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Amanda Likes When Her Husband Gets Hit On · Podcast - Big 98.7

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  Speaker 1: Oh, hey, how do you feel when you're out and about?
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  Speaker 1: And I'm sure this happens frequently when an attractive person
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  Speaker 1: comes up to your husband and starts flirting with them.
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  Speaker 2: Oh all the time. I'm like, honey again, back up
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  Speaker 2: off my man?
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  Speaker 3: He mine. No, I don't just that. Who is that?
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  Speaker 2: I just always think like girls have to be like
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  Speaker 2: oh no, oh no, you didn't in a way for me.
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  Speaker 2: I so you're not okay, but it I mean I'm
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  Speaker 2: gonna look at you kind of like if there is
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  Speaker 2: like any of that, I'm trying to for me. If
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  Speaker 2: my husband gets hit on, that's I'm flattered.
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  Speaker 3: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: So that's my question is like, what are what is
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  Speaker 1: your immediate emotion once you see it happening?
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  Speaker 3: Is there a surge of jealousy? No? Are you more
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  Speaker 3: attracted to your husband? Really? Yeah? Wow?
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  Speaker 2: What if if somebody's hitting on Lauren, what is your feeling? Like, Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: that's that's my wife. I mean it depends. I mean
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  Speaker 2: as long as it's not I don't creepy over the
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  Speaker 2: top and he's engaging like lady, I mean that's no.
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  Speaker 1: Definitely more if on the spectrum of one end being
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  Speaker 1: I don't like it, and the other end being heck, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: let's see if this person you know, wants to come
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  Speaker 1: have drinks. I'm probably all the way over it. It's
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  Speaker 1: a spectrum. Okay, probably, I'm probably on the left side
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  Speaker 1: of that. On the hey, what's no, not flattered? What
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  Speaker 1: do you do? I'm putting words in my mouth. I'm saying, no,
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  Speaker 1: I don't love it. I probably think what's going on here?
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  Speaker 1: You know, but there's a new study.
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  Speaker 3: Don't like.
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  Speaker 1: It's not normal. It's a very natural reaction you think of.
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  Speaker 1: You know, if I'm a bear, I mean a bear
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  Speaker 1: sees his lady bear talking to some grizzly you can
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  Speaker 1: huffing and puffin. That's what the bear would do, is
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  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. And we are, at the end of
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  Speaker 1: the day, cannibals. So I'm just saying it's natural to
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  Speaker 1: feel that way. Just because you love it, you would
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  Speaker 1: encourage it. Honey, give me your ring, go up to
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  Speaker 1: the bar.
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  Speaker 2: I bay, ladies might go ahead, go ahead on my man.
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  Speaker 2: Please really gets me excited. The act like it's crazy.
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  Speaker 2: You act like it's not happening every day. Okay, okay,
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  Speaker 2: what are we doing here? So there's a survey.
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  Speaker 1: Somebody wanted to put this to the test so idiots
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  Speaker 1: like us don't have to argue about it on the radio.
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  Speaker 1: And they say, according to the study, seeing your partner
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  Speaker 1: get hit on might actually make yourself feel less attracted
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  Speaker 1: to them and less invested in your relationship.
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  Speaker 3: Interesting, that does not go through my brain at all.
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  Speaker 3: We know quite the opposite. It's become clear. But me,
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  Speaker 3: why is that? Well again, it goes back to the bear.
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  Speaker 3: Now it's.
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  Speaker 2: Did you not listen to the grizzly bear talk? You're
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  Speaker 2: gonna need to break it down for me a little
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  Speaker 2: bit better.
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  Speaker 3: No. I.
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  Speaker 1: While some people might attempt to make their partner jealous
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  Speaker 1: by attracting attention from others, see, now that's different. Some
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  Speaker 1: say the research indicates that this can backfire because it's
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  Speaker 1: not going to make them more attracted. Rather than strengthening
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  Speaker 1: the relationship, this study says it made undermine the very
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  Speaker 1: bond it seeks to enhance. So are you, like, are
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  Speaker 1: people doing that on purpose? Have you ever done that, like.
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  Speaker 3: Just to in an attempt to, I don't know, to
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  Speaker 3: get hit on to make your husband like you more.
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  Speaker 3: Have you tried to get hit on?
