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- 0:26Speaker 1: Hello on good morning party people. Welcome to a Monday.
- 0:33Speaker 2: That's the wake up call I need it.
- 0:35Speaker 1: Just go ahead and give that to Alexa and see
- 0:37Speaker 1: if she can match it up here.
- 0:40Speaker 2: I'll try.
- 0:42Speaker 1: Now, what part of the nation are you inside these
- 0:44Speaker 1: days when you're just waking.
- 0:46Speaker 2: Up outside of Seattle?
- 0:48Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm from Billings, So I mean that
- 0:52Speaker 1: is so much my backyard, that whole entire area up there.
- 0:56Speaker 2: Hell yeah years now, thirteen years, I guess, yeah, love
- 1:03Speaker 2: it and see that.
- 1:04Speaker 1: And you're in such a part of the area where
- 1:05Speaker 1: a lot of people across the country don't understand the
- 1:08Speaker 1: impact of the Cascade Mountains just outside of Seattle, and kidding,
- 1:12Speaker 1: everything beautiful out there is because of those those cascades,
- 1:16Speaker 1: and it's like, oh, I just got to go there
- 1:17Speaker 1: just to respect those mountains.
- 1:20Speaker 2: That's true. Man, I love the mountains. I just I
- 1:22Speaker 2: don't know, but I also love being close to the water.
- 1:24Speaker 2: So you get the best best of both worlds.
- 1:27Speaker 1: You know, you're doing something here that I'm just so
- 1:29Speaker 1: proud of you for doing, and that is the connection
- 1:31Speaker 1: between animals and humans, and especially with horses, because we
- 1:35Speaker 1: had a ranch down there in Ranchester, Wyoming, and just
- 1:37Speaker 1: horses have been such a major part of what we do.
- 1:40Speaker 1: And then to read about the brat and the bullfighter,
- 1:42Speaker 1: it's just it's like there's so much anybody who has
- 1:45Speaker 1: been associated with horses, You're going to understand this story
- 1:48Speaker 1: in such a great creative way.
- 1:51Speaker 2: Oh I love hearing that, and I loved I Like
- 1:54Speaker 2: when I found out you were like a horseman, I
- 1:56Speaker 2: was like, oh man, I'm all about meeting him. I
- 1:58Speaker 2: just want to suck to him. You can probably talk
- 1:59Speaker 2: a day.
- 2:00Speaker 1: Well. It's one of those things where like even even
- 2:02Speaker 1: when the horse Whisperer came out, I'm going, what what
- 2:05Speaker 1: are you talking about? I mean, every time we go
- 2:07Speaker 1: in there just to saddle up or something like that,
- 2:09Speaker 1: that moment is happening it's not something that Hollywood is generating.
- 2:12Speaker 1: These these connections with horses are happening all the day time.
- 2:17Speaker 2: You know, it's true, But I think that's a part
- 2:19Speaker 2: that's still to me. Part of the reason I wrote
- 2:21Speaker 2: this is that I don't see in an overall general
- 2:26Speaker 2: sense that that many people are having the same kind
- 2:28Speaker 2: of connection that I know you're talking about, Like you
- 2:31Speaker 2: go and it's magic, and you're there and and and
- 2:36Speaker 2: you're listening to them, you're communicating with them, whereas I
- 2:38Speaker 2: do still see some people they just kind of come
- 2:41Speaker 2: into a barn, they saddle up, they were at them hard,
- 2:44Speaker 2: they put them away wet, and they don't take that
- 2:46Speaker 2: time to just form a relationship or a bond. That partnership.
