Latest / The Strength In Numbers Podcast / EP 44: Antonio Bostic | Simplifying, Leading, and Coaching at the Next Level
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- 0:00We play with one group of guys on Thursday.
- 0:02We have a, we have a three different team on Friday.
- 0:04But I love the adaptability. That's why I'm so intrigued by
- 0:07nowadays because it's still trying to find a way to still
- 0:10buy, don't win the games. Just as on us as coach is trying
- 0:12to figure out how we can, you know, to have manufacture things
- 0:16that's helping our team get better.
- 0:18Then also man, that these dudes got to play because the end of
- 0:20the day, like that is probably still one of the best ways for
- 0:22you to learn how to develop. How can I be shorter, keep those
- 0:25guys in the gym, but still be effective and get all the things
- 0:27that we need to do. Coaching is coaching impacting
- 0:30people is is the same feeling that you get whether it's
- 0:32coaching pros, coaching college, coaching high school, like I
- 0:34just love coaching. I love hoops, I love ball when
- 0:36things get you know what I'm saying hard and that the
- 0:40adversity hit is really when I feel like, man, I'm closest to
- 0:43my purpose, man, because I I thought that's the best time of
- 0:45each show. People, through character are.
- 0:52Welcome to the Strength in Numbers podcast.
- 0:54I'm your host, John Bloom, and today's guest is Antonio
- 0:57Bostick. Antonio is an assistant
- 0:59basketball coach with the Grand Rapids Gold, the Denver Nuggets
- 1:02G League affiliate team. Now, this is his first season
- 1:04coaching pro after working as a college assistant at both Oral
- 1:08Roberts and Abilene Christian. We talked about the differences
- 1:10between the G League in college, both in terms of coaching but
- 1:13also playing styles. And we also dive into the
- 1:15importance of simplifying as a coach.
- 1:17Set an example for your athletes during both wins and losses in
- 1:22the easiest way for college freshman to get playing time.
- 1:25Antonio also talks about the special qualities of great men
- 1:28teams like his ACU team that upset Texas in March Madness and
- 1:32if that will become extinct in the modern era of college
- 1:34basketball. If you're getting value from
- 1:37these conversations, give the show a follow and leave a
- 1:39review. It helps us continue to reach
- 1:41and impact more coaches. Let's get into today's episode.
- 1:44Coach Bostick, man, man, it's, it's great to be sitting here
- 1:48with you. It's been a minute since we've
- 1:49got to talk face to face. So it's awesome to get to
- 1:51connect with you, man. For the people that don't know
- 1:53who you are, like, like, like, who are you?
- 1:54Oh. Man, I'm just a I coach
- 1:56basketball. I'm believing in Jesus Christ,
- 1:58so I just like to sit on myself and like just cool down to a
- 2:00person. That's who I try to be man.
- 2:02But I've been coaching for a long time.
- 2:04I was just how we got connected. We work together or Roberts.
- 2:07I was before that we use when I have only Christian together,
- 2:09but was in the coaching name for a long time for a few years.
- 2:13And now I just kind of tapped into my first year actually
- 2:15being an assistant coaching the G League man.
- 2:17So at the end, I'm just a basketball coach man who was a
- 2:20guy who loves basketball and inspiring and kind of helping
- 2:24people to get better. I love that.
- 2:26And you know, as you've made that switch now from so are you
- 2:30coaching in college now to the G League?
- 2:32Like what's been the biggest difference for you between
- 2:34college as you've been your whole career and pretty much in
- 2:37and now in in the pros? It's a lot different for
- 2:41starters, man, I, I, I do love the fact that when you go to
- 2:44pros and when you coaching the pros, it's straight basketball.
- 2:47Nothing against college, man, but you know, like there's no
- 2:49longer worried about academics guys going to class.
- 2:52And then we'll start with things, man, we show up, we talk
- 2:54basketball, we do basketball and then we kind of, you know, I'm
- 2:58saying get to go home and kind of enjoy some extra time with us
- 3:01with family or going whatever you you want to do at the same
- 3:04time off from a basketball standpoint, man, and just
- 3:07players, just man. I say the biggest thing I've
- 3:09seen I've coached some good players is high level, but the
- 3:12shot making ability at the Co level is just it's it's top
- 3:15tier. You know what I'm saying?
- 3:16It's way different than than than college man.
- 3:18And as far as what we do and how we play.
- 3:20And I would say in my opinion, the game is also a lot simpler
- 3:24at the level. I mean, just because it's
- 3:26different. I mean, obviously in the G
- 3:27League, man, some days we can have a roster, we can play, we
- 3:31can have a back-to-back Thursday, Friday, we can play
- 3:33with one group of guys on Thursday.
- 3:35We have completely, we have completely different team on
- 3:37Friday. But I love the adaptability and
- 3:39I play. That's what I like.
- 3:41That's why I'm so intrigued by nowadays because it's still
- 3:43trying to find a way to still go.
- 3:45I don't win the game, still coach same guys.
- 3:46I don't play together and these guys never play together or some
- 3:49new team, whether it's got a trade or you know, you're
- 3:52dealing with two ways they're going to proteins or not.
- 3:54And so I enjoy it though, and I think it's cool.
- 3:57Like some people consider it chaos, but I love.
- 3:58It so as you've kind of experienced that aspect of that
- 4:01adaptability aspect, you said like if you were in college
- 4:04where where it is a very different structure.
- 4:06But is there anything you'd take from what you've learned doing
- 4:09that that you would take and maybe simplify or or implement
- 4:12differently if you were coaching in college from what you've
- 4:14learned during this experience? Man, absolutely.
- 4:16I've always thought, man, even before I got to be able to coach
- 4:19this level, like when I became a head coach, my goal is always to
- 4:22find a happy meeting between the NBA game and between college.
- 4:26You know, like to whether it's how they play on the court, the
- 4:29pace, whether it's analytics, whether it's team bond and to
- 4:33kind of giving guys more time to kind of do their own thing.
- 4:36So it's it's a ton of things that I would take definitely
- 4:38from the pro game, but I also think it's a ton of things that
- 4:40the the pro game can learn from college to at the same time.
- 4:43And so but style of play, man, for sure.
- 4:45I let the style of play. I love playing out, picking
- 4:47roles, keeping it simple because once again, like I can get John
- 4:50Boone come play on our team next week and it's the first time
- 4:53he's happened to the system when you do so it needs to be simple,
- 4:56it needs to be effective. But how can you still come in
- 4:58here and play minutes for us when he just got in the town 2
- 5:02days ago? You know, I'm saying four day of
- 5:04the game to come ready to play myself.
- 5:06I would definitely simplify the game if I was to ever go back
- 5:08and be a a college head. College head coach man for sure.
- 5:11Yeah, and he talked about the shot making ability and just
- 5:15that difference between players and in the pro level.
- 5:18Like, what have you seen between the pros in their like habits,
- 5:23in their mindset and how they approach their craft?
- 5:26Especially ones that have been able to sustain a career
- 5:29professionally and do it year after year versus, you know,
- 5:32younger athletes that are in high school or college and in a
- 5:35little less mature or just getting started and kind of
- 5:38finding ownership of their own path.
- 5:40Yeah, I would say, man, the first thing is like you dudes
- 5:44have crazy work ethic. I mean, they love the game, they
- 5:46love playing it. I mean, they're super passionate
- 5:48about it, which I do see at the college level sometime.
