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- 0:37The
- 0:37truth
- 0:38is,
- 0:38growth
- 0:38feels
- 0:39exciting
- 0:39until
- 0:39you're
- 0:40exhausted.
- 0:41For
- 0:41many
- 0:41people,
- 0:42it
- 0:42looks
- 0:42like
- 0:42more
- 0:42income,
- 0:43more
- 0:44responsibility,
- 0:45and
- 0:45more
- 0:46pressure.
- 0:47And
- 0:47sure,
- 0:47you've
- 0:47prayed
- 0:48for
- 0:48growth,
- 0:48you
- 0:48work
- 0:49for
- 0:49growth,
- 0:50and
- 0:50now
- 0:50you're
- 0:50wondering
- 0:51to
- 0:51yourself,
- 0:52why
- 0:52does
- 0:52it
- 0:52feel
- 0:53so
- 0:53heavy?
- 0:53Ralph
- 0:55Frank,
- 0:55you're
- 0:55not
- 0:55crazy
- 0:56for
- 0:56feeling
- 0:56that,
- 0:57because
- 0:57sometimes
- 0:58what
- 0:58looks
- 0:58like
- 0:58a
- 0:59blessing
- 1:00starts
- 1:00feeling
- 1:00more
- 1:00like
- 1:01a
- 1:01burden,
- 1:01doesn't
- 1:01it?
- 1:02And
- 1:02I
- 1:02just
- 1:03want
- 1:03to
- 1:03say
- 1:03this.
- 1:04You're
- 1:04going
- 1:05to
- 1:05be
- 1:05okay.
- 1:06But
- 1:06we
- 1:06need
- 1:06to
- 1:06talk
- 1:07about
- 1:07how
- 1:07you're
- 1:08trying
- 1:08to
- 1:08grow
- 1:08in
- 1:08the
- 1:09first
- 1:09place.
- 1:10So
- 1:10here's
- 1:11the
- 1:11question
- 1:11we're
- 1:11answering
- 1:12today.
- 1:13How
- 1:13can
- 1:13you
- 1:13grow
- 1:13your
- 1:14income
- 1:15without
- 1:15burning
- 1:15out?
- 1:16And
- 1:16I'm
- 1:17making
- 1:17a
- 1:17promise
- 1:17here.
- 1:17By
- 1:18the
- 1:18end
- 1:18of
- 1:18this
- 1:18episode,
- 1:19you're
- 1:19going
- 1:19to
- 1:19walk
- 1:19away
- 1:20with
- 1:20a
- 1:20calm
- 1:20way
- 1:20to
- 1:21tell
- 1:21if
- 1:21your
- 1:21growth
- 1:21is
- 1:22healthy,
- 1:22a
- 1:22simple
- 1:23framework
- 1:23to
- 1:23scale
- 1:24with
- 1:24wisdom,
- 1:25and
- 1:25one
- 1:25small
- 1:26next
- 1:26step
- 1:26you
- 1:26can
- 1:27take
- 1:27this
- 1:27week
- 1:27without
- 1:28overwhelming
- 1:29yourself.
- 1:30Because
- 1:30today
- 1:30is
- 1:30not
- 1:30about
- 1:30hustle
- 1:31hype,
- 1:31it's
- 1:32not
- 1:32about
- 1:32guilt,
- 1:32and
- 1:33it's
- 1:33certainly
- 1:33not
- 1:33about
- 1:34pushing
- 1:34harder.
- 1:35Today
- 1:35we're
- 1:35going
- 1:35to
- 1:36talk
- 1:36about
- 1:36clarity
- 1:36and
- 1:37peace.
- 1:59Hey,
- 2:00friend.
- 2:00Ralph
- 2:00Estep
- 2:01Jr.
- 2:01Here.
- 2:01Welcome
- 2:02to
- 2:02Financially
- 2:02Confident
- 2:03Christian,
- 2:03where
- 2:04we
- 2:04learn
- 2:04how
- 2:04to
- 2:04walk
- 2:04through
- 2:05life
- 2:05and
- 2:05money
- 2:06with
- 2:06wisdom,
- 2:07with
- 2:07peace,
- 2:08and
- 2:08with
- 2:08a
- 2:08heart
- 2:08anchored
- 2:09in
- 2:09God's
- 2:09truth.
- 2:10My
- 2:10mission
- 2:11on
- 2:11this
- 2:11show
- 2:11is
- 2:11to
- 2:11help
- 2:11you
- 2:12break
- 2:12the
- 2:12cycle
- 2:12of
- 2:13financial
- 2:13shame
- 2:13and
- 2:14build
- 2:14steady
- 2:14habits
- 2:15that
- 2:15are
- 2:15rooted
- 2:16in
- 2:16faith
- 2:16and
- 2:17truly
- 2:17become
- 2:18financially
- 2:19confident
- 2:19Christians.
- 2:20I'm
- 2:21really
- 2:21glad
- 2:21you're
- 2:21here
- 2:21today.
- 2:22Yesterday
- 2:23we
- 2:23talked
- 2:23about
- 2:23those
- 2:24hustle
- 2:24burdens,
- 2:25that
- 2:25quiet
- 2:26pressure
- 2:26that
- 2:26says
- 2:27if
- 2:27you
- 2:27slow
- 2:27down
- 2:28just
- 2:28a
- 2:28little
- 2:28bit,
- 2:29you're
- 2:29going
- 2:29to
- 2:29fall
- 2:29behind.
