Latest / Johnjay & Rich On Demand / 2nd DATE UPDATE: Matthew & Aniya
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- 0:00Speaker 1: The next segment we're going to do is called second
- 0:02Speaker 1: Date Update, because that's what we're going to try and
- 0:05Speaker 1: get and that's what the bit is called. Second Date
- 0:07Speaker 1: Update starts right now on John Jay and Ridge.
- 0:13Speaker 2: What a four to seven Kiss FM, John Jay and Rich,
- 0:15Speaker 2: It's time for second Ate Update. You meet somebody, you
- 0:18Speaker 2: go out on a date, they have a great time.
- 0:19Speaker 2: You expect there to be a second date, but it
- 0:21Speaker 2: doesn't happen. You don't know why, so you talk to
- 0:24Speaker 2: your friends. Finally somebody says, why don't you go on
- 0:26Speaker 2: second date? Up date with John Jay and Rich. That's
- 0:28Speaker 2: what we're doing. I with Matthew. Hello, Matthew, Hey, how
- 0:31Speaker 2: you doing?
- 0:32Speaker 3: Great? Man? So tell us a little bit about your situation.
- 0:36Speaker 4: I mean I never thought I could at this point,
- 0:37Speaker 4: but I just have no clue.
- 0:40Speaker 5: Like, I don't know what happened. This is like this
- 0:43Speaker 5: is the way I know. You know what if I
- 0:45Speaker 5: get DOWNE my call John Jay Rich, I gotta do it.
- 0:48Speaker 3: So who's the girl? Where'd you meet her? What was
- 0:50Speaker 3: the date? Okay?
- 0:53Speaker 5: So Anya is the girl? A night? Is a fantastic girl?
- 1:00Speaker 3: Met online?
- 1:00Speaker 5: You know, just as you do on the apps. I
- 1:03Speaker 5: guess went out with this girl a few nights ago.
- 1:06Speaker 5: I thought, went really well, and I mean we clicked.
- 1:09Speaker 3: It was just I.
- 1:11Speaker 4: Mean, it wasn't awkward. That's the thing that's not awkward.
- 1:13Speaker 5: I'm a pretty I mean on the phone, it's not
- 1:14Speaker 5: really awkward. But look, I'm I mean I was.
- 1:17Speaker 4: I mean I was much better on the date.
- 1:18Speaker 5: I mean we were laughing, conversation flowing, I mean we Yeah,
- 1:22Speaker 5: it was clicking.
- 1:22Speaker 3: Everything was clicking, all right.
- 1:25Speaker 2: Yeah, It's funny you start off by saying I have
- 1:26Speaker 2: no clue, and it sounds like you have no clue
- 1:29Speaker 2: because clearly something's going on.
- 1:31Speaker 3: She's ghosting. Is she ghosting you? Or she did like.
- 1:34Speaker 5: Oh yeah, yeah, no I got ghosted, Like it's it is.
- 1:38Speaker 4: I mean, it's this weird thing.
- 1:39Speaker 5: Where it's like end of the dinner, like I asked
- 1:41Speaker 5: her she wanted to go get another drink, keep hanging out.
- 1:45Speaker 3: But that's where there was.
- 1:47Speaker 5: Like a change in her and I get kind of nervous.
- 1:50Speaker 5: I mean, she got quiet, she said, like.
- 1:53Speaker 4: The the kiss at death.
- 1:55Speaker 5: She said like, oh, she was tired, you know, didn't
- 1:58Speaker 5: want to but I didn't want to push it, so
- 1:59Speaker 5: I figured, Okay, you know, maybe she's had had some excuses.
- 2:03Speaker 5: She had an early morning, so I read the room,
- 2:05Speaker 5: gave her a hug, went home, but I texted her
- 2:07Speaker 5: I did make sure she got home safe. Nothing, then
- 2:10Speaker 5: again the next day, nothing, sent her a few textans,
- 2:13Speaker 5: then nothing. So yeah, just absolutely completely ghosted.
- 2:16Speaker 2: Yep, all right, so yep, Well I think you said enough, man,
- 2:19Speaker 2: Let's get her on the phone. All right, brother, Okay, Anira,
- 2:23Speaker 2: all right, hang tight, We're gonna get her on their phone.
- 2:26Speaker 2: Second date update continues next with John.
- 2:28Speaker 3: Jay and Rich. John Jay and Rich, we are like
- 2:31Speaker 3: a whole vie. We're in the middle of second date update.
- 2:33Speaker 3: It's about Matthew and Anaya.
- 2:35Speaker 1: Well, he said everything on their date was clicking. There
- 2:39Speaker 1: was laughter, there was chemistry. He thought that they were
- 2:42Speaker 1: great together. She, however, said she was tired and wanted
- 2:45Speaker 1: to go home. He hugged her good night and hasn't
- 2:48Speaker 1: heard from her since. How could the date that he
- 2:52Speaker 1: thought that when so great she thought went terrible and
- 2:55Speaker 1: just abandoned ship?
