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09/07/2026:Dirty Little Secrets, Petty Revenge & Relationship Red Flags! · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: Billy the Kid in the Morning is on.
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  Speaker 2: The New Mix 102.9.
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  Speaker 3: I saw this thread online. It made me laugh. It
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  Speaker 3: was like common things that people find disgusting. It was
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  Speaker 3: a list of things. And I'm like, you know, I
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  Speaker 3: have one because I don't know why it just grossed
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  Speaker 3: me out when I saw one. And we almost all
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  Speaker 3: have them. Almost all of us. You know what's gross
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  Speaker 3: to me? What? Belly buttons. I thought about this over
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  Speaker 3: the weekend.
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  Speaker 4: Why?
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  Speaker 3: And I wrote it down. I'm like, make a note
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  Speaker 3: to talk about belly buttons.
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  Speaker 1: Wow.
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  Speaker 3: They're awful. How? They're disgusting. And I don't care whose
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  Speaker 3: belly button it is. Candace, yours is gross. Pooh's is gross.
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  Speaker 3: Mine's gross.
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  Speaker 1: Wow.
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  Speaker 3: They don't need to be there.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, it's kind of weird when you think about it.
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  Speaker 3: You know? Just look at yours right now, Pooh. Look
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  Speaker 3: at your belly button.
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  Speaker 2: Hold on.
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  Speaker 3: No, he turned around and looked at it.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, mine, yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Wait, is yours an outie? No, it's not. It's an innie.
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  Speaker 5: Okay.
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  Speaker 6: You see a belly button like on a nice, on
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  Speaker 6: a woman who has a toned stomach.
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  Speaker 3: Ew, creepy. No, still gross. Like Dua Lipa or, you know.
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  Speaker 3: Dua Lipa. Dua Lipa. I'm sure her.
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  Speaker 1: Belly button is fantastic.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, Shakira. Shakira when she was on last night. Oh, yeah. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: she was making her hips don't lie. Yeah, that belly
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  Speaker 3: button was saying something. I still don't like them.
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  Speaker 1: I just never think about belly buttons.
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  Speaker 3: I know.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Well, you know, I thought about it because, well, see,
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  Speaker 3: my friend's dad doesn't have one.
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  Speaker 2: What?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. How? You ever met somebody without a belly button?
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  Speaker 2: No.
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  Speaker 3: I know. They're rare. They're like unicorns.
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  Speaker 2: Well, where did it go?
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  Speaker 1: What happened?
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  Speaker 3: My friend Brian. My friend Brian, his dad doesn't have one,
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  Speaker 3: and he had a massive belly.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Like a massive beer belly. It was perfectly round and
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  Speaker 3: rock hard. And the funny part was is he wasn't
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  Speaker 3: like the fattest guy. Yeah. But he had a huge belly.
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  Speaker 3: You ever meet those guys? Yeah. They have like skinny legs,
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  Speaker 3: skinny upper body, but just a massive belly.
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  Speaker 4: And where.
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  Speaker 3: Well, he was in an accident when he was a kid. Okay.
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  Speaker 3: So in a sledding accident.
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  Speaker 5: What?
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  Speaker 3: Because he was from up north.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: And one of those metal like sleds ran over his belly.
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  Speaker 3: And when they sewed it back up, they just sewed
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  Speaker 3: the belly button up.
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  Speaker 7: Oh, so it's just like a scar there?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, barely a scar. So it's just a perfectly round belly.
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  Speaker 3: No belly button. With no belly button. What? Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I've never heard of that.
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  Speaker 3: If you have something that's just common, that just absolutely
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  Speaker 3: disgusts you for whatever reason. 833-787-1029. I actually do.
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  Speaker 7: Have one because I was in line behind a guy
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  Speaker 7: the other day at CBS.
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  Speaker 3: What is it?
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  Speaker 1: With a long ponytail. Yeah, I know. It's just like, well,
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  Speaker 1: because it was like, and I know that I've.
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  Speaker 7: Done this before, swung my ponytail a little bit. If
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  Speaker 7: someone was close to me and it maybe touched them.
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  Speaker 3: He's swaying his ponytail and it hit you?
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  Speaker 1: Well, it was close. It was in my personal space.
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  Speaker 1: And I just remember thinking like, ugh.
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  Speaker 3: But it's so long.
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  Speaker 1: So long.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, for real.
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  Speaker 1: I guess it's not as common as a belly button, but.
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  Speaker 3: You know what it is? It's because men don't take
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  Speaker 3: care of their hair as good as girls do. Right.
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  Speaker 7: They're not doing masks out here or hair oils and cleansing.
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  Speaker 3: So I'm sure it was a little bit greasy. Was
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  Speaker 3: it a little bit?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, it was.
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  Speaker 3: It was. But now, it depends. Some guys can pull
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  Speaker 3: that off.
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  Speaker 4: Sure.
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  Speaker 3: Some guys can pull off a man bun.
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  Speaker 1: Right, like certain tennis players or like.
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  Speaker 3: Who's that?
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  Speaker 7: I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: Excuse me?
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  Speaker 4: I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like there's some tennis.
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  Speaker 3: Player with a man bun. Yeah. That was very.
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  Speaker 6: What tennis player are you looking at, Candace?
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  Speaker 1: I'm just saying.
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  Speaker 3: Or like Aquaman. What's his name? Oh, Jason Momoa. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: like if Jason Momoa shows up and he's got a ponytail,
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  Speaker 3: you're probably okay with it. You don't like Aquaman?
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  Speaker 4: No.
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  Speaker 6: His hair's probably smelling like pink Himalayan salt or something
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  Speaker 6: like that.
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  Speaker 3: Something like that. Do you have something nasty? Yeah, you
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  Speaker 3: know what immediately grosses me out? Like if you.
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  Speaker 6: When I buy something from a department store, I always
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  Speaker 6: have to watch it because I'm scared that somebody else
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  Speaker 6: didn't try it at home.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, where's the line music?
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  Speaker 4: What?
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  Speaker 3: I do. Put on the line music and be nice.
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  Speaker 7: Well, I've gotten clothes home before and I saw deodorant
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  Speaker 7: on it where someone tried it on.
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  Speaker 1: And I was like, ooh.
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  Speaker 3: You saw a white boy? Yes. Really? Now, Poo, you
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  Speaker 3: don't do that. Yes, I do. That's a lot. Stuff-a-bus,
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  Speaker 3: I watched you walk into Walmart. Hold on. I waited you.
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  Speaker 3: I saw you go to Walmart, inside, walk in, get
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  Speaker 3: your chonies, walk out, and right on your booty. It
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  Speaker 3: went from shelf to booty. Because I didn't have any underwear.
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  Speaker 6: I mean, what was I going to do, hand wash
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  Speaker 6: them and hang them outside to dry?
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  Speaker 3: I don't know. But, yeah. If you got one, 833-787-1029
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  Speaker 3: or at Billy on the radio. At Billy on the
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  Speaker 3: radio on Instagram, you can send me yours. Just a
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  Speaker 3: common thing that you find disgusting. It could be totally random. Oh,
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  Speaker 3: here's a good one from Shannon in Frisco who DM'd me. Okay,
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  Speaker 3: this is a real, oh, this is so true. You
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  Speaker 3: ready for this? She said, this is just disgusting to
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  Speaker 3: me when it happens. What? Sitting in a now warm
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  Speaker 3: seat that someone was just in.
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  Speaker 5: Oh, my God!
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  Speaker 3: Oh, my God.
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  Speaker 4: Oh.
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  Speaker 3: That will instantly just make me cringe.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: When you sit down and you know.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, I got to move.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I got to move.
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  Speaker 3: I'm getting up immediately. It needs to be room temperature. Oh,
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  Speaker 3: my gosh. That's disgusting. Okay. Here's another good one. Oh,
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  Speaker 3: Andrea Mansfield says she's disgusted by escalator handrails.
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  Speaker 5: Oh.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, yeah. Okay. I bet you those are nasty.
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  Speaker 5: Oh.
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  Speaker 1: No one's out here sanitizing those. Yeah.
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  Speaker 7: I always hold Enzo's hand and I'm like, make sure
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  Speaker 7: mommy doesn't fall.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly. Don't touch that. Okay, here's another good one.
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  Speaker 3: And this is from Maria. Maria in Arlington, she said, okay,
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  Speaker 3: a random hair on a bar of soap freaks me out. Oh!
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  Speaker 2: The new Mix 102.9. We promise you'll feel better.
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  Speaker 5: Welcome to Dirty Little Secrets.
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  Speaker 3: Morning, it's Billy the Kid. Candice Lopez is here. Producer
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  Speaker 3: Pooh is here. And we got your secrets. If you
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  Speaker 3: have a dirty little secret you want to confess, this
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  Speaker 3: is what we do. 833-787-1029. Or you can hit me
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  Speaker 3: up on Instagram. Sometimes we set it up that way.
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  Speaker 5: Yep.
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  Speaker 3: At Billy on the radio. Or sometimes people call Candice
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  Speaker 3: and they're like, you know, I'd rather set it up
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  Speaker 3: with you. And they'll DM you at CandiceOnAir.com. Whatever works.
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  Speaker 3: You have one. What's going on? Yeah.
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  Speaker 8: So I'm going to get it off my chest. I mean,
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  Speaker 8: I know I am being pretty petty. I will admit it.
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  Speaker 3: All right.
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  Speaker 8: But basically, I'm I've been taking the guy that I
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  Speaker 8: just started seeing to the bar that my ex works at.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, why? On purpose.
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  Speaker 5: For what?
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  Speaker 3: On purpose.
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  Speaker 8: I know, yeah, I know.
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  Speaker 3: It's petty, I know.
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  Speaker 8: And I've done it, like, three times already. Not because
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  Speaker 8: I like him. I honestly don't. Like, he's all looks
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  Speaker 8: and no depth whatsoever, but that's exactly the point.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, what?
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  Speaker 8: He's tall and hot.
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  Speaker 3: Okay. And.
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  Speaker 8: Literally just the kind of man that people turn to
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  Speaker 8: stare at when he walks in type guy. So perfect
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  Speaker 8: for what I need. You know, he may not be
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  Speaker 8: the smartest guy.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, my God.
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  Speaker 8: I'm not going to lie. Like, I'm not sure we
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  Speaker 8: have really anything in common.
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  Speaker 3: So hold on.
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  Speaker 1: You're using him.
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  Speaker 5: Don't.
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  Speaker 3: I feel bad for this guy. So you're saying that
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  Speaker 3: you're dating this. So for a minute, I'm like, oh,
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  Speaker 3: she doesn't like her ex. You mean you don't even
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  Speaker 3: like the guy you're really dating. You're just using him
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  Speaker 3: because he's arm candy pretty much.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, basically. Basically, I mean, like, for example, like last
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  Speaker 8: time we went in the second that we step inside,
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  Speaker 8: I fought my ex. He's behind the bar and he's
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  Speaker 8: pretending to not notice me while he's wiping down the
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  Speaker 8: same glass over and over again. And I just sort
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  Speaker 8: of slide onto a stool. I lean in close to
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  Speaker 8: my date. I laugh at something that wasn't even funny.
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  Speaker 8: And I know, I know it's the best, but you
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  Speaker 8: know what? That's what my ex gets for pretty much
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  Speaker 8: ignoring me for two years and not treating me right.
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  Speaker 8: So he deserves this torture. And the plan is working perfectly.
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  Speaker 3: It sounds like you're getting whatever you need out of it.
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  Speaker 3: That's for sure. So the guy that you're seeing doesn't
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  Speaker 3: even know this is your ex. You're not even like
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  Speaker 3: talking about it. You're just showing up and like, hey,
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  Speaker 3: this is my spot. Here I am. And, you know,
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  Speaker 3: it's where I hang out.
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  Speaker 8: He has no idea.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Poor guy. So you can't learn to like this guy.
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  Speaker 3: You know, you can't even maybe he'll grow on you
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  Speaker 3: if he's hot. And I guess. But maybe not.
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  Speaker 5: Maybe.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe.
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  Speaker 8: I mean, the brains aren't there.
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  Speaker 3: The brains aren't there. Yeah, compatibility.
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  Speaker 8: I'm not sure that compatibility.
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  Speaker 9: Is really, really, truly it.
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  Speaker 8: But you know what? For right now, he's doing the
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  Speaker 8: job that needs to be done.
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  Speaker 3: Okay.
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  Speaker 8: And that's me. dirty little secret.
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  Speaker 3: There you go that's and it's a good one and
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  Speaker 3: at least you set it up to go hey i
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  Speaker 3: know i'm being petty because you are oh yeah um
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  Speaker 3: i super hey if this guy's well let's just say
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  Speaker 3: if this guy's dumb does he even care if he's just.
