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Abby realizes mid-pocast she sent the wrong text to a guy!! · Scotty and Abby UNFILTERED

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  Speaker 1: Tampa Bay's Best music is Welcome to another episode of
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  Speaker 1: Scotty and Abbey Unfiltered. This is going to be one
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  Speaker 1: where I feel like you just got just let Abby
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  Speaker 1: have her say, let her pop off. And I feel
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  Speaker 1: like I'm just going to feed into this because I
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  Speaker 1: have another apology and I might as well just come
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  Speaker 1: clean with it right now. Okay, because I've been taking
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  Speaker 1: something from you every day. You haven't noticed, Yeah, he
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  Speaker 1: looks around. Okay, Abby's looking around the studio.
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  Speaker 2: Like, what my peace of mind?
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  Speaker 1: Not your No, I've been adding to that. I would say,
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  Speaker 1: the peace in your life. So I'll just go ahead
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  Speaker 1: and come clean. I've been taking your yogurts every single day.
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  Speaker 1: So when Abbey had her birthday last week, I got
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  Speaker 1: you a couple of cases at your Bonnie.
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  Speaker 2: Wait, are they still in the fridge because I actually
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  Speaker 2: don't have my breakfast today.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, they're still in the fridge and I've had a
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  Speaker 1: couple eat them. It's okay, Well I got them for you.
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  Speaker 1: But then I was like, well, you know, you bring
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  Speaker 1: in your own every day, and my biggest thing is
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  Speaker 1: I hate wasted food. Until I was like, well, shoot,
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  Speaker 1: I do not want to wait till they're expired and
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  Speaker 1: be like, dang it, Abby didn't eat an.
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  Speaker 2: Wait, no, I do need to have two today because
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  Speaker 2: I didn't have time to go to public yesterday.
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  Speaker 3: Well there's a whole case in that.
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  Speaker 2: So I'm thrilled that you're bringing this up because now
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  Speaker 2: I have something to eat.
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  Speaker 3: They are in the fridge.
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  Speaker 1: But I will say, you know what, I get the obsession, right,
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  Speaker 1: it is so good.
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  Speaker 3: They're good.
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  Speaker 2: It's a very satisfying texture and it's like slightly sweet.
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  Speaker 2: It's very thick. But there's no sugar.
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  Speaker 1: That's true. But is the no sugar thing? Here's again,
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  Speaker 1: I'm very health and not eat and we're going to
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  Speaker 1: get into other things as well. But like when they
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  Speaker 1: say no sugar, huh, is that just there's just a
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  Speaker 1: chemical that's just taking up the place of the sugar.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's aspertamer.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's no big deal, right, Yeah, coming from US health.
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  Speaker 2: Experts, I know everyone our age is getting corectal cancer,
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  Speaker 2: so maybe it's not.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I will say, it is fantastic stuff. I just
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  Speaker 1: wanted to make sure I got that off my chest.
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  Speaker 1: I feel so much better.
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  Speaker 2: No, I'm so glad that you said that because now
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  Speaker 2: I have something to eat.
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  Speaker 3: Well, there you go. You're welcome. There's still some in there.
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  Speaker 1: You better eat them now, and you better tell me
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  Speaker 1: to lay off because I will eat one every morning.
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  Speaker 2: Now, I'm going to have two today and then if
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  Speaker 2: you want to have them, you can have the rest
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  Speaker 2: of them.
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  Speaker 3: Wow. So it's like I got a gift for myself. Gift.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you gifted.
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  Speaker 3: Oh that's fantastic.
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  Speaker 2: Do you think you like the vanilla ones? We tried the.
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  Speaker 3: Mango, but I don't know if I like actual mango.
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  Speaker 2: No, no, no, you need to have the mango.
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  Speaker 3: Just give it a shot.
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  Speaker 2: Ry.
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  Speaker 3: I think I would really like the strawberry one.
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  Speaker 2: Strawberry One's good. I like the strawberry ki we second
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  Speaker 2: mango first, and then you got me the vanilla. Vanilla's third.
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  Speaker 2: I'll have vanilla if I'm feeling fruity.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, well, then today is the vanilla day?
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  Speaker 2: Is vanilla?
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  Speaker 1: I want to dive into this because there has been
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  Speaker 1: a couple of cases of he's dating roller coaster and
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  Speaker 1: it's just so entertaining to watch and go through. But
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  Speaker 1: also I will say I can understand the frustration.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I do think I have a curse. Upon me.
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  Speaker 2: Either that or men are terrible.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, both could be true.
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  Speaker 1: I will definitely go into the side of there are
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  Speaker 1: a lot of men just do a lot of dumb things.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know if it's me, if it's the universe,
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  Speaker 2: if it's a curse that was done under the cover
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  Speaker 2: of moonlight one hundred and fifty.
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  Speaker 1: Years Did you do?
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  Speaker 2: Like?
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  Speaker 1: Is it karma?
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  Speaker 2: Did you?
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  Speaker 3: Okay?
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  Speaker 2: No?
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  Speaker 1: Is there something that you've done recently that or maybe
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  Speaker 1: in your life that, like you still have not been forgiven?
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  Speaker 3: For me?
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  Speaker 2: Well, this has been my entire life, Like I got
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  Speaker 2: no romantic attention in high school, and then guys didn't
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  Speaker 2: take me seriously in college, and then the pandemic hit.
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  Speaker 3: Oh god, that's a dry spell.
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  Speaker 2: And then I feel like I went through a really
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  Speaker 2: long dry spell in my mid twenties and my late twenties.
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  Speaker 2: Two it's is gonna cry the whole podcast, you know
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  Speaker 2: what I mean?
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  Speaker 1: No, We're gonna figure this crap out, damn it.
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  Speaker 2: I don't. I don't know what I'm doing wrong. But
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  Speaker 2: I have feelings right now. Oh, I have angry feelings.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, angry feelings.
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  Speaker 2: I have feelings of anger towards the male gender.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, well, then let's just go ahead and open up
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  Speaker 1: the book of grievances, like what has been happening?
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  Speaker 2: I feel like there are two patterns I've noticed in
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  Speaker 2: my love life. If I find a guy attractive and
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  Speaker 2: he finds me attractive, two things happen. Either A he
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  Speaker 2: has his life is a complete mess and I want
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  Speaker 2: nothing to do with it.
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  Speaker 3: That's happened multiple times me.
