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- 1:05jump on that jump on that but um We got a we
- 1:09got a couple things we talk about today man got
- 1:11some stuff. We got some good stuff going on Yeah,
- 1:14we do get some recaps. Yeah, we got it. We got
- 1:17a couple of recaps But first, how are you doing?
- 1:20I'm doing good. How about you doing great? Yeah,
- 1:23we chillin we in we in PJ mode We at home. We
- 1:28chillin we in PJ mode. We can do that comfortable
- 1:31That's right, comfortable is the key. So let's
- 1:36get right into the show man. Let's get right
- 1:38to the show Um, let's do a recap. Um, we we talked
- 1:43about lil sean talking about moving out at the
- 1:46age of 18 and um We got to put that. I put that
- 1:51out. As like, you know, we put that out on the
- 1:56pod just to have a conversation about it. And
- 1:59a lot of people was talking about it in the chats
- 2:02and stuff like that on Facebook and the gram
- 2:04and stuff. How, yes, a lot of people are, you
- 2:09know, just kicking their kids out. They are 18.
- 2:12I didn't realize how many, you know, how. How
- 2:16many people that affected? Uh -huh. No, I mean
- 2:18did your people try to kick you out at 18? No,
- 2:21I've never had that No, I've never had that never
- 2:25experienced that but As I got older now they've
- 2:31been talking about that for a long time Yeah,
- 2:33they had like, you know, we've been hearing it,
- 2:36you know out a lot and then you know now to hear
- 2:40These kids these days talk about it. It's crazy.
- 2:43You would think that They would stop doing it,
- 2:47you know, like stop saying that you know making
- 2:49that a big thing to learn behavior Plus I feel
- 2:52like a lot of parents because feel like they
- 2:55want to live their life. Yeah. Oh Yeah, 18 now,
- 2:59you gotta go. You got to get out of here. You
- 3:01know, yeah Mommy daddy's trying to live their
- 3:04life. Right? You right? They trying to get out
- 3:07to right, right? Like they can't get out with
- 3:10the child No, which 18 year old? Yeah, so disappear.
- 3:14Yeah, you can still go shake your bank and go
- 3:16do whatever little shit you want to do. Yeah
- 3:20Now you right I and it's funny. Oh cuz I saw
- 3:23this video online too. Mm -hmm where this lady
- 3:26literally, um He saw was 18 still in high school,
- 3:31but because he's stream, you know 18 is you can
- 3:35still be a high school. Yeah, okay Because he's
- 3:42streaming online she feel like he didn't have
- 3:44his life in the right direction So he had a curfew.
- 3:48He had to cut all the TV and stuff on by like
- 3:50nine something ten o 'clock Yeah, there's a bunch
- 3:52of shit he had to do Wow, and he was streaming
- 3:55and he finally got 15 ,000 people in this stream.
- 3:58Okay So his numbers was running up his last run
- 4:02up She got mad came in there started unplugging
- 4:05shit hitting them beat them across his head Told
- 4:08him he gotta go, told him he a piece of shit.
- 4:10He ain't never gone mountain nuts. She was drilling
- 4:14him. And she was like, you 18, it's time for
- 4:17you to go anyway. He was like, mom, I'm still
- 4:19in school. I still have school. I don't care
- 4:21about that. I don't care. You a grown man now.
- 4:23You ain't gonna be shit. You ain't got no girlfriend.
- 4:26She's like literally on him. Wow. About everything
- 4:29because he was streaming. So he ended up leaving.
- 4:33She kicked him out. He ended up leaving, y 'all
- 4:35and herself. But a friend. Helped him out. So
- 4:38he was able to stay in the basement. And then
- 4:40some of the big name Streamers stepped out to
- 4:44help him out like kidney agent. They helped him
- 4:47get some brand new stuff like that So he can
- 4:49as he's part of the constant that you know, okay
- 4:52Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah Helping them get
- 4:55brand deals and stuff like that or partner up
- 4:57with him to do some brand deals to help him One
- 4:59get his name out there to get some money. Yeah
- 5:02So I thought that's dope. All these people stepped
- 5:06up to help him. But it's just crazy how - His
- 5:10own mother. And on stream with 15 ,000 people
- 5:14watching, she was slapping him on the cross head,
- 5:17beating on him, everything in front of a ton
- 5:20of people. You know what I mean? Oh, because
- 5:23he was streaming. Yep. Because he was streaming.