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  Speaker 1: You know he cares he probably is never gonna.
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  Speaker 3: Know like he's going out he's hanging out with you
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  Speaker 3: you know he's like me me have fun Why don't
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  Speaker 3: I picture Travis Kelsey? There he goes. Me, me have fun. Me,
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  Speaker 3: me have fun. Me go out to bar.
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  Speaker 8: Oh my God.
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  Speaker 3: Me hot. Me caveman. Me caveman. Me, you come with me.
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  Speaker 3: Me eat, me drink. Oh, man. Well, good luck. Let
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  Speaker 3: us know what happens. And, yeah, you're obviously not going
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  Speaker 3: to do this forever. But if this is your way. Hey,
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  Speaker 3: everybody kind of, you know, gets over things in their
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  Speaker 3: own way. And this is your way. I'm not hating
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  Speaker 3: on it. Whatever. Right. Well, thank you.
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  Speaker 8: I appreciate you for not making me feel worse.
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  Speaker 3: And good luck.
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  Speaker 5: I already do.
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  Speaker 3: No, good luck. And I hope you get over this guy.
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  Speaker 3: But until you move on, you're really never going to
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  Speaker 3: get over this guy. Until you stop doing this, you're
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  Speaker 3: not over it.
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  Speaker 1: Because the energy is still towards him.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it is. Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: I know.
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  Speaker 3: I know.
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  Speaker 9: You're right.
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  Speaker 3: That is true. That is true. And at some point,
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  Speaker 3: your ex is going to be like, she can't get
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  Speaker 3: over me. Like, she comes in all the time. She
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  Speaker 3: still loves me. So now is probably the time to go, okay, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: I had my fun with it. Now I'm out. He
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  Speaker 3: knows I'm with a hot dude.
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  Speaker 1: Right.
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  Speaker 3: And I'm gone. Bye. Whatever you decide to do, good luck,
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  Speaker 3: and I hope it works out for you. And thank
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  Speaker 3: you for your dirty little secret.
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  Speaker 8: Well, thank you for letting me get it off my chest.
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  Speaker 3: Absolutely.
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  Speaker 10: All right.
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  Speaker 4: It's time for Candace Court.
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  Speaker 5: It gets settled here with Billy the Kid in the morning.
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  Speaker 3: Candace Court, all rise for the Honorable Judge Candace Lopez.
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  Speaker 3: Welcome to court. Let's get down to business. If you've
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  Speaker 3: got a problem for Candace, reach out anytime you want.
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  Speaker 3: At Candace on air, on Instagram, at Candace on air.
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  Speaker 3: She's very smart when it comes to issues. I go
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  Speaker 3: to her for advice all the time. If I have
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  Speaker 3: an issue, I mean, no offense, poo, I go straight
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  Speaker 3: to Candace. She just gives very good advice.
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  Speaker 1: I do my best.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, she gives good. She's a mom. Yeah. She's also like,
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  Speaker 3: you know, been through a lot and she just knows.
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  Speaker 3: She knows us very well. Yes, she does. So let
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  Speaker 3: me read this message from this woman. It says, so
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  Speaker 3: I feel the need to call out all guys who
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  Speaker 3: do this because I went on a date recently and
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  Speaker 3: it was fine. We had dinner and the conversation was okay.
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  Speaker 3: Nothing groundbreaking. And he paid for the date, which was nice.
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  Speaker 3: So nice. And some points for that. But here's the thing.
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  Speaker 3: The moment he pulled up to pick me up, I
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  Speaker 3: felt that little internal cringe. Oh, no. He was driving
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  Speaker 3: this massive lifted F-250 truck. Okay. Not just lifted, she says.
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  Speaker 3: Not just lifted. Absurdly lifted.
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  Speaker 5: Oh.
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  Speaker 3: And to top it off, it had lime green lights
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  Speaker 3: glowing all around it.
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  Speaker 2: Oh.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, come on. It was like the truck was
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  Speaker 3: screaming for attention before he even stepped out. I get it.
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  Speaker 3: Some people are into their vehicles, but this felt like
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  Speaker 3: something straight out of a college frat party. And he's 37. Oh, okay.
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  Speaker 3: 37 years old. At that age, you'd think he'd, you know,
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  Speaker 3: the need to show off with neon lights and a
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  Speaker 3: monster truck vibe would be faded. One of my girlfriends
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  Speaker 3: dated a guy who drove a lifted truck and said
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  Speaker 3: he was the biggest jerk ever. It just gives me
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  Speaker 3: the ick. I know I'm a little bit picky, but
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  Speaker 3: am I being unreasonable with hating this? Oh, this is
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  Speaker 3: a very good one. Candice. When you hear this, your
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  Speaker 3: initial thoughts. You're a car person. You love cars.
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  Speaker 1: I am, yeah. And I love when I see those.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, cool. Enzo loves them.
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  Speaker 7: He's totally into, like, all of the Fast and the
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  Speaker 7: Furious vibes. Cars with lights underneath and cool stuff like that.
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  Speaker 3: And this is Texas.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, there's lifted trucks everywhere.
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  Speaker 7: So I feel like when you meet a guy and
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  Speaker 7: you decide you're going to go out, you have a
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  Speaker 7: spark or connection, you kind of know if he's a
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  Speaker 7: lifted truck kind of guy.
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  Speaker 1: Don't you usually get that vibe sometimes?
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  Speaker 3: You kind of... I feel like you do, but there's
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  Speaker 3: different lifted truck guys, too.
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  Speaker 1: That's true.
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  Speaker 3: There's a lifted truck guy, and I just have a
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  Speaker 3: lifted truck. Then there's a lifted truck guy with lights underneath.
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  Speaker 3: Then there's a lifted truck guy with lights underneath and
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  Speaker 3: a monster sticker.
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  Speaker 1: Right.
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  Speaker 3: On the back.
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  Speaker 1: That is a good point. Or truck nuts.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 7: Oh, that's... Yeah, that's a whole nother conversation. But does
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  Speaker 7: it have running boards? I'm like, is it easy for
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  Speaker 7: you to get into?
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  Speaker 3: Sure. I'm sure it does. I'm sure it has to.
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  Speaker 5: Right.
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  Speaker 3: And yeah, that's another thing. It's it's not the most
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  Speaker 3: easy vehicle for a first date, especially if a lady's
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  Speaker 3: wearing a dress.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: You know, he better get out and help her.
• 13:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure.
• 13:29
  Speaker 3: Get out. Walk to the other side. Bring a stepladder.
• 13:33
  Speaker 4: Right.
• 13:34
  Speaker 3: Some sort of lift.
• 13:35
  Speaker 1: I mean, some women are like, if I have.
• 13:37
  Speaker 7: To grab onto a handle to get into your vehicle,
• 13:40
  Speaker 7: it's a little inconvenient.
• 13:42
  Speaker 1: But I mean, these are, you know, concessions you make for.
• 13:45
  Speaker 3: But is there any any legitimate reason to kind of
• 13:49
  Speaker 3: judge someone by their vehicle?
• 13:51
  Speaker 7: I mean, it says a lot about them and their
• 13:53
  Speaker 7: personality and what they're into. I mean, it's a good
• 13:55
  Speaker 7: gauge of whether we're going to connect or not.
• 13:58
  Speaker 3: Yeah. You think so?
• 13:59
  Speaker 7: You can't judge, but you have to take it into consideration.
• 14:02
  Speaker 7: That's like your biggest accessory, if you will.
• 14:06
  Speaker 3: Let me ask you this. Well, then what car, as
• 14:08
  Speaker 3: a woman, what kind of car gives you a red
• 14:10
  Speaker 3: flag when it comes to a man that you see
• 14:12
  Speaker 3: and you're like, oh, no, can't do it?
• 14:13
  Speaker 7: Yeah, well, I have heard of guys driving minivans, and
• 14:17
  Speaker 7: they don't have kids, but they don't have kids.
• 14:20
  Speaker 5: What?
• 14:21
  Speaker 1: And I feel like that's kind of a red flag
• 14:22
  Speaker 1: for sure.
• 14:23
  Speaker 3: So if you see a guy rolling around in a
• 14:25
  Speaker 3: minivan with no kids, you're like, oh, red flag.
• 14:28
  Speaker 1: Huh, interesting.
• 14:29
  Speaker 3: Creepy. Okay.
• 14:30
  Speaker 1: If he's Ubering, okay. A Pacifica. That's your vibe.
• 14:35
  Speaker 3: What about a big white van with no windows? Yeah, exactly.
• 14:38
  Speaker 3: That says free candy. Although... Creepy.
• 14:41
  Speaker 7: I will say, though, that Eric used to have a
• 14:43
  Speaker 7: white van with no windows for one of his businesses.
• 14:46
  Speaker 1: It was like a cargo van.
• 14:47
  Speaker 7: And so sometimes I would ride in there with him
• 14:49
  Speaker 7: back in the day. You know, if he was like
• 14:51
  Speaker 7: moving some stuff for the job.
• 14:53
  Speaker 3: That's like a work van. He wouldn't pick you up
• 14:55
  Speaker 3: in a date, first date.
• 14:56
  Speaker 1: No, not in a first date.
• 14:58
  Speaker 3: With that. I mean, I wonder if it goes the
• 14:59
  Speaker 3: same way with men and women. Like, there's certain red
• 15:03
  Speaker 3: flags that you see. Oh, I'll tell you. What?
• 15:05
  Speaker 4: Me.
• 15:06
  Speaker 3: What? Ultima. Ultima. And them girls roll up with that
• 15:10
  Speaker 3: ultimate energy?
• 15:11
  Speaker 5: Yeah, bro.
• 15:12
  Speaker 3: Oh, big ultimate energy is a real thing. Yeah, that
• 15:14
  Speaker 3: ultimate energy. I used to not believe it, but every
• 15:16
  Speaker 3: time I see an ultimate now, I just change lanes.
• 15:19
  Speaker 7: I mean, one passed me yesterday, and the whole rim
• 15:21
  Speaker 7: was busted, and the back left fender was torn off.
• 15:25
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 15:26
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 15:26
  Speaker 3: I feel like they're living lawless. Yeah. I figure if
• 15:29
  Speaker 3: they hit you, it's like, whatever. Yeah. All tomorrow, Honda Civic. Oh,
• 15:34
  Speaker 3: Honda Civic. Yeah.
• 15:37
  Speaker 4: No.
• 15:38
  Speaker 3: Usually girls that drive Honda Civics are strippers. I mean,
• 15:42
  Speaker 3: that's just ridiculous. That's not true. In my past. That's
• 15:46
  Speaker 3: not true. In my past. You're ridiculous.
• 15:48
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 15:49
  Speaker 3: That's usually a Benz.
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: That was one.
• 15:50
  Speaker 3: He said a Benz. Anyway. I get nervous when I
• 15:53
  Speaker 3: see the girls who have eyelashes on their car.
• 15:55
  Speaker 11: Oh, yeah.
• 15:56
  Speaker 3: On their headlights.
• 15:57
  Speaker 1: Like a little Volkswagen Beetle.
• 15:59
  Speaker 3: Do you remember when that was a big deal?
• 16:01
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 16:01
  Speaker 3: Now they just put those size eyelashes on their face. Yeah.
• 16:05
  Speaker 3: It doesn't even. Walking around looking like Swiffers. This is
• 16:10
  Speaker 3: a good question, though. I wonder, ladies, is there a
• 16:13
  Speaker 3: certain car that you judge a guy by, 833-787-1029, that
• 16:16
  Speaker 3: if he pulls up and you're like, oh, no, I'm
• 16:19
  Speaker 3: not doing it. I can't do it right off the gate. Nope,
• 16:23
  Speaker 3: not going to happen. In this case, it's a... It's
• 16:26
  Speaker 3: a big truck lifted with lights. And she doesn't like it.
• 16:29
  Speaker 3: She's like, am I wrong for giving me the cringe?
• 16:32
  Speaker 3: Candace Lopez, do we have a verdict?
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: We do have a verdict.
• 16:35
  Speaker 7: I mean, this guy is guilty of being a 4x4 Frank.
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: I mean, you do you.
• 16:41
  Speaker 7: It might be off-putting for some women, but hang in
• 16:43
  Speaker 7: there because you'll find you're one that likes your lights.
• 16:45
  Speaker 3: You're not going to really, hold on, you're really not
• 16:47
  Speaker 3: going to date this guy because he's a 4x4 prank?
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: He's a 4x4, it is what it is.
• 16:52
  Speaker 7: Like, you either take it or leave it for her,
• 16:55
  Speaker 7: you know?
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: Can you get used to his lights or not?
• 16:57
  Speaker 3: What if he turns the lights off on the date?
• 17:01
  Speaker 7: I mean, he shouldn't change his truck for her, and
• 17:03
  Speaker 7: she shouldn't expect him to, really.
