Latest / Success Story with Scott Clary / Chris Do - Emmy Award-Winning Designer | Stop Hiding Behind Your Work
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- 0:00You said that most creative people are children who've survived.
- 0:04In childhood, we're taught to follow a very specific path in life and that all the
- 0:09individuality, all the quirkiness gets beaten out of us. We learn how to go along to get along.
- 0:14What if design could change everything? Not just how we see the world, but how we live in it.
- 0:18Chris do started with a simple idea. Use creativity to unlock real value.
- 0:23I think humans are hardwired to be social animals. You can feel very lonely, very depressing,
- 0:28to feel, no one understands you, no one gets you. So we go that path. Entrepreneurship is not
- 0:32for the faint of heart. There's all kinds of things baked into entrepreneurship. It seems
- 0:37awesome to be able to have that, to be a master of your own time, but the reality is it's
- 0:41fraught with risk. Safe is risky and risky is safe. There's only so much you can do to remove
- 0:45the risk but entrepreneurship. I'm teaching design to building an empire that shapes the future
- 0:50of branding and business education. His work has touched millions, turning art into action,
- 0:55ideas into impact, but it wasn't always clear. There were moments of doubt, struggles that
- 0:59tested his purpose, a relentless pursuit of clarity in a noisy world. Pricing is positioning.
- 1:04Anything that has a higher price has a perceived higher value. Personal branding is not what you do.
- 1:08It's who you are and drilling into who you are and reflecting that into the world in the most
- 1:13unvarnished, real and raw, authentic way that you can. So very few people can actually do that.
- 1:28I want to unpack one of your ideas just to kick this off. So you said that most creative people
- 1:34are children who've survived. So explain what that idea means. Yeah, I think the thing is in childhood
- 1:43we're taught to follow a very specific path in life and that all the individuality, all the
- 1:49quirkiness gets beaten out of us in one way or the other. We learn how to go along to get along.
- 1:54If you remember back into your early primary school days, the kid who was like painting and
- 2:01getting stuff on his face was the outcast and was shunned and kind of left to be alone and it
- 2:07can be a very sad place to be. And we're pretty quick to pick up on these social cues and we're
- 2:12socialized to learn how to create a persona so that we can get along and be accepted within
- 2:17culture and society because I think humans are hardwired, most of us are hardwired to be social
- 2:22animals. And so it can feel very lonely, very depressing to feel that no one understands you,
- 2:28no one gets you. So we go that path. And so the creative people are the misfits who didn't see
- 2:34that or could not follow along despite their best efforts and and it survived through adulthood
- 2:41to kind of retain that curiosity. The ability to continue to ask what if and try weird things
- 2:47to live in their imagination. When you look at those people that have survived childhood,
- 2:53what allowed them to survive, what allowed them to step outside of traditional school, education,
- 2:59framework, society, and maintain that creativity, which obviously serves them very well in adulthood.
- 3:05I think there's a term that Brian Collins has been using. I like a lot.
- 3:09It's their gifted misfits. They can't follow the plan for whatever reason. When the instructors
- 3:15had raised your hand first, they didn't raise their hand or color inside the box, they just couldn't
- 3:19do it for whatever reason. Maybe they're no divergent or they're divergent thinkers and they see
- 3:27multitudes or multiple possible options for the future and they like to explore that. I'll give
- 3:32you an example. So in world civilization, I think I'm in junior high, John Steinbeck middle school,
- 3:38Mr. Thompson was always talking about things and he's a very engaging speaker and he would teach
- 3:43us about world history and civilizations, but I was constantly just doodling characters in my notebook.
- 3:48I was listening, but I was doodling. And Mr. Thompson, thank God for him because he allowed me to express
- 3:55myself in the way that I wanted to and knowing very well if he asked a question, I wasn't daydreaming,
- 4:00I wasn't not paying attention. I was very much paying attention. I just happened to find some
- 4:05activity for my right hand to do. And it was funny because there was a woman next to me, a girl
- 4:11and her name is Heather and Heather's like, how can you give me a hard time when he's drawing all the
- 4:16time? He goes, watch, I'll ask him a question. He'll know the answer and you won't. That's the
- 4:20difference. And so I think we have a couple of people who see something in us who are our champions,
- 4:27whether they explicitly say it to us or not, they're rooting for us to succeed and they give us
- 4:32just enough space to explore our creative side. Sometimes it's apparent or sibling and I've had
- 4:37a lot of that in my life. My mom would buy me an airbrush and a compressor because she saw me
- 4:42staring at the people at the fairgrounds, airbrushing names on t-shirts and she just knew there was
- 4:46something there. My older brother got me a credit card to help me start my first business and he just
- 4:51encouraged everything that I did like in metal shop. I would build wire sculptures and he'd go, that's
- 4:56really neat piece of art. I'm like, that's not art. That's just some junk I made.
- 5:00Is there a way to architect creativity or if you've not had that support growing up and you find
- 5:08yourself in a nine to five job and you're listening to this podcast and you consume the future and
- 5:13you consume your content and your show and your YouTube channel and you're like, damn, like I want
- 5:16to break out of what I know. I want to be creative. I want to be a builder, but this is not the
- 5:23environment I came from, so I don't want to just throw in the towel. How do you architect creativity?
- 5:30Very good question, Scott. I like that question very much. I feel like there's a frequency that's
- 5:35being transmitted that only some people can hear it. I suspect that anybody who's watching this
- 5:41on our channel or your channel listening to our own podcasts, they're already tuning themselves
- 5:45into hear this. So maybe we don't need so much to reverse engineer or architect it so much as to
- 5:52give them permission to explore this other side that they've repressed for a really long time.
- 5:57There's this itch and it's been sitting there and they know it and they follow someone else's
- 6:01game plan on how to live a successful life. They went to the proper school study, the proper
- 6:06subject and got the grades and the diplomas to prove it. And then they're in this grind and
- 6:10they're just sitting there thinking, and daydreaming, is there more to it? I find some parallels to
- 6:16the matrix and the matrix is one of my favorite films of all time, probably the top film of all time
- 6:20for me. And in it, the character, the main character, Neo knows in his heart and his soul,
- 6:25there's something more to this, but he can't quite put his finger on it. And so when he gets his
- 6:30message on his on his tell his screen, his terminal, it says something follow the white rabbit.
- 6:37And that's all it is. It's not very clear what that means. And some people are encouraging to go
- 6:42to a party or something. He doesn't want to go, but when she turns around, there's like a little rabbit
- 6:46tattoo on her back or something and he follows the rabbit. And so maybe they're listening to this
- 6:52and saying, is this my moment? And it might not be the moment for you, but I suspect it is. And if
- 6:57you're listening to this, you're really picking up on the frequency. Now, I want to provide a broader
- 7:02definition of what it means to be a designer or creative person so that you're not thinking, oh,
- 7:06I don't draw. I don't paint. I don't sing. I don't play music. I'm excluded from this conversation.
- 7:12In his book, the brand gap, Marty knew my quotes Herbert Simon, I think his name, who's a Nobel laureate
- 7:20on his definition of what a designer is. And if I can remember correctly, it's something like this.
- 7:25A designer is one who devices courses of action to go from an existing condition or situation to
- 7:31preferred one. And I really like that. That means the world is the way it is. And we seek to improve it
- 7:39in small or big ways. And anyone who does that is the designer.
- 7:44You, I mean, you've gone, you've gone out and you sort of stated that your current season of
- 7:50your life or your current version of yourself started at a later age, started at 42 when you
- 7:54started creating content. Did you consider yourself a creative before that? Or was this like this,
- 8:02was there some sort of inflection point that pushed you down this, this path that you're on right
- 8:06now? I gave myself permission to be a creative person, I think, in senior year in high school.
- 8:12I'd always been drawing and making things, thinking about building businesses and building them
- 8:16and failed spectacularly. And it wasn't until I met a real life graphic designer when I was 18 years
- 8:23old that I thought this can be a possible career path for me. And so I think this is a very important
- 8:28thing to share with people until we see someone that we can relate to doing the thing that is that
- 8:33what we want to do, we don't allow ourselves to dream that hard. And that's the sad part of
- 8:38like real life. So when I meet this real life graphic designer, working in his home studio,
- 8:44his name is Dean Walker, he has the early Macintosh 512k, you know, monochrome monitor. And he's
- 8:50doing professional design work with his mouse and hands. I was like, this is so cool. I've seen
- 8:56this on TV, but I have not met anyone who does this. You know, all we see are like Mac paint and
- 9:01like really rudimentary illustration tools, which didn't interest me at all. But here he was drawing
- 9:07letter forms and building complete logo systems. And I was thinking, this is really, really cool.
- 9:13I knew then and there that I was a creative person. I mean, I always knew, but it'd give myself
- 9:17permission to do that. And it's very easy to spot. If you ask people who are listening to this
- 9:22podcast or watching this, retrace back into your childhood, the fondest memories that you have.
- 9:28They're almost always run play and imagination. Whether you put on a costume and pretended to act
- 9:33out a scene, you built a fort, you might have designed a go cart or a soapbox derby thing.
- 9:40There's something that you did and I brought joy to your heart. And then you were told,
- 9:45that's not a serious thing. That's play and we have to work now and you put those things away.
- 9:50And just just try to recall those moments. Those are clues as to who you're supposed to be before
- 9:55that idea or dream was snuffed out. So I already knew that that, you know, at an early age,
- 10:00I was a creative person, but I didn't allow myself to pursue it on a professional level.
- 10:05First of all, I want your story to be a lesson people that are later on in their career.
- 10:08Obviously, I think that's a very important message because I think that those people feel
- 10:12pigeonholed and stuck in what they're doing, especially when they've been doing it since they were
- 10:1620. So I think that's a great story that I want you to talk about. But what was that thing
- 10:21that gave you the permission to do this radical shift?