- 2:51Speaker 1: Well, you definitely bring that out. You're absolutely right about
- 2:53Speaker 1: that bond, because I'll never forget. I was out there
- 2:55Speaker 1: in the fields of Ranchester, and I was on Tiny
- 2:58Speaker 1: and and and I just can't I couldn't figure out
- 3:01Speaker 1: why Tiny wasn't wasn't moving forward. I could not see
- 3:04Speaker 1: in the tall grass of Wyoming, and and what what
- 3:07Speaker 1: Tiny saw was a dang snake and and and and
- 3:10Speaker 1: so so therefore, even though we came to an abrupt hault,
- 3:13Speaker 1: and I felt like I was gonna go flying over
- 3:15Speaker 1: Tiny's head. Oh my god. But but see that changed
- 3:18Speaker 1: my whole entire landscape of relationships with horses because of
- 3:22Speaker 1: that moment.
- 3:24Speaker 2: Oh did you start to look at the world in
- 3:26Speaker 2: a different way? Oh?
- 3:27Speaker 1: Different way?
- 3:28Speaker 2: That's my whole thing. Yeah, I'm like, they see the
- 3:30Speaker 2: world in a completely different way, So maybe I need
- 3:32Speaker 2: to get into that. Yeah, I mean the mindset that.
- 3:37Speaker 1: Yeah, even the haystacks and everything like that. Everything changed
- 3:41Speaker 1: from that moment forward, because all of a sudden, I
- 3:43Speaker 1: started looking at everything and just and not just my thing.
- 3:48Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's exactly because they notice everything. They notice
- 3:52Speaker 2: everything makes you look at the world in a different way.
- 3:53Speaker 2: It makes you kind of react in a different way,
- 3:56Speaker 2: appreciate them in a different way. And it also kind
- 3:59Speaker 2: of so great though, too, that you grew up in
- 4:02Speaker 2: Wyoming and you're riding horse named What kind of worse
- 4:05Speaker 2: was this? I gotta know. Was it a cour door,
- 4:07Speaker 2: It was.
- 4:08Speaker 1: A work well, you know, this is the way we
- 4:09Speaker 1: looked at it all the time. It was a workhorse.
- 4:11Speaker 1: Tiny knew exactly what Tiny needed to do. We had
- 4:14Speaker 1: to get those cattle out there into the field and
- 4:16Speaker 1: we sometimes there were times we had to go up
- 4:18Speaker 1: into Lodge grass Care, you know, taking those cattle up there,
- 4:20Speaker 1: because we needed to get those cattle into those open
- 4:22Speaker 1: fields for the summer months and then bring them on
- 4:25Speaker 1: back home.
- 4:27Speaker 2: Oh my god, what you're talking about is like that
- 4:30Speaker 2: sounds so dreamy. I mean so much hard work, don't
- 4:34Speaker 2: get me wrong, but just to be out there and
- 4:36Speaker 2: nature like that?
- 4:37Speaker 1: How long did you do that for my childhood? And
- 4:39Speaker 1: then of course, you know, once I turned eighteen, it
- 4:41Speaker 1: was like, I gotta go do radio. I'm so sorry,
- 4:43Speaker 1: I've got to go to the big city. And I have.
- 4:46Speaker 1: Even today, people will still call me that. You know
- 4:48Speaker 1: that you got that city slicker kind of attitude. I'm
- 4:50Speaker 1: going to you it was only Billings, Montana. Trust me,
- 4:52Speaker 1: it's not a city slicker attitude.
- 4:57Speaker 2: Oh man, I love that. What's your favorite thing about
- 5:00Speaker 2: a horse?
- 5:00Speaker 1: Uh? The fact that I can get really super close
- 5:04Speaker 1: up to their eyes and just sit there and look
- 5:06Speaker 1: at them and just feel like I've got the world's
- 5:08Speaker 1: greatest friend inside my heart. I am, And you know
- 5:11Speaker 1: I'll do that even with my dogs. Is that I'll
- 5:14Speaker 1: sit there and get so close to them. But I
- 5:17Speaker 1: swear to you, I couldn't have done it if it
- 5:19Speaker 1: wasn't for being out there. And even Pam Stone, the comedian,
- 5:22Speaker 1: I mean when she invited us to her horse farm
- 5:24Speaker 1: here in the Carolinas. I mean, the first thing that
- 5:26Speaker 1: I do is I walk in there and I put
- 5:29Speaker 1: my face up against the horse. It's because it's just
- 5:31Speaker 1: it's so natural for me to do that.
