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Johnjay wants to hangout and see Ella Langley LIVE... but without the concert part · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: So I'm in a little bit of a dilemma. And
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  Speaker 1: I feel like I made the decision already. But so
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  Speaker 1: it involves Ella Langley. So she is all over the
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  Speaker 1: news right now, first of all, because she broke like
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  Speaker 1: the what she's got the longest running number one song
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  Speaker 1: in U.S. history.
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  Speaker 2: She beat Mariah Carey, which is amazing.
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  Speaker 1: And in fact, so she posted on her Instagram this
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  Speaker 1: right here when she found out this is what happened.
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  Speaker 3: What?
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  Speaker 4: What?
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  Speaker 3: Thank you so much.
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  Speaker 5: Thank you for loving this song, for listening to it.
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  Speaker 5: I just don't even know what to say at this point.
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  Speaker 5: It's changing my life. It's changing lives of the writers
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  Speaker 5: of this song. It's changing lives of my family. And
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  Speaker 5: it is truly growing an atmosphere for something I'm going
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  Speaker 5: to be able to do the rest of my life.
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  Speaker 5: And I'm going to go out and celebrate tonight. And
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  Speaker 5: I'm really excited to experience a moment like this in
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  Speaker 5: my life. I don't know how else to say it.
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  Speaker 5: Just thank you so much. And cheese and tea.
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  Speaker 1: Wow.
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  Speaker 6: That's the one.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, Choosing Tea.
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  Speaker 2: Choosing Tea.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, it's my wife. Because I like coffee, she chooses tea.
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  Speaker 3: What a crazy accomplishment to have that song be number
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  Speaker 3: one for so many weeks. It's nuts.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. So the Mariah Carey song, I mean, it's just legendary, right?
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  Speaker 2: All I want for Christmas is you. I mean, like,
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  Speaker 2: is there a better song?
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  Speaker 1: So I know Choosing Texas. I know that song. In fact,
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  Speaker 1: that's one of those songs that, like, it's in my
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  Speaker 1: head all day, right? All day. So here's what happened.
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  Speaker 1: I got invited to go to her concert.
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  Speaker 2: That's cool.
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  Speaker 1: In Los Angeles.
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  Speaker 2: That's even more cool.
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  Speaker 1: And normally I get invited to go to places, especially
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  Speaker 1: a concert or a sporting event. I don't really want
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  Speaker 1: to go. We are aware.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I actually, and this is what I'm trying to share
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  Speaker 1: with you guys is some sort of, if it's maturity
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  Speaker 1: or I'm trying to be different about certain things. So
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  Speaker 1: the people that invited me, my wife and I to
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  Speaker 1: go to the concert, I really enjoy these people. I
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  Speaker 1: enjoy spending time with them a lot. And I've never
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  Speaker 1: had that before.
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  Speaker 3: That is different.
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  Speaker 2: That sounds new.
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  Speaker 3: I've never heard you say that one time. I really
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  Speaker 3: enjoy being with these people.
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  Speaker 1: And I think they enjoy spending time with us, right?
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  Speaker 1: We go to dinner all the time. We do stuff together.
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  Speaker 1: I do stuff with the guy all the time. I
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  Speaker 1: go hiking with the guy. I love this. I love
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  Speaker 1: this couple. And here's my dilemma is when I go
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  Speaker 1: to a concert, I'm not a fun person. Do you
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  Speaker 1: know what I mean? I'm not drinking and dancing around.
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  Speaker 1: You're just sitting the whole time.
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  Speaker 3: He's looking for his out.
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  Speaker 1: No, no, no. I will be staring at the guitar player.
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  Speaker 1: I'm staring at the singer. I'm watching behind the scenes.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not shaking my butt and dancing around. And my
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  Speaker 1: dilemma is if I say yes and go to this
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  Speaker 1: concert and I'm at the concert and I don't show
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  Speaker 1: them that I'm having a good time, is that going
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  Speaker 1: to ruin our friendship? Because I've said before, I don't
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  Speaker 1: think I'm a very good friend. And I don't know
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  Speaker 1: so many friend rules. So I feel like I shouldn't
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  Speaker 1: go because I might ruin their experience. Does that make sense? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: they're huge. They're going to.