- 2:30And
- 2:31today
- 2:31is
- 2:31the
- 2:31next
- 2:32step,
- 2:32because
- 2:33once
- 2:33you
- 2:33notice
- 2:34the
- 2:34burden,
- 2:35the
- 2:35next
- 2:35question
- 2:35becomes,
- 2:36how
- 2:37do
- 2:37I
- 2:37grow,
- 2:37Ralph,
- 2:38without
- 2:38adding
- 2:38more
- 2:38weight
- 2:39to
- 2:39it?
- 2:40If
- 2:40that's
- 2:40where
- 2:41you
- 2:41are
- 2:41right
- 2:41now,
- 2:41friend,
- 2:42you're
- 2:42not
- 2:42failing.
- 2:43You're
- 2:43actually
- 2:44becoming
- 2:44wise.
- 2:45Because
- 2:46here's
- 2:46the
- 2:46question
- 2:46I
- 2:46hear
- 2:47all
- 2:47the
- 2:47time,
- 2:48Ralph,
- 2:48I
- 2:49want
- 2:49to
- 2:49grow
- 2:49my
- 2:49income,
- 2:50but
- 2:51I'm
- 2:51already
- 2:51tired,
- 2:52exhausted.
- 2:53How
- 2:53do
- 2:53I
- 2:54scale
- 2:54without
- 2:54burning
- 2:55out?
- 2:56And
- 2:56friend,
- 2:56I
- 2:57want
- 2:57to
- 2:57stop
- 2:57right
- 2:57there
- 2:57for
- 2:57a
- 2:58second
- 2:58because
- 2:58that
- 2:58question
- 2:59is
- 2:59not
- 2:59weakness.
- 3:00That
- 3:01question
- 3:01is
- 3:01actually
- 3:02maturity.
- 3:03And
- 3:03if
- 3:04you're
- 3:04feeling
- 3:04this,
- 3:05you're
- 3:05not
- 3:06lazy,
- 3:06you're
- 3:07not
- 3:07ungrateful,
- 3:08and
- 3:08you're
- 3:09also
- 3:09not
- 3:09bad
- 3:09at
- 3:09adulting.
- 3:10I
- 3:10heard
- 3:10that
- 3:10the
- 3:10other
- 3:10day.
- 3:11Somebody
- 3:11said,
- 3:11well,
- 3:11you're
- 3:11just
- 3:11bad
- 3:12at
- 3:12adulting.
- 3:13It's
- 3:13not
- 3:13what
- 3:14it
- 3:14is.
- 3:15You're
- 3:15a
- 3:15person
- 3:16trying
- 3:16to
- 3:16carry
- 3:17real
- 3:17life,
- 3:18and
- 3:18you're
- 3:19carrying
- 3:19your
- 3:19work,
- 3:20you're
- 3:20carrying
- 3:21your
- 3:21family,
- 3:22you're
- 3:22carrying
- 3:22your
- 3:23bills
- 3:23and
- 3:23your
- 3:23body,
- 3:24your
- 3:24mind
- 3:25and
- 3:25Your
- 3:25faith.
- 3:27You're
- 3:27carrying
- 3:27a
- 3:27lot,
- 3:28aren't
- 3:28you?
- 3:29And
- 3:29when
- 3:29you
- 3:29hear
- 3:30make
- 3:30more
- 3:30money,
- 3:31your
- 3:31nervous
- 3:32system
- 3:32quietly
- 3:32hears,
- 3:33do
- 3:33more,
- 3:34hold
- 3:35more,
- 3:35lose
- 3:35more
- 3:35sleep.
- 3:37Not
- 3:37fun,
- 3:37right?
- 3:38So
- 3:39if
- 3:39part
- 3:39of
- 3:39me
- 3:39wants
- 3:39growth
- 3:41and
- 3:41party,
- 3:41feels
- 3:42dread,
- 3:42that
- 3:43makes
- 3:43sense
- 3:43to
- 3:43me.
- 3:43You're
- 3:44not
- 3:44crazy
- 3:44for
- 3:44thinking
- 3:45that.
- 3:46Here's
- 3:47a
- 3:47truth
- 3:47that
- 3:47simple
- 3:48but
- 3:48important.
- 3:49More
- 3:50money
- 3:50doesn't
- 3:50automatically
- 3:51mean
- 3:51more
- 3:52peace.
- 3:52I
- 3:53used
- 3:53to
- 3:53think
- 3:53it
- 3:53was
- 3:53all
- 3:54about
- 3:54making
- 3:54more
- 3:54money,
- 3:55doing
- 3:56more,
- 3:56doing
- 3:56all
- 3:57those
- 3:57things.
- 3:57You
- 3:57know
- 3:57what?
- 3:58I
- 3:58was
- 3:58wrong.
- 4:00If
- 4:00the
- 4:00only
- 4:00way
- 4:01to
- 4:01grow
- 4:01is
- 4:01longer
- 4:02hours,
- 4:03if
- 4:03the
- 4:03only
- 4:03way
- 4:04to
- 4:04earn
- 4:04more
- 4:04is
- 4:05constant
- 4:05availability,
- 4:06if
- 4:07the
- 4:07only
- 4:07way
- 4:07to
- 4:07increase
- 4:08income
- 4:08is
- 4:08to
- 4:09decrease
- 4:09your
- 4:09health,
- 4:10guess
- 4:10what?