- 10:25For context, so from about 2000 to 2018, I worked and studied as a professional graphic designer.
- 10:32I went to a prestigious art and design school. I got my degree in design. I started working
- 10:37commercials and music videos and that's where I stayed for almost 25 years. Something significant
- 10:42happened in 2014 that would change the course of my life. So I met, there's a couple of things
- 10:48I have to mention because they're kind of important for people to understand and unpack.
- 10:51Number one, I had been working pretty much solidly as an entrepreneur for 20 some
- 10:55bought years. 1995 is when I started my company. And so that's almost 20 years at that point,
- 11:00I think. And I've built up enough financial reserves such that I started to think about what I
- 11:06want to do with the rest of my life. It's not a midlife crisis, but it's when we remove the need
- 11:11to make money, it's start, we start to ask ourselves, who am I supposed to be in this world?
- 11:15And it was a confluence, a couple different things happening within close proximity in terms of
- 11:19a timeline that got me to shift in a very different direction. I'm teaching at Art Center,
- 11:25I'm teaching sequential design, and my wife is hanging out with me and she's a designer too.
- 11:29And in class, she's kind of asking me this question, which is, I think you were destined to do more
- 11:35and to be more that your genius needs to be shared with more than just eight students at a time.
- 11:41Private Art School, very small classroom, good student to teach a ratio. And I was like,
- 11:45shoot, how do I do this? Because I felt that I needed the institution, I needed their enrollment
- 11:52process, I needed the curriculum, I needed the credentials, I needed all these things. And I
- 11:56didn't have an answer for it. But just like less than six months later, I get reintroduced an old
- 12:02friend from art school, his name is Jose Caballet. And we're meeting at like the AIGA boardroom
- 12:09talking about the future of design. And I was asking him questions about web design. And that
- 12:15began a chain of events that led us to this conclusion that we're both very passionate about
- 12:20education. He was already teaching using YouTube. And I was teaching like in brick and mortar
- 12:26schools. And he was challenging me. Why don't we make content together? And at first, I rejected
- 12:32the idea. I thought that only pretenders near to do wells, people who don't have any real skill
- 12:38get on to YouTube and babble on about things I don't know anything about. Because that's kind of
- 12:42how the landscape was back in 2014. And some things have not changed too. But now you see lawyers,
- 12:49you see therapists, you see people with people that really do know what they're talking about.
- 12:52Multiple degrees. And people who are serious entrepreneurs creating content on YouTube,
- 12:57people who've exited out of companies for a hundred million dollars doing content on YouTube,
- 13:01because they see the opportunity. But back then, it was kind of dark. But he insisted I do this.
- 13:06And he gave me a very generous offer that one that I could not refuse. And so I started making
- 13:10content. It took a couple years for it to click for me. Like this is going to work. There's
- 13:15a real business here and it allowed me to transition from doing client service work to doing just
- 13:20peer content and education. And that's what I've been doing for the last, I guess 10 years now.
- 13:25Do you think that that is the ideal version of entrepreneurship where you build up this safety net
- 13:31so you can or should, so you can take more risk or should people maybe work in nine to five,
- 13:38not have complete financial safety, but start to build that at a much younger age. Well,
- 13:42if you could just give somebody the perfect playbook for de-risked and highest chance of success
- 13:48entrepreneurship, what would that look like? I'm going to say things that may be controversial.
- 13:52So if I say him, you want to push back, I encourage you to entrepreneurship is not for the faint of
- 13:59heart. There's all kinds of things baked into entrepreneurship. There's a side that people share
- 14:04about like being your own boss, having your own ability to to write your future, so to speak.
- 14:11And to make the money and manage people and it seems awesome to be able to have that to be a
- 14:16master of your own time. But the reality is it's fraught with risk and entrepreneurship is risk
- 14:23and it's risky to to to be able to do that. But there's an ad man who said safe is risky and risky is
- 14:30safe. So if you want to go to safe route, you're going to have a very predictable job, but those
- 14:35jobs can go away and you're kind of at the whim of whatever corporations want to do with your life.
- 14:42And so that's problematic, right? They downsize, they merge, they sell, they they go in a bad
- 14:46management spiral and you're kind of just stuck and you don't know what else to do.
- 14:51So when what people know, there's only so much you can do to remove the risk about entrepreneurship
- 14:55because entrepreneurship rewards people who want to take risk. I think that's a great thing about
- 15:00America, which is where capitalistic society and we reward people with with patents and IP things
- 15:06that they can trademark or copyright. We give them special tax incentives so that they can build
- 15:10businesses because they know that's a pretty high percentage of failure. And I think if that sounds
- 15:17like you, then you might consider this, but I don't think I can make you like more risk tolerant.
- 15:24People are averse to risk or people are tolerant to risk. I'll give you an example. My wife is very
- 15:29risk averse. She doesn't want to take risk. She wants to have a very stable life, especially as
- 15:35we're kind of getting up there in years, she doesn't want this. And I get that, but I thrive in the
- 15:40kind of pool of stress and the unknowns. And I think that's the first sign you know you're
- 15:46right for entrepreneurship. Number two is to realize this one thing, which is your life is
- 15:52relatively short for the moment in which you're born, you're counting down the days in which you're
- 15:56going to expire either by natural causes or unnatural causes. You're going to die. And if you come
- 16:01to that realization, if you get one spin at this, one play, why not make the play the biggest
- 16:07boldest thing that you can do in your lifetime so that it fills you with joy and it gives your
- 16:12life meaning and purpose. Because I know no one sits there and wakes up one day and it's like,
- 16:17my big dream is to work nine to five helping to contribute to somebody else's wealth.
- 16:22When you look at first time entrepreneurs, you speak about this a lot. And I think this is one of
- 16:26your your most viral posts. It's about pricing. It's about it's about what you should charge and
- 16:32what you are worth. I think there was something like 64 million views on this one post, but the
- 16:38the the concept of starving artist of solopreneur of not charging enough is a very hot topic because I
- 16:44think that for first time entrepreneurs, it's it's very nerve wracking to ask somebody for money
- 16:50and ask somebody for a lot of money. I think that I think that we generally default to imposter syndrome
- 16:56and not asking for enough. So maybe just walk me through some of the some of the arguments you make
- 17:03for charging more for knowing your worth for knowing your value and maybe even talk through it
- 17:11in terms of like a timeline of as you're building out your solopreneur venture. Like,
- 17:17do you adopt these ideas of charging premium in month one or is it like this is just like a month
- 17:2312 or or year two conversation. Okay. I'm going to make some analogies if I get lost amount of
- 17:29analogy, pull me back. Okay. Just wave at me like, yo, we don't know what the heck you're talking
- 17:33about anymore. All right. Here's to how I want to look at this. I don't know if you've ever played
- 17:38the game battleship battleship where there's a little screen. You kind of what you do in battleship
- 17:43is you don't try to just sink the battleship. You you do something called range finding. You put
- 17:48a couple like targets on the board and you kind of eliminate whole areas of where the battleship
- 17:53can't be. And if you're out in the field, maybe before computers and AI assisted weaponry was
- 18:00available, you'd fire shot like a catapult, right? A trebuchet and you'd fire shot. You're like,
- 18:05okay, that was way too far. And then you fire the next one. You don't just make small movements
- 18:10there. You'll then go really short. So you know, somewhere between those two markings is where
- 18:14you're going to hit. And based on that, the third shot will get you really close. Now what some people
- 18:19do is they just fire shot and then I go ahead and work and they just do wild things. There's no
- 18:23strategy for it. And I want you to think of your value as a game and the pricing is a game.
- 18:29So we don't know where the target's going to be. So what people tend to do is they say, okay,
- 18:34what did Jimmy or Mary make on that job? All right. Okay. It's 30 bucks an hour.
- 18:40Well, based on their portfolio, I'm not as good as them or not as fast or experiences them. So
- 18:45I'll do 25. So we compare to that benchmark. But we're using pretty bad data because how do we
- 18:51know that Mary or Bob putting the good price to begin with? And then we start to adjust ever so
- 18:58slightly, well, we'll do $26 and we'll do $28. So we slowly work our way up after years of
- 19:04working saying, now I feel like I'm ready to charge with Bob and Mary charge.
- 19:08My game is I know that what I do is good because I put in the time and work when I was in school
- 19:14and I knew where I stood relative to my classmates. So when I went on to the professional world,
- 19:23I started putting out a price and they said, yes. And that got me to think, well, it's at the
- 19:29ceiling because I always want some tension in the conversation. I generally avoid tension,
- 19:34but in the pricing game, I love to have tension. So I want to raise that price again and see like
- 19:40what they say to the next client or to the same client. Because I know whatever they paid me to do,
- 19:45I'm going to do a better job. I create more value than what I charge. And I always know that I'm
- 19:51the right side of that equation. Because in my mind, even at that time, there's no amount that
- 19:56you could pay me where I wouldn't work harder to earn that business and make you feel good about
- 20:00it. Right. And if you don't feel good, we don't have to work together again. And that'll be a bad
- 20:05mark on me. And I know that a lot of creative people feel this way. So I just keep asking for more
- 20:11money until they start to say, no, but I don't stop there. I'm like, why did they say no this time?
