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- 0:00Hey, this is Stefanie.
- 0:01And I am Meredith.
- 0:02And welcome to, this is my Circus.
- 0:07That was funny.
- 0:09Well, we're just gonna roll with that one because you know, I'm, it works, it's fine.
- 0:13I like rolling.
- 0:14Yeah.
- 0:15Yep.
- 0:15Um, so I had a hard time connecting to our meeting.
- 0:18Do you wanna know why?
- 0:19Why?
- 0:19I had the wifi on my, on my iPad off.
- 0:22Oh, genius Gene.
- 0:27Yes, it happens.
- 0:29It happens.
- 0:29Uh, Rex is, Rex is joining us this morning.
- 0:32hi Rex.
- 0:34He's like, what?
- 0:36Hi Rex.
- 0:38I miss my friend.
- 0:41Um, um, so I know Crazy Town for you right now.
- 0:44Oh my gosh.
- 0:44Yeah.
- 0:44So that's why we're doing Zooms right now is I have such like a limited timeframe, that I can do anything right now, because we are so crazy getting ready for, the World Championship of cornhole and, So, you know, I, when I can fit it in.
- 0:59Yeah.
- 0:59It, the heavy breathing isn't me.
- 1:01It's Rex.
- 1:03Well, and if we need to record next week, live on site at the, um, yeah, I think we should, we can do interviews then too.
- 1:12That'd perfect.
- 1:13That'd be perfect.
- 1:14Speaking of interviews, I did reach out to, Coley Eaton Uhhuh, and wait to hear back from her on when we can have a convo with her.
- 1:22Awesome.
- 1:22I know she's, Super busy.
- 1:24but just trying to, you know, continue that ball rolling.
- 1:29Yeah.
- 1:29And, uh, have a chat with her.
- 1:31Yeah.
- 1:31Awesome.
- 1:31That's, I'm super excited to, to get, to meet her and Yeah.
- 1:35And just, you know, hear some more of her thoughts and, and get some positive vibes from her.
- 1:40Totally.
- 1:41How is being home and just chilling right now?
- 1:46Well, it's, you know, it's stressful.
- 1:49I need a job.
- 1:49I want a job.
- 1:51All, all of that.
- 1:52But, I'm trying to have a really good attitude about it because I know that there's a lot of things out there.
- 1:56Mm-hmm.
- 1:57It's just finding the one that works for me.
- 1:59And the hiring process takes so long.
- 2:03Um, you know, when I was young and got a job, you got hired and then you started like the, whenever the next pay week started.
- 2:09Pretty much.
- 2:09Now, you know, you have to do several layers of interviews and you had to do the background checks and the drug screenings and all of those things.
- 2:16So, I've got a lot of irons in the fire, got a lot of things going there.
- 2:21I just had a good call this morning with someone so, Um, I do have a job though that I've applied for and I'm really got my fingers crossed for this one.
- 2:32I've not heard yay or nay from them at this point.
- 2:35Mm-hmm.
- 2:35Um, but it is for a helicopter pilot.
- 2:39What?
- 2:43I have zero qualifications for this job, but I'm, I'm, wait.
- 2:47I need to know what you're gonna be doing for this.
- 2:50Flying the helicopter.
- 2:52Shut up.
- 2:52Really.
- 2:54Yeah, but I'm not gonna get this job.
- 2:57You're not gonna me.
- 2:58Oh my God.
- 2:59Could you imagine?
- 3:00Oh.
- 3:01I would love it.
- 3:03I would have so much fun.
- 3:05Do you have to have a, like a pilot license for that?
- 3:06Oh yes.
- 3:07Yes.
- 3:07Do you have a pilot license?
- 3:09No.
- 3:11I just thought it sounded like a really fun job and Brian keeps saying like, the next job you take, like.
- 3:17Make sure it's something that you really, really like, that you're passionate about.
- 3:20You know, and I liked what I did, but I just didn't have this I passion.
- 3:24Yeah.
- 3:25I was right.
- 3:26Yeah.
- 3:26I mean, I, it was a good product, I believe in the future of that product.
- 3:31Um, but I just was like, uh, so I feel like being a helicopter pilot would really put me over the edge of having that, feeling of being fulfilled.
- 3:42I'm telling you.
- 3:43PI should not be out of the picture.
- 3:46Right.
- 3:47Private detective.
- 3:47I mean, uh, I will, I will look into that as well.
- 3:52Just saying, making a note.
- 3:53Making a note.
- 3:55So, um, you know, I mean, it's like the days run into each other.
- 4:00Um, when you're home and it's summer the kids are here, well, singular, but, um, anyway, it's just, it's just a weird time.
- 4:07There's always bonus ones around somewhere.