- 5:35Speaker 2: Yeah, they know you and they let you in.
- 5:37Speaker 1: Yes, that's what she talked. That's exactly what she talked about,
- 5:41Speaker 1: was that she was gone, dang, you know, people are
- 5:43Speaker 1: usually afraid, and I'm going, no, I don't feel that.
- 5:46Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I think you are so right. So many
- 5:49Speaker 2: people are very afraid of horses. And it's one of
- 5:52Speaker 2: those things like but they're the gentlest creature and then
- 5:55Speaker 2: the most forgiving creature, like all that they've done for
- 5:57Speaker 2: us and all that they continue to do for us.
- 6:00Speaker 2: But you know, I guess when you don't grow up
- 6:02Speaker 2: with them. They're big and they are powerful and if
- 6:06Speaker 2: they wanted to, they could hurt you. Yeah, but yeah,
- 6:10Speaker 2: not not everybody gets to have that experience, which is
- 6:12Speaker 2: a shame.
- 6:13Speaker 1: I think my relationship actually goes to my real father
- 6:16Speaker 1: and that and what his job was. And this is
- 6:18Speaker 1: the craziest thing I ever heard of before. And I
- 6:21Speaker 1: denied my mom so many times, but but the thing is,
- 6:24Speaker 1: she goes he used to go out there into the
- 6:26Speaker 1: Tongue River. He would get onto a horse that needed
- 6:30Speaker 1: to be broke, and he would get on that horse
- 6:32Speaker 1: in that river. And I said, that is the most
- 6:34Speaker 1: insane thing I've ever heard in my life, but yet
- 6:37Speaker 1: it was so true. That's that's exactly how they did
- 6:40Speaker 1: it back there in those days.
- 6:43Speaker 2: Into the river, so that when he went popping off.
- 6:45Speaker 1: So yeah, he at least had a net beneath him.
- 6:49Speaker 1: It was water, but it was still in net.
- 6:56Speaker 2: I don't ever get ready to go into the lake
- 6:58Speaker 2: or whatever. Yeah, an air vest. I always ride with
- 7:01Speaker 2: an air vest, because I've taken enough tumbles in my life,
- 7:05Speaker 2: you know, always with a helmet. And I'm not an inventor,
- 7:07Speaker 2: never been one, but yeah, taken enough tumbles that that
- 7:11Speaker 2: thing is save saved my butt and my ribs and everything.
- 7:16Speaker 1: Yeah, don't you think that in writing The Brad and
- 7:20Speaker 1: the Bullfighter, that you're serving as an invitation for people
- 7:23Speaker 1: to go ahead and maybe take that step toward getting
- 7:26Speaker 1: their first ride, or understanding that there is a lot
- 7:29Speaker 1: of healing in the human mind, body and soul that
- 7:31Speaker 1: can come from just riding a horse.
- 7:34Speaker 2: Oh gosh, it's a really good question. I think my
- 7:39Speaker 2: biggest thing is, like it was always my touchstone and
- 7:41Speaker 2: riding it is that I could change one person's perspective
- 7:44Speaker 2: on how they view horses and just have a little
- 7:48Speaker 2: bit more empathy and a little bit more patience and
- 7:51Speaker 2: absolutely encouraging people to get around horses. I mean, I
- 7:55Speaker 2: just don't think there's anything more special, But you know,
- 7:58Speaker 2: that's my passion. I don't know that it's everyone, but
- 8:00Speaker 2: I just wanted them because what you said about you know,
- 8:04Speaker 2: there's such a healing power of horses for us as humans.
- 8:07Speaker 2: But I also want people to, you know, recognize horses
- 8:12Speaker 2: as emotional well being too, Like we take a lot
- 8:15Speaker 2: from them, but we got to make sure that we're
- 8:17Speaker 2: giving back as good as we get, just because you know,
- 8:23Speaker 2: like one of the things too and the reason like
- 8:24Speaker 2: I just like I would never intended this city a memoir.