• 17:05
  Speaker 3: Okay, there you go.
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: Maybe he's not for you.
• 17:07
  Speaker 3: You sure it's a 4x4 Frank?
• 17:09
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 17:09
  Speaker 3: And it's not a monster truck Matt?
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: He's both, yeah.
• 17:12
  Speaker 3: 102.9 the new mix 102.9 put it off your chest
• 17:19
  Speaker 3: we promise you'll.
• 17:20
  Speaker 5: Feel better welcome to dirty little secret.
• 17:22
  Speaker 3: Hopefully you are having a good morning so far it's
• 17:25
  Speaker 3: the new mix 102.9 daily to kid candace lopez producer
• 17:28
  Speaker 3: poo is here and your secrets anytime you want at
• 17:31
  Speaker 3: 833-787-1029 okay make them good they can be big secrets
• 17:34
  Speaker 3: they can be little secrets doesn't matter what it is
• 17:36
  Speaker 3: yeah honestly we've been getting some good ones lately i
• 17:38
  Speaker 3: will say that so uh now you have one how
• 17:41
  Speaker 3: are you Good, how you doing? I'm good. Okay, so
• 17:44
  Speaker 3: you have a, you got a secret. What's up? You
• 17:46
  Speaker 3: don't sound like the guy to keep secrets from people. Well,
• 17:51
  Speaker 3: I do.
• 17:52
  Speaker 11: I have one. I feel like the worst husband ever.
• 17:56
  Speaker 11: I literally never lie to my wife. But here we go.
• 18:00
  Speaker 3: But here we go. No, I'm just kidding. Okay, so
• 18:03
  Speaker 3: you never lie to her, but you're lying to her
• 18:06
  Speaker 3: about something now.
• 18:07
  Speaker 11: Yeah, I feel like my life might be a little justified.
• 18:11
  Speaker 3: I mean, like she's.
• 18:12
  Speaker 11: Generally kind of controlling and she always has been. And
• 18:16
  Speaker 11: she says it's for my own good. But basically a
• 18:19
  Speaker 11: couple months ago, she told me like I couldn't eat
• 18:21
  Speaker 11: out anymore because like I always go out to eat
• 18:24
  Speaker 11: for lunch at work.
• 18:26
  Speaker 3: And, you know, she handles all.
• 18:28
  Speaker 11: The finances and want to save money. It was like,
• 18:31
  Speaker 11: you got to stop going out to eat.
• 18:33
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 18:34
  Speaker 11: You know, it's not like I'm eating out every day
• 18:35
  Speaker 11: at fancy places or anything. But my secret is I'm
• 18:38
  Speaker 11: still eating out once a week with my guy friends
• 18:41
  Speaker 11: from work. And they know the situation and pretty much, like,
• 18:46
  Speaker 11: make fun of me about it. They all chip in
• 18:48
  Speaker 11: and cover my lunch for me, which is cool.
• 18:50
  Speaker 5: Whoa.
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 18:52
  Speaker 3: That's a nice little thing to get paid for.
• 18:56
  Speaker 11: Oh, they're super cool about it. I mean, she, like,
• 18:59
  Speaker 11: what she'd be pissed about, she'd be very mad about
• 19:02
  Speaker 11: where we're going.
• 19:04
  Speaker 3: Oh, God. Oh, God. Hooters. Hooters. No, no, it's not Hooters.
• 19:11
  Speaker 3: It's actually better.
• 19:12
  Speaker 11: It's the Rowdy Cowboy grapevine.
• 19:14
  Speaker 3: The what?
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: Oh.
• 19:16
  Speaker 3: But they wear less.
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: Wait, what is it called?
• 19:19
  Speaker 3: Rowdy Cowboy. Candace, you don't know Rowdy Cowboy?
• 19:22
  Speaker 5: No.
• 19:22
  Speaker 3: You don't know about the Rowdy Cowboy?
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: What is Rowdy Cowboy?
• 19:25
  Speaker 5: Oh.
• 19:25
  Speaker 3: I mean, I go for the food. Yeah, of course.
• 19:28
  Speaker 5: They got good food.
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: Okay, so it's one of those places.
• 19:29
  Speaker 3: No, it's not.
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: I mean.
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: Like Twin Peaks or.
• 19:32
  Speaker 3: It's... I mean, I've only been there a couple times.
• 19:35
  Speaker 3: I'm not a regular by any means, but I actually
• 19:37
  Speaker 3: went with a friend that didn't know what it was.
• 19:39
  Speaker 3: I thought it was like a country bar.
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 19:41
  Speaker 3: But when you show up, it's a restaurant with a
• 19:45
  Speaker 3: theme of beautiful women.
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 19:48
  Speaker 3: I mean, they're close. I don't want to say. Oh,
• 20:00
  Speaker 3: I wasn't looking at the girls, but.
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: That means the girls' girls, you know what I'm saying?
• 20:03
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I was looking at the food. I was looking
• 20:05
  Speaker 3: at the menu. I never looked up, actually. Okay. No, so.
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: Every week?
• 20:11
  Speaker 3: Oh, yeah.
• 20:12
  Speaker 11: I'm going at least, yeah, every week.
• 20:14
  Speaker 5: God.
• 20:16
  Speaker 3: So the real problem here is, first of all, is
• 20:19
  Speaker 3: that controlling if your wife tells you not to eat
• 20:22
  Speaker 3: out anymore?
• 20:23
  Speaker 7: Well, I mean, if she's trying to, you know, watch
• 20:25
  Speaker 7: the finances, yeah, we should pull back from eating out
• 20:28
  Speaker 7: a little bit.
• 20:29
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: You know, that's normal.
• 20:31
  Speaker 3: That's not a huge lie that you're still going out
• 20:32
  Speaker 3: to eat. I mean, your buddies are paying for it,
• 20:34
  Speaker 3: so what would she care? The real problem is where
• 20:37
  Speaker 3: you're going, she would not like that.
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 20:39
  Speaker 11: Yeah, I can see that.
• 20:41
  Speaker 3: How do you know she would be mad, though?
• 20:44
  Speaker 11: I think if you met my wife, you might.
• 20:47
  Speaker 3: Really?
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: Maybe she's more controlling than normal.
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: Some ladies do not care if they're like that place
• 20:54
  Speaker 3: is packed full of people. There's women there, by the way,
• 20:56
  Speaker 3: eating as customers. So, I mean, I don't know if
• 20:59
  Speaker 3: like would you be upset, Candace, if your husband went
• 21:01
  Speaker 3: to Rowdy Cowboy?
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: I mean, it definitely give me the ick every week.
• 21:04
  Speaker 3: Well, every week.
• 21:05
  Speaker 7: That's like your spot with the boys? Once for like
• 21:07
  Speaker 7: a birthday or something.
• 21:09
  Speaker 3: Watch football.
• 21:11
  Speaker 7: Let me go and check the food out and make
• 21:12
  Speaker 7: sure that it's actually like worth it.
• 21:14
  Speaker 3: No, the food's good.
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 21:16
  Speaker 3: It is good food, though. Yeah. So you're not going
• 21:19
  Speaker 3: to tell her?
• 21:19
  Speaker 11: That's pretty much where I'm at. Lena Tore's not telling her.
• 21:23
  Speaker 3: Have you ever been to like Hooters or something? Yeah.
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: Yes.
• 21:26
  Speaker 10: Yeah.
• 21:27
  Speaker 8: She's not into it.
• 21:31
  Speaker 10: Like, I went to eaters once with the boys, and
• 21:33
  Speaker 10: she thought it.
• 21:33
  Speaker 11: Was, like, the end of our relationship, honestly. Like, that
• 21:35
  Speaker 11: was such a big deal.
• 21:37
  Speaker 3: Oh, really? Yeah, she got, like, trashy restaurants. That's what
• 21:40
  Speaker 3: she calls them.
• 21:41
  Speaker 11: Equal to strip club in her mind.
• 21:44
  Speaker 3: Oh, come on.
• 21:45
  Speaker 5: Not a strip club.
• 21:46
  Speaker 3: That's not the same.
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: That's not the same, no.
• 21:49
  Speaker 11: I mean, I love her, but, like, it's easier for
• 21:54
  Speaker 11: the white lie.
• 21:55
  Speaker 7: Okay.
• 21:56
  Speaker 3: All right, man. Sure. Well, hopefully you feel better getting
• 21:59
  Speaker 3: it off your chest. No pun intended. Well, I'm just saying.
• 22:05
  Speaker 7: There's so many places to eat. Like if you go
• 22:07
  Speaker 7: to rowdy cowboy once or once.
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: You know, in a while, that's okay. It is what
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: it is.
• 22:12
  Speaker 7: But that's your thing every Friday with your boys.
• 22:15
  Speaker 3: Like, No, maybe they like certain foods that are only there.
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: I'm sure.
• 22:20
  Speaker 3: Certain kind of burgers. And the beer is cold there.
• 22:22
  Speaker 3: The beer is extra cold there.
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: No one has cold beer in Dallas, Fort Worth. Or
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: wings or cheese fries.
• 22:29
  Speaker 3: Are you looking at the menu?
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: No.
• 22:32
  Speaker 3: Candace is notorious for pulling up the menu at every
• 22:34
  Speaker 3: place and looking at it. Okay, well, sir, thank you.
• 22:37
  Speaker 3: We appreciate your dirty little secret. If you end up
• 22:39
  Speaker 3: telling her, please let us know what she does, okay?
• 22:42
  Speaker 3: You got it. Thanks, guys. Now, is that considered cheating?
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: No.
• 22:48
  Speaker 3: It's not. You're not telling your wife something. It's not cheating.
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: It's just dishonest.
• 22:53
  Speaker 3: And it's at an establishment where there's attractive women who
• 22:58
  Speaker 3: aren't necessarily, I mean, they're clothed, but, you know, not like.
• 23:02
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 23:03
  Speaker 3: Is that micro-cheating? Is that micro-cheating?
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: I mean, you're keeping a secret.
• 23:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you're keeping a cringey secret.
• 23:10
  Speaker 3: A cringey secret.
• 23:11
  Speaker 10: Yeah.
• 23:12
  Speaker 3: Now I'm craving Rowdy Cowboys. Yeah.
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: I know.
• 23:14
  Speaker 3: Candace, you want to go there for lunch? No.
• 23:15
  Speaker 4: No.
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: The new Mix 102.9.
• 23:19
  Speaker 3: Ready?
• 23:20
  Speaker 5: All rise. It's time for Candace Court.
• 23:24
  Speaker 4: It gets settled here with Billy the Kid in the morning.
• 23:27
  Speaker 3: Who didn't rise? Who didn't rise, Judge? All rise. Contempt
• 23:33
  Speaker 3: of court. Throw him in jail. Blue stare. Mix 102.9.
• 23:37
  Speaker 3: It's Billy the Kid, Candice Lopez, producer Pooh. Okay, Candice Court,
• 23:40
  Speaker 3: if you've got a problem you want Candice to solve,
• 23:42
  Speaker 3: at Candice on air on Instagram. Hit her up at
• 23:45
  Speaker 3: Candice on air. She will help you. She is the
• 23:47
  Speaker 3: smart one on the show with good morals.
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: Okay, thanks.
• 23:51
  Speaker 3: Everyone else on the show is an idiot. No. Including me.
• 23:56
  Speaker 3: All right, you ready? Dear Judge Candace, I'm at my
• 23:58
  Speaker 3: breaking point. My husband was in a car wreck about
• 24:01
  Speaker 3: a month ago. The airbag deployed, and yes, he had
• 24:05
  Speaker 3: some scrapes and spent one night in the hospital, but
• 24:07
  Speaker 3: that was it. I love how she's like, that was it.
• 24:10
  Speaker 3: That's a big deal. If you're in a car wreck.
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, a night in the hospital is awful
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: for anybody.
• 24:15
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 24:15
  Speaker 3: Of course. She goes, but that was it. Nothing major.
• 24:18
  Speaker 3: Thank God. But ever since then, he's been glued to
• 24:21
  Speaker 3: the couch like he's completely helpless. I keep telling him,
• 24:26
  Speaker 3: you need to do some kind of therapy or at
• 24:28
  Speaker 3: least move around. But he refuses. He says I should
• 24:32
  Speaker 3: cater to him the way he catered to me when
• 24:35
  Speaker 3: I was pregnant.
• 24:37
  Speaker 5: Whoa.
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: Whoa.
• 24:40
  Speaker 5: What?
• 24:43
  Speaker 3: That is a bold move, my guy.
• 24:45
  Speaker 5: Yes, it is.
• 24:46
  Speaker 3: He says, I should cater to him the way he
• 24:50
  Speaker 3: catered to me when I was pregnant. She says, dot, dot, dot.