- 20:17I wonder why? Because the perception of the value I've created in the prospects or the client's
- 20:22mind doesn't exceed the pain it costs for them to give me that money. Good news is if you sell
- 20:28to affluent buyers, people who have serious problems, their pain threshold is very high
- 20:34relative to the price they're willing to pay to get rid of that problem. Let's put in a different
- 20:40context now. If you're in a boat and the boat is sinking and you're out at sea and you don't
- 20:44want to swim and you have a family of four in there and you're going to perish, anybody who pulls
- 20:49up to you who offers you an emergency vessel or life jackets or a beacon or instant repair to your
- 20:58boat, you will pay just about anything because it's worth a lot to you. But the problem is the
- 21:04person who pulls up on that boat to save you and your family of four, they're like, well, it only
- 21:09costs this much materials and this much time. And they're pricing based on what it costs them
- 21:14versus the value to you. Now, that might not be a very good analogy because you know, now you're
- 21:19charging money to save people's lives and so maybe that's a bad analogy, but I think I've made
- 21:24the point there. So what you do then is you need to understand the other person has a pain point,
- 21:31can't afford this and it would give them pleasure to give you money to make that problem go away.
- 21:36We don't want to deny them that that process of figuring out what the value is to them. And so
- 21:42that's why I just kept playing the game. So I went from doing probably $250 a day, which is about
- 21:47$30 an hour for an eight hour day to 300 to 400 to 600 to 800. And I was starting to feel like I'm
- 21:53hitting a ceiling here. So in my mind, it wasn't there was a problem. It was just the problem to
- 21:59solve was how do I create greater perceived value and what I do? Who do I need to sell to such that
- 22:05they would see the value and what it is that I do and I kept finding more buyers for the work.
- 22:10So here's the first lesson. Pricing is positioning. Whenever we look at comparable objects,
- 22:16anything that has a higher price has a perceived higher value. That's the bottom line. So if we look
- 22:21at t-shirts, we look at sneakers, we look at cars, I'll give you the example. I'm really into
- 22:27limited drops, sneakers. And I'm not talking about Air Force ones, which everybody knows about.
- 22:32I'm talking about like there are like these weird ones that come out that no one seems to like,
- 22:36but there's only so many of them that are made and I was late to the game. You get like a text
- 22:40when they drop. I'm too late to the game. It's like, it's an eight year old shoe and I'm
- 22:46making sure I really want that shoe and I'm trying to figure out what the price point to that is
- 22:50and the value it is to me, right? So when I see a sneaker that's $7800 and that's a way above
- 22:58retail, I'm like, that's the real one. And then because of targeting, somebody sends me, not
- 23:04somebody, like a some company starts target me and says, Oh, you want that limited edition shoe?
- 23:09Hours is 150. My media thought is that's a fake. Because I know the market price everywhere,
- 23:17I've looked, it's between six to eight hundred dollars. So when it comes to 115, sure enough,
- 23:21when I dig into the details, they don't use a brand's name. They say like that kind of shoe.
- 23:28So they get all the SEO stuff, but they can't say it's that same shoe. And I like many people
- 23:33don't want to buy a knockoff because buying a knockoff says something about me and my values.
- 23:38I'm not a counterfeit buyer. I don't want to support counterfeit companies. So pricing is
- 23:43positioning. So many of you, if you want better clients, what you have to do is you have to charge more
- 23:48because you're going to track the different kind of buyer. One who has a bigger problem,
- 23:52one who thinks whatever it is that you do is a solution to something that they feel is urgent to solve.
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- 28:34Why do you think because when you say it makes so much sense? Common sense is never common.
- 28:40That's sort of like my rule that I live by. But again, so I was just looking at my notes. 64
- 28:47million views on this one particular topic. Why do you think this is such a viral topic? Why do
- 28:53you think that people have such a hard time with this when it seems like it should be yes,
- 28:58charge more. It makes sense. If they say no, then figure out why they're saying no.
- 29:02I think that video has the most views because there are two sides this argument. And whenever you can
- 29:09find that, whenever you can find something that both sides will argue on, I think you get a video
- 29:17that gets a lot of views. Because if we all agreed, we're like, well, that's a plata too. We all
- 29:20think breathing is necessary and love is good in the world and kindness, right? So if you make videos
- 29:25about generosity and kindness and love, you get some views, but they're hardly anybody who's going to
- 29:30say, well, that's a terrible idea. So where we get a lot of views on this is we touch the nerve.
- 29:35So for all the creatives and I'm talking about now, it's expanded way beyond graphic designers and
- 29:41people will make logos. I have people who work at airports who see that video, who serve behind
- 29:47kitchen counters at fast casual restaurants or people who do plumbing and tile or electrical work,
- 29:52saying, I'll watch your video. That changed the game for me. So what I'm doing is I'm giving them
- 29:58a logical argument about why charging based on time, time-based pricing punishes you for being good,
- 30:07for being efficient and for being experienced because you could do a job two, three, four,
- 30:12five times faster and better than some rookie. And if the rookie knew where to charge similar
- 30:17hourly rates, they would make more money. So you're being punished for your efficiency and for
- 30:21being good. Conversely, there's other people who take the other side, which is you're just an idiot
- 30:28trying to raise prices on people with no foundation. I have no idea what I'm talking about because
- 30:32this is not how it works in the real world based on their experience. So you're getting both sides
- 30:37coming at this from the side of the buyer and the seller arguing with each other and myself included
- 30:42saying either I don't know what I'm talking about or Chris preach. And that's why that video has so
- 30:47many views. It's interesting. And it's funny that people say this isn't how the real world works
- 30:52because I've in past companies, I think I've spent about 50 grand for a PowerPoint from Deloitte
- 30:59or a agency. So this world definitely does work like this. And that is a cheap PowerPoint. That
- 31:05was for a pre-revenue company. That was the most willing to spend pre-revenue. But I mean,
- 31:10there's endless amounts that you can charge if you can find a way to quantify the value.
- 31:15If you look at even, I mean, we can sort of talk about content for a second. I know that you
- 31:20actually, I don't want to talk about content yet. It's a fun topic. You talk about it a lot.
- 31:25But I was listening to a couple of the podcasts you were on and I liked this position that you took.
- 31:29So on on brand and personal brand. So everybody's trying to build a personal brand. And I think
- 31:36you were talking to Eric Sue if not mistaken about this. And your position was, are you really
- 31:42building a personal brand? And a lot of people that think they have brands do not have brands.
- 31:47So please explain that to me because I love these spiky points of view that you don't hear a lot.
- 31:52And I think that's something that hopefully people that are listening to this audience again.
- 31:55There's entrepreneurs in the audience. There's entrepreneurs that are still trying to build. But
- 31:59ultimately, I think what's ironic is even though I don't think people should just build a personal
- 32:03brand just to have it, I think that's a vanity metric they're chasing. The biggest question I get
- 32:09is how do I grow my Instagram audience, which I actually find to be the most useful measure of
- 32:14a useless measure of my success. Excuse me. Like I mean, it doesn't actually benefit me to any
- 32:19significant degree. Downloads from the podcast don't come from Instagram. I can grow an Instagram.
- 32:24But if you're talking about where I monetize my actual brand and my actual audience, it's not on
- 32:29Instagram. So for me, it's silly that people want to do this. But I get that people are just trying
- 32:33to chase fame or followers or vanity, whatever. Talk to me about personal brand.
- 32:40There's a lot to unpack here. So I just made some notes here. I think we need to get into a
- 32:45spirited conversation. So here's a warning for everybody. It's going to get a little spicy. You
- 32:50might feel triggered or called out in this conversation. And Scott, I'm going to have to rely on you
- 32:55to represent the side of the scene because I'm going to go insane in the membrane right now.
- 32:59First, the words words matter. We have to agree that words matter and the definitions of words
- 33:05and having a common shared definition of words do matter too. Because otherwise anybody can use
- 33:10any word to mean something other than what it really means. And when we talk about brand,
- 33:16brand has become an elevated term and it's become so popular in the creative culture that people
- 33:21misuse that word so much. So there are people who design logos and say, well, I do branding.
- 33:27No, you design a logo. Well, I design an identity system. No, you're an identity system designer.
- 33:34The people who can legitimately claim that are doing branding or brand design are the people who
- 33:39understand the entirety of the company, the culture, the mission, the vision, the purpose,
- 33:44understand its customers, their wants and needs and develop a complete 360 degree approach
- 33:50to communicating and sharing an experience with their customers. So that doesn't sound like a whole
- 33:56lot of people. But because they feel denigrated that they're calling themselves a logo designer,
- 34:01they start to call themselves a branding expert, which they're not. And this is not to diminish the
- 34:06value of a really great mark. I will pay a lot of money for people who understand how to design a
- 34:11great logo type or word mark or a combination mark or something like that or symbol because there's
- 34:17not that many people who can do a really great logo. But there's this false connection that if you
- 34:24make a mark or if they're you pick colors, then you're doing branding because branding is much
- 34:29bigger than that. So if we look at the entire customer experience around branding, then we start
- 34:33to get a sense of what it means. So Marty Numer has already done a great job of this. He defines
- 34:37brand in his books, multiple books, brand as a gut feeling, a person's gut feeling about a product
- 34:44service organization. And it's a feeling. So the feeling is generated through a lot of different
- 34:50touch points. And it can come from how you're greeted at the door, how they respond to a customer
- 34:55service problem to the very smallest details of the packaging experience. Apple does it on levels
- 35:02way above everyone else. If you've ever purchased an Apple product, the entire experience from walking
- 35:07into the store to leaving is unlike most experiences that you've had anywhere else. They've been
- 35:13doing this for decades, yet companies still cannot copy the the experience that one has, right?
