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EP 480: How To Spot A Dusty (feat. Maiya the Don) · Decisions, Decisions

• 0:01
  Speaker 1: You didn't want to lose weight. Did men treat you
• 0:03
  Speaker 1: different when you started dropping pound? Can we man?
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  Speaker 2: Everybody's reach too different and everybody hates faby boom, Mandy
• 0:10
  Speaker 2: you notice.
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  Speaker 1: I know, I know Mandy.
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  Speaker 3: Everybody like there's no shortage of men that want me.
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  Speaker 1: This is me very clear.
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  Speaker 3: I just don't want you. I don't like you. It's
• 0:23
  Speaker 3: something I'm vera be piggy.
• 0:25
  Speaker 2: I'll cut and go off with having a hole in
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  Speaker 2: the sock dead ass like I'm like, like everyday you.
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  Speaker 1: Get I get the egg quick.
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  Speaker 4: If you are bad bitch and your car is dirty, bitch,
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  Speaker 4: you are dusty.
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  Speaker 5: I always feel like you don't always feel like I'm
• 0:39
  Speaker 5: having the cars. I feel like I always got a
• 0:40
  Speaker 5: ups box. I gotta go back.
• 0:42
  Speaker 1: Why is taco bell all o yaal?
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  Speaker 2: I don't Know's like if you if it's hot, it's
• 0:46
  Speaker 2: a hot day and you open up your car doing you're.
• 0:49
  Speaker 1: Just dusty the decisions decisions, Hey gud.
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  Speaker 4: Welcome not only yet you, not only yet, but to
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  Speaker 4: another episode of Decison Yons dey yones.
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  Speaker 1: I'm your girl.
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  Speaker 4: Mandy b aka Peg the Saigon aka Peggy Bundy aka
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  Speaker 4: Pegan Marco aka that's bitch. Hi, everybody, I'm Weezy AKA
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  Speaker 4: still not scared of listening period. And today we are
• 1:21
  Speaker 4: joined by somebody that is gonna make this episode so
• 1:24
  Speaker 4: much fun. I'm so excited. This is long overdue, y'all.
• 1:30
  Speaker 4: We have roper Maya the Dog.
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  Speaker 5: Can I tell you about how this is the most
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  Speaker 5: problematic bitch in the world.
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  Speaker 4: Oh shit, that's how we're starting. So this was not
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  Speaker 4: on my online I don't know you were problematic, but.
• 1:46
  Speaker 1: The op I host soon event with Kennedy Ryan in
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  Speaker 1: a church and bro. The closest person to us was Maya,
• 1:58
  Speaker 1: who loves to read.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, he was very excited to see Maya two, and
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  Speaker 5: so is everybody throughout Kennedy talking in the church, Maya
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  Speaker 5: would be like, that's right, bitch. And then at one
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  Speaker 5: point he started talking about somebody asked her a question
• 2:17
  Speaker 5: about what to do. She's like, you know, you have
• 2:18
  Speaker 5: to protect your heart because I write the woman first,
• 2:21
  Speaker 5: and then the men that deserve him because.
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  Speaker 1: They be fucking playing. I'm like, no, bitch. The point
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  Speaker 1: is we were in a church, okay, but but I'm
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  Speaker 1: not gonna lie. We can't say bitch in church. We
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  Speaker 1: can't say, nigga in church? Wasn't Mary Magdalen a hole?
• 2:40
  Speaker 1: That is? Wasn't Mary Magdalen? Wasn't it the oldest question?
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  Speaker 2: Who?
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  Speaker 3: Who told you to have that discussion in the church?
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  Speaker 1: You read the book?
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  Speaker 6: You've read the mook Bally pissed me off. First of all,
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  Speaker 6: she asked me this.
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  Speaker 1: I was so excited, right, and I'm like, oh, my god,
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  Speaker 1: es because I get to read early. They rolled out
• 3:03
  Speaker 1: that location.
• 3:06
  Speaker 5: And I removed Kennedy from the email and it was
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  Speaker 5: just her team and I said, just want to confirm
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  Speaker 5: the correct address for me.
• 3:13
  Speaker 4: I'm pulling up a church. It definitely said a m
• 3:16
  Speaker 4: me church. I said, just want to make sure. Is
• 3:19
  Speaker 4: it an events space?
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  Speaker 1: Are you ready? Do you not remember our first show
• 3:24
  Speaker 1: in Boston? Yep, babe. Now we go to this venue
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  Speaker 1: and we.
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  Speaker 4: Go downstairs where the dressing room is supposed to be,
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  Speaker 4: and there are crosses, there are pews, there are Bibles,
• 3:34
  Speaker 4: and we could not believe that we got booked in
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  Speaker 4: a motherfucking church for horrible decisions. Wow, they clearly needed
• 3:42
  Speaker 4: the money. Maybe the congregation wasn't tithing.
• 3:45
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
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  Speaker 4: Did you perform at a church, like have you ever
• 3:49
  Speaker 4: been to a venue and you're like, I don't know
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  Speaker 4: if they know.
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  Speaker 1: Who Seattle we did a venue.
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  Speaker 2: Remember was saying, yes, I feel like it's different for me.
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  Speaker 2: But like performing in a church, I might like, come bust.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, I might explode. I don't know if I
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  Speaker 2: could perform the type of things.
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  Speaker 1: You remember how hot that day was?
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  Speaker 4: Yes, I'm burning you find you my mind the way
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  Speaker 4: you just said, I might come up bust. I'm thinking
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  Speaker 4: that I'm like the but that's a one that's one word,
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  Speaker 4: and that means explode.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, because I'm like girl, you nasty girl.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, Maya, I have a few questions for you, because
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  Speaker 5: I mean, you're definitely New York legend.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, for the girls.
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  Speaker 4: Across the pond and the woes in the Midwest somewhere
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  Speaker 4: in Kentucky that are like May, who the hell's May?
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  Speaker 1: I can't you tell those people who you are, where
• 4:45
  Speaker 1: you're from.
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  Speaker 4: What kind of music you made, but also where you
• 4:49
  Speaker 4: guys started before music, because girlies might know you from before.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, the girlies might know me from tea on a
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  Speaker 3: black Hello.
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  Speaker 1: Hello, I didn't know that.
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, okay, so tell you I started off as
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  Speaker 2: a meetup this. I was a makeup autist and then
• 5:03
  Speaker 2: COVID happened, so I couldn't do people make up.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, I'll just.
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  Speaker 2: Do it on myself, on myself, go virable a bunch
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  Speaker 2: of times, talking shit never never mind, Yes I did, yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 3: And then I was like, I hate this.
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  Speaker 1: It's trying to do what I really want to do.
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  Speaker 2: And I started to make music like silently while like
• 5:25
  Speaker 2: still doing my little makeup stuff, and I was just
• 5:27
  Speaker 2: making music, making music behind the scenes. And then I
• 5:29
  Speaker 2: was like, all right, I'm an drop a song finally.
• 5:32
  Speaker 2: And that's kind of how it happened, Like long story short,
• 5:35
  Speaker 2: like I was doing makeup and then I said, okay,
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  Speaker 2: this is not sustainable for me.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to do this pandemic.
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  Speaker 4: How the fuck did you make a career out of
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  Speaker 4: making music because you couldn't perform?
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  Speaker 1: No.
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  Speaker 2: By then, this is like when people start going back outside,
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  Speaker 2: and like by the time I start like, you know,
• 5:51
  Speaker 2: we're still like wearing masks, but like people could fly.
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  Speaker 1: You know, you were doing a show with masks, which
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  Speaker 1: is a mass song.
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  Speaker 2: No no, no, na, I'm like but then by now
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  Speaker 2: I was like twenty twenty three, like it's over where
• 6:01
  Speaker 2: people act like it does it exists?
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  Speaker 1: You know? Okay, can I ask you a question I
• 6:04
  Speaker 1: always wanted to know?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, so Weezy was just talking to another creator and
• 6:10
  Speaker 4: was like, uh, the creator said, I get paid from
• 6:14
  Speaker 4: these brands because I say and I wear them, I
• 6:18
  Speaker 4: talk about them online. Do you get an unlimited lifetime
• 6:22
  Speaker 4: supply from sow Far? I need to know because that that,
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  Speaker 4: to me is the song that I think.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, Viral's question. You know what I mean, like,
• 6:32
  Speaker 1: do you get sow Far for life? Bitch? Because if
• 6:35
  Speaker 1: you do, I'm got the of.
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  Speaker 2: A couple a couple of shits, you know, like after
• 6:41
  Speaker 2: that I had because so Far was so early. Yes,
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  Speaker 2: Like I dropped the song and probably like five days
• 6:46
  Speaker 2: later he's dming me like what's going on? So like
• 6:50
  Speaker 2: we we have like a real friendship.
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  Speaker 1: I really really, I've never met him that Everybody says
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  Speaker 1: he's such.
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  Speaker 3: A incredible You're only going like, like, I answer, incredible.
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  Speaker 4: It's someone that not only black, but because of how
• 7:04
  Speaker 4: people talk about him, I want to support.
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  Speaker 2: No, he's like seriously incredible. Like you know, when he
• 7:10
  Speaker 2: opened up his store, the Flagship store, he went to
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  Speaker 2: Canal and was giving them the bag, giving them the bags,
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  Speaker 2: like he's a nutcase, and I just love it, Like
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  Speaker 2: he is incredible and he's always supported me and I
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  Speaker 2: really really appreciate him, so like he could give me
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  Speaker 2: free bags for life and I will still show up
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  Speaker 2: and purchase and I do still purchase from him just
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  Speaker 2: because it matters, and you know what I'm saying, Like,
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  Speaker 2: of course they'll send me something, you know, here and there,
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  Speaker 2: but I support my friend.
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  Speaker 5: Really, that was the first time I ever recognized in
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  Speaker 5: my life that I was carrying a black owned bag.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it was yeah, but you're making that
• 7:50
  Speaker 4: song when the girlies rap about Chanel the niggas rap about.
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  Speaker 2: But that was intentional, you know what I'm saying, because
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  Speaker 2: at the time, it's like, now I want this bag,
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  Speaker 2: like what it was everybody wearing it like and I
• 8:01
  Speaker 2: was trying to get it was so hard to get
• 8:03
  Speaker 2: and it just made me like, yeah, what you know.
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  Speaker 2: I remember telling niggas like, you wanna buy me a
• 8:07
  Speaker 2: tell for like it was real nice.
• 8:09
  Speaker 1: So you didn't have a telephone anymore.
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  Speaker 2: When I made the song, I had four. I had
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  Speaker 2: already purchased four. Yeah, yeah, you know what I'm saying,
• 8:15
  Speaker 2: but where in New York Brooklyn?