- 5:51I think it's a little bit different because also to the
- 5:53the players that we have or the players I do with now, like they
- 5:56don't have class, you know, so they don't have these type of
- 5:58players. So it's easy for these guys to
- 5:59stay in the gym all day. Like it's actually their
- 6:01profession. And now with NIL nowadays, I
- 6:03mean, pretty much you got to consider these college players.
- 6:06I mean, they're they're paid players.
- 6:07So they're kind of like problems, you know, and as far
- 6:09as what we need to do, man, but just to approach man the the to
- 6:14come in early to get into treatment, like they're big time
- 6:17on their bodies for their bodies, their biggest
- 6:18investment, but they're not healthy.
- 6:20If they're not good, they can't play, you know, now obviously
- 6:22they need to play to make money to get to where they need to do
- 6:24man. Obviously the goal here is for
- 6:25everybody to get into a contract.
- 6:27So that's why I go when they show up every single day, man,
- 6:29But the the time they put into it, it's kind of different.
- 6:33I do see a lot of guys. I've had some guys still though,
- 6:35the college over worked pretty hard, the eyes and the brides of
- 6:38the world, like he had a crazy work ethic.
- 6:39You know what I'm saying? Like I do think that he probably
- 6:42still worked harder than some roles who actually play
- 6:44nowadays. It's just finding that way to
- 6:46kind of continue to play and just continue to grind and just
- 6:49try to find a way, man, and always be working on your game
- 6:51until the end of the day, man. That's that's your biggest
- 6:53investment. And that starts with diet.
- 6:55That starts with your body, starts with treatment and extra
- 6:57treatment like these dudes is getting.
- 6:59They get massages all the time and they get work before
- 7:01practice. They got activation time.
- 7:03Like they don't all these type of things to get themselves
- 7:05ready for what they've practiced for a game, which you just don't
- 7:07kind of see, you know what I'm saying?
- 7:08I think the other cost of this time, just like, yeah, we got to
- 7:10warm up. You know what I'm saying?
- 7:12I'll show a little bit early. Got the little warm that we do,
- 7:14but these dudes do that activation and then they also do
- 7:17that warm up before they even get on the court and do those
- 7:20type of things. So just kind of like a little
- 7:21Dupree prep and how they like take care of their bodies were
- 7:24as far as like the extra stretch and they're going to get them
- 7:27aside that you kind of see a little bit more at least what
- 7:30I've noticed at the prologue and which is the at college.
- 7:32Yeah. And you know, you've been with
- 7:34the G League team. Obviously you're going to have
- 7:35some younger pros on your team, you know, maybe 2A contracts or
- 7:38guys that are undrafted rookies coming in in in this year.
- 7:43Like with some of those guys that are just coming from
- 7:45college and especially some that might, you know, they might have
- 7:47been one and done, they might be 19 years old right now.
- 7:49Like have you seen them start to kind of learn that process and
- 7:54learn those habits from seeing some of the other guys and kind
- 7:57of see a difference between when they first started with the team
- 8:00versus now as they've kind of assimilated to that environment?
- 8:03Yeah, you do, especially with the young guys, but a lot of
- 8:06time and when you get those guys who are two ways, like I think
- 8:09it's cool about the NBA because they'll spend time with that NBA
- 8:13franchise, whatever that program is.
- 8:15So they're getting to see the top tier guys, you know, like so
- 8:19the Grand Rapids go, they're in their affiliate is Denver
- 8:22Nuggets. So a lot of our guys are two
- 8:24ways. Like they were spending time
- 8:25seeing, you know, saying Jamal Murray, you know, I'm saying
- 8:28Yokich, who the MVP, who will be?
- 8:30I mean, even some little, I mean, the first time I went out
- 8:32there, they had me to the training camp.
- 8:34Like he's the first dude down to breakfast.
- 8:35And I think that's pretty cool because it's due to MVP And you
- 8:38went out here and you see, you know, man, he's the first guy
- 8:40out there sit at the table like being on time and set an
- 8:42example. So I think they kind of get that
- 8:44mold, but I think a lot of it too many, a lot of those guys
- 8:46already had it. And it's reason why they're in
- 8:48this space. You know what I'm saying?
- 8:49In the 1st place, You know, I'm saying it's not like you really
- 8:51kind of teach like obviously dudes have to grow up and
- 8:53understand it, man. But a lot of these dudes come in
- 8:55here with the pro monster already men because they're
- 8:57dealing with agents or they maybe have someone who's
- 8:59actually in their ear to them. Good advice on what they need to
- 9:01do and just carry yourself as a quote which allowed them to be
- 9:04here, which you kind of see, which once again, you get some
- 9:07of those guys at that college level, man.
- 9:08But I do see kind of a little bit of a transition.
- 9:10They get to learn and get to be around and they get to see these
- 9:12two MVPS or and they all sorts of like, well, I'm just going to
- 9:15mimic what they do, help me get there, you know, so, but credit
- 9:18to them and that's what everybody do, man, You, you
- 9:20follow the grapes. You see what they do.
- 9:22Good coaches, still good strength coaches still when I
- 9:24see them as good and I like it. Hey I'm a using that so it can
- 9:26help me out too. Yeah, that's great.
- 9:30And kind of along those lines. So, right, you, you had a great
- 9:32career as a basketball player yourself.
- 9:35We got to relive we we got to relive those days a couple times
- 9:37and then manage the games that over you.
- 9:39But from, from your career and your experience as an athlete
- 9:43and the coaches you were with, like what, what have you taken
- 9:46from those experience? Like, like how does that impact
- 9:48you as a coach? Like what are you taking from
- 9:49that? What are you stealing from that?
- 9:51What are you, what are you not stealing from that or saying,
- 9:53hey, I'm going to do that differently from from what you
- 9:56went through as a player? Yeah, well, I also think Tom is
- 9:59different. I think everything about sports
- 10:01evolves over time. Like and just like naturally,
- 10:04you know, like to where even with the coaches I had, maybe
- 10:07they didn't understand or didn't have the tools, the analytics
- 10:10that we can have or stuff like that now.
- 10:12And they help us coach in today's game, simplify things,
- 10:14score to make it better. But man, I think the I think the
- 10:17biggest thing is just kind of being relational.
- 10:19I think as a player, you understand what coaches you have
- 10:21relationships with and how it may be.
- 10:24I think you also learn like I play for a guy who is super into
- 10:27defense, like on the top defensive coaches, probably ever
- 10:30that you will see, especially like nowadays, why I feel like
- 10:33the game is kind of getting more and more towards offense and
- 10:35what you have to do. You know, I'm saying super
- 10:37defensive mind what I can get really good at this craft, but
- 10:40the practice in just in the time and like, you know, I'm saying
- 10:42like creating toughest, like the the the amount of time that we
- 10:45practice was super long compared to what you will try to get
- 10:47players to nowadays. Now, back then I didn't think
- 10:50nothing of it. I mean, I was just a college
- 10:51basketball player, like trying to this would coach say so, you
- 10:54know, we got to do it. But nowadays it's like, well, do
- 10:57I need that much time? I don't need to have those guys
- 10:59in there that long. Or how can I find ways to still
- 11:02get still get in here, do what I need to do?