- 8:27Speaker 2: I was never it was always going to be a
- 8:28Speaker 2: story from a horse's perspective, right, This one particular horse
- 8:31Speaker 2: that I felt taught me that, oh you don't know,
- 8:34Speaker 2: you know, crap about horses are and really after I
- 8:37Speaker 2: you know, had them in my life, my entire life.
- 8:39Speaker 2: But just like moving a horse, like I moved as
- 8:45Speaker 2: a brat, like an army brat. It was hard, and
- 8:48Speaker 2: every time we moved it was more and more difficult.
- 8:50Speaker 2: And with a horse, you know, you take them. You know,
- 8:53Speaker 2: so many people expect to like, oh, we'll just move them,
- 8:55Speaker 2: no big deal. But you you take them away from
- 8:57Speaker 2: their herd, their routine. They're every day life and they
- 9:01Speaker 2: can't pick up a phone and call their friends and
- 9:03Speaker 2: be like, hey, how you doing. And we set them
- 9:05Speaker 2: in a new place. It's scary for them. And I said,
- 9:08Speaker 2: some people just you know, they bribe and they're like, well,
- 9:10Speaker 2: let's go, let's ride, let's do let's it's not a machine.
- 9:13Speaker 2: They're not machines.
- 9:15Speaker 1: Oh my god, you speak of they're herd. And right
- 9:17Speaker 1: away I have this vision of tiny and when it
- 9:20Speaker 1: was time to ride, ride the horses, we'd go out
- 9:22Speaker 1: there and the herd would be there. That little monkey
- 9:24Speaker 1: would have such an ego until we got out there closer.
- 9:27Speaker 1: But it was like, nah, I'm not going in today.
- 9:29Speaker 1: I mean just like a dang child, We're good, I'll
- 9:33Speaker 1: get you tomorrow maybe maybe if tomorrow ever really comes.
- 9:37Speaker 1: But they do they have little egos out there when
- 9:39Speaker 1: they're with their with their friends.
- 9:41Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I mean they have a whole hierarchy of
- 9:43Speaker 2: who's who and who's going to be on the lookout,
- 9:46Speaker 2: and you know, they're working together. But I say, I've
- 9:49Speaker 2: heard too that like even being top dog, that's a
- 9:52Speaker 2: job that no one really wants. They're always hoping for
- 9:54Speaker 2: the other one to be, Like you want to be
- 9:55Speaker 2: top dog, right, not me, like because I want to
- 9:58Speaker 2: kind of take it a little easy. But uh, well,
- 10:02Speaker 2: that well, I think you in saying that too. Like
- 10:04Speaker 2: that's another thing I would say to people is like
- 10:07Speaker 2: go out and watch the hurt, see how they interact,
- 10:09Speaker 2: See what their spatial communication is, you know, because it's
- 10:12Speaker 2: kind of like spatial communication that physical communication, you know,
- 10:15Speaker 2: are just and like for us too acoustic for them
- 10:18Speaker 2: comes last because they're not verbal creatures like we are
- 10:20Speaker 2: in the same way. Yeah, and I think we forget that.
- 10:24Speaker 2: So it's just kind of a place to be a
- 10:26Speaker 2: little more quiet too.
- 10:28Speaker 1: Please do not move, We're gonna be right back with
- 10:30Speaker 1: Aaron O'Malley, the name of the book The Brat and
- 10:35Speaker 1: the Bull Fighter. We are back with author Aaron O'Malley.
- 10:39Speaker 1: What do you think Artie's voice really sounds like I mean,
- 10:42Speaker 1: I mean, because you know, inside your imagination and now
- 10:45Speaker 1: inside my imagination, it's like, I so bad, I just
- 10:48Speaker 1: want to have this this humble voice like Okay, I'm fine,
- 10:52Speaker 1: let's go for it. And it's just id am I wrong?
- 10:55Speaker 1: I mean, it's like, let let's do it. Okay, get on,
- 10:58Speaker 1: let's go.
