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90 Day The Single Life Season 5, Episode 4 “The Act of Breaking Girl Code” · Vanity Farah with Chris Farah

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Speaker 1: Hi, my love, So welcome back to Vanity Farah. My
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Speaker 1: name is Chris Farrah, and today we are having a
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Speaker 1: very very fun little conversation about ninety day the single Life.
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Speaker 1: It's season five, episode four, the Act of Breaking Girl Code.
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Speaker 2: Now. I rewatched the Liz Slash Pedro conversation and it's like,
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Speaker 2: I feel there's two ways of looking at it, and
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Speaker 2: Julia almost feels that way too, and we'll get into it.
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Speaker 2: So how are you. I hope everyone is good. It's
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Speaker 2: been just.
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Speaker 1: A lot of TV watching on my end, Traders. Love
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Speaker 1: is blind. Honey, let's talk about niney day fiance before
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Speaker 1: the ninety days.
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Speaker 2: We've been doing it.
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Speaker 1: Obviously, there's fun new docu series come out, The Oscars
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Speaker 1: are happening. There's a lot of pop culture things to
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Speaker 1: take our mind off of what's happening in the world.
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Speaker 1: Hu's not great.
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Speaker 2: I don't even know how to talk about any of that.
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Speaker 1: So that's why I decided to throw myself into this podcast,
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Speaker 1: and I have been for the past couple of years.
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Speaker 1: It's been crazy, however, you know, holding space for all
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Speaker 1: of that that exists there, I God, bless it. I
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Speaker 1: don't know what to say However, here we're talking dumb
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Speaker 1: stuff and then some deep stuff.
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Speaker 2: Deep and dumb stuff.
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Speaker 1: So this is the single life, and certainly I know
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Speaker 1: that all too well, and so I'm.
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Speaker 2: A professional and I'm excited to talk to you about this.
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Speaker 2: And also I feel like, you.
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Speaker 1: Know, girl code, feminist theory, the political infrastructure of female friendships.
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Speaker 2: She knows a thing or two. We should we start
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Speaker 2: with them. It feels that way. Okay, here we are, honey, it's.
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Speaker 1: Really right now, the combined storyline of Pedro. It's obviously
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Speaker 1: Pedro and Sophie is one part of it, and also
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Speaker 1: maybe hot doctor, and then it's also Liz and Julia
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Speaker 1: just there for comedic relief, you know. But also I
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Speaker 1: really enjoyed Liz's kiss with Villa. So there's all that happening.
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Speaker 1: It's like, it feels like a little like Checkhovan style
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Speaker 1: mini play happening.
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Speaker 2: So here we are.
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Speaker 1: We start off on you know, Pedro gets to uh
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Speaker 1: or Pedro gets to I'm calling him like that. Pedro
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Speaker 1: gets to have a full on ninety day reunion.
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Speaker 2: With Nicole, and I'm excited about that, and so are you.
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Speaker 1: The thing about Pedro's family has always been here for TV.
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Speaker 2: Now here's the thing Sean tells too.
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Speaker 1: I mean that's what they got a whole as spin
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Speaker 1: off because I feel like production saw that, like people
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Speaker 1: would give like if they needed it, they would step up.
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Speaker 1: It's like having a first cast of a bunch of
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Speaker 1: Meryl Streeps of reality TV drama.
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Speaker 2: It's like they're gonna go physical, They're gonna scream. There's
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Speaker 2: drama there. They hate each other, they don't give a fuck,
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Speaker 2: you know, it's all that there.
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Speaker 1: There's like a lot of toxicity and like here's a thing.
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Speaker 1: If you scream on camera with your family, I don't
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Speaker 1: even know how.
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Speaker 2: You assume you're going to get past that.
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Speaker 1: Like Season one of Sean tell is like should have
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Speaker 1: been the end of their marriage. Like you know, like
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Speaker 1: for for all intents and purposes, once that shit happens,
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Speaker 1: there's no coming back.
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Speaker 2: There's just no coming there's not coming back.
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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, put a work in them, so
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Speaker 1: and the you know, they battled a little longer than that.
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Speaker 1: So he's like, I don't have to do with that, Sophie, Honey,
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Speaker 1: I've been putting it out there and then Liz told
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Speaker 1: me to like kind of back off.
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Speaker 2: And also she's healing.
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Speaker 1: Also like maybe she's not ready, and also like I'm dumb,
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Speaker 1: also like.
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Speaker 2: I don't feel like Liz did.
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Speaker 1: I feel like Liz was like, Okay, she knew in
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Speaker 1: her heart of hearts that two things were three things
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Speaker 1: were true. Sophie was getting a mild ick from Pedro
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Speaker 1: doing too much, and the fact that she also wasn't
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Speaker 1: one hundred percent into him as much as she really
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Speaker 1: loves male attention and for a period of time he
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Speaker 1: was giving that to her. He's a good looking guy,
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Speaker 1: and oh the coincidence of the fuck they've just happened
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Speaker 1: to be a nine at a fiance was just, you know,
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Speaker 1: I guess overwhelming for them. So I think that she
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Speaker 1: Liz was like, well, I don't care about him. I
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Speaker 1: care about her. But that is the truth. Those things
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Speaker 1: are the truth. So with him, I'm just gonna be like, yeah, buddy,
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Speaker 1: like listen, no, she likes you. She's just you know,
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Speaker 1: she's just she's still healing, she's still doing it. So
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Speaker 1: just be a little patient with her, Just be a
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Speaker 1: little like slow with her so she gets on the
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Speaker 1: same page with you, because you know, like I think
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Speaker 1: this is a good thing. It's just that you you know,
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Speaker 1: don't be mad at her for not being a hound,
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Speaker 1: do percent like salivating because she's gone through this kind
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Speaker 1: of stuff, Like to me, that's what Liz meant, and
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Speaker 1: that's not at all how it was portrayed when you know,
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Speaker 1: Sophie heard it and obviously later on. Okay, so here
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Speaker 1: we are, so before I get there, obviously, So so
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Speaker 1: we get to see Nicole, and Nicole is wearing this
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Speaker 1: like green flowy ass beautiful number.
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Speaker 2: Honey.
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Speaker 1: It's so cute. It has this like wrap around that
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Speaker 1: goes through the titties. The titties look great. And she
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Speaker 1: has what maybe is like a sheetsa her laps of apps.
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Speaker 1: So she rolls up with these like Chloe seventies glasses.
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Speaker 2: Or like squares.
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Speaker 1: She looks great, I know, keep saying that the braces
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Speaker 1: are off, honey.
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Speaker 2: She and she's also a beautiful.
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Speaker 1: Girl who you know, a woman now you know we've
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Speaker 1: seen grow up or whatever. Listen, is she dramatic and
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Speaker 1: is she like over the top and is she like
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Speaker 1: wildly screamy?
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Speaker 2: Of course of course, But I just really feel like.
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Speaker 1: She signed up and understood the assignment, you know what
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Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like she so anyway, listen, they show us
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Speaker 1: her before and we're like oh yeah, oh yeah. And
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Speaker 1: so we see her again, we're like, oh god, bless
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Speaker 1: you know. So then Pedro's like okay, let's like go
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Speaker 1: hang out, and he's like, do you want to take
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Speaker 1: her for a walk because she's like, this is my
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Speaker 1: new dog's soul. And Nichole's like, oh no, no, no, no,
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Speaker 1: she doesn't like to walk. And the way that soul
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Speaker 1: gives a back glance like not ever, you do not
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Speaker 1: put me on this floor. These paws don't touch gravel.
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Speaker 1: I'm a carrying dog. I'm a princess, like you hold me.
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Speaker 1: And so Liz like this is what's funny. Then she
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Speaker 1: gives Pedro the dog. Pedro tries to walk the dog.
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Speaker 1: The dog is like, pick me up.
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Speaker 2: So then.
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Speaker 1: It's just like this dog is great and she hate it.
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Speaker 1: She hate walking. Oh no, she doesn't like to she
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Speaker 1: hate it. I mean I like walking, but that dog
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Speaker 1: does not. Oh what a little princess. What a little
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Speaker 1: poofy princess. And also like Nicole, good for you. There
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Speaker 1: is something about I think there's something about a girl
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Speaker 1: like that getting a poofy princess dog and maybe this
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Speaker 1: is also me projecting on it in that you've owe
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Speaker 1: always wanted to be treated like a princess and you
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Speaker 1: can't get it one hundred percent for yourself, but there
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Speaker 1: is the healing process of doing that for someone else
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Speaker 1: that you get to make a little pretty princess. It's like, okay, fine,
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Speaker 1: if I can't do it, you can. You'll have everything
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Speaker 1: my daughter, so anyway, uh and it's like safer than
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Speaker 1: kids to do that too, you know, just putting it
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Speaker 1: out there. Okay, So basically Nicole comes with a whole
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Speaker 1: bunch of wisdom, not just like a beautiful green suit.
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Speaker 1: You know. She's like, listen, you've been telling me about
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Speaker 1: Sophie and she seems real young. Hell is she in
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Speaker 1: like twenty six? She's like, oh, she's a little girl.
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Speaker 1: She's really immature. She's not a woman. You need a woman.