- 11:05Because nowadays, obviously the player of the tennis man, I
- 11:07don't think he's that's long anyways.
- 11:08Like those guys don't really want to be in there unless it's
- 11:10kind of like doing skill development stuff like that.
- 11:13But just trying to find a way, like I said, to mesh it all
- 11:15together. How can I be shorter, keep those
- 11:17guys in the gym, but still be effective and get all the things
- 11:20that we need to do, whether it is learning how to play, trying
- 11:23to raise our cues, and then also doing the things that we kind of
- 11:25need to help our team get better.
- 11:28But I think I play I I mean, I had great coaches, you know, I'm
- 11:30saying they showing a lot. And I got to work with obviously
- 11:32Tanner recruiting me and Steven FRC and I also got to work in
- 11:37the AC. So I've just learned a lot.
- 11:39Just learned a lot. Just seen the back day today and
- 11:41even from like the business side of of college basketball team,
- 11:44just on the course of recruiting and doing those type of things.
- 11:47And you're saying you want a lot as far as how to recruit, where
- 11:49to go and do things. Obviously I don't have to
- 11:51recruit anymore, but I mean, I still miss it.
- 11:53I have my itch some time doing it, but I still think you can
- 11:55find it like help you. And then because of all those
- 11:57things that I've seen like open up my mind to maybe I think it'd
- 12:01be cool to be a junior. You know, I'm saying that kind
- 12:03of to steal is this kind of like recruiting, But I still enjoy
- 12:06kind of putting pieces together be a recruiting or helping this
- 12:09guy come here and be successful. How can I get this player to
- 12:12mesh with this player and just create a great roster to kind of
- 12:15win championships? Yeah, except now there's longer
- 12:18term contracts instead of nine months and they can leave every
- 12:21year now. So and you know, you mentioned,
- 12:25you mentioned that piece on like feeling like the attention span
- 12:28is a little bit shorter now for players.
- 12:30And then you mentioned like versus maybe skill development
- 12:32where they might be a little more locked in.
- 12:34Do you feel like there's kind of a shift where the the focus or
- 12:38the attention span or the kind of intensity that a player will
- 12:41put forth is like less towards team aspects of like practice
- 12:45and the team versus, OK, if they're doing more like I'm
- 12:49working with my coach or my skill guy and we're doing
- 12:52one-on-one stuff and I'm working on my game, like I'm going to
- 12:54have a higher attention span, a higher focus and intensity and a
- 12:56little bit of a shift in nature there.
- 12:59Yeah, I do. I mean, I think and I think it's
- 13:01more so like I think they have it on the court.
- 13:04It's more so where I noticed like the off the court.
- 13:07You know what, I finished the probably the extra long film
- 13:10session. So you know, it's like the over
- 13:13complicated scouting report to where you're seeing so many
- 13:16things. But I do think they are a more
- 13:18engaged when you're using them to do this type of things.
- 13:20Like I think every kid loves the skill development because and
- 13:22never mind naturally, I mean, it is it's like my game is getting
- 13:25better, like I'm working on things that I can use in the
- 13:27game to help me get there. But everybody who's an athlete
- 13:31also also has to understand I don't just play basketball and
- 13:34even like it's also five guys out here too.
- 13:36So how can I incorporate what I do onto a team concept?
- 13:39But I think that's also what goes into the training nowadays
- 13:42and the build up to what they want to do.
- 13:44But I think dudes just love the hoop, you know what I'm saying?
- 13:46And I think it's more so like they don't like the drills, but
- 13:49we all know we need drills to help us be better for team, you
- 13:52know, But if you can show up and let guys just roll out the ball
- 13:54and they want to hoop nowadays, I think that's what keeps them
- 13:57locked in because anything and they just they just love
- 13:59playing. And these dudes like
- 14:00professional ball players. And then even at the college,
- 14:02like dudes want to go out there and they want to hoop.
- 14:04So I I get it. But that's his own us as coaches
- 14:06trying to figure out how we can, you know, manipulate, you know,
- 14:09that manufacture things that's helping our team get better than
- 14:13also man, that these dudes got to play.
- 14:14Because the end of the day, like that is probably still one of
- 14:16the best ways for you to learn how to develop is by some time
- 14:19just going out. You know what I'm saying?
- 14:21Just playing, you know, So I don't know, man, I think it's
- 14:23kind of it's kind of curious. I'll be curious to see what you
- 14:26think about the like from a strength standpoint as far as
- 14:30like teaching them certain details, like teaching certain
- 14:33details on lifts. Like how do you get, you know,
- 14:35I'm saying some kids kind of stay engaged a lot.
- 14:37It's very important because you can go out there and live.
- 14:39You can get hurt. You know, I'm saying if you
- 14:40don't understand certain details, thinking I'm just
- 14:42trying to go out here and get strong or do this now.
- 14:44So what's some things you can also?
- 14:46Yeah, I know, I know you're doing an interview, man, but I
- 14:48think just. I'd be curious.
- 14:49Just awesome. For sure.
- 14:50Like like I think I think always like when you're whether you're
- 14:54looking at like a micro or or macro view of it, like it's like
- 14:58what is the most important information we need to give them
- 15:01without giving them any more information than that?
- 15:04And just like overloading or getting them bored because like
- 15:06we just don't like you're saying if we throw too many things at
- 15:08them, they're going to lose the stuff that we really need them
- 15:10to get. So whether it's like, if I'm
- 15:12going over a session, it's like depending like our experience
- 15:16with those things, it's like, OK, if it's new stuff like let's
- 15:18just go like a block or three exercises at a time, break that
- 15:22down, execute a high level, get to the next thing.
- 15:24If it's something where like we've done all these things, I'm
- 15:26going to throw out this the, the points of emphasis or key
- 15:30details, but not go over all the stuff that like I don't need to
- 15:33go over that they like they know.
- 15:35And, and like I know that I can trust they're going to do like
- 15:37as I think about it from even just like a like a queuing
- 15:40standpoint or like if they're doing exercise and like how I
- 15:42coach this like what's I'm always going to look like,
- 15:44what's the, what's the thing that I can say that's going to
- 15:47impact other things downstream where like instead of needing
- 15:51the coach like 1-2, three and four, I want to, I want to, I
- 15:55want to focus them in on number one that can if they fix #1 is
- 15:59going to take care of 2-3 and four all at the same time
- 16:01because they fix number one. Yeah.
- 16:03That's good. But then it's also like it
- 16:06before even talking about from just like a not even like an X&O
- 16:10standpoint in the weight room, but more just like we're talking
- 16:13about expectations or the culture or the standards or
- 16:15whatever. It's like that.
- 16:16It's like I'm usually going to set at the beginning and then
- 16:19also at the end. But I've also, I would
- 16:21especially like we're like say we're going to or you.
- 16:23It's like, OK, are we coming straight from film?
- 16:27If we are like, I don't want to talk very much because they just
- 16:30were sitting down and getting talked to for 30 straight
- 16:33minutes. Like they just want to move and
- 16:34do something. They don't want to hear me talk
- 16:36more. So it's like, how quick can I be
- 16:38and just get to the stuff that we're trying to do and get them
- 16:40moving. Yeah.
- 16:41You know, there might be other times where maybe I'm the first
- 16:44thing and there's something we really need to cover and maybe
- 16:46I'll spend a little more time. But you know, if, you know, if I
- 16:48coach Springman was talking about a lot of stuff, maybe I
- 16:51just echo that and in a quick way and then emphasize that.