• 24:54
  Speaker 3: Our kid is 12 now. That was forever ago. And honestly,
• 24:58
  Speaker 3: there's no comparison. I'm trying to be patient, but I'm
• 25:02
  Speaker 3: getting fed up. I'm trying not to lose my cool.
• 25:06
  Speaker 3: He's skating on thin ice.
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: You're skating on thin ice, Ryder.
• 25:11
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, I added the thin ice part. Okay. That's
• 25:15
  Speaker 3: my saying.
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we heard you say that to your son.
• 25:17
  Speaker 3: Candace made fun of me so hard.
• 25:18
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 25:19
  Speaker 3: Said it was an old person saying.
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: It is.
• 25:21
  Speaker 3: Whatever. I just want to motivate him to get up
• 25:24
  Speaker 3: and start living again. Come on, let's make it happen.
• 25:27
  Speaker 3: Judge Candace, am I wrong? Oh, this is a very
• 25:30
  Speaker 3: good one. Candace, your initial thoughts when you hear this.
• 25:33
  Speaker 3: Is there any way you could compare somebody being in
• 25:36
  Speaker 3: an accident and he's, you know, not feeling quite like
• 25:39
  Speaker 3: himself after a month or so and he's been glued
• 25:42
  Speaker 3: to the couch to being pregnant?
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: No, not in this case.
• 25:46
  Speaker 7: I mean, you didn't just cater to me when I
• 25:48
  Speaker 7: was pregnant. You catered to our son who is inside
• 25:50
  Speaker 7: my belly, which is even a bigger deal than your
• 25:54
  Speaker 7: couch glue. That's happening right now after your accident. Now,
• 25:57
  Speaker 7: I'm not saying the accident wasn't bad. If it put
• 25:58
  Speaker 7: you in the hospital for a night, it was pretty serious.
• 26:01
  Speaker 5: Sure.
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: You know, as far as just, you know, fender benders
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: and accidents go. But she said it was nothing major. Right.
• 26:07
  Speaker 3: Nothing major.
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: Absolutely. Major, major, major.
• 26:10
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 26:10
  Speaker 3: You can't say being pregnant's not major. Yeah. I mean,
• 26:13
  Speaker 3: the fact that he's he's can we all just say
• 26:16
  Speaker 3: he's milking it? Oh, come on. A little bit.
• 26:19
  Speaker 6: It's not— you can't compare it to having a baby.
• 26:22
  Speaker 3: But come on, help a brother out. Like, I'm hurt.
• 26:25
  Speaker 3: I mean— Look how she just slid past. He spent
• 26:27
  Speaker 3: the night in the hospital. No big deal. Girl, I
• 26:31
  Speaker 3: spent the night in the hospital.
• 26:32
  Speaker 5: I'm hurt.
• 26:32
  Speaker 3: It was one night. This has been a month.
• 26:34
  Speaker 7: It's not a small deal, but compared to, like, pregnancy
• 26:37
  Speaker 7: and birthing and stuff.
• 26:38
  Speaker 3: It's not major. I'm on Candace's side. Listen, who also
• 26:42
  Speaker 3: thinks pregnancy is easy?
• 26:43
  Speaker 6: No, I recanted my statement after Kansas shocked me.
• 26:48
  Speaker 3: We hooked him up to a pregnancy simulator.
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: I turned it on full blast.
• 26:52
  Speaker 3: Which, by the way, I had experts say that you
• 26:55
  Speaker 3: shouldn't have done that, Candace.
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: No, it's probably true.
• 26:59
  Speaker 3: Pregnancy changes soon. But he did.
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: And he has three kids.
• 27:02
  Speaker 7: And you would think you would have more experience than
• 27:04
  Speaker 7: any of us in what goes into all this.
• 27:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that is true. So didn't you cater to the
• 27:10
  Speaker 3: child of your mother's child? Yeah, but she would do
• 27:13
  Speaker 3: the same for me if I had been in a wreck.
• 27:15
  Speaker 3: I know that.
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: Maybe for like a week or so.
• 27:18
  Speaker 3: If it's been a week. She wouldn't have. All you
• 27:20
  Speaker 3: had to do was just, I mean, come on. She's
• 27:22
  Speaker 3: complaining about it.
• 27:22
  Speaker 7: But if he's not doing anything to help himself, then
• 27:25
  Speaker 7: what are you doing?
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: Like, take therapy. Do what you got to do. I
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: don't know what's involved in the recovery because we don't
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: know what this was.
• 27:30
  Speaker 3: Sometimes it takes people a little bit longer. Guys are not.
• 27:34
  Speaker 3: I know we're tough. Like, men are tough when it
• 27:37
  Speaker 3: comes to certain things.
• 27:38
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 27:38
  Speaker 3: People get hit on the head, break a bone, walk
• 27:41
  Speaker 3: it off. There's certain things like a common cold.
• 27:43
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 27:44
  Speaker 3: Yeah. We just can't get over. Yeah, we're sick.
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: No, I've noticed. For sure.
• 27:49
  Speaker 3: At home, at work. Wait a minute.
• 27:50
  Speaker 5: Hold on.
• 27:51
  Speaker 3: We're sick. What do you mean it works? It's a change.
• 27:53
  Speaker 3: We're not as strong. So be the nurturer. Come on
• 27:56
  Speaker 3: and hook your boy up.
• 27:57
  Speaker 7: We're just used to not being like our best every month,
• 28:00
  Speaker 7: every whatever we're going through in our season.
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: And we're built tough. We're built different.
• 28:05
  Speaker 7: We put up with a lot of stuff from the
• 28:06
  Speaker 7: age of, you know, 10, 11, 12.
• 28:08
  Speaker 3: You know what, Candace? That's a good point.
• 28:10
  Speaker 7: That build us for, you know, to resilience and to
• 28:13
  Speaker 7: be stronger than the average.
• 28:15
  Speaker 3: You said it right there. You're built different.
• 28:17
  Speaker 4: Okay.
• 28:18
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Take care of your boy.
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: We will build yourself different.
• 28:21
  Speaker 3: Build yourself more.
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: Put yourself through a lot of stress.
• 28:25
  Speaker 3: I never really thought about that. You get sick pretty
• 28:27
  Speaker 3: much every month. Yeah. I never thought about it that way.
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: So we grow tough because of it.
• 28:33
  Speaker 3: You're built for tough.
• 28:34
  Speaker 9: We are.
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: We are.
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: We just are. I mean, be honest. We can put
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: up with a lot more.
• 28:39
  Speaker 3: Janice, I'm not arguing with you. I'm on your side.
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: My pain tolerance is pretty high. So you know when
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: I call it, that's a big deal.
• 28:45
  Speaker 3: I think your pain tolerance is definitely higher than mine
• 28:47
  Speaker 3: or Pooh's. I think most women have a high pain tolerance.
• 28:51
  Speaker 3: The fact that you can give birth is something I
• 28:53
  Speaker 3: could never do. Right. I'm scared.
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: You should be.
• 28:56
  Speaker 3: I would be terrified.
• 28:57
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 28:58
  Speaker 3: Even the thought of it makes me want to cry. Yeah. So...
• 29:01
  Speaker 3: I hear you. Look at me, Candace.
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah, are you okay?
• 29:04
  Speaker 3: We're friends.
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: Do you need a day off?
• 29:06
  Speaker 3: He's the enemy. No, I'm not the enemy. I'm just saying.
• 29:09
  Speaker 3: Just cater to me a little bit and then give
• 29:11
  Speaker 3: me a little nudge. She has been for a month.
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: Right, she's over it.
• 29:14
  Speaker 3: The verdict is in. Candace, go ahead.
• 29:16
  Speaker 7: Yeah, this guy's guilty of being a milk martin.
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: Unless you're sitting on a.
• 29:21
  Speaker 7: Donut for a month or doing pelvic floor therapy for
• 29:24
  Speaker 7: a year, we are not the same. You are milking it.
• 29:27
  Speaker 7: I think you've reached the end of the milk. The
• 29:28
  Speaker 7: milk's run out.
• 29:29
  Speaker 3: I think it has. Yeah, it's done. Get up and live, bro.
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: She would have said.
• 29:33
  Speaker 3: If he had broken bones or something. she'd have been like, yeah,
• 29:36
  Speaker 3: I know he's got a broken bone. She said he
• 29:38
  Speaker 3: had some scrapes.
• 29:39
  Speaker 5: Right.
• 29:39
  Speaker 7: He can't, you know, bathe properly or he can't do
• 29:42
  Speaker 7: his everyday activities. Yeah, I'm going to be there for you.
• 29:44
  Speaker 7: I'm going to cater for you and help you through this.
• 29:46
  Speaker 7: We're going to get through this together.
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: But I think right now it's time to get up, sir.
• 29:50
  Speaker 3: It's time to get up.
• 29:51
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 29:51
  Speaker 3: He is guilty of being a?
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: A Milk Martin.
• 29:53
  Speaker 3: Milk Martin.
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: Just milking it out here.
• 29:55
  Speaker 3: Chase clone.
• 29:56
  Speaker 5: 102.9.
• 29:56
  Speaker 2: The new Mix 102.9. The kid in the morning is on.
• 30:02
  Speaker 2: The new Mix 102.9. Here's what we'll do.
• 30:06
  Speaker 3: Is they did this poll and they looked at how
• 30:07
  Speaker 3: many people would tell a close friend something they might
• 30:11
  Speaker 3: not want to hear.
• 30:12
  Speaker 9: Okay?
• 30:13
  Speaker 3: They did like a thousand people. They polled like a
• 30:15
  Speaker 3: thousand people. So you're going to have to give me
• 30:16
  Speaker 3: the percentage of what you think. And I'm also going
• 30:18
  Speaker 3: to ask you guys.
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: The percentage? Okay.
• 30:21
  Speaker 3: So, for example, first one. Would you tell a close friend...
• 30:25
  Speaker 3: They're in a toxic relationship. Would you tell a close
• 30:29
  Speaker 3: friend they're in a toxic relationship? How many people do
• 30:32
  Speaker 3: you think said they would?
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: I'm going to go with 62%.
• 30:36
  Speaker 3: You're going to go with 62%. All right. Mark it down.
• 30:38
  Speaker 3: Lock it in. Producer Poo, how many do you think?
• 30:40
  Speaker 3: I'm going to say like 35%. Wow. Candace is good. Candace.
• 30:45
  Speaker 5: Really?
• 30:46
  Speaker 3: Yep. You're right. Close to 74%.
• 30:48
  Speaker 2: Oh, wow.
• 30:48
  Speaker 3: So they would.
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: Good for people.
• 30:51
  Speaker 3: Would you tell someone, would you tell a friend they
• 30:53
  Speaker 3: were in a toxic relationship?
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah, in a like Candace Lopez kind of way. I
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: wouldn't be like, hey, he's toxic.
• 30:59
  Speaker 3: What's the Candace Lopez way of doing it? I don't know.
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: Just something doesn't seem right. Are you okay?
• 31:04
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you would do that. How does that make you feel?
• 31:05
  Speaker 3: I think you've done that to me, actually. Damn. Yeah.
• 31:08
  Speaker 3: Just wait a minute.
• 31:09
  Speaker 4: Dang it.
• 31:09
  Speaker 3: I think I just realized Candace told me. She's toxic. Okay, well,
• 31:15
  Speaker 3: guess what? I didn't get the hint, so thanks a lot.
• 31:20
  Speaker 5: All right.
• 31:20
  Speaker 3: Producer Poo, would you? Nah, I stay out the business. See,
• 31:23
  Speaker 3: you're not a real friend. I'm a real friend. You
• 31:25
  Speaker 3: know I am. I know you're a good friend, but
• 31:27
  Speaker 3: you gotta tell people. I would tell you.
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: Right, like, why are you such a good friend about
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: everything else? But then when it comes to someone, like,
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: being hurt.
• 31:34
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah.
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: You don't want to tell them.
• 31:36
  Speaker 3: I give them that tough love. I let them learn
• 31:38
  Speaker 3: on their own. Okay. Because I've been there before. I
• 31:40
  Speaker 3: told somebody, hey, man. Well, it doesn't matter. They're going
• 31:43
  Speaker 3: to do what they want. Exactly. But that doesn't mean
• 31:46
  Speaker 3: you shouldn't say anything.
• 31:47
  Speaker 6: And then we got in an argument over it, so
• 31:48
  Speaker 6: I'm like, you know what? I'm just not going to
• 31:51
  Speaker 6: stay out of the business.
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: That's fair.
• 31:52
  Speaker 3: Okay, I know what I mean. What about this one?
• 31:53
  Speaker 3: This is a tough one.
• 31:54
  Speaker 9: Okay.
