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The Royal Wedding · Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad

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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.
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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in.
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Speaker 3: Scrub dub dub and the tub tub tub. Wow. I
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Speaker 3: didn't hit record, but now I am. Wow, that would
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Speaker 3: have been crazy crazy. She's a wife, I'm a wife.
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Speaker 3: Raise your hand if you're married, raise your hand if
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Speaker 3: you're married. Wow.
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Speaker 2: I mean, where do we begin? I don't even know
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Speaker 2: where to begin. There's so much to touch on. How
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Speaker 2: are you feeling like?
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Speaker 3: We're like coming back.
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Speaker 2: From the wedding, which was obviously like a lot in
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Speaker 2: terms of the planning and everything. Yeah, with the excitement
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Speaker 2: of getting.
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Speaker 3: Married, Yes, the build up for years, Yes.
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Speaker 4: It happens, and it was incredible.
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Speaker 5: It was literally more than I'd ever expected. It was
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Speaker 5: everything I wanted times a million. But the after is
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Speaker 5: so crazy, Like I definitely should not have come to
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Speaker 5: work this week.
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Speaker 6: I've been like, I disagree.
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Speaker 5: I have been so unwell the last two days, Like
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Speaker 5: I have been like not feeling good.
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Speaker 3: I've been so run down.
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Speaker 5: I feel like like you know when you're on your
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Speaker 5: period and you feel like somebody came and suck the
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Speaker 5: life out of you.
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Speaker 2: I feel like that I mean, yeah, I literally can't
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Speaker 2: imagine because I felt like that I did not exit
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Speaker 2: my bed yesterday.
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Speaker 3: I was so exhausted.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, and I was like thinking about you being at
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Speaker 2: work and also like why did she go to work with?
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Speaker 5: And insight any bride out there that's listening, definitely take
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Speaker 5: a few days after your wedding.
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Speaker 6: I'm so happy you came in. You're the best, Like
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Speaker 6: that's that's what makes you Tanya. Is that kind of magic?
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Speaker 3: Insanity great?
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Speaker 5: It's like literally insane that I like went back to
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Speaker 5: work the next day.
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Speaker 3: But also just.
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Speaker 5: Because like I felt like my body was on fight
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Speaker 5: or flight mode for four full days, do you.
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Speaker 3: Know what I mean?
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Speaker 5: Like the minute we got to Mexico. The first day
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Speaker 5: was a kind of chill, but then the next day
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Speaker 5: it was just like full on and the people started arriving,
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Speaker 5: and then you're on. Then you're on, you're on, You're on,
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Speaker 5: and it's like this crazy high. And then I think
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Speaker 5: that your body just like lets it all go, like
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Speaker 5: it just like crashes. But I also wasn't sleeping, Like
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Speaker 5: I didn't sleep because I was so excited, so like
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Speaker 5: I barely slept, So I'm like not sleeping I'm on
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Speaker 5: this like crazy adrenaline rush and then like it all
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Speaker 5: just hits you and it's like crazy.
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Speaker 3: Well, yeah, it's not sleeping, Yeah, it's stress. It's not
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Speaker 3: eating much.
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Speaker 6: Yeah.
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Speaker 5: The day of my wedding, we were like in the
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Speaker 5: middle of the horror and I was like, if I
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Speaker 5: don't eat something, I'm I'm literally going to pass out
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Speaker 5: on the dance floor. Like and I was like, I
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Speaker 5: was like, everybody needs to stop talking to me, and
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Speaker 5: I need to eat for ten minutes, Like seriously.
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Speaker 3: It was fun.
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Speaker 2: Well, we're jumping ahead, we're jumping ahead. Let's start from
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Speaker 2: the beginning. So we flew to Mexico on Tuesday.
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Speaker 5: Yes, Becca flew with my husband and I, oh how
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Speaker 5: many times many times?
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Speaker 3: Am I gonna say husband this podcast, who was then
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Speaker 3: just a mere fiance?
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Speaker 2: Yeah, and uh, I flew because I wanted to help
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Speaker 2: with like dressing, you know, any of the stuff that
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Speaker 2: you need to help with.
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Speaker 5: I have to say, you coming out there the day
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Speaker 5: that you did with us was the best gift you
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Speaker 5: could have ever given me.
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Speaker 3: I was telling Haley.
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Speaker 2: I was like, I was so it was so special,
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Speaker 2: even like obviously anytime I have Hailey with me I
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Speaker 2: love it, But it was so specifically special getting to
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Speaker 2: have that time with both of you guys, like into
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Speaker 2: like just to myself because I knew as soon as
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Speaker 2: everyone got there, you're like mingling with everyone, so I
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Speaker 2: wasn't gonna have your full attention, And it was so
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Speaker 2: fun getting to like be there for those moments leading
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Speaker 2: up too.
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Speaker 5: It really was like the best gift you could have
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Speaker 5: given us, Like I and like you were there and
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Speaker 5: I like needed you there, like obviously I it's I
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Speaker 5: would have been perfectly fine if it was just Robbie
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Speaker 5: and I because he does all those things for me too,
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Speaker 5: But like it was so nice having like somebody there,
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Speaker 5: but also like you you know exactly like when to
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Speaker 5: give us space, and like you weren't you know what
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Speaker 5: I mean, Like we weren't together the whole time, like
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Speaker 5: you would just go to your room chill for a
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Speaker 5: little bit meet up. Like it was just the perfect
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Speaker 5: amount of being there but like not being like always there.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. It was very weird, but it
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Speaker 3: was the best.
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Speaker 5: Like I highly recommend that if anybody's getting married and
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Speaker 5: they're doing a destination, like have your best friend go
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Speaker 5: out there the day or two before with you, because
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Speaker 5: it was the best, Like you helped keep me calm,
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Speaker 5: like all the things, what do we need to do?
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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was fun, I think going also as a bride,
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Speaker 2: even just getting to your destination early on and getting settled,
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Speaker 2: because like once people started coming next day.
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Speaker 3: It was plan yeah, yeah, take off time. Yeah.
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Speaker 4: So everyone starts coming, people start arriving.
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Speaker 3: You gave me a look like here we go. Yeah.
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Speaker 4: But Wednesday night was pretty chill too. It was just
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Speaker 4: like family, so that arrived.
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Speaker 5: Yeah, for the most part, there were like one like
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Speaker 5: maybe like one set of friends, and.
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Speaker 2: Then Thursday came. First of all, I was staying like
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Speaker 2: so far away.
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Speaker 3: My room was so far away.
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Speaker 2: From Tanya, and we had tried to switch it because
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Speaker 2: we were like, oh, like you know, she texted her
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Speaker 2: person was like, oh cut we I want my mate
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Speaker 2: of honor closer, and I was like, I'm so far away,
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Speaker 2: but they weren't able to move us. And so I
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Speaker 2: got like ten thousand steps the day of the welcome party,
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Speaker 2: just going back and forth, roaming around, going and doing
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Speaker 2: I was like, dang, I hit my step goal today.
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Speaker 2: And there's documentation of me saying this on the podcast
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Speaker 2: that I was not going to drink that night, but
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Speaker 2: I had my speech, right, everyone of their speech is
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Speaker 2: the first night.
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Speaker 3: Nobody can do that sober? Yeah, many people can, but
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Speaker 3: I didn't.
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Speaker 2: I was like, I was like relatively sober when I
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Speaker 2: gave a speech, and then once that was done, I
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Speaker 2: I really exceeded my one drink, one shot limit that
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Speaker 2: I had given myself on the podcast.
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Speaker 6: It was a lot of drinking that first night, a
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Speaker 6: lot a lot, Like people were very drunk, very quickly,
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Speaker 6: because I'm very noticed when people get drunk, and like
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Speaker 6: I was saying, oh, hi, nice to see you, Like
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Speaker 6: they just got here and they're already a little bit off.
