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We gave first borns' a platform to clear the air and tell us their grievances! · Anele and the Club on 947

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  Speaker 1: Wake up with a bang Hey, wake up! Anele and
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  Speaker 1: the club.
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  Speaker 2: On 947 First ones, you guys are annoying Oh, that's
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  Speaker 2: a very strong attack so early in the morning We
• 0:12
  Speaker 2: are over it, guys.
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  Speaker 1: We're all going through it.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know why firstborns think that their problems are
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  Speaker 3: the biggest in the world.
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  Speaker 1: Like, oh, being a firstborn.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, oh.
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  Speaker 1: It's okay, hey.
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  Speaker 3: The entire world is going through it and yours isn't
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  Speaker 3: heavier because you're the firstborn. Why is it that every firstborn,
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  Speaker 3: and there isn't a different one, every firstborn in the
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  Speaker 3: world thinks that they have been given this thing.
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  Speaker 1: You're not Prince William. You're not going to take over
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  Speaker 1: the monarchy.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like you're being very specific here to something
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  Speaker 2: or someone, or is it just firstborns in general?
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  Speaker 1: It's firstborns in general. Oh.
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  Speaker 5: Yes.
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  Speaker 1: Shame, Frank. He's a firstborn. He can't see it. Oh, really?
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  Speaker 2: He can't see it.
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  Speaker 1: You don't give firstborn energy, though.
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  Speaker 6: What does that mean?
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  Speaker 1: As in you don't carry your problems. Do you know
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  Speaker 1: what I'm saying?
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  Speaker 3: You're not always moaning about, oh, firstborn and I have
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  Speaker 3: to do this and I have to do this. And
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  Speaker 3: because I'm the firstborn, that's not in your lingo. It's
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  Speaker 3: not something I hear you go on about all the time.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 6: No, I mean, I don't really do that. You are correct.
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  Speaker 1: Your sister gives firstborn energy.
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  Speaker 2: No, my sister moans about my firstborn energy all the time. Oh,
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  Speaker 2: there we go.
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  Speaker 6: Right.
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  Speaker 2: So I don't realize that I carry that firstborn energy.
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  Speaker 2: But my sister will point it out. She'll point it
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  Speaker 2: out all the time.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, there's a definite thing about firstborn.
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  Speaker 3: Absolutely. And I get that you're special. The first time
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  Speaker 3: our parents were parents. Do you know what I'm saying?
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  Speaker 3: I get that you're special. This love that was opened
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  Speaker 3: in the parental realm.
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  Speaker 1: I get it.
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  Speaker 3: But you carry it like you are an ox on
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  Speaker 3: a farm in the heat trying to make sure that
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  Speaker 3: the soil is supple.
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  Speaker 7: Your life was the hardest. Your life was the hardest.
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  Speaker 7: I had to do everything first. You're so lucky because...
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  Speaker 7: When my curfew was 11, but yours is 1 a.m.
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  Speaker 1: So.
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  Speaker 6: But that is true. I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: You're just pointing out facts here. Because obviously you are
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  Speaker 2: the firstborn in the family. So you have to set
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  Speaker 2: and push the boundaries as you go along. You're not firstborn.
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  Speaker 6: You're what? Thirdborn. Thirdborn. Third born for Ranele. Cindy, third born.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, I'm last. I put my parents off having more children.
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  Speaker 6: Third born.
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  Speaker 1: Are we all third borns here?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah. Oh, okay.
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  Speaker 2: So you guys, I mean, it would be tough for
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  Speaker 2: us to have this conversation because I don't know if
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  Speaker 2: you would understand, but as first borns.
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  Speaker 7: No, I mean, no, because we raised ourselves because everybody
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  Speaker 7: was so busy looking after you, Frankie.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I mean, that's the thing, because we had
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  Speaker 2: to do all these new things constantly as firstborns. And
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  Speaker 2: firstborns can come in here and back me up, but,
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  Speaker 2: I mean, you had to... First time, your mom's faffing
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  Speaker 2: about someone going to school.