- 16:55But I don't, I don't need to give them the same speech they
- 16:57just got in practice 5 minutes before.
- 16:59So I think it's like always balancing like what are they
- 17:01getting? What do they need?
- 17:02Like what do they really need that I can hit?
- 17:06But what do they not need? I, I think a lot of times it's,
- 17:08you know, it's great. It's, it's important to think
- 17:10about like what, what do they not need to hear from me?
- 17:12And let's let's start there and cut all that out.
- 17:15Yeah, now that's good. I like that a lot.
- 17:17That's, that's, that's definitely always a, a, a hard,
- 17:20a a balance because it's like, you know, I think like you
- 17:23talked about scouts, like it's like there's these things we
- 17:25need them to know. I'm guessing from your
- 17:27perspective as a coach, it's always like, you know, they're
- 17:29especially you when you're doing the scout because you know, all
- 17:31the small details of it because you've been, you're the one
- 17:34who's been scouting. It's like, you know, I want to
- 17:36cover all of our bases out, you know, in case they do this
- 17:39sideline out of bounds and like we need to be ready for, you
- 17:41know, but it's like, you know, what do they really need to
- 17:43know? And and how can we get that in
- 17:46the head work? Like, because like you're
- 17:48saying, if you know, we're doing that, we're doing that scout,
- 17:50you know, right after or after our shoot around pregame and
- 17:53we're going for 40 minutes. It's like, how much is that
- 17:56helping them at that point versus just wearing them them
- 17:59out mentally before the game? Yeah, not at all.
- 18:02You know, and I, and I can say this now, I mean, you talk about
- 18:04me being a player and I was AI thought I had a decent career.
- 18:07I'm thankful, you know, I'm saying it was what it was.
- 18:09But they would give us a back then once again, it's I'm not
- 18:12that old man, but we getting up there a little bit.
- 18:14Boom. And so they would give us a, a,
- 18:16a personnel edit, like on a, you know, like a disc, like a DVD.
- 18:20So you were here, you were going to talk about it and you'd be in
- 18:23a locker room. And then we give this personal
- 18:26DVD and they're like, OK, man, go home and watch it, You know,
- 18:29and like, I maybe watched one or two.
- 18:31And at the end of the day, I'm like, man, you know, I'm not
- 18:32watching this anymore. Like in a day, like I got to go
- 18:34out there, I got to play hard. You know, I'm probably going to
- 18:36be like, once again, like thief from the team, Like I knew my
- 18:39Prince wasn't what I need to do. It really didn't matter.
- 18:41And I think that's also like encouraging to like for for me
- 18:44as a coach, it's like, well, if you can find things that get
- 18:46your team that do with this and do it really well, like you
- 18:49don't really have to adjust the player anymore.
- 18:51You just go out there and be you and it can lead to success.
- 18:54You know what I'm saying? If I can do what we do well at a
- 18:56high level, none of that stuff matters anyways, you know.
- 18:59So goes back to fine a reason to be good at one and he'll take
- 19:03care of 2-3 and four at the end of the day without being
- 19:05overload. No, I like that.
- 19:07Like I've always had a lot of respect for the team where it's
- 19:09like we're not like in the scouts, we're not changing like
- 19:12everything we do based on the team we're playing.
- 19:14Like we're going to be great at what, who we are.
- 19:16Like let's let the other team try and adapt to us and our
- 19:19playing style and how we do things.
- 19:20Obvious, obviously you're going to play to, you know, different
- 19:23tendencies and different strategies of the team.
- 19:25But like, you know, then there's other teams where it's like
- 19:27we're changing everything. Like, you know, we're putting in
- 19:30different plays for the team we're running and, and like
- 19:32basically changing who you are to try and fit the match up.
- 19:37So I've, I've always had a lot of respect for those teams.
- 19:38And I, I bet that aligns a lot what you were talking about
- 19:41earlier in the G league or the G League now, where it's like
- 19:43you've got to simplify everything.
- 19:45You can't do all that because you got new players coming in
- 19:49and like, how can we simplify all that and let them be in a
- 19:52position to just go play and like be US versus, you know, if
- 19:56they're coming in and trying to, it's their first day on a
- 19:58contract, they're about to play a game.
- 20:00Like you can't teach them everything about the other team
- 20:02and your team and they're all at the same time, you know?
- 20:04Man, could you, could you imagine, man?
- 20:06And then once again, the the right internal like you
- 20:09shouldn't leave like a Kyrie Irving going to Dallas
- 20:13Mavericks. I mean, he'll get there.
- 20:15I mean, he'd probably go through what he needs to wear this
- 20:17Guinness physical and everything, but then he's an
- 20:18extra line up in 2 days, you know what I'm saying?
- 20:21Like we will get a player literally we play at 7.
- 20:24He got in at 2, he got in at 11 to where it's our shoot around.
- 20:28I mean, it's a quick walkthrough was a quick script to show what
- 20:31he needs to do and then we're expecting him.
- 20:32It's a chance that we might need to come play minutes like you
- 20:35want to play, so you need to be ready, you know?
- 20:37So like it's just like I said, it has to be simple and like it
- 20:40always it made me curious to see like if college was able to
- 20:43trade players. I know they can't do it, but
- 20:45today's able to trade players. How lost some players could be
- 20:48to be like, OK, well, I'm playing with this team because
- 20:50college is such a like system based to where one team could be
- 20:54running nothing but five out playing off passing cuts.
- 20:58Another team could be playing off straight side pick and roll.
- 21:00Another team could be running straight motion to where all we
- 21:03do is playoff screens and how to read screens.
- 21:06But then if you start trading these these players around when
- 21:09I'm used to be, I've been running, I've been trying to
- 21:11playoff screens for three months and now I'm going to a ball
- 21:13screen motion team. I'm not that lost.
- 21:15Like you can't play that guy in college.
- 21:17You know what I'm saying? But that's the IQ and like, and
- 21:19that's what I'll take pride in as far as when I do skill
- 21:22development to even at the cops. That was like, well, how can I
- 21:25always you're not going to always be a college player.
- 21:27You want to leave college, you want to be a pro.
- 21:28Like, how can I still help you learn how to play in different
- 21:31systems, different ways? That still not going against my
- 21:34my head coach here and what he wants you to do, But it's still
- 21:37also letting me know that you're still running the game.
- 21:40So when you are in a situation or if you need to go play a
- 21:42football screen, at least I know what I may.
- 21:45I have my options or I kind of been through this situation
- 21:47before. Yeah.
- 21:49And essentially it is funny because like in college, there's
- 21:52players that, you know, let's say like a freshman that might
- 21:54come in. They're there June, you know,
- 21:56first week of June all the way till November of of being able
- 22:00to prepare and practice and training that still aren't ready
- 22:03like to know the plays and know how to run everything.
- 22:06You know, that's months and months and months.