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Speaker 3: Was that one of those no, no, no, yeah.
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Speaker 2: When I saw you all first, I don't think I
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Speaker 2: was there yet, But I have to say, because everyone
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Speaker 2: keeps asking like how was Tanya, Like was she bride chilla?
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Speaker 3: What was her vibe?
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Speaker 2: Tanya was literally the most calm I've ever seen her,
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Speaker 2: And I was like, either internally there's just like shotspiring
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Speaker 2: left and right, and it's just subdued on the outside.
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Speaker 2: But I was saying, how when you see a bride
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Speaker 2: that calm and relax, It's it makes you feel like, wow,
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Speaker 2: like this is the right Not that I doubted that
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Speaker 2: you were doing the right thing, but it's almost like confirmation.
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Speaker 2: Like while she's so at peace and like even with
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Speaker 2: all the people coming in and there's so much going
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Speaker 2: on that's still happening, there was this like calmness to you.
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Speaker 5: I felt calm. Yeah, Like I was shocked at how
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Speaker 5: calm I was.
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Speaker 3: I was like, did you garden? Like what?
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Speaker 5: Like, yeah, I honestly I didn't, but like I felt
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Speaker 5: like I like took some sort of like chill pill
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Speaker 5: or something. Yeah, especially the welcome party because it was
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Speaker 5: like a little chaotic. I was like getting ready a
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Speaker 5: little bit to the last minute, which I don't.
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Speaker 3: Enjoy doing it. Yeah.
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Speaker 5: So I didn't even get to look at a mirror
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Speaker 5: before I left to go see everybody. I hadn't even
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Speaker 5: looked at myself in a mirror. It was literally like
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Speaker 5: putting my makeup on, put my they put my dress
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Speaker 5: on for me, and I didn't even look take photos
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Speaker 5: and then like out the door.
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Speaker 3: So I was like, can someone do I look? Okay,
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Speaker 3: what's going on? How do I look here?
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Speaker 2: Yeah?
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Speaker 4: You didn't need to look in the mirror. You looked amazing.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, and so we we had the rehearsal before we
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Speaker 2: had the welcome party, and it was so sweet because
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Speaker 2: Tanya even just like coming down the steps with her
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Speaker 2: dad at the rehearsal, like there was already waterworks and
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Speaker 2: she would like lean her head back as to not
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Speaker 2: mess up her makeup, and she was like rushing her
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Speaker 2: dad because she didn't want to cry. She's like, Dad,
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Speaker 2: come on, I'm like Tanya, just soak it in and
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Speaker 2: she's like, I don't want to cry. Before the party, Yeah,
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Speaker 2: I was like walk faster, dad, like dracking him down.
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Speaker 2: So I'm curious what where like when you got to
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Speaker 2: the welcome party, what that felt like seeing because like
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Speaker 2: that was the first time where you got to kind
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Speaker 2: of see everybody arrive.
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Speaker 3: Yeah.
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Speaker 5: That's like the most i think overwhelming part of the
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Speaker 5: weekend because everybody's there to see you, right, so, like
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Speaker 5: everybody's there for you. Yeah, so you want to make
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Speaker 5: sure that you're giving saying hi to everybody, buddy, spending
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Speaker 5: time with everybody. You also don't want to be so
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Speaker 5: rude and like not engage so much with people, But
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Speaker 5: you also don't want to engage with someone too long
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Speaker 5: because you want to like see everybody. Yeah, and then
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Speaker 5: you don't want to rob and I didn't want to
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Speaker 5: leave each other's side. We wanted to like try and
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Speaker 5: do everything together, which is a fail.
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Speaker 3: But we did a pretty good job. Like we did.
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Speaker 5: That's eighty percent of the time we were like together.
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Speaker 5: But that first night was I think the most overwhelming
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Speaker 5: because I felt like that was like my first time
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Speaker 5: seeing so many people. So I wanted to like hug
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Speaker 5: everybody and like express my gratitude.
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Speaker 3: But it's like one hundred people. Yeah, it's a lot
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Speaker 3: of people.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, And it was. The setup was so beautiful. It
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Speaker 2: was on the sand. There were our tables were on
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Speaker 2: the sand. There was a Mariachu band playing.
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Speaker 5: Was it sinky sand or was it like hard sand?
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Speaker 3: I couldn't.
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Speaker 2: I've tried your heels for a second, and they went straight.
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Speaker 5: Through these My little little tiny, like pointy heel I said,
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Speaker 5: if you have like a thicker heel on, I.
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Speaker 2: Think people who had a thick keel on were fine.
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Speaker 2: I did not have that, so I just went barefoot.
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Speaker 3: I ended up going barefoot too, which.
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Speaker 2: Is great for my later on my later on actions.
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Speaker 2: Barefoot was best.
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Speaker 3: Yeah.
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Speaker 2: So then we got into speeches, and I requested to
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Speaker 2: go early on because I didn't want to go at
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Speaker 2: the end too much pressure. I get really anxious when
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Speaker 2: I speak in front of people if I'm reading something,
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Speaker 2: and I felt like, even though I could have I
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Speaker 2: can wing things and it could be good. I had
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Speaker 2: already done that for your bridal shower, So I felt
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Speaker 2: like it was important for me to like have intention
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Speaker 2: behind what I was saying.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, your speech was so good. Oh, thank you. I
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Speaker 3: don't I blocked, I just I just got it was
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Speaker 3: a Taylor.
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Speaker 5: Swift quote they quote in there good friends.
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Speaker 6: Yeah.
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Speaker 2: I saw Robbie crying. I was like, okay, I've done
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Speaker 2: my job here. My job here is done.
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Speaker 3: Thank you so much.
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Speaker 6: Well, we skipped a couple I don't want to, you know,
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Speaker 6: I'll give short shrift to some of these speeches because
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Speaker 6: Robbie's son was the first speech, and that was yeah powerful.
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Speaker 2: Well, so I did not want to follow him. I
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Speaker 2: was very stressed about following March.
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Speaker 3: He wanted to go first. He was like, can I
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Speaker 3: go first?
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Speaker 6: He should have gone last because he was probably the best,
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Speaker 6: but I mean he was really good. Yeah, yeah, it
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Speaker 6: was really really moving.
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Speaker 5: Oh he had to say, you know what's interesting what
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Speaker 5: I heard a lot from this weekend, different guests that
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Speaker 5: come up to me that came from divorced families.
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Speaker 3: Our whole wedding was like very healing to a.
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Speaker 5: Lot of people that grew up in like divorced, bad
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Speaker 5: divorce situations. I don't know, parent situations. Yeah, like it
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Speaker 5: was very healing. Like I had like two guests in
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Speaker 5: particular come up to me saying how they wished that
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Speaker 5: their step parent was like that they had what Robby
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Speaker 5: and I have in our like family dynamic and it's weird. Yeah,
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Speaker 5: I felt like it was like very healing for people.
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Speaker 3: I don't have that, and it was healing for me.
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Speaker 2: I don't come from from a stepparent situation.
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Speaker 3: And I was like this is just but yeah.
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Speaker 5: Like so he spoke at our at our bridal dinner, right,
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Speaker 5: and this was like off the cuff. Everybody was just
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Speaker 5: kind of like popcorn giving speeches and he was like
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Speaker 5: I want to say something. We were like what, like
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Speaker 5: you're ten and it was like so crazy. He did
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Speaker 5: such a good job and everybody was like blown away.
