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90 Day Fiancé Before the 90 Days Season 8 Episode 18 “Emergency Exit” with Ally Duncan · Vanity Farah with Chris Farah

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  Speaker 1: One.
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  Speaker 2: Hi, everyone, Welcome back to Vanity Farah. My name is
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  Speaker 2: Chris Farah. I am super pumped today to talk about
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  Speaker 2: our favorite show on yours. It's ninety Day Fiance. This
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  Speaker 2: is before the ninety Days. It's season eight. It's episode eighteen.
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  Speaker 2: Because we are getting down of those tell alls. This
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  Speaker 2: one was called Emergency Exit and thank god, I have
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  Speaker 2: an emergency guest host with me.
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  Speaker 1: Her name is Ali Duncan.
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  Speaker 2: She has a very popular, gorgeous esthetic, super cute Instagram
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  Speaker 2: that is her baking. And not only that, like it's
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  Speaker 2: it is delicate, it is precision baking. And at the
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  Speaker 2: same time she also does micro baking, which is fascinating,
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  Speaker 2: and it's like she has the cutest little instruments that
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  Speaker 2: actually work of kitchens and you get to see her
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  Speaker 2: cook real items. It's like easy bake oven for like ants.
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  Speaker 2: And on top of that, I'm not just a fan,
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  Speaker 2: but Britney Spears is a fan.
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  Speaker 1: Ali, Welcome to the Vanity Farrah.
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  Speaker 3: Hello, Hi, Chris, thanks for having me.
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  Speaker 1: Oh I'm so pumped girl. Listen.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, you do this micro baking on top of your
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  Speaker 2: already gorgeous baking Instagram and then just like out of
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  Speaker 2: the Blue.
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  Speaker 1: Britney Spears found you and she's like, I love.
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  Speaker 2: A micro baker, honey, give me a tiny muffin and
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  Speaker 2: she reposted you.
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  Speaker 1: What was that like?
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  Speaker 3: Surreal? Honestly I thought it was a joke at first.
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  Speaker 3: I really I got the notification and I was like, oh,
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  Speaker 3: you know, somebody pretending to be Britney Spears, because you
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  Speaker 3: know how people are on the internet. I've gotten this
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  Speaker 3: and let's look. And then I looked at it and
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  Speaker 3: then it was actually Britney Spears. And I was like
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  Speaker 3: just standing in my kitchen for a second, like looking
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  Speaker 3: at it, and then I like just started freaking it.
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  Speaker 3: It just hit me and I was like, oh my god.
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  Speaker 3: And it actually happened a few times, and I was
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  Speaker 3: just like so weird because you would think. I mean,
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  Speaker 3: I guess she doesn't have to she's Britney Spears, so
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  Speaker 3: she doesn't have to go, hey, I'm going to repost
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  Speaker 3: this video. I hope that's okay. I'll make sure to
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  Speaker 3: tag you. It was just surprise, I've reposted your video
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  Speaker 3: and I'm Britney Spears and whooh, what a time.
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  Speaker 2: It's interesting because I do find comfort in watching your
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  Speaker 2: videos and the microbaking hits like a certain vibe within
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  Speaker 2: me that just feels there's an escapist quality there is,
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  Speaker 2: I think, like a nostalgia quality, and.
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  Speaker 1: I wonder what that's like.
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  Speaker 2: Is do people across the board like say similar things
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  Speaker 2: of why they are so into micro baking and I
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  Speaker 2: wonder if the same thing was for Brittany.
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  Speaker 3: I think people do find it really comforting. I do
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  Speaker 3: have a lot of comments about it being like an
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  Speaker 3: even smaller easy bake oven, which, if I'm honest, is
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  Speaker 3: actually how I got my start baking, because you know,
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  Speaker 3: born in the eighties nineties, kid, right, So I did
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  Speaker 3: get my start baking on an easy bake oven, like
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  Speaker 3: like most people you know, my age, and so it
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  Speaker 3: just it was so fun. It was a company just
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  Speaker 3: sent me this tiny oven, and I was like, a
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  Speaker 3: tiny oven and what powered by candlelight? That can't work?
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  Speaker 3: And then it does?
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  Speaker 1: Cat No, the cat's like, yeah, no, I love it. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: everyone loves it.
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  Speaker 3: Yet oh oh boy, I'm giving him a strong look,
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  Speaker 3: but he doesn't care because he's a cat. Yeah. So
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  Speaker 3: it was just very very natural. Once I started it,
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  Speaker 3: people loved it, and that is generally the commentary is
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  Speaker 3: this is so comforting. This is so nostalgic. This is
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  Speaker 3: like healing my inner child. And I'm like, you know what,
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  Speaker 3: it's healing mine too, So I love it. It's fun.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you have such a I mean, you have such
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  Speaker 2: a like astute eye.
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  Speaker 1: You your your content is beautiful, like thank you.
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  Speaker 2: It looks beautiful, like it is beautiful, like it is
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  Speaker 2: so yeah, like it.
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  Speaker 1: Is stimulating, it is like exciting.
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  Speaker 2: It's like also but like it's not overwhelming, it's just
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  Speaker 2: it like it's like almost. Yeah, it's like a fairy
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  Speaker 2: land of candy, Like it's a bakery fairy candy land
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  Speaker 2: of like this, Like oh, I would love to live.
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  Speaker 1: There, Like it feels like you get to it feels
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  Speaker 1: like your whole world is just the most colorful, beautiful thing.
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  Speaker 1: Do you like? Are you liked? Do you like to
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  Speaker 1: intere design too?
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  Speaker 2: Are you someone who visually puts things together in other
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  Speaker 2: parts of your life?
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  Speaker 3: I try to. So I think for me everything comes
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  Speaker 3: back to like being having been a musician. So I
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  Speaker 3: got my my career like from the start was as
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  Speaker 3: a musician, a singer songwriter. So I've always been just
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  Speaker 3: sort of you know, artistic, and then yeah, as I've
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  Speaker 3: come to have my own house, like decorating stuff, designing
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  Speaker 3: my office, doing that sort of thing, you know, putting
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  Speaker 3: together crazy outfits, and I'm usually in something like pink.
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  Speaker 3: Right now, I'm wearing a glass pigeon necklace. Like I
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  Speaker 3: just I love I don't know, I love like whimsy
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  Speaker 3: a lot. And I think it's so important the older
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  Speaker 3: that you get to have more whimsy, right like, because
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  Speaker 3: I feel like society tries to take our whimsy away
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  Speaker 3: from us, especially as women from an early age. And no,
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  Speaker 3: I'm going to fight that with everything in me and
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  Speaker 3: just put more back out into the universe.
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  Speaker 1: God, you're so right.
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  Speaker 2: It's like you say whimsy and to me it could
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  Speaker 2: be like joy, you know, like and there was also
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  Speaker 2: this whole thing I think on TikTok, like to romanticize
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  Speaker 2: your life.
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  Speaker 1: But even that it does feel the same way, which
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  Speaker 1: is like.
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  Speaker 2: View and live your life like through the lens that
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  Speaker 2: gives you joy or happiness, like how things like work
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  Speaker 2: for you. And it's like, God, it's so interesting. Yeah, you're.
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  Speaker 3: You are.
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  Speaker 2: You told me a little bit about your music history,
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  Speaker 2: which is and we're I'm a little older than you.
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  Speaker 2: But I also like have the same age, like I
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  Speaker 2: grew up in the eighties and nineties, and it's it
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  Speaker 2: must be crazy also to be like, oh at one
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  Speaker 2: point like Britney Spears also is like a huge part
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  Speaker 2: of the pops thing of that. So like she just
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  Speaker 2: was like, I got you, girl. I can almost like
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  Speaker 2: hear the music spirit in you. But I'm gonna like
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  Speaker 2: repost this baking thing. Do you think Britney Spears song?
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  Speaker 2: By the way, how could.
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  Speaker 3: You make me choose? I mean my first slow dance
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  Speaker 3: was to a Britney Spears song, So hold on, just
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  Speaker 3: can I pause for one second? Yeah, I have to
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  Speaker 3: get my husband to help with these cats.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, God, it must be nice to have just someone
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  Speaker 1: just to call in, honey, get them, come get these kids.
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  Speaker 1: Your turn with the kids.
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  Speaker 2: So put them in, Put them in, Put them in
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  Speaker 2: one of the rooms, honey, put on a screen.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, but I'm Cat TV, Black Cat TV.
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  Speaker 3: He's like, don't turn on the cat.
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  Speaker 1: They're gonna knock the TV over.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, well it'll be fine. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: So those are some strong cats.
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  Speaker 3: One of them used to weigh twenty two pounds.
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  Speaker 1: He's a beast.
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  Speaker 3: He's only thirteen now because he's old, but yeah, he's big. Anyway,
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  Speaker 3: I well, can we pack track?
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  Speaker 1: She'll I edit it together. Honestly, if you think I
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  Speaker 1: didn't like that, you're wrong. You also, yeah, you have
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  Speaker 1: your husband is from the UK. He's from England.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I have a First of all, I love English TV,
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  Speaker 2: like I've always loved English TV, like I grew up
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  Speaker 2: on ab Fab.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like a big ad fab girl.
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  Speaker 2: I've like, I have like a minor, like pseudo obsession
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  Speaker 2: with a show that was like on for only two
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  Speaker 2: seasons in the early two thousands called ninety Night. I
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  Speaker 2: think it's like wildly crazy. But my comfort show, my
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  Speaker 2: like fixation. This is the show that I watch at
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  Speaker 2: night in bed. It's like I can't even think about
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  Speaker 2: It's like it's not gonna be like a reality show
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  Speaker 2: where I have to like pay attention or care. This
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  Speaker 2: show puts me to bed in.
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  Speaker 1: The best mood, which is naked attraction. Oh okay, good, great, Nick, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: let's talk about it, you guys.
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  Speaker 2: So Ali's reaction was big, don't even worry about it.
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  Speaker 2: And by the way, yeah, esthetically she is like she
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  Speaker 2: looks fierce as fuck. And if you are listening on
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  Speaker 2: my podcast, thank you so much, give me five stars.
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  Speaker 1: But you also can see this on YouTube.
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  Speaker 2: Patreon will get all the visuals before anyone else, so
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  Speaker 2: we can shut this off. But let me just say this,
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  Speaker 2: just so you guys know, there's a show you can
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  Speaker 2: watch on HBO.
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  Speaker 1: It's called Naked Attraction. It has like six seasons, so
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  Speaker 1: you can. It'll go through it.
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  Speaker 2: It's not on TV anymore. And that part, I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: bring it back? What is your experience with Naked Attraction?
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  Speaker 3: So I didn't even know that it existed until we
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  Speaker 3: were sort of scrolling through one night trying to find
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  Speaker 3: something to watch, and I was like, you know, bring
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  Speaker 3: it up. And my husband's like, oh my god, I
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  Speaker 3: forgot that this existed. And I was like, why could
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  Speaker 3: you never failure, failure, failure as a British person for
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  Speaker 3: you never to tell me that this show exists where
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  Speaker 3: people are just choosing each other based on their naked bodies?
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  Speaker 1: What? What?
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  Speaker 3: I'm sorry? What? And how has that not translated over
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  Speaker 3: to American television? Like why have we not if we
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  Speaker 3: not bought the rights to that?
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  Speaker 1: I have to doing that. Someone tried.
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  Speaker 2: I love naked attraction for the following reasons. A. I
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  Speaker 2: think the host is divine. I think that she like yeah,
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  Speaker 2: like smart, funny, warm, cheeky. Like the way that the
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  Speaker 2: show is is that you know, just so you guys,
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  Speaker 2: everyone knows it's a dating show. So you have a
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  Speaker 2: person that comes on and then there's like six or
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  Speaker 2: five or six people behind these colored cubes and the
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  Speaker 2: first level is everyone's naked behind the colored cubes and
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  Speaker 2: the door rises to right above their genitals. So the
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  Speaker 2: first thing that happens is that you are greeted with
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  Speaker 2: the genitals of five people that you could date. And
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  Speaker 2: the show is really progressive. So like the show has
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  Speaker 2: you know, everyone has men looking for men, men looking
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  Speaker 2: for women, women looking for men. Women that are everyone
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  Speaker 2: that people that are by looking for both. There's trance
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  Speaker 2: of everyone everyone is looking for love, and like everyone is.
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  Speaker 1: Treated like we're all human beings with.
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  Speaker 2: Different parts and the parts are there and they're in,
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  Speaker 2: but they sometimes look different.
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  Speaker 1: And we can just kind of remark about, like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: look at those balls, like the kind of like.
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  Speaker 2: Superficial, like okay, it's kind of like this disconnected instead
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  Speaker 2: of judgment or shame about the look of any sort
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  Speaker 2: of thing. It's like everyone just showcases what they have
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  Speaker 2: with the with the guys that some people are gonna
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  Speaker 2: like me, some people are not gonna. And look how
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  Speaker 2: interesting mine are. Like it's healing.