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  Speaker 6: First time... First time at a sports thing.
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  Speaker 1: Should we not get to.
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  Speaker 3: A point where that ends because you become an adult
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  Speaker 3: and you go into your own world and then no
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  Speaker 3: one cares where you fall first, last, middle.
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  Speaker 1: Just stop it.
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  Speaker 3: In the moment when we're living at home, I kind
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  Speaker 3: of get it. But now, you're 44, bro. Like, people
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  Speaker 3: who are older leave this firstborn thing.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, am I wrong?
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  Speaker 6: Well, it's the first time.
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  Speaker 2: My mother actually said to me the other day, because
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  Speaker 2: it's her first time having a 44-year-old son.
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  Speaker 6: So it'll always be a first.
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  Speaker 2: So every year there's a celebration that there's another year
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  Speaker 2: that she has someone who's that age.
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  Speaker 4: Well, to be fair, the firstborns also complain that they
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  Speaker 4: never stop raising some of you. So because he's your
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  Speaker 4: older brother or your older sister, even when you're 35,
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  Speaker 4: the older sibling still has to come in and rescue
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  Speaker 4: you and clean up your mess. And they carry all
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  Speaker 4: the traumas. from parents who knew nothing about raising a baby.
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  Speaker 1: I get that.
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  Speaker 7: But the firstborn, for me, are always the ones that
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  Speaker 7: are more scared than the second or the thirdborn. And
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  Speaker 7: the firstborn's the first one to put you in a
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  Speaker 7: beer box and send you down the hill first to check.
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  Speaker 1: If it's okay. Okay, the thirdborn made it. Okay, I
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  Speaker 1: can go.
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  Speaker 7: The precious cargo of firstborn can now go because the
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  Speaker 7: thirdborn went down the hill first as an experiment.
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  Speaker 1: In my old age, I'm willing to have my mind changed.
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  Speaker 3: Firstborns of the city, please do call in.
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  Speaker 1: 011-8838-947.
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  Speaker 3: Personally, I think you guys are annoying. This whole holiness
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  Speaker 3: of being the deputy parent, it just needs to go.
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  Speaker 3: But like I say, I'm willing.
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  Speaker 1: To have my mind changed.
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  Speaker 3: So as a firstborn, what is the last thing that
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  Speaker 3: happened in your life where you had to now be like, oh,
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  Speaker 3: there we go.
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  Speaker 1: Obviously, the firstborn has to take over here.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, and that's the thing.
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  Speaker 2: So as firstborn, when you get older as well, obviously
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  Speaker 2: you have to start carrying the family because you're the
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  Speaker 2: oldest and you first, obviously, then parents get older and
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  Speaker 2: now siblings want.
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  Speaker 6: I mean, it's either financial, emotional.
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  Speaker 3: And I don't know who's worse, firstborn sons or firstborn daughters,
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  Speaker 3: because firstborn daughters as well, they're always writing long essays
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  Speaker 3: on Facebook and theses about, oh, being the firstborn daughter
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  Speaker 3: is a curse because you must this.
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  Speaker 1: You must this, you must that. I'm just like, guys,
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  Speaker 1: calm yourself down. We are all going through the same thing.
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  Speaker 2: No, I think every firstborn can point out a moment.
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  Speaker 2: where they realized they were firstborn and had to do
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  Speaker 2: something or didn't get something or whatever the case is,
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  Speaker 2: because they were firstborn. And the siblings came along and
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  Speaker 2: obviously they had lain the path.
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  Speaker 7: Your hand-me-downs is what we had, Frankie.
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  Speaker 2: 011-8838-947.
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  Speaker 1: Firstborns, the platform is all yours. We are here for you.
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  Speaker 3: The couch is ready for you to bare your heart out.
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  Speaker 3: Send us a voice note as well.
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  Speaker 1: 084-0000-947.
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  Speaker 3: As for the second and the third and the fourth
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  Speaker 3: and the fifth and.
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  Speaker 1: All the way down the line, you guys are also.