• 8:18
  Speaker 1: Okay, but like what type of Latin are you? Puerto Rican?
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  Speaker 1: It's not your.
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  Speaker 6: Yes, go up by okay, sad fig whole life like
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  Speaker 6: no no speaking, Yeah, but I forgot what I was saying.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, but no, it was real life. I really
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  Speaker 1: wanted to bag.
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  Speaker 2: I was telling niggers like me a bag, and it
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  Speaker 2: was That's why I wrote about it, and like I
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  Speaker 2: ended up writing the song because it was just my
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  Speaker 2: real life.
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  Speaker 1: That's why I was.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like in my tell fee like but I am
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  Speaker 2: four deep. I'm in my fucking telfee like that was.
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  Speaker 4: Stored about it? Is that the most expensive thing you've
• 9:02
  Speaker 4: asked niggas to buy you? Sorry, let's just get into
• 9:04
  Speaker 4: the teenaw so you know, like what's the most expensive
• 9:08
  Speaker 4: thing you've asked like because the top far bag is
• 9:10
  Speaker 4: like two pithy because.
• 9:11
  Speaker 1: If you want the big one, like.
• 9:12
  Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, but affordable essentially. Yeah, what's like the most
• 9:18
  Speaker 4: you've asked for?
• 9:18
  Speaker 2: Though, I don't ask niggas for nothing. If I have
• 9:21
  Speaker 2: to ask you, not my site. Oh I think that's it, Okay, Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I'm not like a big ask I'm not like I
• 9:29
  Speaker 2: don't like niggas, like who could give me something?
• 9:31
  Speaker 3: I am the nigga with something. You know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: Period. So I'm talking about that for a moment.
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  Speaker 4: Because we've had so many I'm just thinking, for example,
• 9:41
  Speaker 4: Passport Cudding.
• 9:41
  Speaker 5: I don't know if you know who that is. She's
• 9:43
  Speaker 5: one of our friends. And at the time that she
• 9:45
  Speaker 5: came on, she was telling me.
• 9:48
  Speaker 1: Just like, this is how you get a little how
• 9:50
  Speaker 1: do you start slow?
• 9:51
  Speaker 5: And one of the things I remember saying when she
• 9:53
  Speaker 5: was talking about nails, I was like, I feel like
• 9:55
  Speaker 5: if I asked for it, I sound bummy, and she's like,
• 9:58
  Speaker 5: but you have to And I can be wrong. It's
• 10:00
  Speaker 5: maybe seven years ago, but something about her saying, yeah,
• 10:04
  Speaker 5: but you need to see how far the generosity will go.
• 10:06
  Speaker 1: Is it simple? Did they throw it? Blah blah blah.
• 10:10
  Speaker 4: So when a man has been generous with you, what
• 10:14
  Speaker 4: if you don't like it? What if you want more?
• 10:16
  Speaker 4: If you're not asking, how's it? How's it coming? That generation? Generosity?
• 10:22
  Speaker 4: Eve anything that excites you?
• 10:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean maybe not excite, but it's definitely an
• 10:28
  Speaker 2: attribute that I appreciate from men, you know, But I
• 10:32
  Speaker 2: think the thing with me is I'm very particular with
• 10:35
  Speaker 2: who I deal with, which we gonna get we are
• 10:39
  Speaker 2: I'm very particular and if I have to ask for
• 10:44
  Speaker 2: your generosity or like ask you to do things for me,
• 10:47
  Speaker 2: like any type of access service, You're just not my
• 10:50
  Speaker 2: type because I'm not interested in teaching a man how
• 10:52
  Speaker 2: to be one.
• 10:53
  Speaker 1: That's your love language. Though acces service, I.
• 10:55
  Speaker 3: Wouldn't say that. I think I think maybe like quality time.
• 10:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and acts service I will say, but it's not
• 11:00
  Speaker 2: just like buying me something.
• 11:01
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, Like I can mention.
• 11:03
  Speaker 2: Like, oh fuck, like I ordered on my order, my
• 11:08
  Speaker 2: my instacrat order, they forgot my GISs and you come
• 11:11
  Speaker 2: to my house with my gs.
• 11:14
  Speaker 1: Because no, that's not even.
• 11:17
  Speaker 4: That's that's an act of service to me. What I've
• 11:21
  Speaker 4: realized too, the older weekeed is women, the more we
• 11:25
  Speaker 4: cannot afford our own bills. Acts of service and quality
• 11:29
  Speaker 4: time become the two things that it's like, I shouldn't
• 11:33
  Speaker 4: have to pull that from you as a man because
• 11:35
  Speaker 4: most men now because of patriarchy right, women are coming
• 11:38
  Speaker 4: out first date. These are my bills, this is what
• 11:40
  Speaker 4: I need? Yeah, yuck and what's crazy is men men listening.
• 11:45
  Speaker 4: I'm curious for you too, But acts of service in
• 11:48
  Speaker 4: quality time are my top two. Then physical touch because
• 11:51
  Speaker 4: I need that hello, and then and then it's gift giving, and.
• 11:55
  Speaker 1: Then it's affirmations. I know, I'm I don't need you
• 11:58
  Speaker 1: to tell me that.
• 11:59
  Speaker 4: But for me, the older I get, all of my
• 12:03
  Speaker 4: friends want acts of service and yeah all the time.
• 12:07
  Speaker 1: I don't at least top two for you. What are yours?
• 12:11
  Speaker 1: Physical touch? I mean clearly your horny all the time.
• 12:14
  Speaker 5: Like I don't know if anyone was at the show
• 12:17
  Speaker 5: back then a while ago, and my man even said
• 12:20
  Speaker 5: it on stage, there was a we had to play
• 12:22
  Speaker 5: a little threesome game and one girl took her hand
• 12:26
  Speaker 5: and went like this, and he was like, oh yeah
• 12:28
  Speaker 5: he was, and he sat on the mic like physical
• 12:30
  Speaker 5: touch is my thing. To the point where maya this
• 12:32
  Speaker 5: I've never even said to the show. This was so crazy.
• 12:34
  Speaker 5: Physical touch is my number one in his right. We
• 12:37
  Speaker 5: were fucked up at a club we went elsewhere and
• 12:39
  Speaker 5: he's like, I want to tell you something. This is
• 12:41
  Speaker 5: two years into dating. I don't I hate how you
• 12:46
  Speaker 5: don't want to touch enough. It's starting to drive me crazy.
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  Speaker 5: Like I need more, and I was like, what, I'm
• 12:51
  Speaker 5: always touching you. We didn't even know our physical touch
• 12:55
  Speaker 5: looked different. I do things like this, maybe in the
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  Speaker 5: clot hand I do that.
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  Speaker 1: I do that. He wants more. He wants to be
• 13:05
  Speaker 1: gripped on me.
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  Speaker 5: He wants me to have my ass on him, like
• 13:07
  Speaker 5: he'd like to be gripped the fuck up.
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  Speaker 4: And he's like, yeah, that ain't that ain't enough. Wait wait,
• 13:12
  Speaker 4: I don't think people talk about that. Not only that,
• 13:17
  Speaker 4: how we view love languages differently. You just said, oh
• 13:21
  Speaker 4: you thought you thought that gifts. She's like, no, I
• 13:25
  Speaker 4: ordered this thing. I let my my partner know how
• 13:28
  Speaker 4: upset it was that I didn't have this thing, and
• 13:30
  Speaker 4: so he brought it so to me.
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  Speaker 1: That's a service. What it is.
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  Speaker 2: I'm baby, I'm the I'm the birthday. I'm the baby,
• 13:38
  Speaker 2: I'm the birthday. I need to be taken care of.
• 13:42
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. I'm the oldest daughter. I'm like,
• 13:45
  Speaker 2: I'm a business myself. I'm always in charge, I'm always
• 13:48
  Speaker 2: delegating something. I want to turn my brain off and
• 13:50
  Speaker 2: go like this. When I'm with a man, I just
• 13:54
  Speaker 2: want to be live.
• 13:55
  Speaker 1: So even this I think you would look at us
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  Speaker 1: a gift. I didn't. So last night, I'm with Yomi,
• 14:00
  Speaker 1: I'm a king, I'm with my boyfriend, and we like.
• 14:03
  Speaker 4: Decide to keep the party going. So we go out.
• 14:07
  Speaker 4: But I had been standing in heels all night. So
• 14:11
  Speaker 4: We're in the back seat and I'm like, oh my god,
• 14:13
  Speaker 4: my feet hurts so bad.
• 14:15
  Speaker 1: So I literally go like this. I'm like, I need
• 14:17
  Speaker 1: a massage.
• 14:18
  Speaker 4: Way way wait, I'm not I'm not done yet. So
• 14:21
  Speaker 4: he starts to massage my feet and I'm like, oh
• 14:24
  Speaker 4: my god, okay, because I'm not gonna I'm not gonna bitch, but.
• 14:30
  Speaker 1: Hold on, there's a lot of.
• 14:37
  Speaker 4: So anyway, I'm getting my fucking feet rubbed by him.
• 14:43
  Speaker 4: And we were driving and he literally tells a king,
• 14:47
  Speaker 4: you'll pull over, pull over, pull over.
• 14:49
  Speaker 1: We're like okay.
• 14:51
  Speaker 4: So I'm thinking he sees somebody I don't know, but
• 14:54
  Speaker 4: or maybe he got a piss.
• 14:55
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 14:56
  Speaker 4: But he jumps out the car, jumps back in and
• 15:01
  Speaker 4: has fucking flip flops. He saw a CB a stop
• 15:05
  Speaker 4: the car, went inside to get flip flops.
• 15:07
  Speaker 1: Came in and just handed me the shoes. Yeah, okay,
• 15:10
  Speaker 1: see what you want that's not a gift. That's a service.
• 15:13
  Speaker 2: That's he's seen a problem you had and solved it.
• 15:17
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna talk to you about it.
• 15:18
  Speaker 4: And I think, to me, when we talk about men
• 15:20
  Speaker 4: being providers, men being protectors, but we really don't talk
• 15:27
  Speaker 4: about is like, that's what's.
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: What that is. That's what that's what a protective is.
• 15:32
  Speaker 2: I don't need That's why I was saying, like, I
• 15:34
  Speaker 2: don't need you to pay a bill, like not for nothing.
• 15:36
  Speaker 2: My my peoples with niggas with money, like I know
• 15:40
  Speaker 2: what a bunch of money looks like. I wants you
• 15:42
  Speaker 2: not impressing me win this doesn't don't have a lot
• 15:45
  Speaker 2: of money, you know.