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  Speaker 3: I love it. I love it so much. The first
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  Speaker 3: time I watched it, I was like, how have I
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  Speaker 3: never seen this before? Why didn't this come into my
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  Speaker 3: life sooner? Where has this been? It's just so it
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  Speaker 3: feels even though everybody's naked, it feels really wholesome in
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  Speaker 3: a way.
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  Speaker 1: I guess, yes. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: First of all, it was on Prime. It was on
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  Speaker 2: their like channels on TV like four, six, and seven,
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  Speaker 2: like you know, just so like this was never like
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  Speaker 2: you know, like an adult only. This is like you know,
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  Speaker 2: on regular TV of course after midnight or sorry, after ten,
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  Speaker 2: and I think that there was maybe either eight or ten.
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  Speaker 2: And there is a little like message about full frontal,
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  Speaker 2: full frontal nudity.
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  Speaker 1: After you see all.
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  Speaker 2: The genitals, like it moves on to like you know,
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  Speaker 2: tummy and breasts or if they're you know, whatever's happening
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  Speaker 2: up there, and then to face and in the very end,
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  Speaker 2: you know, the person that is choosing has to be naked,
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  Speaker 2: and then they both choose each other, they go on
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  Speaker 2: a date.
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  Speaker 1: To me, the dates rarely actually work, I know, which
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  Speaker 1: is a.
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  Speaker 3: Shame, isn't it It is. It's just so wholesome. I
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  Speaker 3: don't know how because again, everybody's naked.
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  Speaker 1: Okay. So when's the last time you watched it?
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  Speaker 3: Oh? Gosh, probably like a year ago. We watched a
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  Speaker 3: bunch of it and then we were like it kind
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  Speaker 3: of got you know, everything was the same, so we
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  Speaker 3: stopped watching it for a while. And now I'm like, oh,
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  Speaker 3: we could pick that back up because we haven't watched
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  Speaker 3: it in a while, and I really enjoy it.
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  Speaker 4: It's fresh, all right, my loves, and might as well
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  Speaker 4: start talking about a fiance from from Dixon boobs to
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  Speaker 4: none of a fiance, which is actually you know, for
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  Speaker 4: Rick appropriate and boobs, you know, Belie.
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  Speaker 2: So I love Alice, I really, I mean as a character,
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  Speaker 2: I really feel like I don't mind her. She gets
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  Speaker 2: a lot of hate online for like, you know, dressing
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  Speaker 2: a certain way or whatever.
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  Speaker 1: But it's like, of.
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  Speaker 3: Course she does because she's beautiful, so you know, of
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  Speaker 3: course she gets it. She's a beautiful woman.
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  Speaker 2: Surprised really, I know, And it's you know, I feel
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  Speaker 2: like it's also a lot of women hating on her.
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  Speaker 2: But also I just want to say, you know, Miami.
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  Speaker 2: I had to been never live in Miami. Miami has
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  Speaker 2: a vibe like you know Miami. And she's not the
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  Speaker 2: first cast member to talk about the way people dress
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  Speaker 2: in Miami. Like, we got a lot of like Yara
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  Speaker 2: being Miami esque and how you know. Lauren was like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: she's very in Miami and what that meant, which we
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  Speaker 2: can only imagine.
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  Speaker 1: And then also.
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  Speaker 2: God bless Darcy having to go to the Bulgaria also
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  Speaker 2: how to deal with like dressing a certain way and
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  Speaker 2: having it not be you know, right for his family,
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  Speaker 2: but her like kind of being like, well, this is
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  Speaker 2: how we do it in Miami. Wait, Ali, have you
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  Speaker 2: ever been in Miami and is that what's happening in Miami.
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  Speaker 3: I have never been there, but from everything that I
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  Speaker 3: have seen and everybody that I know that's from Miami,
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  Speaker 3: that's just the vibe. That's the vibe there.
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  Speaker 2: It's like it's very hot, so you don't have humid hot.
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  Speaker 3: I've been to Florida and it's so humid.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I went too, and I was like, I
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  Speaker 2: just I'm we're both from California, so we both had
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  Speaker 2: like that climate. And then I remember when my dad
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  Speaker 2: took me to like Disney World for like, you know,
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  Speaker 2: one time in my life. I don't remember, I'm sure
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  Speaker 2: I was young. I still remember what it's like when
• 14:15
  Speaker 2: I got out of the airport because I could not understand,
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  Speaker 2: like how how what was happening with with my with breath.
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  Speaker 2: I was like like, well, I'm sorry, oxygen is not
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  Speaker 2: coming in my lungs.
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  Speaker 1: Is that happening to anyone else here? Like I couldn't even.
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  Speaker 2: The feeling of it was so palpable, like the it
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  Speaker 2: with the thickness of the air, Like I couldn't get
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  Speaker 2: my breath around, if that makes sense.
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  Speaker 3: It's trying. It's like trying to breathe in soup. It
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  Speaker 3: is so gross. It's similar in Alabama, but it's actually
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  Speaker 3: way worse in Florida. Like the first time I ever
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  Speaker 3: went down to Florida was to record in kind of
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  Speaker 3: like landlocked Florida in the middle of it, and it
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  Speaker 3: was I just I remember walking out of the airport
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  Speaker 3: and being like, it's even worse here than it is
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  Speaker 3: in Alabama. And it's humid here. I mean, it is
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  Speaker 3: really humid here, but it is next level down in Florida.
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  Speaker 3: So I do not blame any of the girlies in
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  Speaker 3: Miami for walking around in little clothing because it's gross there.
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  Speaker 3: It's like it's so it's just so humid and hot. No,
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  Speaker 3: thank you?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yep.
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  Speaker 2: So we pick up and Elise is, you know, talking
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  Speaker 2: to her boy Joshua, and he's like, what's the scariest thing.
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  Speaker 1: That you've done? And she's like, I fucked my put
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  Speaker 1: pilot boyfriend while he was flying.
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  Speaker 2: And I was like, whoa, No, that's bad. We're other
• 15:41
  Speaker 2: people on the plane just you. Also are you sitting
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  Speaker 2: on his lap?
• 15:43
  Speaker 1: Also? But like is there a co pilot?
• 15:46
  Speaker 3: I feel like, was this a commercial flight? Should we
• 15:48
  Speaker 3: be concerned?
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: Is this js X? Yeah? I Stelta one. Yeah. He's
• 15:57
  Speaker 1: like I don't want to hear about that. She's like, okay.
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  Speaker 2: The crux of this episode comes when she was like,
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  Speaker 2: I wanted to do something fun for him. He's an
• 16:05
  Speaker 2: adventurous person, loves the water godless. So I found something
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  Speaker 2: called ab sailing and she's like, I have abs and
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  Speaker 2: I'm failing, and so she books it and basically what
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  Speaker 2: ab sailing is to me and I also had not
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  Speaker 2: heard of that word.
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: I had.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it just is to me, Yeah, it's waters it's
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  Speaker 2: a hike and then you traverse.
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  Speaker 1: It's traversing in the natural elements. To me, down a waterfall,
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: you traverse.
• 16:33
  Speaker 3: I don't know, Well, it's kind of like repelling, isn't it.
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: I mean, it looked like repelling, is it? I have
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: a question? Is that word repelling or propelling?
• 16:40
  Speaker 3: Repelling?
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: Repelling? Great?
• 16:42
  Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you, But I'm like, I that's not what
• 16:45
  Speaker 3: I thought when she said ab sailing. I'm like, what's
• 16:48
  Speaker 3: ab sailing? Then I start thinking about you're going to
• 16:50
  Speaker 3: be on like why why did it give me the
• 16:53
  Speaker 3: image of like boogiey boarding? For some reason, I was like,
• 16:57
  Speaker 3: are you going to be laying on your abs trying
• 16:59
  Speaker 3: to sail? I just I took it very literally and
• 17:02
  Speaker 3: then I was like, oh, that's not what I would
• 17:05
  Speaker 3: have called this.
• 17:06
  Speaker 2: But okay, I wonder, yeah, like she is someone who
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: you know, has would show up, you know, in like
• 17:15
  Speaker 2: the same kind of titty top which I love. And
• 17:18
  Speaker 2: once she started to like get involved, and once they
• 17:21
  Speaker 2: started to put a wet suit on her with like
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: water shoes, I wonder like if she was like.
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: Oh what suit.
• 17:29
  Speaker 2: Like, it's funny because they put these go pros on
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: them and then they all kind of looked like bit Moji's.
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: Remember when we like bit Moji's were a thing and
• 17:37
  Speaker 2: it was like a big ass head and a tiny
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: ass body.
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: They all like big Moji's. To me, I didn't like.
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: I liked it. It's like kind of like someone had said,
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: like a little bit like I think Mary Payne had said,
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: like a little bit like Blair Witch Project or whatever
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: of them just like really being scared, like up close
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: on these broke on these go pros. She does not
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: have a good time with it.
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: I it's she's not having fun, even when they're just
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: walking through the puddles, going like walking through different puddles.
• 18:09
  Speaker 2: That part, actually I think I would have liked unless
• 18:12
  Speaker 2: they were less. The rocks were so slippery that.
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: I thought that I was going to like hurt an ankle.
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah, she also is getting cold, and that part, like
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: when your body gets cold, it like it is becomes
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: insufferable to do most things.
• 18:26
  Speaker 3: It makes everything more miserable.
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 18:30
  Speaker 3: To be fair, though, I probably would have had the
• 18:32
  Speaker 3: same reaction that she had, especially if I thought that
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: ab sailing were something else entirely. She probably should have
• 18:38
  Speaker 3: googled what it was before she did it, just maybe
• 18:43
  Speaker 3: or like.
• 18:44
  Speaker 2: Was there any other videos or pictures just like you know,
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: like did she really just find it and then push
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: by and without like looking at like, you know, they're
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: gonna have some sort of videos, some sort of.
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: Teaser, like a teaser clip of what abbsailing is? It
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: looks can?
• 19:00
  Speaker 5: I I do love waterfalls?
• 19:05
  Speaker 3: Beautiful? Don't we all? Don't all millennials chase waterfalls? Yeah,
• 19:10
  Speaker 3: even though we were warned.
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: I know, I know, but I mean that's what growing
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: up is is to you know, getting uncomfortable in new
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: rivers and the new lakes. And she did she did
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: do that? You know?
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Like it's really powerful to be around like a
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: body of water that's like at full force.
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: And I feel like we also get a lot of this.
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: It's fun. A trope is that it's fun to do
• 19:35
  Speaker 2: something with a romantic partner because.
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: Then you go through a trial and tribulation together and
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: brings you closer. Like we see that a lot, like
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: whether they're like.
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: Ziplining or like jumping off or boot bungee jumping. Ally,
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: is that something that you've done with your husband.
• 19:49
  Speaker 3: No, our marriage wouldn't survive that. Absolutely. No, He's he's
• 19:54
  Speaker 3: a very h he ski so okay, here's a great example.
• 19:58
  Speaker 3: He loves skiing, loves it ski because you know, he
• 20:02
  Speaker 3: grew up skiing in Europe as a kid, right, so great,
• 20:04
  Speaker 3: good for him. I grew up on an island in
• 20:08
  Speaker 3: Hawaii and in southern California. I don't ski, uh, and
• 20:13
  Speaker 3: I don't want to ski uh as a person with ADHD,
• 20:17
  Speaker 3: I'm I am very clumsy uh and I am very
• 20:23
  Speaker 3: prone to, you know, hurting myself.
• 20:26
  Speaker 6: Uh.
• 20:27
  Speaker 3: And I don't want to try and hurt myself on purpose.
• 20:29
  Speaker 3: And skiing the only time I've tried, it felt like
• 20:33
  Speaker 3: I was just going down a hill high speed, with
• 20:37
  Speaker 3: my legs going in two different directions. And because I'd
• 20:39
  Speaker 3: never skied before, I don't know how to bring and
• 20:41
  Speaker 3: my husband shouting pizza, pizza, and I'm like, I don't
• 20:45
  Speaker 3: know what you mean. I don't know what you mean,
• 20:48
  Speaker 3: and I was like, I'll never do that again, thank you.
• 20:50
  Speaker 3: So no, we don't do those sorts of things that
• 20:53
  Speaker 3: would not bring us closer together. It would definitely this scenario,
• 20:58
  Speaker 3: in particular with me screaming I don't like heights girls,
• 21:01
  Speaker 3: so no, I'm going down a waterfall. I got vertigo, no,
• 21:05
  Speaker 3: thank you. I would also be screaming and crying saying
• 21:08
  Speaker 3: I want to go home. I want to go home.
• 21:10
  Speaker 3: So he has friends for that, you know what I mean?
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Chris, oh your husband too, but yeah, but also
• 21:16
  Speaker 2: Joshua has that friend Chris.
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: He also has Nat. I wonder if Nat would do it.
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: I want to feel like I feel like Nat would
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: be like she couldn't do it, so dowb I do it.
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: I actually cannot do. I'm sorry. That was a UK accent.
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: I can't do an Australian accent. Saved my life and
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: it makes me so upset.
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: You know, I can't.