- 4:10Always, always.
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- 4:16Oh, we are officially brand.
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- 4:23Yeah.
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- 4:27This is our very first.
- 4:28Um, that is so cool.
- 4:30Mm-hmm.
- 4:31Can you tell everybody what they, what it is?
- 4:33'cause I like totally 100% think this product is amazing and I 100% Yeah.
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- 4:40Yep, of course.
- 4:41And we're gonna link all our, um, our codes to use this.
- 4:44The, the code is circus.
- 4:46I'm so excited that we have official code, but we'll put the link on there where you can get a little discount.
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- 5:00and even with the very basic one, what it does is you very easily.
- 5:04Pull this device apart and it makes a shrill loud sound, and it's a, a safety feature.
- 5:10It goes on your key ring and, it, you know, attracts attention if you should need that.
- 5:14Now there are, like I said, different levels for these products where you can get like a premium, et cetera.
- 5:20It does everything from like, you click it has one button on it, and like one click.
- 5:24We'll make an emergency call to your.
- 5:27And I might have the numbers of clicks wrong, so don't quote me on that.
- 5:30But one click will like contact your people that you have hooked into your device and send them your location.
- 5:37Like a double click, we'll do an emergency call to nine one one.
- 5:41Um, another series of clicks.
- 5:43I like this feature.
- 5:45We'll do like a fake call to you to get out of a situation that you don't need to be in, and you need to have like an excuse to leave.
- 5:53I'm very excited about this product.
- 5:55It's a cute little, like three four inch long fits on your key chain.
- 5:59Smaller than a thing, a mace, I would think.
- 6:01Mm-hmm.
- 6:02Um, I'm getting one.
- 6:03It should be here soon.
- 6:04Awesome.
- 6:04And just, yeah, I really believe in this product as well.
- 6:07I think it's fantastic.
- 6:09So when I, when you sent me the, the product info, I was on the website and I saw, and I like, wish I had this in college because I lived off campus in college and I think this is like something every college student should have, where they will.
- 6:22Like one of their operators, through their product system, will stay on the phone while you walk home.
- 6:28So I didn't live too far off campus.
- 6:29It was like maybe like three block, two, three blocks.
- 6:32Mm-hmm.
- 6:33I went there'cause that's where Brandon went and you know, he's like, come to my college.
- 6:37And I'm like, okay, okay boy, with the muscles I'm coming.
- 6:44So, um, but we lived off campus and, you know, having to pass all these frat houses and stuff and, you know, I was.
- 6:50Again, so much smaller and so much younger in those days.
- 6:56But, um, you know, I was definitely feisty and I could throw down if I needed to, but when you're in those situations, it's very uncomfortable.
- 7:05Right.
- 7:05And you know, I would like call either my mom or my sisters or, you know, some, I hope somebody answers the phone if I was walking home from a class at night.
- 7:13So that is such an mm-hmm.
- 7:15Awesome feature.
- 7:16So if anybody has girls going or even guys going to college, you know, it's something that everybody could benefit from.
- 7:24So, definitely.
- 7:25Right.
- 7:25We'll get those links posted.
- 7:27Um, and the discount code.
- 7:29And I just think it, if, if you know anybody in college going off to college, um, you know, even just working, walking back to your car from work mm-hmm.
- 7:37Yeah, I thought the same thing.
- 7:39'cause I've got a few friends whose girls are getting ready to go away to school, um, or are in school and could benefit, or we have a lot of friends that work, um, a crazy shift and they're going to a parking deck, you know, at yeah, midnight 3:00 AM whatever, um, guys, girls, and I know that there's.
- 7:58There's features and precautions, like, you know, they have like the little emergency pull this thing that's not always right there.
- 8:04Yeah.
- 8:04If you, when you need it in a situation and if you've got something that you can just one handedly maneuver and make it work.
- 8:11I'm, I'm very excited and I'm, I'm so thankful that they did choose us to be an ambassador for them because, um, like you said, we believe in this.
- 8:21Yeah.
- 8:21In those parking garages, those emergency like pull thing, like, you know, if, if it's a criminal, they know what they're doing, they know where those things are, and they're going to do something, not when you're not able to get to those safety features.
- 8:32I think.
- 8:33Car alarms, like, you know, somebody will like, oh, just hit your car alarm.
- 8:36But the car alarms go off all the time and nobody even pays attention to car alarms anymore because they go off so often.
- 8:41Right.
- 8:42So having some kind of different, alarm or different kind of sound, I think is mm-hmm.
- 8:47It's such a great product and, and whoever invented this, like, kudos to you'cause.
- 8:51I know it's awesome.
- 8:52Totally, totally.