• 15:47
  Speaker 4: Coldest went ever, Oh yeah, she said when you said
• 15:50
  Speaker 4: my people have money, that no ass.
• 15:56
  Speaker 2: Here, I'm dead ass once in santiag like, well maybe
• 15:59
  Speaker 2: not because you a dum she did some dumb ship
• 16:03
  Speaker 2: she was, but she was like, that's what I mean
• 16:05
  Speaker 2: by like, nah, it's not I don't care about your money.
• 16:09
  Speaker 3: Like to an extent, it just doesn't doesn't.
• 16:11
  Speaker 5: Speaking of not caring about money, wait wait, wait, yes,
• 16:15
  Speaker 5: go ahead. I kind of find this refreshing as a
• 16:17
  Speaker 5: rapper to say, because in that go ahead, no, no, no,
• 16:23
  Speaker 5: Like I like that getting money ship did it?
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: Not pussy rap?
• 16:26
  Speaker 5: Even just women rapping period, Like I don't think Meg
• 16:29
  Speaker 5: the Stallion and Glow really is pussy rap, do you.
• 16:31
  Speaker 4: I don't think Maya's pussy rap. Actually, Like pussy rap
• 16:34
  Speaker 4: to me is that the literally has a song called
• 16:38
  Speaker 4: Wat pussy Rap. To me, it's like that's pussy.
• 16:41
  Speaker 5: Pussy rap to me, isn't necessarily flow a rap. It's
• 16:44
  Speaker 5: not lyrical, it's just fun where all my scamming ass
• 16:47
  Speaker 5: niggas a is pussy rap, like to me, and I
• 16:50
  Speaker 5: fuck with Young Miami, but that ain't I don't know
• 16:53
  Speaker 5: pussy rapping every woman, you know what I'm saying.
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: But I know the sound what I'm listening to the pussy rap.
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: I guess in my head, I feel like I know.
• 16:59
  Speaker 5: The bop say that to say, I feel like all
• 17:03
  Speaker 5: I hear sometimes is niggas in money and it's not
• 17:06
  Speaker 5: our real reality all the time.
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: Sometimes, like even when men listening.
• 17:09
  Speaker 5: To rapit it's like murdering drugs, Like we're not killing niggas,
• 17:12
  Speaker 5: We're going to work.
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Right?
• 17:13
  Speaker 5: But I love that you said that because I think
• 17:17
  Speaker 5: there is so much out of the scope where we
• 17:21
  Speaker 5: forget we're talking to everyday people and that's.
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: Not our reality. Bro.
• 17:31
  Speaker 4: I do have a clip I want to play and
• 17:33
  Speaker 4: I want to get back to money, but Precious Cargo
• 17:36
  Speaker 4: out now, by the way, it will.
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: Be, it's all about getting the precious cargo. Yeah.
• 17:42
  Speaker 3: No, the projects called Precious Cargo.
• 17:45
  Speaker 2: Because that's the journey of like making it from high commodity.
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: And when I release that and like the aftermath, I
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: kind of like learned, Okay, you gotta take care of
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: yes self. It's not just you know, because how come
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: out of you is about being commodified. It's about being
• 18:04
  Speaker 2: all my star like look at all as I have
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: and you know what I'm saying, it's about access, and
• 18:09
  Speaker 2: you know, I think Precious Cargo is more so about
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: maintaining integrity while being come outified and taking care of
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: yourself while you know, being in the forefront and having
• 18:20
  Speaker 2: all of these things and like growth. And that's why
• 18:23
  Speaker 2: I've been saying it's not like an album or a mixtape.
• 18:25
  Speaker 2: It's like it's a story all right, like this is
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: this is.
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: Really because I do want to talk about that.
• 18:35
  Speaker 4: No, no, no, yeah, yeah, no music, but I have
• 18:37
  Speaker 4: a clip that I want to play to get into
• 18:39
  Speaker 4: some other stuff. But hearing that I want to talk
• 18:42
  Speaker 4: about because you were like me and you respond and
• 18:44
  Speaker 4: cut niggas out. You have been on a public weight
• 18:48
  Speaker 4: loss journey mm hmm, and I know for you to
• 18:51
  Speaker 4: also be on a sobriety journey as a woman, I
• 18:54
  Speaker 4: would love to know how sex and dating has changed
• 18:57
  Speaker 4: for you through losing weight and saying no to liquor,
• 19:01
  Speaker 4: which is a vice which does make sex sometimes more fun.
• 19:05
  Speaker 4: But like losing weight and taking out liquor while also
• 19:09
  Speaker 4: still like dating and finding love, how is that?
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: Ben?
• 19:13
  Speaker 2: So, I'll say with the sobriety, that was more like
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: I would say that I was like a like a
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: when you go out and you have a drink or whatever.
• 19:22
  Speaker 3: The thing is that the type of lifestyle I live
• 19:24
  Speaker 3: where I go out.
• 19:25
  Speaker 2: A lot a lot, sometimes multiple times a week, and
• 19:28
  Speaker 2: you know that one drink and that, and it's not
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: even like I was like a dictator or like you know,
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: like because I don't particularly like drinking alcohol. It's just
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: something that you do when your house. I'm just doing
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: this right, but it's just something that you do. So
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: I think once I got serious about like fitness and
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: my health journey. I just it was like, Okay, this
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: is something I gotta stop doing.
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: What made you want to lose weight?
• 19:55
  Speaker 3: So I didn't want to lose weight.
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: Really, I'll saw you. I was really severely depressed and
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: too laughing.
• 20:02
  Speaker 3: I say that because it's like it's a black way
• 20:04
  Speaker 3: to do.
• 20:05
  Speaker 4: It's almost like direct And you literally said during writing
• 20:08
  Speaker 4: our book, bro, she is like a great chapter and
• 20:12
  Speaker 4: she's like making jokes throughout, and she realized during the
• 20:15
  Speaker 4: book writing process at all the same time that she
• 20:17
  Speaker 4: like jokes about things that are not you know, laughing, I.
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: Mean not gonna lie.
• 20:22
  Speaker 4: I have a suicide chapter and and low key I really,
• 20:27
  Speaker 4: I swear to you mind this is exactly how I went.
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: I went to this concert.
• 20:30
  Speaker 5: It was a DJ named Zed back then maybe y'all
• 20:33
  Speaker 5: remember the song Yeah My Clarity That was this song.
• 20:37
  Speaker 5: I was at the concert and I said, I don't
• 20:40
  Speaker 5: know if this sucks and it is making me want
• 20:41
  Speaker 5: to kill myself more, or if I like already want to,
• 20:44
  Speaker 5: like this is really bad. Maybe the DJ was good,
• 20:46
  Speaker 5: I wouldn't go home and want to do this. But
• 20:48
  Speaker 5: there were so many things that day that really made
• 20:51
  Speaker 5: me think about it, like I had a good pizza
• 20:53
  Speaker 5: and I was like, I should stay alive for this.
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: But then something else went.
• 20:56
  Speaker 4: Wrong, and I was like, and it sounds fucked up,
• 21:03
  Speaker 4: and make sure.
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: You didn't want to lose weight, but you were purely depressed.
• 21:07
  Speaker 2: I was sad, really really sad, and I just was
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: doing nothing but watching TV all the time in bed,
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: doing nothing because I could. And I was like, Okay,
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: something has to change, because okay, you need to drop
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: some music. People got to forget about you. If you don't,
• 21:23
  Speaker 2: you need to do this. You gotta do this. And
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: it was like, oh, but I'm sad, you know. But
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: then I started to stop feeling sorry for myself and
• 21:32
  Speaker 2: like understood that I was in control of my own destiny.
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: So I was like, okay, I need to get my
• 21:37
  Speaker 2: life together. So that's when I was like, okay, I
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: work best on a schedule. I have ADHD and one
• 21:42
  Speaker 2: of the things that I need to needed to implement
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: was a schedule because my schedules.
• 21:46
  Speaker 3: Sub sporadic with the life style I live.
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: And one of the things was like, okay, IM wake
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: up and go to the gym every morning seven am. Okay, gym,
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: start your day. That's what they say in the books,
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: the self help books. You know, when I early started
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: your day, get everything out the way. You know what
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: I'm saying. That's what they say when you're entrepreneur. I'm
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: just listening to them. Unfortunately, they must correct. Takeing vitamins,
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: wake up, really, go to the gym. Your life will improve,
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: you'd be.
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: Unfortunately, that's simple.
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and but it sounds so simple, but it's a
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: lot harder than you know what it is though.
• 22:19
  Speaker 5: There's something specific to the gym, and I think it's
• 22:23
  Speaker 5: because it's if you're starting your day doing something for yourself.
• 22:27
  Speaker 5: None of us start the day doing shit for ourselves. Yeah,
• 22:30
  Speaker 5: I wake up if I've got a few minutes before
• 22:33
  Speaker 5: a zoom call. I mean, sure, my job is for myself,
• 22:35
  Speaker 5: but you know what I mean, we're taking the orders
• 22:37
  Speaker 5: and you're barking, barked by someone else to do something
• 22:40
  Speaker 5: for someone else or make money for another company. For
• 22:42
  Speaker 5: some reason, the gym not only does it give you
• 22:44
  Speaker 5: indoor fins, you start to look better after a while,
• 22:47
  Speaker 5: but oh some real shit. You're like, ohkyayah, I did
• 22:49
  Speaker 5: that for me, and it's just selfish thing. Now where
• 22:52
  Speaker 5: I actually put in my contract at a job that
• 22:55
  Speaker 5: up until twelve pm e s T. I'm not taking
• 22:58
  Speaker 5: calls like I'm gonna be working out within this timeframe.
• 23:02
  Speaker 5: You can never put it on my calendar unless you ask,
• 23:04
  Speaker 5: like I have to do this for me. Yeah I don't.
• 23:07
  Speaker 5: I'm gonna get in that rat race.
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: Like exactly. And then it's just like, you know, so
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: so you lost weight without meaning to.
• 23:13
  Speaker 3: Really, it was just like the kind they sorted.
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: It was like it's just like a side effect, you
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: know what, sure, you know what the story? Fuck?
• 23:22
  Speaker 3: No, I wish you got that on the back.
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: That's the story. And that killed me for saying that.
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: But no, like it was it was literally like when
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: you stop drinking, yeah, start stop bloating. That's ten pounds,
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: you know. Then you do the ten k walks, that's
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: quick and when you're when you're heavy, like it comes
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: off fast in the beginning, you know, ten.
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: Thousand steps in New York blocks.
• 23:45
  Speaker 4: Mmm, maybe really like the time if you walk forty
• 23:48
  Speaker 4: five minutes, like even because ten k a day is
• 23:53
  Speaker 4: what I should be aiming for.