• 21:32
  Speaker 3: I can't either. It's okay, don't feel bad.
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: It's just like it really gets into like it really
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: will just go. Queen's British, I mean, you know, or Cockney,
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: like you know, one of them. But yeah, she she
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: does it.
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: Listen, she does it, and she's been you know, she's
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: been doing team player shit the whole time.
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: I think that she whether she wants.
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: To be like I'm not super you know, like vain
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: and I'm not super like bougie or I'm not. I
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: can I can like handle, you know, getting dressed on
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: an airport and going right to a bar with your
• 22:06
  Speaker 2: dumb friends. Like I I'm that kind of person. Like
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: I think that she.
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: Wants to be.
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: Chill, you know, in her way, and so I think
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: that that's her way of being like I can do it.
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: But no, that's it really was really really intense, and
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: she's you know, she's like crying, you know, uh, he
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: comforts her.
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: She loves his touch.
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: She always she's she's commented about like, you know, his
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: touch really calms me down, or why aren't you touching me? Like,
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: and I think that I want. I wonder if Alise
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: has become like aware of like what that is, what
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: that means for her, you know, like coregulation, coregulation and
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: insecure attachment. Maybe yeah, perhaps, And I know it because
• 22:53
  Speaker 2: you know, I can see it. So we're in the
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: car and then he gets a bad text Toney real
• 22:59
  Speaker 2: bad tech, and she's like what's up and he's like nothing,
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: But then realizing later, he pulls over to like a
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: cliff's edge and we talk about it. Now it's interesting
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: to me and I had talked about this in previous
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: episodes that all of their conversation that they've had to
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: me was never like about their own lives and like
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: the things that.
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: Have made them who they are today.
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: So but like we had gotten a lot of that
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: information in Confessionals. So, for instance, a Lease, besides the
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: fact that she had to deal with like some guy
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: like stealing a bunch of her money, was also engaged
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: to someone who died online or whatever got blessed no
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: longer is with us for a reason that she didn't
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: know and we're not quite sure, but she in least
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: the footage that we saw, like never expressed that traumatic
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: thing to him. And he had talked about the fact,
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: uh with he had talked with a Lease that he
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: had had a our relationship and that girl really wanted
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: him to have more money, but you know, he didn't
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: have money at the time.
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: He felt bad about it.
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: But then in Confessionals, he's like, and I also have
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: the son, and we're like, uh so the whole Like
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: they hadn't really discussed the son until this moment where
• 24:12
  Speaker 2: we get a flashback of the Least being like, I
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: really want to meet your son. I think we get
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: the flashback last episode from another time where she's like,
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: well am I going to meet your son and him
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: being like, uh yeah, well you'll FaceTime. This text we
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: find out is saying that that's not possible, and he
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: says it because there are other people involved, which we
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: understand is probably that child's mother.
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: I think it's real, Like, yeah, what do you think
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: about this?
• 24:45
  Speaker 3: I feel like it's unreasonable to expect to meet his
• 24:50
  Speaker 3: son that soon? Is it just me? I mean, I
• 24:53
  Speaker 3: don't have I don't have kids, so I don't know,
• 24:55
  Speaker 3: but I would imagine it would be a little too
• 24:59
  Speaker 3: soon that, like, even via FaceTime, Like I would think
• 25:03
  Speaker 3: that perhaps the child's mother would want to meet her
• 25:07
  Speaker 3: first before the kid meets her, And I think it's
• 25:12
  Speaker 3: sort of unfair to expect that this this is her
• 25:15
  Speaker 3: first time visiting him, right, m h wild wild.
• 25:23
  Speaker 2: It also made me realize that every time that they've talked,
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: like FaceTime when she was in America, he was never
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: with his child, because I think that there's also right,
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: there's a couple of things that he says that are
• 25:35
  Speaker 2: wild to me. So one thing that he said that
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: the internet streets went crazy for is he like, yeah,
• 25:41
  Speaker 2: you know, I've been with my son since he's been born.
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: And he said it in such a way that it
• 25:47
  Speaker 2: made it seem like this is a great thing, like
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: I'm a good I've been with him since the day
• 25:51
  Speaker 2: Like oh, buddy, not a win, Like that's normal, Like
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: that should be bargain basement that you, Oh, you've hung
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: out with him since the day he was born.
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: Wow, here's a fucking Nobel prize, buddy.
• 26:04
  Speaker 3: I mean, well, he is a man and men in
• 26:07
  Speaker 3: the bare minimum, you.
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: Know, he's What I don't think he's saying, which is
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: to me I'm reading is that his ex wife and
• 26:17
  Speaker 2: the mother of this child does not consider him a
• 26:22
  Speaker 2: viable parent and someone that she has to have in
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: their lives, or that he has any sort of leg
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: to stand on to like talk about how he would
• 26:36
  Speaker 2: like to be with his child. And I'm not saying
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: it feels like from a history of him being not
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: a great parent.
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: Like I think that.
• 26:46
  Speaker 2: To me, it's like, okay, if you are not around
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: your son and he really is, like I don't get
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: to be around him. The child is an hour flight away,
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: Like that says something. And the fact that for six
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: months you've never been around your son and like you know,
• 27:01
  Speaker 2: I think that there's a part of dating I don't
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: have a kid where like you would just be like,
• 27:07
  Speaker 2: you know, like you know, after a couple of times, like, oh,
• 27:09
  Speaker 2: daddy's talking to her friend his friend, the least you
• 27:12
  Speaker 2: want to say, how to least I say how to
• 27:14
  Speaker 2: et Lease, you don't have to be like this is
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: daddy's girlfriend. But like maybe like you've had a moment
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: like that because because you are around your child, and
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: also you are you're supposedly talking to this person for
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: six months on Facebook, so maybe at one of those
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: moments you know that happens, but that never happened, right
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: as well as that that child's like you're not shit.
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: So I don't have to like allow you to like
• 27:34
  Speaker 2: have your girlfriend meet our son, like I don't. I
• 27:38
  Speaker 2: don't take into account your wants as a parent because
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: I had decided that, like it's irrelevant, you aren't a
• 27:45
  Speaker 2: good parent. Kind of like those are the vibes I'm
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: getting from that conversation.
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: That's a lot to look into.
• 27:50
  Speaker 3: But yeah, you know it feels us.
• 27:54
  Speaker 2: It does feel sus. Yeah, he feels wildly sus. And
• 27:57
  Speaker 2: his comments about you know it's comments are weird. So
• 28:01
  Speaker 2: then you know, that's when you know. So she's mad
• 28:04
  Speaker 2: and she's like it's another broken promise and that's you know, true.
• 28:08
  Speaker 2: But also Elise is like I just don't understand you're
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: not stable and the truth it's like she keeps asking him, like,
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: but I need like stability, and it's like, well, he's not.
• 28:18
  Speaker 2: He's not stable enough for his child, Like, yes, he's
• 28:21
  Speaker 2: not stable. He doesn't have a house he has, he's
• 28:23
  Speaker 2: fucked up his one job that he has. Like it
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: is staring you in the face that if you keep
• 28:28
  Speaker 2: wanting someone who's stable, that this person is not it,
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: and like got it. I almost start to feel a
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: little bad for him, because I you know, it feels
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: like this whole time she's like you have you have, No,
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: you're not, You're not financially stable, and he and he
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: has to just be like yeah, I yes.
• 28:47
  Speaker 3: It's like thanks for stating in the obvious.
• 28:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm broke and I'm not emotionally stable. Yes, I'm broken.
• 28:53
  Speaker 2: I have nothing going for me. Yes, except that I've
• 28:56
  Speaker 2: somehow lied. Ali, do you think he's thirty nine?
• 28:59
  Speaker 3: Oh my god, I was just gonna ask you this,
• 29:00
  Speaker 3: No I don't. That was the first thing I thought
• 29:02
  Speaker 3: when I saw him and then they had his age
• 29:04
  Speaker 3: on there, I was like, there's there is no I'm sorry,
• 29:08
  Speaker 3: I'm thirty nine. No, just no, no, no, I don't
• 29:15
  Speaker 3: think so.
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: I'd think Chris has like a race eating hairline.
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: I think these two bros are like trying to hold
• 29:21
  Speaker 2: on at thirty nine so that you know they're on
• 29:23
  Speaker 2: whatever apps or whatever and they can like go for
• 29:26
  Speaker 2: younger ladies.
• 29:27
  Speaker 3: You know, I need to see an ID, I need
• 29:30
  Speaker 3: to see a birth certificate. I need to see some
• 29:33
  Speaker 3: sort of proof that he's thirty nine, because I don't
• 29:36
  Speaker 3: believe it. And there are people listen that are a
• 29:38
  Speaker 3: rough thirty nine. Okay, I get that he looks like, respectfully,
• 29:45
  Speaker 3: he's in his early fifties.
• 29:48
  Speaker 7: And are you looking early fifties like you know, like
• 29:51
  Speaker 7: herey could look You're just be honest, Yeah, like you know,
• 29:55
  Speaker 7: rough skin, you know, thickened skin, you know that kind
• 29:58
  Speaker 7: of like listen, it doesn't.
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: That's another annoying thing is that shit can work on
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: some men, you know, like Brad Pitt or whatever.
• 30:03
  Speaker 2: There's a lot of men that have like a thick
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: ass face skin, you know, and it doesn't work for ladies.
• 30:08
  Speaker 2: You know, but you know, whatever he does, and then
• 30:10
  Speaker 2: he basically is, you know, has to be confronted by
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: the fact that he's not shit. And then so he
• 30:16
  Speaker 2: literally tells Elise, I wouldn't blame you for walking away,
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: and then Elise is like, you.
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: Want me to walk away? And we're like no, not,
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: we do yes, please go on, yeah, run, I mean
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: like go back to the you're all your purses.
• 30:35
  Speaker 2: And you know, I mean, it's just it's also this
• 30:37
  Speaker 2: and this is something that I talk about a lot
• 30:39
  Speaker 2: on uh a fiance like always maybe really upset with
• 30:43
  Speaker 2: like Gino and Jasmine. I don't understand men that like
• 30:49
  Speaker 2: realize that they're women.
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: That they're with.
• 30:53
  Speaker 2: It's expensive to look like that, right, Like she she
• 30:59
  Speaker 2: is a beautiful lady, and she's upkeeping herself with a
• 31:03
  Speaker 2: lot of stuff that is expensive. Like there is not
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: a chance in hell that he's going to be able
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: to provide for her botox and fillers and the hair,
• 31:15
  Speaker 2: and you know, like there's just no fucking way. It's
• 31:18
  Speaker 2: so like he can't even afford like a child, you know.
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: I just but I wonder, like do men when they see.
• 31:26
  Speaker 2: Like a hot that kind of hot girl like that
• 31:29
  Speaker 2: specifically kind of hot girl, because Jasmine also has a
• 31:31
  Speaker 2: lot of plastic surgery. You know, it's like any of
• 31:33
  Speaker 2: the any of the like hyper you know, hyper whatever,
• 31:38
  Speaker 2: hyper vain ladies that are doing all the superficial stuff.
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: I mean, vain is can be. I'm vain too. It's
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: like it's there's just levels to it, right, because you
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: have to upkeep lip filler.
• 31:49
  Speaker 2: You have to, like, if there's multiple surgeries, it's just
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: you upkeep them. So it's like if you see someone
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: and you're like, h I like that kind of person,
• 31:57
  Speaker 2: it's that person's hot to me. At what point do
• 32:00
  Speaker 2: you start to understand that that's like to ching ch'ching
• 32:02
  Speaker 2: for you.
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 32:06
  Speaker 3: I don't know because I have no faith left in
• 32:08
  Speaker 3: men at the amount of men that think a woman
• 32:11
  Speaker 3: on a red carpet has no makeup on her face.
• 32:13
  Speaker 3: When they're like, oh, I like, you know, a natural
• 32:15
  Speaker 3: woman and she has the most makeup on her face
• 32:19
  Speaker 3: to look that natural and gloey and dewey and effortless,
• 32:23
  Speaker 3: and it's like, no, that that's actually quite a lot
• 32:25
  Speaker 3: of making. So I just don't trust men's judgment in
• 32:27
  Speaker 3: that department anymore. I think They just think hot, hot
• 32:31
  Speaker 3: and want to be with hot, and then then they
• 32:33
  Speaker 3: get into it and it's like, oh, high maintenance, and
• 32:36
  Speaker 3: it's like, what where do you think those looks come from?
• 32:40
  Speaker 3: Like where do you think Not many women that are,
• 32:43
  Speaker 3: you know, that put together, are naturally that put together?
• 32:48
  Speaker 3: Are there some? Yeah? Sure in this day and age. No,
• 32:51
  Speaker 3: it costs a lot of money to look like that.
• 32:54
  Speaker 3: Somebody's got to maintain that, somebody's got to keep up
• 32:56
  Speaker 3: with that, somebody's got to pay for it. But I
• 32:58
  Speaker 3: don't think they think about that. I think they just
• 33:00
  Speaker 3: get blinded by hotness and then they're like, oh, this
• 33:03
  Speaker 3: is inconvenient because I ain't shit and I don't have
• 33:05
  Speaker 3: the money for this, and then they take it out
• 33:07
  Speaker 3: on the woman.