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Speaker 1: She doesn't know what she wants and confused people hurt people.
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Speaker 1: Here's the thing, brother, And I've seen it before with
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Speaker 1: you because you fall hard and I don't want to
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Speaker 1: see it again. But you are just at this point
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Speaker 1: collateral damage. And she's right, She's right, She's not wrong.
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Speaker 2: He is. Sophie is always like made it.
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Speaker 1: I feel like there's no part of Sophie that's like,
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Speaker 1: this is my husband or I I'm going to treat
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Speaker 1: him like I think that he's special or that, you know,
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Speaker 1: I think that I'm lucky to be with him, not
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Speaker 1: one part of that. And I do think that maybe
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Speaker 1: there's a nice feeling that one gets when someone meets
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Speaker 1: them and it has interacted with them and considers themselves
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Speaker 1: lucky to have the opportunity to And by lucky, it's
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Speaker 1: not so much like I'm better than you, not so
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Speaker 1: much like this person is so much better than me
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Speaker 1: that I should be lucky to talk with this person.
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Speaker 1: It's more so like in this world, I would like
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Speaker 1: to find companionship and love, and oh, look, I have
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Speaker 1: a burgeoning connection with someone that I find attractive. And
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Speaker 1: you know, just say whatever they attracted and you could
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Speaker 1: say physical, mental, lifestyle, attraction, all of it, you know, religious, whatever.
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Speaker 1: Let's just say you to me, if you do want
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Speaker 1: a relationship and you happen to find someone who's checking
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Speaker 1: a lot of boxes in a real way, like why
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Speaker 1: wouldn't you put like truthful energy into pursuing them unless
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Speaker 1: you're not and unless you don't like them like if
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Speaker 1: you are like whatever, I just want attention, or they're
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Speaker 1: checking a couple of boxes, or I know intrinsically some
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Speaker 1: part of me that they're not for me. But I
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Speaker 1: want to waste their time or I want to waste
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Speaker 1: their like you know, money, or I want to waste
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Speaker 1: their energy, or I want you know, whoever knows I
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Speaker 1: want to waste their you know, I want to have
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Speaker 1: sex with them, but I don't really care about them,
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Speaker 1: like you know, then you will drag someone along and
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Speaker 1: you will you know, energetically not be giving, right, But
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Speaker 1: I think that, Yeah, I guess I don't understand other
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Speaker 1: than you being like no, Sometimes people just need a
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Speaker 1: lot of patience and you have to be there and
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Speaker 1: mold them like a diamond, you know, and under pressure
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Speaker 1: they just start to like crumble, and then you have
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Speaker 1: to like wear them down and then they become, you know,
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Speaker 1: like a sad version of what they were, and then
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Speaker 1: you can be with that sad, settled version like.
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Speaker 2: Oh okay, oh horrible.
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Speaker 1: So all that to say, I don't think that Sophie's
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Speaker 1: into you know, him, and I feel like Nicole knows that,
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Speaker 1: and that's basically what she's telling her brother, and she's
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Speaker 1: right and good for her, you know, because the cook
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Speaker 1: at her. Liz, however, is having like the romantic date
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Speaker 1: that everyone wishes they would have, and she's having it.
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Speaker 2: So I'm so happy for Liz. You know.
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Speaker 1: Liz is like obviously going through a little fuck, I
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Speaker 1: mean on a little a health crisis. It's fucking cancer,
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Speaker 1: It's not little, but it sucks for her, and so
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Speaker 1: this has been her kind of like girls trip that's
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Speaker 1: also of course being sponsored by none of the Fiance,
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Speaker 1: which also is just mildly weird because we knew that
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Speaker 1: she wasn't really good friends with Sophie and almost immediately
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Speaker 1: now Sophie and her at odds and it makes me
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Speaker 1: feel like shitty because I like, you know, like no,
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Speaker 1: there's no reason to not like Liz and Sophie. It
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Speaker 1: has good and bad qualities. Like Liz's bad qualities is
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Speaker 1: that she was with Ed and we were like gross,
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Speaker 1: you know, and also why and also like why and gross,
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Speaker 1: you know, And the Sophie's bad qualities is that we
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Speaker 1: don't know why she makes decisions as well, but like
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Speaker 1: we sometimes think that she manipulates and or like isn't
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Speaker 1: honest about things because for the thing about Sophie that's
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Speaker 1: hard to sometimes deal with is this Sophie had a
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Speaker 1: moment where she was like, I am I'm by and
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Speaker 1: I'm going to have to tell Rob who I'm with,
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Speaker 1: and I like, am scared about it or whatever.
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Speaker 2: I don't want to take it. And she does.
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Speaker 1: She's like I'm by and he like takes it whatever.
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Speaker 1: God bless and then later on tell all she likes
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Speaker 1: sexually kinkly shames him. Now back and forth between her
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Speaker 1: and Rob had been like abuse, weird videos and allegations,
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Speaker 1: like you know, Claire had like put up like videos
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Speaker 1: of like him yelling at her, but like who knows.
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Speaker 2: What and all that. But yeah, like if I was
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Speaker 2: just to isolate the.
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Speaker 1: Thought process of like being like fuck Rob, he had
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Speaker 1: a you know, dick pic sending her send out to
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Speaker 1: people and she's by.
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Speaker 2: It's just that sucks. And here's the thing.
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Speaker 1: My good friend, you know, Kiirsa, brought this up to
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Speaker 1: me again and I was like, yeah, that was really
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Speaker 1: really shitty. Like she's young, and she obviously comes this
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Speaker 1: is Sophie talking. My friend Curris is also young. But
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Speaker 1: you know, I'm going back and forth. My friend Kissa,
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Speaker 1: who I talked about on.
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Speaker 2: The episode.
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Speaker 1: Before the ninety Days because I just got my hair done.
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Speaker 1: We talked about and fiance, so shut out both both apps.
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Speaker 1: She brought this up, and yeah, I remember it happening.
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Speaker 1: And Rob has been on the franchise, you know, obviously
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Speaker 1: since went on Hunt for Love and whatnot, and they
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Speaker 1: were on Last Resorts, So the franchise is holding on
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Speaker 1: to Rob. So the abuse stuff probably didn't pan out
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Speaker 1: as what I'm assuming because they have lawyers and such,
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Speaker 1: or she renegtied or whatnot, or because she got back
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Speaker 1: together with him and so they were still whatever and
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Speaker 1: I was messy. I mean, that's what I'm assuming.
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Speaker 2: Claire is nowhere to be found. She's she now I'm saying.
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Speaker 1: Sophie is young, and what we know about her been
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Speaker 1: through some trauma, right, Like, obviously Claire's face and voice
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Speaker 1: and demeanor is indicative of the fact that anyone who
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Speaker 1: had to be raised with her probably saw some shit,
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Speaker 1: smelled some shit, dealt with some absolute fucking nightmarish bullshit,
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Speaker 1: and Sophie could be, you know, probably worse off than
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Speaker 1: she is. Like, she's doing quite well for herself, and
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Speaker 1: certainly I'm happy for her, and she's definitely attractive and
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Speaker 1: certainly in certain you know, like Instagram batty ways, and like,
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Speaker 1: you know, just like as a I would love her
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Speaker 1: to probably feel a little more like confidence in herself.
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Speaker 1: And I know that in some earlier seasons she was
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Speaker 1: like insecure about some things and they really ripped her
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Speaker 1: apart about her hair and stuff like that. And you know,
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Speaker 1: Sophie is always been a beautiful woman, and so sometimes
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Speaker 1: we're like, oh, girl, like you're gonna have to find
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Speaker 1: happiness and like peace and joy in someplace that isn't
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Speaker 1: male attention and isn't like the way that you look
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Speaker 1: and or like perfecting the way that you look like
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Speaker 1: to make people give you.
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Speaker 2: More of that.
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Speaker 1: And you know what, it's a real shitty thing, and
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Speaker 1: it's a bad lesson to learn. And here's the thing.
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Speaker 1: It's like a drug. You know, like anything is either
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Speaker 1: attention or perfection or like plastic surgery or you know,
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Speaker 1: like being addicted to looking hot or getting in validation
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Speaker 1: or likes or even social media like all of that
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Speaker 1: is like the ways in which we get validation is
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Speaker 1: drug like inducing. And so no shame stuff the only one,
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Speaker 1: of course, But I would enjoy this conversation about how
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Speaker 1: to hold on feet first into self confidence strength that
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Speaker 1: isn't you know, necessarily from outside sources. And I feel
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Speaker 1: like if there was maybe concrete structures to learn and
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Speaker 1: feel these things, like I don't know if it's like
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Speaker 1: a version of like somatic and theory where you really
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Speaker 1: I don't know where you really get to, like I'm sorry,
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Speaker 1: where you really get to like deep dive into how
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Speaker 1: to feel these things and how to manifest them in yourself,
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Speaker 1: like so that you don't go to bad behaviors. I mean,
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Speaker 1: I'm assuming it's like some sort of meditation and some
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Speaker 1: sort of like list of people in places and things
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Speaker 1: that make you feel truly yourself.
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Speaker 2: And it could be like.