- 5:26Like how he say, Mom, I'm still in high school.
- 5:30Right. It's like he's not out on the street doing
- 5:33anything negative he's at home playing his game
- 5:37right and plus he's streaming so he's you know
- 5:40It's a different world, you know, you know, because
- 5:44sometimes I think if that streaming shit is like
- 5:46come on man, but then at the same time I'm like
- 5:49We got everything here do it. Yeah, we got everything
- 5:53it can it can work Like it really can work like
- 5:56if you sit and you watch all these kids and now
- 5:58you've seen like a lot of young kids like They
- 6:03in elementary school and they got so many, you
- 6:06know followers and They just only doing it. So
- 6:10it is different. I mean I can I can see how you
- 6:14know some parents get upset because they're on
- 6:16the game all day every day, but I Feel like you
- 6:20should put some regulations. Yeah, you got to
- 6:23you got to but yeah Yeah, go go go walk outside
- 6:28barefooted or something, you know But if you
- 6:30at home you in school you doing what you supposed
- 6:32to be doing Go ahead and play your game. You
- 6:35know, do your chores around the house. Go ahead
- 6:38and play your game Thought about this and I was
- 6:41gonna say so so, you know When it's school time,
- 6:46uh -huh, but we can't the boys really can't play
- 6:49the game, right? Let Sean sly cuz he's older
- 6:53Yeah, so I don't really be bugging about Dave
- 6:58on I've been like no But lately I let them jump
- 7:02on for last like hour and a half before you go
- 7:06before you gotta go to bed. Yeah So I was thinking
- 7:10that I was going to be a little more relaxed
- 7:12in that with him to see what he does. Let's see
- 7:16if he if he take advantage of it. Right. Or if
- 7:21he be like, you know what? Make sure because
- 7:24I told him. You know, you got to make sure schoolwork
- 7:28is done, right? Make sure your chores is done
- 7:31in house. Wash your ass. Yeah, definitely. You
- 7:35jump on that game. So. Like today he made sure
- 7:39he watched his ass before he jumped on the game.
- 7:42He didn't know I was gonna tell him he could
- 7:43play But I'm thinking about like Okay, what's
- 7:49your thoughts just happened today, right? We
- 7:52having this conversation today and it happened
- 7:53today. So He noticed that His older brother plays
- 7:58the game. He noticed that but I tell him I say
- 8:01hey, I say you're younger than him You can't
- 8:05play the game every day because you got to go
- 8:07to school and you got to focus right so today
- 8:10he said Can I play my game for a little while
- 8:15I? Say you know not to ask me that I say that's
- 8:19not my department I Say look you play the game
- 8:24for a little while yesterday like don't take
- 8:26advantage of it like just chill if he tells you
- 8:29you can get on it then go ahead and get on it
- 8:31I said, but don't Ask, you know every day, you
- 8:34know, he didn't ask me. So I'm like go go do
- 8:36what you need to do You know, you know just go
- 8:38chill out and then I think even like an hour
- 8:41or two later I passed by his room and I was like
- 8:44did somebody give you permission to play that
- 8:46game? Yeah, mom I'm like, okay Yeah, but he was
- 8:51he was quiet though the only new because I heard
- 8:53the but yeah, but he was quiet though He didn't
- 8:56ask he didn't ask. Oh, he did. No, he did He
- 8:59was in the front room And he was watching TV.
- 9:03I was on my last break from class. And I said,
- 9:08I said, what you doing? Nah, I'm just watching
- 9:10TV. I got tired of being upstairs. I looked at
- 9:13him. I said, you just wanna play your game. I
- 9:16was like, go ahead. I said, I looked at the time.
- 9:21I said, go make sure you, I said, you gotta make
- 9:24sure your chores, everything you need to be done
- 9:26is done. I said, go take a shower. And he also
- 9:46know that he just got to talk in a certain tone
- 9:51and he know automatically. Oh, they gonna let
- 9:54me do it. When he talks in a certain tone like
- 9:59when he's very wow, you know, I mean well -mannered
- 10:02and his tone is like Yeah, you know, yes, sir.
