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90. Freedom From Anxiety Part 2 · 4-Freedom Podcast

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I found my free every I found it.
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Welcome to for Freedom podcast, this podcast exist, to bring the
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freedom of the gospel for every day, Christians, with everyday
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issues. Now, here are your hosts, John
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hog, build, and James Seifert. Welcome everybody to the for
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Freedom podcast. This is the podcast that we
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desire to bring the freedom of the Gospel freedom of Christ and
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the sufficiency of scriptures to real people with real issues of
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life. And so we've gone through a
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couple subjects are subject for the month of April is freedom in
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an in anxiety and we covered last week a little bit James.
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How are you doing this week? John has been great.
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We had a wonderful time there with you.
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Still recording this on the same day recording, but I know that
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we're come on. We are going to love the arc and
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things are going well and just trying to draw.
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We have just such a great time of Easter with our Sunrise
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Service that we did. And then I was able to give a
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little talk there, the very end and then we had our great
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massive breakfast that we have every year, our wonderful Sunday
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school and then the worship service that we had, was just a
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great overall time we just worse than the Lord.
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I was reflecting even when I was Given some some things to our
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main church as I was closing out with service.
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And I said, I said, I don't want to ever forget that three years
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ago, we were isolated and trying to figure out church and could
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not meet. We were not meeting.
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We were having people come to the church to pick up Easter
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things and doing any stretch, your home and trying to do
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Church in our home. And I said, was just a hard time
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of church, and I said three years later.
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We're back meeting. Things are great, God's
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blessing. That's I don't want ever to get
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the point, we forget what we were at three years ago.
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I said, because we take that for granted and we come back and
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we're just in the norm of life. Again, when it's not guaranteed
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that this is how it's going to be, but I'll just wanted to
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encourage them. Hopefully I'm encouraging you as
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well. In understanding that just a
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couple of years ago, we were struggling.
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We were in a place where we did not know what was going to go on
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this. This podcast started out of that
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place, right? We we had some free time we
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thought you know let's talk in the microphone and see if people
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listen And we've had, you know, more downloads than we ever
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imagined having. And it's been been a blessing to
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be able to help people the responses that we've got on
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Facebook, private messages, even people that disagree with us and
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said, hey, I don't agree in this area, it's been a good time of
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conversation with people. My dear brother Ray bolt out in.
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I believe it's Texas. Who started a military Chapel
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service. I think he's actually called it
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the For Freedom, sometimes used the name freedom in it, which
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has been great, but just being able to see the thoughts that
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we've been able to share through God's word and allies would be
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able to, in fact, has been an amazing thing.
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Absolutely, absolutely. And we are going to jump into
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the second part of this subject today on anxiety.
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And next week, we'll be dropping an interview with pastor and
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biblical counsellor palt ouches and he wrote a 31-day devotional
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on anxiety and so we Encourage you to listen to that sits.
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A really good interview, much better than what James and I are
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doing here. But we hopefully we can get out,
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get ourselves out of the way and just point you to the
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scriptures, that's our desire. We walk through a little bit of
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the subject of anxiety, and, and got into just very briefly into
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Matthew 6. And Jesus is speaking here about
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to his followers, about, worry and anxiety.
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And so, we now come to this. And so, last last week, I sort
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of ended, Him with talking about what you believe about, God.
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And this comes to what dr. Robert Jones and his little
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booklet on why worry points to is the second root of worry,
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which he says is unbelief and so James, why don't we read from
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verse 25 to 34? Okay, there 25:34.
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Therefore I say unto you be anxious or take.
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No, thought about your life, what you will eat or what you
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will drink, nor about your body, what you will put on is not lie.
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If more than food and body than clothing, look at the birds of
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the air for. They do not sow, nor do they
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reap nor do, they gather into barns.
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Yet your heavenly father feeds them.
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Are you not much more better than they who among you is by
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taking. Thought can add one cubit to his
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stature. Why takes all about clothing,
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consider the lilies of the field, how they grow?
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They neither toil nor work nor spin yet.
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I say unto you even say. Woman in all of his glory was
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not dressed like one of these. Therefore, if God, so, clothe
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the grass of the field, which today is here and tomorrow is
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thrown into the oven, will he not much more clothe you?
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Oh, you of little faith. Therefore, take no thought
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saying, what shall we eat, or what shall we drink?
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Or what shall we wear for Gentiles seek after those things
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for your heavenly father knows that you have need of all these
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things, but seek you first The kingdom of God, and his
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righteousness, and all these things will be given unto you.