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Speaker 1: For me, okay, for me like nature, you know, and
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Speaker 1: like some things are attainable all the time, and some
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Speaker 1: things are only like attainable usually in my mind or
15:55
Speaker 1: unless I'm given like twenty thousand dollars to go there,
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Speaker 1: like I love min Nola Falls in Oha who in Hawaii.
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Speaker 1: I can't always go there, but the thought of going there,
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Speaker 1: and because I've been there like twice, I can like
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Speaker 1: sort of envision it, so can you. It's basically Jurassic Park. Okay, right,
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Speaker 1: I also love Jenny Lake. I have only been there once.
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Speaker 1: It's like basically in the Grand Tetons. It's so beautiful,
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Speaker 1: like in America. It's like where Yellowstone is kind of
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Speaker 1: outside and beautiful lake corteous trees. I can sort of like,
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Speaker 1: even though I've been there once, somewhat feel like the
16:23
Speaker 1: crispness in the air and the way that those pine
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Speaker 1: trees smell. Different from Manilla Falls. Both places like wildly beautiful.
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Speaker 1: The other place and these are all my nature places
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Speaker 1: is like I went to a waterfall. I went chasing
16:35
Speaker 1: waterfalls lol in Idaho, and for some reason, definitely being
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Speaker 1: like next to a roaring, rushing body of water like
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Speaker 1: a waterfall does something to me.
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Speaker 2: Makes me feel so good.
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Speaker 1: It makes me feel like powerful in a way like
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Speaker 1: the power that I get. Sorry, I'll finis sense. It
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Speaker 1: makes me feel powerful in a way that is better
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Speaker 1: and more sustainable than, for instance, the power one can
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Speaker 1: feel walking into a room looking hot as fuck and
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Speaker 1: then having people look at them, or having like your
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Speaker 1: intended suitor. This is the people that you want to
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Speaker 1: look at you, if not the entire room look at you,
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Speaker 1: and give you the various reactions, you know, like whether
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Speaker 1: they want to come talk to you, fuck you, be you,
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Speaker 1: be somewhat jealous of you, like, you know, whatever it is,
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Speaker 1: the water is just gonna like be there, hopefully as
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Speaker 1: long as humans don't fuck it up. And the other
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Speaker 1: truth is you can probably find other waterfalls. But like
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Speaker 1: if you are always like I want to walk into
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Speaker 1: bars with my titties out and like for my lips
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Speaker 1: to be popping with like lip gloss and for men
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Speaker 1: to be like hard penising right in front of my presence,
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Speaker 1: there might just be a time when that doesn't happen
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Speaker 1: as much as you you remember it, And even if
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Speaker 1: it does happen with a couple of guys, you aren't
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Speaker 1: gonna even feel it because it'll be a little less
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Speaker 1: than when at one point it was like all the time.
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Speaker 1: And it might even just be a different situation or
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Speaker 1: a different city. But the like adherence to other people's
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Speaker 1: approval of you is just so fucking fleeting.
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Speaker 2: It just is. And so it's just I'm gonna stop
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Speaker 2: talking about this.
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Speaker 1: But it's like, if we're going to talk about this
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Speaker 1: dumb show, might as well like related to things, because
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Speaker 1: like I get liking attention. It's great. It's nice, isn't it.
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Speaker 1: Like it's nice to like be considered attractive, or it's
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Speaker 1: nice to feel sexy, or it's nice to feel wanted,
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Speaker 1: you know. And I've never even felt it to the
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Speaker 1: to the degree of someone who performs sexuality, infeminity or
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Speaker 1: hotness or I'm not as hot as like someone like Sophie,
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Speaker 1: so like I truly I can't imagine the drug it is.
18:57
Speaker 1: All I'm saying is that I definitely have known hot women,
19:02
Speaker 1: and I definitely know that like certain things, you know,
19:04
Speaker 1: like ebb and flow of of whatnot. And also it's
19:08
Speaker 1: not so much that like, oh no, it ebbs and
19:10
Speaker 1: flows people's opinion of you and therefore change. It's like
19:14
Speaker 1: because at the very basic level, you are doing yourself
19:19
Speaker 1: an injustice, like you are only shooting yourself in the foot.
19:24
Speaker 1: You are only setting yourself up for a disaster. It's
19:27
Speaker 1: as if you were only you know, making money, and
19:31
Speaker 1: just you, you would never make a dollar into two dollars,
19:36
Speaker 1: two dollars and a four dollars, four dollars into a
19:38
Speaker 1: million and then a million, you know, keep going a
19:39
Speaker 1: million into a billion and then just keep betting one
19:43
Speaker 1: all of your money on you know, oh six black.
19:47
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, because no investor would you
19:53
Speaker 1: would make an investor be like, yeah, make as much
19:55
Speaker 1: money as you can on something, and then start to
19:57
Speaker 1: diversify your portfolio. You know, once you have a million dollars,
20:01
Speaker 1: start putting money on the reds, or start putting money
20:04
Speaker 1: on different black numbers, or play a different game as well.
20:08
Speaker 1: Have multiple things going, you know, like, don't be getting
20:10
Speaker 1: all your validation, all your winnings, all of your approval,
20:13
Speaker 1: all of your treasure from this one thing.
20:15
Speaker 2: It would make no sense.
20:16
Speaker 1: No one would ever tell you that it's just a
20:18
Speaker 1: fool's paradise for you to fucking be miserable. And also
20:22
Speaker 1: this is a financial metaphor broke at some point, you know,
20:25
Speaker 1: like because you can't always get it. It's statistically impossible
20:31
Speaker 1: to always win at one thing, and that's difficult for people, corporations, businesses,
20:37
Speaker 1: you know, to learn sometimes because.
20:41
Speaker 2: There's a beautiful.
20:44
Speaker 1: Stability and like adhering to your own value system and
20:48
Speaker 1: culture while having a flexibility and an acceptance of change
20:54
Speaker 1: in progress.
20:55
Speaker 2: That is why you have to be the type of.
20:57
Speaker 1: Person that value investment I've your portfolios, and that is
21:02
Speaker 1: why you can't have all of your validation from one
21:05
Speaker 1: thing in life. So I don't even have to like,
21:07
Speaker 1: I will stop talking about this, but doesn't have to
21:09
Speaker 1: be looks like you can't just like be the best
21:11
Speaker 1: painter and then never do anything else in your life
21:14
Speaker 1: and then only be happy if someone likes your paints,
21:16
Speaker 1: your paintings, because at some point one person's be.
21:19
Speaker 2: Like, I don't fucking like that.
21:20
Speaker 1: Now we're in the blues, Now we're into like people
21:23
Speaker 1: made out of fairies, you know, and then that's just
21:25
Speaker 1: the weird trend. And now you're what You're not good
21:28
Speaker 1: obviously you are just okay, please Liz. So Liz goes
21:35
Speaker 1: on a kayak date and one of the first things
21:37
Speaker 1: that happens that she shows up this date and she
21:39
Speaker 1: has like, you know, like no makeup on. She looks
21:42
Speaker 1: fresh as fuck and she looks beautiful, and Villa's there
21:45
Speaker 1: and it's like, yeah, I got you some shoes, and
21:46
Speaker 1: she's like, oh, I I even know you needed shoes.
21:49
Speaker 1: He's like, I know, I know you didn't know. Well
21:52
Speaker 1: that's why I got you shoes, you know. And I
21:55
Speaker 1: think there was like a whole part of me, and
21:56
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, it's cute, good for you.
22:00
Speaker 2: Nice.
22:00
Speaker 1: Also, yeah, you do need water shoes for some reason.
22:04
Speaker 1: If you don't think you'd if you're going to go
22:06
Speaker 1: to any sort of like tropical place and want to
22:08
Speaker 1: do something anything, and even if you like have never
22:12
Speaker 1: considered it, get water shoes. And they make water socks,
22:16
Speaker 1: and both things are fucking great. You really can't go wrong.
22:19
Speaker 2: I love them. Okay.
22:21
Speaker 1: Water socks are basically hospital socks. Okay, they had the grippies.
22:24
Speaker 2: Okay.
22:25
Speaker 1: So she's like in this kayak with her grippy socks,
22:28
Speaker 1: you know, her grippy shoes, and she's like living her
22:30
Speaker 1: life and it's like really nice. And he's strong and
22:33
Speaker 1: he's paddling behind her like he's like, let's go at it.
22:36
Speaker 2: She's like, okay, you're wild.
22:38
Speaker 1: You know, here's the thing you have to like somewhat kayak.
22:40
Speaker 1: At the same time, she's like, well, calm down, and
22:42
Speaker 1: she's like this is different because ED just liked the
22:44
Speaker 1: finer things in life, steak red wine. I was like, well,
22:48
Speaker 1: I like a little bit of fucking both girls. She's
22:50
Speaker 1: like he was like cappuccinos and then we'd come home
22:52
Speaker 1: and have nightcaps. First of all, Yeah, was that your
22:58
Speaker 1: like low key way of like trying to like pump
23:00
Speaker 1: up Ed as like a date like you're supposed to
23:02
Speaker 1: be like ed Ed such a fucking big spender. I
23:06
Speaker 1: mean maybe because that's how he tries to keep someone younger.