- 10:59Speaker 2: You know, we've already and there are different horses in
- 11:03Speaker 2: this book, and they had different voices in my head
- 11:06Speaker 2: for each of them. And I know that's I know,
- 11:08Speaker 2: that's all have to primorphizing. But because Already was bred
- 11:11Speaker 2: in Brazil, to me, he still has his Portuguese accent,
- 11:14Speaker 2: and I find him a little bit. He's a little
- 11:17Speaker 2: bit pretentious. He's a little bit like, hey, I know
- 11:19Speaker 2: I'm pretty cool. But at the same time, there's a
- 11:25Speaker 2: there's a sensitivity to him and a desire to police
- 11:29Speaker 2: that's so strong, like I always called him like generous
- 11:31Speaker 2: to a fault that it's it's this sort of insecurity
- 11:34Speaker 2: that comes through it, like he wants to tell you
- 11:36Speaker 2: like he's got it, but he's also like, but I
- 11:38Speaker 2: need you to kind of thing. Whereas I have another
- 11:41Speaker 2: horse in the story. He's a Freezian from Holland, and
- 11:45Speaker 2: but I always pictured him as having sort of like
- 11:47Speaker 2: a Santa Cruz surfer voice because he's so chill, like
- 11:51Speaker 2: live back. I don't know, he's not weird. Yeah yeah,
- 11:55Speaker 2: just like, oh, I will do this all right, shaka.
- 11:59Speaker 1: I guess this is part of what I do if
- 12:01Speaker 1: it's gonna lead to something later on today. I'm there, man,
- 12:04Speaker 1: I'm there.
- 12:05Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 12:06Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 12:06Speaker 2: With you, it was like it's all right, nothing's too
- 12:09Speaker 2: I don't get too excited about anything. I don't get
- 12:11Speaker 2: too nervous, whereas already has like a more nervous energy
- 12:14Speaker 2: because he's kind of like he was always looking for
- 12:16Speaker 2: his one person. He kind of had like a lot
- 12:19Speaker 2: of different riders, a lot of different trainers, and and
- 12:22Speaker 2: as that built up and builds up, he was like,
- 12:25Speaker 2: this isn't for me, and he started to get a
- 12:27Speaker 2: little dangerous understad a little bit like I don't want
- 12:29Speaker 2: to do this anymore, kind of like going up or
- 12:31Speaker 2: kicking out or biting and and lord knows why, Like
- 12:36Speaker 2: I got to call and it was like me the amateur,
- 12:38Speaker 2: like Aaron since today I met him, I was always like,
- 12:40Speaker 2: that's the one. I love this horse. You know, if
- 12:44Speaker 2: you could take him, if you know I sold him
- 12:46Speaker 2: to your for the right Christ, would you want him?
- 12:48Speaker 2: I was like, uh yes, thinking, thinking like I'd be
- 12:53Speaker 2: like two months in and we'd be like ropping and
- 12:55Speaker 2: rolling and like, oh my god, I got this horse's number.
- 12:57Speaker 2: Oh no, no, years years to that trust with him.
- 13:01Speaker 1: I love the idea that you give the horses personality.
- 13:04Speaker 1: And that's the thing about it is because you know,
- 13:07Speaker 1: we all sit there, even when we're cruising down the
- 13:08Speaker 1: highway in any state and we see the horses out
- 13:11Speaker 1: in the field, We're sitting there inside our kid like imaginations.
- 13:14Speaker 1: We are inventing those voices, we're inventing stories. We all
- 13:18Speaker 1: think that we're that Western cowboy from a John Wayne movie.
- 13:21Speaker 1: It's we all go through it.
- 13:25Speaker 2: I love that you say that. Do you think that's
- 13:26Speaker 2: what everybody does, because it's certainly in my mind as
- 13:29Speaker 2: a kid growing up, it was just I saw a
- 13:31Speaker 2: horse and it was instantly, Yeah, the imagination is going,
- 13:35Speaker 2: what's going on with them? How it would be like
- 13:37Speaker 2: to be with them.