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah, sh I'll be looking at sometimes like thirty I'm like.
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: Oh, bit, but what I'm telling you if you if
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: you just make the little changes. In some cases, it's nothing.
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: You know, It's not you walking a tremble for an hour,
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: you know, if you have like that pretty active in
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: the winter time. Yeah, if you like you're living in
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: New York and you like want to compute, just miss
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: a train walk, you know what I'm saying.
• 24:13
  Speaker 4: I'm curious you didn't want to lose weight. Did men
• 24:16
  Speaker 4: treat you different when you started dropping pounds?
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: Can we?
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: Man?
• 24:20
  Speaker 3: Everybody treat you different? Everybody hate fat people, Mandy, you know, I.
• 24:23
  Speaker 6: Know, Mandy, everybody like, come on.
• 24:30
  Speaker 4: Stop, hold on, I'm not making a face for why
• 24:32
  Speaker 4: you think something happened.
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: Yes, you don't understand. No, you don't under see. No, no, no,
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: the way man people it doesn't know.
• 24:37
  Speaker 4: It was one fat man and he looked like airy spears,
• 24:40
  Speaker 4: but so he was also ugly. But no, I have
• 24:43
  Speaker 4: to sit here and tell her like because I was
• 24:46
  Speaker 4: talking like that, this batman had no chance of Jesus Christ,
• 24:50
  Speaker 4: fat woman, I never wanted a fat man. I can
• 24:52
  Speaker 4: have a preference, and so as a fat woman, me
• 24:55
  Speaker 4: even having a preference was like, bitch, why do you
• 24:57
  Speaker 4: think you can even have a preference? As a fat woman.
• 24:59
  Speaker 4: And now even she was like, not you talking bad
• 25:02
  Speaker 4: about she was treating like the word fat was like
• 25:04
  Speaker 4: autistic and I'm like, bro, like we could tell people fat, it's.
• 25:08
  Speaker 3: Not a bad word.
• 25:10
  Speaker 4: They do treat as a big as a fanaist, you
• 25:14
  Speaker 4: get treated crazy.
• 25:15
  Speaker 5: Not afraid of the word body shame to tell someone
• 25:18
  Speaker 5: I don't want you because you're fat.
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: I do think. I love that you said you didn't
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: want to lose weight though.
• 25:23
  Speaker 4: The difference because you've lost a lot of weight, Oh
• 25:26
  Speaker 4: my gosh, but I love that you're also danding in it.
• 25:31
  Speaker 7: Gam like, I know what you I know, you know
• 25:41
  Speaker 7: what that's like.
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: Maddy, Yeah, because you lost a lot. But she's a
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: significant around. Wait you didn't. Moy was like, because you
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: know what being a big venture you know? Like that's
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: what I said.
• 25:53
  Speaker 6: Ship from that to ask you they could be a
• 25:57
  Speaker 6: mind of some of uh you know, our listeners are
• 26:00
  Speaker 6: using GLPS.
• 26:01
  Speaker 5: A lot of the girls asked me about the little
• 26:02
  Speaker 5: Chinese thing I took it. I'm curious, how did you
• 26:06
  Speaker 5: lose your weight in the jail because people.
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: Go into that.
• 26:08
  Speaker 3: At first, I was just walking old, okay, I was
• 26:11
  Speaker 3: walking old.
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: Your ten thousand steps saying gonna get you skinny.
• 26:14
  Speaker 3: No, but I lost sixteen pounds in a mom Hello.
• 26:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah like that walking really, especially when you're not active
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: at all, you gotta think I'm doing nothing.
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: All day long. By the way, how much weight have
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: you lost?
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: I don't think I should say why, because I don't
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: think it matters.
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: Okay, here's what I'll say. If you don't know count,
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: you don't have no, no, no, no.
• 26:36
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna say this because I think me losing weight
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: is a very I want to be careful with the
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: way that I talk about it. And the second because
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: being a plus sized woman in the industry that I
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: am is important and I want people to understand that
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: I was proud to be that representation, and nobody made
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: me scared and shamed me to lose weight.
• 27:00
  Speaker 3: I want to be very clear with that.
• 27:01
  Speaker 2: I love that nobody made me feel so bad about
• 27:05
  Speaker 2: myself to where I said, this isn't worth it. And
• 27:07
  Speaker 2: I want people to understand that because I think that
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: everybody else has a strange relationship with other women's body,
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: and my body and my weight loss and the way
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: that I look is not a playground for people to
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: be a part of you know, I say what I'm saying,
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: So I don't want to talk about it and kind
• 27:24
  Speaker 2: of say like, oh, like this is what I did
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: and this is all you have to do and holda lah,
• 27:30
  Speaker 2: because that's not what I'm meant to.
• 27:31
  Speaker 3: I never came int and to come in, you know,
• 27:33
  Speaker 3: preaching all this.
• 27:34
  Speaker 2: And the third I just looked the way that I
• 27:36
  Speaker 2: looked and I was proud of it, and that's it.
• 27:38
  Speaker 3: And it's the same today.
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: So I don't want to tell people or my audience that,
• 27:44
  Speaker 2: you know, it's important that you do this or you
• 27:46
  Speaker 2: focus on this, and d.
• 27:48
  Speaker 5: It is important that you move your body. We can't.
• 27:51
  Speaker 2: We should move our body, but not and with intentions
• 27:54
  Speaker 2: to lose weight, agree move your body because you should
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: move your buses.
• 27:58
  Speaker 5: Is the truest gift of all because it's like the
• 28:01
  Speaker 5: stress of trying to lose weight rais spiking your cortidal.
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: That's really what gets you fucking crazy.
• 28:05
  Speaker 5: But just getting up, like I know, skinny bitches that
• 28:09
  Speaker 5: can't fucking walk ton exactly.
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: No, I was I was heavy doing ario yoga with
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: my long girl, and I know because we were on
• 28:18
  Speaker 2: stream and I know people were like seeing slick things
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: about me.
• 28:21
  Speaker 3: Like being strong, like no, I'm strong.
• 28:24
  Speaker 2: You look at me like, oh, I'm just you know,
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: but no, I'm strong as shit and I can I
• 28:28
  Speaker 2: can do things I can.
• 28:30
  Speaker 3: I'm not like you know.
• 28:31
  Speaker 4: Husband Sullivan has been getting like I saw a comment
• 28:35
  Speaker 4: she came out during like with Ari Lennox and Ruth's picnic,
• 28:40
  Speaker 4: and people were in the comments and were like, well,
• 28:42
  Speaker 4: I hope her voice is still fat because she's lost
• 28:45
  Speaker 4: so much weight, like ignoring what has been the response
• 28:49
  Speaker 4: from both men and women from being plus size, losing
• 28:54
  Speaker 4: the weight. Even you just sharing pictures in the gym
• 28:57
  Speaker 4: they're meat and you retweet them and talk shit back.
• 28:59
  Speaker 4: I love it, yes, but like it's like you're damned
• 29:02
  Speaker 4: if you do, damned if you don't.
• 29:03
  Speaker 2: How I feel is people are gonna have something to say,
• 29:07
  Speaker 2: regardless of what you look like. It's always gonna be
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: a thing. Like all ways, I could go I could
• 29:14
  Speaker 2: have gotten the BBL as soon as I signed okakay, hell,
• 29:17
  Speaker 2: I would have been a conversation. I could have gotten bigger,
• 29:21
  Speaker 2: and that would have been a thing. I'm smaller right
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: now and people are still gonna say, like I just
• 29:27
  Speaker 2: had fifty said say, oh, she's gonna get a BBL.
• 29:30
  Speaker 3: She gonna be on top of the world, like you
• 29:32
  Speaker 3: know what I'm saying, Like it's.
• 29:33
  Speaker 2: Always gonna be something that that's to be said. I
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: can't control that what has been.
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: Said in the bedroom.
• 29:39
  Speaker 4: So when I got the Gastrik sleeve, I had meant,
• 29:42
  Speaker 4: literally tell me, can I fuck you before you get skinny?
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: Like they like me big and it's not talked enough publicly.
• 29:50
  Speaker 4: How niggas like big bitches, so like they didn't you
• 29:54
  Speaker 4: know what I mean? So what has been the change
• 29:57
  Speaker 4: in the bedroom and with dating, with losing?
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: And I said I was gonna push you on? Uh huh,
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: I don't do right. She just said she was gonna
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: piss me off. And I don't know what it is.
• 30:07
  Speaker 3: I don't think what do you mean? I don't think
• 30:10
  Speaker 3: I get niggas though.
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: Wait? Wait, are you a sexual? Wait? Are you fucking wait?
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: Are you also celibate right now?
• 30:20
  Speaker 3: Going to the gym?
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: Are you you know when you're not depressed? Stuf?
• 30:28
  Speaker 4: Wait, maybe that shows you niggas get us depressed.
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: Oh my god.
• 30:33
  Speaker 3: Wait, okay, so no, I'm trying to decide how I
• 30:39
  Speaker 3: want to look.
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: Okay, how I want.
• 30:41
  Speaker 5: To be so for you cut out liquor, you go
• 30:44
  Speaker 5: to the gym. You said, I want to decide how
• 30:46
  Speaker 5: I make you mad. That almost made me think you've
• 30:47
  Speaker 5: never had sex.
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: Oh girl, I'm like, but wait, what was that decision
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: to how long you wasn't it?
• 30:59
  Speaker 2: It wasn't the decision. It wasn't like a thing that
• 31:01
  Speaker 2: like you know what I'm saying, I just don't. I
• 31:04
  Speaker 2: don't date. I don't do that women.
• 31:06
  Speaker 4: It's so funny because when women talk about like just
• 31:09
  Speaker 4: being celibate for so long, men literally don't believe that
• 31:13
  Speaker 4: women can just go without.
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: What's that mean? I don't date? I get niggas though,
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: So what's it mean?
• 31:18
  Speaker 3: Like I don't like, I don't I don't date because
• 31:21
  Speaker 3: I don't.
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: You just like to flirt? Is it just that you
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: I love to flirt? Okay? But you know what it is.
• 31:27
  Speaker 2: I'm I keep saying I'm so focused on myself and
• 31:30
  Speaker 2: my career and like I'm really like obsessive about it,
• 31:32
  Speaker 2: like I I'm selfish, Like I can't give you the
• 31:35
  Speaker 2: time that you need.
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: Part twenty four. I was gonna ask that, yeah.
• 31:39
  Speaker 3: Like I don't have time for you right now? Like
• 31:40
  Speaker 3: I can't like I don't have the band.
• 31:42
  Speaker 5: One of the smartest things I've heard for someone under
• 31:45
  Speaker 5: twenty seven.