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  Speaker 2: Be singing every word. And they're going to be like, look.
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  Speaker 7: At this buzzkill.
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  Speaker 2: Choose in Texas, I can tell.
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  Speaker 3: And you're like.
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  Speaker 1: No, I'll know the Choose in Texas one. It's her
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  Speaker 1: other songs I won't know. I hope she has, you know,
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  Speaker 1: Choose in Arizona, Choose in Arkansas, Choose in Mississippi. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know what else she has, but I'm going to
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  Speaker 1: be like. So do you get my dilemma? Yeah. Like,
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  Speaker 1: am I going to ruin their experience? And are they
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  Speaker 1: going to go, these guys are fuddy-duddies. You're dinner fun,
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  Speaker 1: but are you concert fun? Yeah, I know I'm not
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  Speaker 1: concert fun. I know I'm not concert fun. I can
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  Speaker 1: stand in the front row of Taylor Swift and I
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  Speaker 1: would just be staring.
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  Speaker 3: She might stop down the show and go, hey, you're
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  Speaker 3: crushing my vibe. Yeah, exactly. There might be part.
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  Speaker 2: Of them, I think, that may go, why do we
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  Speaker 2: invite them?
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  Speaker 1: That's exactly what I'm getting at. Is this going to ruin?
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  Speaker 7: Next time they have a dinner thing, they're not going
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  Speaker 7: to invite you because they've had the proof that you
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  Speaker 7: guys are fun at dinner.
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  Speaker 1: It's a serious, stupid dilemma that is in my head now.
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  Speaker 1: And like my wife last night was like, hey, are
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  Speaker 1: we going to go to this? And I'm like, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I want to go to it. And then I thought,
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to. I want them to know that
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  Speaker 1: I'm not going for the concert. I'm going to be
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  Speaker 1: with them.
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  Speaker 6: Right.
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  Speaker 4: Right.
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  Speaker 1: But also, I don't think you say that to people.
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  Speaker 3: No, for sure.
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  Speaker 6: Especially if they're inviting you to a concert, like they
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  Speaker 6: want you to enjoy the experience with them.
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  Speaker 1: But they also got to know that I've been to
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  Speaker 1: a billion concerts. Like I don't. want to ever go
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  Speaker 1: to another concert again for the rest of my life. Like,
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  Speaker 1: that's what I'm trying to tell you guys. I don't
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  Speaker 1: want to go to a concert, but I enjoy being
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  Speaker 1: with them and they're so much fun, but they drink
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  Speaker 1: and they party, they dance. And I'm going to be
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  Speaker 1: standing there like, Oh, look at you guys. I'm going
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  Speaker 1: to try. I'm going to be like fake dancing.
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  Speaker 4: Oh yeah.
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  Speaker 3: What's going to happen?
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to dance like Trump. You know the way
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  Speaker 1: Trump dances? I'll be like, Oh, what's he do? He
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  Speaker 1: does this. Oh, he points. He does.
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  Speaker 3: I'll be like, what's going to happen there. They're all drinking,
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  Speaker 3: having a good time dancing. And they look over at
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  Speaker 3: you as you're just standing there. Come on, get up
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  Speaker 3: and dance with the... What's going to happen then? That moment.
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  Speaker 2: Because you've got to do it.
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  Speaker 3: That moment. I know, I will.
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  Speaker 1: Get off your seat.
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  Speaker 6: I know, I will.
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  Speaker 1: Anyway, we're going to play Minute to Win, and we
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  Speaker 1: need a contestant.
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  Speaker 4: 877-937-1047.
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  Speaker 1: Do you have the Choose in Texas hook? Did you
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  Speaker 1: say you had it? Oh, I thought you said you
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  Speaker 1: might have had that.
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  Speaker 2: Not off the top of my head.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, no. Okay. I might have it, too. Do we
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  Speaker 1: have it? The hook? I can find the song. Just
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  Speaker 1: so you know the Choose in Texas song.
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  Speaker 3: I have her. I've got the blue volleyball of Hold On.
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  Speaker 1: Let me see. I don't even know how to spell choosing.
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  Speaker 2: C-H-O-S-I-N.
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  Speaker 4: Apostrophe.
