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- 0:02SPEAKER_00: Welcome to the Aggressively Human podcast,
- 0:04SPEAKER_00: where we are hoping that at the very least you can fill out the part
- 0:07SPEAKER_00: that says insert name here.
- 0:09SPEAKER_00: I am your co-host, Meg Casebolt.
- 0:11SPEAKER_02: And I'm Jessica Lackey.
- 0:13SPEAKER_00: And today we have Laura with us,
- 0:15SPEAKER_00: and I forgot to ask how to pronounce your last name,
- 0:17SPEAKER_00: so we're just going to throw it over to you, Laura.
- 0:19SPEAKER_00: Laura, it's so nice to meet you, and please tell us about yourself.
- 0:22SPEAKER_00: I'm so glad to be here.
- 0:24SPEAKER_01: Thanks.
- 0:24SPEAKER_01: My last name is Low Pitch.
- 0:25SPEAKER_01: Like in baseball, instead of high pitch, it's the Low Pitch.
- 0:29SPEAKER_01: So, yeah, perfect.
- 0:30SPEAKER_01: So I help online service providers get the conversations that you want and you need
- 0:36SPEAKER_01: with the high quality leads that you're looking for.
- 0:38SPEAKER_01: And the spoiler is like those leads are actually already looking for you.
- 0:42SPEAKER_01: You just need to like make that first contact and reach out to them.
- 0:46SPEAKER_00: And that's the difference is that you don't have to sit around and wait for them to come to you.
- 0:51SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 0:51SPEAKER_01: Which is also the empowering part too.
- 0:53SPEAKER_01: Cause like You can be in charge of your own business,
- 0:56SPEAKER_01: which is a whole other like podcast episode willing to go down there.
- 1:00SPEAKER_00: That's not empowering.
- 1:01SPEAKER_00: That's scary.
- 1:02SPEAKER_00: Cause what if they say no,
- 1:03SPEAKER_00: that's where I always go with it is like,
- 1:05SPEAKER_00: but then I've,
- 1:06SPEAKER_00: and Jessica and I have talked about this on podcast many times where it's like,
- 1:09SPEAKER_00: she's so much more comfortable with cold individual outreach because it's like,
- 1:14SPEAKER_00: well, they're not going to ignore it if it's a direct email from me.
- 1:17SPEAKER_00: And I'm like,
- 1:17SPEAKER_00: but what if they ignore it or they don't like me
- 1:19SPEAKER_00: or like my like rejection sensitivity just like kicks all up into gear.
- 1:24SPEAKER_00: Yeah, let's go there.
- 1:25SPEAKER_01: So I have had that problem.
- 1:27SPEAKER_01: And then I realized it's kind of like riding a bike.
- 1:31SPEAKER_01: Like my youngest kid, I've got three kids.
- 1:33SPEAKER_01: The youngest one is four.
- 1:35SPEAKER_01: He is so nervous to take like the training wheels off his bike,
- 1:39SPEAKER_01: but he's not even needing them right now.
- 1:41SPEAKER_01: And where it kind of connects
- 1:43SPEAKER_01: to like this outreach is you're already doing sales conversations with the people
- 1:47SPEAKER_01: that you can help.
- 1:48SPEAKER_01: Probably, I'm guessing.
- 1:50SPEAKER_01: I hope you are.
- 1:51SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 1:52SPEAKER_01: If you're listening, I hope you're doing conversations.
- 1:55SPEAKER_01: This is just like the conversation before that conversation.
- 1:58SPEAKER_01: It's kind of like the train wheels.
- 1:59SPEAKER_01: It's not even like a big deal if they say no, because then you're like, OK, cool.
- 2:04SPEAKER_01: Like, why is it a no?
- 2:05SPEAKER_01: I'm just really curious.
- 2:07SPEAKER_01: And then if they're like, well,
- 2:09SPEAKER_01: I really hate cold email,
- 2:10SPEAKER_01: which I obviously get a lot because that's what I deal with.
- 2:14SPEAKER_01: Then it's like, OK, what was your experience?
- 2:16SPEAKER_01: Like, why do you hate it?
- 2:17SPEAKER_01: What made you?
- 2:18SPEAKER_01: And so if you can like kind of lean more into the curiosity,
- 2:22SPEAKER_01: And this person obviously has a problem that I can help them fix.
- 2:26SPEAKER_01: That's why I'm reaching out in the first place.
- 2:28SPEAKER_01: It actually has nothing to do with me.
- 2:30SPEAKER_01: It's more like I have this responsibility as a business owner to reach out and offer a solution.
- 2:36SPEAKER_01: It's kind of like if you see someone wandering around the city looking super lost
- 2:39SPEAKER_01: and you're like, man, I've lived here for 20 years.
- 2:41SPEAKER_01: Like, what are you looking for?
- 2:43SPEAKER_01: It's that same offer just in a business format.
- 2:48SPEAKER_01: It actually has nothing to do with you.
- 2:50SPEAKER_01: And I think We tend to take it really personally because it's like, how dare you say no to me?
- 2:55SPEAKER_01: Like, do you know what?
- 2:56SPEAKER_01: Like, I have like,
- 2:59SPEAKER_01: sometimes it's a fragile self-esteem and sometimes it's just like a really bad day
- 3:02SPEAKER_01: and you just can't take another no.
- 3:04SPEAKER_01: Like, totally have those days.
- 3:06SPEAKER_01: Again, three kids.
- 3:07SPEAKER_01: I hear no all the time.
- 3:10SPEAKER_01: So if you are listening and you have kids,
- 3:12SPEAKER_01: know that you probably have a thicker skin than a lot of other people
- 3:15SPEAKER_01: and you can probably handle a couple no's.
- 3:18SPEAKER_01: And really to quote Glennon Doyle, like, you can do hard things.
- 3:22SPEAKER_01: And this is really, in the whole scope of things, not that hard.
- 3:26SPEAKER_01: And the worst that they're going to do is ignore you.
- 3:29SPEAKER_01: Whoop-de-doo.
- 3:30SPEAKER_01: They ignore you, you go on your way, you find someone else, and that person might say yes.
- 3:35SPEAKER_02: So what Laura doesn't know is that this is not my first interaction
- 3:39SPEAKER_02: with your work because- Really?
- 3:42SPEAKER_02: Yes.
- 3:42SPEAKER_02: So I'm in Jeremy Enza's world and you did- Yes.
- 3:47SPEAKER_02: A year or year and a half ago or sometime in 2025 or 2024,
- 3:53SPEAKER_02: you did a workshop about cold outreach to Jeremy.
- 3:56SPEAKER_02: And so- I do.
- 3:58SPEAKER_02: You don't know that I know that.
- 3:59SPEAKER_02: Probably not.
- 4:01SPEAKER_02: No, but let's like,
- 4:02SPEAKER_02: I want to kind of take a step back because your work is not about quote unquote,
- 4:08SPEAKER_02: cold email.
- 4:09SPEAKER_02: I mean, it is, but it's not.
- 4:11SPEAKER_02: And you have kind of like this approach about how do you make cold emails not
- 4:15SPEAKER_02: so cold,
- 4:15SPEAKER_02: but also, you know, a lot of people are like, well, I don't want to sell them this.
- 4:21SPEAKER_02: And I'm like, well, I don't think that's actually the email.
- 4:23SPEAKER_02: Like you're getting,
- 4:25SPEAKER_02: we all know that we're getting Hundreds of terrible cold pitches asking us
- 4:30SPEAKER_02: to buy stuff.
- 4:32SPEAKER_02: Apparently I'm asked if I want to buy a gym.
- 4:36SPEAKER_02: I'm asked if I want to.
- 4:39SPEAKER_02: My favorite is like, do I want 10 qualified leads in my calendar every week?
- 4:46SPEAKER_02: We're asked things that are ridiculous.
- 4:48SPEAKER_02: And so I think we have this image of cold email,
- 4:50SPEAKER_02: which is like,
- 4:51SPEAKER_02: we must talk to people we've never heard of before, who've never heard of us.
- 4:55SPEAKER_02: We must sell them something they did not want and do not need.
- 5:01SPEAKER_02: And we must do it in a way that makes it sound like AI.
- 5:04SPEAKER_02: And knowing your work,
- 5:06SPEAKER_02: I'm like,
- 5:06SPEAKER_02: that's actually not what Laura's approach to cold email is, if I'm getting it right.
- 5:12SPEAKER_02: You are getting it right, yeah.
- 5:15SPEAKER_02: So maybe we can take a big step back and be like,
- 5:17SPEAKER_02: what are some of the misconceptions of cold email for service providers?
- 5:24SPEAKER_02: Because when you taught it, I'm like, this seems logical.
- 5:30SPEAKER_01: Yes, yes.
- 5:31SPEAKER_01: And actually,
- 5:31SPEAKER_01: if you're cool with it,
- 5:32SPEAKER_01: I'd like to take a step one further back,
- 5:35SPEAKER_01: like the prologue to that, which would be what actually is a cold email?
- 5:40SPEAKER_01: Because So often I will say cold email and exactly what you just described pops
- 5:45SPEAKER_01: into everybody's head.
- 5:46SPEAKER_01: But that's not actually what a cold email is.
- 5:48SPEAKER_01: A cold email is simply an email sent to a stranger,
- 5:52SPEAKER_01: kind of like what I did with you guys to get on here,
- 5:56SPEAKER_01: like pulling it really back and being super meta.
- 5:59SPEAKER_01: You're sending an email to a stranger,
- 6:01SPEAKER_01: someone who doesn't know you,
- 6:02SPEAKER_01: to ask them to take the action that you would like them to take or to step in
- 6:06SPEAKER_01: the direction that you need them to go.
- 6:08SPEAKER_01: It's not transactional.
- 6:09SPEAKER_01: It's not buy my stuff.
- 6:11SPEAKER_01: It's not sell my stuff.
- 6:12SPEAKER_01: It's more of a like a lean in, like a conversation starter.
- 6:18SPEAKER_01: Hey, I noticed that you actively have guests on your show.
- 6:21SPEAKER_01: Are you interested in something a little controversial?
- 6:24SPEAKER_01: Because if you are,
- 6:25SPEAKER_01: I'd like to come on and talk about the other side to cold emails,
- 6:29SPEAKER_01: which is kind of what my pitch was to you guys.
