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Jobs That a narcissist would LOVE to have (Part 2) · The Mental Healness Podcast

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  What's going on? Beautiful folks, beautiful
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  people, beautiful people. What's going on?
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  Beautiful people. Today we're going to be talking
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  about more jobs that a narcissist would love to have.
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  This is Part 2. Part 1.
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  I'll, I'll put it in the description and you'll see it
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  come across the screen and whatnot.
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  But Part 2 of jobs that narcissists would love to have.
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  Yeah. Let me preface this.
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  If you have one of these jobs, it does not mean that you are a
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  narcissist. That's not what it means.
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  OK. These are jobs that fit
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  narcissistic people that like can narcissist can get maximum
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  narcissistic supply from maximum validation maximum supply that
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  type of stuff right there not just random.
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  Oh this this I Lee. I had that exact same job.
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  Am I narcissist? No, no, no, no, no, as a
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  narcissist, I would love this job because I get narcissistic
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  supply or validation from right in the last video.
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  In the last video I mentioned social media content creator.
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  Narcissist would love to have that position, right?
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  Social media content creator. So for narcissist, you see what
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  I'm saying? So I got a quick list right
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  here. It's a quick list, but this is
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  stuff right here. It's going to leave.
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  Like, oh shit, that's kind of wild right there.
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  My narcissist, the ex did have their job and they loved their
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  job because they got validation from it.
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  All right, all right, the first one I have on here is therapist.
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  Again, just because you are a therapist, it does not make you
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  a narcissist. But there are a lot of
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  narcissists that would love to have this job as therapist.
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  Go look at my old videos when I was doing my my live show waving
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  the red flag Co host Jessica. Her ex was a narcissist then
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  their psychopath and he was a therapist.
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  But he, he got so much supply from me so he could get he could
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  get supply from it as well. Some narcissists, not him per SE
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  can get supply because because I'm a therapist, it makes you
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  trust me. You lower your guard.
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  Hey, I'm a therapist. I'm here to help you tell me
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  your deepest darkest secrets so I can use them against you later
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  on. What?
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  Oh, just tell me your deepest darkest secrets I can help you
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  with not use them against you. Silly me, right?
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  There are a lot of narcissistic people who would love to become
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  therapists because it gives you that.
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  It gives you that mark. You hit therapists.
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  You think good person. It's kind of like pastor, right?
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  I mentioned pastor in the last video.
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  Or somebody has something to do with the church.
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  It makes you think that you are there, that they are a good
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  person. It makes you think that they are
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  here to help. You trust people, trust
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  therapists, right? You trust counselors, right?
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  You trust psychologists, right? So if I had that job, you would
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  trust me. I'm actually considering going
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  back to school to become a therapist right, but because I
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  won't actually help people I want to help people like myself
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  who have a personality disorder. I want to help people get
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  through that situation right there.
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  The next thing I have on here is what I have on here.
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  What to say CEO of anything the CEO just y'all just the title,
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  CEOCFO, whatever right they love y'all I'm I'm the CEO of this
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  company right here. It is like a little LLC that
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  doesn't even make any money. What do you what do you So what
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  do you do for a living? I'm actually the CEO of my own
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  company and they just started the company.
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  They like they they literally just got their LOC paperwork
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  approved and it says CEO on it, right?
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  They like, yeah, Narcissus would love to be the CEO because it
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  denotes ownership, it denotes power, it denotes priority.
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  I'm the I'm the priority in this business.
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  I run this. You get supply from that right
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  there. Sometimes you are actually a big
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  CEO or good CEO, right and or CEO of a real company, not not
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  one that just got started and then make some money and you
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  have people that work for you. So you damn sure feel in charge,
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  you damn sure for you damn sure damn certainly feel like you
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  have been empowered. And this is a big piece of it
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  right here. So CEO is a part of it, right?
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  CEO is a huge part of it. So this is something you have to
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  think about as well. So the violent narcissist would
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  love to be your CEO because you can get supply from that because
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  it denotes that power dynamic and whatnot.
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  Y'all, it really, really does like the CEO of anything.
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  Thanks. CEO, real CEO, just CEO being in
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  charge, the boss, Like I said, it doesn't have to be CEO.
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  It could be the supervisor, it could be the head of the
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  company. It could be the manager of a
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  plant. You see what I'm saying?
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  Just they want to be in charge. They want to have that that
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  title. They see that CEO like title.
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  It makes them feel important. I feel important.
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  I wake up every day as a CEO. I wake up every day as a plant
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  manager while I run this shit in here.
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  I run this this minds or I runs it.
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  It might not be mines, but I'm runs it.
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  I'm important here. They want to have their level of
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  importance to tell people what to do and if they're the boss or
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  the CEO of anything at work, they might come home to you.
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  And I like the boss of you and the CEO of you as well.
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  So that's something that you kind of got to be ready for when
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  you're dealing with narcissist. They might be ACEO, right?
