Latest / The Kathie Owen Perspective Podcast / 154. The Heart of Corporate Culture: The Power of Storytelling
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- 0:00I've always had an entrepreneurial spirit.
- 0:03I've always been.
- 0:06In business, doing something on this side and I'm not an hourly type gal.
- 0:13So imagine the day I get called in to my supervisor's office, to, uh, discuss.
- 0:26My hours.
- 0:28And not only that.
- 0:30I get called into this office and human resources in there with her little notebook taking notes.
- 0:38I thought I was getting fired.
- 0:40And I have been one that had believed with all my heart and worked with a purpose of integrity because of that entrepreneurial spirit I had, I mean, I'd been in business for.
- 0:54At least 12 years at this time for myself.
- 0:58And then on top of that, I had worked for my ex-husband, who was a very successful businessman.
- 1:05And I learned a lot of entrepreneurial things from him.
- 1:09So imagine my surprise getting called in and human resources being there.
- 1:14I had been at this company for.
- 1:1710 years at this time.
- 1:19And I'm thinking to myself, what the heck.
- 1:22I mean, my supervisor.
- 1:24She's the director of operations.
- 1:26I had my doubts about her.
- 1:28She didn't really want me there she's even specifically said it.
- 1:32So I really wasn't looking for her approval.
- 1:36Nor was I looking for HR approval.
- 1:39I almost quit my job that I freaking love at this point.
- 1:45Now I take complete responsibility for everything.
- 1:48I take radical responsibility for everything.
- 1:51I was triggered.
- 1:52Because they were doubting my integrity.
- 1:55They were doubting my work ethic and I was extremely triggered.
- 2:01But how do we transmute that trigger?
- 2:04That.
- 2:07Is the way out of being a victim and I wasn't a victim of anybody, but at the same time, I realized there was a huge gap in the workplace.
- 2:21I mean, yes, this is corporate America and yes, most people clock in and out, but I was an entrepreneurial spirit.
- 2:28I had just remodeled the gym to be this beautiful place.
- 2:34And I was like, what the heck?
- 2:38I mean.
- 2:40I specifically said, look, I have entrepreneurial spirit.
- 2:43I'm working on stuff at home.
- 2:45I work all the time.
- 2:46I'm working on weekends.
- 2:48She's like, I never see any of your stuff.
- 2:51I'm like, yeah, I know.
- 2:55That my friend is the power.
- 2:58of storytelling in the workplace.
- 3:01And that's what we're going to talk about today.
- 3:04You're listening to Kathie's coaching podcast.
- 3:07I'm your host, Kathie Owen.
- 3:08I've been missing from YouTube.
- 3:10For about a month now.
- 3:13It's been killing me.
- 3:15I've been so upset.
- 3:17I've had trouble with Descript and more than likely it was my computer that was messing up.
- 3:25But I got it fixed.
- 3:26And now I have a ton of.
- 3:29Stuff in the pipeline to put together.
- 3:32And today is the first of many, and my hope is I'm going to be putting YouTube videos out on a very regular basis.
- 3:41More than once a week for a while.
- 3:43And I look forward to sharing this with you, but it's been killing me that I couldn't get on here.
- 3:49I had what I called.
- 3:51Recording traumatic stress disorder because I'd recorded so many videos and they would all come up trashy.
- 4:00I mean, trashy Descript was working buggy on me and it really wasn't totally descripts fault, although it really wouldn't work with my older computer.
- 4:12And so.
- 4:14I got to a point where I tell my video, I'd be like, I don't know if this is recording or not.
- 4:19And on top of that, I'm a firm believer in done is better than perfect because every video I recorded was like, there's something I could have done better there.
- 4:31It always happens that way.
- 4:33And.
- 4:34You know, I'd rather have this done and out there on a consistent basis, but that's the reason I have been missing from YouTube.
- 4:44And today we're going to talk about storytelling in the workplace and actually have tried recording this video many times.
- 4:52So let's get into it.
- 4:55MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Storytelling and corporate wellness.
- 4:56MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Here we go.
- 4:57MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I've been trying to record this for so long and I'm so excited to share it with you today.
- 5:02MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Why it is important to incorporate storytelling in the workplace.
- 5:09MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Let's discuss.
