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- 0:29Speaker 2: Wow, Hey, welcome back everybody to another episode of Wellness Uncensored.
- 0:37Speaker 2: I am Patty G a psychiatric nurse practitioner. I'm your
- 0:40Speaker 2: host here today, and I'm going to welcome you back
- 0:43Speaker 2: every week. This is actually entering into our third season.
- 0:46Speaker 2: I can't believe it. We are here for you because
- 0:49Speaker 2: of you, and to help you to really hear a
- 0:52Speaker 2: lot of what's going on out there that you may
- 0:55Speaker 2: not hear on the mainstream media. And like they all say,
- 0:58Speaker 2: tell a vision, a lot of times you're going to
- 1:01Speaker 2: hear things that maybe don't make sense or you think
- 1:04Speaker 2: there's really something big and scary coming up. And it's
- 1:07Speaker 2: great that you all tune in to other alternative listening
- 1:10Speaker 2: stations of podcasts like ours, because we're out there out
- 1:13Speaker 2: on the street, living life, working and finding different things
- 1:16Speaker 2: that are actually going on amongst all of us that
- 1:19Speaker 2: we just don't seem to get the space or the
- 1:21Speaker 2: airtime on those national news media sites, and I really
- 1:25Speaker 2: don't think they want you to know about things that
- 1:27Speaker 2: we talk about.
- 1:28Speaker 3: So we are here.
- 1:30Speaker 2: It kind of came as an evolution from that pandemic,
- 1:34Speaker 2: one that I hope we never have to encounter again.
- 1:36Speaker 2: Don't think we will, because many of us now have
- 1:39Speaker 2: been able to spread the word and there's a lot
- 1:41Speaker 2: of new information coming out to deal with all the
- 1:44Speaker 2: misinformation that we had gotten over the past five years.
- 1:48Speaker 2: But what this website and the show generally is trying
- 1:51Speaker 2: to get you as things to heal forward. So many
- 1:54Speaker 2: people I knew were going to be affected during the
- 1:57Speaker 2: pandemic and after with just different ways to do the things,
- 2:00Speaker 2: wor coping skills, anxiety depression, kids growing up with masks
- 2:04Speaker 2: on their face, breathing in just you know, absolute dirt.
- 2:08Speaker 2: And here we are today and it's now like, Okay,
- 2:10Speaker 2: everything's fine, everything's normal. So today I have the wonderful
- 2:14Speaker 2: pleasure of having my post with me Gail Sailor. Gail
- 2:19Speaker 2: is actually a survivor like myself. She was on our
- 2:22Speaker 2: podcast a little while back, and you know what with
- 2:25Speaker 2: Gail has driven in terms of just getting the word
- 2:28Speaker 2: out has been phenomenal and her story will we'll definitely
- 2:32Speaker 2: have her on again to share her story. But today
- 2:34Speaker 2: we want to talk about a lot of different.
- 2:36Speaker 3: Things that are going on.
- 2:37Speaker 2: We've got a great new website with our group and
- 2:40Speaker 2: a lot of the things that we're doing out there nationally.
- 2:42Speaker 3: And internationally for everyone.
- 2:44Speaker 2: And Gail's got a lot of great information that we're
- 2:46Speaker 2: sharing on X. So we're going to talk to you
- 2:48Speaker 2: about jumping into some of those X spaces and so yeah,
- 2:52Speaker 2: so all that stuff and more.
- 2:54Speaker 3: I will share a little bit about my book.
- 2:56Speaker 2: If you really want to hear a lot of the
- 2:57Speaker 2: behind the scenes information, you can pick it up. It's
- 3:01Speaker 2: a they call me Harriet from me feeling like I
- 3:04Speaker 2: was running an underground for almost four years during the pandemic.
- 3:08Speaker 2: You can get it on Amson or you can get
- 3:10Speaker 2: it on my website. It's Pattigilliano Wellness at oh Patigilliano
- 3:15Speaker 2: Wellness dot com. I was thinking of an email, but yeah,
- 3:18Speaker 2: Pattigilliano Wellness. So yeah, so Gail, come on and join us,
- 3:22Speaker 2: let's talk. Let's talk what's going on today.
- 3:25Speaker 4: Welcome, well Oh, thanks for having me on. This is
- 3:28Speaker 4: a great topic and I like I'm really glad we're
- 3:32Speaker 4: talking about just the whole psychological effect and how to
- 3:36Speaker 4: heal from that, because you see a lot of well,
- 3:39Speaker 4: we see a lot of people still needing that support
- 3:43Speaker 4: dealing with loss or you know, just the whole family
- 3:48Speaker 4: shattering of families that has happened, that is still healing,
- 3:51Speaker 4: and that's very emotionally devastating for people.
- 3:54Speaker 3: It is.
- 3:55Speaker 2: You're right, you know, the shattering of families. I think
- 3:58Speaker 2: there's a big aftermath that many people may not even realize.
- 4:01Speaker 2: And I can't imagine that it didn't affect more households,
- 4:04Speaker 2: and though maybe we haven't touched on them all yet,
- 4:07Speaker 2: I just I happened upon a person on LinkedIn and
- 4:10Speaker 2: I'm hoping to get him on to share his story.
- 4:12Speaker 2: But yet another fellow survivor from what we finally call
- 4:15Speaker 2: is rem Death of your Dale survived.
- 4:18Speaker 3: I survived.
- 4:19Speaker 2: So many people were survivors, but so many people also
- 4:23Speaker 2: were murdered. And the aftermath of people and families. Whatever
- 4:27Speaker 2: side of the fence you may be on, there really
- 4:29Speaker 2: shouldn't be sides, but people are just struggling with what
- 4:33Speaker 2: really happened, and it has broken up families, it has
- 4:37Speaker 2: devastated people in loss and grief.
- 4:39Speaker 4: So yeah, so, I.
- 4:41Speaker 2: Don't know, do you want to talk a little bit
- 4:42Speaker 2: more about where we've come from and our group and
- 4:46Speaker 2: the website.
