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Happy Hour #125: Are We Sluts? (SATC S3, E6) · Stuff Mom Never Told You

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  Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha. Welcome to stuff one
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  Speaker 1: never told your production.
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  Speaker 2: I heart radio, and welcome to another edition of Me
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  Speaker 2: making Any watch Sex and the City for the first time. Yes,
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  Speaker 2: and just me reliving my like early late twenties because
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  Speaker 2: I was watching this whole town thinking I want this life.
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  Speaker 2: I do not now that I've grown older, I realissa
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  Speaker 2: do not want that life. But yes, we are watching
• 0:40
  Speaker 2: Sex and the City. We are in our season three
• 0:43
  Speaker 2: of Sex and the City, slowly going through it. I
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  Speaker 2: have told Annie before in the previous episodes, I have
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  Speaker 2: said this is probably one of the better seasons, one
• 0:54
  Speaker 2: of the most climactic seasons where things really start like rolling. However,
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  Speaker 2: it's also a really problematic season, so I just put
• 1:01
  Speaker 2: that as a caveat. Of course, if you are listening
• 1:04
  Speaker 2: with children, you may want to step out because we
• 1:06
  Speaker 2: are going to discuss a lot of adult themes. Because
• 1:10
  Speaker 2: you know, Sex and the City. I feel like that's
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  Speaker 2: self explanatory, just you know whatever. But yes, in this
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  Speaker 2: segment I do make any watch for the first time.
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  Speaker 2: We have a reaction and discussion about the episode about
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  Speaker 2: what you know kind of does stand the test of time,
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  Speaker 2: like meaning a yeah, the still is valid and versus
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  Speaker 2: this is yeah, this is real problematic. Let's talk about it,
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  Speaker 2: and let's talk about why we get real, real and
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  Speaker 2: honest and just have a good time. Am I right?
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  Speaker 3: Yes?
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  Speaker 1: I think you are.
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  Speaker 2: And like last season, we want to have you a listener,
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  Speaker 2: come and watch with us. You don't have to have
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  Speaker 2: seen any of them. That is not a criteria here.
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  Speaker 2: All we ask is that you do have access to
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  Speaker 2: a computer, to the Internet and headphones. Yes, yes, right, right,
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  Speaker 2: d M and let us know you're interested. I've gotten
• 2:10
  Speaker 2: a few in the in the dms. Some have slid
• 2:14
  Speaker 2: into my DMS. Annie say, oh.
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  Speaker 1: My, Samantha had to teach me all about that. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: you don't have to have seen it before. It's really fine.
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  Speaker 1: It's very low key. If you've seen it a million times,
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  Speaker 1: that's also great. If you entered last time and did
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  Speaker 1: not get in, please enter again, yes, because if if
• 2:37
  Speaker 1: you've changed your mind, we don't want to just put
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  Speaker 1: your name in the in the ring. But yeah, we
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  Speaker 1: have gotten people who have contacted us already, so thank
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  Speaker 1: you for that. It's gonna be really fun. Yes, So yeah,
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  Speaker 1: let us know if you're interested.
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  Speaker 2: Come be our friends, because this is an happy hour. Annie,
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  Speaker 2: are you sip on anything?
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  Speaker 1: I am, I Samantha and nos. I'm very tired. I
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  Speaker 1: just got back from a beach trip, emotional beach trip.
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  Speaker 1: So I'm sipping on some leftover beer. But I my
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  Speaker 1: friend made me this coozy eat which is prayey. So
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, the dregs of the vacation you're
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  Speaker 1: holding on to. That's what I'm going for right now.
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  Speaker 2: Oh okay, okay, Well, I'm drinking some sparkling water. It
• 3:25
  Speaker 2: is BlackBerry mango flavor. I loving it. I feel fancy.
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  Speaker 2: I don't, but I kind of do. And with that,
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  Speaker 2: if you are drinking or partaking up anything, just you know,
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  Speaker 2: be responsible all the good things.