- 5:11MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: The American management association highlights.
- 5:14MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: The storytelling is an effective tool in change management and change management.
- 5:21MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: With organizations that use storytelling in their change management initiatives, seeing a 50% higher success rate in achieving change objectives.
- 5:32MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Keep that in mind.
- 5:34MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: It's a tool that not only fosters dynamic and inclusive atmosphere, but also serves as a linchpin and driving meaningful change.
- 5:46MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: It invites intrinsic motivation, super key here invites intrinsic motivation instead of the common, not useful extrinsic motivation.
- 5:59MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And before we go forward, I have to tell you a story about extrinsic motivation.
- 6:04MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: So every Easter, we have this contest that is a scavenger hunt, and people are invited to search for these Easter eggs.
- 6:14MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And they are planted around campus and they take a photo, a selfie with the egg and the clue, and the first person that wins gets a hundred dollars.
- 6:25MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And then I think the next prize is 75 and the next prize is 50.
- 6:29MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: So they give away three prizes.
- 6:31MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: This contest is absolutely insane.
- 6:34MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And if you want to see who's extrinsically motivated, watch who participates in this contest and it is crazy.
- 6:43MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I mean, okay.
- 6:44MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: For example, they planted an egg in the gym and I had a meeting scheduled at 10 o'clock and I had people running all over the gym, searching and things in my drawers, inside my cabinets.
- 6:58MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I'm like.
- 7:00MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Uh, no.
- 7:03MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I had to ask them where they hit that egg so I can get it out of my gym and put it outside.
- 7:10MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I just put it right outside the door.
- 7:13MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: It turns out they're probably not going to do this contest anymore because actually the only people that can participate in the contest are people who don't have to sit at their desk for a certain period of time.
- 7:24MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Or don't have a meeting scheduled at 10 o'clock or they can't participate.
- 7:30MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Because once you get out of this contest, you get behind.
- 7:33MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And there are people that are just running all over the place.
- 7:36MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Doing absolutely insane things that don't make any sense.
- 7:42MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: This is extrinsic motivation.
- 7:44MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Whereas storytelling in the workplace creates intrinsic motivation.
- 7:49MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: When you tell a story.
- 7:51MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Of a time you overcame a struggle.
- 7:54MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Or a time where you came through something and there's specific ways to tell a story.
- 7:59MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And that's what we're going to talk about today.
- 8:01MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: The significance of storytelling in the corporate culture is a cultivates community.
- 8:08MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: It makes you feel inclusive.
- 8:11MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: It elevates communication.
- 8:13MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I have seen this happen so many times where if you chair a story, oh, you see, Hey, that person's human error.
- 8:21MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Not what I thought they were up here.
- 8:23MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: All stressed out all the time or something.
- 8:26MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: It actually elevates communication.
- 8:31MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: It boosts engagement.
- 8:33MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Wouldn't you want to tell a story and have others engage in the aspects of that story rather than just have a contest where you're giving away money for finding an egg and not even.
- 8:47MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Doing your work.
- 8:49MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Yeah.
- 8:49MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Makes a lot of sense.
- 8:51MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And it enhances knowledge sharing.
- 8:55MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Those are the aspects and the reasons why storytelling is important in the workplace.
- 9:03MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: But as I said, there are guidelines for telling stories in the workplace and let's talk about those and I'm going to relay them back to my story that I shared with you.
- 9:14MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: The first thing is you want to know your audience.
- 9:16MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: So my audience is either somebody that's found me through fitness, wellness mindset.
- 9:24MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Those type of things, but also I'm shifting into becoming a corporate wellness professional, where I'm going to provide my services for other companies.
- 9:35MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: So I'm sharing a story about how my entrepreneurship.
- 9:40MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Links to my business and how I see integrity as a huge value of mine.
- 9:48MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I value being treated with integrity and also someone trusting me enough to know that I'm a person of integrity.
- 9:59MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: When you're telling stories in the workplace, you want to clarify your objective.
- 10:03MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: So my objective of telling you that story today is to let you see my value of integrity.
- 10:11MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And also to let you see that I had just changed that gym from a dramp.
- 10:18MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Boring white floor, white wall gym into an inspirational place that people could come to work out at work and it would, you would feel inspired when you walked in the door and I felt like that got trampled on when I got.