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  Speaker 2: No?
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  Speaker 3: Okay, Well, good.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't even this sounds I'm not an idiot, Like,
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  Speaker 2: of course I know how you could get attention, but
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  Speaker 2: I don't feel like I'm in that life stage whatsoever.
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  Speaker 3: I'm not that person.
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  Speaker 1: That's definitely like an early like dating in your twenties
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  Speaker 1: kind of thing.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe yeah, I mean college year is Amanda, who know?
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  Speaker 2: You know, but that was also with girlfriends, like you're
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  Speaker 2: out with people I've never been.
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  Speaker 3: That's not my jam, yeah at all. Well, you just
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  Speaker 3: keep doing what you're doing, which is encourage you.
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  Speaker 2: If you see my husband and I out, just go
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  Speaker 2: and be like, wow, Nick, you look great today.
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  Speaker 1: And just look at Amanda sitting in the corner of
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  Speaker 1: the bar, just sipping a cocktail, nodding her head yes
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  Speaker 1: in encouragement.
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  Speaker 3: He's all mine in the morning.
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  Speaker 1: This is hope. You know me, when I come here
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  Speaker 1: every day, my goal, my one mission is just spread hope. Yes, absolutely,
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  Speaker 1: everybody listening. Well, here's a woman, Charlotte Holmes is her name,
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  Speaker 1: who died for eleven minutes. I was like, uh, she
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  Speaker 1: didn't die forever, she just died for eleven minutes.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, is that the longest is somebody's been dead that
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  Speaker 2: they've been able to revive.
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  Speaker 1: Go ahead and google if you don't mind him many
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  Speaker 1: google how what's the longest somebody has been dead? Google
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  Speaker 1: that and I'll tell you about Charlotte Holmes, who again
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  Speaker 1: died for her heart stopped for eleven minutes, so technically dead.
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  Speaker 2: Do what you have, h Velma? Seventeen hours and she
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  Speaker 2: came back. She came back.
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  Speaker 3: Her name is because I'm my great aunt, Velma.
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  Speaker 1: Is it?
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  Speaker 3: Wow?
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  Speaker 1: Well, I don't hear what now. I'm more interested in
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  Speaker 1: that story, not this one isn't good. That's why I'm
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  Speaker 1: talking about it. Charlotte heart stuff for eleven minutes. Well,
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  Speaker 1: when she finally was revived and is somehow miraculously alive,
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  Speaker 1: Charlotte had a little story to share about what exactly
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  Speaker 1: happened for the eleven minutes that she was dead.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, I am so intrigued by this.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, you have your own idea of what might
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  Speaker 1: happen when you die, of course everybody, Well you put
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  Speaker 1: some thought into that.
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  Speaker 2: You have that from the movie is like you have
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  Speaker 2: all the flashbacks, like you just like what is the
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  Speaker 2: things you see?
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  Speaker 3: That kind of thing in the moment you dying?
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  Speaker 1: Like right, Yes, your life flashes before your eyes. It's
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  Speaker 1: really it's impossible to imagine. But she's lived through it
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  Speaker 1: and died through it. So she said she experienced in
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  Speaker 1: her eleven minute journey heaven. So she says, in her words,
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  Speaker 1: she was led by angels to heaven, where she experienced
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  Speaker 1: pure joy and reunited with younger, healthier versions of her
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  Speaker 1: deceased loved ones. Seriously, that's great, that's the go That's
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  Speaker 1: that's the dream, right, But then she said she also
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  Speaker 1: took a dark turn when she was brought to Hell
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  Speaker 1: or she witnessed an unbearable contrast to heaven. She smelled
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  Speaker 1: rotten flesh, heard horrifying screams, and then poof back to
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  Speaker 1: the real world.
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  Speaker 2: Why did she have to go to Hell first? Or
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  Speaker 2: was that like going through on your way to like.