- 10:07Yes, ma 'am when he started doing that, he know
- 10:09Somebody's gonna be like I you can go ahead and
- 10:12do it. You know that you know that But yeah,
- 10:15I mean, I'm cool with it. Just like I told him
- 10:19he go to school He do good throughout the week
- 10:21then maybe on Fridays, you know, he can picks
- 10:24somewhere that he want to go or whatever. Yeah,
- 10:27just a little incentive. Our youngest is full
- 10:30-fledged ADHD. I know they be saying like, yo,
- 10:33these kids don't be ADHD. Nah, that's your ADHD.
- 10:38Yeah. And A, B, C, H, D. X, Y, K, L, M, N, O,
- 10:44P. That boy be in class bouncing off the wall.
- 10:48So, you know, we're a little more, he's been
- 10:52a lot better. Don't get me wrong. It's been a
- 10:53lot. But that's because we don't put them. Yeah.
- 10:58You know, the clink clink. So yeah, with his
- 11:02improvement, I feel like and as is as he gets
- 11:04older, I want to provide him with a little more
- 11:07leeway. Yeah, because it opens up. And plus,
- 11:12when we take it away, it's a lot more. It's a
- 11:17lot more helping when it comes to discipline,
- 11:19when I say, all right, now you can get on that
- 11:22shit. Yep, you'll miss it. You know what I mean?
- 11:25So it's like, oh, instead of, you know, Friday
- 11:28come, I could jump on it. Right. And then, you
- 11:32know, weekend, now you can't play none during
- 11:35the week. Yep. It's a wrap. And that hurts. Yeah.
- 11:38That hurts when all you got to do is look at
- 11:40them full corners the whole weekend. Go read
- 11:43a book, goofy. That hurts. But yeah, I agree
- 11:45with that. I think, you know, if he does good
- 11:48in school, do what he's supposed to do, come
- 11:50home and, you know, do stuff and we don't have
- 11:52to tell him to do it. Right. You know, he'll
- 11:53get a little bit more extra. Yeah, yeah. Just
- 11:56a little bit. A little bit more, like little
- 11:58by little. Yeah, I agree. Yeah. All right. Also,
- 12:02I post this question online as well. plan on
- 12:06giving Deshawn one of the cars and for him to
- 12:09do it he has to be able to change the oil in
- 12:11the car and take off and put on a tire. Fair.
- 12:18Okay, that's what I thought. What are your thoughts
- 12:19about that? Because I know I never talked to
- 12:20you about it. I just said this is what you're
- 12:22going to do. This is man shit. You got to do
- 12:24it. I don't give a fuck about none of that shit.
- 12:26Right. That just like me telling him he got to
- 12:28wash his clothes. Right. You got to learn at
- 12:31some point. You know, you got to know how to
- 12:32do those things. That is very important because
- 12:34that is basic maintenance. Right. You know, something
- 12:38happens. You ain't got to always call dad to
- 12:41find somebody to come get you. Right. Right.
- 12:43You know how to. And when you don't have the
- 12:46money. Right, if you ain't got the money. If
- 12:49you don't have the money, then you need an oil
- 12:51change for your car. You know, depending on what
- 12:54level of luxury your car is. You can get out
- 12:57there and just do it yourself. You know what
- 12:59I'm saying? He about to start out with some regular
- 13:01degalas, so he could slide right up under there,
- 13:03change that oil, change that filter. You know
- 13:07what I mean? I'm gonna teach him how to change
- 13:08spark plugs. Change those spark plugs. Like certain
- 13:13things he need to learn how to do on his own.