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Speaker 5: And so then he asked us, He's like, can I
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Speaker 5: give a speech at the wedding. We were like sure,
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Speaker 5: you know, like we didn't want to put that pressure
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Speaker 5: on either one of them. And so yeah, he like
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Speaker 5: wrote it. He had like three paragraphs and he just
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Speaker 5: delivered it. Yeah, just no fear.
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Speaker 3: It was so impressive and people.
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Speaker 5: Kept clapping and He's like, I'm not done yet, I'm
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Speaker 5: not done.
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Speaker 3: So cute. Yeah, it was really cute.
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Speaker 6: Robbie's dad we got to talk about. Yeah, he talked
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Speaker 6: about listening to the morning show and yes, and learning
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Speaker 6: about your cycle. Yes, and whether he's a backer or
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Speaker 6: a Tanya. Yes, very very He was great. And what
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Speaker 6: really impressed me about him he had nothing written down.
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Speaker 6: That was all off the top of anatomy. Maybe he
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Speaker 6: memorized or thought us with things today, but he was
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Speaker 6: so funny. Yeah, without any kind of notes or anything.
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Speaker 5: I agree, I was. I was very taken aback by his.
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Speaker 3: Speech. I did not expect it to be that funny.
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Speaker 6: It was really funny.
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Speaker 2: It was like one there was like one liner after
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Speaker 2: the next. Oh my god, was listening to him. I
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Speaker 2: was like, we're getting scrubbing in shout ouse.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, this is wild, every kind of shout out. Yeah,
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Speaker 3: the cycles.
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Speaker 5: Robbie told me that his dad wanted to like clear
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Speaker 5: two of the jokes with him to make sure that
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Speaker 5: they were okay, and the cycle joke was one of them.
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Speaker 2: Your cycle is a huge part of our community because
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Speaker 2: like the amount of questions that I got my question
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Speaker 2: box about your period.
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Speaker 3: I was like, this is so funny. We'll get to that. Yeah,
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Speaker 3: obviously we'll get to that. We will get to that.
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Speaker 3: But yeah, it was really great.
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Speaker 2: Like all of Robbie's groomsman got up and gave like
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Speaker 2: like many speeches together, and Pauline and Raquel.
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Speaker 6: Pauline got me. At the end of her speech, he said,
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Speaker 6: t you did it right. That one got me.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, hers was very emotional. Ryan was like sobbing at Paulina's.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, Pauline's really got Ryan.
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Speaker 2: Good.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I was shocked.
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Speaker 6: I mean, we'll get to that, but shout out to
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Speaker 6: Ryan just from the beginning, just Ryan really came through
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Speaker 6: this weekend. Yeah, phenomenal.
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Speaker 5: Yeah.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, and you kind of forget until you watch other
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Speaker 2: people's reaction to him how huge of a deal he is. Yeah,
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Speaker 2: Like when he came for the rehearsal and everyone is
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Speaker 2: trying to act like cool and chill, and He's like trying.
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Speaker 3: To be normal, but like no one's acting. It's just
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Speaker 3: such a you know what.
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Speaker 5: I also want to commend, like I feel like nobody
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Speaker 5: really treated him so different then, you know what I mean,
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Speaker 5: Like there wasn't like a line of selfies. There wasn't
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Speaker 5: like you know what I mean, Like he was kind
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Speaker 5: of like just one of the one of the crew.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just that.
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Speaker 2: Feeling that you you feel it if you know it,
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Speaker 2: where you can tell people are.
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Speaker 6: Yeah, people differently when there's a celebrity in the room.
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Speaker 4: But once he settled in, Yes, it felt like he
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Speaker 4: was settled in.
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Speaker 3: But like nobody wanted to sit at our table with
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Speaker 3: us and him.
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Speaker 6: Like I was like, why is by himself? Food?
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Speaker 3: I was like, why isn't anybody else gonna sit here?
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Speaker 2: Well, I think that that when it's your table, it's like, oh,
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Speaker 2: his family sit I think there's kind of there.
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Speaker 4: I think that was a hesitancy more than it was Ryan.
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Speaker 5: Okay, Yeah, I didn't know because we didn't have tables,
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Speaker 5: we didn't have assigned seats. The first night, it was
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Speaker 5: just kind of like first comfort serve, wherever you want
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Speaker 5: to sit. Yeah, but yeah, I guess that was like
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Speaker 5: the prime table, right.
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Speaker 2: And you never know, like he's a fan who's sitting
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Speaker 2: there right right, right right. I don't think it was right, Okay,
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Speaker 2: not that Ryan's on a huge deal. I'm just saying
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Speaker 2: I think that was more like being respectful.
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Speaker 5: But yeah, So like the speeches, and our whole thing
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Speaker 5: was we wanted the speeches the night before because we
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Speaker 5: didn't want we just want to party the next night.
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Speaker 3: We didn't want speeches at the actual reception, so we.
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Speaker 5: Did them all the night before. And I think it
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Speaker 5: was okay in terms of length.
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Speaker 6: Oh great, yeah.
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Speaker 3: Yeah.
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Speaker 6: By the way, I don't have a single complaint from
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Speaker 6: that entire weekend, whether it's sifty sand or hard sand
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Speaker 6: or the length of the speeches. I have zero complaints
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Speaker 6: from touchdown to take off.
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Speaker 3: Wow, that is nice. It was perfect, Like it was.
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Speaker 3: It was it.
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Speaker 2: I'm so happy it exceeded your expectations because I was like,
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Speaker 2: this is there's so much hype around this weekend and
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Speaker 2: like it's a destination and you can't predict things and
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Speaker 2: how things are going to go or how everyone's going
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Speaker 2: to interact, right, and it was it exceeded every expectation
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Speaker 2: that I had.
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Speaker 3: It was just so fun and everyone was so happy
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Speaker 3: for you guys and like, Okay.
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Speaker 5: So so after this, which is we had this plan
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Speaker 5: where we were going to like do the fireworks, but
17:03
Speaker 5: they planned it for like a specific time, and the
17:05
Speaker 5: speeches ended earlier than the time, so they were like,
17:07
Speaker 5: can you vamp for thirty minutes?
17:09
Speaker 3: And I'm like, maybe I.
17:12
Speaker 5: Can, like sing my I have a husband, And I
17:14
Speaker 5: was like going to maybe like do a little performance
17:16
Speaker 5: and like sing that, and then she was like, okay,
17:19
Speaker 5: actually it's ten minutes. So I was like okay, okay,
17:21
Speaker 5: and so the whole thing was like Rob and I
17:23
Speaker 5: were gonna give a toast and then it was gonna
17:24
Speaker 5: like the fireworks go off. I think at that point
17:27
Speaker 5: I was like kind of drunk. Oh really yeah, tipsy, Yeah,
17:31
Speaker 5: could you tell?
17:32
Speaker 6: I could tell very dru.
17:34
Speaker 3: I was really yes, Yeah, I didn't.
17:39
Speaker 5: Even know you had to dream because you were three sheets.
17:43
Speaker 3: Yeah.
17:43
Speaker 2: No, I didn't go three sheets till we'll talk about
17:46
Speaker 2: my three sheets.
17:47
Speaker 3: But I didn't. I didn't go there till after my
17:49
Speaker 3: speech because I was like, yeah, this was after all
17:52
Speaker 3: the speeches, but.
17:54
Speaker 6: I'm a little drunk.
17:55
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, oh you did say that.
17:58
Speaker 5: I remember, Yeah, I was a little drunk at that point,
18:02
Speaker 5: but that was pretty cool. Like I like, I was like,
18:05
Speaker 5: I knew the fireworks wouldn't be cool, but like some
18:07
Speaker 5: people were so excited about the fireworks.
18:09
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, when you go like five four three two
18:13
Speaker 2: one in a fireworks launch over the ocean, it's pretty epic.