• 33:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah they do, but because they feel so shitty about
• 33:12
  Speaker 2: themselves that they can't, you know, keep up with what
• 33:15
  Speaker 2: they want to keep up with.
• 33:16
  Speaker 3: You know what would fix that if men would go
• 33:18
  Speaker 3: to therapy.
• 33:20
  Speaker 2: Oh it's funny because even yeah, I men don't like talking.
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: About about their feelings about reality, about truth. It's funny.
• 33:33
  Speaker 2: It's like, you know we're talking about we obviously are
• 33:35
  Speaker 2: talking about how lovely your Instagram is because it is
• 33:38
  Speaker 2: like this escape of like finding joy and whimsy, and yeah,
• 33:45
  Speaker 2: men don't know how to Men don't know how to
• 33:48
  Speaker 2: like find I feel like not every man, but men,
• 33:51
  Speaker 2: I don't know how they don't know how to like
• 33:53
  Speaker 2: comfort and find like a way in which to live
• 33:56
  Speaker 2: authentically for themselves sometimes. And think they especially in this
• 33:59
  Speaker 2: day and eight, with like the MANI sphere and like
• 34:02
  Speaker 2: you know, phones having a disconnection to everyone, Like it
• 34:06
  Speaker 2: really does feel like men are having like such a
• 34:09
  Speaker 2: hard time emotionally and psychologically and their biggest problem is
• 34:14
  Speaker 2: they don't like talking about those two things.
• 34:16
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, and if they do, they have to outsource
• 34:19
  Speaker 3: that emotional labor to the closest woman in their lives often,
• 34:23
  Speaker 3: you know. So that's that's interesting. I think all of
• 34:26
  Speaker 3: the men on ninety Day Fiance for the most part,
• 34:29
  Speaker 3: should have to They should have what's the one where
• 34:32
  Speaker 3: they go to therapy? Is it last resort?
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: Couples couples retreat?
• 34:35
  Speaker 3: Yeah, oh okay, yeah, there's right.
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, they should be it's last resort.
• 34:40
  Speaker 3: They should do a season of Last Resort where they
• 34:43
  Speaker 3: trick them and it's just all the worst men and
• 34:46
  Speaker 3: none of the women, and they just have to go
• 34:48
  Speaker 3: do therapy the whole time, especially Gino. Gino should be
• 34:52
  Speaker 3: at the top of the list on.
• 34:53
  Speaker 2: That Yes, you know who could teach a class like
• 34:56
  Speaker 2: to me, the only one of the only Like there's
• 34:59
  Speaker 2: two men that I stand by in the franchise.
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: Kobe, Emily and Kobe.
• 35:05
  Speaker 2: Like Kobe is I think, like a lovely person and
• 35:08
  Speaker 2: like super wise and like we'll talk about his feelings.
• 35:10
  Speaker 2: And he really was like he Kobe cried like season one,
• 35:12
  Speaker 2: like Kobe just is a saint. I also loved Omar.
• 35:16
  Speaker 2: We never really saw him again, but he was a
• 35:17
  Speaker 2: dentist from Syria and anyway, so basically what had had.
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: What happens is he says, you know you should walk away.
• 35:25
  Speaker 2: You know I would get He says, I don't blame
• 35:27
  Speaker 2: you for walking away. Alise hears that is to leave.
• 35:29
  Speaker 2: She gets really upset, and then his way of like
• 35:32
  Speaker 2: whatever is like, well, I'm in love with you. He
• 35:34
  Speaker 2: literally love love bombs her. He love bombs her as like, well,
• 35:38
  Speaker 2: I'm I'm in love with you. And she's really happy
• 35:40
  Speaker 2: to hear that. You can see this mile like but
• 35:45
  Speaker 2: and I love her for this. She does not say
• 35:47
  Speaker 2: it back, and that makes him spiral yikes.
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: Mm hmmmm hmmm, hmmmm hmm.
• 35:57
  Speaker 2: She goes to dinner and she's cold, you know, and
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: then we have a whole montage of how she's been
• 36:02
  Speaker 2: cold in Australia. Which is it Australia during this time?
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: I must be because I mean it's like we are
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: seeing the wind though too.
• 36:14
  Speaker 2: That wind is intense, like you know, like I can
• 36:16
  Speaker 2: see the wind blowing her body, you know, like her hair,
• 36:18
  Speaker 2: you know, like I.
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: I would be cold. We talked about this.
• 36:24
  Speaker 2: She is like, good, We're at this place. She's basically
• 36:26
  Speaker 2: wearing nothing. She's like, oh good, they'll have a blanket.
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, So they bring her a blanket and
• 36:30
  Speaker 2: then she's like uh huh toes, she doesn't. She never
• 36:34
  Speaker 2: wraps the blanket around her. I'm like, it really does
• 36:37
  Speaker 2: go to show that. Lisa's like I know what I'm
• 36:40
  Speaker 2: I know what I want to serve, and it is
• 36:42
  Speaker 2: body all the time.
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: I mean, you know, well, like, but if you're.
• 36:48
  Speaker 3: Cold, listen, you're bad. If I had that body, I'd
• 36:53
  Speaker 3: be doing the same thing.
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: I just be cold.
• 36:55
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I just be like I'm so cold, but do
• 36:57
  Speaker 3: how do I how do my boots look? Great, Okay,
• 36:59
  Speaker 3: the boots look good.
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: Just nipple, I mean unless me like just the hardest
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: nipples all the time.
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: They're likely they order drinks from like tea, Honey Tea.
• 37:07
  Speaker 2: She's like spicy Margarita's.
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: I'm like, they're.
• 37:09
  Speaker 3: Cold, it's gonna make you colder. What are you doing?
• 37:14
  Speaker 2: Like I get like two apathetic or I'm like I
• 37:16
  Speaker 2: start to get cold to think about it. Like, you know,
• 37:19
  Speaker 2: there's a are you how much do you know? Are
• 37:22
  Speaker 2: you a theater person too? And do you know chorus line?
• 37:25
  Speaker 3: I don't. I did do theater, but I'm not. I
• 37:28
  Speaker 3: never got that deep into theater.
• 37:31
  Speaker 2: Chorus line has this one song where it's basically this
• 37:33
  Speaker 2: girl like has to go to like acting school, and
• 37:35
  Speaker 2: like one of her first acting classes is like to
• 37:37
  Speaker 2: pretend that she's cold, and she like hates it, and
• 37:39
  Speaker 2: then she gets kicked out of acting school.
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: But like they told me to feel the wood rush,
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: feel the wood rush, and.
• 37:45
  Speaker 2: So anyway theater nerds out there maas me feel like
• 37:47
  Speaker 2: I I do feel cold, Like if you could, if
• 37:50
  Speaker 2: you tell me like burr, I'm like, yeah, I get it.
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: You know, And I'm like sitting in southern California. I
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: don't know why. I'm like very I'm very suggestive. I'm
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: he's in front of me, el sneeze.
• 38:02
  Speaker 3: I'm I'm very like, I am a very cold person.
• 38:05
  Speaker 3: I am like a little bit of cold and I'm
• 38:07
  Speaker 3: freezing a little bit of hot and I'm too hot.
• 38:10
  Speaker 3: I'm very rarely just right, especially in perimenopause. Now I'm
• 38:14
  Speaker 3: mostly just really hot all the time.
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: Back and forth, I go in not yeah, I know.
• 38:23
  Speaker 2: Basically he like, he does this final like I want
• 38:27
  Speaker 2: you to know to like, yeah, I love you so much.
• 38:30
  Speaker 2: She's like, okay, if you love me so much, like,
• 38:31
  Speaker 2: what's the fucking plan?
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: And he's like, well, uh, you know that that I
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: love you.
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: And she's like, well, you have a kid, so were
• 38:37
  Speaker 2: you thinking you're gonna come to America or I'm supposed
• 38:39
  Speaker 2: to come here? He said, well, you know I do
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: have Yeah, you're right, I have that kid.
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: And then you know, and then.
• 38:45
  Speaker 2: She's like, okay, well have you looked for an apartment?
• 38:48
  Speaker 2: And then I'm gonna be like, at least he has
• 38:50
  Speaker 2: no money.
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: Were you talking about? Why would he look for a party?
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: Has no money? Are you gonna beve.
• 38:55
  Speaker 2: He's like, no, you know, he's She's like, I don't
• 39:00
  Speaker 2: know how we're supposed to like move if you have
• 39:02
  Speaker 2: no nothing you know to offer, And.
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: He's like, we'll have given you a solid gameplay and
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: you just you getta trust trust it.
• 39:13
  Speaker 3: Sure, sure sounds good.
• 39:18
  Speaker 5: What are you twenty three? Like, what are you talking about?
• 39:21
  Speaker 5: You're fifty five with a kid, what are you talking about?
• 39:27
  Speaker 5: I he's he's weird. I don't trust him at all.
• 39:31
  Speaker 2: And I feel like, yeah, I feel like if he
• 39:34
  Speaker 2: was in America and I'm maybe this is the true.
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: I'm surprised there's not like women on the internet being
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: like I fucking dated that asshole and he's not shit
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: Like I feel like, I'm surprised that we haven't gotten
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: a lot of.
• 39:46
  Speaker 3: Like good the time I hear you, I'm sure they're coming.
• 39:49
  Speaker 3: I'm sure it's coming.
• 39:53
  Speaker 2: We can move right from no game plan to another
• 39:56
  Speaker 2: no game plan couple, which is forced and sheena, you
• 39:58
  Speaker 2: know this comes, this comes hot on the heels of
• 40:02
  Speaker 2: them being like, you know what, Yes, we'll go visit
• 40:04
  Speaker 2: a lawyer.
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: Who should do to me?
• 40:07
  Speaker 2: Told you the most basic things that you should have
• 40:09
  Speaker 2: known seven years ago, but you learn them now. For
• 40:12
  Speaker 2: us and by the way, the entire internet is like
• 40:14
  Speaker 2: Forest looks just like Peter from Family Guy.
• 40:20
  Speaker 3: How much.
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: It is true it looks he does, especially because I
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: like that Caesar haircut. He gets like a Caesar haircut
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: in the Confessionals at one point.
• 40:30
  Speaker 2: Where like the bangs are like right there, like they
• 40:34
  Speaker 2: are so short, Ali, like you have gorgeous bangs, you know,
• 40:37
  Speaker 2: and like almost a little French French like fringe.
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: Those bangs on him are what Molly Molly gave him
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: that haircut or Dev.
• 40:47
  Speaker 3: I'm not a thousand does Dev do anything of this whole?
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: I love Dev so much. I think about Dev a lot.
• 40:53
  Speaker 3: I just look in this space and it's just every
• 40:55
  Speaker 3: scene he's just like.
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: A club.
• 41:00
  Speaker 3: I need. I need to know what's happening in his head.
• 41:04
  Speaker 3: There's there's my kind I know.
• 41:06
  Speaker 2: For a moment, I was like, better hand, No, there
• 41:11
  Speaker 2: is a star club in Atlanta that I like. There's
• 41:14
  Speaker 2: like an old Lady strip club in Atlanta.
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: Have you heard of it?
• 41:16
  Speaker 2: And you know I'm talking about Starts of the Sea.
• 41:20
  Speaker 2: There's a kitchen like, yeah, there's a kitchen like strip
• 41:23
  Speaker 2: club in Atlanta that and I say old Lady. It's
• 41:27
  Speaker 2: like the best strippers that are just like it's like
• 41:29
  Speaker 2: people of different ages.
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: They're not just all what you.
• 41:31
  Speaker 2: Would consider like stripper aesthetic bodies of being young and
• 41:37
  Speaker 2: like you know whatever, plastic surgery. There's like a little
• 41:39
  Speaker 2: fun to it. And I always like, I feel like
• 41:41
  Speaker 2: you should bring Dev there. I'm so obsessed with Dev.
• 41:44
  Speaker 2: Even when there was a moment where Alice had was
• 41:47
  Speaker 2: on the Pink Shape podcast and she talked about the
• 41:49
  Speaker 2: tell All and she said that she got attacked in it,
• 41:51
  Speaker 2: and people were like, who attacked her?
• 41:52
  Speaker 3: And I'm like, obviously was Dev, Like, obviously I would
• 41:58
  Speaker 3: love to see this. Actually, I think I would pay
• 42:00
  Speaker 3: to see that.
• 42:02
  Speaker 2: Do you think Dev has ever put Molly in her place?
• 42:05
  Speaker 2: I mean, it's some weird thing to say, and I
• 42:07
  Speaker 2: don't mean to say that as an anti feminist, but
• 42:09
  Speaker 2: I mean he literally never talks and she's just like
• 42:11
  Speaker 2: it was there of a time in which he made
• 42:14
  Speaker 2: her stop talking by saying something that was like truthful
• 42:16
  Speaker 2: or right or you know.