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  Speaker 1: You might get a pit stop there, I'm reading it,
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  Speaker 1: she said, God showed her Hell. So she was kind
• 6:29
  Speaker 1: of like if you were just like moving into a
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  Speaker 1: nursing facility and you're getting the tour, got it, like
• 6:33
  Speaker 1: you got to see the whole thing, You got it,
• 6:35
  Speaker 1: like here these are all of our accommodations. You know
• 6:37
  Speaker 1: you're gonna have to pay a little more monthly if
• 6:39
  Speaker 1: you want to be up here. But it's like a
• 6:41
  Speaker 1: classic reeltor upsell. It's like, I know this home is
• 6:44
  Speaker 1: a little out of your budget, but but just to
• 6:46
  Speaker 1: give you an idea of what you could have, you know,
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  Speaker 1: we could talk to the mortgage guys see if we
• 6:51
  Speaker 1: can move some numbers around.
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  Speaker 2: Interesting to hear these stories because you wonder, is it
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  Speaker 2: in just your head and that's still what you wanted
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  Speaker 2: to believe or see or is that what you did subconsciously?
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  Speaker 3: You know, that's a great question.
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  Speaker 1: Many Yeah, because a lot of people have died and
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  Speaker 1: come back, right. Isn't there like a movie or something
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  Speaker 1: based on that? That's what I was actually trying to think. Heaven, Uh,
• 7:11
  Speaker 1: there's that little boy Uh Heaven by Brian Adams? Is
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  Speaker 1: that that I'm thinking of? A song?
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  Speaker 3: That's a great song. Heaven is for Real? Heaven is
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  Speaker 3: for Real?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, they did a book on it and then of
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  Speaker 2: course a movie, great flick.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just desperately trying to find Brian Adams are you.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, what are you doing over there? We're not
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  Speaker 3: going to listen to it, but you can all imagine now.
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  Speaker 2: You've just given me that like giving me a little
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  Speaker 2: tease where now I just want to jam to it?
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  Speaker 1: Can you imagine being Brian Adams in the eighties? Why
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  Speaker 1: is he not more famous?
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  Speaker 3: I think he is? Is he is? He alive? See?
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  Speaker 3: I don't know for as many hits as he had.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like we should be hearing and talking more
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  Speaker 1: about Brian Bryan Adams.
• 8:01
  Speaker 3: Like it Amanda in the morning. Now Amanda fills the
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  Speaker 3: sea looks see.
• 8:07
  Speaker 2: So incredibly tragic. Liam Payne passed away yesterday. He was
• 8:11
  Speaker 2: only thirty one years old. Former member of One Direction
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  Speaker 2: of Course, he reportedly died after falling from a third
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  Speaker 2: floor hotel room in Argentina. Ambulance workers confirmed his death
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  Speaker 2: when they found him in the interior hotel patio. He
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  Speaker 2: fell shortly after five pm yesterday. He apparently had been
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  Speaker 2: acting erradically in the hotel lobby earlier in the day,
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  Speaker 2: reportedly smashing his laptop and having to be carried to
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  Speaker 2: his room. It's unclear if his death was intentional or accidental. However,
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  Speaker 2: a spokesperson for the security Ministry of Buenos Aires did
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  Speaker 2: claim that he had thrown himself from the balcony of
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  Speaker 2: his room hours ahead of his fall. Liam was sharing
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  Speaker 2: snaps on his social media on Snapchat, saying if it's
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  Speaker 2: a lovely day in Argentina, enjoying my vacation. He was
• 8:51
  Speaker 2: currently dating and influence. Her name is Kate Cassidy. They
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  Speaker 2: were actually on a romantic getaway. She left a couple
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  Speaker 2: of days earlier and he was still there.
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  Speaker 3: He's been struggling.
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  Speaker 2: I guess there's been some legal woes and I don't
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  Speaker 2: know if you've been following along with this. I kind
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  Speaker 2: of got up to date on it. His ex fiance
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  Speaker 2: Maya Henry. She had ordered a cease and desist against him,
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  Speaker 2: so he was I'm not going to say stalking her,
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  Speaker 2: but was reaching out to her. She didn't want it anymore.
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  Speaker 2: I guess she was saying he was abusive, but I
• 9:19
  Speaker 2: think it was like more verbally abusive, and so there's
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  Speaker 2: been some claims there. He just kept messaging her. Now
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  Speaker 2: Liam Dusley behind his seven year old son Bear, who
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  Speaker 2: he shared with Cheryl Cole. The whole thing is just
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  Speaker 2: so tragic.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that was a tough one to see, way too young,
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  Speaker 3: just horrible.
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  Speaker 4: I'm s.