- 6:31SPEAKER_01: So like podcast pitches, definitely cold email.
- 6:34SPEAKER_01: The email I sent to Jeremy actually,
- 6:37SPEAKER_01: Was a cold email because I was like,
- 6:39SPEAKER_01: I don't really know what we could do together,
- 6:42SPEAKER_01: but I feel like you're a collaborator.
- 6:44SPEAKER_01: I am too.
- 6:45SPEAKER_01: I feel like your people would really like this.
- 6:47SPEAKER_01: You want to like hash some ideas out.
- 6:49SPEAKER_01: That's a cold email.
- 6:50SPEAKER_01: So I had no idea who Jeremy was.
- 6:53SPEAKER_01: After I sent him the pitch, I was like, oh, I'm in the same community as him.
- 6:56SPEAKER_01: Like we have all this overlap and I just totally missed it.
- 6:59SPEAKER_01: But that's OK, because really what.
- 7:03SPEAKER_01: Like going to your original question,
- 7:04SPEAKER_01: like these ideas, these myths about cold email is it has to be transactional.
- 7:09SPEAKER_01: You have to send them, they have to like do this work.
- 7:13SPEAKER_01: They have to like click a link.
- 7:14SPEAKER_01: They have to book a call.
- 7:15SPEAKER_01: They have to like have a conversation with you and they don't actually have to do any of that.
- 7:22SPEAKER_01: The easiest thing for them to do is say, yes, I'm interested.
- 7:26SPEAKER_01: And then you just nudge them down the path that you need them to take.
- 7:29SPEAKER_01: Okay, cool.
- 7:29SPEAKER_01: Like let's Talk about what you would want to talk about on your podcast or cool.
- 7:34SPEAKER_01: Like what are the problems you're facing in your business if it's a sales conversation?
- 7:39SPEAKER_01: A lot of times I'll like prequalify someone in a conversation over email
- 7:45SPEAKER_01: before we even get to a sales conversation because we're kind
- 7:49SPEAKER_01: of just feeling it out.
- 7:51SPEAKER_01: And so there's nothing transactional happening, which I think is one of the biggest myths.
- 7:57SPEAKER_01: The other myth is that you have to have like this list of like thousands
- 8:01SPEAKER_01: and thousands and thousands of emails and definitely not getting
- 8:05SPEAKER_01: on Alex Hermozzi's case,
- 8:06SPEAKER_01: but he is the poster boy for this type of strategy where it's like this idea
- 8:11SPEAKER_01: of like more is better, more, more, more, more, more.
- 8:15SPEAKER_01: And I'm seeing it as like kind of a leftover of the bro marketing where it's like,
- 8:21SPEAKER_01: I don't want 10 plus conversations on my calendar a week if they're
- 8:25SPEAKER_01: with poor fit leads.
- 8:27SPEAKER_01: I would like two conversations with like people I know who are like 70
- 8:31SPEAKER_01: to 80% guaranteed to close.
- 8:34SPEAKER_01: High fit quality leads.
- 8:36SPEAKER_01: And because I don't need that many to make my revenue goals.
- 8:40SPEAKER_01: I don't want to work with hundreds of thousands of people.
- 8:44SPEAKER_01: And so that's really the world that this mass cold email,
- 8:48SPEAKER_01: this spray and pray approach is coming from.
- 8:51SPEAKER_01: Like more is better.
- 8:53SPEAKER_01: And it's actually not true.
- 8:54SPEAKER_01: Like Better is better.
- 8:56SPEAKER_01: I'll sign up for that any day.
- 8:58SPEAKER_02: I mean, I think you just keep going back to the heart of, y'all,
- 9:00SPEAKER_02: if you're listening,
- 9:03SPEAKER_02: if you, you, like, Hormozy needs, his original business was the gym business.
- 9:08SPEAKER_02: Like, I think for a gym to be successful,
- 9:09SPEAKER_02: you need like a couple hundred people and you need to like replace the churn.
- 9:12SPEAKER_02: Like, Hormozy traffics in a high traffic business model.
- 9:17SPEAKER_02: Unless you sell courses,
- 9:19SPEAKER_02: which is a little hard to sell on cold email,
- 9:22SPEAKER_02: I would imagine,
- 9:23SPEAKER_02: for most of us,
- 9:24SPEAKER_02: but like you probably need 12 at max, 12 to 20 clients a year, maybe.
- 9:32SPEAKER_02: And some of them are going to be referrals and some of those.
- 9:35SPEAKER_02: So we don't need the big model approach.
- 9:37SPEAKER_02: Anything that's like scaled, I'm like, no, bad news bears.
- 9:42SPEAKER_02: So always continue to go back to your business model.
- 9:45SPEAKER_02: But I'm curious, like,
- 9:48SPEAKER_02: You're doing the qualification,
- 9:49SPEAKER_02: and podcast pitching is like, the qualification is relatively public, right?
- 9:54SPEAKER_02: Do you have guests?
- 9:55SPEAKER_02: The amount of people that I've heard pitch themselves on podcasts
- 10:01SPEAKER_02: when there is no guest, and I'm like, did you read or listen?
- 10:04SPEAKER_02: Like, you know, bar one, do your homework.
- 10:06SPEAKER_02: But you can say, like,
- 10:08SPEAKER_02: they take guests,
- 10:09SPEAKER_02: they talk about this topic,
- 10:11SPEAKER_02: I can come up with a pitch that's You know, appropriate for them.
- 10:15SPEAKER_02: They know I know other people that were on their podcast because that's what you did for ours.
- 10:20SPEAKER_02: How do you go about qualifying people that you send cold outreach to for like a service?
- 10:28SPEAKER_02: So what am I like?
- 10:30SPEAKER_02: I'm going to do a question for a client who would,
- 10:36SPEAKER_02: I think, be mad at me if I like, you know, said this is for so and so.
- 10:39SPEAKER_02: But she's a brand designer.
- 10:41SPEAKER_02: We're trying to get her to bigger brands.
- 10:45SPEAKER_02: She has no idea.
- 10:46SPEAKER_02: She,
- 10:46SPEAKER_02: the only qualification she knows of is their brand is sad and needs to be updated,
- 10:51SPEAKER_02: but you don't know if they're got the budget or if they love their brand
- 10:56SPEAKER_02: because they did it when they were 25,
- 10:58SPEAKER_02: you know,
- 10:58SPEAKER_02: like we don't know whether or not they're,
- 11:00SPEAKER_02: they're qualified in the sense of like, you know, budget authority, need, and time.
- 11:03SPEAKER_02: All we know is that they have a brand that seems to be big enough and it's
- 11:07SPEAKER_02: to this person's eye looks outdated.
- 11:09SPEAKER_02: So like, How would you think about qualifying them before the email?
- 11:15SPEAKER_02: Or is that what the conversation is on email?
- 11:17SPEAKER_02: Which we will have to park because people do not want to have conversations over email.
- 11:21SPEAKER_02: I'm like, why not?
- 11:24SPEAKER_01: I love conversations over email.
- 11:25SPEAKER_01: I just did this workshop actually about asynchronous sales conversations
- 11:29SPEAKER_01: because I've been doing them over email and Loom videos.
- 11:33SPEAKER_01: I'm now using Tela.
- 11:34SPEAKER_01: I like it a lot better than Loom, but totally different conversation.
- 11:39SPEAKER_01: But I've been doing those for like the last five years because I had son number two
- 11:42SPEAKER_01: and I was like,
- 11:42SPEAKER_01: I can't,
- 11:43SPEAKER_01: I can't get like two kids to like actually behave for an hour straight
- 11:47SPEAKER_01: without me making sure they're behaving for an hour straight.
- 11:51SPEAKER_01: So I don't, I can't do like a Zoom sales call.
- 11:53SPEAKER_01: That sounds exhausting.
- 11:54SPEAKER_01: I'm stressed out by the time I get there.
- 11:58SPEAKER_01: So sales emails, sales conversations over emails are quite frankly amazing.
- 12:03SPEAKER_01: To answer your other question, yes,
- 12:05SPEAKER_01: I'm actually,
- 12:06SPEAKER_01: Doing the research to figure out if they have the problem that I can solve long
- 12:11SPEAKER_01: before I'm sending the email.
- 12:12SPEAKER_01: It's actually like step two of my research process.
- 12:16SPEAKER_01: So I do kind of a big bucket gathering to go out and find people
- 12:21SPEAKER_01: who probably fit based on, you know, past clients, demographics.
- 12:28SPEAKER_01: And a lot of times I'm qualifying based on hypotheses or hypotheses
- 12:33SPEAKER_01: or however you say that, right?
- 12:36SPEAKER_01: Just guesses based on,
- 12:38SPEAKER_01: I worked with someone who looked like this and they had the problem,
- 12:42SPEAKER_01: so this person probably does too.
- 12:43SPEAKER_01: And then I'll go a step deeper on looking at that person individually.
- 12:49SPEAKER_01: And so I'm filtering it through gap signals is how I filter it.
- 12:54SPEAKER_01: So I think this is what's really unique about the WARM framework, which I developed.
- 13:00SPEAKER_01: And I actually put it into a software that Called the architect and it's inside
- 13:05SPEAKER_01: the warm client method because I know it calms a lot of people's nerves
- 13:10SPEAKER_01: to know like this person that I'm reaching out to,
- 13:12SPEAKER_01: this person I'm pitching actually legitimately has the problem.
- 13:16SPEAKER_01: And then you can kind of shift into
- 13:18SPEAKER_01: that like service-based outreach versus this kind of bro marketing outreach,
- 13:24SPEAKER_01: which we tend to fall into where it's about me, but it's not about you.
- 13:29SPEAKER_01: And so really we're looking for like these outside indicators.
- 13:33SPEAKER_01: I call them gap signals where you're looking for the best way
- 13:38SPEAKER_01: to describe them are like symptoms of the underlying problem.
- 13:42SPEAKER_01: And this is usually what you're doing during a sales conversation.
- 13:47SPEAKER_01: You have like these questions that you're diagnosing someone's problem with.
- 13:53SPEAKER_01: So you're asking questions like how big is your team sometimes to get a sense
- 13:57SPEAKER_01: of Are they doing the work themselves or do they have a team?
