Latest / Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families / #887 Online Capping: What You Need to Know
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- 0:03Speaker 1: It's the Happy Families podcast.
- 0:05Speaker 2: It's the podcast for the time poor parent who just answers. Now,
- 0:10Speaker 2: it seems that the ways that we can get ourselves
- 0:13Speaker 2: in trouble on screens never ends, especially when it comes
- 0:17Speaker 2: to our children. Children screens and something called capping is
- 0:23Speaker 2: the conversation today before we go any further, and I
- 0:26Speaker 2: introduced my guest just to remind it that some of the
- 0:29Speaker 2: things that we'll be talking about today are for mature audiences.
- 0:33Speaker 2: With all of these things with online dangers, there is
- 0:35Speaker 2: the risk that some little is might be a little
- 0:38Speaker 2: bit too curious too soon. However, I don't think that's
- 0:41Speaker 2: a big deal when it comes to these conversations because
- 0:44Speaker 2: we need to be having them, so I'll leave it
- 0:46Speaker 2: to your discretion. Certainly, if the kids aren't listening to
- 0:48Speaker 2: this conversation, we do want you to have a conversation
- 0:51Speaker 2: with your kids about this conversation, because, like I said,
- 0:56Speaker 2: there's no end to the different ways that kids can
- 0:59Speaker 2: find themselves in trouble online. Joining me today as always
- 1:03Speaker 2: to talk about these topics is Detective Superintendent Jane Crossling
- 1:08Speaker 2: from the Australian Center to Counter Child Exploitation or ace AS.
- 1:13Speaker 2: It's better known. You can find out more about ACE
- 1:15Speaker 2: at ACCCE. That's a triple CE dot gov dot au. Jane,
- 1:21Speaker 2: thanks for being with me on the podcast today. What
- 1:24Speaker 2: is capping?
- 1:26Speaker 1: In its most simple terms, capping is where a young
- 1:32Speaker 1: person is tricked or coerced or threatened into creating sexual acts, including.
- 1:41Speaker 3: Video and images, and then.
- 1:46Speaker 1: Those sorts of images are then screenshoted or capped, hence
- 1:50Speaker 1: the name. And it could be that the young person
- 1:54Speaker 1: doesn't know that that's actually happened, so they think that
- 1:58Speaker 1: they're sharing material with somebody online that they have maybe
- 2:03Speaker 1: been tricked into thinking they're actually sharing with someone they
- 2:05Speaker 1: know or someone of a similar age. They don't realize
- 2:09Speaker 1: that that's all being screenshotted.
- 2:12Speaker 3: Then that material is.
- 2:14Speaker 1: Frequently shared with other people, and so in some instances,
- 2:19Speaker 1: the young person doesn't even know that they're actually a
- 2:22Speaker 1: victim of a few different types of crimes.
- 2:26Speaker 2: So I want to drill into how this works. You're
- 2:29Speaker 2: talking about kids thinking that they're talking to somebody that
- 2:31Speaker 2: they know, but it turns out to either not be
- 2:34Speaker 2: that personal or they've been deceived in some way. What's
- 2:38Speaker 2: going on here, Like, who's doing this to our children?
- 2:42Speaker 2: And why.
- 2:44Speaker 1: Unfortunately, there are online offenders out there that have an
- 2:48Speaker 1: appetite for this type of material where they are doing
- 2:52Speaker 1: it because they have a sexual interest in children, and
- 2:55Speaker 1: in many instances they are actually connected to other offenders
- 2:59Speaker 1: who also like sharing this material. So once they're able
- 3:04Speaker 1: to receive this material, they're allowed to share with their
- 3:07Speaker 1: friends and they get coudos and must they're online network
- 3:11Speaker 1: for sharing this particular material.
- 3:13Speaker 2: So last time we talked, we spoke about the sextortion
- 3:16Speaker 2: or sexual exploitation of children. That is that there are
- 3:18Speaker 2: people working in call centers literally as paid employees overseas
- 3:22Speaker 2: who are pretending to be an attractive young female, for example,
- 3:26Speaker 2: and approaching a teenage boy and saying, hey, here's an
- 3:29Speaker 2: intimate picture of me, and will you send me one
- 3:31Speaker 2: of you now, Like they'll spend a little bit of
- 3:33Speaker 2: time developing the relationship over maybe five or ten minutes
- 3:35Speaker 2: or maybe five or ten days. Then they get that
- 3:38Speaker 2: image in front of the boy. The boy goes, oh
- 3:40Speaker 2: my goodness, that was astounding, and now I'm emotionally a
- 3:43Speaker 2: little bit hot, I guess you might say. And then
- 3:47Speaker 2: the request comes through from this quote unquote girl saying
- 3:49Speaker 2: now send me one. He does that, and then she says, actually,
- 3:52Speaker 2: I'm not who you think I am. Send me some
- 3:54Speaker 2: bitcoin otherwise I'm going to share this with your entire list.