- 4:47Speaker 4: And then yeah, sure. So so we started Betrayal Project
- 4:53Speaker 4: USA dot org. It's a five A one C three
- 4:57Speaker 4: and we started it. It's it's a victim it's a
- 5:03Speaker 4: victim run, victim driven organization. And so there are eleven
- 5:10Speaker 4: board members. I happened to be the president and every
- 5:14Speaker 4: single board member. You can find the profiles under board
- 5:18Speaker 4: members and about us on the website, the Trail Project
- 5:22Speaker 4: USA dot org. But they all come to the board
- 5:26Speaker 4: with different experiences, right and so, but but it's also
- 5:32Speaker 4: it's different experiences, but it's a shared experience. And so
- 5:36Speaker 4: we truly believed that it should be people who have
- 5:41Speaker 4: this shared experience, who had skin in the game, who
- 5:45Speaker 4: understand exactly what happened. So like you and I are survivors,
- 5:51Speaker 4: we understand what happened on the inside. Whistleblowers understand what
- 5:54Speaker 4: happened on the inside. Many of the family members who
- 5:58Speaker 4: are on the board or that we serve do not
- 6:03Speaker 4: understand what happened on the inside, and they're left with
- 6:05Speaker 4: a lot of questions, a lot of chaos. They can't
- 6:07Speaker 4: put the pieces together, and we want to kind of
- 6:11Speaker 4: help do that by connecting them with people with that
- 6:15Speaker 4: shared experience. So we formed because, you know, after years
- 6:21Speaker 4: of involvement in many initiatives, an investment of time, talent, resources,
- 6:28Speaker 4: the efforts sometimes diverted from the original mission, which because
- 6:33Speaker 4: there's so many things to deal with in the in
- 6:35Speaker 4: the world, and so we really felt like something that
- 6:40Speaker 4: was victim led, victim driven, would continue to stay focused
- 6:45Speaker 4: on that that need for accountability and transparency because like
- 6:52Speaker 4: the topic you know the name of your of the
- 6:54Speaker 4: show today, right, learn from the past, not to repeat
- 6:57Speaker 4: the future. If we don't have transparentarancy first and foremost,
- 7:02Speaker 4: we'll repeat this over and over and over again. Because
- 7:05Speaker 4: it didn't start with COVID and it's not going to
- 7:06Speaker 4: end with COVID. So we we finally have to have
- 7:11Speaker 4: some level of transparency as to what happened, why it happened,
- 7:16Speaker 4: what went wrong, How did doctors and nurses even lose
- 7:19Speaker 4: their virtue? Right, I mean, I mean and get away
- 7:23Speaker 4: from the care of patients. There's so many questions and
- 7:26Speaker 4: so many things that still need to be out in
- 7:29Speaker 4: the open, so we'll be we're working for that. And
- 7:32Speaker 4: I always hesitate to use the word demand justice, but
- 7:37Speaker 4: we do want accountability, we want we want the truth
- 7:41Speaker 4: first and foremost, we want the truth and the transparency
- 7:44Speaker 4: because there's a lot of confirmation bias out there and
- 7:47Speaker 4: we need that transparency and truth for victims to heal.
- 7:50Speaker 4: They will always wonder, am I crazy? Am I right?
- 7:54Speaker 4: Did I experience what I experience? You know, those types
- 7:58Speaker 4: of things, and so they deserve that transfer parency, They
- 8:00Speaker 4: deserve to not be gas lit, but to be you know,
- 8:05Speaker 4: confirmed that it you know the truth, you know the
- 8:08Speaker 4: truth confirmed. But I always say accountability because there is
- 8:12Speaker 4: a need for accountability. There are people that need to
- 8:16Speaker 4: be held accountable. So we're going to still strive for that,
- 8:20Speaker 4: and then of course for the change, you know, getting
- 8:23Speaker 4: rid of the prep Act, which I call the purp Act. Right,
- 8:26Speaker 4: So I like that, Sure, I mean not a bunch
- 8:30Speaker 4: of perpetrators, Truly, we are not all created equal. If
- 8:35Speaker 4: some groups of people have immunity, right, I don't have
- 8:38Speaker 4: immunity for anything I did during COVID. If I robbed
- 8:41Speaker 4: a bank during COVID, I'm like, oh, COVID brain. I
- 8:44Speaker 4: can't like do that, you know, so nobody should have
- 8:47Speaker 4: immunity for manythings so that we are all all created equal.
- 8:52Speaker 4: And then also, you know, there's other types of change too,
- 8:55Speaker 4: simple things like in Texas, for example, the Special Session
- 9:01Speaker 4: is going to have a bill to make ivermactin over
- 9:03Speaker 4: the counter rights. Things like that can be done very quickly,
- 9:09Speaker 4: very easy, and there's no reason to not do them.
- 9:12Speaker 4: I think enough everybody's admitted now that you know, millions
- 9:17Speaker 4: of people were made better with these protocols, and so yeah,
- 9:23Speaker 4: so we're gonna be you know, we want to collaborate
- 9:26Speaker 4: with other organizations who have similar who have similar missions,
- 9:33Speaker 4: you know, because there's there's groups on the vaccine side
- 9:37Speaker 4: that have been fighting for medical freedom for decades. There
- 9:41Speaker 4: are groups that I connect with that have been trying
- 9:45Speaker 4: to reform hospice. There are groups that have been talking
- 9:49Speaker 4: about the you know, the falsifying brain death and whether
- 9:54Speaker 4: brain death is even a thing. Right, So we're uh,
- 9:57Speaker 4: there's groups that are fighting the euthanasia move meant, you know,
- 10:01Speaker 4: the medical assistance in dying that's in Canada and really
- 10:06Speaker 4: it is it is in the United States too. In
- 10:10Speaker 4: many states, I learned something about you know, how euthanasia
- 10:16Speaker 4: isn't even technically a climb in some states. In Texas,
- 10:21Speaker 4: I assisted suicide is a misdemeanor. I don't know if
- 10:25Speaker 4: you can do that. I was shocked. So it's tough
- 10:29Speaker 4: to believe.
- 10:29Speaker 2: But you know, it's just all in how you decorate it.
- 10:34Speaker 4: Yeah, So there's a lot of like minded trying to
- 10:40Speaker 4: you know, we're going to work with pro life groups
- 10:42Speaker 4: that have been fighting. The different states have different laws
- 10:47Speaker 4: around taking patients, you know, giving up on patients basically
- 10:53Speaker 4: is what I call it. Texas had the ten day rule.
- 10:57Speaker 4: In ten days, if the patient wasn't going to come
- 10:59Speaker 4: out of a coma, then they could just take them
- 11:02Speaker 4: off of life support, starve them, not give them water.
- 11:06Speaker 4: Until the baby Tinsley case several years ago, many years ago,
- 11:11Speaker 4: that fought that ten day rule and she was eventually
- 11:15Speaker 4: allowed to live. She was two years old. Now she
- 11:19Speaker 4: is recovering. Yeah, and so Texas changed it to the
- 11:23Speaker 4: twenty five day rule. But we're still fighting the twenty
- 11:26Speaker 4: five day rule because it's still life is life is
- 11:29Speaker 4: life right, and there's one author of life and death.
- 11:31Speaker 4: So that's gott.
- 11:33Speaker 3: Amen to that.
- 11:34Speaker 2: But yeah, so, yeah, so how can people you know,
- 11:37Speaker 2: we talk about how people can reach out to us.
- 11:40Speaker 2: You know, the website is beautiful and I think more
- 11:43Speaker 2: people need to get a chance to take a look
- 11:45Speaker 2: at it. But you're right, it's got everybody's information on there,
- 11:48Speaker 2: and it talks a little bit about you know, what
- 11:50Speaker 2: the group as an organization we do, but yeah, tell
- 11:53Speaker 2: us little more about that.
- 11:55Speaker 4: Yeah, so there's so many ways people can help us
- 11:57Speaker 4: to like achieve our mission. Our our mission statement is
- 12:00Speaker 4: out there, but there's you know, if like you can
- 12:04Speaker 4: share the stories that are out there, the real stories
- 12:07Speaker 4: of both protocol, either Protocol survivors, Protocol deaths, COVID shots,
- 12:15Speaker 4: injuries and deaths, or other medical betrayal. So share the
- 12:20Speaker 4: stories that are put out there. It will get the
- 12:23Speaker 4: message out. Just share them, Share them, Share them. If
- 12:27Speaker 4: you have a story of that nature, tell your story publicly.