- 8:53And not that we don't always have our phones, but in that situation, when you're grappling, trying to, you know, find a phone and call and whatever, and I know that there's easy ways that you can make an emergency call.
- 9:04Yeah.
- 9:04But if you've just got one button that's right there and you just know you hold that down or whatever, that just, and the, honestly, the product is very reasonable.
- 9:13It's under 30 bucks.
- 9:15Yeah, I need to get one for my niece.
- 9:16Um, she's 19 and, you know, she works at'em all and you know, whatever.
- 9:20Yeah.
- 9:21You never know how you're gonna react.
- 9:22You think that you can handle situations.
- 9:25Right.
- 9:25but until you're in that situation, you don't know what you're gonna do.
- 9:28So yeah.
- 9:30Awesome products.
- 9:30Thank you so much for finding that.
- 9:32'cause again, I've never heard of it before.
- 9:33You send it to me, I just think it is.
- 9:35Mm-hmm.
- 9:36Such a cool product.
- 9:37So awesome.
- 9:39I'm excited about that.
- 9:39Me too.
- 9:40Me too, I told you I got that.
- 9:42solo wave.
- 9:43Yes.
- 9:43So its been a week, full week of using it.
- 9:45And not that I see any like notice in like wrinkles, but.
- 9:50My skin is so much more moisturized.
- 9:52cause I guess it's supposed to let like your products seep in better.
- 9:57Ooh.
- 9:58And you know, I have crazy dry skin anyway.
- 10:00Like, I mean like my skin's just naturally dry.
- 10:02okay.
- 10:02But there is a big difference in, I think, like the absorption.
- 10:06So, okay.
- 10:08We're on week one.
- 10:09We'll see what week two brings.
- 10:12I need that link for real.
- 10:13Yeah.
- 10:14So we'll get that posted.
- 10:15They do have an ambassador program, but we can see if we can get approved for it.
- 10:19But I, I wanted to make sure that it worked first.
- 10:21'cause I, I, I don't wanna, yeah.
- 10:22You know, share products that we don't like.
- 10:25Oh, yeah.
- 10:26Yeah.
- 10:28That we're not sure how it's gonna go.
- 10:29Yeah, totally.
- 10:30So we're week one.
- 10:31I do, again, see a big change as far as my skin being hydrated.
- 10:37Good.
- 10:39I don't like though, like their, well, it's not that I don't like it, their serum that they send with it.
- 10:44like you have to put it on and then like, you know, use the Wand with it.
- 10:47Mm-hmm.
- 10:47And you don't have to use their serum.
- 10:48You can use anything without oil.
- 10:49Mm-hmm.
- 10:50Um, and.
- 10:52It dries so quickly when you're using it.
- 10:54Like you have to reapply so much to it.
- 10:56Like to Yeah, get it to glide.
- 10:59but I read that you can use any like, water-based, serum.
- 11:03Okay.
- 11:03So you don't have to use theirs.
- 11:05so I'm gonna look into different stuff.
- 11:07'cause I, I think you would go through their stuff so quickly.
- 11:10Yeah.
- 11:11It has to be a, a better one.
- 11:12Somebody else said you can just like, spray water.
- 11:15once the serum dries out, uhhuh spray water on your face and then like use it and like activate.
- 11:19Yeah.
- 11:20You know, I would think like aloe vera gel would, might be something good.
- 11:25Yeah.
- 11:25Too.
- 11:25And, and, and an inexpensive product compared to some of the face products.
- 11:29Yeah.
- 11:30Just for that purpose.
- 11:31Yeah.
- 11:32Um, and, and their thing does have aloe in it, like their serum.
- 11:35so that actually that's a good idea.
- 11:36I didn't think about that.
- 11:38So, yeah.
- 11:38So.
- 11:39I think it's going good so far.
- 11:42We'll see how it works on the wrinkles in the, in the bags.
- 11:47The ever present in my life.
- 11:49Yes.
- 11:50so, what did you think of this week's book?
- 11:52So this book, so it was Carnegie's Maid.
- 11:56Yeah.
- 11:56And it was by, Marie Benedict.
- 11:59Mm-hmm.
- 12:00Do you have the blurb?
- 12:01I do.
- 12:02Clara Kelly is not who they think she is.
- 12:04She's not the experienced Irish maid who was hired to work in one of Pittsburgh's grandest household.
- 12:10She's a poor farmer's daughter with nowhere to go and nothing in her pockets.
- 12:14But the woman who shares her name has vanished, and assuming her identity, she just might get Clara some money in to send back home.
- 12:23Clara must rely on resolve as strong as the steel Pittsburgh is becoming famous for and an uncanny understanding of business attributes that quickly glean her Carnegie's trust, but she still can't let her guard down.
