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At 35...I Got Nothing! · Podcast - Big 98.7

• 0:02
  Speaker 1: I might be on my own hill when it comes
• 0:05
  Speaker 1: to post holidays in January and February, I call these
• 0:10
  Speaker 1: the dog days of winter. I kind of miss being
• 0:13
  Speaker 1: a student at this time of the year because if
• 0:16
  Speaker 1: you played hockey or basketball, you used.
• 0:17
  Speaker 2: To have sports still look for.
• 0:18
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, but at thirty five, I got nothing
• 0:24
  Speaker 1: until I guess Valentine's Day.
• 0:26
  Speaker 3: It's the war.
• 0:27
  Speaker 4: I think January is the worst month. There's no Christmas decorations. Yeah,
• 0:32
  Speaker 4: it's just cold.
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  Speaker 1: Ye.
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  Speaker 4: No, there's no cool holidays. I love Valentine's Day, so
• 0:37
  Speaker 4: by February I'm into it.
• 0:39
  Speaker 3: But yeah, January, what is this?
• 0:41
  Speaker 1: If this is your birthday, I am not directing this
• 0:44
  Speaker 1: at you, but is there a worst day of the
• 0:46
  Speaker 1: year than like January twenty fourth?
• 0:49
  Speaker 4: Ill?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, what is that?
• 0:51
  Speaker 4: The only thing is if you have a birthday in January,
• 0:54
  Speaker 4: at least you have that.
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  Speaker 2: That's right.
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  Speaker 3: My birthday's not in January. I got nothing.
• 0:58
  Speaker 2: I have a full twelve months before my birthday. Oh yeah,
• 1:01
  Speaker 2: you're in December.
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  Speaker 1: My wife's birthday is in January, but that's long gone now.
• 1:05
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it's like early in January, I get something
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  Speaker 1: to be happy and excited about.
• 1:10
  Speaker 2: And then it's over.
• 1:12
  Speaker 4: Gosh, wow, what a downer. Where were you going with this, Gabe?
• 1:15
  Speaker 2: Well, I wanted to know.
• 1:16
  Speaker 1: I need a reason to get a get a little
• 1:19
  Speaker 1: uh what do they call it? Hop in my giddy up?
• 1:21
  Speaker 2: What's that? I don't even know a reason to be excited?
• 1:25
  Speaker 3: Pep in your step?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, step, thank you? Seven oh one two eight zero
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  Speaker 1: one nine eight seven. Do you have something this year
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  Speaker 1: circled on your calendar that you are really excited and
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  Speaker 1: looking forward to? Seven oh one two eight zero one
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  Speaker 1: nine eight seven. Do you have anything off the top
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  Speaker 1: of your head right now? I didn't give you any
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  Speaker 1: time to think about it.
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  Speaker 4: No, but I've been looking forward to this since last year.
• 1:46
  Speaker 4: July twenty fifth, that is my That will be my
• 1:49
  Speaker 4: two year anniversary with my boyfriend Mike. Oh that's cute,
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  Speaker 4: and I'm really excited for us to celebrate after finally
• 1:57
  Speaker 4: having lived together. We will have lived together for at
• 2:01
  Speaker 4: least a year because we were long distance for a
• 2:03
  Speaker 4: really long time, and when we celebrated our one year anniversary,
• 2:07
  Speaker 4: he'd only been in town for like a few weeks,
• 2:09
  Speaker 4: and so this is nice.
• 2:11
  Speaker 3: That hopefully we get to the anniversary. What he leaves
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  Speaker 3: me before then.
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  Speaker 1: You know what they say that first year of living
• 2:18
  Speaker 1: together is the hardest.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, So I feel like if we make guitar anniversary,
• 2:22
  Speaker 4: can be like this is the one and then maybe
• 2:24
  Speaker 4: he'll propose no pressure.
• 2:26
  Speaker 1: Taren has said she is looking forward to the end
• 2:28
  Speaker 1: of May a big dog show in Oklahoma for these two,
• 2:32
  Speaker 1: and she shared a beautiful picture of her two dogs.
• 2:35
  Speaker 3: Oh what I need to go look at this on the.
• 2:37
  Speaker 2: Big ninety eight point seven Facebook page.
