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Dirty Little Secret: She’s Ready to Quit Her Job Over a Crush?! · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: Pretty Little Secrets, Mix one O two point nine.
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  Speaker 2: It's Bill of a Kid, Candice Lompez producer Poo. If
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  Speaker 2: you missed it, Pooh lost to will a misfortune he
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  Speaker 2: spun it landed on show picks fit, which means we
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  Speaker 2: pick his outfit after the show, will pick it out
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  Speaker 2: and then tomorrow he has to wear it all day.
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  Speaker 1: Oh I don't feel good. So yeah, no, you're you
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  Speaker 1: feel just fine. You don't know my body.
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  Speaker 2: I think Candas and I discussed, and I think we're
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  Speaker 2: gonna go to Walmart.
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  Speaker 1: We might go to Ross.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: We might go to multiple stores.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe a shoe store.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: We're gonna instagram live this though at ten thirty, right
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  Speaker 2: around ten thirty at Mix one O two nine FM.
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  Speaker 2: So make sure you watch this debacle because it's also
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  Speaker 2: something you might need to help us with. We might
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  Speaker 2: have listeners pick the outfit themselves, yeah, because they're really
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  Speaker 2: in control of the show anyway. So we'll do that
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  Speaker 2: at ten thirty. Now, Dirty Little Secret, if you have one,
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  Speaker 2: bring it on eight three three seven eight seven one
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  Speaker 2: O two nine.
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  Speaker 1: Whatever your secret may be, and you have it, go ahead.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, So I've never told anyone this because I'm honestly
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  Speaker 4: ashamed of it. I'm happily married. I love my husband
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  Speaker 4: more than anything, and I've never cheated on him. I've
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  Speaker 4: never even come close.
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  Speaker 1: Good I never would.
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  Speaker 4: But there's a guy I work with I cannot stop
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  Speaker 4: thinking about.
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  Speaker 2: Oh no, come on, Like, what do you mean, So,
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  Speaker 2: first of all, you work with him?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, he's been at my job for about six months,
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  Speaker 4: and from the first week we met, something just clicks.
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  Speaker 4: I can't even explain it. He's not some ridiculously handsome
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  Speaker 4: guy that like every woman stares at sure, like he's attractive,
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  Speaker 4: but it's not really that. It's everything else, Like what
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  Speaker 4: just the way he talks, the way he walks into
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  Speaker 4: a room, his confidence, his sense of humor, even the
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  Speaker 4: way he smells when he passes by. There's just this
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  Speaker 4: chemistry that I've never experienced before.
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  Speaker 2: But nothing's ever happened between you two more than just
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  Speaker 2: what a normal coworker would experience.
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  Speaker 4: No, No, nothing inappropriate has happened. We don't flirt, we
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  Speaker 4: haven't texted, we haven't crossed a single line.
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  Speaker 1: Good are you worried it will?
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  Speaker 4: If anything, I've actually tried to avoid talking to him
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  Speaker 4: because it scares me how drawn to him I feel.
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  Speaker 1: Really, that's lust girl?
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  Speaker 2: Huh okay does this happen? Like I guess what I'm
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  Speaker 2: saying is no, no, okay. So Cannics is quick to
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  Speaker 2: answer that she shut that down.
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  Speaker 4: He so, no.
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  Speaker 1: I mean that's a lot, but you can be a
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  Speaker 1: Now let me say this.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not in a relationship right now, but if you're
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  Speaker 2: in a relationship, it's not crazy to have Oh, that
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  Speaker 2: person's attractive.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, you can admit when someone's an attractive person, or
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  Speaker 3: when someone like you said, is you know, walks into
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  Speaker 3: a room with confidence, like you could admit that, but
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  Speaker 3: like saying, you can't stop thinking about them, that's totally different.
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  Speaker 1: And and you don't normally feel chemistry.
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  Speaker 2: And that's the thing I think with you, with you
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  Speaker 2: describing this guy, is you feel something. It's not just
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  Speaker 2: like he's an obviously a good looking man. You feel
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  Speaker 2: something going on.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, And the guilt is honestly eating me alive because
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  Speaker 4: I adore my husband, He's a wonderful man, and I
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  Speaker 4: don't want anyone else. But I'm so attracted to this man.