- 12:36Not even when Andrew becomes something more than an employer revealing her past might ruin her future, and her families with captivating insight and heart.
- 12:44Carnegie's Made is a book of fascinating.
- 12:4719th century historical fiction.
- 12:50Discover the story of one brilliant woman who may have spurred Andrew Carnegie's transformation from ruthless industrialist to the world's first true philanthropist.
- 12:59I am not a historical fiction reader, so it was hard for me to get through it just'cause it's not my typical type of book that Yeah, I would, you know, whatever.
- 13:09so I thought it was interesting, like the struggle of the immigrants arriving and like how people tried to take, advantage of them if they didn't know any better or like the stories that she had been been told to watch out for.
- 13:21Yeah.
- 13:21Um, so that side of it was like, I mean like we learned that in school or whatever, that, you know, coming over wasn't the American dream that everybody thought it was gonna be.
- 13:35So this book for me was a little bit of a good palette cleanser.
- 13:38I do like historical.
- 13:40I, I do like Ireland.
- 13:42So hearing that Irish and the Scottish broke, like that was fun.
- 13:46but I felt the book was a little boring.
- 13:50We do, um, especially after all of the trauma we've been through recently.
- 13:55Yeah.
- 13:57Um, it was good to have a little bit of a reset.
- 13:59I I, you know, we had talked about throwing some more palate cleansers in, so I think this was that, but it was a little bit too much.
- 14:05It was like having a salting cracker.
- 14:07Yeah.
- 14:07After you've been having all these fancy foods.
- 14:09Yeah.
- 14:10so we need the, we need like a salt cracker with peanut butter.
- 14:13So just a little bit more I did not like the ending.
- 14:17Like, I don't, me neither.
- 14:18Okay.
- 14:19Okay.
- 14:19No, we're not gonna do a spoiler, but like, the ending made me mad.
- 14:21No, me too.
- 14:23Me too.
- 14:23And it was, the ending was, and for me, was unexpected.
- 14:28I did not, I expected it to go a more traditional route, um, with, you know, with how it was gonna tie everything up.
- 14:35So it was not what I expected and I think it was just outta character for her.
- 14:40Um.
- 14:40Mm-hmm.
- 14:41And so that was what I was like, I don't know.
- 14:43I didn't like it.
- 14:44Yeah.
- 14:45I didn't like the ending.
- 14:46Um, I mean, I, again, not my style book.
- 14:49I think it was written good.
- 14:50I think it was very detailed.
- 14:51I think, um, mm-hmm.
- 14:53She developed the characters good.
- 14:54It was very dry for me, I guess.
- 14:57Mm-hmm.
- 14:57I, I did like getting that, those historical pieces, of hearing about different things just the, the way things were quote back then, you know?
- 15:05Yeah.
- 15:06Several hundred years ago and how things went.
- 15:07Would you recommend this book?
- 15:09If you like historical fiction, I guess.
- 15:10I mean, like, again, it's not an exciting book, I don't think.
- 15:13yeah.
- 15:13But if you're into that, oh, it is kind of based loosely on a true story.
- 15:18Right.
- 15:18But I just don't think it's like my cup of tea.
- 15:21Right.
- 15:22Okay.
- 15:23Yeah.
- 15:23Oh my shot of whiskey.
- 15:24I just, or whatever you wanna call it, I just wanted to make sure that both of our listeners out there know that there is some, um, this was based loosely on, on a historical event.
- 15:37Right.
- 15:37What would you rate the book outta 10?
- 15:39I would give it like a six.
- 15:41Okay.
- 15:41Yeah, I was like a four five maybe.
- 15:45Yeah.
- 15:45I, I, I didn't hate it.
- 15:47I don't know, but it, it wasn't my all time favorite.
- 15:50I wouldn't read it again.
- 15:51But I actually finished this one, so I feel like that gives me a little bit of a boost.
- 15:57It have been last week.
- 16:00well next week I'm excited about this one'cause I do love this author.
- 16:03I've read other books, by her.
- 16:04Um, it's called The lying Game, by Ruth Ware.
- 16:07I just started listening to it and so, um, This is good.
- 16:12My speed.
- 16:14Good, good.
- 16:15Well, and I did finish the one that I had mentioned last week on our podcast since I did bail on that one.
- 16:21And I wanted to read something else.
- 16:22I did finish the vanishing hour mm-hmm.
- 16:24That we had talked about.
- 16:25And, um, I can't remember the author off top of my head, but that was a good one and I would recommend that that's more of the, the genre we've been been doing.
- 16:34So, um, that was not a bad one.
- 16:36Good.
- 16:36Good.
- 16:37Do you wanna get into our dumb crimes?