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  Speaker 3: All right?
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  Speaker 2: So, as per usual, Annie, before we begin, can you
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  Speaker 2: give us a recap of season three thus far?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, So, I feel like the big revelation the last
• 3:51
  Speaker 1: episode was we met Aiden. If you know anything about
• 3:56
  Speaker 1: Sex and the City, this is a big love interest
• 3:59
  Speaker 1: for Carrie. It's like your team Aiden or team Big
• 4:03
  Speaker 1: mister big. I'm sure there's someone else and I'll find
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  Speaker 1: out about it, but those are like the Big two.
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  Speaker 1: So we've met him. He was kind of like not
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  Speaker 1: into her smoking, so she decided to give up smoking
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  Speaker 1: to keep dating him. We'll see how that goes. But
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  Speaker 1: she's she's very much in flux in terms of what
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  Speaker 1: she wants in a relationship, which I feel is pretty
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  Speaker 1: much the case with most of them. Miranda has this
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  Speaker 1: thing with Steve that seems really great, but they had
• 4:38
  Speaker 1: a good compromising discussion i'll say recently, but they're still
• 4:43
  Speaker 1: figuring out what they both want in that relationship. Charlotte's
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  Speaker 1: on the prow for a husband as per huge and
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  Speaker 1: had a really bad kisser most recently and like drew
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  Speaker 1: her line like what was acceptable whatnot. And then Samantha's
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  Speaker 1: I feel like every time, I'm like, Samantha's just living
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  Speaker 1: her life. She's she had a proud, problematic storyline with
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  Speaker 1: a black woman in the last episode, but she is
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  Speaker 1: out there just.
• 5:22
  Speaker 2: Living that is true, living her life. So there is
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  Speaker 2: that scenario. We do have aiden in the picture now,
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  Speaker 2: and yes, it gets good from her. And with that,
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna give you the title of this week's episode
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  Speaker 2: and see if you can give me a prediction of
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  Speaker 2: things to come. So the episode is titled are We Sluts?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, this is terrible. I feel like I did so
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  Speaker 1: well in the last one.
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  Speaker 2: Did do really well in the last.
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  Speaker 1: Okay. So if Carrie, Miranda, and presumably Charlotte are in
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  Speaker 1: new Ish relationships, it's that conversation that comes off of
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  Speaker 1: like how many how many people have you dated before?
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  Speaker 1: What's your number? Those kinds of things, and then being
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  Speaker 1: maybe shamed for it and talking about whether or not
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  Speaker 1: that's legitimate, and then go to a club.
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  Speaker 2: Of course they go to a club, but she didn't
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  Speaker 2: say brunch, so just that that is a note people,
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  Speaker 2: She did not say brunch did Okay, let's jump into it.
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  Speaker 2: I want to snip er. Oh, must be the third date.
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  Speaker 2: I'm really think I'd learned that from here, like after
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  Speaker 2: the first day, second date, Like third date is the
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  Speaker 2: sleeping together date, which I'm like, that's super fast.
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  Speaker 1: Honestly, really fast for you.
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  Speaker 2: Do you because I've done quicker obviously, but like as
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  Speaker 2: a general rule, that seems really like quick.
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  Speaker 1: That does.
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  Speaker 2: So what everybody did last night? Nothing? Nothing of note.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to talk about it. Why what happened You.
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  Speaker 2: Sleep with someone on the second day?
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  Speaker 3: No, it was the third date and it was Alexander Lemley,
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  Speaker 3: the investment banker that I met at the Young Art
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  Speaker 3: Collector show.
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  Speaker 2: And what the sex was bad?
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  Speaker 3: No, it was good, except.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think I can say it. Oh, get over yourself. Well, sweet,
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  Speaker 2: what happened just so all of.
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  Speaker 3: Us you know, came orgasm shot is what I love?