• 2:39
  Speaker 1: A lot of people looking forward to trips, and that's
• 2:41
  Speaker 1: obviously a great reason to be excited. Yeah, Julie's headed
• 2:44
  Speaker 1: to Florida, Colorado, Nashville and a we Fest vip spot. Okay,
• 2:49
  Speaker 1: oh Julie. Yes, Sarah's headed to your native homeland, Las Vegas. Oh.
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  Speaker 3: I love that. I love when people visit Vegas.
• 2:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Heidi's going to Italy. We have Leanna going to
• 2:59
  Speaker 1: Punta Hannah. And then there's a lot of people excited
• 3:02
  Speaker 1: for concerts. I really like this one from Erica. May
• 3:05
  Speaker 1: twenty third, the last day of school for teachers.
• 3:08
  Speaker 4: That part Wait, what so does that mean that's the
• 3:11
  Speaker 4: last day of school for the kiddo.
• 3:13
  Speaker 3: When are the kiddos out of school.
• 3:14
  Speaker 2: You know, I have no clue.
• 3:16
  Speaker 3: I have two kids that I have no clue.
• 3:18
  Speaker 1: And my day I'm looking forward to is also in September.
• 3:22
  Speaker 1: And now I'm thinking I better quick change my answer
• 3:24
  Speaker 1: because my anniversary is also in September, my married anniversary.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but I'm really looking forward to September.
• 3:30
  Speaker 3: Twelfth, which is not your anniversary.
• 3:32
  Speaker 1: No, no, no, it's like two weeks before. I'm really
• 3:35
  Speaker 1: looking forward to going to the Foo Fighters concert.
• 3:37
  Speaker 3: Oh that is more important than you're married.
• 3:40
  Speaker 2: To be so fun.
• 3:44
  Speaker 5: Celebrating life's little victories victory every morning we practice gratitude
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  Speaker 5: on Big ninety eight point seven.
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  Speaker 3: If I could, I would keep this feeling in a
• 3:53
  Speaker 3: basket job busted out when it was someone's acting hard.
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  Speaker 5: I just really needed to win, you know, Sure your
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  Speaker 5: little victory with us at seven oh one teven the
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  Speaker 5: worst and fore balls.
• 4:06
  Speaker 1: We have to give a big shout out to Amanda.
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  Speaker 1: She texted us this morning with a little victory. Her
• 4:10
  Speaker 1: little victory was I slept for nine hours and got
• 4:14
  Speaker 1: laundry done yesterday both how that.
• 4:18
  Speaker 3: I mean a queen a queen. We are in the
• 4:21
  Speaker 3: presence of a queen. That's amazing.
• 4:22
  Speaker 2: That's right.
• 4:23
  Speaker 1: She's like the good version of Sarcee in Game of Throne. Yes,
• 4:28
  Speaker 1: do you have a little victory today, Angie?
• 4:30
  Speaker 2: And what is it?
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  Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. I finally.
• 4:34
  Speaker 4: Watched the final episode of Stranger Things.
• 4:38
  Speaker 3: I will know I was not in town.
• 4:40
  Speaker 4: That's my show with Mikey, my boyfriend, and we're not
• 4:44
  Speaker 4: allowed to watch our show separately, and so we had
• 4:48
  Speaker 4: to wait until I was back in town to watch
• 4:50
  Speaker 4: it together. And I will say I was impressed that
• 4:54
  Speaker 4: I avoided basically all spoilers, okay, until I watched.
• 5:00
  Speaker 2: Well, what did you think?
• 5:01
  Speaker 1: I asked this question on the Big ninety eight point
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  Speaker 1: Facebook Big ninety eight point seven Facebook page when you
• 5:06
  Speaker 1: were gone? What did you think of the Stranger Things ending?
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  Speaker 1: And there was i'd say a lot of positives in
• 5:11
  Speaker 1: a couple mixed sort of negatives.
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  Speaker 3: I liked it.
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  Speaker 4: I definitely cried like I cried like a baby. There
• 5:18
  Speaker 4: were definitely moments where I.
• 5:20
  Speaker 3: Was like, oh my godnession.
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  Speaker 4: Overall, I was pretty satisfied with the ending.