- 12:32Speaker 4: I know it takes a lot of moral courage to
- 12:34Speaker 4: do that, but it's also healing. And a lot of
- 12:38Speaker 4: people tell their stories and they don't know if they
- 12:41Speaker 4: can do it, and then when they do it, it
- 12:44Speaker 4: empowers them and they've told this, you're suffering with that,
- 12:49Speaker 4: what happened anyways, right, and so you are. You can't
- 12:55Speaker 4: deny the rumination. Everybody knows if they have a story
- 12:58Speaker 4: that they're ruminating about it, and so tell it, tell
- 13:02Speaker 4: it publicly. We'll guide you through telling it. It's not
- 13:05Speaker 4: like we're just going to make you cold tell it.
- 13:09Speaker 4: It's a very easy process. We make it easy. So
- 13:12Speaker 4: tell your story. If you know somebody who is afraid
- 13:15Speaker 4: to tell their story, help them tell it, help them,
- 13:19Speaker 4: help them submit, help come on the interview with them,
- 13:22Speaker 4: and even help them be their support, you know that
- 13:25Speaker 4: will that's the way you can help us get the
- 13:27Speaker 4: message out. You mean you can. There's a volunteer part.
- 13:31Speaker 4: You can give your time or you and your talent.
- 13:34Speaker 4: We have a lot of people, talented people volunteering doing
- 13:37Speaker 4: things with media or you know other Everybody wants us
- 13:42Speaker 4: to be on the media creative team, but you know
- 13:45Speaker 4: we we have other boring teams to like accountability and
- 13:48Speaker 4: things like that that you can if you're passionate about,
- 13:51Speaker 4: you know, working with legislators, whatever it is. Just tell
- 13:55Speaker 4: us what you're passionate about and we'll find a place
- 13:57Speaker 4: for you. So time, talent, and treasure, donate, you know,
- 14:03Speaker 4: donate every little bit helps you know, we're we're all
- 14:07Speaker 4: just volunteers staying engaged. We will put action items up
- 14:12Speaker 4: there so stay informed. We are going to put things
- 14:16Speaker 4: that are going on locally and global, or locally and
- 14:20Speaker 4: mostly nationally, so that you know what's important in the news,
- 14:23Speaker 4: what's happening in different states, what you can do, calls
- 14:27Speaker 4: to action. We're going to be putting a lot of
- 14:30Speaker 4: that out there, getting you know, stay engaged with us.
- 14:34Speaker 4: On our social media. We have an X spaces my
- 14:38Speaker 4: ex account. The X account is right there. It's at
- 14:43Speaker 4: Betrayal Underscore p r o J we do. We are
- 14:47Speaker 4: doing every Saturday from one pm Central, it's two pm Eastern.
- 14:53Speaker 4: It's about a two hour space we do, and we
- 14:56Speaker 4: do a space on different topics that have to do
- 14:59Speaker 4: with medical freedo them. Come on and engage with that.
- 15:03Speaker 4: Share our spaces, share our X account. It is where
- 15:07Speaker 4: we can get a lot of information out right now.
- 15:10Speaker 4: We're gonna be starting a podcast soon called a Nation Betrayed.
- 15:15Speaker 4: Hopefully that will launch next week. Let's see so so
- 15:19Speaker 4: engagement we're going to have. We have a sub stack
- 15:21Speaker 4: we can engage with that. We have a Facebook group,
- 15:24Speaker 4: we have support groups if you need support, there are
- 15:27Speaker 4: support groups for you. We have a Monday night support group.
- 15:30Speaker 4: We have the PTSD workshop that you lead on Thursdays
- 15:34Speaker 4: and everybody is like, amazing, is amazing. We have a
- 15:38Speaker 4: men's support group because men deal with things differently. You know,
- 15:41Speaker 4: we we want to give you support because we know
- 15:45Speaker 4: that they're walking wounded who need to get better, to
- 15:49Speaker 4: move forward into to take action, you know, become a
- 15:53Speaker 4: story ambassador, you can, you can even sponsor a story.
- 15:59Speaker 4: We know people who will do a documentary, you know,
- 16:02Speaker 4: they they cost money. But help people collect their medical
- 16:07Speaker 4: records if you know something about that, because that there's
- 16:10Speaker 4: a lot of answers are in there. If you know
- 16:13Speaker 4: how to read medical records, help somebody read their medical
- 16:16Speaker 4: records and answer questions that are in there. Connect us
- 16:19Speaker 4: with ethical allies, doctor, ethical ethical nurses, doctors, legal experts, whistleblowers,
- 16:27Speaker 4: anyone who's influential in this freedom movement, in this medical
- 16:31Speaker 4: freedom movement. And then you know, pray for us. You always,
- 16:35Speaker 4: you know, pray for us and speak boldly share our mission.
- 16:40Speaker 4: We really are fueled by faith. And pray for the
- 16:45Speaker 4: victims because they really need it, especially as we go
- 16:48Speaker 4: into this time August through January, because twenty twenty one
- 16:55Speaker 4: was a devastating mess of death and it was intentional
- 17:00Speaker 4: and there are a lot of people. There are a
- 17:02Speaker 4: lot of widows, parents, brothers, sisters, daughters and sons. There
- 17:07Speaker 4: are people who are really suffering as they come into
- 17:11Speaker 4: August through January, and people need to kind of understand.
- 17:17Speaker 4: There's grief and trauma, as you know, and then there's
- 17:20Speaker 4: disenfranchised grief and trauma where people are like, oh, come on,
- 17:24Speaker 4: that didn't really happen, right, like you know, I mean,
- 17:28Speaker 4: they did the best they can. It's just misplaced grief,
- 17:31Speaker 4: pat pat pat right on the head. And so people
- 17:36Speaker 4: are suffering with that and and that is probably the
- 17:40Speaker 4: most difficult kind of grief. And so for survivors who
- 17:43Speaker 4: are out there, they need to tell their stories because
- 17:46Speaker 4: we know what happened from the inside, and we can
- 17:48Speaker 4: help that disenfranchised grief because we can put pieces together
- 17:52Speaker 4: that they don't have. So that's my long ramble about
- 17:55Speaker 4: how you can help us.
- 17:59Speaker 2: And it was kind of all encompassing too, because you
- 18:02Speaker 2: touched just about on every wheel of everything. That's why
- 18:04Speaker 2: the group needs so much help and support. And what
- 18:07Speaker 2: I love too, I mean shared it beautifully. There are
- 18:10Speaker 2: a lot of other people out there with specific needs groups,
- 18:14Speaker 2: whether it be the what you talked about with euthanasia,
- 18:18Speaker 2: with people going into hospice. There's a lot of information,
- 18:24Speaker 2: false beliefs, and inaccuracies of things that are done. And
- 18:27Speaker 2: while there are people who are victims of a lot
- 18:30Speaker 2: of different things. You know, we moved from the COVID
- 18:31Speaker 2: pandemic into the whole vaccine injury thing. There's so many
- 18:35Speaker 2: of us, it makes sense that our group are dealing
- 18:38Speaker 2: primarily with victims and survivors and in that role, yeah,
- 18:42Speaker 2: some other people can cross into it, but this is
- 18:44Speaker 2: an enormous pot. What you mentioned too about sharing the stories,
- 18:49Speaker 2: you know, a lot of what I do with that
- 18:50Speaker 2: trauma group, part of trauma therapy is to do exposure,
- 18:55Speaker 2: exposure to the traumatic event, and when people share their story,
- 18:59Speaker 2: it's actually a form of that exposure therapy. To speak it,
- 19:03Speaker 2: write it, read it, project it, and it actually does
- 19:07Speaker 2: help to heal. So it's an absolutely profound way to
- 19:10Speaker 2: help people that have been suffering in silence while the
- 19:13Speaker 2: rest of the family goes around. You know, come on, Jamie,
- 19:16Speaker 2: it's been three years. You should feel better.