- 22:07And then you got pro players coming in one day and be able to
- 22:10do it. It's a very, very big difference
- 22:12there. You know, you mentioned you
- 22:15mentioned the stuff about the GM you mentioned before, like if
- 22:18you became a head coach, what, what what is like the long term
- 22:22pursuit? Is it to become a head coach as
- 22:24like one of your big goals? I think a year ago that was
- 22:28definitely what I wanted to be a divisional head coach, which I
- 22:32still am hoping I haven't. Once again, I do love everything
- 22:35off the pro level, but I haven't like stepped away and said I'm
- 22:38not doing college anymore. Like coaching is coaching
- 22:41impacting people is, is the same feeling that you get, whether
- 22:43it's coaching pros, coaching college, coaching high school,
- 22:46like I just love coaching. I love hoops, I love ball, you
- 22:48know, so it really don't matter what I do.
- 22:49And at the end of the day, like whatever the Lord has for me,
- 22:52that's why I'm going to follow and what I need to do then.
- 22:54But well, definitely still love being a head coach, but now
- 22:56they're kind of being here at the pro.
- 22:57I enjoyed pro was like an NBA assistant will be good.
- 23:00And then also to like looking into kind of maybe being a
- 23:04general manager, you know, like kind of fun office behind the
- 23:07scenes where it's kind of like steal.
- 23:09I still get my basketball fixed as far as being around seeing
- 23:12dudes play and do it. Do they do it in the day?
- 23:14But, and also to, it's kind of like I still get the X&O's fixed
- 23:18and also still kind of get the recruiting and managing and
- 23:22putting A-Team together fixes where you know, so I don't know,
- 23:25man. I'm literally, literally like
- 23:27one day at a time. And at the end of it, it
- 23:30literally is like whatever the Lord has for me, man.
- 23:32But I'm opening all those type of things down to being in this
- 23:34PO space has opened up the door for media world.
- 23:37I also think being a general manager of something is
- 23:39definitely something I might have some interesting and down
- 23:41the road as I can see to learn more about the pro game and be
- 23:44around. But right now and I, I, I would
- 23:46love to be in the assistant. Yeah, no, that's awesome.
- 23:49You know, just before you talking about what it's high
- 23:52school college pro, just like being able to impact and coach
- 23:55players at any level. You know, when when I had the
- 23:58conversation with with Isaac McBride and he he he talked
- 24:01about the example of of how you impacted him.
- 24:04How do you think about as a coach set an example for for the
- 24:07athletes you're around and impacting them through the way
- 24:10you're going through your your day-to-day?
- 24:12Oh. Man, first of all, man, I think
- 24:14it's a blessing to even like kind of impact someone that type
- 24:17of way. And then sometime they're like,
- 24:20you get to just going through, you know that and you don't even
- 24:21know that's what you're doing, you know, which opens up your
- 24:24eyes too. It's like, man, it's actually,
- 24:25you know what I'm saying? Things actually working, but God
- 24:27is actually moving around or using you as a vessel to connect
- 24:31people, man. But I don't know, man.
- 24:32One of my biggest thing when I got into coaching, man was
- 24:34always trying to help do if you're closer to God or
- 24:37strengthen that faith as I'm in the space around basketball and
- 24:41around coaching. I've always thought that like I
- 24:44didn't really read the Bible when I was in college.
- 24:46So once I like kind of try to build my relationship with God,
- 24:48I try to read on my own. I always thought that, man, if I
- 24:50can get these dudes to just open it up, you know, I'm saying, and
- 24:53God will take care of the rest. I can't lead them to to to to
- 24:56God and I can't handle open up their hearts.
- 24:59But if I can just man show him what the scripture may be
- 25:02helping kind of understand Scripture a little bit more what
- 25:04it can do. You know, I'm saying for
- 25:05players, man, but I just so we try to live out like, you know,
- 25:08I'm sending one day at a time, be thankful.
- 25:10Everything. I understand it's going to be
- 25:11hard times, bad times, you know, but an end day Lord is always
- 25:14faithful, you know, So I just try to you just you just do it.
- 25:17And then you just don't know. Sometimes the impact you may
- 25:19have all the people by just doing your your normal day
- 25:22today, man. But man, I, I just try to still
- 25:24be positive, always try to show up every single day, no matter
- 25:27what the circumstance is. And I think obviously we can see
- 25:29what it been a testimony to tithing, but it actually works
- 25:33and actually influencing people that.
- 25:34So I'm just, I'm just thankful. But after not even could be in
- 25:36that space, not even do that someone else, you know what I'm
- 25:38saying that I think that's what life's all about.
- 25:40And how can we influence and help someone else out of
- 25:42ourselves? Yeah, that, no, that's
- 25:44incredible. How does you know how how does
- 25:48like your faith that you're talking about a lot?
- 25:50How's that shaped how you view and define success within the
- 25:55world of basketball and coaching?
- 25:57Yeah, well, man, it's, it's everything, you know what I'm
- 25:59saying? Because I think if I didn't have
- 26:02faith, it'd be easy for me to just think that everything that
- 26:06I do is based off wins, wins, losses and how much money I can
- 26:11make, you know? And so like understanding those
- 26:13things are just, it's just a win, you know what I'm saying?
- 26:16It's just a dollar, you know what I'm saying?
- 26:18It allows me not to chase those things in my career.
- 26:21And so when you're going through a stretch to where we losing
- 26:24games, you know, we all know how it works nowadays.
- 26:26And in our profession, you lose first thing you think about me,
- 26:29you don't get fired. So it allowed me not to kind of
- 26:31like change up who I was because I kind of feel like my identity
- 26:35has always been a God and it didn't matter whether I was
- 26:38coaching at the highest level, being a multi millionaire, coach
- 26:41at the biggest Division One or shoot, you know, I'm saying
- 26:44flipping burgers and McDonald's. God is always good.
- 26:46He's always faithful and I'm very thankful for wherever he,
- 26:50whatever space he puts me in because I get to do life.
- 26:53You know what I'm saying? Like with him.
- 26:55So I think he's like it, it it's even because it's like what
- 26:57things are doing. I'm never too, I'm never too
- 27:00high like, oh, shoot, like this is what it is like making my
- 27:03identity and then things are bad.
- 27:04It's the same deal. It's not my identity.
- 27:06And I'm not really stressing because the end of the day, you
- 27:08know, I'm saying like God has a plan for everything.
- 27:10He has him and everything, and some things, if it happens, I
- 27:13don't understand, it happens for a reason.
- 27:14So I need to figure out why it's happened or what is God trying
- 27:17to tell me in this space or in this situation or in the
- 27:19circumstances to bring me closer to him.
- 27:21And ultimately, good or bad, he gets out of war.
- 27:24Yeah. No, I love that.
- 27:26It's, it's like, like you're talking about if, if, if you're
- 27:29anchored to the, you know, the wins and losses of, of your
- 27:33season of your career, like you're going to be on a roller
- 27:38coaster ride every day, every month.
- 27:40Like there's, there's no constancies.
- 27:42Like he's got to have an anchor to something outside of all
- 27:46that, that fluctuation that that's going to happen every
- 27:49day, every moment. Like that gives what you're
- 27:52talking about that that constancy to you, to your own
- 27:54life. Yeah, I mean, no more man.
- 27:57It's not easy, you know what I'm saying?
- 27:58We are still normal and we all want those things like we still
- 28:01want to make money and then I still want to win.