23:12
Speaker 1: I don't know. Yeah, I think I need a little
23:14
Speaker 1: bit of both. Like I want I'm a high low girl, period,
23:18
Speaker 1: and I would say that there's probably a more high
23:21
Speaker 1: than lows, you know, that would say of like what
23:24
Speaker 1: I like.
23:25
Speaker 2: But at the same time, I like a sort of.
23:29
Speaker 1: Casual comfortness that comes to like something done well and.
23:33
Speaker 2: Like, you know, with quality, is what I would say.
23:37
Speaker 2: So yeah, like I love nights in.
23:38
Speaker 1: I love like cooking nights, you know, I love like
23:40
Speaker 1: rustic dinners, and I love you know, as I said, nature, shit,
23:44
Speaker 1: I just got to tell him telling you how much
23:45
Speaker 1: I just like would chase water fallows the rest of
23:47
Speaker 1: my life. But you know, everyone also wants a glass
23:49
Speaker 1: of like French Bordeaux and like a steak that is
23:53
Speaker 1: like charting the outside medium rare on the inside, you
23:56
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like there's a Brene sauce it's
23:58
Speaker 1: on the side because the meat is like, the meat
24:01
Speaker 1: is so well cooked that you have both salt and
24:05
Speaker 1: pepper is only probably what it needs. But it does
24:07
Speaker 1: have a little butter and it does have a little
24:09
Speaker 1: brine sauce on the side, Like I said, anyway, and
24:12
Speaker 1: there's just like a patcha crime at the end.
24:14
Speaker 2: Whatever, Goupless. It's butterscotch, but like you do you Okay,
24:17
Speaker 2: maybe it's vegan, but like it's gluten free.
24:20
Speaker 1: You know. Again, this is my fantasy. They have a
24:24
Speaker 1: fun time and then they start to kiss and it's
24:27
Speaker 1: unexpected and it's super cute and she's shivering and it's
24:30
Speaker 1: like adorable and.
24:31
Speaker 2: I like it.
24:32
Speaker 1: And then this is the first scene where I'm like, oh,
24:35
Speaker 1: you know what, I like the single life. Yeah, for
24:38
Speaker 1: some reason out of all of this, because like even
24:40
Speaker 1: in this episode, I'm not watching any of this being like,
24:43
Speaker 1: oh wow, what a meat great I mean a meat
24:45
Speaker 1: cute or whatever. I kind of enjoy Kimberly meeting Joe later,
24:49
Speaker 1: but you know, it doesn't feel maybe as like advanced
24:52
Speaker 1: or whatever. So in this single life moment, I'm like, oh,
24:54
Speaker 1: this this kiss is cute and it's warranted. So then
24:58
Speaker 1: we get also the fact that she afraid to talk
25:00
Speaker 1: to him about the cancer. God bless. And she had
25:02
Speaker 1: just little been like I just want to meet someone
25:04
Speaker 1: and hook up, and like now it's Noah's name, and
25:06
Speaker 1: now she's like, oh shit, I got I like him
25:08
Speaker 1: a lot and I got tumim my cancer.
25:10
Speaker 2: Girl. That's hard out there.
25:13
Speaker 1: So then Julia and Sophie go uh to a bar
25:18
Speaker 1: and get a drink. And this is what's interesting, Like
25:20
Speaker 1: Liz knows she has to meet them later, she knows
25:22
Speaker 1: a bar to go to later. But at this point,
25:24
Speaker 1: also Sophie has like gone for twenty four hours talking
25:27
Speaker 1: shit about Liz to Julia, the only other girl there, like.
25:30
Speaker 2: It's just them too, and so it's like this is
25:33
Speaker 2: shitty for Liz.
25:37
Speaker 1: So anyway, but Liz is a little late, you know,
25:39
Speaker 1: God bless. She's like still shaking, she's still shivering and
25:43
Speaker 1: shaken nervousness with that kiss. She's really into it, and
25:45
Speaker 1: God bless. Meanwhile, I mean, Julia is like a companion,
25:50
Speaker 1: mean girl.
25:50
Speaker 2: In this moment.
25:51
Speaker 1: So Sophie's there and she's like, I just want to
25:55
Speaker 1: like forget about Pedro because listen, he forgot about me.
25:58
Speaker 1: He's pretty much and so now I'm into him, and
26:01
Speaker 1: now I'm like upset. So I just want to be
26:03
Speaker 1: here and get some like other what is it that
26:05
Speaker 1: I love male attention? I mean, good for her? Like
26:10
Speaker 1: Sophie's just like literally all I have to do is
26:12
Speaker 1: just walk out stand on a bar.
26:15
Speaker 2: I want it. She doesn't have to say it, she
26:17
Speaker 2: just says it internally.
26:19
Speaker 1: And then she looks over and like while Julia's talking
26:22
Speaker 1: like blah blah blah blah blah, she like makes eye
26:24
Speaker 1: contact with some dude. She's like you, she looks back.
26:29
Speaker 1: That guy comes immediately comes over. He's like, I'm sorry,
26:31
Speaker 1: shut up, Julia, Hi, shut up?
26:35
Speaker 2: Who are you? Hi?
26:37
Speaker 1: I'm a doctor and you look like you were? Indeed,
26:41
Speaker 1: I don't know, Like that's basically what happens. It's a
26:43
Speaker 1: version of that, now is it? I don't know at all?
26:49
Speaker 1: Produced is this real? Is he a doctor? Did he
26:53
Speaker 1: sign a release for him to have his image on
26:56
Speaker 1: the TV? I don't want to ruin it for you,
26:59
Speaker 1: but I also want you to just like consider all possibilities.
27:03
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, So then sorry, I don't okay.
27:08
Speaker 1: Basically, Liz then comes and you know, fucking Sophie just
27:12
Speaker 1: gives her a goddamn me and eye and she's like, listen,
27:16
Speaker 1: hot doc, do you want to go to the other
27:17
Speaker 1: side of the bar. This is where it gets weird
27:19
Speaker 1: as fuck to this is why I all still thinks
27:20
Speaker 1: it's produced. So then Liz is like okay, and a
27:23
Speaker 1: confessional is like Sophie's weird. And then suddenly Julia's like,
27:27
Speaker 1: you know, doctor, I can't do her weird as sacs,
27:29
Speaker 1: and she's like, just sit there for a second.
27:32
Speaker 2: We have to have girl talk. And then all the
27:33
Speaker 2: girls go sit at a table and.
27:35
Speaker 1: Then you know, they talk about the fact that some
27:38
Speaker 1: dude is making them fight.
27:41
Speaker 2: Did you hear what I said?
27:44
Speaker 1: Three grown ass women on vacation at a bar where
27:47
Speaker 1: they all look caught and there's yummy drinks, all have
27:50
Speaker 1: to sit at a table and fight.
27:53
Speaker 2: Over some stupid dude.
27:57
Speaker 1: That's why it's like not girl code or whatever. Like
27:59
Speaker 1: the true one of the matter is if Sophie was
28:02
Speaker 1: giving the vibes that like she was into you know, him,
28:06
Speaker 1: and like it was all working out or whatever, then
28:08
Speaker 1: like surely none of this would have happened. But because
28:11
Speaker 1: there was awkwardness, now she really does want to as
28:13
Speaker 1: Liz says, use Liz as like escapegoat for her relationship
28:22
Speaker 1: being on rocky ground.
28:25
Speaker 2: I'm team Liz.
28:29
Speaker 1: Because I also just feel like Liz just wants to
28:31
Speaker 1: have fun with the girls, like so like sort of
28:33
Speaker 1: like Julia does, like except that Julia is closer to
28:36
Speaker 1: Sophie and so like Julia feels again with the loyalty
28:39
Speaker 1: pressure and look, and the thing about it is Sophie
28:42
Speaker 1: and Julia are funny and cute together, like, and I
28:45
Speaker 1: feel like Liz could be as too. Like it makes
28:47
Speaker 1: me sad when Sophie isn't secure enough in herself and
28:51
Speaker 1: doesn't have the emotional maturity to like be able to
28:55
Speaker 1: show us the fun parts of her and her life
28:58
Speaker 1: on camera without us being like.
29:04
Speaker 2: You're kind of.
29:06
Speaker 1: You're a little want wah as a personality. You're just
29:09
Speaker 1: you can't like hang your hat on Sophie. She's just
29:11
Speaker 1: gonna like ruin things kind of, That's what it feels like.
29:14
Speaker 1: It feels like she has a propensity to be great,
29:16
Speaker 1: except she like ruins shit with her own life and
29:18
Speaker 1: then she like doesn't want to take an accountability for it,
29:21
Speaker 1: and she never changes, and she has a soft voice
29:25
Speaker 1: and she's cute, and so that beguiles and we also
29:27
Speaker 1: know her trauma, the fact that she also might just
29:30
Speaker 1: be a vapid, mean girl that knows she's hot and
29:35
Speaker 1: wields that power, you know, and because she is, like
29:39
Speaker 1: I said, but that's why I gave that whole fucking lecture, because.
29:44
Speaker 2: I'm happy for her.