- 4:11That's
- 4:12not
- 4:12growth.
- 4:13That's
- 4:13overload.
- 4:15And
- 4:15it's
- 4:15never
- 4:15going
- 4:15to
- 4:16work.
- 4:17And
- 4:17friend,
- 4:17let's
- 4:18be
- 4:18honest.
- 4:19God
- 4:19isn't
- 4:19impressed
- 4:20by
- 4:20your
- 4:20exhaustion.
- 4:21He's
- 4:21not
- 4:21grading
- 4:22your
- 4:22worth
- 4:22based
- 4:23on
- 4:23how
- 4:23depleted
- 4:24you
- 4:24are
- 4:24at
- 4:24the
- 4:24end
- 4:24of
- 4:24the
- 4:24day.
- 4:25Because
- 4:26in
- 4:26the
- 4:26end,
- 4:27real
- 4:27stewardship
- 4:29includes
- 4:29your
- 4:29soul.
- 4:31I've
- 4:31watched
- 4:31this
- 4:32pattern
- 4:32for
- 4:32years.
- 4:33I've
- 4:33seen
- 4:33it
- 4:34with
- 4:34business
- 4:34owners.
- 4:35I've
- 4:35seen
- 4:35it
- 4:35with
- 4:36families.
- 4:36I've
- 4:36seen
- 4:36it
- 4:37with
- 4:37clients
- 4:37who
- 4:37look
- 4:38successful,
- 4:40but
- 4:40they
- 4:40feel
- 4:40like
- 4:40they're
- 4:41falling
- 4:41apart
- 4:41inside.
- 4:42And
- 4:43I've
- 4:43had
- 4:43seasons
- 4:44in
- 4:44my
- 4:44own
- 4:44life
- 4:44where
- 4:45income
- 4:45went
- 4:45up.
- 4:46But
- 4:46guess
- 4:46what?
- 4:46Peace
- 4:47went
- 4:47down
- 4:47at
- 4:47the
- 4:47same
- 4:48time.
- 4:49And
- 4:49I've
- 4:49seen
- 4:49it
- 4:50happen
- 4:50in
- 4:50my
- 4:50own
- 4:50life
- 4:50so
- 4:51many
- 4:51times,
- 4:51it
- 4:52was
- 4:52exhausting.
- 4:54So
- 4:54I'm
- 4:54not
- 4:54speaking
- 4:55at
- 4:55you
- 4:55today.
- 4:56I'm
- 4:57sitting
- 4:57right
- 4:57here
- 4:57with
- 4:58you.
- 4:58And
- 4:58I'm
- 4:58still
- 4:59learning
- 4:59this
- 4:59myself,
- 5:00to
- 5:00be
- 5:00honest.
- 5:01And
- 5:02I
- 5:02can
- 5:02still
- 5:02remember
- 5:02a
- 5:02season
- 5:03when
- 5:03things
- 5:03are
- 5:03working
- 5:04for
- 5:04me.
- 5:04Things
- 5:04were
- 5:04clicking,
- 5:05money
- 5:05was
- 5:05improving.
- 5:07But
- 5:07I
- 5:07was
- 5:07always
- 5:08on.
- 5:08I
- 5:08was
- 5:08like
- 5:08that
- 5:09light
- 5:09switch
- 5:09always
- 5:09flicked
- 5:10on.
- 5:11I
- 5:11was
- 5:11always
- 5:11answering
- 5:12the
- 5:12phone.
- 5:12I
- 5:12was
- 5:13always
- 5:13thinking,
- 5:13always
- 5:14solving
- 5:14problems.
- 5:15I'd
- 5:16sit
- 5:16down
- 5:16to
- 5:16rest
- 5:17and
- 5:17my
- 5:17mind
- 5:17would
- 5:17still
- 5:18be
- 5:18running
- 5:18a
- 5:18mile
- 5:19a
- 5:19minute.
- 5:20And
- 5:20listen,
- 5:20if
- 5:21you
- 5:21looked
- 5:21at
- 5:21it
- 5:21on
- 5:21paper,
- 5:21it
- 5:22looked
- 5:22like
- 5:22I
- 5:22was
- 5:22making
- 5:22progress.
- 5:24I
- 5:24was
- 5:24financially
- 5:25getting
- 5:25ahead.
- 5:26But
- 5:27inside,
- 5:28it
- 5:28felt
- 5:28like
- 5:28pressure.
- 5:29I'm
- 5:29talking
- 5:30about
- 5:30constant
- 5:30pressure.
- 5:32And
- 5:32I
- 5:33realized
- 5:33something.
- 5:34I
- 5:34didn't
- 5:35have
- 5:35a
- 5:35growth
- 5:35plan
- 5:35at
- 5:36all.
- 5:36I
- 5:37had
- 5:37a
- 5:37say
- 5:37yes
- 5:38to
- 5:38everything
- 5:38plan.
- 5:38Let
- 5:39me
- 5:39tell
- 5:39you
- 5:39right
- 5:39now,
- 5:40that
- 5:40plan
- 5:41cost
- 5:41me
- 5:41more
- 5:41than
- 5:41it
- 5:41paid
- 5:42me.
- 5:43So
- 5:43let's
- 5:43come
- 5:44back
- 5:44to
- 5:44it
- 5:44today.