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  Speaker 2: And Nick Jonas involved in a really scary situation. I
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  Speaker 2: don't know if you saw this It went viral. Yesterday.
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  Speaker 2: The Jonas Brothers were out on tour and all of
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  Speaker 2: a sudden, he's sitting at the piano and you can
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  Speaker 2: see him kind of look, and all of a sudden
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  Speaker 2: he just runs off the stage. But he's given like
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  Speaker 2: the time out, like it's halftime, like I'm taking a
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  Speaker 2: time out, and he just runs and everybody's going like,
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  Speaker 2: what's happening. Well, eventually, after this video circulated, you could
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  Speaker 2: see that there was somebody there who illegally had a
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  Speaker 2: laser pointer and so it was like on his head
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  Speaker 2: and he had noticed it and just ran off. They
• 10:09
  Speaker 2: were able to continue on once they figured it out.
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  Speaker 3: But my gosh, he had it. He noticed it on
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  Speaker 3: his own self.
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  Speaker 2: However, if it, I don't know, I guess I have. It
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  Speaker 2: catches your eyeball, probably something like that laser pointer?
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  Speaker 3: Is it two thousand and two? When you're doing Oh,
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  Speaker 3: that's just so scary and it seems like an overreaction.
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  Speaker 3: But what can you do, Like, you can't do chances
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  Speaker 3: like that, and it's it just sucks because it's nearly
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  Speaker 3: impossible to find out who did it. Yeah, and I
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  Speaker 3: guess they did.
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  Speaker 2: They stopped the show for like eleven minutes because it
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  Speaker 2: must have been within whatever direction and security people must.
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  Speaker 3: Have saw or what.
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, somebody would have to rat you out if
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  Speaker 1: they were like sitting next to you and they saw him.
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  Speaker 3: Totally.
• 10:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Patrick Mahomes, he sat down for a new interview,
• 10:50
  Speaker 2: and we all know Taylor Swift likes to bake.
• 10:52
  Speaker 3: What was it the pop tarts that she was bringing
• 10:54
  Speaker 3: to the team. I'm like, okay, come.
• 10:57
  Speaker 1: On now, gottart, she's just buying bop darts. No, she
• 11:00
  Speaker 1: maid homemade. You can you can do that right that?
• 11:03
  Speaker 1: And then what was the other thing?
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  Speaker 3: Cinnamon rolls. There was like a bunch of different things.
• 11:06
  Speaker 2: But not only does she bake, but she bakes with
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  Speaker 2: Patrick mahomes little three year old daughter.
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  Speaker 4: Listen, she's made different treats that have been around my house,
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  Speaker 4: just like muffins and and and donuts and stuff like that.
• 11:17
  Speaker 4: Sterlet's a big baker as well. So they make some
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  Speaker 4: stuff together sometimes and I'm not gonna say I don't
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  Speaker 4: eat them, so u she's as good as everybody's talked about.
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  Speaker 4: She's great as it comes as far as it comes
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  Speaker 4: to baking.
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  Speaker 1: She's the perfect person. What doesn't this lady do what
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  Speaker 1: doesn't she do? Got it all trapped? Don't screw it up?
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  Speaker 3: Hush?
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  Speaker 2: What if somebody does because nobody has like I tell all, like,
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  Speaker 2: I wish we knew, I mean outside of but she's not.
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  Speaker 2: She doesn't have that many cats. I'm like, what is
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  Speaker 2: her cork?
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  Speaker 3: Would that be a problem, Amanda trying to think if
• 11:50
  Speaker 3: there's like a weird cork that she had.
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  Speaker 1: To find flaws And your first thought was, well, how
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  Speaker 1: many cats does she have?
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  Speaker 3: No? Not what I was doing like a minute in
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  Speaker 3: the morning.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know because I have my wife has younger
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  Speaker 1: siblings who are in school, like school age, high school, college, yep.
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  Speaker 1: And I just don't know. With AI now one, it
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  Speaker 1: seems like it could be so easy to use for
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  Speaker 1: for homework for tests. So I don't know how they
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  Speaker 1: regulated schools for anything. It's amazing to me how many
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  Speaker 1: of these schools too. I did not know you could
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  Speaker 1: just have your phone in class. Sure a lot of
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  Speaker 1: these schools are doing that. I think some have kind
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  Speaker 1: of cracked down on it. When you were growing up,
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  Speaker 1: I mean I remember, of course, you'd have to do
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  Speaker 1: the full on book reports with like the Dewey decimal
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  Speaker 1: system and actually have to show your work go to
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  Speaker 1: the back of I mean encyclopedias all sas sources.
