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Rabbi Moshe Haber Orchot Yashar: The Power of Alacrity: Overcoming Procrastination and Developing Character 3.8.26 · Rabbi Moshe Haber - Daily Mussar/Weekly Perasha

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  When I'm going through this safe and our high, can he ask And
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  really what he does in this book is he takes topics, live topics,
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  different aspects of developing a very well-rounded person.
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  And we did a few of them ready, and one of them is not actually
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  going to the Les Alifet, and one of them is now the topic of the
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  result, which means in English alacrity and the importance of
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  being quick. What does that mean?
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  So first of all, he says they came out in many places.
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  And the dodge tells us also that the actions of the righteous are
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  done quickly. A classic example is whatever
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  Havi knew. I had those guests, and he
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  ripped out soups of it in my hair.
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  And he ran, he ran, he hurried, he hurried endlessly.
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  It says the word hurried, hurry, hurry to take care and prepare
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  for those guests. Hurrying was key.
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  Another example, some of the theme of Carmen.
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  She hurried to give the water to the camels when right when she
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  was visited by by by by lizard. So the idea is, is that hurrying
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  great people hurry. You have to figure out why is it
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  so significant at the hurry. What's the importance of this in
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  the eye? OK, I understand you want to get
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  the job done. Whatever mitzvah, all very good.
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  Whatever mitzvah and Yanny want to do, you want to get the job
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  done. Why is it significant to do
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  things in my head, do things fast.
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  Zizzut this concept. We have many examples.
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  We have an Yan when it comes to Mila.
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  We do Mila's bring Mila in the morning.
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  Some people do me bring Mila very early in the morning
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  because we have a concept on the a day.
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  It's with mitzvah's thoughts. Zizzi makdi mitzvah, we don't
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  Messiah even to say if they wanted the early chapters of
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  developing a Jew, he talks about the need to be at ease, to be
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  fast. So the question is, I understand
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  it's a nice thing, but if you think about the end game, said
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  he gave us a part of an answer. If you think about the end game,
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  who cares if you do things slow methodically taking your time or
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  we do it fast, same end game. That's the question.
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  All right. But like we said, he brings many
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  sources to the knee to be quick. But again, my question, why is
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  it significant? So Eddie gave us one answer,
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  which is Yetzada. The one answer is the inside.
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  I usually try these different tactics and stop you from doing
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  them as follows. Stop you think something do and
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  the typical topic tactics are debate, doubt.
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  I'm not sure if it's worth it. I'm not sure if it's worthy.
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  Those are the classic tactics of the it's ADA.
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  But then after that, after you beat those, which is after you
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  get past the fact that you are committed to doing something.
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  That's right. It's that I find a new Ave. and
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  this new Ave. is far more powerful.
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  And I'll tell you why in a second.
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  Far more powerful than doubt. And this Ave. is
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  procrastination, delay, stall tactics.
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  Telling you I don't, I need to do it, but I don't need to do it
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  now, I'll do it later. Why is this a far more powerful
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  tactic? Because often times in our
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  minds, once we commit to doing some things on your mind, you're
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  halfway there. Once you commit to doing
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  something, you're on the right track, you're there, and then
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  you have to just deliver, right? It's says it's a perfect opening
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  right there. The guy already feels good about
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  himself. When you commit to do something,
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  you already feel good. You already feel like you are on
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  a good track. You already feel like you did it
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  already. We have a constant of Shavaka
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  Massa. Thought is like action in our
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  minds. Often times the thought of doing
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  something like your action. And then once you got past that
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  point, now you delay, you stole, procrastinate.
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  I'll get to a later. I said I'm going to go pray,
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  I'll get to me out eventually. I said I'm going to give
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  charity. I'll get delivering the money
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  eventually, right? I said I already made a decision
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  in my mind. I'm going to go learn.
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  I'll end up by class eventually. Once you made that decision, we
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  often think, you know, the decision is halfway to the
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  finish line. Not true.
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  In fact, it's the opposite. The decision is literally the
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  avenue and the opening for the IT set out to say I got him, he
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  feels good, he got the right emotion, he got where he needs
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  to go. Now let me step in and say don't
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  do it now, do it later, do it next week to interim time.