• 5:27
  Speaker 2: Okay, that's cool.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, I've seen like eight minutes of that show,
• 5:31
  Speaker 1: and it was the eight minutes of the ending. What Yeah,
• 5:35
  Speaker 1: I've never watched Stranger Things, but Corey is really into it,
• 5:38
  Speaker 1: and I don't remember she was watching it.
• 5:39
  Speaker 2: She feel Oh, that's a good question.
• 5:42
  Speaker 1: I think she was kind of the same, like I think, well,
• 5:45
  Speaker 1: I think she liked it, but it's like it's like
• 5:48
  Speaker 1: she can talk to me about it.
• 5:49
  Speaker 2: I don't know anything about the show.
• 5:50
  Speaker 3: I need to text her later.
• 5:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but I.
• 5:53
  Speaker 1: Have seen eight minutes, and it was the eight minutes
• 5:55
  Speaker 1: at the end, so I forgot what I was doing,
• 5:57
  Speaker 1: but she was watching it, and then I just sat
• 5:59
  Speaker 1: down and was kind and doing the old phone watching TV.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 6:03
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, and yeah, so I guess I did. I
• 6:05
  Speaker 2: guess I know how it ends. Yeah.
• 6:07
  Speaker 3: Did those eight minutes make you want to check it out?
• 6:10
  Speaker 2: No? No, I mean I'm not saying I won't.
• 6:12
  Speaker 1: I'm sure I will at some point, but whilst it
• 6:15
  Speaker 1: was at its height, I guess it wasn't for me.
• 6:17
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel you. What about you?
• 6:19
  Speaker 4: Do you have a little victory? Clearly it's not Stranger Things.
• 6:22
  Speaker 1: My little victory is so stupid. But do you know
• 6:24
  Speaker 1: something I've noticed in the last like probably three weeks,
• 6:27
  Speaker 1: what my mustache? It can finally connect to my beers?
• 6:33
  Speaker 3: Oh, my gosh, we have that in common.
• 6:37
  Speaker 2: I have been waiting my entire life.
• 6:40
  Speaker 1: I don't even think I could really grow facial hair
• 6:42
  Speaker 1: till I was like thirty. Okay, oh wow. Maybe maybe
• 6:45
  Speaker 1: a little younger than that, but barely, you know what
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  Speaker 1: I mean. And now that I'm thirty five, I think
• 6:49
  Speaker 1: my stash finally can connect.
• 6:52
  Speaker 3: I know I could see it.
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  Speaker 1: I have been waiting forever for this, and I couldn't
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  Speaker 1: share it while you were gone because I knew you'd
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  Speaker 1: really care about it.
• 7:00
  Speaker 3: I don't think that that's a stupid victory. I think
• 7:02
  Speaker 3: that's main chair.
• 7:06
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna help you always be on time here with
• 7:09
  Speaker 1: big ninety eight point seven. Have you heard of the
• 7:12
  Speaker 1: two out of three rule or the two of three rule? No, Well,
• 7:16
  Speaker 1: getting ready for your day it can take a ton
• 7:19
  Speaker 1: of effort, right, Maybe get up, maybe do some shower,
• 7:21
  Speaker 1: some hair and skincare, makeup, whatever else you're doing to
• 7:25
  Speaker 1: get ready for your day. Coffee, kids, things like that. Well,
• 7:30
  Speaker 1: this two out of three rule basically says that at
• 7:33
  Speaker 1: any given moment, you should just get two out of
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  Speaker 1: the three polished. All right, your hair, your makeup, or
• 7:39
  Speaker 1: your outfit. You only need two out of the three
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  Speaker 1: to be good for the day, all right, choosing to
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  Speaker 1: focus on it.
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  Speaker 3: I think I'm out one out of three today.
• 7:49
  Speaker 1: Choosing to focus on only two things keeps you looking
• 7:52
  Speaker 1: polished and feeling good. And as a bonus, if you've been,
• 7:56
  Speaker 1: if you've been like bedrotting, it's just a quicker way
• 7:59
  Speaker 1: to get up and get going for the day. So
• 8:01
  Speaker 1: if you wake up and you're doing the old scroll
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  Speaker 1: and judge for an hour before you actually get ready.
• 8:06
  Speaker 3: Were you in my house like this morning was a
• 8:12
  Speaker 3: wild morning for your girl? I feel like you were
• 8:14
  Speaker 3: peeking through the window.