- 16:40'cause there were some doozies in Michigan.
- 16:42Michigan is the place to be.
- 16:44Um, can we start with laws though?
- 16:45Yeah.
- 16:47Okay, so I thought it was funny that, um, you cannot be drunk on a train.
- 16:54I saw that and I was like that.
- 16:56I don't know.
- 16:57I don't know how I feel about that.
- 16:58I feel like I.
- 17:01Don't tell what Oh, what to do.
- 17:02Right.
- 17:03It's one of those that you're like, okay, I'm sure somebody, you know, got in trouble being drunk on a train, whatever.
- 17:10did you have some that you like to, okay, this was like the weirdest one that I think I came up with.
- 17:16It's against the law to paint a sparrow with red paint with the intentions of selling them as parakeets.
- 17:23Speechless.
- 17:24Did you ever do when you were little?
- 17:26The game?
- 17:27Mad Libs?
- 17:27Yes.
- 17:28Where it's like, okay, gimme a verb.
- 17:29I feel like that sentence is mad Libs.
- 17:31Like, gimme a color red.
- 17:32Okay.
- 17:33Mm-hmm.
- 17:33Gimme a verb.
- 17:34Yeah.
- 17:34What are you gonna do?
- 17:35Sell it.
- 17:36Okay.
- 17:37That's what that sounds like.
- 17:39That makes no sense.
- 17:40No.
- 17:40Um, You, uh, you cannot sell cars on Sundays.
- 17:47I did see that, and I mean, I guess I can kind of understand it, like Chick-fil-a's not open on Sunday.
- 17:52So yeah, that's either no car.
- 17:56Here's another, this is the second state that we have had this same law.
- 18:00It's illegal to tie an alligator to a fire hydrant in Detroit.
- 18:05Why are there alligators in Detroit anyway?
- 18:07Why are people putting up to the fire extinguishers all the questions?
- 18:13When was the last time this occurred?
- 18:17That's what I wanna know.
- 18:18Like who had a pet alligator that they took for a walk and they thought, I'm just gonna leave you here buddy.
- 18:23Yeah.
- 18:24You're gonna be okay.
- 18:25Um, it's against the law to willfully destroy an old radio.
- 18:30Okay.
- 18:30Well, in Detroit it's against the law to scowl at a woman.
- 18:37Oh my gosh.
- 18:38After Brian and I had some words last night, we might need to implement this law in Clover.
- 18:43Um, it's illegal to throw an abandoned hoop skirt onto the street or sidewalk.
- 18:49If you do violate this law, it's a$5 fine.
- 18:52Oh, okay.
- 18:53Well, in Rochester, all bathing suits are supposed to be inspected by the head of police.
- 19:00No, no.
- 19:03No.
- 19:05Oh my goodness.
- 19:07Oh my goodness.
- 19:07Um, pigs cannot run free in Detroit unless they have a ring in their nose.
- 19:11I did see that one.
- 19:12That was actually my last one, so, um, I did see that and I was like a ring in the nose.
- 19:18Okay.
- 19:19Um, okay.
- 19:21Dumb criminal.
- 19:22You wanna kick us off for with that?
- 19:23Sure.
- 19:24Okay, A man in Pontiac Courtroom suspected of drug possession tries to argue that his case should be thrown out because the cop who searched his pocket did not have a warrant.
- 19:35Prosecutor says that the officer didn't need one because there was a suspicious bulge in the pocket of the man's jacket.
- 19:41The defendant wearing the same jacket shows the judge his coat, which happens to have a packet of cocaine in the pocket.
- 19:48Laughter ensues and the judge calls for recess to regain his composure.
- 19:54Oh my gosh.
- 19:55Oh my gosh.
- 19:57Don't keep cocaine in your pocket.
- 20:00Not step one.
- 20:01Don't do cocaine.
- 20:03Step two if you don't to.
- 20:08Oh my gosh, that's pretty funny.
- 20:10Dumb, dumb, dumb.
- 20:11Okay, so I, I've got one as well.
- 20:14I'll share let me give you the headline here.
- 20:16So, drunk Driver runs outta gas calls police to have been shot to get a faster response.
- 20:22Um, 30 year old Detroit man effectively called the police on himself.
- 20:26According to the Michigan State Police, he was traveling with the female passenger when they ran out of gas instead of, instead of calling AAA or a friend, the passenger called, Michigan State Police, Detroit Regional Communication Center asking for courtesy patrol to help them out.
- 20:43She called again wanting a quick response, but no one came.
- 20:46The driver allegedly hatched a plan to ensure a fast response.
- 20:50According to authorities.
- 20:51They called, I'm not gonna say it again, but the big long communication center and claimed that a white man in a pur.