29:45
Speaker 1: There's a lot of lovely women out there that are young,
29:48
Speaker 1: that are hot, and so like, please just diversify your portfolios.
29:53
Speaker 1: And yeah, it's not just money, although truly make money.
29:56
Speaker 1: It's really the way, like the ways and.
29:58
Speaker 2: Fountains in which you like feel good about yourself and
30:01
Speaker 2: you just know how to always get it, hit it
30:04
Speaker 2: if things are down, you like know like this is
30:07
Speaker 2: a way I can create to this, I can make this,
30:10
Speaker 2: I can you know, whatever it is, touch waterfalls.
30:13
Speaker 1: Okay, So the other thing about Sophie is when Sophie
30:16
Speaker 1: speaks Spanish, was she so good?
30:18
Speaker 2: We're like, see that's cute.
30:20
Speaker 1: Too, God, Like, it'd be cute if you were just
30:23
Speaker 1: watching you flirt with if okay, if I got to
30:26
Speaker 1: just watch this be a single girl's trip where none
30:29
Speaker 1: of the girls fought over any guys because they were
30:32
Speaker 1: all single, but they all had found different guys, Like
30:35
Speaker 1: Julia's just there anyway, God bless, She's not gonna be
30:36
Speaker 1: a funny guys. But like if they had found their
30:39
Speaker 1: own dudes and they were just living their lives and
30:41
Speaker 1: come together and be super cute and also like have
30:43
Speaker 1: fun kikying about things, it.
30:45
Speaker 2: Would be adorable to watch.
30:48
Speaker 1: Like I want to see Liz and Sophie get the
30:51
Speaker 1: little tipsy together and like Sophie speak you know, Spanish,
30:55
Speaker 1: and she's like pretty good, you know, like when I
30:57
Speaker 1: say pretty good, so I'm sure she says she's not
30:59
Speaker 1: fluent and I'm not saying is, but you know, like
31:01
Speaker 1: she speaks a passable amount of Spanish and you're surprised
31:04
Speaker 1: by it, and she you know, gives proper accentation. Like yeah,
31:10
Speaker 1: like that's the great parts of it. Okay, okay, Vanya,
31:17
Speaker 1: this is a very small part.
31:18
Speaker 2: I don't have to tell you.
31:18
Speaker 1: So we're in the middle of Vanya being like, oh, dude,
31:21
Speaker 1: that should have no chance in hell. That is the sweaty,
31:25
Speaker 1: weird dude that I think is my best friend that
31:29
Speaker 1: like continually gets a more stained, gross, smelly shirt wetter
31:35
Speaker 1: and wetter as the scene progresses, has the audacity to
31:39
Speaker 1: tell me that he's not into me, and I'm just
31:41
Speaker 1: going to like be like, oh okay, and then he
31:44
Speaker 1: actually asses and he's like, well, I just really don't
31:45
Speaker 1: want to label.
31:46
Speaker 2: So if we can just.
31:48
Speaker 1: Continue hanging out and I make you feel good and
31:50
Speaker 1: we see what happens, I'm okay with that. And then
31:53
Speaker 1: she's like, oh okay. We're like that's it, Fanya, That's
32:00
Speaker 1: that's enough.
32:04
Speaker 2: We don't want that for her. We don't want it
32:05
Speaker 2: for us. We don't.
32:06
Speaker 1: We don't, you know. We're like, you're crazy. I'll go
32:09
Speaker 1: back you listen, dude, find someone else. I don't know, Vanya, please,
32:12
Speaker 1: I don't know what it is. It's interesting. I think
32:19
Speaker 1: that you would have to consider if Vanya wants to
32:34
Speaker 1: find someone that like, loves and gets her from the
32:38
Speaker 1: get go, or whether she wants to explore energetically like
32:48
Speaker 1: some shifts, like for instance, my friend is doing reki
32:50
Speaker 1: right now or reiki right now, and I'm like wondering
32:52
Speaker 1: what that means in the sense I know what it means,
32:53
Speaker 1: like an energetic healing situation. But I wonder if for
32:57
Speaker 1: some people there are some you know, clogged spots or
33:04
Speaker 1: like some areas of confusion, like or some somatic or
33:08
Speaker 1: nervous system healing or some sort of like energenis that
33:13
Speaker 1: like needs channel work or something. Because Vanya feels like
33:20
Speaker 1: such a loving, open hearted person that has like a
33:23
Speaker 1: lot of love to give.
33:25
Speaker 2: And she's doesn't seem.
33:28
Speaker 1: Toxically insecure where she's going to be like needy of
33:33
Speaker 1: someone in a way.
33:34
Speaker 2: That's just like I just want a.
33:35
Speaker 1: Best friend that hang out to hang out with and
33:37
Speaker 1: love like and maybe she's a little loud, or maybe
33:41
Speaker 1: she knows she's a little intense, but like that's fine,
33:43
Speaker 1: you know, like that's fine. My other part of talking
33:46
Speaker 1: about the like energetic healing or the channel stuff is
33:49
Speaker 1: you never know. This is what I'm literally wondering out loud.
33:53
Speaker 1: If there are unseen things either to you or your body,
33:57
Speaker 1: or your nervous system or your trauma work, or something
34:00
Speaker 1: that keeps you from feeling something in the present moment
34:10
Speaker 1: that would clarify who would be.
34:15
Speaker 2: A good and or a better match for you and vice.
34:18
Speaker 1: Versa off and or if there's something that blocks other
34:23
Speaker 1: people from seeing your true heart because of you know
34:26
Speaker 1: said thing.
34:27
Speaker 2: So at this point, like when this when we come
34:29
Speaker 2: a single life.
34:29
Speaker 1: I would love to like see people working on themselves
34:34
Speaker 1: in the pursuit of dating, if that's what they're doing,
34:37
Speaker 1: which I'm assuming they are, if this is called the
34:38
Speaker 1: single life. However, having said that, I certainly would love
34:42
Speaker 1: one of the characters on ninety Day the single Life
34:46
Speaker 1: to be just like fully like Tim Gunning it being
34:49
Speaker 1: like yep, single lifing it not dealing.
34:52
Speaker 2: With anyone, fuck them. You know.
34:55
Speaker 1: I'm either celibate or I or I'll just do whatever.
34:58
Speaker 2: But I'm not trying to date.
35:00
Speaker 1: I am single, and like I am choosing this and
35:02
Speaker 1: this is what it is, and this is my single life.
35:06
Speaker 1: I would love that too, you know, because it does
35:09
Speaker 1: single life does feel like a catch all for whatever
35:11
Speaker 1: they want to do, people who can't be on happily
35:13
Speaker 1: or after and aren't signed up for the competition of
35:16
Speaker 1: hunt for love or whatnot.
35:19
Speaker 2: So yeah, I hate that for Vannie.
35:21
Speaker 1: Let's move on, kim Bali, Honey, we start and I
35:24
Speaker 1: have a lot of pictures just spraying herself down with
35:27
Speaker 1: that Victoria's secret Rasmataz. I don't know that just like
35:31
Speaker 1: it is Barry, it is maybe Vanilla noted in one
35:37
Speaker 1: or two of The Nose, probably the bottom. It is
35:41
Speaker 1: all over us being sprayed in her bosom. I'm looking
35:44
Speaker 1: at all her products. I'm taking it in. She's like,
35:46
Speaker 1: you know what not back fifty five and she's not wrong.
35:50
Speaker 2: She's not wrong.
35:52
Speaker 1: And the next scene is that we get kim Bali
35:54
Speaker 1: walking fabulously in this like white linen two piece number
35:58
Speaker 1: into her friends.
36:01
Speaker 2: We'll meet them Laura.
36:03
Speaker 1: And JODI's bash, and they have fun bashes. They're always
36:08
Speaker 1: throwing a fun party or two. This is a hula.
36:10
Speaker 1: They got these lanterns. They decided to both wear matching
36:14
Speaker 1: white triangle top spaghetti strap dresses and necklaces. They look
36:21
Speaker 1: very ocy. I like them. I like these women a lot.
36:25
Speaker 1: And by the way, I would totally go to their parties.
36:27
Speaker 1: These parties look fun. Like this looks like a single party,
36:31
Speaker 1: you know, Like in my mind when Kimberly was like,
36:33
Speaker 1: these are my friends, I was like, is this a
36:35
Speaker 1: singles party?
36:36
Speaker 2: Like?
36:36
Speaker 1: Is this a matchmaking party? A because look at these two.
36:40
Speaker 1: I mean, if these two, these two have been in business.
36:43
Speaker 2: To Kampa place too. These two have like a party
36:46
Speaker 2: planning business or there's something happening. You don't come with
36:49
Speaker 2: those matching dresses. If you're not coming to fucking make money.
36:53
Speaker 2: I mean, you know, like on TV, I'm happy about them.
36:56
Speaker 2: I like them.
