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- 0:00Speaker 1: Mm hmmmmm, Hey, what's you know what the topic tonight?
- 0:19Speaker 1: I was like, I gotta put on a button down.
- 0:22Speaker 1: I gotta put on my wife's medium sized sweater because
- 0:26Speaker 1: I don't have one right now. That's past Dell unfortunately.
- 0:29Speaker 1: And then, uh, you.
- 0:30Speaker 2: Know kinda eighties tennis player.
- 0:33Speaker 1: Hot like I don't belong. It doesn't look anything. Well.
- 0:40Speaker 2: I have to say I would have considered going on
- 0:44Speaker 2: a date with you.
- 0:46Speaker 1: You know what I will take considered.
- 0:49Speaker 2: And the reason I say that is because if you
- 0:52Speaker 2: would have asked me to play tennis, I would have
- 0:54Speaker 2: been like, yes, screw you, and then it would have
- 0:56Speaker 2: been over.
- 0:59Speaker 1: I don't play tennis.
- 1:00Speaker 2: Devils just trying to get me to play pickleball, and
- 1:02Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, I'm not so sure that's me.
- 1:05Speaker 1: I had a roommate, Chris, He's I absolutely love him.
- 1:07Speaker 1: I get to see him on Monday and he played
- 1:09Speaker 1: tennis and he played tennis for the university I want
- 1:11Speaker 1: to and he tried to teach me. And I don't
- 1:18Speaker 1: know how he doesn't look like Gumby because he's just
- 1:21Speaker 1: as lanky as I am. But I look ridiculous. There
- 1:24Speaker 1: are limbs going in all different directions. That just should not.
- 1:29Speaker 2: Some people are made for it in some art. I mean,
- 1:34Speaker 2: just like swimming.
- 1:37Speaker 1: Now, yes, I have.
- 1:39Speaker 2: To say, lovely, are you all settled back in from
- 1:42Speaker 2: the VAK on the cruise back to reality?
- 1:45Speaker 1: I hate it. I hate it. I hate it so much.
- 1:48Speaker 1: I did I did get I did get myself a
- 1:51Speaker 1: hairs cut. So the it's gone, the ponytail's gone, it's
- 1:59Speaker 1: all gone. So it's still kind of an undercutish type thing.
- 2:04Speaker 1: But it's yeah, there's nothing back here at all. It
- 2:09Speaker 1: was about time, so but yeah, so I hate being back.
- 2:14Speaker 1: I hate being back so much that we've gone ahead
- 2:16Speaker 1: and booked another cruise in a year, which is too
- 2:19Speaker 1: long till then. But you got a plan and this
- 2:21Speaker 1: time we're going to take the kids.
- 2:22Speaker 2: But oh, I was like, am I invited? You know what?
- 2:27Speaker 1: Absolutely yourself?
- 2:29Speaker 2: That would be a bad idea. Can you imagine missus
- 2:32Speaker 2: brew crime and double h having to put up with
- 2:34Speaker 2: the two of us together.
- 2:37Speaker 1: Oh, they just drink, they drink, we'd drink then be fine.
- 2:42Speaker 1: I just make sure if my kids can't unlock the
- 2:44Speaker 1: door to get out of our room after one, it's fine,
- 2:47Speaker 1: that's true.
- 2:48Speaker 2: Well, I am going to hijack the show for a minute.
- 2:53Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, hijack away.
- 2:55Speaker 2: I was having a rough week and then I found
- 3:01Speaker 2: out that life can get better even though someone screws up.
- 3:10Speaker 1: Did I screw up?
- 3:12Speaker 3: No?
- 3:13Speaker 2: You sent me the Peak Paris Hilton heart shaped block
- 3:19Speaker 2: with the knives are gold and the handles are glittery,
- 3:23Speaker 2: and they are sharp as yet, I mean they are
- 3:27Speaker 2: sharp and they are.
- 3:29Speaker 1: Hu they are gold and sparkly.
- 3:37Speaker 2: And the only reason I said screw up is because
- 3:39Speaker 2: you sent it as a gift. Walmart sent me a
- 3:43Speaker 2: text with gift card on what you said, and then
- 3:48Speaker 2: a product description of what the product was before it
- 3:52Speaker 2: even got so.
- 3:54Speaker 1: PSA for everybody. If you choose gift option from Walmart,
- 3:58Speaker 1: it shouldn't surprise nobody. And by the way, I didn't
- 4:00Speaker 1: buy these during the blackout day. But if if you
- 4:04Speaker 1: choose the gift option and you put in a little note,
- 4:07Speaker 1: they don't just send a note, they will also send
- 4:11Speaker 1: what Terry said, which was a full description of what
- 4:13Speaker 1: the gift is, so don't do that.
- 4:15Speaker 2: In the box, there was no gift note. The only
- 4:18Speaker 2: gift note I got was the text. So if you
- 4:21Speaker 2: hadn't given them my phone number, I wouldn't have got
- 4:24Speaker 2: a note. But guys, I have to tell you, these
- 4:27Speaker 2: scissors are so sharp. I took them to try it
- 4:31Speaker 2: against something I didn't even have to squeeze, and it
- 4:34Speaker 2: cut fabric. They are that sharp. So I'm going to
- 4:39Speaker 2: be going around a laer.
- 4:41Speaker 1: I wanted you to look at it.
- 4:44Speaker 2: So thank you. I love them, and I asked doubleh.
- 4:47Speaker 2: I'm like, can I put these in the kitchen? And
- 4:50Speaker 2: he was like, of course you can't.
- 4:54Speaker 1: So am I to say no.
- 4:57Speaker 2: Thank you. I love them. But my next thing, I
- 5:05Speaker 2: have a small rant. I don't know how many of
- 5:08Speaker 2: our viewers are on TikTok. I share this on Discord
- 5:13Speaker 2: in our executive chat. I love Discord. I mean I
- 5:18Speaker 2: love Discord. I love TikTok the people I follow. Guess
- 5:23Speaker 2: who is now on TikTok as herself and is proclaiming
- 5:30Speaker 2: to be an advocate for her and her daughter. Now,
- 5:35Speaker 2: before you answer, I'm going to just go on the
- 5:38Speaker 2: record right now and say she guilty. She should not
- 5:43Speaker 2: be advocating.
- 5:46Speaker 1: No, and I can think of a judge that we've
- 5:49Speaker 1: spoken to who would agree. Yeah, so that you give
- 5:54Speaker 1: you a.
- 5:54Speaker 2: I was shocked to see that be on TikTok and
- 6:02Speaker 2: a lady that I followed, Bennette Peach, who is amazing.
- 6:07Speaker 2: She did a post today and she was like, I
- 6:11Speaker 2: blocked this girl and so many of my followers were
- 6:14Speaker 2: following her. I blocked all of them. She's like, I
- 6:18Speaker 2: don't care if I lose every follower, And so I
- 6:21Speaker 2: sent her a message and I was like, how can
- 6:24Speaker 2: me or somebody on the team follow her just so
- 6:27Speaker 2: we can see her craziness and talk shit about her
- 6:30Speaker 2: and you not block us?
- 6:34Speaker 1: Yeah? And I mean you guys, if you haven't had
- 6:36Speaker 1: a chance to listen to the Judge Blevin's interview, please
- 6:39Speaker 1: please please go back and and check it out. We
- 6:43Speaker 1: will make sure that we have a link. We'll see
- 6:45Speaker 1: if we can get a link in the chat. We're
- 6:47Speaker 1: not gonna mention well we had to say. Was more
- 6:50Speaker 1: than I thought he would say, So, uh, give them
- 6:54Speaker 1: give it a listen. It's a it's a great it's
- 6:56Speaker 1: a great interview.
- 6:57Speaker 2: It is. But because we're covering such a well known
- 7:03Speaker 2: case tonight and a very important case, I really needed
- 7:07Speaker 2: to say that because there are some people who make
- 7:12Speaker 2: mistakes or circumstances cause actions and they're regretted her actions
- 7:19Speaker 2: were not that, and she has never taken ownership, and
- 7:23Speaker 2: to me, it is so disrespectful to come out and
- 7:27Speaker 2: say that you're a professional advocate for her and her daughter,
- 7:32Speaker 2: because no, you're off drinking bitch, and you still haven't
- 7:36Speaker 2: even owned it. Okay, that's it. There's my brant, because
- 7:42Speaker 2: that's fair.
- 7:43Speaker 1: That's fair.
- 7:44Speaker 2: I mean I will go.
- 7:46Speaker 1: On a very short well yeah, yeah, I mean I'll
- 7:49Speaker 1: go on a very short rate and say everybody should
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- 7:59Speaker 1: you're audio, that's great, but we still love the fact
- 8:01Speaker 1: that you're here listening. And then we are working on
- 8:05Speaker 1: another option too, and we will have more about that
- 8:10Speaker 1: coming soon. So there's gonna be another We're trying to
- 8:13Speaker 1: hit all the learning styles, all the listenings. We're trying
- 8:16Speaker 1: to hit a little bit of everything for everyone. So
- 8:19Speaker 1: just be ready. If you're somebody who likes to kind
- 8:21Speaker 1: of get down a rabbit hole or learn more about
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- 8:26Speaker 1: live show, where there's gonna be an option for you,
- 8:28Speaker 1: So yay. We'll leave it up with that for now.
- 8:32Speaker 2: Now, I just saw that we have somebody in the
- 8:35Speaker 2: chat that I earlier. I'm going to do a shameless
- 8:40Speaker 2: plug for Midday Missing, but we might have to lose
- 8:45Speaker 2: our producer because she finds the most amazing families for
- 8:51Speaker 2: me to talk to. And I am shocked that she
- 8:58Speaker 2: gets these families willing who come on and talk to me.
- 9:01Speaker 2: She does her job so well. It makes me look
- 9:04Speaker 2: really bad because I can't even remember to show up
- 9:10Speaker 2: for a broadcast sometimes and she can find amazing families.
- 9:16Speaker 2: But I will say, if you haven't come to join
- 9:18Speaker 2: us on Midday Missing, and if you can't come at lunchtime,
- 9:22Speaker 2: watch it on replay and on Monday. We have a
- 9:27Speaker 2: sister who literally within the first five minutes I had
- 9:32Speaker 2: not running down my nose because I was ugly crying.
- 9:36Speaker 1: You need a mustache to catch it, and you'll be
- 9:38Speaker 1: all right?
- 9:40Speaker 2: Oh will that help? I can get one, maybe I
- 9:46Speaker 2: can stop.
- 9:46Speaker 1: I mean, you know, shame. I'll lend you mine.
- 9:51Speaker 2: Oh my god, we have royalty in the house.
- 9:54Speaker 1: Okay, Hi, mister Laggey, how you doing?
- 9:59Speaker 2: Okay? That is it's so funny. Is on my to
- 10:02Speaker 2: do list, it says call Craig tomorrow. Okay, Craig, that is,
- 10:07Speaker 2: are you like living in my brain? Because that's scary.
- 10:10Speaker 1: Ooh, that's that's a very you don't in my brain?
- 10:15Speaker 1: All right, So before we hop into this case, we
- 10:19Speaker 1: do want to just do just a couple of shameless
- 10:22Speaker 1: plugs just to let you know. We have a live
- 10:26Speaker 1: show happening at Hamilton Pool Vineyard Farms, May third, twenty
- 10:29Speaker 1: twenty five. This will be our first live show. We're very,
- 10:32Speaker 1: very excited about it. From three pm to five pm Central.
- 10:35Speaker 1: Tickets are on sale, so please please, please, thank you,
- 10:40Speaker 1: please please please go take a look. If you are
- 10:43Speaker 1: in the general area, we would love love to see
- 10:46Speaker 1: you out there. We've already sold some tickets, we're looking
- 10:48Speaker 1: to sell more, and we can't wait. You got anything
- 10:51Speaker 1: else on that one?
- 10:53Speaker 2: I would know? Well. I am talking tomorrow with the
- 10:57Speaker 2: people in Marion, Ohio to confirm that date. It looks
- 11:03Speaker 2: like it's going to be July nineteenth, so hopefully they
- 11:05Speaker 2: will have that up soon. I also put some calls
- 11:10Speaker 2: into a couple of places in Houston to do a show.
- 11:14Speaker 2: Since Craig's on, I might as well just tell him
- 11:16Speaker 2: why I was calling him tomorrow, I want to, as
- 11:19Speaker 2: I mentioned you guys, I want to do a show
- 11:21Speaker 2: in the Houston area where we recap Chase's case and
- 11:26Speaker 2: bring it all out from beginning to open and do
- 11:28Speaker 2: it somewhe in the area. I even reached out to
- 11:32Speaker 2: some place called Outlaw Brothers Bar that's in where I
- 11:37Speaker 2: grew up in north Shore, and my nephew told me, yeah,
- 11:40Speaker 2: you don't need to go there, Terry, that is not
- 11:42Speaker 2: a place you need to be. So trying to find
- 11:46Speaker 2: someplace a little safer for us to go.
- 11:49Speaker 1: Are you saying there is this too much?
- 11:54Speaker 2: I'm not even sure I would show up like this well,
- 12:00Speaker 2: because he said it's gotten rough, and I don't know
- 12:03Speaker 2: what rough means, but I don't want to find out
- 12:06Speaker 2: because I don't do well when.
- 12:08Speaker 1: Like to turn her rough, like when she says it's
- 12:10Speaker 1: gonna get.
- 12:11Speaker 2: It's going to get rough. I don't know, I don't know.
- 12:14Speaker 2: It scared me when he said yeah and there had
- 12:17Speaker 2: been a shooting. I was like, yeah, no, I I no, I've.
- 12:20Speaker 1: Good well And as if you if you haven't heard,
- 12:26Speaker 1: and Terry, I don't know if you've said anything throughout
- 12:27Speaker 1: the week, but we are there were There was something
- 12:33Speaker 1: suggested to us by our producer and she said, hey,
- 12:36Speaker 1: U cults, we should talk about something like this, and
- 12:40Speaker 1: she was like, you need to you need to talk
- 12:42Speaker 1: about the Zizian cult. And then she started talking about
- 12:45Speaker 1: it and I went blank. My brain went blank. It
- 12:48Speaker 1: shut down for a second, like it was filled ai.
- 12:52Speaker 1: And but we are we they everybody's been working real hard,
- 12:59Speaker 1: specifically producer Tara, producer Amy. Who else is working on it?
- 13:05Speaker 1: Is it Lady and Gray working on it? Maybe? I
- 13:08Speaker 1: don't know. There's a Terry j.
- 13:13Speaker 2: Basically it's a lot of village.
- 13:17Speaker 1: Yes. And so this is going to be every Sunday
- 13:19Speaker 1: until we stop. And it's going to be starting this
- 13:22Speaker 1: Sunday on the ninth at nine pm Eastern, and we
- 13:25Speaker 1: are going to be doing a special investigation series because
- 13:29Speaker 1: although this is a buck Wild case, there are very
- 13:33Speaker 1: few people talking about it, and so the amount of
- 13:36Speaker 1: hard work that the crew has put into this, I'm
- 13:39Speaker 1: very excited for you to hear about it. Obviously it's crazy,
- 13:44Speaker 1: but that's kind we like a little bit of crazy.
- 13:46Speaker 1: So here we are.
- 13:49Speaker 2: I will say, I am so glad that producer Tara
- 13:52Speaker 2: is agreed to come on with this because just the
- 13:56Speaker 2: amount of research they've done in reading this story, I
- 14:01Speaker 2: don't know if the peroxide whatever they use to make
- 14:04Speaker 2: my hair blonde instead of gray, is going to my brain.
- 14:08Speaker 2: I can't wrap my head around it. It is so much.
- 14:15Speaker 2: Oh yeah, they'll just said has been rough for a while.
- 14:19Speaker 2: Bell Northshore was rough when I was there, but we
- 14:22Speaker 2: had showdowns in Palomino and you were safe there. Okay,
- 14:27Speaker 2: apparently this place is where showdowns used to be for
- 14:30Speaker 2: those people who know where that is. But anyway, the
- 14:33Speaker 2: Zizzy and cult, I am going to just say it
- 14:37Speaker 2: will probably be the craziest, most mind warped thing we
- 14:44Speaker 2: have ever covered.
- 14:46Speaker 1: It's like if you thought an episode six plot twist
- 14:51Speaker 1: was crazy, there is like a plot twist every single episode.
- 14:56Speaker 1: It's insane. It's I'm talking it up, but that's a read.
- 14:59Speaker 1: There's a reason for that. One it's good business, but
- 15:01Speaker 1: two it's insane.
- 15:03Speaker 2: But it's also a good way for us to indoctrine
- 15:07Speaker 2: our cult that we're gonna build that where everybody has
- 15:09Speaker 2: to wear pink and drink wine.
- 15:12Speaker 1: I'm getting there slowly, and and believe me, if you
- 15:15Speaker 1: don't have pink, Terry will send you some.
- 15:18Speaker 2: Yes, just ask producer Tara. She's gonna be dumped in
- 15:22Speaker 2: that glitter I center. She hasn't said anything about the glitter,
- 15:25Speaker 2: so I must have done really well because I kept
- 15:28Speaker 2: it very simple.
- 15:30Speaker 1: Or she just hasn't opened it yet. You know what
- 15:32Speaker 1: we should talk about our wine pairing? Shouldn't we just say?
- 15:36Speaker 2: I think this is what they call avoidance because this
- 15:41Speaker 2: is a topic.
- 15:43Speaker 1: Girl. So here is here's the deal about this case.
- 15:50Speaker 1: It's a little longer because it's a little more in
- 15:53Speaker 1: detailed and we're covering a lot of stuff tonight, so
- 15:56Speaker 1: you know, just know it's gonna be a little longer
- 15:58Speaker 1: than ourn't typical. See how it goes. But we've got
- 16:01Speaker 1: a lot of visuals thanks to producer Terra and Amy
- 16:04Speaker 1: and stuff, and so I'm very excited to be able
- 16:07Speaker 1: to do that for you. Also, Amy just gifted five memberships,
- 16:12Speaker 1: so thank you Amy.
- 16:13Speaker 2: There she goes again, just being amazing, right.
- 16:19Speaker 1: All right, so drinks? I do you want to go first?
- 16:22Speaker 1: You want me to?
- 16:24Speaker 2: I will go first. I don't have it in here
- 16:26Speaker 2: because I threw it away, but I am doing the
- 16:29Speaker 2: black Box Rose and the box says it has enticing
- 16:34Speaker 2: notes of strawberries and raspberries and it's light refreshing and
- 16:38Speaker 2: fruit forward, and guys, I have to tell you it
- 16:42Speaker 2: tastes even better than they say. But I will tell
- 16:47Speaker 2: you I've had one glass and I'm already kind of
- 16:50Speaker 2: feeling it. So it might be one of those that
- 16:55Speaker 2: gets you drunk curly fast because it is so easy
- 16:58Speaker 2: to drink. But it's what do you yell me.
- 17:03Speaker 1: That sounds good? It sounds good. I've had Black Box
- 17:05Speaker 1: wine before. It's pretty good.
- 17:06Speaker 2: I've never had their roses I.
- 17:10Speaker 1: Have pulled. I had to look for it, but it's
- 17:14Speaker 1: by California Dream Wines. It's their Pino Grigio. I think
- 17:16Speaker 1: it's a really pretty it's a really pretty pretty label.
- 17:21Speaker 1: But uh I picked that because you know, the sun,
- 17:24Speaker 1: the surf, the palm trees, not a care in the world.
- 17:27Speaker 1: That's the California Dream That's what it says on the label,
- 17:30Speaker 1: so it must be true. But uh yeah, that's uh
- 17:36Speaker 1: seemingly where you know what the the actions of the
- 17:39Speaker 1: men Anda's brothers wanted so and apparently I have good
- 17:43Speaker 1: taste because producer Tara also almost had that tonight. It
- 17:46Speaker 1: was on the Lovely Bottom Shelf a lovely five seventy five.
- 17:50Speaker 1: I was very appreciative of the price. IM not yep.
- 17:56Speaker 2: Where the heck do you find that for five dollars
- 17:59Speaker 2: and seventy five?
- 18:00Speaker 1: Sense Kroger the grocery store.
- 18:03Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we don't have that.
- 18:07Speaker 1: Oh well, you know, it's uh, it's reasonable, is what
- 18:11Speaker 1: it is. It's really not bottom shelf. It's kind of
- 18:13Speaker 1: like second from the bottom shelf. So you know, I'm
- 18:15Speaker 1: a fancy I fancy. I mean I think my bottle instead,
- 18:22Speaker 1: I think.
- 18:22Speaker 2: My box because it was a box wine. I think
- 18:25Speaker 2: it said there was four bottles in the box and
- 18:29Speaker 2: it was sixteen ninety finish. No, Lady in Gray, we
- 18:37Speaker 2: do not have a Kroger, but we have H G. B. Sprouts,
- 18:41Speaker 2: Trader Joe's Central Market, and I think we might have
- 18:46Speaker 2: a Tom Thumb on the other side of town, but
- 18:50Speaker 2: we do not have a Kroger.
- 18:53Speaker 1: What the hell is a tom Thumb.
- 18:56Speaker 2: It's an actually store. Okay. That is where Jeff when
- 19:05Speaker 2: he was little and I took him there for Thanksgiving
- 19:08Speaker 2: and Tom Thumb had Tom the turkey dressed up and
- 19:11Speaker 2: we were buying a turkey to cook, and he was like,
- 19:14Speaker 2: we can't eat Tom.
- 19:16Speaker 1: I'm glad it was a turkey and not like just
- 19:18Speaker 1: a gigantic thumb. Yeah, but somebody thumb dressed up.
- 19:25Speaker 2: So y'all don't have Tom Thumb.
- 19:29Speaker 1: No, no, no, we have the story.
- 19:31Speaker 2: It's either Kroger's or Tom Thumb's. That's part of Vaughn's.
- 19:37Speaker 2: But I don't have. You know what, it's a dark night.
- 19:41Speaker 2: We're just gonna have to find it is the lighthearted
- 19:45Speaker 2: stuff wherever we can.
- 19:50Speaker 1: Agreed. If you saw the thumbnail, you know what we're
- 19:55Speaker 1: talking about. Uh, there's there's some about the Menendaz brother's
- 20:01Speaker 1: case that kind of makes it impossible to ignore. Maybe
- 20:05Speaker 1: it's the sheer theatricality of it all too rich kids
- 20:09Speaker 1: killed their parents, then they went on a spending spree
- 20:12Speaker 1: like they won the lottery. And maybe it's kind of
- 20:14Speaker 1: how they were dressed for court, coordinated pastel sweaters like
- 20:17Speaker 1: they were posing for Ralph Lauren ad or joining the
- 20:20Speaker 1: Easter egg hunt at the White House one of the
- 20:22Speaker 1: two instead of standing trial for paraside. It checks every
- 20:28Speaker 1: true crime box, privileged family dysfunction, courtroom drama, just enough
- 20:32Speaker 1: absurdity to make you wonder if it was written by
- 20:35Speaker 1: the same dude who wrote the Jersey Shore Beyond the
- 20:38Speaker 1: Spectacle though, and it was a spectacle. It's a case
- 20:42Speaker 1: that still divides people today. Were they traumatized kids seeking
- 20:46Speaker 1: escape or entitled brats who thought they could get away
- 20:49Speaker 1: with murder? Is it possible they were both that gray
- 20:52Speaker 1: area where morality, psychology, legal maneuvering collide. It's exactly why
- 20:58Speaker 1: this case still does attention. And I mean, let's be honest,
- 21:02Speaker 1: no one ever forgets a trial that involves fifteen thousand
- 21:04Speaker 1: dollars worth of Rolex watches and a spontaneous trip to
- 21:07Speaker 1: the Bahamas after a crime. But last, but certainly not least,
- 21:11Speaker 1: I'm interested in terms of how the verdict fit in with,
- 21:15Speaker 1: you know, all of the other stuff that was going
- 21:17Speaker 1: on in California, and wondering if if today, if the
- 21:22Speaker 1: same thing were to happen with the same defense, if
- 21:25Speaker 1: it wouldn't have ended up differently. And so that's something
- 21:28Speaker 1: that I'm interested in talking about tonight. And you won't
- 21:30Speaker 1: see Terry and I battling back and forth. I think
- 21:32Speaker 1: we have pretty much the same thoughts on this trial,
- 21:34Speaker 1: same conclusions for the most part. So sorry, you're not
- 21:37Speaker 1: going to get a debate, but we are interested in
- 21:41Speaker 1: reading what you have to say, so please please participate
- 21:43Speaker 1: in the chat as we're going through it, and I'm
- 21:45Speaker 1: going to hand it off to Terry.
- 21:47Speaker 2: Well and please I'm going to just say, bless your heart.
- 21:52Speaker 2: You said fifteen thousand dollars worth of Rolex watches. You
- 21:57Speaker 2: realize that's one watch, right, is it?
- 22:00Speaker 1: I don't know. They only Rolexes as resale. They only
- 22:04Speaker 1: sell use Rolexes now. They rarely make new ones though
- 22:08Speaker 1: they still do.
- 22:09Speaker 2: But you they're like really expensive. I'm I can't afford one,
- 22:13Speaker 2: but and it's not on my bucket list to have one.
- 22:16Speaker 2: But I just always think it's cute because it's something
- 22:19Speaker 2: I said to somebody one time. I was like, oh,
- 22:21Speaker 2: I can't wait until I can afford a Rolex. I'll
- 22:26Speaker 2: try to save up like five grand and they laughed
- 22:29Speaker 2: at me.
- 22:31Speaker 1: That is the cost of a Raymond watch.
- 22:35Speaker 2: I was like, not a roller. So just gonna tell
- 22:40Speaker 2: you guys up front, this case is very emotional for me.