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Therefore, take no thought about tomorrow.
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For tomorrow will take thought of the things of itself
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sufficient to the days, is the trouble there of, okay?
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And so, he comes here and he hit one of the things that we see is
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that this, those who struggle with this and says, have little
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Which means they have some Faith.
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Yeah, which helps us. And I find this don't find this
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discouraging. I find this a little encouraging
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that this is the idea that Christians struggle with this.
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We do struggle with this, okay. As we saw earlier, Jesus
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prohibited worried. But went then, he then also
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gives us reasons not to worry. God values and cares and
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provides for his children. We talked a little bit about
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that last time, maybe if he's going to care for the creatures.
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He's going to care for you. Yeah.
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Yeah. If God provides for the plants,
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he will provide for his own children.
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Did he redeem and died on the cross?
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For the plants? Don't think so.
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Okay, but he did for us and so that means that we are more
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valuable. We are cared for more than than
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the plants verse 27. I like this James, Reddit, and
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different translation in the ESV is says, which of you by being
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Anxious can add a single hour to his span of life.
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And he's basically, the idea is this, okay?
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Tell me how much productivity you're worrying.
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Has at what is your whirring produced?
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What is your anxiety? Produced, tell me, tell me the
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positive results. Give me the data sheet.
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The statistics of this is where you worried about it.
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This is how that paid off and I remember our former past few
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still tell a story about a, get a guy and his wife We're talking
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and he said, honey, you know, that 80% of the stuff that you
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worry about never comes true and she said, that means it's
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working and I guess that's a way you can look at it, but I don't
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think that's a very wiser, biblical way to look at it.
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Worry, when it comes down to it, And I'm not trying to say this
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harshly. I want to say this with a Heart
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of Love, reflects a mindset of unbelief.
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Yeah. And it really when you really
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think about it. John, if you are in a war, a
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state of worry, gets back to what we talked about last week,
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you are trusting and self rather than trusting in God.
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What can I do to change the situation?
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Because oftentimes, that's what boils down to God.
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You're not fixing this fast enough for me.
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You're not taking care of this. The way I want it done and so,
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just get out of the way. Let me do it.
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And we begin to put ourselves in the place of God, and we say, I
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can do it better than you. And so, I'll just take over from
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here. Yeah.
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And we get this mindset of unbelief.
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I like how doctors on says he goes on to say that worry, is
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the characterization of pagans and those who do not know the
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Lord, the Gentiles as he said there, it says the Gentiles
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Seek, after all these things, they seek after the clothing,
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they seek after the worry of the day, the word of the time he
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said this is what the Gentiles seek after.
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But as the ultimate saying, they are seeking after temporal
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things but Believers should be seeking.
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After the things us verse 30, God you have resorted to.
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Yeah, and that's the thing. I think that we have and let me
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ask you this question listener. Strongly consider. whether you
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are looking to, Think temporal things, or things of this world
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for security. Or do you look to your heavenly
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father? To the God who loves you to
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provide the security. He deems best right.
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That doesn't mean check your brain at the door and just like
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open up your doors and your windows and say invite anybody
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to come in and they can come to. No, I'm not saying that I'm
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saying. There's wisdom. and there's a
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point where the wisdom, Ends and becomes where you're worrying
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about thing and you know, James, I think women get a bath wrap
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with this in churches. Everybody thinks that women are
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worriers women. Worry all the time men do to ya
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and it manifests itself a little bit differently.
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In men, I find men tend to just like, go overly prepared about
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things. Yeah.
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Because we can't, they can't have the option of the unknown
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happening. Yeah.
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And a lot of that's due because of Anxiety, that's going on in
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the inside and II said it this way.
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One time I said, whenever you're talking about what's going on in
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your heart, protecting the asset, we don't check wisdom at
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the dorm. Think of it, this way we do need
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to have a protection there, but it's sort of like setting up an
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alarm system in your home and going full on doomsday prepper.
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Yeah, you know me? Oh my bad Xerxes.
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Adam said. Yeah.
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But but as it regards wisdom. In your own heart.
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It is not unwise to have like that, that enter inner alarm
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system that you would protect your home with.
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But if you're thinking, I've got to do this, I've got to do this.
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I got to do this and you're going like, Doomsday prepper in,
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in your own heart with anxiety. I've got to cut myself from all
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of these things. Yeah, you're out of balance,
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right? Your you've gone over into the
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thing of like you don't believe God anymore.