- 3:56Speaker 2: It sounds to me like what you're describing as capping
- 3:58Speaker 2: is quite different. That is, this isn't done for financial gain.
- 4:02Speaker 2: This is actually done simply for personal satisfaction. I don't
- 4:08Speaker 2: like using that word in this context, but it sounds
- 4:10Speaker 2: like this is a thing that there are predators who
- 4:13Speaker 2: are literally trying to have children expose themselves online so
- 4:16Speaker 2: that they can get access to that content and then
- 4:18Speaker 2: share it within their dark web groups so that they
- 4:21Speaker 2: can become more powerful in those circles.
- 4:25Speaker 1: Correct or it's entirely for their own personal consumption as well,
- 4:30Speaker 1: because they, as I said, they do have a sexual
- 4:32Speaker 1: interest in children. So it can be stand alone offending,
- 4:35Speaker 1: it can be syndicated offending as well. We're seeing a
- 4:39Speaker 1: range of different offending play out, and it unfortunately is
- 4:44Speaker 1: a global network at times. And this is where the
- 4:48Speaker 1: power of this range center account a child the expectation
- 4:51Speaker 1: when it comes in because we've.
- 4:52Speaker 3: Got those connections with law enforcement.
- 4:54Speaker 1: So this is giving us a really strong sense of
- 4:57Speaker 1: how it's playing out.
- 4:58Speaker 3: Around the globe.
- 5:00Speaker 1: So what typically is happening is that children are being
- 5:03Speaker 1: actively targeted in a very similar way as you describe
- 5:08Speaker 1: to sexual extortion.
- 5:09Speaker 2: Jane, who's most likely to be affected here? Is there
- 5:11Speaker 2: a particular age group who is the target of these
- 5:16Speaker 2: I'm going to use the word predators. I don't know
- 5:17Speaker 2: that there's a better word for it.
- 5:19Speaker 1: So they are young people generally, and the ACE certainly
- 5:23Speaker 1: only focuses in on under ageens, but we are most
- 5:27Speaker 1: commonly seeing teenage children being affected by this.
- 5:31Speaker 2: Okay. Would it be reasonable to say, though, that there
- 5:34Speaker 2: are some bad actors out there who are very active
- 5:40Speaker 2: in children's games as well games for kids that are
- 5:42Speaker 2: under twelve.
- 5:45Speaker 1: That might be a way that they're initially friending the
- 5:48Speaker 1: children through in game chat functionality, but frequently they're taking
- 5:55Speaker 1: them out of that space so that they can actually
- 5:57Speaker 1: have direct message capability with them.
- 6:01Speaker 3: Frequently that's in an encrypted.
- 6:02Speaker 1: Environment, but then they need to get into a video
- 6:07Speaker 1: chat particular app. So that's where they're lured into whichever
- 6:14Speaker 1: particular video chat app that the offender chooses, and is
- 6:18Speaker 1: their preference.
- 6:19Speaker 2: Let me ask a really concrete question. I know it's
- 6:21Speaker 2: hard to give a simple answer to this question, but
- 6:24Speaker 2: how long do most offenders most predators take to develop
- 6:29Speaker 2: a relationship, make the requests, get the child, the teenager,
- 6:34Speaker 2: the young person off the platform that they're on, into
- 6:36Speaker 2: the encrypted chat or video service and obtain exploitative material.
- 6:44Speaker 1: Unfortunately, it's getting shorter and shorter the amount of time
- 6:48Speaker 1: that it takes for these offenders. In you've gone by,
- 6:51Speaker 1: this type of offending would have taken quite some time
- 6:54Speaker 1: to convince a young person a to friend someone that
- 6:57Speaker 1: they don't know and be to actually then respond to
- 7:02Speaker 1: the sharing of sexualized images. So this is a huge
- 7:05Speaker 1: cause for concern for us. And it would appear that
- 7:09Speaker 1: some of those red flags are being ignored by the
- 7:12Speaker 1: young people or they're just not tuning into them. And
- 7:15Speaker 1: this is why we certainly need to appeal to parents
- 7:18Speaker 1: and carers because they play a critical role.