- 13:17Let's change these cold packs and get these spark
- 13:20plugs in there. You see, you do them a million
- 13:22times. Right. So he know, he know I know how
- 13:25to do it. So I feel like he has to learn those
- 13:28certain. And if he doesn't, he don't get the
- 13:30keys. Yeah. Well, he gonna learn it because he
- 13:34want them keys bad. He want them keys bad. But
- 13:39I'm with that. Everybody online seemed to be
- 13:42with me. Somebody was like, you know, with the
- 13:46way the world is today, you know, they can go
- 13:50pay to go get the oil change, but it don't hurt
- 13:52to learn. Yeah, I do. And I was like, because
- 13:55at first I was reading, I was like, you know,
- 13:56that bullshit. And then when I finished, I was
- 14:00like, he cleaned that up. Yeah, it probably should
- 14:02have went first. The last thing we should have
- 14:04went first. But yeah. It's always good to know
- 14:08have an idea of it may be a possibility that
- 14:11I got to do this myself one day Let me go ahead
- 14:13and learn exactly. But hey, if you got the money
- 14:16if you want somebody go do it by y 'all mean
- 14:18But I know for his car Yeah, yeah, yep every
- 14:30time he go on change it Make a little punch call.
- 14:34Yeah. Yeah. You got to get a certain amount.
- 14:36Yep. Yeah. That's a good one. So I know everybody
- 14:41see us in our bonnets and my turban. She and
- 14:48her, um, Moo Moo. I'm in my PJ pants. One of
- 14:54many PJ pants. I got, you know, a relaxed one.
- 14:59You're right. Reason being is this. Because I
- 15:02told the wife, I said, it's late night, put this
- 15:05on. Tuskegee University, and this is old by now,
- 15:11school's already started, implemented a policy
- 15:15where they ban bonnets, do rags, pajama clothes,
- 15:23in class. You need to have a standard of what
- 15:27you put on your body and stuff like that to maneuver
- 15:30around the school. Uh -huh. What would you what
- 15:32what are your thoughts on that aspect banding
- 15:35kids from? That from death wearing those items.
- 15:39I don't see nothing wrong with that Because I
- 15:42really don't I don't like to see them now Out
- 15:45and about in public in pajama pants and you know
- 15:48here and if you're gonna have a hair scarf on
- 15:50You know make it a nice scarf or something like
- 15:52that, but not this don't go out in this understand
- 15:56boys wear durags sometimes, you know, to keep
- 15:58the hair down, you know, or get their waves or
- 16:00whatever, you know, that's cool. But I still
- 16:03think they should take that shit off. When you're
- 16:05when you're in an establishment or, you know,
- 16:12learning place, I think you should have those
- 16:15stuff off. Like you have to set that example.
- 16:18Right. Right. Paying all this money for your
- 16:20education. Yeah. For you to for you to look like
- 16:23you live on the street. Right. Yeah. people are
- 16:26gonna say oh y 'all oh this is why y 'all feel
- 16:29that way like an old generation always feel like
- 16:33people should do this then the third and I disagree
- 16:38I don't think that's the case at all no is is
- 16:42this about presenting yourself right right you
- 16:46know it's it's it was this um woman on social
- 16:49media one time where she I think they did some
- 16:53type of sports and her girls, like one of the
- 16:58other teams from a different place, they had
- 17:00their bonnets on and, you know, bad pants and
- 17:06stuff. And she told them, she was like, hey,
- 17:08we're not going to do that. You know, we represent
- 17:11this here. And she did. She got a lot of backlash,
- 17:14of course. She did. But I really think, you know,
- 17:20it starts there from the beginning. You're doing
- 17:23this now. Right. You're going to be doing it
- 17:26later, too. And I really don't. We argue a lot
- 17:31of ghetto ass shit that shouldn't be argued.
- 17:34Right. In my book. Yeah. We are protesting, arguing,
- 17:38and go back and forth with people for a whole
- 17:40lot of ghetto bullshit. Yep. Take that stupid
- 17:44ass shit off, man. It's unnecessary. You tell
- 17:47me you won't go outside in your. bed clothes
- 17:50come back in the house and then go back on your
- 17:52bed lay on the same no more outside clothes now
- 17:56exactly if i ever go outside of any pajama clothes
- 18:00those officially outdoor clothes they never go
- 18:02and become bed clothes again exactly because
- 18:07feet be dusty as hell jumping in the bed and
- 18:10you and they walk outside with their regular
- 18:14like house shoes too yeah Are you gonna take
- 18:18your shoes that you walk around in the house?