- 35:21Can I add one thing to that just so you to understand how detailed Apple is in their overall brand
- 35:27experience? If you hold up any of their phone boxes, they've timed the friction on their phone
- 35:33box. So it takes only so many seconds for that phone to open on its own. So every time that you
- 35:39pull up a phone from like the counter or whatever and you're just holding that box, I can't remember
- 35:43how long it is. It could be three seconds or four seconds, but every single box will open at the
- 35:47exact same moment. That's the exact amount of friction that they put between the upper portion of
- 35:52the box and the lower portion of the box. So the attention to detail, that's like a master class
- 35:58in brand. Even the way that you pull one little tab and the whole plastic thing comes off because
- 36:03those are points of frustration for most products when you get them. Like you got to get a knife
- 36:07in there, you get a dig at your tearing it away with your teeth. Sometimes they just fall out
- 36:12and it feels like, whoa, I could have broken that or just there's too much friction. Like now
- 36:16can get it out and it's making me really angry. So the level of detail that they pay attention to
- 36:23is incredible. And that's what we talk about when we talk about branding, okay? So now we move
- 36:29away from branding to personal branding. And there are some differences here. So we still understand
- 36:34as the person's got feeling, it's about the entire experience. And there are many definitions
- 36:39of branding like people will say it's a person's what they say about you when you're not in the room,
- 36:43it's your reputation. But sometimes I think those things are a little too reductive. And I prefer
- 36:48to use the definition from people who spend a lifetime developing brands, okay? Now a corporate
- 36:55brand is very different than a personal brand. And that a corporate brand is the culmination of a
- 37:00lot of different people's opinions and ideas. It's it's kind of doesn't represent a person
- 37:05it represents the entire culture of a company. Although one person starts it, it grows way beyond
- 37:11that in terms of like how it exists today. So Steve Jobs and Steve Wozniak started Apple in the
- 37:17Cupertino garage. But neither of them are connected to this company more, but Apple yet still has
- 37:22a very strong brand. The problem with this is there's a whole group of people from copyrighter
- 37:29strategist, art directors, designers, legal department, HR kind of filtering out the experience
- 37:36for people. And so it becomes an amalgamation of a lot of different inputs. And we know that anything
- 37:42designed by committee is not the sharpest thing. It's because it's the lowest common denominator versus
- 37:47the one outlier. If you contrast that with a personal brand, a personal brand is representative
- 37:53of exactly one person, you or me, Scott Chris. And here's the problem. And this ties back to
- 38:00where this conversation began. If we've been socialized to create a persona to get along,
- 38:06we've created a alternate version of ourselves that we have lived in this suit for so long
- 38:13that we forgot what our individual voice and point of view is. And we're also fearful that if we
- 38:18really say what it is that we think that we will get hashtag canceled that people will find what
- 38:25our thoughts are so repulsive that those shut us down and it will eliminate future opportunities
- 38:30for us for work, for clients, for partners. And I was listening to this one program where there's
- 38:36two people went on a first date. And she's like, I'm never going out with him again. Why is that?
- 38:40Well, because he's a ex-supportor, some, some president on general candidate. And that was
- 38:46enough for her to say, I'm not interested in you. So that's why we have good reason to be scared.
- 38:51So what is happening is you have a lot of people out there who say they have this personal brand.
- 38:57But what they're putting out there is not a reflection of their real true identity.
- 39:02They're not really being authentic. They're they're they're manicuring or curating all the things
- 39:08around in their lives. Like they go to one nice hotel and like, this is my life. They rent a car
- 39:13and it's like, this is my car. They they hire models and say, these are who I'm dating. You know,
- 39:18and it's all manufactured and fabricated. That's one type of personal brand. The other type of
- 39:24personal brand, which I'm not for either, is what people are using to get clients. Okay. So they
- 39:31look at personal branding as a form of marketing and advertising to talk about what they do.
- 39:37The kinds of benefits or features or outcomes that they're able to create for other people.
- 39:43Again, none of that is about who you are as a person. So for me, and I think I'm alone minority
- 39:50in this world when I talk about personal brand, personal branding is not what you do. It's who you are.
- 39:57And drilling into who you are and reflecting that into the world in the most unvarnished,
- 40:02real and raw authentic way that you can. So very few people can actually do that.
- 40:08The first I can never get on board with. I can't get on board with renting cars or renting
- 40:14models to pretend to be their girlfriend or renting a private jet and saying that you own it.
- 40:19Like, that's just ridiculous. The second, I understand what they're trying to accomplish.
- 40:24They're trying to build a business and they're not trying to do it maliciously. They're just
- 40:27trying to figure out, okay, how do I use my insight of my experience to sell a product or service
- 40:33that I'm fully qualified to sell. And I feel like if I'm injecting like my political views into
- 40:39this, it's only going to hurt me. It's not going to accomplish in that positive. So let's focus on
- 40:44that second person because I think there's a lot more. I would hope there's a lot more of that
- 40:47second person listening to this podcast and the person who's renting models and posting them on
- 40:52Instagram. So the person is trying to achieve an actual business objective through their content.
- 40:57And they that's what they speak about and they don't bring their whole self into it. What's the
- 41:00advice for them? Because I don't think they're doing anything wrong. I just don't think they know
- 41:04how else to act because they're scared of hurting their income. So let's let's try and unpack that.
- 41:08First of all, I gave extreme examples of like the fake persona. But if you dial that back to like
- 41:13how people really show up, for example, filters on their face, you know, only one corner of the house
- 41:18looks immaculate. Everything else looks like a total pick, pickstie, right? And so we do these things.
- 41:24We curate all the time and it's natural for us to do some of that to the extent of which you can
- 41:29start to say that's fake AF, right? Now here's the problem in corporations. The way we go get
- 41:35new business is we do something called marketing advertising and public relations. But we don't call
- 41:40that personal branding. So if you act like a corporation, we just got to call a duck a duck.
- 41:46That's not personal brand building. It's just another tool for you to get clients. And that's why
- 41:50corporations don't talk about politics or strong points of view because they have to tow that
- 41:55middle line. They run it through HR and strategy and copywriting and legal and they figure out what
- 42:00we need to say to get more customers. But no one wakes up and says, Oh, I just love that corporate
- 42:06faceless entity. They might like their products or how it makes them feel, right? Like,
- 42:12unfortunately, that most of these fashion houses, the person who who originated or created that
- 42:18brand in the first place were no longer connected. They've been out sit from their own company.
- 42:22So when we say we love Gucci, it's like, no one from the Gucci family is actually associated
- 42:26with Gucci anymore. If you believe the film, right? Now here's what's happening. Corporations are
- 42:32trying to be more personal. My friend, Yo Santos says people don't fall in love with corporations.
- 42:37They fall in love with personality. So they're trying to act like a person. Here's the ironic
- 42:44twist to all of this. People are trying to act more like corporations, which is really weird.
- 42:49So you guys just want to meet in the middle and have a weird party. That's cool. You guys go do
- 42:54that, right? So I think it's important. When you have a business brand for you to do exactly what
- 43:01you're talking about, you don't say too many inflammatory things. You're not polarizing and you're
- 43:07very careful with what you produce. No one really connects with that content except for clients,
- 43:13which I understand. You write case studies and you do PR releases about some cool project you've
- 43:19worked on. And you're very careful. Like you reread it. You send it through legal, all that kind
- 43:23of stuff. What I'm talking about now is something totally different, which is there's a business
- 43:28brand. Scott's created business and Scott as the human. Those two believe it or not can co-exist
- 43:36in the world. And in fact, the more you are you, Scott, the more you're going to you're going to
- 43:42drive interest around Scott's company. And we can see this happening. If you look at Virgin versus
- 43:48Richard Branson in terms of the follower count, if you look at Elon Musk versus Tesla Tim Cook versus
- 43:53Apple, you just go down the list. Basically, people want to connect to real people. And yeah, we'll
- 44:00follow the corporate accounts, but we're not really paying that careful attention to it because we know
- 44:03almost everything they put out in terms of content. It's designed for one purpose to control our
- 44:10thinking into influences or nudges towards behavior that benefits them. Maybe not so much us.
- 44:17When you look at what you've built, I think most people objectively would say that you've
- 44:20built a personal brand by the by the classic definition or by the definition that I think the
- 44:25majority of people would define a personal brand going into this podcast before they just listen
- 44:31to how you broke it down. But would you consider yourself to be somebody who's built a personal
- 44:35if yes, why if no, why? And I'll tell you for sure. So in the early ages or the dawn of social
- 44:42media, I didn't really understand social media. So we were creating things for my services on
- 44:46company blind. And so I was always worried like, what are right? Because there's there's a lot of
- 44:50people creative directors who are on the front line. And I don't want to create a situation where
- 44:54they have to explain themselves. And there's 10, 20 years between me and them in terms of age
- 44:59difference. So we're into different things. They're much more inclusive and softer in their language.
- 45:04And I'm a little bit brashier and kind of more direct and blunt. And I don't want to have them
- 45:09apologizing and on every new business call. So I find it really difficult to write in any kind of
- 45:15real way with passion and with energy and emotion. So they wound up becoming very boring. So when I
- 45:21created the future, by circumstance or by design, it was just me. I had one volunteer who was
- 45:28an unpaid volunteer at the beginning. And so it wasn't like I was going to write we everything was
- 45:33in I. I'm thinking this I like this. And some people would push back their Chris, you're supposed
- 45:39to always write the we. I'm like, I don't know what school you want to you write the way you want.
- 45:43I'm going to write the way I want because I'm spending all of my money to do this. And I don't
- 45:48even need to make money. I'm just going to do what I want. So please don't tell me what to do. I felt
- 45:53it as inauthentic to write in the we because there's no we there's just me. I'm not pretending to be
- 45:58anything but to be myself. And I say, right, here's the thing that's going to maybe shock some people.
- 46:05My personal account grew faster than the corporate account.
- 46:11Because it's got keeping in line with the data that we already see today. And there's no
- 46:15surprise there because people want to show up for a person. And we understand that I can alienate
- 46:20people. I can be off putting to many people. And that's totally okay. Because here's a really
- 46:25cool part. The stronger you are as who you're supposed to be in this world, the stronger it creates
- 46:30this filter to attract the right kind of people and repel the wrong kind of people. We told
- 46:35to get that right. So we were talking about certain political figures before we went on air.