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  Speaker 2: He asks me out and then retracts it.
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  Speaker 1: That part's the one that I'm just like, guys, what
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  Speaker 1: are you doing? And I will say, like, it's it's
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  Speaker 1: a hard live dating, it's weird out there.
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  Speaker 3: You got to put yourself out in a position that
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  Speaker 3: you get hurt.
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  Speaker 1: But these men, they just do this all the time
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  Speaker 1: where and I think that's where a lot of guys are.
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  Speaker 3: Like, I'm just not looking for anything serious now.
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  Speaker 1: I think you're scared of getting hurt or rejected because
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  Speaker 1: then you're going to take it personally.
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  Speaker 2: So let me explain my three scenarios. Maybe I'm definitely
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  Speaker 2: gonna talk about two. I might talk about the third.
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  Speaker 3: I let it rip.
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  Speaker 2: So the first two scenarios I will tell you about
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  Speaker 2: are two times in the last week or so, I've
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  Speaker 2: been asked out by guys I have had genuine interests.
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  Speaker 1: For nice where I finally see them like as hey.
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  Speaker 2: Where I'm like, oh my god, Like, I can't believe
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  Speaker 2: that this person's asked me out. They seem really normal.
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  Speaker 2: They might not be normal, they might be a total
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  Speaker 2: freaking weirdo, but if you're just showing me their online presence,
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  Speaker 2: I'm going, oh, it's like a normal, like attractive dude,
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  Speaker 2: who is my age, all the things. So let's talk
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  Speaker 2: about scenario number one. Last week. So literally a week ago,
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  Speaker 2: I got a DM I was not expecting because I
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  Speaker 2: was trying to get one of these guys that I've
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  Speaker 2: seen online to come on my dating series based on
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  Speaker 2: bashor he's looking for a girlfriend. Someone was pitching him
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  Speaker 2: to the internet. I was like, that's a cute, attractive,
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  Speaker 2: normal dude. Let me see if he'll come on base
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  Speaker 2: on bayshor. He's like this, this is kind of a
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  Speaker 2: lot of attention, not really feeling it, but thanks for
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  Speaker 2: the offer, And I was like, cool, that's fine.
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  Speaker 1: Very understandable because there was no romantic connection there. You're
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  Speaker 1: literally just asking people if they want to be on
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  Speaker 1: this series.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like dude like casual. If you're looking for
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  Speaker 2: a girlfriend, come on base on bishor so anyway, we
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  Speaker 2: I move past that, and like a week later he
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  Speaker 2: starts liking my base on Bay short posts and I'm like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: so someone's getting a little curious. And then he followed me,
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  Speaker 2: and so of course I'm a nice person followed.
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  Speaker 1: Him back and then follow him not the fact that
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  Speaker 1: he's super cute.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I mean, look, if you're I don't know, if
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  Speaker 2: I'm like offering for you to come on my show
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  Speaker 2: and you're not going to come on the show, then
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  Speaker 2: like okay, then bye, you know what I mean. So anyway,
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  Speaker 2: he follows me, I'm follow him back, and then we
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  Speaker 2: had ben d I mean obviously trying to get him
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  Speaker 2: on Base on Ba Shore. He's like, let me think
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  Speaker 2: about it. And so finally he sends me like this
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  Speaker 2: long paragraph and it is like, you know, I just
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  Speaker 2: been thinking about it. It's kind of incoherent, but I'm like, okay,
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  Speaker 2: maybe he's nervous, I don't know. And he's like, I'm
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  Speaker 2: not really interested in coming on bays on Bay Shore.
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  Speaker 2: It's just kind of a lot right now without the
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  Speaker 2: Internet attention. I'm like totally fine. So anyway, I tell
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  Speaker 2: him that because I'm a normal human who's like, totally
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  Speaker 2: understand dude. Let me pull up actually the receipts so
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  Speaker 2: I can have reference points. We pull up the ancient test.
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  Speaker 1: I like, Kelly Kat. I know when you read the text, though,
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  Speaker 1: it just sounds like, oh my god, like there's just
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  Speaker 1: too many they're pulling me apart.
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  Speaker 3: I don't have time to be on another dating series.
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  Speaker 2: But do you remember No, Literally, when we were reading
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  Speaker 2: this together and we're like, is this guy having a stroke?
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  Speaker 2: Like some of this stuff like isn't making sense.
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  Speaker 1: It was all over the place, and I was trying
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  Speaker 1: to give him grace because I'm a bad texture, like
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  Speaker 1: especially like if you ever DM me, maybe you've noticed this.
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  Speaker 1: I mean my lady like I didn't even have to
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  Speaker 1: mention it, and she was like, oh yeah, you misspell
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  Speaker 1: stuff all the time. I'm like, oh, okay, so you
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  Speaker 1: did notice.
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  Speaker 2: But it wasn't like misspelling. It was like sentence structured
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  Speaker 2: that I'm like, I don't know, am I the dumb one?
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  Speaker 1: When you read it out loud, I was like, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: it seems like he's not even looking at where he's typing, but.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe he's like a voice to text guy.
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  Speaker 1: And there's this whole thing online though I've seen where
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  Speaker 1: it's like if the guy is good at texting, he's great,
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  Speaker 1: he's bad in person exactly. So I was trying to
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  Speaker 1: give him benefit of that, like, maybe he's fantastic in person.
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  Speaker 2: But here's the thing, I feel the same way. Like
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  Speaker 2: a lot of the guys that I know, there are
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  Speaker 2: great texters. I'm like, Okay, I don't want to see you again.
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  Speaker 2: So here's the thing. I'm giving him grace. I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: the sense instructures a little off, we can work on it.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe he's got me or something. I don't know. He's
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  Speaker 2: a college athlete. So we're messaging back and forth and
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  Speaker 2: he pivots the conversation to the hockey game we had
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  Speaker 2: gone to that night, and he was like, Oh, how
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  Speaker 2: was the game, and so we're talking about that. I'm like, oh, like,
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  Speaker 2: this man's in love with me.
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  Speaker 1: Obviously, but that is actually like if he was not interested,
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  Speaker 1: he would not continue the converse, That's what I mean.
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  Speaker 2: And so I'm like, oh, this guy's interested. And I
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  Speaker 2: was a little interested. Yeah, naturally, I was bringing him
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  Speaker 2: on bas on Bayshore. Not gonna bring the Uggs on
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  Speaker 2: bas On Bayshore. So he starts talking to mean, we
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  Speaker 2: go back and forth, and then when did he ask
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  Speaker 2: me out? Oh? He wished me a happy birthday because
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  Speaker 2: it was my birthday.