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You don't trust God anymore, you're trusting.
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You're in your own strength. Yeah, I like how mr.
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Jones says, he says four statements to ask yourself which
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of these statements is hardest-hitting.
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This is good. Listen this which are these four
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statements is hardest for you to accept or grasp to the first
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one. Is this God, my father knows
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what is best for me. God my father number two is more
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than able to bring what is best for me.
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God my father, Deeply wants what is best for me and the last one
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God my father will always give me what is best for me.
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Mmm those are hard questions to in.
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Listen this is the thing you've got to just take some time and
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mole over. This question has changed
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reading reading through one more time.
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Yeah. And we began to relate to our
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relationships, with our father, to our relationship with our
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heavenly father in these areas. And we begin to see these
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attributes come out our life, that's good and it's good and
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we've been talking about the subject of trusting God.
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And if we could say it this way, we're talking about putting off
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sinful worry, sinful exact anxiety.
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And putting on trusting in God and we see this in the text,
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he's saying, consider this Consider this don't be anxious
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for this. What is the anxiety done for
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you? What is worried helped you
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consider this? And then it comes to this aspect
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I think in verse 33 and and it carries the idea of orienting
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our life around the priorities of God.
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He says here's what you need to do.
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This is what you should be doing.
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Verse 33 seek first, the kingdom of God and his righteousness And
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these things. Yeah, she'll be added.
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So what is it? That you need to occupy yourself
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with instead of worrying instead of anxiety with these things.
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What are we doing about Kingdom Business?
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Yeah. Exactly.
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And simply put the opposite of worry is trusting.
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God, we must replace anxiety with growing our focus on God's
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provisions and his priorities in our life.
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The kingdom priorities as you said as the scripture says here
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and how we can begin to focus our life around.
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What is it that I'm doing is worried adding to the kingdom of
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God. Or is worried taking away from
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the kingdom? That's good.
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Is it hindering us from actually?
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Working the kingdom? You know, doing things for the
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kingdom of God or yeah. That's because again, because if
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it is this, if it is, I'm worried and I've got to, I've
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got to make money, I've got to work and your worry is making
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money to provide for your family to provide for the kingdom.
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It could be a righteous worry, but if you're worried is I just
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don't know how we're going to take this vacation and I are
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worried. Begins to focus on things that
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aren't productivity toward our needs that are biblical needs
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that. The Bible says we should do to
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provide for our families and it begins to go towards worry of
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something very, very else than that.
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All of a sudden were taken away from the kingdom.
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So we come to this final plea in verse 34 and he says do not be
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anxious about tomorrow and is it that is it that we're a lot of
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anxieties comforter of what it? Yeah.
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It's what. Could Happen.
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What might happen? What is this person going to do?
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What is this person going to say?
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What is this situation going to bring about?
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What could these people? It's all about.
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What hasn't happened? And who holds tomorrow and his
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hand. Yeah.
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God. All right, so his final plea is
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Do not be anxious about tomorrow.
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And I love Jesus is wording here.
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It's very like, matter of fact, tomorrow will be anxious for
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itself. Yeah, that's ESV tomorrow.
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What did, what is your say for tomorrow?
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We'll take thoughts about the things of itself.
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Yeah, tomorrow's. Listen.
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Leave tomorrow to tomorrow. If it's going to take care of
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himself, it's gonna be what it is.
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Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.
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Yeah. What is this?
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Thought he said, listen, you got enough going on today, right?
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To be worrying about tomorrow. Yeah.
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And what? Why can't worry improve the
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future? Yeah, because if we are only
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works by the Future, IT diverts us from our responsibilities of
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today. That's that's what you were
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saying earlier. The things of right now, begin
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to get put off the times that we're To be impacting the
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Kingdom right now. And today our are gone because
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we're only focusing about tomorrow and three days from
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now, five years from now, what's going to happen and we never can
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see the the waitress in front of us at the store that needs our
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help. The, the grocery store manager
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that's checking us out on the line that's taking a little bit
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longer because maybe she's had a hard day and she just got reamed
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out because her kids are having a bad day and she showed up late
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to work and she got rode up and, you know, her bills aren't being
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met that day and all of a sudden She's not going fast enough for
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us and so we're worried about the things they're going to
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happen. Ten minutes from now and we are
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not living in the moment and impacting the person right in
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front of us. So there's one example, I give
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you a personal example with me. Like I've got a short time to do
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study for sermon prep and that kind of thing when my mind is
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filled with it, with any anxieties, here's what happens
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with me. I find it very difficult to
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focus on what I need to study and read for what I To prepare
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for the flock of God instead, what I'm sitting there looking
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at words, but my mind is filled with the anxieties and that's
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what it's doing. It's taking me away from the
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responsibilities of today. It drains our energy, it's EPS,
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our Vitality, it leads us. Baron Ultima John.
