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TMI · Second Date Update

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Speaker 1: It could be cringe worthy for a love story. Good
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Speaker 1: morning and kiss in the morning's second date update.
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Speaker 2: I'm kiss ninety five seven?
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Speaker 3: Are you guys? It is time to go to New
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Speaker 3: Britain This morning second date update. Go on a first
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Speaker 3: date and you love it, but you get ghosted for
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Speaker 3: a second date. Call us. Tyler's on the line to
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Speaker 3: tell us about a great first date he went on.
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Speaker 4: Good morning, Tyler, Hey, good morning.
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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. I hope we can help you out.
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Speaker 3: You're getting ghosted after a first date.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, so it kind of It was a good date.
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Speaker 5: You know.
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Speaker 4: I took this girl out. She was super hot. We
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Speaker 4: had a great conversation and I really thought we just
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Speaker 4: had a connection, like I felt it, you know. And Okay,
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Speaker 4: now for some reason, I'm texting her and texting her
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Speaker 4: and texting her and I'm just getting ghosted. Can't figure
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Speaker 4: out why I thought it went great And I don't know.
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Speaker 3: I'm wondering Tyler. When you say I texted her and
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Speaker 3: texted her and texted her, women get you know, it's
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Speaker 3: a little suffocating. That sounds.
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Speaker 4: Yeah.
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Speaker 1: Was it like stocker you talk seeing where you're blowing
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Speaker 1: her up like every five minutes.
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Speaker 4: No, it was like, you know, one day I'm texting her, Hey,
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Speaker 4: how are you? I want to go on a second date?
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Speaker 4: I really liked our first one. Or the second time,
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Speaker 4: it's just like, hey, how are you? Nothing crazy or cringey?
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Speaker 4: You know. I mean, I've done this dating thing many
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Speaker 4: times before.
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Speaker 2: So okay, okay, hey you know what this is what
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Speaker 2: I call the deep freeze, the date deep freeze. It's
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Speaker 2: so cold outside, it's like frozen tundra. Women don't want
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Speaker 2: to get all dressed up and go out. I'm sure
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Speaker 2: that's probably why you haven't heard back from her.
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Speaker 3: He makes he makes a point, doesn't he to be?
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Speaker 1: This is the first time in my life that I've
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Speaker 1: actually related to something that much.
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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, he's right.
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Speaker 3: But Tyler, you felt a connection and you thought the
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Speaker 3: date went great, and she's not. I mean, even if
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Speaker 3: she doesn't want to go out because it's like, you know,
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Speaker 3: the frozen tundra out there, she would at least respond.
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Speaker 3: I would think.
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Speaker 4: That's that's what I'm thinking. I just want to at
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Speaker 4: least a response. You know. I felt we, like I said,
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Speaker 4: we just had a great conversation. She seemed like she
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Speaker 4: liked me. I liked her, and I'm just confused. I
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Speaker 4: just don't know why I'm at this point of not
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Speaker 4: getting response.
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Speaker 3: All Right, I like your confidence. This is what we're
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Speaker 3: gonna do. We're gonna call her up and ask her
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Speaker 3: to be honest. You're gonna be listening in, so hold on. Okay,
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Speaker 3: m hm, okay, let's call her. He's very confident.
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Speaker 1: I think he overtexted and she got freaked out.
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Speaker 2: I do too.
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Speaker 3: I texted her, then I texted her, and then I
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Speaker 3: texted her. Yeah, it's like, oh, soccer too much?
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Speaker 5: Hello?
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Speaker 3: Hi, is alexis there speaking? Hi Alexis, It's Courtney.
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Speaker 2: It's Walmart Jeff.
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Speaker 1: Hey, Alexis, it's Savannah. You're on Kiss ninety five seven.
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Speaker 3: I gotta just let you know. Yeah, you're on. You're
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Speaker 3: on the radio this morning.
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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, I love this show.
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Speaker 5: Wait, this is so fun.
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Speaker 4: Hi.
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Speaker 3: Okay, Hey, Well then I'm glad you're familiar with the
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Speaker 3: show because you might also be familiar with Second Date Update.
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Speaker 3: When somebody goes on a first date and they get ghosted,
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Speaker 3: they call us You're on Second Date Update.
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Speaker 5: Oh boy, okay, Oh, I.
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Speaker 3: Will refresh your memory if just in case, Tyler. Tyler says,
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Speaker 3: you and he went on a great first date. He
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Speaker 3: said that he felt a connection. He did say there
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Speaker 3: was a lot of flirting back and forth, didn't you guys?