- 14:01SPEAKER_01: And if they have a team, they likely have a budget, right?
- 14:03SPEAKER_01: Like these series of inferred guesses, basically.
- 14:08SPEAKER_01: You can do that from the outside looking in because you can usually look and say,
- 14:13SPEAKER_01: well,
- 14:14SPEAKER_01: this person I'm doing research on,
- 14:16SPEAKER_01: I've been paying attention to their emails maybe,
- 14:19SPEAKER_01: or they post on social media and they said,
- 14:21SPEAKER_01: hey, I just had this million dollar year.
- 14:24SPEAKER_01: Actually,
- 14:25SPEAKER_01: if we could pick on like, say,
- 14:26SPEAKER_01: Jessie Jones,
- 14:27SPEAKER_01: who'd had that $5 million launch on Instagram,
- 14:29SPEAKER_01: she's like a perfect example because she's putting this stuff out publicly.
- 14:34SPEAKER_01: So if you can go onto her Instagram and look, you're like, oh, she's in dire need of help.
- 14:40SPEAKER_01: She needs copywriting help up the Yahoo.
- 14:42SPEAKER_01: She needs like customer support.
- 14:45SPEAKER_01: And guess what?
- 14:46SPEAKER_01: I help with those things.
- 14:47SPEAKER_01: So now you have like a toe in the door because you're like,
- 14:51SPEAKER_01: I know that you have the budget because you just had this big launch and I know
- 14:55SPEAKER_01: that you have the need because I'm inferring these assumptions basically,
- 15:00SPEAKER_01: but they're educated assumptions based on this big launch.
- 15:04SPEAKER_01: And so for your brand strategist person,
- 15:07SPEAKER_01: I would say you're usually looking for like how big is the company's
- 15:15SPEAKER_01: That they would like to work for.
- 15:17SPEAKER_01: Is it like 10 employees?
- 15:18SPEAKER_01: If it is,
- 15:19SPEAKER_01: you can make kind of an educated guess on how much money they're probably spending
- 15:23SPEAKER_01: on payroll,
- 15:24SPEAKER_01: which means how much money they're making in revenue at the other side,
- 15:28SPEAKER_01: assuming standard benchmarks.
- 15:31SPEAKER_01: I don't have those numbers in front of me,
- 15:32SPEAKER_01: but you can find them on Google basically and make some well-grounded assumptions,
- 15:38SPEAKER_01: which means that they can afford X amount of money For marketing, right?
- 15:44SPEAKER_01: Or they already have a budget assigned for marketing, which is probably in this region.
- 15:49SPEAKER_01: You would be amazed at how much information is already out there that people are talking about.
- 15:55SPEAKER_01: Like I stumbled across this one LinkedIn post by this billion dollar SaaS company.
- 16:00SPEAKER_01: And he's like, here's my whole marketing breakdown of what we're assigning to each category.
- 16:07SPEAKER_01: And he had like 2 million, I think, to play with across like, All of this for his marketing.
- 16:14SPEAKER_01: And he was like the CMO and he had like 300,000 on partnerships.
- 16:19SPEAKER_01: And I was like, dude, you are wasting so much money on ads.
- 16:22SPEAKER_01: Like I should totally pitch you to come in and do your partnership pitching for you
- 16:27SPEAKER_01: because you could shrink your million dollar budget from ads and get such a return
- 16:32SPEAKER_01: on investment using partnerships.
- 16:35SPEAKER_01: So that's kind of a long winded answer,
- 16:37SPEAKER_01: but The meat of it is like there's so much information out there already.
- 16:42SPEAKER_01: The problem is it takes a long time to find.
- 16:46SPEAKER_01: Sure, you can use AI, but AI makes mistakes.
- 16:49SPEAKER_01: Like I accidentally pitched a podcast and they're like, we don't take guests.
- 16:52SPEAKER_01: And I was like, oh no, cardinal sin.
- 16:56SPEAKER_01: I did it.
- 16:57SPEAKER_00: Yeah, but podcasters get so many bad pitches anyway that that's like the smallest piece of it.
- 17:02SPEAKER_00: And I think everything that you're talking about here is the missing piece
- 17:06SPEAKER_00: for what filters into our inboxes at a huge level.
- 17:10SPEAKER_00: And I'm not just saying specifically for podcasters,
- 17:12SPEAKER_00: even though I was just complaining about that.
- 17:14SPEAKER_00: But, you know, like you get...
- 17:16SPEAKER_00: You get a request on LinkedIn and they haven't even connected with you
- 17:19SPEAKER_00: before they're pitching you on something.
- 17:21SPEAKER_00: Didn't you want to try my tool?
- 17:22SPEAKER_00: Do you want to get on a call?
- 17:24SPEAKER_00: And it's like, no.
- 17:25SPEAKER_00: And so any sort of outreach,
- 17:27SPEAKER_00: whether it's email outreach,
- 17:28SPEAKER_00: whether it's DM outreach, if it happens too quickly and it's not...
- 17:34SPEAKER_02: At least somewhat customized or personalized.
- 17:37SPEAKER_00: It just feels like slimy in a way.
- 17:42SPEAKER_00: And so I think the reason that people do it is because if you do this at scale,
- 17:46SPEAKER_00: you can just like paste, paste, paste, paste, paste.
- 17:49SPEAKER_00: You know, it feels easy.
- 17:50SPEAKER_00: And I'm putting that in scare quotes.
- 17:52SPEAKER_00: It feels easy to just hit more people and maybe somebody will fall victim to it.
- 17:57SPEAKER_00: As opposed to what you're saying,
- 17:58SPEAKER_00: which is, no,
- 17:59SPEAKER_00: you spend a lot of time on the front end,
- 18:01SPEAKER_00: way more time on the front end,
- 18:02SPEAKER_00: making sure that it's a good fit,
- 18:04SPEAKER_00: ensuring that your pitch shows that you've done the research.
- 18:08SPEAKER_00: But then a lot of people ignore the pitches because most of our inbox is just garbage.
- 18:15SPEAKER_00: It is.
- 18:16SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 18:16SPEAKER_00: Or spam.
- 18:17SPEAKER_00: Like it's, yeah, it's really an uncomfortable.
- 18:20SPEAKER_00: And so like for me personally,
- 18:23SPEAKER_00: I spend a lot of time asking for recommendations and introductions.
- 18:28SPEAKER_00: It's easier for me to cast a smaller nut.
- 18:31SPEAKER_00: And that way I can like be more in control of how I get into those inboxes.
- 18:37SPEAKER_00: That totally makes sense.
- 18:38SPEAKER_01: And I hear that often.
- 18:40SPEAKER_01: I would say to that, If you're writing something that is relevant to the other person.
- 18:47SPEAKER_01: So if I'm tapping into this like driving motivator,
- 18:50SPEAKER_01: this like goal that you already are driving towards.
- 18:54SPEAKER_01: So a lot of times it's like make more money,
- 18:56SPEAKER_01: save more money, or possibly look cool, like get street cred, right?
- 19:00SPEAKER_01: Like look cool to other people, authority, expertise building.
- 19:05SPEAKER_01: That's like a lesser one.
- 19:06SPEAKER_01: Usually we're all in business to make money, basically.
- 19:09SPEAKER_01: So if you have figured out Like the vehicle that your lead is driving to get to
- 19:17SPEAKER_01: that destination of making more money.
- 19:19SPEAKER_01: Whether that's, I was actually just helping a client with this.
- 19:22SPEAKER_01: Inside the architect, you can set up the gap signals.
- 19:26SPEAKER_01: And so she's like, she does Pinterest for e-commerce brands.
- 19:31SPEAKER_01: And so we were looking to see who's already spending money on ads,
- 19:35SPEAKER_01: like Google ads and Facebook ads, because that's an outside indicator.
- 19:38SPEAKER_01: Like this person, this brand has money.
- 19:41SPEAKER_01: To essentially burn on some months to get new leads and new customers.
- 19:46SPEAKER_01: And so that means they also have the budget to hire a Pinterest manager
- 19:50SPEAKER_01: to help grow their brand there.
- 19:52SPEAKER_01: And so when you start to look at it through the light of like, hey,
- 19:56SPEAKER_01: I can help you basically do what you're already doing,
- 20:01SPEAKER_01: get to your goal, but do it in a faster way that makes you more money.
- 20:05SPEAKER_01: People inherently lean in because it's like you're being really relevant.
- 20:11SPEAKER_01: To the goal that they already have and I think a lot of people get confused
- 20:15SPEAKER_01: when I say like relevant and they're like yeah first name company
- 20:18SPEAKER_01: and it's like it's not actually that that's personalization that's like icing on
- 20:22SPEAKER_01: the cake the relevancy is the deeper method of like tapping
- 20:27SPEAKER_01: into what is this person's existing goal what are they working
- 20:33SPEAKER_01: towards are they working to sell their agency in five years if so.
- 20:37SPEAKER_01: They need a controllable source of getting new clients in the door,
- 20:41SPEAKER_01: one that doesn't depend on algorithms, right?
- 20:43SPEAKER_01: Or is this person actually looking to never retire from their business?
- 20:50SPEAKER_01: That is the case for how do I help them avoid burnout?
- 20:54SPEAKER_01: And so it's different lenses that you're actually putting on.
- 21:00SPEAKER_01: And to your point of a lot of people do ignore the cold email,
- 21:04SPEAKER_01: that is totally true, which is where the follow-ups come into play.
- 21:07SPEAKER_01: Like the winning is totally in the follow-ups because if you pay attention to all
- 21:11SPEAKER_01: that cold email crap that you get in the LinkedIn,
- 21:15SPEAKER_01: in your inbox, how many people follow up?
- 21:18SPEAKER_01: Not many.
- 21:19SPEAKER_00: No, a lot of them follow up and then the follow-ups get like increasingly absurd.
- 21:23SPEAKER_00: Yes.
- 21:24SPEAKER_00: Really?
- 21:24SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 21:25SPEAKER_00: Sometimes they like,
- 21:26SPEAKER_00: you get to that like third or fourth email and it's like,
- 21:29SPEAKER_00: what would you do if I had a turtle in this email and you missed the turtle?
- 21:32SPEAKER_00: And you're like, what the fuck?