- 28:04You know what I'm saying? Like I'm not saying I just don't
- 28:06care. You know what I'm saying, what
- 28:07I'm doing, man. But I definitely I'm I'm, I'm a
- 28:09competitor. I still want to win, but it just
- 28:11helps me understand like the big picture in life, like losses
- 28:14never really define you. I mean, no matter who you are,
- 28:17the hottest coach now you're going to be up a little bit, but
- 28:19gravity, man, like it's going to be times where you where you
- 28:21not, you know what I'm saying? So kind of just who are you in
- 28:24those times? What can you show?
- 28:26And then also, man, you got to help me to help me understand.
- 28:27And like, that's what life is going to be about.
- 28:29Like it's not going to always be good.
- 28:31It's not always going to be bad. You have a bad name and you got
- 28:33to come home on the, you know, adults.
- 28:35And then you got to be, we got to be husbands.
- 28:36You know, I'm saying we have to be followers.
- 28:38We got to be, you know, I'm saying like great brothers,
- 28:40great sisters, great mentors, whoever that was.
- 28:42But if you let certain things affect you and now that could
- 28:45possibly affect someone else in that space and not help them get
- 28:48to where they need to be. Or you know, I'm saying like
- 28:51this show then what what the faith and what a strong
- 28:53foundation in God can do for you.
- 28:55Like you can allow you to get to anything.
- 28:57Yeah, No, no, that's so good. You know, I want to, I want to
- 29:01shift gears a little bit and, and I right, you're in, you're
- 29:05in the G League now. But I want to get your take a
- 29:08little bit on, on recruiting from, for the perspective of
- 29:14kids in high school right now and how they should be looking
- 29:17at recruitment from your experience in the last couple
- 29:20years of what things look like right now.
- 29:22So like, if, if I'm a high school athlete right now, like
- 29:25how should I be approaching, how should I be approaching my
- 29:29recruitment? Like if I want to, if I want to
- 29:30go play in college, And obviously it's harder now as a
- 29:33high schooler with the portal and with the way things are to
- 29:36get recruited, What can I do to put myself in the best position
- 29:40to still have a chance to go play in college?
- 29:43Man, that's good, man. I would think because I know
- 29:45like a lot of high school players nowadays think man,
- 29:47recruiting is just is down for me.
- 29:49You know what I'm saying? Like you got coaches out here
- 29:51saying we just want all the kids want to do this, want to do
- 29:54that, man. But I think if you're a high
- 29:55school player, I think you got to continue to follow the game.
- 29:59I think strength condition is kind of a little bit more
- 30:01important. I'm not saying more important,
- 30:03but I think it's a more of a premium premium on it nowadays
- 30:07because you're dealing with the older key is and being able to
- 30:10play. So like the more ready you are
- 30:12physically from the standpoint, I can kind of give you a better
- 30:14chance of probably coming in and impacting the team or being able
- 30:17to help the team. But I think at the end of the
- 30:19day, man, it's like you got to just come in and play hard, you
- 30:22know what I'm saying? Like you got to be willing to do
- 30:25the things that people aren't willing to do.
- 30:27I do think yes, you should work in your game and try to be a
- 30:29scorer and learn how to play the game in.
- 30:32But I don't think scoring needs to be your meal ticket to be
- 30:35like, man, if I can just score it, this coach won't want me to
- 30:37come. Be coachable, play hard,
- 30:40nothing. Once again, nowadays, I feel
- 30:41like the game is getting solely towards offense, offense often.
- 30:45So if you can come in and be a lockdown defender as a freshman,
- 30:48you've got to find a way to get minutes.
- 30:49Do what you need to do. You know what I'm saying?
- 30:50Obviously you got to take care of other things outside the
- 30:52court, man. But if I'm a fresh, I'm not a
- 30:54freshman. If I'm coming into college as a
- 30:56freshman now, my number one goal is just trying to find a way to
- 30:58get on the floor, like do something at a high enough rate
- 31:00to a coach me telling me that I cannot be on the floor.
- 31:02And I think it's going to be one of the things I got a senior who
- 31:05I just can't score more points and like he is a certified
- 31:07scorer. They transferred me and they
- 31:09brought him in here to get buckets.
- 31:10I get it. I I love it.
- 31:12So what can I do? I'm going to regard the best
- 31:14player I can win loose balls. I can take charges, do whatever
- 31:17coach you're telling me do at a high, high level and be
- 31:20coachable. Just allow me get a little bit
- 31:22of time and more time you get, the more you impact the game,
- 31:25the longer you're on the floor, the longer you get to showcase
- 31:27your skills to coach and also continue to do better than.
- 31:30But I would just say, man, just find a way to kind of like play
- 31:32hard and do something super, super good that's not scoring
- 31:36that a coach can resist because we're always look for players to
- 31:39come in, bring energy to a team, have a good mindset, the vocal
- 31:43communicate. You do those at a good level.
- 31:45I can give yourself a chance to play no matter where you going
- 31:47or where you are. But like as a high school kid,
- 31:49like I need to do something outside fun awaiting impact the
- 31:52game outside of school and. I think that's such a good
- 31:54point. I mean, because, you know, I
- 31:56think that is the mindset of most high schools.
- 31:58Like they're looking at how many points I've scored in terms of
- 32:01who they're going to recruit that like that's that's the
- 32:03mindset I hear a lot. But it's like from the college
- 32:06that's like, we're not, we're not bringing in, you know, six
- 32:09people to average 17 points a game like that.
- 32:13The the the numbers don't work out there.
- 32:15And it's like we need role players.
- 32:17And like, like you're saying, I think there's, there's like
- 32:20everybody wants to be the guy with the ball in their hand.
- 32:22They're all, you know, shooting all the shots.
- 32:23But it's like if you can take like take that different
- 32:26perspective, like that's going to give you such an upper leg of
- 32:28actually, like you're saying, get in on the court first,
- 32:31right? Because especially as you're
- 32:32competing against 2223 year olds now, like they're probably going
- 32:36to bring in somebody from the portal to be, you know, their
- 32:38their main people scoring the ball.
- 32:40So it's like, how can I go and play 10 minutes of incredible
- 32:42defense, do all the things coach needs me to do and be ready to
- 32:45do that? So I yeah, I think that's such
- 32:47such a good advice right there. Yeah, they got to and also too,
- 32:51but you can see that the genie level 2 like you got to think
- 32:54about if I'm a OK, Kevin Durant is my favorite player.
- 32:56If I'm on the G League team for the Houston Rockets and I'm
- 33:00another wing and they got this dude, they've already one of the
- 33:03best scores ever in the league. I love the score too.
- 33:05Maybe I was a top scorer on my college team.
- 33:07Maybe I'm even in G league averaging 20 points, but they
- 33:10don't need me to do that. So like, and it's like I think
- 33:13it's it's it's hard for people to adapt to and pros and figured
- 33:16out too is like, well, I'm going to be 3 and D like I'm just
- 33:18going to knock down an open shot every time I touch it.
- 33:21I'm trying to find Kevin Berman. But one thing I know I'm a go
- 33:23out there and I'm a go out the best player.
- 33:25Get on the floor, be talking every single day.
- 33:27And it may be this organization may want me to come and play
- 33:30along those good players. And then once you're there, I'm
- 33:32saying they get a feel. They understand who you are.
- 33:34And I think that's where your your career.
- 33:36Can you know I'm saying try to take off?
- 33:38Yeah, no, that's, that's awesome.