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  Speaker 1: Wow, it didn't come up. I threw it up on
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  Speaker 1: the button. Oh, you did? Okay. There it is. So
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  Speaker 1: just in case you don't know the Choose Texas line,
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  Speaker 1: which you should.
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  Speaker 4: It doesn't take a crystal ball to see. A cowboy
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  Speaker 4: always finds a way. He's choosing Texas, I can tell.
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  Speaker 1: That's such a good song.
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  Speaker 4: Anyway.
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  Speaker 1: All right, we're going to play Minute to Win It.
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  Speaker 1: We got $ 1, 000 of Pat Hickey's money. By the way, yesterday,
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  Speaker 1: two things. We dropped a second date update. It's on
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  Speaker 1: our podcast, if you missed second date update. And if
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  Speaker 1: you want it directly sent to your phone, go to
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  Speaker 1: our Instagram. And there's a video up there. You just
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  Speaker 1: type in the word date and we'll send it to
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  Speaker 1: your phone. There is a text that says, Oh, my God.
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  Speaker 1: Second date update is on YouTube. Uncensored. I'm so excited.
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  Speaker 1: So that's so stated. Go to YouTube. Search John Jay
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  Speaker 1: and Rich and follow and subscribe to John Jay and
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  Speaker 1: Rich YouTube channel. And you can see the whole thing happening.
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  Speaker 1: All of us in the studio doing it and live
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  Speaker 1: and the cuss words and everything because we can put
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  Speaker 1: the cuss words on. If there were cuss words, I
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  Speaker 1: wonder what happened. Oh, was it dirty? I can't remember
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  Speaker 1: why they were so excited it was uncensored. There might
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  Speaker 1: have been a couple of.
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  Speaker 2: Why does yesterday feel so long ago?
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  Speaker 3: It might have been a couple. It's the director's cut
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  Speaker 3: of the second date update.
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  Speaker 1: The whole part of second date update was posted on
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  Speaker 1: YouTube uncensored. Thank you. I'm like, okay. I'm trying to
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  Speaker 1: remember what was the censored part. Anyway. All right. James,
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  Speaker 1: good morning. Good morning. All right, James, you are our
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  Speaker 1: contestant for a minute to win it. Let's do this.
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  Speaker 1: Where are you? What part of town? I think it's
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  Speaker 1: important to know where you are.
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  Speaker 4: I'm in Phoenix, right on 36th and Thomas.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, 36th Street or 36th Ave?
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  Speaker 4: Street.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, no.
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  Speaker 1: I said way from the Ave's.
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  Speaker 3: She's very close to us right now.
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  Speaker 2: All right.
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  Speaker 1: All right. Good luck, man.
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  Speaker 4: Here you go.
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  Speaker 7: John Jay and Rich have $ 1, 000 cash for you from
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  Speaker 1: Minute to win it.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, James, there is 60 seconds on the clock. You
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  Speaker 3: get all 10 of these right, Nebro, and you win $ 1, 000.
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  Speaker 3: Let's go. What pop star played Elphaba in the movie Wicked?
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  Speaker 1: Wicked, Wicked.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, my goodness.
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  Speaker 1: Elphaba, Wicked, Wicked, Wicked, Wicked. That's right. Oh, my goodness.
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  Speaker 3: Pop star.
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  Speaker 4: What's her name?
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  Speaker 1: Ariana Grande?
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  Speaker 3: That is correct. That's not correct. Oh, that's right. That
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  Speaker 3: isn't correct.
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  Speaker 2: Cynthia Erivo is a pop star, though. I was very
• 8:30
  Speaker 2: confused with that question. I feel like you've got.
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  Speaker 1: To give him another chance with that question.
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  Speaker 7: I was like, there's going to be a lot of
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  Speaker 7: backlash on this one.
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  Speaker 3: You know what?
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  Speaker 2: That's not on you.
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  Speaker 3: I'll tell you what. That's not on you. I'm going
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  Speaker 3: to give you another chance. You want to go? Yes,
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  Speaker 3: let's do it. You want to go?
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  Speaker 1: Oh, let's go.
• 8:49
  Speaker 3: All right, let's go. All right. What 2009 comedy follows
• 8:52
  Speaker 3: a bachelor party gone terribly wrong in Las Vegas?