- 46:40They attract certain kinds of people and they repel other kinds of people because they're
- 46:44speaking from who they are. And our frustration with American politics is people show up. And we
- 46:51don't know who the heck is there. It's like some corporate puppet that's backed by billion
- 46:56dollar investors or something and they have zero personality. They can't speak clearly or directly.
- 47:02And we're really frustrated. Hence why I think we got the result we got. Okay. So for me, I believe
- 47:09I have a very strong personal brand. People know what I stand for. I'm saying things that I believe
- 47:14in my heart to be true. I'm very passionate about it. And it will piss people off.
- 47:19But it will attract more people to the conversation than it will drive them away. And I'm okay with
- 47:25that. If you were going to give somebody a tactical guide on how to adopt this ideology into their
- 47:32own personal brand, would you say that there is something, some sort of framework that you
- 47:38abide by 20% talking about my kids and my wife, 80% talking about my business? Like I'm sure
- 47:44you've thought through this because there there can be probably over indexing on your views.
- 47:51So just for somebody who wants to get into this, what's the playbook? There's a very specific
- 47:55way that I found that has worked for me. It might work for them. Okay. Initially, if you just talk
- 47:59about you, unless you're like a lifestyle brand, no one's going to care. No one will care about your
- 48:04life, your story, your history or anything like that. The first arc of this and maybe it's multiple
- 48:09phases is for you to give tremendous value to the people that you want to serve. So find a customer
- 48:14that's passionate about something that has a problem that you'd like to help them solve.
- 48:19This is not advertising, by the way. This is just me showing up to try to help people. Initially,
- 48:23it was design content. I thought I'll help you teach you about typography and logo design and
- 48:28corporate design. Cool. I kind of got bored with that. I'm like, I want to do something different.
- 48:32When I found that people were really hungry for business information and insight,
- 48:36despite not having any product to serve that audience, I just created content for this community.
- 48:43Later on, I found products because they would ask me, Chris, you have something on X, Y, or Z.
- 48:48Now people are asking, do you have a course or a workbook or anything on personal branding?
- 48:53Because we love your perspective on it. So first, you serve the audience and the community.
- 48:58Now, here's the thing. When you teach, you're really just giving value upfront.
- 49:04At some point, I don't know where the tipping point is, people want to see you in the content.
- 49:10So it's described as faceless content. Now, I'll write posts and mostly typographic and design
- 49:15driven. A couple of photos, but it's really not me speaking or doing anything.
- 49:19And that brings in an audience. And then this is question mark. Who is this? Is this a team of
- 49:24people writing? Or is this a person I can relate to and connect with and share some kind of cultural
- 49:30currency with? And so then you have to start to put yourself in there because if you just
- 49:35lead with all value, it just becomes like a robot account. This is kind of important. And this
- 49:40is where I want to warn everybody. It's my opinion. Stay away from faceless AI content. I don't know
- 49:46what you're building there. You're just taking shortcuts, right? So now that you're creating content,
- 49:51you're delivering tremendous amounts of value, people want to know a little bit about who you are
- 49:55so that they can get into the story. And this is very important now because if it's purely
- 50:00education based, there's no, there are no emotional hooks there, right? Like somebody's going
- 50:07to tune into this content. They're going to see my face, my glasses, my hat, or hear my voice and
- 50:12say, Hey, there's somebody that resonates that frequency connects with me. And we're kind of
- 50:17in sync. We're we're drawn, we're drawn towards each other. If I were to come on this show and
- 50:24be very professorial, which I could not be, to be very careful, my wording of things to speak
- 50:29without a lot of passion to be kind of cold in my delivery, people are like, well, some people
- 50:35love that. And so people hate that. And I find that when I speak with passion, more people will
- 50:39tune in. Hence that one viral video that you're mentioning. One thing that I think is a great
- 50:44exercise is if you look at your favorite creator and you look at their content and video contents
- 50:50great for this and go to their YouTube and go to all these videos and look at how much of a robot
- 50:53they are versus who they are now. And you can see that, listen, being comfortable putting
- 50:59yourself out there and being comfortable having spiky points of view and opinions, it's not
- 51:04something that I would ever expect something to be okay with day one. I don't think it's easy
- 51:08to say it's very hard to do. But I think that if you, you know, you put yourself into the arena,
- 51:13you do enough reps, you start to realize that showing up as yourself authentically on camera or
- 51:18in your posts or tweets or Instagram stories or whatever, it starts to become second nature.
- 51:23And I think there's a positive feedback loop from your, you'll get negative for sure. And I think
- 51:27that that could actually be a barometer of whether or not you're doing it properly, but there will
- 51:31be some sort of positive feedback loop that I think outweighs the negative in almost every
- 51:35situation I've seen. I mean, even the most, I think outspoken personal brands,
- 51:42they usually, that's usually in that positive for whatever objective they're trying to accomplish,
- 51:46whether or not you love them or hate them, like if they're still doing it and they're still online,
- 51:49there's a reason why. I have one last question about personal brand. We did not have time to go into
- 51:54like a whole bunch of content today that we do that for another, another, another episode, but just
- 51:58one last question because I'm happy when we went into this. You have a very specific look. And I'm
- 52:04sure that that is like curated to a degree. I know that Seth Godin has his glasses. I know you have,
- 52:09you have glasses as well. What is, what is that factor in personal brand? Because I don't really
- 52:14know many people that evolve personal brand to that level. Is that on purpose? Or is it just,
- 52:21is just by chance? I want to say a couple things. Do you know who Mark Manson is? Of course,
- 52:25yeah. Okay. He wrote the book, the subtle art of not giving enough, right? I follow him. And he
- 52:30said something that I thought was really good. He goes, you know, if you want to be a one percenter
- 52:33to stand out and to achieve what the one percenters achieve, he says you have to be a contrarian.
- 52:39To say what everyone else is saying is not really contributing to the dialogue, right? We understand
- 52:44that. But any fool can say the moon is made from cheese or the ocean is pink and be a contrarian.
- 52:49We get that. So he goes, the trick is you have to be a correct contrarian. I don't say things to
- 52:55be controversial or to be polarizing. I just have thoughts that oftentimes rubs against
- 53:01popular belief. I will argue with people because I'm so convicted in what it is I'm thinking
- 53:06that if I hear a better argument from the other side, I will adopt their point of view. But most
- 53:10often it doesn't happen that way. So I always say things that will be a little bit shocking to
- 53:15people and people will say, Oh, I never thought of it that way. So then I know that that's a piece
- 53:22of content that I can double down on and how I'm talking about personal branding is quite contrarian
- 53:27to how I think 99% of the people who quote unquote are personal branding experts talk about it.
- 53:33They're talking about marketing and advertising and building funnels to grow your business,
- 53:37which I find nothing wrong with. I just don't think that's personal branding. That's everything
- 53:42from the corporate world and we borrow from the things we know the most about to get that part.
- 53:46Now I want to get into the second part to this. The aesthetic part is I'm a designer. And so
- 53:52meaning like I used to design layouts, interior signage, all that kind of stuff. I'm that kind of
- 53:57designer and I'm obsessed with lots of different things. And fashion is one thing that I have become
- 54:03very aware of. Now in my previous life, I used to make commercials and music videos. One thing
- 54:08that you learn about character design for an animated film is before they really design the
- 54:13character, they design design shapes and silhouettes. So if you look at Kung Fu Panda, which is one of
- 54:18the best examples of this, there's Paul who's like bubbly and round because he's the lovable panda.
- 54:24And it kind of feels as if that's jack black in a panda form. There's mantis, there's snake,
- 54:30and there is shifu, which is like, I don't know what he is, but he's small. And so, and there's
- 54:36the orangutan, I believe, who's like, they all have different shapes. And so when you turn off all
- 54:42the lights and it just shapes, you can tell them apart from each other. And so I'm designing the
- 54:48character of me. And so if we're all strip naked, we have slightly different shapes, but for the
- 54:53most part, we're human. What's real interesting is if you look at the world of fashion, I think
- 54:57Alexander McQueen said this, the late Alexander McQueen said, if you want to design in fashion,
- 55:04change the silhouette, you change the silhouette, you change everything. And I see two parallels now
- 55:10when you're designing characters for animated films, you look at the silhouette and when designing
- 55:14fashion, you change the silhouette. And so it's really important. So I think, okay, I'm a designer,
- 55:19I'm going to design me. I'm going to design the way I look to represent who I am in this world.
- 55:25So that I'm not just in a brown paper bag. Right. So this is the packaging of Chris. And so
- 55:32there's certain pieces of jewelry that I'm wearing now or funky glasses that are statement pieces
- 55:37that really bring this kind of, hey, I don't know what that guy does, but he's probably creative
- 55:42artistic or something like that. And it's been real interesting as an experiment as I'm showing up
- 55:48and being more adventurous with how I come across with my the way I look. People automatically
- 55:53assume I'm a fashion designer. And it's pretty wild because that is actually where I'm moving
- 55:59because I want to design my own fashion line. And it's wild that you can signal to someone else
- 56:04without words from old people to young people to people on airplanes and people at restaurants and
- 56:09cafes are like, oh, you look really interesting. You must be a fashion designer. And it's wild. So
- 56:14when I'm signaling to others, they're receiving. And that's really important to me. So what I want
- 56:19to communicate is I'm a person who's very particular about certain things. But there's another
- 56:24thing to note here. In the sea of same, the last thing you want is to blend in. You need to stand
- 56:32out in your perspective. You need to stand out in the kinds of things you have to offer the way
- 56:36that you teach and the way you speak and the way you create content. But you also want to stand out
- 56:39like physically. Now me dressing and looking at certain ways, very intentional because I'm a
- 56:45really socially awkward guy. I don't know what to do at parties when no one, I don't know anybody.