- 7:21Speaker 2: Can we please get really clear on what those red
- 7:24Speaker 2: flags are that are being ignored by the kids, because
- 7:26Speaker 2: obviously parents need to talk about this with their kids. Therefore,
- 7:30Speaker 2: they need to get the high lighter out and circle
- 7:32Speaker 2: where the red flags are and say, hang, this is
- 7:34Speaker 2: a line, like don't cross this line. This is not
- 7:36Speaker 2: safe behavior, this is not healthy behavior. What are the
- 7:38Speaker 2: red flags that parents want to be talking to their
- 7:41Speaker 2: kids about.
- 7:42Speaker 1: So the thing, the very key one that starts off
- 7:45Speaker 1: is that you are friended by someone you don't know.
- 7:50Speaker 1: So what a young person might call it random, or
- 7:52Speaker 1: maybe we're calling them randoms, but they're random, and much
- 7:57Speaker 1: like sexual extortion, the conversation can become sexualized, and that
- 8:02Speaker 1: can happen quite rapidly. They may or may not share
- 8:06Speaker 1: images of purporting to be themselves, but perhaps not, and
- 8:11Speaker 1: then they will al most definitely push them into a
- 8:13Speaker 1: different platform so that they can get onto the platform
- 8:17Speaker 1: of their choice, so that they can actually create the video.
- 8:23Speaker 2: I keep on thinking of Madonna King's advice in her
- 8:26Speaker 2: book Saving Our Kids, the book that she wrote about
- 8:29Speaker 2: Task Force Argos and the work that the ACE has
- 8:33Speaker 2: been doing over the years, and this advice that she
- 8:37Speaker 2: was just screaming through a megaphone throughout the book, and
- 8:39Speaker 2: that is, don't let your kids have their devices in
- 8:41Speaker 2: the bedroom or the bathroom. Just don't let them do that,
- 8:43Speaker 2: because if they're in a public area, they're not going
- 8:45Speaker 2: to take their gear off and send it to some
- 8:47Speaker 2: random on the internet. Whereas bathrooms and bedrooms this is
- 8:51Speaker 2: where the exploitation happens. You're nodding your head as I'm
- 8:53Speaker 2: looking at you on zoom. Can you just extrapolate on
- 8:55Speaker 2: that briefly.
- 8:57Speaker 1: Absolutely, And this goes for children of all ages as well.
- 9:01Speaker 1: We particularly recommend supervision for younger children because unfortunately, we
- 9:06Speaker 1: have instances where young children themselves have been able to
- 9:09Speaker 1: take unclad images of themselves or video and themselves load
- 9:15Speaker 1: them into social media services, and sometimes the parents are
- 9:19Speaker 1: completely unaware.
- 9:20Speaker 2: So I want to ask you a question about that, Jane,
- 9:22Speaker 2: And it's a really hard question to ask in so
- 9:24Speaker 2: many ways, I don't want the answer, but I think
- 9:26Speaker 2: that every parent who's listening needs to know the answer
- 9:29Speaker 2: so they know that this is serious. What's the youngest
- 9:32Speaker 2: age of a child that you know who has been
- 9:34Speaker 2: involved in a capping incident.
- 9:36Speaker 1: I believe that there would be children as young as
- 9:39Speaker 1: ten from what I understand, but as I said, it's
- 9:41Speaker 1: predominantly the teenage years that we are most concerned about.
- 9:45Speaker 2: Okay, but I think that it's worth pausing on this
- 9:49Speaker 2: and just highlighting. So my youngest is nine, right, and
- 9:52Speaker 2: by be too long till she's ten. She's such a tiny,
- 9:55Speaker 2: tiny kid. And it's just I think it's that reminder
- 9:57Speaker 2: a lot of parents say, oh, my kids aren't doing this,
- 10:00Speaker 2: or they're not doing that, or they're safe because I've
- 10:02Speaker 2: had this conversation and I keep coming back to this
- 10:05Speaker 2: idea that they're just not safe for they're kids. It's
- 10:08Speaker 2: like when we were doing parental guidance together, Jane, and
- 10:11Speaker 2: we've got these kids that are accepting invitations from strangers
- 10:15Speaker 2: to disclose personal details, even though the parents are sitting
- 10:18Speaker 2: there saying, but we've had the conversation in terms of
- 10:23Speaker 2: keeping our kids safe. I don't think we can be
- 10:26Speaker 2: strong enough on this. Keep the phones out of the
- 10:28Speaker 2: bedroom bathroom, and recognize that kids as young as ten,
- 10:32Speaker 2: maybe even younger, are going to be approached and they
- 10:35Speaker 2: need to know how to respond. It just seems to
- 10:38Speaker 2: me like it's a massive parental responsibility. I want to
- 10:41Speaker 2: talk about the practical stuff from parents for just a sec,
- 10:44Speaker 2: but I have two questions that are really, I don't know,
- 10:48Speaker 2: raging inside of me. One of them is just what's
- 10:51Speaker 2: the law on this? I mean, it's obviously illegal, but
- 10:55Speaker 2: what are we really talking about from a lawful perspective here?