• 8:57
  Speaker 1: Oh, Hangover.
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  Speaker 3: This insect bug is known for being organized and can
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  Speaker 3: lift up to 50 times its own body weight.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, um, um, uh.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, Ants? What U.S. city is known as the Big Easy?
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  Speaker 4: Big Easy, Big Easy, Big Easy.
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  Speaker 1: Big Easy. Oh, my goodness. I'm lost. I'm going to
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  Speaker 1: have to say Atlanta. I don't know.
• 9:34
  Speaker 3: New Orleans, the Big Easy.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, my God, and I'm from New Orleans. What?
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  Speaker 3: Are you kidding me, James?
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  Speaker 6: Are you kidding me?
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  Speaker 1: God dang it. Oh, my goodness.
• 9:47
  Speaker 6: That's how you know when the pressure gets to you.
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  Speaker 6: The Big Easy.
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  Speaker 3: Where have I heard that from?
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  Speaker 6: Okay, thank you guys so much.
• 9:57
  Speaker 1: Hold on, James. We're gonna set you up with a
• 10:00
  Speaker 1: del taco gift card man okay thanks for listening.
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  Speaker 6: No thank you guys.
• 10:06
  Speaker 1: So we are like 25 minutes away from free disneyland
• 10:11
  Speaker 1: tickets we also got kanye tickets in less than an
• 10:13
  Speaker 1: hour we also got public enemy tickets we're going to
• 10:15
  Speaker 1: throw around there too um I have to, because on
• 10:18
  Speaker 1: Friday we do New Music Friday, right? And I think
• 10:21
  Speaker 1: the biggest thing is going to be the Taylor Swift
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  Speaker 1: new song. Oh, yeah, for sure.
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  Speaker 2: Four new songs.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and so I feel like there's another album coming
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  Speaker 1: out that's going to get thrown under the table that
• 10:30
  Speaker 1: no one's going to remember. So I thought I'd highlight
• 10:32
  Speaker 1: it today, whether you guys saw it or not. But
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  Speaker 1: Wendy's the restaurant. Did you see this? Wendy's the restaurant
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  Speaker 1: is releasing an emo album. Oh, it's today.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, I saw the cover photo.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. It's a six song track list on their Instagram story.
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  Speaker 1: These are the, this is Wendy's the restaurant. These are
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  Speaker 1: the names of the songs. She said she didn't want fries. Parentheses.
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  Speaker 1: She lied. Salt in the wound. Oh, good. Good.
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  Speaker 3: That's a good emo title.
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  Speaker 1: I miss the sunroom. the best combo meal on the
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  Speaker 1: worst night of my life. It's not a phase. It's
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  Speaker 1: a 10 piece. And the last track on the album
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  Speaker 1: is Mr. Frosty's funeral funeral. It's unclear. This will hit Spotify,
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  Speaker 1: Apple music, or sold on a CD or an iHeart
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  Speaker 1: app or just at Wendy's. Uh, anyway, so it is
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  Speaker 1: the Wendy's emo album.
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  Speaker 7: I wonder if they originally had it planned for Friday,
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  Speaker 7: but with the Taylor Swift news, they're like, we got
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  Speaker 7: to move this up.
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  Speaker 2: Just put it out there today.
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  Speaker 1: Exactly. Exactly. I wonder, let me see if you go
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  Speaker 1: to the Wendy's or.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, the cover photo is like really funny because it's
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  Speaker 6: a lot like, she's like a lot like moodier and
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  Speaker 6: she has the bangs across her eye. And then the
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  Speaker 6: caption was, it's not a phase.
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  Speaker 2: But I didn't know it was going to actually be
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  Speaker 2: an album. That's so funny.
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  Speaker 1: Let's see. Oh, full album out now. Right on. And
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  Speaker 1: it's like, Oh, it's on Spotify, Apple Music. It's everywhere.
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  Speaker 1: Let me see.
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  Speaker 3: That's a commitment.
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  Speaker 1: I wonder who's the person. She said she didn't want
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  Speaker 1: fries with that. Whoops, I hit it twice. Not bad.
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  Speaker 3: Sounds like producer Nick Music.