• 42:18
  Speaker 3: I mean they do always say it's the quiet ones,
• 42:21
  Speaker 3: so you know, maybe.
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know how. I don't know how they survive.
• 42:27
  Speaker 2: But so basically we know that Forrest and she know,
• 42:31
  Speaker 2: were like, okay, well then you just move here. And
• 42:33
  Speaker 2: so they go on her thunder blankets, which are banana
• 42:37
  Speaker 2: lee thunder blankets, just to like calm their somatic nervous
• 42:40
  Speaker 2: system before they have to deliver this news to Molly.
• 42:42
  Speaker 2: That's how I read that beauty treatment. So they go
• 42:46
  Speaker 2: to Molly and then we get the exact same scene
• 42:48
  Speaker 2: that we've been seeing the whole time, which is that
• 42:50
  Speaker 2: for us has to be.
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: Like Mama, but bye bye bye bye bye, do something.
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: And then she's like and then she is like and
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: that's it runs off. Yeah, it runs off. Yeah, again,
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: we get that.
• 43:05
  Speaker 3: I mean, I don't think I hate as much as
• 43:11
  Speaker 3: I hate to say this, I don't think Molly's wrong,
• 43:14
  Speaker 3: Like what is he going to do? Also, I was
• 43:16
  Speaker 3: shocked when she knows, Like they were figuring out how
• 43:19
  Speaker 3: much money she makes as a vet, and it was
• 43:22
  Speaker 3: like five hundred a month, and I was like, as
• 43:25
  Speaker 3: a vet, I've paid more than that last week for
• 43:28
  Speaker 3: one cat to see the vet for like thirty minutes.
• 43:32
  Speaker 3: What do you mean You're only what a month? I
• 43:34
  Speaker 3: mean I understand, you know, difference and currency and stuff
• 43:38
  Speaker 3: like that over there, but I was just like yeah,
• 43:41
  Speaker 3: you can't afford to especially isn't she giving her money
• 43:44
  Speaker 3: to her family? I mean, how is she going to
• 43:47
  Speaker 3: afford for him to live there? What are they going
• 43:49
  Speaker 3: to do? What's the plan? Oh, that's right, there is
• 43:51
  Speaker 3: a plan.
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: No plan.
• 43:53
  Speaker 2: I mean just just like Josh wants, you know, he
• 43:55
  Speaker 2: wants his faith. But yeah, like we haven't really got
• 43:59
  Speaker 2: a lot of like numbers throughout the season. Like when
• 44:02
  Speaker 2: they were first talking to we're like, well, how much
• 44:03
  Speaker 2: and whatnot? So at this point they're like, can we
• 44:06
  Speaker 2: finally up the numbers of like from the lawyer of
• 44:08
  Speaker 2: what you need? And now we're like, okay, to get
• 44:10
  Speaker 2: an apartment in the Philippines, it's around they said eight hundred,
• 44:14
  Speaker 2: eight hundred dollars, which to me also sounded like a lot,
• 44:18
  Speaker 2: you know, but then maybe this is like a major
• 44:20
  Speaker 2: city truly that makes sense. But then you're like, yes,
• 44:23
  Speaker 2: she makes a she makes five hundred dollars a month
• 44:26
  Speaker 2: as a vet. So then I had a bunch of questions,
• 44:28
  Speaker 2: is this because you could use more business? Like do
• 44:31
  Speaker 2: you like is this what standard vets make like.
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: To people?
• 44:37
  Speaker 3: Not?
• 44:37
  Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe it's because you know, people don't spend a
• 44:40
  Speaker 2: lot of money on their pets. Maybe, like maybe it's
• 44:42
  Speaker 2: not like a vet culture, like you know, like if
• 44:44
  Speaker 2: the if the cat or the dog isn't doing well,
• 44:48
  Speaker 2: that's what happens to them.
• 44:50
  Speaker 3: Perhaps it might not be as you know, money forward
• 44:55
  Speaker 3: as America is veterinary care.
• 44:59
  Speaker 2: Sure, I mean yeah, I mean you obviously are a
• 45:02
  Speaker 2: cat lover and you live, you know, in a different place,
• 45:06
  Speaker 2: and obviously in LA people will spend billions.
• 45:10
  Speaker 3: Oh my cat had cancer a couple of years ago,
• 45:12
  Speaker 3: and I walked in and I said, it costs. They
• 45:13
  Speaker 3: were like, well, it's going to cost this much. And
• 45:15
  Speaker 3: I just looked at them and I said, it costs
• 45:17
  Speaker 3: whatever it costs. Do what you have to do, cost
• 45:19
  Speaker 3: whatever it costs. It's real confident for somebody who had
• 45:22
  Speaker 3: no money at the time. But how much I love
• 45:25
  Speaker 3: a cat, you know what I mean.
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's your baby, it's my babies. So yes, Mollie.
• 45:34
  Speaker 2: T has to talk down her son to be like
• 45:36
  Speaker 2: that's not reasonable, and she again, it's upset by that.
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: And Forrest a there's a part of Forrest that I also.
• 45:45
  Speaker 2: Think did not want to move to the Philippines, And
• 45:47
  Speaker 2: so I do think that his mom gives him an
• 45:49
  Speaker 2: out by by these realistic standards. I think that half
• 45:52
  Speaker 2: of him is like he wants to sort of like
• 45:55
  Speaker 2: play a strong lover that's going to like know, walk
• 46:00
  Speaker 2: in and be like we're doing this, me and my wife.
• 46:03
  Speaker 3: You know.
• 46:03
  Speaker 2: But there's another part of for us. It's like, I'm scared.
• 46:06
  Speaker 2: This is a different environment. I don't know what I
• 46:08
  Speaker 2: would be able to do here, and you know.
• 46:09
  Speaker 3: And I'm sorry, I'm scared to get me out of here.
• 46:13
  Speaker 2: Yeah, something that him and Tony have in common if
• 46:16
  Speaker 2: you were watching Single Life, I know, basically they go
• 46:20
  Speaker 2: back to the hotel and he's like, I don't want
• 46:23
  Speaker 2: to be a burden on you, and so to Shina
• 46:26
  Speaker 2: and that he is going to now do the thing
• 46:29
  Speaker 2: that we're like, why didn't do this before, which is
• 46:31
  Speaker 2: go back to America, get a job and work to
• 46:34
  Speaker 2: apply for the K one And we're like, you've been
• 46:38
  Speaker 2: dating seven years?
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: Like another point of me.
• 46:41
  Speaker 2: Then she starts to be like I want to have
• 46:42
  Speaker 2: kids and stuff like that, and I'm like, holy should
• 46:45
  Speaker 2: I kind of get Sheena's point too, like why is
• 46:48
  Speaker 2: Sheina has been waiting around for.
• 46:49
  Speaker 3: This asshole and that's going to take years, like to
• 46:53
  Speaker 3: get a job when you haven't worked in years, Like
• 46:56
  Speaker 3: are we not thinking about the timeline? Also, it nothing
• 47:01
  Speaker 3: in the US immigration system happens quickly. I mean, I know,
• 47:05
  Speaker 3: I know that they would like to make us think
• 47:08
  Speaker 3: that it does. It doesn't like it takes as someone
• 47:11
  Speaker 3: with experience and it takes years for anything to happen.
• 47:14
  Speaker 3: Like this is crazy to me, isn't Sheena like forty
• 47:19
  Speaker 3: mm hmm? Yeah, this is wild. This is wild to me,
• 47:25
  Speaker 3: this whole thing.
• 47:27
  Speaker 2: Remember how like Lisa and also the Angela did the
• 47:30
  Speaker 2: thing where they realize it'd be easier for.
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: Them to get married in Nigeria Lisa did to get
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: married and obviously Lisa didn't get married, well whatever, you know,
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: and like that way Visia for them to bring the
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: K one visa over Like I wonder if it's in
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: the same in the Philippines, Like if they got married
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: in the Philippines and they were like husband and wife,
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: would that be easier to get her over on a
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: spouse spousal visa? I think it's what it's called.
• 47:53
  Speaker 3: At this point, who knows, like she is.
• 47:56
  Speaker 2: A working woman with a degree, like you know she
• 47:59
  Speaker 2: you know, I mean, I know they can't work right away,
• 48:01
  Speaker 2: but he's the one that is.
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: Suspect.
• 48:06
  Speaker 3: I'd just like to know why he didn't do this
• 48:08
  Speaker 3: like six years ago. If they've been together for seven years,
• 48:12
  Speaker 3: why is this just now good? I don't know.
• 48:16
  Speaker 2: Make it bad storytelling? Yeah, you're right, they can't. It's
• 48:20
  Speaker 2: bad storytelling.
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: Let's talk about more bad storytelling.
• 48:26
  Speaker 2: And let's also talk about a woman that's been waiting,
• 48:29
  Speaker 2: and that is Anna and Javonn. Now we pick up honey.
• 48:33
  Speaker 2: Anna is walking, she's her and Javonn are at the
• 48:38
  Speaker 2: place they're going to have their renewal ceremony. And Anna
• 48:43
  Speaker 2: loves a red door and I love a red door.
• 48:46
  Speaker 2: She walks in and she's like, I love this doors
• 48:48
  Speaker 2: a red door, and I remember that, like remember when
• 48:51
  Speaker 2: I feel like you should see red doors and houses
• 48:53
  Speaker 2: a lot, a lot, And there was like the red
• 48:57
  Speaker 2: door spat. I think think it's like Elizabeth Arden had
• 49:01
  Speaker 2: like a red door spa in New York. I forgot
• 49:04
  Speaker 2: about the aesthetic of a red door, Like does that.
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: Mean something to you? Do like red doors?
• 49:10
  Speaker 3: I like colorful doors in general. Isn't a red door
• 49:13
  Speaker 3: something to do with luck?
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: I feel like I think it is. I think it
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: is that makes sense too. Yeah, I don't know.
• 49:21
  Speaker 2: There's something kind of like exciting about a red door
• 49:24
  Speaker 2: to me, like and also Anna, so they're obviously at
• 49:29
  Speaker 2: this place to get the renewal. She's gonna get their
• 49:32
  Speaker 2: hair and makeup done. Javon is ecstatic coming in with
• 49:35
  Speaker 2: high energy. Boy, is he I mean ready to marry
• 49:39
  Speaker 2: the love of his life?
• 49:39
  Speaker 3: No?
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: I mean this man, I mean it literally looks like
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: he Okay, two things. Either he could be I'm like
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: he had a mood.
• 49:50
  Speaker 2: Stabilizer because he really just comes in at the same
• 49:53
  Speaker 2: level all the time. But it's not even so much
• 49:56
  Speaker 2: it really is. I don't really want to say a
• 49:58
  Speaker 2: mood stabilizer because the level is disinterested.
• 50:02
  Speaker 3: No, I think he's just boring.
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he is, Sorry, he is.
• 50:08
  Speaker 2: He's boring, and he has like a negative vibe. Like
• 50:12
  Speaker 2: his vibe is just always like over it, like you know,
• 50:17
  Speaker 2: don't want to be here, you know, like and also
• 50:20
  Speaker 2: just like not going to give a lot, you know,
• 50:22
  Speaker 2: like just the lowest energy, like not fun, just not
• 50:28
  Speaker 2: interested and not connected.
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: Boring is a guy. Boring is a great word. And
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: she like on the opposite spectrum, you know, is like excitable, af.
• 50:38
  Speaker 3: I'm going to need some of the people that they
• 50:40
  Speaker 3: put on the show from Alabama to do more justice
• 50:43
  Speaker 3: for the state of Alabama, where I currently live, because
• 50:47
  Speaker 3: I see the new season has two more people from Alabama,
• 50:50
  Speaker 3: and then you're.
• 50:51
  Speaker 2: A billion people, has a billion people from Alabama. The
• 50:54
  Speaker 2: casting person must have just driven around the whole state
• 50:56
  Speaker 2: and been like.
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: You you you you.
• 50:58
  Speaker 3: I mean, what about the girl on whatever that was?
• 51:00
  Speaker 3: Was it before or was it the other way? It
• 51:02
  Speaker 3: must have been the other way, the one that thought
• 51:04
  Speaker 3: she was a psychic from Florence, Alabama, like a couple
• 51:07
  Speaker 3: of seasons ago.
• 51:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but she's the one that she went Wait, she
• 51:14
  Speaker 2: the clare vo I call her clairvoyant, the one that
• 51:17
  Speaker 2: like went to India.
• 51:18
  Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, Yeah.
• 51:20
  Speaker 1: She had a and she screamed. She was screaming in
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: that house.
• 51:22
  Speaker 3: You had a bad time. Everybody had a bad time
• 51:25
  Speaker 3: around that.
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 51:26
  Speaker 3: I'm like, Okay, there's some other people in Alabama. Can
• 51:29
  Speaker 3: we cast them instead? But yeah, so Javon's not not
• 51:34
  Speaker 3: helping the Alabama casting here.