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  Speaker 3: welcome to jump on board here and talk about how
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  Speaker 3: you either believe in this firstborn phenomenon or you're just like,
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  Speaker 3: you're bored and you just wish like.
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  Speaker 1: They would get over it.
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  Speaker 2: Look, I mean, you are welcome to phone and moan
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  Speaker 2: because that's what's about to happen. If you're not firstborn,
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  Speaker 2: about your brother and your sister who's older and how
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  Speaker 2: they are, and they get, you're welcome.
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  Speaker 1: The lines are open and so is Frankie's heart.
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  Speaker 6: 011-8838-947.
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  Speaker 1: Let's talk firstborns. The ups, the downs, the lefts, the rights.
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  Speaker 8: The other reason we are always scared is because we
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  Speaker 8: can't afford to make mistakes because they have given us.
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  Speaker 3: This big responsibility on how to become better for our.
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  Speaker 1: Siblings and all of those things. I am a firstborn
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  Speaker 1: daughter and I have two brothers. Oh my gosh. Those
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  Speaker 1: boys can't do anything to save themselves. And my mother
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  Speaker 1: has to go to their houses and help them clean
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  Speaker 1: our water. I'm totally in this with Cindy. Yes, Frankie,
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  Speaker 1: we got your hand-me-downs.
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  Speaker 8: And being a third born, the third girl after two girls,
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  Speaker 8: they were wearing matching clothes like they were twins.
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  Speaker 1: So I graduated from one into the next. So, you
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  Speaker 1: got the same second hand out for twice.
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  Speaker 6: Two pink dresses.
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  Speaker 1: Exact same pattern. Tepang, you are in Pretoria.
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  Speaker 3: What's happening in the 012?
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  Speaker 1: Good morning. Hi, guys.
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  Speaker 9: How are you?
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  Speaker 6: You're fantastic.
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  Speaker 1: How are you, Tabang? I'm good.
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  Speaker 9: Thank you so much. Honestly, I feel like as a firstborn,
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  Speaker 9: I carry a lot because then I become a capability parent.
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  Speaker 9: My parents are much softer to my siblings now. They
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  Speaker 9: don't do dishes. They don't clean. So I have to
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  Speaker 9: push them to do all of those things. And if
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  Speaker 9: I have to do all of that and my parents
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  Speaker 9: are just very much chill, why am I doing all
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  Speaker 9: of that as a firstborn then if I've been a firstborn?
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  Speaker 4: Hmm.
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  Speaker 1: I don't feel sorry for you. I don't want to lie. Wow. Wow.
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  Speaker 9: You're not cool. Not cool.
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  Speaker 1: Not cool. Don't worry. She's a troubled middle child. Yes.
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  Speaker 1: Of course. Of course. She's a third born.
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  Speaker 9: She's a third born. She probably never had to do dishes.
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  Speaker 9: No clean.
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  Speaker 3: Dude, I was delegated a role by my sister Onati.
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  Speaker 1: Then she's like, okay, you're doing this. I'm like, cool.
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  Speaker 1: I'm doing it.
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  Speaker 3: If you are not being listened to by your siblings,
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  Speaker 3: it means that you are not good at being leader.
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  Speaker 6: No, no, no, no, no, no. Wow.
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  Speaker 7: And the firstborn is very quick to give the thirdborn
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  Speaker 7: the worst job.
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  Speaker 4: Yes.
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  Speaker 7: Like if we're scrubbing something, the thirdborn gets like half
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  Speaker 7: a brush and half a bar of soap and like
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  Speaker 7: go for it. It has to do the slimiest section.
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  Speaker 7: And the firstborn is like, you missed a spot.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. No, because the firstborn, Tabang, had all the jobs
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  Speaker 2: because there were no other borns to help with the jobs.
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  Speaker 1: So you did everything.
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  Speaker 6: You did the dishes. You did the cooking. You did everything.
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  Speaker 6: And now that there's extra hands in the family delegating.
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  Speaker 1: Tabang.
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  Speaker 9: I generally teach them everything, I won't lie. But honestly,
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  Speaker 9: they have an attitude.