- 13:38Speaker 1: Because I mean, I do I this is the Montana
- 13:41Speaker 1: coming out of me. But I do feel disturbed in
- 13:44Speaker 1: the fact that when all those Fances became white picket
- 13:46Speaker 1: Fance is up there around Livingston and Bozeman. I'm going,
- 13:48Speaker 1: that's not the horse's life. I want to go back
- 13:51Speaker 1: to the days of the Barbera fans. I understand, you know,
- 13:53Speaker 1: it's not a good place with the Barbera fans, But
- 13:55Speaker 1: there was just something so elegant to see that horse
- 13:59Speaker 1: on that side and you could walk beyond that that
- 14:01Speaker 1: barbed wire Fance, that horse is going. You made it,
- 14:05Speaker 1: you know what you what I'm saying, I mean you
- 14:07Speaker 1: could have seen it in their eyes or the wave
- 14:09Speaker 1: of their ears. Man, is that you did it. I
- 14:12Speaker 1: want you to be my friend.
- 14:16Speaker 2: I think they do want to be your friends. They
- 14:18Speaker 2: don't want to be your enemy, that's for sure. But
- 14:20Speaker 2: I love that you had that experience growing up in
- 14:22Speaker 2: the great wide open.
- 14:25Speaker 1: Oh my god, you just gave me another That was
- 14:27Speaker 1: like the first time that my wife we went riding
- 14:29Speaker 1: in Ranchester, says, well, where's the trail? Where are we going? No? No, no,
- 14:32Speaker 1: you could go anywhere. You don't know it's like, no, no, no,
- 14:36Speaker 1: this is not one of those things you get over
- 14:37Speaker 1: there in Jackson, Wyoming. No, no, no, no, you just
- 14:39Speaker 1: go just go.
- 14:42Speaker 2: How beautiful is that? Because I also feel like, you know,
- 14:44Speaker 2: I'm in I'm in Washington and there's a lot of
- 14:46Speaker 2: horses around where I live, but it's still like the
- 14:49Speaker 2: modern world is encroaching on the horse and riding facilities
- 14:53Speaker 2: are going away pasture land. When I'd lived down in California,
- 14:58Speaker 2: there used to be so much place to ride, and
- 14:59Speaker 2: it just little by little man takes over. And I
- 15:02Speaker 2: always think, too, like, how did you get to be here?
- 15:05Speaker 2: The West was one on the backs of these creatures,
- 15:07Speaker 2: and that you want to take away their land sad
- 15:10Speaker 2: well see.
- 15:11Speaker 1: And that's one of the reasons why in studying Native
- 15:13Speaker 1: American history, I put a lot of focus on the
- 15:15Speaker 1: Crow nation because the crows have always been master horsemen.
- 15:19Speaker 1: And it's like, well, man, that's about relationship. There's there's
- 15:22Speaker 1: no way in hell that a man would just jump
- 15:25Speaker 1: on that horse because they felt it was the thing
- 15:27Speaker 1: like they do in movies. Ah ah. There was something
- 15:31Speaker 1: that had to happen in that relationship for that moment
- 15:34Speaker 1: to happen. In real life.
- 15:36Speaker 2: Oh yeah, they're like centaurs. Yeah, they're like half man,
- 15:39Speaker 2: half horse, they'd just become one. I think that's like when,
- 15:44Speaker 2: like when the Romans came to the Iberian Peninsula, which
- 15:46Speaker 2: is where the Lucid Haunters are originally from in Pensular
- 15:49Speaker 2: Portuguese National Course, is that they saw these people riding
- 15:54Speaker 2: and they're like, is that a different creature? Like that
- 15:57Speaker 2: just looks like they're just so flu in their movement,
- 16:01Speaker 2: And that's when they decided to kind of change their
- 16:03Speaker 2: tactics in military too, like less of the ramrod horse
- 16:07Speaker 2: and more of this sort of horse that could get
- 16:09Speaker 2: around and swoop in and come out and just really
- 16:13Speaker 2: flexible and versatile and athletic.