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  Speaker 3: Of course you still do, but you couldn't use the
• 12:40
  Speaker 3: Internet like for a time anyway.
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  Speaker 2: But in college I remember using Wikipedia and you couldn't,
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  Speaker 2: but you could like go to the bottom and see
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  Speaker 2: different things.
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  Speaker 3: There was spark notes.
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  Speaker 2: SparkNotes dot com was a real nice resource for me
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  Speaker 2: growing up.
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  Speaker 1: Well, now, so here's a parent, a set of parents
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  Speaker 1: who are suing the school that their son goes to
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  Speaker 1: because he was punished for using AI on a class project. Now,
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  Speaker 1: basically he had to write a paper and he used
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  Speaker 1: chat GPT to write some of the paper for him, which,
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  Speaker 1: of course we would would all agree that you can't
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  Speaker 1: do that.
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  Speaker 2: Of course you can't do that. But how were they
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  Speaker 2: able to tell?
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  Speaker 1: Well, I guess there are ways that they can detect
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  Speaker 1: if it was written by AI. But it's not perfect
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  Speaker 1: from what I understand, but for the most part it
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  Speaker 1: can detect. So you know, you could probably have AI
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  Speaker 1: write it, then you can change the words or whatever.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, so I kind of want to Can I phone
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  Speaker 2: a friend we head of a neighbor who's a great guy,
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  Speaker 2: he's a teacher, and I remember him kind of saying
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  Speaker 2: something I want to say, they have a program or
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  Speaker 2: they know, like there is something that they're able to
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  Speaker 2: like run it through kind of like what I was
• 13:48
  Speaker 2: just saying, yes, but I can't remember the name of it.
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  Speaker 1: Well, so now the parents are suing the school. It's
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  Speaker 1: gotten nasty because well, their son would never do anything wrong,
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  Speaker 1: of course.
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  Speaker 3: Oh no.
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  Speaker 1: Also they're they're like, the technicality they're trying to call
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  Speaker 1: this high school out on is that Well, the handbook
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  Speaker 1: for the twenty twenty three twenty twenty four school year
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  Speaker 1: did not contain any policies or procedures concerning AI. So
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  Speaker 1: they're saying, wow, technically it's not in the handbook, so
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  Speaker 1: he can't get in trouble, which is stupid common sense.
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  Speaker 1: So they're suing him. And just the sound of these
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  Speaker 1: parents so this is a quote from the parents. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: in this case, the disciplinary action taken against the student
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  Speaker 1: was arbitrary and capricious, Okay, lacking clear guidelines for the
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  Speaker 1: use of artificial intelligence. Don't you just want to kind
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  Speaker 1: of well, they lost.
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  Speaker 3: Me at arbitrary and capricious.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, not only is it arbitrary. It couldn't be
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  Speaker 1: more capricious.
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  Speaker 3: Capricious. What apreciate Caprice's sun is more like it? I
• 14:49
  Speaker 3: know I was.
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  Speaker 2: I was thinking of like a Caprici salad. This is
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  Speaker 2: why we're in radio because I don't know those big words.
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  Speaker 1: I've heard that phrase, but only like mocking people. So
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  Speaker 1: for somebody to use it not ironically ridiculous. Yeah, you
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  Speaker 1: can't back up your kids who are using AI to
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  Speaker 1: do this.
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  Speaker 3: You got busted. You fess up and do it on
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  Speaker 3: your own.
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  Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. And the worst part, Amanda. They
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  Speaker 1: said that the student was then denied access into the
• 15:13
  Speaker 1: National Honor Society.
• 15:15
  Speaker 3: Can you help me in the morning. Would you consider
• 15:20
  Speaker 3: your relationship a healthy one? Absolutely?
• 15:23
  Speaker 1: Yeah, well sure we'll find out here because.