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  Speaker 1: Again another sign like there's point number two.
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  Speaker 2: And then he's asked. He basically asked me to go
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  Speaker 2: on a be short walk as a date. And I
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  Speaker 2: said sure, I'm out there all the time. So just
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  Speaker 2: like let me know, and he goes same, here, I'm
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  Speaker 2: actually walking it now and I go tell the dolphins.
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  Speaker 2: I say hi, And so then he didn't say.
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  Speaker 1: Anything super cute, yeah, playful, playful.
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  Speaker 2: So he doesn't respond to that, and then like hours
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  Speaker 2: later he just says will do ah God, And so
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, so are we gonna go.
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  Speaker 1: Out or not?
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  Speaker 3: Are you gonna continue this?
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  Speaker 2: Are we like today? Says it me?
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  Speaker 1: Did I do?
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  Speaker 2: Am I the problem?
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  Speaker 1: I don't think there's anything there that you did wrong?
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  Speaker 1: Like you literally that was like the easiest catch. There's
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  Speaker 1: like a softball throw like here, let me know. I'm
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  Speaker 1: also gonna say something cute, say hi to the dolphins, playful,
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  Speaker 1: like you had every option in the book, sir.
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  Speaker 2: I'd also been incredibly flirtatious up until this point, like
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  Speaker 2: I was laying it on thick.
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  Speaker 1: Uh well, yeah, cause this guy's if you're gonna keep
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  Speaker 1: it going, then obviously I'm gonna show that I'm interested
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  Speaker 1: to you.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. I was trying to like show him this is
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  Speaker 2: a safe space.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, you could shoot your shot, my friend, I will
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  Speaker 1: say yes. Yeah, And then once he said we'll do
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  Speaker 1: where the hell did it again?
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  Speaker 2: Never did.
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  Speaker 1: That's so annoying.
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  Speaker 2: I never heard from this man again. He's just gonna
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  Speaker 2: be one of those people that watches my Instagram stories
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  Speaker 2: until we both die, that's the thing, until one of
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  Speaker 2: us dies.
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  Speaker 1: Actually, wait a second, have you checked because you been
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  Speaker 1: watching your stories?
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  Speaker 2: Yes? Well, I mean he's like one of the first
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  Speaker 2: people to come up because he's a new follower.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but that means he's watching all your stuff.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but which it makes it even weirder. I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: what do you want from me?
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  Speaker 3: I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know if he's like waiting for you to
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  Speaker 1: shoot a shot, but that's absolutely.
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  Speaker 2: Not I'm not gonna do that. Like, no, hell no,
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  Speaker 2: you asked me out. I said, yes, ask me out. Aget,
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  Speaker 2: like are you going? Are you gonna plan a time?
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  Speaker 2: And so that's people are like, well, why don't you
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  Speaker 2: just if you really want to go out with them,
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  Speaker 2: why don't you just say something? If you can't set
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  Speaker 2: up a time, like, you won't survive a relationship with me.
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  Speaker 2: Correct quite honestly, lord, like you literally will not survive,
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  Speaker 2: which is one of the reasons why I kept going
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  Speaker 2: out with the twenty five year old, because I was like, well,
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  Speaker 2: he's trying, and you know what, maybe I don't know,
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  Speaker 2: maybe you can handle it.
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  Speaker 1: I mean maybe. But so after the will do there
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  Speaker 1: was little. There hasn't been any DM since zero. That's
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  Speaker 1: crazy to me.
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  Speaker 2: It's so weird to me. But I'm like, this isn't
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  Speaker 2: even the first time something like this has happened. I'm
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  Speaker 2: telling you, I have a curse upon me where if
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  Speaker 2: I think a guy is attractive and he thinks I'm attractive,
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  Speaker 2: the universe will go psych you thought, girl.
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  Speaker 1: I like to play the game. I was thinking about
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  Speaker 1: this as I was making coffee. It's like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: you just increase your odds the more of these chances happen,
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  Speaker 1: Like it's continuously like the life is pushing you toward
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  Speaker 1: the right one. It's annoying because it's a lot of
• 10:23
  Speaker 1: closed doors and missed opportunities and miss dates and a
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  Speaker 1: lot of cute ones that have fallen away and going
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  Speaker 1: into the bushes again. But maybe it's like, okay, maybe
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  Speaker 1: you're just like two guys away, maybe just two bad
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  Speaker 1: dms away from like a cutie that's down to actually
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  Speaker 1: follow through and be a man and step up to
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  Speaker 1: the damn blake.
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  Speaker 2: Somebody is praying really hard that I'm staying single.
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying, what, somebody's got a voodoo doll of you,
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  Speaker 1: and they're just like mmmmm, not supposed to be with
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  Speaker 1: anybody right now.
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  Speaker 2: So if you thought that was the only time that's
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  Speaker 2: happened to me in the last couple of weeks, oh no, no.
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  Speaker 1: Surre, there's been more.
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  Speaker 2: So literally today, That's why I came, and I'll heat
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  Speaker 2: it up.
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  Speaker 1: But I didn't tell you about this, no.
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  Speaker 2: So I've been trying to get more straight guys on
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  Speaker 2: base on Bay Shore because I'm trying to help the
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  Speaker 2: ladies out. And I know it can be really hard
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  Speaker 2: to find a guy who is attracted that you're into,
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  Speaker 2: and I think women know what they're looking for.
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  Speaker 1: So I'm trying to put them out there. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: you're the fine example of like, uh, you're just like
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  Speaker 1: every other like you all who are struggling in the
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  Speaker 1: dating world at least. I don't know how comforting it
• 11:21
  Speaker 1: is to know you're not alone. Eat, We're all facing
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  Speaker 1: this problem. That's why all these men are going on
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  Speaker 1: these dating instagrams like beas on Bay Shore.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. So I'm trying to find these really cute straight
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  Speaker 2: guys so I can add some more of those to
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  Speaker 2: the mix. Because I only have a couple up right now.