18:16
Speaker 3: So we wanted them for this reception. Is it time
18:20
Speaker 3: to take a break?
18:21
Speaker 6: A fact?
18:22
Speaker 3: Who a real cliffhanger.
18:29
Speaker 2: We'll be right back, all right, that banger of a cliffhanger.
18:52
Speaker 3: You were going to do the fireworks for the reception.
18:54
Speaker 5: We were going to do them for the reception for
18:56
Speaker 5: the wedding day, but because they go off on the beach,
19:00
Speaker 5: we were like, maybe we do it for the welcome
19:02
Speaker 5: party to make it be like the kickoff.
19:04
Speaker 3: And I was like, great idea, babe. That was great.
19:07
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it made more sense since we were on
19:10
Speaker 2: the beach. Yeah, because the reception was not in the.
19:12
Speaker 5: Garden, the fireworks would have been like not right there. Yeah,
19:16
Speaker 5: we were right there.
19:18
Speaker 6: It was so cool.
19:19
Speaker 7: It was like Disneyland level, like there was like giant
19:22
Speaker 7: ones or and it went on for a while.
19:24
Speaker 6: It was a great show.
19:25
Speaker 3: Sixty seconds to be exact.
19:27
Speaker 5: Yeah, you pay for the minute.
19:30
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think you can do.
19:32
Speaker 5: You pay per minutes, so you can do sixty seconds,
19:35
Speaker 5: ninety seconds, and then there's like one other.
19:37
Speaker 6: That's good to know because I felt sixty seconds was adequate.
19:39
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean more than six no, no, no, I
19:42
Speaker 5: was like, maybe spring for the three minute sessions.
19:48
Speaker 3: I would have done in three minutes. Yeah, yeah, no,
19:51
Speaker 3: it's good. It goes a good call.
19:53
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, it was perfect. It was so fun.
19:55
Speaker 3: That's when stuff started getting weird. Oh weird.
19:58
Speaker 5: Yeah, but like people started getting very drunk after the fireworks.
20:01
Speaker 2: I feel how we were like, oh, you know, people
20:04
Speaker 2: go so hard on the first night. Like I specifically
20:08
Speaker 2: was like, I'm not going to do that. Like, if anything,
20:10
Speaker 2: I might just wait until the wedding to drink m M.
20:16
Speaker 3: And Robbie too.
20:17
Speaker 2: Robbie was, oh my gosh, I maybe had at least
20:26
Speaker 2: eight tequila shots.
20:27
Speaker 5: I also felt like there wasn't like Robbie's guests and
20:30
Speaker 5: Tanya's guest It felt very much like it was all
20:33
Speaker 5: just one big guest fest.
20:35
Speaker 2: It was a guest fest. Yeah, and I celebrated. I
20:40
Speaker 2: was just celebrating. I took a shot for every person
20:43
Speaker 2: who was there. No, I'm just kidding, Bet it was.
20:46
Speaker 2: It was excessive and I didn't eat because I was
20:48
Speaker 2: nervous about my speech.
20:49
Speaker 3: So I and I had walked ten thousand steps that day,
20:53
Speaker 3: so you were tired. I literally dehydrated.
20:55
Speaker 2: All the things. It was bad, bad combo. So but
20:59
Speaker 2: I I had a great time, Like I had so
21:02
Speaker 2: much fun.
21:03
Speaker 5: Yeah, I can't remember what time we'd shut down that dinner.
21:08
Speaker 3: I think we had it till ten. I think we
21:10
Speaker 3: went till ten thirty.
21:12
Speaker 5: Then everybody wanted to like after party, so they went
21:15
Speaker 5: to the bar next door.
21:18
Speaker 4: This is where things really took a turn for me.
21:21
Speaker 5: I think, yeah, this is where things are taking a turn,
21:23
Speaker 5: because everybody shot for the groom.
21:26
Speaker 3: And I'm like, no, the groom needs to wake up tomorrow.
21:29
Speaker 5: So then like people kept like Michael kept taking Robbie's shot,
21:32
Speaker 5: like taking them himself, and I was like, yeah, but
21:35
Speaker 5: that was very much appreciative because I was like, he
21:38
Speaker 5: was so drunk that like one or two more shots
21:41
Speaker 5: would have dub him in. Like he was like a
21:43
Speaker 5: good drunk, like you know, didn't get sick anything.
21:45
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I'm glad someone. I'm glad Michael took the
21:48
Speaker 2: took one for the team. Yah, yeah, yeah, yeah, because
21:51
Speaker 2: that wouldn't have been good. Robbie seemed to find the
21:54
Speaker 2: next day he was fine, totally fine. Yeah you However, I, however,
22:02
Speaker 2: I have never been so sick waking up in my
22:05
Speaker 2: entire I could knock get off the bathroom floor. The
22:07
Speaker 2: next morning, I was like, I cannot stand up. I
22:11
Speaker 2: felt like I was gonna throw up anytime I stood up.
22:13
Speaker 2: I was like, Haley, I don't know what I'm gonna do.
22:15
Speaker 2: I'm texting contiers, like do y'all have an IV service?
22:17
Speaker 2: And then I'm like it's gonna take too long. I'm like,
22:20
Speaker 2: I gotta be at Tanya's to get ready. Haley goes,
22:22
Speaker 2: why don't you just tell her you're not feeling well
22:24
Speaker 2: and just tell her you'll.
22:25
Speaker 3: Be there for the wedding.
22:26
Speaker 2: I go to work, I'll just be getting ready and
22:31
Speaker 2: then we have photos all day until the wedding.
22:34
Speaker 3: Yeah. So I was like, I just I just have
22:37
Speaker 3: to go.
22:37
Speaker 2: So I'm I'm gonna get I packed my little bag
22:40
Speaker 2: of all my stuff and I'm hunched over walking to
22:43
Speaker 2: the golf cart.
22:44
Speaker 3: He's driving me.
22:45
Speaker 2: I'm like spinning in the golf cart. I get to
22:47
Speaker 2: your room, I'm like, hey, go straight back to your bathroom,
22:50
Speaker 2: lay on the ground. Robbie comes back, He's like, are
22:53
Speaker 2: you okay? And I'm like no, I literally can't stand up.
22:56
Speaker 2: I don't know what I'm gonna do. So I go
22:57
Speaker 2: and sit down at the window because I was like,
23:00
Speaker 2: I can't stand to do my makeup, so I'm just
23:01
Speaker 2: gonna like prop my phone up and act like oh, I.
23:03
Speaker 3: Want to be in the room with everyone, and I'm
23:06
Speaker 3: doing it.
23:06
Speaker 2: Midway through getting ready, I get up, go and throw
23:09
Speaker 2: up in the bathroom.
23:10
Speaker 3: Wow.
23:13
Speaker 2: I never say a single thing to Tanya. She's like, hey,
23:15
Speaker 2: do you have blah blah blah? Do you have the playlist?
23:17
Speaker 3: I'm like yeah, yeah. I'm like she cannot know and
23:22
Speaker 3: I did not know. Yeah, I just power powered through.
23:27
Speaker 3: I found out yesterday it was.
23:28
Speaker 2: Self induced, so it wasn't like, oh, everyone's trying to
23:31
Speaker 2: be like I think you got food poisoning.
23:33
Speaker 3: I was like, no, you guys, this is called shots.
23:39
Speaker 2: No.
23:39
Speaker 3: So all day I would like have to take breaks
23:41
Speaker 3: and sit down.
23:42
Speaker 2: And the photographer had is zofran, which is like a
23:45
Speaker 2: prescribed like for nausea, so that like saved me. But
23:48
Speaker 2: like I was like nibbling on bread like I could not.