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It makes us miss the present joys of today and gods daily
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Provisions. God provides for us every day.
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And when we worry about tomorrow, we are Focusing on the
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here and now and what God is doing right now.
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So some passes for you to reflect on some homework, if
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you've forsaken a better term, Psalms 2410, which going to
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mention these, you can look them up for you, some closing
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thoughts, here, John 16:32, second Timothy 4, 16 and 17 and
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really the things we need to ask ourselves where this what are
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the one or two concerns in your life?
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They could be legitimate concerns.
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Concerns about good things that most often become areas of work.
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Worry or anxiety for you and then secondly, what specific
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truths about God and the promises of God.
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Do you find it difficult to embrace fully and James?
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I want to quickly, sort of look at Philippians 4.
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And look at. Again, the put off, if we're
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putting off anxiety, putting off sinful worry, what are we?
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And what can the Holy Spirit and power us to put on?
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And I want to, I want you to see how Paul addresses this in
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Philippians, Or starting in verse 4.
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He starts off with worship and says rejoice in the lord always.
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Again, I will say rejoice, he starts off.
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He says, let me ask you a question, where's your worship
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at? And not just we're talking about
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something, we're talking about your daily worship, not daily,
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devotions or something, if you call it at this fine, but I
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think so many people from our background get hung up with the
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I like to call it daily worship. Are you worshiping God?
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On your own by yourself daily. Yeah.
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And almost even that same since John, are you worshiping God,
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like you would on a Sunday morning, Easter Sunday, musics,
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prominent good. The spirit of the Lord is there
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your with the Believers you're praising?
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God together. Is that looking like that in
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your daily life every day or is it looking like let me read
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three verses and praying won't my life.
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Yeah we will all that church and here's Another passage in verse
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5 and the next verse is sort of goes along with that, you know,
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being about the kingdom responsibility being about
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Kingdom Business. He says this, let your
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gentleness or graciousness or forbearance, be known to all
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men. The Lord is at hand.
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They saying this. He said, listen, you need to let
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where your lines are, where your patience is where your
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forbearance were, your graciousness be gracious to
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people, and you need to be about the Lord's word, because the
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Lord is at hand Verse 6. Here's where most people focus
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on verse 6. But you can't avoid that from
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the he's like he's asking you first about to worship.
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You need to be rejoicing that he says this be anxious for
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nothing. Be anxious for nothing but in
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everything, what? By prayer and supplication by
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prayer and supplication with Thanksgiving.
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Let your requests be made known to God.
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Now I know what you're probably thinking.
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Oh, here it goes again. Here's how I fight.
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Anxiety, pray and read my Bible. In short.
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Yes. And long-form.
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No, yeah. Because what you've probably
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been told or taught on praying and read your Bible, is it going
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to work? But what we're going to talk
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about and what Paul couches explains in the next episode
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about how you pray and how you read your Bible.
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Yes. And what does he say here?
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What is? Robert Jones say about prayer
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and this aspect simply put he gets four basic attributes,
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things that you should do in Practical life.
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Life because we want to be super super duper practical.
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And everything we do is simply place has pray.
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He defines us as this seek the Lord and mythus in of anxiety.
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Ask God to help you with it. Repent of the various ways that
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you have sinned, okay? So think about prayer this way.
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Not just God, help me with my anxiety today.
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God I just need you God, will you be in this situation?
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That's not what we're talking about?
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No I'm start. I'm talking about starting off
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with worshipping God. Yeah.
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Spend about five minutes, just praising God and your own prayer
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time. Where's we got?
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For a different attribute each day.
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So maybe Monday, you're going to praise God.
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And say, think about how faithful God has been and then
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write down the ways. God has been faithful in your
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life, then you're going to go to him and confession and say God,
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you're such a great God. But I have been such a sinner in
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my own life and my heart and these are the ways that I have
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sinned against you, will you? I'm confessing my sin to you to
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see Seek your forgiveness. And so you're going to him and
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confession. And what does he say?
