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- 0:00Speaker 1: What does your favorite position reveal about you? No, we're
- 0:04Speaker 1: not talking about yoga or pilates, although that sounds fun.
- 0:08Speaker 1: We're talking about your favorite sex position. According to psychologist
- 0:12Speaker 1: Barbara Centini, Your preferred sex positions are a subconscious window
- 0:16Speaker 1: into your desires and inner thoughts, including what you may
- 0:20Speaker 1: be looking for in a relationship. If you have a
- 0:23Speaker 1: ravenous desire for a specific position in the bedroom, it
- 0:26Speaker 1: might be an indication of something deeper. So let's explore
- 0:29Speaker 1: what these different sex positions mean and what they can
- 0:32Speaker 1: tell about ourselves. Missionary. The missionary position is considered the
- 0:36Speaker 1: most classic and common of all sex positions, and some
- 0:40Speaker 1: may even say it's the most vanilla of the bunch.
- 0:43Speaker 1: In simple terms, the missionary position is when one person
- 0:45Speaker 1: is lying on their back and the other is on
- 0:48Speaker 1: top during sex. However, there are many good reasons why
- 0:51Speaker 1: this position may be your favorite and can say a
- 0:54Speaker 1: lot about you. For starters, those who prefer missionary may
- 0:58Speaker 1: be the type to crave the romance and intimacy that
- 1:01Speaker 1: comes along with prolonged eye contact. and being face to
- 1:04Speaker 1: face with someone else during sex, which can foster a
- 1:07Speaker 1: deeper connection and bond with your sexual partner. Psychologist Dr.
- 1:11Speaker 1: Santini notes that a preference for missionary can be an
- 1:14Speaker 1: indication of a more reserved, conservative and timid individual, who
- 1:19Speaker 1: may even struggle with voicing their thoughts and opinions, especially
- 1:23Speaker 1: when it comes to matters in the bedroom. According to Dr. Santini,
- 1:26Speaker 1: the need to be protective of one's partner is also
- 1:29Speaker 1: consistent with those who prefer missionary, which is more prevalent
- 1:33Speaker 1: with those who prefer to be in the top position
- 1:35Speaker 1: during sex. Whether you're top or bottom, this position signifies
- 1:40Speaker 1: a need for a deeper and more personal connection between
- 1:43Speaker 1: the sheets. Cowgirl or cowboy? Okay, so I guess Psych2Go
- 1:49Speaker 1: will be going to the rodeo to explain this one.
- 1:51Speaker 1: Just kidding. A preference for this position is all about adventure, risk-taking,
- 1:56Speaker 1: and some domination that is if you're on top. This
- 2:00Speaker 1: position is referred to as cowgirl or cowboy, but it's
- 2:03Speaker 1: not exclusive to any gender identity or preference. If you
- 2:06Speaker 1: find yourself preferring this position and you often like being
- 2:09Speaker 1: the one on top, then it can mean you have
- 2:11Speaker 1: a stronger personality, such as being assertive and taking the
- 2:15Speaker 1: lead in all matters, and not just in bed. Being
- 2:18Speaker 1: on top in this position may also reveal a desire
- 2:21Speaker 1: for attention from others and a need to be seen.
- 2:24Speaker 1: On the other hand, if you enjoy being on the
- 2:26Speaker 1: bottom during this position, then it may mean you like
- 2:29Speaker 1: the feeling of being dominated and submissive to your partner.
- 2:32Speaker 1: This also demonstrates a caring and considerate nature, where you
- 2:36Speaker 1: may put your partner's sexual needs before your own to
- 2:39Speaker 1: see them happy. Remember, healthy relationships require taking turns, and
- 2:44Speaker 1: that includes when it comes to who's on top or
- 2:47Speaker 1: the bottom. Sex should be about the needs of both partners.
- 2:50Speaker 1: Make sure not to lose sight of that. Doggy style.
- 2:54Speaker 1: This one's for all the dogs. Do we have any
- 2:57Speaker 1: Drake fans in the house? Anyways, the doggy style position
- 3:00Speaker 1: during sex is when one person is on all fours
- 3:03Speaker 1: facing away from their sexual partner. Doggy style is considered
- 3:06Speaker 1: one of the more kinkier and adventurous positions, but for
- 3:09Speaker 1: all its kinky glory, this position is viewed as less
- 3:12Speaker 1: romantic and intimate compared to the ones mentioned above. So
- 3:16Speaker 1: what does this all say about those who prefer it?
- 3:19Speaker 1: For starters, It probably means you enjoy taking risks and
- 3:23Speaker 1: being bold. But according to sex experts Dr. Avacadel and Dr. Santini,
- 3:27Speaker 1: this could also signal a fear of intimacy in the
- 3:30Speaker 1: bedroom and other areas of a person's life, as well
- 3:33Speaker 1: as being more aloof and reserved. The good news, Dr.
- 3:37Speaker 1: Santini mentions that a person who prefers doggy style can
- 3:40Speaker 1: be the type to avoid petty conflict and drama, and
- 3:43Speaker 1: is usually practical and reasonable. So basically, if your favorite
- 3:47Speaker 1: position is doggy style, then you're probably kinky and reasonable.
- 3:51Speaker 1: Who knew these two traits would be in the same sentence?
- 3:53Speaker 1: Stranger things. Spooning. Last but not least, the spooning position.
- 3:59Speaker 1: In this position, both people lie on their sides while
- 4:02Speaker 1: wrapping their arms around each other, and one person is
- 4:06Speaker 1: in front. This is considered a position of romance and
- 4:09Speaker 1: deep affection. And according to Dr. Santini, preferring this position
- 4:13Speaker 1: can mean that you're a caring and considerate individual, as
- 4:17Speaker 1: well as attentive to the people you love and care about.
- 4:20Speaker 1: Not only that, according to sexologist Lucy Roweth, Favoring this
- 4:25Speaker 1: position can also mean you have a strong desire and
- 4:28Speaker 1: deep appreciation for comfort and love. You're probably the type
- 4:32Speaker 1: to value romance rather than just lust in the bedroom
- 4:35Speaker 1: and you prioritize the needs of your partner. And let's
- 4:38Speaker 1: be honest, there's nothing more sexy than a considerate and
- 4:42Speaker 1: caring partner. So, what's your favorite position? Which one resonates
- 4:47Speaker 1: the most with your personality? Let us know in the comments.
- 4:50Speaker 1: And as always, like, share and subscribe. Have a great day.