- 5:45How
- 5:45can
- 5:45you
- 5:46grow
- 5:46your
- 5:46income
- 5:47without
- 5:47burning
- 5:48out?
- 5:49And
- 5:49here's
- 5:49the
- 5:49answer
- 5:50in
- 5:50one
- 5:50line.
- 5:51You
- 5:52grow
- 5:52with
- 5:52wisdom
- 5:53and
- 5:53margin,
- 5:54not
- 5:54speed
- 5:55and
- 5:55strain.
- 5:55I
- 5:55want
- 5:55to
- 5:56say
- 5:56that
- 5:56again
- 5:56because
- 5:56it
- 5:56is
- 5:57so
- 5:57critical.
- 5:58You
- 5:58grow
- 5:58with
- 5:59wisdom
- 5:59and
- 6:00margin,
- 6:01not
- 6:01with
- 6:01speed
- 6:02and
- 6:02strain.
- 6:03But
- 6:04now,
- 6:04let's
- 6:04make
- 6:04this
- 6:04practical.
- 6:05I
- 6:06Want
- 6:06to
- 6:06give
- 6:06you
- 6:06a
- 6:06gentle
- 6:07framework
- 6:07today.
- 6:08I
- 6:08don't
- 6:08want
- 6:08to
- 6:08give
- 6:08you
- 6:08anything
- 6:08complicated.
- 6:09Listen,
- 6:09you
- 6:10don't
- 6:10need
- 6:10anything
- 6:10more
- 6:10overwhelming,
- 6:11do
- 6:11you?
- 6:12Just
- 6:12something
- 6:12you
- 6:13can
- 6:13remember.
- 6:14The
- 6:14goal
- 6:14isn't
- 6:15more.
- 6:15The
- 6:15goal
- 6:16is
- 6:16more
- 6:17with
- 6:17peace.
- 6:18And
- 6:19to
- 6:19do
- 6:19that,
- 6:19we
- 6:19need
- 6:19to
- 6:20grow
- 6:20in
- 6:20the
- 6:20right
- 6:20order.
- 6:21So
- 6:21here's
- 6:21the
- 6:21order.
- 6:22Clarity,
- 6:23systems
- 6:23support,
- 6:24and
- 6:25scale.
- 6:25And
- 6:25clarity
- 6:26comes
- 6:26first.
- 6:27Before
- 6:27you
- 6:27chase
- 6:28more
- 6:28income,
- 6:29you've
- 6:29got
- 6:29to
- 6:29ask
- 6:30yourself
- 6:30this
- 6:30very
- 6:31basic
- 6:31question.
- 6:32What
- 6:33kind
- 6:33of
- 6:33income
- 6:34am
- 6:34I
- 6:34trying
- 6:34to
- 6:35build?
- 6:36Because
- 6:36not
- 6:36all
- 6:37money
- 6:37is
- 6:37equal.
- 6:38Some
- 6:39income
- 6:39brings
- 6:39peace,
- 6:40but
- 6:40on
- 6:40the
- 6:41same
- 6:41time,
- 6:41some
- 6:42income
- 6:42brings
- 6:42chaos
- 6:43into
- 6:43your
- 6:43life.
- 6:45So
- 6:45ask
- 6:45yourself
- 6:45this.
- 6:46Is
- 6:47this
- 6:47income
- 6:48predictable?
- 6:49Do
- 6:49I
- 6:49know
- 6:49when
- 6:50it's
- 6:50going
- 6:50to
- 6:50come
- 6:50in?
- 6:50Do
- 6:50I
- 6:51know
- 6:51what
- 6:51it's
- 6:51going
- 6:51to
- 6:51look
- 6:51like
- 6:51for
- 6:52me?
- 6:52Does
- 6:53the
- 6:53income
- 6:53require
- 6:54constant
- 6:54urgency?
- 6:55Am
- 6:55I
- 6:55going
- 6:55to
- 6:56be
- 6:56up
- 6:56all
- 6:56hours?
- 6:57Am
- 6:57I
- 6:57going
- 6:57to
- 6:57be
- 6:57working
- 6:57all
- 6:58kinds
- 6:58of
- 6:58crazy
- 6:58weekends
- 6:59and
- 6:59all
- 6:59that
- 6:59sort
- 7:00of
- 7:00thing?
- 7:00And
- 7:01does
- 7:01this
- 7:01income
- 7:02fit
- 7:02my
- 7:02season
- 7:03of
- 7:03life?
- 7:04And
- 7:05friend,
- 7:05you're
- 7:05allowed
- 7:06to
- 7:06say
- 7:06I
- 7:06want
- 7:07growth,
- 7:07but
- 7:07not
- 7:07at
- 7:07the
- 7:08cost
- 7:08of
- 7:08my
- 7:08family.
- 7:09Yeah,
- 7:10you're
- 7:10allowed
- 7:10to
- 7:10say,
- 7:10I
- 7:11want
- 7:11progress,
- 7:12but
- 7:12I
- 7:12also
- 7:13want,
- 7:13guess
- 7:14what?
- 7:14I
- 7:14need
- 7:14rest.
- 7:15That's
- 7:16not
- 7:16laziness,
- 7:18that's
- 7:18wisdom.
- 7:19Then
- 7:20you've
- 7:20got
- 7:20to
- 7:20move
- 7:20to
- 7:20building
- 7:21systems
- 7:21before
- 7:22just
- 7:22adding
- 7:22extra
- 7:23hours.