- 21:34SPEAKER_01: I think it's like, that's the bro marketing.
- 21:37SPEAKER_01: They're all following the same playbook is the problem.
- 21:41SPEAKER_02: And now the playbook,
- 21:42SPEAKER_02: like if you put someone in a CRM system,
- 21:43SPEAKER_02: like a folk or something like that, it'll send you broad emails.
- 21:46SPEAKER_02: It's not actually a person following up the same thing.
- 21:48SPEAKER_02: LinkedIn,
- 21:49SPEAKER_02: like they keep shutting down the third party tools,
- 21:50SPEAKER_02: but now there's LinkedIn automation tools that like send you DMS and,
- 21:57SPEAKER_02: but I have a, I have, I have two more questions about your warm method.
- 22:00SPEAKER_02: I don't want you to give away all the secrets, but, um, Like, how do you- I do.
- 22:05SPEAKER_00: I want all the secrets.
- 22:06SPEAKER_00: I know, I want all the secrets too.
- 22:07SPEAKER_00: All the secrets.
- 22:08SPEAKER_02: But like, a balance between.
- 22:10SPEAKER_00: Right, because we know that just giving away the methodology is not something
- 22:14SPEAKER_00: that people are going to go steal.
- 22:16SPEAKER_00: They're going to go, I need to hear more from Laura.
- 22:17SPEAKER_00: But that's a completely different conversation than what we're having.
- 22:21SPEAKER_02: I have like- Basically, but you're right.
- 22:23SPEAKER_02: So how do you,
- 22:25SPEAKER_02: in two things, like,
- 22:26SPEAKER_02: how do you,
- 22:26SPEAKER_02: one, present to them that they might have an opportunity without, like, negging?
- 22:32SPEAKER_02: Is that like a term we use now still?
- 22:34SPEAKER_02: I don't know.
- 22:35SPEAKER_00: And totally more of that pro marketing.
- 22:37SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 22:38SPEAKER_02: But like, how do you feel like your brand is probably holding you back without saying that.
- 22:43SPEAKER_02: And then the second is what is this is where my people really struggle is like
- 22:48SPEAKER_02: the right size to ask because they're like,
- 22:51SPEAKER_02: what's like a good like because like I'm my former one of my former coaches
- 22:56SPEAKER_02: who was Jeremy's coach and like it's like
- 22:57SPEAKER_02: a small world like his thing is always just like Like, are you interested?
- 23:02SPEAKER_02: Is this of interest?
- 23:03SPEAKER_02: And like,
- 23:03SPEAKER_02: the goal is like, yes,
- 23:05SPEAKER_02: you're not like,
- 23:06SPEAKER_02: you're advancing the, like, you're simply like, is this of interest?
- 23:10SPEAKER_02: Yes or no?
- 23:11SPEAKER_02: Before we even like,
- 23:13SPEAKER_02: move to like, book a call or stuff like that, because that's too big of an ask.
- 23:15SPEAKER_02: Like, so I'm curious, like,
- 23:17SPEAKER_02: those two questions for you,
- 23:18SPEAKER_02: again, like, how do you present to them that they might have an issue?
- 23:22SPEAKER_02: Like ours, like,
- 23:23SPEAKER_02: you could say,
- 23:24SPEAKER_02: you probably need podcast guests,
- 23:26SPEAKER_02: because that's not like a Failure point of us,
- 23:29SPEAKER_02: like we do need podcast guests, right?
- 23:30SPEAKER_02: But how do you say, yeah, how do you be like, at this point, your brand is holding you back?
- 23:37SPEAKER_00: Let me like,
- 23:38SPEAKER_00: let's use this for some live coaching here,
- 23:39SPEAKER_00: because this is something I struggle with when I think about this, Laura,
- 23:42SPEAKER_00: which is that I could very easily pull together a quick report
- 23:46SPEAKER_00: for somebody that's like,
- 23:47SPEAKER_00: here's how you're showing up in Google,
- 23:50SPEAKER_00: in ChatGPT,
- 23:52SPEAKER_00: in Perplexity,
- 23:53SPEAKER_00: in Claude,
- 23:53SPEAKER_00: I could pull together a report in 30 minutes and be like,
- 23:56SPEAKER_00: here's how you're showing up.
- 23:57SPEAKER_00: Is this how you want to show up?
- 23:58SPEAKER_00: If not, reply to me, right?
- 24:00SPEAKER_00: But then I've gotten these reports that have like, oh man,
- 24:04SPEAKER_00: the worst is like,
- 24:05SPEAKER_00: we don't even put this podcast on YouTube,
- 24:08SPEAKER_00: but we'll get things from people being like, you didn't optimize your YouTube.
- 24:12SPEAKER_00: And it's just like circles of like,
- 24:13SPEAKER_00: you could be putting things here and here and here and here and we could help you.
- 24:16SPEAKER_00: And it's like, it can be very...
- 24:19SPEAKER_00: Like patronizing.
- 24:21SPEAKER_00: And so for me,
- 24:23SPEAKER_00: it's like,
- 24:24SPEAKER_00: to Jessica's point with a specific example,
- 24:26SPEAKER_00: could I build a report and be like,
- 24:28SPEAKER_00: here's what I see when I look at these particular services?
- 24:32SPEAKER_00: Like, is that what you want?
- 24:36SPEAKER_00: Or would you be interested in a conversation about showing up for what I know
- 24:39SPEAKER_00: that you do, which is actually this?
- 24:41SPEAKER_00: Like, that would be a really compelling case.
- 24:43SPEAKER_00: But also, it's going, well, you failed.
- 24:46SPEAKER_00: You failed.
- 24:48SPEAKER_01: Yes.
- 24:49SPEAKER_01: OK, this is such a good question because I actually have a story around it.
- 24:54SPEAKER_01: A couple of years back, I worked with a veteran marketing agency owner.
- 24:57SPEAKER_01: He does SEO.
- 24:59SPEAKER_01: He's well known.
- 25:00SPEAKER_01: If I said his name, you'd be like, oh, yes.
- 25:02SPEAKER_01: But of course.
- 25:05SPEAKER_01: So he was having kind of the same block towards cold emails first,
- 25:11SPEAKER_01: where it's like he's also English, so a little bit naturally reserved.
- 25:17SPEAKER_01: More inclined to not pitch himself, even though he is like bonafide expert.
- 25:23SPEAKER_01: So there was definitely reserve around pitching, first of all.
- 25:28SPEAKER_01: So like this, the shift towards it's actually a service.
- 25:31SPEAKER_01: You're helping them is huge for a lot of people.
- 25:34SPEAKER_01: Usually that gets you over like that first little hump.
- 25:37SPEAKER_01: And then so if you can just shift yourself into that mentality of like,
- 25:42SPEAKER_01: You are actually helping someone see a blind spot that they cannot see
- 25:46SPEAKER_01: because they are like hand to face deep in their work, first of all.
- 25:51SPEAKER_01: That can help you avoid kind of that bro marketing mentality of like, shame on you.
- 25:57SPEAKER_01: How have you like published such a horrible website?
- 26:01SPEAKER_01: That kind of mentality.
- 26:03SPEAKER_01: And then how to actually say that without saying that is more along the lines
- 26:07SPEAKER_01: of you're going to reference research around So many people,
- 26:13SPEAKER_01: I think I heard this stat,
- 26:14SPEAKER_01: I'm going to totally make it up right now,
- 26:15SPEAKER_01: but like 300 million people are using ChatGPT as their main source of information.
- 26:21SPEAKER_01: So when they are looking for information,
- 26:24SPEAKER_01: instead of going to Google,
- 26:25SPEAKER_01: they go to ChatGPT and they use ChatGPT as kind
- 26:28SPEAKER_01: of their functional search all engine, right?
- 26:31SPEAKER_01: So if you're not showing up on ChatGPT,
- 26:35SPEAKER_01: You're invisible to most of those people.
- 26:38SPEAKER_01: And so if you can pull in some sort of research to back up your point,
- 26:43SPEAKER_01: you can just say, hey, look, research shows X, Y, Z.
- 26:48SPEAKER_01: And I noticed that you're not showing up when I did a quick search.
- 26:53SPEAKER_01: Would you be interested?
- 26:54SPEAKER_01: Because people are making buying decisions based off of what ChatGPT recommends, right?
- 27:01SPEAKER_01: So again, you're tying it into their existing goal.
- 27:04SPEAKER_01: You're tying it into their motivator.
- 27:06SPEAKER_01: You're being really relevant about like, hey, I noticed this.
- 27:10SPEAKER_01: This is what outside research shows.
- 27:13SPEAKER_01: So it's not you saying it.
- 27:14SPEAKER_01: It's just research.
- 27:15SPEAKER_01: It's just a stat.
- 27:17SPEAKER_01: And you're just referencing it kind of like a proof point.
- 27:20SPEAKER_01: And then asking then to Jessica's question, like, what are you asking them to do?
- 27:25SPEAKER_01: And I like to ask them, are you interested?
- 27:28SPEAKER_01: Because I also think that the marketing world is moving
- 27:30SPEAKER_01: towards this More consent-based marketing where I'm asking you, are you interested?
- 27:37SPEAKER_01: And if you say yes, then we can continue the conversation.
- 27:40SPEAKER_01: And this is also a really good way to basically skirt the can-spam laws
- 27:45SPEAKER_01: because those are unsolicited transactional emails.
- 27:49SPEAKER_01: So if someone's engaging with you, that's not unsolicited.
- 27:54SPEAKER_01: That is engagement.
- 27:55SPEAKER_01: They are interested.
- 27:56SPEAKER_01: You are free to continue.
- 27:58SPEAKER_01: And definitely not a lawyer,
- 28:01SPEAKER_01: But I worked for some,
- 28:02SPEAKER_01: so I like to pretend I have some sort of, you know, borrowed degree.
- 28:06SPEAKER_01: But that, I would rest a pretty good case on that.
- 28:10SPEAKER_01: Like, that's a really strong gray area of, like, they were engaging and they wanted this.
- 28:16SPEAKER_01: And if they didn't, they could have said no at any time and I would have stopped.
- 28:19SPEAKER_01: Like, so I would say definitely go for the you interested because then you can,
- 28:23SPEAKER_01: it opens up the door for so many other really awesome questions.