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  Speaker 1: He loves that.
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  Speaker 3: I hope that's not AI. I hope they got a
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  Speaker 3: real band.
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  Speaker 1: It says featuring Maddie Mullins and the Memphis Mayfire. So
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  Speaker 1: I guess they're real artists.
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  Speaker 3: That's pretty good. I don't hate it. I think it
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  Speaker 3: sounds good.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Wendy's.
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  Speaker 1: Right? Anyway, so just like... By the way, also, I think...
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  Speaker 1: I was wondering if Taylor Swift, she's... You know, we
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  Speaker 1: know the soft side of her, the really nice side
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  Speaker 1: of her. And I thought, what if she's literally... competitive
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  Speaker 1: with ella langley because ella langley beat mariah carey and
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  Speaker 1: taylor swift wants that title she has every other title
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  Speaker 1: what if she's like i'm dropping an album.
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  Speaker 3: Friday so if she has her album come out again
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  Speaker 3: and it's an encore it can be on the charts
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  Speaker 3: longer than anything else is here.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah something like they like she's just like there's no
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  Speaker 1: way like behind the scenes they're probably like hey just
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  Speaker 1: to let you know that ella langley's song is going
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  Speaker 1: to be number one it'll be break mariah carey's record
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  Speaker 1: next week that's what's happening she's like what then we're
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  Speaker 1: going to drop those songs we taped in Sweden.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Like, I wonder, just wondering.
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  Speaker 4: Anyway.
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  Speaker 1: Anyway. A couple things we're going to get into. We're
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  Speaker 1: going to get into the friendship thing or the couples thing.
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  Speaker 1: What do you want to get into, Kyle?
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  Speaker 2: Either one. I think they both great. What do people
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  Speaker 2: like more, friends or people that are friends?
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  Speaker 1: Well, since I was just talking about friendship, let's do
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  Speaker 1: the friendship one. Okay.
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  Speaker 4: Right now?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, no, right now. Let's do a little setup. Do
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  Speaker 1: a little setup for it.
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  Speaker 7: So I feel like everyone kind of understands that there's
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  Speaker 7: like social media has had almost come full circle. It's
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  Speaker 7: like when it came out, everyone thought it like connected
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  Speaker 7: people more, right?
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  Speaker 2: And then now.
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  Speaker 7: It's like, does it really connect us the way we
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  Speaker 7: thought originally? Or is it kind of like a fake friendship?
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  Speaker 7: So they did this study. And they actually found that
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  Speaker 7: social media doesn't really replace the emotional support people get
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  Speaker 7: from real life friendships. But a lot of people interact
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  Speaker 7: on social media and feel that they're being a good friend.
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  Speaker 7: So they came out with a bunch of things that
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  Speaker 7: we do that feel like friendship, but probably really aren't.
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  Speaker 2: Like you feel like you're doing enough, but it's really not.
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  Speaker 7: So sending memes instead of actually calling or physically texting
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  Speaker 7: your friend, not really being a friend.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: It may connect you.
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  Speaker 7: You may have something to talk about the next time,
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  Speaker 7: but just sending memes back and forth.
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  Speaker 2: That's not really friendship.
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  Speaker 1: I have like four or five friends. That's all we do.
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  Speaker 4: I know.
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  Speaker 1: In fact, some of my, the friends I've made are like,
• 14:37
  Speaker 1: I've never met them in person. They're just people you
• 14:40
  Speaker 1: send memes to back and forth. Right.
• 14:42
  Speaker 7: So then they also say like watching someone's stories and
• 14:45
  Speaker 7: then you feel like you've caught up with them, but
• 14:47
  Speaker 7: you haven't really.
• 14:48
  Speaker 1: I guess that makes sense.
• 14:49
  Speaker 2: Maybe they put something on.
• 14:50
  Speaker 7: Their stories because they're at a work event, but you
• 14:53
  Speaker 7: don't necessarily know it's a work event, but that's not
• 14:55
  Speaker 7: really catching up with their life and finding out how
• 14:57
  Speaker 7: they're actually doing. Liking a birthday post instead of texting
• 15:01
  Speaker 7: or even commenting on the birthday post instead of actually
• 15:04
  Speaker 7: texting or calling.