• 51:38
  Speaker 2: He It's interesting because he has like all these brothers
• 51:41
  Speaker 2: and all these sisters, and all of them are really
• 51:44
  Speaker 2: like more interesting than him, Like I remember I liked
• 51:46
  Speaker 2: his sister so much. I can't believe we've never seen
• 51:48
  Speaker 2: his sister again in the sense of never face timed,
• 51:52
  Speaker 2: you know, like sometimes we get someone just to check in,
• 51:55
  Speaker 2: how's it going there, you know, but we that's how
• 51:57
  Speaker 2: boring he was.
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: That problem the producers either got that footage or were like,
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: we can't even it's not even. It was just fucking
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: with this one.
• 52:06
  Speaker 2: So, I mean, it's interesting. Also, they're gonna have this
• 52:10
  Speaker 2: like ceremony. All of her family is there, Yeah, he
• 52:13
  Speaker 2: does his parents? Does he does anyone know in his
• 52:16
  Speaker 2: life that he's doing this?
• 52:17
  Speaker 3: They don't care, doesn't seem that way.
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: Okay, So I did bring up some pictures.
• 52:25
  Speaker 2: I love Anna's mom a lot. I showed this picture
• 52:28
  Speaker 2: because baby. This is after the ceremony where he was like,
• 52:30
  Speaker 2: I don't know if I'm going to be able to
• 52:32
  Speaker 2: like write a vow. He does write a vow, and then,
• 52:35
  Speaker 2: in the twist that no one saw coming, he produces
• 52:39
  Speaker 2: the two hundred dollars ring that she wanted.
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: He's like, I got it for you. She's so happy.
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: He gives us the smile, which is like one of
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: the bigger, one of the only things that we've seen
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: the most.
• 52:50
  Speaker 3: Animated we've ever seen him this whole season.
• 52:54
  Speaker 2: I love her mom, And I also thought that their
• 52:58
  Speaker 2: cake looked really good. Now, oh yeah, here's their cake.
• 53:02
  Speaker 2: So mm hmmm, I have an expert, you know, how okay?
• 53:06
  Speaker 2: To me this kind of is it a naked cake
• 53:09
  Speaker 2: where you have Okay, naked cakes to me are interesting.
• 53:13
  Speaker 1: It's like to me, they are.
• 53:16
  Speaker 2: Barely frosted and they give the texture underneath. And what
• 53:20
  Speaker 2: I also liked about this cake is that they put
• 53:22
  Speaker 2: what looks like real ass flowers on it.
• 53:25
  Speaker 3: Yeah, people be doing that. You have to be so
• 53:27
  Speaker 3: careful though, from a technical standpoint, some people, if they're
• 53:31
  Speaker 3: making their own cake, we'll just put whatever flowers on it.
• 53:34
  Speaker 3: There are flowers that should not ever touch a cake.
• 53:36
  Speaker 3: They have to be like organic flowers without pesticides on them.
• 53:40
  Speaker 3: They have to be washed first. Like I personally, I
• 53:44
  Speaker 3: don't really ever put real flowers on a cake unless
• 53:46
  Speaker 3: they're dried like and I've sourced them from a good
• 53:48
  Speaker 3: place that I know they're edible. Uh, I don't like.
• 53:52
  Speaker 3: I don't like putting real florals on a cake freaks
• 53:54
  Speaker 3: me out. Oh here you go. Here he is again,
• 53:56
  Speaker 3: I love so much. It's a star.
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: It's such a good walk. Why didn't naked cakes became
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: a thing?
• 54:04
  Speaker 3: Why because some people don't like frosting, and also a
• 54:08
  Speaker 3: lot of wedding cakes people do to make them look
• 54:12
  Speaker 3: really smooth, they'll put fondan on them, and fondant is,
• 54:15
  Speaker 3: in my opinion and in a lot of people's opinions,
• 54:17
  Speaker 3: disgusting and people will just peel it off. Now you
• 54:21
  Speaker 3: can make a decent fondant at home with marshmallows that
• 54:23
  Speaker 3: tastes a lot better. I'm still not the biggest fan.
• 54:28
  Speaker 3: So naked cakes were more for people who wanted something,
• 54:31
  Speaker 3: you know, when people were having a lot of weddings
• 54:33
  Speaker 3: in barns. They're a lot more chastic. Yeah, they're like
• 54:37
  Speaker 3: the barn chic, rustic kind of Mason jar.
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 54:41
  Speaker 3: Well yeah, absolutely absolutely they are Mason jars present. That
• 54:46
  Speaker 3: was really the look of like what we'll say, twenty
• 54:49
  Speaker 3: twelve through probably twenty fifteen, twenty sixteen, that naked cake
• 54:54
  Speaker 3: look was really a big deal. It's for people who
• 54:57
  Speaker 3: don't like fondant, who don't maybe like a lot of
• 54:59
  Speaker 3: butter cream. People have some interesting cake choices, that's for sure.
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: What's your favorite flavor of cake?
• 55:06
  Speaker 3: Oh, I'm so boring. I love vanilla cake like I
• 55:09
  Speaker 3: love like a vanilla cake which is a little bit
• 55:12
  Speaker 3: of butter extract in it, or like a really good
• 55:15
  Speaker 3: chocolate cake ooh, or lemon cake. Listen. I like almost
• 55:20
  Speaker 3: all cakes except for red velvet and chocolate lava cake.
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: What about you?
• 55:24
  Speaker 3: What kind of cake do you like?
• 55:26
  Speaker 2: For my birthday this year, I bought myself my own
• 55:28
  Speaker 2: cake from a bakery and I got it was gluten free.
• 55:33
  Speaker 2: But I found one specifically that did yellow cake and
• 55:38
  Speaker 2: chocolate frosting.
• 55:38
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, classic, classic. Now I'm going to be craving
• 55:43
  Speaker 3: that for the rest of the day.
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: Yellow cake and chocolate frosting. Yeah. I back to the
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: easy bake oven days. I mean, you know, like, I
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: was so happy to find that it was so yummy.
• 55:55
  Speaker 3: It's hard to find a good gluten free cake because
• 55:58
  Speaker 3: a lot of them have I'm also supposed to eat
• 56:01
  Speaker 3: gluten free do I all the time, But it's so
• 56:05
  Speaker 3: hard because they always have a different texture, except for
• 56:07
  Speaker 3: chocolate cake. Chocolate cake seems to be just fine, but
• 56:11
  Speaker 3: a lot of the other gluten free cakes don't have
• 56:14
  Speaker 3: great texture. And I'm like, stop it. Why am I
• 56:17
  Speaker 3: still chowhy? Is it so chewy? I don't want it
• 56:19
  Speaker 3: to be so chewy?
• 56:21
  Speaker 2: I know for some reason of all the gluten free
• 56:24
  Speaker 2: like baking, like I finding actual gluten free bread that's
• 56:28
  Speaker 2: edible is like a nightmare, and it very rarely happens.
• 56:32
  Speaker 2: I feel like I've either gotten used to I can
• 56:34
  Speaker 2: do a gluten free cake. I can do a gluten
• 56:36
  Speaker 2: free cookie now like nobody's business. Oh yeah, like yeah,
• 56:38
  Speaker 2: I mean I can't taste taste a different, sonny. I've
• 56:42
  Speaker 2: always been like a cookie girl. I'm a cookie girl.
• 56:44
  Speaker 3: I love cookies. I know I'm hungry now i want
• 56:48
  Speaker 3: to cake with a side of cookies.
• 56:50
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna make cookies this. I'm gonna make cookies with this.
• 56:54
  Speaker 2: I've decided I might actually do the same.
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: Sounds so good.
• 56:59
  Speaker 2: So basically, you know, God bless that she's happy. And
• 57:01
  Speaker 2: that's the most important thing, you know, because he's never
• 57:03
  Speaker 2: gonna be really that happy. So at least she gets
• 57:05
  Speaker 2: her happiness. I care about her. We let's move on
• 57:09
  Speaker 2: to Laura, and you know, obviously Beerkan Bercan Beercon has
• 57:15
  Speaker 2: gone on lives now and said the N word, so
• 57:20
  Speaker 2: f him, but I'll just get through this story okay,
• 57:24
  Speaker 2: because I don't think I like them, and I like,
• 57:26
  Speaker 2: I don't think I like anyone involved in this storyline anymore.
• 57:29
  Speaker 2: So she's, you know, alone, because she like got kicked
• 57:35
  Speaker 2: out of the airbnb that she's paying for supposedly and
• 57:37
  Speaker 2: gets a room at Michael's hotel.
• 57:38
  Speaker 1: And she's like, so I got a room at Michael's hotel.
• 57:40
  Speaker 2: And I'm like, girl, can you stop trying to make
• 57:42
  Speaker 2: us think that you're like the prize and this love
• 57:46
  Speaker 2: triangle like you're Unfortunately it didn't turn out that way.
• 57:50
  Speaker 2: Like you you try to manufacture something that's making you
• 57:52
  Speaker 2: look really bad, desperate, if all, and it's sad.
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: You know, he's also horrible.
• 57:58
  Speaker 2: He's like I wanted her to feel a night to
• 58:00
  Speaker 2: be without me and miss me, and I'm like, oh
• 58:02
  Speaker 2: my god, you're both disgusting.
• 58:04
  Speaker 1: Good.
• 58:04
  Speaker 2: Then she's like, I'm going to bring him, you know,
• 58:06
  Speaker 2: like something that he know he likes is a peace
• 58:09
  Speaker 2: offering and it's a burger.
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: For some reason, I was like, that's I don't know.
• 58:15
  Speaker 2: I thought, like, bring him a sheesha that's all he
• 58:18
  Speaker 2: fucking talks about, or bring him I don't know, like
• 58:21
  Speaker 2: a winning, winning.
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: Piece of sports me, but be like a burger, all right?
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: Like that seems more like something you wanted, Laura.
• 58:28
  Speaker 3: Can anybody take this man seriously? Can I just ask that? Like,
• 58:32
  Speaker 3: I just look at him and I'm like something about him.
• 58:36
  Speaker 3: I just I don't like him. I just don't like him.
• 58:40
  Speaker 3: And I'm just like I look at him and I'm like,
• 58:42
  Speaker 3: when he's trying so hard to be so assertive and
• 58:45
  Speaker 3: so dominant, and I'm looking at his skinny little arms,
• 58:48
  Speaker 3: and I'm just like, dude, who takes you seriously? Like,
• 58:53
  Speaker 3: how is Laura taking anything he says seriously at all?
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: He has such dark vibes, like he really does that.
• 59:03
  Speaker 2: I feel like Laura, who might also like, has put
• 59:06
  Speaker 2: on him some fantasy that he's like a brooding, dark
• 59:09
  Speaker 2: character in one of her blobbery blue romances instead of
• 59:12
  Speaker 2: just someone who's fifty thousand dollars in debt. Also for
• 59:15
  Speaker 2: somebody to be like, he's like you love to me,
• 59:17
  Speaker 2: it's like you don't have a you don't have a home,
• 59:21
  Speaker 2: motherfucker like you you've been lying anyway.
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: Hei, They're both unfortunately gross, So he you know, and
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: he thinks he's so profound. You know, love is action,
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: not words. Is he just he's a nightmare. So then
• 59:36
  Speaker 1: basically Laura's like, I didn't even want to say this,
• 59:38
  Speaker 1: but I'll say it. How would you feel like cut
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: him out of my life?
• 59:41
  Speaker 2: Meaning Michael? And then you know, she's like can you
• 59:44
  Speaker 2: do that? And then she's like yeah, and then he's like,
• 59:46
  Speaker 2: you know what, you don't need too because he hates you. Actually,
• 59:50
  Speaker 2: can I be honest now that I know that he
• 59:51
  Speaker 2: wouldn't touch you and he had the opportunity, what do
• 59:53
  Speaker 2: I care? But he's like, yeah, maybe just don't be
• 59:56
  Speaker 2: friends with him. Don't be like weird best don't He's like,
• 59:59
  Speaker 2: just change the nature relationship, Like, don't be like really awkward, weird,
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 2: needy best friends that play pickleball all day together.
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 1: You know, after.
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 3: Only a year. By the way, which is ye, this
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 3: storyline did not go the way that I thought it
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 3: was going to go, and I feel, I don't know,
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 3: I feel a little weirded out by the whole thing,
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 3: but by the way it's played out, I'm like, oh,
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 3: that's not what I thought was going to happen at all.
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 3: I thought this was going to be like a cutesie.
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 3: This is my friend and now we're going to be
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 3: in love and I'm going to make this mistake with
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 3: this guy, but Michael's going to come over and see
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 3: and then I'm like everybody in this in this storyline
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 3: is horrible and I don't like any of you anymore
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 3: at all. Yeah, stay off the internet. All of you
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 3: should stay off the internet.
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 1: By the way.
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 2: I know you're not made for it, you know. Not
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 2: everyone's supposed to be watched or famous, no, you know.
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 2: And unfortunately there were just enough cringey things about her
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 2: that they were like, well, this is a story and
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 2: you know that's but that's sad, that's true. Ana Viva.
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 2: So it's the day of her leaving. She's washed her hair. Ali,
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 2: do you notice that?