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  I can't tell you how many times I've asked a person or invited a
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  person to a class and they got themselves to commit to maybe 3
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  weeks from now when things change to a month from now when
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  things get easier. And it's fair, it makes some
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  sense. But the problem is not that
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  commitment that makes sense. The problem is during the next
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  few weeks they feel very good about themselves and they feel
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  like they are settled in the fact that they have a class
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  coming, they have a class pending and then what happens?
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  Two weeks now comes, a small thing comes up and they can't
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  make it, and now they got literally nowhere.
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  Instead. The move always is to say yes.
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  If they're saying yes, I had to do it today, do it tomorrow, end
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  up by that first one, and then you'll work your way to pushing
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  yourself to keeping that schedule.
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  But the key theme is a person needs to get past that barrier.
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  It's one of the most difficult barriers to get past.
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  Or just actual delivery. A person thinks I committed, I'm
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  good in any area. Commitment is not halfway to the
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  finish line. It's halfway to thinking in my
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  mind, I got there, but it's not at all reality.
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  That's what he's telling you. All right, he says, but however
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  said the Keem make sure so they can't make sure that they
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  deliver. For example, Naomi said about
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  Ruth, Naomi, which is Ruth's mother-in-law and the story of
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  Ruth said to her daughter, she said you know there's a man
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  helping you out. What's the man's name helping
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  her out? And his name was Boaz and she
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  said to Ruth, I know that man is a Sadiq and I guarantee he'll
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  take care of what he's take care of today.
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  Kilo Ishko Taish, that man will not rest Kim Kila de Varayon
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  unless he addresses the issue today.
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  Hare Haitapit To her she was confident.
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  She was confident. She ignored a young man.
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  The topic will be taken care of today.
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  He can Daughter conscious said he came.
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  This is the way that he came. La sot miyad masha Sri class
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  sot. They do things to me.
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  So you say to yourself, OK, but don't I know haste makes waste?
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  Shouldn't I be thought out? Shouldn't I debate something?
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  Excuse me, Sonny, Start. Shouldn't I get?
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  Shouldn't I go through the process?
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  All right, what's this concept of being fast?
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  Isn't being fast dangerous? So how do you respond to that?
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  How do you respond to that concept of being too quick is
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  often times being destructed? Because if you don't think
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  things through, if you're not methodical in your process, then
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  you're running the risk of making mistakes because haste
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  makes waste. How could we tell you that one
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  of the biggest concepts that you is to be at ease need to be
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  quick. And we all know that you need to
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  think things your life. Other times you make dangerous
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  decisions other than other times you make things that you look
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  back on and say, I shouldn't have done that was too quick.
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  This is different. This is a mature.
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  This is the other kind of life situation.
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  OK, so then it's a process and he's right on track.
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  The process is is that we're dealing with things that there's
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  no doubt going to Mignon. There's no doubt calling to
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  learn, there's no doubt giving charity to A cause that you know
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  is good. There's also no doubt doubt
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  giving, delivering the payment to a place that you're already
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  committed to. Also no doubt these types of
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  things that there are no doubt taking care of your children,
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  being near for your family, These are things that are no
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  doubt and all anything missing is a delivery.
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  Those scenarios. There's no such thing as waste
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  and those scenarios. The only thing holding you back
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  is the Itzara, the stall tactic, Itzara saying to you, why now,
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  thank you. The only thing holding you back
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  is the emotion of saying I don't really, I'm not really
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  interested in the effort in the work in the toil that is
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  included in actually getting the job done.
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  So in those situation where it's only a matter of toil holding
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  you back from delivery, that is called you need to bring on that
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  ease. You need to bring on the emotion
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  of saying, let's get this done, let's get through it, Let's
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  push. And often times, very often, we
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  feel like I shouldn't have. I'm going to take it easy.
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  He might call laziness. It's a real thing.
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  Or you might just call why now? Why should I get to it now?
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  And he's telling you the ways of the said they came is that they
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  push. This is behind Kanowski's book
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  and it's around his your side. So I'll tell you that he once
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  told people that I myself when it comes to learning, I have to
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  push myself. And you say he had to push
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  himself. Come on, he went all day.
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  I had to push myself and I often don't have to tell myself.
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  I look at a clock and I'd say how can I handle learning for
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  the next few hours? It's hard to I had to push and
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  every gay person pushes themselves.