• 31:55
  Speaker 3: Would you tell a friend they have B.O.? Would you
• 32:01
  Speaker 3: tell a friend they have BO? How many people do
• 32:04
  Speaker 3: you think said they would? Watch Candace laughing so hard.
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: Look at Candace. I thought I was good at this
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: game until now. I'm going to go with 44% would.
• 32:13
  Speaker 3: 44?
• 32:13
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 32:13
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: Producer Pooh.
• 32:14
  Speaker 8: 60 or 70.
• 32:14
  Speaker 3: Not 70%. You're going to say 70.
• 32:16
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 32:16
  Speaker 3: People, yeah. gotta tell the homies who locked this one
• 32:23
  Speaker 3: in you're right who closest the real answer was 67
• 32:28
  Speaker 3: which i don't think that's true yeah i don't either
• 32:30
  Speaker 3: how many people would now would you tell someone candace
• 32:33
  Speaker 3: lopez in a.
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: Candace lopez kind of way.
• 32:35
  Speaker 3: Yeah if one of us stunk right now lock it
• 32:38
  Speaker 3: in no producer poo and i we both have a
• 32:42
  Speaker 3: little uh musty smell to us.
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: No, I wouldn't tell you.
• 32:45
  Speaker 3: You wouldn't?
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I mean, it just depends.
• 32:48
  Speaker 7: Like, if we're just hanging out together in here, that's
• 32:50
  Speaker 7: one thing. But if we're about to go to a
• 32:51
  Speaker 7: meeting or something with other people, then I'd be.
• 32:54
  Speaker 5: Like, huh. Huh.
• 33:08
  Speaker 3: Now when we know and we hear that, that we stink?
• 33:12
  Speaker 5: Hold on.
• 33:13
  Speaker 3: Tell us again. Did one of us stink?
• 33:16
  Speaker 5: I am dead. 102.9.
• 33:17
  Speaker 3: The new Mix 102.9. This is Dirty Little Secrets. On
• 33:29
  Speaker 3: the new Mix 102.9, here we go. It's Billy the Kid,
• 33:32
  Speaker 3: Candace Lopez, Producer Pooh. If you've got a secret, bring it, okay?
• 33:35
  Speaker 3: Anytime you want, you can call us, 833-787-1029. I always
• 33:40
  Speaker 3: say big secret, little secret. I don't care. It's a
• 33:42
  Speaker 3: non-judgment zone. You can also hit me up on Instagram,
• 33:45
  Speaker 3: at Billy on the radio, and let me know there.
• 33:47
  Speaker 3: We can set it up and get you on, and
• 33:49
  Speaker 3: you have one. So how are you? I'm good.
• 33:52
  Speaker 9: I did something that's kind of messed up.
• 33:54
  Speaker 3: I like hearing that. That's the perfect way to start
• 33:57
  Speaker 3: my day. Cool. As long as it's not my life. No,
• 33:59
  Speaker 3: I'm just kidding. Okay, so you kind of messed up.
• 34:01
  Speaker 3: What do you mean you messed up? What happened?
• 34:03
  Speaker 9: I did something and I'm praying that my fiance doesn't
• 34:05
  Speaker 9: find out. And we lived together. And a few months ago,
• 34:10
  Speaker 9: we got into this biggest fight ever. And I was
• 34:14
  Speaker 9: just like thinking.
• 34:15
  Speaker 3: It was really bad. It was over.
• 34:16
  Speaker 10: So I was really pissed off.
• 34:18
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: Yikes.
• 34:19
  Speaker 3: Really pissed off. And what happened? He ended up going over.
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: Well.
• 34:24
  Speaker 9: I basically found out that right before we got engaged,
• 34:26
  Speaker 9: he lied to me and hung out with his ex
• 34:29
  Speaker 9: one night and we had a fight. Yeah. And I
• 34:33
  Speaker 9: was like, how could you not tell me that? And
• 34:38
  Speaker 9: he said they just had a drink, whatever. And I
• 34:42
  Speaker 9: don't really know what happened, but he went to stay
• 34:44
  Speaker 9: at a friend's for a while and I thought I
• 34:47
  Speaker 9: was going to move out and we were going to
• 34:48
  Speaker 9: like split forever. So long story short, I was like,
• 34:53
  Speaker 9: I started selling his stuff on Facebook Marketplace.
• 34:57
  Speaker 3: Oh, no. Talk about a clean break. Oh, I love it.
• 35:01
  Speaker 9: Yeah, I mean, I was thinking he cheated on me,
• 35:04
  Speaker 9: and I didn't care, and I was like, whatever. I
• 35:06
  Speaker 9: listed a bunch of his, like, sports memorabilia just to
• 35:09
  Speaker 9: piss him off, and then one of them, like, right
• 35:12
  Speaker 9: away was, like, like, like... you were, we're here to
• 35:15
  Speaker 9: buy it, you know, like, so I sold it. So
• 35:18
  Speaker 9: I was like, this is autographed baseball.
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: What?
• 35:21
  Speaker 3: And it was an old player. You sold one of them?
• 35:23
  Speaker 3: So you, I thought you just posted them to be
• 35:25
  Speaker 3: petty to make him mad like you were going to,
• 35:27
  Speaker 3: but you actually sold one of them.
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: Wait, who signed it?
• 35:30
  Speaker 3: I did.
• 35:33
  Speaker 9: So, um, it turns out it was Joe DiMaggio.
• 35:39
  Speaker 3: Joe DiMaggio? Are you serious?
• 35:42
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 35:43
  Speaker 3: What? That's a big, that's like an iconic.
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: Like how much is that worth?
• 35:47
  Speaker 3: Oh my God. I don't know. But how much did
• 35:49
  Speaker 3: you sell it for?
• 35:51
  Speaker 9: I knew the Nolan Ryan signed ball. I was like
• 35:53
  Speaker 9: keeping that one. I was like, you know.
• 35:55
  Speaker 2: No.
• 35:55
  Speaker 9: But I didn't know Joe DiMaggio.
• 35:57
  Speaker 3: No, you would sell the Nolan Ryan before you sold
• 36:00
  Speaker 3: Joe DiMaggio. Anyway, though, that doesn't matter. Please tell me
• 36:04
  Speaker 3: you got how much. Oh, I cannot believe you sold this. Oh,
• 36:08
  Speaker 3: my God.
• 36:09
  Speaker 9: I sold it for $ 500.
• 36:10
  Speaker 3: Oh. Oh, my God.
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: I'll be honest. I don't know if one of those
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: is worth these days.
• 36:19
  Speaker 3: It's thousands of dollars. That dude was married to Marilyn Monroe.
• 36:22
  Speaker 3: I mean, that's old school, like legendary baseball.
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: Classic Babe Ruth vibes.
• 36:27
  Speaker 3: Babe Ruth vibes. Not quite the level of Babe Ruth,
• 36:29
  Speaker 3: but still an iconic player.
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: I know Joe DiMaggio, but.
• 36:31
  Speaker 3: Something you can't just go up and pick it up.
• 36:33
  Speaker 3: Like a Nolan Ryan ball, I could go right now
• 36:35
  Speaker 3: across the street and get one.
• 36:36
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 36:36
  Speaker 3: You can't do that with a Joe DiMaggio ball. Right.
• 36:39
  Speaker 7: So he must have freaked out.
• 36:41
  Speaker 3: Did he freak out or what happened?
• 36:44
  Speaker 9: We get back together. I freaked out a bit because
• 36:47
  Speaker 9: I was like, I knew he was going to lose it.
• 36:49
  Speaker 9: So I was like going around and I went to
• 36:52
  Speaker 9: play it against sports and I bought an old baseball
• 36:55
  Speaker 9: and I got a Sharpie and I looked at his
• 36:57
  Speaker 9: signature online and I forged it and I put it
• 37:00
  Speaker 9: back in the case.
• 37:02
  Speaker 3: And it looks so legit, and.
• 37:03
  Speaker 9: He has no idea, and it's been a couple months now,
• 37:06
  Speaker 9: and it's sitting in the bookshelf, and he has no idea.
• 37:08
  Speaker 3: You forged? Stop it! Oh my God, I love this.
• 37:13
  Speaker 3: I love this, but I'm so mad for him. So
• 37:16
  Speaker 3: he has no, because I mean, I have memorabilia. It's
• 37:18
  Speaker 3: not like stuff you check on.
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: You don't look at it that close every day.
• 37:22
  Speaker 3: Unless you're showing it to someone, you're not looking at it.
• 37:24
  Speaker 7: Ours is on like almost to the ceiling on a
• 37:26
  Speaker 7: shelf so high.
• 37:27
  Speaker 6: Right.
• 37:28
  Speaker 3: So it's in a bookshelf sitting there in a case.
• 37:30
  Speaker 3: So you went and bought a baseball, played against sports,
• 37:35
  Speaker 3: and then.
• 37:37
  Speaker 3: And then forged the signature. Come on. Is it good?
• 37:40
  Speaker 3: You actually did it good. It looks so good. Oh,
• 37:44
  Speaker 3: she just put it back in the case. And then
• 37:47
  Speaker 3: he has no idea that this happened. Nope.
• 37:50
  Speaker 9: And I'm praying that he does not find out.
• 37:53
  Speaker 3: I don't know if I'm proud of you or if
• 37:55
  Speaker 3: I'm just like if he cheated on you, I'd be like,
• 37:58
  Speaker 3: do it. Who cares?
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 38:00
  Speaker 3: But you don't know if he cheated on you. You
• 38:01
  Speaker 3: took him back. And now here we are. So you're
• 38:04
  Speaker 3: never going to say a word to him about it. No.
• 38:07
  Speaker 3: I love that you said, here's my favorite part. You
• 38:10
  Speaker 3: were like, I didn't sell the Nolan Ryan. Yeah, I know.
• 38:13
  Speaker 3: But this Joe DiMaggio, who cares? Irreplaceable. I'm a huge
• 38:21
  Speaker 3: Nolan Ryan fan. Oh, yeah, same. Wow. Well, listen, please,
• 38:26
  Speaker 3: if anything happens, if he finds out, can you tell
• 38:29
  Speaker 3: us and give us an update? If I don't hear
• 38:31
  Speaker 3: from you, I'm assuming he'll never... He never knew, and
• 38:34
  Speaker 3: you were just good to go. But, wow, that is
• 38:37
  Speaker 3: a good one. You got me on that. Super bold. Yeah.
• 38:42
  Speaker 3: I hope that I don't get off, that I don't
• 38:44
  Speaker 3: have to call you. Yeah. I hope so, for your sake. Well,
• 38:47
  Speaker 3: thank you so much.
• 38:49
  Speaker 8: Yes, of course.
• 38:50
  Speaker 3: Okay. I bet she's going to get away with it.
• 38:52
  Speaker 3: For a while, yeah. Oh, for a long time. Because
• 38:56
  Speaker 3: I never look at that kind of stuff.
• 38:58
  Speaker 5: No.
• 38:58
  Speaker 3: I have a collection. I don't go through it and go, oh,
• 39:00
  Speaker 3: this signature looks good today.
• 39:01
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: I'm glad you don't do that.
• 39:04
  Speaker 3: I can't even imagine if I do.
• 39:07
  Speaker 4: No.
• 39:08
  Speaker 3: Oh, Babe Ruth Ball? Sell it. Why not? Who cares?
• 39:11
  Speaker 3: Get rid of it. Just keep the Nolan Ryan.
• 39:13
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah.
• 39:13
  Speaker 5: All right.
• 39:17
  Speaker 4: It's time for Candace Court. It gets settled here with
• 39:21
  Speaker 4: Billy the Kid in the Morning.
• 39:22
  Speaker 3: All rise for the Honorable Judge Candace Lopez, who is
• 39:24
  Speaker 3: here to serve up some justice straight out of Mesquite.
• 39:27
  Speaker 3: That's what she does. It's Unimix 102.9. I'm Billy the Kid,
• 39:30
  Speaker 3: Candace Lopez, producer Pooh. And if you ever got an
• 39:33
  Speaker 3: issue you want Candace to handle, just add Candace on
• 39:35
  Speaker 3: air on Instagram, add Candace on air. No matter what
• 39:38
  Speaker 3: the problem is, big problem, little problem, whatever, she solves them.
• 39:42
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 39:42
  Speaker 3: Okay, are you ready for this one, Candace?
• 39:44
  Speaker 5: Yep.
• 39:44
  Speaker 3: Judge Candace, I'm sorry.
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: Let's bring it.
• 39:46
  Speaker 3: Your Honor, I have some work drama for Candace Court.
• 39:50
  Speaker 3: So the girls I work with are planning a baby
• 39:52
  Speaker 3: shower for our coworker and they are asking everyone to
• 39:55
  Speaker 3: chip in $ 30 to help pay for it. They want
• 39:59
  Speaker 3: to buy a cake, food, decorations, but I think $ 30
• 40:02
  Speaker 3: each is excessive. So I told them I just want
• 40:06
  Speaker 3: to give her a gift card and call it good.