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 3: Good for her? It?
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: Okay, listen, I know it's just said. It's hard.
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 2: It's just I will just say that, like I'm someone
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 2: who travels with dry shampoo, you know, like I do
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 2: think that, like it's good to just have some some
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 2: things I don't. It's just it's it's hard when like
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 2: hair is greasy for so long, because it does make
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 2: me wonder, like have you like put SuDS in it?
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 2: Like have it has it been sudden? Did like are
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 2: you not showering? Or like what is your version of
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 2: shower or like or is your hair just really that greasy?
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 2: And if not, then just if it is, then just
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 2: like girl to girl, like just get a little dry shampoo,
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 2: like a natural one.
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 1: You know, it makes such a big difference.
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 3: Couldn't be me?
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 1: No, she she's love, she loved her proposal.
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 2: He's like, great, great, great, So when you get back
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 2: to America, you know, applying for that visa right, and
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 2: she's like no, no, no, no, Remember all the times
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 2: roll the clip producers where we talked about me living
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 2: in Belize and how you wouldn't ever want to leave
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 2: Belize because Belize is, you know, unbelievably believably great.
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: Like you're just like he really did keep saying that,
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 1: and he's like, oh, but what I could make more
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 1: money in the American dream living in Arizona with you.
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 1: And then in the Confessionals, who's like, but also it'd
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 1: be great if you'd get her asked to Houston.
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 3: And then they're like, well, why why would you look
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 3: like to go to Houston? Who else lives in Houston?
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 3: And he's like rattling off the people until he gets
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 3: to you're ex. Does she know that? Does Aviva know that?
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 2: I wonder Aviva knows that his ex lives in Houston,
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 2: But Aviva didn't even know that he's plenty did she
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 2: didn't even know that he wanted to live in America.
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 1: And then also be is realizing that.
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 2: She's like, well, I guess I can see you in Arizona,
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 2: and in his mind he's like, well, I'm not going
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 2: to Arizona.
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: We're going to Houston. I'm going you know.
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 2: She says this, which I do appreciate. She's like, that's
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 2: quite a switch up, my guy. It's quite a switch up,
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 2: my guy.
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 1: She like is tat.
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 2: It's like a way I guess of like tap dancing around,
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 2: like her feelings of that. She's weirded out by it.
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 3: She's also so hard to read as well, Like I
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 3: just have a lot of questions, like is that her personality.
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 3: Is she on a mood stabilizer? Perhaps because she's.
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 1: I think yeah, and I just yeah.
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 2: To me, she is someone who is like a stoner.
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 2: She read stoner vibes, which is fine, No, obviously, I
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 2: think it's also because the ways her eyes, the way
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 2: her eyes look not that they're super red, but she
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 2: said they're always like a little closed, you know. Yeah,
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 2: and confessional, Yeah, like when she said when she's talking,
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 2: she looks so different in her confessional like, and people
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 2: have gone up and forth of like what happened there,
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 2: but it's really just like also her face, like when
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 2: she is like looking at camera, like her eyes are
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 2: huge or huge big blue eyes. And then like, yeah,
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 2: every time we see her, she's like in mid squint
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 2: talking to him, you know, and she's wearing eyelash extensions.
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 2: But like and yeah, her in her mood is always
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 2: like very chill, you know. Yeah, even this that's quite
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 2: a switch up. My guy is so funny. But then
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 2: she kind of does the thing where she's like, I
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 2: just think we're meant for each other. When I saw
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 2: him hair and he then why would our why would
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 2: our paths have crossed if not for a reason. And
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 2: that's something that I've painted myself in a corner too,
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 2: of being like this, this feels so important, it must
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 2: be important, because it feels important. Why would there be
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 2: other any other reason except a sort of pre just
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 2: pre determined destiny for us to be there? And that
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 2: part sucks because I look back, I'm like, oh, that's
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 2: because you were in your head about certain things and
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 2: you weren't like paying attention to somatically or how you
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 2: were feeling, as well as presently what was happening with
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 2: the other person, Like what are they actually giving you?
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 2: You could I can put on like a whole kind
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 2: of fantasy onto a situation.
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 1: It does feel like that. It's kind of what happened
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 1: with her.
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 3: Absolutely, yeah, yeah, it's not looking great.
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 1: Spring new It Spring New Auntie Spring new Spring.
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 2: They go to the Belize airport and I have a
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 2: picture because I liked it. Look, the airport in Belize
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 2: has an ombre rainbow sign.
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 3: I really like that.
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 1: I know, I know it it.
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 2: It reminds me of remember when I still is like
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 2: and I say, remember when I'm gonna probably do this
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 2: when I put my books together. Remember when everyone was
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 2: doing like ombre bookshelves, when all the books of a
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 2: person's library would be like.
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: Done by color.
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 3: Color it. I don't have the attention span to do that,
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 3: but I love anybody that does.
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 2: I mean, you'd have to really remember exactly what book
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 2: you're looking for and what color the spine was. But
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 2: let's move on to our worst, the worst situation impossible.
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 2: I really saved the worst for last, the worst being Rick.
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 2: And in this episode, Trish giving me life and I
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 2: and we saw the previews for the next episode and
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 2: she better fucking not go back on what happens here.
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: But I really, I mean, like, I clap for her.
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 2: Okay, So he's upset, he's crying, ha ha ha because
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 2: what had happened was obviously we know when they're in
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 2: the airport. He had gotten found out because he's a horrible, cheating, weird,
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 2: insecure asshole who like after lying to Tricia's dad and
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 2: being like, yeah, I'm gonna have kids with her when
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 2: we all knew that, he was like, if things keep
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 2: progressing the way they are, and yeah, if I can,
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 2: you know, get the visa and then once she gets here,
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 2: we'll start talking about planning for a family. You know,
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 2: that was never gonna happen. She had found out that
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 2: he had texted back his ex from Columbia, the same
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 2: one that he had cheated on her with when he
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 2: thought that she had cheated, and then God bless she
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 2: had forgiven him for that that person texts him. Uh,
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 2: you never really loved me, and then he says, some
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 2: of the best times in my life were with you
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 2: with her while at her parents house, and she had
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 2: felt it given him a reason, given him like a
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 2: testing kind of situation to tell her the truth. He doesn't,
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 2: and then she changes her seats, she blows up at him.
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 2: They go back and she decides to not say at
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 2: the hotel and we're like, oh my god, it was
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 2: like I was so happy, I couldn't even I like
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 2: was I felt like my life was going to take
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 2: like an upward you know, like trajectory from this moment.
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 2: So he's upset, he's crying obviously, and he you know,
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 2: tries to text her, and then she does text him
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 2: back this and she goes He's like, will you meet
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 2: up with me? And then she goes, sure, period, And
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 2: he's like, I didn't understand why she said period.
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: Was it that she meant that like that was the
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 1: end of it?
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 2: And I want to be like, no, asshole, She just
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 2: was voice texting to me. It was very obvious that
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 2: she was like, ugh, sure period to me.
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 3: But like this he was in his fifties, isn't he
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 3: So maybe he doesn't know about voice to text Yeah.
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 1: He doesn't know about a hidden folder. He doesn't know
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: a lot about how to He just thinks, like he
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 1: thinks that he can be on a phone texting someone
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 1: right next to someone.
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 2: Else's whole body, who won't be like, you know what
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 2: I'm saying, that's weird. It's like it's kind of there
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 2: is a thing with boomers that they don't realize that
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 2: when they're on their phone in public, that they are
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 2: still you can still see and hear them and like
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 2: see what they're doing. Like there's like, you know, there's
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 2: a lot of like my dad will you know, will
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 2: have loud phone conversations in public, you know, and like
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 2: put people on speaker and it's like, you know, the
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 2: people are around now, they're hearing and seeing you. They
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 2: don't want to, but like in his situation, he really
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 2: thought that he could just be like right next to
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 2: her and she wouldn't be like.
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 3: Oh no, you know, I will say this young younger
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 3: guys do it too, because I remember one of my
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 3: girlfriends telling me one time that a guy that she
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 3: had just started dating was literally in bed with her
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 3: and brought up his dating app in bet and she
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 3: looked over and she's like, what are you doing? They
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 3: had been dating for like a couple of months. She
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 3: was like, Hey, what you doing? And then he was like, oh,
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 3: I just I'm insecure and I just need the validation.
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 3: She was like, I said, girl, run, girl run.
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 1: So many things.
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 2: But like also there's so many things involved, Like people
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 2: are addicted to their phones and so like now obviously
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 2: we know that that people might me, I'll pick up
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 2: my phone.
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 1: And be rolling.
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 2: It didn't even know I did it, you know, like
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 2: or whatever, Like it happens all the time. It's so
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 2: horrible and I really have to like choose. I'd really
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 2: have to stop that.
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 1: But yeah, like I think that like you forget, you
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 1: just do shit without No, it's just, oh my god,
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 1: so audacity.
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 3: I mean, there is the audacity that is definitely at
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 3: play here, and that is it's the whole situation is
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 3: just wild.
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 2: Everything that comes out out of his mouth is disgusting.
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 2: He says, if he loses her, he will lose the
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 2: best thing that ever happened to him.
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 1: He has kids.
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 3: He has kids, like a lot of kids, doesn't he
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 3: like five kids?
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 2: Yeah, if he loses this one girl from Madagascar that
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 2: you met once, it's the best thing that ever happened
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 2: to him. I mean, if I was one of his kids,
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 2: I'd be like, well, I've been knowing that my dad
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 2: wasn't shit, but like even just like as a person,
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 2: you wouldn't. I don't know, that's like so shitty to say.
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 3: I'd be pretty offended if I were any of his children.
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 3: Who I don't think any of them are old enough
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 3: to like really get it yet, but do you not
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 3: think they're see this.
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 1: Someday they're older. There's two younger ones and there's older ones.
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 3: I'd think pretty offended. I'd be like, thanks, Dad, Thanks,
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 3: this twenty five year old that you've met one time
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 3: is the best thing that's ever happened to you.
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 2: Fantastic, Like yeah, dad, just because she squirts and she
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 2: hates you now, so just you know, oh I hate
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 2: it so much anyway, So basically they meet up.
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 1: She looks cute as hell. She's wearing like this orange
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 1: V neck kind of like scholarly looking sweater.
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 3: She's pretty, she's gorgeous, her.
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 2: Hair back gorgeous, her hair down gorgeous, her hair gorgeous.
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 2: Like her body is so like fun, like you know,
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 2: like I'm I mean she's just like I beautiful, Yeah,
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 2: she and she like knows it and like there's like
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 2: especially when I talked about I mean when I brought
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 2: talked about her body, Like remember when she was like
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 2: in her lingerie.
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 1: She knows that she's hot.
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and it makes me really happy for her, you know,
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 2: because I like when women know their like sexual power
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 2: and stuff like that. I wish you wouldn't set the
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 2: sporting videos like that part. I'm like, oh girl, just
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 2: like what woman woman like makes something you don't have
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 2: to send the video, you know, like just because then
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 2: he has that video for the rest of his life.
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 2: He doesn't deserve that. No, he's gonna show all of it.
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 3: He showed everyone, not unless he's gonna pay you for it.
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 3: Doesn't know, and I don't he he can't afford to.
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 3: That's a skill set you can make a lot of
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 3: money out of. Don't give it away for free.
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I hope that you.
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 2: I mean, if yeah, if that's what she wants to do,
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 2: I mean, then maybe she can use this sounds like
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 2: a jumping off to like, you know, making some money
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 2: that way.
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 1: But I don't know.
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 3: He doesn't deserve anything nothing.
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 1: He's conflicted.
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 2: He when they meet up, she's like, for some reason,
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 2: she gives him a fucking chance. But I think it's
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 2: more so a test to be like, all right, bitch,
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 2: block her, block this bitch that you've already cheated on
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 2: me that you you know, and he can't do it.
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 3: Failed failed the test immediately. I was just watching it
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 3: in horror, or just like, what why would you fly
• 1:13:04
  Speaker 3: all the way to Madigascar? Why if you still had
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 3: feelings for Why you just think that a woman should
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 3: be so happy to be with you that she'll tolerate that.
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 3: Mm hmmmm. If you still had feelings for your ex,
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 3: you should have stayed in Colombia or wherever it was
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 3: and not gone to Madagascar. Just shouldn't have done it.
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 2: He says that the thing that the relationship with Columbia
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 2: with the Columbia woman didn't work because they couldn't make
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 2: like their futures work together or something like that, which
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 2: to me, I'm like, if this tell all is worth
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 2: their weight, they're gonna have to get that lady to
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 2: give their opinion like that lady now has to be.
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 1: They have to get that lady to have a video
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 1: in it's bad producing if you don't.
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 3: I need us to skip straight to the tell all?
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 3: Is the next episode, the last episode before the tell all?
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 1: It's April twenty. I think there's two more. I think
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 1: there's I think it's like April twenty sixth or something
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 1: is the there's two versions.
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 3: Wrap it up, Wrap it up and give me the
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 3: towel all. That's all I really want.
