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THE ERICA SHOW - She Hates Her Engagement Ring - Should She Tell Him · The Erica Show

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  Do you want to five? It's the Erica Show. I'm Erica DeLong Trevor
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  out back next week. We're talking about the size of your diamond. Doesn't
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  really matter when you get engaged, how big the diamond is. We got
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  an anonymous DM. She wants to remain anonymous. She said, I've been
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  with my now fiance for almost five years. He is the love of my
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  life. He surprised me with an engagement, you know, this big proposal.
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  It was fantastic, except for the ring was very, very small.
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  She was like, I mean really small, and she said, I'm not
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  normally a material person, but in this case, it's so small, I'm
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  embarrassed to show my friends and family. She said. He makes a very
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  good living, and so it's not that we couldn't afford a bigger ring,
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  she said, So I feel like he didn't give me what I deserved.
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  Do you think I should say something to him and ask for what I really
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  want? Or should I just be quiet? All right, so I'm sure
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  the phones are gonna blow up nine one nine eight six zero one oh five
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  one. What are your thoughts on what she should do? Should she say
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  something and tell him what she really wants or just be thankful and don't say
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  anything at all? Shana? What do you think? Oh? No,
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  I think I mean, I don't think it's about the ring, really,
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  I know. I mean, yes, it's nice to have a big ring,
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  but maybe the Jenior Anniversary or jen year renew also get a bigger ring.
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  You could just let him know how important that is to her. Thank
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  you, Shannon. And what do you think should she say something to him
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  or keep her mouth shut? I mean, how do you feel if he
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  makes a lot of money, do you think he should have gone bigger on
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  the diamond? Nine one nine eight six o one oh five one? Do
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  you na? Five? It's stay er because show somebody wrote us wants to
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  stay anonymous because her fiance now fiance bought her ring proposed for. The ring
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  was much much smaller than she had wanted. She said that he makes plenty
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  of money and so it wasn't money that was an issue, but he got
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  a small ring and she wanted to know should she say something or should she
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  not? Nine one nine eight six one oh five one? Chrystal, what
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  do you think? All right? Look, I understand wanting a better ring
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  or a bigger ring, but that can come later what you really and that
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  everybody says this focus on the marriage, not the wedding, but it is
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  true. Are you marrying somebody who has your back no matter what? Those
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  are the things that are important. Who cared what people think about your ring?
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  Also, you can get a black ear wedding band, you know something
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  that you'd like to wear just the wedding band. I wear just my wedding
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  band quite often, so I would make he focus on that. This also
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  could be a good self lesson of self test to stop worrying about those outside
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  opinions outside of your relationship, or stop worrying about material things. So I
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  want to hear from you. What are your thoughts nine one nine eight six
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  one oh five one Should she say something because her ring was smaller than she
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  warn't? Do you? N F five It's the Erica Show. I'm Erica.
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  Thank you so much for listening and taking your thoughts on whether or not
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  our anonymous listener should tell her fiance that the ring is too small. She's
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  newly engaged and she was very disappointed by how small the ring is. It's
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  not a money issue, she said, he makes of money. So far,
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  everybody said absolutely don't say anything. That's what everybody's saying. Maybe the
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  ten year anniversary you can upgrade, But Lexie, you're saying something different.
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  It kind of matters if she had already talked to him about it or like
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  what she wanted first. She kind of made it clear that she wanted a
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  certain style. Then absolutely say something because of that. But I also think
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  that she should say something regardless because I have a ring that means the world
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  to me and I just value it and feel so precative of it, and
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  I would love for her to feel the way that I feel about my ring
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  with her ring because it's very spectful and you know, she doesn't have to
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  get mad and made a big deal, but let him know that it bothers
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  you. And I look at it every day and it's a reminder of,
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  you know, like why I'm doing it, and it's not just money,
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  but it's love and I love my ring. So all right, well,
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  thank you where are you calling us from? Riley? Thank you so much,
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  Lexi, thank you, And if you want to still chime in,
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  hit me up in the dams. Add Eric and DeLong. I'm going to
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  be passing all of this information over to ear listener