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: Twenty seven be the age bitch.
• 31:48
  Speaker 5: But yees, because something about twenty under twenty seven is
• 31:53
  Speaker 5: so much.
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: I just and I wish the best for all of
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: you youngins. I don't know.
• 31:59
  Speaker 5: If I'm met people because I was dating men and
• 32:02
  Speaker 5: women that valued me and showed it to me until
• 32:06
  Speaker 5: I was over older in age, yeah, because they don't
• 32:08
  Speaker 5: necessarily almost know how to do it. And even older
• 32:11
  Speaker 5: niggas when I was twenty four.
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: Take advantage of baby, and you're like, oh, these young bitch.
• 32:15
  Speaker 5: So it's like everybody kind of takes you as a joke,
• 32:17
  Speaker 5: so you almost have to take yourself so serious because
• 32:21
  Speaker 5: I'm not saying this is all people, of course, But.
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: Now I wish i'd for the fulk with it. Four.
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: I wish.
• 32:28
  Speaker 4: I wish I fucked a lot less than twenty four.
• 32:31
  Speaker 4: I wish I went through this journey.
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: Oh, I don't wish I fucked last. Oh well, could
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: you like physical touch, bitch? No, I wish I'm not
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: liking niggas less. Oh yeah, so what you was like
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: about it that you fuck? Yeah?
• 32:41
  Speaker 5: What Maya is saying about, you know, not being focused
• 32:43
  Speaker 5: on dating, but get niggas.
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: I wasn't there. I do we know what it is?
• 32:47
  Speaker 2: Look like I don't tell me what it is. I
• 32:51
  Speaker 2: don't dy I get niggas. This means like, I don't
• 32:55
  Speaker 2: date because I don't take you serious. It's not about
• 32:57
  Speaker 2: you choosing me or what and mean that's there's no
• 33:00
  Speaker 2: shortage of men that want me me very clear, there's
• 33:04
  Speaker 2: no shortage.
• 33:06
  Speaker 3: I just don't want you. I don't like you. It's
• 33:08
  Speaker 3: something I'm gonna be piggy.
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: I'm cutting the go off for having a hole in
• 33:11
  Speaker 2: the sock that ass like I'm like, like you could I.
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: Get the egg quick?
• 33:17
  Speaker 4: So like we gotta do a runw Number one, what
• 33:20
  Speaker 4: do you painted nails?
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: Number two?
• 33:24
  Speaker 4: I don't wait, let's here getting it.
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: I don't.
• 33:28
  Speaker 3: I don't think I care that much.
• 33:29
  Speaker 2: But it's like if it's like you're groomed, like, oh
• 33:33
  Speaker 2: you got like clear nail polish.
• 33:35
  Speaker 3: All right, cool, okay?
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: Number two, he jumps over puddles.
• 33:40
  Speaker 3: White, just walk around it.
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: Number three like a man walk through the he's polyamorous.
• 33:50
  Speaker 2: Come on you, you know it's not even about that.
• 33:53
  Speaker 2: It's like shut up. Yeah, like stop talking to me, don't.
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: All right, wait a second, why you here? She goes,
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: you're not a fan of the poly lifestyle. I just don't.
• 34:05
  Speaker 2: I don't think it's always you know what, I'm not
• 34:07
  Speaker 2: going to say that because I'm not going to take people.
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: We want you to listen a precious cargo.
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's like, I think it's like a
• 34:17
  Speaker 2: real thing, like you know, but I think.
• 34:20
  Speaker 3: No, I you know, that's why you're you don't but
• 34:22
  Speaker 3: I know I do not.
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: I agree with her.
• 34:24
  Speaker 2: I think it's real, but I do think that certain
• 34:27
  Speaker 2: people need therapy and every You can believe in polygamy
• 34:33
  Speaker 2: and think that it's sustainable. I truly believe that some
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: people think that way. But I think it's just you
• 34:40
  Speaker 2: are afraid of I don't agree, and that's okay, that's okay.
• 34:46
  Speaker 4: I think some people they commit in polyamory, so you
• 34:50
  Speaker 4: can't be afraid.
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: I don't think I've.
• 34:52
  Speaker 2: Ever seen it exists successfully. I'm sure there's examples of it.
• 34:57
  Speaker 2: I'm sure people live.
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: And you've seen exist success. But we were both to
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: that point. That's fair.
• 35:04
  Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying, Like both things can be true
• 35:07
  Speaker 2: at once. You know, I've seen successful marriages. I've seen
• 35:10
  Speaker 2: unsuccessful marrimages. I've seen people who are poticing. Let me
• 35:13
  Speaker 2: tell you what I think it is about Polly Andrie
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: that fox it up.
• 35:17
  Speaker 5: I think it is extremely difficult to get more than
• 35:22
  Speaker 5: one person to be happy in whatever commitment. Number one,
• 35:26
  Speaker 5: let's just say you are in a triad. Super difficult
• 35:29
  Speaker 5: to give the same amount of love to two people
• 35:31
  Speaker 5: at one time. What can work, and what I've seen
• 35:34
  Speaker 5: existing long time working is swingers. I've seen people that
• 35:40
  Speaker 5: have sex with people together. I've seen people that do
• 35:46
  Speaker 5: the don't ask, don't tell, like vacations, separate, like let's
• 35:48
  Speaker 5: have moments.
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: I've never and I'm going to agree with my on this.
• 35:51
  Speaker 4: I got Polly those as we can.
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: You're if you're a swinger, you have a I don't
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: think well.
• 36:01
  Speaker 3: Being polygamous is about being in a relationship marriage.
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: Polygamist is different.
• 36:06
  Speaker 5: But what Y is the saying is poly So when
• 36:08
  Speaker 5: I'm saying, I'm saying polyamory is a relationship, I would
• 36:11
  Speaker 5: semi agree with you. And I'm not trying to be
• 36:13
  Speaker 5: shady with your boyfriends, by the way, I'm really not,
• 36:15
  Speaker 5: I promise.
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: I mean I disagree with both of yas, so that's fine,
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: y'r coday. Okay.
• 36:19
  Speaker 5: So what I'm seeing is that most of the people
• 36:22
  Speaker 5: that I meet, and especially because I'm not non monogamous,
• 36:24
  Speaker 5: so for the last ten years I've been practicing it
• 36:26
  Speaker 5: this way, the consistent theme I see in polyamory is
• 36:29
  Speaker 5: there are never two satisfying relationships happening at the same
• 36:35
  Speaker 5: exact time for more than ninety days. After this newfound phase,
• 36:41
  Speaker 5: either the central relationship either needs to start to shift
• 36:45
  Speaker 5: something because it's taking from the central relationship, or that
• 36:48
  Speaker 5: other relationship is like, well, I can't be this secondary
• 36:51
  Speaker 5: person forever, and it starts to feel like there's this
• 36:55
  Speaker 5: constant imbalance. So that's why I said, I've seen swing
• 36:58
  Speaker 5: your's people that know they want to fuck sexuality. I've
• 37:00
  Speaker 5: seen been successful. I just have not seen polyamory really
• 37:04
  Speaker 5: be sustainable. This is not to say that I don't
• 37:06
  Speaker 5: want to promote that on the show, because I'm an
• 37:08
  Speaker 5: homnogorous person. But I'm finding that the relationship aspect is
• 37:12
  Speaker 5: leaving people unsatisfied. And I think what's happening is men
• 37:16
  Speaker 5: are leading the conversation. Women are not opening themselves to
• 37:20
  Speaker 5: polyamory before they meet people. Men are suggesting it and
• 37:22
  Speaker 5: women accept it, and that's why we're kind of fucked.
• 37:25
  Speaker 3: That's what I think.
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: I think because women are things that they're not completely
• 37:29
  Speaker 2: into in order to satisfy somebody.
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: I agree with women, don't.
• 37:33
  Speaker 3: I also think that women can you know, want multiple men.
• 37:36
  Speaker 6: They are hello, hello, hello.
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: A job.
• 37:44
  Speaker 2: You don't want to But what I was thinking, like
• 37:46
  Speaker 2: dating for me is like, okay, I'm getting to know
• 37:49
  Speaker 2: you with the intention of possibly be in a relationship
• 37:53
  Speaker 2: with you.
• 37:53
  Speaker 3: I don't want to do that. I get niggas though,
• 37:56
  Speaker 3: so like what you all you want?
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: You have a favorite? What keeps you from How do
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: you keep your heart safe? How does maya?
• 38:08
  Speaker 2: They don't see that in the first place? That's what
• 38:10
  Speaker 2: I mean by on day I get niggas thole Oh.
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: Okay, so like but keeping it safe? Do you do sleepovers?
• 38:17
  Speaker 3: I don't. Niggas don't come to my house.
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 38:19
  Speaker 3: I got a big dog who bite. He trained the
• 38:24
  Speaker 3: bite onman.
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, got it?
• 38:27
  Speaker 4: They be scared, all right, I clip. I want to
• 38:35
  Speaker 4: play all right now? Curious too your thoughts?
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: What does piece like for you?
• 38:43
  Speaker 3: When I come to you? Be my recharging station?
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: What is that?
• 38:47
  Speaker 3: Like, I'm a tesla when I hook up to you, baby.
• 38:50
  Speaker 8: Oh baby, you had to come to me charge? Hell no, like, yeah,
• 38:55
  Speaker 8: I wish the funk very Hey this ain't no wait,
• 39:00
  Speaker 8: don't care say that again?
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: Because that ship your piece look like what you think.
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: I'm a gas station, ship of motherfucking charge super charge.
• 39:15
  Speaker 9: You feel me, and you gotta have the wherewithal to
• 39:18
  Speaker 9: understand how to handle me, because hey, what's up what
• 39:23
  Speaker 9: we're doing? That could be cool on Monday? Hey what's
• 39:27
  Speaker 9: up what we're doing on Tuesday? That it will trigger
• 39:30
  Speaker 9: me as.
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: Far as what's what are we doing?
• 39:32
  Speaker 9: As far as what That was an example, But I'm
• 39:35
  Speaker 9: just saying knowing what you say in this second part
• 39:40
  Speaker 9: is even more important than the first part.
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: How you said it.
• 39:45
  Speaker 9: Can trigger me or it could really gotta get me going.
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying?
• 39:49
  Speaker 3: Oh my god, you know what he's talking about it.
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: So in terms of how we date, I like that.
• 39:59
  Speaker 4: No, man, your piece is what I'm hearing, right, And
• 40:02
  Speaker 4: a lot of men believe that women have to be
• 40:04
  Speaker 4: their peace, but without the therapy, without the wherewithoughts to
• 40:08
  Speaker 4: even know how to.