- 7:23And
- 7:23this
- 7:23is
- 7:24a
- 7:24big
- 7:24one.
- 7:25Most
- 7:25people
- 7:25try
- 7:26to
- 7:26grow
- 7:26by
- 7:26working
- 7:26longer.
- 7:27That's
- 7:27the
- 7:27old
- 7:27adage.
- 7:28I'm
- 7:28just
- 7:28going
- 7:28to
- 7:28work
- 7:28more
- 7:29hours,
- 7:29I'm
- 7:29going
- 7:29to
- 7:30put
- 7:30in
- 7:30more
- 7:30time,
- 7:31I'm
- 7:31going
- 7:31to
- 7:31have
- 7:31less
- 7:32rest.
- 7:33But
- 7:33sustainable
- 7:34growth
- 7:34usually
- 7:34happens
- 7:35by
- 7:35working
- 7:35smarter
- 7:36first.
- 7:37So
- 7:38ask
- 7:38this
- 7:38question.
- 7:40What
- 7:40do
- 7:40I
- 7:40repeat
- 7:41every
- 7:41single
- 7:41week?
- 7:42That's
- 7:43where
- 7:43you
- 7:43got
- 7:43to
- 7:43go.
- 7:43What
- 7:44do
- 7:44I
- 7:44repeat
- 7:44every
- 7:44week?
- 7:45Because
- 7:45whatever.
- 7:45Repeats
- 7:46can
- 7:47often
- 7:47be
- 7:47simplified.
- 7:48It
- 7:49can
- 7:49be
- 7:49templated,
- 7:50it
- 7:50can
- 7:50be
- 7:50automated,
- 7:51and
- 7:52it
- 7:52can
- 7:52be
- 7:52batched.
- 7:54So,
- 7:54friend,
- 7:54listen,
- 7:54if
- 7:55you
- 7:55keep
- 7:55doing
- 7:56everything
- 7:56manually,
- 7:57growth
- 7:57will
- 7:58feel
- 7:58like
- 7:58you're
- 7:58drowning.
- 7:59But
- 8:00adding
- 8:00just
- 8:00one
- 8:00small
- 8:01system
- 8:02can
- 8:02feel
- 8:02like
- 8:02a
- 8:02life
- 8:03rift.
- 8:03I'm
- 8:03going
- 8:03to
- 8:03give
- 8:03you
- 8:03a
- 8:03few
- 8:04examples.
- 8:05Maybe
- 8:05you
- 8:05set
- 8:05one
- 8:06day
- 8:06of
- 8:06your
- 8:07schedule
- 8:07for
- 8:07administrative
- 8:08tests.
- 8:08You
- 8:08just
- 8:08carve
- 8:09out.
- 8:09This
- 8:09is
- 8:09my
- 8:09day
- 8:10for
- 8:10administration.
- 8:10I
- 8:11started
- 8:11doing
- 8:11that
- 8:11personally
- 8:12and
- 8:12it's
- 8:12been,
- 8:12you
- 8:12know,
- 8:13hugely
- 8:13impactful
- 8:13to
- 8:14me.
- 8:14Maybe
- 8:15you
- 8:15automate
- 8:15a
- 8:15bill
- 8:16payment
- 8:16so
- 8:16it's
- 8:17not
- 8:17mental
- 8:17clutter
- 8:17in
- 8:18your
- 8:18head
- 8:18anymore.
- 8:18Like,
- 8:18I
- 8:18got
- 8:18to
- 8:19pay
- 8:19this
- 8:19anyway.
- 8:19Why
- 8:20not
- 8:20just
- 8:20automate
- 8:20this
- 8:21and
- 8:21it'll
- 8:21happen
- 8:22without
- 8:22me
- 8:22worrying
- 8:22about
- 8:23it.
- 8:24Maybe
- 8:24you
- 8:24set
- 8:24a
- 8:24simple
- 8:25boundary.
- 8:25Maybe
- 8:25your
- 8:26issue
- 8:26is
- 8:26you
- 8:26respond
- 8:27all
- 8:27hours.
- 8:27I'm
- 8:28guilty
- 8:28of
- 8:28this
- 8:28all
- 8:28the
- 8:29time.
- 8:29But
- 8:30maybe
- 8:30you
- 8:30set
- 8:30a
- 8:30boundary.
- 8:31I
- 8:31don't
- 8:31respond
- 8:31after
- 8:327pm,
- 8:32that's
- 8:33your
- 8:33hard
- 8:33cut
- 8:33off.
- 8:34And
- 8:35that's
- 8:35not
- 8:35you
- 8:35being
- 8:36difficult,
- 8:37that
- 8:37you
- 8:37actually
- 8:38protecting
- 8:38your
- 8:38peace.
- 8:40But
- 8:40then
- 8:40you've
- 8:40got
- 8:41to
- 8:41build
- 8:41support
- 8:41before
- 8:42you
- 8:42power
- 8:42through
- 8:42it.
- 8:43Friend,
- 8:43you
- 8:44were
- 8:44never
- 8:44meant
- 8:44to
- 8:44carry
- 8:45everything
- 8:45alone.
- 8:46So
- 8:47support
- 8:47might
- 8:47look
- 8:47like
- 8:48this.
- 8:48Maybe
- 8:48you
- 8:48ask
- 8:48your
- 8:49spouse
- 8:49for
- 8:49a
- 8:49quick
- 8:49check
- 8:50in,
- 8:50just
- 8:50hey,
- 8:50how
- 8:50are
- 8:51things
- 8:51going?