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  Speaker 1: Sapan, can I tell you something? I must have been.
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  Speaker 3: 16 years old when I was finally allowed to use
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  Speaker 3: the vacuum cleaner.
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  Speaker 1: Before that, it was all manual, my baby.
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  Speaker 3: My sister was using the vacuum cleaner because she's the
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  Speaker 3: firstborn and we were out there with a broom and
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  Speaker 3: a dustpan on a carpet.
• 8:40
  Speaker 1: That's what happens when you're not the firstborn. Get over it.
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  Speaker 9: Well, not the kids from now. They don't do that.
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  Speaker 1: They don't do that. How old are you?
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  Speaker 9: I'm 27.
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  Speaker 3: And how old are your constituency?
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  Speaker 9: My sister is 16. She's in grade 11. And my
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  Speaker 9: little brother is 12.
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  Speaker 6: Don't even remember.
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  Speaker 1: Don't even remember. Ah, come on.
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  Speaker 9: Come on.
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  Speaker 3: Please.
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  Speaker 4: What kind of deputy parent doesn't know the ages of
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  Speaker 4: their children?
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  Speaker 6: And Tipang, are you busy driving them to school right now?
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  Speaker 4: No, no, no.
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  Speaker 9: I'm going to work right now.
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  Speaker 1: To work for them.
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  Speaker 9: Sorry, Tsepang, this call has done nothing to convince me
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  Speaker 9: that firstborns are going through the most.
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  Speaker 1: You sound like a lovely person, though. You sound like
• 9:30
  Speaker 1: a lovely person.
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  Speaker 4: No problem.
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  Speaker 9: Thank you so much.
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  Speaker 1: We love you, Sepang. Enjoy work.
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  Speaker 9: Cheers.
• 9:35
  Speaker 1: Enjoy.
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  Speaker 9: Love you.
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  Speaker 5: Bye.
• 9:36
  Speaker 1: Still not convinced.
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  Speaker 3: If you guys are going to want to put a
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  Speaker 3: firstborn forward to convince me, you're going to have to
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  Speaker 3: do better than Sepang.
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  Speaker 6: Did you not hear how.
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  Speaker 2: Sepang is busy going through the most because of the otherborns.
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  Speaker 6: Did you not hear him there?
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  Speaker 5: Dude.
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  Speaker 1: I don't get it.
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  Speaker 6: That's the point.
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  Speaker 1: You guys act like, oh.
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  Speaker 6: You won't get it because you're not a firstborn.
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  Speaker 10: A firstborn.
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  Speaker 4: Firstborns feel this pressure because they self-appoint themselves to all
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  Speaker 4: of these duties.
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  Speaker 1: No one ever asks them to help. I'm a firstborn daughter.
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  Speaker 6: Can I just say, being a firstborn sucks.
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  Speaker 1: We didn't choose this. It sucks.
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  Speaker 8: Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey. And then what
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  Speaker 8: are you saying? You are who you are because of
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  Speaker 8: your sister. Firstborns are the deputy parents. And you know what?
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  Speaker 8: For the rest of your life, we will be that.
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  Speaker 8: You know, you don't get to cancel us.
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  Speaker 9: All right.
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  Speaker 1: Spoken like a true firstborn.
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  Speaker 6: Exactly.
• 10:35
  Speaker 1: I've spoken. I'm not going to speak again. Change the channel. Tando,
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  Speaker 1: you are 11 years old in Alberton. Good morning.
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  Speaker 5: Good morning.
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  Speaker 1: How are you, my baby?
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  Speaker 5: I'm good.
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  Speaker 1: We're good. Talk to us. Are you the firstborn?
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  Speaker 5: No, I'm actually the secondborn, which causes me to be
• 10:54
  Speaker 5: the middleborn.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, okay. Okay, that's another set of issues. So you
• 11:00
  Speaker 1: are 11. How old is the firstborn?
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  Speaker 5: He's turning 14 in December.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so not much older than you. Is he a tyrant?
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  Speaker 1: Does he run the house?
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  Speaker 5: You could say that.