- 10:58Speaker 2: And is it the same Industrala as it is elsewhere.
- 11:00Speaker 1: So the laws very unfortunately state by state in Australia
- 11:03Speaker 1: and then also differ internationally as well, and the police
- 11:09Speaker 1: response also differentiates as well across state and territories in Australia.
- 11:14Speaker 1: So in relation to self generated content, what the ACE
- 11:19Speaker 1: is very strong on is that we generally don't want
- 11:22Speaker 1: to criminalize that behavior for a young person, and we
- 11:26Speaker 1: want to look at the circumstances in which self generated
- 11:29Speaker 1: material was actually created. So were they tricked, were they coerced?
- 11:32Speaker 1: Where they led to believe that they were sharing with
- 11:34Speaker 1: somebody that they knew or that they trusted. What happened
- 11:38Speaker 1: in relation to having that self generated material created? Then
- 11:43Speaker 1: for those matters to be investigated by police. If that
- 11:46Speaker 1: was just a standalone matter of self generated material, police
- 11:51Speaker 1: in each state and territory would need to take into
- 11:54Speaker 1: account what are the motivations of those involved? Was it mutual,
- 11:58Speaker 1: was it consensual? And was it just perhaps that the
- 12:02Speaker 1: young people were exploring what are essentially adult concepts but
- 12:09Speaker 1: something that we do see quite commonly in the teenage years.
- 12:13Speaker 1: So we do say that if there's been threats or
- 12:17Speaker 1: coercion or trickery involved in the generation of this self
- 12:21Speaker 1: created material, that a young person is essentially a victim
- 12:25Speaker 1: in that situation, and that a young person isn't actually
- 12:29Speaker 1: to blame for falling victim to that kind of online offender.
- 12:34Speaker 3: And we believe that in.
- 12:36Speaker 1: All circumstances, these matters are complex and they need to
- 12:39Speaker 1: be handled with sensitivity and care to ensure that the
- 12:42Speaker 1: young person who is actually not revictimized through the process.
- 12:46Speaker 1: So if it is a non aggravated circumstance, that there
- 12:50Speaker 1: is mutual consent that perhaps sharing got a little bit
- 12:54Speaker 1: out of hand, and that's how it came to law
- 12:56Speaker 1: enforcement attention. Then a police responsor around the country ideally
- 13:01Speaker 1: and typically focuses on.
- 13:03Speaker 3: Education and prevention.
- 13:05Speaker 1: But as soon as police get a sense that there's
- 13:07Speaker 1: more to it, that perhaps there's other elements here where
- 13:10Speaker 1: there's adults involved, and as I mentioned, there's threats and coercions,
- 13:14Speaker 1: that is where they'll actually look at this quite differently
- 13:17Speaker 1: and want to understand the circumstances. And that's exactly how
- 13:20Speaker 1: some of these capping and sometimes sexual extortion matters are uncovered.
- 13:25Speaker 2: Jane AI is becoming an increasingly relevant part of this
- 13:30Speaker 2: discussion in terms of explicit material being both sought for
- 13:35Speaker 2: and generated and even shared. Does that come into this
- 13:39Speaker 2: capping and sexual exploitation discussion at all.
- 13:44Speaker 1: There's a chance that when an offender approaches a young person,
- 13:48Speaker 1: they've actually used AI generated images in order to lure
- 13:54Speaker 1: that young person in. So it could be that it's
- 13:57Speaker 1: actually not a real person of any sort, and that
- 14:00Speaker 1: offenders will seek to hide behind an artificially created profile
- 14:05Speaker 1: picture that is presumably attractive for the person they're trying
- 14:09Speaker 1: to offend against. So yes, we would see AI utilized
- 14:14Speaker 1: in that particular way most definitely.