• 15:05
  Speaker 2: Not the same thing. You're not making a connection that way.
• 15:09
  Speaker 7: They say being in a group chat but never seeing
• 15:12
  Speaker 7: each other is also not as much of a friend thing.
• 15:16
  Speaker 7: Like you guys are all like, we should totally do this.
• 15:19
  Speaker 7: That's not really connecting. So on social media, you feel
• 15:24
  Speaker 7: like you know everything that happens in someone's life.
• 15:27
  Speaker 2: Because you're like, oh my gosh, yeah, they posted this,
• 15:29
  Speaker 2: this and this.
• 15:30
  Speaker 7: But that's really not friendship. That's really not connection because
• 15:34
  Speaker 7: they're showing you the highlight reel. So your friend may
• 15:36
  Speaker 7: actually be going through something really difficult or a hard time,
• 15:39
  Speaker 7: but they're not necessarily maybe going to post that. So
• 15:42
  Speaker 7: you're not really being a good friend by feeling like
• 15:44
  Speaker 7: you know what's going on in their life just because
• 15:45
  Speaker 7: you've been.
• 15:46
  Speaker 2: Looking at them.
• 15:46
  Speaker 1: So you've got to call them or go visit them
• 15:48
  Speaker 1: or make a lunch to be. Because that's another thing.
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: All these people that live to be 100 and something
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: years old, one of the common things they all have
• 15:54
  Speaker 1: is they have these social circles where they all go
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: out and they do stuff.
• 15:57
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 15:57
  Speaker 1: Right? So not just social media. Do it in person.
• 16:00
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 16:00
  Speaker 2: And it's been scientifically proven.
• 16:02
  Speaker 7: Human connection is so important for your actual well-being and
• 16:05
  Speaker 7: your mental health. And so the last thing they have
• 16:08
  Speaker 7: on this list is just assuming your friends are okay
• 16:10
  Speaker 7: because they're posting.
• 16:11
  Speaker 2: Well, you're posting. You look like you're having a great
• 16:13
  Speaker 2: time in your life. Obviously you're doing great.
• 16:15
  Speaker 7: But like I just said, you never know what's going
• 16:18
  Speaker 7: on behind the screen.
• 16:18
  Speaker 2: So you have to kind of like really check in.
• 16:21
  Speaker 1: You know what I heard too? You know how when
• 16:23
  Speaker 1: something happens in someone's life and you go, well, if
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: you ever, hey, you call them. If you ever need anything,
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: just let me know. I'm here for you. I've read
• 16:29
  Speaker 1: this thing about how that's a horrible thing to do.
• 16:32
  Speaker 2: I know.
• 16:32
  Speaker 7: Because most people have a hard time asking for help.
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: Because now you're putting the pressure on them to ask you.
• 16:38
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: So the guy that I was reading the article about
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: said that if that happens, do the thing. Don't ask.
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: Do the thing. Be like... I'm bringing by dinner. Yeah. Hey,
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: if you ever need dinner or you need help, just
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: do it. Right? Even if someone else already did it,
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: just do it. If you're going through something, I'm bringing
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: by dinner. Because I remember when... I think it was
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: when my mom died. I think. I remember... It could
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: have been when my mom died. But he's now currently
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: the head coach of UNLV basketball, Josh Pastner. He said
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: to me, man, if you ever need anything, let me know.
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: I said, you know, I'd like a green tea. And
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: he never brought.
• 17:12
  Speaker 3: Me a green tea. He never did? I brought it
• 17:14
  Speaker 3: up all the time.
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: I was like, hey, well, where's my green tea? You
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: said you didn't need anything. Let me know. And I'm like, oh,
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: I want my green tea.
• 17:20
  Speaker 3: What was his reason for not doing it?
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I just remember putting him on the spot.
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: He's like, um, um, um.
• 17:24
  Speaker 3: It seems like he would be right on the spot
• 17:26
  Speaker 3: for that. He would be the guy to go get
• 17:28
  Speaker 3: that green tea.
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: It was something tragic. And I was like, yeah.
• 17:31
  Speaker 4: Rude.
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: You say, what do you need? Let me know. And
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: he never brought it.