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  Speaker 2: I have a lot of girls, I have a lot
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  Speaker 2: of gays. So I start going through my follower list
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  Speaker 2: and I just start messaging anybody who looks attractive in
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  Speaker 2: their profile picture, and I just put it out there
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  Speaker 2: and said, hey, if you're interested in coming on bez
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  Speaker 2: on bas Shore, let me know. So I get a
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  Speaker 2: response back from literally one guy, and thank god, I
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  Speaker 2: was like, this is the one that I think is
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  Speaker 2: the cutest.
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  Speaker 1: Oh nice.
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  Speaker 2: Like so I'm like, oh, if anybody was going to respond,
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  Speaker 2: I'm glad it's this guy. Everybody else, weirdly enough, was like,
• 12:00
  Speaker 2: oh I have a girlfriend. Now, I'm like, so why
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  Speaker 2: do you follow this page? Which is fine, please don't
• 12:04
  Speaker 2: unfollow me, But like I was kind of like, what
• 12:06
  Speaker 2: is the if you why are you, as a man
• 12:08
  Speaker 2: still following this page? Just curious.
• 12:09
  Speaker 1: That's a good question because I still follow pages that
• 12:13
  Speaker 1: are dating related.
• 12:14
  Speaker 3: No, actually I don't.
• 12:16
  Speaker 1: As soon as I got, like the students, I started
• 12:18
  Speaker 1: dating the person that I'm dating now.
• 12:20
  Speaker 2: Listen, I think you can still follow it for the
• 12:22
  Speaker 2: entertainment factor.
• 12:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I follow yours because you're a friend, and I'm like, okay, cool,
• 12:25
  Speaker 1: that's kind of interesting to see who you bring on.
• 12:27
  Speaker 1: You bringing on friends, I'm seeing their stories and it's
• 12:28
  Speaker 1: entertaining for sure. But there are also pages that you like.
• 12:31
  Speaker 1: Once you start dating somebody, you should just probably unfollow, probably,
• 12:34
  Speaker 1: especially if it's like some random woman that you met
• 12:36
  Speaker 1: at a bar. Once I'm like, yeah, I don't need
• 12:37
  Speaker 1: to see you anymore. All your thirst traps.
• 12:39
  Speaker 2: So anyway, not asking them to unfollow me, I just
• 12:41
  Speaker 2: thought it was interesting because I got a lot of like, oh,
• 12:43
  Speaker 2: I'm seeing someone now, and I'm like, you know, what,
• 12:45
  Speaker 2: respect it for? Thank you for telling me.
• 12:46
  Speaker 1: Maybe they don't even know they're following you anymore. Maybe
• 12:49
  Speaker 1: the benefit of the day.
• 12:50
  Speaker 2: I don't even know. So anyway, well, I told them
• 12:52
  Speaker 2: they were my following list. I'm like, I was going
• 12:53
  Speaker 2: through my following list.
• 12:54
  Speaker 1: Oh, He's like, oh, I am weird.
• 12:56
  Speaker 2: Anyway, So the one guy that responds is the guy
• 12:58
  Speaker 2: that I can tell from his profile picture, Like, this
• 13:00
  Speaker 2: guy looks really attractive. He's on private, so I can't
• 13:03
  Speaker 2: see anything else, but his profile picture looks good. So
• 13:06
  Speaker 2: I start messaging him and he immediately responds, and he
• 13:11
  Speaker 2: what did he say? Or I have to pull up
• 13:13
  Speaker 2: my just putting these guys on blasts.
• 13:15
  Speaker 3: And I was gonna say, well, I don't care, what.
• 13:17
  Speaker 2: Are they gonna do? Ask me out again? They're not
• 13:19
  Speaker 2: asking me out again.
• 13:19
  Speaker 3: You just fall back into the bushes where you were.
• 13:22
  Speaker 2: And in the first place at this point, like they're
• 13:23
  Speaker 2: all ignoring me.
• 13:24
  Speaker 1: That's true, it's kind of on you. But also I
• 13:28
  Speaker 1: don't understand guys. A lot of guys have problems with
• 13:30
  Speaker 1: the commitment thing. They're like, I don't know if I'm
• 13:31
  Speaker 1: ready to jump into them.
• 13:32
  Speaker 2: I'm like, like, you just it's a freaking day, Like
• 13:34
  Speaker 2: you want to go on a bay shore walk, you
• 13:36
  Speaker 2: want to go for a drink.
• 13:37
  Speaker 3: Just go have a conversation.
• 13:38
  Speaker 2: Do you want to go? I don't get it, So anyway,
• 13:40
  Speaker 2: I send, Hey, I was just going through my following
• 13:42
  Speaker 2: and hitting people up. Would you like to come on?
• 13:44
  Speaker 2: He goes sure, so I go, I'm pretty much free,
• 13:47
  Speaker 2: blah blah blah. Let me know when you can go,
• 13:49
  Speaker 2: when you can meet me down there? And he goes,
• 13:51
  Speaker 2: want to grab a drink after? Just immediately it's the
• 13:53
  Speaker 2: second message he sends me, and I said, if you
• 13:55
  Speaker 2: impressed me during your interview, I'll be more than happy
• 13:58
  Speaker 2: to oblige. Ha ha ha.
• 13:59
  Speaker 3: That's I like it so far.
• 14:01
  Speaker 1: Every time that Abby has talked about the way that
• 14:03
  Speaker 1: she shoots her shot casually, I got, girl, kudos to you.
• 14:07
  Speaker 2: I got good game.
• 14:08
  Speaker 1: You don't.
• 14:09
  Speaker 2: I'm playing the game so well.
• 14:11
  Speaker 3: You're out here on the field doing the right thing.
• 14:14
  Speaker 2: So anyway, he asked me out for Thursday, and I
• 14:15
  Speaker 2: can't go because I have to be at the Crafty
• 14:17
  Speaker 2: Squirrel in Saint Pete's. I was like, no, like I
• 14:20
  Speaker 2: could be the qwifty Squirrel. So I said I can
• 14:24
  Speaker 2: do Wednesday as long as it's before the Lightning game.
• 14:26
  Speaker 2: And he goes, oh, yeah, I'll be there and I said, oh,
• 14:30
  Speaker 2: he goes Wednesday night before the game, I'll be there,
• 14:32
  Speaker 2: I said, perfect. Oh wait, maybe this is where I
• 14:34
  Speaker 2: went wrong.
• 14:35
  Speaker 1: Oh snap, wait a second, what happened next though?
• 14:38
  Speaker 2: He said Wednesday night before the game, I'll be there.