- 22:45Speaker 2: It hits a little too close to home, but I
- 22:49Speaker 2: think it's a very important case because as a survivor
- 22:53Speaker 2: of abuse, I understand why Colin Eric wanted to kill
- 22:59Speaker 2: the parents. You know the trauma and the pain that
- 23:03Speaker 2: they endured. If you've never lived it, you can't imagine it,
- 23:09Speaker 2: and their actions I think stemmed from years of suffering. Now,
- 23:15Speaker 2: with that being said, I do not think or excuse
- 23:22Speaker 2: what they did to their parents. You know, I empathize
- 23:25Speaker 2: with their experiences after someone who's lived it, I do
- 23:29Speaker 2: not condone vigilanty or killing your parents. But on the
- 23:34Speaker 2: other hand, I have empathy and some understanding because murder
- 23:39Speaker 2: is never the answer, and we all know their choices
- 23:43Speaker 2: led to devastating onces. And the case fascinates me because
- 23:49Speaker 2: I think it raises complex questions about justice, abuse and
- 23:54Speaker 2: our legal system and the way we handle it and
- 23:58Speaker 2: long term trauma. So I think that is why it
- 24:02Speaker 2: is so much still a case that needs to be
- 24:05Speaker 2: talked about today, because we need to do better as
- 24:10Speaker 2: a society and how we take things into consideration.
- 24:20Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree. I'd like to think we've advanced a
- 24:24Speaker 1: little further than when this was tried the first and
- 24:26Speaker 1: second time. I don't know. I think in some areas
- 24:32Speaker 1: we have I think in other areas we've probably regressed.
- 24:35Speaker 1: I would hope to think that this was handled a
- 24:37Speaker 1: little bit differently though, But I'm interested in getting into this,
- 24:41Speaker 1: so I'm interested in hearing. You know, let's let's get
- 24:44Speaker 1: started with you know, your your spot on their owner.
- 24:47Speaker 2: Well, let's get started. I do want to give a
- 24:49Speaker 2: trigger warning. I'm sure you've heard about Kyle and Eric
- 24:54Speaker 2: Menindez and the Menindaz brothers case, but there is a
- 25:00Speaker 2: lot of disturbing information. We are not going to get
- 25:03Speaker 2: into the details, but I do want everyone to know
- 25:07Speaker 2: if sexual assault, emotional abuse, child abuse, I mean, any
- 25:12Speaker 2: of that triggers you, come back and ze us next week.
- 25:16Speaker 2: This is not the time for us. I can't even
- 25:19Speaker 2: tell you when to come back because unfortunately this case
- 25:23Speaker 2: is filled with it.
- 25:25Speaker 1: So yeah, yeah.
- 25:28Speaker 2: Lyle was born on January tenth in New York in
- 25:32Speaker 2: nineteen sixty eight. I was just a gleam in my
- 25:35Speaker 2: parent's eye. But and Eric was born on November twenty seventh,
- 25:40Speaker 2: nineteen seventy in New Jersey. Now I was four months
- 25:45Speaker 2: old then, so you know who knows, but their parents
- 25:49Speaker 2: are say anything. Jose and Kitty Mania.
- 25:57Speaker 1: I gave you that knife block said I should shut up.
- 25:59Speaker 1: That's what that is.
- 26:02Speaker 2: Look at that photo.
- 26:03Speaker 1: It's adorable. It is so cute. I am sure that
- 26:07Speaker 1: I have photos like that holding my brother.
- 26:12Speaker 2: Yeah, oh that's right, you're the oldest.
- 26:17Speaker 1: I am the oldest, yes, probably because I act like
- 26:21Speaker 1: it minus the daredevil. But for the most part, you know,
- 26:26Speaker 1: I'm pretty responsible, although you know, being a single military dad,
- 26:32Speaker 1: my brother's pretty damn responsible, so you know, and he's.
- 26:36Speaker 2: Kind of attractive. But we're going to move on. Jose
- 26:41Speaker 2: was a self made Cuban immigrant who worked very hard
- 26:45Speaker 2: and became very successful. And I'm going to be honest
- 26:49Speaker 2: and think because he was an immigrant and he worked
- 26:53Speaker 2: so hard for that American dream, it led to him
- 26:56Speaker 2: having very high expectations for a while. Eric, I also
- 27:01Speaker 2: want to say Kitty, because we don't talk a lot
- 27:04Speaker 2: about it.
- 27:06Speaker 4: But.
- 27:07Speaker 2: There is so many things I read that make me
- 27:12Speaker 2: think that she also suffered abuse controlling, and she was,
- 27:18Speaker 2: but I can't excuse her because she did a lot
- 27:20Speaker 2: of bad things too. So but their dad was a
- 27:25Speaker 2: strict disciplinarian and guys, he demanded total perfection, and I
- 27:31Speaker 2: am just going to say, there is nothing that can
- 27:37Speaker 2: be done perfect. I'm sorry. We are humans. We are
- 27:40Speaker 2: not meant to be perfect. I don't care how hard
- 27:43Speaker 2: we try, but Jose expected them to be perfect in
- 27:46Speaker 2: school and athletics.
- 27:50Speaker 1: It's it's a total nightmare. I mean, you know, I
- 27:55Speaker 1: just did a little bit of research kind of seeing
- 27:57Speaker 1: kind of how this was playing out in terms of
- 28:00Speaker 1: his role with them, and that kind of parenting has
- 28:03Speaker 1: the complete opposite effect, And you know, I was looking
- 28:06Speaker 1: at it, and the NIH says that basically demanding perfection
- 28:09Speaker 1: from a child can lead to significant negative effects, including anxiety,
- 28:14Speaker 1: low self esteem, fear of failure, tendency to self criticize,
- 28:17Speaker 1: and a reluctance to take risks. And as children internalize
- 28:21Speaker 1: that message that they're only valued when they're flawless, this
- 28:25Speaker 1: hinders their overall development and well being. You know, I
- 28:28Speaker 1: think a lot of times, working towards becoming an adult
- 28:32Speaker 1: is about what Miss Frizzle says, which is taking chances,
- 28:35Speaker 1: getting messy, you know what I mean, Like, you got
- 28:37Speaker 1: to take chances, you got to make mistakes in order
- 28:39Speaker 1: to learn from them. And if you're always supposed to
- 28:41Speaker 1: be perfect, I mean, no, it's not going to happen.
- 28:44Speaker 1: But I mean I already have enough on my plate
- 28:47Speaker 1: with imposter syndrome and recovering Catholicism, A thank you, so
- 28:50Speaker 1: I do not need any more.
- 28:53Speaker 2: You got that Catholic guilt. I got the same.
- 28:56Speaker 1: I mean it is perpetual.
- 29:01Speaker 2: Company that one of our things in our employee hook says,
- 29:05Speaker 2: to be successful, you have to fail sometimes, and we
- 29:09Speaker 2: want you to fail because you will not be successful
- 29:13Speaker 2: and be the best you if you don't fail. Right,
- 29:18Speaker 2: and considering it is Lent, I can say with the Catholicism,
- 29:24Speaker 2: when I told my mom back in two thousand and seven,
- 29:28Speaker 2: I think that I was giving up the Catholic religion
- 29:31Speaker 2: for Lent, she did not laugh. And I will say
- 29:36Speaker 2: I have continued that through to today.
- 29:41Speaker 1: You're very committed towards Lent so much. You made it
- 29:43Speaker 1: three hundred and sixty five, all right.
- 29:45Speaker 2: But I mean, I you know, but I still got
- 29:49Speaker 2: Catholic guilt now. Lyle was known to be the more
- 29:53Speaker 2: rebellious and a bit of a troublemaker, while Eric shrink
- 29:58Speaker 2: and his brother shadow but guys. Eric was the dynamic
- 30:03Speaker 2: and very talented tennis player. But I think all of
- 30:07Speaker 2: us that are younger siblings, unlike JT. There's that dynamic,
- 30:13Speaker 2: you know, there's the older sibling. I mean your brother.
- 30:16Speaker 2: You think highly of him, but he probably wanted to
- 30:20Speaker 2: be like you, So he probably shrinked just a little
- 30:23Speaker 2: bit because I think that's the natural thing that we do.
- 30:28Speaker 2: JT's not buying it.
- 30:30Speaker 1: No, I I you know there, I am very self
- 30:34Speaker 1: aware in terms of like wherever I went, he was
- 30:38Speaker 1: going to follow, specifically in terms not not like literally,
- 30:41Speaker 1: but like in terms of school, right like when high school.
- 30:44Speaker 1: When I had high school, he was still two grades back.
- 30:47Speaker 1: And eventually he made it in and he had the
- 30:48Speaker 1: same teachers I did, and they were like, oh, you're
- 30:50Speaker 1: he was always JT's little brother, and so he had
- 30:53Speaker 1: to kind of he very much did kind of do
- 30:57Speaker 1: his own thing. And it wasn't until like junior or
- 31:01Speaker 1: senior year where he kind of decided to not bring
- 31:04Speaker 1: so much into a wallflower but to comp out there.
- 31:08Speaker 1: It just happened to be in silver tights on a stage,
- 31:12Speaker 1: which was like my spot, but you know, that was
- 31:15Speaker 1: the thing. That's what he decided to do, and eventually
- 31:18Speaker 1: he came into his own. But I can totally one
- 31:21Speaker 1: hundred percent see how being a second kid is, or
- 31:25Speaker 1: a third or a fourth is really really difficult.
- 31:29Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, and they were raised in a wealthy
- 31:32Speaker 2: home in New Jersey, guys. And then they moved to Calabasas,
- 31:35Speaker 2: California in nineteen eighty seven. We all know what Calabasas,
- 31:40Speaker 2: California is. I mean, we all know who the Kardashians are,
- 31:44Speaker 2: even if you don't follow them, because I don't. But
- 31:49Speaker 2: the family then later moved to Beverly Hills. I do know,
- 31:52Speaker 2: nine oh two one ol. But the reason they moved
- 31:57Speaker 2: to Beverly Hills from Calabasas is because Loll and Eric
- 32:00Speaker 2: were caught breaking into houses in the neighborhood. Guys, I'm
- 32:06Speaker 2: going to just tell you, with what was going on
- 32:08Speaker 2: in their home, that was a cry for help. You
- 32:13Speaker 2: can all disagree with me, but that was a cry
- 32:15Speaker 2: for help. Now, I just want to say this next
- 32:19Speaker 2: thing is not a shame. I find it very enduring
- 32:25Speaker 2: and I too can say I had some of this.
- 32:29Speaker 2: Lyle had a very large collection of stuffed animals and
- 32:32Speaker 2: he was very attached to them, and he still played
- 32:35Speaker 2: with them into his late teens. Guys, he was teased
- 32:39Speaker 2: by others when they found out. And in high school
- 32:43Speaker 2: he had his first girlfriend and he wrote her a
- 32:46Speaker 2: letter saying that he loved her, and so did all
- 32:50Speaker 2: of his stuffed animals. Guys, that is sweet. That that
- 32:57Speaker 2: is a huge red flag because that is who he
- 33:02Speaker 2: felt safe with. It was those stuffed animals.
- 33:07Speaker 1: So it's gonna come up again. I want two things.
- 33:09Speaker 1: I want to say this one thing and then I
- 33:10Speaker 1: want to I'll give it an admission, which is gonna make
- 33:14Speaker 1: everybody fall on the flour laughing. So this this thing
- 33:17Speaker 1: with the stuff animals is gonna come up when we
- 33:19Speaker 1: talk about the trial. And I'm sure lyle was like
- 33:21Speaker 1: ssuched to have this disgust in court. Probably not at
- 33:25Speaker 1: that point, but you know, hopefully the prison wasn't watching.
- 33:29Speaker 1: So I get it. Like sometimes, like in high school,
- 33:34Speaker 1: I didn't have a girlfriend. I had a girl I
- 33:36Speaker 1: was interested in, and you know, it was Valentine's Day
- 33:40Speaker 1: and I listen, I love I love Papa Bruce Crime
- 33:43Speaker 1: so much. But this time he did me dirty and
- 33:46Speaker 1: he said, you know what you should do. You should
- 33:48Speaker 1: write a letter and get her a Yanni CD. That
- 33:52Speaker 1: was a terrible idea. Nobody knew. Listen, y'all, if you
- 33:57Speaker 1: could see the faces or face then I just got
- 34:02Speaker 1: I would have.
- 34:02Speaker 2: Loved it if you would have done it. She was
- 34:04Speaker 2: the wrong female. If she did not appreciate it. She
- 34:07Speaker 2: just wasn't the best.
- 34:08Speaker 1: Now she was, obviously, and and and because I was
- 34:12Speaker 1: a freshman, I was a little pisant freshman. But but
- 34:16Speaker 1: it was like one step down from John Tesh like that.
- 34:20Speaker 2: That even just good this there's nothing.
- 34:25Speaker 1: Wrong with him. I'm just captain said it. Captain. Captain
- 34:29Speaker 1: said it best. She said, was this girl a middle
- 34:32Speaker 1: aged woman? No, no, listen, do you see what I'm
- 34:38Speaker 1: dressed in right listen? I didn't know that that was
- 34:40Speaker 1: confusion at that point, but I was just confused forever.
- 34:46Speaker 5: There are chapters in my life. I will let you continue.
- 34:51Speaker 1: So sorry, I know.
- 34:52Speaker 2: And I'm going to just tell mister Daddy brew crime.
- 34:54Speaker 2: You know what, I can't wait swam drinks. But Eric,
- 34:57Speaker 2: on the other hand, was said to be soft hearted
- 35:00Speaker 2: and guys, he left everything living and he even hated
- 35:05Speaker 2: to break a tree branch because he knew it would
- 35:08Speaker 2: hurt the tree. So you call it whatever you want.
- 35:12Speaker 2: But he was said to be very empathetic and he
- 35:15Speaker 2: even wrote poetry. And after they broke got caught breaking
- 35:21Speaker 2: into those houses, he started doing charity work and started
- 35:25Speaker 2: going to a therapist.
- 35:28Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I mean like overall, I just like, I
- 35:37Speaker 1: want to know who said these things, Like it's it's
- 35:40Speaker 1: quite a dramatic sence. The media. The media said these
- 35:45Speaker 1: things because they basically turned Eric into a Disney princess,
- 35:48Speaker 1: singing to birds and weeping over a twig that was
- 35:50Speaker 1: broken and helping Nemo find his dad. So you got
- 35:56Speaker 1: stuffed animals and then the Disney and like I just right.
- 36:01Speaker 2: Now, but I'm saying those are red flags. But Jose,
- 36:06Speaker 2: as we can all imagine, hated the soft side of
- 36:09Speaker 2: Eric and constantly belittled him. He wanted his son to
- 36:14Speaker 2: be this awesome tennis player and did not want him.
- 36:19Speaker 2: He basically wanted him to grow up to be a dick.
- 36:21Speaker 2: Sorry excuse my language, but that's what he wanted. He
- 36:23Speaker 2: wanted him to be self absorbed and not care about anything,
- 36:27Speaker 2: and that's just not the way it was. Now. Kitty
- 36:31Speaker 2: was known to have a history of drinking and pil addiction,
- 36:35Speaker 2: and she never stood up for Lyle or Eric against
- 36:39Speaker 2: their dad as they were growing up. So I said,
- 36:43Speaker 2: I am going to just say I believe she was
- 36:45Speaker 2: a victim of abuse and something happened along the way
- 36:49Speaker 2: before the kids come along. But we don't know. Now,
- 36:54Speaker 2: these boys may have had all of the objects of
- 36:58Speaker 2: wealth and everything that money could buy, but guys, let's
- 37:03Speaker 2: be honest, they did not have a great childhood. They
- 37:08Speaker 2: did not have that loving and accepting childhood. In my opinion, Yeah,
- 37:15Speaker 2: I mean, I.
- 37:16Speaker 1: Just don't agree with all of that. Yeah, no, I
- 37:19Speaker 1: agree with all that. I think. I think the trouble
- 37:21Speaker 1: overall is kind of the information who we get it
- 37:23Speaker 1: from and who's still trying to keep up that facad.
- 37:26Speaker 1: I mean this, these these are troubled people, and and
- 37:30Speaker 1: and people assume kind of folks with money live this
- 37:34Speaker 1: charmed life. But it's a third Eyeblind informed us that
- 37:39Speaker 1: it's a semi charmed life, and I agree with that.
- 37:43Speaker 1: Not everything is perfect and so.
- 37:46Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, it's just like all the little girls
- 37:50Speaker 2: that want to grow up and live in a prince
- 37:52Speaker 2: and a castle. Do you really want to live in
- 37:55Speaker 2: a castle because a castle is nothing but a fishball.
- 38:01Speaker 1: I have one thing to say to those girls, let
- 38:03Speaker 1: it go. Let it go.
- 38:07Speaker 2: So I wouldn't go okay, okay, I could sing it all,
- 38:12Speaker 2: but look at that family photo. And this may be
- 38:15Speaker 2: taky of me, but I think in the dictionary if
- 38:20Speaker 2: you look at a functional family, they should put that photo.
- 38:24Speaker 1: Well, I mean, we don't want to listen, let's not
- 38:27Speaker 1: talk J C. Pennies down too much. They had they
- 38:29Speaker 1: did some decent portraits.
- 38:31Speaker 2: No, I'm not talking about the photo. I'm talking about
- 38:34Speaker 2: the people in the photo.
- 38:37Speaker 1: In the photo, yeah, probably.
- 38:39Speaker 2: But Lady and Gray just brought up what I was
- 38:43Speaker 2: getting ready to say. They are not touching. They are
- 38:47Speaker 2: standing away from each other. That is like a business
- 38:52Speaker 2: photo op that you do as board members and you
- 38:56Speaker 2: don't really know each other, so you don't touch. That
- 38:59Speaker 2: is not a lie having family photo.
- 39:10Speaker 1: Yes, Alma said they had that seers money. It's just
- 39:14Speaker 1: like it. It is very much a there There is
- 39:19Speaker 1: no there is no non there's no contact, right, there's
- 39:22Speaker 1: none of that physical contact. There's In fact, I would
- 39:25Speaker 1: say they're probably four to six inches away from each
- 39:27Speaker 1: other for the most part and not touching anybody. And
- 39:31Speaker 1: you know, it really speaks a lot more more than
- 39:34Speaker 1: just them trying to like put on an act, you
- 39:37Speaker 1: know what I mean. So yep, all right, So let's
- 39:48Speaker 1: kind of talk about the crime. The crime scene. So
- 39:54Speaker 1: a few days before the murders, there was an ultimatum
- 39:57Speaker 1: to Eric, and Jose had told Eric that he was
- 40:01Speaker 1: going to be required to spend several nights a week
- 40:03Speaker 1: at home while he was attending UCLA. Not great for
- 40:10Speaker 1: Eric because he was looking forward to meanway, Eric testified
- 40:16Speaker 1: that that news shattered his dream of going away and
- 40:20Speaker 1: escaping his dad. And five days before the murders, Eric
- 40:24Speaker 1: disclosed to Lyle that their father had been sexually abusing
- 40:27Speaker 1: him for years. And we're going to talk a little
- 40:31Speaker 1: more about what that ended, that timeline looked like in
- 40:35Speaker 1: terms of when he said it and things like that later.
- 40:39Speaker 2: I mean, I just want us to all stop and
- 40:41Speaker 2: think and imagine how hard that conversation was. Okay, because
- 40:48Speaker 2: I'm going to just be honest. Is someone who's had
- 40:50Speaker 2: to have a conversation like that with family members, I'm
- 40:53Speaker 2: going to tell you it's gout wrenching and brutal for
- 40:56Speaker 2: Eric to have to look at his brother and say,
- 40:59Speaker 2: our dad has been doing this to me, and he's
- 41:02Speaker 2: a male. The stigma of family abuse, you know, essay abuse,
- 41:10Speaker 2: it's hard for women. I think when you add that
- 41:13Speaker 2: male component to it, it is even harder for males
- 41:20Speaker 2: to admit that because most people look at them and say, oh,
- 41:24Speaker 2: you're an athlete, you should have been strong enough to
- 41:27Speaker 2: stop it, and that adds even more trauma.
- 41:34Speaker 1: Yeah, oh absolutely, It's immediately a blame game. And then
- 41:38Speaker 1: if you don't think the victim is already blaming themselves,
- 41:41Speaker 1: you're just you're kidding yourself.
- 41:43Speaker 2: So people stop it, don't do that.
- 41:48Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah. So August fifteenth, nineteen eighty nine, Lyle confronted
- 41:55Speaker 1: Jose about the abuse while Eric was out of the house,
- 41:58Speaker 1: and he told Lyle to go back to Princeton, forget
- 42:01Speaker 1: the conversation and not ruin his life over it now.
- 42:06Speaker 1: When Lyle insisted that the abuse would stop, Jose ominously responded, quote,
- 42:14Speaker 1: You've made your decision, and Eric's made his, and now
- 42:17Speaker 1: I have to make mine. After the confrontation, Jose left
- 42:23Speaker 1: for a business trip. Now, upon returning, he went to
- 42:26Speaker 1: Eric's room and furiously screamed at him, and he said,
- 42:31Speaker 1: I warned you never to tell Lyle. I told you
- 42:35Speaker 1: never to tell Lyle. It's all your fault. Now Lyle's
- 42:39Speaker 1: going to tell everyone, and I'm not going to let
- 42:41Speaker 1: that happen. I can't believe you did this.
- 42:45Speaker 4: Now.
- 42:46Speaker 1: Eric testified that this, along with years of threats led
- 42:50Speaker 1: him to believe that his parents were going to kill him.
- 42:54Speaker 2: I mean, JT, let's be honest. I think Eric is
- 42:59Speaker 2: right to fear that because now that we've been doing
- 43:02Speaker 2: true crime for so many years, how many cases have
- 43:05Speaker 2: we covered where users take the life of someone because
- 43:10Speaker 2: they want to keep their dirty secret. So I am
- 43:13Speaker 2: not shaming Eric because I think he was justified. If
- 43:17Speaker 2: this would have gone on another couple of weeks, we
- 43:20Speaker 2: could be covering a different Menendez case.
- 43:24Speaker 1: Yes, yes, I think so. I agree with you. Now.
- 43:29Speaker 1: August eighteenth, nineteen eighty nine, which was just three days later,
- 43:35Speaker 1: two days before the murders, Lyle's twenty one Eric eighteen
- 43:39Speaker 1: attempted to buy firearms. Now. They tried purchasing the guns
- 43:42Speaker 1: at multiple stores in LA, but they were told handguns
- 43:45Speaker 1: could not be purchased immediately.
- 43:48Speaker 2: And I'm okay with that, guys. I'm a gun owner,
- 43:51Speaker 2: I'm a Texas girl. I think there should be a
- 43:53Speaker 2: five day waiting period for all gun sales because if
- 43:58Speaker 2: there's somebody who's upset and angry, that's a pretty good
- 44:01Speaker 2: cooling off period, and it also keeps you from that
- 44:04Speaker 2: impulsive buying.
- 44:07Speaker 1: Yes, did you feel all of the collective digital eyeballs
- 44:11Speaker 1: turning towards the Texan Then, is that for you? They
- 44:14Speaker 1: were like waiting for permission.
- 44:16Speaker 2: Yeah, guys, I was born and raised in Texas, and
- 44:19Speaker 2: do not shame me for that.
- 44:23Speaker 1: There's no shame, right, everybody else does that? Enough from Texas.
- 44:28Speaker 1: They shame themselves.
- 44:29Speaker 2: It's fine you at least I'm pink Sparkly and I
- 44:34Speaker 2: spread glitter everywhere.
- 44:36Speaker 1: We love it, Sparkle Puss. So they drove to San Diego. Well,
- 44:43Speaker 1: I mean you said it. I thought I would. They
- 44:46Speaker 1: drove to San Diego where a store requested identification. They
- 44:50Speaker 1: left that store to avoid suspicion and instead went to
- 44:53Speaker 1: a third store. It's like they asked and the person
- 44:56Speaker 1: asked for the identification. They went, oood, I didn't know
- 44:58Speaker 1: that was a part of it. Then they purchased. So
- 45:01Speaker 1: they went to that third store. They purchased two shotguns
- 45:03Speaker 1: using false identification and fake addresses. Eric lied to the
- 45:07Speaker 1: clerk about a mismatched address, claiming he had recently moved,
- 45:11Speaker 1: which I mean that's quick thinking on his part. Now,
- 45:15Speaker 1: after the purchase, they drove back to la and they
- 45:17Speaker 1: attempted to practice shooting fire range actually turned them away
- 45:21Speaker 1: for trying to use shotguns. They were told that their
- 45:25Speaker 1: bird shot ammunition was ineffective for stopping a person fascinating,
- 45:31Speaker 1: so they decided to purchase buckshot ammunition, which was designed
- 45:35Speaker 1: for maximum lethality. Now, the next day, the day before
- 45:43Speaker 1: the murders, the family went on a planned fishing trip. Now,
- 45:46Speaker 1: despite allegedly fearing their parents, Eric and Lyle left their
- 45:50Speaker 1: new shotguns at home as they were too large to conceal.
- 45:53Speaker 1: As you know, that is the brothers had little interaction
- 45:57Speaker 1: with their parents during the trip that night. Correct, unless
- 46:02Speaker 1: they're a person with bird bones, absolutely, they're also really
- 46:06Speaker 1: hard to hit because you just have to as they're
- 46:08Speaker 1: flying by, you got to kind of lead them. And
- 46:10Speaker 1: then there's always that dog that's getting in the way
- 46:13Speaker 1: going So for those of you who enjoy a little okay,
- 46:19Speaker 1: So they left him at home. They had very little
- 46:22Speaker 1: interaction with their parents during the trip, which is really
- 46:24Speaker 1: awkward on a boat. I'm sure that night actually Jose
- 46:28Speaker 1: pounded on Eric's bedroom door. Eric refused to open it
- 46:31Speaker 1: because he feared his father. Now, on August twentieth, the
- 46:36Speaker 1: day of the murders, in the morning, Lyle called his
- 46:39Speaker 1: friend Perry Berman and made plans to meet at the
- 46:43Speaker 1: Taste of La Food festival, which sounds yummy. I'm obviously hungry.
- 46:47Speaker 1: Lyle told Berman that they would see Batman first and
- 46:51Speaker 1: then meet up, but they never went to the movie
- 46:54Speaker 1: or the festival, which is sad because I'm pretty sure
- 46:57Speaker 1: that that was Michael Keaton's Batman with Jack Nicholson as
- 47:01Speaker 1: the Joker, and I'm pretty sure that's one of the
- 47:04Speaker 1: best of all time. That's not the point.
- 47:07Speaker 2: So the fact that you know that is making me
- 47:12Speaker 2: question so many things right now.