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: Explain so what triggers you?
• 40:10
  Speaker 4: What do you mean the way I say something the
• 40:12
  Speaker 4: next day could trigger you. So I'm curious right now
• 40:17
  Speaker 4: when you're dating, how would a man show up? And
• 40:20
  Speaker 4: I'm curious with you too, because you've talked a lot
• 40:22
  Speaker 4: now about your fiance, But how do men show up
• 40:25
  Speaker 4: as our peace? I think when we always hear they
• 40:28
  Speaker 4: got to be my piece? What does that look like
• 40:30
  Speaker 4: in a relationship? What does peace look like?
• 40:34
  Speaker 3: I think I'm not looking for that from a man.
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: Okay, I think because you found your piece. Yeah.
• 40:41
  Speaker 2: I think a lot of things that people look for
• 40:44
  Speaker 2: in others is things that they have to look for
• 40:46
  Speaker 2: in themselves, and that's not something that we talk about enough.
• 40:52
  Speaker 2: I think I understand who I am and the things
• 40:55
  Speaker 2: that I lack enough to work on it for myself.
• 40:58
  Speaker 3: So then I'm not looking for a man to make
• 41:01
  Speaker 3: me whole. You understand what I'm saying.
• 41:03
  Speaker 2: That's why I'm comfortable with not being within a relationship with.
• 41:08
  Speaker 4: I think the actually look for women too, that's probably
• 41:12
  Speaker 4: that's the probably women, It's all it's a right. I
• 41:16
  Speaker 4: think people look for other people to make them hold yeah,
• 41:19
  Speaker 4: to resolve their issues, to make their daddy issues go away,
• 41:23
  Speaker 4: their mommy issues, there abandonment issues. They look for someone
• 41:26
  Speaker 4: to come in and fix these things.
• 41:28
  Speaker 3: And that'sugges and it's just not something that you should do.
• 41:31
  Speaker 2: That's that's not a responsibility that your partner should have
• 41:34
  Speaker 2: or carry.
• 41:35
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, which is why I'm not
• 41:39
  Speaker 3: like and you.
• 41:39
  Speaker 4: Said, that's why you're not really dating because niggas would
• 41:42
  Speaker 4: interrupt your.
• 41:43
  Speaker 2: Peace exactly, like exactly that, Like that's why I don't
• 41:48
  Speaker 2: I always say, like I don't like rappers are bad people.
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: I know rappers are bad people.
• 41:53
  Speaker 3: I'm a rapper.
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: I'm not lie. I think I'm trying to think what's
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: worse athlete ever?
• 42:01
  Speaker 2: Bad people? Bad people? Because it's you, That's what I'm
• 42:07
  Speaker 2: telling you. That's what it is like to be the driver.
• 42:14
  Speaker 2: As artists or entrepreneur, you have to have some type
• 42:19
  Speaker 2: of self servent like attitude to some point, Like we're
• 42:25
  Speaker 2: all narcissist to a certain degree. Like I don't like
• 42:27
  Speaker 2: using that word because I'm a psychologist. Put it in
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: and it's like that's.
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: A real thing.
• 42:31
  Speaker 2: But like some like you are selfish to want to
• 42:33
  Speaker 2: extent that other people are not selfish. You know what
• 42:37
  Speaker 2: I'm saying, but I am that I understand that I'm
• 42:41
  Speaker 2: never going to put you over my career or over
• 42:43
  Speaker 2: me at this moment, I'm not.
• 42:45
  Speaker 3: And if that's what you're looking for, I'm not the
• 42:47
  Speaker 3: girl for you. And that's all I.
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: Will tell you.
• 42:51
  Speaker 5: I don't know if we're talking about people that really
• 42:55
  Speaker 5: are supportive, like I think for the most part, I
• 42:58
  Speaker 5: don't even know the person that's it here that she
• 43:00
  Speaker 5: came with. But I would assume everybody in this room
• 43:03
  Speaker 5: would not expect to be more important than someone's career.
• 43:07
  Speaker 5: But for some reason, sometimes when we're in relationships, that
• 43:10
  Speaker 5: translates different because what happens is, for example, I dated
• 43:14
  Speaker 5: somebody that she never necessarily this isn't sisters, by the way,
• 43:18
  Speaker 5: that's my.
• 43:18
  Speaker 4: Baby, she never is crazy what she just have a
• 43:23
  Speaker 4: fiance just me and I can't. She can't be my
• 43:25
  Speaker 4: bibe colone.
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: I'll drink your buzz ball.
• 43:29
  Speaker 4: Got double standards, bro. This is her ex girl friend.
• 43:33
  Speaker 4: By the way, that because it's a girl, she going
• 43:35
  Speaker 4: right to the wedding and she could just say that's
• 43:37
  Speaker 4: my baby.
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: But is there your ex? My fiance is happy with
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: the bitch. You have an issue? No it's because it's
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: a woman.
• 43:44
  Speaker 2: I don't that ring is nuts, that that fiance with
• 43:48
  Speaker 2: a fuck I don't give a fuck about that.
• 43:53
  Speaker 5: Right when she was texting me, I was like, oh
• 43:54
  Speaker 5: my god, baby, guess he tells me. Who Oh that's sweet. Okay,
• 43:59
  Speaker 5: Can I ask you a serious question? Oh yeah, could
• 44:01
  Speaker 5: she come to it? Could she come to the wedding?
• 44:03
  Speaker 4: But I'm saying, oh, you everybody wanted her ex boyfriends
• 44:07
  Speaker 4: like this is what I'm saying, Like.
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: Well, they don'tn't go to me. Maybe they were good
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: to me the fucking double sip. Okay. So anyway, this
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: is what I'll trying to get to.
• 44:14
  Speaker 5: Dated is girl who basically would always say things like
• 44:17
  Speaker 5: never expect you to put me over your career.
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: But this is where the peace would be disrupted.
• 44:21
  Speaker 5: It would be things like, fuck, I think I can
• 44:23
  Speaker 5: only hang out on Thursday night, and then that would
• 44:26
  Speaker 5: translate into I mean, I feel like you never make
• 44:29
  Speaker 5: time for me.
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: There's got to be some other time in your day
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: because that time is for me.
• 44:34
  Speaker 6: That is me over my fellow. That's that.
• 44:39
  Speaker 2: But that's something that that you know, people who just
• 44:42
  Speaker 2: don't work in the same industry don't understand people. They
• 44:44
  Speaker 2: aren't entrepreneurs don't understand like, No, I honestly like it's
• 44:48
  Speaker 2: always about this because if not, I don't live like
• 44:52
  Speaker 2: I have to go do this, and because if I don't,
• 44:55
  Speaker 2: then I don't.
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: Make money and now might do things.
• 44:58
  Speaker 5: I'm sure everybody that wants to do netw working events
• 45:00
  Speaker 5: that's listening. You could be in corporate Americans ship like
• 45:02
  Speaker 5: that when you one wanna say yes because you want
• 45:04
  Speaker 5: to climb that shit is hard too. But to answer
• 45:06
  Speaker 5: your question for peace, it's actually just just shutting up.
• 45:09
  Speaker 4: Okay, Well, now I wanna have funny talk about people
• 45:12
  Speaker 4: if you don't mind. Okay, So I have another clip. Okay,
• 45:15
  Speaker 4: is this gonna lead.
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: Me bringing up one of your other songs that was
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: so great? Okay, tell me your thoughts on both niggas
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: be abusive.
• 45:23
  Speaker 4: He might be nice right now. Yeah, probably like two
• 45:25
  Speaker 4: months in he just gonna get broken and broken and
• 45:29
  Speaker 4: you probably gonna go to work and then you're gonna
• 45:30
  Speaker 4: to ask you, baby, can you get can you get
• 45:32
  Speaker 4: the food?
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: Can you get this? He gonna get tired of that ship.
• 45:36
  Speaker 4: You probably like, oh, it's just a little fu for
• 45:38
  Speaker 4: gonna add up.
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: They're gonna add up.
• 45:41
  Speaker 4: I feel like, if you broken, you don't know what
• 45:43
  Speaker 4: you're doing in life. You are lost cars, you lost
• 45:46
  Speaker 4: right now. You need to just figure it out and
• 45:47
  Speaker 4: you're gonna come over with trying to hurt me mentally
• 45:50
  Speaker 4: all that so that.
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: I'm curious your thoughts. That was uneasy And by the way,
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: uh huh.
• 45:57
  Speaker 4: I love her, but she said that broke men are abusive.
• 46:02
  Speaker 4: Broke men will hurt you emotionally and eventually they just
• 46:05
  Speaker 4: get broker and broker.
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: I can't relate. They're not because you like it.
• 46:09
  Speaker 4: Bro You fuck broke niggas with big dicks, and I
• 46:11
  Speaker 4: just don't understand it, and I hate it.
• 46:13
  Speaker 5: I just feel like they be writing me for homes.
• 46:15
  Speaker 5: Girl baby's doing all the things because.
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: They have much free time. But that's because they're not working.
• 46:22
  Speaker 5: Brokee niggas really will give they all to you, bitch.
• 46:24
  Speaker 5: Broke niggas fucking damn near.
• 46:26
  Speaker 6: Oh my god, I'll do they have So you have
• 46:32
  Speaker 6: a song called Dusty and so I would love to
• 46:36
  Speaker 6: know if we could come up with a list for
• 46:40
  Speaker 6: the ladies you may be dating a Dusty.
• 46:43
  Speaker 4: If so, can we like define and identify dusties and
• 46:49
  Speaker 4: it doesn't have to be Brokey's or are they the same,
• 46:52
  Speaker 4: because dusties are a great word.
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: When you said the hole in the sock, that's giving.
• 46:58
  Speaker 3: Dusty and they're not interchangeable.
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: Okay. So you could be broken not dusty. Okay.
• 47:03
  Speaker 3: You could be dusty and poor, or you could be
• 47:07
  Speaker 3: dusty and getting it.
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: Okay, So what man dusty? And why should we we
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: don't want?
• 47:12
  Speaker 4: No, don I think dusty fuzzy braids comes to my own?
• 47:15
  Speaker 4: Ohh like you just want to keep throwing shot like
• 47:18
  Speaker 4: poor groomgas with fuzzy braids and it's okay, No, me too.
• 47:23
  Speaker 4: This is like the second time you have brought No,
• 47:25
  Speaker 4: I did not bring that nigga. Ok that was not
• 47:27
  Speaker 4: why Okay, I don't. I don't need him clean all
• 47:29
  Speaker 4: the time. Get dumb, I said, Oh my broga, bitch,
• 47:33
  Speaker 4: mine is more shade than yours.
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: And he got it broke. No, no, no, he wasn't broke.