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In verse 6, he says prayer and supplication with Thanksgiving.
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So then you're going to thanking God.
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Yeah. And you're thanking him for his
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forgiveness, for his Mercy, for his grace, for his provision, in
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your life. Yeah.
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And then your supplicating you are asking him for.
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Thanks God, there's a situation. And it's causing this problem
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and it's causing me to get my eyes off of you.
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Will you help me with a holy spirit?
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Please Empower me not to go down this road again and see that's
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prayer and it is not just some quick 30 word, prayer, your
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communing with your God, your communing with your God.
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So and you're pretty specific. You're saying, God, you're
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getting specific God, I am struggling in this area.
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Worry, I'm struggling in this era of anxiety.
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I need you to help. So, pray and then turn turn back
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to the Lord and worship him. After you've worship, after
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you've focused on his attribute after you've specifically right
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now we're trying to back and say, God, let me worship you for
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today. When we worship me for another
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moment of my life getting up and be able to do that.
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And then the last the third thing, not the last, but the
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third respond to the Lord with the appropriate steps of
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obedience by faith act on what you have know and trust the Lord
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and continue to overcome your anxiety in that area.
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Okay so I want to look at verses 7 and 8 a beings for with that
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thought. Alright, verse 7 says, this
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after you are rejoicing, you're worshipping like, James was
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talking about your being gracious to others.
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You putting off anxiety, you're putting on worship prayer,
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Thanksgiving making it going to God with your, with your heart,
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with your request, and that's what he says.
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What do you think? Anxiety, robs you of the joy and
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peace and what does he say? He says verse 7 and the peace.
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Of God, not the piece of you. Not what you would desire is
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peace. Yeah.
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See because a lot of times in our minds we've setup piece as
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quiet. Yeah.
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And that's not quiet. That it's not peace.
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Peace, isn't necessarily Serene Meadow quiet.
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Nothing going on. That's not how God answers.
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Our request of knowing xiety, he doesn't change the circumstances
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and gets rid of people and gets rid of problems.
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So that now we can have peace. Know what does he do?
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He changes our hearts so we can have peace in the circumstances.
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I heard a little stretching one time.
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I think I heard Tony Evans say it.
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He said that he was going through an art gallery and he
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was walking through this art gallery and he saw this picture,
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this portrait of painting of a Serene Meadow and just like the
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wind blowing on the grass and beautiful flowers and all of
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this sun shining and the beautiful trees and everything
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like that. And he said it just said the
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titles of portrait was peace and he was like, huh, interesting?
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And he kept up walking, he returned to corner and he saw
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this other painting and he first looked at the title, First.
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And he said that the title of that painting that portrait said
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Peace. And he's like, I just saw that
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one will let me look at this one and he said the port, the
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painter painted, a portrait of a stormy sea, and you can see land
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on the side, the trees were blowing, it seemed like the,
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there's a ship off in the distance and the waves and
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Waters crashing in on the ship and it's dark, clouds are dark.
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Lightning striking at one of the points and it's like all turmoil
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storm going on in the water. And in the middle of the
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portrait, there's a rock that protrudes out of a low part of
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the water and on the Rock is a little bird.
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It is resting on the Rock and The Sun Shines down on it and he
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said that's peace. Because piece does it have to do
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with our circumstances piece has to do with where God we have
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seen God in our circumstances. Which means that whenever life
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is crazy, trials, hardships suffering things that are not
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going our way. We can still have peace in those
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situations because this is What it is listener.
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What did he say? It passes all understanding.
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This is this is something that it doesn't make sense.
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Yeah, to the common person, it doesn't make sense.
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We're not talking about health wealth, Prosperity Gospel kind
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of crap, where forgive my language there, but we're
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talking about this is what God does in changing your heart, and
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orienting it to him, because on the old hooker of the
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illustration John The bird by all accounts would not be
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peaceful someone looking on that bird.
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Like how can I Burgess it they're not be worrying about
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what's around them and in the same way we can look at people
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in their life and say, how are they going through those
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situations that I could never imagine going through and still
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be serving the lord and still be peaceful their life?
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Yeah, the guy, my church specifically, his name is, Jerry
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dermyer. Have some of the most utmost
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respect for Jerry, faithful, man of God.
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And one of our deacons in our church and Jerry, wouldn't he
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wouldn't his wife were just recently married.
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They had a three-year-old boy, and they've gotten pregnant and
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they had still birthed a baby daughter.