36:57
Speaker 1: So basically, Kimberly is getting set up. So there's a
37:00
Speaker 1: I name Joe, and Joe I want Joe. There's a
37:04
Speaker 1: guy named Joe, uh, and Joe is really nice. Kimberly
37:08
Speaker 1: has heard about Joe. Joe's a little lovely gentleman. I
37:12
Speaker 1: don't want to say little. He we don't know exactly
37:14
Speaker 1: how tall he is. All we know is that he
37:16
Speaker 1: is considered a short king in kim Bally's eyes, underneath
37:19
Speaker 1: Kimberly's five nines. So and I'm five eight, so I
37:22
Speaker 1: get a girl, I'll get it. But Kimberly's opened to him.
37:26
Speaker 1: And here's why Joe appreciates Michael Jackson.
37:32
Speaker 2: So win win.
37:33
Speaker 1: When she's like, oh my god, she went from being
37:35
Speaker 1: like I don't know about Joe.
37:36
Speaker 2: He's nice, I does he's kind of a little short
37:38
Speaker 2: to being like once he's like, yeah, I like Michael Jackson.
37:42
Speaker 2: I always love Michael Jackson. She's like my short king,
37:45
Speaker 2: my short king de bay L. She's like, so to him,
37:48
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my god, so I love it.
37:50
Speaker 1: Also, the what Joe says about Kim Bally is like cute,
37:55
Speaker 1: is like indicative of someone who has spent time with
37:59
Speaker 1: her and is actually reading her personality, and like is
38:03
Speaker 1: part of the process, because like she first meets him,
38:08
Speaker 1: and you know, I honestly, I'm always like, well these things,
38:11
Speaker 1: some things feel set up and some things don't. I
38:13
Speaker 1: do feel like this is being mildly set up, and
38:15
Speaker 1: I think those two women are involved. But however, I
38:18
Speaker 1: do feel like kim Bully is into him when she
38:20
Speaker 1: first meets him. Joe comes in and he's wearing this
38:23
Speaker 1: like blue shirt and they lay him with a matching
38:28
Speaker 1: blue lay like that's obviously the theme.
38:30
Speaker 2: They know what's happening, and.
38:32
Speaker 1: So as that's happening, he says, I feel better now,
38:36
Speaker 1: and then kim Bully, having watched all that, she's like, well,
38:39
Speaker 1: you got late, so you s'll feel better now.
38:43
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, Kimberly, that's what he just said.
38:47
Speaker 1: And the way that she said that was indicative of
38:50
Speaker 1: someone who was instantaneously nervous and kind of just said
38:54
Speaker 1: some bullshit. And then probably either her mind was like
38:56
Speaker 1: when I say, that's the same thing he just said,
38:58
Speaker 1: which is true.
38:59
Speaker 2: Again, he gets laid. He goes, I.
39:03
Speaker 1: Feel better now, Well he just got laid, so you
39:07
Speaker 1: should feel better now.
39:09
Speaker 2: Yep, like I said after a pond getting laid.
39:14
Speaker 1: That I do feel better now, like you know, okay,
39:21
Speaker 1: but I you know, I love Kimberly and just playing around.
39:23
Speaker 2: She is super fun.
39:23
Speaker 1: She's snappy, like Kimberly's always been a good time, you know,
39:26
Speaker 1: like she it's fun to hear her talk to people.
39:29
Speaker 1: She has a good personality and it's always apparent like
39:33
Speaker 1: it was a parent with Soldier Boy.
39:35
Speaker 2: It's funny.
39:35
Speaker 1: The thing about Usman is that we met Usman again
39:38
Speaker 1: before with someone else who had a shitty personality, and
39:41
Speaker 1: we were like, okay, well this is their situation, and
39:43
Speaker 1: then later on we meet Kimberly and we're like, well
39:45
Speaker 1: this person has a really great personality. Now we all
39:47
Speaker 1: know that Usman is whatever he's been on the season,
39:50
Speaker 1: and at this point we assume that kim Bully was
39:52
Speaker 1: a fan of the show. This is how we first
39:55
Speaker 1: meet her, you know, obviously slide into Usman like why Kimberly, why,
39:58
Speaker 1: But then as the season goes on, funny and she's
40:00
Speaker 1: smart and she like keeps in the show.
40:01
Speaker 2: We like her relationship with Jamal.
40:03
Speaker 1: They kind of like are sassy and funny back and forth,
40:07
Speaker 1: like they have a she's funny in life, like she's
40:10
Speaker 1: a witty, entertaining person, and the truth of the matter
40:13
Speaker 1: is not a.
40:14
Speaker 2: Lot of people are on this show, and.
40:16
Speaker 1: Even people that are don't always lean into it or
40:20
Speaker 1: unabashedly okay with it. They try and lean in some
40:23
Speaker 1: other things, like, for instance, Jasmine is funny right like,
40:26
Speaker 1: but Jasmine has so many other issues that she leads to,
40:29
Speaker 1: like her craziness or the grabbiness or I don't know
40:31
Speaker 1: what she wants to like pretend with Matt or the
40:33
Speaker 1: alopecia or the body modk Like, there's so many things
40:35
Speaker 1: with her where we can't like hang her hat and
40:37
Speaker 1: be like super entertained by her at all times.
40:39
Speaker 2: But Kimberly is a.
40:41
Speaker 1: Sort of like reality star that is, and I say
40:46
Speaker 1: star because on multiple seasons like where she is okay
40:50
Speaker 1: just being herself and letting things be exposed and is
40:56
Speaker 1: very real and you know, has baggage, but also is
41:02
Speaker 1: an entertaining, fun person, not weird, not like you would
41:06
Speaker 1: anyone having spend time with her in a waiting room
41:11
Speaker 1: for like five minutes if she felt okay to talk,
41:14
Speaker 1: was like happy to have that interaction, And you can't
41:17
Speaker 1: say that like about anyone else, Like can you imagine
41:22
Speaker 1: having any being in a waiting room and have like
41:23
Speaker 1: an interaction with anyone else, Like you would just be like, oh,
41:26
Speaker 1: can't wait for this to be over.
41:27
Speaker 2: But Kimberly would be like okay.
41:29
Speaker 1: Like I would also have an interaction with Chloe and
41:32
Speaker 1: be like okay with it. I'm trying to think, you know,
41:36
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think I I want someone who has
41:40
Speaker 1: like a snappy personality, who's like witty and like gonna
41:43
Speaker 1: say something funny, and also if I say something funny,
41:46
Speaker 1: is going to enjoy it, and you know there.
41:49
Speaker 2: She is okay.
41:50
Speaker 1: So basically Joe knows it too. So Joe's like, I'll
41:57
Speaker 1: tell you she's just like a breath of fresh air.
41:59
Speaker 1: She's full of life, and we're like, yeah, Joe, she
42:01
Speaker 1: is good clock Joe.
42:03
Speaker 2: Oh Joe, you've been paying attention.
42:04
Speaker 1: Yeah Joe, you're not like just some weird actor like you.
42:06
Speaker 1: Because Joe could have been like I like Kimberly, she
42:09
Speaker 1: seems nice, and we'd be.
42:11
Speaker 2: Like, oh, Jesus, do better.
42:13
Speaker 1: Producers, you know, but like what he says about her
42:16
Speaker 1: is in fact her, and they like, you know, cut
42:17
Speaker 1: to be shots of her being incredibly lovely at the party,
42:20
Speaker 1: and you're like, yeah, exactly how Joe feels being her presence,
42:23
Speaker 1: you know.
42:23
Speaker 2: Great. So then we get this part, and this part, honey,
42:27
Speaker 2: is just diabolical. Okay.
42:29
Speaker 1: So then they put up fucking a limbo stick and
42:32
Speaker 1: like kim Bally, your turn, honey, Hello, can you go?
42:35
Speaker 1: And Kimberly's like, okay, I got this, I got this
42:38
Speaker 1: all right, ladies.
42:39
Speaker 2: Let's do it.
42:40
Speaker 1: And she brings her friends to do it. And then
42:42
Speaker 1: as all of these biddies go to do a limbo,
42:45
Speaker 1: Kimberly just pretends that she can just duck under it.
42:51
Speaker 1: Kimberly just ducks under it, like doesn't do any sort
42:54
Speaker 1: of backband, doesn't try to do like the next thing
42:57
Speaker 1: like look at Jody, I mean, you know, look at Laura.
42:59
Speaker 1: They're just like, you know, do and the thing. One
43:00
Speaker 1: of these women, I'll tell you which one, Jody the
43:03
Speaker 1: Burnett looks just like Lynn Spears.
43:07
Speaker 2: I'll show you again. Oh maybe not that picture as much.
43:10
Speaker 1: This picture she looks kind of like doctor Quinn medicine woman,
43:13
Speaker 1: and then this picture looks like Lynn Spears. Yeah, I mean, girl, Kimberly,
43:20
Speaker 1: that's not how you limbo. You can't just like, oh yeah,
43:23
Speaker 1: let me see if they can do it. I one.
43:27
Speaker 1: I mean the way that Kimberly also celebrates having barely
43:31
Speaker 1: ducked underneath that limbo stick and done it obviously the
43:34
Speaker 1: bad way, while those other women at least had the
43:37
Speaker 1: due diligence to like slightly lean back, as if she
43:40
Speaker 1: Honey just won gold at the Olympics in twenty twenty six.