• 47:36
  Speaker 4: He wasn't broke, but he got a fuzzy braid. Let's
• 47:39
  Speaker 4: not that girls, it be forced, it be coming out.
• 47:42
  Speaker 4: He's extra curl. No, bitch, it gives three weeks. But anyway,
• 47:46
  Speaker 4: the point is.
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: With a few.
• 47:49
  Speaker 4: Fuzzy braid niggas, fuzzy brain. Okay, fuzzy braid niggas is
• 47:53
  Speaker 4: not dusty. Let's get into you thought.
• 47:54
  Speaker 2: Okay, I think you could be a dusty if you're dumb, like, okay,
• 48:00
  Speaker 2: have it, can't articulate themselves properly, you can't have a
• 48:03
  Speaker 2: full conversation.
• 48:05
  Speaker 3: It's like like I don't know, I hate it, I
• 48:08
  Speaker 3: don't know asking it.
• 48:10
  Speaker 4: Okay, okay, so let's let's create this list together. So
• 48:15
  Speaker 4: you're dusty if you are not intellectual. Yeah, I think
• 48:19
  Speaker 4: you are dusty if you are dirty. And when I
• 48:23
  Speaker 4: say dirty all the way down to the car, I
• 48:25
  Speaker 4: shouldn't get it, bro because women's cars are bad. Women's
• 48:30
  Speaker 4: cars be bad, and so bitches be dusty too. But
• 48:33
  Speaker 4: like I think the house women are not except for
• 48:37
  Speaker 4: being dusty to me. If you are a grown person,
• 48:41
  Speaker 4: mind you, whether it's your kids, your friends, your family,
• 48:44
  Speaker 4: people get into your vehicle, you are a little dusty.
• 48:49
  Speaker 4: If you do not know how to keep a clean car.
• 48:52
  Speaker 4: I'm saying it, and I'm sorry, don't clip this up
• 48:55
  Speaker 4: because my friend's car. You know what, friend, I have
• 48:57
  Speaker 4: a dusty friend and I'm gonna before bro her cars.
• 49:02
  Speaker 4: Her cars never girl. Bad bitches be having dirty no,
• 49:05
  Speaker 4: so then they're dunk crazy. No no, no, no, no no,
• 49:08
  Speaker 4: it's another friend. Her cars never clean. If you are
• 49:13
  Speaker 4: a bad bitch and your car is dirty, bitch, you
• 49:16
  Speaker 4: are dusty.
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: Mine ain't really been, no bro, it's her cars. I
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: always feel like you don't always feel like I'm have
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: in the car.
• 49:24
  Speaker 5: I feel like I always got a fuck ups box
• 49:26
  Speaker 5: that gotta go back right in the bro.
• 49:28
  Speaker 4: Imagine you're not getting a car like like a car
• 49:32
  Speaker 4: is seeing a bunk cake and that bitch ordered it
• 49:36
  Speaker 4: three days ago.
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: Why is Why is the cake still in the car?
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: Why is taco bell all again?
• 49:43
  Speaker 2: I don't Know's like if you if it's hot, if
• 49:45
  Speaker 2: it's a hot day and you open up your car,
• 49:48
  Speaker 2: you're dusty.
• 49:49
  Speaker 4: You dusty. Give us something that's dusty. Actually it's an
• 49:53
  Speaker 4: action they can do, Okay.
• 49:56
  Speaker 5: I don't like when niggas be chatting too much about
• 49:58
  Speaker 5: other niggas and other bitches. That's where dusty behavior. To me,
• 50:01
  Speaker 5: he's very poor in a way. That's like not the
• 50:03
  Speaker 5: hot like playing ball. It gives like, oh, like you
• 50:08
  Speaker 5: really don't do anything. It gives very garage basement man,
• 50:11
  Speaker 5: spare to me.
• 50:11
  Speaker 3: Yeah, like you know what's going on with other people.
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: And it's just like a little too much.
• 50:17
  Speaker 2: Oh you know what's Dusty a big bro asking again?
• 50:21
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's my big bro.
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: No, that's so when you when you when you created
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: that record, did you have niggas in mine?
• 50:30
  Speaker 6: Hell?
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that song is dedicated so did Oh that's what
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: hold on this was made. He really knows who he is.
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: He knows who he is.
• 50:41
  Speaker 4: Hell, yeah, you made that song for one guy and
• 50:46
  Speaker 4: he knows it's about Describe him, Describe him.
• 50:49
  Speaker 2: To like I don't know, I forgot no, no, no,
• 50:53
  Speaker 2: not how he looks, more like the person.
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: The person.
• 50:56
  Speaker 2: That's the that's the that's the that's the that's the
• 50:59
  Speaker 2: that's the that's the that's what did he do? Just
• 51:01
  Speaker 2: like d'sty, dirty, disgusting.
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: But you loved him at one point?
• 51:06
  Speaker 2: No, oh okay, you know you know I was gonna
• 51:09
  Speaker 2: say I was like in a relationship like although high school,
• 51:13
  Speaker 2: okay to my first two years of college and we
• 51:16
  Speaker 2: had broke up and I was like, okay, I have
• 51:18
  Speaker 2: some fun.
• 51:18
  Speaker 3: But he was a great guy. I always say, I
• 51:20
  Speaker 3: have nothing negative to.
• 51:21
  Speaker 2: Say about your boyfriend, the dusty is your no, no, no,
• 51:24
  Speaker 2: he was a great guy.
• 51:25
  Speaker 3: But because he was so good, I had like.
• 51:27
  Speaker 2: A standard, you know what I'm saying, even from young
• 51:29
  Speaker 2: like I'm eighteen ninety early, I had Grady was he
• 51:33
  Speaker 2: was awesome.
• 51:34
  Speaker 3: So like dealing with men.
• 51:35
  Speaker 2: After that breakup, I was like, what the fuck y'all
• 51:38
  Speaker 2: got going on one? And he was like one of
• 51:40
  Speaker 2: the first niggas that I was just talking to just
• 51:42
  Speaker 2: for fun, just to you know. It was like he
• 51:45
  Speaker 2: was my first dirty nigga experience. It was like it
• 51:48
  Speaker 2: was not no longer than a month that I was.
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: Like, oh my god, I was dirty niggas.
• 51:52
  Speaker 3: No, like this is what y'all do. And it was
• 51:54
  Speaker 3: like what do he do?
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: Like what did he do?
• 51:56
  Speaker 3: He was just dirty? And I like like he's up,
• 52:00
  Speaker 3: that's what mean?
• 52:00
  Speaker 2: So like I know, wait, like y'all you know, like
• 52:02
  Speaker 2: I was, I see them ones maybe like three days
• 52:05
  Speaker 2: go by?
• 52:06
  Speaker 3: Why you look like three days ago? You know what
• 52:08
  Speaker 3: I'm saying like.
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: That, like not like we're in the same Yeah, like yeah,
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: when you.
• 52:13
  Speaker 2: I didn't, Oh yeah, That's what I'm saying to you,
• 52:16
  Speaker 2: Like I would never go that far. I got respect
• 52:18
  Speaker 2: for myself that I would never think.
• 52:21
  Speaker 5: O niggas had like a nice little they had a
• 52:25
  Speaker 5: good five outfits in rotation.
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: There was fly fists. I kept saying, you know what
• 52:29
  Speaker 1: I mean.
• 52:30
  Speaker 3: Dusty, dusty shit, dusty shit, dusty ship.
• 52:32
  Speaker 2: I'd rather a nigga being a sweat a different sweatschool
• 52:34
  Speaker 2: every day. Just simple d boys shit, that's what I like. Actually,
• 52:37
  Speaker 2: oh I think it was like, but that's what I mean, Like,
• 52:40
  Speaker 2: how do you care about a label? No, I don't
• 52:43
  Speaker 2: care about a label. I don't care about a thing
• 52:45
  Speaker 2: like you could.
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: You know who?
• 52:46
  Speaker 4: I love the era of Actually, when labels almost make
• 52:49
  Speaker 4: me be like you're doing too much?
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: You know who? I love like dress?
• 52:52
  Speaker 2: I love how like clips dress, like push your tea
• 52:56
  Speaker 2: in my list? Yeah, T shirts and you know what
• 52:59
  Speaker 2: I'm saying. I love ship like that, Like I don't
• 53:01
  Speaker 2: love the the fun fact like why you won't fly
• 53:04
  Speaker 2: to me like we're battling you got on, like the
• 53:06
  Speaker 2: sparkly belt and that match and the color got like
• 53:13
  Speaker 2: carrying a purse Like I don't like ship like that.
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: I like the nigga who won't be like because your
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: T shirt I'm so sick of the niggas. That's why
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: I'm not seeing it.
• 53:22
  Speaker 4: Oh they be so bedazzled like the Rhys for the girl.
• 53:27
  Speaker 4: We already let y'all carry we let y'all carry merses.
• 53:31
  Speaker 4: Y'all are at the nails saloon with us, bitch, let
• 53:34
  Speaker 4: us keep the rhyme.
• 53:35
  Speaker 1: So yeah, a lot like that's too much to me.
• 53:37
  Speaker 2: Like I don't like a not they wearing, like the
• 53:40
  Speaker 2: the shirts that's like kind of crapped.
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: Oh wait, I just talked about you. You're a mass crop,
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: boxy cut. She loves what.
• 53:51
  Speaker 5: But let me tell you, I like it real simple.
• 53:53
  Speaker 5: I don't like label labeled niggas. I'm talking about you
• 53:56
  Speaker 5: wear a cool fucking jean, wear a boxy tea and
• 53:59
  Speaker 5: it's not crop to where I see your stomach is.
• 54:02
  Speaker 4: No no move a little bit and you and I
• 54:05
  Speaker 4: see your belly, but.
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: Not for nothing Like I want a Lenny Cravis. I
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: guess you do. I mean I like the metro sexual.
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: I don't know Lenny. To me, metro sexual is like.
• 54:21
  Speaker 5: The guy in a suit that's fucking getting his nails
• 54:23
  Speaker 5: done all the time. The niggas, I want to do
• 54:25
  Speaker 5: the clear jail like super like wanting to be clean
• 54:29
  Speaker 5: niggas like fawns Worth, Bentley Metro like that to me,
• 54:33
  Speaker 5: the Lenny look. I don't know what you would call that,
• 54:35
  Speaker 5: but I think that's more in my lane. I like
• 54:37
  Speaker 5: all black, but that's been myself saying because I think
• 54:41
  Speaker 5: that that's been the style of men, women and myself
• 54:46
  Speaker 5: that I find is like a lane like you know
• 54:49
  Speaker 5: the DJ's cocoa and breezy, give me that. That's what
• 54:53
  Speaker 5: I like. I want someone to completely fits the mold.