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  Don't think it comes easy yet Sarah's greatest gift is a stall
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  tactic. It tell you why this moment and
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  the truth is, if a person gets past this and not only do they
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  deliver things fast and you say what's the difference?
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  You pay it anyway, you're going to get them down anyway.
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  Who cares? Fast or slow, the difference
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  becomes a way more effective person, a way more effective
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  person. Every single area.
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  Miss Elias Shane places this concept early on in his steps of
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  development of a person. And you wonder, why should
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  haste? Why shouldn't being fast?
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  Why should anti laziness be such a key theme and development of a
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  person? It's nice to be quick, it's good
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  to deliver, it's good to get the job done.
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  It makes a difference in who I am.
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  Who cares if I get there at 9:00 in the morning or 8:00 in the
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  morning? Why does it make a difference?
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  Who cares right? When I pay that payment when I
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  eventually get to class, Why does it make a difference?
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  And there's simple answers is that if you leave yourself up to
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  basically letting things be, you'll never get anywhere in
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  life. If a person allows things just
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  to be the way they are, he will never be able to get anywhere in
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  life. And that's how far it goes.
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  Because if you don't push, you'll always be waiting, you'll
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  always be delaying, you'll always be stalling.
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  It's not simply about performing mitzvot even.
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  It's that every year of your life you do not push past the
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  barrier. If you do not literally drag
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  yourself along past the finish line, you will never develop in
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  any area, whether it be mitzvot, character, anything about
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  yourself, and you allow laziness to set in.
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  It will set in as an emotion for every single area, even
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  character. How does character relate to
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  this? Because if a person is lazy
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  mindset, you're letting your brain settle.
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  If you let your brain settle, that's where he hits it out,
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  finds its greatest home. That's where it grows and grows
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  and grows. And you can't push.
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  If you can't push an area on this foot, you cannot push in
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  any area. Why?
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  Because pushing is uncomfortable.
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  For example, this very, very morning, right?
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  The clock changed. You need to go to Mignon.
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  You're a little bit less in the mood, OK.
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  You need to wake up in the morning, roll out of bed.
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  You're more tired. You saying stuff?
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  I'm groggy. It's a slow Sunday.
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  There's not much going on this Sunday.
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  There's no football. There's no thing.
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  There are second man. Even places right.
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  Even here. Why?
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  Why? Russ?
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  Right. You're saying that to yourself?
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  Fair. Good argument.
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  If you know what happens if you don't have the mode of pushing,
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  you do not have the mode of pushing, and you will not have
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  the mode of pushing in any area, and you'll slowly settle, settle
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  into the emotion of I'm comfortable, I like it this way
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  and I'm good. Today in 2026, the world is
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  fluid. This young people today are full
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  with this concept. Laziness is a far greater
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  concept than it now than it used to be, and it's a concept that
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  is not only related to its fourth, it's a concept that's
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  related to any area of life. Why is laziness set in today
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  more than ever? Because we like comfort.
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  We like it being the way it is. If you break it down even
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  deeper, laziness relates to comfort.
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  Comfort relates to being the way you are right now.
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  I'm very good in this mode. I like my sweatpants, I like my
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  bed. I like things being the way they
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  are. I like this feeling and this
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  feeling means 0 push. And if you're not willing to
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  push from, it's what you're not willing to push for work.
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  And now when it comes to going into the office, some people, I
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  love this mode. Some people they only going to
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  work when they have to and it starts to dwindle and dwindle
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  and dwindle and then they get off on this day and that day.
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  For example, even this is a good example, we had a discussion in
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  one of the classes and it came up regarding going to work on
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  pudding. And of course, I feel, we all
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  feel don't go to work on pudding.
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  You take off so many days, why don't you go to work on pudding?
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  That was the feeling we had. But at the same time, and I said
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  this in front of a worker and a boss who are both in the same
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  class by the way, the same time I'm with you.
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  Don't go to work on podium. A big fan of that.
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  It's only if you know you, you, you work the rest of the year.
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  It's only because people take off so much.
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  I was talking this person. Don't take off.
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  It's a little bit different for you.
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  Don't take off on podium when you do it take off.
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  You know when you hardly ever take off.
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  But because today we take off so often, that's what you say take
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  off podium. No question.
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  I but my, my main point I'm trying to say now is don't allow
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  laziness to set in. Don't allow this emotion set in.
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  And now I'll start taking off every other day.