• 14:41
  Speaker 2: Oh fuck, I did.
• 14:42
  Speaker 3: Screw up abby.
• 14:43
  Speaker 1: Wait, this is a learning moment right here. I like this?
• 14:46
  Speaker 2: Why no?
• 14:47
  Speaker 1: Oh wait, there's still redemption.
• 14:48
  Speaker 2: I thought he was okay, you read it. Oh my god,
• 14:51
  Speaker 2: because now I have anxiety because now I fucked it up.
• 14:54
  Speaker 1: Okay, so let me start, and you want me to
• 14:56
  Speaker 1: start at the top.
• 14:57
  Speaker 2: No, no, just rel like the last couple of messages. Okay,
• 15:00
  Speaker 2: I thought he said I'll be there, like i'll be
• 15:02
  Speaker 2: there for the interview.
• 15:05
  Speaker 1: Oh wait a second, Wednesday night before the game, I'll
• 15:08
  Speaker 1: be there. Perfect. Here, we're still on tomorrow for the
• 15:11
  Speaker 1: being out a bacher. Sorry, not gonna be able to
• 15:13
  Speaker 1: do it for an interview. We're doing a party bus
• 15:15
  Speaker 1: for the game. If you want to ride along, there's room.
• 15:18
  Speaker 1: Oh wait a second, Well, why did you see you
• 15:21
  Speaker 1: messed up? I'm not seeing.
• 15:23
  Speaker 2: Because I thought I thought he's saying he's going to
• 15:25
  Speaker 2: be at the game. But I don't think he agreed
• 15:27
  Speaker 2: to the interview. Oh that's how I interpreted.
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: He said, oh, he said that he's not available for
• 15:35
  Speaker 1: the interview before the game.
• 15:36
  Speaker 2: He said, oh, Wednesday night before the game, I'll be there.
• 15:38
  Speaker 2: I thought it was i'll be there so like for
• 15:41
  Speaker 2: the interview.
• 15:42
  Speaker 3: And I said perfect, No, he was saying he's going to.
• 15:44
  Speaker 2: Be at the lightning And then here's the other weird
• 15:45
  Speaker 2: thing that happened. Then I went to go follow him
• 15:47
  Speaker 2: because he followed me on my personal Instagram, so I
• 15:49
  Speaker 2: was like, let me follow you back, and then he
• 15:50
  Speaker 2: didn't approve my follow request, which I thought was odd.
• 15:53
  Speaker 3: He didn't approve it yet, Well, how long has it
• 15:56
  Speaker 3: been away?
• 15:56
  Speaker 2: It was like a fold. But I mean we were
• 15:58
  Speaker 2: like literally on Instagram, like.
• 16:01
  Speaker 1: I think there's here's what I was saying, here, what
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: do you think?
• 16:03
  Speaker 2: Okay, wait, He's like, it's like a hot potato.
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: I don't hold it anymore because he's say he did
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: technically shoot a shot when he said I'm going on
• 16:11
  Speaker 1: a party bus.
• 16:12
  Speaker 3: There's room if you want to come along.
• 16:14
  Speaker 2: Which is nice, but like I don't want to go
• 16:16
  Speaker 2: on a party bus when there's strangers.
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: Like no, yes, but again I don't know. Like us
• 16:22
  Speaker 1: male brains, we don't understand all the time the threats
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: that women face on a day to day Yeah, like.
• 16:30
  Speaker 2: Murder and the other thing that can happen to women.
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: That's exactly right. And then when you when you read
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: it out loud, you can see how creepy it is.
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: You're like, you woman, just get on some random bus.
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: Well, I don't think it's creepy. I think it was
• 16:43
  Speaker 2: a perfectly lovely. I think the intention was sweet. But
• 16:46
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't know you and I don't know
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: your friends, Like I don't want to get on this
• 16:49
  Speaker 2: party bus, and it could be like a whole I mean, listen,
• 16:51
  Speaker 2: if I was going to do it for the plot,
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: I would do it for the plot. But I'm I
• 16:54
  Speaker 2: just don't really feel like doing it for the plot.
• 16:55
  Speaker 2: And I was also a little pissed because I was like,
• 16:58
  Speaker 2: you're not gonna come on Big Zumba Shore like, or
• 17:00
  Speaker 2: you're not gonna like I don't know.
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: He could actually like again, I think it goes back
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: to the saying like if you wanted to, he would
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: you know, It's like you could make the time, you
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: could set up another time, you could be intentional about
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: getting there earlier. That's what I mean, like step up
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: to the plate, Brosky, So I think you're I don't
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: think you messed up. No, I think there was another
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: one that just falls to the wayside, like because I
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: really wanted to he could really, you could easily redeem
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: it right now.
• 17:21
  Speaker 2: No, I know. So I just said, oh, it's so fun,
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: I'd love to, but I have other interviews tonight.
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: Why can't you guys do a bays on Bay Short tomorrow.
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: Because I'm going to Crafty Squirrel tomorrow at night. He
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: wanted to meet at like five thirty or something, and
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: I got to drive down a Crafty Squirrel.
• 17:35
  Speaker 3: Then where does he live?
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: I don't know, Scott.
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: Grab I mean like if I really wanted to fit
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: it in on Thursday, like we could meet it. He
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: offered five thirty, and I'm like, okay, well I can
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: do Bays on Bay Short five thirty, but I can't
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: do it drink afterwards.
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: It might be just like forget the bays on Base Short,
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: just go out for a drink.
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: Well yeah, but like I like bays on Base Short
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: because it's kind of like a buffer. Because I'm like,
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: if I don't like you, then I could just kind
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: of like Eh, well, I was.
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: Gonna say, you get a drink before you go to
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: the craft scroll because that's like the easy out. You're like,
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: I literally only have an hour, so let's have a
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: quick drink and if it goes great, awesome. If it doesn't,
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: well then I gotta go to work. I literally have
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: another event. But again, I am and the team. Now
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: that I've a I've become much more understanding of what
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: I want to be as a man. I'm like, this
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: guy needs to step up.
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: That's what I mean. It's like it just I agreed
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: to go out with you, but I also like, you know,
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: I need the content.
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, all the content's nice but also nice, but like
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: I mean, i'll go some too, though.
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: Girl, No, I know, so I don't really know what
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: to do, so I just let it lie.
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: Well, you had the last message. So I was looking
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: at the message. The last message from you a little salty.