- 56:50I always feel like, oh, what am I doing here? I'm plotting my exit. Scott, I'm looking for like
- 56:55where, how long do I need to stay at this thing to say? I'm the same. But yes, I totally get it.
- 57:01Yeah. Yeah. So if you dress a certain way, if you have purple hair or you have like bright shoes
- 57:06or weird tie or an interesting dress, when you walk into that room, people find a reason to talk
- 57:12to you because they look across. Everyone looks the same duck, duck, duck, duck. There's a goose
- 57:16right there. Let me go talk to the goose. They might have an interesting perspective. So I rely on
- 57:22this wardrobe or this look or the silhouette to help invite people to come and talk to me.
- 57:27But also for people to be able to recognize me in the street because I love talking to people
- 57:32and they're afraid to talk to me. And I just want to make it easy for them to know that is Chris.
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- 1:00:35There's a couple other things that I said. I don't know if you wanted to talk about them or comment
- 1:00:38on them. I mentioned using failure as a barometer of successful personal branding or not failure,
- 1:00:45excuse me, negative comments as a barometer of successful personal branding. That was one idea.
- 1:00:50I can't remember. I think we covered most everything else about brand. I was going to say,
- 1:00:55like, is there any other factors that you consider when you are putting yourself out into the world
- 1:01:00that somebody else should think about? Whether or not it's looking for negative comments as,
- 1:01:04yes, I have a spikey point of view check. Or is there some other X factor that you include in
- 1:01:10the way you speak and the way you present in the type of content you put out? I don't know,
- 1:01:14you're the expert. There's probably some a lot of things, but what would be another thing that
- 1:01:18stands out that people should just take a note of? You now have reminded me what I wanted to talk
- 1:01:22about. Okay, good. And this was cool. I forget who said this, but I would rather be hated for being
- 1:01:28me than to be loved for not being me. And this is going to cut deep for a lot of people, right?
- 1:01:33We're too entirely focused on what other people want. You can't be an influencer if you're chasing
- 1:01:40followers. It doesn't work that way. I'll give you a prime example. People will make weird comments
- 1:01:47about like, oh, this guy's a douchebag. Look at the way he's dressing. Oh, dress your age. I'm like,
- 1:01:51you dress your age. You know, I'm 52. You want to dress like grandpa and wear your pants really high
- 1:01:56up and ill-fitted suits like an accountant. You do you. And I'm of the mind that I'm going to do
- 1:02:02me. I don't really care what you think or have to say. And eventually, like I said, the people
- 1:02:07who like you will follow you and the people don't want. Like artists don't sit around and take polls
- 1:02:13about what they should paint or sculpt. They just make it and the people don't like it. They
- 1:02:16suffer the consequences. They can change or they don't have to. It's entirely up to them.
- 1:02:21So people will literally say, never trust a guy who wears a baseball cap inside.
- 1:02:28Okay, I don't know where you got that story from, but I'm not going to change me for you.
- 1:02:33That doesn't make sense. So again, we're so conditioned to create a persona or conformer
- 1:02:41ourselves based on acceptance from others that we don't even know. It's funny how we chase all
- 1:02:46these vanity metrics. We do. I mean, we just chase all these and I or just acceptance. I wouldn't
- 1:02:52even put that as vanity metrics, just acceptance. Sometimes it manifests as vanity metrics, but I'll
- 1:02:57talk about that too. Okay. So you have to ask yourself, am I leading or am I following?
- 1:03:04And if you're leading, if you're the thought leader, if you're the influencer, if an influencer has
- 1:03:10a bad taste in people's mouths, but people write articles who make films who design fashion and
- 1:03:16build buildings, they are influencers. They nudge people's behavior depending on how they do certain
- 1:03:23things and they start trends or they create movements of both political and social. And that's
- 1:03:29the kind of an important thing to think about. Now, this whole idea of like vanity metrics, as
- 1:03:36you mentioned it like three times now. I want to talk about a little bit. You know why it bugs me
- 1:03:40so much. And I think I mentioned it too. It's because again, it is not the things that people ask
- 1:03:45me to help them solve for. And listen, I'm not even a consultant. These are just DMs and replies to
- 1:03:50my my newsletters. The things that people ask me to solve for to help them out with
- 1:03:58have no bearing on my actual business. Like they are the they are not my my KPI that I try and
- 1:04:04optimize for when I'm building my business. And I mean, I'm in it. So I understand that I
- 1:04:11understand like what moves the needle on the podcast and what moves the needle on newsletter
- 1:04:15subscribers. And those are sort of precursors because, you know, I can tie a subscriber down to
- 1:04:20an advertising dollar. I can tie a I can tie an additional podcast download down to an advertising
- 1:04:26dollar. And then if I'm going to try and sell a product, it would probably be coming through a
- 1:04:30newsletter subscriber. So I can follow that funnel. But ultimately, followers are not a
- 1:04:35metric of success. There's a lot of other metrics that I look for that are sort of leading
- 1:04:38indicators, not even just lagging indicators. But again, when I put out into the world,
- 1:04:44hey, what would you like me to speak about? Because I pull the audience and I pull on my newsletter
- 1:04:48and I pull in stories. And I'll say, what do you want me to speak about? What do you want me to do
- 1:04:52more content around or create more content around? It's always about how do I grow my Instagram?
- 1:04:56How do I grow my Instagram? And it's just frustrating. And I don't know why people think that
- 1:05:01that's a useful skill. Okay, I'm going to help shine some light on that. Okay, so here's a hot take.
- 1:05:06Here we go, buckle in. This is probably the second most explosive thing I'm about to say.
- 1:05:12There's this rejection of followers and vanity metrics. And the term vanity is not a good term.
- 1:05:19There's a negative association with that. It's about appearances and nothing meaningful. And a
- 1:05:24friend of mine who is an influencer herself would say followers don't equal dollars. And that's
- 1:05:30fine. When you look at social media and content as a means to go make more money, like I've
- 1:05:36already established that idea that for me, it's not about that at all. But when you create things
- 1:05:42Scott that help your community, you're doing something wonderful. You're creating good will.
- 1:05:47And goodwill goes a long freaking way. So that when you have something to sell to them,
- 1:05:52when you need their support because of whatever reason like your accounts being banned or
- 1:05:56some weirdos are stealing your identity, the people that you created all this good will for
- 1:06:01will show up and fight for you because they've said in their mind, this guy fights for us. So we got
- 1:06:07your back. However, if you make the relationship transactional, this is really important concept
- 1:06:12to understand. When I give somebody 10 bucks or 12 bucks to buy a burger, the relationship is kind
- 1:06:18of over. You give me the burger. I give you the money. It's a transaction. I don't owe you anything.
- 1:06:22You don't owe me anything. I don't feel compelled to go on social media and say,
- 1:06:26Oh, best burger of every in my life. Please go here. Now some people do because they're trying to
- 1:06:30build influence in that space. But regular people don't. Okay. Now here's the thing. And this is
- 1:06:36kind of an interesting shift in like how people perceive things. There's something called social
- 1:06:42proof and social proof is very valuable. And some people now are shifting of their mindset that
- 1:06:49social media has become the new resume. So let's unpack that. Okay. The resume is something that's
- 1:06:55fabricated that most people don't actually dig much deeper. And so there's all forms of puffery
- 1:07:01and exaggeration that are used in resumes. I'll give you an example. I was working with this one
- 1:07:06person who was helping me with some marketing stuff. And it said they went to Stanford on their
- 1:07:10LinkedIn profile. It's Stanford. But when I talk to them, I dug a little deeper and like,
- 1:07:15Oh, when did you graduate? How long? You know, they went to Stanford for one semester and dropped out.
- 1:07:22That is a very misleading thing to say you went to Stanford. Now they're not lying, but they just
- 1:07:26say went to Stanford, right? But they know how people are going to interpret that. And people give
- 1:07:31themselves all kinds of crazy titles. Head of product design and development. You did a sketch
- 1:07:36that so people exaggerate. We know this about resumes. So I think resumes are worthless.
- 1:07:42Now work product matters a lot if you're in a creative space to show me your portfolio,
- 1:07:47but there aren't as many industries or verticals that you can be in that there's work product
- 1:07:51that you can prove you know what you're doing. So we go to the next available thing. We go into
- 1:07:55the realm of social proof, testimonials, awards, certificates, things that you've accomplished.
- 1:08:01And we all know this. When you go and find two people who speak on a similar subject,
- 1:08:06the one that has 10 million followers versus one that has 10,000, you automatically associate
- 1:08:12the person with 10 million followers as having greater presence reach depth of knowledge,
- 1:08:16charisma and all the kinds of things because humans are lazy. We use heuristics to help us not
- 1:08:22have to think so much. Go to bed. That's an important thing to note. Now I will say this and this is
- 1:08:28where I'm willing to kind of fight on the hill and die on the sword on my sword on this,
- 1:08:33which is everything that you do Scott, everything that your audience does benefits on a exponential
- 1:08:41level if they have a really strong personal brand that is backed by a lot of social proof.
- 1:08:46Period. So let me land that part. So if you sell donuts and you're the donut king on Instagram,
- 1:08:54your business will explode. If you are like an IT professional who helps people deal with
- 1:09:01cybersecurity and you're the foremost expert or a prolific content creator about cybersecurity
- 1:09:08and patches and things that people need to do, your IT security business will blow up in the
- 1:09:12positive direction. And so you do what we what people don't understand is and it's being proven
- 1:09:19again and again, people who have a strong tribe in community can make dumb simple commodities
- 1:09:26very, very valuable. So you take Ryan Reynolds with aviation. You take the rock with Terramana
- 1:09:32and you take all these people or even previously Logan Paul and forget the other guy's name.