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  Speaker 2: Angie.
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  Speaker 1: You can pick two out of three your hair, your makeup,
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  Speaker 1: your outfit.
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  Speaker 2: Which two are you going with?
• 8:24
  Speaker 3: Hair and makeup?
• 8:27
  Speaker 2: You didn't say that very comp No, it's.
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  Speaker 3: My number one is always hair. If my hair is
• 8:32
  Speaker 3: not done, then it doesn't matter what the rest of
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  Speaker 3: me looks like. I'm upset.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's ruined your day.
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  Speaker 4: But it's kind of like a toss up between because
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  Speaker 4: I don't even wear that much makeup because I'm so
• 8:42
  Speaker 4: naturally pretty.
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  Speaker 3: No, because I don't know how to do makeup.
• 8:45
  Speaker 4: But as long as I have like a lip color on,
• 8:47
  Speaker 4: because my natural lips.
• 8:49
  Speaker 3: I think blend in with my face okay.
• 8:52
  Speaker 4: But as long as I have that and a little
• 8:53
  Speaker 4: bit of messara, I think I'm okay.
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  Speaker 3: And then my outfit is usually choked.
• 8:58
  Speaker 4: Like right now, I'm in a hoodie and sweatpants, but
• 9:02
  Speaker 4: I am wearing a little bit of mascara. My lips
• 9:04
  Speaker 4: don't match my face, and my hair is at the
• 9:07
  Speaker 4: very least brushed and straightened, So I don't feel the worst.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, which two out of three do you think? Do
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  Speaker 1: you think I care about the morning?
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  Speaker 3: Literally?
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  Speaker 4: Zero?
• 9:17
  Speaker 1: My friend, maybe you saw this viral post, this twenty
• 9:27
  Speaker 1: four year old woman Kindness, where I accidentally went viral.
• 9:30
  Speaker 2: I don't know. She meant to a lot of people,
• 9:33
  Speaker 2: don't mean to, I guess.
• 9:34
  Speaker 1: But she had shared that she's at odds a little
• 9:37
  Speaker 1: bit with some of her childless friends because of how
• 9:42
  Speaker 1: they speak about either a their kid or her kid,
• 9:46
  Speaker 1: or just kids in general, especially since this woman had
• 9:49
  Speaker 1: an unplanned kind of surprise pregnancy. She wrote that so
• 9:52
  Speaker 1: many of her friends they've accepted her major life change
• 9:55
  Speaker 1: and wrote she said that a lot of them have
• 9:59
  Speaker 1: accepted this major life change, and they've been so nice
• 10:02
  Speaker 1: and understanding. But there are some friends who will throw
• 10:06
  Speaker 1: out some tone deaf jokes, like one of her close
• 10:09
  Speaker 1: friends sent her a post that said, when I'm having
• 10:11
  Speaker 1: a terrible day, I remember that there are people my
• 10:14
  Speaker 1: age with kids, which is a horribly tone death thing.
• 10:18
  Speaker 3: What I don't care about that.
• 10:20
  Speaker 2: Well, it's mean to.
• 10:20
  Speaker 1: Say to someone who just had a kid, you know,
• 10:23
  Speaker 1: I mean, you don't have to love them by any means.
• 10:26
  Speaker 2: But I think it's kind of mean.
• 10:27
  Speaker 4: I feel like, oh, I always end up in the
• 10:29
  Speaker 4: minority on this. I have two kids, and I am
• 10:33
  Speaker 4: fully aware that they are stressful. I love them, and
• 10:37
  Speaker 4: they weren't like even surprises or accidents or whatever, like
• 10:41
  Speaker 4: I planned both of these kids.
• 10:44
  Speaker 3: But it is hard work.
• 10:45
  Speaker 4: I just will never begrudge someone who's childless, like saying, oh, well,
• 10:52
  Speaker 4: at least I don't have kids. You're right in terms
• 10:55
  Speaker 4: of life being more difficult when.
• 10:56
  Speaker 3: You have kids.
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  Speaker 2: It is right.
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  Speaker 3: I think that that's fine to.
• 10:59
  Speaker 4: Say, hey, but I think that always makes me look
• 11:02
  Speaker 4: like I'm a bad mom.