- 19:18Speaker 3: Now Jamie doesn't.
- 19:21Speaker 2: But yeah, there's so much that our group does, and
- 19:23Speaker 2: there's so much that I think if we had the
- 19:24Speaker 2: right momentum of more people gathering and joining and helping
- 19:28Speaker 2: us in whatever way they can, I think would be
- 19:31Speaker 2: really profound and extraordinarily helpful. There's lots of ways to get,
- 19:35Speaker 2: you know, involved, there's ways to just tune in. If
- 19:38Speaker 2: you join in on the X space this Saturday at
- 19:41Speaker 2: one pm Central, you can learn. All you have to
- 19:43Speaker 2: do is jump on the X space and just listen.
- 19:45Speaker 2: You don't have to speak, Nobody will see her face,
- 19:48Speaker 2: but come in and learn about what's really going on
- 19:51Speaker 2: out there in the world. It's really that important.
- 19:54Speaker 3: And you've got a cop.
- 19:56Speaker 4: If you want to speak, you know, certainly you can
- 20:00Speaker 4: teach us something, right.
- 20:01Speaker 2: Yeah, that is where I found some of the most
- 20:04Speaker 2: amazing people. I had a scientist jump on once and
- 20:07Speaker 2: he's in somewhere down I don't even want to say
- 20:12Speaker 2: it wrong, but it's one of those countries way over
- 20:14Speaker 2: by China, and while he works on a lot of
- 20:17Speaker 2: different things, he was one of those reverse engineers for
- 20:20Speaker 2: some of the biogenetics. So a lot of people come
- 20:24Speaker 2: on the gentleman that I met on LinkedIn. I'm really
- 20:26Speaker 2: hopeful to get him on here he is. He put
- 20:29Speaker 2: his picture of himself on high flow oxygen getting room
- 20:32Speaker 2: de severe, but yet here he is today. He survived.
- 20:35Speaker 2: So I'm so excited. We've tried to connect this past week.
- 20:38Speaker 2: But I want to hear his story. I'd love for
- 20:40Speaker 2: him to speak and talk about it. But there's so
- 20:42Speaker 2: many people like him, like you, like myself, and we're
- 20:45Speaker 2: all out there, and the more we gain momentum and
- 20:48Speaker 2: learn and share. The one question someone asked about is
- 20:52Speaker 2: you know, do you feel that they're going to try
- 20:53Speaker 2: to plan another plandemic? Absolutely. When you drive fear through
- 20:59Speaker 2: any type of socialized you know, a country and culture,
- 21:04Speaker 2: beer is the greatest thing to shut people down. It
- 21:06Speaker 2: just decompresses them. And there's so much I know, Gail,
- 21:09Speaker 2: you were just talking about some of the stuff. You
- 21:11Speaker 2: want to mention what they're doing in the schools.
- 21:13Speaker 4: I hadn't heard about.
- 21:14Speaker 2: That in Illinois, but they're going crazy with indoctrinating.
- 21:17Speaker 3: It's our kids.
- 21:19Speaker 4: Yeah, so I'll do that, And I just want to
- 21:22Speaker 4: one thing on the future pandemic is they're already starting
- 21:27Speaker 4: to raise alarms in Texas about a new strain of COVID,
- 21:33Speaker 4: and at the same time, it's like COVID is Dad,
- 21:37Speaker 4: And I will tell you Doctor David Martin spoke at
- 21:42Speaker 4: an event that we had in Oklahoma at the Capitol
- 21:46Speaker 4: and at dinner afterwards, he said, we have a very
- 21:51Speaker 4: short period of time to get our PhD in this stuff,
- 21:54Speaker 4: because there are sixty eight pathogens that are patented and
- 21:57Speaker 4: can be deployed at any time and patent by the DoD,
- 22:01Speaker 4: just like this one was. And he said, COVID was
- 22:05Speaker 4: a big test and we failed fear drove what we did,
- 22:10Speaker 4: not only what we did to ourselves, but what we
- 22:12Speaker 4: did to each other. And so we don't have long
- 22:17Speaker 4: And he's been looking at this since the rise and
- 22:19Speaker 4: attacks in two thousand and three in Tokyo. That's how
- 22:22Speaker 4: long he's been involved in following these things and investigating
- 22:27Speaker 4: as far as the schools. So Saturday's Saturday's Spaces is
- 22:33Speaker 4: going to be a bit focused on these health centers,
- 22:37Speaker 4: these public health centers that they're setting up in the
- 22:39Speaker 4: school system. And so there's a lot of danger there
- 22:43Speaker 4: for these health centers being run by the public education system.
- 22:49Speaker 4: And it's already rearing its head in Illinois because they
- 22:55Speaker 4: passed legislation to require your third grade and up students
- 23:04Speaker 4: to have a mental health exam. And if if you
- 23:08Speaker 4: don't see where that's going to lead you, just you know,
- 23:13Speaker 4: look at some of the first of all, just from
- 23:17Speaker 4: a big, big harma, big pharma perspective, big arma, You're
- 23:23Speaker 4: you're looking at a lot of kids that are going
- 23:25Speaker 4: to get stuck on drugs, right, Like I mean, everybody
- 23:29Speaker 4: can display a little depression, right or anxiety, especially if
- 23:35Speaker 4: you're examining kids. So you're gonna you're going to be
- 23:38Speaker 4: looking at You're going to be looking at parents who
- 23:44Speaker 4: are falsely accused of things. You're going to be looking
- 23:46Speaker 4: at kids getting put on these psychotropic drugs. You're going
- 23:50Speaker 4: to be looking at if you listen to any of
- 23:52Speaker 4: the d transitioner kids that can have been testifying, you know,
- 23:59Speaker 4: as to why they thought that they were trans you know,
- 24:04Speaker 4: you you there's a documentary that Epoch Times did and
- 24:09Speaker 4: one of the girls. It simply started with her telling
- 24:13Speaker 4: her school counselor that her brother had an easier time
- 24:17Speaker 4: adapting to high school, and that turned into she wants
- 24:21Speaker 4: to be a boy. They convinced her it is because
- 24:25Speaker 4: she wants to be a boy, because they worked on her.
- 24:28Speaker 4: This is this is danger danger, danger zone. And then
- 24:32Speaker 4: you go into you know, they're they're going to have
- 24:35Speaker 4: the right to give your kid birth control pills if
- 24:37Speaker 4: you whether you want it or not. Vaccinations. I think
- 24:42Speaker 4: it was for mont that had the child that was
- 24:45Speaker 4: vaccinated against his parents will with the COVID vaccine. They
- 24:49Speaker 4: took it to court and the court sided with the school.