- 47:15Speaker 1: Listen, I told you, like the tiebreaker for the quiz
- 47:19Speaker 1: for My Ship on a Stick, which still sits here,
- 47:22Speaker 1: was the one of the first breakthrough movies of DreamWorks,
- 47:25Speaker 1: and I knew the year.
- 47:26Speaker 4: So.
- 47:29Speaker 1: I can't remember when we're recording, but I can remember that.
- 47:33Speaker 2: I can't remember that either.
- 47:34Speaker 1: So so in terms of the evening confrontation, Lyle argued
- 47:40Speaker 1: with jose and Kitty about their plans to go out.
- 47:42Speaker 1: Jose told Eric to go to his room, which Eric
- 47:45Speaker 1: interpreted as a precursor to abuse. And I'm gonna be
- 47:49Speaker 1: honest with you, and I didn't write this down, but
- 47:52Speaker 1: I'm not surprised that that's what he thought, because how
- 47:55Speaker 1: many times must that have happened, you know, over you know,
- 48:00Speaker 1: Eric's lifetime. Eric hesitated, and then he overheard Lyle say,
- 48:07Speaker 1: you're not going to touch Eric. You're not going to
- 48:09Speaker 1: touch my little brother. You're never going to touch him again.
- 48:15Speaker 1: Jose and Kitty then went into the den closed all
- 48:17Speaker 1: the doors.
- 48:19Speaker 2: So so was Kitty standing there when Lyle told his dad,
- 48:27Speaker 2: You're never going to touch my little brother again. Because
- 48:30Speaker 2: when we say they went into the den and closed
- 48:32Speaker 2: the door, was she standing there and heard that and
- 48:35Speaker 2: didn't protect her kids?
- 48:38Speaker 1: Or do we know? I don't remember. It's not a
- 48:42Speaker 1: matter of whether we know or not. I don't. I
- 48:45Speaker 1: don't remember. I could see it happening in two ways.
- 48:50Speaker 1: You know, that whole confrontation happens, and then she walks
- 48:53Speaker 1: in and he decides to remove her from that situation,
- 48:56Speaker 1: so they go into the den and close the doors.
- 48:58Speaker 1: But I also can see that totally happening to where
- 49:01Speaker 1: she was there, and I'll learn a little bit later
- 49:03Speaker 1: on that that might not have made a difference to her.
- 49:09Speaker 1: So in terms of the final decision that night, Eric
- 49:14Speaker 1: told Lyle, I'm not going to my room tonight. I
- 49:17Speaker 1: can't let him come into my room. I can't let
- 49:19Speaker 1: this happen. And Lyle, who was pale and shaking, told Eric,
- 49:23Speaker 1: it's happening now. They were waiting for me to get home,
- 49:26Speaker 1: and it's happening now. They were. Eric retrieved his shotgun
- 49:34Speaker 1: from his bedroom closet. He went to the car. He
- 49:38Speaker 1: removed the ineffective bird shot and he loaded it with buckshot.
- 49:42Speaker 1: Lyle joined Eric at the car and also loaded his shotgun. Now,
- 49:47Speaker 1: around ten PM, Jose and Kitty were unarmed in the den.
- 49:52Speaker 1: They were watching television and eating. Eric and Lyle burst
- 49:56Speaker 1: into the den and fired between thirteen teen shotgun blasts. Now,
- 50:04Speaker 1: we're gonna show you some photos. I promise you that
- 50:07Speaker 1: there are no This is not overtly. We are not
- 50:12Speaker 1: sensationalizing this in any way, shape or form. If there
- 50:15Speaker 1: is anything else in addition to the scene, it's blurred,
- 50:20Speaker 1: and we'll probably we'll probably put up that. We'll do
- 50:22Speaker 1: a warning about that a little later too. But Eric
- 50:25Speaker 1: testified that he immediately started shooting upon entering, without stopping
- 50:29Speaker 1: to assess the scene. Now, after the initial round of gunfire,
- 50:32Speaker 1: the brothers left the house. They went to the car
- 50:35Speaker 1: and Lyle reloaded. The final shot, which was apparently fired
- 50:40Speaker 1: while Kitty was still alive, was done while the muzzle
- 50:45Speaker 1: of the shotgun was in contact with her left cheek.
- 50:49Speaker 1: Jose also suffered a contact gunshot wound to the head.
- 50:54Speaker 1: Jose in total suffered four gunshot wounds, while Kitty was
- 50:59Speaker 1: shot nine times. Jose's legs sustained gunshot wounds inflicted post mortem.
- 51:08Speaker 1: Both parents die, as you can imagine, died at the
- 51:10Speaker 1: scene for multiple gunshot wounds. Detective Dan Stewart, which I
- 51:16Speaker 1: do want to say, Detective Dan is just it's the
- 51:20Speaker 1: it's in a great name for a detective. But Detective
- 51:24Speaker 1: Dan Stewart a retired huh.
- 51:27Speaker 2: I said, it is a great name for a detective.
- 51:31Speaker 1: It's very close to Lieutenant Dan ice Cream. That's what
- 51:35Speaker 1: I think of, all right. So he Dan was a
- 51:39Speaker 1: retired Beverly Hills police detective. And you can see the
- 51:41Speaker 1: quote here. I've seen a lot of homicides, but nothing
- 51:45Speaker 1: quite that brutal. Blood flesh, skulls. It would be hard
- 51:48Speaker 1: to describe, especially Jose, as resembling a human that you
- 51:52Speaker 1: would recognize. That's how bad it was. And this was
- 51:55Speaker 1: not a it's not a huge I mean it's it's
- 51:57Speaker 1: it's a big area. But but people tend to no
- 52:00Speaker 1: people and people knew Jose and I'm sure that that
- 52:04Speaker 1: was quite a shock to see him that way. Yeah.
- 52:07Speaker 2: Now, the crime scene was horrific and it was brutal,
- 52:12Speaker 2: But I have to say, back when it happened and
- 52:15Speaker 2: they released the photos, all I can remember thinking was
- 52:22Speaker 2: how angry and hurt those boys had to have been
- 52:28Speaker 2: to do that, so all of that built up in
- 52:32Speaker 2: them and feeling that that was the only way they
- 52:37Speaker 2: could survive was to kill their parents.
- 52:42Speaker 1: Yeah, I I you know, obviously I'm going to show
- 52:46Speaker 1: my non age, but that's not to make anybody feel bad.
- 52:51Speaker 1: But the thing is is like if I was twenty
- 52:53Speaker 1: years older than I was at the time, I just wonder,
- 52:56Speaker 1: like I wonder how I would have felt about it
- 53:00Speaker 1: if I was like twenty two, you know, at that
- 53:03Speaker 1: point in the eight in the late eighties. There's a
- 53:08Speaker 1: lot of things that I think about with this case,
- 53:10Speaker 1: and that is you know, one of those things is
- 53:13Speaker 1: what the hell would I have thought about all of this?
- 53:16Speaker 2: I mean, if you think about it, we watch TV shows,
- 53:21Speaker 2: of course those are drama where a girl has been kidnapped,
- 53:25Speaker 2: chained up and abused and she breaks free and we
- 53:29Speaker 2: all are rooting for her to beat the hell out
- 53:32Speaker 2: of the person who took her captive and did that
- 53:35Speaker 2: to her. We are cheering her on to release all
- 53:40Speaker 2: of that. You just need to stop and think. This
- 53:43Speaker 2: is kind of the same thing. They released all of
- 53:47Speaker 2: that on it. And I think, once you start, how
- 53:51Speaker 2: do you stop? Just like when you're in an argument
- 53:54Speaker 2: with somebody and you start screaming, it's kind of hard
- 53:56Speaker 2: to stop and roll yourself back, or at least it
- 53:59Speaker 2: is for me.
- 54:01Speaker 1: And and I know, I know, we'll talk about this later,
- 54:05Speaker 1: But they weren't. They weren't stupid. They were smart kids.
- 54:09Speaker 1: They were smart kids. Whether whether they did well in
- 54:12Speaker 1: school or not, there's two there's multiple types of smarts.
- 54:15Speaker 1: They were smart kids. And I truly, I truly think
- 54:21Speaker 1: that you know, if if if you said none of
- 54:25Speaker 1: the abuse happened, and you said they just wanted the money,
- 54:28Speaker 1: I think that they're way smarter than that, right than
- 54:32Speaker 1: to do that for that purpose, right, it certainly good
- 54:39Speaker 1: reason when they know eventually or somehow they could get it.
- 54:42Speaker 2: I believe it would have been quick, down and dirty
- 54:44Speaker 2: and easy, one shot out of there if you wanted
- 54:47Speaker 2: the money. Let's just be honest.
- 54:49Speaker 1: Yeah, that would have been mean. Yes, I mean the
- 54:54Speaker 1: one shot thing would have been the perfect mafia situation
- 54:59Speaker 1: in shot out much. I mean the overkill was very personal.
- 55:06Speaker 2: Yeah. Now, on that evening of August eighteenth, Lyle called
- 55:11Speaker 2: nine one one and reported that someone killed us parents.
- 55:16Speaker 2: And we do have the phone call to listen to.
- 55:20Speaker 2: But I want to advise everyone. It is being played
- 55:23Speaker 2: over video footage of the crime scene, but the bodies
- 55:27Speaker 2: are blurred out.
- 55:40Speaker 6: What's the problem. So what's the problem.
- 55:45Speaker 7: What's the problem?
- 55:47Speaker 6: As I got.
- 55:54Speaker 2: The people.
- 55:58Speaker 7: When they shot still not when they shot that, if.
- 56:02Speaker 6: They were shocked, I'm gonna I want whatever that I
- 56:16Speaker 6: was a person I was trying to get further editing
- 56:19Speaker 6: at the science. If the persons still there, what happened?
- 56:29Speaker 6: We have you dal what happened? Shot? Boo? Wait, look
- 56:35Speaker 6: at you he came home and from grew shot. Yeah,
- 56:40Speaker 6: you know, if they're still in the half the people
- 56:42Speaker 6: that did the shooting. Yeah, okay, let me talk to Eric.
- 56:54Speaker 6: Let me let me pose the person that he was
- 56:55Speaker 6: shot my rather mom and dad. Okay, hold on a checkond, Okay,
- 57:05Speaker 6: we're on the ambulance.
- 57:13Speaker 2: It is brutal every time I listen to it, And
- 57:17Speaker 2: I'm going to just say, I've heard so many people
- 57:19Speaker 2: say that they were acting. Yes, they were to some degree,
- 57:25Speaker 2: but I also think a lot of them true emotions
- 57:28Speaker 2: came out.
- 57:30Speaker 1: Ye can I say? I just I'm thinking about it,
- 57:36Speaker 1: and I'm like, I don't know if they so much
- 57:39Speaker 1: were acting as people misinterpreted what they had intended. Like
- 57:43Speaker 1: I think I quite honestly, And I've listened to that
- 57:48Speaker 1: a couple of times. Obviously we all have, but there's
- 57:51Speaker 1: a piece of me that's like that almost sounds like
- 57:54Speaker 1: emotional relief, like that's over. They probably also weren't aware
- 58:01Speaker 1: of the amount of damage that a shotgun could do
- 58:03Speaker 1: as well, if they'd never shot one or never really
- 58:08Speaker 1: had any reason to. But for the most part, and
- 58:11Speaker 1: my main point is, it sounds almost like an emotional
- 58:15Speaker 1: release from relief that something was over. And I think
- 58:20Speaker 1: that as people who are listening to that saying that
- 58:22Speaker 1: they're acting, I think it's them misinterpreting that emotion. I
- 58:25Speaker 1: think that's a true and warranted emotion. I just think
- 58:29Speaker 1: it's being misattributed to.
- 58:32Speaker 2: I agree, that's the crazy to say it. I also
- 58:36Speaker 2: think it was true emotions, but I also think they
- 58:38Speaker 2: felt a lot of guilt because they did love their parents.
- 58:43Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, it's complicated. People don't like complicated.
- 58:47Speaker 2: No, we don't.
- 58:49Speaker 8: Now.
- 58:49Speaker 2: The police at that time had several theories and potential suspects,
- 58:54Speaker 2: because let's just be honest, there was a lot of
- 58:57Speaker 2: people who did not like jose Menindetz. Okay, he was
- 59:01Speaker 2: not known to be a very nice person. So that
- 59:05Speaker 2: leads you to have a very a very large suspect
- 59:09Speaker 2: pull right now. Detective Zolar mentioned to his partner, he goes,
- 59:15Speaker 2: I wonder if the brothers killed their parents, And his
- 59:19Speaker 2: partner said what, and he goes, they almost seem too polite, right,
- 59:27Speaker 2: So I find that interesting because that's very intuitive, you know.
- 59:35Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, there's sorry. There are certain things like
- 59:40Speaker 1: I'm thinking about as we're talking about this, and I'm like,
- 59:43Speaker 1: there's also this era of they've been putting on a
- 59:45Speaker 1: face and a mask for so long that it just
- 59:49Speaker 1: hasn't dawned that they don't have to do that, right,
- 59:53Speaker 1: and so that role that they're playing, they're still playing,
- 59:56Speaker 1: and it's like a method actor who can't get out
- 59:58Speaker 1: of a role like Keith Ledger and the Joker, you know, yeah,
- 1:00:04Speaker 1: and he didn't. Yeah, we can talk about that another time,
- 1:00:08Speaker 1: but but yeah, I mean I think that that is
- 1:00:11Speaker 1: seriously some of this stuff that confuses people is because
- 1:00:14Speaker 1: they don't understand. Irving Goffman has an entire theory of
- 1:00:18Speaker 1: in front stage and backstage and the masks we wear
- 1:00:21Speaker 1: and the roles we play and things like that, and
- 1:00:24Speaker 1: it's very interesting to me as a communications person. But
- 1:00:29Speaker 1: they were always front stage, and when they were backstage
- 1:00:33Speaker 1: they were abused or mistreated. So they didn't have a backstage,
- 1:00:38Speaker 1: so they were always front of stage and it is
- 1:00:41Speaker 1: impossible to remove a mask when it is just stitched in.
- 1:00:48Speaker 2: Now, the police thought maybe the mob was involved, Okay,
- 1:00:53Speaker 2: so Lyle and Eric moved to a hotel and hired bodyguards,
- 1:00:58Speaker 2: and I'm an just say they probably felt safe having
- 1:01:03Speaker 2: those bodyguards even though they knew the mob wasn't coming
- 1:01:06Speaker 2: after them, let's be honest. Now, it took months before
- 1:01:09Speaker 2: the police started looking at the brothers, and it has
- 1:01:13Speaker 2: been said by a lot of people in the media
- 1:01:16Speaker 2: that due to police failures, the brothers were not looked
- 1:01:20Speaker 2: into earlier. I mean, I think we are always too
- 1:01:26Speaker 2: quick with twenty twenty to come back and give opinions,
- 1:01:32Speaker 2: you know, on that. But when Erica Miles started spending
- 1:01:36Speaker 2: excessive amounts of money, the police started truly suspecting the
- 1:01:41Speaker 2: brothers were involved. Okay, I mean three days after the murders,
- 1:01:47Speaker 2: the boys spent fifteen thousand dollars on three Rolex watches.
- 1:01:51Speaker 2: Those had to have been used. Ll Ale bought a
- 1:01:54Speaker 2: sixty four thousand dollars gun metal gray Push nine eleven
- 1:01:59Speaker 2: career and Eric was more sensible and bought a brand
- 1:02:04Speaker 2: new Jeep Wrangler. Shows you the opposite ends of the spectrum.
- 1:02:09Speaker 1: Right, I don't know, I don't know if that's sensible,
- 1:02:13Speaker 1: but all right, i'd.
- 1:02:15Speaker 2: Be compared to a Porsche Current. Yeah, But anyway, so
- 1:02:19Speaker 2: Lyle bought a restaurant named Chucks in Princeton, Princeton, New Jersey,
- 1:02:24Speaker 2: for five hundred and fifty thousand dollars. Sadly, he was
- 1:02:30Speaker 2: not a great businessman and he ran it into the ground.
- 1:02:34Speaker 2: But I don't say, but I mean, my first thought
- 1:02:38Speaker 2: is at least he spent money on something he thought
- 1:02:41Speaker 2: would bring in money and was an investment. Okay, I'm
- 1:02:45Speaker 2: just gonna say that. Now, Eric spent sixty thousand dollars
- 1:02:50Speaker 2: on a personal trainer to help him become a pro
- 1:02:54Speaker 2: tennis player. And guys, I'm going to just say that's
- 1:02:59Speaker 2: pretty check cheap. I mean, I guess I'm thinking about
- 1:03:02Speaker 2: in today's time. I saw a thing recently about a
- 1:03:07Speaker 2: tennis player and they said it was like one hundred
- 1:03:09Speaker 2: and fifty thousand a year.
- 1:03:12Speaker 1: So well, that's that's the equivalent to one hundred and
- 1:03:14Speaker 1: fifty two thousand this year.
- 1:03:17Speaker 2: Now. Lyle loved shopping and died it often. On one occasion,
- 1:03:21Speaker 2: he picked up twenty four thousand dollars in stereo equipment.
- 1:03:26Speaker 2: I mean, guys, seriously, it's a stereo. Just get a
- 1:03:29Speaker 2: moon box. But anyway, another time, you know what, And
- 1:03:34Speaker 2: I was like another time, Nope, forty thousand dollars in
- 1:03:39Speaker 2: close that one I could understand a little bit more,
- 1:03:41Speaker 2: but not really.
- 1:03:42Speaker 1: By the end of it all, Nope.
- 1:03:44Speaker 2: He had racked up ninety thousand dollars on his father's
- 1:03:48Speaker 2: American Express card. My question there is why wasn't the
- 1:03:54Speaker 2: card closed automatically upon death.
- 1:03:59Speaker 1: Here's well, I don't know, but I don't like did
- 1:04:07Speaker 1: the pants walk for him?
- 1:04:10Speaker 2: Because I know that's what I was like, that's a
- 1:04:12Speaker 2: lot of money. Unless you're buying address to go to
- 1:04:16Speaker 2: a gala that you're gonna wear once and then resell it.
- 1:04:20Speaker 2: That's a lot of money for clothes. That's just a
- 1:04:22Speaker 2: lot of money.
- 1:04:22Speaker 1: Also, and I know that this is this is your
- 1:04:25Speaker 1: kind of air. You did a lot of work on
- 1:04:27Speaker 1: this one, but like nineteen eighty nine, they're still like
- 1:04:30Speaker 1: charge it. Nothing was digital, right, so nothing could be
- 1:04:33Speaker 1: stopped right away. Yeah, and the.
- 1:04:37Speaker 2: Boys also went on several expensive vacations and managed to
- 1:04:42Speaker 2: rack up thousands of dollars in bills, partying with friends,
- 1:04:46Speaker 2: ordering room service and guys, that's nineteen eighty nine. And
- 1:04:51Speaker 2: we're gonna say, I do not do gas math. But
- 1:04:54Speaker 2: like JT just said, one hundred and fifty that, yeah,
- 1:04:57Speaker 2: that's a lot of flipping money.
- 1:05:00Speaker 1: That that is a throwback, ma'am. And I appreciate it.
- 1:05:04Speaker 1: But I listen, I had a hard enough time upgrading
- 1:05:08Speaker 1: missus Bruce Crime's ring on the cruise after ten years
- 1:05:10Speaker 1: of marriage. That's insane. But I did, I did. I did,
- 1:05:14Speaker 1: That's the important part.
- 1:05:15Speaker 2: I did, Okay, But I don't want to defend the
- 1:05:19Speaker 2: boys shopping spree because they were manic and shopping, but
- 1:05:24Speaker 2: I wanted to share that retail therapy is truly a thing.
- 1:05:30Speaker 2: It is recognized in the mental health world. I mean,
- 1:05:34Speaker 2: let's just be honest. What female me has it gone
- 1:05:38Speaker 2: shopping and participated in retail therapy when they're upset with
- 1:05:42Speaker 2: the other half? Yes, in previous marriages, Yes, I did, Yes,
- 1:05:48Speaker 2: I did. I mean retail therapy it's a mood booster.
- 1:05:52Speaker 2: It may be temporary, but it provides a sense of control. Okay,
- 1:05:59Speaker 2: but that'll kill you, and it's illegal. It also provides
- 1:06:03Speaker 2: a sense of control, like I said, and it gives
- 1:06:08Speaker 2: you a distraction and it lets you feel accomplished. Now,
- 1:06:14Speaker 2: I'm not a therapist. I do not play one on TV.
- 1:06:17Speaker 2: But I have spent hundreds, if not thousands of hours
- 1:06:20Speaker 2: in therapy, and I can say that retail therapy does
- 1:06:24Speaker 2: help because I mean, it's like a glass of wine.
- 1:06:29Speaker 2: It's just a short term solution, though, I mean, because
- 1:06:35Speaker 2: you get you can get addicted to that feeling.
- 1:06:39Speaker 1: I guess it's a glass of wine is a short
- 1:06:41Speaker 1: term solution unless you just keep the party going.
- 1:06:45Speaker 2: But I'm too old that one glass leads to another
- 1:06:49Speaker 2: another another. Okay, this is so random, but Belle again
- 1:06:57Speaker 2: said she just bought Clinique Black Cunning lipstick yesterday. I
- 1:07:01Speaker 2: just got mine in last week and I love it.
- 1:07:06Speaker 1: I love it. Ken I you tell that we are
- 1:07:09Speaker 1: looking for anything to distract us for just a quick break.
- 1:07:16Speaker 2: Guys, let's just go. So police finally did find a
- 1:07:20Speaker 2: link between the guns used and the brothers. Police discovered
- 1:07:24Speaker 2: that Lyle used his roommate stolen ID card to purchase
- 1:07:28Speaker 2: the guns. And please find out that Lyle hired a
- 1:07:33Speaker 2: computer guide to delete all of Kitty's files on her computer. Guys,
- 1:07:40Speaker 2: that was so that the older version of the Will
- 1:07:43Speaker 2: or Jose would be gone, or know that the older
- 1:07:47Speaker 2: one would be there and be the only Will, the
- 1:07:50Speaker 2: new one would not be there.
- 1:07:53Speaker 1: One did Lyle's roommate look the same as Lyle? I
- 1:07:57Speaker 1: don't think he did, so somebody didn't look at a picture.
- 1:08:00Speaker 1: And two is it possible? And I don't know if
- 1:08:13Speaker 1: we've actually I don't know if we talked about this,
- 1:08:15Speaker 1: But is it possible because I didn't read anything about
- 1:08:17Speaker 1: it that the computer guy they hired to get rid
- 1:08:20Speaker 1: of all of her files in order to have that
- 1:08:22Speaker 1: will Is it possible they also deleted a bunch of
- 1:08:25Speaker 1: stuff off a kiddies's computer. They could have gone to
- 1:08:28Speaker 1: proving what they.
- 1:08:28Speaker 2: Were probably probably And when you talk about the idea.
- 1:08:33Speaker 1: I don't know how. We're talking megabytes not gigs.
- 1:08:37Speaker 2: But you know, I'm going to admit this because I'm
- 1:08:40Speaker 2: going to guess the statche of limitations is out. So
- 1:08:45Speaker 2: back in nineteen eighty seven, one of my friends was
- 1:08:50Speaker 2: twenty one. She was fIF two, blonde hair and blue eyes.
- 1:08:58Speaker 2: I went down to the DMV and said I lost
- 1:09:01Speaker 2: my license. They took my picture and gave me a
- 1:09:06Speaker 2: new license, but I had given them her name.
- 1:09:14Speaker 1: This was This was nineteen eighty seven.
- 1:09:16Speaker 2: Uh huh. So I'm going to just say I know
- 1:09:19Speaker 2: that we don't you be putting that in there. Don't
- 1:09:24Speaker 2: you be putting that in there? But I did it
- 1:09:27Speaker 2: because I needed to be able to take drinks into
- 1:09:29Speaker 2: the Stomp and to be able to go to Club
- 1:09:32Speaker 2: sixty four hundred. Okay, let's just move on. Because I
- 1:09:35Speaker 2: did it. Now come at me because maybe a night
- 1:09:41Speaker 2: in jail wouldn't be so bad. I am sure somebody
- 1:09:44Speaker 2: on this podcast would help get me out of jail.
- 1:09:48Speaker 1: Hopefully I don't know you inspired her because she was
- 1:09:51Speaker 1: too good at her job.
- 1:09:52Speaker 2: So well double h wouldn't be he'd be like, yeah, girl,
- 1:09:56Speaker 2: don't be calling me to get you out of jail.
- 1:09:59Speaker 2: So now for you, my friend Eric called his therapist
- 1:10:05Speaker 2: and I'm going to just call him Mozelle. And he
- 1:10:09Speaker 2: started seeing this therapist after breaking into the houses. So
- 1:10:12Speaker 2: Azelle was helping him. But he asked to go for
- 1:10:16Speaker 2: a walk, which I think was smart because after walking
- 1:10:21Speaker 2: for a bit, Eric blurted out, we did it, okay.
- 1:10:28Speaker 2: And the reason I think he wanted to go for
- 1:10:30Speaker 2: a walk is because he was worried about somebody listening.
- 1:10:32Speaker 2: But that could just be me living in my true
- 1:10:34Speaker 2: crime brain. But Eric then went on to tell Azelle
- 1:10:39Speaker 2: how they planned the murder and that they felt it
- 1:10:42Speaker 2: was necessary to escape their parents. Now Lyle showed up
- 1:10:48Speaker 2: and joined in, and the pair did confess okay. Ozelle
- 1:10:53Speaker 2: set it up to tape the brothers in the future sessions,
- 1:10:58Speaker 2: and he held onto those tapes to protect himself, or
- 1:11:02Speaker 2: so he said. Anyway, and I think we have some
- 1:11:05Speaker 2: of that audio.
- 1:11:12Speaker 4: Other than my mother or were the two people that
- 1:11:19Speaker 4: a lot of And that's that doesn't matter what they
- 1:11:30Speaker 4: were all with the actually where were the defensive? Well,
- 1:11:37Speaker 4: I I be able to the time in my mind
- 1:11:41Speaker 4: before this rather side where I had no choice or
- 1:11:46Speaker 4: taken the uh, because I look back on it and
- 1:11:55Speaker 4: we had when people were working. I'm not regretted, not
- 1:12:00Speaker 4: at that point. Whatever. Good Now it was love, yeah,
- 1:12:09Speaker 4: almost no choice to do what they do and hacking
- 1:12:12Speaker 4: myself to do it, forging about people will do it
- 1:12:17Speaker 4: when they Saturday of the life could have been and
- 1:12:23Speaker 4: what you know, it was something that you know, yeah, yeah, yeah,
- 1:12:37Speaker 4: eventually we had to happen.
