EP 100 - Your Marriage Can Be Dying While Everything Looks Fine

UNMASKED with Wesley Farnsworth · Oct 22, 2026 · 1h 2m

Some marriages don’t collapse in one dramaticmoment. They drift.

Thomas Eberts looked successful from the outside. He had traveled the world, built businesses, studied spirituality, andpursued personal growth. But inside his home, he says he was physically present while emotionally somewhere else.

Then his wife told him she wanted a divorce.

In this episode of UNMASKED, Thomas talks withWesley Farnsworth about what that moment exposed: defensiveness, performance, emotional absence, and a version of masculinity that he says taught him how toaccomplish but not necessarily how to be present…