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And they had a berry that baby daughter.
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And so, when I first got there, I was asking about his family
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and he said, he said, when his son was 18 years old, he was
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working making money on the back of a truck reading some water
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meters, and the guy thought he was on there and he wasn't He
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went to take off and as he took off, he fell the back of the
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truck. Hit his head on the concrete and
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died. So, now within 16 years of each
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other, he's lost his daughter. He's lost his son.
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And he said, for those next couple of years, my wife would
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just love Lord, we serve the Lord together and then she got
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diagnosed with the disease and within three years.
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She had passed away, and I did not know this.
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And he's every Sunday he sitting on the front row, he's
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worshiping the Lord, he's praising the Lord and he
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understands the goodness of God in a way, where I would not, if
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I lost a child at when they were 18 or 20 or whatever age, I
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don't understand how I would be able to go through that, but yet
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he's lived through those things and he's coming up on those
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anniversaries of the death of his son, the death of his
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daughter, the death of his wife, all happened, within a couple
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weeks of each other different years apart, and the anniversary
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of their marriage. Mmm is all within a month and he
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always tells me. Pray, for me, it's a hard month
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for me, hmmm, but he's there. He's faithful.
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And the old looker the storms are around.
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He's the burden of rock. How does he see peace in that
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because of where his eyes are at fixed on?
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Yes, putting off this, putting on this, I think Jerry.
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Probably figure out verse 8. Yeah, because it's what Paul
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says in verse 8, finally. Whatever things are true,
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whatever things are noble, whatever things are, just,
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whatever things are pure, whatever things are, lovely,
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whatever, things are of good report.
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If there is any virtue, there is if there is any praise
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worthiness, there is think or meditate on these things and
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this is what I encourage you to do listener.
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If you struggle with this, when you have time, make a list of
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the good things that God has done for you.
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Make a list of Noble things that God does in his Justice.
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Make a list of just things, make a list of pure things that God
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does make a things, make a list of things of God, and of God's
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nature that our lovely Mega think make a list of things that
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are good news that God has provided And then when you feel
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those anxiety anxiety attacks or that anxiety coming on, carry
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that list around in your back pocket or in your purse or
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something. Pull that list out and start
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recounting and thinking on those things we're good.
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Very last thing that we're going to say and I think this gets
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back to also looking at Jerry's life of that little illustration
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is, he comes up to me and he says, Pastor James, pray for me
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because the part that I'm going to go through these next couple
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weeks and months of stuff and He's doing is he's involving
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others. Absolutely.
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We are not alone in this battle. You are not on an island.
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I don't know how many people have told me coming out of
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fundamentalism. I felt like I was on an island.
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I was by myself. I felt like no one was around me
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and I'm fighting this battle alone.
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You have to surround yourself with Believers brothers and
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sisters. That care about you study God's
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word together. Pray together have Fellowship
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together have an intimate relationship with those that are
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around you and involve them in your life.
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And as you go through this journey because they're going to
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be the ones you can call when anxiety hits and you are focused
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on, whatever it may be this sinful and you're able to call
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them and say, hey, I need just some help talk to me.
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So talk me through this pray with me?
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Yeah, pray with me. Talked me down off this Cliff
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almost. And that's where we get to this
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point where we are involving other people in our life.
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So, pray, turn back respond to the Lord, but then bring other
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people into this relationship, into this journey with you so
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that you're not alone. Absolutely.
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And so that's a great, a great word James.
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And and so this is just scratching the surface.
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There have been some really good resources written about this
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which I think Paul even mentions.
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I've mentioned Paul touches his book that we're going to get to
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interview him next week on so we invite you to come back next
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week. Listen to that.
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James mentioned the the booklet by dr.
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Robert Jones on this there is a much lengthier.
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Our work on this by a guy named dr.
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Ed Welch called when people are big and God is small, and that
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is a fantastic resource about this.
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If you want to dig into it a little bit more, we are thankful
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for your attention and we understand.
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There have been people that have been hurt and church and that
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kind of thing with just trite and quick, bad advice when it
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comes to worry and anxiety and we don't want to downplay that,
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but we We want to point you back to the truth of the scriptures,
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the truth of the Saviour, the truth of Christ, and how that
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good news can even bring you freedom in the midst of anxiety.
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Let's go. Well, John until next time to
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God, be the glory found that good grace.
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Found that healing in the tears fell down.
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My face when I find my beginning.
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