• 11:14
  Speaker 1: Really?
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  Speaker 3: So what's the last thing he did where he gave
• 11:17
  Speaker 3: you an instruction and he gave you a duty to
• 11:20
  Speaker 3: do as the firstborn?
• 11:22
  Speaker 5: Well, literally, I have a real story for you. So
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  Speaker 5: that last night.
• 11:30
  Speaker 5: My dad was like, y'all better go to sleep because
• 11:32
  Speaker 5: it's already 11 o'clock and you're supposed to be asleep
• 11:35
  Speaker 5: by 10 o'clock. Then I tell him to go to sleep.
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  Speaker 5: Then he's like, no, I don't want to. Then I'm like,
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  Speaker 5: you're writing your exam tomorrow. Then he says, well, you're
• 11:48
  Speaker 5: not in a high school, so you shouldn't be the
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  Speaker 5: one to talk. So I just leave him alone. Then
• 11:54
  Speaker 5: I come back. Then I tell him to go to sleep.
• 11:57
  Speaker 5: Then he says he doesn't want. Then I'm like, okay,
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  Speaker 5: what's up with you.
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  Speaker 3: And your room?
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  Speaker 5: Then he's like, there's a Christmas bug in my room.
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  Speaker 5: And he's terrified of those. So then I had to
• 12:09
  Speaker 5: drag him to his room just for him to, like,
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  Speaker 5: just go to bed. And I had to, like, chase
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  Speaker 5: it away. Like, I picked it up in my hand
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  Speaker 5: and threw it out.
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  Speaker 3: Okay.
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  Speaker 5: I think I killed it.
• 12:19
  Speaker 1: Tando.
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  Speaker 3: Something, you are giving big firstborn energy. Am I the
• 12:24
  Speaker 3: only one? Because you're the one telling him to go
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  Speaker 3: to bed. You're the one telling him that he's writing exams.
• 12:28
  Speaker 3: You're the one taking Christmas bags out of his room.
• 12:30
  Speaker 6: No, this is secondborn energy.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, really?
• 12:32
  Speaker 6: No, this is it.
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  Speaker 2: As firstborns, we have to listen to you, Tando, trying
• 12:37
  Speaker 2: to tell us what to do.
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  Speaker 6: But we know better. We know better, Tando.
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  Speaker 1: Mm-hmm.
• 12:44
  Speaker 3: Tando, thank you so much for the call. Which school
• 12:46
  Speaker 3: are you in, my love?
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  Speaker 5: Reckoners Primary.
• 12:50
  Speaker 1: Oh, Brackenhurst. Oh, those are our people. Okay.
• 12:53
  Speaker 3: Tando, on another day, not today, on another day, I'm
• 12:56
  Speaker 3: going to have to call you and talk to you
• 12:58
  Speaker 3: on the radio and ask you why your bedtime is
• 13:00
  Speaker 3: so late. Okay. Yes.
• 13:03
  Speaker 1: Because, see, 11 o'clock.
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  Speaker 3: Is very late for an 11-year-old.
• 13:08
  Speaker 1: But we'll talk about it on another day. Please tell
• 13:10
  Speaker 1: your brother we say hi, okay?
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  Speaker 9: Okay.
• 13:13
  Speaker 1: Love you, bye. Let's wrap it up. Is it Michaela
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  Speaker 1: in El Dorado Park?
• 13:19
  Speaker 10: Hi, Anila in the club.
• 13:21
  Speaker 1: Hi, Michaela. How are you?
• 13:23
  Speaker 10: I'm good. How are you?
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  Speaker 1: We're great. Where do you fall in the range? First born, second, third, tenth?
• 13:30
  Speaker 10: I am actually the first born daughter.
• 13:32
  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah. So you guys feel your problems are even bigger.
• 13:36
  Speaker 9: Yeah, it is.
• 13:38
  Speaker 1: Why is that?
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  Speaker 4: Well, as the first.
• 13:41
  Speaker 10: Born daughter, you know, they eat sparks. Not going to lie.