- 28:27SPEAKER_01: So if they say no, then your other question is like, okay, cool.
- 28:30SPEAKER_01: Well, like,
- 28:31SPEAKER_01: Based on the research that I did,
- 28:33SPEAKER_01: duh, duh, duh, duh, duh, it looks like you might need this.
- 28:35SPEAKER_01: I'm really curious why this is a no.
- 28:38SPEAKER_01: And then see where that conversation leads you.
- 28:41SPEAKER_01: But at the end of the day, the cold email is just a conversation.
- 28:44SPEAKER_01: It's just like a,
- 28:46SPEAKER_01: I saw this from the outside,
- 28:48SPEAKER_01: which kind of feeds into this hypothesis that I think you might need help
- 28:52SPEAKER_01: in this area.
- 28:54SPEAKER_01: Is this true?
- 28:55SPEAKER_01: Are you interested?
- 28:56SPEAKER_01: Do you want to solve this problem?
- 28:58SPEAKER_02: And more follow-up questions.
- 28:59SPEAKER_02: Shocking.
- 29:00SPEAKER_02: And this is like, I have a follow up question about like, I'll say my second question.
- 29:06SPEAKER_02: Are you familiar with Jeff Walker's product launch formula?
- 29:10SPEAKER_01: Marginally, like I'm on.
- 29:12SPEAKER_01: Yeah, I think I've gotten some of his stuff, probably watch some of his work.
- 29:16SPEAKER_02: I mean, they all have basically he was one of the OG godfathers of the marketing industry.
- 29:20SPEAKER_02: And so his his is like an escalating commitment, like sort of like shielding his reciprocity.
- 29:25SPEAKER_02: Like the more you get them to say micro commitments,
- 29:28SPEAKER_02: the more likely they're not going to say no.
- 29:31SPEAKER_02: Later, you're like, yes, I want to make more money.
- 29:33SPEAKER_02: Yes, I want to do this.
- 29:34SPEAKER_02: Yes.
- 29:35SPEAKER_02: And so it escalates.
- 29:36SPEAKER_02: This is not what you're doing.
- 29:37SPEAKER_02: You're actually having a conversation about truly qualifying through the sale conversation.
- 29:42SPEAKER_02: Is this a problem for you?
- 29:43SPEAKER_02: Yes or no?
- 29:45SPEAKER_02: Is this something that's urgent?
- 29:46SPEAKER_02: Yes or no?
- 29:47SPEAKER_02: Is this number one on your priority list to solve?
- 29:49SPEAKER_02: And if it's not,
- 29:49SPEAKER_02: I would imagine you're not asking escalating commitment questions
- 29:52SPEAKER_02: to use influence tactics to get the sale.
- 29:57SPEAKER_02: You're actually having a conversation like, Do you need to solve this right now?
- 30:01SPEAKER_02: Is this the thing that's on your radar?
- 30:03SPEAKER_02: Because sometimes it's like, yes, I need to solve this.
- 30:07SPEAKER_02: No, this is not my number one priority.
- 30:08SPEAKER_02: I would imagine you'd back off.
- 30:09SPEAKER_02: I'm not saying you would back off, but that's not what we're doing here.
- 30:12SPEAKER_02: We're not escalating commitment through persuasion techniques.
- 30:16SPEAKER_01: No.
- 30:17SPEAKER_01: And I actually put those micro yeses into my email because I think of
- 30:21SPEAKER_01: the initial email as kind of my whole argument for why they should say yes.
- 30:25SPEAKER_01: So I'm going to I'm going to put as much proof points.
- 30:28SPEAKER_01: I'm going to put as many micro commitments into that email as possible.
- 30:32SPEAKER_01: And so I actually put those micro yeses in each line of their email
- 30:37SPEAKER_01: that I'm sending them so that they are literally nodding along with me
- 30:41SPEAKER_01: because I only have one question in that email, which is, are you interested?
- 30:44SPEAKER_01: So I need them to say yes to that.
- 30:47SPEAKER_01: And so I am definitely teeing them up for a yes at the end of the email.
- 30:52SPEAKER_01: But after they say yes, then I shift purely into sales.
- 30:57SPEAKER_01: And qualification and like, is this the right fit?
- 31:00SPEAKER_01: Because if it's not a right fit on their side, they're going to be like a red flag client.
- 31:04SPEAKER_01: And I do not have the energy or the time to work with a diva.
- 31:08SPEAKER_01: Thank you very much.
- 31:09SPEAKER_01: I have three kids like I am not adding more kids to the fodder.
- 31:13SPEAKER_01: So, yeah,
- 31:15SPEAKER_01: a lot of it is I'm I'm looking to prequalify like,
- 31:19SPEAKER_01: hey, I made these basically researched assumptions about your business.
- 31:24SPEAKER_01: And I'm looking to verify, are these true?
- 31:27SPEAKER_01: Because that informs the next round of cold emails.
- 31:31SPEAKER_01: And if they are true, then do you want to solve this problem?
- 31:36SPEAKER_01: Then I've also qualified you as a client.
- 31:39SPEAKER_02: Does this work for selling B2C?
- 31:42SPEAKER_02: So like executive coaching services, selling career transition, selling ADHD coaching, like...
- 31:50SPEAKER_02: I feel like a business like you can see that stuff more from like the outside or is it B2C?
- 31:56SPEAKER_02: Like, I don't know.
- 31:58SPEAKER_02: Like, could you do that or is that really not the play?
- 32:02SPEAKER_01: It is the play.
- 32:03SPEAKER_01: You can totally.
- 32:04SPEAKER_01: So I think of cold emails as like a fast burn lane and a slow burn lane.
- 32:08SPEAKER_01: So the fast burn is a lot of the emails that we've been talking about.
- 32:13SPEAKER_01: Reaching out one to one to sign someone as a new client, new one to one private client.
- 32:17SPEAKER_01: So that's like a cold sales email.
- 32:19SPEAKER_01: But then in the slow burn lane,
- 32:21SPEAKER_01: there's actually six other types of cold emails and pitching workshops is one
- 32:27SPEAKER_01: of those and pitching collaborations,
- 32:30SPEAKER_01: pitching podcasts,
- 32:31SPEAKER_01: pitching referral relationships or JV webinars,
- 32:36SPEAKER_01: sponsorships, all of these kinds of things.
- 32:38SPEAKER_01: Even getting like a quote from an expert to put as a testimonial or even
- 32:44SPEAKER_01: in your blog post, like I reached out.
- 32:47SPEAKER_01: Years and years ago to Ryan Holiday to get like a quote for a blog post I was writing.
- 32:53SPEAKER_01: I gave him like a very small window.
- 32:55SPEAKER_01: It was totally a Hail Mary.
- 32:56SPEAKER_01: And he replied back and said, so sorry, I missed the deadline.
- 33:00SPEAKER_01: I would have loved to give you a quote, but I just wasn't able to get it to you in time.
- 33:04SPEAKER_01: And I was like, that's cool.
- 33:05SPEAKER_01: That was that was my fault.
- 33:06SPEAKER_01: Like I didn't I gave you like 48 hours notice.
- 33:09SPEAKER_01: And but just to say, like, you can use it for B to C.
- 33:16SPEAKER_01: And in fact,
- 33:16SPEAKER_01: a client of mine was pitching workshops to companies to help their employees with,
- 33:25SPEAKER_01: I think it was, what was she pitching?
- 33:29SPEAKER_01: Like confidence in the workspace.
- 33:30SPEAKER_01: And so the company would pay her to come in and do a workshop for them
- 33:35SPEAKER_01: to help their minorities,
- 33:38SPEAKER_01: actually their minority employees grow more confident and scale up
- 33:43SPEAKER_01: into like C-suite projects.
- 33:45SPEAKER_01: And stuff like that.
- 33:46SPEAKER_01: And so you can definitely do this.
- 33:49SPEAKER_01: You're just shifting, like,
- 33:52SPEAKER_01: just shifting the viewpoint slightly and looking for more,
- 33:56SPEAKER_01: this is most likely what they're looking for versus like,
- 33:59SPEAKER_01: this is the direct evidence that supports my hypothesis, if that makes sense.
- 34:03SPEAKER_02: Totally.
- 34:05SPEAKER_02: And what's your philosophy?
- 34:06SPEAKER_02: I don't know if you're familiar with like the public letters concept.
- 34:09SPEAKER_02: So like,
- 34:10SPEAKER_02: you know, like,
- 34:11SPEAKER_02: The public letters is sort of like you take somebody who you either want to work
- 34:15SPEAKER_02: with and you like Anna Reich did this for Jay Claus recently
- 34:20SPEAKER_02: where she's like Jay talked about needing to wanting to hire and not make sure how
- 34:24SPEAKER_02: to hire and Anna wrote like an entire Substack post which like based on what I know
- 34:28SPEAKER_02: about you this is what I would do to solve this.
- 34:32SPEAKER_02: I think someone did the same thing for like Justin Moore was saying
- 34:34SPEAKER_02: or Justin Welsh back in the day was saying he had a problem
- 34:37SPEAKER_02: and someone's like Here's how I would solve your problem.
- 34:39SPEAKER_02: So he basically did free work.
- 34:41SPEAKER_02: Nicholas Cole talks about, like,
- 34:42SPEAKER_02: you publicly write something for somebody in order to,
- 34:45SPEAKER_02: like, get them, like, land you as a ghostwriting client.
- 34:47SPEAKER_02: So it's kind of like you're doing the research and you're doing the prep,
- 34:50SPEAKER_02: but instead of it being a one-to-one cold outreach,
- 34:53SPEAKER_02: it's a public piece of content that someone's like,
- 34:56SPEAKER_02: oh, they did that for that person and that's what it looks like?
- 34:59SPEAKER_02: Like, I'm curious if you're... that is at all...
- 35:04SPEAKER_02: Part of your strategy or like something that you're like, oh, that sounds like a good idea.
- 35:06SPEAKER_02: I should probably do that.
- 35:07SPEAKER_02: I should probably like incorporate that somewhere.
- 35:10SPEAKER_01: I think it sounds like a brilliant strategy.
- 35:12SPEAKER_01: I think personally, I don't use it.