• 15:27
  Speaker 2: Every relationship has its moments. I'm not saying like it's perfect,
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  Speaker 2: by no mans. We have our ebbs and flows like
• 15:33
  Speaker 2: every relationship. But overall, the healthiest relationship I've ever been in.
• 15:37
  Speaker 3: That's really good to hear.
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: Well, you must use these phrases then, hey, because you yeah,
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: oh yeah, the healthiest. Amy Morin is a psychotherapist and
• 15:48
  Speaker 1: author of a book called Thirteen Things Mentally Strong couples
• 15:51
  Speaker 1: don't do, so she wanted to share the phrases that
• 15:54
  Speaker 1: healthy relationships do use. So tell me if these sound familiar,
• 15:58
  Speaker 1: Miss Healthy.
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  Speaker 2: I'm a little nervous. I'm feeling as though I probably
• 16:02
  Speaker 2: don't use these.
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: But okay, Nick ever sat you down and said I'm
• 16:07
  Speaker 1: going to tell you something that may be upsetting to hear.
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  Speaker 3: Have you ever heard that?
• 16:14
  Speaker 2: No, he's kind of a straight shooter. He'd be like, hey,
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: just so you know.
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: This, Yeah, he would just say the thing.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, He's not gonna he's not gonna he's not
• 16:24
  Speaker 2: gonna give me the warm and fuzzies.
• 16:25
  Speaker 3: He's straight to the point. Hey, so am I.
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: This is a good way to kind of grease the chain,
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: as they might say, before the bad news got it.
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: Another thing that couples in healthy relationships say, I need
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: your support right now?
• 16:41
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I definitely.
• 16:43
  Speaker 4: Uh.
• 16:43
  Speaker 3: I use that phrase probably a little bit more than
• 16:45
  Speaker 3: he does.
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a we've integrated that into our relationship as well.
• 16:49
  Speaker 3: I feel like all of these.
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: Definitely, the older you get, the more you're like, you
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: know what, you just need to be more open and like,
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: you know, there are times where it might be a
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: time where you both want to be stressed out, but
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: you just got to be like, hey, like they're really
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: really going through it right now, Like all you, I
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: don't need a lot from you. All I need is
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: just like just don't You don't also need to be
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: very stressed out, you know that, or.
• 17:12
  Speaker 2: You also don't need And it's such a fine line
• 17:15
  Speaker 2: because when you are venting or having a conversation with
• 17:18
  Speaker 2: your spouse, it's easy for you to feel or that
• 17:22
  Speaker 2: person to feel like they need to offer something, where
• 17:24
  Speaker 2: if you start with I just need your support, and
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: I'm talking about this, like you don't need to offer
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: up a list of things I should be doing, because
• 17:30
  Speaker 2: I know there's things, but.
• 17:31
  Speaker 3: Ultimately that's not what I'm looking for right now.
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: No, your job right now is just a listen. Another one,
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: I never thought of things that way. That's another a
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: healthy thing. Couple say, hey, that's kind of kind of condescending.
• 17:45
  Speaker 3: Really, wow, that's interesting, I guess weird way to look
• 17:49
  Speaker 3: at it, but okay.
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: I never heard of that. It's understandable you feel that way. Yeah,
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: I like that, Yeah, I really do like that. And
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: then finally, I'm sorry for the part I've played in this.
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: These are all stupid things that real people don't actually say,
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: but you know, maybe variations of them.
• 18:06
  Speaker 4: Right.
• 18:07
  Speaker 3: You ever admit to playing a part in something? No,
• 18:10
  Speaker 3: but I do.
• 18:11
  Speaker 2: I admit to wrongdoings, and I tend to apologize way more.
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: But actually, believe it or not, Nick does his apologies.
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: They'll just be like, ah, sorry, Like you know, it
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: doesn't have to be over the top, but he'll recognize
• 18:23
  Speaker 2: in that moment, like sorry, that ridiculous.
• 18:26
  Speaker 3: A lot of times it Yeah, he's good at that.
• 18:29
  Speaker 3: What a big man you are too, aren't you a
• 18:32
  Speaker 3: big man? I'm really thanks for saying that. In the
• 18:38
  Speaker 3: morning trending.
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: Now, here's what you need to know some breaking news
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: this morning. There was a shooting in downtown Fargo early
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: this morning. A man was wounded and taken to the hospital.