• 11:04
  Speaker 1: What's something that people without children just do not understand? Now,
• 11:09
  Speaker 1: I don't have any children, so I would be in
• 11:10
  Speaker 1: this boat here, Angie, but you do, so I always
• 11:13
  Speaker 1: kind of ask you my uh, I guess the resident
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  Speaker 1: parent in the studio here seven oh one two eight
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  Speaker 1: zero one nine eight seven. Is there something about kids
• 11:23
  Speaker 1: that people who don't have them just will never get.
• 11:26
  Speaker 4: I want you to always invite me. I have the kids,
• 11:31
  Speaker 4: and most of the time I have to say no. Sure,
• 11:34
  Speaker 4: but I never want you to stop inviting me because
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  Speaker 4: there will be those few precious times where I can
• 11:40
  Speaker 4: go to whatever the thing is. And I think a
• 11:43
  Speaker 4: lot of times people without kids think, well, let me
• 11:46
  Speaker 4: not invite some and so because they always have the kids.
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  Speaker 4: And while that is true, most of the time, there
• 11:51
  Speaker 4: are those like brief shining moments where you can go.
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  Speaker 4: So I my thing is for people people without kids.
• 12:01
  Speaker 4: If you have friends with kids, always invite them to
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  Speaker 4: the thing, even if they have to say no. Most
• 12:07
  Speaker 4: of the time when they can say yes, it's very exciting.
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  Speaker 3: So just always make the invitation.
• 12:13
  Speaker 2: Maxwell, what do you think the value of.
• 12:15
  Speaker 1: A good night's sleep? I deal people.
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  Speaker 6: Without kids they sleep for granted, even when your kids
• 12:20
  Speaker 6: are older, you never really get.
• 12:22
  Speaker 5: The deepest sleep.
• 12:23
  Speaker 2: You're always worrying about them. At least I am. That
• 12:26
  Speaker 2: is yeah, that is absolutely true. That is true.
• 12:29
  Speaker 1: I've slept great for about thirty five years. I envy you, Jessica.
• 12:34
  Speaker 1: What about you?
• 12:35
  Speaker 3: How loud the silence feels when the kids are gone.
• 12:38
  Speaker 5: It's unsettling.
• 12:40
  Speaker 2: You know you missed the chaos you swore was driving
• 12:43
  Speaker 2: you insane. You know I've heard you kind of speak
• 12:46
  Speaker 2: about that.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, when my kids were gone for half of the summer,
• 12:50
  Speaker 4: and I hated it because even though I get over
• 12:53
  Speaker 4: stimulated and I end up screaming and being like, oh
• 12:56
  Speaker 4: my gosh, shit, I miss it, they're not there.
• 13:03
  Speaker 5: In the world of rules in gray areas, one morning
• 13:05
  Speaker 5: show dares to ask the hard questions.
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  Speaker 2: We both know you're guilty. He's guilty. Is it legal?
• 13:11
  Speaker 1: You're guilty of the worst crime of all? On Big
• 13:15
  Speaker 1: ninety eight point seven, believe it or not, In Fargo,
• 13:22
  Speaker 1: it is legal to ride a snowmobile on the roll.
• 13:25
  Speaker 2: What yep?
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  Speaker 1: The same as street cars, buses and that guy who
• 13:29
  Speaker 1: hasn't cleaned the window off the or the snow off
• 13:32
  Speaker 1: the window roof.
• 13:33
  Speaker 3: This is crazy to me.
• 13:35
  Speaker 1: But before you fire it up and pretend you're in
• 13:38
  Speaker 1: the X Games, there are rules, lots of them, all right.
• 13:41
  Speaker 1: You can't just let it rip wherever you want, all right, No, sidewalks,
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  Speaker 1: no boulevards, no highways, and absolutely no donuts in the intersection,
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  Speaker 1: no matter how tempting it is. Okay, and keep that
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  Speaker 1: snowmobile under control. You've got to follow traffic laws. You
• 13:56
  Speaker 1: have to have lights, you have to stay to the right,
• 13:57
  Speaker 1: and basically behave like a polite Anadian on skis.
• 14:02
  Speaker 2: I like that.