- 10:37MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Mistreated because I wasn't clocking in and out.
- 10:41MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I was like, what the heck?
- 10:43MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Do not see the value that I have to bring to the table.
- 10:46MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And I was hit with a roadblock and how I overcame it was taking responsibility.
- 10:55MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: You want to be authentic.
- 10:58MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: So to be authentic in your storytelling, you need to tell it from a place of vulnerability, as well as a place of.
- 11:07MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Authenticity.
- 11:08MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And that word is kind of a buzzword and it's used very often.
- 11:12MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: But I shared my authentic self by telling you how I was scared.
- 11:18MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I was thinking I was getting fired.
- 11:20MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And most likely you could relate to that in some form or fashion when you walk into somebody's office and you're.
- 11:28MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Kind of being intimidated.
- 11:31MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Kind of being bullied in sort of a way.
- 11:36MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: That's the way I interpreted it.
- 11:38MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And that's the way I tell my story.
- 11:41MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: 'cause I told you I was triggered.
- 11:44MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: You want to use descriptive language.
- 11:48MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And my story, maybe I use some descriptive language where I talked about how HR was sitting there with a notebook.
- 11:56MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I mean, just picture that.
- 11:57MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: If HR sitting there with a notebook, what kind of notes do they have to take?
- 12:03MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: That was my thought.
- 12:04MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I was like, what the heck?
- 12:07MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I have no idea.
- 12:08MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And what blew my mind with that was, I would say about four months prior, I had met with HR to discuss safety measures in the gym.
- 12:21MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And she was sitting at her computer.
- 12:24MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And.
- 12:26MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Distracted, very distracted.
- 12:29MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And she goes, I'm sorry, I'm listening to you.
- 12:31MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And she's typing away on her computer and I'm sitting over there.
- 12:34MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Should I run away at her computer?
- 12:35MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I'm listening.
- 12:36MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I just got to get these numbers in.
- 12:37MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I'm thinking to myself.
- 12:39MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Hmm.
- 12:40MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Numbers.
- 12:42MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Have you met me?
- 12:44MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I do not talk numbers.
- 12:46MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I can't do math.
- 12:47MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I can't add seven plus three without counting on my fingers.
- 12:51MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: So I was thought we were talking safety measures.
- 12:55MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: So this person had lost her credibility with me because she wasn't listening to me.
- 13:03MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: At that point.
- 13:04MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And so I get called into my supervisor's office.
- 13:09MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: To talk with this person.
- 13:11MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Who's taking notes now, all of a sudden.
- 13:14MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Do you see what I'm talking about?
- 13:15MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: You see where the intimidation came in.
- 13:18MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: It was psychological.
- 13:21MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And I was using descriptive language to tell that story and enhance it just now.
- 13:27MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: You want to value brevity?
- 13:29MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: So what does that mean?
- 13:30MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: That means keep it short, keep it sweet.
- 13:33MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Keep it simple.
- 13:34MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And that gets hard because a lot of times there's a lot of details that are going on in this story and you can go on and on and on.
- 13:40MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I mean, have you ever talked to a person that you're like, come on.
- 13:43MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Get the story.
- 13:45MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: To get the story out.
- 13:47MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Get over these little details.
- 13:48MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I don't need them.
- 13:49MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Just tell me how you got from a to B.
- 13:51MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And then they're sitting there telling you this long story with all these details and you're like, hold on.
- 13:56MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: One second.
- 13:57MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I can't take it.
- 13:58MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: There's a reason why in Toastmasters or in Ted talks, they tell you to keep it short because you've got to cut.
- 14:06MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: There's so much that ends up on the cutting floor.
- 14:08MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Like my videos from Descript from three weeks ago.
- 14:13MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Like those.
- 14:14MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And then in the workplace, you want to foster interactive storytelling.
- 14:20MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: You want to foster that to go on inside the community.
- 14:23MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: One of the things that we just started incorporating at the place I work and that I do incorporate in other workplaces is lunch and learn.
- 14:32MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And that lunch and learn is just a casual sit down with one of the top executives.
- 14:38MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And there's a lot of storytell.
- 14:39MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Retelling that takes place in that.
- 14:41MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And it's organic and it's natural.