• 18:48
  Speaker 2: It happened on the corner of Third Avenue North and Broadway,
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: just outside of Sammy's Pizza about two thirty am. Please
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: say that the suspect fled the scene before officers arrived.
• 18:55
  Speaker 2: Investigators believe that the victim and the suspect did in
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: fact know each other, and they don't believe there's any
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: threat to the public. Of course, they continue to investigate
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: the case. No other information has been released at this time. Man,
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: this was a tough loss for the Links. The last
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: night Game three of the w NBA Finals. One second
• 19:13
  Speaker 2: left at the game, a player from the New York
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: Liberty shot a twenty eight foot dagger gave him the lead.
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: Just a buzzer beat seven. We're locked at seventy seven
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: and just almost a buzzer beater. But you can't do
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: much with one second. That's too bad, that's unfortunate. Now
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: the series is what one.
• 19:33
  Speaker 3: Two to one.
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: The Liberty now have our one victory away from their
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: first league title and they head back to the Target Center.
• 19:40
  Speaker 3: That's their game on Friday night. Bring the Energy, Target Center.
• 19:44
  Speaker 3: Camber Park a part of any of this. No, she
• 19:46
  Speaker 3: is a fever, part of the fever. She had a
• 19:49
  Speaker 3: fever to play. Well, that's pretty I got to play
• 19:52
  Speaker 3: it safe.
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: And after a seven year hiatus, they're bringing it back.
• 19:57
  Speaker 3: Ley is popular.
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: Do us the Flava Contest as a return, inviting fans
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: to submit their ideas for new chip flavors. At this point,
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: what haven't they come up with? I mean, there's just
• 20:06
  Speaker 2: been so many of them. But you can enter this
• 20:09
  Speaker 2: contest at dousaflava dot com you could win a million
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: dollars And we were talking about it a little bit,
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: and I told you one of my favorite things to
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: do with leace potato chips is scoop them with pork
• 20:18
  Speaker 2: and beans. I don't I just don't know if that flavor.
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: It's something about the crunch and the consistency. I don't
• 20:24
  Speaker 2: think I could just do a pork and bean chip.
• 20:26
  Speaker 3: I don't think it'd be a bad flavor. I don't
• 20:28
  Speaker 3: know what it feels. Really, let me ask you this,
• 20:30
  Speaker 3: what's the worst flavor you could think of? Oh? That
• 20:34
  Speaker 3: you can say on the race?
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: So, I don't like saltan vinegar. I do not like
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: saltan vinegar chicks. Really, that's one of those.
• 20:40
  Speaker 3: I get it.
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: And it's like you were just tasked with coming up
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: with the worst flavor you could imaginable that chat's it?
• 20:46
  Speaker 3: And you said salt and vinegar. That is like your
• 20:48
  Speaker 3: mint chocolate chip ice cream.
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: Salt and vinegar is so good. So is like jilapanio chips.
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: Those are my go tos. But salt and pepper even.
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: Okay, have you had the spicy dill pickle ones from
• 20:59
  Speaker 2: miss Vicky.
• 21:00
  Speaker 3: Oh, Miss Vicky, or I think that's what it is. Yeah,
• 21:03
  Speaker 3: I don't think I have, but that sounds really good too.
• 21:05
  Speaker 3: They are my favorites. Oh my gosh, with a Sammy.
• 21:10
  Speaker 3: You just gotta love chips in the morning. You know.
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: I feel like everybody appreciates a gift, right, I mean,
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: especially when it comes to your wedding gifts galore.
• 21:19
  Speaker 3: Like that's the super Bowl of getting gifts. It is,
• 21:22
  Speaker 3: and you don't realize it when you're in it.
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: I mean you're like, oh, register all this stuff, but
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: it's like, these are the gifts you're getting to last
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: some of us a lifetime, you know what I mean?
• 21:31
  Speaker 3: Yeah, these gadgets.
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: We're five years in and we still haven't open the
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: KitchenAid mixer.
• 21:36
  Speaker 3: You haven't. In fact, some people are. I got, like,
• 21:38
  Speaker 3: I got, what do you call those birds that swarm
• 21:40
  Speaker 3: around and wait to eat something? Vultures? Me?
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: Because I would love it you Yeah, no, I got
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: vultures already swarm into like they know we haven't opened it.