43:43
Speaker 1: I mean, is a babe, No, Kimberly gotta that's how
43:49
Speaker 1: the way that you limbo is this you, And that's
43:53
Speaker 1: the point of it. If anyone can do what you
43:56
Speaker 1: just did, anyone does that you thought the important You
44:01
Speaker 1: thought the part of limbo was just duck underneath the stick.
44:05
Speaker 1: Who could duck underneath the stick? I mean, God bless,
44:08
Speaker 1: if you're this feels a little like nursing home style,
44:11
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, God bless. Okay, I get it.
44:17
Speaker 1: So basically after that, Joe's like, can I walk you
44:23
Speaker 1: to your uber and She's like, yeah, live in the
44:25
Speaker 1: boon docks. I'm like okay, and then as she's walking out,
44:28
Speaker 1: her friend is like, oh, have a good night, have
44:32
Speaker 1: fun out there, be safe, you know, as if they're
44:34
Speaker 1: going to go home together, go somewhere else and can lose, Like,
44:36
Speaker 1: shut up, I'm going home and made me happy. Okay,
44:40
Speaker 1: So one more coops the dupes left, and by coops,
44:45
Speaker 1: I mean person, g you know g no? I mean
44:49
Speaker 1: this is a painful watch, isn't it. It's it's hard
44:51
Speaker 1: for us to have to deal with this situation, and
44:54
Speaker 1: yet I don't know why I have to talk about it.
44:55
Speaker 1: So I'm going to get through as many of the
44:58
Speaker 1: cringey parts so I can get into, like the more
45:00
Speaker 1: talkable parts. Gino's there and Gino's like, hey, what do
45:03
Speaker 1: you think of my toes? And Natal is like absolutely
45:05
Speaker 1: fucking not shit about the toes. And he's like would
45:06
Speaker 1: you Nope? He's like, suck my nope, no shit the
45:10
Speaker 1: fuck up. She's like, don't even say it. He does,
45:12
Speaker 1: so you know he is wanting to bait people. I
45:15
Speaker 1: feel like this is what's happened.
45:16
Speaker 2: Do you know? There is rage bait right?
45:20
Speaker 1: And it feels like Geno's producers use AI and they're like,
45:28
Speaker 1: come up with Geno rage bait scenes and they're like, okay,
45:33
Speaker 1: what we know about geno toes bald?
45:36
Speaker 2: Uh weird?
45:37
Speaker 1: Weird?
45:38
Speaker 2: Would you have to do sixual stuff? Or when he
45:40
Speaker 2: looks to be touched like you know.
45:41
Speaker 1: Like it's like they have a grab bag of these
45:45
Speaker 1: weird geno games and then they're like, well, well, what
45:49
Speaker 1: can we like shake around and put up for this episode?
45:53
Speaker 1: So after the toe fiasco, he's like, for out of
45:56
Speaker 1: fucking blue, He's like, hey, let me tell you this.
45:58
Speaker 1: So obviously he was suppsed to see in the couch
46:00
Speaker 1: and in the middle of the night he like got
46:03
Speaker 1: an inkling to join her in her bed and she's
46:06
Speaker 1: like in her Hart pajamas and their flannel and she
46:09
Speaker 1: like allows this and then they just cuddle all night.
46:14
Speaker 2: Okay.
46:16
Speaker 1: Then in the morning he's like, I have really I
46:19
Speaker 1: have dry skin, so can you put some lotion on
46:22
Speaker 1: my back?
46:23
Speaker 2: And she's like.
46:24
Speaker 1: Yes, I'd be like no, what you can do is
46:27
Speaker 1: get like you know, however you get the loc on
46:30
Speaker 1: your back to usually happen. You can do it that way. Oh,
46:39
Speaker 1: you haven't even showered, so why do you need lotion
46:41
Speaker 1: right now? Go take a shower.
46:43
Speaker 2: First, we put lotion on top, like he's in his shirt.
46:45
Speaker 2: I just don't like it.
46:45
Speaker 1: So basically, she's like, i'll tell you what my plans
46:49
Speaker 1: are today. I'm going to do a friend's pot luck.
46:51
Speaker 1: And he's like, well, I came to visit you, so
46:52
Speaker 1: I guess those are my plans. She's like, well, you
46:54
Speaker 1: have to make something, and I'm like, well, what are
46:56
Speaker 1: you making? I don't know what she's making. Now, well,
47:00
Speaker 1: here's the thing. We go to the friend's pot luck
47:02
Speaker 1: and we get there. At one point there looks like
47:04
Speaker 1: there's a baby stroller outside, just like hanging outdoors.
47:08
Speaker 2: Now, I know there's probably not a baby in.
47:09
Speaker 1: There, but you also might know that in Sweden or
47:13
Speaker 1: Norway or someplace like that, like some cold place, they
47:16
Speaker 1: have this thing where they just put babies and strollers
47:18
Speaker 1: outside and just let them literally chill out there. I
47:24
Speaker 1: don't mean all that, but like that's I think like
47:26
Speaker 1: a cultural thing. Like it's just a thing where like
47:28
Speaker 1: you know, it's like go freeze the baby outside, like
47:32
Speaker 1: go get that baby a little cold chill. The baby
47:37
Speaker 1: just in the baby needs a little little chill, just like,
47:39
Speaker 1: don't let the baby back in until those cheeks are red. Honey,
47:43
Speaker 1: you know, just like make sure there's a little frost
47:45
Speaker 1: on that little nose, you know, like make sure there's
47:48
Speaker 1: any little spit up it's icicled, and then you can
47:51
Speaker 1: bring the baby back in. Uh. I know there's probably
47:54
Speaker 1: some beautiful reason why, you know, like health reason, you know,
47:57
Speaker 1: like cold plunge, but for a.
47:59
Speaker 2: Baby and the air.
48:00
Speaker 1: You know, I can't tell you, but it just when
48:02
Speaker 1: I saw that stroller out there, maybe think of that.
48:04
Speaker 2: Okay.
48:05
Speaker 1: So they get to the place and we're like, okay,
48:07
Speaker 1: pot luck and this is what we see. So there's
48:12
Speaker 1: these dudes like with various TAIDI colors of black, white,
48:17
Speaker 1: and gray around a table and there's like plastic bottles
48:22
Speaker 1: of alcohol.
48:23
Speaker 2: There's like a huge thing of tequila and three sad
48:29
Speaker 2: Off brand Electrolyte.
48:31
Speaker 1: Drinks, not even power aid I mean the saddest and
48:37
Speaker 1: that's what they're drinking. They're drinking mixed drinks with that. Like,
48:39
Speaker 1: oh no, what kind of potluck is this? This is
48:42
Speaker 1: like a here's the thing, okay if you okay, I
48:46
Speaker 1: love potlucks, Like I think it's so fun to like,
48:48
Speaker 1: you know, like bring one thing over to like a group.
48:52
Speaker 1: If you're gonna bring one thing over then just make
48:55
Speaker 1: that one thing good, like if your thing is mixer
49:00
Speaker 1: for drinks, like, don't bring that sad.
49:04
Speaker 2: Also, there should be more. It seems like there's more
49:06
Speaker 2: people there.
49:06
Speaker 1: Okay, God bless so then but we also okay, so
49:09
Speaker 1: then we get to this shot, and the shot is
49:10
Speaker 1: Gino and you know, Natalie going to her friend's house.
49:13
Speaker 2: Her friends have very cute pants.
49:15
Speaker 1: I love these, like, you know, like Kirby Derby pants,
49:17
Speaker 1: you know, I like, you know, like on a high
49:19
Speaker 1: waist that has a belt. He has his I guess
49:23
Speaker 1: bounty for the party. I still don't quite understand what
49:26
Speaker 1: she's bringing other than the same bag we saw from
49:28
Speaker 1: her daytime outfit, which is a no go. It's too
49:31
Speaker 1: big of a bag. That's not a day time that's
49:34
Speaker 1: that's a daytime bag. That doesn't make sense for like
49:37
Speaker 1: a nighttime friend's potluck bag. Okay, So we find out
49:43
Speaker 1: what Gino brought. Gino's like, you know, I used to
49:45
Speaker 1: be a short order line cook, So I'm gonna bring
49:50
Speaker 1: ham and cheese sandwiches.
49:53
Speaker 2: Okay. And here's the thing. A grilled.
50:00
Speaker 1: With ham is like a whole ass thing, very yummy,
50:03
Speaker 1: like you know, you can literally, like you know, make
50:05
Speaker 1: it a croked monsteward.
50:05
Speaker 2: You know, it's like all the fancy versions of that.
50:07
Speaker 1: But like you know, yeah, like a grilled cheese with ham,
50:09
Speaker 1: or grilled cheese with bacon, or like tomatoes in it
50:12
Speaker 1: or whatever fun thing like that is yummy. No, you
50:15
Speaker 1: don't ever make that a bunch of them for a potluck,
50:19
Speaker 1: like everyone knows, for a potluck, you make usually if
50:23
Speaker 1: it's a dish, food dish, one big version of it,
50:26
Speaker 1: or like you know, like a thing that is shareable
50:28
Speaker 1: in such a way. But like, yeah, I mean, that
50:31
Speaker 1: doesn't make any sense because you have to, you know,
50:33
Speaker 1: arrange a bunch of like things that are hard to
50:37
Speaker 1: do immediately at someone's house.