• 13:45
  Speaker 10: They eat the sparks. But then also you have this
• 13:48
  Speaker 10: unrealistic expectation of being the perfect child.
• 13:52
  Speaker 6: Yes.
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  Speaker 10: Like you have to do everything right because your parents
• 13:55
  Speaker 10: can't mess up.
• 13:57
  Speaker 1: Exactly.
• 13:58
  Speaker 2: Michaela, I know what you're about to say, and I
• 14:01
  Speaker 2: think I can agree with you here. As firstborns, you
• 14:04
  Speaker 2: are the first also to disappoint your parents. When they
• 14:07
  Speaker 2: expect you to get A-plus marks at school and you
• 14:10
  Speaker 2: get a C, then obviously you see the disappointment. They
• 14:14
  Speaker 2: thought you were going to be the next Elon Musk,
• 14:15
  Speaker 2: and it obviously turns out you're not. And so you
• 14:18
  Speaker 2: have to pave that path. When the thirdborn comes around
• 14:21
  Speaker 2: and she drops out of university after... after two years
• 14:25
  Speaker 2: of doing law, like that's when you've already paved the way.
• 14:30
  Speaker 3: So everyone's expecting disappointment because you did it already.
• 14:33
  Speaker 10: Yes.
• 14:34
  Speaker 1: But then it's fine, guys. Then that's done.
• 14:35
  Speaker 3: Then after that, what else is wrong about being a firstborn?
• 14:39
  Speaker 10: I was actually a law student and I didn't want
• 14:42
  Speaker 10: to do it because I hated it. I hate history.
• 14:44
  Speaker 10: I don't know about it. But because that was the
• 14:48
  Speaker 10: vision my parents had. It was either be a doctor
• 14:51
  Speaker 10: or be a lawyer.
• 14:52
  Speaker 6: Okay.
• 14:53
  Speaker 10: And I just decided in my second year that I
• 14:56
  Speaker 10: don't want to do this anymore. Oh, my parents were
• 14:59
  Speaker 10: so upset. They didn't speak to me for months because
• 15:03
  Speaker 10: of it.
• 15:04
  Speaker 6: Where did you end up being?
• 15:06
  Speaker 10: I'm in marketing now.
• 15:08
  Speaker 1: Well, I'll also be upset if I was your parents.
• 15:13
  Speaker 3: Now you're out here selling us checkers 60-60.
• 15:18
  Speaker 10: Not even. I love it. I get to write. I
• 15:21
  Speaker 10: get to be creative. Something that I've always been, being young,
• 15:26
  Speaker 10: you know?
• 15:26
  Speaker 6: You see, but you've paved the way for everyone to come.
• 15:29
  Speaker 10: Yeah, now my siblings just have free reign. Like, they
• 15:32
  Speaker 10: can come in any time of the day. They can
• 15:35
  Speaker 10: do whatever.
• 15:37
  Speaker 3: Okay, this is what I wanted to ask very quickly.
• 15:39
  Speaker 3: Did your parents ever get the lawyer?
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: No.
• 15:44
  Speaker 6: What are the siblings? Quickly, give me the, what are
• 15:46
  Speaker 6: they doing?
• 15:47
  Speaker 10: So, my one brother has his own business.
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: Mm-hmm.
• 15:51
  Speaker 10: And then, Both of them are actually doing IQ.
• 15:55
  Speaker 3: Bunch of a disappointment, all of these children.
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: No, babe. I'm channeling my dad. He wanted an engineer.
• 16:03
  Speaker 2: Oh, really?
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: Oh, he doesn't have a single one. Dude, we can't
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: even build a bridge to get over it.
• 16:08
  Speaker 6: And he kept trying.
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he tried.
• 16:09
  Speaker 6: I'm totally trying for an engineer.
• 16:11
  Speaker 3: My dad is on five kids and not an engineer
• 16:13
  Speaker 3: in sight.
• 16:14
  Speaker 5: Take it back now.
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: Back to making your morning. Anele and the club.
• 16:19
  Speaker 4: I love this show.
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: On 947.