- 18:20You're gonna take them outside and get all that
- 18:22germs and stuff from the outside I'm bringing
- 18:24it back in your house Yeah, you go out to a restaurant
- 18:29to eat in your bed pants and you go back home
- 18:33and you lay in that bed See, this is where the
- 18:37problem comes in for me because if I go anywhere
- 18:41out of public and I sit on anybody seat Them
- 18:45clothes is never gonna touch my bed if I sit
- 18:47on my bed I come home and I take them off easily.
- 18:50Yeah, I don't play I Don't do that. Just like
- 18:55I tell the boys where you been today. You've
- 18:58been out in the public in the public, right?
- 19:00Go wash your face So I check this thing about
- 19:14marriages, right? In our community, about 31
- 19:17% of black Americans are married compared to
- 19:20roughly 48 % of general United States population.
- 19:26Why do we think the rates are so low today? Why
- 19:30do you think that's so low? A lot of people don't
- 19:33believe in marriage no more. I agree. They don't
- 19:36believe in the whole paper, the whole business
- 19:39part of it because If you don't do the business
- 19:44right you don't follow taxes, right? It's consequences
- 19:49behind it and nobody wants to deal with that
- 19:52If you turn around and you gained a certain level
- 19:56of wealth prior to or even during the marriage,
- 20:00yeah You got to give up half of that shit. Thank
- 20:03you. You know me a great so into me is no incentive,
- 20:07right? You know what I'm saying? The sense of
- 20:10that they used to tell us is not the same today
- 20:14as it was back in the day. Cause that is not
- 20:17fair to where, you know, the man he had this
- 20:22money or whatever, he make all this money. Yeah,
- 20:24she may help out and stuff, but she never had
- 20:27that money. She just, you know, she was there
- 20:32with it, you know, but something happens to them
- 20:36and it's like, The female automatically gets
- 20:40like half and I don't think that's right easily
- 20:42It's not right at all. Yeah, so it's easily and
- 20:47then they say the separation rate within the
- 20:49community is 13 % So 13 % of people not getting
- 20:56that's separating yeah That's crazy numbers yeah,
- 21:03it's like people really don't It's a lot of factors
- 21:09within a marriage it is it's a lot right and
- 21:12with these And I'm not gonna even say the younger
- 21:16generation like our aunties and stuff. They not
- 21:19married either like they not They not interested
- 21:23in it and they not really telling us well, baby
- 21:26You know you need to find you a nice man and
- 21:28have you you know get married and have a good
- 21:30family They're not telling you that no more They're
- 21:34not doing that And that's sad, man. I mean, it
- 21:37could be, you know what I mean? You could have
- 21:39a partner. I think also we gotta vet. We gotta
- 21:42vet the people, man. We can't just go off for
- 21:44good looks. And who's good and bad, right? You
- 21:48can't do that. There gotta be some other intangibles
- 21:50within that. This person just gotta genuinely
- 21:52be a good person. You know what I'm saying? It
- 21:55gotta be some intangibles that I feel like a
- 21:58lot of people skip over when it comes to... That
- 22:01right come to marriage and stuff like that. Yeah
- 22:03know who you dealing with first like for a while
- 22:06Right, you know know who you dealing with and
- 22:08once you get in there You went now locked in
- 22:11right because once you get in there, it is hard
- 22:13to get out It's easy to get in but it's hard
- 22:16to get out. So it's a work to get out. Yeah.
- 22:20Alright, so I'm 45 I dropped a rap project this
- 22:25year And I do plan on dropping another one. I
- 22:29got to get back to writing and getting stuff
- 22:31going. What are your thoughts of me being 45
- 22:35and rapping? Well, it's not like you just starting
- 22:39this thing at 45. You've been doing this business
- 22:42for a long time. Stuff that people don't know.
- 22:45You know, you've been doing it for a long time.
- 22:47So it's not like you just, oh man, dang, you
- 22:50found a new career. You out here rapping now.
- 22:53Like you've been doing this, but you haven't
- 22:56been putting your talent out there. So I love
- 22:58the fact that you are putting your talent out
- 23:01there. You know, you're letting it shine. I personally
- 23:06love the project. I do. I'm excited for you to
- 23:10hurry up and do another one. I'm definitely pushing
- 23:13you to hurry up and do another one. So your ideas
- 23:18that you talk about for the next one, I love
- 23:21it. Yeah. So I don't love the first one. No,
- 23:26I said I don't love the first one. I don't. Oh,
- 23:29you don't? Yeah, I don't love the first one.