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: I saw it in the message where I was like, yeah,
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: I can't just cancel my other interviews. But I can't.
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: I mean that that is you know, that's true, but
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: it's a little salty.
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: You know, Well, yeah, because he left me hanging.
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: Well, if he was smart, he would reply after that
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: and then make it up. I'll make it up to
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: you with a so and so, or we could do
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: this so and so.
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah, if if he really cared too, he would.
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: That is so frustrating, though I can understand the frustration
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: because it's a lot of like great opportunities that are
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: just a missed I know, And it's like, what do
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: you say? I don't understand. There's not much more I
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: could see you doing. That's more of what you're doing,
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: I know.
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: But I mean, like, dear God, like how many how
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: many times do I have to get asked out and
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: then get retracted the asked out?
• 19:21
  Speaker 3: I think a lot.
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: I think a lot of people are going through exactly that,
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: where it's like, I mean, it's gonna happen either way.
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: You go on the date, and it's just crappy, Like
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: how many knights do you want to have wasted?
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: That's what I mean.
• 19:31
  Speaker 3: This is like a wasted text.
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: That's kind of what like why I like based on
• 19:33
  Speaker 2: base short because I'm like, does kind of give me
• 19:35
  Speaker 2: an excuse to just be like, hey, I'm not really
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: asking you out on an eight I'm not even necessarily
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: romantically interested. But it's putting me in a position to
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: meet other guys.
• 19:43
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but you're also pitching them for other women.
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: Well yeah, but like if they like me, just like
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: this guy, he's like, I don't really care about the interview.
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: I just want to take you out. Damn.
• 19:52
  Speaker 3: That's true.
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: But I guess it could get confusing because it's like, well,
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: are you even available or are you looking for that
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: or are you just simply doing this for content?
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: I agreed to the to the date. If I wasn't available,
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: I would just know.
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: I don't know what else you can do. Then you're
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: doing a good job of being out there so far.
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: You've gone to run clubs, you've gone to cold tubs,
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: you've done all the walks.
• 20:12
  Speaker 3: Maybe just needs to be increased.
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: But maybe also I was thinking about this because we're
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: going out to the Lightning game tonight and out in
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: the plaza. Like it's just in those environments I don't
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: know conversations happen. I do feel bad though, when we
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: go out in public, because I'm like, god, dang, oh yeah,
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: how does it make it any more obvious that, like
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: how could we sit there and be like, oh yeah, no, no, no,
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: we're not dating, Like Abby's upper grabs.
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: Right now, we need shirts that say that's not my girlfriend.
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: Unless we're out with your lady. Then it's like.
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: What all of a sudden, Oh yeah, yeah, no, all
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: of a sudden. It becomes way easier if there's me,
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: my lady, and you because now it's like, okay, well
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: obviously somebody's available. But when we go out together, because
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: it is fun to go out, but it does almost
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: like cancel out any options.
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: I know, I'm like, oh God, how.
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: Do I show another man that like no, no, no, no, no,
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: Like talk to Abby.
• 20:58
  Speaker 3: I know you want to.
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: I'm not go ahead, like that's my twin brother. That's right,
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: that's why we both have blonde hair and blue eyes.
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: Abraham. It's Abraham. It's Abe.
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: Because I feel like you are doing everything that needs
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: to be done, you know, and it's like you can't
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: give it. I know. I see a lot of women
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: online that are like, I'm just giving up. I don't
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: think that's the answer. I don't know if that's it.
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: Are you close to wanting to give up? Are you
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: close to like you wanted to throw in the towel?
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: Well, what am I gonna do?
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: Like?
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: Either, if you give up, then you're giving up, and
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: if you keep trying, you're still not getting anything.
• 21:26
  Speaker 3: That's true.
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: But what happens and this is like I know the
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: cliche that everyone's probably thinking, like when you're not looking,
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: something pops up.
• 21:33
  Speaker 2: Well, I'm not even really looking. I'm not on the
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: apps anymore. I'm asking people to come on base, on
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: begeor for content like I haven't been on a date
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: since I don't even remember.
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: Oh my, what does that see?
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: Maybe November? Oh you want to hear some bullshit other
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: bot men too. I have one more thing on myself.
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: I get the grievances out.
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: So I got set up with a really cute guy
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: by my friend a couple months. This would have been
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: in November, super cute, just my type. And we meet
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: at this bar restaurant in Atlanta, and we're having a
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: really great conversation and talking for you know, maybe ninety minutes,
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: two hours or whatever.
• 22:16
  Speaker 3: That's pretty good.
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, he was sweet. I don't think we
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: would have I would have gone out again with him
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: if he had asked me to, but he seemed a
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: little nervous and like our personalities weren't meshing super well,
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: Like I think I was maybe a little bit too
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: much for him. He's a little bit more softer spoken,
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: but he was really sweet and very cute, and he
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: we got so deep into the conversation, like I knew
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: his therapist name by the end of it. What the
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: hell he was telling me about his relationship with his
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: dad and how it's very complicated, so he's he feels
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: closer to his mom. Like I'm really putting this guy
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: on blast because I just want to put out how
• 22:51
  Speaker 2: much I know about this man.
• 22:52
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you guys obviously.
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: Like that means the conversation was going so well that
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: he felt so open to just start sharing.
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: We're just tipsy enough to share. But the point I'm
• 23:01
  Speaker 2: trying to make with this is that I asked him
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: really deep, intentional questions to where I found out like,
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: you know, what's his relationship with his therapist? Is? Like
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: what his mom say. So I go to a Christmas
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: party a couple of weeks later and I never heard
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: from him again, but I knew he wanted to ask
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: me out again because my friend was showing me text
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: messages that he was just like, oh my god, she's
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: so beautiful, Like I couldn't. I don't really know if
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: she was into it, but like, I would love to
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: go out with her again. And so I'm fully thinking
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: he's gonna ask me out again, and I would have
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: gone out with him again. I at that point I
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: knew I was moving out of Atlanta, but I was like, whatever,
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: he was nice, very cute, like I would have gone
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: out with him again. And so then I go to
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: this Christmas party where my friend who set us up
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: was there and she looked at me and she goes,
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: I have a bone to pick with you. I was like,
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: oh my god, what happened. She goes, I talked to
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: so and so about your date. I was like, oh
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: my god, what did he say? Like, oh my god?