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  Speaker 2: The same has to say that extra loud. Yeah. No,
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  Speaker 2: we would be fighting if a dude said that to
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  Speaker 2: me at any point in time, because we would be
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  Speaker 2: fighting unless we had like discussed it previously. Like that's
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  Speaker 2: a thing that's a kink for you that we need
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  Speaker 2: to like have this as a parameter.
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  Speaker 3: Nobody wants to marry a whore. No, what's bad is
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  Speaker 3: that even Charlotte is having more sex than I am.
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  Speaker 2: What about Aid? I love that Carrie? Just that makes
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  Speaker 2: it more about her?
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  Speaker 1: Yes, immediately, sorry about you.
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  Speaker 2: But guess what I don't have to quit carry but
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  Speaker 2: he doesn't want to sleep with me. Okay, No he's
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  Speaker 2: not gay. Mother issues. I don't know if I would
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  Speaker 2: have jumped to mother issues immediately.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, so if it does.
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  Speaker 2: We'll work it out.
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  Speaker 1: I'll go left.
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  Speaker 3: The thing is I may never know.
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  Speaker 2: Well, you better be careful. You wait too long to
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  Speaker 2: sleep with someone. You miss the window and become just friends.
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  Speaker 1: I know it's great.
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  Speaker 2: I will say. If I'm friends with you first, I'm
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  Speaker 2: more less likely to see you as a match. Like
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  Speaker 2: I put you in that box and I can't get
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  Speaker 2: past that.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, this is interesting because I'm usually now attracted to
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  Speaker 1: somebody in less friends with you.
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  Speaker 2: There's this fine line. I have to get to know
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  Speaker 2: you because you're attracted or you're added to so. But
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  Speaker 2: like the if the intent was that maybe that's a
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  Speaker 2: possibility here with us, then I can keep that in
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  Speaker 2: mind for a long time. But then we become two friends,
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  Speaker 2: and then we have actually put you in that friend spot.
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  Speaker 1: Mm hmmmmmmm, what's going on there?
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  Speaker 3: Do you just want to be friends? Oh?
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  Speaker 2: I love a man who communicates. I do He does that,
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  Speaker 2: She decides to give him the silent treatment and angrily
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  Speaker 2: goes off, and he's like, what's going on up there?
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  Speaker 2: We love him man who asks? We love anyone who asks.
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  Speaker 2: Let's be honest, not too much stuff. Don't ask me
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  Speaker 2: too many times because I'm not just gonna be annoyed.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you have to like accept the answer with women
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  Speaker 1: even if like you're maybe that's not quite right. But
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  Speaker 1: if you keep asking, then it feels like you're just
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  Speaker 1: in validating my opinion.
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  Speaker 2: Right, I just want to try to sleep with somebody
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  Speaker 2: I care about. Oh, I really think that I could
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  Speaker 2: care about you. But I also believe that you could
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  Speaker 2: also care about a person who you slept with within
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  Speaker 2: like day four or five.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, this is interesting because it goes back to our
• 10:35
  Speaker 1: conversations we've had about virginity and purity, right, and like
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  Speaker 1: waiting for marriage, which I think it can't be Like
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  Speaker 1: if you if you're like I would rather wait, that's totally.
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  Speaker 2: Cool, which is fine. This is all about consent and
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  Speaker 2: your preference and your choice and that's amazing. So like,
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  Speaker 2: either way it can work. I mean, there's so many things,
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  Speaker 2: but this does feel like an etiquette roule, like that
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  Speaker 2: whole like a man in like so many days whatever?
• 11:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like will you be seen as a slut? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: as the episode titles.
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  Speaker 4: Chain, my gynecologists called me today and my test which
• 11:17
  Speaker 4: she just threw in for good measure, came back positive.