- 20:58Purple.
- 20:59S r t fired 150 shots into his vehicle with an AK 47.
- 21:04Police were dispatched and perplexed when no one was injured and there were no bullet holes.
- 21:08Police determined the man made a false report of shooting in an effort to get a quick response after running out of gas.
- 21:14If this wasn't bad enough, troopers noticed the man was drunk and driving on a suspended license.
- 21:19He also had fugitive warrants to boots.
- 21:22The man was arrested for operating while intoxicated.
- 21:25He had a blood alcohol content of 0.16, which is twice the legal limit.
- 21:30He was taken to detention center and facing a long list of charges, so he didn't just say, yo, somebody shot at me and drove by.
- 21:39He said, uh, AK forty seven, a hundred fifty rounds in my car, and they show up in there.
- 21:44Something I, I, uh, I don't know what you could say about that.
- 21:49So, you know, they say that the squeaky wheel gets the grease, right?
- 21:52Like the more you come.
- 21:53But that is taking it to the next level.
- 21:56It's, Hey Meredith, if you ever get stuck on the side of the road, you can call me.
- 21:59Don't call the police.
- 22:01Right.
- 22:01I will come and get you girl.
- 22:03Phone a friend.
- 22:04Phone a friend.
- 22:05Don't, don't do that.
- 22:07Stupidness.
- 22:07Oh my gosh.
- 22:09I know.
- 22:09For real.
- 22:09So could you see that these whales are like still.
- 22:14Capsizing boats and, um, no, they're like, they're growing their pod, like they're teaching more.
- 22:20No, like, I'm so fascinated by this.
- 22:23Like, I don't, I'm, I don't know.
- 22:25I'm like fascinated.
- 22:27So last, well, the first time we talked about it, they were in Spain, Uhhuh.
- 22:30Are they still kind of over there?
- 22:32Do we know where they are?
- 22:33I think so.
- 22:33But I guess like they're tracking like the pod or whatever and um, there's like, yeah, it's like, I, I, there's a TikTok, or it's like this, like younger dude that like tells about all like the, the, the, um, characteristics of animals and stuff like that.
- 22:49He's like funny.
- 22:49Mm-hmm.
- 22:50He makes it like really, really funny.
- 22:51Um, and he calls, uh, orcas, I forget what he calls them.
- 22:56He is like, uh, like ba, like basically like the gangsters of the sea.
- 22:59Like they'll just like knock anybody off, you know?
- 23:02Yeah.
- 23:04That is insane.
- 23:05Yes.
- 23:06I didn't know that was, it's not like free Willy, like, you know, whatever.
- 23:09Like these, they, he's like, they will murder something just for fun.
- 23:15My gosh.
- 23:16Um, speaking of craziness though, have you heard the story of the woman who went missing?
- 23:22Yes.
- 23:22Um, about the toddler and then all of a sudden she's, yes.
- 23:26I've been going down that rabbit hole as well.
- 23:28Oh.
- 23:29So my goodness.
- 23:30To fill people in who might not know.
- 23:32Just very high level.
- 23:33There was a woman, uh, like 30 years old.
- 23:36No, early twenties.
- 23:37Yeah.
- 23:37And she was going down the road.
- 23:40She calls in 9 1 1, says there's a toddler walking down the road.
- 23:43She's gonna stop and help them and police come to assist her.
- 23:49She is gone.
- 23:50There is no toddler.
- 23:51Her car is there, like the door is open, her wig is there on the side of the road, like.
- 23:58Her phone.
- 23:58Phone.
- 23:59Mm-hmm.
- 23:59Um, and then 49 hours later, I think she just reappeared.
- 24:05Um, so that's a lot of, and I'm, why am I thinking that's in Alabama?
- 24:09It was actually, I just pulled up the article.
- 24:11Okay.
- 24:11It was in Alabama.
- 24:12Okay.
- 24:12Um, and they raised$63,000 for her, like reward money and.
- 24:21Now they're, it, it's very speculated.
- 24:23They haven't come out and said it.
- 24:25But the f b I said that like everything that she says, like it's contradictory to what the evidence says.
- 24:30So, on Facebook and like, you know, it's people like commenting from her area basically said like, She didn't wanna work that weekend, like she, like from her job?
- 24:40I don't know.
- 24:41I don't know.
- 24:41That was just like some of, like the comments that were there.
- 24:43Yeah.
- 24:44Um, that of people that were in the area that know her or whatever.
- 24:47so it was a really stupid, reason to do.
- 24:51Mm-hmm.
- 24:51I mean, there's no good reason to do this, police were searching for F b I was called.
- 24:55Right.
- 24:55There was all these, right.
- 24:57You know, People searching for her, volunteering their time.