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: Did it go? Like? What did he say? Like he
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: never asked me out again? And she goes, well, he
• 23:55
  Speaker 2: said you didn't ask enough questions about him.
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: What?
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: And I look at her and I go, what the heck?
• 24:02
  Speaker 3: Oh oh wow.
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: This is gonna give me because if I was gonna
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: put my life on any date that I've been on
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: where I know I've asked a lot of intentional questions
• 24:12
  Speaker 2: about the other person, I was like, that was one
• 24:14
  Speaker 2: of them.
• 24:15
  Speaker 3: That is so annoying.
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: And also like sir, it's not a this is my
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: thought process. It is my job as the one taking
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: you on the date to get to know you as
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: like blood. And I know that sounds pretty traditional, but
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: there are certain things that I'm like, Yeah, I should
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: be asking the questions for you, and I should never
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: complain that you didn't ask enough questions about me. What
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: you want to talk about you more mm hmmm, Like.
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: But I'm like, I don't even remember what I told him,
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: but I do remember a lot about him.
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like exactly like you already know that that's
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: not even the truth. H That sounds like a cop
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: out and it's just super annoying.
• 24:50
  Speaker 3: God. You know what, though, here's what I think you
• 24:52
  Speaker 3: should do. This is what I'm proposing. You're ready for this.
• 24:55
  Speaker 3: I see you writing we need to get you into
• 24:59
  Speaker 3: an innermural.
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: No, I don't.
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: We need you in a club of some sort an organization.
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: I don't care what it is, simply for the fact
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: of a weekly get together with people in the area.
• 25:10
  Speaker 3: I'm telling you right now, I was.
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: Just thinking about this because I haven't joined a sport
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: since college. I haven't done something like that. But the
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: people that I have seen do it. They have the
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: most fun, the most connections, and what a great place
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: to meet some men.
• 25:25
  Speaker 2: I'm not a good I don't not good at sports,
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: and they don't.
• 25:28
  Speaker 3: Have to be good.
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: I not have the people that play. They're not good.
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: That's not going to the league. So what are we
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: gonna do?
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: Kickball?
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: Yes, you do kickball, You do pickleball?
• 25:35
  Speaker 3: Do pickle ball?
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: They got pickleball clubs.
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: Can't there just be like a drinking club.
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: I think they call that trivia. You doing a trivia club?
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: You are? I don't know if you're down to commit,
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: but I think you should on looking online and saying
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: I'm going to join so and so, and it has
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: to be a weekly get together. It's going to get
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: you out of the house. And I say this too. Look,
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna act like I have all my freaking
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: ducks in a row.
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: I do not.
• 26:02
  Speaker 3: I'm trying to expand my friends circle as well.
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but you know what you got lucky. You had
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: a radio co host who set you up with the
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: love of.
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: Your life, and that could happen. Hey, fellas, you know what,
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: Scotty it is? Kickball?
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: Joined do sports? I'm like, I don't like sports, Scotty.
• 26:18
  Speaker 3: We both have had to go through our journeys. I
• 26:20
  Speaker 3: just happened to you.
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: Know, it's just happened to be easier than mine.
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: Just a different route, a different route that I'm very
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: grateful for. Shout out to the road. Well, here's what
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: I'm saying. I'm thinking it could be a it could
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: be a kickball, it could be I think you've done
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: good with the run club.
• 26:35
  Speaker 3: I think that has to be a weekly thing though.
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: It has to be like you have to be the
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: regular where you're now like, I'm so involved. I maybe
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: even helping organize things to just see where that leads.
• 26:45
  Speaker 3: Watch this moment.
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: I'm so excited because I feel like this is gonna
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: be like, oh my god, Scott, You're so right. It'll
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: be like your wedding day and I'll go give a
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: speech and be like I remember, I was just on
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: the podcast thinking what if Abby joined a kickball league
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: and next thing you know, you met Luke and next
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: he loves kickball. He's obsessed with it. But you're just
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: there to socialize and have a good time. I have
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: friends that do it. They don't even play the game,
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: They're just sit in the dugout. That could be you.
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: You know what's the problem here, I don't want to
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: play sports? Well, okay, find not a sport, find like
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: a I don't know what other people do outside of that.
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: But we talked about that a couple podcasts ago. When
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: you get older, like how do you meet new people?
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: You got to join one of these organizations we.
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: Want to join, like a like a craft making club.
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: Well, it might be a little hard to find the
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: men that you're looking for there.
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I will say, hey, maybe at the Crafty Squirrel
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: maybe on Thursday. That's true, giving out tickets to what.
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: The Corona Sinkos splashpool party conasoo.
• 27:38
  Speaker 3: Now we have a big meeting about after this.
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: Because it's probably getting well, we don't know, the weather's
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: not looking great. But something in that nature, like if
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: you're going to join a club, what are the things
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: that you'd want to join? Obviously the walk clubs, yes,
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: I think that should be a must every Wednesday, and
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: efforts that don't run.
• 27:55
  Speaker 3: You should be a part of that.
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: Do think about it?
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: You know, I would say maybe if you like craft
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: you could. I think it makes it a little harder
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: to find. Just a lot of us men are not
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: doing crafts. Some of us are. Not me, definitely not me.
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: I'm not that crafty. Maybe some are, but I want
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: to put you in spaces where there's a lot of men.
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: Well, we're going to lightning game tonight? Are we we're
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: doing that right?
• 28:16
  Speaker 3: Yes, let's just go ahead and commit.
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: I could commit for one period period.
• 28:20
  Speaker 3: I'm tired. I wake up every day extremely tired, now
• 28:22
  Speaker 3: I know?
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: Is that?
• 28:23
  Speaker 3: Okay?
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: So if it's not sports, maybe it's bird watching trivia night.
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: Would you go to a trivia night if it was
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: every Tuesday at seven down at a bar, and.
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: You think, men I'm into go to trivia? Yes, I
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: don't know where the men I'm into would go.
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: They're probably going to trivia nights. Trivia, you think, So
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: it's just a big thing. Did you see the new
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: thing that people are doing instead of trivia nights? What
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: I saw? I thought this was just a silly article
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: for radio. But then I saw a posts on like
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: the New York Times or Washington Post where like all
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: bars are doing trivia nights. That's slowly dying. The new
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: thing is nude drawing.
• 28:55
  Speaker 2: Okay, No, I'd rather do kickball rather do kid falled in,
• 29:02
  Speaker 2: then give up my privacy.