- 1:12:47Speaker 1: Sorry, I just hopped back in a night court mode.
- 1:12:50Speaker 1: Judged totally sleeping.
- 1:12:56Speaker 2: So guys, I mean I'm going to just Zell. I mean,
- 1:13:02Speaker 2: he didn't do it to protect himself. But Azelle was
- 1:13:06Speaker 2: having an affair, okay in his little mistress name was
- 1:13:10Speaker 2: Judelon's smythe and I say this often. There is nothing
- 1:13:17Speaker 2: like a scorned woman. Okay. So after he dumped her
- 1:13:21Speaker 2: like a hot potato, she went to police and told
- 1:13:28Speaker 2: them that her ex Ozelle, was Eric's therapist, and that
- 1:13:32Speaker 2: Eric had confessed during a session. Why are you laughing
- 1:13:35Speaker 2: at me?
- 1:13:38Speaker 9: Now?
- 1:13:38Speaker 1: I'm not laughing at you. I'm laughing. I'm listen. With
- 1:13:40Speaker 1: a name like Judelon, you have like two career options.
- 1:13:45Speaker 1: You could be a mysterious fortune teller or you could
- 1:13:47Speaker 1: be someone who has to be involved in a high
- 1:13:49Speaker 1: profile true crime case. It's either that or playing the
- 1:13:54Speaker 1: role of an eccentric aunt who insists her cat is
- 1:13:57Speaker 1: her legal heir. It's one of those three. There is
- 1:14:00Speaker 1: no four, no two. It is three three, sir, So
- 1:14:06Speaker 1: just luck, I guess, just luck.
- 1:14:09Speaker 2: I mean, I just wonder what her parents were thinking.
- 1:14:13Speaker 2: I don't know, But anyway, I'm sorry. Men, keep having
- 1:14:20Speaker 2: affairs and telling your mistresses all of your dirty secrets,
- 1:14:24Speaker 2: because when you dump them, guess what, they are gonna
- 1:14:28Speaker 2: share the deats And I'm here for it. Except in
- 1:14:34Speaker 2: this case, Yeah, you know. I mean she.
- 1:14:41Speaker 1: She does not have the face of a woman who
- 1:14:43Speaker 1: puts up with shit. I'm just gonna throw that out there.
- 1:14:47Speaker 1: She has the bangs, she has the short shoulder, She
- 1:14:50Speaker 1: ain't messing a fuck around.
- 1:14:53Speaker 2: Well, I'm gonna say that doctor Ozell can go f himself,
- 1:14:58Speaker 2: and that's my opinion on him, and I shared someone
- 1:15:02Speaker 2: else's thoughts, but I totally concur Okay, now.
- 1:15:07Speaker 1: He should have fed himself and he wouldn't be in
- 1:15:10Speaker 1: this fucking position.
- 1:15:13Speaker 2: I mean he shouldn't. I mean, I'm going to just say,
- 1:15:16Speaker 2: for somebody who spent a lot of time in therapy,
- 1:15:19Speaker 2: if I ever found out my therapist went home and
- 1:15:24Speaker 2: used my name and told their significant oh my god,
- 1:15:30Speaker 2: I just saw putting the hip. Second comment, I.
- 1:15:35Speaker 1: Appreciate jokes, and I also appreciate that you spelled hippocorrectly.
- 1:15:40Speaker 2: I yeah, but I'm sorry. That is against the rules.
- 1:15:45Speaker 2: And that's why we go to therapy for a safe space. Now,
- 1:15:47Speaker 2: I mean, if you go home and you say, hey,
- 1:15:52Speaker 2: I had a patient they were talking about a rough
- 1:15:54Speaker 2: time they went through with their parents and they regret it,
- 1:15:58Speaker 2: I'd be okay with that, But given out the deets
- 1:16:01Speaker 2: is just wrong. And I think someone asked if he
- 1:16:04Speaker 2: lost his license. He did lose his license to practice
- 1:16:08Speaker 2: in California. Now he works with women to help improve
- 1:16:14Speaker 2: their sex life. And if you want his website, let
- 1:16:18Speaker 2: me know and I will be happy to send it
- 1:16:20Speaker 2: to you.
- 1:16:22Speaker 9: What but what.
- 1:16:26Speaker 1: Does he say you need to get thicker glasses, hi
- 1:16:29Speaker 1: your hairline or a scornier face. Because I think he
- 1:16:35Speaker 1: confused somebody by saying you have a face of scorn,
- 1:16:39Speaker 1: and he heard you have the face for porn, and
- 1:16:42Speaker 1: it just.
- 1:16:45Speaker 2: Yeah, so we're doing that because we're getting into the
- 1:16:48Speaker 2: heavy stuff. March eighth, nineteen ninety, Lyle was arrested while
- 1:16:53Speaker 2: out driving to lunch with some friends. Now Eric was
- 1:16:58Speaker 2: playing in a tennis turn in Israel and apparently he
- 1:17:02Speaker 2: was doing very well, but he was arrested on March eleventh,
- 1:17:06Speaker 2: nineteen ninety upon his return to la Both were taken
- 1:17:12Speaker 2: into custody without incident. They did not act like fools,
- 1:17:16Speaker 2: They didn't try to do anything stupid. They went willingly.
- 1:17:23Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, and you know this is this is the
- 1:17:28Speaker 1: point in which we're going to flop into the trial
- 1:17:34Speaker 1: and some of the strategies in the trial and kind
- 1:17:36Speaker 1: of what goes on in the trial, and I'm going
- 1:17:39Speaker 1: to try and make it interesting. I know sometimes trials
- 1:17:43Speaker 1: for some folks can be snoozefest, but this was not one,
- 1:17:47Speaker 1: and so hopefully this summary is not either. Before the
- 1:17:52Speaker 1: game will dismute you the first time. Fair, that's fair.
- 1:17:56Speaker 1: I'll let you do it, for sure. I'd want to
- 1:17:58Speaker 1: stop hearing myself too produce.
- 1:18:00Speaker 2: A terror might slap me, but hey, go ahead.
- 1:18:05Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, before the gavel. Uh, everybody was saying no.
- 1:18:10Speaker 1: The brothers spent three years in the Los Angeles County
- 1:18:15Speaker 1: Men's Jail waiting for their trials to begin. They were
- 1:18:19Speaker 1: segregated from other prisoners and housed in separate cells in
- 1:18:22Speaker 1: the jail seven thousand sections. Now I look this up
- 1:18:25Speaker 1: and it might have been different then, but it looks
- 1:18:28Speaker 1: like it's the medical section. However, the section also housed
- 1:18:32Speaker 1: high profile inmates like Richard Ramirez and oj Simpson.
- 1:18:39Speaker 10: Ramirez is one of the IP lists. Yes, exactly, yeah, sorry,
- 1:18:48Speaker 10: what you know?
- 1:18:49Speaker 1: What's really funny looking at that picture of Richard Ramirez,
- 1:18:52Speaker 1: it looks like he's got like the devil and an
- 1:18:53Speaker 1: angel on either shoulder. I just don't know which ones which,
- 1:18:58Speaker 1: so's tossing that out there in his case, probably both devils. Anyway,
- 1:19:03Speaker 1: they ate meals in their cell, and they had an
- 1:19:07Speaker 1: exercise period for one hour, three times a week, which
- 1:19:11Speaker 1: is literally nothing. So for Eric. The first buse of
- 1:19:20Speaker 1: his confinement, Eric was suicidal, not surprising. He received xanax
- 1:19:25Speaker 1: for that. He was visited by his former girlfriend Janis,
- 1:19:28Speaker 1: who thought Eric was growing up and becoming a model prisoner.
- 1:19:34Speaker 1: Jannas said, though that Lyle was considered a problem inmate.
- 1:19:38Speaker 1: He was stealing food from another inmate on a special diet.
- 1:19:41Speaker 1: He monopolized the phone on his cell block. A priest
- 1:19:45Speaker 1: actually visited Eric during his hut.
- 1:19:47Speaker 2: What I'm sorry. I know I shouldn't interrupt, but okay,
- 1:19:52Speaker 2: can you imagine the food in prison, and if there
- 1:19:56Speaker 2: is somebody on a special diet that maybe got a
- 1:20:00Speaker 2: true banana instead of gruel, I am gonna just step
- 1:20:04Speaker 2: up and say I would probably have stolen the banana too.
- 1:20:09Speaker 1: I'm not risking whole time for a banana, That's all
- 1:20:12Speaker 1: I'm saying.
- 1:20:14Speaker 2: I thought, I mean, I just wanted to get that outfit.
- 1:20:18Speaker 1: Well, I mean like ten points for creative, because if
- 1:20:21Speaker 1: you're segregated from everybody else, I don't know how the
- 1:20:23Speaker 1: hell you're getting somebody else's food.
- 1:20:25Speaker 2: So I mean I thought that too, but I just
- 1:20:27Speaker 2: went with it.
- 1:20:30Speaker 1: Yep. Yeah, a priest did visit Eric. During this time,
- 1:20:33Speaker 1: Eric began to reveal for the first time publicly, or
- 1:20:37Speaker 1: just somebody else outside the family other than Yeah, the
- 1:20:41Speaker 1: supposed traumas that he suffered during his childhood. Now, from
- 1:20:44Speaker 1: those conversations, the foundation of was laid for the brother's defense,
- 1:20:51Speaker 1: so that was Eric before the gavill Ile spent a
- 1:20:53Speaker 1: lot of time on the phone. Early on, he spoke
- 1:20:56Speaker 1: to the manager of mister Buffalo's often, which caused the
- 1:20:59Speaker 1: other prisoner to complain about the number and length of
- 1:21:03Speaker 1: his calls. Sheriff's deputies found Lyle's ankle chains almost cut through,
- 1:21:09Speaker 1: so they conducted a search of the brother cells. Sheriff's
- 1:21:13Speaker 1: deputies found Lyle sorry. They found a seventeen page letter
- 1:21:17Speaker 1: from Lyle to Eric, along with some notes in Eric's cell.
- 1:21:20Speaker 1: In the letter, Lyle wrote, only you and I know
- 1:21:24Speaker 1: the truth. Only you and I know the secrets of
- 1:21:27Speaker 1: our famili's past. I do not look forward to broadcasting
- 1:21:30Speaker 1: them around the country. I pray that it never has
- 1:21:33Speaker 1: to happen. If it were not for you, I doubt
- 1:21:36Speaker 1: I would even try for manslaughter. I would rather try
- 1:21:39Speaker 1: to escape or die. I struggle with my belief that
- 1:21:42Speaker 1: men take responsibility for their actions. Pleading abuse is not
- 1:21:46Speaker 1: taking responsibility. So Lyle tells Eric in his letter that
- 1:21:51Speaker 1: he would ever testify against him. He gives Eric advice
- 1:21:55Speaker 1: that Lyle believes Jose would have given him, which is interesting.
- 1:21:59Speaker 1: Lyle wrote quote. I am not an ordinary person. I
- 1:22:02Speaker 1: do not see things in terms of manslaughter and life terms.
- 1:22:06Speaker 1: I see only win, lose, honor, and dishonor Dad is
- 1:22:10Speaker 1: watching and I will not disappoint him a second time,
- 1:22:13Speaker 1: or Mom by giving up and having their deaths be
- 1:22:17Speaker 1: in vain now. The notes described plans to travel to
- 1:22:21Speaker 1: South America and then to the Middle East, and there
- 1:22:24Speaker 1: was a drawing of a building with stairwells and doors.
- 1:22:27Speaker 1: Deputies could not match it though to courthouses that Lyle
- 1:22:31Speaker 1: had been in, so there was no connection there. I
- 1:22:33Speaker 1: can't imagine being that person who has to be like, oh,
- 1:22:37Speaker 1: look at this, now you need to go connect it
- 1:22:40Speaker 1: with what starewell is this?
- 1:22:43Speaker 2: But they didn't have Google Image back then, so you
- 1:22:46Speaker 2: couldn't take a picture of it and just do her
- 1:22:47Speaker 2: first Google search.
- 1:22:50Speaker 1: No, he hopped on his bicycle. I'll a wicked witch
- 1:22:54Speaker 1: and no, no, no, no no no no no no
- 1:22:55Speaker 1: no no, and had to figure it out all right.
- 1:23:00Speaker 1: So December eighth, nineteen ninety two, there was the indictment.
- 1:23:05Speaker 1: Los Angeles County Grand Jury indicted the brothers on murder charges.
- 1:23:08Speaker 1: There were two special circumstances that were attached, making them
- 1:23:11Speaker 1: eligible for the death penalty, and those were a multimal
- 1:23:14Speaker 1: murder had occurred as the brothers were lying in wait,
- 1:23:17Speaker 1: and a third special circumstance, sorry, it was a multiple
- 1:23:23Speaker 1: murder had occurred the brothers were lying in wait. There
- 1:23:26Speaker 1: was a third. There's a third. There's a third special circumstance,
- 1:23:30Speaker 1: murder for financial gain that was thrown out by the
- 1:23:34Speaker 1: grand jury, which is interesting because it was utilized a
- 1:23:37Speaker 1: lot by the prosecution. So here we are pre trial.
- 1:23:44Speaker 1: From arrest until right before the trial started, Leslie Abramson
- 1:23:48Speaker 1: and Jill Lansing didn't reveal what their defense strategy would be.
- 1:23:52Speaker 1: It's a good move, the prosecution thought. The defense, you know,
- 1:23:56Speaker 1: it's such a good move, knowing that la was so
- 1:23:59Speaker 1: hungry for a guilty verdict. It was so smart of
- 1:24:02Speaker 1: them not to just it was. It was a good move.
- 1:24:07Speaker 1: The prosecution thought the defense would gamble that they didn't
- 1:24:11Speaker 1: have enough evidence to prove they committed the murders. But
- 1:24:14Speaker 1: it turns out on June ninth, nineteen ninety three, in
- 1:24:17Speaker 1: a pre trial hearing, Abramson said that they were going
- 1:24:20Speaker 1: to admit that the brothers murdered their parents, to which
- 1:24:24Speaker 1: the prosecution said, oh, we don't have anything else. No,
- 1:24:30Speaker 1: but they so they were gonna they were gonna prove
- 1:24:33Speaker 1: that it was jose and Kitty, not Lyle and Eric
- 1:24:35Speaker 1: who should be accountable for why the murders were committed.
- 1:24:38Speaker 1: Which that's that's a hard thing to swing. That's that's
- 1:24:41Speaker 1: a dangerous way to swing that. But there was a
- 1:24:44Speaker 1: reason they would argue that Eric and Lyle were instilled
- 1:24:47Speaker 1: with fear over a lengthy period of time, like going
- 1:24:51Speaker 1: back years and Abramson, Abramson and Lancing were going to
- 1:24:56Speaker 1: take the spoiled kids and portray them as victims of
- 1:25:00Speaker 1: child abuse. Eric was considering becoming a professional tennis player,
- 1:25:04Speaker 1: so tall order and and and by that, I want
- 1:25:07Speaker 1: I just want to clarify what I mean by that
- 1:25:12Speaker 1: is their image and their image in the media was
- 1:25:16Speaker 1: spoiled brats. They murdered their parents, they like, spend a
- 1:25:20Speaker 1: bunch of money, Yeah, Rolex's Porsche, et cetera. They were
- 1:25:24Speaker 1: going to take that, flip it on its head. And
- 1:25:28Speaker 1: while they utilized the real stuff like uh, they utilized
- 1:25:37Speaker 1: what was happening. So so this there were there weren't
- 1:25:43Speaker 1: people that the brothers complained two about this, This wasn't
- 1:25:50Speaker 1: very public, and I had initially written that there weren't
- 1:25:53Speaker 1: any photos, but as you know, yours truly can be incorrect.
- 1:25:57Speaker 1: I have a slew of people to let me know
- 1:26:00Speaker 1: just in case the reality is there were photos. There
- 1:26:05Speaker 1: were definitely inappropriate pictures of them, and I did not
- 1:26:09Speaker 1: know this. There were definitely inappropriate pictures of them in
- 1:26:12Speaker 1: all kinds of situations, clothed, unclothed, more Now, while they
- 1:26:17Speaker 1: were this was all while they were under ten years old.
- 1:26:20Speaker 1: There was also a time that Eric was taken to
- 1:26:22Speaker 1: a doctor at a very young age and there was
- 1:26:25Speaker 1: oral bruising consistent with activities of that nature. So let's
- 1:26:32Speaker 1: take a quick look at this video from the trial.
- 1:26:36Speaker 1: You don't see anything inappropriate, but it does explain that
- 1:26:41Speaker 1: it wasn't just jose as Kitty was complicit and complacent
- 1:26:46Speaker 1: in the whole situation. So we'll take a listen to
- 1:26:49Speaker 1: this video.
- 1:26:51Speaker 11: These photographs were found in this envelope. This envelope has
- 1:26:59Speaker 11: the handwriting of his mother, Mary Louise Menendez, and she
- 1:27:03Speaker 11: had a beautiful handwriting. She was a school teacher and
- 1:27:06Speaker 11: she wrote Eric's birthday November nineteen seventy six, and inside.
- 1:27:11Speaker 2: This envelope were the original small Prince.
- 1:27:15Speaker 12: Now, I think almost as amazing as the fact that
- 1:27:22Speaker 12: these pictures were taken, is that these pictures were saved.
- 1:27:26Speaker 12: You will see the envelope that they came in, and
- 1:27:29Speaker 12: you will see the negatives, and you will see the
- 1:27:30Speaker 12: original small photos, and you will see Kitty Menendez's handwriting
- 1:27:35Speaker 12: that was on the envelope these photos were in, which
- 1:27:37Speaker 12: says Eric's birthday November nineteen seventy six.
- 1:27:42Speaker 2: She saw these photographs and she kept them. Now, I
- 1:27:51Speaker 2: am that type of person just so people want to
- 1:27:54Speaker 2: know what. They want to know what the photographs are of,
- 1:27:56Speaker 2: because I did look it is that they're going to
- 1:27:59Speaker 2: tell you area focused in on in their heads are
- 1:28:03Speaker 2: cut off. And I'm going to say, as a mom
- 1:28:05Speaker 2: of two boys, I cannot tell you a reason that
- 1:28:10Speaker 2: you would have back unless they got bit by a spider,
- 1:28:14Speaker 2: a snake, a dog.
- 1:28:17Speaker 1: There's not a reason, a reaction, something medical, There's.
- 1:28:23Speaker 2: No you don't put their birthday. I mean it just
- 1:28:27Speaker 2: I'm say that dis horrifies.
- 1:28:29Speaker 13: That's weird.
- 1:28:33Speaker 1: It's like another It's it's not just being complicit, it's
- 1:28:36Speaker 1: a whole other level of evil to me. So they
- 1:28:42Speaker 1: were going to have to reconstruct specific incidents of abuse
- 1:28:45Speaker 1: that involved the two brothers, and the prosecution was going
- 1:28:49Speaker 1: to have to prove it to be blowney or malarkey
- 1:28:53Speaker 1: if you like that. Instead, Abramson and Lansing did consult
- 1:28:58Speaker 1: with Paul Moan. Is it Monez? Probably know it's Mones, Mones. Wow,
- 1:29:06Speaker 1: that is a that's a fancy fellow right there. Look
- 1:29:09Speaker 1: at that dang, Look at that jaw line. He was
- 1:29:13Speaker 1: a lawyer and a children's rights advocate. He did write
- 1:29:17Speaker 1: when a Child Kills Abused Children who kill their parents
- 1:29:21Speaker 1: had on the nose, but it provided legal defense strategies
- 1:29:24Speaker 1: for children accused of killing their parents. His research suggested
- 1:29:29Speaker 1: that children who kill their parents one are typically peaceful individuals.
- 1:29:34Speaker 1: They have secretive, controlling parents, They suffer prolonged abuse before
- 1:29:39Speaker 1: reacting violently. They exhibit overkill, which is excessive violence in
- 1:29:43Speaker 1: the crime. And he blamed the parents for their own murders.
- 1:29:49Speaker 2: So I agree with everything he said up until he
- 1:29:56Speaker 2: said the parents are to blame for their own murders.
- 1:30:00Speaker 2: I mean, do I mean there are a lot of
- 1:30:02Speaker 2: shitty parents and kids. We can't go around killing our parents,
- 1:30:08Speaker 2: But you don't blame them. They deserved something, maybe life
- 1:30:13Speaker 2: in prison or something, but they didn't deserve to be
- 1:30:18Speaker 2: murdered in that way. I think as a society we
- 1:30:22Speaker 2: need to find a way to set up a better
- 1:30:24Speaker 2: system for protecting our kids, and the public needs to
- 1:30:27Speaker 2: stop being judgmental in saying, oh, you were an athlete,
- 1:30:32Speaker 2: you would have been strong enough. Why didn't you defend yourself?
- 1:30:35Speaker 2: Why didn't you leave You were twenty one, you were nineteen,
- 1:30:38Speaker 2: You could have just left home. They don't understand the
- 1:30:41Speaker 2: psychological abuse and the psychological prison you're in. So yeah,
- 1:30:47Speaker 2: don't buy that last one.
- 1:30:50Speaker 1: Sorry, that's fair, I mean.
- 1:30:54Speaker 9: So.
- 1:30:54Speaker 1: In terms of the prosecution stance on the death penalty,
- 1:30:59Speaker 1: Pam Bosnich Will was ambivalent about seeking the death penalty,
- 1:31:04Speaker 1: but Lester Curiama saw the brothers as cold blooded killers
- 1:31:08Speaker 1: and he supported it. Abramson never pursued a poleague bargain.
- 1:31:15Speaker 1: Now hopping in after all that, now we're going to
- 1:31:18Speaker 1: hop into trial one. The trial was held at the
- 1:31:22Speaker 1: La County Superior Court in Van Nuys. Judge Stanley Weisberg
- 1:31:28Speaker 1: presided over the trial. Judge Weisberg, if you know kind
- 1:31:33Speaker 1: of some of legal history and trials and things like that,
- 1:31:37Speaker 1: Judge Weisberg, I need to fix that. Let's fix that. Okay,
- 1:31:40Speaker 1: there we go. Yes, Judge Weisberg actually presided over the
- 1:31:47Speaker 1: Rodney King trial in suburban Semi Valley in nineteen ninety two,
- 1:31:52Speaker 1: and that trial resulted in the deadly LA riots. So
- 1:31:55Speaker 1: that's definitely something to you know, he's got that under
- 1:31:58Speaker 1: his belt. I can't say I'd be too enthusiastic about
- 1:32:03Speaker 1: having that judge on the bench in front of me.
- 1:32:05Speaker 1: But here we are. Well.
- 1:32:06Speaker 2: Got to remember the jury chooses the verdict, not the judge.
- 1:32:12Speaker 1: No, okay, correct, But not everybody can be Judge Levin's
- 1:32:17Speaker 1: where they don't have much of an impact in a case.
- 1:32:20Speaker 1: Some people like to have an impact in cases. Also,
- 1:32:24Speaker 1: he was one hundred percent falling asleep in that other
- 1:32:27Speaker 1: radioways saw, So I have about as much patience as
- 1:32:31Speaker 1: he has hair. The judge ruled that the cases of
- 1:32:37Speaker 1: Lyle and Eric Menendez would be tried together merely because
- 1:32:42Speaker 1: of time, cost and convenience, which eh, and I say eh,
- 1:32:49Speaker 1: because while he said that, he also said that they
- 1:32:55Speaker 1: were gonna have two separate juries. He said that if
- 1:32:58Speaker 1: they didn't, there was gonna be a duplication of witnesses
- 1:33:00Speaker 1: and arguments, and why hear the same thing all over again,
- 1:33:04Speaker 1: But they're going to have two separate juries. Not sure
- 1:33:08Speaker 1: exactly what the point is there, but it meant that
- 1:33:11Speaker 1: if there was evidence that pertained only to Lyle, Eric's
- 1:33:15Speaker 1: jury was going to be excluded and vice versa, which
- 1:33:18Speaker 1: seems a lot more complicated than having two trials.
- 1:33:24Speaker 2: I'm on the fence with that one, just so we
- 1:33:29Speaker 2: all know, because part of me is like, they each
- 1:33:32Speaker 2: deserved their own trial, but they did commit it together,
- 1:33:37Speaker 2: they planned together, they were brothers. So but I have
- 1:33:42Speaker 2: to say, I've always wondered if this trial being held
- 1:33:48Speaker 2: so close to Rodney King and the burning down of
- 1:33:52Speaker 2: the city, if that had anything to do with it.
- 1:33:58Speaker 2: But the verdict, I mean, we don't know.
- 1:34:05Speaker 4: Yeah, I.
- 1:34:09Speaker 2: It's and then their final kind of wonder because they
- 1:34:14Speaker 2: their first trial was after Rodney King. Their second trial
- 1:34:17Speaker 2: went on at the same time as OJ, but they
- 1:34:20Speaker 2: were actually found guilty after OJ was found innocent. There
- 1:34:25Speaker 2: was such an uproar about OJ being innocent. Did that
- 1:34:29Speaker 2: play into them being found guilty that time? But the
- 1:34:32Speaker 2: first time was a mistrial, I mean, and I could
- 1:34:37Speaker 2: be howd up on my dates, But I just think
- 1:34:41Speaker 2: there was so much going on in LA that there
- 1:34:47Speaker 2: was just a lot.
- 1:34:47Speaker 1: And you also have to think, like it who was
- 1:34:53Speaker 1: on the jury, what was the jury makeup? And where
- 1:34:56Speaker 1: they're trying to f the judge over? You know what
- 1:34:59Speaker 1: I mean? Like for that Rodney King's that you eat
- 1:35:01Speaker 1: like you just and it doesn't matter you know what
- 1:35:04Speaker 1: race they are, what age they were, whether they were
- 1:35:06Speaker 1: male or female, whatever, it doesn't matter if they didn't
- 1:35:09Speaker 1: agree with the judge and you found a jury with
- 1:35:11Speaker 1: the ball didn't agree with the judge. For Rodney King,
- 1:35:13Speaker 1: are they trying to have him over in this trial
- 1:35:15Speaker 1: even though he's not really a central part, do you
- 1:35:18Speaker 1: know what I mean?