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  Another thing I have now here y'all is drum roll, please
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  musician in a band. Oh my goodness, rapper, whatever
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  y'all anything to do with like being a musician because you get
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  supply is them their endless supply from being a musician
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  endless like you go out here, you got to you got your own
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  band. You feel like you're in charge.
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  There's so much stuff going on. There's so many different things
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  to do like musician is high on the list.
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  It is musicians are high, high high on the list.
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  It absolutely is because there's a lot of narcissistic people who
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  are just in bands who just want to be in bands and do this type
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  of stuff, be part of a group, be a play, an instrument or
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  whatever the situation may be in order to just get that attention
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  that comes with it. Like go you headlining at the
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  local bar or stage or whatever the situation may be, right?
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  This type of stuff happens. Rapper.
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  You want to be a famous rapper. Why you want to be a famous
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  rapper? That just for the money you
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  want. They want the bravado they want.
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  They want they want what comes along with it.
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  Yeah, I can be a famous rapper, but I want what comes along with
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  being a famous rapper as well. I want that too, right?
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  So that's something you have to think about too.
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  Is musician, musician. I also have down here y'all,
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  this is going to try to throw people off Car salesman.
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  Y'all used new whatever. Narcissists love a lot of
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  narcissists or some narcissists love to become car salesman.
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  You know why? Because they get to manipulate
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  you. They get to manipulate the
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  price. They get to manipulate the down
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  payment. It's very difficult.
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  It's like This is why people don't trust car salesman, right?
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  Because car salesman, we got to put you in, put you in some
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  bullshit, put you in a lemon car.
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  They know that car. They've been it was flooded out
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  in a they know that car was flooded out in New Orleans and
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  got shipped here to North Carolina, but they run now they
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  got it up and running. They know it flooded out.
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  They sell it to you with a smile on their face.
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  Hey, 1 owner, 1 owner salvage title.
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  Oh, the salvage was a it wasn't because it was in a swimming
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  pool. It's because it just like the
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  owner just got to not beat the front end of it up.
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  That's what happened. And then they love to get over
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  on you. It's the manipulation.
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  It's the ability to gaslight on a job and trick you.
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  It really is. It's sometimes are there good
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  car salesman? Yes, Those are not those might
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  not be narcissists. And again, just because you're a
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  car salesman does not mean you're a narcissist.
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  There are some good honest car salesman out there.
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  One of my friends, Rashard, I, I don't know if he's in Burlington
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  or the Greensboro name Rashard, he's a car salesman.
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  Good dude, amazingly good dude. Just bubbly ass personality.
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  Good, great dude. He's not a narcissist, right?
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  But there are a lot of narcissist car salesman that
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  know the car doesn't work. They know that you don't have to
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  put any money down. They know that they can get the
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  price down a little bit for you to fit your budget.
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  They want to talk you up. They want to get over on people
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  so they can brag on it. The bragging, you know they want
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  to be bragging dusters later on, just like, yeah, I got this
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  single parent that they said they can only afford $250 a
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  month. I got them a double day payment.
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  Who? The man I gassed at the hell out
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  of them told them that there was nothing I can do.
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  And no, no other dealership with work with them got and I got to
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  put $5000 of their children's college fund down on the car and
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  the car's a flood title and it's a salvage.
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  They might be back in here next week.
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  I'm a man or woman. Because you have some horrible
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  women car salesman as well, right?
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  Evil, evil. Well, yes, car salesman.
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  And the next thing I have got down here is where'd it go?
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  Sorry, I had a list. I had trucker, I had truck
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  driver, but truck driver is kind of hit or miss out.
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  I don't know. What do you think about truck
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  drivers? Not all truck drivers, but I
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  think narcissists. They can absolutely use the
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  truck driver position to cheat truck drivers, especially the
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  long the long haul ones. I learned, I learned the term
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  lot lizard the other day. It was very if you don't know
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  what a lot lizard is, look it up, right.
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  It's a very interesting find. I like lot lizard.
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  They be, yeah, they be traveling.
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  You're a husband or wife, whatever boyfriend, girlfriend,
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  whoever it is be traveling, be driving a truck and meeting
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  these lot lizards and getting lizarded up, getting sucked up
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  and all the other good stuff, right.
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  Maybe get maybe hitting these lot lizards up.
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  So that happens too right. So this is the type of stuff you
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  have to think about. So I don't know hit or miss with
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  the the truck drivers. I had it written now I don't
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  like I was just saying anyway, 'cause if I don't say it, it's
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  just like a waste right there right.
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  I just want didn't want to just leave that unsaid and whatnot.
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  What the hell am I remarkable ago?
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  You can't find my tablet I use on my computer, so that's why
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  I'm looking over it to the left. I also have down here actor,
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  actor, actor, actor, actress. That is the power position
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  because the reason I think a lot of narcissists who love become
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  actors. And this means speaking from
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  personal, this is me speaking from personal experience because
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  I want to be a famous actor. And one of the main reasons I
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  want to be a famous actor is because I get to become whoever.
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  I get to become other people. I get to live other people's
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  lives. I need to step outside of myself
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  and become somebody else. I get to free myself of who I am
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  for a little while and become somebody else.