• 11:20
  Speaker 2: Kes it's not terrible. There aren't any symptoms roll we
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  Speaker 2: got an STI, which I you know what, this is
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  Speaker 2: one of the episodes. I actually did appreciate the way
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  Speaker 2: they normalize the conversation about sti's and like not being
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  Speaker 2: like you're although it is in an episode under called
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  Speaker 2: are We Sluts? But her her plotline is a little different,
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  Speaker 2: like you'll see as it goes like this is not
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  Speaker 2: what makes her think she's a slut. But I do
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  Speaker 2: love like they're just like normalizing her, like this is
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  Speaker 2: what happened, and I got tested and now I'm getting
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  Speaker 2: treated and here's what we look like. So I feel
• 11:54
  Speaker 2: like they did a really good job in that.
• 12:02
  Speaker 3: You yelled out something during wesleep.
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  Speaker 2: Doing sex. It's interesting that Charlotte, who is Miss Etiquette,
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  Speaker 2: is talking about this at dinner in public.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, yes, and again not too slutshame at all, but
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  Speaker 1: she does have a lot of partners. To me, I'm like, damn, I.
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  Speaker 2: Think according Like, I think someone actually went through and
• 12:29
  Speaker 2: tried to do a tally of how many people they
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  Speaker 2: slept with, and they're like the numbers are pretty high.
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  Speaker 2: Not just slutshame, but like for like the amount of
• 12:37
  Speaker 2: people that she went like had dated that. That was
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  Speaker 2: a pretty big amount of numbers, like for all the
• 12:44
  Speaker 2: all of like that I want to be married and
• 12:46
  Speaker 2: all these like etiquette things you gotta try, right, agree
• 13:00
  Speaker 2: what I'm just getting started here, I'm only at the neck.
• 13:02
  Speaker 1: Maybe you changed your mind when I'm done around there.
• 13:04
  Speaker 2: Elbows, I can't tonight. I have chlamydia. I think that's
• 13:11
  Speaker 2: one of the more famous lines. Honestly, I think people
• 13:15
  Speaker 2: like not said it out loud, but it's just like
• 13:17
  Speaker 2: such a line. But oh my gosh, it's just a.
• 13:24
  Speaker 4: Sexually transmitted disease and I might have given it to
• 13:26
  Speaker 4: you or you might have given it to me.
• 13:29
  Speaker 2: Ba boom, ba boom. But again, the way they're just
• 13:35
  Speaker 2: able to talk about it and communicate through it, I
• 13:38
  Speaker 2: really do appreciate, Like I don't think I think I
• 13:40
  Speaker 2: remember being shocked that they were so yeah calm about it,
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  Speaker 2: But now as an adult and like realizing the stigmas
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  Speaker 2: behind all these I like, I love this.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, this is nice because it wasn't like he was like, oh,
• 13:51
  Speaker 1: you're a slut. She was just like maybe it was this,
• 13:54
  Speaker 1: maybe it was this, but you need to get tested.
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  Speaker 2: And he was like okay, yeah.
• 14:03
  Speaker 4: I have to go.
• 14:04
  Speaker 3: My friend wants to see me in the bathroom?
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  Speaker 1: What did you want?
• 14:08
  Speaker 2: Because, oh my gosh, are you saying I'm dirty? Do
• 14:16
  Speaker 2: I need a bath? What's that meaning?
• 14:18
  Speaker 1: Just smell bad?
• 14:20
  Speaker 2: I just want to say insecure? What are you trying
• 14:26
  Speaker 2: to say? Dude?
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  Speaker 1: We both immediately went to, well.
• 14:31
  Speaker 2: What are you trying to say?
• 14:33
  Speaker 1: He has been a day?
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  Speaker 3: What are you sure this isn't just a cheap ploy
• 14:37
  Speaker 3: to see me naked? Will you be naked?
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  Speaker 4: That's the thing.
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  Speaker 2: About that, Oh, this is about you, so enjoy.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, get going.
• 14:52
  Speaker 1: That's interesting. If somebody made me a bath and then laughed,
• 14:56
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't take the bath, mostly because I don't like
• 14:59
  Speaker 1: baths that much.
• 15:00
  Speaker 2: I enjoy a good bath, but in Georgia, because it's
• 15:03
  Speaker 2: always flipping hot, it's not that great.