- 1:35:19Speaker 2: Yeah? And I will say that I was just corrected
- 1:35:22Speaker 2: by our producer that OJ's trial was well over.
- 1:35:27Speaker 1: Before then, So you know what, we are only as
- 1:35:32Speaker 1: good as.
- 1:35:32Speaker 2: THEA oh wait, the Menendez trial was over before OJ.
- 1:35:36Speaker 2: I've got it backwards. It's been a long day and
- 1:35:40Speaker 2: I need more wine. But I just think Rodney King
- 1:35:43Speaker 2: everything going in LA, just because OJ's trial hadn't happened yet,
- 1:35:48Speaker 2: everybody in America was watching everything that went on with
- 1:35:53Speaker 2: that I just think there was so much stuff going on.
- 1:35:58Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and and so this first trial, Judge Weisberg
- 1:36:01Speaker 1: actually allowed Court TV to televise the trial due to
- 1:36:04Speaker 1: the high public interest, which is still available to watch
- 1:36:07Speaker 1: on Court TV's website. So go free. It is long,
- 1:36:11Speaker 1: very long. Uh the defense strategy. In terms of the
- 1:36:15Speaker 1: defense strategy, they the lawyers dressed Eric and Lyle in
- 1:36:19Speaker 1: youthful attire. It's not helping me out any really, to
- 1:36:22Speaker 1: be honest with you, it's got to be that perfectly
- 1:36:24Speaker 1: quaffed hair.
- 1:36:26Speaker 2: Okay, last, I'm not quite suane the defense attorneys because
- 1:36:30Speaker 2: look at Jody Ari's she was dressed like a schoolmarm.
- 1:36:36Speaker 1: Oh oh Arius that listen. Half of Arius is actually
- 1:36:40Speaker 1: like ninety percent of Areas's defense was directed by her.
- 1:36:44Speaker 1: I don't.
- 1:36:45Speaker 2: I'm just saying you always try to. I think that
- 1:36:50Speaker 2: is in defense attorneys school one oh one, make your
- 1:36:55Speaker 2: defendants look sweet and innocent. Uh. Oh, I just got
- 1:37:02Speaker 2: in trouble by Captain for bringing up chi ire.
- 1:37:05Speaker 1: You've drawn the ire of listen. It was a long time.
- 1:37:10Speaker 1: It was another life ago. We spent a very long
- 1:37:12Speaker 1: time on Jodi Hare.
- 1:37:14Speaker 2: We did, but I learned gas math and I am
- 1:37:17Speaker 2: proud that I learned gas math. Gas went at forty
- 1:37:21Speaker 2: nine sets here in Austin in overnight, So I know gas.
- 1:37:25Speaker 1: That's about the only good thing we got out of
- 1:37:28Speaker 1: that whole situation, all right. So they dressed them up
- 1:37:31Speaker 1: to make them appear like children, not adults. They appeared
- 1:37:35Speaker 1: less arrogant, more mature.
- 1:37:39Speaker 4: Eric.
- 1:37:39Speaker 1: Eric actually looked kind of unhealthy, a little pale, gaunt.
- 1:37:43Speaker 1: Lyle continued to wear Okay, so this will surprise everybody,
- 1:37:48Speaker 1: or everybody already knows this. I think everybody already knows this.
- 1:37:50Speaker 1: But Lyle continued to wear a hair piece during the trial.
- 1:37:54Speaker 1: Now a hair piece, you say, what's the story with that?
- 1:37:59Speaker 1: I did? Well, you know, since so much has come
- 1:38:01Speaker 1: out about the Menendez brothers, especially recently, it's very hard
- 1:38:05Speaker 1: to find the true story of all of this stuff
- 1:38:08Speaker 1: because they connect it with the movie. And so after Lyle,
- 1:38:15Speaker 1: Lyle and Kitty had a fight at one point, and
- 1:38:19Speaker 1: Lyle ran off because Kitty actually ripped off the hair
- 1:38:23Speaker 1: piece he had on. This was not this was a
- 1:38:26Speaker 1: fight into that. Now, the hair piece, just to give
- 1:38:30Speaker 1: you an idea, required him to shave where the piece
- 1:38:34Speaker 1: covered it, shaved his head, and they used a high
- 1:38:37Speaker 1: strength glue to put it on so that it did
- 1:38:40Speaker 1: not come off. That makes sense, But there were multiple
- 1:38:43Speaker 1: sources that pretty much called it a scalping. And and
- 1:38:50Speaker 1: so that's that's not much that that hurt, like you
- 1:38:53Speaker 1: really had to get there. And also like that's you
- 1:38:57Speaker 1: think about it.
- 1:39:00Speaker 2: You have to use a special glue for those people
- 1:39:03Speaker 2: who don't know, like people who lose their hair when
- 1:39:07Speaker 2: they go through chemo treatments, you use a glue to
- 1:39:10Speaker 2: put it on because it's so windy and humid. If
- 1:39:15Speaker 2: somebody rips that off of you, it will pull that
- 1:39:19Speaker 2: skin off. So don't do that, oh Barry, Yeah.
- 1:39:30Speaker 1: So like this is the thing. This is what that
- 1:39:32Speaker 1: tells me. That tells me one one, that's what you
- 1:39:36Speaker 1: have to do. But two, that is how badly they
- 1:39:39Speaker 1: wanted to keep this a secret.
- 1:39:43Speaker 2: Uh now, I'm going to just stop you there. It's
- 1:39:47Speaker 2: not necessarily a secret. I think that if we stop
- 1:39:52Speaker 2: and think about society, especially back then and still today,
- 1:39:57Speaker 2: you do business and talk to people who look a
- 1:40:01Speaker 2: certain way. Bald heads were not in style back then.
- 1:40:06Speaker 2: Now we see a beautiful bald head and we think
- 1:40:09Speaker 2: it's pretty, But back then I'm not as much. I
- 1:40:14Speaker 2: can't imagine Jose wanting his twenty one year old son
- 1:40:19Speaker 2: running around bald.
- 1:40:22Speaker 1: Well. Here's the thing, he was nineteen, that he was
- 1:40:25Speaker 1: twenty one, nineteen, that general vicinity of age, and I
- 1:40:30Speaker 1: totally agree with you, right, there is a certain look
- 1:40:33Speaker 1: you that you need to have or you need to
- 1:40:35Speaker 1: put forward at that time. However, the reason why I
- 1:40:40Speaker 1: said they wanted to keep it so close knit and
- 1:40:43Speaker 1: tight is because not even not even Eric knew about this.
- 1:40:51Speaker 1: And so afterwards Eric found him and said, I'm sad
- 1:40:55Speaker 1: we're not a family. I never knew about your hair.
- 1:40:58Speaker 1: We have so many secrets. And at that point that
- 1:41:01Speaker 1: was the lynchpin for Eric to open up about being molested,
- 1:41:06Speaker 1: and Lyle in return, yeah, offered to have Eric live
- 1:41:10Speaker 1: with him at Princeton, but Lyle was suspended before that
- 1:41:16Speaker 1: could happen.
- 1:41:18Speaker 2: So that was a catalyst that just kind of broke
- 1:41:21Speaker 2: down some barrier walls for them.
- 1:41:24Speaker 1: Yes, that was a big thing by Kitty doing that.
- 1:41:29Speaker 1: It's it's you know how I said earlier with Goffman
- 1:41:33Speaker 1: and masks, it's really hard to remove a mask that
- 1:41:36Speaker 1: is like stitched on, that was stitched on and by
- 1:41:40Speaker 1: ripping that off. Psychologically it almost was like, all right, well,
- 1:41:43Speaker 1: I've got nothing else to hide, so let me go.
- 1:41:45Speaker 1: Let's go ahead and just put it all out there.
- 1:41:48Speaker 1: And so at that point it really was like the
- 1:41:53Speaker 1: lynchpin agreed. No, you know, all of this stuff kind
- 1:41:59Speaker 1: of comes out in court. It's Abernson the whole time
- 1:42:03Speaker 1: acted as a protective figure to Eric. The defense used.
- 1:42:06Speaker 1: So the defense used the E. Sue Blooms thirty four
- 1:42:09Speaker 1: item checklist for incest survivors. Now, this is a checklist
- 1:42:13Speaker 1: that is not necessarily legally accepted, but it is accepted
- 1:42:17Speaker 1: in certain certain you know, for proving certain things. Eric
- 1:42:23Speaker 1: matched the items related to childhood trauma, like fear of
- 1:42:26Speaker 1: sleeping alone, blocking memories, carrying a secret and stealing and
- 1:42:30Speaker 1: lyle matched items like dissociation, rigid thought control, and pressure
- 1:42:36Speaker 1: to achieve. Now that's all we're going to talk about
- 1:42:39Speaker 1: the thirty four item checklist. I had mentioned in the
- 1:42:42Speaker 1: beginning of the show that eventually we're going to start
- 1:42:44Speaker 1: something else and we'll talk about it that will go
- 1:42:46Speaker 1: in depth on certain things. This is one of those
- 1:42:48Speaker 1: things that as we're building content, when we make the announcement,
- 1:42:53Speaker 1: you will be able to find. So if you want
- 1:42:54Speaker 1: to know more about that checklist, you'll be able to
- 1:42:57Speaker 1: read about it. So the grandmother and aunts, Maria Menendez,
- 1:43:04Speaker 1: Marta Kano, Terry Berralt, they all supported them. The Anderson family,
- 1:43:10Speaker 1: Kitty's relatives, they were notably absent. There were a few
- 1:43:14Speaker 1: members of Kitty's family that supported the brothers, like her
- 1:43:17Speaker 1: sister and her niece. Her sister Joan still supports them,
- 1:43:21Speaker 1: her brother has not. The rest of the family did not.
- 1:43:26Speaker 1: It's really interesting to have, you know, your family members
- 1:43:31Speaker 1: go through all of this, this trauma but still support
- 1:43:35Speaker 1: the kids.
- 1:43:37Speaker 2: But I think we have to also stop and say,
- 1:43:40Speaker 2: if you look at it, it's Jose's family who mostly supports.
- 1:43:45Speaker 2: That tells you they knew deep down what type of
- 1:43:48Speaker 2: person Jose was, or they suspected were Kitty's family. It
- 1:43:54Speaker 2: was much harder for them to wrap their mind around
- 1:43:57Speaker 2: their fact that their beloved Kitty would have done those things.
- 1:44:02Speaker 2: So denial is a big thing.
- 1:44:06Speaker 1: Yeah, it it is for sure. Now. On July twenty
- 1:44:11Speaker 1: to nineteen ninety three, Bosnich Bozenich, her opening statement to
- 1:44:17Speaker 1: Lyle's jury was, you know, she described the brutality of
- 1:44:21Speaker 1: the murder, six wounds. J Jose tend to Kitty claimed
- 1:44:24Speaker 1: brothers killed while the parents were dozing, and later hired Bodyguardgards.
- 1:44:29Speaker 1: It's a false cover up, highlighted their extravagant spending spreeze
- 1:44:33Speaker 1: post murder, suggested a fabricated child abuse allegations to avoid
- 1:44:37Speaker 1: death sentences, and then Lester Kurayama's opening to Eric's jury
- 1:44:44Speaker 1: because they had to do two separate interests. Oh, thank you,
- 1:44:47Speaker 1: I appreciate the compliment on the air god. It was
- 1:44:51Speaker 1: a ponytail and it is gone. But Lester Kuriama's opening
- 1:44:57Speaker 1: to Eric's jury claimed Eric wanted to execute his parents
- 1:45:01Speaker 1: and not get caught, brought up Eric's confession to a psychiatrist,
- 1:45:09Speaker 1: suggested financial motives, Jose's control over them, inherentance concerns, So
- 1:45:14Speaker 1: that was all prosecution. The defense Jill Lancing, she admitted
- 1:45:19Speaker 1: that the brothers killed their parents, but focused on why.
- 1:45:23Speaker 1: She claimed it was, you know, she looks a lot
- 1:45:26Speaker 1: like a lane from the Johnny depp is. It's something
- 1:45:30Speaker 1: about the haircut. What is with the haircut? And defense
- 1:45:34Speaker 1: it was Adam Montgomery too right, his defense attorney also
- 1:45:38Speaker 1: had that. And then also the defense or the attorney
- 1:45:43Speaker 1: for Amber Hurd also had that haircut. They look exactly
- 1:45:46Speaker 1: the same. I didn't realize it until just this moment. Okay, anyways,
- 1:45:51Speaker 1: Jill Lansing admitted the brothers killed their parents, but focused
- 1:45:54Speaker 1: on why. Claimed it was out of fear, not greed.
- 1:45:58Speaker 1: They described parent the the parents as I'm sorry, that's funny,
- 1:46:05Speaker 1: deceptic cod things that wins that one the internet tonight. Okay,
- 1:46:12Speaker 1: all right, so they described the parents. She described the
- 1:46:15Speaker 1: parents as brutal, manipulative, and sexually abusive. They built toward
- 1:46:19Speaker 1: a defense that the murders were to protect themselves after
- 1:46:21Speaker 1: a lifetime of abuse. Now, the key catalyst was Eric's
- 1:46:25Speaker 1: revelation to Lyle that Jose had abused him for twelve years.
- 1:46:29Speaker 1: Lyle confronted Jose, who said he quote would do whatever
- 1:46:33Speaker 1: he wanted to his son brothers believe their parents planned
- 1:46:37Speaker 1: to kill them. So I just I.
- 1:46:44Speaker 2: No parent as a mom, I still do not have
- 1:46:48Speaker 2: the right to do whatever I want to my sons.
- 1:46:52Speaker 2: Just gonna say that, especially not when they are freaking
- 1:46:56Speaker 2: legal adults. That right there tells you what kind of
- 1:47:01Speaker 2: man he was. He saw these children as possessions.
- 1:47:09Speaker 1: Yeah, there there is a level. There's a social construct
- 1:47:12Speaker 1: and I think we've all heard of it that is
- 1:47:15Speaker 1: called machismo. You know what I'm talking about when I
- 1:47:18Speaker 1: say that. But it's like values, attitudes, behaviors, it all.
- 1:47:24Speaker 4: You know.
- 1:47:24Speaker 1: It deals with like being that provider of the family.
- 1:47:27Speaker 1: But there's also negative aspects, which our aggression and sexism
- 1:47:31Speaker 1: and sexual prowess, and there's that whole thing. And it
- 1:47:35Speaker 1: does come in certain cultures. And I believe I could
- 1:47:38Speaker 1: be wrong, and people are more than welcome to correct
- 1:47:40Speaker 1: me if I am wrong, but I believe that him
- 1:47:43Speaker 1: being Cuban, I think machismo does come into it. I
- 1:47:46Speaker 1: think also the time period too, So I'm probably talking
- 1:47:51Speaker 1: about my butt.
- 1:47:52Speaker 2: But hey, it smells all right.
- 1:47:55Speaker 1: So the prosecution.
- 1:47:58Speaker 2: What I said, it smells heavenly, Oh thank you.
- 1:48:07Speaker 1: Poopree's helpful prosecution focused on the nine to one to
- 1:48:11Speaker 1: one call recording, Lyle stage distress, the testimonies from bodyguards,
- 1:48:17Speaker 1: store clerks, and computer experts. That's true, Harry is fab
- 1:48:23Speaker 1: It always is. It's always I'm just trying to keep
- 1:48:25Speaker 1: up with her the whole time. That's That's what I'm doing.
- 1:48:30Speaker 1: There was the boat captain's testimony from their fishing trip.
- 1:48:33Speaker 1: The Brodels brothers huddled together on the fishing trip before
- 1:48:36Speaker 1: the murders. They were acting strangely. Then you had less
- 1:48:39Speaker 1: Zeller's observation, which were that the brothers returned to the
- 1:48:43Speaker 1: crime scene at five thirty am to get tennis rackets,
- 1:48:47Speaker 1: Lyle and Eric's inconsistencies, for instance, claiming fear but actively
- 1:48:51Speaker 1: participating in lavish spending. So they were really hitting the
- 1:48:55Speaker 1: They really went along with what the media was pushing.
- 1:48:58Speaker 1: To be honest with you, it was almost like they
- 1:49:01Speaker 1: could be like the court of public opinion, which we
- 1:49:03Speaker 1: all know is powerful, but like, if we can get
- 1:49:06Speaker 1: that on our side, it's good. Doctor Ozelle the therapist,
- 1:49:14Speaker 1: he's you know what, he is a man who looks
- 1:49:18Speaker 1: like he walks straight out of a nineteen eighties radio
- 1:49:21Speaker 1: Shack catalog. He's seeing here either explaining why VHS is
- 1:49:29Speaker 1: actually going to make a comeback, or he's your mom's
- 1:49:31Speaker 1: friend who insists on fixing your computer but somehow makes
- 1:49:34Speaker 1: it worse and now the mouse button stick. And that's
- 1:49:38Speaker 1: who that guy is.
- 1:49:39Speaker 2: Do you want to know how many people are watching
- 1:49:42Speaker 2: us that are going what is radio shack?
- 1:49:47Speaker 1: You know what? The people who count know what I'm
- 1:49:48Speaker 1: talking about.
- 1:49:50Speaker 2: Everybody counts. Everybody counts.
- 1:49:54Speaker 1: Listen, is right, you do.
- 1:49:59Speaker 2: He's very.
- 1:50:02Speaker 1: He looks is.
- 1:50:04Speaker 2: But yeah, just you know, a lot of people do
- 1:50:07Speaker 2: not know what radio shack is.
- 1:50:11Speaker 1: But I get the demographics just like you do. I
- 1:50:14Speaker 1: know what our demographics are, and the majority of our
- 1:50:16Speaker 1: listeners definitely know what radio shack is. For sure.
- 1:50:22Speaker 2: I barely know what radio shock.
- 1:50:24Speaker 5: You know what radio shack is, right barely? Oh God,
- 1:50:31Speaker 5: have I got a guy to tell you about radio shack.
- 1:50:34Speaker 5: He is right there. He can tell you all about
- 1:50:37Speaker 5: radio shack, I promise. Okay, well, I didn't tell me
- 1:50:41Speaker 5: something anyways.
- 1:50:43Speaker 1: I like how we focus on radio shack and none
- 1:50:45Speaker 1: on the fact that he made your mouse computer button sticky, Eric,
- 1:50:50Speaker 1: because he now.
- 1:50:51Speaker 2: Does sex training for women. So no, I don't like
- 1:50:54Speaker 2: that he worries about your mouse button sticking.
- 1:51:00Speaker 1: Okay, fair uh, Eric confessed because Jose was controlling, belittling
- 1:51:05Speaker 1: and impossible to please. Kitty was killed because she couldn't
- 1:51:10Speaker 1: This one was quite a stretch. But for the brothers,
- 1:51:12Speaker 1: Kitty was killed because she couldn't emotionally survive without Jose. Now, now,
- 1:51:17Speaker 1: if we're talking, if Kitty also, and we didn't talk
- 1:51:20Speaker 1: about this, and I could again, please feel free to
- 1:51:23Speaker 1: digitally slap me. But if Kitty was under some level
- 1:51:28Speaker 1: of abuse, it would communicate she would communicate, or her nonverbals,
- 1:51:34Speaker 1: her her actions would communicate that she couldn't survive without
- 1:51:38Speaker 1: Jose because that's what Jose wanted out of her. And
- 1:51:41Speaker 1: so whether that was true or not, that's how they
- 1:51:45Speaker 1: is that wrong. I mean, I'm if they don't know
- 1:51:47Speaker 1: what's actually going on. Yeah, no, Yeah, that's fair, that's fair.
- 1:51:54Speaker 1: I'm just I'm I'm making things up as they go.
- 1:51:57Speaker 2: But but considering she took pictures of them and that
- 1:52:01Speaker 2: came out later, I think it's probably harder. And this
- 1:52:04Speaker 2: is just me speculating to admit that your mom did
- 1:52:07Speaker 2: that to you and not just your dad, because your
- 1:52:10Speaker 2: mom is I mean that I'm a blame mom.
- 1:52:12Speaker 1: Okay, that's what you're saying.
- 1:52:13Speaker 2: Okay, that's what I'm saying.
- 1:52:15Speaker 1: You weren't buying what they were saying, Yes.
- 1:52:18Speaker 2: Not buying what they were saying.
- 1:52:20Speaker 1: Ok So, so the defense attacked his credibility and said
- 1:52:28Speaker 1: that he they accused him of unethical relationships with patients
- 1:52:31Speaker 1: they they talked about that he was facing the California
- 1:52:35Speaker 1: Board of Psychology complaints and y'all need to know that. Eventually,
- 1:52:43Speaker 1: I'm going to record a screen so you can see
- 1:52:45Speaker 1: the notes that get thrown into the script as we're
- 1:52:47Speaker 1: going through. This is behind the curtain, and I just
- 1:52:51Speaker 1: want to let you know that I've been informed. It
- 1:52:54Speaker 1: has come to my attention. I just got news the
- 1:52:56Speaker 1: defense attacked his credibility also because he's a fuck face.
- 1:53:00Speaker 2: Now the defense, Hey, we've got to love the comments
- 1:53:03Speaker 2: on the back end. I mean, come on, we're not
- 1:53:08Speaker 2: the only ones drinking. And look at Amy saying it's
- 1:53:12Speaker 2: not me. Look at this Amy, it ain't me.
- 1:53:15Speaker 9: Not me?
- 1:53:18Speaker 1: Are like an acceptable tramp stamp in this case, You're welcome, everybody,
- 1:53:26Speaker 1: You're welcome.
- 1:53:26Speaker 2: I don't have one, but I have something that it
- 1:53:30Speaker 2: just hit me. Maybe when we do the live show
- 1:53:33Speaker 2: in Austin, we should get a tramp stamp. This is
- 1:53:36Speaker 2: TP or PT for producer Terry Wright.
- 1:53:40Speaker 1: On our I'm gonna need you to know the initials
- 1:53:46Speaker 1: before we get the tramp stamp.
- 1:53:49Speaker 2: PT, not TP. Well you know my husband's name.
- 1:53:54Speaker 1: I know, but I was thinking an arrow beneath the TP,
- 1:53:58Speaker 1: just to let people know where it goes.
- 1:54:01Speaker 2: So we could do PET and then I'll never forget
- 1:54:04Speaker 2: because I am.
- 1:54:05Speaker 1: Perfectly fine with us getting together and getting tattoos, even
- 1:54:09Speaker 1: matching ones. I would love that one hundred. I don't
- 1:54:13Speaker 1: think it's gonna be PET. I apologize, Producer Tera. It's
- 1:54:17Speaker 1: not because you don't mean a lot of things. But
- 1:54:19Speaker 1: I don't feel like I should we keep a shirt
- 1:54:22Speaker 1: and people go, I need TP for my bunghole. Okay,
- 1:54:25Speaker 1: I just don't think if.
- 1:54:27Speaker 2: We're gonna do a tramp stamp, we're not lifting our shirt. Honey,
- 1:54:31Speaker 2: you're pulling your pants down.
- 1:54:34Speaker 1: Remember we are thinking about doing a drag show too,
- 1:54:38Speaker 1: So I don't know what's gonna be showing. Is sure
- 1:54:41Speaker 1: ain't gonna be a tramp stamp. That's for damn shook.
- 1:54:45Speaker 1: I can also tell you this, this is gonna be
- 1:54:47Speaker 1: snipped and used as a short.
- 1:54:51Speaker 2: I'm sorry. This case just makes me crazy that I'm
- 1:54:55Speaker 2: trying to just I'm trying to find anything I can't to.
- 1:55:01Speaker 1: No, no, no, this is what we're gonna do. It's
- 1:55:03Speaker 1: gonna be skippity Terra s T. And when people ask
- 1:55:05Speaker 1: me why it's I'm gonna say because I like the Saints.
- 1:55:10Speaker 1: St I like the Saints. I like streets.
- 1:55:13Speaker 2: Why do you like the Saints?
- 1:55:16Speaker 1: No, no, Saints isn't like Saint Christopher and Saint.
- 1:55:21Speaker 2: The Saints.
- 1:55:22Speaker 1: Okay, no, no, no, no, get a roof that stays
- 1:55:28Speaker 1: all right. So fifty witnesses testified over three months, including
- 1:55:34Speaker 1: Lyle and Eric taking the stand. That's a long time.
- 1:55:40Speaker 1: That's like a Jody Arius long time. Okay. The the
- 1:55:49Speaker 1: focused on history of abuse for the Defense Imminent Danger
- 1:55:54Speaker 1: defense key testimonies, including An Tyler, a psychologist who diagnosed
- 1:55:58Speaker 1: learned helplessness. John Conti she she she looks like one
- 1:56:07Speaker 1: of the puppets from mister Rogers neighborhood. John Conti was
- 1:56:14Speaker 1: a psychologist who found Lyle's emotional reactions consistent with abuse victims.
- 1:56:19Speaker 1: I find his beard poorly trimmed. And then doctor Carrie English,
- 1:56:23Speaker 1: who was a medical expert who found a nineteen seventy
- 1:56:26Speaker 1: seven throat injury which we talked about earlier in Eric's
- 1:56:29Speaker 1: medical records, which was possibly from oral sex. Yeah see
- 1:56:34Speaker 1: see lady, listen, lady, and Gray knows exactly who I'm
- 1:56:37Speaker 1: talking about too. Was it Sister Tuesday or something Friday
- 1:56:40Speaker 1: or something like that. Yeah, little Lily Tomlin looking, you're correct,
- 1:56:46Speaker 1: so looking the agreed. Agreed. Also took me way too
- 1:56:54Speaker 1: long to learn that Lily Tomlin was the voice of
- 1:56:56Speaker 1: Miss Frizzle. Once I found that out, I was awesome.
- 1:57:01Speaker 1: Blessure correct, it took me too long? Yeah, bless my,
- 1:57:05Speaker 1: you know what? I know what that meant? All right? Listen?
- 1:57:11Speaker 1: Cross examination and prosecution's rebuttal. The prosecution's strongest moment was
- 1:57:17Speaker 1: that Eric was caught in a lie. Uh. He claimed
- 1:57:20Speaker 1: he saw handguns in a Big five store, but the
- 1:57:23Speaker 1: store stopped selling them in nineteen eighty six. There's your
- 1:57:29Speaker 1: big lie. Okay.