• 40:10
  Speaker 3: Now they all think I am rude for this and
• 40:13
  Speaker 3: things feel weird at the office. Am I wrong for this?
• 40:16
  Speaker 3: The baby shower is happening at all caps at work.
• 40:21
  Speaker 3: So this just seems like we're doing too much. I
• 40:24
  Speaker 3: don't even know if they want me to go since
• 40:27
  Speaker 3: I didn't chip in. Please help. Candice Court, there you go. Oh,
• 40:32
  Speaker 3: some work drama and a baby shower. Is this normal
• 40:35
  Speaker 3: to have a baby shower at work?
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think so.
• 40:37
  Speaker 7: I mean, it's not your typical baby shower, but yeah,
• 40:40
  Speaker 7: it's usually like a lunch. Like, hey, everybody come, bring
• 40:44
  Speaker 7: your gift, say whatever you want to say to her
• 40:47
  Speaker 7: before she goes on maternity leave or whatever.
• 40:48
  Speaker 5: Sure.
• 40:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: I mean, I had one. It wasn't at work.
• 40:51
  Speaker 7: They actually surprised me out at a restaurant at the time,
• 40:56
  Speaker 7: and it was beautiful.
• 40:57
  Speaker 3: Well, how many baby showers do you have usually?
• 40:59
  Speaker 7: I mean, it just depends, like, whose family wants to
• 41:02
  Speaker 7: throw it or if your friends want to throw it.
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: Like, my friends threw me one.
• 41:05
  Speaker 7: Here, and then I had one in California where we're
• 41:08
  Speaker 7: living that my sister-in-law threw, and then I had.
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: One from work.
• 41:12
  Speaker 3: Okay, so, wow, so you had, like, three.
• 41:14
  Speaker 11: Yeah.
• 41:15
  Speaker 3: So, work, friends don't just go to your regular baby shower?
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: They can. You can invite them. Okay. But, you know,
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: I feel like there's.
• 41:22
  Speaker 7: Always, like, somebody in the office who's, like, down to
• 41:25
  Speaker 7: rally everyone.
• 41:26
  Speaker 5: Sure.
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: And initiate it.
• 41:27
  Speaker 3: Yeah. So. Well, is that okay? Okay. That's one. Mm-hmm.
• 41:31
  Speaker 3: That there's baby showers at work. Never knew that. Really?
• 41:34
  Speaker 3: I guess I've never seen a baby shower down here.
• 41:36
  Speaker 5: No.
• 41:36
  Speaker 3: And people have babies here.
• 41:38
  Speaker 5: Yeah. Yeah.
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: That's true.
• 41:40
  Speaker 3: You know what I mean? Never in my career have
• 41:43
  Speaker 3: I ever seen anyone at a radio station throw a
• 41:46
  Speaker 3: baby shower for someone. Yeah.
• 41:47
  Speaker 7: I mean, I did at the radio station I worked for,
• 41:50
  Speaker 7: but that was a different environment. I don't know how
• 41:52
  Speaker 7: to explain it. Like here, I feel like we're all
• 41:54
  Speaker 7: like in our, we do a morning show. Some people
• 41:56
  Speaker 7: do an afternoon and night show. We don't see them.
• 41:58
  Speaker 7: But for people that spend all day at the office
• 42:01
  Speaker 7: together every day, I feel like they're just closer.
• 42:04
  Speaker 3: Now, second question, is $ 30 a lot to chip in
• 42:08
  Speaker 3: for a party? Yeah, I can dance kind of a lot. Yeah,
• 42:11
  Speaker 3: I think it's a lot. You know how cheap I am. Yeah.
• 42:15
  Speaker 7: Maybe this is a small office and there's only, you know,
• 42:18
  Speaker 7: a certain number of them.
• 42:19
  Speaker 3: Well, that's what I'm thinking. So I thought, you know,
• 42:21
  Speaker 3: I mean, 20, 30 bucks, whatever. But OK, so next question.
• 42:26
  Speaker 3: If you don't chip in, can you go to the
• 42:29
  Speaker 3: baby shower?
• 42:30
  Speaker 7: That's a good question, because I'm like, if your budget
• 42:33
  Speaker 7: doesn't allow you to chip in the 30 bucks and
• 42:35
  Speaker 7: pay for whatever gift you want to.
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: Get, like what's worse?
• 42:39
  Speaker 7: You know, like not chipping in or not giving a gift.
• 42:41
  Speaker 7: But then you feel awkward if you show up and
• 42:43
  Speaker 7: you didn't pay for the food.
• 42:45
  Speaker 3: Like she's going to get her a gift card and
• 42:46
  Speaker 3: a card and say, here you go. Congratulations.
• 42:49
  Speaker 7: Right.
• 42:50
  Speaker 3: But can you do one or the other? Or do
• 42:52
  Speaker 3: you just say, here's your card? I didn't chip in
• 42:53
  Speaker 3: for your party, so I couldn't come eat. Oh, that's
• 42:56
  Speaker 3: so sad. It is sad to me. Like poo never
• 42:59
  Speaker 3: chips in. He's always at the party.
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: There's always food left over.
• 43:03
  Speaker 7: It's like they're all they're going to cover her like
• 43:05
  Speaker 7: plate for sure.
• 43:07
  Speaker 3: But if she can't afford it, that's one thing. She
• 43:09
  Speaker 3: just doesn't want to pay. It is another thing.
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: That's enough.
• 43:12
  Speaker 7: If she just doesn't want to pay it, then she
• 43:13
  Speaker 7: shouldn't come.
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: You know what I mean?
• 43:15
  Speaker 3: Exactly.
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: Like if it's my shower and you don't want to
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: pay for me, you don't like like me enough. Then
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: don't come.
• 43:21
  Speaker 3: Or you just do less when it comes to the gift.
• 43:24
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 43:25
  Speaker 3: You know, do a little a tinier gift and then
• 43:28
  Speaker 3: pay for the party, the 30 bucks and compromise yourself
• 43:32
  Speaker 3: and your budget. That's to me the answer. But I
• 43:34
  Speaker 3: don't know how much you typically give for a baby shower.
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, it's just like anything else.
• 43:38
  Speaker 5: It really depends.
• 43:39
  Speaker 7: Like, you could spend $ 25, you could spend $ 100, however
• 43:41
  Speaker 7: much you want.
• 43:42
  Speaker 3: Chipping on the registry or whatever.
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: Can't you do that?
• 43:45
  Speaker 7: Yeah, just pick your stuff off the registry.
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like if it were me, like,
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: we get.
• 43:48
  Speaker 7: So much stuff when you're pregnant, you know, that you
• 43:51
  Speaker 7: don't even need or don't use. It's like, I'd rather you, like,
• 43:54
  Speaker 7: celebrate me, you know, at this point, spend the money on.
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: The party, and then I'll get the stuff.
• 43:59
  Speaker 3: That's fair.
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: You know, but that's just me.
• 44:01
  Speaker 3: Work trauma. I know. When people start to chip in
• 44:03
  Speaker 3: at work, there's always somebody who didn't chip in.
• 44:06
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 44:06
  Speaker 3: And shows up and still eats all the chips and
• 44:09
  Speaker 3: the dip. And they're eating the tacos. Right. And you're like,
• 44:12
  Speaker 3: so-and-so didn't even pay. Yeah. And look at Pooey. He's
• 44:15
  Speaker 3: still over there eating. I mean, $ 30. More than 10 people.
• 44:19
  Speaker 3: That's over $ 300 for a little work party. But to
• 44:21
  Speaker 3: cater food and to get decorations. Yeah. Things are expensive.
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: No, they are.
• 44:27
  Speaker 3: Nowadays. Okay, so. For sure. Candace, I think we got
• 44:29
  Speaker 3: a verdict. Candace, who's guilty?
• 44:31
  Speaker 5: We do.
• 44:31
  Speaker 7: I think this person is guilty of being a gift card, Glenda.
• 44:34
  Speaker 4: Wow.
• 44:36
  Speaker 7: Now, get your gift card and move on, but don't
• 44:38
  Speaker 7: be first in line for cake.
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: You know, just don't be eager when the party happens.
• 44:43
  Speaker 3: If she doesn't chip in, you still would advise her
• 44:46
  Speaker 3: to go to the party?
• 44:47
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: I mean, at least show face because then the person
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: who's pregnant is going to be like, oh, well, she
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: didn't even come.
• 44:52
  Speaker 3: So go to the party and don't eat. Yeah.
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: Well, just don't be first in line. You know what
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: I mean? You can eat once everybody's done their thing.
• 44:59
  Speaker 7: I like sit back and play it cool and then
• 45:01
  Speaker 7: be like.
• 45:02
  Speaker 3: So if there's scraps left over, then you can eat.
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: There's going to be enough.
• 45:08
  Speaker 3: Okay, there you go. She is guilty of being a what?
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: A gift card Glenda.
• 45:13
  Speaker 3: Gift card Glenda guilty.
• 45:16
  Speaker 2: The new Mix 102.9. Billy the Kid.
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  Speaker 5: In the Morning is on.
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  Speaker 3: Love this. People are sharing their definition of what they
• 45:26
  Speaker 3: considered rich was growing up. It's a new mix one
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• 45:32
  Speaker 3: you know, back in the day, I mean, I didn't
• 45:34
  Speaker 3: grow up with a lot of money.
• 45:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 45:35
  Speaker 3: You know, I mean, I wasn't like poor, but there
• 45:37
  Speaker 3: was certain people that had, I thought you were rich
• 45:40
  Speaker 3: if there was certain things that happened. Now, this article
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• 45:45
  Speaker 3: What's a millennial? What age is a millennial?
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: It's like 28 to 43-ish.
• 45:48
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Candace thinks she's a millennial. I am. An elder millennial. Okay,
• 45:55
  Speaker 3: and if you got one, 833-787-1029. Someone on the list
• 45:59
  Speaker 3: cracked me up. Someone said, people who bought soda in
• 46:01
  Speaker 3: 12 packs of cans instead of two liters, especially if
• 46:05
  Speaker 3: it was the name brand.
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah.
• 46:08
  Speaker 3: Okay. Right. Not the big case.
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: Not Dr.
• 46:13
  Speaker 4: Thunder.
• 46:15
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah. Dr. Thunder. Yeah, that was one of them.
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah, my grandma used to buy.
• 46:20
  Speaker 3: What about Mr. Pibb? Remember Mr. Pibb? Oh, yeah, Mr.
• 46:23
  Speaker 3: Pibb was good. Dr. K. Yeah, Dr. K. Or like
• 46:27
  Speaker 3: RC Cola. And instead of like root beer, like there was,
• 46:32
  Speaker 3: I think, remember there was like the Muggs root beer
• 46:34
  Speaker 3: or whatever?
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 46:35
  Speaker 3: But I think we used to get Tubbs.
• 46:37
  Speaker 6: Tubbs?
• 46:38
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: What is Tubbs?
• 46:42
  Speaker 3: It's the off-brand.
• 46:43
  Speaker 5: Off-brand.
• 46:45
  Speaker 3: I don't know why. Okay, somebody else said, if they
• 46:48
  Speaker 3: had the 96-count Crayola crayons with the sharpener in the
• 46:52
  Speaker 3: back of the box, I thought they were rich.
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: Oh, what a flex.
• 46:55
  Speaker 3: That was a big flex.
• 46:57
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 46:58
  Speaker 3: As a kid? Oh, come on. Okay, someone else said,
• 47:01
  Speaker 3: I thought people were rich if the kids, one of
• 47:03
  Speaker 3: my friends had Sega Genesis and Super Nintendo. Oh, wow.
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: Nobody had both.
• 47:08
  Speaker 3: Who had both? You had to pick.
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 47:11
  Speaker 3: That pretty much was. rich yeah i had super nintendo.
• 47:14
  Speaker 7: Oh we did too yeah yeah that's like iphone or
• 47:17
  Speaker 7: android back in the day you have nintendo or sega
• 47:20
  Speaker 7: was it yeah you think.
• 47:21
  Speaker 3: So yeah um someone else said oh my god this
• 47:25
  Speaker 3: is funny because someone said i thought my friends were
• 47:27
  Speaker 3: rich if they brought lunchables to school.
• 47:31
  Speaker 7: I thought my friend was rich because she had a
• 47:33
  Speaker 7: trampoline in her backyard.
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah.
• 47:35
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: Back in the day.
• 47:37
  Speaker 3: Back in the day, trampolines weren't everywhere.
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah, no.
• 47:40
  Speaker 3: But growing up, like I didn't grow up in Texas.