- 35:17SPEAKER_01: I like to,
- 35:18SPEAKER_01: I veer more towards creating content that I can reuse again and again and again
- 35:22SPEAKER_01: and again and again.
- 35:24SPEAKER_01: Like I have a talk that I've been putting on for seven-ish years
- 35:28SPEAKER_01: and it just does really, really, really well.
- 35:30SPEAKER_01: And so I'm usually more on the line of,
- 35:34SPEAKER_01: How do I create less content and then reuse the stuff I've already got?
- 35:39SPEAKER_01: But I think that would be a fabulous idea.
- 35:41SPEAKER_01: And I think that you could
- 35:44SPEAKER_01: then build like this whole awesome cold email strategy off the back of
- 35:48SPEAKER_01: a public letter, basically.
- 35:49SPEAKER_01: And I've done that strategy where I've pulled someone's email example into
- 35:57SPEAKER_01: a copyhacker's post that I wrote like eight years ago.
- 36:02SPEAKER_01: And I pulled some people's email examples into different guest posts
- 36:07SPEAKER_01: that I was publishing on like Kissmetrics and Crazy Egg.
- 36:11SPEAKER_01: And then I emailed those people that I featured their email in and said,
- 36:16SPEAKER_01: hey, I featured your email in this article.
- 36:20SPEAKER_01: I'm curious to hear your thoughts if you have any recommendations on edits
- 36:24SPEAKER_01: or something like that.
- 36:25SPEAKER_01: But generally, those people would share the article.
- 36:28SPEAKER_01: So And then that gives me an in.
- 36:30SPEAKER_01: That's like a little toe in the door where I can say, hey,
- 36:33SPEAKER_01: like super curious,
- 36:35SPEAKER_01: what are you doing about XYZ, about however it's related to my offer?
- 36:40SPEAKER_01: Because basically what you're doing is how do I catch that big name's attention?
- 36:45SPEAKER_01: And then how do I keep that kind of eye of Sauron for me long enough to figure out
- 36:51SPEAKER_01: if they've got the problem and if they're interested in my type of solution
- 36:55SPEAKER_01: to their problem?
- 36:56SPEAKER_01: So I could see that working really well.
- 36:59SPEAKER_00: I'm sorry,
- 37:00SPEAKER_00: you just threw in how do I keep the eye of Sauron on me and then just like rolled
- 37:04SPEAKER_00: over it and I'm sitting here just like in the back of my mind.
- 37:08SPEAKER_00: I'm in now the two towers.
- 37:10SPEAKER_00: So I'm lost.
- 37:11SPEAKER_00: Yes.
- 37:12SPEAKER_01: Yes.
- 37:12SPEAKER_01: I have former English major here.
- 37:14SPEAKER_01: Like I took a whole class on Tolkien in college.
- 37:16SPEAKER_01: And so it's super fun to like drop those little references in.
- 37:21SPEAKER_00: I do a lot of work in, like, my programs around, like, what's your lexical fingerprint?
- 37:26SPEAKER_00: What's your thing that you,
- 37:27SPEAKER_00: what are the ways that you talk in the pop culture references that you include that,
- 37:31SPEAKER_00: like, AI would never?
- 37:34SPEAKER_01: Yes.
- 37:35SPEAKER_00: And I did, like, a big, like, Gandalf's a mentor.
- 37:38SPEAKER_00: He's not a protagonist.
- 37:39SPEAKER_00: We can't, we got to stop being Gandalf.
- 37:40SPEAKER_00: So, yeah, I've been thinking about Lord of the Rings a lot lately.
- 37:46SPEAKER_02: And then what?
- 37:48SPEAKER_02: So, you know,
- 37:49SPEAKER_02: you and I,
- 37:50SPEAKER_02: we all know that, like,
- 37:51SPEAKER_02: when you send an email,
- 37:51SPEAKER_02: even when we send an email to people that we know,
- 37:54SPEAKER_02: like, the response is, like, 50-50 at best.
- 37:57SPEAKER_02: I'm like, they know you.
- 38:00SPEAKER_02: Legitimately, when you do your warm, cold outreach method...
- 38:05SPEAKER_02: What's the response rate, like generally speaking off the first one?
- 38:10SPEAKER_02: What's the,
- 38:10SPEAKER_02: cause I think I took a Jess Lorimer,
- 38:13SPEAKER_02: one of our former guests,
- 38:15SPEAKER_02: I did her like cold outreach and hers was like very British, which was fun.
- 38:19SPEAKER_02: Cause I'm like, I'd be keen to understand.
- 38:21SPEAKER_02: I'm like, well, I can't say that cause I'm not keen.
- 38:23SPEAKER_02: Cause I'm not, I'm not British.
- 38:25SPEAKER_02: But hers was like the, you start to see an uptake around like email four or five.
- 38:30SPEAKER_02: So I'm curious,
- 38:31SPEAKER_02: like when,
- 38:32SPEAKER_02: when you, when you send this out, like I'm assuming It's not 100% response rate.
- 38:39SPEAKER_01: No, it's definitely not.
- 38:41SPEAKER_01: And I would say if you're getting 100% response rate,
- 38:45SPEAKER_01: I would wager that you've only sent like two emails.
- 38:47SPEAKER_01: So you got to send some more reps. Usually.
- 38:52SPEAKER_00: But it's like, I know that you like can't, what's the phrase?
- 38:55SPEAKER_00: You can't like hit a ball that you never swing at or something.
- 38:58SPEAKER_00: It's like, no, but look, I have 100% response rate.
- 39:01SPEAKER_00: Look at this conversion rate.
- 39:02SPEAKER_00: I don't want to mess with it.
- 39:04SPEAKER_01: You gotta keep shooting.
- 39:05SPEAKER_01: It's that quote.
- 39:06SPEAKER_01: What is it?
- 39:07SPEAKER_01: Wayne Gretzky?
- 39:08SPEAKER_01: Like, you miss 100% of the shots you don't take?
- 39:10SPEAKER_01: Yes, but you get 100%.
- 39:11SPEAKER_00: If you have 100% of the shots, then just, like, quit while you're ahead.
- 39:14SPEAKER_00: I know.
- 39:16SPEAKER_00: I know.
- 39:16SPEAKER_01: And to continue with the sports analogies, like,
- 39:19SPEAKER_01: I think it's super interesting that Major League Baseball players miss 60% of
- 39:26SPEAKER_01: the time when they're up to plate.
- 39:28SPEAKER_01: And if you make 30% of the hits at the plate, you get into the Hall of Fame.
- 39:33SPEAKER_01: So it's like, 30% is actually winning.
- 39:37SPEAKER_01: But to answer your actual question, Jessica, usually I'm seeing like 80% end conversions.
- 39:44SPEAKER_01: So the thing I pitched in the email happens, ends up becoming reality.
- 39:51SPEAKER_01: I usually get about a 46% positive reply rate.
- 39:55SPEAKER_01: And that usually is happening not on the first email.
- 39:59SPEAKER_01: Sometimes it happens.
- 40:01SPEAKER_01: But more often than not, it's on the follow-ups.
- 40:04SPEAKER_01: And that's why the follow-ups are so important because the winning is really in the follow-ups.
- 40:09SPEAKER_01: And you can send, make sure, first of all, if you're sending follow-ups, please keep doing that.
- 40:16SPEAKER_01: But also make sure that you're threading them in.
- 40:19SPEAKER_01: So your original email is at the bottom because then you get that really lovely re
- 40:24SPEAKER_01: in your subject line.
- 40:25SPEAKER_01: You don't have to pull any sneaky tricks to get it.
- 40:28SPEAKER_01: It just happens naturally.
- 40:30SPEAKER_01: And so, and then our brains are programmed to look for that re in our inboxes.
- 40:35SPEAKER_01: And so that I think is usually the point in time
- 40:39SPEAKER_01: where someone starts paying attention to your email
- 40:41SPEAKER_01: because their brain is literally pointing them towards your email because of
- 40:46SPEAKER_01: that re.
- 40:47SPEAKER_01: They might've missed it the first time,
- 40:49SPEAKER_01: but now like they're thinking this person keeps emailing me.
- 40:54SPEAKER_01: This email must be important to them.
- 40:57SPEAKER_01: And if it's important to them, maybe I should see what's inside this email.
- 41:01SPEAKER_01: Maybe I should actually like look at it because if it's important enough for them
- 41:05SPEAKER_01: to follow up, it must be important enough for me to actually look at it.
- 41:08SPEAKER_01: And that's usually where things.
- 41:10SPEAKER_00: I'm sorry.
- 41:11SPEAKER_00: I'm sounding so skeptical.
- 41:14SPEAKER_01: You are.
- 41:14SPEAKER_01: You're a hard one.
- 41:17SPEAKER_00: I also have six different email accounts.
- 41:20SPEAKER_00: I have two different podcasts.
- 41:22SPEAKER_00: I'm a novelist, and so I'm always getting these pitches that are completely just terrible.
- 41:29SPEAKER_00: And the follow up,
- 41:30SPEAKER_00: if you were to look at my other podcast,
- 41:33SPEAKER_00: if you were to look at our inbox,
- 41:35SPEAKER_00: literally half of those emails come in with the squiggly brackets
- 41:39SPEAKER_00: that say preferred contact name.
- 41:41SPEAKER_00: They don't even bother.
- 41:44SPEAKER_00: And yet they are sending 10 to 12 emails in a sequence.
- 41:47SPEAKER_00: And we just market as spam and move on because we don't even open them.
- 41:51SPEAKER_00: So the volume.
- 41:56SPEAKER_00: And I agree with you.
- 41:57SPEAKER_00: I was the one who opened your email and I completely missed it because it went to
- 42:00SPEAKER_00: the wrong email address and I was like, oh shit.
- 42:04SPEAKER_00: Because that's the reality of it.
- 42:07SPEAKER_00: But the good emails are very hard to filter out because there are so many bad emails out there.
- 42:14SPEAKER_00: So I do agree with you that the follow-up is important, but...
- 42:18SPEAKER_00: I also wonder if you have like a formula for your follow-up that you recommend.
- 42:21SPEAKER_00: Like, is this like a Fibonacci sequence?
- 42:23SPEAKER_00: Is this just like every week?
- 42:24SPEAKER_00: Like, how frequently are you planning your follow-up?