• 54:56
  Speaker 5: I want someone that's outfit couldn't have been on a
• 54:59
  Speaker 5: billboard or someone's I g post, like if you're wearing
• 55:02
  Speaker 5: fashion nov we can't figure it out.
• 55:04
  Speaker 2: I wouldn't see what your looks like. At the end,
• 55:06
  Speaker 2: she got to know, Got yeah, I'm just so could.
• 55:11
  Speaker 2: I just been listening to you, like and what you've
• 55:12
  Speaker 2: been saying, and someone, you know.
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: Somebody, this girl came up to me to be and
• 55:16
  Speaker 1: Green was like God, I was like, thank you? Is
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: he white?
• 55:21
  Speaker 9: No?
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: Got you thought she was one of our crocos. My
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: boho braids and my fucking language. It's really that tells
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: me all the time.
• 55:30
  Speaker 4: He was like, yo, being with a black girl that
• 55:32
  Speaker 4: looks like she sucks white niggers is all.
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I can see that. I know for a fact.
• 55:37
  Speaker 5: When I meet black moovies they have the I'm like, oh,
• 55:40
  Speaker 5: they'd be like yeah, I like helps me to I'd
• 55:42
  Speaker 5: be like, I'm.
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: Not gonna lie. Listen. All I know is you be
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: fucking white boys. I've never had pin Dick in my
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: life bad, but if you had to pick.
• 55:49
  Speaker 4: One before, we never gonna find.
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: Never a fucking white boys bro.
• 55:56
  Speaker 4: She like, I would never like, I got mad that
• 56:00
  Speaker 4: one of my boyfriends made me fucking white, bit, But.
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: Mandy wants biracial niggas maybe real bright. First off, none
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: even biracial. They are black. They are black.
• 56:09
  Speaker 4: No, no bright white Steph Curry or bright white Steph
• 56:13
  Speaker 4: Curry is black, Sephry.
• 56:15
  Speaker 1: He's not mixed. But that's what I'm saying, my nigga.
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: Neither of my niggas are mixed.
• 56:19
  Speaker 4: I don't even know what she's talking about. Both of
• 56:24
  Speaker 4: my niggas are black, and black is not a monolith,
• 56:27
  Speaker 4: and we all are different shades out here. They're more
• 56:31
  Speaker 4: the three of us on the couch than they are.
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: One of them is lighter, one of them is darker
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: than all of.
• 56:37
  Speaker 4: Us, lighter than us is crazy. I mean, it's the summertime.
• 56:44
  Speaker 4: It's the summertime. He's darker than us, He's darker now.
• 56:48
  Speaker 4: But Precious Cargo out, Now, what are the rhymes? What
• 56:52
  Speaker 4: are the raps they get in from this project?
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: Love yourself? Pretty much?
• 56:58
  Speaker 2: Did you know what is they getting they get? Honest
• 57:00
  Speaker 2: Steve vulnerability. I think people are gonna know a lot
• 57:02
  Speaker 2: about me. I think that's something that was kind of
• 57:05
  Speaker 2: not lacking in her commodity.
• 57:06
  Speaker 3: But I was held a lot.
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: But you just said you talked about a dusty nigga.
• 57:12
  Speaker 2: Right, But like that that I wasn't like talking to
• 57:14
  Speaker 2: him where like I think in Precious Cargo, I'm more like, Okay,
• 57:19
  Speaker 2: I'm saying names like you're gonna know you know what
• 57:21
  Speaker 2: I'm saying.
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: Say Nates, Yeah, we have no no no, no, no okay,
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: no beef, no be you believe it some beef. No.
• 57:35
  Speaker 2: It's more like like you're just gonna get to know me,
• 57:37
  Speaker 2: you know, like how you listen to a jay Z
• 57:38
  Speaker 2: song and like you know who that is?
• 57:41
  Speaker 4: Oh okay, Prescious Bargo out. Now, we don't get no
• 57:46
  Speaker 4: more makeup tutorials, but you be online a lot.
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: You gotta know you one.
• 57:51
  Speaker 6: You can get gym pictures from other day. Yeah, you
• 57:55
  Speaker 6: can get the workout playing in the gym.
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: I love it. You inspire me. I just want the
• 58:01
  Speaker 1: GLP one round ship. Listen, bit ship thousand steps is.
• 58:11
  Speaker 2: I'm trying to look like Bro. I thought that I
• 58:13
  Speaker 2: was gonna be like thick. I just keep getting like smaller.
• 58:17
  Speaker 2: I thought I was gonna be stacked. No, no, what
• 58:20
  Speaker 2: do you like?
• 58:22
  Speaker 3: Like Maddy lost?
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: Why she's still stacked?
• 58:24
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.
• 58:24
  Speaker 1: Are you losing your butt? You mean?
• 58:26
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I ain't got no more titty was yours?
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: No, man, but you remember my pity they was maya.
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: Now I gotta remember you. No, no, no, you go
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: look at the titties. You have to look at my
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: I'm not a lot.
• 58:38
  Speaker 3: They used to be like my titties was to my chin.
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: The titties was up there. I had some, but I
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: still got big citties.
• 58:45
  Speaker 3: It's just not like.
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: It's so funny.
• 58:48
  Speaker 4: We women do like to say stacked, like for me, yeah,
• 58:50
  Speaker 4: I have three more pounds tittiest.
• 58:55
  Speaker 2: I want to know what she was looking at. No, no, no, no, no, no,
• 58:57
  Speaker 2: I gotta show you like Bro's show me look at
• 59:01
  Speaker 2: my titties.
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: Look at you see my thing?
• 59:04
  Speaker 3: Like you know what I'm saying, like come on, they
• 59:07
  Speaker 3: was good, Like.
• 59:08
  Speaker 4: I can I just say too before we get out
• 59:10
  Speaker 4: of here. I love that you said, And I was like, listen,
• 59:14
  Speaker 4: I loved when I was a big bitch.
• 59:16
  Speaker 1: I love my titties. I missed my titties. I'm losing
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: my ass. Yeah. I also don't think enough.
• 59:20
  Speaker 4: Women genuinely say like I know, I don't want to
• 59:23
  Speaker 4: get much smaller than this because I.
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: Do like yeah, eyes my yeah.
• 59:27
  Speaker 2: First, I think I think it's uncomfortable to love you.
• 59:31
  Speaker 2: It's not uncomfortable.
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: What the fuck?
• 59:34
  Speaker 3: It's important to love your body, however it looks.
• 59:37
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. That's that's what is important
• 59:40
  Speaker 2: to me, you know, like losing weight. There are still
• 59:42
  Speaker 2: things that I cann't pick about, you know what I'm saying, Like, Okay,
• 59:45
  Speaker 2: I'm smaller, but like now my arms look bigger.
• 59:47
  Speaker 3: Who fucking cares? It's a arm you know what I'm.
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: Saying, Like it's what fuck chicken say?
• 59:51
  Speaker 6: You know it's you get what I'm saying, like yours
• 59:54
  Speaker 6: is just an arm, Like it's a Army'll never get
• 59:57
  Speaker 6: to that point my home roll lost like forty pounds.
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: On a JP one And.
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 4: Oh my god, I thought you were gonna say something else.
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 4: I thought you were gonna say, my friend lost.
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 6: It are Oh but no, like for real, like you
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 6: have the it's the arms, and I'm like, bitch, everybody
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 6: tells you the good and now you've found a new obsessions.
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 2: Exactly, And that's the thing for you. The weight's not
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 2: the problem. It's your mind.
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 3: You have to fix your mind.
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 2: You have to love yourself and appreciate yourself because if
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 2: you don't, it's always gonna be a thing. It's always
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 2: gonna be a something. It's always gonna be Oh but others.
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: But bitch, it's.
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 2: Fat, skinny, thin, slick, pink green orange. I'm better than you, bitch. Hell,
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck. What are you talking about?
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 2: I could I could lose both my arms and a
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 2: toe right now. I'm better than you talking about it?
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 2: Look good like I mean but no, no, that but
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 2: and that's important, Like you have to feel like that
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 2: about yourself because if not, any little thing, girl, I
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 2: would have been killed myself had what they were saying
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 2: about me when I did in loud and they're talking
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 2: about me and d like she she's fat. Out of
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 2: that nobody talking about and rapping with no backtracks, not
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 2: out of breath, bitch, what are you talking about? Like huh,
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 2: A skinny bitch can't.
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 1: Do that love performance?
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 2: Like you know, people not talking about things that they
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 2: want to you know what I'm saying that.
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: I don't know which one you're talking about, but we
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 1: can talk about.
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 4: It honestly frequently like that these last few rolling louds.
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 4: And I don't know if it's like these genre.
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: We're old, we're getting old. No, I don't think I'm
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 1: getting old. I think these niggas suck like that.
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 4: At the end of the day, there's young people still
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 4: making phenomenal music, you know what I mean, So we can't.
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 4: I just really think that the standards have been lowered,
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 4: like you really.
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 3: It's a vanity metric, That's what it is. It's a
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 3: vanity metric.
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 2: And you know, people don't don't value the things that
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 2: we used to value because we're getting dumber.
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 1: That's why everybody got to pick up a book and read,
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 1: just read.
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 2: Or even if know if it's Kennedy Ryan, you're gonna
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 2: improve real ship though Kennedy Ryan t school. Bitch is
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 2: a few things.
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 6: That has go pick up score, bitch, Hello, you're gonna
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 6: learn something? Okay, just because they sucking in this book, gona,
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 6: they're not gonna learn nothing.
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 1: Hello, Hello people.
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 4: Just because we know hose bar don't mean you're not
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 4: gonna learn your nose barts.
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 3: Why you ain't bring me a book, bitch?
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 1: We got you.
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 9: You go.
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 4: Everyone know where they can follow you, support you all
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 4: the things.
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 2: Yes, follow me on all platforms that might have done you.
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 2: Gotta spell it right though, m A I y A
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 2: then not d A done.
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 1: I'm not dull, she says the period and brush his
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 1: cargo out.
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 2: Now listen to if you're a real bitch, if you're
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 2: a bad bitch, if you're a small bitch, if you
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 2: know how to read, if you know how to write down,
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  Speaker 2: if you thank you so much for coming, and okay,
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  Speaker 2: now a part two where we talk about the girls.
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  Speaker 1: Gotta know girl playing, she playing. You don't seem like
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: you be playing.
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  Speaker 3: I'm gonna go to Atlanta. Oh, I go to Atlanta.
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  Speaker 1: I go to that letter real get over there. I
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: go to the leathern Bye, y'all,