• 47:42
  Speaker 3: I've been here for 25 years now. But back then,
• 47:45
  Speaker 3: if you had a pool. Oh, yeah. In Michigan, you
• 47:47
  Speaker 3: were pretty much rich.
• 47:48
  Speaker 5: True.
• 47:49
  Speaker 3: If you had a pool, especially if it was in ground.
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 47:53
  Speaker 5: What?
• 47:54
  Speaker 3: Right. You'd show off. Someone else said central air. Okay.
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: You have to have that in Texas.
• 48:00
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's rich. Someone else said, if my friends had
• 48:03
  Speaker 3: their own phone number and phone in their room, I
• 48:05
  Speaker 3: thought they were rich.
• 48:06
  Speaker 5: Oh, yeah.
• 48:07
  Speaker 3: That was a big flex.
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: I had that at one point. Finally, we got it.
• 48:11
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that was a big flex. Oh, let's get to Jolene. Jolene,
• 48:14
  Speaker 3: are you there? How are you?
• 48:15
  Speaker 11: Oh, yes, I'm doing fine.
• 48:16
  Speaker 3: There you are. What did you think back in the day?
• 48:19
  Speaker 3: You thought, oh, my God, they must be rich if
• 48:20
  Speaker 3: they had what?
• 48:21
  Speaker 5: Since we lived in an.
• 48:22
  Speaker 8: Old house, I thought people that had a skylight in
• 48:25
  Speaker 8: their kitchen, usually in their kitchen.
• 48:27
  Speaker 3: Oh, yeah.
• 48:28
  Speaker 5: Oh, man.
• 48:29
  Speaker 3: You're rich. You're rich, Richie. That's so good. That is true.
• 48:33
  Speaker 3: I guess back in the day, yeah, you had a skylight?
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 48:36
  Speaker 3: You're fancy. Yeah. Hey, thank you, JoLynn. I appreciate you
• 48:41
  Speaker 3: calling up. All right, bye. What about you, Kenneth? You
• 48:43
  Speaker 3: got one. Do you think you thought somebody was rich
• 48:45
  Speaker 3: if they won?
• 48:46
  Speaker 7: I mean, if you had a two-story house at all,
• 48:48
  Speaker 7: you were definitely rich.
• 48:50
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 48:51
  Speaker 3: I guess you're right.
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: For sure, yeah.
• 48:53
  Speaker 3: Because in the neighborhood I grew up, they were all
• 48:54
  Speaker 3: like ranches, one story.
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah, same.
• 48:57
  Speaker 3: So if you had a two-story, that was pretty much
• 48:58
  Speaker 3: a mansion.
• 48:59
  Speaker 7: Yeah, my friend Bree had one with a playhouse in
• 49:01
  Speaker 7: the back.
• 49:02
  Speaker 3: And a trampoline.
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I remember she had a trampoline. My friend Melissa
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: had a trampoline, though.
• 49:07
  Speaker 3: Totally rich.
• 49:07
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 49:08
  Speaker 3: What about you, Pooh? Oh, a Chevy Goodtimes van. My
• 49:11
  Speaker 3: dad's a good friend. We called him Uncle Eddie.
• 49:13
  Speaker 6: Yeah one of those big chevy good times van that
• 49:15
  Speaker 6: you can take roads.
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: If you can seat more than four people yeah.
• 49:18
  Speaker 3: Like eight people could ride in the van it's like
• 49:21
  Speaker 3: two seats in the middle and then a big old
• 49:23
  Speaker 3: bed in the back big conversion van yeah big conversion
• 49:26
  Speaker 3: why do you call it a good time van that's
• 49:28
  Speaker 3: what they were called back then so creepy those vans
• 49:31
  Speaker 3: creep me out his lit up he had little laser
• 49:34
  Speaker 3: lights on the side Yeah. Mine was, and this was
• 49:38
  Speaker 3: a big flex back in the day. I thought people
• 49:41
  Speaker 3: were like, I mean, I'm talking fancy. Okay. If you
• 49:44
  Speaker 3: went to Red Lobster.
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 49:47
  Speaker 3: That is. Is that just me or was I, when
• 49:50
  Speaker 3: I was a kid, Red Lobster and Olive Garden?
• 49:52
  Speaker 10: Yeah.
• 49:53
  Speaker 3: Those were fancy.
• 49:54
  Speaker 7: If you were somewhere where you had to tip, like
• 49:56
  Speaker 7: you had a server, you know, it wasn't like counter service.
• 50:00
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 50:01
  Speaker 1: You were balling.
• 50:02
  Speaker 3: Really?
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 50:04
  Speaker 3: Because we only went to Red Lobster. One night a week, bro.
• 50:07
  Speaker 3: One night a week? That's what we went to. You
• 50:10
  Speaker 3: were rich. We went once maybe a month.
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: No, we never went to Red Lobster. My dad didn't
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: like fish, so.
• 50:16
  Speaker 3: Oh, well, we couldn't afford it. Come on. Yeah. You
• 50:18
  Speaker 3: were going to fancy restaurants?
• 50:20
  Speaker 6: Not one night a week, but usually on special occasions,
• 50:23
  Speaker 6: my mom would be like, okay, cool.
• 50:24
  Speaker 3: Red Lobster. That's how I knew we had a little money.
• 50:27
  Speaker 3: Like my first homecoming dance?
• 50:28
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 50:29
  Speaker 3: I mean, I was like, this is a big deal.
• 50:30
  Speaker 3: I'm taking her to Olive Garden. What? Yeah, that's where
• 50:33
  Speaker 3: we went. Wow. All-you-can-eat bread bowl? Endless breadsticks. Endless breadsticks?
• 50:38
  Speaker 3: I got you. Nice. Yeah. No, but Red Lobster was
• 50:42
  Speaker 3: a big deal back then. Biscuits, baby. Steak and ale. Oh, yes.
• 50:46
  Speaker 3: Steak and ale.
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah.
• 50:48
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you didn't have those. Going out for steak? God,
• 50:50
  Speaker 3: that was the most mesquite thing you've ever said.
• 50:53
  Speaker 2: The new Mix 102.9.
• 50:56
  Speaker 5: Get it off your chest.
• 50:58
  Speaker 2: We promise you'll feel better.
• 50:59
  Speaker 5: Welcome to Dirty Little Secret.
• 51:01
  Speaker 3: It's the new Mix 102.9. Good morning. I'm Billy the Kid,
• 51:04
  Speaker 3: Candice Lopez, producer Pooh. We don't care what is Big Secret,
• 51:07
  Speaker 3: Little Secret. Just get it off your chest. Sir, what
• 51:10
  Speaker 3: is going on?
• 51:11
  Speaker 10: Yeah, so I'm doing something right now that I'm not
• 51:15
  Speaker 10: really proud of, but... It is what it is.
• 51:18
  Speaker 3: I like hearing that. That's how you start off a conversation.
• 51:22
  Speaker 3: I'm doing something I'm not really proud of.
• 51:26
  Speaker 4: What happened?
• 51:26
  Speaker 3: What are you doing?
• 51:27
  Speaker 10: So I don't make a lot of money, but I
• 51:29
  Speaker 10: do okay for myself. But obviously in Dallas, doing okay
• 51:34
  Speaker 10: doesn't get you a woman.
• 51:37
  Speaker 3: You ain't lying, brother. Wait a minute. Really? That's not true.
• 51:42
  Speaker 3: It is. Okay. I mean, a lot of people say that.
• 51:46
  Speaker 3: It's true for me. Okay. It's true for me. That's fair.
• 51:49
  Speaker 3: So what are you doing?
• 51:51
  Speaker 10: So I'm kind of like living like a double life
• 51:53
  Speaker 10: right now.
• 51:54
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 51:56
  Speaker 10: I met this girl at the Ritz-Carlton a couple months ago.
• 52:00
  Speaker 10: She is absolutely gorgeous. We really hit it off.
• 52:05
  Speaker 3: And.
• 52:06
  Speaker 10: Partly because I lied about everything in my life.
• 52:10
  Speaker 3: Everything? Everything. Like what? Pretty much. Pretty much.
• 52:16
  Speaker 10: I lied about what I do for a living, and
• 52:19
  Speaker 10: I lied about where I live. I just felt like
• 52:24
  Speaker 10: if I told her my real story, then she wouldn't
• 52:27
  Speaker 10: really give me the time of day.
• 52:28
  Speaker 3: That's sad. Like I said, it is what it is, but.
• 52:34
  Speaker 10: You know, I felt like I had to kind of,
• 52:38
  Speaker 10: you know, tell a couple of lies just to kind
• 52:40
  Speaker 10: of hit it off with her. I told her I
• 52:42
  Speaker 10: live in San Francisco and that I spent a lot
• 52:45
  Speaker 10: of time out here because. I consult for a couple
• 52:49
  Speaker 10: of businesses here in the city.
• 52:51
  Speaker 2: Oh.
• 52:52
  Speaker 10: And I told her that I have a house here,
• 52:54
  Speaker 10: and I stay here once or twice a month. So
• 52:57
  Speaker 10: we've been spending some weekends together, and she obviously has
• 53:00
  Speaker 10: no idea that it's all a lie.
• 53:02
  Speaker 3: So you've been spending weekends with her.
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: Where are you taking her?
• 53:07
  Speaker 3: Do you have a house, or.
• 53:07
  Speaker 10: What do you— I don't have a house. I have
• 53:10
  Speaker 10: an apartment in Irving, but I have been renting an
• 53:13
  Speaker 10: Airbnb in Uptown.
• 53:15
  Speaker 3: Oh.
• 53:16
  Speaker 4: What?
• 53:17
  Speaker 3: Beautiful house. You're saying it's yours?
• 53:21
  Speaker 10: Yeah, yeah. I, like, rent it for a couple of days,
• 53:23
  Speaker 10: and then I, you know, I tell her I'm going back.
• 53:25
  Speaker 3: To San Francisco.
• 53:27
  Speaker 5: Oh, my God!
• 53:29
  Speaker 7: Wait, so she thinks that's your house, like, when you
• 53:32
  Speaker 7: come to town every once or twice a month?
• 53:34
  Speaker 3: So she thinks that's your day. You're so rich, she thinks, oh, wow,
• 53:36
  Speaker 3: this is his house in Dallas. When he comes here,
• 53:38
  Speaker 3: he has a house. He just, he stays here. No.
• 53:40
  Speaker 3: He's balling like that. It's fully furnished. It's beautiful. Look
• 53:43
  Speaker 3: at this guy.
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: And you just rent the same Airbnb?
• 53:46
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: On those times?
• 53:47
  Speaker 3: That's brilliant. That's actually brilliant. I mean, it is. That
• 53:50
  Speaker 3: is brilliant.
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: No, that's a massive lie.
• 53:52
  Speaker 3: Oh, yeah, and that. Yeah. And it's a massive lie. Yeah.
• 53:56
  Speaker 1: I mean, all of it is.
• 53:58
  Speaker 3: So you really live in an apartment in Irving? Right.
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: I mean, how do you just keep these lines up?
• 54:07
  Speaker 3: You're not going to be able to keep it up.
• 54:09
  Speaker 3: That's a lot.
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: Work, your house situation.
• 54:11
  Speaker 3: It's working out all right right now. I mean, we're
• 54:13
  Speaker 3: having fun. I mean, I hate to say this, but
• 54:17
  Speaker 3: you're getting like a little thrill out of this.
• 54:19
  Speaker 9: Yeah.
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: For sure.
• 54:20
  Speaker 10: Oh, 100%.
• 54:22
  Speaker 3: Okay, but what happens? It's never going to go anywhere.
• 54:26
  Speaker 1: Right, because all these lies are going to get uncovered eventually.
• 54:29
  Speaker 3: But it doesn't even sound like you care if it
• 54:31
  Speaker 3: goes anywhere. I mean.
• 54:34
  Speaker 10: If it does end up working out, it's a great
• 54:36
  Speaker 10: story for the kids, right?
• 54:38
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah. Would you ever be okay with a guy, Candace,
• 54:42
  Speaker 3: who he comes to you after you've been dating for
• 54:45
  Speaker 3: a few months and he's like, listen, we met at
• 54:47
  Speaker 3: the Ritz Carlton. I felt like you weren't going to
• 54:48
  Speaker 3: talk to me unless I told you I was balling.
• 54:51
  Speaker 3: I live in an apartment down the street in Irving.
• 54:56
  Speaker 7: I mean, if I thought he was the one based
• 54:59
  Speaker 7: on like, you know, his real life and like our,
• 55:02
  Speaker 7: you know, hangs together and it was like worked out
• 55:05
  Speaker 7: so well, everything else then.
• 55:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: But otherwise, if I had like an inkling that this
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: guy wasn't the one. No, I'm so done.