- 24:52Speaker 4: So that is a problem, right that they could you know, well,
- 24:57Speaker 4: your child said they wanted it, right, and so there's
- 25:03Speaker 4: you know, you're just going to have all level this
- 25:05Speaker 4: is going to take it to a new level of
- 25:07Speaker 4: psychological grooming of kids.
- 25:09Speaker 3: It really is, it really is.
- 25:12Speaker 4: You know, sorry, you know as a mental health professional,
- 25:16Speaker 4: how easy it is to manipulate a kid's mind.
- 25:19Speaker 3: It is easy. It's scary, and that's why you.
- 25:23Speaker 2: Know, the whole parental structure, you know, we we we
- 25:27Speaker 2: water down the whole parental structure, you know, with kids
- 25:30Speaker 2: having kids, and then you know, who's a good parent,
- 25:33Speaker 2: where's the role models, where's the morals, where's the values,
- 25:36Speaker 2: where's any kind of faith in any of this? And
- 25:40Speaker 2: again not to try to like cram it all into one,
- 25:43Speaker 2: you know, one religion. The idea is when you grow
- 25:46Speaker 2: up and you're raised to have highness, compassion, a moral compass,
- 25:51Speaker 2: now it's anything goes. And if you don't let your
- 25:54Speaker 2: child try and experience, experiment and do different things, now
- 25:58Speaker 2: the question becomes, why are you not allowing to do this.
- 26:00Speaker 4: Kind of stuff?
- 26:01Speaker 2: And you know, then they had the transvestites, you know,
- 26:05Speaker 2: reading in the classroom, the kindergarten classroom. It's just been
- 26:09Speaker 2: an indoctrination. And then let's go to didn't earn it
- 26:13Speaker 2: DEI was to be so accepting of everyone and all
- 26:17Speaker 2: and whatever we wanted to do, deviant behavior and all.
- 26:21Speaker 2: And that's not okay. It's just not okay. So as
- 26:25Speaker 2: get you started to pull it back, they're kicking and
- 26:28Speaker 2: screaming and they're going for our children.
- 26:30Speaker 4: Yeah, they're going for the kids for sure. And it's
- 26:33Speaker 4: you know, and there's and and even if if you
- 26:36Speaker 4: think about like how many times they've tried to change
- 26:39Speaker 4: the definition of pedophile, right, things like that to minor
- 26:46Speaker 4: attracted minor attracted persons so that it didn't sound so
- 26:51Speaker 4: criminal while it is criminal. And at the same time,
- 26:54Speaker 4: They've tried many times to bring the age of consent
- 26:57Speaker 4: for sex to ten years old, pen that has been fought.
- 27:04Speaker 4: I mean, we've had to fight that battle in Texas
- 27:06Speaker 4: even and we you know, we've even had to fight
- 27:11Speaker 4: rules like this was back in two thousand and five
- 27:15Speaker 4: where I've been involved in the medical freedom fight for
- 27:18Speaker 4: a long time, but where they wanted to make it
- 27:22Speaker 4: a law that said if a school teacher, principal, a
- 27:27Speaker 4: school counselor, or school nurse recommended a child to be
- 27:31Speaker 4: put on psychotropic drugs and the parent didn't do it,
- 27:33Speaker 4: the state shall remove the child. They tried to pass that,
- 27:37Speaker 4: and so many parents went down and testified. And that's
- 27:41Speaker 4: what parents need to do. They need to get involved,
- 27:44Speaker 4: and they need to be down at their school boards,
- 27:47Speaker 4: down at their They need to be calling their legislators.
- 27:50Speaker 4: They need to be they need to be protesting, they
- 27:52Speaker 4: need to be quite honestly, I'd have my kid out
- 27:56Speaker 4: of school already, Like my grandkids are homeschooled. They're homeschool
- 27:59Speaker 4: for a reason because this stuff is crazy.
- 28:02Speaker 2: It is crazy, and a lot of people have taken
- 28:05Speaker 2: their kids out of schools, and a lot of parents
- 28:07Speaker 2: are doing that. But you know, again, I think there's
- 28:10Speaker 2: people that are just they're blind to all this. One
- 28:12Speaker 2: person asked, you know, why do so many people turn
- 28:18Speaker 2: a blind eye?
- 28:18Speaker 4: And you know what is it?
- 28:20Speaker 3: If a kid refuses?
- 28:22Speaker 2: You know, this is where parents and children need to
- 28:25Speaker 2: have conversations. Parents need to be involved in hearing what
- 28:29Speaker 2: their kids stressors and concerns are. You know, peer pressure,
- 28:33Speaker 2: and there's all kinds of emotions that go on with kids.
- 28:36Speaker 2: And you know, it's the truth. A lot of times
- 28:38Speaker 2: when I get kids, you know, it's because the parents
- 28:40Speaker 2: just haven't taken some time to listen, or the kids
- 28:43Speaker 2: haven't developed that relationship with the kids. Sometimes that when
- 28:47Speaker 2: they're in trouble, the child will know to come to
- 28:50Speaker 2: the parent. And we've got to foster that. We've got
- 28:52Speaker 2: to build that strength because kids meet adults to help
- 28:56Speaker 2: a lot of times they can't make some of these decisions.
- 28:58Speaker 4: They do, and sometimes it does come down to the parents,
- 29:02Speaker 4: like a lot of times. Right, So today we live
- 29:05Speaker 4: in a world where everybody's chasing the almighty dollar and
- 29:09Speaker 4: motherhood has been demonized and you know, oh, you're just
- 29:13Speaker 4: a mother, like you know, so you know, the most
- 29:16Speaker 4: important role in the world and This is done so
- 29:19Speaker 4: that the state can raise your child, and then you
- 29:22Speaker 4: have the divorce rate that skyrockets, and parents are too
- 29:25Speaker 4: busy fighting each other. Even if they agreed, they would
- 29:28Speaker 4: disagree just because they don't want to agree and co parent,
- 29:32Speaker 4: and they forget that the children are not chattel. They
- 29:36Speaker 4: are actually human beings that you're that you only have
- 29:41Speaker 4: a short period of time to develop within them what
- 29:44Speaker 4: is within them, and sometimes you do have to put
- 29:47Speaker 4: aside everything for the sake of those kids and teach
- 29:51Speaker 4: them the values. Like I hear sometimes different arguments like, well,
- 29:56Speaker 4: how will they learn how to deal with these situations
- 29:58Speaker 4: if I don't just stick a in there? Well, they're
- 30:01Speaker 4: not prepared sometimes, like social media, we let social media
- 30:06Speaker 4: raise kids, right, we're not even prepared for sometimes the
- 30:10Speaker 4: fights that happen or the meanness that happens on social media.
- 30:13Speaker 4: How is a nine year old or tent You see
- 30:15Speaker 4: a lot more suicide right in kids because of social media,
- 30:19Speaker 4: bullying and different things that they can't handle. And you know,
- 30:25Speaker 4: I know more than one parent who has had a
- 30:28Speaker 4: child kill themselves, who regrets spent you know, they've never
- 30:34Speaker 4: I've never heard anybody say I wish I would have
- 30:36Speaker 4: spent more time at work. It's always I wish I
- 30:39Speaker 4: would have spent more time with my kid, with my
- 30:42Speaker 4: family member, right.