• 15:07
  Speaker 1: No, and it takes for ever to like fill it up,
• 15:09
  Speaker 1: and then the water gets at least in my keys. Anyway,
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: I'm complaining about baths. I'd be mad if somebody made
• 15:15
  Speaker 1: me a bath and do not stay for it.
• 15:18
  Speaker 2: Would you want them to take a bath with you? No?
• 15:20
  Speaker 1: I'd just be like, well, why did you do this?
• 15:22
  Speaker 1: You didn't ask me about it? And now I have
• 15:24
  Speaker 1: a bath, and I guess I'll take one. I don't
• 15:27
  Speaker 1: know for me romances.
• 15:29
  Speaker 2: If you bring me a cookie, bring me that, Oh
• 15:33
  Speaker 2: thank you? You know how you know how to get
• 15:35
  Speaker 2: my heart.
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: All right, I'll keep that.
• 15:39
  Speaker 2: You know I love food.
• 15:41
  Speaker 1: It's true.
• 15:45
  Speaker 3: I'm for the first time in a long time. I
• 15:49
  Speaker 3: was nervous Aiden and I were going to sleep together
• 15:52
  Speaker 3: and it was going to mean something. I was no virgin,
• 15:56
  Speaker 3: but this was definitely virgin territory.
• 15:58
  Speaker 2: Did you compare the men versus the women on this show?
• 16:04
  Speaker 2: It's just literally like the standards for the women, You're like,
• 16:07
  Speaker 2: you have to be almost perfect, as the men are like,
• 16:10
  Speaker 2: yeah you could. You've kind of got a did bod
• 16:12
  Speaker 2: like which like is not? Which is the conversation of like,
• 16:14
  Speaker 2: women do not care as much as you think they do,
• 16:16
  Speaker 2: but then like, the standard for women are so much higher. Yes,
• 16:36
  Speaker 2: the end, so you're pretty close on except there was
• 16:40
  Speaker 2: no club Annie, there was no I'm sorry. There was
• 16:51
  Speaker 2: the judgment of the numbers. They were the conversation of
• 16:54
  Speaker 2: sdis and then of course being actually called a slot
• 16:59
  Speaker 2: or whoror rather yes, which is a thing, which is like, yeah,
• 17:04
  Speaker 2: I don't want like this is obviously comic appeal, but
• 17:07
  Speaker 2: most of the times when men feel that way about
• 17:09
  Speaker 2: women or say that subconsciously, there's a whole level of
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: issues which maybe as they asked, mommy issues that we
• 17:18
  Speaker 2: don't know about or pre relationship issues. I will give
• 17:22
  Speaker 2: you a B because you've missed the club part or
• 17:25
  Speaker 2: the b U And now I absolutely want Chinese food.
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: Did I have it recently? Yes, but now want more.
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: But I think it's really I think this like, Okay,
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: this wasn't a problematic conversation. It was like I can't
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: I really did. I don't think I appreciate as much
• 17:45
  Speaker 2: as I do now, like like that level of conversation
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: about STDs and sdis and the fact that Steve was
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: so supportively, like the numbers are not a big deal,
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: like kind of that just having that conversation. I don't
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: treat my girlfriend that way. It was super cute, and
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: just like versation about like what it looks to slow
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: down and not meet expectations or meeting expectations if you
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: want to or not. There's this whole conversation and I
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: did appreciate that. This episode wasn't I'm glad we got
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: a break Except for yeah, they do keep having to
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: like harp on about the level of like women and
• 18:25
  Speaker 2: whether or not they should be seen this way. Of course,
• 18:27
  Speaker 2: again she comes back with, like, you need to note
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: that women aren't the only ones those really considered sluts
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: on the side.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I agree. I really liked that it didn't
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: feel very slut shamy to me, where it was more
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: just like adding up the numbers, especially with Moranda and
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: Steve and it being oh, okay, it's all good. Uh
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: we both got tested are we did this thing? And
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: it was just very adult way of looking at it
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: instead of and it was very open and honest, because
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: I think that's really important when you're like, hey, at
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: this thing, I'm going to get a tested. You should
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: get tested too. It was just a really healthy way
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: of handling that that didn't feel very slutshamy, all right,
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: And I appreciated that a lot, right.