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 1: Absolutely.
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 2: Emma's just sitting at home, honey at this point, you know,
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 2: she has two episodes, just just sit there, so basically.
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 1: He can't obviously block that person.
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 2: And then she's like, I just fucking wasted my time
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 2: with you, and he, like, you know, when he even
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 2: when he sat down, he like tried to hug her,
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 2: and she was like, oh no, I hate you.
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, No, don't fucking touch me.
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 2: Like the audacity is you're right, Like he's just thinking
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 2: I's gonna baby is disgusting. She's like, don't fucking even
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 2: get near me. She says, Okay, if you're not gonna
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 2: block him, if you're not gonna block her, I'm blocking you.
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 2: He's like no, I'm like I'm blocking you right now.
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 2: He tries to grab her phone. She's like, don't you
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 2: fucking grab the phone.
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 1: You didn't buy, you.
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 3: Didn't pay for this, this is my phone.
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 1: I was like, yes, yes, yes, I was like like
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 1: at this point, I'm like standing up. I'm like yes, Trish,
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 1: yeah you know. I'm like, this is my Olympics.
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 2: Okay, I'm like, go for the gold. So then she
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 2: is just like, I'll never be a second choice of someone,
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 2: So I'll take my love back and forget about him.
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 3: What was so wild to me that was that they
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 3: had them together in the confessional, which worries me about
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 3: the future of where things are going. That they are
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 3: still together in the confessional makes me feel worried, and
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 3: I'm like, why are they in this confessional together? Why
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 3: is she not hitting him with a chair? Like I
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 3: need a wrestling move brought out here with a folding
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 3: chair immediately, I'm not going to be in the same
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 3: room as that man. You had all of the to
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 3: block him right in front of him, which, by the way,
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 3: ten out of ten no notes, love it.
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 1: I loved it.
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 3: But to be in the same confessional together now I'm worried.
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 3: Now I'm really worried. I'm like, why are they still
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 3: sitting together? You could not pay me to still be
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 3: sitting with that man. Get away from him, Get away
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 3: from each other right now, Yeah, get.
• 1:16:03
  Speaker 1: Away from her.
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 2: It's that one, like Demi Levado comment on, I don't know.
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 2: I think it's exactly what she had so maybe was
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 2: Aselena Gomez.
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 1: I don't know, honey. You know what I'm talking about.
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 2: You Internet people know, But that isn't an incredibly astute observation.
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 2: She is with him, sitting next to him after this moment,
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 2: and it is like, just does play upon my worst
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 2: fear that like for some reason they are together afterward,
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 2: because she really is like, no, don't never bother me again,
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 2: don't bother me. And then like she walks up and
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 2: she does this and I also love this where she's like, good,
• 1:16:39
  Speaker 2: thank you, like she it's almost like she like blesses
• 1:16:43
  Speaker 2: him and lets him go like, well, thank you. She
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 2: because she she at first was like truly you wasted
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 2: my time, but her think you really wasn't to him
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 2: as much as like to me. And this is like
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 2: real heaty, what I wanted to be like to the
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 2: universe or to God or to whatever, to want to
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 2: be like, I got the piece of information I needed
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 2: to know that this person wasn't shit and so good.
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 1: I'm glad I have that information.
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 2: I don't want have to, like, you know, it would
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 2: be really annoying to be like, did I make the
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 2: right choice about something for the rest of my life?
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 1: But like, no, yes you did. This person isn't shit.
• 1:17:17
  Speaker 1: But as I've said, and as you've hinted.
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 2: At, the next episode has her coming to the airport
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 2: with what looks like a fucking present and he's.
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 3: Crying and I'm like, don't do it, girl, don't do it.
• 1:17:34
  Speaker 1: Don't do it, girl, don't do it.
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 3: I hope the present is like, I don't know, something
• 1:17:40
  Speaker 3: grotesque or you know, mafia's style, like and that she
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 3: he gets a don't ever come back here, you know
• 1:17:49
  Speaker 3: what I mean, something slightly scary, perhaps from her family
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 3: that's like, never come back to Madagast your band.
• 1:17:57
  Speaker 2: Remember that ex boyfriend that has like a bunch of
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 2: like her ex boyfriend has like friends, remember.
• 1:18:03
  Speaker 1: Motorcycle.
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 3: That she should not be at that airport. I don't
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 3: know why she is she, I don't know what that
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 3: gift is. She better stop it right now, she'd better
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 3: stop it. I hope she's at the airport greeting somebody else.
• 1:18:17
  Speaker 2: What if she was greeting the Columbian X and they
• 1:18:19
  Speaker 2: were going to like come together and talk about how
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 2: he is and shit, I can't wait to tell All.
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 1: They have to get they have to.
• 1:18:27
  Speaker 2: Get the Columbian X's like viewpoint of like his situation
• 1:18:31
  Speaker 2: and like why she's not with him because or what
• 1:18:34
  Speaker 2: she wants from him, or like why it didn't work, Like.
• 1:18:36
  Speaker 1: I really need to know it.
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 6: Oh my love.
• 1:18:38
  Speaker 1: That is the end of the episode. I'm excited though,
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 1: I'm excited.
• 1:18:46
  Speaker 3: I'm excited for the tell all. I am ready for
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 3: the season to be over. I feel like it's just
• 1:18:50
  Speaker 3: we're just dwindling the same thing, especially when we're in
• 1:18:53
  Speaker 3: like the forest and Sheena situation. It is just the
• 1:18:56
  Speaker 3: same thing over and over. And I'm like, Okay, we
• 1:18:59
  Speaker 3: get it, we get it, we get it. Just get
• 1:19:02
  Speaker 3: to the tell all. Let it be a real juicy
• 1:19:04
  Speaker 3: toell all for us. I think we've earned it after
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 3: watching this season, we've earned a very good tell all.
• 1:19:10
  Speaker 3: So fingers crossed for that.
• 1:19:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it's coming. I think it's coming. Oh,
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 1: thank you so much for talking about this with me.
• 1:19:19
  Speaker 3: This is.
• 1:19:22
  Speaker 2: You know, you're also you really made some great points
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 2: like that, I you know, yeah, I mean so many
• 1:19:27
  Speaker 2: good points, but yeah, you're right that she's she's with
• 1:19:29
  Speaker 2: them in that confessional.
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  Speaker 1: I hate that for her.
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  Speaker 3: I feel like that's production trying to tell us something
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  Speaker 3: and I'm.
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  Speaker 1: Like, stop, yeah, don't tell us. Run.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, everyone, you just need to like love yourselves and
• 1:19:43
  Speaker 2: you need to like be able to you know, take
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 2: good care of yourselves. No, you know, there's a lot
• 1:19:48
  Speaker 2: of fish in the fucking sea. You know, no one
• 1:19:50
  Speaker 2: is the end all be all, and like you know, anyway,
• 1:19:54
  Speaker 2: it's just it's it's hard though, when you want love
• 1:19:56
  Speaker 2: and like you want when you want love and you
• 1:19:59
  Speaker 2: feel like you I get it and you feel like
• 1:20:02
  Speaker 2: it's happening in a way that you know happens for
• 1:20:04
  Speaker 2: other people or you know, even waiting for or you
• 1:20:07
  Speaker 2: think that it's supposed to be because you've assigned the
• 1:20:10
  Speaker 2: meaning of the universe to this thing. It's hard, you know,
• 1:20:13
  Speaker 2: and I think that, like I've failed in that too,
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 2: But yeah, like there's got to be a better way.
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  Speaker 3: There has to be. But who amongst us has not,
• 1:20:23
  Speaker 3: you know what I mean, made the mistakes.
• 1:20:27
  Speaker 1: I certainly have will continue probably. Yeah, I'm single, So.
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 3: Everybody except for this cat that's trying to get on
• 1:20:34
  Speaker 3: the camera again.
• 1:20:36
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's like that's like a lease coming
• 1:20:38
  Speaker 1: back from Hunt for Love, being like I want to
• 1:20:40
  Speaker 1: be in the franchise.
• 1:20:42
  Speaker 3: I think THEO would like to be in the franchise.
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 1: There you go, Yeah, how do you feel about love?
• 1:20:49
  Speaker 3: He's like, I would love for my mother to leave
• 1:20:51
  Speaker 3: me alone unless she's feeding me. That's all he cares about.
• 1:20:55
  Speaker 1: M Well, how do you feel about naked cakes?
• 1:20:58
  Speaker 3: No?
• 1:20:58
  Speaker 1: Miskidding? All right, my love. Okay, so you are obviously on.
• 1:21:05
  Speaker 2: Instagram and your Instagram is huge and gorgeous, and you
• 1:21:07
  Speaker 2: don't need me because you know, you have so much
• 1:21:10
  Speaker 2: going on for you.
• 1:21:10
  Speaker 1: But you're you are sugar pusher. You are pushing sugar honey.
• 1:21:14
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 1:21:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah, which is a great name because you have like
• 1:21:17
  Speaker 1: a you. It's obviously like the sugar, but also the
• 1:21:20
  Speaker 1: aesthetic is so sweet that like it's like you get
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 1: to push like a sweetness onto people's like weeds and
• 1:21:27
  Speaker 1: stuff like that.
• 1:21:28
  Speaker 3: Well, let me do everywhere I go. The reason why
• 1:21:31
  Speaker 3: it's sugar Pusher is because for years, everywhere I go,
• 1:21:34
  Speaker 3: I show up somewhere with a dessert for people, like
• 1:21:37
  Speaker 3: you know, if I'm going to a party or even
• 1:21:39
  Speaker 3: if I'm going to like my hairstyleists get my hair,
• 1:21:41
  Speaker 3: everybody gets dessert. And so that's just kind of a sorry,
• 1:21:46
  Speaker 3: there goes, there goes a timed cat feeder. Nice, but yeah,
• 1:21:51
  Speaker 3: it's it's so much fun. I love I love what
• 1:21:54
  Speaker 3: I do, and I love what you do. And I
• 1:21:57
  Speaker 3: just I was kind of just so starstruck when you message.
• 1:22:00
  Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god, oh my god.
• 1:22:01
  Speaker 1: Oh my I can't believe that you're a while to
• 1:22:03
  Speaker 1: say that. Same, like, I'm so thankful.
• 1:22:06
  Speaker 3: Same, you're a reason. You're so funny, and you're so
• 1:22:09
  Speaker 3: just so entertaining, and I love what you do so
• 1:22:12
  Speaker 3: much and it brings me joy.
• 1:22:14
  Speaker 2: So I mean, you make me cry, you bring me joy.
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 2: But thank you so much for saying that. That's incredibly kind.
• 1:22:21
  Speaker 2: But yes, please go follow my girl. So I mean,
• 1:22:23
  Speaker 2: you just she has a lot of followers, but like,
• 1:22:25
  Speaker 2: this is I wanting to say this, Just go and follow,
• 1:22:27
  Speaker 2: Just do a couple of comments just talking about n
• 1:22:30
  Speaker 2: a fiance so that some of her other followers be like,
• 1:22:32
  Speaker 2: what what's happening?
• 1:22:34
  Speaker 1: I think that will be funny to me. Uh yeah.
• 1:22:38
  Speaker 1: Other than that, as you know, we just usually end
• 1:22:41
  Speaker 1: with like two breaths and then I'll let people go.
• 1:22:44
  Speaker 2: But of course, if you want to follow me, I'm
• 1:22:45
  Speaker 2: at Chrystal Farah, god Blass, TikTok and Instagram. I have
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 2: a Patreon, I have a YouTube, I have a substack.
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 2: I have a Facebook group Danity Farah, as well as
• 1:22:52
  Speaker 2: my page Chris Farah on Facebook. But yeah, I just
• 1:22:55
  Speaker 2: give this podcast five stars if you haven't yet, and
• 1:22:58
  Speaker 2: enjoy the visual on Patreon and.
• 1:23:01
  Speaker 1: Then on YouTube later, and.
• 1:23:03
  Speaker 2: Thank you so much for listening, guys, And yeah, let's
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 2: breathe together, so you can use the sound of my
• 1:23:08
  Speaker 2: voice or the cat feeder or whatever you'd like to
• 1:23:13
  Speaker 2: just allow ourselves a gift of being present because everything
• 1:23:17
  Speaker 2: that we might be worrying about actually has no bearing
• 1:23:21
  Speaker 2: on what's happening right now. Hopefully you and I were
• 1:23:24
  Speaker 2: doing quite well in this moment. Hopefully, hopefully we're comfortable,
• 1:23:27
  Speaker 2: we're not too cold, and we can just like sit
• 1:23:31
  Speaker 2: in the beautiful experience of a present moment.
• 1:23:35
  Speaker 6: Okay, so let's breathe twice, all right, babes, take care
• 1:24:01
  Speaker 6: of yourselves and one another, stand up for what you believe,
• 1:24:04
  Speaker 6: and make art any way you possibly can, which for
• 1:24:07
  Speaker 6: me will be cookies later.
• 1:24:11
  Speaker 1: All right, talk to you later BYEE.