- 42:29SPEAKER_00: And like,
- 42:30SPEAKER_00: do you have that pre-written because you know
- 42:33SPEAKER_00: that follow-up three is like just saying,
- 42:36SPEAKER_00: hey, can you just check on this email that I sent?
- 42:38SPEAKER_00: Do you have any thoughts?
- 42:39SPEAKER_00: Or is each one of those personalized and customized in its own way?
- 42:44SPEAKER_01: That sounds exhausting to personalize and customize each.
- 42:49SPEAKER_01: The short answer is I actually invented execution software to handle the follow ups
- 42:53SPEAKER_01: for me because I was dropping the ball so frequently on follow ups.
- 42:57SPEAKER_01: And I have like a proven follow up sequence that is that just works really well.
- 43:04SPEAKER_01: So I would just be literally sitting there for an hour in Gmail,
- 43:07SPEAKER_01: like copy pasting on the follow ups.
- 43:10SPEAKER_01: And to my brain, that sounds like hell on Earth.
- 43:13SPEAKER_01: And so I would drop follow ups a lot.
- 43:16SPEAKER_01: I would lose opportunities because I wasn't following up.
- 43:20SPEAKER_01: So I built some software to help me.
- 43:22SPEAKER_01: And it's like legit software.
- 43:23SPEAKER_01: It's not like a clod pack,
- 43:25SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 43:26SPEAKER_01: like we all say software,
- 43:28SPEAKER_01: but it's actually just a handful of prompts and custom GPTs.
- 43:34SPEAKER_01: But this is actual software so that you can have those follow ups get sent out automatically.
- 43:40SPEAKER_01: But I think, Meg, like the deeper question is, is that you're actually scanning Yes.
- 43:46SPEAKER_01: Yes.
- 43:55SPEAKER_01: Yes.
- 43:55SPEAKER_01: Which is totally true because you have a lot of stuff going on.
- 43:59SPEAKER_00: And I think that that's true of any marketing strategy too.
- 44:01SPEAKER_00: I don't think that that's email specific or even cold email specific.
- 44:04SPEAKER_00: I think that even when you're scanning,
- 44:06SPEAKER_00: like when I'm scanning through my inbox, I'm going, what's important?
- 44:09SPEAKER_00: What needs a reply?
- 44:10SPEAKER_00: Who do I know?
- 44:11SPEAKER_00: Is there anything important that I miss?
- 44:13SPEAKER_00: And sometimes I do miss important things because I just have such volume coming in all the time.
- 44:18SPEAKER_00: And I do miss opportunities.
- 44:19SPEAKER_00: But also like if I had to screen every opportunity...
- 44:24SPEAKER_00: Then I would spend half my day in my inbox going through half my day.
- 44:28SPEAKER_00: Maybe like I could probably spend a half an hour a day screening emails, you know?
- 44:33SPEAKER_01: Well, yeah.
- 44:33SPEAKER_01: So you're actually looking for things in the email to make it easier for you
- 44:38SPEAKER_01: to delete, like improperly filled out from names, a sketchy looking from email.
- 44:44SPEAKER_01: So I would say to that,
- 44:46SPEAKER_01: like pay attention to those tickers,
- 44:49SPEAKER_01: those like little red flags that you're actively looking for and then do
- 44:52SPEAKER_01: the opposite because actually The thing about the rise in shitty cold emails is
- 44:59SPEAKER_01: that they set the bar so low,
- 45:02SPEAKER_01: so freaking low,
- 45:03SPEAKER_01: that you only have to change a handful of those things
- 45:07SPEAKER_01: to make your cold email stand out.
- 45:09SPEAKER_01: And even in this age of like swamped inboxes and AI dominated content,
- 45:15SPEAKER_01: you can still make your email stand out by simply looking like a human in the inbox.
- 45:20SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 45:21SPEAKER_00: I mean, we've had this conversation.
- 45:23SPEAKER_00: I don't know, Jessica, we've been doing this for a year and a half.
- 45:25SPEAKER_00: And I feel like every two months or so,
- 45:27SPEAKER_00: I guess,
- 45:27SPEAKER_00: brings this up to where it's like the bar is so low that it's almost doing you
- 45:34SPEAKER_00: a favor of like you don't have to be the most superb thing out there.
- 45:39SPEAKER_00: You just have to be like significantly better than average.
- 45:42SPEAKER_00: You probably just have to like do the bare minimum of what is expected of you as
- 45:47SPEAKER_00: a human to another human and expecting their time and attention.
- 45:51SPEAKER_01: Exactly.
- 45:52SPEAKER_01: Just basically the golden rule, treat others the way you want to be treated.
- 45:56SPEAKER_01: So would you want to get like...
- 45:57SPEAKER_00: Spam others the way you want to be spammed.
- 46:01SPEAKER_01: That's the pro marketer.
- 46:02SPEAKER_02: The golden spam rule.
- 46:03SPEAKER_02: I tell you, man, though, like, I know, Meg, you don't read all of your cold outreach.
- 46:08SPEAKER_02: I do read all of my cold outreach.
- 46:11SPEAKER_02: Do you?
- 46:11SPEAKER_00: God bless you.
- 46:12SPEAKER_02: Well, I don't read the ones that actually go to spam.
- 46:14SPEAKER_02: So, like, you know, if you go to spam, I'm not reading it.
- 46:18SPEAKER_02: I try to rescue people from spam, but I don't open it if it's gone to spam.
- 46:22SPEAKER_02: But, like, Laura's email, I was, you know, kind of, I was like, Meg, we have to decide.
- 46:27SPEAKER_02: But I read it.
- 46:28SPEAKER_02: Someone's, like, asked me if they would Put their my resource or their resource in my emails.
- 46:34SPEAKER_02: And I was like, send me a copy of your resource.
- 46:36SPEAKER_02: And then I'm like, what in God's good name is this?
- 46:42SPEAKER_02: Pick your audience, which was like they sent me like a PDF.
- 46:45SPEAKER_00: They sent me a for the romance podcast.
- 46:47SPEAKER_00: I have gotten a full 300 page novel PDF attachment.
- 46:51SPEAKER_00: And I'm like, you you don't know me.
- 46:53SPEAKER_00: I don't know.
- 47:05SPEAKER_02: Um, it's something like, like they, they did actually lower your, like close to your formula.
- 47:08SPEAKER_02: They're like, they mean, dropped a name who I would know.
- 47:10SPEAKER_02: And like, I went to their website and it was like, hold on.
- 47:13SPEAKER_02: I have to pull it up.
- 47:14SPEAKER_02: This is the pop-up only works.
- 47:16SPEAKER_02: If y'all know me, are you ready to lead an authentically empowered life as the queen?
- 47:21SPEAKER_02: The world needs the primary offer right on the homepage is
- 47:25SPEAKER_02: the queen anointing three, three, three, three value gift.
- 47:30SPEAKER_02: And I'm like wrong audience.
- 47:35SPEAKER_00: But I read the email.
- 47:37SPEAKER_00: Good for you, not for me, babe.
- 47:38SPEAKER_00: Good for you, not for me.
- 47:39SPEAKER_02: I'm like,
- 47:40SPEAKER_02: I think you've nailed,
- 47:41SPEAKER_02: you maybe, you didn't quite nail the qualification on this, but I read the email.
- 47:49SPEAKER_02: I looked it up.
- 47:50SPEAKER_00: There are times where I want to reply because someone gets so close to a good pitch,
- 47:56SPEAKER_00: and then they just don't.
- 47:57SPEAKER_00: Don't stick the landing.
- 47:58SPEAKER_00: And I'm like, is this worth my time to teach someone in this way?
- 48:02SPEAKER_00: Especially like podcast pitching services will do an excellent job of saying, hi,
- 48:07SPEAKER_00: I'm Laura and I love your podcast and I listened to the last three episodes
- 48:11SPEAKER_00: and I love the way you did this.
- 48:12SPEAKER_00: And don't you want to interview this random bro?
- 48:14SPEAKER_00: And I'm like, oh, baby.
- 48:16SPEAKER_00: Oh, so
- 48:17SPEAKER_01: there's like,
- 48:18SPEAKER_01: they don't stick the landing, like basically in a, it almost sounds like in a segue.
- 48:22SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 48:24SPEAKER_01: Like a bridge, like here's my first idea, here's my pitch, and I just didn't.
- 48:28SPEAKER_00: Here's what I like about your podcast.
- 48:31SPEAKER_00: Here's what you have done incredibly well.
- 48:33SPEAKER_00: Here's what you have, what we could, what I think is interesting that you are doing.
- 48:37SPEAKER_00: And now don't you want to interact?
- 48:39SPEAKER_00: You spent so much time on this and then you didn't, you had me until the ask.
- 49:04SPEAKER_01: I think that is actually the AI coming into play,
- 49:08SPEAKER_01: to be honest with you,
- 49:09SPEAKER_01: where they're pointing their AI at you and saying,
- 49:13SPEAKER_01: research Meg and tell me some really cool people that she's had on our podcast.
- 49:18SPEAKER_01: And then I'm just going to slice that chunk right into the top of my email.
- 49:22SPEAKER_01: And I'm not actually going to read the email to make sure Flo and that kind of thing works.
- 49:29SPEAKER_01: Which is a huge miss because like you said,
- 49:31SPEAKER_01: it's just one bridge sentence to connect those two ideas.
- 49:34SPEAKER_01: Like, hey, you had cool guests.
- 49:36SPEAKER_01: I think you really like this other cool person.
- 49:39SPEAKER_01: Meet Jeremy, blah, blah.
- 49:41SPEAKER_01: Right?
- 49:42SPEAKER_01: And that's kind of all it needs.
- 49:45SPEAKER_01: But I don't think people, I think a lot of people are still stuck in that more is better.
- 49:50SPEAKER_01: And it's like, I don't think that.
- 49:53SPEAKER_00: Right.
- 49:54SPEAKER_00: And I think in that case,
- 49:55SPEAKER_00: some of them are like PR agencies that say,
- 49:57SPEAKER_00: well, we pitched 10 podcasts for you this month.
- 49:59SPEAKER_00: Yes.
- 50:01SPEAKER_01: It's not that hard.
- 50:02SPEAKER_01: How many did you land?
- 50:03SPEAKER_01: No many.