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  You say to yourself, how does it develop a Jew working, being a
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  good worker, being a pusher, being a highly motivated person
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  makes you into a completely different person.
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  And people like take off on Sundays, which is fine.
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  And people like taking off on Fridays.
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  Are you getting there? Are you going a little bit more
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  to the funny zone then people in the summertime like take off on
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  Wednesdays and you're really going places, right?
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  And you end up being when saying French slower and slower, It can
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  slow. That's the whole generation.
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  You see the degradation from prior where they watch seven
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  days a week or you know, I love whenever, but I'm saying there's
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  the same emotion that they like to work in the home.
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  I work, I work at home and then we like to work.
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  They have this book I saw a couple of years ago with a four
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  hour work week or something ridiculous. 5 hour work week.
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  Who are you kidding? And then solely, but surely it
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  becomes employees are more effective as they work for they
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  Yeah, they love to say that because there's a yeah, it's
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  just let AI do the work for you. And then I can say, why fly?
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  Why fly? Why should I have to travel for
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  business? And solely but surely right now
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  it works. It's effective, but solely but
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  surely you lose the mode of being an uncomfortable position.
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  And when you lose the mode of being an uncomfortable position,
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  you lose the worker mentality. And that's when danger sets in
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  because maybe right now it's working.
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  Maybe right now it's effective because you're doing what you
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  did and it's not changing much. But now God gets a new job and
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  now he gets a new job. I've seen this so many times.
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  God gets a new job and his new boss is expecting to work for
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  your work, go to work in nine to five.
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  Do you think he has no idea how he's going to handle?
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  I dealt with a guy who was out of work, out of work.
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  Someone's out of work, sadly. You tell yourself, take whatever
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  you got right, you're out of work.
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  That's the support for his family.
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  I told him why you're not taking this job, I don't know.
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  It's uncomfortable. I don't know.
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  They're going to push me too hard.
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  And I use this. I'm like, are you crazy?
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  You see you're out of work. You're given an opportunity.
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  I have a good job coming to you. I don't know.
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  I'm not sure if I want to work nine to five.
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  I'm not sure if I want to do the way.
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  Are you out of your mind? But their answer is, is that we
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  settle into a very lazy mode. And you may say to yourself, I'm
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  a good worker, then great in that area you're blessed.
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  And it has to spread to all areas.
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  If a person becomes a pusher and it becomes a developed person.
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  If a person allows things to settle and he lets things rot
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  and then before you know it, in every area of life, he is not a
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  developed person. Instead he remains the exact
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  same. So you say to yourself, why does
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  being Zarise, why does being highly motivated so affected?
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  Because it pushes you to be uncomfortable.
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  And when you're willing to be uncomfortable, that right there
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  is where you develop, right? There is a spot that you're
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  willing to change, right? It's about that.
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  You're willing to sweat, you're willing to toil, you're willing
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  to everything, right for solving for your question.
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  We all love AI, Dave, don't we? Now the problem with AI and the
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  clearest problem today is the idea that, you know, let's take
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  it in the in the form of learning, you learn.
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  The essence of learning is totally forgetting, not
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  understanding, trying to figure it out, going through the back
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  and forth, all that hard work comes to learn.
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  Now, if AI one day will replace my hard work and what's going to
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  happen, I will lose the tool of development and learning.
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  A person, no person should happen to, but they'll lose the
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  tool in development and learning.
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  And you say big deal. How the high?
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  It's a very big deal. It's a very big deal because
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  then now you do not have those skills.
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  Those skills are utilized by every area of life.
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  God. So what's the question now?
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  Give me David a chance. Comment Somebody once told me
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  that if you have items you have to do during the day, make a
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  list. You know, like I make a list.
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  Do the one that you dislike the most.
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  Do that first, otherwise you may never do it.
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  I have to pay bills, so I don't do it right.
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  Move right away. I'll do other things. 100
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  percent, 100%, a person has to get themselves to be a pusher,
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  to push past the uncomfortable. The other option is laziness,
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  and laziness includes great comfort, right?
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  I've seen people, and this is people that's called maybe an
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  older single or maybe a person who would work for his parents
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  for a long time, for his father for a long time.