- 1:09:38So he's pumping prime and prime became like the fastest growing energy drink company in the
- 1:09:44world because of the association that they can drive. I get way better public speaking gigs and
- 1:09:52rates and speaking slots, not because I'm a better speaker, not because I've written bestselling
- 1:09:57book or have been included in fast company or any of these ink magazine or entrepreneur magazine,
- 1:10:03it's mostly because I have a large social following. So the social following is the new currency
- 1:10:11in the 21st century. And this is going to shatter people's heads because they're like,
- 1:10:16no, it's not crazy. They're going to argue with me. They're all vanity. And I'll tell you right now
- 1:10:21because of the social following, I get better book deals. I'm literally negotiating a deal with
- 1:10:26a publisher because they're looking at the social following. I get better sponsor rates or brand
- 1:10:30deals where people will open doors that even know existed. Forget about like me trying to open the
- 1:10:38door and you're getting invited to meetings and events and you're being brought into the room,
- 1:10:43the room where it happens. According to Hamilton, you're getting brought into the room where there
- 1:10:49people there that you've looked up to all of your life because of the perceived authority that
- 1:10:54you have because of your social following. I just got back from a trip from Ireland as a business
- 1:10:59retreat with 20 other very accomplished individuals. And the first thing that they say when I'm
- 1:11:06introduced is Chris, how many followers do you have again? Not you want an Emmy or you worked on
- 1:11:12this account or you grew your business to XY million dollars. They just say, how many followers
- 1:11:16you got again? Like you're saying, they're incessantly chasing after you Scott saying, how do I grow my
- 1:11:21Instagram account? Because instinctively, they also know something that you may or may not have
- 1:11:26accepted yet that in the 21st century, the attention economy is the economy. I'll tell two things.
- 1:11:33KSI is his business partner. I just looked it up. Got it. Somebody's doing the research.
- 1:11:38Fact check. And the second thing is I don't disagree with you. I think my frustration comes not from
- 1:11:44because yes, the following has given me incredible opportunity and put me on stage is that it would
- 1:11:49that I would not have had the opportunity to go on without that following. I think what frustrates me
- 1:11:54is people substitute audience building for building a profitable business from the ground up and
- 1:12:00figuring out a product that has product market fit and then and and and traditional entrepreneurship.
- 1:12:05They think that if they just build an audience similar to what your friend said,
- 1:12:10well, actually counter to what your friend said, actually, they think if they build an audience,
- 1:12:13it's going to lead to dollars. And that is that is what I'm trying to push back against. I'm trying
- 1:12:19to say, hey, I know this crowd is entrepreneurial. I don't know the I don't know the ambitions or the
- 1:12:23the financial status of every single person that follows me. But if you are trying to build a
- 1:12:27business, let's focus on the business fundamentals first. Let's focus on solving a problem that people
- 1:12:32actually need solved. And then an audience will just make that a little bit easier. But just collecting
- 1:12:37followers with with no rhyme or reason is really not going to solve what you're trying to accomplish.
- 1:12:43I think that's probably a better way of saying it. That's why I get frustrated. Let's let's
- 1:12:47let's weave this these two ideas together, right? If you're trying to run a business and in your
- 1:12:52entrepreneur, you have to focus on the fundamentals, marketing, sales, customer service, those kinds of
- 1:12:57things, product delivery, that's a paramount to you being able to play this game. So once you have
- 1:13:03your house in order or in parallel, you can develop your personal brand such that both these things
- 1:13:09help each other. Here's the example. If you're an unreached person, you've got no experience and
- 1:13:14you're trying to say, I've done things. Where are the receipts? The people on the social will say
- 1:13:18where the receipts you've done nothing. You don't know anything about what you're talking about,
- 1:13:21which is the criticism I get a lot. I'm like, okay, I have receipts. Do you want to look at them or
- 1:13:26do you just want to dig your head into the ground and say, blah, blah, blah, you don't know what you're
- 1:13:30talking about, right? So I had the receipts. So people are saying to me, Chris, you wouldn't have been
- 1:13:35able to launch or create such a large following if you didn't have this business that backs up
- 1:13:41everything you're saying. I think some of that is fair. However, now on the opposite side,
- 1:13:45because I've been able to grow my social following to the to the sides that it is today,
- 1:13:50whatever business I want to get into is going to be fueled by that. I'll give you the example
- 1:13:54right now. I'm at a conference. It's called reframe. It's for a bunch of accountants. There are
- 1:14:00a bunch of sponsors that are sitting along the wall to support this event. So there's a guy who's
- 1:14:07in the app development space. He and his entire family is super successful. Multiple IPOs between
- 1:14:12his siblings. He says, Chris, it's very easy to get you money if you want to get venture capital.
- 1:14:20I'm like, really? He goes, well, most people, most entrepreneurs get venture capital to build a
- 1:14:24product. And then they spend all the energy trying to build an audience so that somebody will use
- 1:14:28their products and their tools. He goes, you already got that. I will help you go get venture
- 1:14:33capital. And once you build your product, there will be immense anticipation or build up for it
- 1:14:40because you just tell your community, I'm working on this product for you guys. I've solved the
- 1:14:44problem that I think you will find that makes your life easier or better. And because of that,
- 1:14:52a person who has never launched an app or a digital product like that has not only access.
- 1:15:00So the conversation is being had with me and another serial entrepreneur who's very successful,
- 1:15:05who says, we can get your capital. I can partner with you to build some of this. And we know it's
- 1:15:09going to be successful. And then we can create a whole bidding war for a second, like series B
- 1:15:14venture capital. That is built almost primarily off the social following that I have and the good
- 1:15:22will that's been created. Nobody's talking about blind. The company I spent twice as much time
- 1:15:27building. Almost no one's talking about that today. So I want to balance those two things. Right?
- 1:15:32So it is foolish to go out there and be a life coach at 17. You haven't lived life enough
- 1:15:38or to say like you've done X number of conversions or you're a sales expert when you've you've
- 1:15:42not done anything. You're a kid in a bedroom, which, you know, maybe there's some ageism there.
- 1:15:48I get that. If you have experience and you know what you're doing, it's a great time for you to
- 1:15:53start creating content. And Scott, I understand your frustration because people have holes in the ship.
- 1:15:58Let's plug those holes up real quick while they spend 10 to 20% of the energy building their
- 1:16:03personal brand because those things work in concert to help each other. If you have built a brand
- 1:16:09and you you have built an audience, excuse me, should creators, we can we can adopt a generalized
- 1:16:16view to this to this idea. Obviously, we can make arguments for either, but should creators
- 1:16:22try and build a company or should creators leverage their audience and take equity positions in
- 1:16:27startups or small companies where their product aligns with the audience avatar. What do you think
- 1:16:31in most cases is a better use of their audience is a more leverageable option. Yeah, we have to
- 1:16:38kind of be real careful here. This goodwill that you've been building up, trust is hard to build.
- 1:16:43It's easy to lose. And once you lose trust, it's really hard to come back from. Okay. So as the
- 1:16:48general rule, I don't promote or leverage my audience for anything that I personally don't like
- 1:16:52use or I'm in love with. Otherwise, I have a real problem because I've become a pitchman
- 1:16:58for other people's products and I'm trading on the goodwill to make a quick buck and you can do
- 1:17:02that, but I know that's not the game I'm playing. There is an interesting trend that's happening
- 1:17:06right now. There are a lot of SaaS companies out there who are looking for that very thing we just
- 1:17:10talked about, a large audience to seed their software or their tools, right? So what they're doing
- 1:17:16now is I have two such deals, equity deals, where I'm helping to promote a product that I like and
- 1:17:22use that we've been using to our community, to our audience and offering value to them in
- 1:17:28better deals and exchange for equity in these companies. This is an amazing time to be alive if
- 1:17:35you have a powerful personal brand with a good community, a strong following. And it's awesome
- 1:17:41because not only, here's what I think, if anyone of these companies that have equity in
- 1:17:46our sold or go IPO, I think instead of my community getting upset at me, they're going to just be
- 1:17:52saying good for you, Chris. They're going to be so proud to say we're here to support you 1,000
- 1:17:57percent. And because that's the culture in which I've cultivated in the community that we have,
- 1:18:03right? They want, we want to see each other win. I'm there rooting for you. I'm there supporting
- 1:18:08you with content with educational material so that you can build a life built around your passion.
- 1:18:15So when I'm also rewarded, our community stands up and it's like this is freaking amazing,
- 1:18:20we're so happy, we're proud, we're here for you. What else do we need to do? And I'll tell you
- 1:18:25something, something really remarkable has happened in this whole content game that we started
- 1:18:31in 2014, which is people out of the goodness of their own heart just give us money.
- 1:18:38Nothing to buy, just as reciprocity, right? So I ask people who are marketers,
- 1:18:43who are building brands out there, how much do you pay to acquire a customer? And do you pay a
- 1:18:49dollar, $10,000, $100,000? It depends on how big your offer is, you'll pay a lot because your
- 1:18:55lifetime customer value is quite high. And then I said, how great would it be if your customers actually
- 1:19:00paid you to market to them? And that's the rare position that we're in right now because we've
- 1:19:06been doing this for 10 years, creating goodwill. And we've been honest and we've been doing it with
- 1:19:11integrity. And I have stayed away from anything that's made me cringe. So it's like people are in
- 1:19:15it for the long haul. If you're building an audience and you don't want to take bad brand deals
- 1:19:24right away, you just want to you want to you want to stay in integrity with your audience. And
- 1:19:31you want to monetize the audience in some way because you are fully set on becoming a full-time
- 1:19:38creator. What do you think is the most integrous way to monetize an audience when you're first
- 1:19:44starting out and you don't have a massive amount of people to sell into or you don't have a massive
- 1:19:50pool of trust? Like how do you monetize it when you're starting? Way I'm going to answer this question
- 1:19:54is delay the ask or monetization for as long as you can. This is why if creating content is your
- 1:20:02primary source of income, you're not going to be able to do this. And this is why I'm going to back
- 1:20:06you on your let's build a business first because that gives you more runway. And what happens is there's
- 1:20:11this like idea of karmic equity, right? The more I do good for the world, the more I make a deposit
- 1:20:18in the equity bank and it compounds interest over time, especially if you consistently. They say
- 1:20:23something like the minute your child is born or your your partner's pregnant, you make a deposit
- 1:20:28and you keep adding money to this account such that by the time they go to college, especially
- 1:20:32here in America, they have a college tuition ready to go. And we were very responsible as parents.
