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3 Aspergers Girl Symptoms YOU Have Not Noticed · Aspergers & Autism Podcast [The Aspie World] AuDHD

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  So here are three, aspirated girl symptoms, that you probably
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  just haven't even noticed, all that's coming up.
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  Okay, so I've been thinking about the Differences between
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  male and female the autism spectrum and I've done a bunch
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  of different videos about girls and the autism spectrum and
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  kills with Asperger's syndrome. And I think it's really really
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  interesting to look at the different types of symptoms that
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  people probably would have definitely miss or they just
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  kind of like glazed over. I don't even notice because
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  let's face it. People always think in that
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  girl's it's the last thing people think about they don't
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  think girls are going on the autism spectrum.
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  They just they just don't write and I did a video about the
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  shocking reasons. Why but simply people are still
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  going to Flat 3 to 1 ratio. Show where guys are three times
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  more likely than girls to actually have a diagnosis, which
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  is completely Preposterous and bizarre, but that's the world we
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  currently live in. But it is changing.
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  So, I decided to put down three of the most interesting traits
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  and symptoms of Asperger's in women that you probably would
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  have just completely glazed over and not even noticed.
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  Okay, so the first thing I'm going to talk about here is
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  collecting items. No girls on the autism.
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  Spectrum will be in most cases, obsessive collectors of a
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  certain type of genre a certain thing, right?
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  It could be stuffed toys books DVD collections or their
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  favorite. Obsessional topic could be like
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  anime manga or something, right? But they will collect it,
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  they'll collect. The stuff will have like a
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  blotch collection of all the goodies in there, things that
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  they love and, you know, they'll know everything about it and
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  then they'll really, really get into that subject.
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  And I'll become like the probably the best collector this
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  side of the world on, you know, whatever the subject of Hello
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  Kitty plush toys, or something. They'll know exactly.
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  All the names of the Hello, Kitty, plush toys, or collect
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  all of them. And they'll have this lovely
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  collection of Hello Kitty, plush toys that nobody else in the
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  world will ever have right? And and it's really interesting
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  because a lot of people say like I was just there myself,
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  personally, just like to collect stuff, but it's actually a very
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  common trait with girls in the autism spectrum, especially the
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  collection side of things are very Niche markets and it could
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  be as small as collecting anything to do with Twilight,
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  right? But like, the Twilight book
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  collection and then subsequent books that relate to Twilight,
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  you know, could be a small collection but it's everything
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  within that very Niche, tight kind of collectors Circle that.
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  And I think that's very fascinating and I think it's
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  really interesting, I love it. I love the fact that there's
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  females on the spectrum that I do this and but it's definitely
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  It's like people always overlook this as being a symptom or a
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  symptomatic trait of autism in. It's definitely something that
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  you should look into if you're questioning if a girl's on the
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  autism spectrum. Okay, number two is hoarding
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  object relationships, not, this sounds completely crazy, but
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  what I mean by this is women on the autism, spectrum will
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  usually have a habit of not being able to get rid of certain
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  objects, like shoes or clothing or whatever because they will
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  have a relationship that item like the item almost has a
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  personality. They will.
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  They will have an affinity for the item because that item has a
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  personality to them that brings them some kind of Joy or
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  relationship, right? And so they won't be able to
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  just, you know, get new clothes and throw out the old ones.
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  They may still have the the completely, you know, a out of
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  shape shoes that they wore like that.
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  Don't even fit them anymore, completely wrecked and trash and
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  dirt all over them from like 3 or 4 years ago, you know.
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  But they won't get rid of them because they have an affinity
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  for them and it's hard ones, get rid of them but Of course, when
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  you have Affinity that everything, you own, it becomes
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  a horde because then you don't get rid of anything and we all
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  need to get rid of things and recycle things, and we grow out
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  of things in life is never changing process.
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  But in terms of girls in the autism spectrum having this
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  object relationship and having this object have personalities
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  type of mindset. They just, I don't know, they
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  kind of started the horde stuff and it will get rid of clothes
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  and people and girls. Nielsen special will have a lot
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  of clothes sometimes because of that, that relationship, if you
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  know exactly what I'm talking about, you have to go to do a
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  thumbs up because Cuz I just know there's those people out
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  there being like, like ice talking about my daughter right
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  now. Like, data that's our Kelly or
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  whatever. I, Kelly Kelly is a singer.
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  I meant like our Kelly not actually that good singing
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  anyway, he's Trapped in the Closet.
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  Hoping for a close conversation, regardless of that, no jokes,
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  all jokes aside, all jokes, no joke set.
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  Anyway, it doesn't matter or Surface.
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  I hate holding can be a real issue and it's something that
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  can help like therapy for OCD. Can definitely help with this
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  because I suppose it is if OCD but also he does come
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  hand-in-hand with autism so definitely look at that.
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  I mean if it's an issue in your life then this is this is why,
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  okay? So number three is not
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  emotionally connected girls with autism are more likely, to not
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  want to be honked. So the girls Nelson Factor may
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  have deeper connections to their emotions as and they may feel
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  emotions deeper but they won't be able to have that tactile
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  sense. Your relationship with touch and
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  feel through emotion. So Girls will you know, when
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  they're younger they may not want to be picked up as little
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  children. They don't want that kind of
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  actual tactile emotion or they don't want to be hugged or like,
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  you know, kissed on the cheek and stuff.
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  This may be a very standoff situation.
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  And so that kind of tactile emotional connection is very
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  difficult to kind of process in females meals and special.
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  And you'll definitely see this kind of distance between them
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  and the other people and you its more common in like hugs when
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  the person is older but very common in females as little
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  girls. When you try to pick them up and
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  give them a hug or you pick them up to move them, they don't want
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  that tactile emotional response, especially if it's around
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  happiness or sadness. You know, when there's actual
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  emotional kind of situation to really go hand-in-hand with the
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  reason that you're picking them up or moving the mortician their
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  cheek or give them a high-five or whatever it is, this is very
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  interesting. So it's not that they don't have
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  any emotional connection. It's just not emotionally
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  connected to physical tactile sense and it's a very
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  interesting and and often forgotten about an overlooked
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  because a lot of people say like oh she's real, she's independent
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  oh she's doing and It's not because they are any of those
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  things. It's actually down to an Autism
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  Spectrum Disorder because of the way that their communication and
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  their brain is dealing with that situation, with how they handle
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  emotions and how they deal with everything that is going on.
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