- 2:57Speaker 3: Any about He texted her, I hope you got home safe. Nothing.
- 3:00Speaker 3: Actually three or four times after that. Not that's right.
- 3:03Speaker 2: Maybe she did not get home safe, right, But the
- 3:06Speaker 2: thing is we're gonna call her right now. Hopefully she's safe.
- 3:10Speaker 2: Are you ready, Matthew, So you chill out ntil we
- 3:12Speaker 2: get on the phone. Okay, we're gonna do some Diggatay quiet.
- 3:16Speaker 3: The guy say your dog till your dog get chill.
- 3:18Speaker 3: I'm just kidding. That's fine. We have dogs like here
- 3:20Speaker 3: all the time.
- 3:37Speaker 6: Hello. Hi is this Anaya?
- 3:39Speaker 4: Oh?
- 3:39Speaker 6: Yeah, this is she. Hi.
- 3:41Speaker 5: My name is Peyton.
- 3:42Speaker 3: I'm with John Jay and Rich.
- 3:43Speaker 6: We just want to talk to about a few things
- 3:44Speaker 6: on the radio.
- 3:45Speaker 3: If you're okay with.
- 3:45Speaker 6: That, Yeah, sure, Anaya.
- 3:49Speaker 2: So we do a radio show and we talk about
- 3:52Speaker 2: relationships and dating and whatnot. You got a call from
- 3:55Speaker 2: a guy. He always tell us about a date he
- 3:57Speaker 2: went on and he said it went pretty great. In fact,
- 3:59Speaker 2: he said that it was clicking, and he said it
- 4:02Speaker 2: was fantastic. And then the girl's ghosting him. So when
- 4:05Speaker 2: he tells us the story, we kind of go around
- 4:06Speaker 2: the room. We give our own well maybe you did this,
- 4:08Speaker 2: maybe you did that. And the thing is we're kind
- 4:09Speaker 2: of like stumping.
- 4:11Speaker 3: Our heads if that's a phrase. Is that a phrase?
- 4:13Speaker 1: Stumping our heads?
- 4:13Speaker 3: Stumping our heads? No, never heard of it before, but
- 4:16Speaker 3: it kind of works. What's the phrase I'm trying to say?
- 4:18Speaker 3: Then stumped? What about our heads? Shaking our heads?
- 4:21Speaker 2: We are stumped and shaking our heads, because here's the deal.
- 4:24Speaker 2: You're the girl anayah and it We're talking about a
- 4:26Speaker 2: guy named Matthew.
- 4:28Speaker 6: Oh Matthew, yeah, oh yeah, yeah, I remember him?
- 4:35Speaker 3: What happened? Why are you ghosting him?
- 4:37Speaker 4: Well?
- 4:38Speaker 6: Okay, okay, well get this out of the way. Like
- 4:42Speaker 6: he wasn't rude, he wasn't like a creep, Like he
- 4:45Speaker 6: wasn't a bad guy.
- 4:46Speaker 2: It's just.
- 4:48Speaker 6: I just can't date a dry backer. Like the entire
- 4:52Speaker 6: date was just him suddenly trying to like get my
- 4:54Speaker 6: food without ever actually asking, like I'd order something and
- 4:59Speaker 6: he immediately be like, oh, like that looks good, Like
- 5:02Speaker 6: how is it? Like I've never had that before? And
- 5:05Speaker 6: then he like stare at my plate like he owed
- 5:08Speaker 6: him money or something like, and then he just hit
- 5:10Speaker 6: me with like are you gonna finish that? And before
- 5:14Speaker 6: I could even answer, he already has his four calfways
- 5:17Speaker 6: to my fries. My fries come on, like please just
- 5:21Speaker 6: ass Like every advertiser became our appetizer, like every drink
- 5:26Speaker 6: became like can I just get a sip. Like at
- 5:29Speaker 6: one point, I genuinely considered ordering a second meal just
- 5:32Speaker 6: so I have enough for myself. Like, I know it
- 5:36Speaker 6: sounds ridiculous, but I realized I cannot spend the rest
- 5:39Speaker 6: of my life guarding master.
- 5:40Speaker 5: Realistic anaya Anya.
- 5:44Speaker 4: Can you hear me? Uh yeah it is Matthew.
- 5:50Speaker 5: Yeah it's me.
- 5:51Speaker 4: Uh oh my god, it's so awkward. I don't know
- 5:55Speaker 4: what to say right now. Oh my god god, yeah right,
- 6:00Speaker 4: a serious.