- 8:52What
- 8:52do
- 8:52you
- 8:52think
- 8:52about
- 8:53what
- 8:53I'm
- 8:53doing
- 8:53here?
- 8:54Maybe
- 8:54get
- 8:55a
- 8:55trusted
- 8:55friend
- 8:55to
- 8:55help
- 8:56you
- 8:56think
- 8:56through
- 8:56a
- 8:56puzzle
- 8:57or
- 8:57think
- 8:57through
- 8:57a
- 8:58solution
- 8:58to
- 8:58a
- 8:58problem
- 8:59you're
- 8:59going
- 8:59through.
- 8:59Hey,
- 9:00maybe
- 9:00you
- 9:00hire
- 9:01somebody
- 9:01for
- 9:01one
- 9:02small
- 9:02thing
- 9:02to
- 9:02just
- 9:03take
- 9:03that
- 9:03off
- 9:03your
- 9:04plate
- 9:05or
- 9:05get
- 9:05some
- 9:05guidance
- 9:06on
- 9:06a
- 9:06plan.
- 9:07Because
- 9:08the
- 9:08truth
- 9:08is,
- 9:08burnout
- 9:09often
- 9:09happens
- 9:10when
- 9:10responsibility
- 9:11grows,
- 9:11but
- 9:12the
- 9:12support
- 9:12doesn't
- 9:12grow
- 9:13with
- 9:13it.
- 9:13Like
- 9:13James
- 9:14Clear
- 9:14says,
- 9:15you
- 9:15get
- 9:15to
- 9:15the
- 9:16point
- 9:16of
- 9:16your
- 9:16broken
- 9:16systems
- 9:18and
- 9:18you
- 9:18might
- 9:18be
- 9:18thinking,
- 9:19but
- 9:19Ralph,
- 9:20I
- 9:20should
- 9:20be
- 9:20able
- 9:20to
- 9:20do
- 9:20this.
- 9:22That
- 9:22right
- 9:22there,
- 9:23friend,
- 9:23that
- 9:23sentence
- 9:24I
- 9:24should
- 9:24be
- 9:24able
- 9:25to
- 9:25do.
- 9:25This
- 9:25is
- 9:26the
- 9:26definition
- 9:26of
- 9:27a
- 9:27burnout
- 9:27sentence.
- 9:29Healthy
- 9:29people
- 9:30ask
- 9:30for
- 9:30help.
- 9:31Wise
- 9:32people
- 9:32ask
- 9:32for
- 9:33help.
- 9:33And
- 9:33guess
- 9:33what?
- 9:34Faithful
- 9:35people
- 9:35ask
- 9:35for
- 9:36help.
- 9:37And
- 9:37then
- 9:37last
- 9:38but
- 9:38not
- 9:38least,
- 9:38then
- 9:39you
- 9:39scale
- 9:39it.
- 9:39So
- 9:39you
- 9:40got
- 9:40to
- 9:40put
- 9:40scale
- 9:41is
- 9:41the
- 9:41final
- 9:42step.
- 9:42Because
- 9:43if
- 9:43you
- 9:43scale
- 9:43too
- 9:44early,
- 9:44all
- 9:44you're
- 9:45doing
- 9:45is
- 9:45multiplying
- 9:46that
- 9:46stress.
- 9:47But
- 9:48if
- 9:48you
- 9:48scale
- 9:48after,
- 9:49you
- 9:49have
- 9:49clarity.
- 9:49Here's
- 9:50what
- 9:50I'm
- 9:50going
- 9:50to
- 9:50do.
- 9:50Here's
- 9:51the
- 9:51systems,
- 9:52here's
- 9:52the
- 9:52support
- 9:53I
- 9:53have.
- 9:54When
- 9:54you
- 9:54scale,
- 9:54then
- 9:55you're
- 9:55able
- 9:55to
- 9:56multiply
- 9:56that
- 9:57fruit.
- 9:58So
- 9:58here's
- 9:58a
- 9:58test
- 9:58for
- 9:59you.
- 9:59If
- 9:59your
- 10:00growth
- 10:00plan
- 10:00requires
- 10:01you
- 10:01to
- 10:01be
- 10:01exhausted
- 10:02to
- 10:02succeed,
- 10:03that's
- 10:03not
- 10:03a
- 10:03good
- 10:04plan.
- 10:05Think
- 10:05about
- 10:06God.
- 10:06God's
- 10:06way
- 10:06is
- 10:07steady.
- 10:07It's
- 10:07not
- 10:08frantic.
- 10:08It's
- 10:09not
- 10:09panic.
- 10:09It's
- 10:10not
- 10:10constantly
- 10:10one
- 10:11emergency
- 10:11away.
- 10:13And
- 10:13friend,
- 10:13if
- 10:13you've
- 10:13been
- 10:14living
- 10:14that
- 10:14way,
- 10:15I'm
- 10:15not
- 10:15judging
- 10:16you.
- 10:16I'm
- 10:17just
- 10:17inviting
- 10:17you
- 10:18into
- 10:18something
- 10:18softer
- 10:19and
- 10:20honestly,
- 10:20something
- 10:21better.