• 14:03
  Speaker 1: So yes, snowmobiles on Fargo roads are legal. And just
• 14:07
  Speaker 1: remember this isn't mad Max Winter Edition, It's Fargo.
• 14:10
  Speaker 2: Play nice.
• 14:11
  Speaker 1: This is There's also a great time to remind you
• 14:13
  Speaker 1: that Angie and I are not lawyers.
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  Speaker 3: No, we absolutely are not. You do not have to
• 14:19
  Speaker 3: wear a helmet or something.
• 14:21
  Speaker 2: I'll have to dive more on into that that did
• 14:23
  Speaker 2: not come up and research.
• 14:25
  Speaker 4: It's crazy to me because the kids and I have
• 14:27
  Speaker 4: seen this and they think like, oh so cool, and
• 14:30
  Speaker 4: I have very confidently been like, okay, but that's not
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  Speaker 4: actually allowed, right.
• 14:34
  Speaker 3: I hope they're not listening on the way to school
• 14:36
  Speaker 3: this morning.
• 14:41
  Speaker 4: You know how they say, don't kill the messenger, don't
• 14:44
  Speaker 4: shoot the messenger. I was a messenger at a restaurant
• 14:50
  Speaker 4: in Mexico and I absolutely got killed, and I feel
• 14:54
  Speaker 4: like I deserved it. And I feel incredibly guilty for
• 14:59
  Speaker 4: what down at this restaurant.
• 15:01
  Speaker 3: I was on a cruise. We made a stop in Cabo.
• 15:04
  Speaker 4: We all went as a group to eat at cabble Wabbo.
• 15:09
  Speaker 4: It was me, my ex brother in law, sister in law,
• 15:13
  Speaker 4: my niece, like, it was a whole group of people,
• 15:15
  Speaker 4: and of all of them, I'm the only one who
• 15:17
  Speaker 4: speaks fluent Spanish.
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  Speaker 2: So when it's a good person to have when you're
• 15:21
  Speaker 2: in Mexico.
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  Speaker 3: One hundred percent. I really felt by the end of it,
• 15:26
  Speaker 3: I wish I did.
• 15:27
  Speaker 4: Not know another language, because I ended up being the messenger,
• 15:32
  Speaker 4: the liaison between the server and the rest of the party.
• 15:35
  Speaker 3: Everything was going great.
• 15:37
  Speaker 4: Me and the server were chopping it up, having our
• 15:40
  Speaker 4: living our best lives.
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  Speaker 3: Like, ah, here's the drinks, here's the food, ha ha ha.
• 15:45
  Speaker 4: The bill comes. Now I'm not the money person. My
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  Speaker 4: ex brother in law is. So he got the check.
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  Speaker 3: He was telling.
• 15:52
  Speaker 4: Everybody, here's what you owe, here's what you owe. He
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  Speaker 4: did all the numbers for us. Whatever gets the bill together,
• 15:58
  Speaker 4: hands it to me to give to our server.
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  Speaker 3: I gave it to our server.
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  Speaker 4: He opens the little booklet that has the you know,
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  Speaker 4: the bill and the money in it. Yep, he starts
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  Speaker 4: counting it in front of me. Okay, thanks, I thought,
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  Speaker 4: all right, well, just to make sure because you know,
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  Speaker 4: there's a difference in currency, you know, dollars paysos whatever.
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  Speaker 4: And when he's finished, he looks at me and he says,
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  Speaker 4: they only tipped me ten percent.
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  Speaker 2: Now did he say that in Spanish?
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  Speaker 3: Yes?
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  Speaker 2: Wow?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, Now that musk me on viesporciento de propina. And
• 16:38
  Speaker 4: my face dropped because I didn't know this, and I
• 16:41
  Speaker 4: as someone who for a very long time my livelihood,
• 16:45
  Speaker 4: like how we lived in our house was based on tips.
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  Speaker 3: Ten percent is not okay.
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  Speaker 4: So I look over and I tell my ex brother
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  Speaker 4: in law he just said that you only tipped him
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  Speaker 4: ten percent.
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  Speaker 3: His face drops.
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  Speaker 4: And I look back at the server and he looks
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  Speaker 4: visibly upset and walks away to another table. I think
• 17:08
  Speaker 4: in his head thinking, okay, now I've shamed them, which
• 17:11
  Speaker 4: he properly should have.