- 23:31I don't love it. It's a lot of holes in it that
- 23:34I could have been better, but it's cool. I'm
- 23:36not knocking I think we know why because you've
- 23:39been holding on to it for so long if you keep
- 23:42tweaking it and doing it because That's sure
- 23:45your nature, you know We got to have somebody
- 23:49to do a lot of the legwork Yeah, because with
- 23:54you Just kind of doing everything yourself. You're
- 23:57gonna be playing back now like this, but nah,
- 24:01I'm gonna do this I would do that. I think that's
- 24:03what it was But it still was a dope project though,
- 24:06even though you don't think so. But people like
- 24:09it. Yeah, it's on social media. You can put them
- 24:15as your music, you know, on Instagram, Facebook.
- 24:17People be doing it. Yeah. You know, you've been
- 24:22in somebody's write -up. You know, I was out
- 24:24on the music channel. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 24:29So it was fun. And I see you enjoy doing it,
- 24:33too. I do. I do. The next one is going to force
- 24:38me to do some type of shows. Yeah. You know what
- 24:41I'm saying? But specialty item shows, festivals
- 24:43and shit like that. All right. Yeah. Let's get
- 24:49into. Quick hits. All right. Yeah, we got some
- 24:53quick hits. We got some quick hits. Okay now
- 24:54it's gonna be some change with the quick hits
- 24:56You can actually give a certain one is gonna
- 24:59add some yes explanation All right. So first
- 25:04one are we more connected or more isolated than
- 25:08ever? We are too connected We are too connected
- 25:15and No isolation going on even though we in the
- 25:21house there together all day it ain't no isolation
- 25:25Impact of social media on our relationship good
- 25:35or bad It ain't none Don't talk about what's
- 25:41going on over here we good And we be trolling
- 25:47mostly on yeah, yeah, you fall for it sometimes
- 25:51too your facts cancel culture accountability
- 25:54or overreaching The culture yeah cancel culture.
- 25:59Is it is it accountable culture or is it overreaching
- 26:02coach? Y 'all can be overreaching sometimes.
- 26:08Yeah. Yeah. Y 'all can be overreaching, overrated,
- 26:11all that stuff. All right, to you, what is the
- 26:19greatest TV show of all time? Dang, the greatest
- 26:23TV. To you. I mean, it's so much, though. Come
- 26:31on, get to it. the greatest man i don't know
- 26:40it's a lot just get one throw one for me martin
- 26:44i had that in my head too i had that in my head
- 26:48martin yeah because it's always funny right then
- 26:51you go to first prince of bel -air live a single
- 26:54yeah cosmic show you can say what you want to
- 26:56say yeah yeah definitely cosmic show yeah yeah
- 27:00Yeah, all that. Yeah. I don't even like family
- 27:03matters. I had. Yeah, I have like Steve Rockwell
- 27:07and stuff. So, yeah. All right. Why do you think
- 27:12nostalgia sells? Be case of point, we just talked
- 27:18about old TV. Yeah, the old school. Yeah. I mean,
- 27:22because that shit was pure because back then
- 27:24was it was fun. Like it was dope. That's why
- 27:30Yeah It was fine Let's see, let's see If money
- 27:38weren't an issue What would you do? What would
- 27:43you do first or the first thing you do? Money
- 27:45wasn't an issue You know, I don't like these
- 27:48questions I know you don't do good with these
- 27:51Quick, what's the pretty thing? I'm still gonna
- 27:57be in the damn house I ain't gonna do nothing
- 28:03different. I might just go to a couple more stores.