23:52
Speaker 2: I was just like sucking down electrolytes as much as
23:55
Speaker 2: I could, Like I all threw.
23:57
Speaker 3: Up the day. I'd be like, I just need to
23:58
Speaker 3: sit down.
24:00
Speaker 5: I literally had no idea, Like you put on a
24:04
Speaker 5: A plus acting.
24:05
Speaker 3: Wow, thank you, well, thank you.
24:07
Speaker 2: I don't know if I should be applauded. I should
24:08
Speaker 2: have never put myself in this position. But yeah, I
24:13
Speaker 2: did the opposite of what I said I was gonna do.
24:15
Speaker 3: Like in hindsight, I could maybe now see that you
24:19
Speaker 3: were like a hair off, just.
24:21
Speaker 5: Quiet, a little quieter than usual. But I had no
24:26
Speaker 5: idea you were on the bathroom floor. I had no
24:27
Speaker 5: idea you threw up.
24:29
Speaker 3: Yeah. Did you drink it all on Friday? No, even
24:32
Speaker 3: the wedding, even the reception, Nope, not once of alcohol? Nope.
24:38
Speaker 2: Why you didn't even know?
24:41
Speaker 3: I didn't know. I didn't know. You asked me to
24:45
Speaker 3: go get shots for us. I had them pour me water.
24:50
Speaker 3: They had like a full performance, as if I had
24:52
Speaker 3: taken a Wow.
24:55
Speaker 2: No one knew, and I felt I had so much fun.
25:02
Speaker 2: I was like, wow, this was great.
25:04
Speaker 3: You can't without drinking present I like really took in
25:08
Speaker 3: every moment.
25:09
Speaker 2: I just also have to say that Tanya's reception setup
25:13
Speaker 2: was one of the most stunning setups that I've seen.
25:18
Speaker 3: It was like twinkle light tents.
25:21
Speaker 4: Ahead of ourselves, of the ceremony.
25:24
Speaker 3: Yeah no, yeah, So anyways, that was fine.
25:26
Speaker 6: So we are at the morning of right now.
25:28
Speaker 5: Yeah, so now we're getting ready and I was actually
25:32
Speaker 5: super chill during that whole process, Like I had my
25:35
Speaker 5: hair shout out to David and my makeup Liz.
25:39
Speaker 3: They were doing their thing.
25:41
Speaker 5: Sophia was like locked in, Like she was so locked
25:47
Speaker 5: in in terms of bridesmaid If I said, like I
25:52
Speaker 5: needed anything, she had it in my hand within two seconds.
25:55
Speaker 5: I was like, I need a hard bowled egg, ordered it.
25:59
Speaker 5: I need salt ordered it, I need whatever, Like she
26:02
Speaker 5: had it in my hand. I was like, I need champagne.
26:05
Speaker 5: She ordered the most expensive shit.
26:08
Speaker 3: We're going through the bill. Robbie was like, who ordered
26:10
Speaker 3: the dom pair and yellows.
26:11
Speaker 5: I was like, okay, god, so yeah, but anyways, like
26:18
Speaker 5: whatever I needed, she ordered it.
26:21
Speaker 3: She was like there. Like she literally was like so
26:24
Speaker 3: locked in.
26:25
Speaker 5: Yeah, and you all were, Honestly, everybody was like very
26:28
Speaker 5: very locked in. But people like wanted to come, Like
26:32
Speaker 5: my mother in law wanted to come in, like take
26:33
Speaker 5: a photo with me.
26:34
Speaker 3: Like I was like, cool, no problem. I went sat
26:36
Speaker 3: in the bed, took a couple of photos with her. Goodbye.
26:38
Speaker 3: My sister in law came in, wanted to take a
26:40
Speaker 3: picture with me, took some photos.
26:42
Speaker 1: Cool bye, Like I felt like, I was like, so chill,
26:45
Speaker 1: so chill, yeah, so relaxed.
26:47
Speaker 3: Like I was like, whoever, They're like, we don't want
26:48
Speaker 3: to overwhelm Tanya.
26:49
Speaker 5: I was like, who can everybody can come in whatever
26:51
Speaker 5: they want, whoever you want.
26:53
Speaker 3: I have my own little section. Yeah. I was chilling,
26:57
Speaker 3: so chill, yeah, calm, peaceful.
26:59
Speaker 5: I was panicked a little bit because I realized that
27:02
Speaker 5: both of our vows were on our phones, and I
27:05
Speaker 5: didn't want the phones. I felt like reading them on
27:08
Speaker 5: phones was like kind of tacky, but handled that situation
27:12
Speaker 5: quickly sent them to our shout out Marjorie, our wedding planner,
27:16
Speaker 5: printed them out.
27:19
Speaker 3: Then what what came the first one? I missed something?
27:21
Speaker 3: What you gave him? The photo?
27:24
Speaker 2: Oh?
27:24
Speaker 5: Yes, yes, the night before I did the morning of
27:28
Speaker 5: our wedding, which I wish we had so because of
27:33
Speaker 5: the night before we didn't go to sleep because the
27:35
Speaker 5: first night was so fun. We got back to our
27:37
Speaker 5: room and Robbi and I were like, Robbie showered, I
27:40
Speaker 5: took a bath, and we were like chatting about the
27:42
Speaker 5: whole night for like an hour.
27:43
Speaker 3: We're like in the shower, in.
27:44
Speaker 5: The bath, just like chatting, talking, like reminiscing, like, Oh,
27:48
Speaker 5: what did you see?
27:48
Speaker 3: What did you see? What do you think? What do
27:50
Speaker 3: you think? So we stayed up till like three thirty
27:52
Speaker 3: four in the morning.
27:53
Speaker 5: Wow, And my gland was coming to my room at
27:55
Speaker 5: ten thirty the next morning, so I was like, we
27:57
Speaker 5: have a very short window.
27:58
Speaker 3: Oh no, my face was coming in at nine am.
28:02
Speaker 5: So I was like a very short window for me
28:05
Speaker 5: to give him this boudoir book. But I really wanted
28:07
Speaker 5: to do it the morning of the of our wedding.
28:10
Speaker 5: So I get out and I give him the book,
28:14
Speaker 5: and uh, he loved it. He freaking loved it, like
28:21
Speaker 5: he thought it was so beautiful, and he was like
28:23
Speaker 5: where were He was like asking me out, where were you?
28:25
Speaker 3: When did you do this? I was like my bachelor party.
28:29
Speaker 3: He was like who did these photos? I was like
28:30
Speaker 3: Becca and like everybody else was like doing the lighting
28:33
Speaker 3: and the setting a scene, and.
28:37
Speaker 1: Yeah, he loved it. Yeah, great gift idea great good
28:42
Speaker 1: to know. Yeah, because you weren't.
28:43
Speaker 3: Sure it turned out great. He's like obsessed with it. Well,
28:48
Speaker 3: keep that hidden in the drawer. Yeah yeah, yeah, but.
28:53
Speaker 5: It was very well received and I'm so happy I
28:55
Speaker 5: did it the way that I did. I did not
28:56
Speaker 5: need to spend three thousand dollars on that.
28:58
Speaker 6: But also interesting, just for traditionalists listening, that you gave
29:02
Speaker 6: him gifts the morning of the wedding. You slept together
29:04
Speaker 6: the night before the wedding. You know a lot of
29:06
Speaker 6: people don't see each other until you walk down the aisle.
29:08
Speaker 5: Well, I knew we weren't doing a first I knew
29:10
Speaker 5: we were doing a first look. Any I knew I
29:12
Speaker 5: was going to see him before we walked down the aisle.
29:14
Speaker 5: Just logistically, I was like, I didn't want to spend
29:17
Speaker 5: after the ceremony.