- 30:43Speaker 2: So true, and we will be talking about that too,
- 30:46Speaker 2: because as you mentioned, like the time of year, it
- 30:49Speaker 2: was like the killing fields from COVID in twenty twenty
- 30:51Speaker 2: one and suicides. I lost several staff to suicide. September
- 30:56Speaker 2: is National suicide Prevention Month, and yeah, you know it's
- 31:01Speaker 2: I Also, when dealing with a lot of adults, I
- 31:04Speaker 2: can't tell you how hard it is to hear stories
- 31:07Speaker 2: of adults that are thirty, forty, fifty years old that
- 31:10Speaker 2: have had such trauma, neglect and abuse. Some of these
- 31:14Speaker 2: folks now had gone on to have their own children
- 31:16Speaker 2: and proliferate that trauma, neglect and abuse. And so it
- 31:20Speaker 2: is a cycle, and that cycle has not been broken.
- 31:23Speaker 2: The only problem is is now we have more and
- 31:26Speaker 2: more and more families and children, and we've really got
- 31:30Speaker 2: to get back to just foundations of good parenting, good
- 31:34Speaker 2: relationship building, good morals. And I'm sorry, but I think
- 31:38Speaker 2: you need to bring faith back into the focus.
- 31:41Speaker 4: Oh, you absolutely do. There's an old saying, deal with
- 31:45Speaker 4: your deal with your own demons or they will raise
- 31:49Speaker 4: your children.
- 31:50Speaker 3: Yeah, and that's a pretty scary thought. That is a
- 31:53Speaker 3: pretty scary thought.
- 31:55Speaker 2: The one person asked about what's the legal what is
- 31:58Speaker 2: going to be the legal age of consent if they
- 32:00Speaker 2: can say what they want, even if it's against the
- 32:02Speaker 2: parents' wishes. I mean, right now, it's kind of up
- 32:05Speaker 2: in the air because some states are giving kids some voices,
- 32:08Speaker 2: but it's currently eighteen that I know.
- 32:11Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, but they've ignored that and stepped all over, right,
- 32:14Speaker 4: I mean, I think I think the kid that at
- 32:19Speaker 4: the Vermont was like, I think he was only six
- 32:24Speaker 4: or seven years old and the parents student lost. Yeah, Like,
- 32:28Speaker 4: so I know that there're a lot of a lot
- 32:32Speaker 4: of the kids like that were transitioned. They were just
- 32:36Speaker 4: removed from their parents home at fifteen or sixteen. If
- 32:39Speaker 4: they wouldn't affirm, like so, I they've been giving, they've
- 32:47Speaker 4: been they've been deteriorating that legal age of consent, right, So,
- 32:54Speaker 4: I think I think if you look up, for example,
- 32:57Speaker 4: age of consent for sex in many states, it's fourteen, fifteen, sixteen, right,
- 33:02Speaker 4: So it's all different things, right, medical procedures, Yeah, I mean,
- 33:09Speaker 4: but they'll bully the parents into you know, you don't
- 33:12Speaker 4: want to lose your kid, do you. We'll call CPS
- 33:15Speaker 4: or we'll call you know what I mean. They bully
- 33:18Speaker 4: the parents into these into psychotropic drugs.
- 33:24Speaker 2: One well, and you know, here's the psychotropic drugs. Here's
- 33:27Speaker 2: an interesting fact. Now he's an adult, but he was
- 33:31Speaker 2: a minor when his mom suggested he gets some therapy
- 33:36Speaker 2: because he was just really going through some stress, graduating
- 33:38Speaker 2: high school, starting college, YadA, YadA. The psychiatrist, in their
- 33:42Speaker 2: infinite wisdom, just slapped him on with not only heavy medications,
- 33:47Speaker 2: but very high doses of medications that I know I
- 33:49Speaker 2: would never prescribe. Starting out, well, they're on his record.
- 33:53Speaker 2: And guess what. He comes from a good family. He's
- 33:56Speaker 2: got a very strong ethic. He's played football through high school, college,
- 33:59Speaker 2: but now decided he wants to go into the military.
- 34:02Speaker 2: Guess what I had to re explain why perhaps another
- 34:05Speaker 2: provider made a bad choice seeing a child for one time,
- 34:11Speaker 2: and now that could have destroyed his career. And it's
- 34:14Speaker 2: those life choices that get me so upset when I
- 34:17Speaker 2: see they make dramatic choices wherever they fall, children, adults,
- 34:22Speaker 2: whatever it is you make these life choices and you
- 34:25Speaker 2: don't realize their repercussions. It's got to get back to
- 34:29Speaker 2: foundational work of one. How about it you mentioned about
- 34:32Speaker 2: the moms. You know, we demonize moms. How about maybe
- 34:36Speaker 2: some people are just doing too much. I have people
- 34:38Speaker 2: coming to me for stimulants because they work two jobs.
- 34:41Speaker 2: They get tired driving from one job to the next.
- 34:44Speaker 2: They want to live the Jones life and they need
- 34:47Speaker 2: a medication to do that. I'm like, so we're just
- 34:49Speaker 2: going to jack you up. That doesn't make sense to me.
- 34:52Speaker 2: People are over over, over committed, and nobody's really looking
- 34:56Speaker 2: at what's going on, especially to our little people. Kid. Yeah,
- 35:01Speaker 2: you know, I think that's a foundational, a foundational issue
- 35:04Speaker 2: that we're just people aren't looking at.
- 35:06Speaker 5: You know.
- 35:06Speaker 4: That's always not to always bring it back to faith,
- 35:08Speaker 4: but it's kind of like Martha, Martha and Mary in
- 35:11Speaker 4: the Bible, right, choose the better thing? Are you going
- 35:13Speaker 4: to choose to be busy? Are you going to choose
- 35:15Speaker 4: to have the devil keep you busy? Or are you
- 35:18Speaker 4: going to choose the better thing? And I would choose.
- 35:21Speaker 4: I was one of those moms that always had to
- 35:25Speaker 4: chase the dream, thinking I was doing it for my family.
- 35:29Speaker 4: And if I could do life over again, I would
- 35:33Speaker 4: choose the better thing. I would choose less of the
- 35:37Speaker 4: luxuries in life and the career building and the you know,
- 35:42Speaker 4: all of the things I thought were necessary because Cosmopolitan
- 35:46Speaker 4: told me so, you know, like the magazines said I
- 35:52Speaker 4: should be that kind of a woman. But I would
- 35:56Speaker 4: I would choose the better thing, and I would have
- 35:59Speaker 4: choose to spend more time being a mother because my
- 36:03Speaker 4: I thought my mother, being a stay at home mother,
- 36:06Speaker 4: didn't know what she was talking about, that she chose
- 36:10Speaker 4: that she wasted her life, when really she spent you know,
- 36:14Speaker 4: sixty eight years in the most beautiful marriage ever ever made,
- 36:18Speaker 4: and she did the most important work, and that was
- 36:21Speaker 4: raising children and taking care of her home and loving
- 36:24Speaker 4: her husband and he loved her, and you know, so
- 36:27Speaker 4: like it was all backwards, right, Yeah.