- 1:20:38So both my kids, the college tuition fund was already built. So both of them can have all their tuition
- 1:20:43money now or whenever they want so that they can figure out if they want to go to school or they want
- 1:20:47to travel the world and be a student of life. And so if we put these deposits in, but we're asking
- 1:20:54or doing monetization or doing deals or ask and running ads all the time, we empty the account out.
- 1:21:00It never has enough momentum to build into something substantial. There's this thing that people,
- 1:21:05there's this thing that Darren Hardy wrote about in the compound effect. He goes, would you rather have
- 1:21:10a million dollars or a penny that doubles in value every single day for 30 days? It's quite
- 1:21:17fascinating. So most people, I'll take the million dollars. I must be more. How can a penny be
- 1:21:21worth more than that? So what gets really interesting by day 28, it's still less than a million dollars.
- 1:21:26By day 29, it surpasses it by day 30 becomes a much bigger number. And so you can look at karma
- 1:21:33or goodwill or helping others or the active generosity as that penny that keeps compounding
- 1:21:40in doubles every single day. And so I want to warn people, don't be so quick to monetize.
- 1:21:48Stay away from that because what's going to happen is you can do much bigger deals.
- 1:21:53Two, three, four, five years into this that are going to feel really like it's like you're going
- 1:22:01to get better terms and the kind of money you're going to be paid is going to surpass all of what
- 1:22:05you could have done, came another really in one deal. So some of the biggest deals I've done are
- 1:22:12six figures, 120, 140 thousand dollars for one social media brand deal. And if I sat there and
- 1:22:20tried to take a thousand dollars out each time, I'm going to wear my audience down. I'm not going
- 1:22:24to feel good about myself and I'm shilling products that I shouldn't be associated with because they
- 1:22:28can't afford to pay what one will pay to work with somebody like myself. Out of all the things
- 1:22:33that we've spoken about, what would be the last major misconception or red flag that you'd like to
- 1:22:40sort of like, you know, put a stake in when it comes to somebody building their personal brand.
- 1:22:46Building a personal brand is not advertising because as far as I know, this is a South Godin
- 1:22:50thing. I think it's in permission marketing, almost no one opens their email to find spam,
- 1:22:56almost no one listens to radio watches TV to listen to an ad. In fact, we pay money to get the
- 1:23:02premium subscription service such that we don't have to listen to ads, whether it's on Apple music,
- 1:23:06Spotify, Amazon or whatever else. We just pay money to get rid of the ads. Ask yourself this
- 1:23:12question. This is the quick smell test. Does it smell like an ad? Because if it does, your audience
- 1:23:17is much smarter than you give them credit for. So be genuine when you're advertising to them,
- 1:23:23don't try to disguise it and be real when you're creating content and don't ask for anything.
- 1:23:28And what people do a lot, and I see it all over social, whether it's on LinkedIn, on Twitter,
- 1:23:33on Instagram or on YouTube, it's an ad with the very sloppy package as value.
- 1:23:39And what what happens is it turns people off. No one watches it, no one shares it. And they know
- 1:23:46that, okay, you're here to sell me something. I'll give my teeth and bear through this painful
- 1:23:51experience so that I can pick up one or two pieces of information from you. But that's not a
- 1:23:55positive sentiment that they're feeling. It's quite negative. I don't know how many webinars you've
- 1:24:00been on, but the ones that seem to be successful, quote unquote, follow very specific formula.
- 1:24:06Promise three things. Take forever to deliver those three things and wait to the very end to
- 1:24:10deliver it while you're pitching to them every 10 or 15 minutes. That's pretty rough. By the way,
- 1:24:15I would say that the webinars that I actually appreciate are webinars that are actually so in-depth
- 1:24:21and teach so much that it actually makes me by the there's actually no pitching. And this is just
- 1:24:27subjective to me. I don't know the science of webinars and not an expert. But when somebody comes
- 1:24:31on and basically teaches me the exact same thing that they'd be selling me anyways for free,
- 1:24:36but I know that I'm not accountable enough or have the will to do it myself. And they're saying,
- 1:24:44hey, this is what you do. By the way, pay me $20,000 and I'll do it for you. And I'm like, you know
- 1:24:49what? Yeah. Because you've already told me what you're exactly going to do. And you haven't tried
- 1:24:53to sell me. And now I believe you can do it. And I probably could with enough energy and effort
- 1:24:57to do it myself, but I don't really want to. So yes, here's the $20,000 or the $5,000 or whatever,
- 1:25:03it doesn't matter. But those are the webinars that actually resonate with me as a customer. And I
- 1:25:08hate the ones that sell every five minutes or the, oh my God, or the events where they just put
- 1:25:13the sponsors on stage and the sponsors can't have like an educated conversation. They're just
- 1:25:17pitching their product. It's an immediate turn off. It's an immediate turn off. So don't create
- 1:25:21that experience. I like to end our podcast today with a story and a question that was shared
- 1:25:27with me. And I want hopefully for you to think about it, feel free to do a follow-up to this.
- 1:25:31There's a buddy of mine. His name is Trevor. And Trevor is like Chris. And he hosts events with his
- 1:25:36his boss, Neil, right? They they've hosted most multiple events throughout the year for a bunch
- 1:25:42of real estate professionals. And he goes, what's your game, man? I'm like, what do you mean? What's my
- 1:25:47game? He goes, what is it that you're trying to sell when you speak? Like, and I really had to think
- 1:25:53about it. I say, I don't think I'm trying to sell anything. He goes, see, I thought the same
- 1:25:58thing because every other speaker who goes on stage is selling a book. They want you to roll
- 1:26:02their mastermind or hire them to do your personal branding or whatever it is. They're always selling
- 1:26:07something. You're one of the few people who speak on stage and you don't sell anything. But I don't
- 1:26:13believe that to be true. There must be something you're selling. Otherwise, why are you doing it?
- 1:26:18It's quite simple. Number one is I do it to honor you guys as the people who've chose me to speak
- 1:26:24today. I want to make sure I bring value to you to validate the decision to bring me in. It was a good
- 1:26:31one. Number two, and as a co-host number two, I do it to give value to the people who spent their
- 1:26:37time, energy and resources to be here rather than be with their family or to spend their money
- 1:26:42time on something else. That's what I'm trying to do. That's my agenda. I said that people are
- 1:26:48a much smarter than you think. When you come in with an agenda, they can smell it a mile away.
- 1:26:57No matter what you say, you're undermining the value that you're giving because you're making it,
- 1:27:03you're making it transactional. You see them as a dollar sign in a bank account. I don't want to
- 1:27:09do that. He goes, I get it. People think they're so clever with their not-so-hidden agenda.
- 1:27:18I don't know why people keep doing that. It's like you've been paid to speak.
- 1:27:24These people have paid good money for you not to be a commercial. Again, I'm fairly
- 1:27:32like the minority in this versus the norm, and I'm okay with that because it allows me to shine.
- 1:27:40And so what happens afterwards, Scott, is people will come up to me. What are you buying?
- 1:27:44I'm sorry. What are you selling? I want to buy something from you. I'm like, I don't know. What
- 1:27:48do you need? I'll look at my catalog. No, I don't think I have anything for you.
- 1:27:53But I appreciate you wanting to buy something from me. And the really cool thing here is,
- 1:27:59I don't know if you know this, but I do one-on-one coaching. It's very expensive to hire me.
- 1:28:05And so I think all this goodwill that I'm building up, people are like, shut up, take my money.
- 1:28:09I want to hire you on one-on-one, and they just sign up for it. So when you're so good at
- 1:28:14delivering value, they will find a way to give you money. The good ones always do.
- 1:28:20Chris, where should people connect with you, consume your content, all the socials, your website,
- 1:28:26all of that? For following me on almost all social platforms, I'm at the Chris Doe. Doe is
- 1:28:32spelled D-O. And if you want to find out more about our programs, just look into the future.
- 1:28:36So if you go to thefuture.com, you can find us there. The future is spelled without an E at
- 1:28:41then. So it's F-U-T-U-R, or if you're French, you say Future. So that's who we are.
- 1:28:46But you've had an incredible life, multiple seasons to your life. If you could go back and tell
- 1:28:50your 20-year-old self one thing, what would that thing be? I'm going to tell myself, it's going
- 1:28:54to be really uncomfortable. You're not going to want to do it. There's no proof that it's going
- 1:28:58to work, but create content as soon as you can, even when you don't know what you're doing. Because
- 1:29:03those early years are very important to help you become the person that you're supposed to be
- 1:29:08in this world. And my life has transformed the relationships I have have transformed. And I have
- 1:29:13now, when I'm so proud of this, friends that are from all over the world who will fly and meet me
- 1:29:19wherever we're going to be. And we travel like a pack of wolves. And it's an amazing thing to have
- 1:29:24adult friends that kind of we do like adult camp. And it's the most fun I've ever had with
- 1:29:30people that I genuinely like and we want to see each other win. So that's the byproduct of
- 1:29:36showing up and creating content, building community.