29:18
Speaker 3: I just wanted to be with everybody.
29:19
Speaker 5: So I knew I didn't want to take a bunch
29:20
Speaker 5: of photos after the ceremony. I just wanted to get there,
29:23
Speaker 5: So I wanted to do everything before. So I already
29:25
Speaker 5: knew weren't going to see each other for the first
29:27
Speaker 5: time down the aisle. So I was like, why did
29:31
Speaker 5: I not want to spend the night before I get
29:33
Speaker 5: married to my husband?
29:35
Speaker 6: I get that? Yeah, just saying.
29:38
Speaker 3: Modern woman over here, she does what she wants.
29:42
Speaker 4: Andy started your period and then I got my period.
29:45
Speaker 5: Wow, that's great the morning when the morning of my wedding,
29:50
Speaker 5: literally wake up to my period?
29:52
Speaker 3: Wow, what are the odds? It feels very own brand?
29:58
Speaker 3: It does, but does the universe know my brand? Yeah?
30:01
Speaker 3: That's why I give it to you? Crazy. I could
30:05
Speaker 3: not believe it. I was like, are you freaking joking me?
30:08
Speaker 5: But I'm glad at least I got it in the morning,
30:10
Speaker 5: so I knew I had it instead of guessing all day,
30:12
Speaker 5: and so like that felt nice. But let me tell you,
30:16
Speaker 5: having your best friends walk you into the bathroom and
30:18
Speaker 5: hoist your dress up while you're having to change of
30:19
Speaker 5: bloody tampon is a level of closeness that I.
30:23
Speaker 3: Never Yeah, I never never thought i'd know.
30:26
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, something special about that.
30:30
Speaker 3: Yeah.
30:30
Speaker 2: So yeah, you were super, super calm, and I wanted
30:34
Speaker 2: to get to the procession book the first look.
30:37
Speaker 4: But first we're going to take a break, all right.
30:58
Speaker 2: So you had talked to me that before this podcast
31:02
Speaker 2: and on this podcast that you were doing a first look. Yeah,
31:05
Speaker 2: because you wanted to save time after the wedding, so
31:08
Speaker 2: you knew that you were gonna have that moment.
31:10
Speaker 5: Yes, tell us about it, Okay. So I thought it
31:15
Speaker 5: was so cute. And then another piece of advice for
31:17
Speaker 5: bride's out there. Sophia really wanted to like watch the
31:21
Speaker 5: first look, and then like Paulina and Becker were like, well,
31:24
Speaker 5: we want to watch it too, and.
31:25
Speaker 3: I was like, great, everybody should watch it. Why not?
31:27
Speaker 5: Like everybody was like they were like shocked that I
31:30
Speaker 5: said that they could come, and I'm like, we're not
31:32
Speaker 5: going to notice anything but each other, And I'm like,
31:34
Speaker 5: how cool. But I'm so glad you guys got to
31:36
Speaker 5: see it because there's like videos. Ashley got video of
31:40
Speaker 5: like us doing the first look and then she'd like
31:42
Speaker 5: pan over and like my best friends are like wiping
31:44
Speaker 5: their tears and they're like part of the moment. So
31:47
Speaker 5: it was like really special that you guys got to
31:48
Speaker 5: like be there and see that.
31:50
Speaker 2: I've never gotten to do that before. I was like,
31:53
Speaker 2: that was the coolest thing ever getting to be there.
31:56
Speaker 3: We were like the photographers were.
31:57
Speaker 2: Like, you're in the way you're in, the ways that
31:59
Speaker 2: we're just like uttering around, like tell us where to go?
32:02
Speaker 5: He cried, of course, Yeah, it was so beautiful.
32:06
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know if you really, like if.
32:09
Speaker 2: You remembered what happened, but he Tonia taps him on the
32:13
Speaker 2: shoulder and he turned around and he just like stares
32:15
Speaker 2: at her, and it was like the sweetest moment.
32:17
Speaker 3: He just like took you in.
32:19
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like he just like looked at you and took
32:22
Speaker 2: you your beauty in. And then I think, I don't
32:24
Speaker 2: know what he said. I couldn't hear.
32:25
Speaker 4: I wasn't that close, but they weren't miked up.
32:29
Speaker 2: But it was like the most beautiful moment of watching
32:33
Speaker 2: y'all see each other, like the way that you were
32:36
Speaker 2: going to become like husband and wife, you know. Yeah,
32:39
Speaker 2: So it was so special. Thanks for letting us be apart.
32:43
Speaker 5: No, it was like, so I love that you guys
32:45
Speaker 5: got to see it. So we did the first look
32:48
Speaker 5: and then we went and just took like a ton
32:50
Speaker 5: of photos of like family, bridal party all that, and
32:54
Speaker 5: then before I knew it, it was cocktail hour and
32:58
Speaker 5: I was like, oh my gosh, like we're doing this,
33:00
Speaker 5: like we're freaking doing this, and uh, Robbie came back
33:05
Speaker 5: to my room. So it was me, Robbie and then
33:08
Speaker 5: all the bridesmaids. Right, so all the bridesmaids, me and
33:11
Speaker 5: Robbie in the room. I was like, I need some champagne.
33:14
Speaker 5: And then I started get nervous like at that point
33:17
Speaker 5: because I was like, it's like happening. And then they
33:21
Speaker 5: golf carted us over and then I started to get
33:22
Speaker 5: like really nervous because we were like there by the way.
33:26
Speaker 5: I heard that the food at the Cocktail Hour was
33:27
Speaker 5: really good.
33:28
Speaker 6: Yeah, so again no complaints.
33:30
Speaker 5: Again, I heard it was the best food, that their
33:34
Speaker 5: favorite was.
33:35
Speaker 3: The food from Cocktail Hour was good.
33:37
Speaker 6: What was it was? Was it lovedter taco.
33:40
Speaker 3: Tacos, some sort of chicken something, chicken burgers?
33:45
Speaker 6: Yeah?
33:46
Speaker 7: I saw Kennedy with a burger and I was like,
33:48
Speaker 7: did she bring that in from somewhere else? You got
33:50
Speaker 7: to hear all right, Yeah, I know.
33:53
Speaker 3: I'm so sorry, even not partake, I've been happy to
33:56
Speaker 3: miss out. Really.
33:59
Speaker 2: Yes, we got to the place of walking down the aisle.
34:05
Speaker 3: Yeah, and what were you.
34:06
Speaker 2: Feeling because it was like you saw your dad and
34:09
Speaker 2: what we had just seen them for photos but it
34:10
Speaker 2: was like the moment was approaching.
34:12
Speaker 5: That's like the first time I got nervous all day
34:14
Speaker 5: was like that at that point. So I'm like, how's
34:18
Speaker 5: this going to go down? Like you know what I mean,
34:19
Speaker 5: Like you rehearse it, but like I don't know, you
34:22
Speaker 5: know what I mean? Like that was crazy. And then
34:25
Speaker 5: I was like hearing the strings and that was started
34:27
Speaker 5: to like make me really emotional.
34:28
Speaker 3: So I was already starting.
34:29
Speaker 5: To cry, and I put the veil over my head.
34:34
Speaker 5: It was really hard for me to see. Like I
34:35
Speaker 5: had to like really focus on the stairs because like
34:37
Speaker 5: I had like a staircase that went down, and I
34:40
Speaker 5: really had to focus on the stairs. And my dad
34:46
Speaker 5: is the one that ends up tripping and like almost
34:49
Speaker 5: really going down hard.
34:51
Speaker 6: Yeah, that was a little bit scary.
34:53
Speaker 4: I couldn't see him, So what happened.
34:55
Speaker 6: Just to stumble on the left step but he caught himself.
