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3 Reasons Why (You Think) You Should Wait to Date · Secrets They'll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix

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  From a professional matchmaker and a dating coach, here are
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  three reasons why you might think you need to wait to date.
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  Hang on, in no particular order, as usual.
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  Number one, you don't feel good about yourself.
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  Somebody came along and they did a number on you up here.
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  They made you think you're too fat.
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  They made you think you're too skinny.
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  They made you think you're not smart enough.
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  They made you think that you're not pretty enough, that you're
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  not young enough. But this is not true.
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  Never wait to date because you don't feel good enough.
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  Because guess what? The ladies that are coming in
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  that I'm working with through my mentorship program, it's a huge
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  part of what we work on because so many of you feel like you're
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  not good enough to date, but what you really don't realize is
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  that you're fantastic. You just need to believe it.
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  And sometimes you need to see it, to believe it.
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  And that's where it comes about leveling you up.
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  But I You're not divorced yet, or another one that you had a
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  really ugly divorce and you're afraid to have to touch the
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  subject. Do not be afraid now.
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  People are dating at all stages of life.
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  You know, some are going through these long divorces that take
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  forever. Some went through a really,
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  really ugly divorce that's painful to talk about.
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  All right, So I help you create stories so that if it comes up,
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  you can easily answer it because you have your go to story right
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  here in your pocket. Just pull it out.
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  That's your story. And then you move them on down,
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  change the subject. But never think that just
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  because you're not divorced yet that you can't be dating.
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  You just have to have a story that explains your situation in
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  a way that doesn't open a rabbit hole.
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  So you pull out every ugly detail.
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  OK, but don't wait. Hang on one more.
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  So also, people think they should wait today because
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  they're just exhausted. They're burned out, They're fed
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  up. But time is ticking.
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  You can't afford to wait. You can't afford to miss an
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  opportunity. What you need is a streamline
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  process. And then you got to follow the
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  blueprint to the letter, like a recipe.
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  OK. But if you're going trying to
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  date and you're trying a little of this and a little of that and
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  and and you, you don't know which end to do or who to
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  believe or what to do, Yeah, you're gonna be like a deer in
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  headlights. You're gonna be confused and
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  overwhelmed and exhausted. But you don't have to be.
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  You just need to have a plan and strategy that you follow, rinse
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  and repeat. Like what I give my ladies when
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  they're working with me six weeks?
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  OK, you can create your own plan.
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  You can do it with me if you want to fast track everything.
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  But don't wait to date. Why?
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  Because when you go into that cave, the longer you wait, the
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  further you get into The Cave, the further further.
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  And then the harder it'll be to ever come out of that cave.
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  I promise. All right, if you want my help,
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  you want to work with me six weeks.
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  I work with you personally. Personally, it don't get any
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  more personal unless I actually moved into your house with you.
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  OK? If you want this kind of help to
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  level you up in every way so you can stop making excuses, then DM
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  me with the word love on IG, my link to my Igs above, DM me with
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  the word on IG to get the info. Hope it helps.