- 10:22Which
- 10:22leads
- 10:23us
- 10:23to
- 10:23today's
- 10:23Proverbs,
- 10:24chapter
- 10:24chapter
- 10:2424,
- 10:25verses
- 10:263
- 10:26and
- 10:264.
- 10:27By
- 10:28wisdom,
- 10:28a
- 10:28house
- 10:28is
- 10:29built,
- 10:29and
- 10:30through
- 10:30understanding,
- 10:31it
- 10:31is
- 10:31established
- 10:32through
- 10:32knowledge.
- 10:33Its
- 10:33rooms
- 10:33are
- 10:33filled
- 10:34with
- 10:34rare
- 10:34and
- 10:34beautiful
- 10:35treasures.
- 10:37Friend,
- 10:37notice
- 10:37what
- 10:38that
- 10:38verse
- 10:38shows
- 10:38us.
- 10:39God
- 10:40cares
- 10:40about
- 10:40how
- 10:41the
- 10:41house
- 10:41is
- 10:42built,
- 10:43not
- 10:43just
- 10:43that
- 10:43it
- 10:43gets
- 10:44bigger.
- 10:44See,
- 10:45wisdom
- 10:45builds
- 10:46something
- 10:46you
- 10:46can
- 10:46actually
- 10:47live
- 10:47in,
- 10:48something
- 10:49that
- 10:49holds
- 10:49peace
- 10:50and
- 10:50not
- 10:51pressure.
- 10:52So
- 10:52here's
- 10:53your
- 10:53simple
- 10:53step
- 10:53for
- 10:54today.
- 10:54Just
- 10:54one
- 10:54thing.
- 10:55I
- 10:55want
- 10:55you
- 10:55to
- 10:55write
- 10:56down
- 10:56the
- 10:56top
- 10:56three
- 10:56ways
- 10:57you're
- 10:57trying
- 10:57to
- 10:58increase
- 10:58income
- 10:59right
- 10:59now.
- 10:59I
- 10:59just
- 10:59want
- 10:59you
- 10:59to
- 10:59list
- 11:00them
- 11:00out.
- 11:01And
- 11:02then
- 11:02I
- 11:02want
- 11:02you
- 11:02to
- 11:02circle
- 11:03one
- 11:03of
- 11:03those
- 11:03and
- 11:03I
- 11:03want
- 11:03you
- 11:03to
- 11:04answer
- 11:04this
- 11:04question,
- 11:05what
- 11:06part
- 11:06of
- 11:06this
- 11:06feels
- 11:07heavy
- 11:07because
- 11:08it's
- 11:08unstructured?
- 11:10Just
- 11:10ask
- 11:10yourself
- 11:10that.
- 11:11Go
- 11:11circle
- 11:11one
- 11:11of
- 11:11those.
- 11:12What
- 11:12part
- 11:12of
- 11:12this
- 11:12feels
- 11:13heavy
- 11:13because
- 11:13it's
- 11:14unstructured?
- 11:15And
- 11:15then
- 11:15I
- 11:16want
- 11:16you
- 11:16to
- 11:16make
- 11:16one
- 11:16small
- 11:17move.
- 11:17I
- 11:18want
- 11:18you
- 11:18to
- 11:18choose
- 11:18one
- 11:19tiny
- 11:19system
- 11:19you
- 11:20can
- 11:20add
- 11:20this
- 11:20week.
- 11:21Maybe
- 11:22it's
- 11:22that
- 11:22boundary,
- 11:23it's
- 11:24that
- 11:24automation.
- 11:25That's
- 11:25that
- 11:25scheduled
- 11:26block
- 11:26of
- 11:26time.
- 11:26Or
- 11:26that
- 11:27one
- 11:27thing
- 11:27you
- 11:27stop
- 11:28doing
- 11:28manually.
- 11:28Ralph,
- 11:29you
- 11:29know
- 11:29what?
- 11:29I
- 11:29gotta
- 11:30figure
- 11:30out
- 11:30a
- 11:30better
- 11:30way.
- 11:31That's
- 11:32it.
- 11:32Just
- 11:32small
- 11:32step.
- 11:33And
- 11:34it
- 11:34will
- 11:34build
- 11:34real
- 11:35relief.
- 11:37Lord,
- 11:37thank
- 11:37you
- 11:37for
- 11:37providing
- 11:38for
- 11:38us.
- 11:39You
- 11:39see
- 11:40the
- 11:40pressure
- 11:40we
- 11:40carry
- 11:40in
- 11:41our
- 11:41lives
- 11:41every
- 11:41day.
- 11:41You
- 11:42see
- 11:42the
- 11:42tired
- 11:42places
- 11:43in
- 11:43our
- 11:43hearts
- 11:43and
- 11:43in
- 11:44our
- 11:44souls.
- 11:44Lord,
- 11:45give
- 11:46my
- 11:46friend
- 11:46wisdom
- 11:47today
- 11:47as
- 11:47they
- 11:47think
- 11:47about
- 11:48this.
- 11:48Help
- 11:48them
- 11:48grow
- 11:49with
- 11:49peace
- 11:49and
- 11:49not
- 11:50panic.
- 11:51Show
- 11:51them
- 11:51one
- 11:52small
- 11:52next
- 11:52step
- 11:53that
- 11:53brings
- 11:53stability.
- 11:55And
- 11:55most
- 11:55of
- 11:55all,
- 11:56Lord,
- 11:56remind
- 11:56them
- 11:57they
- 11:57are
- 11:57not
- 11:57alone
- 11:58in
- 11:58this.