- 36:31Speaker 3: I mean that's the thing.
- 36:32Speaker 2: I think people really are chasing something, and what are
- 36:36Speaker 2: you all really chasing? You know, I do want to
- 36:39Speaker 2: give a couple of quick tips and then we're going
- 36:40Speaker 2: to jump right back into this. But you know, again,
- 36:43Speaker 2: preparation we're going to September is going to be you know,
- 36:46Speaker 2: kind of a fast forward to nurturing and healing the
- 36:48Speaker 2: mental side of things. But a lot of you are
- 36:51Speaker 2: probably wondering, like, well, what do we do? How do
- 36:53Speaker 2: we get off the wheel? How do we like make
- 36:54Speaker 2: this better life that you want. You really have to
- 36:57Speaker 2: pick your priorities, and your priorities should start with when
- 37:00Speaker 2: you wake up every day, find something that you're grateful for.
- 37:03Speaker 2: Start with gratitude. Say you know what, thank God I
- 37:05Speaker 2: got up today and I don't have any aches and pains,
- 37:08Speaker 2: or thank god I got up today and I can
- 37:09Speaker 2: smell the coffee ruin and it smells so good. Thank
- 37:12Speaker 2: God I got up today, and I can smell the
- 37:15Speaker 2: rain falling outside. Thank God that I got up today.
- 37:18Speaker 2: And I'm just going to try to make one person smile,
- 37:22Speaker 2: because a lot of times when people are hurting, many
- 37:25Speaker 2: folks in our group, the trauma group, they have found
- 37:27Speaker 2: such healing in helping someone else because they can't take
- 37:31Speaker 2: away the pain that they feel. So I talk about
- 37:34Speaker 2: gratitude self care, and we'll talk more in different shows
- 37:37Speaker 2: about what self care looks like. But nurturing all the
- 37:40Speaker 2: things that I teach people to do in trauma, about
- 37:42Speaker 2: breeding and journaling and positive affirmations. I can't stress enough
- 37:47Speaker 2: to folks, how do you start to change the process.
- 37:51Speaker 2: You have to start with nurturing yourself first, to start
- 37:54Speaker 2: filling in the gaps and healing where you need the
- 37:57Speaker 2: most work. And it has to start with you, because
- 38:00Speaker 2: if you can't help you first, you can't help anyone else.
- 38:03Speaker 2: And whether it be you, your spouse, your children, your grandchildren,
- 38:07Speaker 2: take care of you and then you'll be great to
- 38:09Speaker 2: other people. But think about self care. And self care
- 38:13Speaker 2: is very simple. My triangle. I tell people nutrition, sleep,
- 38:17Speaker 2: and movement. I gently call it movement because people, you know,
- 38:20Speaker 2: they hate that word exercise, but your body doesn't know.
- 38:23Speaker 2: If you do jumpin jacks, or if you're on a treadmill,
- 38:26Speaker 2: or if you're walking with you know, soup cans in
- 38:30Speaker 2: your hand. Your body likes movement. It releases great endorphins.
- 38:35Speaker 2: So just a tip for all of you. This is
- 38:37Speaker 2: kind of where Yale and I want you to get to.
- 38:39Speaker 2: But we also want you to know about how to
- 38:41Speaker 2: get connected and how to understand a lot of the
- 38:44Speaker 2: stuff that's going on around you that you may not
- 38:46Speaker 2: be aware of. And you know, the Betrayal Project USA
- 38:49Speaker 2: dot org is a great place to start.
- 38:51Speaker 4: So Yeah, it really is. You know what I've learned
- 38:53Speaker 4: about smiling. You can confirm whether this is true or not.
- 38:56Speaker 4: Probably that I learned it. It was part of a
- 38:59Speaker 4: Sunday sermon that when you smile at somebody, it triggers
- 39:04Speaker 4: the same effect in their brain as when they smile.
- 39:07Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 39:08Speaker 4: So, like you can literally affect somebody's emotional state just
- 39:14Speaker 4: by smiling at them. And I love that because I'm
- 39:17Speaker 4: always smiling at people. I'm like, I like this little
- 39:21Speaker 4: kid came up to me one time and said, ma'am.
- 39:24Speaker 4: He said, you look when you smile, you look like
- 39:27Speaker 4: the sunshine just burst out of your face. I was like,
- 39:30Speaker 4: his mom was like, I'm so sorry. I'm like, no,
- 39:32Speaker 4: that's so. That's like the sweetest thing I've ever heard.
- 39:35Speaker 3: It's the truth.
- 39:36Speaker 2: And you know, that's such an important point, Dale because
- 39:38Speaker 2: when you think about the pandemic, we put masks on
- 39:41Speaker 2: everybody and we.
- 39:42Speaker 4: Took away emotion.
- 39:44Speaker 2: I want to share something real quick because it's in
- 39:47Speaker 2: the book. But I wrote this probably around March of
- 39:51Speaker 2: twenty twenty when I was working and we're all like
- 39:54Speaker 2: locking ourselves away and throwing cloth masks on our face.
- 39:57Speaker 2: And it's very quick It goes like this. It says
- 40:00Speaker 2: the eyes beyond the mask. I look at you, but
- 40:03Speaker 2: you do not return the stair. I see you, but
- 40:06Speaker 2: I seem invisible to you. Do you know what I feel?
- 40:09Speaker 2: Do you know what I'm thinking? Do you know I
- 40:11Speaker 2: had a rough night? Is it possible we'll ever exchange
- 40:14Speaker 2: a word? Have we forgotten the human connection? Would you
- 40:18Speaker 2: know if I needed help? If I did not call out?
- 40:21Speaker 2: I now have eyes without a face. My thoughts are hidden,
- 40:26Speaker 2: my smile buried. Yet I learned to connect with the
- 40:29Speaker 2: human spirit and compassion. The face is lost, but the
- 40:33Speaker 2: eyes will take you to the soul of someone. If
- 40:37Speaker 2: we cannot smile on the outside, we must connect. Let
- 40:40Speaker 2: it be through our eyes, showing reverence to each other
- 40:43Speaker 2: and all that we do, until one day we can
- 40:45Speaker 2: smile to each other's face. And it's that human emotion.
- 40:50Speaker 2: The smile is so important.
- 40:51Speaker 3: And laughter.
- 40:53Speaker 2: They did a study six year old's laugh smile about
- 40:57Speaker 2: two hundred times a day. Yeah, maybe fifteen. And I've
- 41:02Speaker 2: talked to other adults that are like, are you kidding?
- 41:04Speaker 2: I don't even think I smiled once today. Wow, I
- 41:07Speaker 2: have to drive that process, we really.
- 41:10Speaker 5: Do, man, I smile all the time, even when I'm
- 41:15Speaker 5: even when things are hard, I ye have advises smile
- 41:20Speaker 5: and I'm you know, yeah, that's interesting.
- 41:23Speaker 4: Wow, that's it's very I think the masks are one
- 41:28Speaker 4: of the things that really did I mean, it did
- 41:33Speaker 4: affect mental health so deeply, you know. I just and
- 41:37Speaker 4: just the human connection too that they they ended. You know,
- 41:41Speaker 4: my father was in a nursing home and when and
- 41:45Speaker 4: he he is very much he used to be. He
- 41:49Speaker 4: was very used to being around family and connecting. You know.