- 25:01Yeah.
- 25:01m money raised, supposedly, I don't know if it's true or not, the, all the donations were supposed to be going back to whoever donated.
- 25:07so like there was no, you know, profit from this, but, right, right.
- 25:12Crazy.
- 25:13And she apparently did one interview with police and then she's refused any other interviews, which I don't understand how you can just.
- 25:21Refuse interviews like that, I guess, unless they have something to charge her with.
- 25:26I don't know.
- 25:26But that is an interesting situation that I've been kind of digging along in that.
- 25:33Okay.
- 25:33So going down that, like another rabbit hole, I saw something.
- 25:37Okay.
- 25:37Did you see like how Jamie Fox's was like in the hospital or whatever?
- 25:41Yeah.
- 25:42And so the speculation is that P Diddy poisoned him.
- 25:46Oh, I didn't hear that.
- 25:48Because he was like, Talking about all of the like, weird stuff that goes down at like, okay, P Diddy's parties so then I went down this rabbit hole, right?
- 25:59Of p Diddy.
- 26:00'cause from our generation.
- 26:01Like he, you know Right.
- 26:02Biggie and p Diddy, like, right, right.
- 26:05So, there's like speculation that he abused several underage children.
- 26:09Oh, that.
- 26:11So, I mean, over the years, he has like all these like wild parties where, You know, there's no inhibitions.
- 26:19Yeah.
- 26:20And as long as you know what, as long as everybody is over is is like a consent, me consent handle.
- 26:25Yeah.
- 26:25I you do you like, I, you know, as long as everybody's good with it and you're not holding it over people's head, you're not using this as leverage to blackmail or whatever.
- 26:35Yeah.
- 26:35Yeah.
- 26:36So, but that's not the case apparently.
- 26:38I mean from all these like reports of what is going on.
- 26:41I just.
- 26:43Watched a video and it said that there was five people that started, bad Boy Records or whatever it was called.
- 26:49Three of them, are now dead.
- 26:51And Kim, who was, I think Pete Diddy's wife at some point Yeah.
- 26:56Is also dead now.
- 26:58Wait, um, little Kim?
- 27:00No, no, no, no.
- 27:01It's like Kim Porter, I think is what her name was.
- 27:03Oh yeah.
- 27:03I think that's right.
- 27:04so all of them though were writing a tell all book when they died.
- 27:10They said that the men supposedly had heart attacks and then Kim Porter, the first coroner's report, said that it was probably murder'cause there was like toxins and stuff in her body.
- 27:21and then the second coroner's report said it was pneumonia and said it was just like a natural causes.
- 27:26Oh my goodness.
- 27:28I did read some of the Jamie Fox stuff and he's very vague on what happened.
- 27:33Like they, some people are, some of his friends, et cetera, are saying, you know, they think he had a stroke, but nobody is confirming anything.
- 27:43And he, gave a special shout out to his daughter and his.
- 27:49Sister, I wanna say something like that.
- 27:52Definitely his daughter, um, on their privacy in this and how they protected him in this situation.
- 27:59So crazy.
- 28:01Yeah.
- 28:02Pete did, he is not a good man.
- 28:05Hot garbage.
- 28:06Yeah.
- 28:06Oh man.
- 28:07I'm so like, I hate knowing, like, you know, ignorance is bliss, right?
- 28:11And then you go down these rabbit holes and find out how horrible and like, like the holly weird, like hashtag holly weird that is going on right now.
- 28:18Yeah.
- 28:19Um, but you know, usher lived with him for a year when he was 14, p Diddy, and went to all of these like adult.
- 28:29Wild parties and was involved in all of this stuff.
- 28:33there's like, has he come out and said anything at this point?
- 28:36He just commented about living with him.
- 28:39and it was like, I forgot what they called it.
- 28:41Like p Diddy's, like fantasy school or something like that.
- 28:45I don't know.
- 28:45It was like some weird name.
- 28:47it reminds me of Michael Jackson's Neverland and I was a huge Michael Jackson fan, there there was speculation that, you know, like he was inappropriate.
- 28:55Yeah.
- 28:55Yeah.
- 28:56Um, and then also there's, um, speculation that Justin Bieber was also, I've heard that before by someone else, allegedly, don't remember who the offender was, but I've heard that about him as well.
- 29:10So like, it's just so sad.
- 29:12Like, It is.
- 29:14It is.
- 29:15And that in the podcast and books and the shows and all that that we watch, in the news we read, it's almost the norm.
- 29:24Yeah.
- 29:24Um, and that is sickening.
- 29:26That that is just what's expected.
- 29:29And people don't even blink an eye because it's just the way it is.