- 33:40You know, you mentioned how both we we, we first worked together
- 33:43at Abilene Christian and both got to be around some really
- 33:46special teams, really special program in that time, you know,
- 33:49couple, couple conference championships, couple trips to
- 33:52the tournament, obviously, you know, the upset over Texas and
- 33:56the tournament. You know, especially like that
- 33:58team, those really good teams around those years.
- 34:01Like what would you say like the the special qualities about that
- 34:05team that allows, allows them to go beat a Texas that's
- 34:10obviously, you know, way taller, way, way more athletic.
- 34:13You know, a lot more talented guys go into the league.
- 34:16What? What allows that team to come
- 34:18together be greater than the sum of its individual parts?
- 34:23I think what a lot of those guys be together first up, they got
- 34:25to play together for multiple years.
- 34:27Yeah. You know, like we had some dudes
- 34:30who play together for three years who was freshman up to
- 34:33being juniors, you know what I'm saying?
- 34:35Or who came in, who was transferred and still got to
- 34:37understand and adapt and play with guys for multiple times.
- 34:40Which once again, like we talked about earlier, it's kind of hard
- 34:43to see nowadays because, I mean, nil, you have one good season,
- 34:47someone else could pay you more money at the end.
- 34:49That wasn't really the, the, the, the deal.
- 34:51You know, I'm saying like we didn't really pay players.
- 34:53Your payment was scholarship. So when you can create a group
- 34:56of guys who can play together, who can go through things with a
- 34:59certain amount of time, like, I mean, you got a pretty good
- 35:01team, You know what I'm saying? Anything that could be anybody
- 35:04outside of the culture and outside of the hard nosed
- 35:06mindset, outside of just being super defensive minded and what
- 35:09we do saying they was used to playing hard.
- 35:10They've been through some things together.
- 35:13So they were super close. And you know how like close
- 35:15teams do when guys love playing with each other, it's a scary
- 35:17thing. And then no matter who you are,
- 35:19any, anybody could lose on any given day against a against a
- 35:23better team. I think Texas had more talented
- 35:25players. Absolutely.
- 35:26They have pros and everything and but I definitely think we
- 35:28played harder than they did that day and we were a more connected
- 35:32team just doing that stretch which allow us to get our first
- 35:37ever. It's a tournament win happened
- 35:38in Christian history. That's why the biggest man I
- 35:40got, you know, I've seen in my career so far.
- 35:42I mean, it was it was pretty cool and it was a good
- 35:44experience, man. But those dudes love each other.
- 35:46They do well playing together and they just they just been
- 35:48through some things together saying it's like life, man.
- 35:50They got they got to go to life a little bit better than it was
- 35:52a close knit group. Yeah.
- 35:54Do you think that those type of upsets or Cinderella stories are
- 35:59probably going to be a lot more, a lot rarer nowadays with like
- 36:03what you're saying now? Usually now it's like if you're,
- 36:05if you had a level of a school like that, if you're really,
- 36:08really good, you have a really good year, you're probably going
- 36:10to a different school after that year now.
- 36:13I think you'll still have them because I think that the the
- 36:16constant cycle of like getting new players and still been able
- 36:19to have the teams is still going to happen nowadays.
- 36:21Even though you had an IL, like I think it would still be
- 36:24upsets, but I just don't know. I don't know, Like I don't know
- 36:29if you'll just see it to where it's like, well, these dudes
- 36:31been playing together for three years.
- 36:33They've been through a lot, you know, like it's more so that's
- 36:36so they really don't go on paper.
- 36:37You know, I'm saying if that if that makes sense, like to see
- 36:40Damon Joe being from the same area, both come in as freshmen.
- 36:44Like we talked about playing little minutes as freshmen,
- 36:47letting those times grow as to more time all the way up to them
- 36:50being, you know, I'm saying like juniors and seniors, like, I
- 36:53just don't know if that will be the case.
- 36:55And like that's what made it unique because, man, you saw all
- 36:58the hard work and put it on a daily basis together and what
- 37:00they've been through together. And then they get that win and
- 37:03it kind of just like solidified everything.
- 37:05I think you'll still be upset, but I think it's just it's just
- 37:07part of college ballots and what now.
- 37:08But I don't know if it would be a situation where it's like
- 37:12players are really like spending three or two to I'm saying like
- 37:163 years together and together and actually growing and
- 37:18creating a bond, friendship within himself as men and then
- 37:21they have to sit on the court and had those experiences.
- 37:23Yeah, yeah. But yeah, you know, tell you if
- 37:26if a core group of people do do that, a program that'll be a
- 37:29cheat code for sure within the current landscape that, you
- 37:33know, like you're saying, maybe even if they didn't have as much
- 37:35talent or whatever. Like if, if you do that for
- 37:37three or four years and you stick that out, like you're
- 37:39going to probably be a really, really good team where there's
- 37:42three whole cycles of new teams and other programs through that
- 37:45time. Yeah.
- 37:46So it's just, but I don't know. Do you think it's still possible
- 37:48though? Yeah, I mean, I think it's that
- 37:50probably not as much, probably not as much because I because I
- 37:53feel like that was the event, you know, maybe some of these
- 37:55bigger schools where they do have the pro players leaving
- 37:57early and cycling through not as much continuity there.
- 38:00And you know, like at ACU we had those guys together that have
- 38:03been in the system. They they've been with each
- 38:05other like, you know, they have that.
- 38:07And I feel like that's going to be harder.
- 38:08Like there might be certain places where like, hey, this
- 38:11group's where we are going to stick together, where are going
- 38:13to stay, You know? I think 11, the advantage to it
- 38:17might be those with all the big schools usually drawing more
- 38:21from the portal. Some of the like the better
- 38:23freshmen are going to leak down to some of the smaller schools.
- 38:26I feel like because they're not getting as taken as much a
- 38:29little harder. So there might be some more
- 38:31higher level freshmen at some of these smaller schools a little
- 38:34bit and that might gel with a group that's been there for a
- 38:37while and you know, all results in a great year.
- 38:39I'm going to have some of those upsets, but I think it's
- 38:42definitely, definitely. Yeah.
- 38:43And it's like, well, it's kind of hard because those guys also
- 38:45like they came in with chips, you know, like you get some kids
- 38:49from JUCO who they didn't have any Vision 1.
- 38:51So they feel like, OK, like people have told me that I'm
- 38:54coming in trying to prove something, you know, like, and
- 38:57they have to kind of stay because, you know, I'm saying
- 38:59like not saying they're not good enough to go anywhere else.
- 39:00But it wasn't just so let me come quick, grab you and do
- 39:03those type of things. Like, well, that's kind of why I
- 39:05met my coach believed in me. There is no money talks.
- 39:08There's no other things are like I'm here to kind of, you know
- 39:10what I'm saying, Give them all for wherever this school is.
- 39:12Like I think, I don't think there's really no more like plan
- 39:15for university anymore. Plan for it's more so your last
- 39:18name, which I get it. I understand.
- 39:19Like some people go through things and this is life changing
- 39:22money and they can change their lives, their family lives.
- 39:24So I understand and what it is man like the kids are also the
- 39:27the Max agent of the world who can go through be at wood school
- 39:30for four years under recruited player had a great career and he
- 39:33wanted to decide deal figure go to Texas like all those type of
- 39:36things. I'm all for and I'm not against
- 39:37people wanting to get money. But yeah, he still continue to
- 39:40stay at a program for certain amount of time which can kind of
- 39:42build once again success. Another example crazy run for
- 39:45that Oral Roberts team was really good for them to do is
- 39:48also stay and they also play together for two to three years.