- 1:57:32Speaker 2: But I made a comment a year ago that Walmart
- 1:57:38Speaker 2: did not sell guns, and do you know what Walmart
- 1:57:42Speaker 2: sells guns? I had never noticed that they sold guns.
- 1:57:48Speaker 2: And I went into an argument with somebody. I said,
- 1:57:51Speaker 2: Wally World doesn't sell guns. You're thinking of academy And
- 1:57:55Speaker 2: I was ready to die on that horse.
- 1:57:58Speaker 1: And guess what do you?
- 1:58:00Speaker 2: I was wrong? So I say, if he thought the
- 1:58:05Speaker 2: Big Five souled guns, I thought Walmart didn't. Just listen,
- 1:58:13Speaker 2: I don't know from Texas. I don't go to Walmart
- 1:58:18Speaker 2: lesson half new I have my teeth.
- 1:58:23Speaker 1: There's a reason why there's a murder isle. I do
- 1:58:27Speaker 1: want to say that this entire you know, family members
- 1:58:30Speaker 1: like Kitty's brother, the housekeeper, former secretary, they all disputed
- 1:58:35Speaker 1: the abuse claims, all of them.
- 1:58:38Speaker 2: Yeah, now I'm gonna stop you right there. I am sorry,
- 1:58:43Speaker 2: they're pardon my language. If we get censored, I'm sorry.
- 1:58:47Speaker 2: There is no fucking way that Kitty's brother, housekeeper, and
- 1:58:51Speaker 2: the former secretary can say one that they weren't abused.
- 1:58:56Speaker 2: If you're not living in that house twenty four hours
- 1:58:58Speaker 2: a day, three hundred sixty five days a year, and
- 1:59:01Speaker 2: you're not sleeping in their bedroom, you don't f and
- 1:59:04Speaker 2: know what goes on when people go to bed. People
- 1:59:09Speaker 2: come into your room when you are sleeping, and shit happens,
- 1:59:14Speaker 2: and nobody else in the fucking house knows.
- 1:59:17Speaker 1: So that is.
- 1:59:18Speaker 2: Bullshit and should have been kicked out of court.
- 1:59:23Speaker 1: Agreed, wholeheartedly. Agreed. No, it's okay, it's all right. The
- 1:59:33Speaker 1: defense for closing arguments the murders were out of panic,
- 1:59:37Speaker 1: they weren't premeditated. The brothers were traumatized, not killers. The
- 1:59:41Speaker 1: prosecution called them spoiled, vicious brats, and they highlighted those
- 1:59:46Speaker 1: financial motives and deception, even though that wasn't an extenuating factor. Well,
- 1:59:52Speaker 1: on January nineteen ninety four, both juries deadlocked after weeks
- 1:59:57Speaker 1: of deliberation and only three jury on Lyle's jury voted
- 2:00:01Speaker 1: for first degree murder. They ended up being the mistrial
- 2:00:04Speaker 1: was declared and Garcetti, the district attorney, announced a retrial
- 2:00:08Speaker 1: that that would happen. Now, the thing about this, this trial,
- 2:00:12Speaker 1: the case was never it was never about guilt. They
- 2:00:15Speaker 1: admitted to the killings. That's that's honestly, that was probably
- 2:00:20Speaker 1: one of the better decisions that they made. Like we
- 2:00:22Speaker 1: did this, the prosecution failed to counter the abuse narrative effectively. Uh,
- 2:00:28Speaker 1: it's kind of hard to counter something like that when
- 2:00:30Speaker 1: your your your counter is no. It's like the legal
- 2:00:36Speaker 1: equivalent of your mom. It just it doesn't work. And
- 2:00:40Speaker 1: then the mistrial was seen as a failure of the
- 2:00:42Speaker 1: justice system by some people. But again we got to
- 2:00:46Speaker 1: remember that the whole attitude towards the legal system was
- 2:00:51Speaker 1: crazy at the moment. There was a lot going on
- 2:00:54Speaker 1: in LA and around the area. Now, before we hop
- 2:00:57Speaker 1: into trial too, we're going to play some of the
- 2:01:00Speaker 1: juror interviews from that trial. It's a little bit, you know,
- 2:01:04Speaker 1: it's longer, but I think I think you'll get a
- 2:01:06Speaker 1: lot from it. And so go ahead and take a
- 2:01:10Speaker 1: look at this.
- 2:01:14Speaker 7: Kill out of fear. It automatically reduces the crime to manslaughter.
- 2:01:20Speaker 7: If you think that they had malice a forethought, and
- 2:01:24Speaker 7: had premeditated the killings, then it's first degree murdering. They
- 2:01:28Speaker 7: always had money, so when they go, you know, buy things,
- 2:01:31Speaker 7: they're going to spend more money than you or I,
- 2:01:33Speaker 7: And I think there was a lot of resentment in
- 2:01:36Speaker 7: the room towards a couple of rich kids. You know
- 2:01:39Speaker 7: that they perceived them as being spoiled, not as abused.
- 2:01:41Speaker 1: He was a weasel.
- 2:01:42Speaker 7: He weaseled out of questions left and right. And I
- 2:01:45Speaker 7: figured someone who couldn't give a straight answer about what
- 2:01:48Speaker 7: his notes said, or what his motives were, or what
- 2:01:51Speaker 7: actually had happened. You know, it made me suspect him.
- 2:01:54Speaker 7: He defense had like five expert witnesses and gave us
- 2:01:59Speaker 7: what added to a seminar on the psychology of abuse,
- 2:02:03Speaker 7: and the prosecution didn't have one contradictory expert witness. One
- 2:02:07Speaker 7: of the most popular notions is that the women on
- 2:02:12Speaker 7: Eric Sturiy were more sympathetic and more gullible and less
- 2:02:16Speaker 7: interested in justice than the men were. Well, in my opinion,
- 2:02:19Speaker 7: it was the men who got more emotional. I think
- 2:02:21Speaker 7: they were more invested in their in their opinions, and
- 2:02:27Speaker 7: more concerned about what the public would think about them
- 2:02:29Speaker 7: if they didn't return a first degree murder verdict. This
- 2:02:31Speaker 7: has got to be one of the least cred least
- 2:02:35Speaker 7: honest people I have ever had the pleasure of witnessing.
- 2:02:38Speaker 7: If you don't buy the sexual abuse, I can see
- 2:02:42Speaker 7: how it would be really hard to understand the rest
- 2:02:44Speaker 7: of it. I thought that the expert witnesses were very credible,
- 2:02:47Speaker 7: and I think that it was a big mistake on
- 2:02:49Speaker 7: the part of the prosecution to not have any counter
- 2:02:51Speaker 7: expert witnesses. You have to think about what are Ozill's
- 2:02:54Speaker 7: motives for making this tape and for asking these questions,
- 2:02:57Speaker 7: and what are their motives? What are they still trying
- 2:02:59Speaker 7: to hide? How much of this can you take at
- 2:03:01Speaker 7: face value? Abuse helps explain how they might have reached
- 2:03:06Speaker 7: the conclusion that their lives were in danger. But it
- 2:03:10Speaker 7: wasn't just we've been abused all our lives. Our parents
- 2:03:12Speaker 7: deserved it. So much evidence of this oppressive childhood that
- 2:03:16Speaker 7: they had that it was hard to ignore, especially when
- 2:03:19Speaker 7: the family members testified. Family members were testifying against Jose
- 2:03:24Speaker 7: and Kitty, they were not testifying against Eric and Lyle.
- 2:03:28Speaker 7: He was emotional and the audience was emotional. I could
- 2:03:35Speaker 7: feel the emotion, but I didn't cry like so many
- 2:03:39Speaker 7: others did, because it was very, very important for me
- 2:03:42Speaker 7: to be analyzing everything he said. Every minute, I was thinking, Okay,
- 2:03:49Speaker 7: is he telling the truth? Is he not telling the truth?
- 2:03:52Speaker 7: But he was so convincing that I figure he's either
- 2:03:55Speaker 7: telling the truth or he's the best actor I've ever
- 2:03:58Speaker 7: seen in my life. End of each child. The judge
- 2:04:00Speaker 7: admonished the jurors to avoid news of the trial. It
- 2:04:05Speaker 7: was almost impossible. And one of my clues that the
- 2:04:09Speaker 7: media was prosecution biased is that whenever I did talk
- 2:04:12Speaker 7: to friends, even if we didn't talk specifically about the trial,
- 2:04:16Speaker 7: they sometimes couldn't help themselves by asking me, did you
- 2:04:19Speaker 7: hang him yet? In Eric's testimony, when it came time
- 2:04:22Speaker 7: to talk about the abuse, he was so reluctant to
- 2:04:26Speaker 7: say the words out loud. It was a horrible moment.
- 2:04:29Speaker 7: And in the jury box, the man I was sitting
- 2:04:31Speaker 7: next to wrote in his notebook, Allege's father abused him period,
- 2:04:39Speaker 7: and then he closed his notebook, put it down on
- 2:04:41Speaker 7: the ground, and crossed his arms. And it was little
- 2:04:45Speaker 7: things like that that told me we were going to
- 2:04:47Speaker 7: have a problem in the jury room. During deliberations, the
- 2:04:51Speaker 7: women on Eric's jury had reason to believe that some
- 2:04:54Speaker 7: of the men either were watching the news or had
- 2:04:58Speaker 7: a source of information that I believe put pressure on
- 2:05:02Speaker 7: them to convict rather than to be seen as gullible
- 2:05:08Speaker 7: in the eyes of the public. We spent the next
- 2:05:11Speaker 7: month arguing the women on Eric's jury. We were all
- 2:05:15Speaker 7: about the evidence and the men. They were all about
- 2:05:18Speaker 7: justifying their opinion that this couldn't have happened in the
- 2:05:22Speaker 7: way that the Menanda's brothers said it was all about
- 2:05:25Speaker 7: their doubt that a man could ever abuse their sons.
- 2:05:27Speaker 7: They had a split jury down gender lines because half
- 2:05:31Speaker 7: the jury, which was all of the men, wanted to
- 2:05:34Speaker 7: vote for murder and all of the women wanted to
- 2:05:37Speaker 7: vote for manslaughter.
- 2:05:38Speaker 3: I realized that it was a con job. To me,
- 2:05:40Speaker 3: it was anyway. I sat in that jury box for
- 2:05:43Speaker 3: five months looking for the corroboration of all of his testimony,
- 2:05:48Speaker 3: and nothing was there.
- 2:05:49Speaker 1: I wanted it to be, and there just wasn't.
- 2:05:52Speaker 3: And Lyle says, well, I wanted Eric to sleep on
- 2:05:54Speaker 3: it for a few days before we decided to kill mother.
- 2:06:01Speaker 3: If that isn't premeditation to murder, I don't know what
- 2:06:08Speaker 3: it is. There were jurors that wanted to let the
- 2:06:10Speaker 3: guys walk, literally walk, and one of them was our foreman,
- 2:06:13Speaker 3: by the way, and that was one of his first
- 2:06:16Speaker 3: few statements, was that if he had his way, he
- 2:06:19Speaker 3: would sign the not guilty verdict and let the brothers go.
- 2:06:22Speaker 3: And that's when I blew up. I mean, I got
- 2:06:24Speaker 3: so angry and so heated that we had to take
- 2:06:27Speaker 3: a break, otherwise there would have been some physical confrontation
- 2:06:32Speaker 3: going on. It was impossible for me to understand how
- 2:06:35Speaker 3: any of the jurors could think or buy into the
- 2:06:38Speaker 3: fear element that they were in fear of their lives
- 2:06:41Speaker 3: that the moment or a few moments before they killed
- 2:06:44Speaker 3: their parents, because the parents were in a closed room,
- 2:06:48Speaker 3: the doors were closed, they had no weapons, The brothers
- 2:06:51Speaker 3: knew they had no weapons.
- 2:06:53Speaker 14: I think that it's as possible that they bought those
- 2:06:56Speaker 14: shotguns for defense, that they were afraid of their parents
- 2:07:00Speaker 14: as it is that they were planning to kill their parents.
- 2:07:03Speaker 14: We realized that we just basically did not agree on
- 2:07:07Speaker 14: what those basic facts meant. We agreed what the facts were,
- 2:07:11Speaker 14: we could not agree on their interpretation. Whether or not
- 2:07:14Speaker 14: somebody abuses you, you do not have the right to
- 2:07:17Speaker 14: kill them or to hurt them, and you should be
- 2:07:20Speaker 14: held accountable for that. And I think that every juror
- 2:07:23Speaker 14: on both juries feels the same way that in fact,
- 2:07:27Speaker 14: they should be held accountable. And we just couldn't decide
- 2:07:30Speaker 14: how accountable murder second degree, first degree or manslaughter.
- 2:07:34Speaker 8: When you go out next day by Rolex watches, when
- 2:07:38Speaker 8: you start spending money on sports cars like kind of
- 2:07:43Speaker 8: Lyell always wanted, and it was testified earlier that that's
- 2:07:46Speaker 8: what he wanted. He went out and got it. It
- 2:07:50Speaker 8: just didn't seem like they were grieving. Or we would
- 2:07:52Speaker 8: pick a foreman and then we would take a vote,
- 2:07:56Speaker 8: and I felt like it would be unanimous guilty the
- 2:08:00Speaker 8: first degree murder, But to my surprise, it came out
- 2:08:06Speaker 8: sixty six when we took our first rope.
- 2:08:16Speaker 1: I mean, I don't appreciate you saying that the nerd
- 2:08:20Speaker 1: looked like me, although you didn't really say that I'm projecting.
- 2:08:27Speaker 2: I's I I just want to say, there are so
- 2:08:32Speaker 2: many things I find problematic with that jury. Is they
- 2:08:40Speaker 2: absolutely were watching news they weren't supposed to, and I
- 2:08:45Speaker 2: I think it was the time. I don't think normal
- 2:08:51Speaker 2: men could wrap their heads around the fact that a
- 2:08:54Speaker 2: father would do that to their own Yeah, I think,
- 2:08:58Speaker 2: And I think that You're first thought is, oh my god,
- 2:09:01Speaker 2: they would never. And that's like I used to tell
- 2:09:04Speaker 2: people as a mom, I learned the hard way, don't
- 2:09:07Speaker 2: ever say my kid would never, because guess what, your
- 2:09:10Speaker 2: kid's gonna be the first one to do it. So
- 2:09:12Speaker 2: I think that. So I don't want to shame them
- 2:09:15Speaker 2: because I think that's just the way it was back then.
- 2:09:20Speaker 1: But damn yeah, I will say this. I'll say this.
- 2:09:25Speaker 1: The the observation, the line, the the fact that it
- 2:09:31Speaker 1: was split down gender identified gender roles or whatever that's
- 2:09:38Speaker 1: from the not Surprised files.
- 2:09:41Speaker 2: I mean, it's just I can't blame them. It's the
- 2:09:44Speaker 2: way we were raised back then. Just like if a
- 2:09:48Speaker 2: girl got pregnant in high school, it was her fault
- 2:09:51Speaker 2: for enticing the football player or the boy. He had
- 2:09:55Speaker 2: no accountability in it. If she wouldn't you know, enticed him.
- 2:09:59Speaker 2: So it's just this same thing.
- 2:10:02Speaker 1: That's two weeks in a row. You made me spit
- 2:10:03Speaker 1: out my drinking surprise. Yeah, yeah, that whole like you
- 2:10:09Speaker 1: shouldn't address so provocatively, et cetera. You know, or men
- 2:10:15Speaker 1: should be held to a higher standard.
- 2:10:19Speaker 2: I think we should all. I think we should all
- 2:10:22Speaker 2: be held to a higher standard. And I think we
- 2:10:25Speaker 2: need to stop and think and question the norm thinking
- 2:10:30Speaker 2: just because that's the way we've always done it, that's
- 2:10:32Speaker 2: the way we were raised, you should still question it
- 2:10:37Speaker 2: because guess what, maybe there's one anomaly. Oh like maybe
- 2:10:43Speaker 2: Tara's up bunny instead of a lama.
- 2:10:48Speaker 1: Ah blasphemy, You're fired.
- 2:10:54Speaker 2: Could be let's get the trial too, because trial to
- 2:10:59Speaker 2: is a sh show. I'm going to just say it.
- 2:11:03Speaker 1: It is a shit show. I don't know if I
- 2:11:04Speaker 1: get so much into the sensationalism and the shit show,
- 2:11:07Speaker 1: but I do get into exactly what happened, which I
- 2:11:11Speaker 1: I do want to say that I've moved on from
- 2:11:13Speaker 1: wine to fake apples, fake hard sighter Bellini. That's where
- 2:11:20Speaker 1: I've gone. I've already finished, So we're moving on, all right.
- 2:11:23Speaker 2: You drank a whole bottle of wine, and I'm only
- 2:11:26Speaker 2: on glass too. Damn I'm raising.
- 2:11:31Speaker 1: Right, meaning DCWT, I am glad.
- 2:11:38Speaker 2: It's only taken you how many years to get here?
- 2:11:40Speaker 2: But okay, you're here. It's okay. Some men are a
- 2:11:43Speaker 2: little bit slower than others, but you finally get that.
- 2:11:46Speaker 1: As the kids say, started from the bottom. Now I'm here.
- 2:11:49Speaker 1: Nobody says that. Nobody says that. Noah person says that.
- 2:11:53Speaker 1: All right, so listen, let's get because, yeah, we have
- 2:11:57Speaker 1: the mistrial. The first trial, there are one hundred one witnesses.
- 2:12:00Speaker 1: It was televised. It was a high media spectacle. The
- 2:12:03Speaker 1: retrial there were sixty four witnesses. It was more traditional
- 2:12:06Speaker 1: and a serious murder trial than the spectacle. The prosecution
- 2:12:11Speaker 1: of the defense team a little bit different. We had
- 2:12:15Speaker 1: David Kahn, who was the veteran assistant District Attarney. Also,
- 2:12:21Speaker 1: he looks like Dwight Shrewd. Looks like he should be,
- 2:12:26Speaker 1: you know, pulling beats. To be honest with you, when
- 2:12:30Speaker 1: the band said we got the beat, they didn't mean Dwight,
- 2:12:32Speaker 1: but he sure as hell did. And Carol Najera replaced
- 2:12:36Speaker 1: Pam Bosanich and Lester Kiriama Leslie Abramson continued to represent
- 2:12:44Speaker 1: Eric funded by taxpayers as the Menendaz estate had actually
- 2:12:48Speaker 1: run out of money. Barry Levin assisted Abramson and then
- 2:12:55Speaker 1: which Barry Barry Levin looks like Barry Bostwick.
- 2:13:00Speaker 2: Question, did the Menindez thing run out of money or
- 2:13:05Speaker 2: did the family stop paying it because they were being charged?
- 2:13:13Speaker 1: I don't know.
- 2:13:13Speaker 2: That just hit me. I'm like, there's no way they
- 2:13:15Speaker 2: ran out of money.
- 2:13:18Speaker 1: From what I found, it was the estate ran out
- 2:13:21Speaker 1: of money.
- 2:13:22Speaker 2: That'll be a state said you ain't getting no more money.
- 2:13:27Speaker 1: Yeah, produce a terra saying that that is the case.
- 2:13:31Speaker 2: Okay, that's what I would think, because I mean, you
- 2:13:35Speaker 2: can't use your family's money if you kill the family.
- 2:13:39Speaker 2: Like if I killed double H, I can't use his
- 2:13:41Speaker 2: money to do my defense.
- 2:13:46Speaker 1: I mean you can. You just got to be good
- 2:13:48Speaker 1: at it. I've seen money used for weird.
- 2:13:53Speaker 2: I would never kill him.
- 2:13:55Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 2:13:56Speaker 1: I gave you really shiny, sparkly knives.
- 2:14:00Speaker 5: Guys.
- 2:14:01Speaker 2: These knives are beautiful. They're gold. Okay, y'all want to
- 2:14:09Speaker 2: see how sharp they are? Let me get a piece
- 2:14:11Speaker 2: of paper.
- 2:14:13Speaker 1: Oh geez, all right, so listen, here's the thing. Paris
- 2:14:17Speaker 1: Hilton makes knives sharper than she is. I mean they
- 2:14:23Speaker 1: like slice, You're like, I can't remember what his name is,
- 2:14:31Speaker 1: but that that late night television that commercial host I
- 2:14:38Speaker 1: might use those on. Okay, let's go, all right, So
- 2:14:43Speaker 1: here's the deal. Lyle was declared indigent and he was
- 2:14:48Speaker 1: represented by a public defender, Charles Gessler, who is a
- 2:14:51Speaker 1: well known penalty attorney, very well known, not for his hair.
- 2:14:58Speaker 1: And then there was Terry Towery who was who assisted
- 2:15:01Speaker 1: Gessler as well. And there's that haircut again, just with
- 2:15:05Speaker 1: less bang and more part. In terms of the prosecution strategy,
- 2:15:11Speaker 1: Kahn studied the mistakes of Bozenich and Curiama and ensure
- 2:15:16Speaker 1: that he directly addressed the abuse allegations. He said, you
- 2:15:19Speaker 1: know what, they didn't do that good. They didn't do
- 2:15:20Speaker 1: a good job with that. Let's go. He hired forensic
- 2:15:25Speaker 1: psychiatrist doctor Park Elliott. Deets scene here yelling at a
- 2:15:31Speaker 1: small child for skipping down his driveway to counter the
- 2:15:37Speaker 1: counter the I didn't make that observation earlier, but boy,
- 2:15:41Speaker 1: oh boy, he looks angry to counter the battered person
- 2:15:45Speaker 1: syndrome defense. Successfully, they they deats despite how interesting he
- 2:15:52Speaker 1: looks here successfully helped them throw out the battered person's
- 2:15:58Speaker 1: syndrome defense. Now, Judge Weisberg, October eleventh, nineteen ninety five,
- 2:16:04Speaker 1: I'm still seen here with less hair than usual. The
- 2:16:10Speaker 1: retrial began. Weisberg ruled that the brothers were would be
- 2:16:16Speaker 1: tried retried together with a single jury, stating that a
- 2:16:21Speaker 1: single single jury the single trial's advantages outweighed any potential prejudice.
- 2:16:28Speaker 5: So wow, he wouldn't admit. He wouldn't admit that he
- 2:16:35Speaker 5: made a mistake here, he made a mistake.
- 2:16:38Speaker 1: It's man.
- 2:16:40Speaker 2: Yeah, he's a man. Let's just be honest.
- 2:16:45Speaker 1: That's fair. Oh, I don't know what does that make
- 2:16:46Speaker 1: me then, because there's a lot of times I come
- 2:16:48Speaker 1: into our little group chat and I'm just like, I
- 2:16:50Speaker 1: fucked up.
- 2:16:53Speaker 2: Okay, how about you're a smart man.
- 2:16:59Speaker 1: I'm not there.
- 2:17:00Speaker 2: My wife has raised too well.
- 2:17:03Speaker 1: There you go. That works better. That works, I mean
- 2:17:05Speaker 1: that for the most part, works better for the most part.
- 2:17:07Speaker 1: In Forrest, come though, when he says I'm not a
- 2:17:09Speaker 1: smart man, that's that's me.
- 2:17:12Speaker 2: That's okay, producer terror and I'm just pop a gummy
- 2:17:14Speaker 2: and deal with you.
- 2:17:21Speaker 1: It's not the first time somebody said they needed to
- 2:17:23Speaker 1: do a substance in order to deal with me. All right,
- 2:17:25Speaker 1: so let's just go, oh god, okay, so where were
- 2:17:35Speaker 1: we there? We are, thank you. There were no cameras
- 2:17:39Speaker 1: allowed this time, and much of the sexual abuse evidence
- 2:17:43Speaker 1: and testimony was actually deemed inadmissible, so they wouldn't even
- 2:17:47Speaker 1: allow that.
- 2:17:47Speaker 4: To come in.
- 2:17:48Speaker 2: Do you know why? Because they did not want another
- 2:17:52Speaker 2: mistrial because that is seen as a failure. And if
- 2:17:56Speaker 2: you take out the sexual abuse evidence, the chance and
- 2:18:00Speaker 2: says if you getting a conviction are higher, And that's
- 2:18:04Speaker 2: why they did it, and that's why we're in the
- 2:18:07Speaker 2: situation we are in now waiting on a re sentencing,
- 2:18:11Speaker 2: caring and I won't get on my soap. I will
- 2:18:14Speaker 2: just sit on my knives.
- 2:18:15Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, don't do that. Good God, uh
- 2:18:21Speaker 1: produce a teric. Can you just confirm that the second
- 2:18:30Speaker 1: trial was post OJ? Right? No, it was before. I
- 2:18:36Speaker 1: don't know my timeline. Don't worry about it. We got it.
- 2:18:39Speaker 1: It started a week after it started a week after
- 2:18:44Speaker 1: OJ right, right, right, right, So so so here's here's
- 2:18:50Speaker 1: my justification. Here is that it started a week after
- 2:18:54Speaker 1: they really needed a conviction. They had been looked, they
- 2:18:57Speaker 1: had been made to look silly because if it don't fit,
- 2:19:00Speaker 1: it don't equit, And so they were going to toss
- 2:19:03Speaker 1: things out in order to get a conviction versus doing
- 2:19:05Speaker 1: a full defense. That's my argument. But nah, so Weisberg's
- 2:19:13Speaker 1: rulings against the defense. He limited the number of defense
- 2:19:16Speaker 1: mental health experts. He excluded this guy. I've got words, okay,
- 2:19:30Speaker 1: but we know why.
- 2:19:33Speaker 2: And we haven't shared it. But he admitted that he
- 2:19:39Speaker 2: deleted notes from his sessions and didn't provide them to
- 2:19:45Speaker 2: the prosecution, which is misconduct. But what I have to
- 2:19:49Speaker 2: say about that, if you are a psychologist, why should
- 2:19:55Speaker 2: you have to give the notes about your patient to
- 2:19:58Speaker 2: the prosecution. But I get it because the court's paying
- 2:20:02Speaker 2: and all that ship, But there is still.
- 2:20:08Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't yeah, I don't know. All I have
- 2:20:12Speaker 1: to say is that if you have a mustache that
- 2:20:14Speaker 1: in the middle is black and at the sides is gray,
- 2:20:19Speaker 1: you still shouldn't have a mustache because that very much
- 2:20:23Speaker 1: looks like you're happy with somebody else.