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  I get to express emotions without being judged.
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  I get the, you know, I get the more emotions you express, the
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  the more the better judge you are on an acting set.
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  Yeah. Could I be rich and famous?
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  Yeah. That come, that can come with
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  the territory. Right.
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  But there are a lot of narcissists that like to be
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  actors because of that right there, because of the money in
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  the notoriety part of it. Not necessarily because you get
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  to live, live other lives and become other people and things
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  like that. It's because the money, the
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  notoriety and things of that nature to come along with it as
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  well. So that's a big piece of it
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  right there. So something like acting has
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  actually helped me out so much on my own personal journey,
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  which is why I love it right. I love acting because of because
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  of this, this stuff I've been, you know, ability to allow me to
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  do this right here. I'll actually put on here y'all
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  military this would like on Part 1.
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  This is one of the main ones that people dropped in the
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  comment section. Lee, you forgot military
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  officers. Lee, you forgot Marine, you
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  forgot Air Force, you forgot the Navy.
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  You forgot anything to do with the military, right?
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  You forgot that. I was like, wow, I did forget
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  that one. Narcissistic people.
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  I know a lot of narcissists in the military.
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  Boy, boy, boy, boy, boy, boy. I know a lot of narcissists in
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  the military and it's kind of crazy how it goes right there.
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  So I tell people, y'all what I'm when people are dealing with
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  this, when you're dealing with a narcissistic person, this is
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  what you have to have to understand as well, because
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  they're going to be manipulative, they're going to
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  be abusive, they're going to be horrible, horrible ass people.
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  And if they get into the army and they get some type of power,
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  they're going to use that power against you.
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  They're going to use it to get away with stuff.
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  They're going to use it to just treat people horribly.
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  They're going to do a lot of this stuff, y'all, They're
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  absolutely going to do a lot of different horrible ass stuff.
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  They really are. And sometimes like one of my
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  friends, he's in the Marines, the man said he's like, he's
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  like, hey, it's kind of like the more narcissistic you are, the
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  more psychopathic you are, the higher your rank is in the, in
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  the Marines. Like they, they look for people
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  like that, you know, because you have to operate in the Gray
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  area. They look for people who have a
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  lack of empathy, right? So sometimes the military be
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  looking for you. They look for narcissists.
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  They promote them, they shrug their egos, they feel they, they
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  get them, get them all the narcissistic supply.
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  You can ask for unlimited supply.
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  You know those college, the high school recruiters, they have the
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  little sign up says unlimited narcissistic supply.
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  This is my kids book right here. Remember, it's not your fault.
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  You can find this on Amazon, but a lot of people will be like
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  unlimited narcissistic supply. See, you know, see see, sit here
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  and they're like I get validation.
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  Oh my goodness, Oh my goodness, but that's a part of it right
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  there, y'all. And then also, I said, I know, I
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  said social media content creator, but there's a specific
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  niche of social media content creator that narcissists love.
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  And it's being online trolls. It's being online trolls and
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  grifters. You see what I'm saying?
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  It's online trolls and people that grift.
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  Oh, my light went out. Oh, it died.
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  It's blinking. I see it.
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  It's blinking right there. People that online trolls and
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  grifters boy, they really don't believe the shit that they
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  saying they like. They like to get online and
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  antagonize people all day. Did you can find a lot of these
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  people in the political arena, the social media trolls because
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  that people you said Lee, you said jobs Lee you said jobs that
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  narcissist love yo online grifting online trolling online,
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  spreading misinformation is a job.
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  A lot of these some bitches out here do not care and I heard
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  just lying and manipulating, causing anger stirring division
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  every single day because they get a high from it.
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  They love antagonizing people. They love see nobody.
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  All the people I just pissed off today by being divisive.
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  You, you get paid for trolling. You get paid for lying, you get
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  paid for being an asshole. So why wouldn't people do it
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  right? So people social media trolling
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  or rage baiting is actually a job that a lot of people get
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  paid for. They post literally every single
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  day just to piss people off. This piss people off literally
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  every single day. Now most of them are in the
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  political spectrum. I promise you in the political
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  niche, political commentators, there's like weirdos, they just
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  only post things to antagonize one side of the political
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  spectrum. You know, you, you fall into the
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  shit as well. You fall into these cult like
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  followings and shit like that too with a whole bunch of
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  pathetic ass people start believing the same stupid ass
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  shit and just look and just I don't want to go into it.
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  Yeah, 'cause I'm just get angry. See, I'm getting the trolls have
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  got me angry this morning. You see what I'm saying, how it
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  works. They some of the pathetic some
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  bitch trolls might see this video and play.
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  We got them, we got them. We wish y'all.
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  I appreciate y'all too. Today to this video.
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  I'm super thankful for y'all. Be safe, take care of yourself.
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  Hit the subscribe button, drop some other jobs.
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  I might do a Part 3 then tune this up.
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  Peace. What's going on?
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  to the end of my video. I truly appreciate it.
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  I'm out.