- 14:44MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And when these stories start taking place, you start to see other individuals in an interactive way.
- 14:51MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: You see, Hey, I didn't know.
- 14:53MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: This person had been here for this amount of time.
- 14:56MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And I was there this amount of time, and she's already a team lead and.
- 15:00MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I mean, there are infinite ways that this interaction can take place.
- 15:07MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And then practice, practice, practice, practice.
- 15:10MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I have practiced telling that story about my traumatic event.
- 15:16MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Getting called into my supervisor's office.
- 15:20MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I've practiced telling that story so many times, because that really hurt me.
- 15:25MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: It triggered a lot of things with my post-traumatic stress.
- 15:29MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: You know, questioning my work ethic, um, questioning my integrity.
- 15:33MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Um, questioning not trusting me.
- 15:36MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I have issues with all three of those things, because those are things that I value.
- 15:42MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Again, let's go back to radical responsibility.
- 15:45MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I take responsibility for that.
- 15:46MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: That's not their fault.
- 15:48MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: That they need to work on their communication because I interpreted it that way.
- 15:55MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: But at the same time, I practiced telling that story over and over and over again.
- 16:02MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: So I don't sound like a victim because I don't want to come across as a victim.
- 16:07MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I want to come across as a Victor, which is something I talk about often.
- 16:12MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I will have a link to that in the show notes and description below to my articles that I've written on victim and victimizer.
- 16:19MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Very empowering stuff.
- 16:21MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I will talk about it more on this channel.
- 16:23MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: If you want to see more of that, please let me know.
- 16:27MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And practice.
- 16:29MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: There's no such thing as.
- 16:33MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Perfect.
- 16:35MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: It just takes perfect practice because you're going to practice over and over and over again, like I said, at the beginning of this video, I could record this again tomorrow.
- 16:46MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And tweak it and make it a little bit better, but done is better than perfect, but it's also practice.
- 16:53MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: So I'm at 155 episodes on my channel right now.
- 16:58MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I've recorded more than that, but those are the ones that are inside of this.
- 17:04MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Podcast that I have right now.
- 17:06MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And they say it takes about a hundred of them practicing to get crystal clear on what you want to discuss.
- 17:15MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: So those are guidelines for effective storytelling in the workplace.
- 17:20MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: So how does one integrate storytelling into their workplace?
- 17:24MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Use it for rewards and recognition.
- 17:28MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: This is going to ignite intrinsic motivation.
- 17:32MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: When you reward somebody for a very impactful story that they tell in the workplace.
- 17:41MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: As opposed to rewarding them for finding an Easter egg and not everybody can participate in that contest.
- 17:48MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: So when you could tell a story in the workplace about what you, how long you've been here, that's one of the first things that come inside the lunch and learn, and which triggers another conversation and another conversation.
- 18:02MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And it helps build confidence in the person that's telling this story.
- 18:06MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Confidence in the workplace, confidence in their job.
- 18:10MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Confidence in their communications.
- 18:13MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: This is just going to have a ripple effect, which is something my work incorporates into the workplace.
- 18:21MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: The ripple effect that will change others' lives and change your workplace and your business.
- 18:31MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: What about recruitment and onboarding, telling a story when you are hiring somebody or when you're being interviewed in a job is impactful.
- 18:43MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And it's also important to remember the guidelines to effective storytelling.
- 18:48MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: For example, if they say, why did you get, why did you leave your last job?
- 18:53MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I got fired.
- 18:55MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: That's not good.
- 18:56MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: That's not a good story.
- 18:58MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: You don't even want to put that out there.
- 19:01MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: But take example.
- 19:02MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: My story, if I said, well, I left my last job because I struggled with leadership in the team.
- 19:11MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And I found that there was no cohesiveness inside that leadership.
- 19:16MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: There was no leader that was really treating me the way I deserve to be treated.
- 19:22MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Uh, seeing me as a person who could be trusted, who had integrity in their job, who also loved what they did.
- 19:31MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I was not valued for the way that I worked.
- 19:35MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I wouldn't tell the story, just like that.
- 19:37MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I would go back to the way that I told it at the beginning.
- 19:41MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Where I shared it with you, but I would want to incorporate those aspects of me as a person.
- 19:49MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I have an entrepreneurial spirit.
