Latest / The Retention Marketing Podcast with Fexingo: Email, SMS, and Loyalty for Repeat Customers / How Bonobos Uses Email to Convert One-Time Buyers Into Repeat Customers
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- Lucas: If these marketing conversations have sparked something you've actually used at work or in your own side project, that's exactly why we do this. Bonobos is a men's apparel brand — started online, later picked up by Walmart — and they built a post-purchase email sequence that might be the most patient in retail. Luna: Patient meaning they don't ask for a second sale right away? Lucas: Exactly. Most brands send a 'thanks for your order' email, then three days later it's '20 percent off your next purchase.' Bonobos does something different. Their sequence runs about six emails over the first two months after a purchase, and the first three emails have zero promotional content. No discount. No cross-sell. No 'complete the look.' Luna: So what are they sending instead? Lucas: Email one is a fit check — literally asking if the pants or shirt fit the way the customer expected. It includes a link to their free tailoring service for pants, which is a huge differentiator for them. Email two is a care guide — how to wash the fabric, how to store it, how to make it last longer. Email three is a direct invitation to call or chat with a customer service rep, no purchase required, just to talk about styling or fit questions. Luna: That's almost like a concierge service, but through email. Lucas: Right. And only after those three non-sales emails do they start with gentle product recommendations. Even then, the offer isn't '20 percent off' — it's 'here's a look from our stylists based on what you bought.' The discount comes much later, usually around the 60-day mark, and it's tied to a seasonal collection, not a generic coupon. Luna: I've read that Bonobos' repeat purchase rate within the first 90 days is around 35 percent. That's high for apparel. Lucas: It is. Industry average for online apparel is somewhere around 20 to 25 percent in that window. And their email open rates for the first three emails hover near 50 percent, which is way above the ecommerce average of maybe 20 percent. The reason is obvious when you think about it: the emails are useful. They're not noise. Luna: So the customer actually wants to open the next one because the first one helped them. Lucas: Exactly. There's a concept in behavioral economics called the 'endowment effect' — once someone owns something, they value it more. Bonobos leans into that. They're saying, 'You bought these pants. Let's make sure you love them.' That builds trust before they ever ask for another transaction. Luna: We deliberately don't run ads on these episodes. If you want to support that choice, the link is buy me a coffee dot com slash fexingo. It helps us keep the conversations focused on what actually works. Lucas: Yeah, and that independence lets us dig into case studies like this without worrying about sponsors. So back to Bonobos — the timing of when they finally ask for a second purchase matters as much as what they say. Lucas: They use a trigger based on product category. If someone bought a pair of chinos, around day 45 they'll send an email featuring a complementary shirt or jacket from the same collection. But it's not a flash sale. It's framed as 'you might like this to go with your chinos.' Luna: That makes sense. The average customer doesn't buy a full outfit in one go. They buy one piece, see if they like the fit, then come back. Lucas: And Bonobos has the data to prove it. Their internal metrics show that customers who receive the full sequence — all six emails — have a lifetime value about 40 percent higher than customers who only get the standard order confirmation and nothing else. That's a massive lift. Luna: But you need an email platform that can handle triggered sequences. Not every brand has that. Lucas: True, but most modern ecommerce platforms like Shopify or Klaviyo can set this up. The harder part is the discipline not to insert a discount early. Marketing teams often push for immediate revenue, especially if the CFO is watching monthly numbers. But Bonobos's approach shows that short-term patience pays off. Luna: I want to zoom in on that fit-check email. It's a smart way to collect data, too. If someone says the pants are too long, Bonobos knows to send them a link to the tailoring service, but they also learn something about the customer's body type. Lucas: Exactly. That's the hidden value. They're building a fit profile over time. If a customer has bought two pairs of 32x34 chinos and then they browse for jeans, Bonobos can recommend a 32x34 jean. That's predictive personalization without being creepy because the customer volunteered the data. Luna: And it reduces returns. If the jeans fit the first time, the customer is happier, and Bonobos saves on return shipping. Lucas: Right. Their return rate is lower than industry average, partly because of this. The care guide also plays a role. If you know how to wash the fabric, you're less likely to shrink it and then return it. Luna: Let's talk about the third email — the invitation to call or chat. Most brands bury customer service links. Why make it a whole email? Lucas: Because the barrier to reaching out is real. A lot of customers will just live with a minor fit issue or a style question rather than go find the contact page. By putting it front and center, Bonobos signals that they want the conversation. And the reps are trained not to upsell on that call. They just help. Luna: I've seen data that a single positive customer service interaction increases repeat purchase likelihood by 30 to 40 percent. Lucas: That tracks. And Bonobos's net promoter score is consistently in the mid-70s, which is excellent for retail. The email sequence isn't the only factor, but it's clearly part of the system. Luna: So what's the takeaway for a smaller brand that doesn't have Bonobos's budget or a full styling team? Lucas: You can replicate the structure without the concierge. Replace the styling consultation with a simple 'how did it fit?' survey. Replace the care guide with a link to a page on your site. The key is the sequence and the patience. Three non-sales emails before any offer. That's doable for any brand. Luna: I'd add that you need to pick the right product category. This works best for products with some consideration — apparel, accessories, maybe electronics. Not so much for low-consideration items like toothpaste. Lucas: Good point. The higher the involvement, the more the customer appreciates the service. I think the biggest lesson from Bonobos is that retention marketing doesn't have to be clever or gamified. Sometimes it's just being helpful.