- 41:55Speaker 4: Him and my mom were married since from when she
- 41:57Speaker 4: was fifteen, right, so we up until he whe when
- 41:59Speaker 4: there's home and they sat on the love seat and
- 42:01Speaker 4: still held hands and watched TV together. So they yeah,
- 42:05Speaker 4: so they you know, but it it almost killed him
- 42:10Speaker 4: just to be away, just for them to be away
- 42:13Speaker 4: from each other, and her having to go to his
- 42:17Speaker 4: window to look in at him and talk to him.
- 42:21Speaker 4: And the first time they got to see each other,
- 42:24Speaker 4: he had to wear a mask and he was crying.
- 42:26Speaker 4: He just wanted to kiss his wife, right, and he couldn't.
- 42:30Speaker 4: Like it was it was very I still have that
- 42:33Speaker 4: video of him reaching for her and he was in
- 42:37Speaker 4: the hospital and so they let her in and he
- 42:39Speaker 4: was reaching for her, and he was crying, and he
- 42:42Speaker 4: kept having to pull up his mask, and just the
- 42:45Speaker 4: fact that they couldn't smile at each other, touch each other,
- 42:49Speaker 4: Like all of those things affect your mental health. I
- 42:55Speaker 4: don't know about you, but I know for me as
- 42:58Speaker 4: a survivor, the hardest thing was the isolation. The isolation
- 43:05Speaker 4: was out of all of the abuse and everything that
- 43:07Speaker 4: almost killed me until Huckleberry rescued me. It was the isolation.
- 43:13Speaker 4: And I have heard from many survivors where they say,
- 43:17Speaker 4: I feel angry because of the abandonment, even though now
- 43:22Speaker 4: they know they truly weren't abandoned. They that their family
- 43:26Speaker 4: was locked out. It's the isolation was the worst. It
- 43:30Speaker 4: messes with your head, it does, you know.
- 43:33Speaker 2: And at the hospital I worked at when I was
- 43:35Speaker 2: in ICU, and even on the med Sarch floor, my
- 43:38Speaker 2: husband was in facilities there at the time, and my
- 43:41Speaker 2: CEO threatened him and any other employee you had a
- 43:44Speaker 2: family member, you cross the lines and go see a
- 43:47Speaker 2: family member and you will be terminated.
- 43:49Speaker 3: Wow, And unfortunately you know you do.
- 43:54Speaker 2: You're like you are like ball and chain because you
- 43:56Speaker 2: need your income, right, we have no ability to do
- 43:59Speaker 2: anything without an income, and so he chose to just
- 44:03Speaker 2: guard and be safe and have other people tell him
- 44:05Speaker 2: how I was doing. But that isolation, Yeah, I mean,
- 44:09Speaker 2: and that's what was So it was maddening, it was
- 44:12Speaker 2: it made me angry, but it was also inspiring. And
- 44:14Speaker 2: I thought, by God, if I get out of here,
- 44:16Speaker 2: and you know we've talked about it, that was my prayer, God,
- 44:18Speaker 2: if you get me out of here, I will make
- 44:20Speaker 2: a difference every day for the rest of my life.
- 44:23Speaker 3: And that's what I had tend to do. That's why
- 44:25Speaker 3: the book came to be.
- 44:27Speaker 2: It's raw, and you know in there I have stories
- 44:30Speaker 2: about I will never forget the patients. I will never
- 44:33Speaker 2: forget them. You can only help so many people at
- 44:36Speaker 2: a time. It's like when the ship's going down. You
- 44:37Speaker 2: can't save everyone, but you try to save as many
- 44:39Speaker 2: as you can hold in the hands of Nancy. And
- 44:42Speaker 2: I see you, and you know those darn nurses in
- 44:45Speaker 2: the unit, they thought I was there to watch them.
- 44:47Speaker 2: I couldn't even believe it. Like I don't know who
- 44:50Speaker 2: else gets a leader to come into a hospital at
- 44:52Speaker 2: eleven o'clock at night on a Saturday night and stay
- 44:55Speaker 2: a whole shift and just be with one patient. It
- 44:57Speaker 2: made one nurse's life a lot easier. But she's swore
- 45:00Speaker 2: I was watching her. But that one patient, all she
- 45:02Speaker 2: wanted to do was hold hands because she was afraid.
- 45:06Speaker 3: She was scared, and.
- 45:06Speaker 2: They wouldn't let her son, you know. And there's other
- 45:09Speaker 2: stories in there like that, and we let people die
- 45:13Speaker 2: alone in an isolation and it did.
- 45:15Speaker 4: Not have to be.
- 45:16Speaker 2: It was all all make believe. So we have to
- 45:19Speaker 2: be smarter, folks. We've got to be smarter. Gail, myself,
- 45:24Speaker 2: the team, you know, Betrail Project USA dot org. We're
- 45:29Speaker 2: out there. We're out there on X. We want you
- 45:32Speaker 2: to hear, we want you to be involved, share your stories.
- 45:35Speaker 2: We want to help you heal, we want to help
- 45:37Speaker 2: you to know more. We've only got a few seconds left.
- 45:41Speaker 2: But Gail, what else would you like to share before
- 45:43Speaker 2: you Just engage?
- 45:45Speaker 4: Engage with us, follow us, share our content. It's growing
- 45:49Speaker 4: and growing and growing. Right now, it's not ready for
- 45:52Speaker 4: mobile phones, so you got to use a computer. But
- 45:54Speaker 4: it will be in the next two weeks. It will
- 45:57Speaker 4: be all set for every every type of advice that
- 46:00Speaker 4: you can can use. But I appreciate you all you do.
- 46:06Speaker 4: Patty you too, Gail.
- 46:08Speaker 2: I mean, look, we would have never got to know
- 46:10Speaker 2: each other if it hadn't been for this tragedy.
- 46:12Speaker 4: But I'm so grateful, and that's one piece of gratitude
- 46:15Speaker 4: that you can start with.
- 46:17Speaker 2: It absolutely is. Listen, folks, we're here every Thursday, three pm.
- 46:21Speaker 2: Tune in. It'll be very provocative and riveting, sometimes more
- 46:25Speaker 2: than others, but I hope we were able to share
- 46:27Speaker 2: something that brings reality and life to you. Our children
- 46:31Speaker 2: are our future. You are our future. But you got
- 46:33Speaker 2: to be connected and be plugged in. Tune into us
- 46:35Speaker 2: wherever you can look into Betrayal Project USA dot org.
- 46:39Speaker 2: You'll get a lot of great information. Tune into the
- 46:41Speaker 2: X space this Saturday and you all know how to
- 46:44Speaker 2: reach me. My website's up there. I will see you
- 46:46Speaker 2: all next Thursday. Have a wonderful weekend, and remember speak gratitude.
- 46:50Speaker 2: Start the day grateful and the rest of the day
- 46:53Speaker 2: you'll be smiling all day.
- 46:55Speaker 4: Take care everybody. Have a great one, but
- 47:05Speaker 3: Back to have