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DLHS Hour 2 | Is a prenup a good practice or preparing to end · The D.L. Hughley Show

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  Speaker 1: standard data and messaging rate supply. So the question we're
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  Speaker 1: asking is dak Prescott right before the wedding, they're supposed
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  Speaker 1: to get married, then all of a sudden it didn't happen,
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  Speaker 1: legend that she wouldn't sign the prenup. You think that
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  Speaker 1: prenup is a good practice or is it just planning
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  Speaker 1: to fail?
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  Speaker 2: Do you think it'll just.
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  Speaker 1: I think that if you are generally, if you are
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  Speaker 1: mature enough to have accute some level of wealth or
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  Speaker 1: some level of financial stability, that anybody who would be
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  Speaker 1: in that dynamic.
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  Speaker 2: Which you would understand that too, wouldn't it. I would think,
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  Speaker 2: I mean they would be literally.
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  Speaker 1: Enough financially literate enough to know that this guy has
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  Speaker 1: something to lose, right, Yeah, right, And if you really
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  Speaker 1: love somebody, if you if you really love a woman,
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  Speaker 1: they really love you, then the last thing you should
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  Speaker 1: do is argueable money you ain't got yet anyway, you know.
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  Speaker 2: What I mean.
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  Speaker 3: I think money always causes arguments.
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  Speaker 4: Though.
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  Speaker 3: I think whether you're married or not, if you're dating,
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  Speaker 3: I think money is always an issue. Either you know,
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  Speaker 3: she saying you don't have enough or he's saying you
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  Speaker 3: don't have enough.
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  Speaker 2: I think it always causes issue.
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  Speaker 3: So I do think, as Skip said, it is a
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  Speaker 3: conversation you should have before you even walk down out
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  Speaker 3: on both sides, you know what I mean. We saw
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  Speaker 3: what happened to Mary J. Blige, We saw what happened
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  Speaker 3: to Sherry Shepherd. There are a number of examples on
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  Speaker 3: both sides that show what happened. Yeah, when you when
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  Speaker 3: you don't have a breen up, but when you don't
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  Speaker 3: have your money, you know, situation together.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, So in the Bible, don't be unevenly yoke or uneven.
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  Speaker 3: That's right, Sam, same thing.
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  Speaker 1: I just I think I think there's a romantic notion,
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  Speaker 1: but I remember I forgot who it was, but she
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  Speaker 1: kept procrastinating, procrastinating, procrastinating. But the last minute, he went said,
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  Speaker 1: and his sister happened to be in a wedding and
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  Speaker 1: she was telling plans that she's just gonna get very
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  Speaker 1: not signing.
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  Speaker 2: Now, if you're planning not to sign it.
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  Speaker 1: That that would lead me to believe if you made
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  Speaker 1: that kind of plan, not that lead me to believe.
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  Speaker 2: You up to something.
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  Speaker 4: You're planning for a divorce.
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  Speaker 2: Also, yes, so come on stop it. No, Yeah, so.
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  Speaker 1: The question we're asking Dak Prescott called off the wedding
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  Speaker 1: the last minute, letting you want to sign the prina.
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  Speaker 1: But you think, uh, prenup is a good idea or
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  Speaker 1: just or just you know, tipping the hand that you're
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  Speaker 1: going to get an inevitable divorce. What do you think,
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  Speaker 1: Junior's Well, actually it sounds like a coin with the
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  Speaker 1: same head on both sides, because actually it is a
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  Speaker 1: good idea.
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  Speaker 5: In case a divorce.
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  Speaker 6: I mean basically it is the same.
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  Speaker 4: You don't get in your car planning on wreckon it,
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  Speaker 4: but just the case right, just no, I mean it's
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  Speaker 4: all about love long as.
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  Speaker 5: You in there.
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  Speaker 2: I take this flip of cars and you take this
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  Speaker 2: buicks call.
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  Speaker 4: And you keep everything you bought during But as long
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  Speaker 4: as you stay, you have access to this floor.
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  Speaker 2: You live in section eight houses. We're going back to it.
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  Speaker 2: Went back to ashes, the ashes, dust to dust. Take
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  Speaker 2: your ass to that one room room with a rumor
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  Speaker 2: and your red loves It is really good these days.
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  Speaker 2: So ashes to ashes, dust to dust.
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  Speaker 4: I'll take the Mercedes.
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  Speaker 2: You catch the bus.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, manscription socks. Look at it comes to man, he's
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  Speaker 1: on the road.
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  Speaker 2: I got it. Is this thing on?
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  Speaker 1: I gotta the question we're asking ENTI prenup.
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  Speaker 5: I believe if you need a contingency plan for marriage,
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  Speaker 5: you shouldn't be marrying them. If you need to protect
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  Speaker 5: yourself from your future partner who you have to lay
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  Speaker 5: in bed with every night, the potential mother or father
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  Speaker 5: of your children, you shouldn't be marrying them. I understand
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  Speaker 5: the thought process behind it, But if you're entering into
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  Speaker 5: like a covenant with an individual who quite literally controls
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  Speaker 5: your life, you will be asleep next to them every
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  Speaker 5: single night.
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  Speaker 2: They control whether you live or you die.
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  Speaker 5: If you are in the hospital on life support, they
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  Speaker 5: dictate if the doctor pulsy plug or does not and
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  Speaker 5: you want to prenup?
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  Speaker 2: Dak pres got. Of course it is. They called up
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  Speaker 2: the way. We are very close to it.