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: They saw it in the box at our house and
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: they're literally saying, hey, if you're not going to use that,
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: can we have the kitchen aid mixer?
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: That was literally going to be my question to you
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: right now, Well, didn't you get one for your wedding?
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: That's a cool and it's not a regret. So my
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: husband and I both were married young, and so we
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: went through the whole hoopla, and then when we got married,
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: we just because we did a destination in Colorado wedding
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: and it was no gifts, nothing. Yeah, like, just come
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: and celebrate with us if you want to, biggest mistake
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: of our lives. Like it was just like one of
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: those things where you go, I would have really been
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: nice to get a couple of gifts here.
• 22:25
  Speaker 3: You gotta take advantage of it.
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: It's literally all the birthdays of your whole life combined
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: up until that point.
• 22:30
  Speaker 3: This amount of gifts is more than that.
• 22:32
  Speaker 2: Well, and my whole mindset was, oh, we're probably gonna
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: end up having a baby shower, and so I had
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: a big, huge baby shower, which was great, but I
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: got a really double dip to like the rest of the.
• 22:41
  Speaker 3: World, Yeah, you got a double dip baby.
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: Well, now they're saying gen Z, newlyweds are asking for
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: a practical gift for their weddings.
• 22:50
  Speaker 3: Oh, I like it.
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: So a majority of them were actually setting up what
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: they call a home fund to their wedding registry. So
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: basically you donate cash to their quote home fund so
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: that they can save and put down money on a house.
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: So I have seen a few wedding registries where it
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: is the honeymoon fund or you can do I haven't
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: seen the home fund, but there was one other thing
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: on there. It was like it was a gift card
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: to something, so it wasn't like individual gifts, so say
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: it was target Buffalo Wild Wings, Big B Dubs fans.
• 23:22
  Speaker 3: But I really like that.
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it's smart in hindsight, how much more
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: valuable just money who toward a home, you know, down
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: payment would have been than the kitchen eid miixers of
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: the world. And listen, we're the ones who put it
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: on the registry, so it's our fault.
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: But there's a lot of people who do this, and
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: I think it is becoming a trend, whether they do
• 23:41
  Speaker 2: it this way or parents in general just saying if
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: you want to have a big wedding, fine, we'll give you,
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: say ten grand, or I'll give you fifteen grand to
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: not have a big wedding, and I'll give you this
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: towards your house because there's no reason you need to
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: have the hoopla. And I think that they're starting to
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: die down a little bit, some of these lavish weddings.
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: No wedding industry is popping, perfect time to start a
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: DJ business. In fact, nope, But I know there's a lot.
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, people still doing the big thing. But yeah,
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: I know people too where their parents said, yeah, we
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: get ten grand, you can have a wedding and I'll
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: give you ten grand, or you could not have a
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: wedding and still get ten grand. Do what you want
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: with it. You know, I knew somebody who went to school,
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: like used it for college or whatever because they knew
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: they weren't going to they you know, it's not like
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: they were engaged or anything. They just knew they weren't
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: ever gonna want a big wedding.
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: And not that you're gonna regret having the big wedding,
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: it's just afterwards, you go.
• 24:33
  Speaker 3: It was just like all those there was a lot
• 24:35
  Speaker 3: of details.
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: That maybe it didn't didn't need to put money into
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: because nobody's paying.
• 24:39
  Speaker 3: Attention hundred percent. There's so many things.
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: But when it's yours, it's like, no, you want it
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: to be next level or whatever it may be.
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: Absolutely, but then again, it just doesn't matter. I know
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: it's hard to tell a bride that you know, but
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: it's just so many things like just don't worry about that,
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: don't worry about I. I couldn't tell you a single
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: thing that was on the table.
• 24:59
  Speaker 3: I ate at it. Any wedding I've ever been to,
• 25:01
  Speaker 3: no centerpiece ever is in my mind.
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: There's a couple that I'm like, I remember them being
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: big and beautiful, but I don't remember that color.
• 25:08
  Speaker 3: It's just like, okay, cool.
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah, there could have been, like, really, anything short of
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: a pile of dog feces in the middle of the table,
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: I would not remember that. I might go, hey, that
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: wedding was great, but it was interesting that there was
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: dog poop in the table.