: Okay, that's I understand. It's a small number.
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: Twenty one percent of women walking away from a bathroom.
• 18:03
  Speaker 3: Conversation with a lasting friendship.
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: This is someone who they met in the bathroom, who
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: was a stranger before they got into the bathroom, and
• 18:12
  Speaker 2: it ended up becoming a lasting friendship. Twenty one percent
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: of women report that That is shocking to me.
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: That's shockingly weird.
• 18:21
  Speaker 3: What where'd y'all meet in a bathroom?
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: I've actually heard nobody tell that story before. Why would
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: you are you serious?
• 18:28
  Speaker 2: You would just name the restaurant or the bar, and
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: maybe you wouldn't point out that it actually the friendship
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: happened in the bathroom.
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: Okay, maybe that's the way you start in the bathroom,
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: you end up having a drink together at the bar
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: kind of a thing.
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah, And you know what, because a lot of times
• 18:42
  Speaker 2: these bars places, these public restrooms, when you go out
• 18:44
  Speaker 2: of the bathroom, it's loud, there's music, there's the chatter
• 18:47
  Speaker 2: when people are drinking rises many many decibels. So when
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: you get into the restroom, it's quiet and you can
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: actually talk, and so I can see how that happened.
• 18:56
  Speaker 2: I just was surprised that twenty one percent of the
• 18:59
  Speaker 2: time they had a lasting friendship come out of a
• 19:02
  Speaker 2: public restroom meet cute.
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: Basically, I would love if they asked these same questions
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: of men.
• 19:10
  Speaker 3: It would be a very boring survey.
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: That is my bathroom. I don't think I've met anybody
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: in the bathroom much. Let's get a friend out of it.
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: I got shorted by Alison Janny. I wish we would
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: have stayed in touch.
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: Oh well, anyway, we hope you enjoyed this conversation and
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: maybe it spoke to you and you're among the twenty percent.
• 19:33
  Speaker 2: You should call your friend who you met in the restroom,
• 19:35
  Speaker 2: because apparently that is a special, special friendship.
• 19:38
  Speaker 3: All right, And with that, everyone, thank you for listening
• 19:40
  Speaker 3: to us. I made Robock alongside TJ.
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: Holmes.
• 19:43
  Speaker 3: We will talk soon.