• 55:12
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 55:13
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 55:14
  Speaker 3: Okay, well, I'm dying to know what happened. So you're
• 55:17
  Speaker 3: just going to continue going on with this as long
• 55:19
  Speaker 3: as you can?
• 55:20
  Speaker 10: Yeah, I'm just, you know, just taking it a weekend
• 55:23
  Speaker 10: at a time.
• 55:24
  Speaker 3: What if she says, hey, why don't you fly me
• 55:26
  Speaker 3: out to San Francisco? I'd love to spend a weekend there. Yeah, exactly.
• 55:31
  Speaker 10: I'll just rent an Airbnb in San Francisco.
• 55:36
  Speaker 5: Oh, perfect.
• 55:37
  Speaker 3: With no pictures up, nothing.
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: That is crazy.
• 55:40
  Speaker 3: Well, good luck with everything, man, and let us know
• 55:42
  Speaker 3: what happens, all right? I will.
• 55:44
  Speaker 7: Thank you, guys.
• 55:44
  Speaker 2: Wow.
• 55:45
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: That's wild.
• 55:47
  Speaker 3: That is... I mean, also a lot of money. Yeah.
• 55:51
  Speaker 3: You know, so he's spending money that he could be
• 55:53
  Speaker 3: saving up to buy an actual house or whatever. Totally.
• 55:56
  Speaker 3: But should it matter? I mean, ladies, if you found
• 55:58
  Speaker 3: out this line, but you're having the best time with
• 56:00
  Speaker 3: this guy. You obviously like him if you're hanging out
• 56:02
  Speaker 3: with him every other weekend or whatever. Would it matter?
• 56:07
  Speaker 3: Should it matter? I mean, I know, Candace, you're a
• 56:09
  Speaker 3: good hearted person. So you're like, right.
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: But should it be real?
• 56:12
  Speaker 3: I know. Just be real. That's the risk you got
• 56:14
  Speaker 3: to take. I'm sorry. She doesn't like you because you're
• 56:16
  Speaker 3: not rich. Even if you're at the Ritz Carlton, whatever.
• 56:18
  Speaker 3: Then guess what? She's not the one for sure. There
• 56:21
  Speaker 3: you go. We've all learned that dirty little secret. There
• 56:24
  Speaker 3: you go.
• 56:27
  Speaker 4: It's time for Candace Court. It gets settled here with
• 56:31
  Speaker 4: Billy the Kid in the morning.
• 56:32
  Speaker 3: All rise for the Honorable Judge Candace Lopez. It's New
• 56:36
  Speaker 3: Mix 102.9. Billy the Kid, Candace is here. She's residing
• 56:39
  Speaker 3: on her bench. She's got her gavel. And if you
• 56:40
  Speaker 3: don't think she has a gavel, she really does. Oh, yeah.
• 56:42
  Speaker 3: For sure. She's thrown it at us before she gets angry.
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: I'm going to break my laptop with it.
• 56:47
  Speaker 5: Hang on.
• 56:48
  Speaker 3: Be careful. Don't do that. Producer Poo is here, and
• 56:50
  Speaker 3: let's do it. Candice Cord. If you have somebody you
• 56:52
  Speaker 3: want to take to Candice Cord, I don't care what
• 56:53
  Speaker 3: the problem is, bring it. Add Candice on air on Instagram.
• 56:57
  Speaker 3: Add Candice on air. This is a good one because
• 56:59
  Speaker 3: I think it's very relatable. I think a lot of
• 57:01
  Speaker 3: couples fight over this. I'm going to keep it anonymous.
• 57:03
  Speaker 3: I won't say her name, but she wrote in. She said,
• 57:05
  Speaker 3: what do you do when your boyfriend would rather look
• 57:08
  Speaker 3: at social media than look or listen to you? Oh. Also,
• 57:14
  Speaker 3: when you speak, he says he can't hear you and
• 57:16
  Speaker 3: says you mumble.
• 57:18
  Speaker 5: What?
• 57:19
  Speaker 3: I mumble six times? Question mark, question mark, question mark. Nah, dude.
• 57:23
  Speaker 3: It's been a year like WTF. I'm sorry, but I
• 57:27
  Speaker 3: need to take him to Candace Court. This one is
• 57:31
  Speaker 3: nice and simple, and she's got an issue. What do
• 57:33
  Speaker 3: you do? Because it's one of those things where you're like, well,
• 57:36
  Speaker 3: he's not the worst guy in the world.
• 57:38
  Speaker 1: Right, but you can't hear me?
• 57:40
  Speaker 3: But I'm feeling neglected. Yeah. This is one of those
• 57:43
  Speaker 3: things where people are starting to get in these petty fights.
• 57:46
  Speaker 9: Mm-hmm.
• 57:46
  Speaker 3: And they bubble into bigger fights.
• 57:48
  Speaker 11: Yeah.
• 57:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: It's deeper than that. But on the surface, it feels
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: like he's just on his phone.
• 57:54
  Speaker 3: It's snowballs. But I mean, I mean, lately, have you
• 57:57
  Speaker 3: seen like I'll go to dinner and I'll see couples
• 57:59
  Speaker 3: out that never look at each other?
• 58:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 58:01
  Speaker 3: They're just on their phones. I mean, I was sitting
• 58:04
  Speaker 3: next to a couple at a bar. This is a
• 58:06
  Speaker 3: couple of weeks ago. watching the game, and it was
• 58:09
  Speaker 3: a guy and a girl, and the guy never looked up.
• 58:12
  Speaker 3: He was on his phone. She's just sitting there, not
• 58:15
  Speaker 3: on her phone. She tried to say a couple things
• 58:17
  Speaker 3: to him. He was not paying attention, short answers. And
• 58:21
  Speaker 3: I thought to myself, like, what is happening?
• 58:23
  Speaker 7: Yeah, like Eric and I were at lunch the other
• 58:25
  Speaker 7: day and like he I was on my phone because
• 58:27
  Speaker 7: I was doing stuff or whatever.
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: And then he came in and then got an email
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: he needed to respond to.
• 58:31
  Speaker 7: And sometimes I feel awkward if we're both like working
• 58:34
  Speaker 7: on our phone at the same time, because I'm like,
• 58:35
  Speaker 7: are people looking at us like you looked at that couple?
• 58:38
  Speaker 7: But it's so hard to know what people are doing
• 58:40
  Speaker 7: on their phone. But this is a real problem for sure.
• 58:42
  Speaker 7: Like in general.
• 58:43
  Speaker 3: That is a good point. Sometimes you're right. You don't
• 58:46
  Speaker 3: know the dynamics. And that couple could be the happiest
• 58:49
  Speaker 3: couple on earth.
• 58:50
  Speaker 7: Right like even our promotions director here put a sign
• 58:52
  Speaker 7: out on her her office it says i'm i promise
• 58:55
  Speaker 7: i'm working just because i'm on my phone.
• 58:57
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah yeah because people walk by and amanda's on
• 58:59
  Speaker 3: her phone that works here and she's probably like they
• 59:01
  Speaker 3: think i'm goofing around but i'm working i'm on like
• 59:03
  Speaker 3: doing stuff on my phone totally which but if you're
• 59:06
  Speaker 3: in a relationship and i even think about this sometimes
• 59:08
  Speaker 3: when i'm with my son or something and we're both
• 59:10
  Speaker 3: like hey let's go out to eat we go out
• 59:11
  Speaker 3: to eat and then i look at each other i'm
• 59:13
  Speaker 3: like we're on our phones put your phone down yeah
• 59:15
  Speaker 3: like stop put it away let's figure this out now
• 59:18
  Speaker 3: it sounds like he's frustrated so he's like oh well
• 59:22
  Speaker 3: i can't hear you anyway yeah and maybe she's kind
• 59:25
  Speaker 3: of saying things under her breath I'm just imagining when
• 59:28
  Speaker 3: you're already frustrated, you do things to annoy the other person.
• 59:32
  Speaker 3: So maybe she's like, well, I guess it doesn't matter
• 59:34
  Speaker 3: what I say anyway. And he's like, what? What did
• 59:37
  Speaker 3: you say? I can't hear you're mumbling. Oh, I'm mumbling? Well,
• 59:39
  Speaker 3: you're not paying attention anyway. Right.
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: You're scrolling social media.
• 59:42
  Speaker 7: Now, if he is literally just scrolling social media and
• 59:44
  Speaker 7: it has nothing to do with work, because I'll scroll
• 59:46
  Speaker 7: social media for work, you know, because that's part of
• 59:49
  Speaker 7: our job.
• 59:50
  Speaker 1: Now, is that part of every job?
• 59:51
  Speaker 5: I don't know.
• 59:52
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 59:53
  Speaker 7: But you've heard about the 10 minute rule that went
• 59:56
  Speaker 7: viral recently.
• 59:57
  Speaker 3: I heard about something about this on TikTok.
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: I think this is smart.
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 7: It says every day you and your partner just take
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 7: 10 minutes to give each other your undivided attention.
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 1: No phones, distractions.
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 2: Just listen.
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 7: So one person gets 10 minutes to share like whatever's on.
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 1: Their mind and then you switch.
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 7: And I should really tell my husband this so we
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 7: can practice this because it's hard when you have kids
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 7: and all these things are going on and the phones
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 7: are dinging.
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 3: So you get 10 minutes each. Each. Okay. That's not,
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 3: if you can't spend 10 minutes with someone, if you
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 3: have to force.
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 1: You have to make a conscious effort to do that.
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 3: Do you really?
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 5: Yes.
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 7: You have kids running around and things going on in
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 7: your life for practice and works not, you know, still
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 7: going on.
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 3: That seems so like nothing. Ten minutes. I feel like
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 3: I mean, every time I've been in a relationship, I
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 3: have no problem spending 10 minutes with the person.
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 7: You have no problem if you set aside the time
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 7: and make it an effort. But we just get lost
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 7: in all of our things. We got to do the dishes,
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 7: the laundry and someone's at the door. practice closing a
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 7: lot i mean it's.
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 3: A lot it all adds up i wonder if people
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 3: already practice this rule like do you know do you
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 3: and eric have a rule that you practice like we're
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 3: gonna do this every night we're gonna spend time and
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 3: we're gonna talk or whatever we don't have.
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 7: That rule but we should it's also harder because i
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 7: go to bed when enzo goes to bed so most
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 7: parents have that like after the kids go to bed
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 7: we have our time and we catch up and like
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 7: we're trying to do that in between and It's, you know,
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 7: it's a lot for parents.
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 3: That's true. We should do that.
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: We got one kid.
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 3: Honestly, we should do that on the show.
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 5: Okay.
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 3: We should have the 10 minute rule on the show.
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 3: Where we all just go around the room and we
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 3: have 10 minutes to talk about whatever we want.
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 3: We'll start it with Pooh. Pooh, go ahead.
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 1: What's on your mind?
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 3: Pooh, what's going on?
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 1: 10 minute rule.
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 3: No phones, no distractions.
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 5: No phones.
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 3: I don't have nothing to say. And I know usually
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 3: my stories are. We're in a relationship right now. 10
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 3: minute rule. You go.
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 7: Go.
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 3: How you been, babe? Ew!
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 2: Ew!
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 3: How have you been? How have you been?
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 1: Since I saw you this morning?
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 3: I mean, fine. You're my girl. We just saw each other.
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 3: What's going on? Why are you guys saying it like that?
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 3: I missed you. Why are you starting to fight? I'm
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 3: not starting to fight. Oh, we're broken up.
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 2: See?
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 3: Put your phone down. That lasted two seconds. Oh, my gosh.
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 3: I'm trying to give you your ten minutes to talk
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 3: about whatever you want. Don't ask me how I'm doing. Okay, well,
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 3: I just want to know, can I go out with
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 3: the boys? See, this is why you're single. Now, who
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 3: wants three guys' nights a week? In his last relationship,
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 3: he'd be out three nights a week.
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 1: No, that's too much.
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 3: That's a whole other Candace Court. Yeah, it is. Candace,
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 3: do we have a verdict? Because I think we obviously
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 3: know who's guilty here or who it seems like in
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 3: my eyes might be guilty.
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 7: Yeah, this guy's guilty of being a quality time Quincy.
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 1: You're giving your cutie to your phone, dude.
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 7: It sounds like her love language is quality time.
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 1: Not cutie with your phone.
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 3: Is that a love language? Quality time?
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 1: I think so. Time spent.
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 3: Time spent is a love language.
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 3: Quality time. I forgot the love languages.
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 1: Well, we can all brush up. It's tough.
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 3: He's guilty being a what?
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 1: Quality time Quincy.
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: Put down your phone, bro.
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 3: Yeah. There you go. Candace Courts.
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 5: 102.9. The new Mix 102.9.