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Speaker 3: He said there was a lot of flirting. He was
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Speaker 3: attracted to you, he said, he reached out to you.
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Speaker 3: I'm guessing it was three or four times. And you're
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Speaker 3: ghosting him, and we're wondering why he's getting ghosted. Is
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Speaker 3: it too many text messages?
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Speaker 5: No, so it's it's actually not the text messages, okay,
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Speaker 5: And Tyler's Tyler's a great guy, and like, yeah, it
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Speaker 5: was a fine date. I have to be honest. He
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Speaker 5: actually told me pretty upfront that he has an STD
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Speaker 5: and he was like, but by date three, we should
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Speaker 5: be good, Like I'll be in the clear by date three.
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Speaker 3: No wait, no, was he joking? Was it like a
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Speaker 3: joke and he like, what are you talking about?
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Speaker 5: No, Like I'm I took him to be like pretty
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Speaker 5: serious about it, and like that's it's great, like get tested,
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Speaker 5: like that's all important. But like I wasn't even thinking
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Speaker 5: about that. That was like so far from my first thought,
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Speaker 5: Like it was a first date like that doing all
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Speaker 5: that was not on the table for me. So I
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Speaker 5: was just so shocked that he was so forward.
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Speaker 1: Wait forget ghosting him. How did you not run out
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Speaker 1: of the restaurant at that moment. I would have liked
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Speaker 1: been like, excuse Manny to use the bathmo and like
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Speaker 1: slipped out the window.
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Speaker 5: Yeah. No, it wasn't one of those moments. Like I
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Speaker 5: stayed for the rest of the day. But I just
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Speaker 5: thought that was so so forward and so weird of
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Speaker 5: him to Okay.
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Speaker 3: All right, can I just I got to bring him
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Speaker 3: on the line. He's listening in Tyler. Was it a
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Speaker 3: joke or were you being serious about your STD Yeah?
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Speaker 4: No, I mean, you know, it's embarrassing to say on
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Speaker 4: the radio, but it was. It was not a joke.
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Speaker 4: It was something. I'm a very honest person, and I
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Speaker 4: wanted to just let her know I liked her. I
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Speaker 4: thought maybe she would just be like, oh okay, like
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Speaker 4: after a couple dates will be good. I just wanted
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Speaker 4: to make sure I told her everything. I thought that
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Speaker 4: was important.
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Speaker 3: What So you were assuming that at some point in
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Speaker 3: the near future you guys were going to be intimate.
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Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, it was we were flirting, you know,
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Speaker 4: Like I said, there was hand touching. We were locking eyes,
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Speaker 4: like you know, every guy kind of knows those are
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Speaker 4: the signals I wanted to be up.
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Speaker 5: Front Tyler Tyler Tyler Tyler.
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Speaker 4: I don't know.
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Speaker 1: Maybe it's the girls that I hang out with, but
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Speaker 1: I don't think that I know a girl that would
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Speaker 1: be like, hey, babe, just let you know I have
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Speaker 1: an STD And she'd be like, okay, no big But.
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Speaker 4: You know what would what would she do if I
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Speaker 4: didn't tell her then she got the SDD.
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Speaker 2: That's right, I mean, stand up guy right here? My friend.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, Cuda waited for the second, third, or fourth. I
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Speaker 3: just not even the second date. I mean we that's
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Speaker 3: something you can I just Alexis, are you hearing what
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Speaker 3: he's saying?
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Speaker 4: Yeah?
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Speaker 5: And you know, I appreciate that, like I it's good
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Speaker 5: to be honest and all that. I just think maybe
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Speaker 5: it was a little too honest for me. So I
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Speaker 5: love that for you, but I don't know that that's
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Speaker 5: for me.
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Speaker 3: So even if I offered to pay for another date,
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Speaker 3: like we'd pick up the tab, would the answer be
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Speaker 3: no or yes?
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Speaker 5: Alexis, I think no would be my final answer.
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Speaker 2: What if we threw in like a prescription of vow tracks.
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Speaker 1: No.
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Speaker 3: All right, let's not make fun of it. Let's not
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Speaker 3: make fun of it. Tyler, you got your answer. This
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Speaker 3: is why there's This is where you're getting ghosted. However,
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Speaker 3: I think it's been about three days now or more so.
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Speaker 3: Your next date that you go on with somebody, you
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Speaker 3: don't have to say anything if you're in the clear.
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Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, yeah, you're right.
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Speaker 3: I don't interesting. Well, you guys, thank you listen. I
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Speaker 3: appreciate your honesty, both of you. We wish you all
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Speaker 3: the luck and keep us posted.
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Speaker 4: All right, you got it,