- 50:04SPEAKER_02: It's not that hard to write 10 good pitches.
- 50:06SPEAKER_02: It's well, it is hard and it's time consuming, but it's not hard.
- 50:11SPEAKER_02: It's it takes time, but there's a process to it.
- 50:14SPEAKER_02: If you want to learn more.
- 50:18SPEAKER_02: Tell the listeners where they can find out more.
- 50:20SPEAKER_00: Tell the folks at home how they can win.
- 50:23SPEAKER_01: The good folks at home, listen up.
- 50:25SPEAKER_01: Go to lauralopez.com and put your email.
- 50:29SPEAKER_01: Get on my email list.
- 50:30SPEAKER_01: That's where I like to send my best stuff.
- 50:33SPEAKER_01: I'm definitely not very social on social media.
- 50:37SPEAKER_01: Pretty strong views on social media.
- 50:39SPEAKER_01: But I love to share my good stuff on email.
- 50:42SPEAKER_01: And that's where you will get all the goodies.
- 50:45SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 50:47SPEAKER_02: Awesome.
- 50:48SPEAKER_02: And so now we close it out with what's being Aggressively Human.
- 50:52SPEAKER_02: Meg, I'll turn it over to you.
- 50:54SPEAKER_02: Give Laura a break.
- 50:55SPEAKER_00: We'll give you a bit of a chance to drink some water, Laura.
- 50:59SPEAKER_00: So last month or two months ago,
- 51:01SPEAKER_00: I got a cold outreach pitch on LinkedIn and it was somebody from
- 51:06SPEAKER_00: a fashion designer organization.
- 51:09SPEAKER_00: And I was like, have you seen my wardrobe?
- 51:11SPEAKER_00: I literally am wearing hoodies that I bought in high school.
- 51:14SPEAKER_00: Like I am not the right person if you're talking to fashion designers or anyone in
- 51:18SPEAKER_00: the fashion industry,
- 51:19SPEAKER_00: but they wanted me to come do a workshop about AI discoverability and stuff.
- 51:23SPEAKER_00: And I'm like, okay, I'll go look at the website.
- 51:25SPEAKER_00: Yes, I'm happy to do it.
- 51:26SPEAKER_00: When do you want to schedule it?
- 51:28SPEAKER_00: So on and so forth.
- 51:28SPEAKER_00: And I said,
- 51:29SPEAKER_00: as long as you don't mind that I'm going to not know anything about your industry
- 51:33SPEAKER_00: and show up in the same black t-shirt that I wear to everything.
- 51:35SPEAKER_00: I said, okay.
- 51:37SPEAKER_00: Set the bar nice and low in terms of their expectations.
- 51:41SPEAKER_00: And then I showed up.
- 51:43SPEAKER_00: And the person who was hosting it introduced me and said,
- 51:47SPEAKER_00: this is Meg from the Aggressively Human podcast.
- 51:49SPEAKER_00: And that was the first time that I'd really heard that.
- 51:52SPEAKER_00: So thank you, Allison, because she's a listener.
- 51:54SPEAKER_00: And she had worked with her team and they said, we need, we had a lot of questions about SEO.
- 51:59SPEAKER_00: And she said, well,
- 52:00SPEAKER_00: it's not really SEO anymore because I heard on this podcast,
- 52:03SPEAKER_00: we should just reach out to Meg.
- 52:04SPEAKER_00: And I was like, oh my God.
- 52:06SPEAKER_00: Like, I think sometimes we forget that our message is traveling and And
- 52:11SPEAKER_00: that there are people who are listening and learning from us and that
- 52:14SPEAKER_00: then they can do the cold outreach,
- 52:17SPEAKER_00: even if they're not the ones doing the direct outreach because that's not their role
- 52:20SPEAKER_00: on the team.
- 52:23SPEAKER_00: And it was such a delightful workshop because she had shared some of my resources
- 52:29SPEAKER_00: and episodes with people beforehand.
- 52:31SPEAKER_00: So I came in to do the training, but they were already warm to my work.
- 52:35SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 52:54SPEAKER_00: She was like, okay, I'm coming prepared because I know Meg's body of work.
- 52:59SPEAKER_00: And so I just get so excited when those cold,
- 53:01SPEAKER_00: I saved that for this episode to talk about because I get really excited when
- 53:05SPEAKER_00: the cold outreach is so well done.
- 53:09SPEAKER_00: So there's my Aggressively Human is when you show up and go, oh,
- 53:13SPEAKER_00: I was ready for cold and it was warmer than I expected and it made me feel great as
- 53:18SPEAKER_00: a guest and as an expert.
- 53:21SPEAKER_00: So yeah, it was lovely.
- 53:25SPEAKER_00: Laura, what is Aggressively Human in your world right now?
- 53:29SPEAKER_01: Yeah, I guess I have two.
- 53:31SPEAKER_01: To tail off of yours, Meg,
- 53:32SPEAKER_01: it was super fun to come on here and then hear Jessica say,
- 53:36SPEAKER_01: I've heard you talk on Jeremy's stuff and this workshop from a year and a half ago
- 53:42SPEAKER_01: or whenever it was,
- 53:44SPEAKER_01: and we just have kind of been orbiting each other's worlds,
- 53:48SPEAKER_01: Jessica and I, and I had no idea.
- 53:50SPEAKER_01: She knew.
- 53:52SPEAKER_01: She just didn't let me know before now.
- 53:54SPEAKER_00: Like secretly has her eye on everyone.
- 53:56SPEAKER_00: She's like the panopticon in the middle of the prison
- 53:59SPEAKER_00: where she's just like watching everyone and what they're up to.
- 54:03SPEAKER_01: Oh man.
- 54:05SPEAKER_01: But I love that.
- 54:06SPEAKER_01: It's so much fun.
- 54:07SPEAKER_01: Like I love doing like podcast interviews and partnerships and teaching
- 54:12SPEAKER_01: because like you said,
- 54:13SPEAKER_01: like your message has like all these little legs and then it goes off into the world
- 54:17SPEAKER_01: and it creates like all these little fans sometimes.
- 54:20SPEAKER_01: And then you are connected.
- 54:22SPEAKER_01: Through all these little tendrils, we're all like a little forest, right?
- 54:25SPEAKER_01: Like all of our roots are interconnected.
- 54:28SPEAKER_01: But for the more Aggressively Human,
- 54:30SPEAKER_01: I would say I'm actually doing outreach to my own email list.
- 54:35SPEAKER_01: And like,
- 54:36SPEAKER_01: I think it's a really weird idea,
- 54:38SPEAKER_01: but I've been doing kind of monthly and weekly trainings for
- 54:44SPEAKER_01: the last like six months.
- 54:47SPEAKER_01: I haven't been getting many sales from them.
- 54:49SPEAKER_01: So I started to diagnose the problem.
- 54:52SPEAKER_01: And so I'm actually reaching out to people on my own email list and saying, hey, I noticed XYZ.
- 54:58SPEAKER_01: Basically using my own methodology,
- 55:00SPEAKER_01: but in a much warmer situation,
- 55:03SPEAKER_01: using a lot of data that I have based on how they've clicked
- 55:06SPEAKER_01: and what they've filled out and backend data and all that kind of stuff.
- 55:11SPEAKER_01: And then sending one-on-one outreach emails to them to see what's their problem.
- 55:16SPEAKER_01: How can I help them?
- 55:18SPEAKER_01: Based on these signals that you've given me,
- 55:20SPEAKER_01: it looks like you're still struggling getting clients.
- 55:22SPEAKER_01: Is this still the case?
- 55:24SPEAKER_01: And so it's been a really interesting experiment.
- 55:27SPEAKER_00: I love that.
- 55:28SPEAKER_00: Because then it's not cold.
- 55:30SPEAKER_00: They already are used to seeing your name in the inbox.
- 55:32SPEAKER_00: And then when they get something personalized, it's like, oh, she's paying attention.
- 55:35SPEAKER_00: That's great.
- 55:36SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 55:36SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 55:37SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 55:37SPEAKER_02: So we'll see how it goes.
- 55:38SPEAKER_00: Jessica, what is Aggressively Human for you?
- 55:41SPEAKER_02: So you've all heard my window saga of leaky windows.
- 55:44SPEAKER_02: So...
- 55:46SPEAKER_02: Apparently, so now they sealed up the window.
- 55:48SPEAKER_02: I still have a leak in one of them.
- 55:49SPEAKER_02: But now the way they sealed it has left a drip when it's like at the end of the rain.
- 55:54SPEAKER_02: So now I've got to get them to come back.
- 55:55SPEAKER_02: And I'm like, I'm like, because they sealed up something.
- 55:58SPEAKER_02: Water must have been getting in there.
- 55:59SPEAKER_02: So now there's like a concentrated drip.
- 56:01SPEAKER_02: And I had to go downstairs to sleep on the couch last night because we had the big boom booms.
- 56:04SPEAKER_02: And my dog was up at like two in the morning and then the rain stopped.
- 56:08SPEAKER_02: But then I had the drip and I'm like,
- 56:11SPEAKER_00: I can't do it.
- 56:11SPEAKER_00: Nope.
- 56:11SPEAKER_02: Nope.
- 56:12SPEAKER_02: Got to figure out.
- 56:12SPEAKER_02: I got to figure out how to get this fixed because the fixed caused the drip
- 56:18SPEAKER_02: and I can't handle the drip.
- 56:20SPEAKER_02: No, no.
- 56:23SPEAKER_00: Well, yeah,
- 56:24SPEAKER_00: my dog is also like somewhat afraid of thunder,
- 56:26SPEAKER_00: but the room that he can open the door to is to my eight year old's room.
- 56:30SPEAKER_00: So he'll come in,
- 56:31SPEAKER_00: but only when it's thundering and the eight year old be like,
- 56:33SPEAKER_00: shut the door, keep him in here.
- 56:34SPEAKER_00: I'm like the poor, the poor dog.
- 56:38SPEAKER_00: Well, thank you, Laura, for being here today.
- 56:40SPEAKER_00: Thank you, listener, for joining us for this conversation.
- 56:43SPEAKER_00: And join us again next week where we will continue to have a conversation about how
- 56:47SPEAKER_00: to stay human in the age of AI.
- 56:49SPEAKER_00: See you then.