- 2:20:27Speaker 2: He looks like one of the little chaplain guys that
- 2:20:29Speaker 2: were the little black hats and did that stuff. I
- 2:20:32Speaker 2: forget what his name was. Charlie Chaplin Charlie Chaplin, doesn't
- 2:20:36Speaker 2: he take off his squam.
- 2:20:37Speaker 1: He he looks like, yeah, okay, yes he does. You're right,
- 2:20:44Speaker 1: Charlie Chaplin, hippa did not exist yet.
- 2:20:49Speaker 2: Yes it did at all. It did, just not in court.
- 2:20:54Speaker 2: There was a rod right, just not in court. But
- 2:20:58Speaker 2: there's always there's not always, but for many, many years
- 2:21:01Speaker 2: there's been a version if you can't tell.
- 2:21:02Speaker 1: Shit, but right, but like as it's known today, wasn't
- 2:21:07Speaker 1: in effect.
- 2:21:08Speaker 2: No, not the way it is in today?
- 2:21:10Speaker 1: Correct, right?
- 2:21:12Speaker 3: Right?
- 2:21:13Speaker 9: Right?
- 2:21:13Speaker 1: Right? All right? So he so basically he did allow
- 2:21:19Speaker 1: for the heat of passion defense for Jose's killing, but
- 2:21:22Speaker 1: not for kiddies. Also, he ruled that there was no
- 2:21:25Speaker 1: evidence of imminent danger when the murders occurred, which rejected
- 2:21:29Speaker 1: self defense jury instruction. In other words, he cut their
- 2:21:32Speaker 1: legs out from under them.
- 2:21:33Speaker 2: But I have a question, because you're more of a
- 2:21:37Speaker 2: trial why than I am. Why would you give the
- 2:21:46Speaker 2: heat of passion for one but not the others?
- 2:21:51Speaker 1: Well, it was the judge that did it, right, No,
- 2:21:53Speaker 1: But why would.
- 2:21:54Speaker 2: The judge say, oh, you can do one but not
- 2:21:57Speaker 2: the other. They were killed at the same time. The
- 2:22:02Speaker 2: So I just don't get it, like you said he
- 2:22:05Speaker 2: cut his that cut their legs off.
- 2:22:06Speaker 1: But whyy So the way that they talked about this
- 2:22:13Speaker 1: is that Jose was a heat of passion. In other words,
- 2:22:17Speaker 1: they did this due to what was the arguments and
- 2:22:19Speaker 1: things that happened, kitties. Was not because it was more
- 2:22:22Speaker 1: of a sympathy kill. Because the brothers said it was
- 2:22:25Speaker 1: a sympathy kill.
- 2:22:26Speaker 2: Yeah, because they didn't want to admit. Okay, makes sense.
- 2:22:30Speaker 1: So the prosecutions CON's key points in his opening argument
- 2:22:34Speaker 1: the Menanda's brothers were motivated by greed when they killed
- 2:22:37Speaker 1: their parents. Claim brothers carried their dead parents is safe
- 2:22:42Speaker 1: to probate Attorney's home within twenty four hours of the murders.
- 2:22:47Speaker 1: He looks like he's about to sell me a broom. Sorry,
- 2:22:52Speaker 1: that's just what he looks like. The defense response, Abramson
- 2:22:58Speaker 1: are also, we got to take them out of me. Abrason,
- 2:23:02Speaker 1: it's very hard to say after a Bottle argued they
- 2:23:04Speaker 1: were killed due to mind numbing, adrenaline pumping fear, and
- 2:23:11Speaker 1: Gessler argued that the brothers believed their parents had supernatural
- 2:23:15Speaker 1: powers and knew their every move, which I can only
- 2:23:20Speaker 1: imagine Abramson sitting there going we did not discuss this.
- 2:23:25Speaker 1: It just seems too far fetched for Abramson. She seems
- 2:23:28Speaker 1: very down to earth with her arguments in terms of
- 2:23:32Speaker 1: the key prosecution evidence and witnesses. There were three key
- 2:23:35Speaker 1: tapes played. The police interview, which was one month after
- 2:23:38Speaker 1: the murders. The brothers said they had no issues with
- 2:23:42Speaker 1: their parents, so.
- 2:23:45Speaker 2: Well as an Avid, Olivia Benson lover and fangirl. I
- 2:23:51Speaker 2: know that victims often do not tell the truth the
- 2:23:56Speaker 2: first one or two times are talking with police, so duh,
- 2:24:01Speaker 2: they're ashamed, they're traumatized, and they think no one believed them,
- 2:24:06Speaker 2: or say why didn't do you leave? So we just
- 2:24:10Speaker 2: all need to listen to Olivia Benson.
- 2:24:17Speaker 1: Yeah, so well, doctor o'zell didn't come back to testify.
- 2:24:24Speaker 1: They did play the confession tapes admitting to the killings,
- 2:24:27Speaker 1: so we didn't have to see radio shack man. We
- 2:24:30Speaker 1: just had to listen to his bad choices. Then there
- 2:24:33Speaker 1: was Lyle's nine one one call con highlighted that their
- 2:24:38Speaker 1: web of lies to avoid con highlighted their quote web
- 2:24:43Speaker 1: of lies to avoid suspicion, and our producers giving us
- 2:24:51Speaker 1: a note that it was bullshit. He should have had
- 2:24:52Speaker 1: to testify that he recorded it to make it authentic.
- 2:24:57Speaker 1: You're correct, he should have. They should have authentic icated that,
- 2:25:01Speaker 1: and they did not, And yeah, that's not good. So
- 2:25:06Speaker 1: you had the corner's findings and the new crime scene reconstruction.
- 2:25:10Speaker 1: So doctor Irwin Golden, who.
- 2:25:12Speaker 9: Was what what?
- 2:25:13Speaker 2: I'm sitting here talking on mute and I'm like, oh
- 2:25:16Speaker 2: my god, he's ignoring me again. So didn't the fact
- 2:25:21Speaker 2: that that wasn't authenticated? Wasn't that listed in their appeal
- 2:25:25Speaker 2: later on? Because just like you can't have hearsay witnesses,
- 2:25:30Speaker 2: if you cannot question that witness, you can't play their tape.
- 2:25:35Speaker 2: So I think it was. We don't have to look
- 2:25:37Speaker 2: it up. Yeah, but I think it was. But we'll
- 2:25:42Speaker 2: find out when they eventually go for their recent and
- 2:25:45Speaker 2: sing trial.
- 2:25:48Speaker 1: Right and for everybody, this is why we're doing this
- 2:25:50Speaker 1: is because the men and his brothers are set to
- 2:25:53Speaker 1: be re sentenced. We thought it was gonna be the
- 2:25:56Speaker 1: twenty of twenty first, but they've postponed it. So but
- 2:26:00Speaker 1: we will have great things coming. So, doctor Irwin Golden,
- 2:26:07Speaker 1: the original corner was not called due to criticism over
- 2:26:10Speaker 1: errors in the O. J. Simpson case. Probably a good
- 2:26:13Speaker 1: idea that's a fascinating fella. What is with everybody in
- 2:26:21Speaker 1: like the nineties with their receding hairline, who are probably
- 2:26:26Speaker 1: thirty two? He's probably thirty two. Everybody in the nineties
- 2:26:30Speaker 1: had a receding hairline, and they were like in their
- 2:26:32Speaker 1: early thirties. He is not.
- 2:26:34Speaker 2: What is the He is not in his early thirties.
- 2:26:39Speaker 1: Correct, he does look a lot like the muppet who
- 2:26:41Speaker 1: does science. You are right, he does.
- 2:26:44Speaker 2: I'm gonna say he is forty five.
- 2:26:47Speaker 1: Okay, I'm sure he is a nice gentleman.
- 2:26:51Speaker 2: Because he helped invent hymns, which helps grow hair. So yeah,
- 2:26:57Speaker 2: it looked like the top of.
- 2:26:59Speaker 1: His head lived a much harder life than the rest
- 2:27:01Speaker 1: of him.
- 2:27:02Speaker 2: Well, why you talk. I don't go google it. Since
- 2:27:06Speaker 2: I can no longer say give it a goog, I'm
- 2:27:08Speaker 2: gonna go find out.
- 2:27:11Speaker 1: Okay, all right, so listen they doctor Roger McCarthy. I
- 2:27:18Speaker 1: almost said that word for where Doctor Roger McCarthy reconstructed
- 2:27:22Speaker 1: the murders To prove premeditation. He used a computer generated
- 2:27:27Speaker 1: recreation of the shooting was probably gray men. He concluded
- 2:27:30Speaker 1: that Jose and Kitty were executed in a deliberate manner. Now,
- 2:27:35Speaker 1: The private pathologist Robert Lawrence, testified and said he demonstrated
- 2:27:39Speaker 1: the shooting angles. He used mannikins, and he argued that
- 2:27:43Speaker 1: Jose was shot after death to make the killings look
- 2:27:45Speaker 1: like a mafia hit. Kitty's wound suggested that she was
- 2:27:49Speaker 1: cover cowering on the floor when she was shot. I'm
- 2:27:54Speaker 1: not sure that that actually argues mafia hit because I
- 2:27:58Speaker 1: feel like the mafia would be would be way more
- 2:28:00Speaker 1: proud of a one shot and out versus the whole,
- 2:28:04Speaker 1: like unless they were trying to send a message. I
- 2:28:07Speaker 1: don't know.
- 2:28:09Speaker 2: Agreed, and just see, you know, according to the Google search,
- 2:28:13Speaker 2: he was forty three.
- 2:28:19Speaker 1: I don't know. I feel like I don't All I'm
- 2:28:23Speaker 1: saying is that I watched PBA tours and I see
- 2:28:25Speaker 1: the dudes from the nineties and they always look like
- 2:28:27Speaker 1: they're fifty five and they're actually twenty four. It's weird, incorrect.
- 2:28:32Speaker 1: The mafia would not use shotguns. They are much too loud.
- 2:28:36Speaker 1: There's much too much that could go wrong, all right,
- 2:28:41Speaker 1: So the defense's response to the reconstruction, The defense called
- 2:28:45Speaker 1: multiple experts to refute McCarthy's findings. They it would testify
- 2:28:51Speaker 1: that McCarthy's reconstruction was not scientific, and that Kitty and
- 2:28:55Speaker 1: Jose were standing up one shot. Truly, that reconstruction looks
- 2:29:01Speaker 1: like a freshman in high school's three D studio Max
- 2:29:05Speaker 1: try that is that Picasso would go, it's a bit much.
- 2:29:11Speaker 1: I don't know.
- 2:29:14Speaker 2: Okay, those reenactments. I'm not a fan of them because
- 2:29:20Speaker 2: we all know that you can manipulate them and that
- 2:29:27Speaker 2: I'm sorry, that doesn't even look like a person. That
- 2:29:31Speaker 2: looks like a Plato doll.
- 2:29:34Speaker 1: I mean observations, correct. I know reconstruction is very different
- 2:29:42Speaker 1: than it was today. However, I will say the staircase
- 2:29:45Speaker 1: recreation was just like this. It was just as silly looking.
- 2:29:50Speaker 2: This looks like a crash test.
- 2:29:51Speaker 1: If you haven't seen the staircase watch it also that
- 2:29:57Speaker 1: that image implicates, or imply is that Kitty was right
- 2:30:01Speaker 1: next to Jose during this time, but wasn't Kitty on
- 2:30:05Speaker 1: the other couch, like in front of the other couch.
- 2:30:10Speaker 2: So she was found on the floor because she got
- 2:30:13Speaker 2: up and tried to flee, but they were sitting next
- 2:30:19Speaker 2: to each other when she was shot, but then she
- 2:30:21Speaker 2: fell on the floor after.
- 2:30:23Speaker 1: Yeah, are we basing that off of the recreation or
- 2:30:26Speaker 1: do we know that for a fact.
- 2:30:27Speaker 2: No, that's from the actual crime scene photos that you
- 2:30:31Speaker 2: can file the fine on the dark web.
- 2:30:35Speaker 1: Which I don't have access to nineteen ninety five graphics.
- 2:30:41Speaker 1: So yeah, there were multiple people to refute. And yes,
- 2:30:46Speaker 1: those videos can be edited and messed up and made
- 2:30:50Speaker 1: to look like anybody. But here's the thing. In the nineties,
- 2:30:53Speaker 1: if you could do something like that, whether it was
- 2:30:55Speaker 1: fixed or not, it looked impressive. And they were like, yes,
- 2:30:57Speaker 1: it's impressive. Yeah, I've had enough of looking at the
- 2:31:00Speaker 1: lamp from Pixar. Let's watch this, all right. So Eric's testimony.
- 2:31:08Speaker 1: Lyle chose not to testify this time, but Eric testified
- 2:31:10Speaker 1: for fifteen days. That's right, fifteen days. You thought Jody
- 2:31:14Speaker 1: Arius was enough. No, no, no, Eric testified for fifteen days.
- 2:31:19Speaker 1: Judge Weisberg limited his testimony on childhood abuse, deeming some
- 2:31:23Speaker 1: claims irrelevant. I can't imagine as a judge sitting up
- 2:31:27Speaker 1: there saying I'm sorry, your experiences irrelevant, But here we are.
- 2:31:32Speaker 1: That's why I'm not a judge. He does under cross examination, Yeah,
- 2:31:38Speaker 1: con portrayed Eric as a liar, highlighting his past deceptions.
- 2:31:42Speaker 1: Question why Eric didn't leave home or join the army
- 2:31:46Speaker 1: if he feared his father, that's quite a leap, quite
- 2:31:50Speaker 1: a leap. Eric admitted no living witnesses could verify verify
- 2:31:58Speaker 1: the abuse in terms of psychological testimonies and defense. Uh
- 2:32:03Speaker 1: doctor deets. The prosecution psychiatrist found no evidence of PTSD
- 2:32:07Speaker 1: and Eric, Wow, there he is arguing that some kid
- 2:32:11Speaker 1: is on his lawn and humpty dumpty does not want
- 2:32:14Speaker 1: to fall over again. That's what he looks like. His
- 2:32:18Speaker 1: tie looks like it goes to his knees. What a
- 2:32:21Speaker 1: fella woolf jesus.
- 2:32:27Speaker 2: I mean the fact that the psychiatrists that he had
- 2:32:30Speaker 2: no PTSD. He would have even had PTSD from killing
- 2:32:36Speaker 2: his parents. So this guy was paid very well to
- 2:32:43Speaker 2: say what the prosecution wanted.
- 2:32:52Speaker 4: You.
- 2:32:52Speaker 1: No, you're you're right. And I think, honestly, even if
- 2:32:55Speaker 1: somebody would have said PTSD for sure, just like a
- 2:33:00Speaker 1: guest on Spruck, it's I don't know, yeah, so he
- 2:33:06Speaker 1: would he diagnosed Eric with generalized anxiety disorder. Instead, he
- 2:33:12Speaker 1: said he doesn't have PTSD, he has general anxiety disorder.
- 2:33:16Speaker 1: There is nothing general about that. Also, you're an ass hat, argued,
- 2:33:23Speaker 1: Eric's weapon purchases showed assertiveness, not helplessness. No, it looks
- 2:33:28Speaker 1: like a last ditch effort to get out of something, sir,
- 2:33:33Speaker 1: makes me angry. Doctor John Wilson, the defense psychologist, diagnosed
- 2:33:40Speaker 1: Eric with PTSD, which we agree with. There was a
- 2:33:45Speaker 1: major shift in Lyle's defense Guestsler abandoned the self defense
- 2:33:50Speaker 1: argument while it was thrown out used in the first trial. Instead,
- 2:33:55Speaker 1: he argued that Lyle acted in a quote heat of passion. Change.
- 2:33:59Speaker 1: The change was due to new evidence of Lyle coaching witnesses,
- 2:34:04Speaker 1: which I mean.
- 2:34:11Speaker 2: Not saying it was right, because it's absolutely wrong, just
- 2:34:14Speaker 2: like you shouldn't coach a candidate for an interview, and
- 2:34:18Speaker 2: that's a big thing in the HR in the recruiting world.
- 2:34:21Speaker 2: But in their case, sorry, y'all, I cut my finger.
- 2:34:25Speaker 2: What young adult isn't gonna do anything they possibly can
- 2:34:33Speaker 2: to save their life. That is natural human response. I'm
- 2:34:38Speaker 2: not saying it's right, but I don't think we can say, oh,
- 2:34:42Speaker 2: you shouldn't have done that, because guess what, it's probably
- 2:34:45Speaker 2: scared shitless in willing to try anything. And the judges said,
- 2:34:50Speaker 2: you can't say you were abused, You can't speak your
- 2:34:53Speaker 2: truth because we don't believe you. So if they don't
- 2:34:57Speaker 2: believe that shouldn't you do something?
- 2:35:02Speaker 1: Here, here's my thought, and and and and it might
- 2:35:06Speaker 1: not apply to everything. But if you say, if the
- 2:35:09Speaker 1: conversation goes like this, I wouldn't have done that, and
- 2:35:14Speaker 1: the person says, have you ever been in that situation?
- 2:35:17Speaker 1: And you say, well, no, the next thing out of
- 2:35:21Speaker 1: the other person now should be, then shut the fuck up,
- 2:35:24Speaker 1: because if you've never been in that situation, you sure
- 2:35:28Speaker 1: as hell shouldn't be, shouldn't be, could not be making
- 2:35:34Speaker 1: that comment. You have no place to make that comment
- 2:35:38Speaker 1: if you've never experienced that at all.
- 2:35:42Speaker 2: And that's the problem I have. And that's why we
- 2:35:46Speaker 2: try so hard, all of us when we are talking
- 2:35:49Speaker 2: about cases and things. We always say we think we
- 2:35:54Speaker 2: would react this way, we think we would do that,
- 2:35:57Speaker 2: But guess what, until we are actually in that, we
- 2:36:02Speaker 2: don't know.
- 2:36:04Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, and and that's why that's why, like for
- 2:36:08Speaker 1: this case, and I think I'm so proud, like I'm happy,
- 2:36:13Speaker 1: let's just tuck ourselves up. But like, it's very easy
- 2:36:16Speaker 1: to jump to conclusions. You know, it's very easy to
- 2:36:20Speaker 1: be like they pulled the trigger, they're guilty, put them
- 2:36:23Speaker 1: in jail. Again, you have to consider the entire context.
- 2:36:27Speaker 1: You have to consider everything, and you have to consider,
- 2:36:30Speaker 1: like my argument here is what benefit, what benefit? What
- 2:36:34Speaker 1: do they get out of? And yes, of course by
- 2:36:37Speaker 1: all means you can say, well, they would have been
- 2:36:39Speaker 1: found innocent, but what benefit.
- 2:36:44Speaker 2: It's not easy, Okay, I don't.
- 2:36:48Speaker 1: Think you would.
- 2:36:52Speaker 2: Okay, But we're also not trying to say they were innocent.
- 2:36:55Speaker 2: They admitted they didn't. So there's a difference between innocent.
- 2:37:00Speaker 1: What we we're arguing for mitigating factors, I think is
- 2:37:06Speaker 1: what we're arguing there were legitimate mitigating factors, all right.
- 2:37:11Speaker 1: So to finish this up, to wrap this up, this
- 2:37:15Speaker 1: this second trial, the prosecution and closing arguments ridiculed the
- 2:37:19Speaker 1: abuse claims as a fabricated excuse, which makes you kind
- 2:37:23Speaker 1: of a dick urged jury to convict on first degree
- 2:37:27Speaker 1: murder not manslaughter. Now, the defense Abramson, accused Khan of
- 2:37:31Speaker 1: using fraudulent witnesses for political gain, interesting attacked the prosecution's
- 2:37:36Speaker 1: claim that the brothers made it look like a mafia hit,
- 2:37:39Speaker 1: and Gessler compared the case to a Greek tragedy, blaming
- 2:37:44Speaker 1: Jose and Kitty for their own demise. It's really interesting
- 2:37:51Speaker 1: to me and I didn't make this observation. But his
- 2:37:55Speaker 1: name is Khan, and and that's fascinating.
- 2:38:01Speaker 4: But like.
- 2:38:03Speaker 1: God, yeah, I find though, Yes, his wrath, the wrath
- 2:38:09Speaker 1: of Khan is wrong. I've got three people at the
- 2:38:15Speaker 1: same time in the background.
- 2:38:16Speaker 2: I'm just trying not to suck my finger on the
- 2:38:19Speaker 2: camera anymore so that I don't get in trouble because
- 2:38:23Speaker 2: this is not my only fans age.
- 2:38:26Speaker 1: I know this is not my only fans I we
- 2:38:32Speaker 1: can talk about that later. Here's the thing, like, accusing
- 2:38:39Speaker 1: Con of using fraudulent witnesses for political gain is quite
- 2:38:42Speaker 1: the leap. As as as true as that probably was,
- 2:38:47Speaker 1: I don't think the jury would like to hear that,
- 2:38:49Speaker 1: to be honest with you, it's almost a personal attack.
- 2:38:52Speaker 1: The jury's like, I'm over it anyways, all right, con
- 2:38:55Speaker 1: spot a final statement, Con accused the brothers of blaming
- 2:38:59Speaker 1: the victims and creating an elaborate abuse excuse, and asserted
- 2:39:04Speaker 1: that they told countless lies to justify their crimes. Just
- 2:39:10Speaker 1: so much so, I'm going to go ahead. I've been
- 2:39:12Speaker 1: talking long enough. I am going to let you go
- 2:39:14Speaker 1: ahead and get into conviction and sentencing.
- 2:39:16Speaker 2: Well, I am going to agree with Chakkahn one thing
- 2:39:24Speaker 2: or con sorry not sha Ka Khan. But they did
- 2:39:28Speaker 2: tell countless lies. I don't think they were to justify
- 2:39:32Speaker 2: the crimes they were trying to explain. I think there's
- 2:39:37Speaker 2: a difference. But that's my two cents. But we're going
- 2:39:39Speaker 2: to get into it.
- 2:39:40Speaker 1: Oh, you're right, there's a difference. There is a distinct difference.
- 2:39:45Speaker 2: Not everybody agrees with me. But first trial both juries
- 2:39:48Speaker 2: for Erica Mile were deadlock and as we know, the
- 2:39:51Speaker 2: first trial ended in a mistrial. The second trial, both
- 2:39:55Speaker 2: While and Eric were found guilty a first degree murder
- 2:39:59Speaker 2: and conspare to commit murder in March of nineteen ninety six. Now,
- 2:40:04Speaker 2: the sentencing portion took three weeks, okay, and the defense
- 2:40:10Speaker 2: called eighteen witnesses to testify on behalf of the brothers. Now,
- 2:40:17Speaker 2: since the sentencing phase is different from the trial, other
- 2:40:21Speaker 2: evidence is allowed to be used, such as the age
- 2:40:26Speaker 2: of the brothers, their emotional distress, the stuff that happened
- 2:40:31Speaker 2: to them, the trauma in their life. So basically then
- 2:40:36Speaker 2: they were able to kind of somewhat get that into
- 2:40:40Speaker 2: evidence and to get some sympathy from the jury for
- 2:40:44Speaker 2: what happened to the brothers. Okay. Now, so it is
- 2:40:51Speaker 2: during the sentencing phase that it was discovered and proved
- 2:40:59Speaker 2: that the psychiatrist Vickory had falsified his records. So they
- 2:41:07Speaker 2: didn't allow him to testify in the second one because
- 2:41:10Speaker 2: they were investigating it. But they he finally admitted it
- 2:41:16Speaker 2: and proved it was true.
- 2:41:17Speaker 1: What this guy, this guy looks like he not only
- 2:41:24Speaker 1: falsified that, but that he falsifies his tender and his
- 2:41:27Speaker 1: bumble and possibly a couple other accounts as well. This smella.
- 2:41:34Speaker 1: He I cannot, I can, I cannot decide where I
- 2:41:41Speaker 1: want to start with this guy. I just can't. You
- 2:41:45Speaker 1: know what we mentioned earlier, bird Bones, this is the dude.
- 2:41:50Speaker 1: This is bird Bones. I am calling him bird Bones
- 2:41:53Speaker 1: from here on out. That's his nickname. He receives the
- 2:41:57Speaker 1: bird Bones. I feel like.
- 2:42:03Speaker 2: The psychiatrist bird Bones admitted that he deleted information. Now, guys, yes,
- 2:42:13Speaker 2: this could have resulted in a mistrial, but the judge
- 2:42:19Speaker 2: allowed Abradson to stay on his eric's attorney because psychiatrists
- 2:42:25Speaker 2: bird Bones said that Leslie asked him to delete those
- 2:42:34Speaker 2: You guys are having way too much fun.
- 2:42:40Speaker 1: It looks like.
- 2:42:45Speaker 8: Looks like.
- 2:42:48Speaker 2: I mean, okay, I'm not gonna say what's in my
- 2:42:51Speaker 2: head because I will tell you guys later. So I'm
- 2:42:58Speaker 2: going to just type it into the private chat.
- 2:43:03Speaker 1: Just okay, I can't stay for this, fella.
- 2:43:14Speaker 2: No no, no, no, wait, no one wants to ride
- 2:43:18Speaker 2: that mustache. So now, the judge did instruct the jury
- 2:43:25Speaker 2: that they could not consider Abramson's alleged misconduct when deciding
- 2:43:31Speaker 2: between death and a life sentence, and the judge also
- 2:43:36Speaker 2: limited questions that could be asked of the psychiatrists bird
- 2:43:41Speaker 2: bones or bones, bird whatever, regarding his notes. Now, the
- 2:43:46Speaker 2: prosecution was seeking the death penalty due to the horrifying
- 2:43:50Speaker 2: and brutal way that jose and Kitty were killed. Okay,
- 2:43:55Speaker 2: in a lot of cases, I would maybe understand that.
- 2:44:00Speaker 2: But he also said that the defense was desperate and
- 2:44:06Speaker 2: that is why they made allegations of abuse. Okay, the
- 2:44:12Speaker 2: defense was seeking life in prison. Yes, do you need to.
- 2:44:22Speaker 1: Because I'm mourning for all the people we just killed.
- 2:44:26Speaker 2: Does this say box far Fort.