• 19:23
  Speaker 2: And in future episodes they do address it again on
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: a steper level of like the stigma and then the fear,
• 19:29
  Speaker 2: like the being like you need to do these things.
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: But the way they normalize it once again is like,
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: of course, I'm like they talk about taking the HIV
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: tests and all aids tests and they're like, yeah, I've
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: done it three times, Like having that conversation about wanting
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: to be healthy knowing that they're sexually active and that
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: is okay, just making sure you're taking care of yourself. Again,
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I really do appreciate these levels of conversation,
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: especially during a time like yes, let's talk about sexual liberation,
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: women enjoying sex and being a part of community of
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: like meeting new people and not having to be committed
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  Speaker 2: relationships but being adults and making sure that we are
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: keeping out ourselves healthy and responsible. And I'm like, yeah,
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: right on, good on, y'all. I love this. Uh so
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: they do that really well. I think I say this
• 20:18
  Speaker 2: and late later on might be like, oh, they're doing
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: something outrageous, you know, or making it a plot line
• 20:26
  Speaker 2: to make it a punchline. Rather so I mean, for now,
• 20:30
  Speaker 2: this episode was really better in the way they handled it,
• 20:33
  Speaker 2: especially like chlamydia and talking about what it is and
• 20:36
  Speaker 2: I know past host has talked about STIs and like
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: this is not a shame thing, Like this is not
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: more as uncommon as you think, and it should be
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: something that we did talk about and look at. And
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: uh yeah, I also really love seeing Aiden all the time.
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: And I like the fact that Steve and Mariande's relationship
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: seems healthy at this point. You know, this is a
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: drama about romance.
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  Speaker 1: So yes, yes, I really liked that. I liked that
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  Speaker 1: because and this is a very like a stereotypical, generic read.
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  Speaker 1: But if you like we're thinking about each of the
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: characters and their personalities, I feel like you would think
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: Miranda would not have had sex with that many people.
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: She would have had a lot of sex, but like
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: not that many. But I love that she wrote like
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: guy from the deli because that's such a that means
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: she just was like attracted to this guy. I didn't
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: even remember his name, And I think that's great, like
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: if you're doing it consentually, safely, sanely. I love the
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: idea that, yeah, just had sex with that guy.
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: I go back to the original like one of the
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: episode's past episodes where she's flirting with the sandwich dude. Mmm,
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: you know what I'm talking about, and she like loves
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: the way because but he's got to like he's antagonizing
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: her and has his sexy voys. I'm like, did she
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: go back to him? Is that the dude the Billy maybe.
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: I don't know if y'all remember that episode. Anyway, well, Annie,
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: you did a fairly good job. You did miss out
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: on the brunch. The only thing they had together was
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: the brunch episode really outside of some of the dinners.
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: But but I'm sure you can make it up for
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: the next round. We'll see, we'll see. And yeah, y'all,
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: if you are interested in being a part of this
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: and being a part of our discussions, please let us know.
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: I think it's coming up pretty soon. We'll probably take
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: a pause before we do all of that, so we'll
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: have plenty of time. It will be a couple of
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: probably a couple months out, so if you were interested,
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: send in your name, let us know, and we will
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: go from there. Again, no no need to have ever
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: seen it, or if you're an avid lover, you're ready.
• 22:51
  Speaker 2: We had many people. Bridget came on, she loved this,
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: she loves this, and we had such a great conversation.
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah, no, yes, yes, And Christina, our super producer, is
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: amazing and we'll facilitate all the tech side, the editing side.
• 23:09
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• 23:12
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• 23:19
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• 23:37
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• 23:40
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