- 16:16Speaker 1: Is there a sight of your creative personality that would
- 16:19Speaker 1: like to see this go into moving pictures or do
- 16:21Speaker 1: you like the idea that you're inside our imaginations?
- 16:25Speaker 2: Oh, that's a funny. That's not a funny question. It's
- 16:27Speaker 2: one I've thought about. And when I had originally was
- 16:30Speaker 2: writing this from just the horses perspective before bringing my
- 16:34Speaker 2: story into it, I kind of pictured I didn't know
- 16:38Speaker 2: how it would be done with real creatures, which would
- 16:42Speaker 2: be amazing, but I pictured it sort of as a
- 16:45Speaker 2: Pixar that's like, just because you could get the two
- 16:50Speaker 2: kind of going and then you could have these you know,
- 16:52Speaker 2: the talking sort of in that way. But if there
- 16:56Speaker 2: was some way to I mean, I here's the thing too,
- 16:58Speaker 2: Like when you talk about movies, like my husband's always like,
- 17:01Speaker 2: the only way we can get you to go to
- 17:02Speaker 2: a movie is if it has a horse in it,
- 17:04Speaker 2: or if it's if it's a war movie, Like I
- 17:07Speaker 2: just I'll go to any of them. And I don't know,
- 17:09Speaker 2: not that I'm a warmonger, but I just fascinated with
- 17:12Speaker 2: those those pieces and the courage and the bravery and
- 17:16Speaker 2: all of that sort of thing, the sacrifice, I guess
- 17:19Speaker 2: of different wars I heard. I listened to your episode
- 17:23Speaker 2: not to digress, but with Anthony Marris who directed Pressure,
- 17:27Speaker 2: like those kind of movies, I'm just like, oh, all
- 17:29Speaker 2: about it. To bet there weren't any horses in it.
- 17:32Speaker 1: No, I'm totally with you on that in the way
- 17:35Speaker 1: that we are entering this modern day age of real
- 17:38Speaker 1: authentic storytelling. And that's what I love about The Brat
- 17:41Speaker 1: and the Bullfighter is that you're making you're putting me
- 17:43Speaker 1: right back in there with my father, who always read
- 17:46Speaker 1: the Westerns. It was always and I think he did
- 17:50Speaker 1: the same thing. If this story does not have a
- 17:52Speaker 1: horse in it, I ain't reading it. I'm just not
- 17:54Speaker 1: gonna read it. And that's the way my father was.
- 17:57Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess I'm very much like your father. I
- 18:00Speaker 2: don't know, I just, uh, there's something. So this is
- 18:04Speaker 2: another thing. I think about horses, and tell me what
- 18:06Speaker 2: you think. And when I'm on a horse, it's instantly
- 18:11Speaker 2: time travel yep, Like it is a portal to a
- 18:13Speaker 2: different place. Like I'll go out and you know, I'll
- 18:16Speaker 2: be in the woods out here, because we do. We're lucky,
- 18:18Speaker 2: we can. We do have trails. We got in the woods.
- 18:20Speaker 2: And I can be a scout, you know, you know,
- 18:23Speaker 2: I mean, or I can be like some English gentry,
- 18:26Speaker 2: you know, going off to tea with someone. I just
- 18:29Speaker 2: where I could, you know. I'm like, I'll ride my unicorn.
- 18:32Speaker 2: Maybe that sounds weird, but it's I can. It just
- 18:35Speaker 2: takes me to a different place and a place where
- 18:38Speaker 2: I can be and I need to be fully present
- 18:42Speaker 2: that I'm looking around and I'm smelling almost like smelling
- 18:45Speaker 2: the roses, you know, stop and smell the roses, get
- 18:47Speaker 2: on a horse, and that's what you'll do.
- 18:49Speaker 1: True, so true. And I always felt like that I
- 18:51Speaker 1: was a rock star because I mean, look at Roy
- 18:54Speaker 1: Rogers and and all of those people that are on TV.