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  Speaker 4: Then I start wondering if I can feel this strongly
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  Speaker 4: about someone I barely know. What does that say about
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  Speaker 4: my marriage? Am I not in love with my husband
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  Speaker 4: as much as I thought? Or is this just one
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  Speaker 4: of those things that happened sometimes that's.
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  Speaker 1: A good question.
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  Speaker 4: Wow?
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  Speaker 1: Is this? Yeah? Wow?
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  Speaker 2: Can you be attracted to someone else even though you
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  Speaker 2: are absolutely in love with your husband?
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  Speaker 3: I think you can be like enamored by them, or
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  Speaker 3: you can feel like, oh that's a that's a special person,
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  Speaker 3: or that the person has like special energy, you know
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  Speaker 3: what I mean, But like attracted to where you're talking like.
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  Speaker 1: This not a well, I mean she is, how's that cheating?
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  Speaker 1: She hasn't cheated?
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  Speaker 2: And she said when he walks by the cologne, the
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  Speaker 2: smell and all that.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, I've worked with plenty of men over the
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  Speaker 4: years and never once felt anything like this. And that's
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  Speaker 4: what's freaking me out. This feels completely different.
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  Speaker 1: And I don't know why why.
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  Speaker 2: I give you a lot of credit for actually saying
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  Speaker 2: it out loud. Yeah, I mean what do you do
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  Speaker 2: about it?
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  Speaker 1: Though?
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  Speaker 2: You stay away from the guy, like you said, you
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  Speaker 2: just avoid him. I mean that's probably smart. I guess.
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  Speaker 4: Well, I've actually started thinking about asking the transfer departments
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  Speaker 4: or even looking for another job because I don't like
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  Speaker 4: how much it seeks this guy is taking up in
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  Speaker 4: my head. Wow. Yeah, I feel guilty every time I
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  Speaker 4: catch myself thinking about him, and I hate it. I
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  Speaker 4: don't I don't want to lose my marriage over something
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  Speaker 4: that has never even happened. I just don't know what
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  Speaker 4: to do.
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  Speaker 2: I know, and that okay, But are you that worried
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  Speaker 2: that you have at some point you think your self
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  Speaker 2: control is going to be weak, that you might say
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  Speaker 2: something or do something that's inappropriate with this guy.
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  Speaker 4: Not necessarily my self control. I just don't want this
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  Speaker 4: on my head all the time. I'd rather just you know,
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  Speaker 4: have a start somewhere else.
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  Speaker 2: Ah, that is a lot. I mean considering willing to
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  Speaker 2: change an entire job because of an attraction to a
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  Speaker 2: co worker is a lot, right, But you know you
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  Speaker 2: and you know what you gotta do.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, props to you for that, But I
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  Speaker 3: don't know how you're continuing like this.
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  Speaker 4: Well, hopefully they have something in the in my department,
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  Speaker 4: a different department, and I don't have to get like
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  Speaker 4: a whole new job. But yeah, I for my marriage,
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  Speaker 4: I definitely would be willing to just you know, start
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  Speaker 4: somewhere else.
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  Speaker 2: So you think if you stop seeing the guy, like
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  Speaker 2: out of sight, out of mind, you don't think you
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  Speaker 2: think about him again, because I mean, just because he's
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  Speaker 2: not around you doesn't mean you're not gonna be the man.
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  Speaker 1: I'm thinking about so and so thinking about him more.
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  Speaker 4: I think it would be out of side, out of mind.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, well can't you try just thinking about like
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  Speaker 3: he's got to have a bad side, Like he's got
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  Speaker 3: to have a side that's ugly in his personality, or
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  Speaker 3: you know, I want to I want to date this guy,
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  Speaker 3: do me a favorite two things, let us know what happens,
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  Speaker 3: and find out what kind of cologne that has you mesmerized.
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  Speaker 1: And I would like to start wearing this around the ladies.
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  Speaker 4: All right, Okay, we'll do Thank you, guys,