- 28:05That's it, but What would you tell your 18 year
- 28:13old self Day 18 if you go back and talk to 18
- 28:18year old Erica, what would you tell her? What
- 28:22would you say to her? Don't say girl don't be
- 28:30a fool don't mess with that boy Have fun maybe
- 28:36go to a college Go to a college where you can
- 28:41live in a dorm and stuff Well, I mean I did live
- 28:44in the door, but you know I didn't went to know
- 28:46like fun college You know like how y 'all went
- 28:49to college and stuff and y 'all with the party
- 28:50and stuff. I was fucking working So Yeah, I would
- 28:59I would tell myself that yeah I would tell 18
- 29:04year old Sean be more serious. Yeah Be a little
- 29:11more serious a little more um Stop overthinking
- 29:16things. Mm -hmm. Stop being self -conscious Take
- 29:21things to take take the things around you a lot
- 29:23more serious Be purposeful and what you do and
- 29:28the people around you okay, so I would tell 18
- 29:32-year -old Sean Yeah, okay This happiness a choice
- 29:43Yes You see I'm looking like happiness is a choice
- 29:53yes If you won't be happy, you gotta choose to
- 29:57be happy. Yeah, it is a choice. No one can bring
- 29:59it to you. It is a choice. But there's some people
- 30:02that comes in your life. No, it's still a choice.
- 30:05You still gotta be, still gotta be purposeful
- 30:07and want to be happy. It's too waving, though.
- 30:10It was a mosquito or something. Yeah, it's a
- 30:16choice, yeah. This last one will be too long,
- 30:18so I ain't gonna ask that one. Oh, I think that's
- 30:23it. Let's say yeah, that's it. Mm -hmm. Yeah,
- 30:27the mother was too long Yeah Movies verse streaming
- 30:37what's winning to you? I'm going to the movies
- 30:43going to the movies are streaming that shit on
- 30:44TV streaming now That's what you would prefer.
- 30:47I mean, I like to go to the movies. I like to
- 30:51go to the movies But if I can't watch it at the
- 30:54house, I'll watch it at the house. I'm going
- 30:56to the movie cuz I'll you know, this is shit
- 30:59at the movies now What snacks and stuff I can
- 31:01do that at the house. So should I I want to watch
- 31:03it and I'll have to pay $200 That's true. That's
- 31:06true. That's a fact But the movie is dope to
- 31:10go every now again. Yeah. Yeah Shane is promotion
- 31:17If you out in the Clayton, Raleigh, RDU, Triangle,
- 31:21wherever you at, and you got locks, come on over
- 31:25here to natural me. Go on Book Scene, make your
- 31:28appointment today. Right. Yo, speaking of that,
- 31:31we ain't ask for no unsolicited information.
- 31:35We ain't ask for no unsolicited information.
- 31:39We're not asking for nobody's opinions. Yo, my
- 31:43shawty been out here kicking ass since she opened
- 31:46her salon. She stay booked, stay booked. So I
- 31:50be like, God damn dog. Like I wanna go hang out.
- 31:54She stay booked, stay busy with shit. She's growing
- 31:58her shit to a point where her little she shit
- 32:01might not be enough. She made me something a
- 32:04lot bigger. I'm gonna go ahead and expand. Yo,
- 32:06she already got to expand. She need more space.
- 32:09Yeah. And um, Ain't nobody looking for no unsolicited
- 32:15information from people that just starting a
- 32:17damn self and barely got things off the ground.
- 32:19I'm sorry We don't we we in the Jones household
- 32:24don't need that, you know who you know who hands
- 32:27out unsolicited information me This guy I had
- 32:32You know why because I've spent thousands of
- 32:36dollars The vision come true So my opinion is
- 32:42warranted. Thousands of dollars. I fully supported
- 32:48my wife to the fullest. Not only fucking bought
- 32:51the sheet shit, paid to get the walls up, did
- 32:55the walls myself. All the work on the inside,
- 32:58ran the wires. Paid for other equipment in that
- 33:02motherfucker too. You know what I mean? So she
- 33:05can use. So she can be, when she open, she can
- 33:08be. Out the fucking door. Your opinion does not
- 33:13matter. Don't matter. Keep your unsolicited information
- 33:20to yourself. You motherfuckers are beneath us.
- 33:26I said it. I meant that shit. She was telling
- 33:29me not to say nothing, but fuck that shit. Do
- 33:32what the fuck I want to do. Motherfuckers unsolicited
- 33:36ass, but this is life in love with Erica and
- 33:39Sean because we do this social media shit. That's
- 33:43right. How you doing? Peace.