- 6:02Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, surprised, Yeah, it was I didn't know how
- 6:06Speaker 5: to figure out. I mean, you disappeared. You goes to
- 6:08Speaker 5: me and like, I so, okay, I've listened to John
- 6:11Speaker 5: Jay and rich since you know, for you know, for years,
- 6:12Speaker 5: since I was not as small, right, so I figured
- 6:15Speaker 5: I I just shoot my shot here, see if they
- 6:18Speaker 5: could help me out. And we got we got you,
- 6:20Speaker 5: so we're here.
- 6:22Speaker 4: I won't know why not get back to me?
- 6:23Speaker 6: I mean, oh my god, you really didn't get me,
- 6:29Speaker 6: you know.
- 6:29Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm sorry.
- 6:34Speaker 6: I didn't know this was a setup. I was just
- 6:37Speaker 6: just letting nowt what happened.
- 6:39Speaker 5: I oh, apparently I'm like a dry bigger.
- 6:41Speaker 6: I'm I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry.
- 6:46Speaker 3: It's just I didn't know.
- 6:47Speaker 5: I didn't know I was doing it.
- 6:48Speaker 4: I didn't realized I wasn't trying to steal food, Like
- 6:51Speaker 4: I'm just I.
- 6:52Speaker 5: Like trying different stuff like that's how I that's how
- 6:54Speaker 5: I was brought up. Like every guy, I share like
- 6:57Speaker 5: family meal, like with just share, share, share share.
- 6:59Speaker 4: Everyone's just okay, Well I thought we were consent.
- 7:04Speaker 6: You gotta ask, Come on, you gotta ast.
- 7:07Speaker 3: You're sitting there begging like Odysseus. Yeah, what's the word.
- 7:11Speaker 3: What's the word? Pick? What's the phrase? Look at these beggars?
- 7:14Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, okay, next day, I'll order my own fries. Okay,
- 7:19Speaker 5: all right, I will do it. Oh gosh, wait.
- 7:22Speaker 6: You you still want to go out again? I are
- 7:26Speaker 6: you sure? Like a good time? I had a great time?
- 7:31Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, you kidding me? Like I look, I
- 7:33Speaker 5: literally like I called.
- 7:34Speaker 3: I called the.
- 7:34Speaker 5: Radio station to get in touch with you, so like,
- 7:37Speaker 5: I mean, come on, like obviously, okay, I'm pretty flattered.
- 7:42Speaker 3: Oh they're like kind of cute but like kind of awkward.
- 7:45Speaker 1: I like kind of love it.
- 7:46Speaker 3: Yeah, it might just work. You did say that.
- 7:49Speaker 4: Yeah, I'll enjoy my meal.
- 7:51Speaker 2: Enjoy your meal.
- 7:52Speaker 4: That's that's good.
- 7:53Speaker 2: You know that I was telling these guys I ate
- 7:55Speaker 2: at this restaurant Friday night or Saturday night, and uh,
- 7:59Speaker 2: my wife and I had the Bellman Restaurant, Sundy, I
- 8:01Speaker 2: and my wife got a file at and I got
- 8:02Speaker 2: the New York Ship. And almost every time I eat
- 8:05Speaker 2: with my wife, one of the reasons I married her
- 8:07Speaker 2: is because she does a finish her food and she
- 8:11Speaker 2: she's on the g LP two, which means for sure,
- 8:14Speaker 2: for sure, she's not going to finish her food. And
- 8:16Speaker 2: this filet looks so good and I couldn't wait for
- 8:18Speaker 2: her to not finish her steak and she ate it off.
- 8:22Speaker 2: What the And if I would have been more like
- 8:25Speaker 2: Matthew and just took a chunk out of her file at,
- 8:29Speaker 2: I would be like, I would have been more satisfied.
- 8:32Speaker 2: But anyway, and she goes, I'm so sorry, I eat
- 8:33Speaker 2: all my food, and I'm like, yeah, me too, me too.
- 8:37Speaker 2: But anyway, if if Anaya loves it and you love it,
- 8:40Speaker 2: and you guys will to go out again, I say,
- 8:42Speaker 2: heck can, fact will set you up at the Belmont.
- 8:45Speaker 5: Oh that sounds good.
- 8:49Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, cute couple, But you got to share
- 8:52Speaker 2: each other's food or not share up to you guys.
- 8:56Speaker 3: There's on the menu there little tireds hamachi.
- 9:01Speaker 4: Shoot, okay okay.
- 9:03Speaker 3: There's Spanish octopus. You guys into that.
- 9:06Speaker 5: Oh okay, okay, I try it before.
- 9:10Speaker 3: You're not going to want to share it. I'll tell
- 9:11Speaker 3: you that right now. All right, you guys hold on that.
- 9:13Speaker 3: We'll say job. Thank you so much for listening to
- 9:14Speaker 3: both of you. What a nice couple. Hopefully it works out,
- 9:16Speaker 3: all right. That's second it up at you guys with John,
- 9:19Speaker 3: Jay and Rich. All right,