- 11:59And
- 11:59we
- 11:59ask
- 11:59this
- 12:00in
- 12:00Jesus
- 12:00name,
- 12:01Amen,
- 12:03friend,
- 12:03if
- 12:04money
- 12:04stress
- 12:04has
- 12:05been
- 12:05heavy
- 12:05lately,
- 12:06you
- 12:06don't
- 12:07have
- 12:07to
- 12:07carry
- 12:07that
- 12:07alone.
- 12:08If
- 12:08you're
- 12:09looking
- 12:09for
- 12:09clarity,
- 12:09if
- 12:10you're
- 12:10looking
- 12:10for
- 12:10peace,
- 12:10and
- 12:11if
- 12:11you're
- 12:11looking
- 12:11for
- 12:11a
- 12:11way
- 12:11forward
- 12:12that's
- 12:12rooted
- 12:12in
- 12:13faith,
- 12:14I
- 12:14wrote
- 12:14a
- 12:14book
- 12:14for
- 12:14you.
- 12:15It's
- 12:15called
- 12:15how
- 12:16to
- 12:16Become
- 12:16a
- 12:16Financially
- 12:17Confident
- 12:17Christian.
- 12:18It's
- 12:18not
- 12:18about
- 12:19guilt,
- 12:19it's
- 12:19not
- 12:20about
- 12:20perfection,
- 12:21and
- 12:21it's
- 12:21definitely
- 12:22not
- 12:22about
- 12:22shame.
- 12:23It's
- 12:24about
- 12:24trusting
- 12:24God,
- 12:25taking
- 12:25why
- 12:26steps,
- 12:27and
- 12:27finally
- 12:27breathing
- 12:28again.
- 12:28It's
- 12:2830
- 12:29years
- 12:29of
- 12:29my
- 12:29life
- 12:30and
- 12:30stories
- 12:30and
- 12:31working
- 12:31with
- 12:31people
- 12:31poured
- 12:32into
- 12:32this
- 12:32book.
- 12:32I
- 12:32want
- 12:32to
- 12:33encourage
- 12:33you
- 12:33to
- 12:33go
- 12:33pick
- 12:33it
- 12:33up.
- 12:34You
- 12:34can
- 12:34do
- 12:34that
- 12:36at
- 12:37financiallyconfidentchristian.com/becoming
- 12:38that's
- 12:39financiallyconfidentchristian.com/becoming
- 12:43and
- 12:43let
- 12:43me
- 12:43leave
- 12:44you
- 12:44with
- 12:44this.
- 12:44Today
- 12:45you're
- 12:46allowed
- 12:46to
- 12:46grow
- 12:46slowly.
- 12:48You're
- 12:48allowed
- 12:48to
- 12:48build
- 12:49wisely.
- 12:50You're
- 12:50allowed
- 12:51to
- 12:51protect
- 12:51your
- 12:51peace
- 12:52and
- 12:52still
- 12:53move
- 12:53forward.
- 12:54And
- 12:54if
- 12:55you've
- 12:55been
- 12:55feeling
- 12:55stretched,
- 12:57I
- 12:57want
- 12:57you
- 12:57to
- 12:57hear
- 12:58me.
- 12:59You're
- 12:59going
- 12:59to
- 12:59be
- 12:59okay.
- 13:01You
- 13:01just
- 13:01need
- 13:01to
- 13:01take
- 13:01one
- 13:02more
- 13:02step
- 13:02at
- 13:02a
- 13:03time.
- 13:04And
- 13:04I
- 13:04hope
- 13:04you
- 13:04join
- 13:05me
- 13:05tomorrow.
- 13:05Tomorrow
- 13:05we're
- 13:06talking
- 13:06about
- 13:06why
- 13:06isn't
- 13:07one
- 13:07job
- 13:07enough
- 13:08anymore?
- 13:08Somebody
- 13:08sent
- 13:09in
- 13:09this
- 13:09question.
- 13:09I
- 13:09thought
- 13:09this
- 13:10is
- 13:10perfect.
- 13:11And
- 13:11friend,
- 13:12if
- 13:12this
- 13:12helped
- 13:12you
- 13:12today,
- 13:13I
- 13:13want
- 13:13to
- 13:13encourage
- 13:14you
- 13:14to
- 13:14share
- 13:14with
- 13:15someone
- 13:15else
- 13:15who
- 13:15feels
- 13:16tired
- 13:16too.
- 13:16Just
- 13:16send
- 13:17them
- 13:17a
- 13:17link
- 13:17to
- 13:17the
- 13:17episode.
- 13:18Tell
- 13:18them
- 13:18about
- 13:18the
- 13:18show.
- 13:18Because
- 13:19this
- 13:19show
- 13:19is
- 13:20not
- 13:20about
- 13:20financial
- 13:21shame.
- 13:21It's
- 13:22about
- 13:22walking
- 13:22in
- 13:22wisdom,
- 13:23staying
- 13:23anchored
- 13:24in
- 13:24God's
- 13:25truth,
- 13:25and
- 13:26becoming
- 13:26a
- 13:26financially
- 13:27confident
- 13:27Christian.
- 13:28God
- 13:28bless
- 13:28you
- 13:29and
- 13:29I
- 13:29hope
- 13:29to
- 13:29see
- 13:29you
- 13:29on
- 13:30tomorrow's
- 13:30show.