- 29:34And that's so, On the Michael Jackson thing, I just, because they were talking about all this crazy stuff going on in, in Hollywood and whatever somebody mentioned Michael Jackson and they said that the kids that were abused in Hollywood said that Michael Jackson actually protected them from the abusers.
- 29:55McLay Culkin and, mm-hmm.
- 29:57Cory, Cory Feldman, or the other Cory from like the eighties Hay.
- 30:01Yeah.
- 30:01One of, I think it was Cory Feldman.
- 30:03Or Feldman.
- 30:03Yeah.
- 30:03Yeah.
- 30:04I think, um, They both said that he was the only adult at that time that actually protected them and kept them away from the people.
- 30:15And they both admit, you know, had, I know Corey said that he was abused.
- 30:19I don't know about McLay.
- 30:20Colgate.
- 30:20Yeah.
- 30:21Um, I mean, openly admit, openly said it.
- 30:23Oh, very open.
- 30:24Yeah.
- 30:25And, and um, they both said Michael Jackson was the only person in the industry that protected him.
- 30:34Well, what about all these other claims from everybody else?
- 30:36Then that's what's, so they said that, I guess like the people that are doing the abusing is the high in power suits, ties, you know, like mm-hmm.
- 30:45You can't touch me kind of people.
- 30:46And this is just the speculation.
- 30:48I don't know, like, I don't know what, you know, truly happened, but um, you know, what's better to throw the shade onto somebody that's different or that doesn't, I mean that, you know.
- 30:58Yeah.
- 30:59Is wearing black shoes, shoes, white socks, and you know, a, a marching band jacket and names, blanket.
- 31:05Yeah.
- 31:05Right.
- 31:06Um, so they said that it was all done because stuff was coming out about these executives and these like suits and stuff.
- 31:15And it was all, I mean, he went to court for a long time about this stuff.
- 31:20Yeah.
- 31:20I mean, I, it could be true.
- 31:21I don't know, but they said, you know, that's just the, yeah.
- 31:25And you know, they paid these people off to, to say it and.
- 31:29You know, all these conspiracy theories, who knows what really happened.
- 31:31I feel horrible.
- 31:32Right.
- 31:32For anybody that's in these situations.
- 31:34Totally.
- 31:35Yeah.
- 31:35But if you lie about it and to, because you got paid off to lie, you know, I hope karma gets you.
- 31:42Right.
- 31:43Right.
- 31:43Agreed, agreed.
- 31:45Oh my goodness.
- 31:46So crazy.
- 31:47I know.
- 31:47So, um, thank God my child has like, no, like, wants to be anything in Hollywood.
- 31:54We'll stick to sports.
- 31:55Yeah.
- 31:56What college was it that just came out?
- 31:58Northwestern?
- 31:59Maybe, I don't know.
- 32:00the coach just got, fired because of all the allegations of hazing, like, like horrible hazing over the last couple years that he was telling the players to do the hazing.
- 32:11Oh my gosh.
- 32:12Yeah.
- 32:12And like, not just like a little hazing, Jackson said it was Northwestern.
- 32:17Yeah.
- 32:18Not just like a little hazing.
- 32:19It was like awful like, Hazing.
- 32:22Hazing, like, oh man, so that makes me sad.
- 32:27And like, yeah, really not look forward to college for Dylan.
- 32:32No.
- 32:34All we can do is just continue to give them.
- 32:37The tools they need to, you know, be independent and strong and know what's right and what's wrong.
- 32:42Mm-hmm.
- 32:43And to make good choices and all those things.
- 32:47It's so, so much pressure.
- 32:49Yeah.
- 32:50It's so hard.
- 32:52So on that happy note mm-hmm.
- 32:55I thought we could do Illinois next week.
- 32:57Okay.
- 32:57Is that okay?
- 32:58That's.
- 32:59Okay, cool.
- 33:00And then our, our book is The Lying Game by Ruth Ware.
- 33:05Yes.
- 33:05Yep.
- 33:05And that is on audiobook, on Libby for sure.
- 33:08Cool.
- 33:09Okay.
- 33:10And I should be done with it in like the end of the day, so, so I can go ahead and add myself to that list so I can grab it.
- 33:17Um, and I know you have a lot going on with the, championship being next week, so, Maybe we can have a fun recording for next time to try to make it so it's, maybe you can kill two birds with one stone.
- 33:29Let's put it that way.
- 33:30Yeah, I've got like the little, like on the road mics too that we can use.
- 33:36Oh my God.
- 33:36I just came up with brilliant ideas.
- 33:38We'll talk about it and we'll see how it goes, but I think next week will fun.
- 33:41Awesome.
- 33:41Okay, cool.
- 33:42I'm excited.
- 33:44Me too.
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