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: No, well, no, you're not going to be the one oh.
• 29:07
  Speaker 2: Like drawing somebody else. Yes, I don't want to see
• 29:10
  Speaker 2: some naked man. Have you seen a naked man? It's horrifying.
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: Literally every day heavy that's exactly what you see. A Well,
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: it depends on the day. Some days I'm like hey,
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: some days I'm like God, damn it. Another day another day. Wait.
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: Now, I keep ruminating on the fact that I think
• 29:27
  Speaker 2: I just sucked this up with the dude.
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: I don't think you did, though, I don't know where
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: you would have.
• 29:31
  Speaker 2: I feel like I did because I thought he was
• 29:34
  Speaker 2: I thought he was confirming that he was going to
• 29:37
  Speaker 2: do the interview with me before the Lightning game.
• 29:40
  Speaker 3: Oh, instead of like get a drink before the Lightning game.
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: I thought he was like perfect, he was like the
• 29:43
  Speaker 2: Lightning game, I'll be there. I thought it was like, oh,
• 29:46
  Speaker 2: I'll be there for the interview. Do you know what
• 29:48
  Speaker 2: I'm trying to say?
• 29:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah, let's see.
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: I mean, the only way you get actually redeem it
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: at this point, unless he responds is being like all right,
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: I'll do it.
• 29:56
  Speaker 2: F it.
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: I'm going on the party bus. When and where tell
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: me now, I don't think that's the right movie.
• 30:02
  Speaker 2: No, because it's gonna be weird because then we've had
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: We've now had this weird damn exchange.
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: If he responds again, maybe you meet up before the
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: Lightning game for a drink.
• 30:10
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he's gonna be on the party bus. I get
• 30:12
  Speaker 2: all his friends and.
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: He could go into the game after them, Like I'll
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: be out on the plaza meet me.
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: That's so true.
• 30:18
  Speaker 3: He could, like again, if you wanted to, he could.
• 30:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he could.
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: He's just want of the many. He won't probably not.
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: He'll be probably pretty wasted off to the party bus.
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: And yeah, I don't know if that's necessarily the state
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: that you want to see him in.
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: And whatever curse has been laid upon me by my ancestors, we.
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: Should bring in. Who's somebody that could lift a curse
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: like a sage. Yeah, he just he's somebody that has
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: that mystical power. I definitely don't and I'm definitely not
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: a pope.
• 30:40
  Speaker 2: This for sure a curs on me.
• 30:41
  Speaker 3: That's what I'm thinking.
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: But let's okay, we need to find someone that could
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: lift the cook do we just need the therapist?
• 30:46
  Speaker 2: It's like girl, it's not a curse that you're avoiding
• 30:48
  Speaker 2: attachment style. I don't need sage, you need medication.
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: Any kickball or pickleball or nude drawing at a bar
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: just a thought. You're not the one being nude. By
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: the way, this is where people are going and they're
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: drawing people they lay across the bar. I just saw
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: an article about it. That's all my recommendations. Get on
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: your phone. Two things that we need to have happen
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: on this podcast. One next week, I want to know
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: the organization that you've joined.
• 31:11
  Speaker 2: Well, you're going to l sell next week.
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: Okay, that's true. I will be out of the country
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: the week afterwards, maybe even on the next podcast. We
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: will find out what club you've joined, and I'll commit
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: to looking at a club too.
• 31:23
  Speaker 2: No, you're not I can. You're not going to I can.
• 31:26
  Speaker 2: I don't have any faith that you're going to.
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: You shouldn't. But then we'll also find who could lift
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: the curse, and we'll bring them on to lift the curse.
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: We can do a whole ritual one here where somebody
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: has the sage. We'll probably get in trouble with the
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: engineers for light and fire in here. Somebody could do
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: a prayer and that could be the thing that does it.
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: I've actually I believe full heavily and like karma because
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: I have done things and I've had to make amends
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: with them, and as soon as I did, all of
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: a sudden.
• 31:49
  Speaker 2: Like really yeah, but I can't think of anything egregious
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: that I've done, and I feel like when I do
• 31:54
  Speaker 2: do something egregious, I'm like, oh yeah, I should like
• 31:57
  Speaker 2: say something.
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: Maybe need to go on, Like an ayahuasca trip is
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: getting really deep into that brain. It might be like
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: get blocked it out. Like I've said things to people
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: like I had to like clear my conscience and like
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: come to grind you now.
• 32:08
  Speaker 2: I actually I hate this because I know terrible people
• 32:10
  Speaker 2: who are in relationships.
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, the relationship is not that.
• 32:13
  Speaker 3: Are they in good relationships? Are they happy? How's their job?
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: I always look at it in different categories, because if
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: your job's good, then what else is following? Is it
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: your friendships or your health? Is it your finances? That's
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: just one pillar. I look at life in like five pillars.
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: Relationships is just one, Like my relationship pillar fantastic, right now,
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: health pretty good. Friendships kind of hurt. And this is
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: not like I think I have great friends, but like
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: on a closeness level. Yeah, seeing friends, healthy friendships kind
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: of hurting finances, eh, mid mid.
• 32:47
  Speaker 3: So different categories.
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: Don't just look at somebody in relationship and say, oh man,
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: they got it. No, they don't. Not.
• 32:53
  Speaker 3: Everybody's sharing those demons.
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: So they might have had some bad juju come in
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: their way and it might look like something in their pocket.
• 32:59
  Speaker 3: True, that's what I'm saying. So time to find.
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: Somebody that could lift a curse. If you have any ideas,
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: please send them Abby's way. We're gonna lift on the
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: next podcast. I'm excited. I'm excited because I want to
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: lift the curse too, Like I don't know, maybe I've
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: got some bad joja on me. Make sure I don'ts
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: anything up in the future. All right, Well, if you
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: got anybody in Abbey's mind, anybody that could actually be
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: right for Abby, where could they find you? Abby at
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: thee that sounded so sadding no.
• 33:22
  Speaker 2: Because I'm kind of sad. I think I fucked this up.
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: I don't think you did. It wasn't that bad. You
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: didn't tell them to go f himself. I kind of well,
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: kind of mine is at Scott Tavlin s c O
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: T T T A V l I N at Magic
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: ninety four nine. For the rest of you want to
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: be around for the station stuff. I can't wait to
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: lift this curse. Let's see we could bring into the
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: studio next