- 18:57Speaker 1: They the music came to them while they were riding horses,
- 19:00Speaker 1: and so therefore it must happen to me too. I
- 19:02Speaker 1: want that same experience, and so I would always take
- 19:05Speaker 1: my guitar on the horse. On Tiny. We'd go out
- 19:07Speaker 1: to a haystack in Ranchester and I would stand on
- 19:10Speaker 1: that haystack like I was at Woodstock, and I envisioned
- 19:12Speaker 1: forty thousand people out there watching me sing, I swear
- 19:15Speaker 1: to God. And it was all because of my ride
- 19:17Speaker 1: out there on that dang horse.
- 19:19Speaker 2: Shut up, are you serious? You ride? I'm picturing you
- 19:22Speaker 2: as name Tiny that I picture as like a big giant.
- 19:25Speaker 1: Beast, big old white horse man.
- 19:30Speaker 2: There you go. White horses, they have a place in
- 19:32Speaker 2: my heart. I just love and ego.
- 19:35Speaker 1: Oh god, what an ego.
- 19:38Speaker 2: But I think too like they for me. I mean,
- 19:43Speaker 2: I'm a shy I'm shy, I'm still shy, grew up
- 19:46Speaker 2: super shy. But they they made me feel like I
- 19:50Speaker 2: could do more Yep. They gave me this empowerment. Like
- 19:53Speaker 2: when I get into a tough spot and I'm like,
- 19:54Speaker 2: I don't know about this, Like hey, Aaron, you're around
- 19:57Speaker 2: these these creatures, you ride these, you know, these beautiful
- 20:01Speaker 2: heavenly sight creatures, Like you got this? You can do this?
- 20:05Speaker 2: You know? Wow? Are you?
- 20:07Speaker 1: Where can people go to find out more about everything
- 20:10Speaker 1: you're doing? Because there's gonna be a lot of new
- 20:12Speaker 1: horse people that are going to be reaching out to
- 20:14Speaker 1: you because they're going to be taking their first step
- 20:16Speaker 1: and their first ride because of this book, because you're
- 20:19Speaker 1: so honest inside this storyline where you've made them so real.
- 20:24Speaker 2: Oh it's so nice to you. Well, I have a website,
- 20:26Speaker 2: you know, www Aaron O'Malley author dot com. And if
- 20:32Speaker 2: you don't, you know, to find the book. It's sort
- 20:34Speaker 2: of everywhere books are sold.
- 20:36Speaker 1: I love it. Well, what we need to do is
- 20:38Speaker 1: get on the back of a horse and let's go
- 20:40Speaker 1: see an outdoor movie. That's what we do out West.
- 20:42Speaker 2: We could you imagine I'm that like a car like
- 20:46Speaker 2: the drive in you do the ride in?
- 20:48Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh yeah, I can see that hand I
- 20:50Speaker 1: am missing out, Yeah, sitting on top of that horse,
- 20:53Speaker 1: or actually no, I wouldn't even sit up on top
- 20:55Speaker 1: of the horse watching the movie. I would just be
- 20:56Speaker 1: sitting on the ground and the horse will be coming
- 20:58Speaker 1: up nudging me. Dude, come on, come on, come on,
- 21:01Speaker 1: come on, dude, come.
- 21:02Speaker 2: On, what would the movie be? That's the question.
- 21:07Speaker 1: Blazing, blazing saddles good, Oh God, please come back to
- 21:15Speaker 1: this show anytime in the future. The door is always
- 21:17Speaker 1: going to be open for you. Kiara.
- 21:19Speaker 2: I really appreciate this time. I hope you have a
- 21:21Speaker 2: wonderful week.
- 21:22Speaker 1: Oh my god. I love your voice in writing as
- 21:24Speaker 1: well as in person. So please come back anytime.
- 21:28Speaker 2: All right, take it easy, all right, you'd be brilliant.
- 21:30Speaker 2: Okay you do. Hello. Bye,