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  Those type and they got very used to this mode and now you
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  try to get them an older single person trying to get them to
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  date and now when they're dating you're having a hard time
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  figuring out why they like not really, you know aggressive over
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  here and it's because they settled into their mood and that
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  mood equals comfort. But now you say to yourself, OK
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  beautiful. It's nothing to be comfortable.
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  The problem with laziness, therefore comfort, is that they
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  do not move the needle at all. And is their life any better?
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  No, the life is not better when someone is a pusher, someone's a
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  worker and someone's highly motivated and someone's OK with
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  being uncomfortable. They enjoy life so much more
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  because they have the greatest gift.
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  You know what that gift ends up being?
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  Productive. When you are a pusher, you
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  become productive and there's no better feeling in the world.
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  When it comes to your confidence comes to yourself, esteem comes
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  to you, worthless, You, you, you worth on this earth, there's no
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  better feeling than being productive.
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  So they all go hand in hand. You're a pusher, you're
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  motivated, you're uncomfortable very often and you're
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  productive, awesome. Whereas you're not a pusher.
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  You're comfortable, you're lazy, you're in sweatpants eating the
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  nachos in your mother's basement.
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  Classic example. You know who you are.
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  Also, we know those guys in the movies, those guys in the
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  sweatpants, right? You know, that's the classic
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  guy. He's in mommy's basement.
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  He's 42 years old and he's just binging movies all day.
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  That guy, very comfortable, maybe very, very unproductive.
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  And that's the choices a person has to make.
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  And it's true when it comes to basement.
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  That's why he's in the basement. You know a majority of people.
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  That's not the majority. Not the majority of people.
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  We have our own version of that price.
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  Yeah, the only version of that, which is I'm not, I'm not
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  interested in going to office when it's raining.
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  Snow day, right? Other people cancel because
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  there's snow day. I'm a very firm believer of
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  those who figure things out during a snow day, right.
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  I went on, on snow day, the boat.
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  Sundays at the big snow days, I went to yeshiva, by the way.
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  I took Ubers. Uber.
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  You how how expensive think the Ubers were on those days, they
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  were very cheap. Snow day, they were very cheap.
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  After the snow day, like day three, they were very, very
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  expensive. No, they wouldn't.
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  I open it back and forth to shoot every morning even all the
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  time to three. But during those days, so see me
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  during those days, they were very cheap.
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  Why were they cheap? Because nobody's going to work.
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  Because they all called up their bosses and said I might live
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  down the block from the office, but it's snowing so I'm not
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  going. And then and that becomes a mole
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  few, but the mole becomes lazy and I'm productive and you want
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  workers. If I hire a worker, the number
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  one thing I want if a worker, if I hire one was is the mode of
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  doing things at all costs, doing things no matter what.
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  I love that mood because the amount of productivity from that
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  individual compared to the amount of productivity from the
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  other person who by literally any sort of fly, any sort of
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  uncomfortable, any sort of bad weather or any sort of issue,
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  he's not showing up. The level in these people is
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  literally 100 to 1. And the world is so much more
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  productive with these types of people and the results when it
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  comes to its foot is the exact same way.
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  He's been going to class, but I can't find parking.
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  You debating going to pray, but it's a little bit rainy outside.
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  You debating giving charity, but I'm a little tighter at this
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  moment. Or I committed, but I'm not
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  really sure. I want to pay out the second
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  you're debating whether to go to that wedding to make that couple
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  feel good, but I don't know really.
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  There's so many people, da, da, da.
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  I worked very hard today. I'm just going to go to bed,
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  right? You're debating family respects,
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  but come on, don't really know them so well.
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  Should I go? Should I not go?
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  I'll go later, right? All these examples.
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  That's so many more. You need to push and break past
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  the uncomfortable. If you're willing to be
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  uncomfortable, you're blessed with productivity and an awesome
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  feel. If you're not willing to be
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  uncomfortable, you want to remain comfortable, then you
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  have any modern version of mommy's basement with sweatpants
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  and nachos and sitting there watching movies.
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  And you know what? That guy becomes angry,
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  frustrated. That guy becomes lazy,
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  unproductive. You can't get him to move an
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  inch. That person.
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  Forget about asking to do anything.
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  It's not going to happen because you got too comfortable and too
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  unwilling to be uncomfortable, and therefore there's nothing
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  there that's going to be produced from such an approach.
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  That's why the zoot is one of the main steps of being in good
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  Jew breaking past the barrier.