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  Speaker 1: Do you think because allegedly she went signed a prenup,
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  Speaker 1: do you think a prenup is a good idea of
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  Speaker 1: just planning to get divorced? That's the question we post.
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  Speaker 1: So you were going to write to the phones.
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  Speaker 7: I really praise him for calling out that divorce because
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  Speaker 7: if she really loved him, she would have signed a prenup.
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  Speaker 7: And you got so many ladies out here today, they
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  Speaker 7: just totally don't gold digits. It's so greedy. I mean,
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  Speaker 7: her mom haven't taught her anything, Because how you gonna
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  Speaker 7: walk away from two hundred and fifty million dollars that
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  Speaker 7: your man is going to be making and you weren't
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  Speaker 7: gonna be right there with him sharing it. So, I mean,
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  Speaker 7: you know that's crazy.
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  Speaker 6: If I was him, I would have walked away.
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  Speaker 7: Too, finding somebody that loved him for him and not
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  Speaker 7: for his money. Because these women's are gold diggers and
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  Speaker 7: all they're trying to do is get your money. That's
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  Speaker 7: kind of sad, and that kind of proves that she
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  Speaker 7: don't really love him, because you don't let love walk
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  Speaker 7: away like that. I don't care if he wasn't getting
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  Speaker 7: two hundred and fifty dollars.
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  Speaker 8: If that is a bad legs, why would you care
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  Speaker 8: about it to sign a prenup breathing or not. If
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  Speaker 8: it ain't about the money, you love him or you
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  Speaker 8: love her, there ask you no time with shness. So
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  Speaker 8: that mean if you got came with shatnay, it's more
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  Speaker 8: about the money than love.
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  Speaker 9: So I don't feel there's anything wrong with insuring your wealth.
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  Speaker 9: It's protected proof through a prenup.
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  Speaker 10: I myself have one and my partner had no, which
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  Speaker 10: is also my husband now had no problem signing it.
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  Speaker 10: A cleanup just really ensures your wealth, and it is
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  Speaker 10: if you love the person that much.
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  Speaker 6: You'll sign it.
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  Speaker 9: There's so in my cleanup after so many years that
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  Speaker 9: passed per like ten twelve years or well, I can't
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  Speaker 9: remember exactly what's in there, but the amount increases, so
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  Speaker 9: you know it's and it's also covered in my irrevocable
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  Speaker 9: trust account.
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  Speaker 11: The question is Dak should have really did like a
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  Speaker 11: dating contract after the first child. He should have basically said,
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  Speaker 11: you know, I need a DNA test on their mother kids,
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  Speaker 11: and he should have had a contract because she go
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  Speaker 11: killing with child support if she don't get that prenup,
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  Speaker 11: or she don't get married. Either way, but the best
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  Speaker 11: of luck to the brothers.
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  Speaker 1: So the question we're asking, of course, Zach Prescott calls
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  Speaker 1: over as wedd at the last minute. Do you think
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  Speaker 1: a prenup is good idea? Is it just planning to
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  Speaker 1: get divorced? That is the question we posed to you.
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  Speaker 2: You said, I come from the old school.
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  Speaker 12: Our people. When we married, we didn't have to our parents,
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  Speaker 12: our grandparents, our great grandparents, didn't have nothing or knew
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  Speaker 12: nothing about no prenuptial agreement. We married, we made a commitment,
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  Speaker 12: we took the viow. What was yours was mine, What
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  Speaker 12: was mine was yours. Now in this date you got
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  Speaker 12: it where you know, you got all these big time people.
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  Speaker 12: They making all of this money and they want to
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  Speaker 12: make sure that that money is protected. I can't understand that.
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  Speaker 12: But if you don't take a vow and you go
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  Speaker 12: into matrimony and you married, and you got to have
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  Speaker 12: a piece of paper to tell you, oh, well, if
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  Speaker 12: don't do this or we break up, then this is
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  Speaker 12: mine and this is yours. Well, you know what, you
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  Speaker 12: should have never gone into the relationship. If you were
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  Speaker 12: not sacred in the marriage, then you should have never
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  Speaker 12: gotten married.
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  Speaker 6: Well, uh, he he did the right thing by breaking
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  Speaker 6: it off. And also, hey, look at Michael George's prenup.
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  Speaker 6: She got she she's well off yep, with both wives.
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  Speaker 6: So he dodged the bullet right there. Saw Michael Jordan's
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  Speaker 6: prenup where his wife now actually gets. Uh, she she
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  Speaker 6: gets she gets some nice money and and uh but
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  Speaker 6: you look it up, you'll see what what she gets.
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  Speaker 6: If there should have if there was something in that
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  Speaker 6: for she should have just went ahead and married and
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  Speaker 6: went from there. Because actually I helped people with prenups.
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  Speaker 6: He should have went ahead, and I said nothing. But
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  Speaker 6: you know, you'll see her down the road with another
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  Speaker 6: teammate or NFL player who who don't mind her not signing.
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  Speaker 13: Oh, absolutely, prenup all the way. Protect yourself. They'll see
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  Speaker 13: whoever got the most money. Protect yourself by money, No brainer.
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  Speaker 13: DA did the right thing. Absolutely absolutely.
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  Speaker 14: I think that pre nomsaw absolutely neroussard. Just like testing
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  Speaker 14: your babies, have you all of you your children tested
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  Speaker 14: at birth? I think it's an absolutely necessity nowadays.
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