- 39:52Yeah, yeah, yeah. Know for sure you know for
- 39:56yourself in in coaching, like what what are the what are the
- 40:00internal debates that you have in your own head as a coach that
- 40:03you find yourself often debating yourself on?
- 40:05Like, should I do this? Should do that?
- 40:06Like, you know, just different decisions that you come upon.
- 40:09Now that's a great question. I think the biggest, the biggest
- 40:12internal debate that I had. Now, I don't know if this
- 40:14actually is like a debate. Maybe it's maybe not.
- 40:18I think the hardest struggle for me is continue to, let's say
- 40:21you're dealing with a player or you're coaching and you feel
- 40:24like you're more invested in that player, you know, and where
- 40:28it's like, well, I don't have to.
- 40:29I'm not playing, you know what I'm saying?
- 40:31Like you get to play, like you can change your life.
- 40:33I'm I'm solely here because I'm invested in you.
- 40:35And like, sometimes it just comes from maturity.
- 40:37They don't see it or some kids like like it is what it is.
- 40:40Like I don't really, they may not love it as much not and I
- 40:43think that's the debate to where it's like, well, do you keep if
- 40:46you fight this kids giving up where he's not seeing it how you
- 40:50see? And do you kind of like, OK, not
- 40:53investing as much or kind of shift the focus elsewhere?
- 40:56Or it's like, well, no, you shouldn't show me every single
- 40:58day because all it takes is 111 switch and then maybe they can
- 41:03get it, you know, and then or maybe they see that, Oh, that's
- 41:07the reason for them to do less of what they are already doing
- 41:10because they feel like, OK, coach is kind of like, I know
- 41:12he's on me, man. Now he owe me even less.
- 41:15Like now he not really invested. So like that may be the biggest
- 41:18or make the hardest thing that I kind of deal with as far as
- 41:21coaching that want to where some days you don't want to show up,
- 41:27but you still need to show up. You know what I'm saying?
- 41:29Because of of what it still may do just for not just for them,
- 41:33but also for yourself. Like this one is one of the best
- 41:35things you can have. And I think one of the main, one
- 41:38of the main focus for this one is like showing up when you
- 41:40don't want to, you know, nothing that can help you get to certain
- 41:42places and achieve certain things all about the people
- 41:45because it's something that's not easy to do.
- 41:47Yeah, You know, I mean, yeah, that that's, those are hard
- 41:50situations. I, I think that can be really
- 41:53draining. Like when when you are given so
- 41:55much and you want someone for the person, it's like, like why,
- 41:57why, why won't you do this for yourself, you know?
- 42:00And yeah, that is hard. It's like, yeah, how do I do I
- 42:02approach it a different way? Do I push hard?
- 42:05Do I push harder? Do I pull back?
- 42:07You know that. Yeah.
- 42:08That. Yeah.
- 42:08I don't know that there's a, there's a, there's never a a
- 42:11perfect answer for that, I feel like.
- 42:13Like when you when you figure it out, let me know.
- 42:14If anybody listen who knows the answer they can comment.
- 42:17Yeah, please check it out. Find us direct.
- 42:21On the kind of the other hand of that, like when, when do you
- 42:24feel closest to your purpose in coaching?
- 42:26Man, I think it's just in, I think when I get to have
- 42:29conference, like when I get to know a player, actually know
- 42:31them outside of basketball, I feel close.
- 42:34I think it's super good when I finally get to have a
- 42:37conversation about faith. Just no matter what's what they
- 42:39are, you know what I'm saying? Just kind of see if it's
- 42:42something that they're into or if they even believe or just
- 42:45talk about God, maybe something understand.
- 42:48I think it's also cool when I feel close, when they may ask
- 42:50questions, like I see how you kind of like carry yourself,
- 42:53like, you know, I'm just kind of curious to see like I got a
- 42:55question about this, like how can you help?
- 42:57There's no sometimes like, well, I don't know if I can answer
- 43:00right now, but I can try to find out like, but I just accepted
- 43:03the wind of that man. Even they like just because they
- 43:05asked me about it. Like it's all like it's this joy
- 43:07and it's a blessing. You know, situations just once
- 43:11again, when things get you know what I'm saying hard and that
- 43:15the adversity hit is really when I feel like man, I'm close to
- 43:18semi purpose, man, because like I feel like that's the best time
- 43:21of the show. People through character are
- 43:23like when things to defend tunes could change, demeanors could
- 43:26change, whether it could change, it's like, no, I'm just going to
- 43:28continue to if anything, I'm going to try to go harder, you
- 43:30know, I'm saying, or be a little bit better.
- 43:32I'm saying all few about, you know, I'm saying the glory of
- 43:35God, you know, but that's when I kind of feel like I'm in my
- 43:39purpose and then at times, well, like me, and I'm probably here
- 43:42for a reason. Yeah, yeah, no, no, I, I love
- 43:45that. And you know, you know, from,
- 43:47from walking through some of those times with you and, and
- 43:50seeing the example, you say you've done an incredible job.
- 43:53And I know something like we talked about before, it's like
- 43:54sometimes you don't know the impact you're making.
- 43:57Like you're just, you're just living your life.
- 43:59You know, I know you, your, your example impacted me and other
- 44:04coaches. Obviously you know Kasich's
- 44:06example, but other players too, and other players in the past
- 44:09teams, you know, I'm sure within the new organization you're now,
- 44:12it might look different, but I'm, I'm confident the impact
- 44:16you're making and just the incredible example you're
- 44:18setting as as a man. I appreciate it man, now I'm
- 44:21trying once again. I've I've also same day with
- 44:24you, man, I've been able to work with good, good people will be
- 44:27around. Like I think it's pretty cool.
- 44:28Like the first both vision ones I worked at, you know, some
- 44:31majority of my time and they were great based institutions.
- 44:33You know, I'm saying where this is stuff that we can kind of we
- 44:36could do. We could talk about these type
- 44:37of things. You know, I'm saying it could be
- 44:38present, you know, and it's not pretty probably like other
- 44:41universities. And then so I think everybody
- 44:44that's on stab, they were there for a reason and for those
- 44:46reasons, you know, so we just like I said, man, iron shop and
- 44:48iron. And so I probably don't say
- 44:50enough as far as credible. There's been no situation for
- 44:52being around coaches of the faith or who had that monster
- 44:56too has definitely helped me too, man, because as we know,
- 44:58man, we need each other to to kind of feed off man because you
- 45:01can understand how tough it can get just in these moments.
- 45:03Yeah, yeah. And I love it, man.
- 45:06This has been an awesome conversation, man.
- 45:07I'd love to get to talk with you and just kind of where this is
- 45:10gone. It's been really, really cool.
- 45:12So man, I'm grateful that you came on and did this.
- 45:15And I appreciate you having me, man.
- 45:17I appreciate it, man. I love what you doing with the
- 45:18podcast, man. Keep it up.
- 45:20Thank you, hope you get some some great rest is, you know,
- 45:23last little bit of the All Star break for you.
- 45:25All right, man. Sounds good, man.
- 45:26You do the same. Instead of fam, I say hello.
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