123: Letting Go of Regret: Stephanie Renner on Grief, Suicide Loss & Resilience

All Can No Can't | Mastering Resilience · Jul 13, 2026 · 1h 5m

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Letting go of regret is different than letting go of grief and that

difference might be the thing keeping you stuck. Attorney and speaker

Stephanie Renner joins Jeff Luther to talk about losing her son Jordan to

suicide, and the Regret to Resilience method she built out of that loss.

This isn't a polished, safe conversation. Jeff asks Stephanie the question

he says he didn't feel good asking whether there was ever bitterness

mixed into the love and gratitude she carries for Jordan. From there,

they get into what regret actually is: the "if onlys" that convince us we

had control…