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4 Reasons You Feel Stuck Before Your Success · The Spirit Nomad: Spiritual Awakening + Life Purpose

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  Beautiful healer, we need to talk.
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  My guess is that you have been going after your dream life,
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  your purpose, and you've come a long way.
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  But it feels like things are stagnating.
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  And if you identify as a healer then I know this can be
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  especially painful because you know that you are meant for
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  more. But the truth is you are not
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  going backwards. You are just at the moment
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  before your breakthrough. So today I wanted to talk about
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  why healers struggle just before they reach success, why they go
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  through this dip before this big spike in abundance, purpose,
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  peace, freedom. And I'll also talk about how to
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  speed up this phase so you can get to this dream life of yours.
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  Because where you are right now, where things feels hopeless and
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  you've done a lot of work, but it's just doesn't seem to pay
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  off. This is where most healers give
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  up, unfortunately, when they are so, so close.
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  So don't let that be you. The first thing that is
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  happening is that you are outgrowing your identity, your
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  old self, and you've done that. That's great.
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  You know that that's no longer you and that's awareness.
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  Awareness is the first step, so important.
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  But now it comes time to shifting into the new empowered
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  solar lined version of you. And you have one step in your
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  old life and one step in your new life.
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  And the reason why it's so hard to take that full step into the
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  empowered version of yourself is because before you were
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  identifying as the seeker. You're healing, you're growing,
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  but now you're being asked to step into becoming a leader,
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  taking charge of your life, having impacts.
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  And that shift is really uncomfortable for the ego
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  because it's unfamiliar. So the ego tries to pull you
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  back into the old version because that feels familiar, not
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  because this new path is wrong. And one reason that I'm filming
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  this video, it's not only for you guys, but for myself as
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  well. I have done this many times
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  where I've been with my old life.
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  It was comfortable, but then I eventually I broke free.
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  But I have this again where I'm feeling this new growth phase
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  coming in. I'm seeing all these signs that
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  I should start a podcast, but I'm feeling this resistance from
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  the ego. I'm used to just doing
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  one-on-one with you guys, just through the camera to start to
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  interview people. It's a new format.
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  It's scary. So I feel you.
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  We're all going through this. And by the way, let me know in
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  the comments if you guys would be interested in a podcast and
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  who you would want as a guest. Reason #2 why this happens is
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  because you have reached your upper limit.
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  There's an upper limit how much success, abundance, change that
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  your nervous system can hold or rather it feels safe holding
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  because it can hold more. It's just a mindset shift.
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  And when you start breaking this upper limit, you're met with
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  resistance like procrastination, self sabotage, overthinking,
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  questioning your entire path. And not because you're not
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  aligned, but because now you finally are.
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  And it's so unfamiliar. Reason #3 why healers struggle
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  just before a breakthrough is because many healers have a fear
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  of being seen. And let me know in the comments
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  if this is you because it's means being judged, being
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  misunderstood. And my guess is you've had
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  plenty of that throughout your life in school or in your
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  family. I was a black sheep in my
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  family. So even though you might want
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  visibility, you are associating it with danger and especially
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  healers because you have very likely had past lifetimes where
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  you stood up to the authorities and as a reward you got your
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  head chopped off. And eventually the soldier
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  starts learning let's just not be seen.
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  But now you find in a period of time when it's safe to be seen,
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  but you're scared because you have been punished before.
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  So right before things are about to take off, you slow yourself
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  down. That's where I'm at now.
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  Reason #4 is that this is a test, OK?
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  You are coming in full force with something that you're not
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  100% confident about, not 100% sure about how it's going to
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  work out, how it's going to look like, But you have to do it
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  anyway. You have to trust your path
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  without the validation. And the sad thing is that most
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  people don't. They interpret the discomfort as
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  a sign to stop and they gave up and they go back to their old
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  ways. And then on their deathbed or
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  halfway through their life, they just wish that they had gone
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  after their dream life and hadn't been so scared about what
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  other people think. And if you're not sure what your
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  calling is, then I have a free guide.
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  I've linked it in the description on how to find your
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  purpose in five simple steps. Now it's time for the good part.
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  How do you actually move through all this shit and get to the
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  other side? First, normalize it and know
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  that this is just how it is, how it works with your ego, with
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  your soul. It will just be some resistance
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  that from the ego. And the first step is just being
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  aware of that. This is normal.
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  The second thing you need to know is that you need to show up
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  even if you don't feel like it, like your stars will never
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  align. It will never be like, oh, now
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  I'm feeling so motivated to step into my purpose or my dream life
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  or doing what it takes to get there.
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  So just take messy action and you will learn and get more
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  confident as you go. Third, simplify.
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  Oh my gosh, this is such a key for spiritual people to
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  simplify. It makes every area of your life
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  better, including when it comes to success.
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  So let's say, for example, that you're a healer and you've taken
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  this healer certification and you're ready to take on your
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  clients, but you feel overwhelmed.
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  What type of product should I create?
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  And I would say keep it simple. Pick one transformation that you
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  would feel the most confident taking people through.
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  For example, if you're very passionate about anxiety because
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  you overcame anxiety through Reiki and you have this Reiki
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  certification now, then create one program, one online program
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  where you help people on how to do Reiki for anxiety or a four
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  session Reiki package and you do Reiki on a person who has
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  anxiety. Rather than launching a book,
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  trying to grow big on Pinterest, doing your retreat, doing your
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  membership, you're then going to have to work so hard taking lots
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  of action in different directions, getting you nowhere.
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  Trust me, I've been there. I removed all my products except
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  one, Nomad Freedom Academy, my core offer and in there I teach
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  you exactly how to create a successful mid ticket to high
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  ticket product and how to bring traffic to it through YouTube so
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  that way you don't have to learn paid ads or pay for paid ads.
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  It's a simple business model but it's so effective I haven't
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  needed a job in over 8 years now.
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  It's the best, especially for healers and empaths because a
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  soft life is your birthright. Write it in the comments.
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  A soft life is my birthright. You need that as a healer.
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  A soft life. Because otherwise you can't help
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  other people. You need to fill your cup 1st.
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  And if you're interested in joining my program or learning
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  more than definitely book a free business card to call a link in
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  description. Listen to this closely.
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  You are not off path. You have not gone astray.
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  You are right where you need to be.
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  You are so, so close to the breakthrough, to the success, to
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  the dreamlike that you've always wanted.
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  So hang in there. Don't run back to your old life.
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  You can do this. I've done this multiple times,
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  leaving my 9:00 to 5:00 job to become a business owner.
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  Everybody doubted me. I moved to several different
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  countries, started a new life over and over again.
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  It is possible. So let's push through to our
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  dream life, to Our Calling. If you want to know what I think
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  is the best business model for healers, where I really go into
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  detail in a long video, then check out my video Best Business
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  Models for Spiritual People. It's somewhere around here or in
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  the description. Love you and see you in the next
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  video.