34:59
Speaker 6: But he caught it himself kind of he was a
35:01
Speaker 6: parallel to the ground when he caught himself.
35:03
Speaker 3: Yeah, like it could have been really bad.
35:05
Speaker 6: He went down pretty him up.
35:08
Speaker 3: No oh, And I didn't go down with him at all,
35:10
Speaker 3: I know, but you could have.
35:11
Speaker 6: Like that's that's what I'm saying, like there's a point
35:13
Speaker 6: where he caught himself that if he hadn't caught himself,
35:15
Speaker 6: they're both going, yeah.
35:17
Speaker 3: It was bad. I didn't know that. I just I
35:19
Speaker 3: thought you were going to catch yourself up. Yeah, it
35:21
Speaker 3: could have been really bad.
35:22
Speaker 6: And my first thing was that it was that a joke,
35:24
Speaker 6: like was he doing a bit Like he was like, oops,
35:26
Speaker 6: I almost fell but no.
35:28
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, no no bit.
35:32
Speaker 5: So he walks me up, and then I kind of
35:34
Speaker 5: blacked out, if I'm being honest, but I was.
35:37
Speaker 3: Going to ask what it was like walking towards Robbie.
35:40
Speaker 4: But do you not remember?
35:41
Speaker 5: I remember, I remember him coming. He took the veil
35:44
Speaker 5: over my head, tried to kiss me. Yeah yeah, but
35:48
Speaker 5: yeah at that point I like kind of blacked out,
35:51
Speaker 5: like I remember it, but like not.
35:53
Speaker 3: Well I saw you.
35:56
Speaker 2: So then uh, once Ryan told everyone to be seated,
35:59
Speaker 2: the bridal party went and sat down, so we got
36:01
Speaker 2: to like watch, which I loved. Another thing for future brides,
36:06
Speaker 2: have your bridal party stand there so they get to
36:08
Speaker 2: see the bridewalk down the aisle and then let them
36:11
Speaker 2: go and.
36:11
Speaker 6: Then have a seat.
36:13
Speaker 3: It was so nice.
36:13
Speaker 6: Yeah, otherwise you're up there, somebody passes out because they
36:17
Speaker 6: got to yeah relaxed. Yeah, but one thing we skipped
36:21
Speaker 6: over is every person who came down had a different
36:23
Speaker 6: song to come down to that the String Quartet played.
36:25
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, and you chose all of those?
36:27
Speaker 3: Yeah, well Roby and I together, okay, yeah that was.
36:29
Speaker 5: Actually and tandem. But yeah, we had Ryan go down
36:33
Speaker 5: to Cold Play Yellow, and then we had our bridal
36:37
Speaker 5: party come down to the Bones Maren Morris and then
36:41
Speaker 5: Beyond Leon Bridges with which are two songs that like
36:44
Speaker 5: have a lot of significance to our relationship. And then
36:47
Speaker 5: we had the boys and Sonny walk down to Here
36:51
Speaker 5: Comes the Sun was favorite.
36:53
Speaker 2: That was when I That was when I started the tears.
36:58
Speaker 5: Yeah, that one was that was special. And then I
37:02
Speaker 5: came down to Invisibles. Oh Robi sorry, Robbie went down
37:05
Speaker 5: to at A at A James at Last, Oh yes, yeah.
37:08
Speaker 5: And then I came down to Invisible String Taylor Swift. Yeah,
37:12
Speaker 5: but the again I blacked out. But the violin violin
37:14
Speaker 5: the strings were good, right, oh yeah, they were really good. Yeah.
37:19
Speaker 3: I got reports that they were really good.
37:20
Speaker 1: Well.
37:20
Speaker 6: They also played like a track, like a drum track
37:22
Speaker 6: under some of their songs like to make it just
37:25
Speaker 6: sound fuller.
37:26
Speaker 3: Yeah good.
37:27
Speaker 5: Yeah. So then Ryan did his thing and he.
37:32
Speaker 6: Crushed it, crushed it, like, couldn't have asked for a
37:35
Speaker 6: better performance for more. It was really phenomenal.
37:39
Speaker 3: Perfect top to bottom.
37:41
Speaker 5: Yep, Like his intro, we basically gave him like a
37:44
Speaker 5: little bit of like a script or like a flow
37:48
Speaker 5: of the events, like kind of like intro vows, just
37:52
Speaker 5: like the skeleton of the ceremony. And then we just
37:54
Speaker 5: told him like you have total freedom to like do
37:56
Speaker 5: what you want with it. And he crushed it, like
38:01
Speaker 5: top to bottom, crushed it.
38:03
Speaker 3: Knew when to like when we set our vowels to
38:05
Speaker 3: each other, he like moved out of the way, like
38:07
Speaker 3: stepped aside. Let us say our vows to each other.
38:10
Speaker 6: Like and people will say, like, oh, of course, Like
38:12
Speaker 6: he is a TV host, he knows what he's doing
38:15
Speaker 6: and all this stuff, but he's never done something like
38:16
Speaker 6: this before.
38:17
Speaker 3: No, he's never done this.
38:18
Speaker 6: Totally different.
38:19
Speaker 5: It's so different, especially you're a host, like you're supposed
38:22
Speaker 5: to be in every shot, in every frame, and like
38:23
Speaker 5: this is so different because it's like it's.
38:26
Speaker 6: He's kind of the host, but he's not the star.
38:28
Speaker 3: You too are Yeah, yeah, yeah.
38:30
Speaker 6: But he was so funny and so charming and so
38:33
Speaker 6: and sweet and kind and telling your story. I just
38:36
Speaker 6: I just thought it was a masterful performance.
38:38
Speaker 5: Yeah, it was like really sentimental and like sensitive but
38:41
Speaker 5: also very funny and engaging. Like it was perfect, and
38:44
Speaker 5: like we didn't want a super serious ceremony. We wanted
38:48
Speaker 5: it to be like lighthearted and like fun and people
38:50
Speaker 5: to like laugh, and.
38:51
Speaker 3: He just like crushed it. He crushed it.
38:55
Speaker 4: Emuel's vows. Yes, so you went first.
38:59
Speaker 2: Had to go first, which we all could have imagined
39:04
Speaker 2: that that would have been emotional, but it was so
39:07
Speaker 2: perfect because it was so you, and it was like so.
39:14
Speaker 3: Sweet and.
39:17
Speaker 2: Beautiful, and also you were like laugh crying through most
39:20
Speaker 2: of it, and it was just so perfectly Tanya.
39:22
Speaker 6: Yes, because I couldn't talk because you were crying so hard,
39:26
Speaker 6: but the people would laugh.
39:27
Speaker 3: Yeah, there was.
39:32
Speaker 5: One point where I was just like, I have to
39:33
Speaker 5: say this fast because I had to just get through
39:35
Speaker 5: it because I, like, I was crying so hard.
39:38
Speaker 2: But the real, the real tear jerker is when you
39:41
Speaker 2: turned to the boys and address them, which I think
39:44
Speaker 2: would be where everyone cohesively lost it and didn't get
39:49
Speaker 2: it back after that point because you addressed.
39:52
Speaker 3: The boys and to the boys. Yeah.
39:56
Speaker 2: Yeah, and she had she had asked me to proofread
39:59
Speaker 2: the her vows on the plane, just to give any
40:04
Speaker 2: any notes.
40:05
Speaker 3: Yeah, And when I got to that point, I was like.
40:08
Speaker 2: Oh, this is where we're all gonna collectively go down.
40:13
Speaker 3: And it was perfect.