50:39
Speaker 2: And here's the thing.
50:41
Speaker 1: He pre arranged what looked like slices of bread, and
50:47
Speaker 1: then he put the cheese and ham together and the
50:53
Speaker 1: cheese melted. Now we're like, where's the problem. He thinks
50:59
Speaker 1: you have to fry the ham in the nonstick skillet.
51:04
Speaker 1: Now all of us are like, bitch, put the buttered
51:08
Speaker 1: bread into the skillet and then put like you know,
51:14
Speaker 1: the cheese and the tomato in there, and just keep
51:16
Speaker 1: flipping it and make that sandwich, like that you don't
51:19
Speaker 1: need to like fry the hold ham. The ham's gonna
51:22
Speaker 1: get heat from cooking it, Like that makes sense. But no,
51:25
Speaker 1: this asshole decides to like put his weird wet cheese
51:29
Speaker 1: whiz product and the ham right on that pam with
51:33
Speaker 1: no spray, not nothing, and it's like burning, and then
51:37
Speaker 1: he puts it on the bread and then he feeds
51:39
Speaker 1: it to these nice people who are like, I'm so sorry.
51:45
Speaker 1: Is there one wet condiment in the house? Is there
51:48
Speaker 1: a mustard? Is there some mayo? Is there salt and pepper?
51:52
Speaker 1: There's nothing on here? This motherfucker, he is disgusting what
51:55
Speaker 1: he makes. Everyone's so weirded out. Melanie is weirded out.
51:58
Speaker 1: Melanie is her friend. Melanie's like, let's talk. I don't
52:00
Speaker 1: know if I can do with this, and so she
52:02
Speaker 1: like starts talking to him, and Gino does this thing
52:04
Speaker 1: that Gino does a lot.
52:06
Speaker 2: Gino likes to talk.
52:08
Speaker 1: And then later on, like ten seconds later, realize someone
52:16
Speaker 1: else heard the words from a different perspective, and the perspective.
52:21
Speaker 2: Is that he's a weird asshole.
52:25
Speaker 1: So basically they're talking and you know, he's like, yeah,
52:29
Speaker 1: you know, I really like, Natalie, is she dating anyone?
52:31
Speaker 1: He's like, yeah, you know, she's talks about other guys,
52:33
Speaker 1: but you know, she never you know, brought anyone over.
52:35
Speaker 1: It's nice to me. And she's like, are you talking
52:37
Speaker 1: anyone as Oh, yeah, you know because of you know,
52:40
Speaker 1: the TV show, the famous TV show I'm on. All
52:42
Speaker 1: the women in the world know that I broke up
52:44
Speaker 1: with Jagman and so they're all in my damn So, yeah,
52:46
Speaker 1: I talked to all of them.
52:49
Speaker 2: It's basically what he says to Melanie.
52:53
Speaker 1: That's what he says, and Melanie's like, what, oh you so, yeah,
52:59
Speaker 1: so you just talked. He's like, well, I don't mean
53:00
Speaker 1: up with them, yes he does. He's just like, yeah,
53:02
Speaker 1: but you know, just people hit me up an ig,
53:05
Speaker 1: I've talked to them.
53:05
Speaker 2: Of course. I love that. I mean I love and.
53:10
Speaker 1: Hate the fact that they won't say the fact that
53:11
Speaker 1: he's like a famous person on the TV show, right,
53:13
Speaker 1: because it's just like the idea that's like, well, some
53:15
Speaker 1: people know that I broke up with Jazmin So or
53:18
Speaker 1: my ex, so they're in my dms because that's why
53:23
Speaker 1: they're there. Because yeah, most people would not not touch
53:29
Speaker 1: you with it, like a ten foot pole. That's why
53:30
Speaker 1: you had to like gold these sugar baby dating websites.
53:34
Speaker 2: I mean, I can't.
53:34
Speaker 1: Imagine him his whole life having to like go on
53:37
Speaker 1: those kind of websites to get like any sort of attention,
53:39
Speaker 1: and then suddenly getting some attention sometimes because women want
53:42
Speaker 1: to be famous, and that sucks.
53:46
Speaker 2: Like there is moments in which.
53:48
Speaker 1: Gross weird men get power and then they get to
53:52
Speaker 1: like wield it, and it's just horrifying. I just wish
53:55
Speaker 1: it would happen to me. I wish I would be
53:56
Speaker 1: a gross squared man. I wish I was a gross
53:58
Speaker 1: sword woman maybe if I am, If I am that
54:00
Speaker 1: at some point, all I'm saying is that from how
54:03
Speaker 1: I'm seeing the world works, I get to have a
54:05
Speaker 1: comeuppance and then wield my power in a way that
54:08
Speaker 1: is like my vengeance on this world. Okay, can't wait, Okay,
54:13
Speaker 1: So just okay. Oh, I just realized. It's kind of
54:22
Speaker 1: like basically when he says that to Melanie and then
54:24
Speaker 1: Melanie's like, yeah, I hate I hate him, and so
54:26
Speaker 1: then she goes and tells tells Natalie that she fucking
54:29
Speaker 1: hates that man. Nat is like, I just want to
54:32
Speaker 1: see what he's like, he's so charming, and Melanie's like,
54:36
Speaker 1: I don't know what to tell you. If you continue
54:37
Speaker 1: dating him, I lose all respect for you.
54:41
Speaker 2: He's just disgusting girl. No, have you ever had any
54:49
Speaker 2: of that happen? I have.
54:51
Speaker 1: I've had someone pretty much tell me, like to stop
54:54
Speaker 1: dating someone because they don't like that person and they'll.
54:56
Speaker 2: Lose respect for me.
54:59
Speaker 1: I'm not saying I did or not do it, but
55:00
Speaker 1: I it's such an interesting thing. I mean especially maybe yeah,
55:05
Speaker 1: Like I think that it happens across the board, Like.
55:07
Speaker 2: You know, I think that anyone can do it to anyone,
55:10
Speaker 2: like someone who either crosses boundaries or you feel super
55:13
Speaker 2: close with or maybe you ask or whatever. But it
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Speaker 2: is such an interesting thing, like the way that we
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Speaker 2: want people's opinions over who we are dating and in
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Speaker 2: the ways in which we don't care. Oh my goodness, gracious,
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Speaker 2: that is the end of the app.
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Speaker 1: However, it doesn't have to be the end of us.
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Speaker 1: You can absolutely follow me I'm at Chris Elfair on
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Speaker 1: all major social medias like Instagram, like TikTok, and make
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Speaker 1: sure that you go subscribe and like to my YouTube.
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Speaker 1: That's real fun. However, you also could give me money,
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Speaker 1: and I would really consider that. It's my birthday. I
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Speaker 1: don't know if I mentioned that it's my birthday. This
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Speaker 1: is what I want. You can either do something free,
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Speaker 1: or you can, I guess, give me five dollars and
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Speaker 1: join my Patreon, or you can just wish me up
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Speaker 1: your birthday. But here's the free things, and I really
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Speaker 1: don't need them. I mean, I don't I want the money.
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Speaker 1: Do you need the money? But whatever you want to
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Speaker 1: do for me is enough. You are enough. I'm enough,
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Speaker 1: and I really appreciate you being here. But it is
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Speaker 1: my birthday. Okay, it's piscey season, it's my birthday. It's
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Speaker 1: also my dad's birthday. My dad's starting seventy five. I
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Speaker 1: had to plan his birthday and I barely like put
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Speaker 1: together something, cobble something together myself. Who knows who's even
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Speaker 1: going to show up for myself later all as long
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Speaker 1: as my dad works out, it's fine. However, yes, March
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Speaker 1: seventh is my birthday. Please follow me and subscribe to
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Speaker 1: you know, Patreon, YouTube, Like my page on Facebook, Chris
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Speaker 1: Farrah joining Vanity Farah on Facebook.
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Speaker 2: If you go to Instagram, just like share all of
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Speaker 2: my posts or whatever.
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Speaker 1: Go on Reddit and tell people how much you enjoy
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Speaker 1: listening to the podcast or me. Those are all the
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Speaker 1: free things. If you want to give me something you
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Speaker 1: can do. You don't have to, but you know someone
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Speaker 1: this is my Amazon wish list. Other than that, we're
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Speaker 1: gonna do we usually do, which is feel a moment
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Speaker 1: of respite, presence, and then be on our merry ways. Okay,
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Speaker 1: two breaths, present moment giving ourselves a little bit of peace.
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Speaker 2: I like that.
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Speaker 1: It's my birthday, so you know it's going to be
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Speaker 1: a great week for me, and I get to in
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Speaker 1: this moment bring my mind with you all in theory
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Speaker 1: to this present time and enjoy censorly how I actually feel.
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Speaker 1: Thank you for that birthday breath. All right, baby booze,
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Speaker 1: take care of yourselves and want another send every way
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Speaker 1: you believe in, make art, and I'll talk to.
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Speaker 2: You later and they'll see you even even sooner. Bye.