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  Speaker 3: They'll put more money in.
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  Speaker 2: So I said, try to give yes.
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  Speaker 3: So I was like, are we gonna give him more?
• 17:19
  Speaker 4: And he's and my ex brother in law says, I
• 17:21
  Speaker 4: can't believe that he called me out on that. No,
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  Speaker 4: maybe I would give him more if he didn't call
• 17:25
  Speaker 4: me out. No, you wouldn't have because if he didn't.
• 17:28
  Speaker 3: Call you out, you just would have left with the town.
• 17:30
  Speaker 4: So now the server's looking like making eye contact with
• 17:34
  Speaker 4: me from across the way, and I just am shrugging.
• 17:38
  Speaker 4: And then my ex brother in law's like, okay, let's go,
• 17:40
  Speaker 4: We're all going, and we all get up and leave,
• 17:43
  Speaker 4: and I'm left feeling horrible. And I'm clearly the bad
• 17:48
  Speaker 4: guy in this situation because I'm the only person that
• 17:51
  Speaker 4: server could communicate with. So even though I was just
• 17:55
  Speaker 4: the messenger, he definitely was shooting me with daggers for
• 18:00
  Speaker 4: his eyeballs.
• 18:01
  Speaker 3: And I felt so bad.
• 18:03
  Speaker 4: I cannot express how guilty I feel. And I would
• 18:07
  Speaker 4: have added more cash myself that I ran out of cash,
• 18:09
  Speaker 4: and so I was like.
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  Speaker 3: I will put more cash in, I'll zell you.
• 18:12
  Speaker 6: But they were like, no, no, no, we're leaving. Yeah, that's
• 18:15
  Speaker 6: the worst. Well, I'd like to make Angie feel even
• 18:18
  Speaker 6: worse this morning. Seven one to eight zero one nine
• 18:20
  Speaker 6: eight seven. What's the biggest tip you've ever left someone,
• 18:24
  Speaker 6: or if you are a server, what's the biggest tip
• 18:26
  Speaker 6: you've ever received?
• 18:28
  Speaker 3: Okay, that might make me feel better though.
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: Okay, we do have Elizabeth, Elizabeth, what about you?
• 18:34
  Speaker 4: I tipped my.
• 18:34
  Speaker 5: Nail tech two hundred dollars once he.
• 18:36
  Speaker 4: Stayed late fixing a disaster set before my sister's wedding
• 18:39
  Speaker 4: and kept saying it's okay, don't worry.
• 18:42
  Speaker 2: Well, I wanted her to worry about how big the
• 18:45
  Speaker 2: tip was.
• 18:45
  Speaker 3: Oh that's really sweet. Way to go, that's really nice.
• 18:48
  Speaker 2: Does that hurt your heart even more?
• 18:51
  Speaker 3: I'm glad that the nail tech got something.
• 18:54
  Speaker 4: I just I'm never going back to Mexico. Now.
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: If you don't know who Tyson Fury is, he is
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: a heavyweight boxer and honestly, I think he's pretty funny
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: on social media. Okay, now, Tyson Fury has a daughter
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: who is sixteen years old, and he has come out
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: and said she is already planning for her wedding at sixteen,
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: sixteen years old planning for a wedding, so naturally, I
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: wanted to ask you today at seven oh one two
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  Speaker 1: eight zero one nine eight seven, when did you start
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: planning or maybe even picturing your wedding at thirty five
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: years old and having had a wedding, I'm still planning it.
• 19:41
  Speaker 2: I never really got started.
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: So let me know this morning here on Big ninety
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: eight point seven, what about you, Angie, when did you
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: realistically start thinking or planning about a wedding?
• 19:51
  Speaker 4: Gosh? I feel like there are two kinds of girls
• 19:53
  Speaker 4: in this life. The ones who have been dreaming about
• 19:56
  Speaker 4: their wedding since they were a child, so they have
• 19:58
  Speaker 4: Pinterest board filled with ideas, and then the girls who
• 20:05
  Speaker 4: once they're seeing someone that they think they could see
• 20:07
  Speaker 4: themselves marrying, then it's like, I guess, maybe I'll think
• 20:10
  Speaker 4: about it now. I was the latter, So when I
• 20:13
  Speaker 4: got engaged to my first husband, that sounds wild.