- 19:52MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I am coming from a place of integrity and I value being trusted by you because it's a win for you.
- 19:59MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And it's a win for me.
- 20:00MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And that.
- 20:02MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Is equal leadership.
- 20:04MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: That's also being treated kindly in the workplace, which I value.
- 20:10MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And I want to bring that to your workplace.
- 20:13MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: So that's where, when you're talking to somebody, even doing business with them, even when you're dating somebody, you want to tell a detailed story.
- 20:24MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And I'm going to be talking about this a lot more, like how to tell stories.
- 20:27MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: What's the best kind.
- 20:29MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Where do you put the impact?
- 20:30MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Where do you put the message?
- 20:32MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Where do you put the POW in the story?
- 20:35MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: When do you start it?
- 20:37MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: How do you tell it?
- 20:38MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Do you just tell it?
- 20:39MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Oh, my favorite color is pink.
- 20:41MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: No, you have there's ways to go around it to bring an impact.
- 20:46MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: So you will remember what my favorite color is.
- 20:50MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: So you will remember that I don't like extrinsic motivation because it doesn't last long in your workplace.
- 20:58MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: But rather.
- 21:00MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Instead of having a scavenger hunt, let's tell stories for that contest instead.
- 21:08MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And then team building, not only that, it builds a healthy, happy team when you incorporate stories.
- 21:16MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: So because we started these lunch and learns, I've seen everybody start working differently and their positions because they think, okay, wow.
- 21:26MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I heard this story from the owner, the CEO of the company.
- 21:31MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And I see her in a different light.
- 21:33MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I see.
- 21:33MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Wow.
- 21:33MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: She's normal.
- 21:34MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: She's just like me.
- 21:36MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And I also see, wow, she had this stress and she never told me about that.
- 21:42MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I didn't know she had to go through this and this and this.
- 21:45MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And it just has that ripple effect that I am a firm believer in, in side the workplace.
- 21:54MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: So inside the blog post that I wrote for today's article, I have some bonus resources, but I'm going to go over with them with you.
- 22:02MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Now, Stories that Stick by Kendra hall is one of the best books I have ever read on storytelling.
- 22:09MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: In fact, I've taken pages of notes inside this book to help me get better at storytelling because it's always a journey.
- 22:19MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: It's not a destination.
- 22:21MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: You're always going to improve a little bit at a time.
- 22:24MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And.
- 22:25MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: By that remember it's practice that helps, but Kendra Hall's book is a very helpful book on telling stories.
- 22:33MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I also like her book, Choose Your Story Change Your Life because that book helps you see the stories you're telling yourself, which guess what?
- 22:42MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: We talk to ourselves more than we talk to anybody else.
- 22:45MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And those stories that you're telling yourself can either make you or break you.
- 22:50MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And we are going to talk about that again very, very soon, but I love her book.
- 22:54MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Choose your story.
- 22:55MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Change your life.
- 22:57MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I also liked the book story worthy by Matthew dicks.
- 23:00MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And he is one of the moth champions.
- 23:04MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: He's probably won the moth.
- 23:05MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Uh, storytelling contest more than anybody else, but he gives very good ways to tell stories.
- 23:12MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I love his descriptive stories.
- 23:14MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I also like his little story book spreadsheet that he creates, which he tells himself a little stories every day.
- 23:22MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And then he could pull from those, for his content that he needs to do, or he can work on that story for his next contest that he's going to be doing.
- 23:31MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Another book that I don't have listed here, but I do have listed in the blog.
- 23:35MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Post is Amplify Your Influence.
- 23:38MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I Renee Rodriguez and I am always studying his, his things because.
- 23:46MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: In his book, he talks about how the brain chemicals that are released, how impactful that is, how it helps others really learn their story.
- 23:58MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And share their story effectively.
- 24:03MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: All right.
- 24:03MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: That's my episode for today.
- 24:04MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I trust that you found it helpful.
- 24:06MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: Ooh, it feels so good to be back.
- 24:09MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: I can't wait to share more things with you.
- 24:11MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: If you found today's video helpful.
- 24:14MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: please share it with somebody who can benefit.
- 24:16MacBook Air Microphone & FaceTime HD Camera-2: And until next time I will see you next time, Peace out and Namaste Bing!