40:14
Speaker 2: And I think that is what healed so many people
40:17
Speaker 2: who have had, you know, negative experiences or divorce parents
40:22
Speaker 2: or step parents. I think it was like this moment
40:25
Speaker 2: that you've shown that to them, since you've been in
40:28
Speaker 2: a relationship with Robbie and since you've been in their lives,
40:30
Speaker 2: like you've shown that commitment to them. But there was
40:32
Speaker 2: this like significance of everyone being there and you looking
40:37
Speaker 2: directly at them after making your vows to their dad.
40:41
Speaker 2: That like made it so beautiful and like.
40:46
Speaker 3: It was perfect.
40:48
Speaker 6: Yeah.
40:48
Speaker 5: I feel like one of my friends said, she was like,
40:51
Speaker 5: I grew up in a divorce household and they're like
40:54
Speaker 5: the the parents kind of had like a lot of
40:58
Speaker 5: different people in and out of their lives, and she
41:00
Speaker 5: she was like, I always felt like the step kid,
41:02
Speaker 5: Like I always felt not committed to and not nurtured
41:06
Speaker 5: and not cared for. And like that was like really sad,
41:10
Speaker 5: you know, because like she still thinks of it today.
41:12
Speaker 3: Yeah.
41:14
Speaker 5: So I knew I wanted to include them and I
41:16
Speaker 5: wanted to have vowels for them, but I didn't know
41:18
Speaker 5: like if I should make them like a little funny
41:20
Speaker 5: or like you know what I mean.
41:21
Speaker 3: Like perfect though.
41:23
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was sin and it it was a moment
41:27
Speaker 2: for y'all, but it didn't It wasn't like uncomfortable for them,
41:30
Speaker 2: you know, it was.
41:31
Speaker 4: Just like perfect.
41:31
Speaker 3: Yeah right. He was like they're like.
41:35
Speaker 4: But they were just smiling at you.
41:37
Speaker 5: Yeah, because I was like, okay, we're I got you right, yeah,
41:40
Speaker 5: and they're like dah, like okay.
41:43
Speaker 2: So then Robbie gave his vowels and that's where I
41:47
Speaker 2: think Easton's contact came out.
41:49
Speaker 3: From crying too hard.
41:52
Speaker 7: Yeah, I started sobbing and then and my eyes were
41:55
Speaker 7: all blurry and then my right eye was much blurrier
41:58
Speaker 7: than the other one, and I'm like, oh god, it
42:00
Speaker 7: came out and I thought it had popped onto my sunglasses.
42:03
Speaker 7: I took it off and it was nowhere to be found,
42:05
Speaker 7: and I was quietly panicking, and uh then I nudged
42:08
Speaker 7: Alison and she found it.
42:09
Speaker 2: On.
42:09
Speaker 7: She found it in the dirt on the ground, and
42:11
Speaker 7: we just see very very uh surreptitiously rinse it off
42:15
Speaker 7: with some bottled water and popped it back. But I
42:17
Speaker 7: was like, oh man, this is this is a this
42:19
Speaker 7: is a big, tiny moment. I cried my contacts out
42:21
Speaker 7: watching this happen.
42:24
Speaker 6: Something about guys crying is it's impossible to not cry
42:28
Speaker 6: when you see a guy break down.
42:30
Speaker 3: Yeah, he broke down. Yeah he broke down. I guess
42:33
Speaker 3: that's what it was too.
42:34
Speaker 2: Like we knew Tanya was going to break down because
42:36
Speaker 2: she told, like, we've known that that was going to happen,
42:38
Speaker 2: and but even still, it was so like there was
42:41
Speaker 2: something about it that was just so sweet. Even though
42:45
Speaker 2: we knew you were, like I expected you to cry,
42:47
Speaker 2: it was still like perfect.
42:48
Speaker 4: But then Robbie crying through the whole his whole vowels.
42:52
Speaker 2: Yeah, I had no tissues. My hands were like all
42:56
Speaker 2: like soaked. My whole face and hands were drenched because
42:59
Speaker 2: I just kept try to like wipe them and didn't
43:01
Speaker 2: have anything to do with it.
43:02
Speaker 5: Was I was shoving tissues down my dress, putting her
43:07
Speaker 5: tissue into her cleavage because I was just like I
43:11
Speaker 5: don't know what to do, Like it was just constant.
43:15
Speaker 5: So then we went to break the glass and we
43:17
Speaker 5: had like the wrong type of glass out there. So
43:19
Speaker 5: there was like a five minute like it was about
43:22
Speaker 5: like five minutes, I know what it was.
43:24
Speaker 3: And then Ryan pronounced his husband, and what would.
43:27
Speaker 6: You like to hear that? Oh? Yes, First of all,
43:28
Speaker 6: here's a little taste of the strings that Tanya walked
43:30
Speaker 6: down to.
43:46
Speaker 5: And they learned that too, like they learned those those
43:49
Speaker 5: three songs, they learned beyond h the Bones and Invisible String.
43:56
Speaker 6: And here is the moment, Tanya and Rocky, by the
44:01
Speaker 6: love that has brought us here today, by the vowels
44:06
Speaker 6: you have exchanged, and by the strength of your commitment,
44:12
Speaker 6: I now pronounce you husband and.
44:20
Speaker 3: Crazy. It's so crazy, it's so crazy, So you'll do
44:25
Speaker 3: like out of body. Yeah, I was gonna say.
44:27
Speaker 5: I felt like I was like floating on top of myself,
44:30
Speaker 5: like looking down being like.
44:31
Speaker 3: Oh wow, this is really cool. Like it was really crazy.
44:35
Speaker 2: So y'all did a kiss at the altar when he
44:37
Speaker 2: announced you really great kiss you.
44:39
Speaker 6: Well that was funny too. They kept trying to kiss
44:41
Speaker 6: and Ryan kept stopping that.
44:44
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, every time you would come together and be
44:47
Speaker 2: like like after.
44:48
Speaker 3: The vows, yeah, it feels weird to kiss.
44:52
Speaker 2: And then y'all did a mid aisle kisses which was stunning.
44:55
Speaker 3: A dip a dip, a dip with a kiss, yeah,
44:58
Speaker 3: and then y'all headed to pictures.
45:03
Speaker 2: Yes.
45:03
Speaker 3: Yeah.
45:04
Speaker 5: So then basically everybody was so funny because we walked
45:07
Speaker 5: out the way that everybody was like going to walk
45:08
Speaker 5: out to the reception, and like everybody was like tea,
45:12
Speaker 5: Robbie like, go, you're gonna have to like see everybody.
45:14
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, I want to see everybody.
45:15
Speaker 5: Like I was like I just didn't want to leave
45:17
Speaker 5: at that point, so I was like, I'll take five
45:19
Speaker 5: photos and then that's it. Like I was like, I
45:21
Speaker 5: just want to like get to the dance floor. So
45:25
Speaker 5: we took the photos on the beach and then we
45:27
Speaker 5: went straight into the reception.
45:30
Speaker 6: And I think we should maybe save the reception for
45:34
Speaker 6: a part too, because we're on pace for a two
45:36
Speaker 6: hour podcast. Oh my, you should break it up. Sorry
45:40
Speaker 6: to be that Guy?
45:41
Speaker 3: Part two Wow, coming soon, So let's tea.
45:45
Speaker 6: What else can we look forward to in part two?
45:48
Speaker 3: First dance? Yeah, what else?
45:54
Speaker 4: No, the reception in and of it changing into a
45:56
Speaker 4: second dress.
45:57
Speaker 3: Yes, the logistics, food.
46:01
Speaker 4: The drinks, the dancing, the band.
46:04
Speaker 3: Is it over now?
46:05
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh. Yeah, that was one of the highlights
46:08
Speaker 5: of my wedding.
46:09
Speaker 3: Like we're going to talk about it, yeah, in part
46:11
Speaker 3: two of this