• 20:17
  Speaker 3: I engaged to my first husband.
• 20:20
  Speaker 4: I did have all these ideas of okay, I want
• 20:23
  Speaker 4: to be walked down the aisle by my older brother
• 20:25
  Speaker 4: because my dad's not in the picture. I got a
• 20:27
  Speaker 4: wedding dress, I had ideas for the venue. When all
• 20:31
  Speaker 4: was said and done, we ended up getting married at
• 20:33
  Speaker 4: a little chapel in Vegas.
• 20:35
  Speaker 3: There was an Elvis statue. It cost me sixty dollars.
• 20:38
  Speaker 4: I wore a black dress and six inch leopard print heels.
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: It's a good way to save money, all right.
• 20:44
  Speaker 6: You're just being to be economical, yes, as being economical.
• 20:48
  Speaker 4: But now that he and I are no longer together
• 20:51
  Speaker 4: and I'm with Mikey, I have all kinds of plans
• 20:56
  Speaker 4: in my head for a wedding that will not include,
• 20:59
  Speaker 4: well include leopard heels, but that's for the wedding nights.
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, did you want to share any of those
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: wedding potential details with us so that maybe Mikey could
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: get ahead start?
• 21:09
  Speaker 5: No?
• 21:10
  Speaker 3: Oh, all right, you gotta put a ring on this
• 21:12
  Speaker 3: finger pair?
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: Oh that's right, Okay, Yanette, when did you start planning
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: a wedding?
• 21:17
  Speaker 5: I'm twenty two and I actually started planning the last year.
• 21:20
  Speaker 5: I just wanted to look at dresses, and now I
• 21:23
  Speaker 5: have a venue saved and no ring.
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: So well, hey, there's nothing wrong with being prepared because.
• 21:32
  Speaker 3: Venues get booked way out in advance.
• 21:34
  Speaker 4: So she probably has like two years to get someone
• 21:37
  Speaker 4: from posible.
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: Well, she probably didn't book it. Maybe she's just like, oh,
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: this would be a cool Oh got you now? I
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: actually give your net kudos there. You don't want to
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: miss an opportunity, to miss an opportunity, you know you?
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: Okay, Chris, what about you, dude?
• 21:50
  Speaker 3: When I was twenty six and engaged that's when I
• 21:52
  Speaker 3: started planning. The only thing I knew I wanted from
• 21:55
  Speaker 3: long before that was filet mignon for my dinner.
• 21:58
  Speaker 5: Other than that, I had nothing planned until after I
• 22:01
  Speaker 5: was ready engage.
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: That is the most guy thing ever.
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: He thought about nothing except what he was gonna eat
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: some meat.
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: I need some.
• 22:13
  Speaker 5: Good starting off the day with something good. This is
• 22:18
  Speaker 5: Gabe's good news on Big ninety eight point seven.
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: Now, this story starts out a little bit tragic, but
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: it has a very good ending. Otherwise it really wouldn't
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: be Gabel Newsy ted Egan. He is a respected and
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: successful farmer near Walhalla in northeastern North Dakota. He survived
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: a life altering nineteen eighty two farm accident after slipping
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: into an underguarded tractor power takeoff and ended up. Yeah,
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: it ended up with this man losing his right leg
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: and the use of his left, but he used the
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: experience to educate others about the importance of farm and
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: workplace safety. Known for his determination, Egan continued farming into
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: his eighties, and he famously walked his daughter down the
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: aisle on crutches two years after the accident. Today, his
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: children are carrying on his mission through a safety awareness
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: project called Listen Up and Stay Safe, honoring his legacy
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: and encouraging others to prevent similar tragedies. They also went
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: on to add, hey, if it helps out one person,
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: it would all be worth it. So turning sadly a
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: tragic event into trying to help others be safe while
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: either a farming or just at work in general, I
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: think very commendable.
• 23:34
  Speaker 4: Yeah, when you take a tragedy and you can find
• 23:38
  Speaker 4: some way to get good out of it, I think
• 23:40
  Speaker 4: that's what life's all about.
• 23:41
  Speaker 2: That's right.
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: The world's full of nice people. If you can't find one,
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: you got to be one,