- 14:17Speaker 2: Yeah, the world is changing in frightening ways. My last
- 14:20Speaker 2: question because our time is running out fast and parents
- 14:22Speaker 2: need solutions. This is the podcast for the time poor
- 14:24Speaker 2: parents who just wants answers. Now, now that we've discussed
- 14:26Speaker 2: capping and what it is, how do parents talk about
- 14:29Speaker 2: this with their children? What are your top couple of tips?
- 14:31Speaker 1: Okay, so we've got so much advice to offer in
- 14:34Speaker 1: this regard. We do not for a moment want parents
- 14:37Speaker 1: to think that they're helpless. We want them to be
- 14:41Speaker 1: able to feel that they're up for the challenge.
- 14:43Speaker 3: So we would.
- 14:43Speaker 1: Say, firstly, have an environment that is open and non judgmental.
- 14:49Speaker 1: And we've talked about having conversations, really open conversations, and
- 14:53Speaker 1: that they can't just be one off, they cannot be
- 14:55Speaker 1: set and forget. They need to be frequent and it
- 14:58Speaker 1: needs to adapt as we see these sorts of crimes
- 15:01Speaker 1: adapt as well.
- 15:03Speaker 3: So you as a.
- 15:04Speaker 1: Parent, you might find it quite nerve racking and uncomfortable,
- 15:08Speaker 1: but this is a better scenario than having to deal
- 15:12Speaker 1: with the worst case scenario. At the end of the day,
- 15:15Speaker 1: it's important to have these conversations, and we stress to
- 15:20Speaker 1: parents that they need to avoid judgmental language. They need
- 15:23Speaker 1: to avoid making judge themselves about you. How could you
- 15:28Speaker 1: do this? How could you be so silly? We want
- 15:32Speaker 1: to ask that they push past all of that and
- 15:35Speaker 1: get to the heart of the problem, because we know
- 15:37Speaker 1: that for young people's shame can be a significant barrier
- 15:40Speaker 1: in order to come forward and that could actually make
- 15:44Speaker 1: them even more vulnerable to ongoing exploitation. So we want
- 15:49Speaker 1: them to speak up. We want them to feel comfortable
- 15:52Speaker 1: enough to be able to share what's happening in their lives,
- 15:55Speaker 1: and offenders will use isolation tactics and shaming and that
- 15:59Speaker 1: will reports coming forward. So parents need to find a
- 16:02Speaker 1: way to push past that. Parents also have a role
- 16:05Speaker 1: more broadly to teach kids critical thinking about how they
- 16:09Speaker 1: interact with people online and that simple message about not
- 16:13Speaker 1: everybody is who they say they are online, and to
- 16:15Speaker 1: keep that thinking up at all times when they're operating online.
- 16:20Speaker 1: We have, you know, some major tips that we always
- 16:24Speaker 1: talk about for parents and cares. In addition to open conversations,
- 16:29Speaker 1: supervision is essential, particularly for younger users. It's important to
- 16:34Speaker 1: check your privacy settings to understand how much information a
- 16:37Speaker 1: young person's putting out there in the world, be approachable
- 16:40Speaker 1: if your child needs help, and then know how to report.
- 16:44Speaker 2: For more great advice on how to keep our families
- 16:46Speaker 2: safe online, especially our children, teenagers, all young people. Visit
- 16:52Speaker 2: the ACE website a triple C E, dot gov, dot AU.
- 16:57Speaker 2: All of those resources that Detective super Into Tendant Jane
- 17:00Speaker 2: Crossling has just mentioned are available there and they will
- 17:04Speaker 2: keep your family safe. It's an important conversation. It's too
- 17:06Speaker 2: important to not have it. Jane as always so grateful
- 17:10Speaker 2: for the work that you do and for the time
- 17:12Speaker 2: that you've spent explaining this to us to help us
- 17:15Speaker 2: to keep our families safe. On the happy Families podcast,
- 17:18Speaker 2: Thank you Detective Superintendent Jane Crossling from the Australian Center
- 17:21Speaker 2: toccount of a child exploitation. The Happy Family's podcast is
- 17:25Speaker 2: produced by Justin Rouland from Bridge Media. Craig Bruce is
- 17:27Speaker 2: our executive producer. Scary, isn't it like? It's just so
- 17:33Speaker 2: frightening that we live in a world where there are
- 17:34Speaker 2: people who have these motivations. Thank goodness we have people
- 17:39Speaker 2: like Jane and those who work with her to help out.
- 17:42Speaker 2: If you'd like more information about making your family safe,
- 17:44Speaker 2: like I said, visit the a's website or check out
- 17:46Speaker 2: what we have to offer to guide your family at
- 17:49Speaker 2: Happy Families dot com do AU.