- 2:44:29Speaker 1: Fort box Fort, It's a it's a it's old school reference. God,
- 2:44:34Speaker 1: it's sad.
- 2:44:37Speaker 2: But Lyle and Eric were sentenced to life in prison
- 2:44:42Speaker 2: without the possibility of parole. Now we do have a
- 2:44:48Speaker 2: quick juror speaking out after this audio.
- 2:44:54Speaker 9: I wish Lyle would have testified. And he sat there
- 2:44:57Speaker 9: throughout the trial very unemotional, just very stoic, and you
- 2:45:03Speaker 9: never quite could get a clue as to what he
- 2:45:05Speaker 9: was all about. The whole thing with the fear, I
- 2:45:10Speaker 9: just couldn't buy a complete as it was the whole story.
- 2:45:15Speaker 9: I think they did fear their parents because their parents
- 2:45:18Speaker 9: were so controlling. I believe that, but I don't believe
- 2:45:21Speaker 9: that they feared that their parents were going to kill
- 2:45:24Speaker 9: them at the time they killed their parents.
- 2:45:28Speaker 12: We did think there was psychological abuse to some extent
- 2:45:32Speaker 12: sexual abuse.
- 2:45:34Speaker 2: I don't think we will ever know if that's true
- 2:45:37Speaker 2: or not.
- 2:45:38Speaker 13: Age being fairly young, their prior criminal record being that
- 2:45:45Speaker 13: they didn't have violence, and that they had been very
- 2:45:50Speaker 13: cooperative in school and with their coaches. These kind of
- 2:45:53Speaker 13: things told us that these were not lives just to
- 2:45:58Speaker 13: be thrown into great.
- 2:46:04Speaker 1: Can. I yes, the O zone called, and it wants
- 2:46:11Speaker 1: its hole back because the amount of hairspray that is
- 2:46:15Speaker 1: in that woman's hair is ungodly.
- 2:46:19Speaker 2: Okay, you just insulted me, because I believe every woman
- 2:46:24Speaker 2: back in that time will use an entire can of
- 2:46:27Speaker 2: Aquinet to go anywhere, so you can just kiss my grits.
- 2:46:32Speaker 1: The answer, No, the brand is Aqua. Oh no you didn't,
- 2:46:35Speaker 1: that is what the brand is called.
- 2:46:37Speaker 2: And that Aquinet. Oh yes I did. And I had
- 2:46:40Speaker 2: most fabulous hair back then, So.
- 2:46:43Speaker 15: Okay, listen, you don't have fabulous hair, that's fine, yeah,
- 2:46:48Speaker 15: I I just so many problems for the second trial.
- 2:46:57Speaker 1: So you said that they were sentenced to life in
- 2:46:58Speaker 1: prison without the possibility of I think I think my
- 2:47:02Speaker 1: concerns with all of this, especially the second trial, is
- 2:47:06Speaker 1: that they expected the jurors to not have heard about
- 2:47:11Speaker 1: this for the past uneteenth the number of years, and
- 2:47:14Speaker 1: and I just can't even come close to believing that,
- 2:47:18Speaker 1: and actually considering that, even with the totality of the
- 2:47:22Speaker 1: evidence given in the first case first, what they didn't
- 2:47:24Speaker 1: hear in the second trial. I guess we should kind
- 2:47:28Speaker 1: of be okay with them for making the decision they did,
- 2:47:31Speaker 1: or proud of them. I don't know. I mean, I'm
- 2:47:33Speaker 1: about as conflicted as a vegetarian at a BBQ joint
- 2:47:36Speaker 1: that also has a really good mac and cheese. That
- 2:47:40Speaker 1: felt really forced. I should rethink my lines that I write.
- 2:47:43Speaker 1: But here we are well I'm.
- 2:47:46Speaker 2: Gonna just say I'm not sure we should be proud
- 2:47:49Speaker 2: of them, because in some ways, I think they did
- 2:47:56Speaker 2: what they could because the judge held back so much
- 2:48:00Speaker 2: of the defensive strategy and they didn't listen or pay
- 2:48:05Speaker 2: attention to what they learned previously. They actually sentenced them
- 2:48:13Speaker 2: and convicted them based on what they were allowed to know.
- 2:48:17Speaker 2: So I'm not going to say I'm proud of them
- 2:48:19Speaker 2: because I almost wish somebody would have grown some balls
- 2:48:24Speaker 2: and said, yeah, that's not what happened in the first
- 2:48:26Speaker 2: time around, and why didn't we get to hear all that?
- 2:48:28Speaker 2: Why are you keeping ship from me? But they didn't.
- 2:48:31Speaker 2: They did their job based on the information they were
- 2:48:35Speaker 2: allowed to use.
- 2:48:37Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, and I.
- 2:48:40Speaker 2: Could have given them death.
- 2:48:42Speaker 4: But.
- 2:48:43Speaker 1: We haven't.
- 2:48:44Speaker 2: They haven't put anyone to death in I mean, they
- 2:48:47Speaker 2: haven't put anyone to death in California. Death in California
- 2:48:50Speaker 2: means life without pearl. Yes, so, but I will say
- 2:48:59Speaker 2: as of today, okay, Lyl and Eric are serving their
- 2:49:04Speaker 2: sentence together at the Richard J. Donovan Correctional Facility in
- 2:49:10Speaker 2: San Diego, which I still find shocking because normally they
- 2:49:17Speaker 2: keep people apart who commit a crime together so I
- 2:49:20Speaker 2: do find that kind of interesting that they have them together,
- 2:49:24Speaker 2: but both are described as model prisoners guys. They I
- 2:49:29Speaker 2: mean took some time to settle in and shock, which
- 2:49:33Speaker 2: I can understand, but they've worked to help improve the
- 2:49:36Speaker 2: prison environment. They actively work with other victims of sexual abuse.
- 2:49:42Speaker 2: Lyle served as the president of the Inmate Government for
- 2:49:46Speaker 2: the past twenty years. So a lot of people go
- 2:49:50Speaker 2: to prison if they're life without parole, they just give up,
- 2:49:55Speaker 2: They become thuggish, they do drug I mean, they don't conform. Well,
- 2:50:00Speaker 2: We've got to say these two seem to have done
- 2:50:04Speaker 2: a decent job of maybe growing up and becoming good people,
- 2:50:10Speaker 2: you know now, Lyle, Yeah.
- 2:50:15Speaker 1: No, I was just saying, like, for a lot of people,
- 2:50:20Speaker 1: you know, they're like, yeah, criminals, some criminals just need
- 2:50:23Speaker 1: some structure and it's something that that that's what they
- 2:50:26Speaker 1: need and they do well in prison because of that.
- 2:50:28Speaker 1: And honestly, I think that their life was such hell
- 2:50:32Speaker 1: that this has actually allowed them to grow because they've
- 2:50:35Speaker 1: had time to grow, they've had time to reach out,
- 2:50:38Speaker 1: which is really honestly, I think that communicates more than
- 2:50:42Speaker 1: anything that this is what has allowed them to reach out.
- 2:50:46Speaker 1: They've had more of an opportunity.
- 2:50:48Speaker 2: So and they So my understanding and I could be wrong,
- 2:50:54Speaker 2: but my understanding from thinking about psychology, they probably felt
- 2:50:59Speaker 2: safe and they weren't worried about their predator coming in
- 2:51:04Speaker 2: every night in jail first time for the first time,
- 2:51:09Speaker 2: so it kind of was like that. So Lyle married
- 2:51:13Speaker 2: Rebecca in two thousand and three. Now the couple has
- 2:51:16Speaker 2: split up but remained very close. Rebecca still runs Lyle's
- 2:51:21Speaker 2: Facebook page. So Lyelman Indez has a Facebook page that
- 2:51:27Speaker 2: it is great. She talks to him and she posts
- 2:51:30Speaker 2: for him.
- 2:51:31Speaker 4: Now.
- 2:51:32Speaker 2: Eric married Tammy in nineteen ninety nine. They are still
- 2:51:37Speaker 2: together and married and reading stories from her. She said,
- 2:51:44Speaker 2: everything about the marriage is great. She has a child
- 2:51:49Speaker 2: and before him, her child calls him earth Dad, which
- 2:51:55Speaker 2: I find because his dad's up in heaven. His dad
- 2:51:58Speaker 2: had died or whatever, so he called Eric his earth dad.
- 2:52:02Speaker 2: And she said the hardest part is living without sex
- 2:52:07Speaker 2: because they are not allowed conjugal visits.
- 2:52:12Speaker 1: Well, first, which fuck them for not allowing that, but
- 2:52:15Speaker 1: second off, I get it.
- 2:52:18Speaker 2: Apparently, if you are in California, if you are life
- 2:52:23Speaker 2: without parole, you're not allowed conjugal visits. If you have
- 2:52:26Speaker 2: the option for parole or the opportunity, then you're allowed
- 2:52:30Speaker 2: to get some. If not, you're not.
- 2:52:32Speaker 1: I feel like that's the exact opposite of what you
- 2:52:35Speaker 1: that's what.
- 2:52:38Speaker 10: You know.
- 2:52:40Speaker 2: But the brothers have a pending court hearing that was
- 2:52:45Speaker 2: scheduled for March twentieth and twenty first, but it has
- 2:52:48Speaker 2: been put on hold thanks to Gavin Newsom because Gavin
- 2:52:55Speaker 2: Newsom's orders, he's asking the State Parole Board to investigate
- 2:53:01Speaker 2: whether the brothers would pose a risk to the public
- 2:53:04Speaker 2: if they are released. Now what that means and the
- 2:53:08Speaker 2: only reason I've dug into this, So for those of
- 2:53:12Speaker 2: you that didn't know, we had scheduled to come on
- 2:53:15Speaker 2: Live the twentieth and twenty first with this special guest
- 2:53:19Speaker 2: who's going to be in the courtroom those days in
- 2:53:22Speaker 2: reporting Live for us. But they put this on the
- 2:53:26Speaker 2: hold because Newsom could decide to release them.
- 2:53:34Speaker 1: Yea.
- 2:53:35Speaker 2: So if he decides that, there's no reason to have
- 2:53:39Speaker 2: that resentencing hearing and can Yeah, I just.
- 2:53:45Speaker 1: I just wanted to mention one. It's interesting to me.
- 2:53:48Speaker 1: I almost feel like that does them a disservice. There
- 2:53:53Speaker 1: are four far more people, a greater population of people
- 2:53:56Speaker 1: that will be shut up if they go through the
- 2:53:59Speaker 1: process and they're released, versus if somebody who is politically
- 2:54:05Speaker 1: involved or motivated says let them go, they are I
- 2:54:09Speaker 1: feel like they're done more of a justice if they're
- 2:54:13Speaker 1: told by the justice system you can go. I wouldn't.
- 2:54:18Speaker 1: I don't see a benefit to this.
- 2:54:20Speaker 2: I would agree, except the new DA coming in because
- 2:54:24Speaker 2: his predecessor put this in action and he thinks they
- 2:54:28Speaker 2: should have been released. He is hands down for political
- 2:54:33Speaker 2: reasons saying no, you should let the jury's decision stand.
- 2:54:38Speaker 2: I don't give a shit what new evidence has come up.
- 2:54:41Speaker 9: So he.
- 2:54:43Speaker 2: Is politically So that's the only because normally I would
- 2:54:47Speaker 2: one hundred percent agree with you. But if this is
- 2:54:50Speaker 2: their only chance, they've served thirty years for what they did.
- 2:54:56Speaker 1: Yeah, context is everything now now I get it.
- 2:55:00Speaker 2: So so, but the media has a lot of other
- 2:55:04Speaker 2: things to say.
- 2:55:06Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah. So in terms of the public perception,
- 2:55:09Speaker 1: there were the early media was framing the Meninda's brothers,
- 2:55:14Speaker 1: and they painted them as cold blooded, spoiled killers who
- 2:55:17Speaker 1: murdered their parents for financial gain. They didn't understand the context.
- 2:55:21Speaker 1: It led to widespread, widespread public condemnation. Now the brothers
- 2:55:27Speaker 1: were they claimed years of sexual abuse. The public became divided.
- 2:55:31Speaker 1: Some still viewed them as greedy and that they were lying.
- 2:55:35Speaker 1: Others believed to see them as victims who were speaking
- 2:55:38Speaker 1: an escape. Media driven so the coverage overall of their
- 2:55:44Speaker 1: emotional breakdown in court, it swayed, swayed some public opinion,
- 2:55:50Speaker 1: but many still still doubted their claims due to lack
- 2:55:54Speaker 1: of concrete evidence. They kind of thought the whole like
- 2:55:57Speaker 1: somebody's cutton onions. Now, the removal in the second trial,
- 2:56:03Speaker 1: the removal of the cameras from the courtroom, it led
- 2:56:07Speaker 1: to a loss of public engagement and the media interests
- 2:56:10Speaker 1: shifted from it, just shifted because they could no longer
- 2:56:17Speaker 1: be involved in it. And if you can't be involved
- 2:56:18Speaker 1: in it every single day, well why are we a
- 2:56:21Speaker 1: part of this. We'll wait for the decision at the end. But,
- 2:56:25Speaker 1: like the public perception of the Menendez Brothers trials changed
- 2:56:29Speaker 1: over time, and there's so many reasons for this. There's
- 2:56:32Speaker 1: new evidence, there's updated cultural attitudes, there's evolving views on
- 2:56:36Speaker 1: male sexual abuse, in how society responds to trauma. There's
- 2:56:39Speaker 1: an acceptance of the above. You know, I mean, maybe
- 2:56:43Speaker 1: they're right, maybe things have changed, Maybe the punishment they
- 2:56:47Speaker 1: received didn't consider the mitigating factors, and honestly, I don't
- 2:56:51Speaker 1: know if the mitigating factors were even remotely close to
- 2:56:54Speaker 1: being considered in this entire trial in either of them,
- 2:56:58Speaker 1: to be honest. I mean the first one, sure there
- 2:57:01Speaker 1: was a mistrial, but I don't think people were considering
- 2:57:04Speaker 1: any of this stuff.
- 2:57:06Speaker 2: Well. I think as a society we've grown a little
- 2:57:11Speaker 2: bit in that aspect. But what lessons learned I think
- 2:57:16Speaker 2: came out of this is that this trial highlighted the
- 2:57:21Speaker 2: potential for hidden abuse within families that we don't see
- 2:57:27Speaker 2: we all, especially now with Instagram, TikTok, and social media.
- 2:57:32Speaker 2: We look at this and think people are living these
- 2:57:35Speaker 2: perfect lives because guess what, not everybody posts their bruce
- 2:57:40Speaker 2: foot or their self on social media without makeup. They
- 2:57:45Speaker 2: want to look like they're living this perfect life. So
- 2:57:48Speaker 2: I think that case is a reminder to us not
- 2:57:52Speaker 2: everything is what it seems right, And it also showed
- 2:57:56Speaker 2: how media coverage can influence the public opinions, because I
- 2:58:04Speaker 2: think that was a big deal. I also think the
- 2:58:08Speaker 2: roles of psychologists, and they're experts in explaining what trauma
- 2:58:14Speaker 2: is and what and how it affects people has become
- 2:58:19Speaker 2: more prevalent since then, not saying I don't think you
- 2:58:24Speaker 2: still can't go subject matter expert shopping to find one
- 2:58:30Speaker 2: that you want that says what you want them to say,
- 2:58:33Speaker 2: you know. But I also think this was one of
- 2:58:36Speaker 2: those very complex legal trials with two juries, two sets
- 2:58:43Speaker 2: of attorneys, but all in court together, two sets of
- 2:58:46Speaker 2: I mean, I want to sit on a jury. I
- 2:58:50Speaker 2: am so thankful it was not this jury. Okay, I'm
- 2:58:54Speaker 2: going to just say thankful it wasn't that. I also
- 2:58:58Speaker 2: think this trial raises childhood trauma and how it can
- 2:59:04Speaker 2: affect your behavior, because if you were raised your entire life,
- 2:59:10Speaker 2: I mean it's not like they had this trauma for
- 2:59:12Speaker 2: two years. This was their entire life. And I think
- 2:59:18Speaker 2: we learned a little bit more of how that can be.
- 2:59:24Speaker 2: So now I think we learned a lot from this trial,
- 2:59:33Speaker 2: but I also think we still have a lot more
- 2:59:37Speaker 2: to learn. Yeah, so what did you think about? What
- 2:59:45Speaker 2: are your overall thoughts about this case?
- 2:59:50Speaker 1: So I think that I don't know. I think that
- 2:59:54Speaker 1: this case, I think it exists in kind of this
- 2:59:57Speaker 1: murky gray space between justice and tragedy. I mean, guilt
- 3:00:02Speaker 1: is I mean, that's undeniable, but the full weight of
- 3:00:05Speaker 1: the story is it's kind of unsettled. I think there's
- 3:00:09Speaker 1: no question that they committed a brutal, calculated act. I
- 3:00:13Speaker 1: think we've said that it was one that should not
- 3:00:16Speaker 1: have gone unpunished, for sure. But I mean to look
- 3:00:20Speaker 1: at their actions and isolation as though they were I
- 3:00:24Speaker 1: don't know, as long as though they were merely greedy
- 3:00:27Speaker 1: killers eager to cash in on an inheritance. Well, that's
- 3:00:32Speaker 1: to ignore the deeply complex and painful reality of their upbringing,
- 3:00:38Speaker 1: the abuse.
- 3:00:39Speaker 5: They endured, and the fear that they lived with every
- 3:00:43Speaker 5: single day. I mean that causes scars that you can't
- 3:00:48Speaker 5: see on the outside.
- 3:00:51Speaker 1: And recognizing you know that those scars would help you
- 3:00:55Speaker 1: recognize that something's wrong, but you can't see them. And
- 3:00:57Speaker 1: those scars weren't simply con venient defense strategies, but they
- 3:01:03Speaker 1: were lived experiences, and they were ones that would be handled.
- 3:01:07Speaker 1: I think they would be handled differently if this case
- 3:01:10Speaker 1: were tried today. Justice for me is not just about
- 3:01:14Speaker 1: punishing wrongdoing. It's about understanding the full context in which
- 3:01:19Speaker 1: the wrongdoing occurred. The menendas brothers should have been held accountable,
- 3:01:25Speaker 1: but I can't help, but feel that the system at
- 3:01:28Speaker 1: the time was unequipped to reckon with what led the
- 3:01:33Speaker 1: brothers to that faithful night Again, had their trial taken
- 3:01:38Speaker 1: place in a time more willing to well, willing to
- 3:01:42Speaker 1: acknowledge the lasting impact of abuse, drama, and course of control,
- 3:01:47Speaker 1: their sentence might have reflected something closer to justice, not
- 3:01:51Speaker 1: just for their parents, but for the broken children that
- 3:01:54Speaker 1: they had been before they ever picked up a shotgun.
- 3:01:58Speaker 1: I mean, listen, I don't know. Overall, I feel like
- 3:02:03Speaker 1: this trial wasn't really about justice or truth. I feel
- 3:02:07Speaker 1: like it was all about performance. The attorneys were well,
- 3:02:10Speaker 1: they're certainly committed to the bit. The media ate it
- 3:02:13Speaker 1: up because well, apparently nothing sells quite like rich kids.
- 3:02:18Speaker 2: So you know, something just occurred to me. I can't
- 3:02:24Speaker 2: help but wonder if keeping the secret was even more
- 3:02:30Speaker 2: desired because they were wealthy talking about the kids because
- 3:02:37Speaker 2: their parents would cut them off, quit paying for college tennis,
- 3:02:42Speaker 2: And I mean that just dawned on me. So I'm
- 3:02:45Speaker 2: sure there was a financial piece. And I want to
- 3:02:49Speaker 2: first say so that people don't come at me, but
- 3:02:52Speaker 2: if you want to have a conversation, we share my
- 3:02:54Speaker 2: email all the time because I'm not making excuses or
- 3:02:58Speaker 2: trying to justify what Lyle and Eric did. But I
- 3:03:03Speaker 2: want to say I think the abuse they suffered growing
- 3:03:06Speaker 2: up should have been front and center in the trial.
- 3:03:11Speaker 2: And I think the amount of trauma that they received
- 3:03:15Speaker 2: in their own home by their own parents should have
- 3:03:20Speaker 2: been taken into consideration. It's not an excuse, but it
- 3:03:25Speaker 2: should be taken into consideration. I mean, let's stop and
- 3:03:28Speaker 2: look at Gypsy Rose. Totally two different types of cases.
- 3:03:35Speaker 2: But the concept of being abused and trapped by the
- 3:03:39Speaker 2: people who are supposed to love you and keep you safe,
- 3:03:44Speaker 2: I mean should say a lot. And also by your mother. Yes,
- 3:03:49Speaker 2: I know fathers are important. I'm not saying they're not.
- 3:03:52Speaker 2: But the person who gave birth and brought you into
- 3:03:55Speaker 2: this world and gave you true life should have tucted
- 3:04:00Speaker 2: you in taking care of you. I mean that's just
- 3:04:05Speaker 2: my thoughts. Okay, So I think that should have been
- 3:04:10Speaker 2: taken into consideration. Now, I do think they should should
- 3:04:16Speaker 2: have been held accountable for the actions, Okay. I don't
- 3:04:20Speaker 2: think they deserve life in prison without parole. I don't, Okay.
- 3:04:25Speaker 2: I think we also need to look at very seldom
- 3:04:30Speaker 2: do we hear about people who did good things while
- 3:04:33Speaker 2: in prison. I mean, it's very seldom that you hear
- 3:04:39Speaker 2: they didn't have all of this stuff against them. They
- 3:04:42Speaker 2: weren't bucking the rules, they weren't put into solitary confinement.
- 3:04:47Speaker 2: I think we should look at that. And I said earlier,
- 3:04:52Speaker 2: I can't help but wonder how much peace they finally
- 3:04:57Speaker 2: found in prison behind me bars, knowing that their parents
- 3:05:02Speaker 2: could no longer hurt them. And that right there tells
- 3:05:07Speaker 2: you that, in my opinion, they've done their time. And I, yeah,
- 3:05:14Speaker 2: there's no other parents out there. They're not going to
- 3:05:17Speaker 2: hurt anyone else.
- 3:05:19Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, no. I I agree with you wholeheartedly.
- 3:05:24Speaker 1: I think it'll be interesting to see what what happened.
- 3:05:29Speaker 2: Oh right, I forgot Susan Smith did get a parole hearing.
- 3:05:36Speaker 2: I mean, and she murdered her. Oh yeah, that one's yeah,
- 3:05:39Speaker 2: she should have got life without pearole.
- 3:05:41Speaker 1: That was quite a parole hearing, by the way, I
- 3:05:43Speaker 1: know what.
- 3:05:43Speaker 2: I'm just saying. She should have not even had the
- 3:05:46Speaker 2: option for parole.
- 3:05:49Speaker 1: So yeah, it was a Those are always way of
- 3:05:51Speaker 1: like roller coasters of emotions. You're like pissed when they talk,
- 3:05:54Speaker 1: and then the victims start talking again, and you're just like,
- 3:05:58Speaker 1: which makes sense, It's appropriate.
- 3:06:00Speaker 2: Now I did so oh sorry, I did do an
- 3:06:05Speaker 2: episode about Susan Smith on Dearest Mother's Darkest Secrets that
- 3:06:09Speaker 2: they can go and watch that we talk about that case.
- 3:06:12Speaker 2: That case or that show is on hiatus right now.
- 3:06:16Speaker 2: That Susan Smith was one that I covered.
- 3:06:20Speaker 1: Awesome, So yeah, definitely can pick out Next week.
- 3:06:25Speaker 2: Jeez, yes, next week we have James aut Guilt will
- 3:06:32Speaker 2: be on our show as a guest to be interviewed.
- 3:06:35Speaker 2: He is retired Police of Chief Naval Police. I mean,
- 3:06:40Speaker 2: he got so much law enforcement stuff. I'm just gonna
- 3:06:43Speaker 2: say law enforcement, and he will share his insight, and
- 3:06:46Speaker 2: so far it doesn't seem like anything is off the table.
- 3:06:50Speaker 2: So we're gonna talk about stuff he did in his career. Also,
- 3:06:55Speaker 2: his thoughts about defunding police. Good cops, cops bad apples because,
- 3:07:02Speaker 2: as they say all of the time, you can have
- 3:07:04Speaker 2: good people and bad people in any type of job. Okay,
- 3:07:09Speaker 2: let's just be honest, any type of job.
- 3:07:13Speaker 1: Sometimes you can't look at the basket, though.
- 3:07:16Speaker 2: You do, you do the basket, but but you can't
- 3:07:19Speaker 2: say the whole police department's bad. You can say oh
- 3:07:23Speaker 2: this spread to everybody.
- 3:07:27Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, I don't know. We'll see what happens.
- 3:07:30Speaker 2: General statement and say every law enforcement police department needs
- 3:07:34Speaker 2: to be defunded. That would be like saying all podcasters
- 3:07:38Speaker 2: need to be shut down just because of the two
- 3:07:40Speaker 2: of us.
- 3:07:44Speaker 1: I don't think you know what. I'd like to make
- 3:07:46Speaker 1: a boulder ripple in a pond, but I yeah, okay,
- 3:07:51Speaker 1: Well listen, hey, listen, Uh, thank you. This has been
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- 3:08:59Speaker 1: you know what We're just Tarah wants to say good
- 3:09:03Speaker 1: night because he goes and watches the new Severance episodes.
- 3:09:06Speaker 1: So she's ready to go, and so are we. So Terry,
- 3:09:10Speaker 1: I'll let you close out and then I'll close out.
- 3:09:12Speaker 2: Yes, I just want to say, guys, please stay safe,
- 3:09:16Speaker 2: speak up if you see something. Something I'm learning with
- 3:09:20Speaker 2: Midday Missing, we need to be better about speaking up
- 3:09:24Speaker 2: if we see something. And most importantly, enjoy your wine
- 3:09:28Speaker 2: time and my beautiful pink knives that I'm not gonna
- 3:09:31Speaker 2: touch since I cut my finger.
- 3:09:34Speaker 1: Oh jeez, all right, thanks for tuning in. Everybody, please
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- 3:09:39Speaker 1: Don't let anybody do all your sparkle and shine on
- 3:09:42Speaker 1: you crazy diamonds, shine on. We'll see you. Sunday, nine
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